Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome, welcome back. You got just me a
Speaker 1: weezy today, but welcome to a motherfucking episode of Whole Decisions.
Speaker 1: This your girl, Mandy and I'm weazy high End and
Speaker 1: we are here. UM's dirty, Like it's got to be
Speaker 1: super dirty. So so I actually wanted to talk about um,
Speaker 1: something that happened on my trip to London, UM, and
Speaker 1: it made me realize why I go after the guys
Speaker 1: I go after, So I wanted to kind of talk
Speaker 1: about that. So it's not really a nasty catch up.
Speaker 1: I really haven't been having much sex because I still
Speaker 1: don't know what I've been I've been wanting to start
Speaker 1: the shows with like like Andrew, like when the last
Speaker 1: time everybody have sex? But then I realized, like, maybe
Speaker 1: we're not getting fun. I'm not really getting funk like that. Also,
Speaker 1: I do have sex since we recorded with Andrew, but
Speaker 1: we're we're recording right now, and it's March, whenever this
Speaker 1: episode drops whatever, but it's um, it's March, and I
Speaker 1: literally don't have a free week I haven't had a
Speaker 1: free weekend since February and that literally goes all the
Speaker 1: way to June. So with me, Yeah, clearly. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: with me trying to make plans with people, which we
Speaker 1: still have our fucking jobs because the ship bringing in
Speaker 1: money but not enough to quit. Manny, I'm not even
Speaker 1: allowed to you. I've already planned how to propose to
Speaker 1: you that we need to quit. Wait what so I'm
Speaker 1: getting to the point very close where I'm about to
Speaker 1: quit May one. I told them July for us sabbatical.
Speaker 1: I like that word. It feels very white and right. Um,
Speaker 1: I just need to spend more talking in my family.
Speaker 1: They're just really old. I've saved enough money. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: here's what I've come up with. My therapist kind of
Speaker 1: help me come up with this though, because he's just
Speaker 1: like so basically, he said to me, you're depressed and stressed,
Speaker 1: and I can't give you a pill like I did
Speaker 1: before because that was an irrational depression. You felt like
Speaker 1: you would never meet someone, you felt like you could,
Speaker 1: you were helpless. He's like, right now, you're just stressed
Speaker 1: from all the ships you're doing. You got to eliminate
Speaker 1: one of them, and it sounds like the one that
Speaker 1: doesn't isn't progressing as much is your day job. He's like,
Speaker 1: you've saved enough. I've been investing a lot, I've made
Speaker 1: some money, flip some ship. He's like, why don't you
Speaker 1: take four to six months to relax, enjoy your family,
Speaker 1: your life, and if you don't make as much money
Speaker 1: from gigs as you would have made in four months
Speaker 1: at work, then go back. So my job does have
Speaker 1: that offer. I'm not sure at my UM like no. So,
Speaker 1: so one of the partners that I know UM shout
Speaker 1: out to you because I know you listened to the show.
Speaker 1: One of the partners that I know from the San
Speaker 1: Francisco office was in UM in New York, and that's
Speaker 1: what she did. She actually took a year off because
Speaker 1: it was a mental and a lot of big companies
Speaker 1: are here for mental health and making sure that their
Speaker 1: employees are happy and in a good mental state. So
Speaker 1: my therapist was telling me that, He's like, I mean
Speaker 1: a lot of complight. You just take an unpaid leave
Speaker 1: or say that you need it for mental reasons, and
Speaker 1: a lot of UM companies do offer that. So I'm
Speaker 1: still I told my company if I if I have
Speaker 1: not quit by July, it's because I sucked up somehow.
Speaker 1: I've literally been taking I don't see me July and
Speaker 1: if I'm still here, just know whatever I thought I
Speaker 1: was gonna be doing some sh it ain't fall through.
Speaker 1: I've been thinking, like, like even I was telling my therapist,
Speaker 1: He's like, are you what are you scared about? What
Speaker 1: scares you so much? Why are you scared? You told
Speaker 1: me you're gonna go to You're gonna gonna go ontour
Speaker 1: and fall. He's like, why what are you freaking out?
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, I'm used to the routine.
Speaker 1: I'm used to the consistency. And I'm also used to insurance.
Speaker 1: And he was like, why wouldn't you and Mandy then
Speaker 1: take insurance out on your business account? That makes sense?
Speaker 1: And I was like, I know, but you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, I'm just not used to that. But honestly, bro,
Speaker 1: like the things that I've turned down because I had
Speaker 1: to work that wasn't horrible. Decisions related might be small,
Speaker 1: but they could have grown into bigger things. And I
Speaker 1: hate it. I hate that I had to do that,
Speaker 1: you know. I hate that when I go see my
Speaker 1: family it's for fucking hours, you know what I'm saying? Like, literally,
Speaker 1: we're going to the Miami Show that Sunday, my grandma
Speaker 1: made it very clear I need to be at the
Speaker 1: nursing home to see her motherfucking birthday party. She was like,
Speaker 1: you're funna be that. So I'm gonna go fly from
Speaker 1: Miami to Orlando for five hours and then fly back
Speaker 1: because I gotta go to work. That's insane. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: it is. I was talking to Joe yesterday actually and
Speaker 1: was telling him everything that we have going on with
Speaker 1: the podcast. And then after I let him know and
Speaker 1: you know, shout out again to everyone at the Joe
Speaker 1: Button podcast. They all supported us at our New York
Speaker 1: Live show. I told him, Yeah, so we're doing all
Speaker 1: this and then yeah, I'm an accountant and she's in
Speaker 1: tech sales and we both work over forty hour weeks
Speaker 1: on top of everything we do with the podcast. And
Speaker 1: he was like, y'all do what I said. Yes. So,
Speaker 1: there are a lot of interviews that we haven't gotten
Speaker 1: to take and a lot of just different things that
Speaker 1: we weren't able to be Like, listen, y'all gotta see
Speaker 1: us after six pm. Other than that Monday through Friday,
Speaker 1: we can't see you during the day. And I think
Speaker 1: that that's limited us with a lot of things and
Speaker 1: it's crazy because there's a lot of podcasts that I
Speaker 1: know are inspired by us and are like seeing our growth.
Speaker 1: So just know, if you stay consistent, if you guys
Speaker 1: continue with with building your brand strong. Like I didn't
Speaker 1: think we could be sitting here saying we've about a quitter.
Speaker 1: I mean, two years is a long time, but it's
Speaker 1: not you know, and honestly, you know my therapist and
Speaker 1: his name is one. He's like, yo, he's like four months, right,
Speaker 1: He's like, and you need to be honest with yourself.
Speaker 1: Let's use a small amount of money, a thousand. Let's
Speaker 1: say you don't make six thousand dollars. Used to say
Speaker 1: you make a thousand a month. If you don't make
Speaker 1: six thousand dollars in those six months, go back. He's like,
Speaker 1: but you need to realize you may make five thousand
Speaker 1: one month and zero dollar is the next. He's like,
Speaker 1: that's that and that's my concern. So I've bartended. I've
Speaker 1: I've been in the creative space with my blog. I've
Speaker 1: seen times where I made a whole lot of money
Speaker 1: because I had a really good story drop and my
Speaker 1: analytics shut up, and then the next month maybe nothing
Speaker 1: to where I was getting my Google assents. So that
Speaker 1: was always my concern with being a creative is that
Speaker 1: even with our checks, they're not consistent. Like, bitch, we
Speaker 1: literally not to get too much into our dollars. But
Speaker 1: we just got paid for an ad we did in November.
Speaker 1: We just got that motherfucking checked last week. I forgot
Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, so it's like it's not consistent. So
Speaker 1: it's hard to manage with paying bills, saving doing all
Speaker 1: the things that Charlotte. We come in Dallas, we value
Speaker 1: lying to these people, but were definitely doing Charlotte. No
Speaker 1: for the bay Area bit the baby we need to do.
Speaker 1: We need to be smart about how we move. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We're gonna do Texas like Dallas, Houston, Austin,
Speaker 1: get out. We're gonna do the Bay Area, then we
Speaker 1: go on to l A get out. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, take them flights and are really easy to
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, but when we don't have a job, bro,
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm trying. We literally like that event
Speaker 1: bite can pay out. I sold my job, like yeah,
Speaker 1: so let me know what y'all have need me to
Speaker 1: do tomorrow because I have to leave early because I
Speaker 1: have a flight to Chicago because I have two shows
Speaker 1: this weekend. Like so my job knows on Friday's like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm going to the airport and I'm coming into the
Speaker 1: office that Monday. That's right. Um, So I wanted to,
Speaker 1: I guess share a story because this opened up um
Speaker 1: something to me. So while while I was in London,
Speaker 1: I did London and Paris in a weekend because I'm
Speaker 1: looking crazy. I was drunk the whole time. But first off,
Speaker 1: I felt how rich I was too, because bitch, we
Speaker 1: spent probably fours in food just on the Friday, between
Speaker 1: food and drinks, and I don't even eat a lot.
Speaker 1: That was sucking crumpets and fucking dump dumplings and dim
Speaker 1: sum and ship. Yeah, we went to the Shard. It's
Speaker 1: a restaurant called Hu Tongue. On the top of the Shard.
Speaker 1: Beautiful was drinking porn Star Martinez the whole time. I
Speaker 1: love porn so fucking good. Then I love just drinking
Speaker 1: my ship and so good that I don't know what
Speaker 1: the porn start is. By the way, it's so good,
Speaker 1: it's so I don't know why. It's like only in Europe.
Speaker 1: I've never been offered a point start in the state here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can make it. I asked the ingredients. Fun, it's pomegranted,
Speaker 1: it's super sweet, not passion for sorry, passion for to
Speaker 1: sitting in there. Super juicy. And then you get a
Speaker 1: shot of champagne next to it. Is that champagne? And
Speaker 1: maybe you was that it was prosecco, my champagne. You
Speaker 1: just ain't know. You saw a little bubbly got excited,
Speaker 1: That's what that was. No, but um So, anyways, we
Speaker 1: we went to sketch and then we had dinner reservations
Speaker 1: at Novikov and my homegirl Adriana shot out at her
Speaker 1: she had um us on the guest list because she
Speaker 1: was like, she didn't really want to be around Nick.
Speaker 1: She wanted to meet new niggas. So she was like,
Speaker 1: I got us on the guest list. Hillsted us at
Speaker 1: the table and I'm like, bitch, I don't do promoter
Speaker 1: tables even in the States, but okay, I'm in another country.
Speaker 1: I'll do it. So instead of catching an uber to
Speaker 1: the club, one of the dudes that really like her
Speaker 1: right now was like, yo, I'll pick y'all up and
Speaker 1: drop y'all off at the club and in her eyes,
Speaker 1: she's like, well, now, bitch, we ain't gotta pay for
Speaker 1: an uber seeing real innocent, right wrong, He picks us
Speaker 1: up from the fucking dinner. We go like, I guess
Speaker 1: I'll share the whole story because but I'll make it short.
Speaker 1: We drove about fifteen minutes away and we noticed we're
Speaker 1: still in the car. The club is only about five
Speaker 1: minutes around the corner type ship, so we're like, what
Speaker 1: direction are we going in? Because my friend is not
Speaker 1: recognizing the direction we're going in. This nigga is like, nah,
Speaker 1: I gotta go pick something up. No, my nigga. I
Speaker 1: hopped out of the car so quick. I said, ma'am,
Speaker 1: we're calling an uber because what you're not gonna do
Speaker 1: is pick anything up while I'm in the car with you.
