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Speaker 1: The Jubile Show on demand.

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Speaker 2: First day follow Who is on the phone today for

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Speaker 2: a first date follow up? He's getting ghosted by a

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Speaker 2: woman named Jess, and we're gonna see if we can

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Speaker 2: have him out. What's up, drewe How are you?

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, thanks for taking my car. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no problem, man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So I went on this first date with this girl, Jess.

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Speaker 4: You know, I met her recently and we went out,

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Speaker 4: and you know, she told me her she was into basketball.

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm into basketball, so you know I wasn't

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Speaker 4: going to take her to the court on the first day.

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Speaker 3: That's much.

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Speaker 4: Well, what I did is I took her to an

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Speaker 4: arcade that had like, you know, they had the basketball

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Speaker 4: hoops there that you can just like shoots that we

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Speaker 4: played that, we played a bunch of other games, you know,

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Speaker 4: air hockey stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: Ended up making it out by the motorcycle game. You know,

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Speaker 3: it's pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: Oh sweet, what happened?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, everything was good.

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Speaker 4: We you know, end of the night with a few

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Speaker 4: beers and you know, some advertisers, some wings and stuff

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Speaker 4: like that, and I, you know, ind of the night,

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Speaker 4: I took her home. I walked her door door door.

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Speaker 4: We kissed a little bit more, and I thought I

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Speaker 4: had I thought we had a great night. She said

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Speaker 4: she had a great night.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 4: We had a great night, and so I was expecting

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Speaker 4: a second date to come around. But now, yeah, she's

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Speaker 4: not returning my calls or my text messages or anything that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It's been over a week, and I figured, you know,

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Speaker 4: did I do something wrong?

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Speaker 3: Like I thought we were having a great jove and

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Speaker 3: now I'm feeling I'm getting ghosted here?

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Speaker 5: Is there anything that could have happened during the date,

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Speaker 5: Like are you super competitive?

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Speaker 3: I mean I was like, you know, just joking around

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Speaker 3: and you know, like screaming air ball every time you

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Speaker 3: throw it.

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Speaker 4: But that is I mean at one point, you know,

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Speaker 4: when I was paying the bill, she I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know, called me out for leaving a big tip.

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Speaker 4: I don't I used to, you know, serving Barton when

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Speaker 4: I was in college. So you know, when people take

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Speaker 4: good care of me, I take good care of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: She dropped something like I tipped like thirty percent and

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Speaker 4: she's like, oh, you're just throwing away my I mean

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Speaker 4: though that line was kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: To me, kind of off.

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Speaker 4: But I don't know if maybe she's a little conservative

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Speaker 4: with her spendings.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know. I take care of my own.

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Speaker 5: That wasn't a red flag to you. Yeah wow.

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Speaker 3: I mean I didn't really see it that way, you know,

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Speaker 3: at the moment.

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Speaker 4: I mean I just thought, you know, okay, she was

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Speaker 4: a little more conservative, But I didn't think anymore than

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Speaker 2: People not get a call not get a call back

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Speaker 2: when they've been a terrible tip yeah, not for being

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Speaker 2: a good tipperson.

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Speaker 4: It's like it's one thing that's stingy and another thing

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Speaker 4: to be over generous. And I feel like I'm lighting

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Speaker 4: somewhere in the middle.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 5: I hate to even jump to this conclusion, but the

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Speaker 5: only other thing that ever crosses my mind when you

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Speaker 5: hear about people that did make out on a date

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Speaker 5: and not get a call back, it's like, was it

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Speaker 5: something there with the chemistry? Like are you just not

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Speaker 5: a good kisser? I know I've said that before, but

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Speaker 5: I've never.

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Speaker 3: Gotten any complaints on my kissing style. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I had bad brass or something. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea, So did she talk to you

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Speaker 2: at all after your day?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 4: That's the thing, is that, like I haven't been in

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Speaker 4: touch with her since that one date, and which is,

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Speaker 4: like I said, so random and weird to me because

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Speaker 3: I thought there was a spark. I thought maybe I

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Speaker 3: thought there was chemistry.

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Speaker 2: How long has it been since you talked to her?

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Speaker 4: It's been like a it's like a week and a half,

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Speaker 4: I guess. I mean, if something did come up in

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Speaker 4: her life, I mean I kind of feel like she'd

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Speaker 4: have time to deal with it by now and at

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Speaker 4: least return text or something.

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Speaker 2: You know, how many times have you reached out to her?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I will text her in the morning, you know, just

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Speaker 4: you know, a little good morning text. No response when

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Speaker 4: I know she's at work and I'm like, hope we

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Speaker 4: have having a good day at work. No response, and

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Speaker 4: then I'll call her, you know at night. She if

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Speaker 4: everything's signed, goes straight to avoid Drew.

