1 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome, welcome back. You got just me a 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: weezy today, but welcome to a motherfucking episode of Whole Decisions. 3 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: This your girl, Mandy and I'm weazy high End and 4 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: we are here. UM's dirty, Like it's got to be 5 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 1: super dirty. So so I actually wanted to talk about um, 6 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: something that happened on my trip to London, UM, and 7 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 1: it made me realize why I go after the guys 8 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: I go after, So I wanted to kind of talk 9 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 1: about that. So it's not really a nasty catch up. 10 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: I really haven't been having much sex because I still 11 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 1: don't know what I've been I've been wanting to start 12 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: the shows with like like Andrew, like when the last 13 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: time everybody have sex? But then I realized, like, maybe 14 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 1: we're not getting fun. I'm not really getting funk like that. Also, 15 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 1: I do have sex since we recorded with Andrew, but 16 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: we're we're recording right now, and it's March, whenever this 17 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: episode drops whatever, but it's um, it's March, and I 18 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: literally don't have a free week I haven't had a 19 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: free weekend since February and that literally goes all the 20 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: way to June. So with me, Yeah, clearly. Yeah, so 21 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 1: with me trying to make plans with people, which we 22 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: still have our fucking jobs because the ship bringing in 23 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: money but not enough to quit. Manny, I'm not even 24 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: allowed to you. I've already planned how to propose to 25 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: you that we need to quit. Wait what so I'm 26 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: getting to the point very close where I'm about to 27 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: quit May one. I told them July for us sabbatical. 28 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: I like that word. It feels very white and right. Um, 29 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: I just need to spend more talking in my family. 30 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: They're just really old. I've saved enough money. I'm gonna 31 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: here's what I've come up with. My therapist kind of 32 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 1: help me come up with this though, because he's just 33 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: like so basically, he said to me, you're depressed and stressed, 34 00:01:51,520 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 1: and I can't give you a pill like I did 35 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: before because that was an irrational depression. You felt like 36 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: you would never meet someone, you felt like you could, 37 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: you were helpless. He's like, right now, you're just stressed 38 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: from all the ships you're doing. You got to eliminate 39 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: one of them, and it sounds like the one that 40 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: doesn't isn't progressing as much is your day job. He's like, 41 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: you've saved enough. I've been investing a lot, I've made 42 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: some money, flip some ship. He's like, why don't you 43 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: take four to six months to relax, enjoy your family, 44 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 1: your life, and if you don't make as much money 45 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: from gigs as you would have made in four months 46 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:29,239 Speaker 1: at work, then go back. So my job does have 47 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: that offer. I'm not sure at my UM like no. So, 48 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: so one of the partners that I know UM shout 49 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: out to you because I know you listened to the show. 50 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 1: One of the partners that I know from the San 51 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: Francisco office was in UM in New York, and that's 52 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 1: what she did. She actually took a year off because 53 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: it was a mental and a lot of big companies 54 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: are here for mental health and making sure that their 55 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: employees are happy and in a good mental state. So 56 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: my therapist was telling me that, He's like, I mean 57 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: a lot of complight. You just take an unpaid leave 58 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: or say that you need it for mental reasons, and 59 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:09,919 Speaker 1: a lot of UM companies do offer that. So I'm 60 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: still I told my company if I if I have 61 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 1: not quit by July, it's because I sucked up somehow. 62 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,959 Speaker 1: I've literally been taking I don't see me July and 63 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: if I'm still here, just know whatever I thought I 64 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: was gonna be doing some sh it ain't fall through. 65 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: I've been thinking, like, like even I was telling my therapist, 66 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: He's like, are you what are you scared about? What 67 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,959 Speaker 1: scares you so much? Why are you scared? You told 68 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: me you're gonna go to You're gonna gonna go ontour 69 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 1: and fall. He's like, why what are you freaking out? 70 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, I'm used to the routine. 71 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: I'm used to the consistency. And I'm also used to insurance. 72 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: And he was like, why wouldn't you and Mandy then 73 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: take insurance out on your business account? That makes sense? 74 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: And I was like, I know, but you know what 75 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: I mean, Like, I'm just not used to that. But honestly, bro, 76 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 1: like the things that I've turned down because I had 77 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: to work that wasn't horrible. Decisions related might be small, 78 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: but they could have grown into bigger things. And I 79 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: hate it. I hate that I had to do that, 80 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: you know. I hate that when I go see my 81 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: family it's for fucking hours, you know what I'm saying? Like, literally, 82 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 1: we're going to the Miami Show that Sunday, my grandma 83 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: made it very clear I need to be at the 84 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: nursing home to see her motherfucking birthday party. She was like, 85 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: you're funna be that. So I'm gonna go fly from 86 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: Miami to Orlando for five hours and then fly back 87 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: because I gotta go to work. That's insane. Yeah, no, 88 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: it is. I was talking to Joe yesterday actually and 89 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: was telling him everything that we have going on with 90 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: the podcast. And then after I let him know and 91 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: you know, shout out again to everyone at the Joe 92 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: Button podcast. They all supported us at our New York 93 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: Live show. I told him, Yeah, so we're doing all 94 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 1: this and then yeah, I'm an accountant and she's in 95 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: tech sales and we both work over forty hour weeks 96 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: on top of everything we do with the podcast. And 97 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: he was like, y'all do what I said. Yes. So, 98 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: there are a lot of interviews that we haven't gotten 99 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: to take and a lot of just different things that 100 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 1: we weren't able to be Like, listen, y'all gotta see 101 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 1: us after six pm. Other than that Monday through Friday, 102 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: we can't see you during the day. And I think 103 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: that that's limited us with a lot of things and 104 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 1: it's crazy because there's a lot of podcasts that I 105 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: know are inspired by us and are like seeing our growth. 106 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,359 Speaker 1: So just know, if you stay consistent, if you guys 107 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: continue with with building your brand strong. Like I didn't 108 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: think we could be sitting here saying we've about a quitter. 109 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: I mean, two years is a long time, but it's 110 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: not you know, and honestly, you know my therapist and 111 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 1: his name is one. He's like, yo, he's like four months, right, 112 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: He's like, and you need to be honest with yourself. 113 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: Let's use a small amount of money, a thousand. Let's 114 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: say you don't make six thousand dollars. Used to say 115 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: you make a thousand a month. If you don't make 116 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: six thousand dollars in those six months, go back. He's like, 117 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: but you need to realize you may make five thousand 118 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: one month and zero dollar is the next. He's like, 119 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 1: that's that and that's my concern. So I've bartended. I've 120 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 1: I've been in the creative space with my blog. I've 121 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 1: seen times where I made a whole lot of money 122 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 1: because I had a really good story drop and my 123 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: analytics shut up, and then the next month maybe nothing 124 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: to where I was getting my Google assents. So that 125 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: was always my concern with being a creative is that 126 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: even with our checks, they're not consistent. Like, bitch, we 127 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: literally not to get too much into our dollars. But 128 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: we just got paid for an ad we did in November. 129 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: We just got that motherfucking checked last week. I forgot 130 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, so it's like it's not consistent. So 131 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 1: it's hard to manage with paying bills, saving doing all 132 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: the things that Charlotte. We come in Dallas, we value 133 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 1: lying to these people, but were definitely doing Charlotte. No 134 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: for the bay Area bit the baby we need to do. 135 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: We need to be smart about how we move. You 136 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. We're gonna do Texas like Dallas, Houston, Austin, 137 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: get out. We're gonna do the Bay Area, then we 138 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: go on to l A get out. You know what 139 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying, take them flights and are really easy to 140 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, but when we don't have a job, bro, 141 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm trying. We literally like that event 142 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: bite can pay out. I sold my job, like yeah, 143 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 1: so let me know what y'all have need me to 144 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 1: do tomorrow because I have to leave early because I 145 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: have a flight to Chicago because I have two shows 146 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 1: this weekend. Like so my job knows on Friday's like, bitch, 147 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 1: I'm going to the airport and I'm coming into the 148 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: office that Monday. That's right. Um, So I wanted to, 149 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: I guess share a story because this opened up um 150 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: something to me. So while while I was in London, 151 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: I did London and Paris in a weekend because I'm 152 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 1: looking crazy. I was drunk the whole time. But first off, 153 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: I felt how rich I was too, because bitch, we 154 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: spent probably fours in food just on the Friday, between 155 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: food and drinks, and I don't even eat a lot. 156 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: That was sucking crumpets and fucking dump dumplings and dim 157 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: sum and ship. Yeah, we went to the Shard. It's 158 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: a restaurant called Hu Tongue. On the top of the Shard. 159 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: Beautiful was drinking porn Star Martinez the whole time. I 160 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: love porn so fucking good. Then I love just drinking 161 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: my ship and so good that I don't know what 162 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: the porn start is. By the way, it's so good, 163 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: it's so I don't know why. It's like only in Europe. 164 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 1: I've never been offered a point start in the state here. Yeah, 165 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: you can make it. I asked the ingredients. Fun, it's pomegranted, 166 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: it's super sweet, not passion for sorry, passion for to 167 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: sitting in there. Super juicy. And then you get a 168 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: shot of champagne next to it. Is that champagne? And 169 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: maybe you was that it was prosecco, my champagne. You 170 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: just ain't know. You saw a little bubbly got excited, 171 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: That's what that was. No, but um So, anyways, we 172 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: we went to sketch and then we had dinner reservations 173 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 1: at Novikov and my homegirl Adriana shot out at her 174 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: she had um us on the guest list because she 175 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 1: was like, she didn't really want to be around Nick. 176 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: She wanted to meet new niggas. So she was like, 177 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: I got us on the guest list. Hillsted us at 178 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: the table and I'm like, bitch, I don't do promoter 179 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 1: tables even in the States, but okay, I'm in another country. 