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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: Scrub Dub dub. I was very loud in my ears

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Speaker 3: mine too.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Sorry about that.

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Speaker 5: Happy Eclipse days clips of the Tanya and I went

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Speaker 5: out and washed the eclipse and our eyes feel weird.

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Speaker 3: My eyes actually feel weird, feels placebo, you think so.

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Speaker 5: I think you might be right.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I watched the same eclipse with you guys. In

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Speaker 1: My eyes feel fine right now.

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Speaker 5: So we from home.

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Speaker 6: But I used your glasses and I use somebody's paper glasses,

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Speaker 6: and I think maybe the paper glasses screwed me.

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Speaker 1: That'll happen.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, So what are you gonna do about that?

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Speaker 5: I think it's just because live it out.

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Speaker 4: To see what happens. Yeah, there's not much you can do.

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Speaker 2: No, but they did give us a lot of warning

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Speaker 2: is not to look at it, you know, directly, So

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Speaker 2: sometimes you have to just follow the rules.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Did you go see it? Becca?

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Speaker 2: No? I looked up and it was so bright, like, okay,

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Speaker 2: so I have I was trying to take a video and.

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Speaker 3: I was going on my tippy toes to get closer.

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Speaker 5: That's hilarious.

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Speaker 4: Sad, sad, there's something sad about.

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Speaker 1: It, also inspiring.

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Speaker 4: You're so close to the Yeah, about one inch closer.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I have skylights in my house, so the sun was

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Speaker 2: in direct you know view.

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Speaker 4: Are you bored by my story?

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Speaker 5: It's been a long morning. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: We'll get to market a minute. We're going to get

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Speaker 6: to market a minute.

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Speaker 4: But anyways, I looked at it and I was like,

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Speaker 4: that's very bright.

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Speaker 2: But I can't wait to see the photos that people

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Speaker 2: put like the Science Channel's posts, right right, Yeah, you're

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Speaker 2: not really one that has to see it, and.

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Speaker 5: You want to see in the path of totality anyway,

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Speaker 5: so we're not going to see much inspiring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gorgeous national geography.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, make sure you credit for this.

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Speaker 4: But okay, so are you having a manic Monday? Mark?

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Speaker 5: Wow, it's been a fine Monday's long. Mondays are long,

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Speaker 5: and Mondays are hard get back into it.

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Speaker 3: To me lately.

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Speaker 6: So we do a pitch meeting every morning after the

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Speaker 6: morning show. We go around pitch ideas, talk.

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Speaker 5: About the next day show.

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Speaker 4: What kind of stuffy?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so I'm all gung how excited about this? Beautiful

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Speaker 6: scrubber named Jenna that is trying to become a contestant

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Speaker 6: on Survivor and is really just putting her dreams out there.

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, I hope she gets on. I wish

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Speaker 5: you the best.

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Speaker 6: Save that crap for your podcast his words exactly.

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Speaker 5: I think that is. But the point is.

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Speaker 2: Your podcast is if you're not a part of right exactly,

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Speaker 2: and I like crap the leader.

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Speaker 4: Of the reels TikTok community.

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Speaker 5: Perhaps I put it a little harshly, but the point

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Speaker 5: was that I think that I hope she gets on

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Speaker 5: the show, and I wish you the best. I don't

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Speaker 5: think that the Ryan Seacrest Morning You Want KISSFM is

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Speaker 5: the best platform to be talking about her necessarily great

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Speaker 5: your podcast would be an ideal situation for that. So

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Speaker 5: that's all I was trying to say. I might have

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Speaker 5: put a little bluntly because I have such a close

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Speaker 5: with Tanya. After so many.

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Speaker 6: Years working, I pitched like three more ideas. I can't

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Speaker 6: remember what they were now at the moment.

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Speaker 5: But they weren't great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, take it for your podcast, I was.

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Speaker 2: Under I agree that that's more of a podcast topic.

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Speaker 2: I do agree, but I do think delivery is everything,

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Speaker 2: and I think you were in the wrong if you

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Speaker 2: said say that crap?

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Speaker 5: Did I not apologize to you? Afterwards?

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Speaker 6: I had to tell you. I said, I've been very

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Speaker 6: upset with you for the last hour, and so I

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Speaker 6: apologize and he apologized.

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Speaker 2: This is my biggest Haley and I argue about this

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Speaker 2: all the time because she's like, I can't read your mind.

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Speaker 2: I need you to communicate if I've done something that

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Speaker 2: enough to know that what you said needs an apology?

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Speaker 3: Exactly? Mark, How do you not know me well enough to.

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Speaker 4: Know together longer than me and Haley have been together.