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Speaker 2: You're using like you're not using past tense words. Are

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Speaker 2: you still texting her that right now? Like a week

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Speaker 2: and a half later.

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Speaker 3: I mean I've lightened up, but still okay, good?

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Speaker 5: I mean been texting her every morning and calling her

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Speaker 5: every night.

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Speaker 4: No, no, I'm trying to be like creeper like that,

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Speaker 4: but you know it's kind of like, hey, thinking about you,

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Speaker 4: kind of shooting it out there, balls in your court, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, right right?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, a good one. Well, we'll try

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Speaker 2: to figure it out for you, man. We'll play a

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Speaker 2: song come back, and then call her and see if

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Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and get you

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Speaker 2: another date if you still want one with your first

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Speaker 2: day follow up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: All right, plaus I'll come back get your first day

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Speaker 2: follow up next. In the middle of your first day

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Speaker 2: follow up if you're just joining us, Drew is on

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Speaker 2: the phone, and Drew might not be getting a call

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Speaker 2: back because he's a good tipper. I don't think that's

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Speaker 2: the reason, Drew. But we're about to call the woman

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Speaker 2: that Drew went on a date with named Jess and

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Speaker 2: see why she's ghosting him and see if we can

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Speaker 2: get him another date. In just a second, but first, Drew,

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Speaker 2: refresh everybody's memory about your date with Jess.

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Speaker 3: Well, I took her out to a little arcade. We

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Speaker 3: take a little hoops there.

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Speaker 4: We had a great time, had some beers and food,

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Speaker 4: did a little makeout.

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Speaker 3: Says, we had a great time, and now I'm being.

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Speaker 2: Ghosted about to call it right now? Anything else you

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Speaker 2: want to say before we do that?

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Speaker 5: Drew?

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Speaker 3: I hope she that's a good answer.

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Speaker 2: I hope so too. Here you Drew, all right, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to I'm going to call her right out here

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Speaker 2: we go. Hello, him, I speak to Jess. Please, This

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Speaker 2: is she, Jess, how are you? This is my name

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Speaker 2: is Jebel from a radio show called The Jewel Show.

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Speaker 6: Hi, Jess, I know your show.

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Speaker 1: Hi guys O Hell, oh my god, I.

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Speaker 2: Love this enthusiasm. Jess. My name is Nina. I'm the

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Speaker 2: new one. Jess. Thank you for listening to the show.

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Speaker 2: Appreciate that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm so nervous. Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know the options. It could be a

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Speaker 2: first a follow up. Are you in a relationship and

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Speaker 2: cheating on someone? I think or think that they might

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Speaker 2: be cheating on you?

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Speaker 6: No, but they did go on a date.

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Speaker 2: So it is a first d A follow up. Yes,

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Speaker 2: you went on a date with somebody recently, and now

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 1: I've got see him. His name is Drew.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, his name is Drew. We talked to Drew.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he's a nice guy. He's a really nice guy.

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Speaker 6: We went on a date. I had a really good time.

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Speaker 6: I truly did, I really did. And he's a really

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Speaker 6: nice guy.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I, you know I could date.

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Speaker 6: Him, but right now I'm at the point where, you know,

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Speaker 6: I only want to date someone who's going to be

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Speaker 6: the husband. And as nice as he was and as

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Speaker 6: much fun as I had, I don't see him as

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Speaker 6: the husband. And I don't want to, you know, be

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Speaker 6: dating if it's not going to be the.

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Speaker 1: Long term one.

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Speaker 2: But so what about him makes you feel like he's

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Speaker 2: not the one?

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Speaker 5: Because if he's so great you went on one date,

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Speaker 5: you obviously were attracted to him enough.

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Speaker 2: We heard you guys made out and stuff.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but you know you have you have friends that

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Speaker 6: you love to death and they're wonderful, but you would

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Speaker 1: Sure, so he's one of those. He'd be a good

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Speaker 6: But it didn't take me. I don't know, it didn't

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Speaker 6: hit me spiritually the place that I needed to.

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Speaker 2: So kissed you like a date and not a husband.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 6: Well, you know, a lot of people are good kids.

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Speaker 6: I mean, let's don get me wrong. He's a really

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Speaker 6: nice guy, but he's.

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Speaker 1: Not the one for me.

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Speaker 6: I could introduce him to somebody because he's a really

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Speaker 6: nice guy, he's not the one for me.

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Speaker 5: So, Jess, are you going on a lot of these

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Speaker 5: first dates and just you know, having a great time

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Speaker 5: and figuring out that they're not the one?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean is he as a formula?

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Speaker 2: You know, yes, yes it is.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you know, I could waste his time.

