WEBVTT - Tanya’s Rizz

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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<v Speaker 3>Scrub Dub dub. I was very loud in my ears

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<v Speaker 3>mine too.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, Sorry about that.

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<v Speaker 5>Happy Eclipse days clips of the Tanya and I went

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<v Speaker 5>out and washed the eclipse and our eyes feel weird.

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<v Speaker 3>My eyes actually feel weird, feels placebo, you think so.

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<v Speaker 5>I think you might be right.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, I watched the same eclipse with you guys. In

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<v Speaker 1>My eyes feel fine right now.

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<v Speaker 5>So we from home.

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<v Speaker 6>But I used your glasses and I use somebody's paper glasses,

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<v Speaker 6>and I think maybe the paper glasses screwed me.

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<v Speaker 1>That'll happen.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all right, So what are you gonna do about that?

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's just because live it out.

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<v Speaker 4>To see what happens. Yeah, there's not much you can do.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but they did give us a lot of warning

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<v Speaker 2>is not to look at it, you know, directly, So

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes you have to just follow the rules.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you go see it? Becca?

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<v Speaker 2>No? I looked up and it was so bright, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so I have I was trying to take a video and.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going on my tippy toes to get closer.

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<v Speaker 5>That's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 4>Sad, sad, there's something sad about.

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<v Speaker 1>It, also inspiring.

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<v Speaker 4>You're so close to the Yeah, about one inch closer.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I have skylights in my house, so the sun was

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<v Speaker 2>in direct you know view.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you bored by my story?

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<v Speaker 5>It's been a long morning. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 6>We'll get to market a minute. We're going to get

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<v Speaker 6>to market a minute.

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<v Speaker 4>But anyways, I looked at it and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>that's very bright.

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<v Speaker 2>But I can't wait to see the photos that people

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<v Speaker 2>put like the Science Channel's posts, right right, Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 2>not really one that has to see it, and.

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<v Speaker 5>You want to see in the path of totality anyway,

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<v Speaker 5>so we're not going to see much inspiring.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's gorgeous national geography.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, make sure you credit for this.

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<v Speaker 4>But okay, so are you having a manic Monday? Mark?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, it's been a fine Monday's long. Mondays are long,

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<v Speaker 5>and Mondays are hard get back into it.

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<v Speaker 3>To me lately.

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<v Speaker 6>So we do a pitch meeting every morning after the

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<v Speaker 6>morning show. We go around pitch ideas, talk.

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<v Speaker 5>About the next day show.

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<v Speaker 4>What kind of stuffy?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so I'm all gung how excited about this? Beautiful

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<v Speaker 6>scrubber named Jenna that is trying to become a contestant

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<v Speaker 6>on Survivor and is really just putting her dreams out there.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like, I hope she gets on. I wish

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<v Speaker 5>you the best.

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<v Speaker 6>Save that crap for your podcast his words exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that is. But the point is.

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<v Speaker 2>Your podcast is if you're not a part of right exactly,

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<v Speaker 2>and I like crap the leader.

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<v Speaker 4>Of the reels TikTok community.

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<v Speaker 5>Perhaps I put it a little harshly, but the point

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<v Speaker 5>was that I think that I hope she gets on

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<v Speaker 5>the show, and I wish you the best. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>think that the Ryan Seacrest Morning You Want KISSFM is

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<v Speaker 5>the best platform to be talking about her necessarily great

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<v Speaker 5>your podcast would be an ideal situation for that. So

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<v Speaker 5>that's all I was trying to say. I might have

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<v Speaker 5>put a little bluntly because I have such a close

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<v Speaker 5>with Tanya. After so many.

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<v Speaker 6>Years working, I pitched like three more ideas. I can't

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<v Speaker 6>remember what they were now at the moment.

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<v Speaker 5>But they weren't great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, take it for your podcast, I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Under I agree that that's more of a podcast topic.

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<v Speaker 2>I do agree, but I do think delivery is everything,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think you were in the wrong if you

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<v Speaker 2>said say that crap?

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<v Speaker 5>Did I not apologize to you? Afterwards?

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<v Speaker 6>I had to tell you. I said, I've been very

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<v Speaker 6>upset with you for the last hour, and so I

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<v Speaker 6>apologize and he apologized.

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<v Speaker 2>This is my biggest Haley and I argue about this

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<v Speaker 2>all the time because she's like, I can't read your mind.

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<v Speaker 2>I need you to communicate if I've done something that

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<v Speaker 2>upsets you. I'm like, why don't you know me well

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<v Speaker 2>enough to know that what you said needs an apology?

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly? Mark, How do you not know me well enough to.

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<v Speaker 4>Know together longer than me and Haley have been together.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly that it deserves an apology.

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<v Speaker 5>You and I have a different kind of relationship. Though

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<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't say something like that to other people on.

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<v Speaker 2>The staff, nobody else on this shot and make it

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<v Speaker 2>seem like an endearing.

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<v Speaker 5>It is an endearing thing. You and I are close

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<v Speaker 5>enough to just be with each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, All right, well that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Like everyone has tough Monday mornings, you know, Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And I had to tell them. I was like, I've

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<v Speaker 3>been upset with you for the last hour.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh Wow, you know you were holding it.

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't sitting in my chair.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why you left the room.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, what really?

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<v Speaker 6>Not really?

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<v Speaker 5>That seems harsh. We I thought we I thought there

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<v Speaker 5>was an olive branch.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, we squashed it.

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<v Speaker 6>There was an hour there where I was fuming, fuming,

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<v Speaker 6>left the room, left the room, took an extra on

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<v Speaker 6>PAWNI break.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, I spoke to Easton for a while during that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we had a nice little chat, Yeah, chatting about Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>Tony comes over, She's like, I really hate Mark today,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, me too, have a seat.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm just kidding me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just kidding Mark. I would never say that we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about weddings.

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<v Speaker 5>So when I got upset, I talked to Easton too.

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<v Speaker 5>He's always uplifting.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah that's true, that's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but we were. We really were just talking about weddings.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, Oh, speaking of what did you do your pinteress board?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a lot harder.

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<v Speaker 6>To do a Pinterest board than one woe thing. But yes,

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<v Speaker 6>I have started my pinteress board.

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<v Speaker 4>What was hard about it?

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't realize I did have one that was made

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<v Speaker 6>from like twenty sixteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's very own brand, right, so probably hated some Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>make some things I have like.

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<v Speaker 6>A A I don't even know I had some weird

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<v Speaker 6>boards going on.

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<v Speaker 2>I might need you to pull up some of the

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<v Speaker 2>images or you had from twenty sixteen.

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<v Speaker 3>I could do that.

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<v Speaker 6>I can find that. I'm having a hard time finding

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<v Speaker 6>the boards, the photos and the board, so maybe you

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<v Speaker 6>can help me with that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm so confused because in my mind.

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<v Speaker 6>But yes, I have updated my Pinterest board. But now

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<v Speaker 6>I'm kind of stuck a little bit because there's one

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<v Speaker 6>potential where we could be doing our wedding outdoors in

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<v Speaker 6>a backyard or in a ballroom, two very different spaces.

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<v Speaker 6>So I'm like having a hard time with my vision

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<v Speaker 6>because the vision is very different in a ballroom than

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<v Speaker 6>it is in a backyard, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, is your Pinterest to public situation?

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<v Speaker 3>Should probably?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I can't imagine I've made a private Why

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<v Speaker 6>would I make in private?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know. I can't. Oh, okay, maybe maybe Anya

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<v Speaker 5>Brad is it pinterest dot com slash Tanya rad.

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<v Speaker 3>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 5>Nope, it's not. Nobody else has that. Not you has that?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you sure? It's not me.

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<v Speaker 4>It muld be an impostor shout.