Speaker 1: And there was Nigeria's no shade. But you either a
Speaker 1: businessman or you're a scama or a straight nigga. Whatever
Speaker 1: you are, you're going to pick something up. You ain't
Speaker 1: having it in a car with me because I know
Speaker 1: what it is. Yeah, out of goddamn weed, and you
Speaker 1: need to go pick it up. But it's now now
Speaker 1: to me, that's a run. I'm not coming with you
Speaker 1: on your runs. So I hop out the car and
Speaker 1: he's like, nah, baby, girl, wouldn't do that. You do man?
Speaker 1: Give okay, I'll take you out to the club. We
Speaker 1: get around the corner from the club, that's the sound
Speaker 1: of the police. We get pulled over, but it's a van.
Speaker 1: Five police jump out of the fucking vans literally knock
Speaker 1: on the window, ask him to pull it down. He
Speaker 1: pulled it down. He's being very like, respectable high officer,
Speaker 1: was the problem because we did we did absolutely nothing wrong.
Speaker 1: So he rolls it down and he's like, where y'all
Speaker 1: going tonight? D Can I ask all of you guys
Speaker 1: to step out of the car. Police we're literally on
Speaker 1: literally and I'm just I'm looking at my homegirl like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I told you to get you see if you would
Speaker 1: have listened to me, bitch, And I'm looking at my
Speaker 1: homegirl like, bitch, what the funk is going on? Next thing,
Speaker 1: I know she's a German citizen. I'm a US citizen.
Speaker 1: They take both of our my passport, her I D
Speaker 1: Card and I'm like, what you need? Like here it is,
Speaker 1: I can give you my information. What do you need
Speaker 1: my card for? She takes it. She's like, oh, as
Speaker 1: long as we don't find anything in the vehicle, will
Speaker 1: give it back. They have two police officers, all doors open,
Speaker 1: trunk open, flashlight looking under everything, and I'm just looking
Speaker 1: at her and I'm she told me that that's what
Speaker 1: I said. That tag is marked and whether it's for
Speaker 1: drugs or whatever, they're looking to get that Mercedes nice heart.
Speaker 1: He's telling it's because I'm black. His windows tenda ain't
Speaker 1: see you was black from behind it. So I'm literally
Speaker 1: looking at Adriana and I said, I don't think you
Speaker 1: understand money. My friend is much younger than me. This
Speaker 1: is her first time experiences too, that's what's happened to
Speaker 1: me before. So I'm looking at her and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: you don't understand, Adriana. If they find as little as
Speaker 1: a blunt in that car, we are all going to jail.
Speaker 1: So I'm sitting here to come to the other officer
Speaker 1: and um and I'm just like, listen, I don't even
Speaker 1: know these motherfucker's I just landed today. You could look
Speaker 1: at the passports kind of I was, I don't know
Speaker 1: these people like she just made him a month ago.
Speaker 1: And it's because he drove by a light there, like, bro,
Speaker 1: we all know these niggers like that, and I'm literally
Speaker 1: like trying to say I don't they. Then I was
Speaker 1: like they technically she's just in a call with somebody,
Speaker 1: you know. Now that's pretty much bitch. And I was like,
Speaker 1: they technically are Uber drivers. Then I almost got away.
Speaker 1: He was like, oh, is this an Uber driver? I said, technically,
Speaker 1: but we didn't call it on the Uber AUP, so
Speaker 1: they wasn't trying to buy that. So they're still looking.
Speaker 1: So this is where a few things happened to me,
Speaker 1: and this is what I wanted to share with with
Speaker 1: the listeners. So he starts getting the other money. There's
Speaker 1: two niggas one in the van. I'll know. This was
Speaker 1: another reason why I got scared. As we're all pulled out,
Speaker 1: the drivers already handcuffed, and I'm just looking like bitch White.
Speaker 1: He didn't handcuffs, so as yea, as he is in handcuffs,
Speaker 1: they're questioning us. He's trying to say sorry to her,
Speaker 1: but now he's starting to get slick with the cops.
Speaker 1: And this is where I realized, and I didn't realize
Speaker 1: how much I had been affected that I have PTSD
Speaker 1: from what's going on here in the States. And as
Speaker 1: he's starting to get snappy with the officer, I'm yelling
Speaker 1: at him at this point, like do exactly what he says,
Speaker 1: Stop with the smart mouth, stop getting slick, give him
Speaker 1: whatever he wants. Let's wait till the cars searched. Stop
Speaker 1: talking to him like that, Like I'm literally telling yeah,
Speaker 1: so I'm by the way, I only mentioned that because
Speaker 1: like in France and went to France, they were big
Speaker 1: rifles to not in France, yellow jackets is a big
Speaker 1: protesting thing going on, but they shoot out these metal
Speaker 1: kind of balls. They're not they can't kill you, but
Speaker 1: they'll like maybe knock off something. But in London they
Speaker 1: do have guns. So so he's I mean, I was.
Speaker 1: I was just glad. I was thinking, well at this point,
Speaker 1: I was already coming up with how I was going
Speaker 1: to have my locked up a broad episode. I was
Speaker 1: already thinking, like conte it, I was already us do
Speaker 1: you know that's what the fun My friend said as
Speaker 1: soon as I fucking told her in the car, mona,
Speaker 1: let me get back to the story so I can
Speaker 1: tell you how I was crying like a pussy hole.
Speaker 1: So Finally they find nothing in the car. We get
Speaker 1: our I d s back, I said, Adriana, we walk
Speaker 1: into the club, ho I said, oh, British, I have
Speaker 1: no gun, no guns, So I'm sorry. I apologize. That
Speaker 1: means that's why he was talking. Maybe that's why he
Speaker 1: was talking. I thought that. I thought that the UK
Speaker 1: was one of the own. They're tight on gun having guns. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: that's why they're always like six people taking someone out. Sorry,
Speaker 1: there was six cops well in this car at once,
Speaker 1: so we're all getting there's two check in the car,
Speaker 1: there's two questioning. So that other guy he's talking slick
Speaker 1: to the one officer and the other officers with us.
Speaker 1: So finally they come back and they're like, okay, nothing's
Speaker 1: been found in the car. They give us our passport
Speaker 1: and I d back and we start walking away. I'm like, Adriana,
Speaker 1: we've been a motherfucking walks to the club. So we
Speaker 1: walked back. They let him go as well. They uncuff him.
Speaker 1: He comes running to us at the end of the sidewalk,
Speaker 1: trying to apologize, saying he's sorry, and all I do
Speaker 1: is burst into tears and I say back home. They
Speaker 1: kill y'all. And that's all I kept saying because he
Speaker 1: was so like getting so snappy with him, and I
Speaker 1: just did not want to be a part of Like
Speaker 1: I'm about to cry now. They were like, you're so pussy,
Speaker 1: But I literally was like, I didn't realize how much
Speaker 1: seeing all these black men die from the police affected
Speaker 1: me because I don't put myself in those situations, and
Speaker 1: to be in that situation, like I'm literally like I
Speaker 1: literally had to tell my mom. I said, I think
Speaker 1: I need therapy now, Like I didn't realize that me
Speaker 1: seeing the videos on Instagram, me reading the news articles
Speaker 1: and seeing how many of our black men die, being
Speaker 1: in that situation right there, I was just like I
Speaker 1: was scared for him. I was scared for me because
Speaker 1: I know they looked at were black women, so I
Speaker 1: know they wanted all of us gone, and I didn't
Speaker 1: realize how it affected me. So before I go to cry,
Speaker 1: I go to say, this is why I realized when
Speaker 1: we talk about dealing with hood niggas, street niggas, scammers,
Speaker 1: this is why I know I don't put myself in
Speaker 1: those positions because truth is many. The sad thing about
Speaker 1: it is it ain't gonna take a hood. No, no,
Speaker 1: it's not gonna take ni gonna die. However, my friend
Speaker 1: just got a new job, I said, just because we
Speaker 1: were in the car with them, this would have affected
Speaker 1: your new job. I said, do you think if I
Speaker 1: would have just called my my my job and said, oh,
Speaker 1: by the way, I'm in jail right now for drugs
Speaker 1: because that's what they have me in here under wait
Speaker 1: till I get out. No, I would have lost my job.
Speaker 1: And so even it's something that and this is a
Speaker 1: tip to you ladies who if you're into men who
Speaker 1: may sell narcotics or carry around large loads of narcotics
Speaker 1: or anything that could cause him to go to jail,
Speaker 1: don't get in the car because even if you don't
Speaker 1: know that it is there, if you get pulled over
Speaker 1: and that is found, you're both. So there's a documentary
Speaker 1: caught Up HBO. I can't think of the name of it,
Speaker 1: but there it's it's about a woman who goes to
Speaker 1: jail by association. She was with a dude who had
Speaker 1: a bunch of cocaine or drugs or something. I watched
Speaker 1: this month ago. He dies, she gets married. Years later,
Speaker 1: they pinned on her. She goes to jail. She's still
Speaker 1: in there. She got three kids. Seeing the fucking camera
Speaker 1: crew is like showing the husband with the kids. They
Speaker 1: say that it was her, Like, bro, it's insane. It's
Speaker 1: so sad and just getting caught up in that type
Speaker 1: of lifestyle. Like I get it. If you want to
Speaker 1: be a writer, die, But I will say, this is
Speaker 1: why I deal with the guys that I do deal
Speaker 1: with um and I don't have anyone in my phone
Speaker 1: right now that does involve themselves with even though I
Speaker 1: was looking for a scammer just not to deal with
Speaker 1: because I wanted some shoes like cheaper, but I don't
Speaker 1: deal with those type of guys. And this is this
Speaker 1: is why I feel like because I feel like it
Speaker 1: will affect my livelihood just being around. So what you
Speaker 1: went through. I'm sorry because I misspoke. I'm meant to
Speaker 1: say the to sit so I know that the UK,
Speaker 1: maybe I knew that they didn't have guns and I didn't.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's why he was acting like that. That's what
Speaker 1: I meant to say when we were saying he was
Speaker 1: talking about I didn't know. That's the thing that's crazy, right,
Speaker 1: It's like we watched something happen in the abuse of power.
Speaker 1: And something very interesting I learned while in Paris. Um
Speaker 1: So Scissors and I were walking. We're staying on the
Speaker 1: Chalanza Lise and we're going to get brunch on Saturday.
Speaker 1: I know about the Yellow Jackets, heard about it, did
Speaker 1: not know Saturdays for their day. Yeah, that's when I
Speaker 1: went to Paris. Was on a Saturday. I phone really quick, y'all,
Speaker 1: be like literally, So I'm walking with her. We see smoke,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, do you want to see what that is?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, just not even that was the way
Speaker 1: to me. We were walking closer shore I'm not I
Speaker 1: was walking away. I said, there's there's too many cop
Speaker 1: cars around here. Now, No, no no, no, no, we didn't
Speaker 1: see that. I didn't see that picture. This is so
Speaker 1: far away. It looked like a mistake, like like it
Speaker 1: didn't look like I didn't see them protesting yet, right,
Speaker 1: So we start walking closer, literally in front of me.