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Speaker 3: Exactly that it deserves an apology.

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Speaker 5: You and I have a different kind of relationship. Though

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't say something like that to other people on.

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Speaker 2: The staff, nobody else on this shot and make it

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Speaker 2: seem like an endearing.

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Speaker 5: It is an endearing thing. You and I are close

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Speaker 5: enough to just be with each other.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, All right, well that's okay.

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Speaker 2: Like everyone has tough Monday mornings, you know, Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: And I had to tell them. I was like, I've

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Speaker 3: been upset with you for the last hour.

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Speaker 4: Oh Wow, you know you were holding it.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't sitting in my chair.

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Speaker 5: That's why you left the room.

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Speaker 3: Yes, what really?

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Speaker 6: Not really?

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Speaker 5: That seems harsh. We I thought we I thought there

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Speaker 5: was an olive branch.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we squashed it.

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Speaker 6: There was an hour there where I was fuming, fuming,

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Speaker 6: left the room, left the room, took an extra on

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Speaker 3: Actually, I spoke to Easton for a while during that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we had a nice little chat, Yeah, chatting about Mark.

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Speaker 1: Tony comes over, She's like, I really hate Mark today,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, me too, have a seat.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm just kidding me.

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding Mark. I would never say that we're

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Speaker 1: talking about weddings.

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Speaker 5: So when I got upset, I talked to Easton too.

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Speaker 5: He's always uplifting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's true, that's true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but we were. We really were just talking about weddings.

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Speaker 4: Now, Oh, speaking of what did you do your pinteress board?

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Speaker 3: It's a lot harder.

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Speaker 6: To do a Pinterest board than one woe thing. But yes,

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Speaker 6: I have started my pinteress board.

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Speaker 4: What was hard about it?

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Speaker 6: I didn't realize I did have one that was made

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Speaker 6: from like twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very own brand, right, so probably hated some Yes,

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Speaker 2: make some things I have like.

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Speaker 6: A A I don't even know I had some weird

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Speaker 2: I might need you to pull up some of the

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Speaker 2: images or you had from twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 3: I could do that.

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Speaker 6: I can find that. I'm having a hard time finding

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm so confused because in my mind.

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Speaker 6: But yes, I have updated my Pinterest board. But now

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Speaker 6: I'm kind of stuck a little bit because there's one

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Speaker 6: potential where we could be doing our wedding outdoors in

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Speaker 6: a backyard or in a ballroom, two very different spaces.

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Speaker 6: So I'm like having a hard time with my vision

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Speaker 6: because the vision is very different in a ballroom than

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Speaker 6: it is in a backyard, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, is your Pinterest to public situation?

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Speaker 3: Should probably?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I can't imagine I've made a private Why

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I can't. Oh, okay, maybe maybe Anya

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Speaker 5: Brad is it pinterest dot com slash Tanya rad.

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Speaker 3: I have no idea.

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Speaker 5: Nope, it's not. Nobody else has that. Not you has that?

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Speaker 3: Are you sure? It's not me.

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Speaker 4: It muld be an impostor shout.

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Speaker 5: Out to Tanyadeva.

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Speaker 4: Oh a different vibe.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, so anyways, that's why I'm just stuck in

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Speaker 2: When do you think you're going to make that decision

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Speaker 2: if it's going to be in a ballroom or out.

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Speaker 6: So here's the thing. When you have a wedding, you're

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Speaker 2: No, this is not the same because I am not

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Speaker 2: someone who's dreamed about getting married and having a wedding.

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Speaker 2: I think everyone thought you would have this literally planned

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Speaker 6: I think the problem is I can't make a decision

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Speaker 6: because like, so, if we do it in the backyard,

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Speaker 6: which is where we want to do it, our guest

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Speaker 3: People that we would really want to invite.

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Speaker 4: If you do it in the backyard, correct, Okay.

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Speaker 3: So the number is a lot smaller than we thought.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I kind of like, actually really want

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Speaker 5: But sorry I spelled it wrong. It is pintries dot

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Speaker 5: com slash Tanya Rad twelve years ago. People I can't

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Speaker 5: There are only three of them on here. Can you

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Speaker 5: name the three people Tanya could not get enough of

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Speaker 5: in the year twenty twelve.

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Speaker 4: I'm not in college.

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Speaker 5: I don't know you were here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna say maybe the guy from what One Republic,

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Speaker 5: That's an excellent guest. However, no, no John Mayer either.

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Speaker 4: Who were you? I didn't know you in twenty twelve?

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Speaker 4: Who was popular?

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Speaker 6: These are?