180 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: I'll do it. So instead of catching an uber to 181 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,079 Speaker 1: the club, one of the dudes that really like her 182 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: right now was like, yo, I'll pick y'all up and 183 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: drop y'all off at the club and in her eyes, 184 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: she's like, well, now, bitch, we ain't gotta pay for 185 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: an uber seeing real innocent, right wrong, He picks us 186 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: up from the fucking dinner. We go like, I guess 187 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: I'll share the whole story because but I'll make it short. 188 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 1: We drove about fifteen minutes away and we noticed we're 189 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 1: still in the car. The club is only about five 190 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: minutes around the corner type ship, so we're like, what 191 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: direction are we going in? Because my friend is not 192 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: recognizing the direction we're going in. This nigga is like, nah, 193 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: I gotta go pick something up. No, my nigga. I 194 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 1: hopped out of the car so quick. I said, ma'am, 195 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 1: we're calling an uber because what you're not gonna do 196 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: is pick anything up while I'm in the car with you. 197 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: And there was Nigeria's no shade. But you either a 198 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: businessman or you're a scama or a straight nigga. Whatever 199 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: you are, you're going to pick something up. You ain't 200 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 1: having it in a car with me because I know 201 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: what it is. Yeah, out of goddamn weed, and you 202 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 1: need to go pick it up. But it's now now 203 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: to me, that's a run. I'm not coming with you 204 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: on your runs. So I hop out the car and 205 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: he's like, nah, baby, girl, wouldn't do that. You do man? 206 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: Give okay, I'll take you out to the club. We 207 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 1: get around the corner from the club, that's the sound 208 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: of the police. We get pulled over, but it's a van. 209 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: Five police jump out of the fucking vans literally knock 210 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: on the window, ask him to pull it down. He 211 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: pulled it down. He's being very like, respectable high officer, 212 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: was the problem because we did we did absolutely nothing wrong. 213 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: So he rolls it down and he's like, where y'all 214 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 1: going tonight? D Can I ask all of you guys 215 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: to step out of the car. Police we're literally on 216 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: literally and I'm just I'm looking at my homegirl like, bitch, 217 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: I told you to get you see if you would 218 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: have listened to me, bitch, And I'm looking at my 219 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: homegirl like, bitch, what the funk is going on? Next thing, 220 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: I know she's a German citizen. I'm a US citizen. 221 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: They take both of our my passport, her I D 222 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: Card and I'm like, what you need? Like here it is, 223 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: I can give you my information. What do you need 224 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: my card for? She takes it. She's like, oh, as 225 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: long as we don't find anything in the vehicle, will 226 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: give it back. They have two police officers, all doors open, 227 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:24,839 Speaker 1: trunk open, flashlight looking under everything, and I'm just looking 228 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 1: at her and I'm she told me that that's what 229 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: I said. That tag is marked and whether it's for 230 00:11:32,240 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: drugs or whatever, they're looking to get that Mercedes nice heart. 231 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: He's telling it's because I'm black. His windows tenda ain't 232 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: see you was black from behind it. So I'm literally 233 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: looking at Adriana and I said, I don't think you 234 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 1: understand money. My friend is much younger than me. This 235 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 1: is her first time experiences too, that's what's happened to 236 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,079 Speaker 1: me before. So I'm looking at her and I'm just like, 237 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: you don't understand, Adriana. If they find as little as 238 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: a blunt in that car, we are all going to jail. 239 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: So I'm sitting here to come to the other officer 240 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: and um and I'm just like, listen, I don't even 241 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: know these motherfucker's I just landed today. You could look 242 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: at the passports kind of I was, I don't know 243 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: these people like she just made him a month ago. 244 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: And it's because he drove by a light there, like, bro, 245 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: we all know these niggers like that, and I'm literally 246 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: like trying to say I don't they. Then I was 247 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 1: like they technically she's just in a call with somebody, 248 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 1: you know. Now that's pretty much bitch. And I was like, 249 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: they technically are Uber drivers. Then I almost got away. 250 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: He was like, oh, is this an Uber driver? I said, technically, 251 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 1: but we didn't call it on the Uber AUP, so 252 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: they wasn't trying to buy that. So they're still looking. 253 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: So this is where a few things happened to me, 254 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 1: and this is what I wanted to share with with 255 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 1: the listeners. So he starts getting the other money. There's 256 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: two niggas one in the van. I'll know. This was 257 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 1: another reason why I got scared. As we're all pulled out, 258 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: the drivers already handcuffed, and I'm just looking like bitch White. 259 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 1: He didn't handcuffs, so as yea, as he is in handcuffs, 260 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 1: they're questioning us. He's trying to say sorry to her, 261 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: but now he's starting to get slick with the cops. 262 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: And this is where I realized, and I didn't realize 263 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: how much I had been affected that I have PTSD 264 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 1: from what's going on here in the States. And as 265 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: he's starting to get snappy with the officer, I'm yelling 266 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 1: at him at this point, like do exactly what he says, 267 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 1: Stop with the smart mouth, stop getting slick, give him 268 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 1: whatever he wants. Let's wait till the cars searched. Stop 269 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: talking to him like that, Like I'm literally telling yeah, 270 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 1: so I'm by the way, I only mentioned that because 271 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 1: like in France and went to France, they were big 272 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: rifles to not in France, yellow jackets is a big 273 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: protesting thing going on, but they shoot out these metal 274 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,080 Speaker 1: kind of balls. They're not they can't kill you, but 275 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,719 Speaker 1: they'll like maybe knock off something. But in London they 276 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: do have guns. So so he's I mean, I was. 277 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: I was just glad. I was thinking, well at this point, 278 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: I was already coming up with how I was going 279 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: to have my locked up a broad episode. I was 280 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:02,839 Speaker 1: already thinking, like conte it, I was already us do 281 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: you know that's what the fun My friend said as 282 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:06,719 Speaker 1: soon as I fucking told her in the car, mona, 283 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: let me get back to the story so I can 284 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 1: tell you how I was crying like a pussy hole. 285 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: So Finally they find nothing in the car. We get 286 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 1: our I d s back, I said, Adriana, we walk 287 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: into the club, ho I said, oh, British, I have 288 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 1: no gun, no guns, So I'm sorry. I apologize. That 289 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: means that's why he was talking. Maybe that's why he 290 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: was talking. I thought that. I thought that the UK 291 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 1: was one of the own. They're tight on gun having guns. Okay, okay, 292 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 1: that's why they're always like six people taking someone out. Sorry, 293 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 1: there was six cops well in this car at once, 294 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: so we're all getting there's two check in the car, 295 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: there's two questioning. So that other guy he's talking slick 296 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: to the one officer and the other officers with us. 297 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 1: So finally they come back and they're like, okay, nothing's 298 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: been found in the car. They give us our passport 299 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: and I d back and we start walking away. I'm like, Adriana, 300 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 1: we've been a motherfucking walks to the club. So we 301 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: walked back. They let him go as well. They uncuff him. 302 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: He comes running to us at the end of the sidewalk, 303 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: trying to apologize, saying he's sorry, and all I do 304 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: is burst into tears and I say back home. They 305 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: kill y'all. And that's all I kept saying because he 306 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 1: was so like getting so snappy with him, and I 307 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: just did not want to be a part of Like 308 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 1: I'm about to cry now. They were like, you're so pussy, 309 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 1: But I literally was like, I didn't realize how much 310 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 1: seeing all these black men die from the police affected 311 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 1: me because I don't put myself in those situations, and 312 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: to be in that situation, like I'm literally like I 313 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: literally had to tell my mom. I said, I think 314 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: I need therapy now, Like I didn't realize that me 315 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: seeing the videos on Instagram, me reading the news articles 316 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 1: and seeing how many of our black men die, being 317 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: in that situation right there, I was just like I 318 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: was scared for him. I was scared for me because 319 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 1: I know they looked at were black women, so I 320 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: know they wanted all of us gone, and I didn't 321 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: realize how it affected me. So before I go to cry, 322 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: I go to say, this is why I realized when 323 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: we talk about dealing with hood niggas, street niggas, scammers, 324 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: this is why I know I don't put myself in 325 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: those positions because truth is many. The sad thing about 326 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 1: it is it ain't gonna take a hood. No, no, 327 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: it's not gonna take ni gonna die. However, my friend 328 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 1: just got a new job, I said, just because we 329 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: were in the car with them, this would have affected 330 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: your new job. I said, do you think if I 331 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: would have just called my my my job and said, oh, 332 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: by the way, I'm in jail right now for drugs 333 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 1: because that's what they have me in here under wait 334 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,240 Speaker 1: till I get out. No, I would have lost my job. 335 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: And so even it's something that and this is a 336 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 1: tip to you ladies who if you're into men who 337 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: may sell narcotics or carry around large loads of narcotics 338 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: or anything that could cause him to go to jail, 339 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 1: don't get in the car because even if you don't 340 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 1: know that it is there, if you get pulled over 341 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: and that is found, you're both. So there's a documentary 342 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 1: caught Up HBO. I can't think of the name of it, 343 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: but there it's it's about a woman who goes to 344 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:07,919 Speaker 1: jail by association. She was with a dude who had 345 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: a bunch of cocaine or drugs or something. I watched 346 00:17:10,040 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: this month ago. He dies, she gets married. Years later, 347 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 1: they pinned on her. She goes to jail. She's still 348 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 1: in there. She got three kids. Seeing the fucking camera 349 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 1: crew is like showing the husband with the kids. They 350 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: say that it was her, Like, bro, it's insane. It's 351 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 1: so sad and just getting caught up in that type 352 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: of lifestyle. Like I get it. If you want to 353 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 1: be a writer, die, But I will say, this is 354 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,960 Speaker 1: why I deal with the guys that I do deal 355 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: with um and I don't have anyone in my phone 356 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 1: right now that does involve themselves with even though I 357 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: was looking for a scammer just not to deal with 358 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 1: because I wanted some shoes like cheaper, but I don't 359 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:50,120 Speaker 1: deal with those type of guys. And this is this 360 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 1: is why I feel like because I feel like it 361 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: will affect my livelihood just being around. So what you 362 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: went through. I'm sorry because I misspoke. I'm meant to 363 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:02,120 Speaker 1: say the to sit so I know that the UK, 364 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: maybe I knew that they didn't have guns and I didn't. 365 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: Maybe that's why he was acting like that. That's what 366 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: I meant to say when we were saying he was 367 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 1: talking about I didn't know. That's the thing that's crazy, right, 368 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: It's like we watched something happen in the abuse of power. 369 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 1: And something very interesting I learned while in Paris. Um 370 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: So Scissors and I were walking. We're staying on the 371 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: Chalanza Lise and we're going to get brunch on Saturday. 372 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 1: I know about the Yellow Jackets, heard about it, did 373 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: not know Saturdays for their day. Yeah, that's when I 374 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: went to Paris. Was on a Saturday. I phone really quick, y'all, 375 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 1: be like literally, So I'm walking with her. We see smoke, 376 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, do you want to see what that is? 377 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:43,679 Speaker 1: And I'm like, just not even that was the way 378 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 1: to me. We were walking closer shore I'm not I 379 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: was walking away. I said, there's there's too many cop 380 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 1: cars around here. Now, No, no no, no, no, we didn't 381 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: see that. I didn't see that picture. This is so 382 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: far away. It looked like a mistake, like like it 383 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,440 Speaker 1: didn't look like I didn't see them protesting yet, right, 384 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: So we start walking closer, literally in front of me. 385 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 1: You'll hear it. This is me. It's just recording. Listen 386 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: to the sound that happens. They're fucking bombing the middle 387 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: of the streets. So just like by the time I 388 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: got out there, there was a lot of windows, like 389 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: in the shop area by the little look at the 390 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: blast things that burned down. So basically, the yellow Jackets 391 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 1: are protesting because they don't like their president. Um, the 392 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 1: left and the right are getting together. What I've heard 393 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 1: is life, livelihood has become very expensive for the white 394 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 1: middle class. Now there's a few things about this. I'm 395 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 1: all about a fucking right. I believe in riots. I 396 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 1: believe in all of that ship because I believe soldiers 397 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:46,640 Speaker 1: dian warre and that's how we get it done. Sometimes 398 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 1: that's just the way I protest. Now, what I've learned 399 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 1: about what they did is crazy. They are out of 400 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 1: confucking They're ruining the stores, the glasses, the everything. Also, 401 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 1: country that has thirty hour work weeks, the most public 402 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:08,920 Speaker 1: like crazy public holidays, six vacas, paid vacation, paid vacation. 403 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: So they fight for what they funk they want. And 404 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: they're not on some pussy ship like we be. But 405 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 1: like we be, we do be on some fucking scary ship. 406 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: Like our protests aren't real protest. Let's keep it a stack. 407 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: I like the protesting. That is nothing. I like it 408 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 1: marching my women's march, sing that's a nice time for camaraderie, 409 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 1: but that does not get shipped dined. However, we're not scared. 410 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:36,679 Speaker 1: They're not scared to die, and that's that reaction you 411 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,399 Speaker 1: had is because that's how we feel. And this woman 412 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: said to me, So, me and sisters sitting having brunch, 413 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: We like, damn, should we even sit outside? She's like, no, 414 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,199 Speaker 1: you're safe, telling us everything, and she said, I was like, 415 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: you know what, our police have guns. You guys are 416 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,120 Speaker 1: allowed and ship we have guns. And she goes, why 417 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 1: would our police have guns when we pay for them? 418 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: Why would they kill us when we pay for that? 419 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 1: Can you imagine that a world you're living in where 420 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 1: you pay for the police and they killing you? My nigga. 421 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,199 Speaker 1: When she said that and said to me as simple 422 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 1: as a concept as it was, I was like, fuck yeah. 423 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: And it's not even like we can fight against the 424 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 1: fucking regime because look at what they do. But what's crazy? 425 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: You're telling me that the UK doesn't even have guns. 426 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: Like I didn't even see a gun pulled, nothing, but 427 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: I was still just terrified at a black man with 428 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 1: all white cops and I was terrified. Yeah, So, like 429 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:28,880 Speaker 1: I've seen videos of how to disarm people in the UK. 430 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: So what I was thinking when you were saying that, 431 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, well maybe this is why he's like it. 432 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: Fuck it. But my nigga, me and sisters in the 433 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 1: car coming from fund spot in Orlando just had a 434 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 1: red light. Dude was getting pulled over and we're like, oh, 435 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,400 Speaker 1: this what's going on? Suddenly he starts running real fast 436 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 1: cross the street cross cart. When I tell you, I 437 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 1: almost threw up from nerves that he was gonna get 438 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,640 Speaker 1: shot while he was running. First of all, we live 439 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: in Orlando, you know, Trayvon Martin when I was living there. 440 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,159 Speaker 1: I don't think you were in the Stanford Nope, but 441 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:01,640 Speaker 1: I was definitely that is around the corner. And it's 442 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:05,119 Speaker 1: like my body, the way my body reacted, like the 443 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:06,879 Speaker 1: fear I had. I couldn't stop talking about it for 444 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 1: two days. I felt this, So it was it was 445 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 1: just I don't know, it was crazy. So I'm glad 446 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,640 Speaker 1: that you even had a thing. I'll try to talk 447 00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: about sex right now. Yeah, I had sex, did you? Oh? 448 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:25,479 Speaker 1: Who would have thought? I thought this? Pussy so um 449 00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 1: Beard Bay and Scissors and I did not have sex. Yet. 450 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: We're planning a fucking trip. We're all gonna fuck. Okay, 451 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 1: I'm really excited about it because I just couldn't have 452 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 1: curated this better. Like she wasn't really into it at first, 453 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 1: because I remember you saying that because she's started, she 454 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 1: thinks I like them, you do so whatever. So but 455 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 1: my my feelings, I believe that now after Paris, I 456 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 1: think she knows that it's more like she's my person. 457 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: So I think she's feeling more confident about that. However, 458 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,160 Speaker 1: with him, my feelings are getting deeper and it's almost 459 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 1: a little bit scarier. Like he came right you know, 460 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: we're hanging out. He's in New York, and we had 461 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: dinner together and I was like, damn yo, like I 462 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: funk with this nigga and blue Check remember who that was. 463 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 1: I haven't heard of you mentioned him at all, so 464 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: that mean sucking beard based. So he hits me up 465 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 1: like on some oh I got the wrong number ship, 466 00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 1: and I'm like really, He's like, oh four or seven? 467 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,000 Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, I thought it was my nigga from Orlando, 468 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: But what's up? Though, I just wanted to say congrats 469 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: on everything. So then you didn't know. So I told 470 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: him I got an attitude because I kind of like 471 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: just say you want to call me right. I had 472 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 1: a little attitude about it, and he's like, you're clearly 473 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 1: fucking another nigga, That's what he said to me. What's 474 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: the problem. And I'm like, oh my god, is that 475 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 1: when we reject niggas like it is and they know 476 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: it be I wanted to be like, no, no, when 477 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,439 Speaker 1: you got a new dick that you like kind of 478 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: more into that other day. Oh So to wrap it up, 479 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,639 Speaker 1: um whatever, went out with beer Bay, We hit up 480 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 1: Max Fish, had a good time. We get back to 481 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: my place. We have sex. It's great. We're watching Jessami 482 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 1: and I'm rubbing his back. I stopped. He starts having 483 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: my legs. We're not having sex anywhere. This after sex, 484 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: and he puts my toes in his mouth, like all 485 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 1: of them. Oh a lot of the fucking toes. I 486 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 1: had all of them, and then like proceeded to go 487 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 1: on to the other foot and like got all of them, 488 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: like every toe And then you know what, wait you 489 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: you want to know? Did you like you didn't hear 490 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 1: you alreaty see my ig live at all? No? I 491 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 1: just met a guy who literally said he wants to 492 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 1: gag on my foot. Yes, I'll show you. Let me 493 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: show you his picture. So he was, okay, you know, 494 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:00,640 Speaker 1: I'm not in the feed like that. But the way 495 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 1: he licked them, so like, let's prestend this is my toe, 496 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 1: he like traced them so that he this guy literally 497 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 1: that I just met and we haven't had sex at 498 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 1: all or anything, but somehow, of course got into the 499 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 1: kinks and he said he has a major foot fetish. 500 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: He said, I want to do everything to your feet. 501 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 1: He said, I want you to make me clean them, 502 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: he said, I want let me see. He said. Something 503 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,439 Speaker 1: else that I want you to do is make me 504 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: gag on your foot. I said, well, how will I 505 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 1: know when? Like it's no, he said, you'll know. So 506 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if that means he wants to throw 507 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,399 Speaker 1: up on my foot or not. So I'm I'm a 508 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: little just like you don't know about gagging on a dick. 509 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 1: So so I thought I was gonna be totally disgusted 510 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 1: by it, but I'm so turned on by Beard Bay 511 00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:46,639 Speaker 1: And I was looking at him and he was kind 512 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 1: of doing it real sexy. This that nigga want on 513 00:25:53,600 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 1: my foot? Yeah, yeah, yeah, another model nigga yep. And 514 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 1: he looked like super super into it. Look at this 515 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: with his family. Yeah, no, I'm not sure, but yeah, 516 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,199 Speaker 1: I mean family doesn't know he's gagging on feet. He 517 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 1: has a whole mother. Look at that. And I said, 518 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if it will fit all in your mouth. 