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Speaker 1: Get your hands together, and we're going to start to

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Speaker 1: part I'm reading a party.

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Speaker 2: The Elvis ran after party.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool, So we got derailed last time, so we're

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Speaker 3: going to pick it back up. Who's the next car

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Speaker 3: on the on the tracks?

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Speaker 4: So this one I thought was very interesting. You're the

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Speaker 4: red flag? Flip the script? What do you do that

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Speaker 4: makes someone ghost? You know what?

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Speaker 3: I've thought about this quite a lot recently. Am I

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Speaker 3: the red flag? I've had two dates, two dates that

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Speaker 3: brushed me off at the last second.

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Speaker 5: Wait, wait, wait did you go out with them at all?

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Speaker 5: Or did they just had gone.

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Speaker 3: Out with them and met them previously? So you had

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Speaker 3: on date under your and then I got brushed off?

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah?

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Speaker 3: And then actually no, the second one, the first supposed

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Speaker 3: date was a brush off. So my question is, I don't.

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Speaker 5: Know what you just said.

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Speaker 3: You're supposed to go out the first night? She said

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Speaker 3: that I can't.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So you never hung out with the second one

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Speaker 7: just ghosted, you know, hanging out.

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Speaker 5: First girl you hung out with once and then she

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Speaker 5: goes to and then she.

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Speaker 3: Did she canceled twice and then I was like, I'm

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Speaker 3: not doing it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, Okay.

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Speaker 8: The flag you might be.

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Speaker 5: It sounds like it.

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Speaker 7: You're asking if she hung out with you once and

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Speaker 7: then didn't talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Again, there's something there, the one that never hung out

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Speaker 5: with you.

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Speaker 7: I wouldn't really worry about that, because you know she

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Speaker 7: might have.

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Speaker 8: Felt something before she even hung out with What are you.

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Speaker 5: Saying to these women?

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Speaker 2: Mate?

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Speaker 5: Using my usual charming sounds, are using words like hubbub.

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Speaker 3: Idubbb or None of those were used in any of

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Speaker 3: the text conversations. Thank you very much.

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Speaker 5: I'd have to give me your phone. I'd like to

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Speaker 5: see the text conversations.

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Speaker 1: Are you in love with yourself too much?

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Speaker 2: No? I am not.

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Speaker 8: Do they know you are a murderer?

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Speaker 4: God, I'm ader Wait so sorry, just to go back

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Speaker 4: to it. So you're sending texts but there not being answered.

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Speaker 3: No, they're answering. It's when it comes to actually meeting

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Speaker 3: up in person. I'm being brushed off.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I have a question.

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Speaker 4: Interesting.

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Speaker 8: Did you ever meet them in person in the first place?

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Speaker 8: Or did you like see them online? Because if that's

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Speaker 8: the case, then maybe the Okay, I was gonna say.

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Speaker 3: I know you know the one. Yeah, yeah, So give

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Speaker 3: your give your analysis.

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Speaker 5: Oh lord, yeah, she's.

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Speaker 1: Got about twenty guys sliding into the d MS, and

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Speaker 1: she's just taking her best shot at whatever the best

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Speaker 1: plans are for the night. I know that's for that's

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Speaker 1: for a fact, and I know that's what a lot

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Speaker 1: of a lot of people when you've got options.

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Speaker 6: See if you got.

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Speaker 1: Two hot people, each hot person has options a lot

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Speaker 1: of options. So it takes a lot to get that

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Speaker 1: those two people together again. So no, I know you

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Speaker 1: have options, but she's got more. And so she might

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Speaker 1: have seven better things to do that are more interesting,

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Speaker 1: that are more interesting. I hate to say it, maybe

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Speaker 1: some guys, are you know you have a more compelling plan.

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Speaker 3: Hey, the jets fueling up on the tarmac, let's go

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Speaker 3: sweet cheeks exactly, so she aborts the mission.

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Speaker 7: Are you advocating for Nate to aim lower and go

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Speaker 7: for sort of like wounded Gazelle's No.

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Speaker 1: I just I think he should bring it back down

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Speaker 1: to earth and date someone a little bit more homely, or.

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Speaker 6: Is what kills upon this very get go for the

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Speaker 6: low hanging fruit, not saying go for the fruit that's

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Speaker 6: that's on the floor and rodding away you are I'm making.

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Speaker 7: Sure Nate never gets a date again, because anybody who

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Speaker 7: hears this, if he asks them out, they're gonna be.

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Speaker 5: Like, Oh, I'm the low hanging fruit. I'm holy. The

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Speaker 5: word holy man is killing me.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about It's like the hot of the girl.

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Speaker 1: The more options she has, the less chance you're gonna

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Speaker 8: There was a song written in nineteen sixty Jimmy, if

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Speaker 8: you want to be happy for the rest of your life,

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Speaker 8: never make a pretty woman your wife.