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Speaker 5: When I say these, you're gonna be like, oh yeah, okay, hold.

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Speaker 3: On, Oh really it makes sense?

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Speaker 5: Oka oprah Nope.

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Speaker 4: Can you give me men or women?

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Speaker 5: I got two men and a woman.

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Speaker 3: Even I don't know I made what genre they like?

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Speaker 4: Where? What category?

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Speaker 5: The women? Should be easy to our music? One is

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Speaker 5: a film actor or TV actor.

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Speaker 3: Matthew mcconaugh.

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Speaker 5: No Taylor Swift, No, no tailors, No, no Beyonce?

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Speaker 3: Who is she?

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Speaker 4: The woman?

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Speaker 1: But the lone woman should be easy?

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Speaker 5: You look up so he can't guess it should be

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Speaker 5: easy easy, Yes, because of me, because I love her still. Yes,

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Speaker 5: you love two of these people you never stopped talking

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Speaker 5: about back then, Shakira. No, all right, here's the two

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Speaker 5: of them dated each other.

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Speaker 3: Oh a couple, John legends.

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Speaker 1: So much confidence.

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Speaker 5: I remember this. You were heartbroken when these two broke up.

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Speaker 5: It was like the end of the world.

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Speaker 5: You have a Pinterests board called work it Out. There's

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Speaker 5: You have favorite places and spaces.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like can I There's a there's one called books

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Speaker 5: And then I see the stuff you put for your wedding,

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Speaker 4: And a Blonde.

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Speaker 4: Kind of like me and you, literally me and you.

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Speaker 2: But they're from a show that started this here, podcast

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Speaker 2: Scrubbing in Grey's Anatomy. Correct, And that is Camilla Luddington

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Speaker 6: Yeah, or maybe they could be under our umbrella. That

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Speaker 6: Scrubbing In umbrella. Does nobody else think that's genius? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I don't see anyone going for that aside from us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is their podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, we're We've been desperately trying to get Jessica

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Speaker 4: But I was like, I'm so invested.

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Speaker 6: We love Camilla, We love I do think that she

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Speaker 4: I just think that every single person who.

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Speaker 4: We'll pitch it, we'll pitch it.

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Speaker 3: Why not.

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Speaker 2: right right right, But I don't feel like that's going

456
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Speaker 2: to be permanent. I think I could be invested. You

457
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Speaker 2: know what irks me a little bit about what Grey's

458
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Speaker 2: Anatomy does.

459
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:49,560
Speaker 5: What.

460
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,600
Speaker 2: I don't know the doctor's names yet, the new doctor's

461
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:55,439
Speaker 2: names too have.

462
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 5: I call it little Shepherd, and I don't know what

463
00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:58,440
Speaker 5: is actually a.

464
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:01,359
Speaker 2: Little shepherd and the girl, but he has the back

465
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 2: and forth relations.

466
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 3: She's the new Gray.

467
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 5: Yes, you Suda, I know you, Suda.

468
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, we have you, Suda.

469
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 2: But little well, I'll call her little Gray and he's

470
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Speaker 2: a little shepherd.

471
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 5: Little Gray is the one that he they slept together

472
00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,360
Speaker 5: when she was about to go get married. Yes, okay.

473
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:22,400
Speaker 2: And I hate that they drag out a back and

474
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:35,640
Speaker 2: forth for so long. They did it with Joe and.

475
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 4: They did it with Owen and Amelia.

476
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Speaker 5: I did have that thought watching this most recent episode

477
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 5: when she was but she she was like, I don't

478
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 5: want to see you anymore. Get out of my life.

479
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 5: I'm like, you know, I guess we got to just

480
00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:48,800
Speaker 5: go through this. Yeah, there's got to be conflict. But

481
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,360
Speaker 5: I hear you. I hear what you're saying. Yeah.

482
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 2: Anyway, it's the younger generation and we're watching them come up.

483
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Speaker 7: Question.

484
00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:00,359
Speaker 6: Yes, do we know what the podcast is going to

485
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 6: be about? Is are they going to rewatch Grays like

486
00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 6: a rewatch podcast.

487
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 5: I don't know that either.

488
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, what are you good for him?

489
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 5: I to work on it. But we'll see.

490
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know that's what I'm saying. I thought

491
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:09,680
Speaker 3: you would have some answer.

492
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:14,280
Speaker 6: I don't have any, because that would be interesting if

493
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 6: they rewatched from season one episode one.

494
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 5: Yes, interesting.

495
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 2: I would absolutely listen to that. Told the journey with them, yeah,

496
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 2: from the beginning.

497
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Speaker 5: Would they be better doing that or should they get

498
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,400
Speaker 5: like some of the ogs to do that podcast?