519 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: And his response was it will that. That was his response, two, 520 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: my whole foot fitting in his mouth, He said, it will. 521 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: You know, I'm my nerve. He has a video of 522 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,960 Speaker 1: him gagging on a foot. Well, he didn't send it 523 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 1: to me, but he said he sent me the picture 524 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: of Lorrie Harvey's foot on Trey Song's face and said, 525 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 1: I want you to record when your foot is in 526 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 1: my mouth. Like, so he's gonna let me record him 527 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: gagging on my foot so I'll be able to do that. 528 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 1: We haven't fucked yet at all, know, but he's super. No, 529 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,160 Speaker 1: this was damn stop No, this is a nagger. Damn 530 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: you're making to sound bad man, asking cud. We haven't 531 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: we haven't cuddled yet, we haven't even gone out yet. 532 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 1: Like this is new to him, but I am telling him, Um, 533 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 1: if I experienced this kink with him, this isn't something 534 00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,880 Speaker 1: that I think I would into. So I did tell 535 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: him he has to let me pay him, and he 536 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,640 Speaker 1: said he's never done that before, and I said, I'll 537 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 1: be gentle. So now I'm I told him, I said, 538 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 1: if you want Joe King, can I have my kick too? 539 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:32,879 Speaker 1: Cana too? There go to goddamn. So we're gonna get 540 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 1: into the kick of a week speaking of Cank Hope, 541 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: and the kick of the Week is actually from you guys. 542 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 1: I do want to say if you have if you 543 00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,880 Speaker 1: guys don't follow us on Twitter or Instagram, you guys 544 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 1: really do help a lot with the outlines more than 545 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: you think. So the kink this week actually comes from 546 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 1: someone tweeted a video of a woman twerking on top 547 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,200 Speaker 1: of a cake and was like, this has to be 548 00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,520 Speaker 1: a cake. And first of all, we've actually talked about this. Yeah, 549 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: so I want to get into the not really into this, 550 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 1: not really into the even maybe maybe feeding. We did 551 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: a vanilla ship on it, yeah, a woman who was 552 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:14,480 Speaker 1: making money, like smashing it something like that. So basically 553 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: the king guys, and I want to shout out Michelle Hope. 554 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: She's the one who sent me. The actual name of 555 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 1: the kink it is sindophilia, which refers to the sexual 556 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:26,159 Speaker 1: arousal or gratification achieved through the use of food. Now, 557 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,479 Speaker 1: I do want to say this is different from feeding. 558 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,359 Speaker 1: What was the feeding did the king? Feeding? And feeder? 559 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 1: Feeding and feeder where you like people, where you like 560 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 1: to watch people eat food. This is just through the 561 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: use of food. So the Urban Urban Dictionary says it's 562 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,120 Speaker 1: a form of sexual fetishism in which participants are aroused 563 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: by erotic situations involving food. So I would say the 564 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: fact that she was working on a cake made that 565 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 1: more of like an erotic thing. Um, it's weird because 566 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: a lot of comments under it was like her pH 567 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 1: balance gotta be sucked up now because she was literally 568 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 1: fauston just going all in your let's see, that can't 569 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 1: be healthy. You'll be talking about the yeast, that's the problem, 570 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: and sugar, sugar probably shouldn't go down there. Well, that's 571 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,959 Speaker 1: the main problem, is the yeast. Like you really want 572 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,840 Speaker 1: to stay away from that. Like I have a friend 573 00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 1: of mine who has candida right now and their whole 574 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: body and it's so serious, like the foods that he's 575 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: had to change in his life, Like yeast can really 576 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 1: fun your body up. Like what that's like Gluten right, Yeah, 577 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, sure, I guess isn't I don't know 578 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 1: if you could have like allergic reactions in that sense, 579 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: but it more so can fund your body up as 580 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 1: far as like productivity, but like, yeah, it'll completely Do 581 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 1: you have any food on your body? Would you recommend 582 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: any safe foods like so like dairy free bit maybe? 583 00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: Honestly I have not. I've never had anybody right in 584 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 1: at least to me in regards to pH about food. 585 00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 1: And I think it's because normally food doesn't have to 586 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: do with entry, like but if it's around there, so 587 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: like maybe the whipped cream on the pussy or I 588 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 1: like peanut butter, I don't know if I want to 589 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: because that's on top. What if his body? What is 590 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 1: it's not on top? That's what I'm saying. I don't 591 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 1: even have someone whip cream on me. It's still what is? 592 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: What if what if I put whipped cream on a 593 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: tippio dick and a little bit of a whip cream 594 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 1: getting your pe hole? Is that gonna affect your p hole? 595 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 1: Could you get you could get a yeast affection in 596 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 1: your pee hole? Right? Well? That affected negatively because you 597 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 1: don't have pH balance, So well, the problem is like 598 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: when men have like you can get men can get 599 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 1: U T eyes. You want to something funny. I was 600 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: just telling someone this story. Oh god, this is embarrassing. 601 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: I went to a class called Aqua Aqua cycling and 602 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 1: Tribeca the day of course you did. You want to 603 00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 1: be drowned? Go ahead, of course, she say, talking about 604 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 1: some guy damn aqwa fill you with an Awkway anyway, 605 00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,280 Speaker 1: I did it the day that you went to Paris. 606 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,960 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, because I was 607 00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 1: sitting talking to the structure for a while and I 608 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 1: was in that water along top was like, let me 609 00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: take one of them little azo pills because I was like, 610 00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 1: I don't even want to be sucked up. And when 611 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: you take a U t I pill it makes your 612 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,360 Speaker 1: ship come out orange. So me and Scissors go to 613 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,240 Speaker 1: the club. We go to this place called Jungle in Paris, 614 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: bomb as hip hop spot. We go to the bathroom 615 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 1: and we're leaving flirting all night, and we know we're 616 00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 1: ready to funk, right, So we get to the bathroom 617 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 1: and I wipe and I look at it and it's 618 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 1: like deep orange, and she goes, you see, you told 619 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: me you won't even be on your fucking period. Dog 620 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: like wait wait wait, so she so she ate your 621 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 1: orange pussy. No, And we waited a day. But I 622 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 1: was gonna say, when men take it right, you know 623 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: how we pee and it comes out orange. I was 624 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: sucking a dude that took one because we went to 625 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: the beach. It was orange, not the dickhead. He was black. 626 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: We went to the beach and I was like, yo, 627 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm feeling kind of weird because the sand. 628 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 1: We had sex in the sand. I'm like, let's both 629 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 1: take these. So I text that name. When he came 630 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,479 Speaker 1: it was orange. No way to call my mama all 631 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 1: my mama all her life. That was something else, fucking orange. 632 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 1: Have something Else's yeah, bro, that was something else. Anything 633 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 1: that comes out of your na, Bro, he has something else. 634 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,560 Speaker 1: It's the as you swallow it or was it on 635 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: your face? You had orange come on your face? Did 636 00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: glow in the dark. I was sucking. I started laughing, 637 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,719 Speaker 1: and it was funny because when he saw I come out, 638 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,120 Speaker 1: because he didn't know it's gonna be orange, he knew 639 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 1: his was orange. He was jerking off into my face. 640 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 1: I saw I'm laughing. He's laughing while he's coming like 641 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 1: that is funny that it was the worst orgasm he 642 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,280 Speaker 1: ever had, because he was like that is hilarious. It 643 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: was really weird. Speaking of the beach, one of the 644 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: places that we're going on this three way trip is beach. 645 00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 1: Don't be honest with your dog. I want to make 646 00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: sure everybody's your ether is safe because I plan on 647 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 1: getting sucked for the three days that were there. We've 648 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: already playing this and I'm like, we are you gonna 649 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: take us as the next restaurant. He's like, yeah, I'm 650 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 1: gonna be like table for three, And I want to 651 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: make sure that nobody he has bullshit going on. Scissors 652 00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: may possibly have her period and I'm tired of eating 653 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:08,160 Speaker 1: pussy with Like I'm like praying by that time, I'm 654 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 1: not dealing with my period right Like, I'm trying to 655 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 1: be on the beach right on. Like, so we gonna 656 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 1: get all into motherfucker. The horrible decision, the horrible decision 657 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 1: this week. We didn't skip Vanilla Ship, but the horrible 658 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: decision this week is mad Vanilla Ship. So I have 659 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 1: four articles that I want to go through talk about 660 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: see what we have our thoughts on. The first one, 661 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 1: I love Mike stinks. I thought it was me. I 662 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: thought it was like, no, it's not. I'm showered after 663 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,600 Speaker 1: the gym. This Mike smell stink because we'll be spitting 664 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 1: on it. I was just on that mic, Puss, not me, 665 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 1: but no, but I was just on that mic. So 666 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: she talking shit. Oh bit she talking ship. That was 667 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 1: such a smart idea terrible Listen, don't be doing this 668 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 1: on camera because look, if that ship get funked up, 669 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 1: I ain't paying for it. It's been out of with 670 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:04,680 Speaker 1: these check no, no, it just so. This one comes 671 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 1: from the sun and this is actually hilarious. Newly engaged 672 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez claims that all men are useless before their 673 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:20,920 Speaker 1: thirty three that I love it. Um, what about us? 674 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,400 Speaker 1: What do you think our ages? Oh? I think we're 675 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 1: good as soon as we like seventeen eighteen because we 676 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: need to get that who out. You think that. I 677 00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 1: think the whole could come later. It can, but if 678 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: you can enjoy, I think we need till and I 679 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 1: think niggas needs seven more years. So so j Lo 680 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 1: had a reason why she said this. She said it 681 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 1: can take men into their early thirties to establish their 682 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 1: professional career. That's why I'll be dealing with these not 683 00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: athletes straight out like I do. Like young niggas, but 684 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 1: they still be millionaires most of them. Um okay. She 685 00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 1: said that it can take men into their early thirties 686 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,239 Speaker 1: to establis us their professional career and feel a sense 687 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 1: of financial stability, which helps them feel more secure in life. 688 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 1: As a result, this can give them the maturity that 689 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,360 Speaker 1: comes with accomplishment, experience, and success. Sometimes you see a 690 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,520 Speaker 1: guy who's in several relationships, but then in his early 691 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,239 Speaker 1: thirties suddenly he meets a woman and is ready to 692 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 1: marry her. Um, you think that a woman is useful, 693 00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 1: you said at I'm not saying that we're useless, but 694 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:27,920 Speaker 1: I think twenty five is a good age where we've 695 00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 1: lived a lot of life. For example, when I was 696 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,919 Speaker 1: straight out of high school, I met an older guy 697 00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 1: and he moved me into his place, and there was 698 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: a lot of times, even though he was a cheating asshole, 699 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: that I couldn't understand the concept of female friendships. And 700 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:48,279 Speaker 1: I think that that took growth and maturity. Um, I 701 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 1: just wouldn't understand. I was like, why do you need friends? 