Speaker 1: You'll hear it. This is me. It's just recording. Listen
Speaker 1: to the sound that happens. They're fucking bombing the middle
Speaker 1: of the streets. So just like by the time I
Speaker 1: got out there, there was a lot of windows, like
Speaker 1: in the shop area by the little look at the
Speaker 1: blast things that burned down. So basically, the yellow Jackets
Speaker 1: are protesting because they don't like their president. Um, the
Speaker 1: left and the right are getting together. What I've heard
Speaker 1: is life, livelihood has become very expensive for the white
Speaker 1: middle class. Now there's a few things about this. I'm
Speaker 1: all about a fucking right. I believe in riots. I
Speaker 1: believe in all of that ship because I believe soldiers
Speaker 1: dian warre and that's how we get it done. Sometimes
Speaker 1: that's just the way I protest. Now, what I've learned
Speaker 1: about what they did is crazy. They are out of
Speaker 1: confucking They're ruining the stores, the glasses, the everything. Also,
Speaker 1: country that has thirty hour work weeks, the most public
Speaker 1: like crazy public holidays, six vacas, paid vacation, paid vacation.
Speaker 1: So they fight for what they funk they want. And
Speaker 1: they're not on some pussy ship like we be. But
Speaker 1: like we be, we do be on some fucking scary ship.
Speaker 1: Like our protests aren't real protest. Let's keep it a stack.
Speaker 1: I like the protesting. That is nothing. I like it
Speaker 1: marching my women's march, sing that's a nice time for camaraderie,
Speaker 1: but that does not get shipped dined. However, we're not scared.
Speaker 1: They're not scared to die, and that's that reaction you
Speaker 1: had is because that's how we feel. And this woman
Speaker 1: said to me, So, me and sisters sitting having brunch,
Speaker 1: We like, damn, should we even sit outside? She's like, no,
Speaker 1: you're safe, telling us everything, and she said, I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, our police have guns. You guys are
Speaker 1: allowed and ship we have guns. And she goes, why
Speaker 1: would our police have guns when we pay for them?
Speaker 1: Why would they kill us when we pay for that?
Speaker 1: Can you imagine that a world you're living in where
Speaker 1: you pay for the police and they killing you? My nigga.
Speaker 1: When she said that and said to me as simple
Speaker 1: as a concept as it was, I was like, fuck yeah.
Speaker 1: And it's not even like we can fight against the
Speaker 1: fucking regime because look at what they do. But what's crazy?
Speaker 1: You're telling me that the UK doesn't even have guns.
Speaker 1: Like I didn't even see a gun pulled, nothing, but
Speaker 1: I was still just terrified at a black man with
Speaker 1: all white cops and I was terrified. Yeah, So, like
Speaker 1: I've seen videos of how to disarm people in the UK.
Speaker 1: So what I was thinking when you were saying that,
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, well maybe this is why he's like it.
Speaker 1: Fuck it. But my nigga, me and sisters in the
Speaker 1: car coming from fund spot in Orlando just had a
Speaker 1: red light. Dude was getting pulled over and we're like, oh,
Speaker 1: this what's going on? Suddenly he starts running real fast
Speaker 1: cross the street cross cart. When I tell you, I
Speaker 1: almost threw up from nerves that he was gonna get
Speaker 1: shot while he was running. First of all, we live
Speaker 1: in Orlando, you know, Trayvon Martin when I was living there.
Speaker 1: I don't think you were in the Stanford Nope, but
Speaker 1: I was definitely that is around the corner. And it's
Speaker 1: like my body, the way my body reacted, like the
Speaker 1: fear I had. I couldn't stop talking about it for
Speaker 1: two days. I felt this, So it was it was
Speaker 1: just I don't know, it was crazy. So I'm glad
Speaker 1: that you even had a thing. I'll try to talk
Speaker 1: about sex right now. Yeah, I had sex, did you? Oh?
Speaker 1: Who would have thought? I thought this? Pussy so um
Speaker 1: Beard Bay and Scissors and I did not have sex. Yet.
Speaker 1: We're planning a fucking trip. We're all gonna fuck. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm really excited about it because I just couldn't have
Speaker 1: curated this better. Like she wasn't really into it at first,
Speaker 1: because I remember you saying that because she's started, she
Speaker 1: thinks I like them, you do so whatever. So but
Speaker 1: my my feelings, I believe that now after Paris, I
Speaker 1: think she knows that it's more like she's my person.
Speaker 1: So I think she's feeling more confident about that. However,
Speaker 1: with him, my feelings are getting deeper and it's almost
Speaker 1: a little bit scarier. Like he came right you know,
Speaker 1: we're hanging out. He's in New York, and we had
Speaker 1: dinner together and I was like, damn yo, like I
Speaker 1: funk with this nigga and blue Check remember who that was.
Speaker 1: I haven't heard of you mentioned him at all, so
Speaker 1: that mean sucking beard based. So he hits me up
Speaker 1: like on some oh I got the wrong number ship,
Speaker 1: and I'm like really, He's like, oh four or seven?
Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, I thought it was my nigga from Orlando,
Speaker 1: But what's up? Though, I just wanted to say congrats
Speaker 1: on everything. So then you didn't know. So I told
Speaker 1: him I got an attitude because I kind of like
Speaker 1: just say you want to call me right. I had
Speaker 1: a little attitude about it, and he's like, you're clearly
Speaker 1: fucking another nigga, That's what he said to me. What's
Speaker 1: the problem. And I'm like, oh my god, is that
Speaker 1: when we reject niggas like it is and they know
Speaker 1: it be I wanted to be like, no, no, when
Speaker 1: you got a new dick that you like kind of
Speaker 1: more into that other day. Oh So to wrap it up,
Speaker 1: um whatever, went out with beer Bay, We hit up
Speaker 1: Max Fish, had a good time. We get back to
Speaker 1: my place. We have sex. It's great. We're watching Jessami
Speaker 1: and I'm rubbing his back. I stopped. He starts having
Speaker 1: my legs. We're not having sex anywhere. This after sex,
Speaker 1: and he puts my toes in his mouth, like all
Speaker 1: of them. Oh a lot of the fucking toes. I
Speaker 1: had all of them, and then like proceeded to go
Speaker 1: on to the other foot and like got all of them,
Speaker 1: like every toe And then you know what, wait you
Speaker 1: you want to know? Did you like you didn't hear
Speaker 1: you alreaty see my ig live at all? No? I
Speaker 1: just met a guy who literally said he wants to
Speaker 1: gag on my foot. Yes, I'll show you. Let me
Speaker 1: show you his picture. So he was, okay, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not in the feed like that. But the way
Speaker 1: he licked them, so like, let's prestend this is my toe,
Speaker 1: he like traced them so that he this guy literally
Speaker 1: that I just met and we haven't had sex at
Speaker 1: all or anything, but somehow, of course got into the
Speaker 1: kinks and he said he has a major foot fetish.
Speaker 1: He said, I want to do everything to your feet.
Speaker 1: He said, I want you to make me clean them,
Speaker 1: he said, I want let me see. He said. Something
Speaker 1: else that I want you to do is make me
Speaker 1: gag on your foot. I said, well, how will I
Speaker 1: know when? Like it's no, he said, you'll know. So
Speaker 1: I don't know if that means he wants to throw
Speaker 1: up on my foot or not. So I'm I'm a
Speaker 1: little just like you don't know about gagging on a dick.
Speaker 1: So so I thought I was gonna be totally disgusted
Speaker 1: by it, but I'm so turned on by Beard Bay
Speaker 1: And I was looking at him and he was kind
Speaker 1: of doing it real sexy. This that nigga want on
Speaker 1: my foot? Yeah, yeah, yeah, another model nigga yep. And
Speaker 1: he looked like super super into it. Look at this
Speaker 1: with his family. Yeah, no, I'm not sure, but yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean family doesn't know he's gagging on feet. He
Speaker 1: has a whole mother. Look at that. And I said,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it will fit all in your mouth.
Speaker 1: And his response was it will that. That was his response, two,
Speaker 1: my whole foot fitting in his mouth, He said, it will.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm my nerve. He has a video of
Speaker 1: him gagging on a foot. Well, he didn't send it
Speaker 1: to me, but he said he sent me the picture
Speaker 1: of Lorrie Harvey's foot on Trey Song's face and said,
Speaker 1: I want you to record when your foot is in
Speaker 1: my mouth. Like, so he's gonna let me record him
Speaker 1: gagging on my foot so I'll be able to do that.
Speaker 1: We haven't fucked yet at all, know, but he's super. No,
Speaker 1: this was damn stop No, this is a nagger. Damn
Speaker 1: you're making to sound bad man, asking cud. We haven't
Speaker 1: we haven't cuddled yet, we haven't even gone out yet.
Speaker 1: Like this is new to him, but I am telling him, Um,
Speaker 1: if I experienced this kink with him, this isn't something
Speaker 1: that I think I would into. So I did tell
Speaker 1: him he has to let me pay him, and he
Speaker 1: said he's never done that before, and I said, I'll
Speaker 1: be gentle. So now I'm I told him, I said,
Speaker 1: if you want Joe King, can I have my kick too?
Speaker 1: Cana too? There go to goddamn. So we're gonna get
Speaker 1: into the kick of a week speaking of Cank Hope,
Speaker 1: and the kick of the Week is actually from you guys.
Speaker 1: I do want to say if you have if you
Speaker 1: guys don't follow us on Twitter or Instagram, you guys
Speaker 1: really do help a lot with the outlines more than
Speaker 1: you think. So the kink this week actually comes from
Speaker 1: someone tweeted a video of a woman twerking on top
Speaker 1: of a cake and was like, this has to be
Speaker 1: a cake. And first of all, we've actually talked about this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I want to get into the not really into this,
Speaker 1: not really into the even maybe maybe feeding. We did
Speaker 1: a vanilla ship on it, yeah, a woman who was
Speaker 1: making money, like smashing it something like that. So basically
Speaker 1: the king guys, and I want to shout out Michelle Hope.
Speaker 1: She's the one who sent me. The actual name of
Speaker 1: the kink it is sindophilia, which refers to the sexual
Speaker 1: arousal or gratification achieved through the use of food. Now,
Speaker 1: I do want to say this is different from feeding.
Speaker 1: What was the feeding did the king? Feeding? And feeder?
Speaker 1: Feeding and feeder where you like people, where you like
Speaker 1: to watch people eat food. This is just through the
Speaker 1: use of food. So the Urban Urban Dictionary says it's
Speaker 1: a form of sexual fetishism in which participants are aroused
Speaker 1: by erotic situations involving food. So I would say the
Speaker 1: fact that she was working on a cake made that
Speaker 1: more of like an erotic thing. Um, it's weird because
Speaker 1: a lot of comments under it was like her pH
Speaker 1: balance gotta be sucked up now because she was literally
Speaker 1: fauston just going all in your let's see, that can't
Speaker 1: be healthy. You'll be talking about the yeast, that's the problem,
Speaker 1: and sugar, sugar probably shouldn't go down there. Well, that's
Speaker 1: the main problem, is the yeast. Like you really want
Speaker 1: to stay away from that. Like I have a friend
Speaker 1: of mine who has candida right now and their whole
Speaker 1: body and it's so serious, like the foods that he's
Speaker 1: had to change in his life, Like yeast can really
Speaker 1: fun your body up. Like what that's like Gluten right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, sure, I guess isn't I don't know
Speaker 1: if you could have like allergic reactions in that sense,
Speaker 1: but it more so can fund your body up as
Speaker 1: far as like productivity, but like, yeah, it'll completely Do
Speaker 1: you have any food on your body? Would you recommend
Speaker 1: any safe foods like so like dairy free bit maybe?