499
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Speaker 3: Well, just get Capshaw's pretty o g.

500
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Speaker 2: No, she's season five though, so I mean she's not

501
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,720
Speaker 2: She's as og as as.

502
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 3: They can get.

503
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Speaker 6: I mean, Christina Yang's not doing it, not doing it,

504
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 6: not doing it?

505
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 5: Hold lot doing? Is he super busy right now? We

506
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 5: don't really know what podcast.

507
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't know why he ever left.

508
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 3: So when I could see doing it would be uh, George, George.

509
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 4: Could wait, I don't see him doing that George O'Malley.

510
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I could see George.

511
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 4: Do you love for him too? I just don't after.

512
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 3: Maybe Miranda Bailey. Yeah, anyways, I bet.

513
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 2: They'll have Ellen Pompeo as their first guest. I'm gonna

514
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 2: make a guess to do. That's why they should be

515
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 2: under That's what Joey the Bachelor and Kelsey, who he

516
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 2: chose at the end just posted with Ellen Pompeo at

517
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 2: this Hulu party?

518
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 3: Really yeah, why did we go to the Hulu party?

519
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 4: We don't get invited, Tanya, did you get invited?

520
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 3: I don't know.

521
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,639
Speaker 4: I didn't, which is okay.

522
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 2: It's a younger generation speaking of I've made a decision

523
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 2: to lean into being a millennial god because thank you,

524
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: oh wow, thank you so much. You know, there's a

525
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 2: lot of pressure when it comes to social media in general,

526
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 2: but I have found that, especially being on TikTok, it's

527
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 2: like leaning in towards what gen Z.

528
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 4: Likes, and so I've really tried to listen to that.

529
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 2: But I also, and I'm not saying I'm not going

530
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 2: to do that, but I'm not going to try to

531
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: be gen Zan to listen to what they have to say.

532
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 4: I want to hear what.

533
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 2: They're doing, what the young kids are doing, but I

534
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 2: don't need to make that me.

535
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something.

536
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 2: You're a You're a millennial to to the core, and

537
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 2: I'm I don't know that I'm leaning in that much

538
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 2: to my millennial as much as you lean into your millennial.

539
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 4: But I'm I'm leaning in more than I have been.

540
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 6: Let me tell you something, about it, Tilly, come over

541
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 6: to the dark side, because it is so nice just

542
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 6: to be who you are, just.

543
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,920
Speaker 4: Be not I am who I am.

544
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 2: But I also think there's I think the people who

545
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 2: are are aware of what younger people are doing and

546
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 2: learning new things. I think that's how you stay younger mentally.

547
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 3: So so young mentally, couldn't be younger mentally. I've got

548
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 3: the rich.

549
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 2: Trying to on our on our call that we do

550
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 2: weekly for the podcast, Tanya is trying to say that

551
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 2: she has RIZ.

552
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 5: You do not have RIZ, but it's very sweet that

553
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:13,360
Speaker 5: you think that you do. First of all, ooz, No,

554
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 5: if you had RIZ, you wouldn't have needed half of

555
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,360
Speaker 5: our staff to be texting Robbie in the first when

556
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 5: you first matched on Hinge.

557
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 3: Well no, so.

558
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 5: Just could do it themselves.

559
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 6: No, so, RIZ doesn't translate to online dating.

560
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 2: I don't mean to interrupt, but can you tell me

561
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 2: your definition of risk?

562
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 3: The basic charisma? Charisma?

563
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:48,360
Speaker 4: Okay, so, okay, just charisma is there.

564
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 5: I think it's a specific type of charisma. I think

565
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,119
Speaker 5: it's more like it's like a combination of charisma and game.

566
00:25:54,480 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 6: Yes, I have game, guys.

567
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 4: What do you mean you have game?

568
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 3: I have game, Tony.

569
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 2: This whole podcast, for like majority before you met Robbie

570
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 2: was not about was about you not having games.

571
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 3: Which is the best game. That's the best game is

572
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 3: not having game.

573
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 4: It's just me.

574
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 3: That's how Gamy. I am Gamey Gamy.

575
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're now claiming that you have which which

576
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: ultimately is you not having game.

577
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 4: Correct.

578
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 3: It's like the double bluff and Traders.

579
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: You know.

580
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,439
Speaker 2: It reminds me of how when I ask you to

581
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 2: explain something and you just repeat what you said without

582
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 2: explaining to me.

583
00:26:55,280 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 3: What I think we all have on this show. No.

584
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 4: No, I that you have charm. I think you're charming

585
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 4: and charismatic, yes, Riz, but I don't think you have game. No,

586
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 4: And I don't think that's a negative.