702 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: At are girls? Or if you had sector or how 703 00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 1: could you still be friends with her? And when I 704 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 1: got older, I realized like, oh, like duh, of course 705 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,839 Speaker 1: I need to have male energy in my life. Um 706 00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: in a platonic way, of course, you know. And it's 707 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: so confusing to people. We I've said on this podcast 708 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,839 Speaker 1: before or made a joke about how the first time 709 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 1: I went to movies with Alex, he was like, is 710 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 1: this a date? And I was like no, and he's 711 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 1: like okay. Because I think we're always so confused. But 712 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 1: once you establish a boundary, you can really have a 713 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 1: lot of growth, really good friendships. Yeah, and I agree. 714 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 1: I think that's something that takes. It takes age, and 715 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,800 Speaker 1: you got a little life that takes. Yeah, And I 716 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 1: would say that does take a lot on the man's 717 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 1: side of things, because even like I could be texting 718 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:34,160 Speaker 1: a guy and that's all a little go to and 719 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:35,759 Speaker 1: a lot of mental be like, oh yeah, we used 720 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,800 Speaker 1: to talk hold on. Just because we were having a 721 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,800 Speaker 1: conversation does not mean that it left being platonic. It 722 00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 1: did not leave us being leaving a friendship. Nothing about 723 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,239 Speaker 1: that was sexual. And I think that relationships like with 724 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 1: I mean lesbian relationships with women. I think that should 725 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,719 Speaker 1: happens probably too, you know, because we we can be 726 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 1: emotional or react or whatever. Like, um, I've just had 727 00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: a thought when you said, oh, I'm watching a show 728 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 1: called Temptation Island. By the way, I'm thinking about doing 729 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: a Patreon episode doing just accents and reality total TV 730 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: ship because that's all I want to do. And it's 731 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 1: crazy you watch all the different ships like I'm really 732 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,320 Speaker 1: into like Married to Medicine, Real Housewives of Atlanta, like 733 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: those are the So Temptation Island, there's a couple I'm 734 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,640 Speaker 1: not gonna talk about this but the show, but there's 735 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,520 Speaker 1: a couple at the end that stayed together. And one 736 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 1: of the things she says, she says, the only thing 737 00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 1: I wanted. I realized we need friendships with other people. 738 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,719 Speaker 1: We need to live our own lives. They had no 739 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 1: other men or women in each other's phone, and they've 740 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 1: been together since they were sixteen, and to me, all 741 00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 1: that you know, So basically the couples go in the 742 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 1: house they live with single people with single people. That 743 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 1: really shows you like, Okay, I'm not attracted to you, 744 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:45,960 Speaker 1: but yes, I can't only have women in my life. 745 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:49,040 Speaker 1: I love them, but yeah, I need I need that 746 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:54,040 Speaker 1: sestastone from time to time. Yeah, I agree, Nope, I 747 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 1: don't want it. Um. So the next conversation, a lot 748 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,800 Speaker 1: of you wanted to hear our thoughts on and we 749 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,280 Speaker 1: are pro sex workers, we are allies with sex workers, 750 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,400 Speaker 1: and so I wanted to bring this part up. As 751 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:09,240 Speaker 1: you guys know, Cardi B was under fire this past 752 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 1: week or so UM with a video that came out 753 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:18,799 Speaker 1: of her I G live. You know probably well hey, 754 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: nonn um. But basically Cardi B said that she drugged 755 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:26,439 Speaker 1: and robbed men because she had limited options. I want 756 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 1: to read exactly her quote UM when she said that. UM, 757 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 1: she said, I made the choices that I did at 758 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: the time because I had very limited options. I was 759 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: blessed to have been able to rise from them, but 760 00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,759 Speaker 1: so many women have not, whether or not they were 761 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,000 Speaker 1: poor choices at the time, I did what I had 762 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,359 Speaker 1: to do to survive. So I've been seeing a lot 763 00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 1: of people say that you have choices even as sex workers, 764 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 1: like you didn't have to sign up to rob and 765 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,600 Speaker 1: drug men and take their money the way you did. 766 00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:58,600 Speaker 1: And so I kind of wanted to know if you 767 00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 1: had any thoughts on that because I've spoken to some 768 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 1: of my friends and got their feedback and definitely wanted 769 00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:06,839 Speaker 1: to share. Um, what what I spoke about. I think 770 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 1: the reason it's easier to digest the Cardi thing than 771 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: it is a Cosby thing is because Cosby's intention was more. 772 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 1: I'm hurtful. Um, I know that you're still hurting these men, 773 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:29,359 Speaker 1: but maybe because I had to do with their bodies. Yeah, 774 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:36,279 Speaker 1: that's not saying that. It's hard. It's a hard thing 775 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,239 Speaker 1: to say, much like if someone you know, I don't 776 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,600 Speaker 1: believe a sin as a sin, Like you know, if 777 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 1: you rob someone or you rape them. I don't think 778 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,480 Speaker 1: robbing is that bad compared to raping. No, I agree 779 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 1: with that, And so I spoke to a couple of 780 00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:53,919 Speaker 1: my friends who are escorts, um and try to get 781 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 1: the sense to where a lot of them were defending 782 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,279 Speaker 1: Cardie and of course the men were like odd as 783 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,359 Speaker 1: they changed it that I don't want to get into 784 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 1: the rackspect of it. No, but not only safety. Um. 785 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,279 Speaker 1: She said that what you guys have to realize because 786 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,239 Speaker 1: a lot of people were thinking it was bullshit, with 787 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,319 Speaker 1: her saying it was a means of survival and things 788 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,799 Speaker 1: like that. So speaking to my friends and I won't 789 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 1: say their names, the ones who do it. They came 790 00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 1: back and reassured me, every time we meet a guy, 791 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 1: there's a fear of if that person is going to 792 00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:26,000 Speaker 1: kill us, if they're not going to give us the 793 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,080 Speaker 1: money they said they were going to give us, if 794 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,759 Speaker 1: they are going to violate and rape us. And they 795 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 1: said that a lot of them have an instinct with this. 796 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:36,600 Speaker 1: And so in the case of her saying it was 797 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,280 Speaker 1: a means of survival, it could have been that maybe 798 00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,359 Speaker 1: this person she felt wasn't going to pay her up 799 00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 1: or felt like he was going to do something, and 800 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 1: there is a human and I think she said she 801 00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 1: was why she was doing it. Well, yeah, well this 802 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: is this is where it's It's not to to sit 803 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 1: here and dissect what Cardi said. It's for what my 804 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 1: friend said, why they may go to a means of 805 00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: robbing a nigga drug and a nigga doing that they 806 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:03,880 Speaker 1: is that they do in this field of work, because essentially, 807 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 1: you're in a space where a you are doing what 808 00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:08,839 Speaker 1: you're doing to make money, but there are a lot 809 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,399 Speaker 1: of ways where the men still have the upper hand 810 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 1: even though you're laying down the rules, you're asking for 811 00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:16,840 Speaker 1: the money, you're setting the price, and you're letting them 812 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 1: know what they have. But there's a lot of incidences 813 00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,720 Speaker 1: where you're in these rooms and you don't feel safe, 814 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,520 Speaker 1: and so I guess it's the flip side to choosing 815 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,680 Speaker 1: to do this. And so I would say, maybe it 816 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 1: wasn't her intention even in saying it, but in a 817 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,759 Speaker 1: means of survival, she could have also been saying I 818 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 1: resorted to sex work as a means of survival, not 819 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:43,600 Speaker 1: the didn't Cardi wants say that? And I remember Ali 820 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,120 Speaker 1: triple X was saying this when I was in Houston, 821 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 1: were no I was in Dallas. She was like, fuck 822 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,160 Speaker 1: card She didn't say fun Cardi, but she was like 823 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,840 Speaker 1: CARDI was shaming sex worker sex I was stripping, but 824 00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 1: I never did that. So never had sex for money. 825 00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 1: That's the thing. So the guy who even allegedly came 826 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 1: out and said the whole Cardi thing said that I 827 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:07,560 Speaker 1: remember Cardi twerking on me. Next thing, I remember, I 828 00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,440 Speaker 1: look on the floor and there's a used condom in 829 00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:14,320 Speaker 1: my iPad e fifty dollars and up, and jewelry was missing. 830 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,919 Speaker 1: So there was allude to sex. But he didn't say 831 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 1: I remember sucking her, and so I don't believe the 832 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,960 Speaker 1: cardis for money talking like that, No, I wouldn't believe 833 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:27,359 Speaker 1: that she's never fun, but that may have been her 834 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,400 Speaker 1: means of resorting to it. I'm meeting you on the 835 00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 1: sex club. You think you're gonna suck me after for 836 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 1: more money, and instead I'm that was her means of 837 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:36,759 Speaker 1: making money is drugging niggas and robbing niggas. It wasn't 838 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 1: necessarily ever planning to have sex with them. I mean, 839 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,280 Speaker 1: it's aweso hood ship and the rapping and the rapping 840 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 1: you mentioned. I saw Leah McSweeney said something like and 841 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 1: as much as I really funk with Leah like I 842 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 1: like her a lot of her opinions, I don't know 843 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 1: you hate them. That's why we had to wait to 844 00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:55,200 Speaker 1: get her on the show. But she said one thing. 