Speaker 1: Honestly I have not. I've never had anybody right in
Speaker 1: at least to me in regards to pH about food.
Speaker 1: And I think it's because normally food doesn't have to
Speaker 1: do with entry, like but if it's around there, so
Speaker 1: like maybe the whipped cream on the pussy or I
Speaker 1: like peanut butter, I don't know if I want to
Speaker 1: because that's on top. What if his body? What is
Speaker 1: it's not on top? That's what I'm saying. I don't
Speaker 1: even have someone whip cream on me. It's still what is?
Speaker 1: What if what if I put whipped cream on a
Speaker 1: tippio dick and a little bit of a whip cream
Speaker 1: getting your pe hole? Is that gonna affect your p hole?
Speaker 1: Could you get you could get a yeast affection in
Speaker 1: your pee hole? Right? Well? That affected negatively because you
Speaker 1: don't have pH balance, So well, the problem is like
Speaker 1: when men have like you can get men can get
Speaker 1: U T eyes. You want to something funny. I was
Speaker 1: just telling someone this story. Oh god, this is embarrassing.
Speaker 1: I went to a class called Aqua Aqua cycling and
Speaker 1: Tribeca the day of course you did. You want to
Speaker 1: be drowned? Go ahead, of course, she say, talking about
Speaker 1: some guy damn aqwa fill you with an Awkway anyway,
Speaker 1: I did it the day that you went to Paris.
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, because I was
Speaker 1: sitting talking to the structure for a while and I
Speaker 1: was in that water along top was like, let me
Speaker 1: take one of them little azo pills because I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't even want to be sucked up. And when
Speaker 1: you take a U t I pill it makes your
Speaker 1: ship come out orange. So me and Scissors go to
Speaker 1: the club. We go to this place called Jungle in Paris,
Speaker 1: bomb as hip hop spot. We go to the bathroom
Speaker 1: and we're leaving flirting all night, and we know we're
Speaker 1: ready to funk, right, So we get to the bathroom
Speaker 1: and I wipe and I look at it and it's
Speaker 1: like deep orange, and she goes, you see, you told
Speaker 1: me you won't even be on your fucking period. Dog
Speaker 1: like wait wait wait, so she so she ate your
Speaker 1: orange pussy. No, And we waited a day. But I
Speaker 1: was gonna say, when men take it right, you know
Speaker 1: how we pee and it comes out orange. I was
Speaker 1: sucking a dude that took one because we went to
Speaker 1: the beach. It was orange, not the dickhead. He was black.
Speaker 1: We went to the beach and I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm feeling kind of weird because the sand.
Speaker 1: We had sex in the sand. I'm like, let's both
Speaker 1: take these. So I text that name. When he came
Speaker 1: it was orange. No way to call my mama all
Speaker 1: my mama all her life. That was something else, fucking orange.
Speaker 1: Have something Else's yeah, bro, that was something else. Anything
Speaker 1: that comes out of your na, Bro, he has something else.
Speaker 1: It's the as you swallow it or was it on
Speaker 1: your face? You had orange come on your face? Did
Speaker 1: glow in the dark. I was sucking. I started laughing,
Speaker 1: and it was funny because when he saw I come out,
Speaker 1: because he didn't know it's gonna be orange, he knew
Speaker 1: his was orange. He was jerking off into my face.
Speaker 1: I saw I'm laughing. He's laughing while he's coming like
Speaker 1: that is funny that it was the worst orgasm he
Speaker 1: ever had, because he was like that is hilarious. It
Speaker 1: was really weird. Speaking of the beach, one of the
Speaker 1: places that we're going on this three way trip is beach.
Speaker 1: Don't be honest with your dog. I want to make
Speaker 1: sure everybody's your ether is safe because I plan on
Speaker 1: getting sucked for the three days that were there. We've
Speaker 1: already playing this and I'm like, we are you gonna
Speaker 1: take us as the next restaurant. He's like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be like table for three, And I want to
Speaker 1: make sure that nobody he has bullshit going on. Scissors
Speaker 1: may possibly have her period and I'm tired of eating
Speaker 1: pussy with Like I'm like praying by that time, I'm
Speaker 1: not dealing with my period right Like, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: be on the beach right on. Like, so we gonna
Speaker 1: get all into motherfucker. The horrible decision, the horrible decision
Speaker 1: this week. We didn't skip Vanilla Ship, but the horrible
Speaker 1: decision this week is mad Vanilla Ship. So I have
Speaker 1: four articles that I want to go through talk about
Speaker 1: see what we have our thoughts on. The first one,
Speaker 1: I love Mike stinks. I thought it was me. I
Speaker 1: thought it was like, no, it's not. I'm showered after
Speaker 1: the gym. This Mike smell stink because we'll be spitting
Speaker 1: on it. I was just on that mic, Puss, not me,
Speaker 1: but no, but I was just on that mic. So
Speaker 1: she talking shit. Oh bit she talking ship. That was
Speaker 1: such a smart idea terrible Listen, don't be doing this
Speaker 1: on camera because look, if that ship get funked up,
Speaker 1: I ain't paying for it. It's been out of with
Speaker 1: these check no, no, it just so. This one comes
Speaker 1: from the sun and this is actually hilarious. Newly engaged
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez claims that all men are useless before their
Speaker 1: thirty three that I love it. Um, what about us?
Speaker 1: What do you think our ages? Oh? I think we're
Speaker 1: good as soon as we like seventeen eighteen because we
Speaker 1: need to get that who out. You think that. I
Speaker 1: think the whole could come later. It can, but if
Speaker 1: you can enjoy, I think we need till and I
Speaker 1: think niggas needs seven more years. So so j Lo
Speaker 1: had a reason why she said this. She said it
Speaker 1: can take men into their early thirties to establish their
Speaker 1: professional career. That's why I'll be dealing with these not
Speaker 1: athletes straight out like I do. Like young niggas, but
Speaker 1: they still be millionaires most of them. Um okay. She
Speaker 1: said that it can take men into their early thirties
Speaker 1: to establis us their professional career and feel a sense
Speaker 1: of financial stability, which helps them feel more secure in life.
Speaker 1: As a result, this can give them the maturity that
Speaker 1: comes with accomplishment, experience, and success. Sometimes you see a
Speaker 1: guy who's in several relationships, but then in his early
Speaker 1: thirties suddenly he meets a woman and is ready to
Speaker 1: marry her. Um, you think that a woman is useful,
Speaker 1: you said at I'm not saying that we're useless, but
Speaker 1: I think twenty five is a good age where we've
Speaker 1: lived a lot of life. For example, when I was
Speaker 1: straight out of high school, I met an older guy
Speaker 1: and he moved me into his place, and there was
Speaker 1: a lot of times, even though he was a cheating asshole,
Speaker 1: that I couldn't understand the concept of female friendships. And
Speaker 1: I think that that took growth and maturity. Um, I
Speaker 1: just wouldn't understand. I was like, why do you need friends?
Speaker 1: At are girls? Or if you had sector or how
Speaker 1: could you still be friends with her? And when I
Speaker 1: got older, I realized like, oh, like duh, of course
Speaker 1: I need to have male energy in my life. Um
Speaker 1: in a platonic way, of course, you know. And it's
Speaker 1: so confusing to people. We I've said on this podcast
Speaker 1: before or made a joke about how the first time
Speaker 1: I went to movies with Alex, he was like, is
Speaker 1: this a date? And I was like no, and he's
Speaker 1: like okay. Because I think we're always so confused. But
Speaker 1: once you establish a boundary, you can really have a
Speaker 1: lot of growth, really good friendships. Yeah, and I agree.
Speaker 1: I think that's something that takes. It takes age, and
Speaker 1: you got a little life that takes. Yeah, And I
Speaker 1: would say that does take a lot on the man's
Speaker 1: side of things, because even like I could be texting
Speaker 1: a guy and that's all a little go to and
Speaker 1: a lot of mental be like, oh yeah, we used
Speaker 1: to talk hold on. Just because we were having a
Speaker 1: conversation does not mean that it left being platonic. It
Speaker 1: did not leave us being leaving a friendship. Nothing about
Speaker 1: that was sexual. And I think that relationships like with
Speaker 1: I mean lesbian relationships with women. I think that should
Speaker 1: happens probably too, you know, because we we can be
Speaker 1: emotional or react or whatever. Like, um, I've just had
Speaker 1: a thought when you said, oh, I'm watching a show
Speaker 1: called Temptation Island. By the way, I'm thinking about doing
Speaker 1: a Patreon episode doing just accents and reality total TV
Speaker 1: ship because that's all I want to do. And it's
Speaker 1: crazy you watch all the different ships like I'm really
Speaker 1: into like Married to Medicine, Real Housewives of Atlanta, like
Speaker 1: those are the So Temptation Island, there's a couple I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna talk about this but the show, but there's
Speaker 1: a couple at the end that stayed together. And one
Speaker 1: of the things she says, she says, the only thing
Speaker 1: I wanted. I realized we need friendships with other people.
Speaker 1: We need to live our own lives. They had no
Speaker 1: other men or women in each other's phone, and they've
Speaker 1: been together since they were sixteen, and to me, all
Speaker 1: that you know, So basically the couples go in the
Speaker 1: house they live with single people with single people. That
Speaker 1: really shows you like, Okay, I'm not attracted to you,
Speaker 1: but yes, I can't only have women in my life.
Speaker 1: I love them, but yeah, I need I need that
Speaker 1: sestastone from time to time. Yeah, I agree, Nope, I
Speaker 1: don't want it. Um. So the next conversation, a lot
Speaker 1: of you wanted to hear our thoughts on and we
Speaker 1: are pro sex workers, we are allies with sex workers,
Speaker 1: and so I wanted to bring this part up. As
Speaker 1: you guys know, Cardi B was under fire this past
Speaker 1: week or so UM with a video that came out
Speaker 1: of her I G live. You know probably well hey,
Speaker 1: nonn um. But basically Cardi B said that she drugged
Speaker 1: and robbed men because she had limited options. I want
Speaker 1: to read exactly her quote UM when she said that. UM,
Speaker 1: she said, I made the choices that I did at
Speaker 1: the time because I had very limited options. I was
Speaker 1: blessed to have been able to rise from them, but
Speaker 1: so many women have not, whether or not they were
Speaker 1: poor choices at the time, I did what I had
Speaker 1: to do to survive. So I've been seeing a lot
Speaker 1: of people say that you have choices even as sex workers,
Speaker 1: like you didn't have to sign up to rob and
Speaker 1: drug men and take their money the way you did.
Speaker 1: And so I kind of wanted to know if you
Speaker 1: had any thoughts on that because I've spoken to some
Speaker 1: of my friends and got their feedback and definitely wanted
Speaker 1: to share. Um, what what I spoke about. I think
Speaker 1: the reason it's easier to digest the Cardi thing than
Speaker 1: it is a Cosby thing is because Cosby's intention was more.