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<v Speaker 5>Out to Tanyadeva.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh a different vibe.

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<v Speaker 6>But yeah, so anyways, that's why I'm just stuck in

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<v Speaker 6>the vision.

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<v Speaker 2>When do you think you're going to make that decision

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<v Speaker 2>if it's going to be in a ballroom or out.

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<v Speaker 6>So here's the thing. When you have a wedding, you're

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<v Speaker 6>going to cut a knock in because.

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<v Speaker 2>No, this is not the same because I am not

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<v Speaker 2>someone who's dreamed about getting married and having a wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>I think everyone thought you would have this literally planned

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<v Speaker 2>by the hour detail as soon as the ring gout

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<v Speaker 2>went on the finger.

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<v Speaker 6>I think the problem is I can't make a decision

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<v Speaker 6>because like, so, if we do it in the backyard,

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<v Speaker 6>which is where we want to do it, our guest

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<v Speaker 6>count is about we're missing fifty.

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<v Speaker 3>People that we would really want to invite.

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<v Speaker 4>If you do it in the backyard, correct, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So the number is a lot smaller than we thought.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we'd have to cap it.

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<v Speaker 3>And so that fit.

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<v Speaker 6>I was getting really ruthless at the guest list and

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<v Speaker 6>like cutting people left and right, which felt really like sad.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I kind of like, actually really want

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<v Speaker 3>them to be there.

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<v Speaker 5>But sorry I spelled it wrong. It is pintries dot

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<v Speaker 5>com slash Tanya Rad twelve years ago. People I can't

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<v Speaker 5>get enough of?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, twelve years ago?

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on mid break for the wedding talk because this

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<v Speaker 2>is breaking.

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<v Speaker 5>There are only three of them on here. Can you

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<v Speaker 5>name the three people Tanya could not get enough of

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<v Speaker 5>in the year twenty twelve.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not in college.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know you were here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm gonna say maybe the guy from what One Republic,

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<v Speaker 2>Ryan Tennor.

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<v Speaker 5>That's an excellent guest. However, no, no John Mayer either.

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<v Speaker 4>Who were you? I didn't know you in twenty twelve?

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<v Speaker 4>Who was popular?

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<v Speaker 6>These are?

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<v Speaker 5>When I say these, you're gonna be like, oh yeah, okay, hold.

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<v Speaker 3>On, Oh really it makes sense?

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<v Speaker 5>Oka oprah Nope.

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<v Speaker 4>Can you give me men or women?

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<v Speaker 5>I got two men and a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Even I don't know I made what genre they like?

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<v Speaker 4>Where? What category?

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<v Speaker 5>The women? Should be easy to our music? One is

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<v Speaker 5>a film actor or TV actor.

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<v Speaker 3>Matthew mcconaugh.

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<v Speaker 5>No Taylor Swift, No, no tailors, No, no Beyonce?

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<v Speaker 3>Who is she?

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<v Speaker 4>The woman?

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<v Speaker 1>But the lone woman should be easy?

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<v Speaker 5>You look up so he can't guess it should be

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<v Speaker 5>easy easy, Yes, because of me, because I love her still. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>you love two of these people you never stopped talking

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<v Speaker 5>about back then, Shakira. No, all right, here's the two

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<v Speaker 5>of them dated each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh a couple, John legends.

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<v Speaker 1>So much confidence.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember this. You were heartbroken when these two broke up.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like the end of the world.

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<v Speaker 3>Selena and Justin.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and now you just like hang out with Selena.

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<v Speaker 4>Every know, the casual who knew?

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<v Speaker 5>Thanks Selena. And the last one I'll just give it

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<v Speaker 5>to you is zach Effron, which.

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<v Speaker 1>Went Justin's on there twice. There's a there's a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of him and then a key chain of his face

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<v Speaker 1>in a heart.

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<v Speaker 3>That's my own photo.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Jesus, is it weird that I own this question

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<v Speaker 1>of answers? Yes, Sonny, I heard you.

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<v Speaker 4>Talk about zac Efron. This is mind blowing.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, I don't think I ever had a zac Efron moment,

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<v Speaker 6>but clearly I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>The caption is zac Efron's smiley face, and then it's

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<v Speaker 1>the album art for Boyfriend by Justin Bieber, and tiny

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<v Speaker 1>writes Justin Bieber, her heart heart this is my jam

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<v Speaker 1>all caps.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that sounds right. That that's me.

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<v Speaker 4>That's definitely me, Yeah, no doubt. Wow, Wow, that was

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<v Speaker 4>really good TV.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot miss Tanya's pinterested.

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<v Speaker 5>TV. I cannot miss a from twelve years ago. Let's see,

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<v Speaker 5>I got one? What is that one TV?

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<v Speaker 4>I can't miss TV.

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<v Speaker 5>I cannot miss.

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<v Speaker 6>Vampire Diaries yep, as one of them.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, what is that one? The top?

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<v Speaker 1>The men of Vampire Diaries? Need I say more?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I can't miss in twenty twelve.

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<v Speaker 4>But she have said that's a girl? Uh, Montree Hill

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<v Speaker 4>in there?

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<v Speaker 5>No, neither of those is in there. I can't. Some

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<v Speaker 5>of these are kind of broad.

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<v Speaker 1>When is a show I have never heard of in

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<v Speaker 1>my life? It's on the c W Arrow.

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<v Speaker 5>No, you made out with a guy from Marrow?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah you did teen Wolf.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, there's two c W shows I've never heard.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but.

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<v Speaker 1>They just reveal it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The Secret Circle.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, the show was so good.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, if you.

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<v Speaker 6>Have not seen The Secret Circle, you need to watch it, right,

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<v Speaker 6>but streaming somewhere I don't know. But it's like with

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<v Speaker 6>Phoebe Tonkin and yeah, Britt Robertson, such a good show.

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<v Speaker 1>This picture is captioned this is where it all started.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's good. Now one of these again very obvious

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<v Speaker 5>to me. The Bachelor that's on there. Yes, very good.

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<v Speaker 4>Even what I was thinking of though downhill from what's

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<v Speaker 4>going over.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me get your time.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Just it's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just another man Monday, everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Ultimately, this is fine.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't there's one more that you should name here

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<v Speaker 5>that I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Surprised a corner over there.

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<v Speaker 5>You were the reason we talked about the show on

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<v Speaker 5>the radio so much, and then you stopped watching it.

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<v Speaker 5>We still talked about it because you'd already said the president.

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<v Speaker 3>In twenty twelve.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, oh, pretty there.

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<v Speaker 3>It is nice. First of all, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Watch it till the end, Yes I did. I know

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<v Speaker 6>exactly who happens? Yes, I know, I know. I for

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<v Speaker 6>sure watch it till the end.

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<v Speaker 5>What is this is that? Also, pretty little Liarus? What

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<v Speaker 5>is that is that? Lucy?

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<v Speaker 1>Lucy Hale? Just as an individual? And then the other

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<v Speaker 1>mysterious CW show is Ringer.

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<v Speaker 3>Ringer another great show.

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<v Speaker 1>No commentary from tinys photo, just a picture of the

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<v Speaker 1>cast and just says Ringer on CW, this is so great.

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<v Speaker 5>You have a Pinterests board called work it Out. There's

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<v Speaker 5>exactly zero photos in it. It's empty, it's blank.

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<v Speaker 3>Who knew I was on Pinterest in twenty twelve?

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<v Speaker 5>You have favorite places and spaces.

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<v Speaker 4>It feels like you were really on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like can I There's a there's one called books

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<v Speaker 1>worth Reading and two of the posts. One of them

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<v Speaker 1>is a picture of Peta from Hunger Games, and then

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<v Speaker 1>one is it David durhamin Ring?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she was on pnderson no idea what she was doing?