587
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 5: By having Sierra text him for a week before you Actually.

588
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 2: No, so your game is bringing in others who have game, right,

589
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 2: I mean, you know whatever it takes.

590
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 5: For lack of game, which is adjustment you've made.

591
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 3: It just depends on your perspective, truly.

592
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 1: See, I don't think Tanya with a little respect, I

593
00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,719
Speaker 1: don't think Tany has game. But I just looked at

594
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: the etymology of Riz. I didn't realize it comes from charisma,

595
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 1: which I would say you have you're when people.

596
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So the younger genera gen Z and younger I

597
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:00,080
Speaker 2: think riz is more, you have game.

598
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 5: It's it's more.

599
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 4: I don't think the younger kids like she's got charisma.

600
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 3: Right, do you think you have RIZ?

601
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 4: I think I can have RIZ.

602
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 3: You don't think you use it. I think you use it.

603
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 2: I don't like the word ooze personally, Riz and ooze

604
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 2: together is too many.

605
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 4: Za's No.

606
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 5: I don't know Becca well enough in terms of like,

607
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 5: I haven't been out in social events with you, out

608
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 5: in the wild when you're single to know if you

609
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 5: have RIZ or not. Yeah, Tanya, we know.

610
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 3: Let me tell you something to you can have RIZ

611
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 3: inside a relationship.

612
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 5: See, I think you're you're you're customizing the definition of

613
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 5: RIZ to fit your personality.

614
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm. And that's fine.

615
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: But we're talking about the generalization of the word and

616
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: term RIZ, not what you have made.

617
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 4: RIZ in your life.

618
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

619
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 2: I like to do that very millennial. But you do

620
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 2: have future step children who are alpha.

621
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 4: I think Jen Alfa jen alpha, and I need to know.

622
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 4: I need you to ask them.

623
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 3: If I have Yes, they're gonna say yeah, no, they're not.

624
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:16,239
Speaker 3: I'll let you know.

625
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, let me know, but I need video proof. I

626
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 4: don't want to you're.

627
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 3: Gonna tell me you can get it.

628
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 2: Wow, I can't wait to see that cut up of

629
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 2: Mark saying you do not have he.

630
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 5: Riz the episode were told she wasn't cool. I remember

631
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 5: that episode.

632
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 4: I was reliving that too during that conversation, like the.

633
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 5: Best of episode for just a second. Thing.

634
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know what, everybody has that delusional friend and Hi,

635
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 6: it's me.

636
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 5: That's fine.

637
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 3: Problem it's me.

638
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 4: But you know this about yourself, which I think is

639
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 4: your charm.

640
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 5: We were in the car yesterday with my daughter and

641
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 5: her friend, who are gen z, and I'm the problem.

642
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 5: It's me. Anti Hero came on the Taylor Swift channel

643
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 5: on the radio and that was and they were just like,

644
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 5: I don't like this song. It's just so god high

645
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 5: on the problem. It's me. And then at the exact

646
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 5: same time that they both said, God, it's just so millennial.

647
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 5: And then they're like, laugh that they just said it

648
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 5: at the exact same time. Anyway, it is my joy

649
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 5: watching my gen zs mock you millennials for being lame.

650
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 5: It is so funny to me. It is endlessly entertaining.

651
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think it's because I'm so long.

652
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 5: It's so fun to watch the next generation become.

653
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 4: Lame and then gen Z is gonna be lame to

654
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 4: jen Alpha. It's just part of life, yes, exactly. So

655
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 4: that's why.

656
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, I need I like being self aware of

657
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 2: my millennialism, but also open to.

658
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 3: The possibility, attached the alcohol.

659
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 2: What gen Z is saying and talking about and listening

660
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 2: and appreciating their input, engaging a little, but not attached

661
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 2: to needing to be gen Z.

662
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 6: That's huge, that's huge. I'm so glad you're on the

663
00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 6: other side.

664
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 4: It's all see these girls.

665
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:02,959
Speaker 2: I'll be scrolling TikTok and this girl's like, here are

666
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 2: my skin tips and she's like twenty two with flaw

667
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 2: like no pores, and I'm.

668
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,479
Speaker 4: Like, okay, okay, I just need these products. And I'm like,

669
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 4: this is not a product thing.

670
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: This is you.

671
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah literally, I know, and it'd be like that, Yeah

672
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 3: that's the problem.

673
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 4: Yeah it is. But the main message that I'm trying

674
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 4: to say here is be attached to the possibility.

675
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 6: I mean open to the possibility, not attached to the outcome.