Speaker 1: I'm hurtful. Um, I know that you're still hurting these men,
Speaker 1: but maybe because I had to do with their bodies. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not saying that. It's hard. It's a hard thing
Speaker 1: to say, much like if someone you know, I don't
Speaker 1: believe a sin as a sin, Like you know, if
Speaker 1: you rob someone or you rape them. I don't think
Speaker 1: robbing is that bad compared to raping. No, I agree
Speaker 1: with that, And so I spoke to a couple of
Speaker 1: my friends who are escorts, um and try to get
Speaker 1: the sense to where a lot of them were defending
Speaker 1: Cardie and of course the men were like odd as
Speaker 1: they changed it that I don't want to get into
Speaker 1: the rackspect of it. No, but not only safety. Um.
Speaker 1: She said that what you guys have to realize because
Speaker 1: a lot of people were thinking it was bullshit, with
Speaker 1: her saying it was a means of survival and things
Speaker 1: like that. So speaking to my friends and I won't
Speaker 1: say their names, the ones who do it. They came
Speaker 1: back and reassured me, every time we meet a guy,
Speaker 1: there's a fear of if that person is going to
Speaker 1: kill us, if they're not going to give us the
Speaker 1: money they said they were going to give us, if
Speaker 1: they are going to violate and rape us. And they
Speaker 1: said that a lot of them have an instinct with this.
Speaker 1: And so in the case of her saying it was
Speaker 1: a means of survival, it could have been that maybe
Speaker 1: this person she felt wasn't going to pay her up
Speaker 1: or felt like he was going to do something, and
Speaker 1: there is a human and I think she said she
Speaker 1: was why she was doing it. Well, yeah, well this
Speaker 1: is this is where it's It's not to to sit
Speaker 1: here and dissect what Cardi said. It's for what my
Speaker 1: friend said, why they may go to a means of
Speaker 1: robbing a nigga drug and a nigga doing that they
Speaker 1: is that they do in this field of work, because essentially,
Speaker 1: you're in a space where a you are doing what
Speaker 1: you're doing to make money, but there are a lot
Speaker 1: of ways where the men still have the upper hand
Speaker 1: even though you're laying down the rules, you're asking for
Speaker 1: the money, you're setting the price, and you're letting them
Speaker 1: know what they have. But there's a lot of incidences
Speaker 1: where you're in these rooms and you don't feel safe,
Speaker 1: and so I guess it's the flip side to choosing
Speaker 1: to do this. And so I would say, maybe it
Speaker 1: wasn't her intention even in saying it, but in a
Speaker 1: means of survival, she could have also been saying I
Speaker 1: resorted to sex work as a means of survival, not
Speaker 1: the didn't Cardi wants say that? And I remember Ali
Speaker 1: triple X was saying this when I was in Houston,
Speaker 1: were no I was in Dallas. She was like, fuck
Speaker 1: card She didn't say fun Cardi, but she was like
Speaker 1: CARDI was shaming sex worker sex I was stripping, but
Speaker 1: I never did that. So never had sex for money.
Speaker 1: That's the thing. So the guy who even allegedly came
Speaker 1: out and said the whole Cardi thing said that I
Speaker 1: remember Cardi twerking on me. Next thing, I remember, I
Speaker 1: look on the floor and there's a used condom in
Speaker 1: my iPad e fifty dollars and up, and jewelry was missing.
Speaker 1: So there was allude to sex. But he didn't say
Speaker 1: I remember sucking her, and so I don't believe the
Speaker 1: cardis for money talking like that, No, I wouldn't believe
Speaker 1: that she's never fun, but that may have been her
Speaker 1: means of resorting to it. I'm meeting you on the
Speaker 1: sex club. You think you're gonna suck me after for
Speaker 1: more money, and instead I'm that was her means of
Speaker 1: making money is drugging niggas and robbing niggas. It wasn't
Speaker 1: necessarily ever planning to have sex with them. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's aweso hood ship and the rapping and the rapping
Speaker 1: you mentioned. I saw Leah McSweeney said something like and
Speaker 1: as much as I really funk with Leah like I
Speaker 1: like her a lot of her opinions, I don't know
Speaker 1: you hate them. That's why we had to wait to
Speaker 1: get her on the show. But she said one thing.
Speaker 1: She said, you know, we've listened to rappers for years
Speaker 1: talking even Rick Ross, who was talking about put them molly. Damn.
Speaker 1: I can't remember that put the molly in a drink
Speaker 1: and she enjoyed it. She ain't, No, she didn't even
Speaker 1: know what that's right, and we didn't. We gave him
Speaker 1: a little bit of ship for it. But not like this.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think social media is probably a little
Speaker 1: bit bigger now. But we lost he lost money over
Speaker 1: that line. Okay, so but that's the thing. We've glorified
Speaker 1: rap for the robbing, the killing, the fucking holes, the
Speaker 1: doing this, the cheating, and now a bitch coming out
Speaker 1: and saying and she doesn't even rap about this, but
Speaker 1: this was her life. She is a rapper, she's in
Speaker 1: hip hop. Why are we gonna see him be mad
Speaker 1: at her? Would mind you? I was just with with
Speaker 1: my homeboys last night. They said, these new niggas really
Speaker 1: about that life, which is why why I mean Nelly
Speaker 1: he said, NBA young boy? He said, Oh that nigga
Speaker 1: got shooters. He said, like, these young boys are walking
Speaker 1: out of here, but they bout that life. And so
Speaker 1: we've sat here and glorified the rat music for what
Speaker 1: it is, and now this is really shooters, which is
Speaker 1: why we have Bobby Smurder and Jail six nine in jail,
Speaker 1: why m whatever, Melly killed his goddamn friends. The rappers
Speaker 1: live in the life. They that we essentially really liked.
Speaker 1: What did Drake saying and going bad? Talking about got
Speaker 1: a sticky and I leave it in my dog's plate.
Speaker 1: That's what you gotta do. By the way, we should
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Speaker 1: actually from Love Be Scott dot com. I love Love
Speaker 1: Be Scot. I used to read it all the time
Speaker 1: when I was in Atlanta. This is hilarious, and I
Speaker 1: figured we would take a little cackle at this cackle cackle.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just you know, a woman bakes her
Speaker 1: own kidnapping and death after discovering her boyfriend's poor So
Speaker 1: the woman surnamed You had been dating her boyfriend Lynn
Speaker 1: for a while, but she only learned that he was
Speaker 1: poor after visiting his home during Chinese New Year. It
Speaker 1: was something she apparently just couldn't get over, so she
Speaker 1: decided to leave him. But, fearing that he would get
Speaker 1: clingy and refuse rejection if she simply told him she
Speaker 1: wanted to end the relationship, you devised a plan to
Speaker 1: make herself disappear. Wait, so how did she like about
Speaker 1: to tell you? How she made it obituary with the
Speaker 1: she said on February twenty one, shortly after returning from
Speaker 1: the disappointing visits to Lyne's hometown, You disappeared from the
Speaker 1: couple's dormitory at the Hong fight jang dong Dong Industrial Park.
Speaker 1: Her name is you, Her name is you. His name
Speaker 1: is Lynn, And a few minutes later, she called her
Speaker 1: boyfriend to tell him that she had been kidnapped by
Speaker 1: her ex husband. Come and save me. My ex husband
Speaker 1: has kidnapped me. Come quickly. I think I'm on the
Speaker 1: highway already, the thirty seven year old woman said, before
Speaker 1: bro bro To make her kidnapping seem more believable, You
Speaker 1: then sent her boyfriend's several text messages pretending to be
Speaker 1: her kidnapper, warning him that she would be killed if
Speaker 1: he dared called the police. She then followed up with
Speaker 1: more texts informing Land than she had been killed and
Speaker 1: her body had been thrown in a lake. Unable to
Speaker 1: negotiate with the kidnapper, a distress, Land eventually called the police.
Speaker 1: After being informed about the situation, local police started investigating
Speaker 1: Surveilian's footage and Wuhan, and three days ago they were
Speaker 1: able to track down You to a small motel and
Speaker 1: Wuhan Tanglong district. This pitch was in a motel, but
Speaker 1: when they arrived to the scene, officers were shocked to
Speaker 1: find the legend victim casually lying on the bed watching TV.
Speaker 1: Ha ha, Did she go to jail for this? Let
Speaker 1: me see if she would have jail. She was questioned
Speaker 1: by the police after her kidnapping. She was surprisingly calm,
Speaker 1: and she told them she recently found out that her
Speaker 1: boyfriend was poor. She faked her on kidnapping and murder,
Speaker 1: hoping that that would just give up and move on
Speaker 1: with and that he would give up and move on
Speaker 1: with his life. Um eh. She actually had was detained
Speaker 1: by police for d days for disrupting social order. That
Speaker 1: might be bad, that might be worth it, you know.
Speaker 1: And then when we get out that, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't want you now, don't ask me why I did
Speaker 1: what I did? God damn. You know he's gonna be
Speaker 1: But why what happened? I think, Oh, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know what that is. I thought. I thought, I don't
Speaker 1: know Filipino I can do. That's Filipino is different from Vietnamese.
Speaker 1: I'm doing I'm thinking about that was definitely vietnames because
Speaker 1: that's who that was. Vietnamese Filipinos were like, um man,
Speaker 1: I'm still Basically what I'm trying to see is that
Speaker 1: your phone is going to be working, and about two
Speaker 1: hours you're like, no, that what is philip I'm Filipino
Speaker 1: customer service. That's Filippino. That's Filipino customer service of when
Speaker 1: you call like sprint. Where is the lie to this? Oh?
Speaker 1: He said, okay, trap trap gang gang. I I can't do.
Speaker 1: I'm done with y'all. So I get wait Chinese is
Speaker 1: Oh all I know is like ni how but ni
Speaker 1: ni ho? No? How damned. I just want to say that, honestly,
Speaker 1: I've never failed. You leave someone because you found out
Speaker 1: they were broker than you thought they were. That's the
Speaker 1: question I wanted to ask. The question is how broke?
Speaker 1: What is broke to you? Because we didn't have had
Speaker 1: that question? Oh man, I mean like I was talking
Speaker 1: about Homeboy last night. He said here he said he
Speaker 1: he was talking like man when I was regular, because
Speaker 1: we were talking about the CARDI B thing, and he's like, man,
Speaker 1: when I was regular, I used to easily be able
Speaker 1: to take strippers home and have sex with them. He
Speaker 1: was like, man, and all I threw was five hundred dollars.
Speaker 1: I said, you're not you're not, You're not regular. I said,
Speaker 1: they went home with me because you threw five hundred dollars, sir,
Speaker 1: so they thought you they were gonna get more. I said,
Speaker 1: a regular ni nigga working at FedEx ain't going into
Speaker 1: the strip club throwing five hulls on a regular FedEx
Speaker 1: ain't throwing five in the club. Fact, but FedEx isn't broke,
Speaker 1: but it's not throwing five hundred in the club. You're right,
Speaker 1: I would say broke to me, I don't be don't
Speaker 1: be shaming the broke. He's listening to the no like
Speaker 1: like you don't have your own place. Okay, we're in
Speaker 1: New York. Oh, roommate is that fine? Um, I'll do
Speaker 1: what a roommate, I guess, but I don't want to, Okay.
Speaker 1: And honestly, I haven't really had to because of their age, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, and I'm talking about mid thirties. Um Jeeves
Speaker 1: had a roommate, but he's not his Brooklyn artist ship,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. A different scene. It is different.