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<v Speaker 2>This actually maybe checks out full circle.

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<v Speaker 1>And then a Hunger Games meme that says love is

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<v Speaker 1>a battlefield.

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<v Speaker 5>And Devil wears Proud of Books and Candace Bushnell lipstick jungle.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, jule I love that was in that?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you sure it wasn't Harry Winston Ring?

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<v Speaker 1>It says David it's a picture of Ring, and it

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<v Speaker 1>says the happiest girls are the prettiest David Yeerman.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I see the stuff you put for your wedding,

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<v Speaker 5>and boy, whatever you choose, give me a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>little lights.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, you do, love an.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna have junkle lights no matter where we are.

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<v Speaker 2>So you were going getting ruthless with the guest list.

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<v Speaker 2>But then there are people that you were like, I

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<v Speaker 2>think I really want them at the wedding.

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<v Speaker 6>Correct, So now we might move it into a ballroom.

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<v Speaker 6>So that's kind of where we're at. Okay, just deciding

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<v Speaker 6>on which one of the two do you have a

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<v Speaker 6>date set? No, because the day comes after we said

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<v Speaker 6>where oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So there's totally pressure to make the decision because

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<v Speaker 2>there's no date that you're having to.

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<v Speaker 6>And then if we do it outside in la we

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<v Speaker 6>have to wait for the weather to be good, which

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<v Speaker 6>is really like April to September.

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<v Speaker 4>Hmmm, you just never know, you never know, No, you.

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<v Speaker 6>Don't it really, Sonny, Sonny in eighty this week and

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<v Speaker 6>then it's gonna rain this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if you don't want to chance the weather,

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<v Speaker 2>you just do inside. I think that'll be just like

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<v Speaker 2>you can invite the amount of people you want.

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<v Speaker 4>Takes the stress off of having to worry about the weather. Right,

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<v Speaker 4>your heels aren't going to dig into the grass, right

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<v Speaker 4>you know?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I got ya, I know. But then we're in

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<v Speaker 6>a ballroom. It's like, you know, not as warm.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, not as ethereal correct as ethereal.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, majestic, some may say, right, I feel like, you

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<v Speaker 6>know the episode of.

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<v Speaker 3>Call Her You know, this episode of Call Her Daddy

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<v Speaker 3>where Alex is like.

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<v Speaker 6>Sitting in the bathtub with the bottle of wine with

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<v Speaker 6>like her veil, being like, ah, no.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody remember, had an impact on me.

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<v Speaker 6>Clearly nobody else Anyways, That's what I feel like I

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<v Speaker 6>can relate to at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, do you know in the Notebook when she sees

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<v Speaker 2>that Noah rebuilt the house and then she's in the

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<v Speaker 2>bathtub and she's turning the water on and off and

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<v Speaker 2>she has the veil on with a goss of wine

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<v Speaker 2>before she decides that she's going to go see him.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't remember this.

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<v Speaker 2>That's also a reference that had an impact on me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>a cultural moment. Oh, speaking of a cultural moment, when

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<v Speaker 2>they broke up Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that was pretty gut wrenching.

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<v Speaker 3>But they seem to be doing great now.

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<v Speaker 4>Very happy for them.

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<v Speaker 2>But that was just a very impactful public relationship that ended. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like Brad and Jen justin Selena just they didn't affect

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<v Speaker 2>me as much as you Apparently, I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 2>venture's board of anybody.

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<v Speaker 4>So wow.

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<v Speaker 2>But do you know that there is a new duo

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<v Speaker 2>coming to the iHeart podcast world and I want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it when we come back.

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<v Speaker 7>From this break, right right, right, all right, we are back,

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<v Speaker 7>And before we took the break, I was talking about

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<v Speaker 7>a new podcast duo best besties A Blonde.

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<v Speaker 4>And a Blonde.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she has like.

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<v Speaker 4>Kind of like me and you, literally me and you.

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<v Speaker 2>But they're from a show that started this here, podcast

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<v Speaker 2>Scrubbing in Grey's Anatomy. Correct, And that is Camilla Luddington

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<v Speaker 2>and Jessica Capshaw doing a podcast amongst us for.

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<v Speaker 6>iHeartRadio or iHeart Radio without a title, because we took

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<v Speaker 6>the best one.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I wonder if they'd want to buy it from

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<v Speaker 2>us how much we could sell for a built in

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<v Speaker 2>audience loyal.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, or maybe they could be under our umbrella. That

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<v Speaker 6>would be the smart move to put them onto the

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<v Speaker 6>Scrubbing In umbrella. Does nobody else think that's genius? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't see anyone going for that aside from us.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's smart presents whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is their podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>What is it?

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<v Speaker 5>I've not heard title. I think early summer something like

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<v Speaker 5>that is going to start.

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<v Speaker 3>That's early summer soon, that's June.

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<v Speaker 5>Could be June, July, something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, we're We've been desperately trying to get Jessica

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<v Speaker 2>Capshaw on this podcast for years, years, and this might

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<v Speaker 2>be our moment we did, might be our chance.

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<v Speaker 3>We did interview her at many moons ago. We interviewed her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, I was so obsessed with cal Arizona,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think that may have been an eye opening

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<v Speaker 2>moment looking back on my sexuality journey of like, oh wow,

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm not saying that like straight people can't

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<v Speaker 2>love and root for relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>But I was like, I'm so invested.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was so invested devastated when they broke up.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's very exciting.

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<v Speaker 6>We love Camilla, We love I do think that she

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<v Speaker 6>had such a great experience scrubbing in that she was like,

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<v Speaker 6>I need to have one of these.

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<v Speaker 4>I just think that every single person who.

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<v Speaker 2>Has a public platform is like, why would I not

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<v Speaker 2>do a podcast? But also sure she came to our

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<v Speaker 2>podcast and said, this is my dream come true to

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<v Speaker 2>do a show with my best friend like Tanya and

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<v Speaker 2>Becca do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, so I'm gonna do it under the scrubbing

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<v Speaker 3>in umbrella.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll pitch it, we'll pitch it.

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<v Speaker 3>Why not.

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<v Speaker 4>I have no fear of getting rejected old.

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, it happens often often, and I'm unfazed.

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<v Speaker 5>She was back last week, Arizona Robbins back on Grays.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sure we've all watched and we're all caught up.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, I was watching the middle of that and I

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<v Speaker 2>had to go. But I was caught up till the

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<v Speaker 2>middle of that episode, so I didn't finish it.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, was it good?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't finish that episode, so I can't say I

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<v Speaker 2>just got to where Jessica or Arizona was talking about

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<v Speaker 2>what she was there for.

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<v Speaker 4>Basically, that's pretty early on. I did say I made

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<v Speaker 4>it far.

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<v Speaker 3>I caught up to that point.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, and is it good?

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<v Speaker 5>Whole?

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<v Speaker 4>It's good, it's good.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not super invested in anybody, and that's my issue

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<v Speaker 2>right right right, But I don't feel like that's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be permanent. I think I could be invested. You

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<v Speaker 2>know what irks me a little bit about what Grey's

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<v Speaker 2>Anatomy does.

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<v Speaker 5>What.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know the doctor's names yet, the new doctor's

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<v Speaker 2>names too have.

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<v Speaker 5>I call it little Shepherd, and I don't know what

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<v Speaker 5>is actually a.

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<v Speaker 2>Little shepherd and the girl, but he has the back

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<v Speaker 2>and forth relations.

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<v Speaker 3>She's the new Gray.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, you Suda, I know you, Suda.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we have you, Suda.

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<v Speaker 2>But little well, I'll call her little Gray and he's

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<v Speaker 2>a little shepherd.

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<v Speaker 5>Little Gray is the one that he they slept together

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<v Speaker 5>when she was about to go get married. Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And I hate that they drag out a back and

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<v Speaker 2>forth for so long. They did it with Joe and.