676
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 4: Right, So thank you all. For listening to your ted talk.

677
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 6: Yes, I'm excited about it. I can't wait to see

678
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 6: this new millennial.

679
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 4: I don't know if anything's going to change. It's more

680
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 4: of an internal.

681
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 3: Oh the freedom I'm gonna feel from you, palpable.

682
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 5: We need to talk about Tanya's packed. Yes, and we

683
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 5: have audio to play as well.

684
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 2: Okay, crazy is it her weird voice a little bit?

685
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 4: Yeah? I love the weird voice, Donya.

686
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 5: I mean it's higher.

687
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, you have What what were you saying?

688
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 6: I'll tell you this is if anybody out there is

689
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 6: looking for the one, this might be why you haven't

690
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 6: found them.

691
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, what a teaser. We'll be right back.

692
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,959
Speaker 4: All right, we're back. You were very excited to share something.

693
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 6: So you were talking about this marriage pact from Blake

694
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 6: Blake from The Bachelor what's his last name?

695
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 3: Moins?

696
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 4: Who was talking about this and our pitch.

697
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 3: Meeting or like in our meeting that we have with

698
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 3: Sam every week?

699
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 4: Who oh oh.

700
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, we talked about it.

701
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Blake and Natalie from Love is Blind Yeah, Blake

702
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 2: from the Bachelor, Natalie from Love is blinde.

703
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't know his last name?

704
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 5: Yeah?

705
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, So Blake Moins from The.

706
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 6: Bachelor and Natalie Lee from Love Is Blind have a

707
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 6: marriage packed. Basically, if they're not married by whatever age,

708
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 6: then they will get married. Okay, and I too made

709
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 6: one of those when I was younger. How old I

710
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 6: think I was twenty three at the time, twenty three,

711
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 6: twenty four, okay, maybe twenty five. And I made it

712
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 6: with this guy named Andy, who was our engineer at

713
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 6: the time on the Morning show. If we weren't married

714
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 6: by the age of forty, we would Mary.

715
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 5: I think he was younger than that. But let's listen back,

716
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 5: shall we. Yeah, November one, twenty nineteen, this is when

717
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,959
Speaker 5: we called Andy about it. But here Ryan sets up

718
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 5: the premise.

719
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 2: We have a packed, So you have a pack that

720
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 2: if you're not with somebody or married in how many

721
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 2: years by.

722
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 6: The time I'm thirty three, so I have, so you

723
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 6: have for about six years.

724
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing. I think Andy is attractive.

725
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 5: Andy, come here for a second. Thank you.

726
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 4: He is a good looking guy, and you think he's smart.

727
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 3: I think he's attractive and smart, and I do think

728
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,480
Speaker 3: he's nice. Yeah, but we work together.

729
00:33:59,560 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 4: So that's.

730
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 5: Sorry. So that was the original. That was the original

731
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 5: talk of the pact and I don't have a date

732
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 5: on that.

733
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 3: That's fine.

734
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 6: So that was a pack that I made when I

735
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 6: was doing calling. In the one my workbook, it basically

736
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 6: one of the whole chapters was about going through these

737
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 6: packs that you made and dissolving them because they're basically

738
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 6: telling the universe I'm good, I don't need your I

739
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 6: don't need you anymore because I'm good, I made a pact.

740
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 6: I'm going to get married to this person if I'm

741
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 6: not married by thirty three.

742
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 5: That was June fifteen, So.

743
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 6: You're sending out these signals that you don't need that

744
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 6: in your life. I called Andy, this guy who meanwhile

745
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 6: in this very moment has like a girlfriend that he's

746
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 6: had a serious girlfriend for like how many years?

747
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 3: He's married now he's married now.

748
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, so he's not thinking about the pact. But I

749
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 6: had to call him to dissolve our marriage pact.

750
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 5: This was November one, twenty nineteen, And let me get

751
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 5: Andy online. Andy, how are you?

752
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

753
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 5: I got it?

754
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 3: So Andy.

755
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 6: I'm working through this workbook and it's basically how to

756
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 6: call in the love of my life. And I one

757
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:01,799
Speaker 6: of the practices was if you've made any sort of

758
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 6: agreements in your past marriage agreements that you need to

759
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 6: really phone in on why you made that agreement and

760
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 6: then call that person to dissolve the agreement. So I

761
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 6: wrote it down. Okay, I made a marriage packed with

762
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 6: my coworker Andy. I made this pack from a place

763
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 6: of doubt and fear. This is not the marriage that

764
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 6: I want. I want to dissolve the pack because I'm

765
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 6: removing all the obstacles. I have, all the obstacles that

766
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 6: I've subconsciously put in my way. I want to clear

767
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 6: the space to call in the one I love and

768
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 6: I know that I deserve.