845 00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,839 Speaker 1: She said, you know, we've listened to rappers for years 846 00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 1: talking even Rick Ross, who was talking about put them molly. Damn. 847 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:08,080 Speaker 1: I can't remember that put the molly in a drink 848 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 1: and she enjoyed it. She ain't, No, she didn't even 849 00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:12,719 Speaker 1: know what that's right, and we didn't. We gave him 850 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 1: a little bit of ship for it. But not like this. 851 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,239 Speaker 1: I mean, I think social media is probably a little 852 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 1: bit bigger now. But we lost he lost money over 853 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:25,239 Speaker 1: that line. Okay, so but that's the thing. We've glorified 854 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:29,400 Speaker 1: rap for the robbing, the killing, the fucking holes, the 855 00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,319 Speaker 1: doing this, the cheating, and now a bitch coming out 856 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: and saying and she doesn't even rap about this, but 857 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,520 Speaker 1: this was her life. She is a rapper, she's in 858 00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,400 Speaker 1: hip hop. Why are we gonna see him be mad 859 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 1: at her? Would mind you? I was just with with 860 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:42,880 Speaker 1: my homeboys last night. They said, these new niggas really 861 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,760 Speaker 1: about that life, which is why why I mean Nelly 862 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 1: he said, NBA young boy? He said, Oh that nigga 863 00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:52,200 Speaker 1: got shooters. He said, like, these young boys are walking 864 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:54,239 Speaker 1: out of here, but they bout that life. And so 865 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,480 Speaker 1: we've sat here and glorified the rat music for what 866 00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 1: it is, and now this is really shooters, which is 867 00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 1: why we have Bobby Smurder and Jail six nine in jail, 868 00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:06,760 Speaker 1: why m whatever, Melly killed his goddamn friends. The rappers 869 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 1: live in the life. They that we essentially really liked. 870 00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 1: What did Drake saying and going bad? Talking about got 871 00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:14,719 Speaker 1: a sticky and I leave it in my dog's plate. 872 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,360 Speaker 1: That's what you gotta do. By the way, we should 873 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,479 Speaker 1: definitely take a moment to shout out our today's sponsors, Lola. 874 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 1: Let's get into that as Yes, I'm so excited that 875 00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,480 Speaker 1: we have partner with Lola. Guys. If you guys do 876 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:29,399 Speaker 1: not know Lola yet, it is as a subscription base 877 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,319 Speaker 1: where you get all the goodies coming straight to your 878 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,439 Speaker 1: door in a in a discrete box. You don't even 879 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,160 Speaker 1: know what it is. You ain't got where I want off. 880 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 1: You don't have to get the subscription I did. 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And these Lola 912 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,400 Speaker 1: products maybe I guess they're not science since they're organics. No, 913 00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:30,960 Speaker 1: you know that I'm here for all of that. So 914 00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,360 Speaker 1: guys definitely go to my Lola dot com type in 915 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,880 Speaker 1: promo code w d P. They have great smelling stuff, 916 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:38,799 Speaker 1: by the way, something that you know when you get 917 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 1: organic shit like Lola products I used. I've mentioned em 918 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,760 Speaker 1: rita like with a summer's eve. It tastes its taste, 919 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 1: it smells so flowery. It's all so strong. But like 920 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,960 Speaker 1: with the Lola wipes that I tried, it's just a 921 00:46:56,160 --> 00:47:00,200 Speaker 1: very clean it's not overbearing. I don't like doesn't like 922 00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,680 Speaker 1: that extra floral ship because I don't it makes you 923 00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,799 Speaker 1: seem like you went to the bathroom and spray something. Yeah, 924 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 1: I don't like that, you know what I'm saying. And 925 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,680 Speaker 1: that's a very uncomfortable feeling mean with anyone like Nah 926 00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:12,680 Speaker 1: and Fellows. We haven't talked about it at the live show. 927 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:15,800 Speaker 1: If the pussy smell like straight soap or flowers, that 928 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: ship might be a little talk. That ship might not 929 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:19,920 Speaker 1: be right, might be a little tight when you hit 930 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:23,200 Speaker 1: the bat. I'm just saying a little. If you would 931 00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,560 Speaker 1: like to support women like ourselves and you wanna help out. Definitely, 932 00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: get the lube, get the condoms, get the tamples for 933 00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 1: your bit, get all that ship. So we're gonna get 934 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,880 Speaker 1: back to the show for supporting. Thank you, guys. So 935 00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:36,640 Speaker 1: the next mill show that I want to come is 936 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:39,319 Speaker 1: actually from Love Be Scott dot com. I love Love 937 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,359 Speaker 1: Be Scot. I used to read it all the time 938 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 1: when I was in Atlanta. This is hilarious, and I 939 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,840 Speaker 1: figured we would take a little cackle at this cackle cackle. 940 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just you know, a woman bakes her 941 00:47:53,760 --> 00:48:00,200 Speaker 1: own kidnapping and death after discovering her boyfriend's poor So 942 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 1: the woman surnamed You had been dating her boyfriend Lynn 943 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,680 Speaker 1: for a while, but she only learned that he was 944 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 1: poor after visiting his home during Chinese New Year. It 945 00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,400 Speaker 1: was something she apparently just couldn't get over, so she 946 00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,880 Speaker 1: decided to leave him. But, fearing that he would get 947 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,800 Speaker 1: clingy and refuse rejection if she simply told him she 948 00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,360 Speaker 1: wanted to end the relationship, you devised a plan to 949 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 1: make herself disappear. Wait, so how did she like about 950 00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:25,920 Speaker 1: to tell you? How she made it obituary with the 951 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 1: she said on February twenty one, shortly after returning from 952 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 1: the disappointing visits to Lyne's hometown, You disappeared from the 953 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:39,439 Speaker 1: couple's dormitory at the Hong fight jang dong Dong Industrial Park. 954 00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:42,120 Speaker 1: Her name is you, Her name is you. His name 955 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,759 Speaker 1: is Lynn, And a few minutes later, she called her 956 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,840 Speaker 1: boyfriend to tell him that she had been kidnapped by 957 00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:50,280 Speaker 1: her ex husband. Come and save me. My ex husband 958 00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,880 Speaker 1: has kidnapped me. Come quickly. I think I'm on the 959 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,600 Speaker 1: highway already, the thirty seven year old woman said, before 960 00:48:55,680 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 1: bro bro To make her kidnapping seem more believable, You 961 00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 1: then sent her boyfriend's several text messages pretending to be 962 00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 1: her kidnapper, warning him that she would be killed if 963 00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 1: he dared called the police. She then followed up with 964 00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,800 Speaker 1: more texts informing Land than she had been killed and 965 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:15,560 Speaker 1: her body had been thrown in a lake. Unable to 966 00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 1: negotiate with the kidnapper, a distress, Land eventually called the police. 967 00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:22,560 Speaker 1: After being informed about the situation, local police started investigating 968 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,799 Speaker 1: Surveilian's footage and Wuhan, and three days ago they were 969 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:28,239 Speaker 1: able to track down You to a small motel and 970 00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 1: Wuhan Tanglong district. This pitch was in a motel, but 971 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,640 Speaker 1: when they arrived to the scene, officers were shocked to 972 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,359 Speaker 1: find the legend victim casually lying on the bed watching TV. 973 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:40,759 Speaker 1: Ha ha, Did she go to jail for this? Let 974 00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,120 Speaker 1: me see if she would have jail. She was questioned 975 00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:46,080 Speaker 1: by the police after her kidnapping. She was surprisingly calm, 976 00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 1: and she told them she recently found out that her 977 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 1: boyfriend was poor. She faked her on kidnapping and murder, 978 00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,480 Speaker 1: hoping that that would just give up and move on 979 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:53,960 Speaker 1: with and that he would give up and move on 980 00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:58,960 Speaker 1: with his life. Um eh. She actually had was detained 981 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,520 Speaker 1: by police for d days for disrupting social order. That 982 00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,520 Speaker 1: might be bad, that might be worth it, you know. 983 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 1: And then when we get out that, you know, I 984 00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:07,880 Speaker 1: don't want you now, don't ask me why I did 985 00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:09,560 Speaker 1: what I did? God damn. You know he's gonna be 986 00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 1: But why what happened? I think, Oh, yeah, I don't 987 00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:24,319 Speaker 1: know what that is. I thought. I thought, I don't 988 00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:29,160 Speaker 1: know Filipino I can do. That's Filipino is different from Vietnamese. 989 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:31,919 Speaker 1: I'm doing I'm thinking about that was definitely vietnames because 990 00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 1: that's who that was. Vietnamese Filipinos were like, um man, 991 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,920 Speaker 1: I'm still Basically what I'm trying to see is that 992 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 1: your phone is going to be working, and about two 993 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:47,000 Speaker 1: hours you're like, no, that what is philip I'm Filipino 994 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 1: customer service. That's Filippino. That's Filipino customer service of when 995 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 1: you call like sprint. Where is the lie to this? Oh? 996 00:50:55,680 --> 00:51:01,320 Speaker 1: He said, okay, trap trap gang gang. I I can't do. 997 00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm done with y'all. So I get wait Chinese is 998 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:09,600 Speaker 1: Oh all I know is like ni how but ni 999 00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 1: ni ho? No? How damned. I just want to say that, honestly, 1000 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,839 Speaker 1: I've never failed. You leave someone because you found out 1001 00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:20,759 Speaker 1: they were broker than you thought they were. That's the 1002 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:22,759 Speaker 1: question I wanted to ask. The question is how broke? 1003 00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 1: What is broke to you? Because we didn't have had 1004 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:28,759 Speaker 1: that question? Oh man, I mean like I was talking 1005 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:32,560 Speaker 1: about Homeboy last night. He said here he said he 1006 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:35,759 Speaker 1: he was talking like man when I was regular, because 1007 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,799 Speaker 1: we were talking about the CARDI B thing, and he's like, man, 1008 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,719 Speaker 1: when I was regular, I used to easily be able 1009 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:41,640 Speaker 1: to take strippers home and have sex with them. He 1010 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,560 Speaker 1: was like, man, and all I threw was five hundred dollars. 1011 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:47,120 Speaker 1: I said, you're not you're not, You're not regular. I said, 1012 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,000 Speaker 1: they went home with me because you threw five hundred dollars, sir, 1013 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,080 Speaker 1: so they thought you they were gonna get more. I said, 1014 00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,759 Speaker 1: a regular ni nigga working at FedEx ain't going into 1015 00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:58,040 Speaker 1: the strip club throwing five hulls on a regular FedEx 1016 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:02,040 Speaker 1: ain't throwing five in the club. Fact, but FedEx isn't broke, 1017 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 1: but it's not throwing five hundred in the club. You're right, 1018 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 1: I would say broke to me, I don't be don't 1019 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,600 Speaker 1: be shaming the broke. He's listening to the no like 1020 00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,360 Speaker 1: like you don't have your own place. Okay, we're in 1021 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 1: New York. Oh, roommate is that fine? Um, I'll do 1022 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:22,960 Speaker 1: what a roommate, I guess, but I don't want to, Okay. 1023 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 1: And honestly, I haven't really had to because of their age, right, 1024 00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,640 Speaker 1: I mean, and I'm talking about mid thirties. Um Jeeves 1025 00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,359 Speaker 1: had a roommate, but he's not his Brooklyn artist ship, 1026 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,720 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. A different scene. It is different. 