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<v Speaker 4>They did it with Owen and Amelia.

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<v Speaker 5>I did have that thought watching this most recent episode

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<v Speaker 5>when she was but she she was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want to see you anymore. Get out of my life.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, you know, I guess we got to just

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<v Speaker 5>go through this. Yeah, there's got to be conflict. But

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<v Speaker 5>I hear you. I hear what you're saying. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, it's the younger generation and we're watching them come up.

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<v Speaker 7>Question.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, do we know what the podcast is going to

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<v Speaker 6>be about? Is are they going to rewatch Grays like

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<v Speaker 6>a rewatch podcast.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know that either.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, what are you good for him?

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<v Speaker 5>I to work on it. But we'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I know that's what I'm saying. I thought

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<v Speaker 3>you would have some answer.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't have any, because that would be interesting if

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<v Speaker 6>they rewatched from season one episode one.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I would absolutely listen to that. Told the journey with them, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 5>Would they be better doing that or should they get

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<v Speaker 5>like some of the ogs to do that podcast?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, just get Capshaw's pretty o g.

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<v Speaker 2>No, she's season five though, so I mean she's not

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<v Speaker 2>She's as og as as.

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<v Speaker 3>They can get.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, Christina Yang's not doing it, not doing it,

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<v Speaker 6>not doing it?

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<v Speaker 5>Hold lot doing? Is he super busy right now? We

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<v Speaker 5>don't really know what podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we don't know why he ever left.

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<v Speaker 3>So when I could see doing it would be uh, George, George.

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<v Speaker 4>Could wait, I don't see him doing that George O'Malley.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I could see George.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you love for him too? I just don't after.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe Miranda Bailey. Yeah, anyways, I bet.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll have Ellen Pompeo as their first guest. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>make a guess to do. That's why they should be

0:23:08.840 --> 0:23:12.040
<v Speaker 2>under That's what Joey the Bachelor and Kelsey, who he

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<v Speaker 2>chose at the end just posted with Ellen Pompeo at

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<v Speaker 2>this Hulu party?

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<v Speaker 3>Really yeah, why did we go to the Hulu party?

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<v Speaker 4>We don't get invited, Tanya, did you get invited?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't, which is okay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a younger generation speaking of I've made a decision

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<v Speaker 2>to lean into being a millennial god because thank you,

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<v Speaker 2>oh wow, thank you so much. You know, there's a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of pressure when it comes to social media in general,

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<v Speaker 2>but I have found that, especially being on TikTok, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like leaning in towards what gen Z.

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<v Speaker 4>Likes, and so I've really tried to listen to that.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also, and I'm not saying I'm not going

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<v Speaker 2>to do that, but I'm not going to try to

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<v Speaker 2>be gen Zan to listen to what they have to say.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to hear what.

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<v Speaker 2>They're doing, what the young kids are doing, but I

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<v Speaker 2>don't need to make that me.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you something.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a You're a millennial to to the core, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I don't know that I'm leaning in that much

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<v Speaker 2>to my millennial as much as you lean into your millennial.

0:24:19.840 --> 0:24:22.440
<v Speaker 4>But I'm I'm leaning in more than I have been.

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<v Speaker 6>Let me tell you something, about it, Tilly, come over

0:24:25.680 --> 0:24:29.800
<v Speaker 6>to the dark side, because it is so nice just

0:24:29.880 --> 0:24:32.320
<v Speaker 6>to be who you are, just.

0:24:32.280 --> 0:24:33.920
<v Speaker 4>Be not I am who I am.

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<v Speaker 2>But I also think there's I think the people who

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<v Speaker 2>are are aware of what younger people are doing and

0:24:42.280 --> 0:24:45.400
<v Speaker 2>learning new things. I think that's how you stay younger mentally.

0:24:46.800 --> 0:24:51.680
<v Speaker 3>So so young mentally, couldn't be younger mentally. I've got

0:24:51.680 --> 0:24:52.240
<v Speaker 3>the rich.

0:24:54.520 --> 0:24:57.800
<v Speaker 2>Trying to on our on our call that we do

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<v Speaker 2>weekly for the podcast, Tanya is trying to say that

0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:01.600
<v Speaker 2>she has RIZ.

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<v Speaker 5>You do not have RIZ, but it's very sweet that

0:25:06.960 --> 0:25:13.360
<v Speaker 5>you think that you do. First of all, ooz, No,

0:25:15.560 --> 0:25:18.000
<v Speaker 5>if you had RIZ, you wouldn't have needed half of

0:25:18.000 --> 0:25:21.360
<v Speaker 5>our staff to be texting Robbie in the first when

0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:22.639
<v Speaker 5>you first matched on Hinge.

0:25:23.040 --> 0:25:23.880
<v Speaker 3>Well no, so.

0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:27.440
<v Speaker 5>Just could do it themselves.

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<v Speaker 6>No, so, RIZ doesn't translate to online dating.

0:25:33.760 --> 0:25:36.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't mean to interrupt, but can you tell me

0:25:36.320 --> 0:25:37.680
<v Speaker 2>your definition of risk?

0:25:39.160 --> 0:25:42.280
<v Speaker 3>The basic charisma? Charisma?

0:25:42.640 --> 0:25:48.360
<v Speaker 4>Okay, so, okay, just charisma is there.

0:25:48.400 --> 0:25:51.120
<v Speaker 5>I think it's a specific type of charisma. I think

0:25:51.160 --> 0:25:54.119
<v Speaker 5>it's more like it's like a combination of charisma and game.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I have game, guys.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean you have game?

0:26:07.359 --> 0:26:10.840
<v Speaker 3>I have game, Tony.

0:26:12.840 --> 0:26:17.280
<v Speaker 2>This whole podcast, for like majority before you met Robbie

0:26:17.440 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 2>was not about was about you not having games.

0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:24.040
<v Speaker 3>Which is the best game. That's the best game is

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:24.920
<v Speaker 3>not having game.

0:26:25.119 --> 0:26:25.720
<v Speaker 4>It's just me.

0:26:25.960 --> 0:26:31.920
<v Speaker 3>That's how Gamy. I am Gamey Gamy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you're now claiming that you have which which

0:26:41.920 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 2>ultimately is you not having game.

0:26:44.200 --> 0:26:44.680
<v Speaker 4>Correct.

0:26:44.960 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 3>It's like the double bluff and Traders.

0:26:47.600 --> 0:26:47.760
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:50.439
<v Speaker 2>It reminds me of how when I ask you to

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:54.320
<v Speaker 2>explain something and you just repeat what you said without

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:55.280
<v Speaker 2>explaining to me.

0:26:55.280 --> 0:27:00.640
<v Speaker 3>What I think we all have on this show. No.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I that you have charm. I think you're charming

0:27:10.080 --> 0:27:16.560
<v Speaker 4>and charismatic, yes, Riz, but I don't think you have game. No,

0:27:17.160 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 4>And I don't think that's a negative.

0:27:20.040 --> 0:27:23.560
<v Speaker 5>By having Sierra text him for a week before you Actually.

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<v Speaker 2>No, so your game is bringing in others who have game, right,

0:27:31.760 --> 0:27:34.200
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know whatever it takes.

0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:39.160
<v Speaker 5>For lack of game, which is adjustment you've made.

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<v Speaker 3>It just depends on your perspective, truly.

0:27:41.960 --> 0:27:43.920
<v Speaker 1>See, I don't think Tanya with a little respect, I

0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:45.719
<v Speaker 1>don't think Tany has game. But I just looked at

0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:49.040
<v Speaker 1>the etymology of Riz. I didn't realize it comes from charisma,

0:27:49.840 --> 0:27:53.399
<v Speaker 1>which I would say you have you're when people.