769
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:34,799
Speaker 5: So are you breaking up with them?

770
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 2: Okay?

771
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 6: So that was November one, twenty nineteen. And when did

772
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 6: I meet Robbie Yadegar?

773
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 2: Oh?

774
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 3: November fifth, twenty nineteen.

775
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 4: Wow, oh wow. I don't think you would have met

776
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 4: him if you hadn't dissolved it.

777
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 6: I don't think so either, Yeah, because that would have

778
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:57,440
Speaker 6: been in the universe and I didn't need to meet him.

779
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I blocked it. Well that's of power.

780
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. So, Blake Moins and Natalie Lee, if you're listening.

781
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 4: Should we call them?

782
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 2: Should?

783
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,479
Speaker 3: I want you to know that the marriage Packed might

784
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 3: not be.

785
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 6: The best move if they're looking, if they're really for

786
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 6: the one for the one.

787
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, it's really interesting.

788
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 2: You've had people message you and say they did the

789
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 2: workbook and then they met their person.

790
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:23,439
Speaker 3: Correct.

791
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 4: I've seen no negative in this journey.

792
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 3: I'm with you.

793
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 4: If people are willing to do the.

794
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 2: Work and dissolve the packs and read and do homework,

795
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 2: I see no issue with it.

796
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,479
Speaker 6: Yeah, do you spend that timing to be crazy? November first?

797
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 6: I called off my uh.

798
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,160
Speaker 2: I also think though, that you believe in the invisible

799
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,440
Speaker 2: string theory, which means that you and Robbie would have

800
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 2: connected either way. So these are conflicting thoughts that I

801
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 2: need you to pick aside. Were you all invisible string

802
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 2: or was Did you call him in because you've dissolved

803
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 2: your pack?

804
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 3: You can't. It's like you never know, you can't know.

805
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:07,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they don't align, you know. I've stumped her, y'all.

806
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 2: She's petting the desk, she's wiping away an invisible surface.

807
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:19,800
Speaker 3: So have you ever talked.

808
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 4: To Andy since that? No, he's like, hey, yeah again.

809
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 6: I think he's like, I'm happily married, please lose my number.

810
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like straight up.

811
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 5: Oh, jeez.

812
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, he's like, I haven't thought about that in fifteen years.

813
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 3: But it's fine. So anyways, all right, marriage packs don't

814
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 3: make them.

815
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,919
Speaker 5: And great work book.

816
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:45,839
Speaker 3: Great work book.

817
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 6: Although I found out recently that the one who wrote

818
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 6: that book is divorced.

819
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 4: It happens like that sometimes.

820
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 2: Really, there was a guy who like started all the

821
00:37:55,120 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 2: gay conversion therapies, like he was super religious, and you

822
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 2: know which started these camps or kids would go and

823
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 2: they would like basically.

824
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 4: Beat the gay out of them. I don't know, Oh

825
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 4: my gosh, this is a real thing. People go to

826
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 4: conversion therapy. It's real.

827
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 2: But he was one of the ones that started it,

828
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 2: and now he is married to a man.

829
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 5: Well that's how it always happens, these people, these politicians.

830
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 5: The more anti gay they are, the more gay they

831
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 5: tend to become.

832
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 2: I've gone to the point where if someone says something homophobic,

833
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: if they take the time to say something homophobic online,

834
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 2: I just assume that they're battling their own.

835
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 4: Issues, because why do you care?

836
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 2: Like I think I I cared very heavily about that

837
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 2: because I think maybe deep down I was like maybe

838
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,399
Speaker 2: I'm you know.

839
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 6: Really you cared heavily about it, and your head was

840
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 6: like super Christian religious.

841
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 2: I grew up with like that's bad, don't do that.

842
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 2: So I think I projected a lot. And now when

843
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 2: I see other people do it, I go, maybe they're

844
00:38:53,280 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 2: struggling with their own sexuality anyways, that but yeah, yeah,

845
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,399
Speaker 2: so anyways, was there anything else?

846
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 4: Are we done? I have like more to.

847
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 3: Talk about, but are we We're not done?

848
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 4: When you talk about no, I was going to talk about.

849
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 2: Well, Rebel Wilson had a she released her.

850
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 4: Memoir memoir memoir, Rebel Rising.

851
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 5: Yeah it was really correctly by the way Becca memoir, Yeah.

852
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 4: Oh I really. Yeah's always told me I say it wrong?

853
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 4: Was that you? Anyway? Rebel Rising?