Speaker 1: Give me a salary for Nick? To me, is you
Speaker 1: can't take me out. If you can't afford to take
Speaker 1: me out, I can't do it. It's funny because I
Speaker 1: was telling my my friend at this point, um, and
Speaker 1: we were talking about dating regular guys, and when she
Speaker 1: was dealing with the guys that she was dealing with
Speaker 1: who could drinks some food but just two hundred dollars,
Speaker 1: I said, A regular guy cannot afford eight hundred dollars
Speaker 1: a month on dates just to take you out once
Speaker 1: a week. That's a lot of money for a lot
Speaker 1: of guys. So that's a regular nigga. You would not
Speaker 1: date a regular nigga then if he couldn't take you
Speaker 1: out once a week. I mean, okay. When I was
Speaker 1: dating Jeeves, I would say he was the most modest
Speaker 1: of the people I've dated in a long time. Um,
Speaker 1: he was able to afford to take me out weekly.
Speaker 1: We went out every week. Um, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: saw him so often when I was taking him, like
Speaker 1: three or four times a week. We ate at home,
Speaker 1: one night a week we went out. Yeah, okay, I
Speaker 1: mean I don't know if we were spending to one
Speaker 1: at dollars like, but see, you're not also one who's
Speaker 1: gonna order three or four drinks when you go out
Speaker 1: like that's me, that's her and a hookah's. We'll say
Speaker 1: this though, there was a difference with me going out
Speaker 1: of Jeesus and were going with Beard Bay or me
Speaker 1: going out way a blue check type of you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like with me and check out like
Speaker 1: it was you know my cocktails. Jeeves is a type
Speaker 1: of nigga who's like, yo, I found this Japanese underground.
Speaker 1: Now we're going underg Yeah, but it still wasn't And
Speaker 1: here's the thing too, What I had with him was
Speaker 1: so enjoyable because we did do so much sh it
Speaker 1: outside of the box. And I think that the idea
Speaker 1: of that two D date like I hear you and
Speaker 1: it's true, but also like I mean, I'm not necessary.
Speaker 1: They're not necessary before someone like myself or my friends
Speaker 1: who a night out is going to get hookah it
Speaker 1: is going to get multiple drinks because we are we
Speaker 1: drink a lot. To me, to expect that from someone
Speaker 1: is a lot. So I yeah, if that's what I
Speaker 1: like a lot knowing that it's going to cost you
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars a week if we go out once
Speaker 1: a week, that's eight hundred dollars a month. A regular
Speaker 1: person can't sign up for that. And I here's the
Speaker 1: other thing. Is it really a thing to where every
Speaker 1: weekend would be two hundred dollars because you might have
Speaker 1: it might be between dinner at the places that I
Speaker 1: may like and drinks. See, I don't think you don't
Speaker 1: drink a lot. I'm not saying that where you're you're
Speaker 1: the way you're talking is like no boo stk drinks.
Speaker 1: Not even that. No. If I go to Applebee's and
Speaker 1: we sit here and we both order meals ten dollars,
Speaker 1: ten dollars, if we sit there and we're sitting there
Speaker 1: for an hour or two, you can easily spend on
Speaker 1: drink easy dollars a drink, Yeah, like one twenty He broken?
Speaker 1: You know that could be saying so like, okay, you
Speaker 1: don't stay it back. I mean, you know you can
Speaker 1: call himself broke. You carry a job on the video.
Speaker 1: I'm glad we paid you. So okay, you're saying you're
Speaker 1: broke when you're when you meet somebody and you want
Speaker 1: to go out, what's your like, what's the lasts of
Speaker 1: somebody else? Just because less than fifty dollars on a
Speaker 1: five hour day. He just said, doing what talking in
Speaker 1: the park, getting hungry. I'm just I'm just like coffee. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you've got the girls you find out with coffee.
Speaker 1: You're not one of our former guests. Hold on, you're
Speaker 1: not only one years old? Are you a baby? You
Speaker 1: could be broke. That's fine, that's twenty yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's allowed. That's allowed. Okay, So I guess there
Speaker 1: is an age that yeah, no, you're not gonna do this.
Speaker 1: Don't mouth ship while we on air. Ask him when
Speaker 1: we get all bit well yeah, hold on, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I want to say twenty one in that age, I
Speaker 1: don't you have to remember where almost daughter. Don't say
Speaker 1: that we're twenty eight, like I don't like favorite Hole three.
Speaker 1: Let's say we're twenty. Don't say we're all expecting man
Speaker 1: at my age to be I would not expect that
Speaker 1: from that time, one year old, and I wasn't going
Speaker 1: on dates like that when well, yeah you was, because
Speaker 1: you was having niggas paid to take you on dates. Bitch.
Speaker 1: What's your price? What's your price? So we're gonna go
Speaker 1: ahead and get into the whole let me counter off
Speaker 1: it for them to accept, and I was like, ipe,
Speaker 1: I hated you if. If you guys are patrons, I
Speaker 1: will go ahead and post these articles so that you
Speaker 1: can delve into them and read them and then do
Speaker 1: all that good ship. So we're gonna get into our homemail.
Speaker 1: I have one, and then we just gonna read off
Speaker 1: the second one. So this one the title I just
Speaker 1: latched when I saw it. I fucked his teammates. Is
Speaker 1: the time that came in. Yes, it just came in today.
Speaker 1: I consider myself to be somewhat of a groupie. I
Speaker 1: love professional athletes. I've dealt with quite a few recently.
Speaker 1: I've been dealing with one and things have started to
Speaker 1: get serious. We've met each other's families and everything. I've
Speaker 1: never gotten this serious with an athlete before. The only
Speaker 1: problem is that I fucked two of his teammates in
Speaker 1: the past. I'm scared that he will find out somehow.
Speaker 1: I know that my name has been brought up during
Speaker 1: locker room talk because one of the teammates I fucked
Speaker 1: hit me up and was like, I heard you're talking
Speaker 1: to some and so. But my boo has never said
Speaker 1: anything about it, nor asked me anything, So I don't
Speaker 1: think he knows. Should I come clean and say something
Speaker 1: to him before he finds out, or should I just
Speaker 1: hope it never comes out. Maybe Mandy can help me
Speaker 1: because she's had dealings with athletes before. If I do
Speaker 1: was similar situation, and how I give you deal with? Sincerely, groupie,
Speaker 1: hope maybe many can help you. Actually, Maybee just take
Speaker 1: my piss break now? No, So, I actually wanted to
Speaker 1: bring this up because this doesn't only have to be
Speaker 1: in context to professional I was gonna say I would.
Speaker 1: It could be just to um. It could be two
Speaker 1: groups of friends. It could be to someone where you
Speaker 1: met on Instagram and then you see down the line,
Speaker 1: O ship, he got a picture. Let's related to real life.
Speaker 1: Let's related to real life? No, damn, bro, what's she?
Speaker 1: What's we gotta looking for? Em? I don't see what
Speaker 1: she's looking at. I have been in this situation actually
Speaker 1: kind of recently too. But I'm very honest with the
Speaker 1: people who I dealt with. I've had these relationships and
Speaker 1: so even one guy that I saw recently, he came
Speaker 1: back from the past and he's currently on the team.
Speaker 1: What a niggad that was also on my phone and
Speaker 1: he knew like so long story short, we talked about it. Um.
Speaker 1: I think that you'd be surprised, um how much niggas talk.
Speaker 1: They talk way more than than the girls. So I
Speaker 1: wouldn't doubt if he does already know. I think just
Speaker 1: to give yourself the peace of mind, you should bring
Speaker 1: it up and be like, listen, I would never want
Speaker 1: to embarrass you while we're out, and I would never
Speaker 1: want you to feel blindsided by anything. So I do
Speaker 1: want to let you know this happen. I hope it
Speaker 1: doesn't change our relationship. If it does, it wasn't meant
Speaker 1: to be. But you can't take the bodies off your
Speaker 1: What you said one word, what embarrassed. I know I'm
Speaker 1: saying embarrassed when we know we go out, but that's
Speaker 1: not something that should be shameful. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. I don't, but we need
Speaker 1: to change that thinking. And I'm gonna tell you why.
Speaker 1: You know, niggas we should not go okay, So I
Speaker 1: don't want to crush your ego. But if a man
Speaker 1: and we brought this up, I like the word blindsided
Speaker 1: more than I do embarrassed. I'm gonna tell you why
Speaker 1: when we use words like that, it implies that maybe
Speaker 1: we may be ashamed. And even though you may not
Speaker 1: that give that that's not that I'm has nothing. What
Speaker 1: I've done should not be an embarrassment to you. You
Speaker 1: walking into room with someone I fu should not be embarrassed,
Speaker 1: you know what? You know what, because I'm a fucking
Speaker 1: adult and I've fed. That's a very big deal. Though
Speaker 1: using words like that, I don't want you to feel embarrassed. No,
Speaker 1: I love what you said about blindsided, because that's a
Speaker 1: better word. I just want to make you aware because
Speaker 1: I don't want you to just be caught off guard
Speaker 1: in case it happens. So eliminate embarrassed out that, but
Speaker 1: pretty much let him know that you're telling him not
Speaker 1: to start anything, not to be you know it. Also,
Speaker 1: don't make it a big deal. No, just say listen.
Speaker 1: I yeah, I would say, let him know. Let him
Speaker 1: decide whether it mean a lot to you or not.
Speaker 1: I will say, a lot of these niggas don't even
Speaker 1: like each other, bro, so it might not even be
Speaker 1: that their friends. It might not mean anything to him
Speaker 1: at all. And a lot of them get traded and
Speaker 1: end up on other teams and have all new teammates
Speaker 1: next year, so it may not even be a long
Speaker 1: term issue. So that's how I would do. I agree.
Speaker 1: I think that um making people aware of who have
Speaker 1: you slept with is a nice thing to do. I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's necessary, but in this case, I would,
Speaker 1: because they're technically colleagues, you know. I mean, if you
Speaker 1: fucked my coworker, I would want to know. I'm just
Speaker 1: walking into office, like, so this everysoning I'll come in
Speaker 1: here has even gonna be funny, now I know. And
Speaker 1: you also don't want to feel talked about behind you know,
Speaker 1: someone's back. But just the only reason I made a
Speaker 1: big deal about that word embarrassed is because we have
Speaker 1: unknowingly presented things in ways that it may seem like
Speaker 1: it's shameful, but it's not. And I want to make
Speaker 1: sure that like, and it's hard not to because my
Speaker 1: mind's work this way. We grow up society being women
Speaker 1: being shamed. That's the second. That's the first thing you
Speaker 1: thought of, And that's what I would thinking. I don't
Speaker 1: need to feel Nah, stand in your truth. You don't
Speaker 1: have to be a horror because you got exactly because
Speaker 1: nig on the team and well and I won't bring
Speaker 1: up names, like I'm not a pillow talker, but if
Speaker 1: it's in a situation like this, or I see that,
Speaker 1: oh they know each other, or they're tweeting or their
Speaker 1: Instagram things like I'm not gonna lie. The person that
Speaker 1: I cuddled with last night knows my the m c
Speaker 1: M that I post often, And so that was brought
Speaker 1: up because he's like, oh, um, you deal with my homeboy,
Speaker 1: and so that was kind of awkward and I was
Speaker 1: just like, Um, the only thing that saved me was
Speaker 1: I don't think he realized I really knew the nigga,
Speaker 1: because he was like, you can't know him because you
Speaker 1: don't post nigcause you really funk with And I was like, actually,
Speaker 1: so why do you post this guy? I really like him.
Speaker 1: We vibe, he supports it's everything that we do with
Speaker 1: the podcast. Um when I met him, like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just really vibe with him. So
Speaker 1: like he's never ashamed, he comments under all my pictures.