0:27:53.960 --> 0:27:57.080
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So the younger genera gen Z and younger I

0:27:57.080 --> 0:28:00.080
<v Speaker 2>think riz is more, you have game.

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:00.520
<v Speaker 5>It's it's more.

0:28:00.760 --> 0:28:03.600
<v Speaker 4>I don't think the younger kids like she's got charisma.

0:28:04.359 --> 0:28:07.000
<v Speaker 3>Right, do you think you have RIZ?

0:28:11.119 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 4>I think I can have RIZ.

0:28:13.400 --> 0:28:15.320
<v Speaker 3>You don't think you use it. I think you use it.

0:28:16.720 --> 0:28:21.399
<v Speaker 2>I don't like the word ooze personally, Riz and ooze

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:22.360
<v Speaker 2>together is too many.

0:28:22.520 --> 0:28:26.200
<v Speaker 4>Za's No.

0:28:26.520 --> 0:28:28.520
<v Speaker 5>I don't know Becca well enough in terms of like,

0:28:28.720 --> 0:28:30.439
<v Speaker 5>I haven't been out in social events with you, out

0:28:30.480 --> 0:28:32.399
<v Speaker 5>in the wild when you're single to know if you

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:34.159
<v Speaker 5>have RIZ or not. Yeah, Tanya, we know.

0:28:34.400 --> 0:28:36.320
<v Speaker 3>Let me tell you something to you can have RIZ

0:28:36.359 --> 0:28:37.440
<v Speaker 3>inside a relationship.

0:28:39.200 --> 0:28:41.960
<v Speaker 5>See, I think you're you're you're customizing the definition of

0:28:42.040 --> 0:28:43.600
<v Speaker 5>RIZ to fit your personality.

0:28:43.720 --> 0:28:45.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm. And that's fine.

0:28:45.480 --> 0:28:49.600
<v Speaker 2>But we're talking about the generalization of the word and

0:28:49.800 --> 0:28:53.200
<v Speaker 2>term RIZ, not what you have made.

0:28:53.120 --> 0:28:54.560
<v Speaker 4>RIZ in your life.

0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:55.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:59.040
<v Speaker 2>I like to do that very millennial. But you do

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:03.600
<v Speaker 2>have future step children who are alpha.

0:29:03.680 --> 0:29:06.440
<v Speaker 4>I think Jen Alfa jen alpha, and I need to know.

0:29:06.720 --> 0:29:08.480
<v Speaker 4>I need you to ask them.

0:29:08.720 --> 0:29:12.560
<v Speaker 3>If I have Yes, they're gonna say yeah, no, they're not.

0:29:15.600 --> 0:29:16.239
<v Speaker 3>I'll let you know.

0:29:16.400 --> 0:29:18.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, let me know, but I need video proof. I

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 4>don't want to you're.

0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:21.640
<v Speaker 3>Gonna tell me you can get it.

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 2>Wow, I can't wait to see that cut up of

0:29:24.720 --> 0:29:26.480
<v Speaker 2>Mark saying you do not have he.

0:29:26.560 --> 0:29:30.040
<v Speaker 5>Riz the episode were told she wasn't cool. I remember

0:29:30.080 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 5>that episode.

0:29:30.760 --> 0:29:33.080
<v Speaker 4>I was reliving that too during that conversation, like the.

0:29:33.080 --> 0:29:34.760
<v Speaker 5>Best of episode for just a second. Thing.

0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:41.760
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you know what, everybody has that delusional friend and Hi,

0:29:42.560 --> 0:29:42.920
<v Speaker 6>it's me.

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:44.200
<v Speaker 5>That's fine.

0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:45.320
<v Speaker 3>Problem it's me.

0:29:45.480 --> 0:29:47.800
<v Speaker 4>But you know this about yourself, which I think is

0:29:47.840 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 4>your charm.

0:29:48.600 --> 0:29:50.280
<v Speaker 5>We were in the car yesterday with my daughter and

0:29:50.280 --> 0:29:54.640
<v Speaker 5>her friend, who are gen z, and I'm the problem.

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:57.320
<v Speaker 5>It's me. Anti Hero came on the Taylor Swift channel

0:29:57.360 --> 0:30:00.720
<v Speaker 5>on the radio and that was and they were just like,

0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:03.760
<v Speaker 5>I don't like this song. It's just so god high

0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:05.520
<v Speaker 5>on the problem. It's me. And then at the exact

0:30:05.560 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 5>same time that they both said, God, it's just so millennial.

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:11.200
<v Speaker 5>And then they're like, laugh that they just said it

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:14.640
<v Speaker 5>at the exact same time. Anyway, it is my joy

0:30:14.840 --> 0:30:18.200
<v Speaker 5>watching my gen zs mock you millennials for being lame.

0:30:18.280 --> 0:30:21.440
<v Speaker 5>It is so funny to me. It is endlessly entertaining.

0:30:21.600 --> 0:30:24.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't think it's because I'm so long.

0:30:24.960 --> 0:30:27.280
<v Speaker 5>It's so fun to watch the next generation become.

0:30:27.160 --> 0:30:29.440
<v Speaker 4>Lame and then gen Z is gonna be lame to

0:30:29.520 --> 0:30:33.520
<v Speaker 4>jen Alpha. It's just part of life, yes, exactly. So

0:30:33.560 --> 0:30:34.160
<v Speaker 4>that's why.

0:30:34.000 --> 0:30:38.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I need I like being self aware of

0:30:38.120 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 2>my millennialism, but also open to.

0:30:41.920 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 3>The possibility, attached the alcohol.

0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:48.920
<v Speaker 2>What gen Z is saying and talking about and listening

0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:53.480
<v Speaker 2>and appreciating their input, engaging a little, but not attached

0:30:53.520 --> 0:30:55.360
<v Speaker 2>to needing to be gen Z.

0:30:55.680 --> 0:30:58.720
<v Speaker 6>That's huge, that's huge. I'm so glad you're on the

0:30:58.720 --> 0:30:59.240
<v Speaker 6>other side.

0:30:59.600 --> 0:31:00.840
<v Speaker 4>It's all see these girls.

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:02.959
<v Speaker 2>I'll be scrolling TikTok and this girl's like, here are

0:31:03.000 --> 0:31:05.840
<v Speaker 2>my skin tips and she's like twenty two with flaw

0:31:06.000 --> 0:31:07.560
<v Speaker 2>like no pores, and I'm.

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:10.479
<v Speaker 4>Like, okay, okay, I just need these products. And I'm like,

0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 4>this is not a product thing.

0:31:12.440 --> 0:31:13.000
<v Speaker 2>This is you.

0:31:13.720 --> 0:31:17.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah literally, I know, and it'd be like that, Yeah

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:18.760
<v Speaker 3>that's the problem.

0:31:19.080 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah it is. But the main message that I'm trying

0:31:22.520 --> 0:31:26.200
<v Speaker 4>to say here is be attached to the possibility.

0:31:26.280 --> 0:31:29.680
<v Speaker 6>I mean open to the possibility, not attached to the outcome.

0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 4>Right, So thank you all. For listening to your ted talk.

0:31:33.560 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 6>Yes, I'm excited about it. I can't wait to see

0:31:35.360 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 6>this new millennial.

0:31:36.480 --> 0:31:38.120
<v Speaker 4>I don't know if anything's going to change. It's more

0:31:38.120 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 4>of an internal.

0:31:39.080 --> 0:31:42.840
<v Speaker 3>Oh the freedom I'm gonna feel from you, palpable.

0:31:44.000 --> 0:31:48.920
<v Speaker 5>We need to talk about Tanya's packed. Yes, and we

0:31:49.000 --> 0:31:50.240
<v Speaker 5>have audio to play as well.