1027 00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:39,840 Speaker 1: Give me a salary for Nick? To me, is you 1028 00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 1: can't take me out. If you can't afford to take 1029 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,320 Speaker 1: me out, I can't do it. It's funny because I 1030 00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:48,200 Speaker 1: was telling my my friend at this point, um, and 1031 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,480 Speaker 1: we were talking about dating regular guys, and when she 1032 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 1: was dealing with the guys that she was dealing with 1033 00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:57,320 Speaker 1: who could drinks some food but just two hundred dollars, 1034 00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:00,360 Speaker 1: I said, A regular guy cannot afford eight hundred dollars 1035 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: a month on dates just to take you out once 1036 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:04,239 Speaker 1: a week. That's a lot of money for a lot 1037 00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:07,040 Speaker 1: of guys. So that's a regular nigga. You would not 1038 00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:08,960 Speaker 1: date a regular nigga then if he couldn't take you 1039 00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:12,520 Speaker 1: out once a week. I mean, okay. When I was 1040 00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 1: dating Jeeves, I would say he was the most modest 1041 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,719 Speaker 1: of the people I've dated in a long time. Um, 1042 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 1: he was able to afford to take me out weekly. 1043 00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:25,200 Speaker 1: We went out every week. Um, I don't know. I 1044 00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,080 Speaker 1: saw him so often when I was taking him, like 1045 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:28,759 Speaker 1: three or four times a week. We ate at home, 1046 00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:32,080 Speaker 1: one night a week we went out. Yeah, okay, I 1047 00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:33,440 Speaker 1: mean I don't know if we were spending to one 1048 00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 1: at dollars like, but see, you're not also one who's 1049 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,040 Speaker 1: gonna order three or four drinks when you go out 1050 00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:41,080 Speaker 1: like that's me, that's her and a hookah's. We'll say 1051 00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,880 Speaker 1: this though, there was a difference with me going out 1052 00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,000 Speaker 1: of Jeesus and were going with Beard Bay or me 1053 00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,480 Speaker 1: going out way a blue check type of you know 1054 00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:51,040 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like with me and check out like 1055 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:55,799 Speaker 1: it was you know my cocktails. Jeeves is a type 1056 00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:59,200 Speaker 1: of nigga who's like, yo, I found this Japanese underground. 1057 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:03,960 Speaker 1: Now we're going underg Yeah, but it still wasn't And 1058 00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:07,160 Speaker 1: here's the thing too, What I had with him was 1059 00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:10,120 Speaker 1: so enjoyable because we did do so much sh it 1060 00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,800 Speaker 1: outside of the box. And I think that the idea 1061 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:15,040 Speaker 1: of that two D date like I hear you and 1062 00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:20,719 Speaker 1: it's true, but also like I mean, I'm not necessary. 1063 00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:24,720 Speaker 1: They're not necessary before someone like myself or my friends 1064 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:27,759 Speaker 1: who a night out is going to get hookah it 1065 00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,239 Speaker 1: is going to get multiple drinks because we are we 1066 00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:34,800 Speaker 1: drink a lot. To me, to expect that from someone 1067 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,279 Speaker 1: is a lot. So I yeah, if that's what I 1068 00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:41,880 Speaker 1: like a lot knowing that it's going to cost you 1069 00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:43,719 Speaker 1: two hundred dollars a week if we go out once 1070 00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,280 Speaker 1: a week, that's eight hundred dollars a month. A regular 1071 00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:49,800 Speaker 1: person can't sign up for that. And I here's the 1072 00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 1: other thing. Is it really a thing to where every 1073 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,480 Speaker 1: weekend would be two hundred dollars because you might have 1074 00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:59,360 Speaker 1: it might be between dinner at the places that I 1075 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,319 Speaker 1: may like and drinks. See, I don't think you don't 1076 00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:05,120 Speaker 1: drink a lot. I'm not saying that where you're you're 1077 00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:08,680 Speaker 1: the way you're talking is like no boo stk drinks. 1078 00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,719 Speaker 1: Not even that. No. If I go to Applebee's and 1079 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:17,760 Speaker 1: we sit here and we both order meals ten dollars, 1080 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,319 Speaker 1: ten dollars, if we sit there and we're sitting there 1081 00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:24,840 Speaker 1: for an hour or two, you can easily spend on 1082 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:30,800 Speaker 1: drink easy dollars a drink, Yeah, like one twenty He broken? 1083 00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:37,000 Speaker 1: You know that could be saying so like, okay, you 1084 00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,239 Speaker 1: don't stay it back. I mean, you know you can 1085 00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,040 Speaker 1: call himself broke. You carry a job on the video. 1086 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:44,719 Speaker 1: I'm glad we paid you. So okay, you're saying you're 1087 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,239 Speaker 1: broke when you're when you meet somebody and you want 1088 00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:53,640 Speaker 1: to go out, what's your like, what's the lasts of 1089 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:57,320 Speaker 1: somebody else? Just because less than fifty dollars on a 1090 00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:00,279 Speaker 1: five hour day. He just said, doing what talking in 1091 00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:07,439 Speaker 1: the park, getting hungry. I'm just I'm just like coffee. Yeah, 1092 00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,480 Speaker 1: so you've got the girls you find out with coffee. 1093 00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 1: You're not one of our former guests. Hold on, you're 1094 00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,400 Speaker 1: not only one years old? Are you a baby? You 1095 00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,680 Speaker 1: could be broke. That's fine, that's twenty yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 1096 00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:25,120 Speaker 1: that's that's allowed. That's allowed. Okay, So I guess there 1097 00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:27,800 Speaker 1: is an age that yeah, no, you're not gonna do this. 1098 00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:29,920 Speaker 1: Don't mouth ship while we on air. Ask him when 1099 00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:34,480 Speaker 1: we get all bit well yeah, hold on, no, no, no, 1100 00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:38,560 Speaker 1: I want to say twenty one in that age, I 1101 00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:41,839 Speaker 1: don't you have to remember where almost daughter. Don't say 1102 00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:44,400 Speaker 1: that we're twenty eight, like I don't like favorite Hole three. 1103 00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,640 Speaker 1: Let's say we're twenty. Don't say we're all expecting man 1104 00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,400 Speaker 1: at my age to be I would not expect that 1105 00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,480 Speaker 1: from that time, one year old, and I wasn't going 1106 00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,799 Speaker 1: on dates like that when well, yeah you was, because 1107 00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,799 Speaker 1: you was having niggas paid to take you on dates. Bitch. 1108 00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,360 Speaker 1: What's your price? What's your price? So we're gonna go 1109 00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,520 Speaker 1: ahead and get into the whole let me counter off 1110 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,200 Speaker 1: it for them to accept, and I was like, ipe, 1111 00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:11,440 Speaker 1: I hated you if. If you guys are patrons, I 1112 00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:13,920 Speaker 1: will go ahead and post these articles so that you 1113 00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:15,840 Speaker 1: can delve into them and read them and then do 1114 00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,080 Speaker 1: all that good ship. So we're gonna get into our homemail. 1115 00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:19,600 Speaker 1: I have one, and then we just gonna read off 1116 00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:23,440 Speaker 1: the second one. So this one the title I just 1117 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:27,160 Speaker 1: latched when I saw it. I fucked his teammates. Is 1118 00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,720 Speaker 1: the time that came in. Yes, it just came in today. 1119 00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:33,760 Speaker 1: I consider myself to be somewhat of a groupie. I 1120 00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 1: love professional athletes. I've dealt with quite a few recently. 1121 00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 1: I've been dealing with one and things have started to 1122 00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:44,880 Speaker 1: get serious. We've met each other's families and everything. I've 1123 00:57:44,960 --> 00:57:48,560 Speaker 1: never gotten this serious with an athlete before. The only 1124 00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:51,560 Speaker 1: problem is that I fucked two of his teammates in 1125 00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:54,400 Speaker 1: the past. I'm scared that he will find out somehow. 1126 00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,200 Speaker 1: I know that my name has been brought up during 1127 00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 1: locker room talk because one of the teammates I fucked 1128 00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,360 Speaker 1: hit me up and was like, I heard you're talking 1129 00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:04,439 Speaker 1: to some and so. But my boo has never said 1130 00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:06,919 Speaker 1: anything about it, nor asked me anything, So I don't 1131 00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,640 Speaker 1: think he knows. Should I come clean and say something 1132 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:11,920 Speaker 1: to him before he finds out, or should I just 1133 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 1: hope it never comes out. Maybe Mandy can help me 1134 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:17,920 Speaker 1: because she's had dealings with athletes before. If I do 1135 00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:21,320 Speaker 1: was similar situation, and how I give you deal with? Sincerely, groupie, 1136 00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:24,880 Speaker 1: hope maybe many can help you. Actually, Maybee just take 1137 00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:27,120 Speaker 1: my piss break now? No, So, I actually wanted to 1138 00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:29,600 Speaker 1: bring this up because this doesn't only have to be 1139 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,479 Speaker 1: in context to professional I was gonna say I would. 1140 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:39,760 Speaker 1: It could be just to um. It could be two 1141 00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,120 Speaker 1: groups of friends. It could be to someone where you 1142 00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:43,919 Speaker 1: met on Instagram and then you see down the line, 1143 00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:46,960 Speaker 1: O ship, he got a picture. Let's related to real life. 1144 00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:48,840 Speaker 1: Let's related to real life? No, damn, bro, what's she? 1145 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:50,360 Speaker 1: What's we gotta looking for? Em? I don't see what 1146 00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:54,680 Speaker 1: she's looking at. I have been in this situation actually 1147 00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 1: kind of recently too. But I'm very honest with the 1148 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:02,080 Speaker 1: people who I dealt with. I've had these relationships and 1149 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:04,800 Speaker 1: so even one guy that I saw recently, he came 1150 00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:07,960 Speaker 1: back from the past and he's currently on the team. 1151 00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:10,600 Speaker 1: What a niggad that was also on my phone and 1152 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,440 Speaker 1: he knew like so long story short, we talked about it. Um. 1153 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:17,640 Speaker 1: I think that you'd be surprised, um how much niggas talk. 1154 00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:20,680 Speaker 1: They talk way more than than the girls. So I 1155 00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:23,240 Speaker 1: wouldn't doubt if he does already know. I think just 1156 00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,000 Speaker 1: to give yourself the peace of mind, you should bring 1157 00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:28,280 Speaker 1: it up and be like, listen, I would never want 1158 00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:30,560 Speaker 1: to embarrass you while we're out, and I would never 1159 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:33,080 Speaker 1: want you to feel blindsided by anything. So I do 1160 00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:34,680 Speaker 1: want to let you know this happen. I hope it 1161 00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,560 Speaker 1: doesn't change our relationship. If it does, it wasn't meant 1162 00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:39,520 Speaker 1: to be. But you can't take the bodies off your 1163 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:45,120 Speaker 1: What you said one word, what embarrassed. I know I'm 1164 00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,880 Speaker 1: saying embarrassed when we know we go out, but that's 1165 00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:50,200 Speaker 1: not something that should be shameful. No, no, no, no, 1166 00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:53,320 Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. I don't, but we need 1167 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 1: to change that thinking. And I'm gonna tell you why. 1168 00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:58,600 Speaker 1: You know, niggas we should not go okay, So I 1169 00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:00,720 Speaker 1: don't want to crush your ego. But if a man 1170 01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:03,680 Speaker 1: and we brought this up, I like the word blindsided 1171 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:05,320 Speaker 1: more than I do embarrassed. I'm gonna tell you why 1172 01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,880 Speaker 1: when we use words like that, it implies that maybe 1173 01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:11,320 Speaker 1: we may be ashamed. And even though you may not 1174 01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 1: that give that that's not that I'm has nothing. What 1175 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:20,840 Speaker 1: I've done should not be an embarrassment to you. You 1176 01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:23,760 Speaker 1: walking into room with someone I fu should not be embarrassed, 1177 01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:25,640 Speaker 1: you know what? You know what, because I'm a fucking 1178 01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:30,680 Speaker 1: adult and I've fed. That's a very big deal. Though 1179 01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:34,320 Speaker 1: using words like that, I don't want you to feel embarrassed. No, 1180 01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,360 Speaker 1: I love what you said about blindsided, because that's a 1181 01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 1: better word. I just want to make you aware because 1182 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,479 Speaker 1: I don't want you to just be caught off guard 1183 01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:45,640 Speaker 1: in case it happens. So eliminate embarrassed out that, but 1184 01:00:46,080 --> 01:00:49,440 Speaker 1: pretty much let him know that you're telling him not 1185 01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:53,160 Speaker 1: to start anything, not to be you know it. Also, 1186 01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:55,520 Speaker 1: don't make it a big deal. No, just say listen. 