Speaker 1: He loves what we do with the podcast, he loves
Speaker 1: the drive that I do. And because he's a creative
Speaker 1: in a sense, he supports me as a creative kind
Speaker 1: of riot bro. I love. Honestly, that's probably like Jeeves
Speaker 1: came to our show, right, I got them, and it
Speaker 1: is always so like fuck yes about what I'm doing,
Speaker 1: And I realized, I love that he's on that creative ship.
Speaker 1: It right, Like I could sit there and with hours
Speaker 1: and talk about content about guys I used to talk
Speaker 1: to and he's like, yeah, like I think I love
Speaker 1: that story. It's great, and that's yeah, that's why. My
Speaker 1: friend that I was with last night, he brought me
Speaker 1: around millionaire like white people. But they're in the tech space,
Speaker 1: the radio space. They do algorithms and all this stuff.
Speaker 1: And literally he's a Dumbo house. We went to dumble house,
Speaker 1: like met all these rich people. We were at PhD.
Speaker 1: So he's bringing me around them and we're having these
Speaker 1: talks about numbers, algorithm stats, all this stuff that has
Speaker 1: to do with music but also relates to podcasting. And literally,
Speaker 1: as he's introducing me to these white men, he's like, Yo,
Speaker 1: this is my friend. She has one of the dopest podcasts,
Speaker 1: like Supernumbers. They're on tour. He's selling me to these people.
Speaker 1: And then as we're having these conversations, these rich white
Speaker 1: men are asking me how I'm doing things, and we're
Speaker 1: having these long conversations. So at the end of the night,
Speaker 1: while we're cuddling, he's like, man, I like you. He's
Speaker 1: like the fact that I could bring you around these
Speaker 1: people that I want to do business with, they respected you.
Speaker 1: They all give me their business cards. He's like, do
Speaker 1: you know how sexy it was to me that another
Speaker 1: like just a woman that I could bring around wasn't
Speaker 1: embarrassed to suspeci I'll show you. I'll show you him
Speaker 1: and we just bought you. Just really made me realize
Speaker 1: when I started liking Beard Bay when I went to
Speaker 1: New Orleans. We're eating this New Orleans, not like not
Speaker 1: like I was into him, but not like this when
Speaker 1: we were in New Orleans. And it's mainly because that
Speaker 1: conversation how with Shan Booty, where she was like, bro,
Speaker 1: the thing that the last dude didn't like about you,
Speaker 1: this next one is going to love. She was like
Speaker 1: that last dude didn't like that you were too wild.
Speaker 1: He's gonna he's not gonna be able to stop telling
Speaker 1: people how wild you are. The next one, it's for you.
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying he's for me or anything. But
Speaker 1: we were out and he ran into it. He knew
Speaker 1: he couldn't even he was more excited than that podcast.
Speaker 1: And he was like, yo, she got this podcast and
Speaker 1: it's like crazy and and he's smiling talking about it,
Speaker 1: and it was it was nice that morning. It's Monday morning.
Speaker 1: I'm sitting on his lap. He's showed me a video
Speaker 1: on his phone and um, Horrible Decisions has a new
Speaker 1: episode popped up. And I was like, you subscribe to
Speaker 1: my podcast. He was like, yeah, I subscribe to your podcast.
Speaker 1: And I was like, because when people say they funk
Speaker 1: with you, I don't really know if they fucking do.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you now. Bitch, all my old niggas all
Speaker 1: coming back, and it's disgusting, like one is disgusting first off.
Speaker 1: No like discussing first off. And a lot of them
Speaker 1: now are free agents and not even in the league
Speaker 1: no more. But they all they all like all my
Speaker 1: old athletes like that. We just didn't really do nothing.
Speaker 1: Like one wants me to consult him because he wants
Speaker 1: to start a podcast now. The other one hit me
Speaker 1: and was like, yo, I was talking to my cousin
Speaker 1: and my cousin brought you up. You know you popping
Speaker 1: another one was talking about the tour. But they all
Speaker 1: they ain't got my number and I'm not hitting him
Speaker 1: back on my new number. But they're all hitting me
Speaker 1: through Instagram, through Twitter, my email. You had a new
Speaker 1: number from when I was sucking them. But the one nigga,
Speaker 1: what's what I was taking? The one nigga we fucked
Speaker 1: six years ago, and he's hitting me like yeah awesome
Speaker 1: reminists and ship. I was like, I don't remember, like
Speaker 1: we I don't. I've had a lot since then, um sir,
Speaker 1: and I'm not interested in you know, more like what like,
Speaker 1: don't come back? You remember this? And Nigga I fucked?
Speaker 1: He plays ball overseas and I just recently found him again.
Speaker 1: He I don't know how we found each other. But
Speaker 1: the point is, bitch, he said his dick and he
Speaker 1: was nice and chocolate. You don't remember it? I mean yeah,
Speaker 1: but it was I remember it being big. It's just
Speaker 1: like we didn't really connect on another level. Like you know,
Speaker 1: I'm emotional, but bitch, hold on, look at this dick.
Speaker 1: Do you remember him? And I went to Europe when
Speaker 1: he was playing in Europe, I went to Switzerland. We
Speaker 1: might not have been friends and we were you don't
Speaker 1: remember him. I was living with Coolie at the time.
Speaker 1: I don't remember him. He find no bitches ship and
Speaker 1: he slapped the dick on his stomach. Bitch, I hate you.
Speaker 1: I've literally come to all them like I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't know why they're all coming back. Ront you see
Speaker 1: that slab I love a mushroom head. But no, I
Speaker 1: really think like it's it's it's. It's to the point
Speaker 1: where just like I feel like we've had conversations like
Speaker 1: the I hate you. We don't want to see you
Speaker 1: slappy dick on your stomach. No, thank yeah, no, not
Speaker 1: not even just a little bit. No, oh, I gotta
Speaker 1: pay to see you slack you dick on you sum
Speaker 1: First of all, actually I don't pay for dick ever,
Speaker 1: I get it for free. But now I think it's
Speaker 1: weird though, that a lot of them are coming from
Speaker 1: the past and now are just like, I'm so proud
Speaker 1: of you. I always knew he was gonna be a star,
Speaker 1: like and it's just kind of like then we could.
Speaker 1: It's an awkward feeling awkward. But even if they got
Speaker 1: sucked in high school and came back high school broke,
Speaker 1: because we've been doing this for two years, right, we
Speaker 1: come in the studio with the same energy. We'll be
Speaker 1: head sometimes we don't, you know what I mean, And
Speaker 1: we've been putting the same energy. It's just now other
Speaker 1: people are getting energy, you know. And it's funny because
Speaker 1: like some people would be like, oh, like y'all piped
Speaker 1: up about nothing but my nigga. Anytime we've arrived at
Speaker 1: a city the show was sold out. And I don't
Speaker 1: even want to knock on wood because I don't think
Speaker 1: I needed to, because that's just the fucking trend. It
Speaker 1: is what it is. It's not you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: y'all fun with us. I've been to enough live podcast
Speaker 1: now to know there is nothing like we do. I
Speaker 1: don't know what it is. I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: because of the audience we have. We have great audience.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's even when they sucked, the
Speaker 1: show was still good. And I'm not gonna say what
Speaker 1: city was, but you know what I was talking about
Speaker 1: that was in your opinion, you just didn't We're not
Speaker 1: gonna get into that. I don't think that audience had
Speaker 1: the energy that we've had at other shows. But even
Speaker 1: that show, when I thought I was going to open
Speaker 1: my d ms and people people are like, I can't.
Speaker 1: This is I'm so glad I drove all this way,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, they love it, they thank us, and
Speaker 1: it's it's engaging. It's also reflective as to what we
Speaker 1: do on the podcast, like we don't really deter too much,
Speaker 1: and it's I read a comment where someone said they're
Speaker 1: exactly what I thought they would be, and I was like, perfect, yeah,
Speaker 1: what I want people to think me too, and like
Speaker 1: that felt good because sometimes I've been to a live
Speaker 1: podcast where I was so excited to see them and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh right. I did have a good
Speaker 1: time at a Brilliance, the one we went to together
Speaker 1: with your mom my, my first my first um time
Speaker 1: seeing the Joe Budden pot actually at Highline was really good.
Speaker 1: They had the live that was a great thing. That
Speaker 1: was that was a really good. They had the stage
Speaker 1: set up exactly like the venue. But you know what,
Speaker 1: and it's funny, what Highline is no longer open? No, No,
Speaker 1: it wasn't Highlight. I'm wrong. I like the Sony Music Theater,
Speaker 1: so I think I went to but they did have
Speaker 1: they had the couch and they had the background and like,
Speaker 1: I love that Tony that one too. That was a
Speaker 1: great one and it was a good one. Um. I
Speaker 1: guess before we had out of here though, guys, UM,
Speaker 1: we do want to thank you again. I do want
Speaker 1: to shout out, um homie Don Cannon sent me to
Speaker 1: shirts shout out to Don Cannon. I do also want
Speaker 1: to say that is the studio we use when we
Speaker 1: are in Atlanta. So if you're in Atlanta and podcasting,
Speaker 1: mean Street studios is what. Oh I got three, I
Speaker 1: got three, you can have one of you by the
Speaker 1: whole bit I was gonna hold, I was gonna give
Speaker 1: you one. You take the black one because I wanted
Speaker 1: Neon green one. Uh, I'll give you the black one.
Speaker 1: But thanks John Canna, shout out to you everything you've
Speaker 1: got going on. You were creative. So he supports everything
Speaker 1: that we got going on to UM. I guess is
Speaker 1: there any other um things that we want to shout out?
Speaker 1: I guess, um, we've they've supported us and everything that
Speaker 1: we've done. So if you are in Atlanta, Cocktails Podcast
Speaker 1: with Kiki and Medina, they added a second show. That's right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So if you guys are interested in crating us about Atlanta.
Speaker 1: Go and support these black girls in your city, nearby
Speaker 1: your city. They are so sweet. I know, necessilly thing
Speaker 1: to say, but like this reported us. Um, she's coming
Speaker 1: to Houston, kicks coming to you from Texas. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: is so um check them out, super dope, check out.
Speaker 1: I think they're doing their show to say time we're
Speaker 1: actually you know, it's so funny, it's like almost unspoken.
Speaker 1: I think if I had to compare myself to anyone cocktails,
Speaker 1: I think I'm more like Medina, I think, and I'm
Speaker 1: more like Kiki, And now I gonna Kiki right and
Speaker 1: Medina schools out. But we both talked to another one. Um.
Speaker 1: And then I also to want to give us a
Speaker 1: shout out to wind Down Wednesday and my homegirl Lakes
Speaker 1: p Indria. Um, they both have been on this podcast
Speaker 1: and they're building there. Like that episode a lot fun there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so check them out. UM, I don't know everyone, We're
Speaker 1: excited to see you guys on the rest of the
Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm still sorry. I got to shout out
Speaker 1: the team really quick. Small podcasts. It's in Connecticut. They're growing.
Speaker 1: These girls have treated me better than I've treated people
Speaker 1: that they gauge in it on us. I'm at you
Speaker 1: posted all that because now people don't think we need
Speaker 1: to treat them so guilty. So Hi Rise chocolate covered strawberries, well,
Speaker 1: goddamn they they brought it out because they knew I
Speaker 1: was allergic to eggs and my birthday was that week.