0:31:50.640 --> 0:31:55.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, crazy is it her weird voice a little bit?

0:31:55.240 --> 0:31:57.080
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I love the weird voice, Donya.

0:31:57.200 --> 0:31:57.920
<v Speaker 5>I mean it's higher.

0:31:58.040 --> 0:32:02.120
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, you have What what were you saying?

0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:04.920
<v Speaker 6>I'll tell you this is if anybody out there is

0:32:04.960 --> 0:32:08.280
<v Speaker 6>looking for the one, this might be why you haven't

0:32:08.280 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 6>found them.

0:32:08.880 --> 0:32:11.480
<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, what a teaser. We'll be right back.

0:32:27.240 --> 0:32:30.959
<v Speaker 4>All right, we're back. You were very excited to share something.

0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:34.920
<v Speaker 6>So you were talking about this marriage pact from Blake

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:36.920
<v Speaker 6>Blake from The Bachelor what's his last name?

0:32:36.960 --> 0:32:37.280
<v Speaker 3>Moins?

0:32:38.160 --> 0:32:40.400
<v Speaker 4>Who was talking about this and our pitch.

0:32:40.200 --> 0:32:43.720
<v Speaker 3>Meeting or like in our meeting that we have with

0:32:43.760 --> 0:32:44.480
<v Speaker 3>Sam every week?

0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 4>Who oh oh.

0:32:47.640 --> 0:32:49.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we talked about it.

0:32:49.440 --> 0:32:51.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Blake and Natalie from Love is Blind Yeah, Blake

0:32:51.920 --> 0:32:53.560
<v Speaker 2>from the Bachelor, Natalie from Love is blinde.

0:32:53.600 --> 0:32:54.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I don't know his last name?

0:32:55.360 --> 0:32:55.560
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:57.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So Blake Moins from The.

0:32:57.360 --> 0:33:01.360
<v Speaker 6>Bachelor and Natalie Lee from Love Is Blind have a

0:33:01.400 --> 0:33:04.880
<v Speaker 6>marriage packed. Basically, if they're not married by whatever age,

0:33:05.000 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 6>then they will get married. Okay, and I too made

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:12.880
<v Speaker 6>one of those when I was younger. How old I

0:33:12.920 --> 0:33:16.520
<v Speaker 6>think I was twenty three at the time, twenty three,

0:33:16.600 --> 0:33:19.640
<v Speaker 6>twenty four, okay, maybe twenty five. And I made it

0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:21.760
<v Speaker 6>with this guy named Andy, who was our engineer at

0:33:21.760 --> 0:33:23.960
<v Speaker 6>the time on the Morning show. If we weren't married

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:25.560
<v Speaker 6>by the age of forty, we would Mary.

0:33:25.520 --> 0:33:27.360
<v Speaker 5>I think he was younger than that. But let's listen back,

0:33:27.400 --> 0:33:30.760
<v Speaker 5>shall we. Yeah, November one, twenty nineteen, this is when

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:32.959
<v Speaker 5>we called Andy about it. But here Ryan sets up

0:33:32.960 --> 0:33:33.680
<v Speaker 5>the premise.

0:33:33.440 --> 0:33:36.480
<v Speaker 2>We have a packed, So you have a pack that

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:39.720
<v Speaker 2>if you're not with somebody or married in how many

0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:41.040
<v Speaker 2>years by.

0:33:40.920 --> 0:33:44.000
<v Speaker 6>The time I'm thirty three, so I have, so you

0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:45.680
<v Speaker 6>have for about six years.

0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:48.240
<v Speaker 3>Well, here's the thing. I think Andy is attractive.

0:33:48.360 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 5>Andy, come here for a second. Thank you.

0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:55.040
<v Speaker 4>He is a good looking guy, and you think he's smart.

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 3>I think he's attractive and smart, and I do think

0:33:57.200 --> 0:33:59.480
<v Speaker 3>he's nice. Yeah, but we work together.

0:33:59.560 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 4>So that's.

0:34:01.840 --> 0:34:04.120
<v Speaker 5>Sorry. So that was the original. That was the original

0:34:04.160 --> 0:34:05.840
<v Speaker 5>talk of the pact and I don't have a date

0:34:05.880 --> 0:34:06.160
<v Speaker 5>on that.

0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:06.560
<v Speaker 3>That's fine.

0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 6>So that was a pack that I made when I

0:34:07.880 --> 0:34:11.040
<v Speaker 6>was doing calling. In the one my workbook, it basically

0:34:11.040 --> 0:34:14.719
<v Speaker 6>one of the whole chapters was about going through these

0:34:14.760 --> 0:34:17.440
<v Speaker 6>packs that you made and dissolving them because they're basically

0:34:17.440 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 6>telling the universe I'm good, I don't need your I

0:34:20.560 --> 0:34:23.000
<v Speaker 6>don't need you anymore because I'm good, I made a pact.

0:34:23.040 --> 0:34:24.719
<v Speaker 6>I'm going to get married to this person if I'm

0:34:24.800 --> 0:34:25.799
<v Speaker 6>not married by thirty three.

0:34:26.120 --> 0:34:28.120
<v Speaker 5>That was June fifteen, So.

0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:31.120
<v Speaker 6>You're sending out these signals that you don't need that

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:35.800
<v Speaker 6>in your life. I called Andy, this guy who meanwhile

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:38.120
<v Speaker 6>in this very moment has like a girlfriend that he's

0:34:38.200 --> 0:34:40.279
<v Speaker 6>had a serious girlfriend for like how many years?

0:34:40.440 --> 0:34:41.719
<v Speaker 3>He's married now he's married now.

0:34:42.160 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so he's not thinking about the pact. But I

0:34:44.480 --> 0:34:46.800
<v Speaker 6>had to call him to dissolve our marriage pact.

0:34:46.960 --> 0:34:49.480
<v Speaker 5>This was November one, twenty nineteen, And let me get

0:34:49.480 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 5>Andy online. Andy, how are you?

0:34:51.920 --> 0:34:52.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 5>I got it?

0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:53.360
<v Speaker 3>So Andy.

0:34:54.239 --> 0:34:57.000
<v Speaker 6>I'm working through this workbook and it's basically how to

0:34:57.040 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 6>call in the love of my life. And I one

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:01.799
<v Speaker 6>of the practices was if you've made any sort of

0:35:01.840 --> 0:35:05.719
<v Speaker 6>agreements in your past marriage agreements that you need to

0:35:05.800 --> 0:35:08.759
<v Speaker 6>really phone in on why you made that agreement and

0:35:08.760 --> 0:35:11.640
<v Speaker 6>then call that person to dissolve the agreement. So I

0:35:11.640 --> 0:35:15.319
<v Speaker 6>wrote it down. Okay, I made a marriage packed with

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:18.120
<v Speaker 6>my coworker Andy. I made this pack from a place

0:35:18.160 --> 0:35:21.040
<v Speaker 6>of doubt and fear. This is not the marriage that

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:23.040
<v Speaker 6>I want. I want to dissolve the pack because I'm

0:35:23.080 --> 0:35:27.040
<v Speaker 6>removing all the obstacles. I have, all the obstacles that

0:35:27.080 --> 0:35:29.520
<v Speaker 6>I've subconsciously put in my way. I want to clear

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:31.359
<v Speaker 6>the space to call in the one I love and

0:35:31.400 --> 0:35:32.360
<v Speaker 6>I know that I deserve.

0:35:33.800 --> 0:35:34.799
<v Speaker 5>So are you breaking up with them?

0:35:37.400 --> 0:35:37.640
<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:35:38.280 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 6>So that was November one, twenty nineteen. And when did

0:35:41.120 --> 0:35:42.480
<v Speaker 6>I meet Robbie Yadegar?