854
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 2: And she revealed that she lost her virginity at thirty five,

855
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 2: which in our society today is like ancient.

856
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know.

857
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,799
Speaker 2: And I was talking about this on our call. I

858
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 2: was saying that when I was on the Bachelor, it

859
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,720
Speaker 2: really struggled because I was on the Bachelor with Caitlin

860
00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 2: Bristow and she was very like open and comfortable with

861
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 2: her sexuality in terms of being very sexual and you know,

862
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 2: comfortable with that and especially as the bachelorette. And I

863
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 2: remember that I would get a lot of negativity. For

864
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 2: I would get a lot of positivity about being a virgin,

865
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 2: but I got a lot of negativity about it too.

866
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 2: But people would defend Caitlin and be like who cares

867
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 2: how like who she slept with or what she does

868
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 2: with her body, Like you know, I saw people defending that,

869
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 2: and then I would get so much hate for still

870
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 2: being a virgin, and it was like, where is why

871
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 2: are we not talking in the same way about It's saving.

872
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 6: Crazy to me that people get so much hate for

873
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 6: being a virgin, Like I don't understand where that comes from.

874
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 2: Like the same concept though, like it's your body, so

875
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 2: you get to choose what you do with your body.

876
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 6: And I think the problem is I think our society

877
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 6: is so gong ho on the other way, like in

878
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 6: terms of pushing the just.

879
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 3: Have sex, have fun, you're young, be free, do what

880
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 3: you want. Yeah, live it up. And I'm like, not

881
00:40:58,160 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: everybody's like that.

882
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was gonna say say not everyone can have

883
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:03,399
Speaker 2: casual sex, and there are people who can and they're

884
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 2: just like, it's my body and I celebrate it and

885
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 2: I want to enjoy it with somebody else, right, But

886
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 2: there's also people.

887
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 4: That it can cause a lot of pain, pain, and

888
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 4: like there's a lot of emotional connection to it.

889
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think it's I think that if I

890
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 2: could encourage people, it's that if you are still a

891
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 2: virgin and you feel like you're behind in terms of

892
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 2: being comfortable sharing that or feeling confident in yourself, there's

893
00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 2: no time limit for.

894
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 4: What part of your body you share with somebody.

895
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:35,439
Speaker 6: Else, or if you're not a virgin, Like I lost

896
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 6: my virginity at nineteen and I was having like after

897
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 6: I broke up with this one boyfriend of mine, I

898
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 6: was like having unattached sex, and I felt so bad

899
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 6: about myself, Like I hated that period. And I did

900
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 6: it because everybody told me just do it, say you

901
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 6: get over him, get under other people.

902
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 3: And I was like, that's not me.

903
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Speaker 6: And so that's when I decided. I was like, I'm

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Speaker 6: not having unattached sex anymore. I want to have sex

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Speaker 6: inside of a committed a relationship. And I waited for many,

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Speaker 6: many years, and like that, I think is so important

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Speaker 6: to recognize what's important to you, what feels right to you,

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Speaker 6: and you know, it doesn't matter what other people are doing.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just a very celebrated thing of like,

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Speaker 2: do what you want, there's no consequences, it's your body.

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Speaker 2: But I also think on the flip side there, it's

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Speaker 2: okay to do it how you want to, regardless of

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Speaker 2: what that looks like. So I thought that was very

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Speaker 2: insightful and I'm glad you shared that because I think

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Speaker 2: that people reading that will feel.

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Speaker 4: A lot better about or it feels interesting.

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Speaker 2: I think maybe people who are going through that and

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Speaker 2: maybe they're in their mid thirties and they're feeling behind

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Speaker 2: or whatever. Seeing someone who's in the public eye and

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Speaker 2: who's celebrity saying that that was her experience too, I

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Speaker 2: think is really encouraging.

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Speaker 6: I think so too. And you don't hear it often.

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Speaker 6: You don't so Rebel Wilson. Everybody can pick up that memoir.

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Speaker 3: Rebel Rising wherever you get your books.

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Speaker 2: Do we have time for an email or are we

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Speaker 2: pushing it? We're pushing it, all right, Dona pushing it.

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Speaker 2: We do have a Thursday episode this week. We're talking

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Speaker 2: to Alexia Umansky.

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Speaker 6: Yes, you may know her from buying Beverly Hills, the

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Speaker 6: show on Netflix. She is the daughter of Kyle Richards

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Speaker 6: and Mauricio Umanski, so we all know that that's been

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Speaker 6: in the headlines a lot lately. So we will be

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Speaker 6: chatting with her this Thursday, and we can't wait.

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Speaker 4: We can't wait. We love you so much, Love you Bye.