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Speaker 1: His money. I mean, oh, he's a great different too.

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Speaker 1: You know, he's a nice guy and everything. Well, actually

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Speaker 1: that's another thing.

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Speaker 7: I mean he like totally overkits, you know, like thirty percent,

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Speaker 7: And I'm looking for somebody who knows how to manage

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Speaker 7: their money. You know, a husband that's not going to

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Speaker 7: like be spending all the money up you know when

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Speaker 7: he's away.

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Speaker 1: For me, I mean, that's that's a red flag.

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Speaker 2: So you want a husband who's gonna tip like a

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Speaker 2: standard eighteen to twenty percent, no.

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Speaker 1: You know, according to what's you know, but I mean

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Speaker 1: thirty per I mean it wasn't like I mean, vis

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Speaker 1: wasn't that amazing Jesus, She's.

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Speaker 2: Like, tip, well just not too well. Yeah, well, just

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Speaker 2: thank you for your honesty, thank you for listening.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, thank you for calling me your show, Jess.

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Speaker 2: Are you forgetting something about the first ad?

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Speaker 3: Follow up though?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, no, I don't want another day. I remember

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Speaker 1: that that part.

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Speaker 2: I remember that part's coming up, that part. There's another part.

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Speaker 1: Though, Oh god, you want the phone.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Drew's on the phone.

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Speaker 6: Oh no, I forgot that part of it.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Oh no.

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Speaker 7: When I'm listening, when I listen to the show, I'm

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Speaker 7: always like, oh, I hope you don't hear it.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, I forgot. Well it was nice, Drew.

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Speaker 7: I'll find a wonderful person just right, somebody else you deserve,

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Speaker 7: somebody else. I'm not the one for you. You could

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Speaker 1: I'm not the one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to pick that up now.

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Speaker 6: Very perceptive.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel about just not feeling like you're

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Speaker 3: Like I could be hobby material, totally.

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Speaker 1: Material, like not for me, but you could had.

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Speaker 3: A good time. Was it because I gave too much

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Speaker 1: Or I mean, oh lord, that was that was something?

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Speaker 1: But you know, come on guys thirty. I mean we

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Speaker 1: have you know, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Totally husband material, though, I mean, you just got to

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Speaker 3: get to know me.

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm a nurture, I'm caring, I'm funny. I'm

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Speaker 4: a good cook. I'll let you beat me at basketball.

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Speaker 2: How are you a diy project?

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Speaker 3: Drew. Everything I own is from my tea, so I'm

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Speaker 3: pretty good.

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Speaker 1: You guys think that was too quick to rash. I

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 2: I think we were kind of leaning in that direction.

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Speaker 1: Jazz.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I think it'd be very hard to

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Speaker 2: tell if somebody is potential long term boyfriend material or

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Speaker 2: a husband material after one date. I'm more interested that

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Speaker 2: it was Ika that got you to kind of turn around.

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Speaker 3: You're like, oh hello, I mean that's why we had

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Speaker 3: a good first impression.

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Speaker 4: But if I had to throw it a second impression

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Speaker 4: and there, I'd be more than happy too.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you guys are dates. Hikia is a move.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 7: Maybe we could go to Ikea together and I'll see.

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Speaker 2: I personally as a dude. I feel like Drew hearing

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Speaker 2: for me, especially when I was when I was single

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Speaker 2: and I didn't want to get married at all. I'm

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Speaker 2: married now, but that took a long time to get there.

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Speaker 2: And if I was out with someone and I heard

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Speaker 2: heard them say that, I'd be like, well, cool, I'm

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Speaker 2: not your material. Definitely not because I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: get married, you know.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Julie, as a dude, I heard your response, But

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Speaker 7: can I have the charge response?

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Speaker 2: I don't think a second date would be a bad thing.

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Speaker 3: I agree.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well what if?

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Speaker 7: What if I'm willing to do one more we give

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Speaker 7: it one more try? Should we give it one more try?

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Speaker 2: Jess? Would you like to go out on another date

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Speaker 2: with Drew? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that settles it. Let's go true all.

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Speaker 5: Right, sweet, But this time, Jess, you can't go sim

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Speaker 5: You just have to straight up say, I still don't

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Speaker 5: think you're my husband.

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Speaker 1: We can go, We'll have a great time, but I

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Speaker 1: won't marry you. I still don't think you're my husband.

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Speaker 4: By little, little, by, little baby chefs, baby chefs, stay tuned.

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Speaker 1: Everybody check in.

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Speaker 2: With us and let us know. Jess, congratulations, Drew, you

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Speaker 2: got another date man.

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Speaker 3: Thank you guys. That works out well.

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Speaker 1: Then you will show on demand