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:43.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:35:44.000 --> 0:35:45.960
<v Speaker 3>November fifth, twenty nineteen.

0:35:46.080 --> 0:35:52.520
<v Speaker 4>Wow, oh wow. I don't think you would have met

0:35:52.560 --> 0:35:53.719
<v Speaker 4>him if you hadn't dissolved it.

0:35:53.800 --> 0:35:55.840
<v Speaker 6>I don't think so either, Yeah, because that would have

0:35:55.840 --> 0:35:57.440
<v Speaker 6>been in the universe and I didn't need to meet him.

0:35:57.600 --> 0:36:00.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I blocked it. Well that's of power.

0:36:01.560 --> 0:36:07.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So, Blake Moins and Natalie Lee, if you're listening.

0:36:06.880 --> 0:36:07.719
<v Speaker 4>Should we call them?

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:08.040
<v Speaker 2>Should?

0:36:08.719 --> 0:36:11.479
<v Speaker 3>I want you to know that the marriage Packed might

0:36:11.520 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 3>not be.

0:36:12.040 --> 0:36:15.080
<v Speaker 6>The best move if they're looking, if they're really for

0:36:15.120 --> 0:36:16.080
<v Speaker 6>the one for the one.

0:36:16.200 --> 0:36:18.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, it's really interesting.

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:20.319
<v Speaker 2>You've had people message you and say they did the

0:36:20.320 --> 0:36:21.880
<v Speaker 2>workbook and then they met their person.

0:36:22.200 --> 0:36:23.439
<v Speaker 3>Correct.

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:27.440
<v Speaker 4>I've seen no negative in this journey.

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:28.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm with you.

0:36:28.280 --> 0:36:29.600
<v Speaker 4>If people are willing to do the.

0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:34.759
<v Speaker 2>Work and dissolve the packs and read and do homework,

0:36:36.160 --> 0:36:37.160
<v Speaker 2>I see no issue with it.

0:36:37.320 --> 0:36:40.479
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, do you spend that timing to be crazy? November first?

0:36:40.480 --> 0:36:42.360
<v Speaker 6>I called off my uh.

0:36:42.760 --> 0:36:45.160
<v Speaker 2>I also think though, that you believe in the invisible

0:36:45.200 --> 0:36:47.440
<v Speaker 2>string theory, which means that you and Robbie would have

0:36:47.440 --> 0:36:51.640
<v Speaker 2>connected either way. So these are conflicting thoughts that I

0:36:51.719 --> 0:36:54.520
<v Speaker 2>need you to pick aside. Were you all invisible string

0:36:54.600 --> 0:36:57.160
<v Speaker 2>or was Did you call him in because you've dissolved

0:36:57.160 --> 0:36:57.520
<v Speaker 2>your pack?

0:36:57.640 --> 0:37:00.480
<v Speaker 3>You can't. It's like you never know, you can't know.

0:37:01.840 --> 0:37:07.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but they don't align, you know. I've stumped her, y'all.

0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:12.400
<v Speaker 2>She's petting the desk, she's wiping away an invisible surface.

0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:19.800
<v Speaker 3>So have you ever talked.

0:37:19.640 --> 0:37:23.799
<v Speaker 4>To Andy since that? No, he's like, hey, yeah again.

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:27.439
<v Speaker 6>I think he's like, I'm happily married, please lose my number.

0:37:29.200 --> 0:37:32.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just like straight up.

0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:33.680
<v Speaker 5>Oh, jeez.

0:37:34.280 --> 0:37:37.400
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, he's like, I haven't thought about that in fifteen years.

0:37:37.840 --> 0:37:41.600
<v Speaker 3>But it's fine. So anyways, all right, marriage packs don't

0:37:41.600 --> 0:37:42.000
<v Speaker 3>make them.

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:44.919
<v Speaker 5>And great work book.

0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:45.839
<v Speaker 3>Great work book.

0:37:45.920 --> 0:37:48.200
<v Speaker 6>Although I found out recently that the one who wrote

0:37:48.239 --> 0:37:49.320
<v Speaker 6>that book is divorced.

0:37:50.080 --> 0:37:51.600
<v Speaker 4>It happens like that sometimes.

0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:54.239
<v Speaker 2>Really, there was a guy who like started all the

0:37:55.120 --> 0:38:00.319
<v Speaker 2>gay conversion therapies, like he was super religious, and you

0:38:00.320 --> 0:38:02.400
<v Speaker 2>know which started these camps or kids would go and

0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:04.200
<v Speaker 2>they would like basically.

0:38:06.120 --> 0:38:08.120
<v Speaker 4>Beat the gay out of them. I don't know, Oh

0:38:08.160 --> 0:38:10.080
<v Speaker 4>my gosh, this is a real thing. People go to

0:38:10.080 --> 0:38:11.279
<v Speaker 4>conversion therapy. It's real.

0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 2>But he was one of the ones that started it,

0:38:13.080 --> 0:38:14.839
<v Speaker 2>and now he is married to a man.

0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:17.879
<v Speaker 5>Well that's how it always happens, these people, these politicians.

0:38:18.080 --> 0:38:22.000
<v Speaker 5>The more anti gay they are, the more gay they

0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:22.920
<v Speaker 5>tend to become.

0:38:23.320 --> 0:38:26.000
<v Speaker 2>I've gone to the point where if someone says something homophobic,

0:38:26.080 --> 0:38:28.640
<v Speaker 2>if they take the time to say something homophobic online,

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:30.960
<v Speaker 2>I just assume that they're battling their own.

0:38:30.840 --> 0:38:32.960
<v Speaker 4>Issues, because why do you care?

0:38:33.320 --> 0:38:36.080
<v Speaker 2>Like I think I I cared very heavily about that

0:38:36.160 --> 0:38:39.400
<v Speaker 2>because I think maybe deep down I was like maybe

0:38:39.440 --> 0:38:41.399
<v Speaker 2>I'm you know.

0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:43.840
<v Speaker 6>Really you cared heavily about it, and your head was

0:38:43.880 --> 0:38:45.520
<v Speaker 6>like super Christian religious.

0:38:45.560 --> 0:38:47.600
<v Speaker 2>I grew up with like that's bad, don't do that.

0:38:47.800 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 2>So I think I projected a lot. And now when

0:38:51.120 --> 0:38:53.279
<v Speaker 2>I see other people do it, I go, maybe they're

0:38:53.280 --> 0:39:01.080
<v Speaker 2>struggling with their own sexuality anyways, that but yeah, yeah,

0:39:01.560 --> 0:39:04.399
<v Speaker 2>so anyways, was there anything else?

0:39:04.760 --> 0:39:07.640
<v Speaker 4>Are we done? I have like more to.

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:09.200
<v Speaker 3>Talk about, but are we We're not done?

0:39:09.200 --> 0:39:11.240
<v Speaker 4>When you talk about no, I was going to talk about.

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:15.960
<v Speaker 2>Well, Rebel Wilson had a she released her.

0:39:16.280 --> 0:39:19.760
<v Speaker 4>Memoir memoir memoir, Rebel Rising.

0:39:20.280 --> 0:39:30.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah it was really correctly by the way Becca memoir, Yeah.

0:39:28.920 --> 0:39:33.080
<v Speaker 4>Oh I really. Yeah's always told me I say it wrong?

0:39:34.239 --> 0:39:38.160
<v Speaker 4>Was that you? Anyway? Rebel Rising?

0:39:38.440 --> 0:39:42.520
<v Speaker 2>And she revealed that she lost her virginity at thirty five,

0:39:42.719 --> 0:39:47.000
<v Speaker 2>which in our society today is like ancient.

0:39:47.480 --> 0:39:48.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know.