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Speaker 5: That is thank you very much.

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Speaker 4: There you go.

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Speaker 5: I don't think you're the red flag. I think scary is.

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Speaker 7: Translating into your dating life, but in some capacity it is.

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Speaker 1: This is real talk. Unfortunately, I know what's going on.

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Speaker 1: And have you ever have you any of you seen

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Speaker 1: a woman's got for guys? You guys are your ladies,

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Speaker 1: but you guys are taking you're spoken for.

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Speaker 5: It's different.

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Speaker 1: Look at a single woman's d MS. It's going nuts

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Speaker 1: in there.

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Speaker 5: Crazy.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of noise, there's a lot of distractions.

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Speaker 1: It's splintered, it's fractured.

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Speaker 7: There's single or not people sliding to DMS. It's just

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Speaker 7: it's a thing that people do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do know where he's coming from and competing

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Speaker 3: with the very best.

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Speaker 4: But are they the best? I know, if they're just

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Speaker 4: going on one off dates on the jet or but

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Speaker 4: then they come home and they're alone, is that really good?

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Speaker 1: He's competing amongst the best of men. This girl's probably

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Speaker 1: got five guys trying to fly to eleven different continents, right,

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Speaker 1: and she's.

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Speaker 5: Gonna worry about name.

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Speaker 4: I actually would like to see too, because I'm keep.

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Speaker 3: Talking amongst yourselves, Andrew, what's the next question on your list?

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Speaker 5: I think we're still on this red Flag.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm I totally understand what you're saying, but it's

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Speaker 4: it's starting to sound very You got to be an alpha,

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Speaker 4: like seek out what you want and then you get

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Speaker 4: it on.

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Speaker 5: A couch in a basement doing a podcast.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, like I get it. But I'm also kind

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Speaker 4: of like, red flag is so true.

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Speaker 5: So maybe maybe it's the one she's hot.

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Speaker 3: Just turn it.

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Speaker 1: You don't think seventeen different guys are are dming her

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Speaker 1: every single day. Sure, so that's why he gets brushed

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Speaker 1: off because a better plan comes up.

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Speaker 7: But what if Nate could just be a better plan.

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Speaker 7: Maybe that's where he's dropping the ball. Maybe he could

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Speaker 7: easily compete with these people.

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Speaker 3: To combat that and to answer that. I am working

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Speaker 3: on myself love that, trying to get into shape. I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to get myself to a point in life where

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Speaker 3: I know I'm the best option out there. So that's

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Speaker 3: what I'm doing.

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Speaker 7: You're the best option for the person that's best for you.

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Speaker 7: If this person isn't seeing that already, they're not the best.

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Speaker 8: And to be honest, she's cute, she's kind, that doesn't

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Speaker 8: mean she's the best option, especially if she's swinging from

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Speaker 8: this and from that one.

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Speaker 4: You should be someone's first option.

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Speaker 1: People their non committals. I hate to say it. That's terrible,

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Speaker 1: you know, and I feel bad for people like you.

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Speaker 4: I don't think this is everyone though, Like it's very general.

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Speaker 5: Of the wrong people.

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Speaker 3: You have the worst word ever right now?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, guns are you almost see?

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Speaker 1: I see from my single guy other single guy friends

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Speaker 1: that they get brushed off too.

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Speaker 5: If there are reasons for that. Scary, let's talk about

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Speaker 5: your single guy.

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Speaker 1: No, let's not to defend themselves.

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Speaker 7: Look at what they post online and you'll be like, Okay.

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Speaker 3: There we go, jerk off Jerry doing at the end

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Speaker 3: of the night.

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Speaker 7: We see them on Instagram with you They're like, eh,

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Speaker 7: we are.

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Speaker 5: We've gotta go on, man, come on, come on, sweet cheeks.

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Speaker 5: I got twenty dollars. What do you mean, I'm just

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Speaker 5: waiting in long all my.

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Speaker 1: Friends, they are far from the best option for anyone.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. They got the same problem you would do, Robert, was.

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Speaker 5: To pick any of your friends to go out with.

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Speaker 5: Would does? She haven't like, is there one of them?

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Speaker 5: I think there maybe two unacceptable option? Which one?

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Speaker 1: But I think one?

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what the answer.

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Speaker 5: I never asked her, But okay, you probably picked Will.

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Speaker 5: Will Nobody Will is good. I think Will is the

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Speaker 5: only except he watch normal Normal, was a normal guy.

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Speaker 3: Normal guy.

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Speaker 5: He doesn't have a nicka. He's the only I tried.

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Speaker 7: I tried to start Will the white because he's a

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Speaker 7: white guy, but it didn't work.

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Speaker 5: Nobody kicked out I Will, Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Elster ran after party m