Speaker 1: It was that Sunday and they fucking it out with
Speaker 1: a sparkler. They were just so They wrote me to
Speaker 1: thank you know, about how much we're an inspiration to them,
Speaker 1: and like the pictures look dope too. They were so sweet.
Speaker 1: She was like, we just like a leve hip hop reunion.
Speaker 1: You know, Bro, I'm gonna talking about funk with them,
Speaker 1: my nigger. She had to receipt and my money. The
Speaker 1: second I was done, I was like, thank you. You know,
Speaker 1: I had my deposit at first, but I funk with
Speaker 1: that ship because not to say that your words here,
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's gonna be some black people don't be paying. No,
Speaker 1: I was gonna say for somebody that is not I
Speaker 1: didn't know their name at first until they wrote me
Speaker 1: for something smaller or something not, like, you know, they
Speaker 1: had their ships so seamless. Bro shout out to that manager.
Speaker 1: I Legit was like, I think I want you. She
Speaker 1: was giving these girls towels waters. They didn't do nothing, Mandy,
Speaker 1: and the way we'll be running around. I've been told
Speaker 1: you about this ship, but you don't want to give up.
Speaker 1: She was. I'm telling them how you don't want to
Speaker 1: pay nobody a percentage. Hope. It's not a percentage that
Speaker 1: we did all the door. But if we got a
Speaker 1: manage it, now we gotta. She's I want to pay her.
Speaker 1: I told her, I would love for you to be
Speaker 1: part of our growing when I when I arrived with Enoch,
Speaker 1: she drove me up. She wanted to die. She had
Speaker 1: she was outside the whole dope. I want to hold her.
Speaker 1: She was ready outside and willing. Okay. She was like,
Speaker 1: we have someone assigned to you for the night. If
Speaker 1: you need anything. Bro. They was treating me like I
Speaker 1: was fucking Beyonce, and I'm telling you right now, the
Speaker 1: fucking Tito's cheese and crackers. Bitch was ready, No eggs,
Speaker 1: little do that. No, you don't even drink like that,
Speaker 1: but I was drinking it though. You and I just
Speaker 1: fun with this and you know, just meeting our listeners
Speaker 1: and you know, different plays. It was dope, and I realized,
Speaker 1: like that is the kind of ship we need. We
Speaker 1: hired that girl that was running around. She was insane.
Speaker 1: They have flowers ready for me, bitch. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: we're doing all that, but you don't even want to
Speaker 1: pay for extra mic and she talks you think she's
Speaker 1: for pay for I don't want to do all that,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm just saying. She's like, wait, a wireless
Speaker 1: costs forty dollars. Actually will take the wire thing said
Speaker 1: like this makes me live like a little pussy. The
Speaker 1: same people TV. I don't want to buy flowers, but
Speaker 1: her the way that they didn't stress and she was
Speaker 1: running around. We'll just hand the mic off. We don't
Speaker 1: have to pay that forty dollars. Like, shut your dew
Speaker 1: ass because you eat cheapest. Fucking you all you're talking
Speaker 1: about flower. I'm appreciating what they did. I say I
Speaker 1: want to do it. Saying I appreciate what they did,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to say I do it, want to
Speaker 1: do it for other people. I just wanted a manager
Speaker 1: to come and do our New York. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I want thatch halls. It's like all right, but like
Speaker 1: not a lot, right, I'm not saying with you anyways, guys,
Speaker 1: as you guys don't be we are able to be
Speaker 1: on the tour because of you. There are still tickets
Speaker 1: left because of you, because of my patrons, by bad
Speaker 1: and I'd be because of all of them, but because
Speaker 1: of our patrons. Um. Again, we do have tickets left
Speaker 1: for the second show that's in l A. It will
Speaker 1: be at the Hollywood Improv on May twelve. Please check
Speaker 1: us out. The May eleventh Saturday show is completely sold out,
Speaker 1: but we have tickets left in l A. And there
Speaker 1: are a very few tickets left in Toronto other than
Speaker 1: that which we sold out everywhere else. Houston is officially
Speaker 1: sold out. UM Miami is officially sold out. Both Chicago
Speaker 1: shows that we have already done were sold out. Everything
Speaker 1: sold out for the rest of the tour except for
Speaker 1: that second show in l A on May twelve and
Speaker 1: our very last show in Toronto on May eighth. There
Speaker 1: are less than ten tickets for that though, so we're
Speaker 1: looking forward to seeing you guys again. This is all
Speaker 1: because you guys support us and have become patrons and
Speaker 1: allow us to now travel with the country and give
Speaker 1: you guys this show and meet you guys in person,
Speaker 1: So we want to thank you before we get up
Speaker 1: out of here. We are going to drop you a
Speaker 1: clip of one of our bonus episodes. And again, this
Speaker 1: is just a whole another episode that you get. As
Speaker 1: of right now, we have about thirty extra bonus episodes,
Speaker 1: so if you are all caught up on all hundred
Speaker 1: plus episodes, you can become a patron and listen to more.
Speaker 1: So once again, this has been yet another episode of
Speaker 1: four Decisions. By the way, I didn't let anybody know
Speaker 1: until now. Actually I'm ready to talk about it. Not
Speaker 1: not fully married. He was the one. Yeah, I did.
Speaker 1: I did. I didn't marry for money because he didn't
Speaker 1: have it. Um. I'm married because and that's not say
Speaker 1: that's the truth. I was a breadwinner, you know, Um,
Speaker 1: and still am. But in terms of I'm married for love,
Speaker 1: I'm married because I saw someone who I considered my
Speaker 1: egual and someone that I wanted the best for in
Speaker 1: us to be able to work and grow together. How
Speaker 1: many like loves do you think we get on sex
Speaker 1: in the city, they say you get two great loves, right,
Speaker 1: But there's other things that we read about, like twin
Speaker 1: flames and this kind of soul mate and blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: How many do you think we get in life? Do
Speaker 1: you think as much as I think we have multiple
Speaker 1: soul mates. I think that um, we go, our bodies go.
Speaker 1: We are in a constant stage of evolution. And as
Speaker 1: our minds and our hearts and our spirits continue to
Speaker 1: grow and we continue to gather information. Right because our
Speaker 1: bodies are we store that. We store that in our skin,
Speaker 1: we stored in our minds, we stored it in our
Speaker 1: eyes and our hearts. With that comes life experiences and
Speaker 1: over time, you can, yes, have I do believe have
Speaker 1: multiple soul mates. I don't know necessarily all at the
Speaker 1: same time, but I do believe over time, gradually you
Speaker 1: meet people in life that you connect with and maybe
Speaker 1: it's a different connection from what you had before with
Speaker 1: the other partner. I have a twin flame. May he
Speaker 1: rest in peace. He will still be my twin flame.
Speaker 1: You know, He's someone that I can still feel every
Speaker 1: now and then, or I'll see these little glimmers and
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, you came through you, you showed me
Speaker 1: you're still around. And I believe in that um and
Speaker 1: so to answer your question, I think that we, over
Speaker 1: time can have more than one soul mate and not
Speaker 1: just too. What about when you've had them, Have you
Speaker 1: noticed anything that's the same, because I have when I
Speaker 1: meet these people, have you what is it like for me?
Speaker 1: I think, Um, what is the same? Is feeling something familiar?
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I was just gonna say, whenever I
Speaker 1: meet a guy that I know will be around, or
Speaker 1: a friend I know i'll see again, I'm like, I
Speaker 1: feel like I know you already. Yeah. What I and
Speaker 1: what I say to that is I'll say it's nice
Speaker 1: to see you again, and they know what I mean
Speaker 1: because they understand it. Really, Yeah, it's nice to see
Speaker 1: you again the first time you meet them. Like the
Speaker 1: last person I met like that, who was Jeeves, the
Speaker 1: guy you saw at the show. It was actually sitting
Speaker 1: across from me. Yeah, that's super fucking depressing breakup I
Speaker 1: had right and I was like, I'm never going to
Speaker 1: be anybody else And it was a date that I
Speaker 1: didn't want to go on, and it was just like, fuck,
Speaker 1: I meet this guy. It was like ten minutes, maybe
Speaker 1: less than that, Maybe I don't know. I was sitting
Speaker 1: there and I texted my friends like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: he's gonna be my next boyfriend. Like I could feel it,
Speaker 1: feel it. And it's so crazy because we go on
Speaker 1: these dates with people and we immediately know we may
Speaker 1: not see them again or they're not that interesting. Why
Speaker 1: do we stay because we I think for the why
Speaker 1: we stay is because it's innate within us to not
Speaker 1: give up right away and still give it one more try,
Speaker 1: like let me see this out one more time or
Speaker 1: two more times and see where that goes. So that's
Speaker 1: why I think we we do stay for an extra
Speaker 1: day or third date is to say, well, sometimes people
Speaker 1: are nervous on the first try. It's just like nervous sex.
Speaker 1: You know. It's like, let's just get that ship out
Speaker 1: the way, like true, you know, and maybe be able
Speaker 1: to Is the one going to be like that? Probably not?
Speaker 1: Probably not. I've had I've had soul mates that are
Speaker 1: you know, because they are these are former lovers, but
Speaker 1: we're still good friends and they know who they are.
Speaker 1: And I knew just by them walking in the room.
Speaker 1: My throat felt like it was choking up because my
Speaker 1: I just knew, like physically and spiritually and emotionally. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, my body the compass is
Speaker 1: towards him and it felt the same way and body compass,
Speaker 1: my body compass. Now the person that you're dating, you've
Speaker 1: been friends with, I'm curious to know because I always
Speaker 1: feel like if we didn't immediately get together, and maybe
Speaker 1: we're not supposed to be together, right so I think, um,
Speaker 1: and you're so in love. I think for me, the
Speaker 1: space that I'm in right now is where the older
Speaker 1: I get, the more that I realized that love comes
Speaker 1: in many ways, and I'm in a headspace to be
Speaker 1: able to communicate that to anyone I'm dating or who
Speaker 1: I'm currently dating, is to be able to say, like,
Speaker 1: this is where I'm at. Um. It can also sound
Speaker 1: like I'm saying open relationship or a polyamorous relationship. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying that, which I do support, by the way, like,
Speaker 1: if if it works for you, I support open relationships,
Speaker 1: I support polly life, go for it. Definitely, it's not
Speaker 1: for everyone. I've done it, but I think that's also
Speaker 1: two case by case. I also think monogamy is beautiful
Speaker 1: if you have someone that you are interested in and
Speaker 1: it's consensual, for sure, But the kind of love space
Speaker 1: that I'm in right now, is experiencing experience Wow, that happened.
Speaker 1: Is receiving, delivering and receiving all forms of love, and
Speaker 1: that could be anything from self love. It can also
Speaker 1: be love that I want to exchange with you, that
Speaker 1: I want to exchange with the person that I'm dating. UM.
Speaker 1: And why I say that is because for me, one
Speaker 1: person cannot be my everything and that sounds that sounds
Speaker 1: horrible right now, How does that factor into monogamy? Because
Speaker 1: I agree with that statement, But which one the monogamy
Speaker 1: or no? No, No, you're saying that one person can't
Speaker 1: be or everything, so you don't necessary You're saying you
Speaker 1: don't necessarily need to have another boyfriend to be everything.
Speaker 1: You just need to have those people in your life. Yes,
Speaker 1: and