0:39:48.320 --> 0:39:50.799
<v Speaker 2>And I was talking about this on our call. I

0:39:50.840 --> 0:39:53.960
<v Speaker 2>was saying that when I was on the Bachelor, it

0:39:54.080 --> 0:39:56.720
<v Speaker 2>really struggled because I was on the Bachelor with Caitlin

0:39:56.800 --> 0:40:00.520
<v Speaker 2>Bristow and she was very like open and comfortable with

0:40:00.560 --> 0:40:04.160
<v Speaker 2>her sexuality in terms of being very sexual and you know,

0:40:04.239 --> 0:40:07.960
<v Speaker 2>comfortable with that and especially as the bachelorette. And I

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:10.759
<v Speaker 2>remember that I would get a lot of negativity. For

0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:13.359
<v Speaker 2>I would get a lot of positivity about being a virgin,

0:40:13.400 --> 0:40:15.120
<v Speaker 2>but I got a lot of negativity about it too.

0:40:15.160 --> 0:40:18.080
<v Speaker 2>But people would defend Caitlin and be like who cares

0:40:18.120 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 2>how like who she slept with or what she does

0:40:20.080 --> 0:40:23.520
<v Speaker 2>with her body, Like you know, I saw people defending that,

0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:26.160
<v Speaker 2>and then I would get so much hate for still

0:40:26.160 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 2>being a virgin, and it was like, where is why

0:40:28.800 --> 0:40:31.839
<v Speaker 2>are we not talking in the same way about It's saving.

0:40:31.719 --> 0:40:33.960
<v Speaker 6>Crazy to me that people get so much hate for

0:40:34.080 --> 0:40:37.600
<v Speaker 6>being a virgin, Like I don't understand where that comes from.

0:40:37.600 --> 0:40:41.160
<v Speaker 2>Like the same concept though, like it's your body, so

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:44.200
<v Speaker 2>you get to choose what you do with your body.

0:40:44.280 --> 0:40:46.360
<v Speaker 6>And I think the problem is I think our society

0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:50.200
<v Speaker 6>is so gong ho on the other way, like in

0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:52.319
<v Speaker 6>terms of pushing the just.

0:40:52.320 --> 0:40:55.319
<v Speaker 3>Have sex, have fun, you're young, be free, do what

0:40:55.360 --> 0:40:58.120
<v Speaker 3>you want. Yeah, live it up. And I'm like, not

0:40:58.160 --> 0:40:59.040
<v Speaker 3>everybody's like that.

0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:01.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was gonna say say not everyone can have

0:41:01.320 --> 0:41:03.399
<v Speaker 2>casual sex, and there are people who can and they're

0:41:03.440 --> 0:41:05.680
<v Speaker 2>just like, it's my body and I celebrate it and

0:41:05.680 --> 0:41:08.200
<v Speaker 2>I want to enjoy it with somebody else, right, But

0:41:08.280 --> 0:41:09.480
<v Speaker 2>there's also people.

0:41:09.200 --> 0:41:12.920
<v Speaker 4>That it can cause a lot of pain, pain, and

0:41:13.000 --> 0:41:16.319
<v Speaker 4>like there's a lot of emotional connection to it.

0:41:16.520 --> 0:41:20.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I think it's I think that if I

0:41:20.040 --> 0:41:22.680
<v Speaker 2>could encourage people, it's that if you are still a

0:41:22.760 --> 0:41:25.239
<v Speaker 2>virgin and you feel like you're behind in terms of

0:41:25.760 --> 0:41:29.799
<v Speaker 2>being comfortable sharing that or feeling confident in yourself, there's

0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 2>no time limit for.

0:41:30.960 --> 0:41:33.600
<v Speaker 4>What part of your body you share with somebody.

0:41:33.320 --> 0:41:35.439
<v Speaker 6>Else, or if you're not a virgin, Like I lost

0:41:35.480 --> 0:41:38.839
<v Speaker 6>my virginity at nineteen and I was having like after

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:41.000
<v Speaker 6>I broke up with this one boyfriend of mine, I

0:41:41.080 --> 0:41:43.839
<v Speaker 6>was like having unattached sex, and I felt so bad

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:46.879
<v Speaker 6>about myself, Like I hated that period. And I did

0:41:46.880 --> 0:41:50.239
<v Speaker 6>it because everybody told me just do it, say you

0:41:50.239 --> 0:41:51.680
<v Speaker 6>get over him, get under other people.

0:41:52.760 --> 0:41:54.080
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, that's not me.

0:41:54.520 --> 0:41:56.399
<v Speaker 6>And so that's when I decided. I was like, I'm

0:41:56.440 --> 0:41:59.959
<v Speaker 6>not having unattached sex anymore. I want to have sex

0:42:00.000 --> 0:42:03.320
<v Speaker 6>inside of a committed a relationship. And I waited for many,

0:42:03.320 --> 0:42:06.280
<v Speaker 6>many years, and like that, I think is so important

0:42:06.320 --> 0:42:09.319
<v Speaker 6>to recognize what's important to you, what feels right to you,

0:42:10.000 --> 0:42:12.120
<v Speaker 6>and you know, it doesn't matter what other people are doing.

0:42:12.920 --> 0:42:15.160
<v Speaker 2>I think it's just a very celebrated thing of like,

0:42:15.280 --> 0:42:17.840
<v Speaker 2>do what you want, there's no consequences, it's your body.

0:42:17.880 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 2>But I also think on the flip side there, it's

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:23.120
<v Speaker 2>okay to do it how you want to, regardless of

0:42:23.120 --> 0:42:25.359
<v Speaker 2>what that looks like. So I thought that was very

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:27.600
<v Speaker 2>insightful and I'm glad you shared that because I think

0:42:27.600 --> 0:42:29.160
<v Speaker 2>that people reading that will feel.

0:42:28.960 --> 0:42:33.880
<v Speaker 4>A lot better about or it feels interesting.

0:42:34.280 --> 0:42:36.520
<v Speaker 2>I think maybe people who are going through that and

0:42:36.560 --> 0:42:39.640
<v Speaker 2>maybe they're in their mid thirties and they're feeling behind

0:42:39.680 --> 0:42:42.279
<v Speaker 2>or whatever. Seeing someone who's in the public eye and

0:42:42.320 --> 0:42:45.759
<v Speaker 2>who's celebrity saying that that was her experience too, I

0:42:45.760 --> 0:42:46.760
<v Speaker 2>think is really encouraging.

0:42:46.800 --> 0:42:48.440
<v Speaker 6>I think so too. And you don't hear it often.

0:42:48.560 --> 0:42:56.320
<v Speaker 6>You don't so Rebel Wilson. Everybody can pick up that memoir.

0:42:56.040 --> 0:42:58.720
<v Speaker 3>Rebel Rising wherever you get your books.

0:43:01.560 --> 0:43:03.279
<v Speaker 2>Do we have time for an email or are we

0:43:04.120 --> 0:43:07.839
<v Speaker 2>pushing it? We're pushing it, all right, Dona pushing it.

0:43:08.600 --> 0:43:11.600
<v Speaker 2>We do have a Thursday episode this week. We're talking

0:43:11.600 --> 0:43:12.960
<v Speaker 2>to Alexia Umansky.

0:43:13.320 --> 0:43:15.880
<v Speaker 6>Yes, you may know her from buying Beverly Hills, the

0:43:15.920 --> 0:43:18.960
<v Speaker 6>show on Netflix. She is the daughter of Kyle Richards

0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:23.319
<v Speaker 6>and Mauricio Umanski, so we all know that that's been

0:43:23.360 --> 0:43:25.440
<v Speaker 6>in the headlines a lot lately. So we will be

0:43:25.520 --> 0:43:28.439
<v Speaker 6>chatting with her this Thursday, and we can't wait.

0:43:28.520 --> 0:43:30.920
<v Speaker 4>We can't wait. We love you so much, Love you Bye.