1187 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:58,920 Speaker 1: I yeah, I would say, let him know. Let him 1188 01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:00,800 Speaker 1: decide whether it mean a lot to you or not. 1189 01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,080 Speaker 1: I will say, a lot of these niggas don't even 1190 01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:06,160 Speaker 1: like each other, bro, so it might not even be 1191 01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:09,000 Speaker 1: that their friends. It might not mean anything to him 1192 01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:10,920 Speaker 1: at all. And a lot of them get traded and 1193 01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,080 Speaker 1: end up on other teams and have all new teammates 1194 01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:15,479 Speaker 1: next year, so it may not even be a long 1195 01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:18,400 Speaker 1: term issue. So that's how I would do. I agree. 1196 01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:22,160 Speaker 1: I think that um making people aware of who have 1197 01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:25,960 Speaker 1: you slept with is a nice thing to do. I 1198 01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:29,400 Speaker 1: don't know if it's necessary, but in this case, I would, 1199 01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:32,440 Speaker 1: because they're technically colleagues, you know. I mean, if you 1200 01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:34,720 Speaker 1: fucked my coworker, I would want to know. I'm just 1201 01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:38,520 Speaker 1: walking into office, like, so this everysoning I'll come in 1202 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:40,880 Speaker 1: here has even gonna be funny, now I know. And 1203 01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:44,000 Speaker 1: you also don't want to feel talked about behind you know, 1204 01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,000 Speaker 1: someone's back. But just the only reason I made a 1205 01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:51,880 Speaker 1: big deal about that word embarrassed is because we have 1206 01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:56,840 Speaker 1: unknowingly presented things in ways that it may seem like 1207 01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,920 Speaker 1: it's shameful, but it's not. And I want to make 1208 01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,360 Speaker 1: sure that like, and it's hard not to because my 1209 01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:07,000 Speaker 1: mind's work this way. We grow up society being women 1210 01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,080 Speaker 1: being shamed. That's the second. That's the first thing you 1211 01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:11,360 Speaker 1: thought of, And that's what I would thinking. I don't 1212 01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 1: need to feel Nah, stand in your truth. You don't 1213 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:18,800 Speaker 1: have to be a horror because you got exactly because 1214 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:20,680 Speaker 1: nig on the team and well and I won't bring 1215 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,400 Speaker 1: up names, like I'm not a pillow talker, but if 1216 01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,560 Speaker 1: it's in a situation like this, or I see that, 1217 01:02:25,640 --> 01:02:27,400 Speaker 1: oh they know each other, or they're tweeting or their 1218 01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,840 Speaker 1: Instagram things like I'm not gonna lie. The person that 1219 01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:34,120 Speaker 1: I cuddled with last night knows my the m c 1220 01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:37,439 Speaker 1: M that I post often, And so that was brought 1221 01:02:37,520 --> 01:02:41,080 Speaker 1: up because he's like, oh, um, you deal with my homeboy, 1222 01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:43,920 Speaker 1: and so that was kind of awkward and I was 1223 01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:47,800 Speaker 1: just like, Um, the only thing that saved me was 1224 01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:50,680 Speaker 1: I don't think he realized I really knew the nigga, 1225 01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:52,320 Speaker 1: because he was like, you can't know him because you 1226 01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:56,160 Speaker 1: don't post nigcause you really funk with And I was like, actually, 1227 01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:58,760 Speaker 1: so why do you post this guy? I really like him. 1228 01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:00,840 Speaker 1: We vibe, he supports it's everything that we do with 1229 01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:04,640 Speaker 1: the podcast. Um when I met him, like, I mean, 1230 01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:06,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, I just really vibe with him. So 1231 01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:10,120 Speaker 1: like he's never ashamed, he comments under all my pictures. 1232 01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,760 Speaker 1: He loves what we do with the podcast, he loves 1233 01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:15,360 Speaker 1: the drive that I do. And because he's a creative 1234 01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,640 Speaker 1: in a sense, he supports me as a creative kind 1235 01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:20,920 Speaker 1: of riot bro. I love. Honestly, that's probably like Jeeves 1236 01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:24,040 Speaker 1: came to our show, right, I got them, and it 1237 01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:26,960 Speaker 1: is always so like fuck yes about what I'm doing, 1238 01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:29,120 Speaker 1: And I realized, I love that he's on that creative ship. 1239 01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:31,760 Speaker 1: It right, Like I could sit there and with hours 1240 01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:34,440 Speaker 1: and talk about content about guys I used to talk 1241 01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:36,280 Speaker 1: to and he's like, yeah, like I think I love 1242 01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,320 Speaker 1: that story. It's great, and that's yeah, that's why. My 1243 01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,080 Speaker 1: friend that I was with last night, he brought me 1244 01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:44,959 Speaker 1: around millionaire like white people. But they're in the tech space, 1245 01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:47,600 Speaker 1: the radio space. They do algorithms and all this stuff. 1246 01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:51,919 Speaker 1: And literally he's a Dumbo house. We went to dumble house, 1247 01:03:52,360 --> 01:03:54,200 Speaker 1: like met all these rich people. We were at PhD. 1248 01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:57,560 Speaker 1: So he's bringing me around them and we're having these 1249 01:03:57,640 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 1: talks about numbers, algorithm stats, all this stuff that has 1250 01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:04,200 Speaker 1: to do with music but also relates to podcasting. And literally, 1251 01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:07,200 Speaker 1: as he's introducing me to these white men, he's like, Yo, 1252 01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,760 Speaker 1: this is my friend. She has one of the dopest podcasts, 1253 01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:13,120 Speaker 1: like Supernumbers. They're on tour. He's selling me to these people. 1254 01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:17,000 Speaker 1: And then as we're having these conversations, these rich white 1255 01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,920 Speaker 1: men are asking me how I'm doing things, and we're 1256 01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:22,320 Speaker 1: having these long conversations. So at the end of the night, 1257 01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:25,919 Speaker 1: while we're cuddling, he's like, man, I like you. He's 1258 01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:28,320 Speaker 1: like the fact that I could bring you around these 1259 01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: people that I want to do business with, they respected you. 1260 01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:32,760 Speaker 1: They all give me their business cards. He's like, do 1261 01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:36,120 Speaker 1: you know how sexy it was to me that another 1262 01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:38,560 Speaker 1: like just a woman that I could bring around wasn't 1263 01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:41,560 Speaker 1: embarrassed to suspeci I'll show you. I'll show you him 1264 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:46,000 Speaker 1: and we just bought you. Just really made me realize 1265 01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:48,720 Speaker 1: when I started liking Beard Bay when I went to 1266 01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:54,680 Speaker 1: New Orleans. We're eating this New Orleans, not like not 1267 01:04:54,880 --> 01:04:58,240 Speaker 1: like I was into him, but not like this when 1268 01:04:58,280 --> 01:04:59,840 Speaker 1: we were in New Orleans. And it's mainly because that 1269 01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:01,960 Speaker 1: conversation how with Shan Booty, where she was like, bro, 1270 01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:04,480 Speaker 1: the thing that the last dude didn't like about you, 1271 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:06,440 Speaker 1: this next one is going to love. She was like 1272 01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:08,800 Speaker 1: that last dude didn't like that you were too wild. 1273 01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:11,160 Speaker 1: He's gonna he's not gonna be able to stop telling 1274 01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:13,040 Speaker 1: people how wild you are. The next one, it's for you. 1275 01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:15,320 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying he's for me or anything. But 1276 01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,800 Speaker 1: we were out and he ran into it. He knew 1277 01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:21,480 Speaker 1: he couldn't even he was more excited than that podcast. 1278 01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:24,200 Speaker 1: And he was like, yo, she got this podcast and 1279 01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:28,200 Speaker 1: it's like crazy and and he's smiling talking about it, 1280 01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:32,760 Speaker 1: and it was it was nice that morning. It's Monday morning. 1281 01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:35,240 Speaker 1: I'm sitting on his lap. He's showed me a video 1282 01:05:35,280 --> 01:05:38,920 Speaker 1: on his phone and um, Horrible Decisions has a new 1283 01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 1: episode popped up. And I was like, you subscribe to 1284 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,680 Speaker 1: my podcast. He was like, yeah, I subscribe to your podcast. 1285 01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:46,800 Speaker 1: And I was like, because when people say they funk 1286 01:05:46,880 --> 01:05:49,080 Speaker 1: with you, I don't really know if they fucking do. 1287 01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:55,200 Speaker 1: I'll tell you now. Bitch, all my old niggas all 1288 01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:59,840 Speaker 1: coming back, and it's disgusting, like one is disgusting first off. 1289 01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,680 Speaker 1: No like discussing first off. And a lot of them 1290 01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:04,320 Speaker 1: now are free agents and not even in the league 1291 01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,040 Speaker 1: no more. But they all they all like all my 1292 01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:08,600 Speaker 1: old athletes like that. We just didn't really do nothing. 1293 01:06:08,800 --> 01:06:10,880 Speaker 1: Like one wants me to consult him because he wants 1294 01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:13,280 Speaker 1: to start a podcast now. The other one hit me 1295 01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:17,200 Speaker 1: and was like, yo, I was talking to my cousin 1296 01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:20,200 Speaker 1: and my cousin brought you up. You know you popping 1297 01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:23,240 Speaker 1: another one was talking about the tour. But they all 1298 01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:25,800 Speaker 1: they ain't got my number and I'm not hitting him 1299 01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:27,840 Speaker 1: back on my new number. But they're all hitting me 1300 01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:31,440 Speaker 1: through Instagram, through Twitter, my email. You had a new 1301 01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:35,760 Speaker 1: number from when I was sucking them. But the one nigga, 1302 01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:38,760 Speaker 1: what's what I was taking? The one nigga we fucked 1303 01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:41,880 Speaker 1: six years ago, and he's hitting me like yeah awesome 1304 01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:43,920 Speaker 1: reminists and ship. I was like, I don't remember, like 1305 01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:46,680 Speaker 1: we I don't. I've had a lot since then, um sir, 1306 01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:49,520 Speaker 1: and I'm not interested in you know, more like what like, 1307 01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:52,200 Speaker 1: don't come back? You remember this? And Nigga I fucked? 1308 01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:58,000 Speaker 1: He plays ball overseas and I just recently found him again. 1309 01:06:58,160 --> 01:06:59,840 Speaker 1: He I don't know how we found each other. But 1310 01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:01,800 Speaker 1: the point is, bitch, he said his dick and he 1311 01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:05,720 Speaker 1: was nice and chocolate. You don't remember it? I mean yeah, 1312 01:07:06,280 --> 01:07:07,880 Speaker 1: but it was I remember it being big. It's just 1313 01:07:08,000 --> 01:07:11,120 Speaker 1: like we didn't really connect on another level. Like you know, 1314 01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:13,440 Speaker 1: I'm emotional, but bitch, hold on, look at this dick. 1315 01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:18,520 Speaker 1: Do you remember him? And I went to Europe when 1316 01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:22,600 Speaker 1: he was playing in Europe, I went to Switzerland. We 1317 01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:24,840 Speaker 1: might not have been friends and we were you don't 1318 01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:28,280 Speaker 1: remember him. I was living with Coolie at the time. 1319 01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:32,360 Speaker 1: I don't remember him. He find no bitches ship and 1320 01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:34,960 Speaker 1: he slapped the dick on his stomach. Bitch, I hate you. 1321 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:39,400 Speaker 1: I've literally come to all them like I don't. I 1322 01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:42,280 Speaker 1: don't know why they're all coming back. Ront you see 1323 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,640 Speaker 1: that slab I love a mushroom head. But no, I 1324 01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:49,120 Speaker 1: really think like it's it's it's. It's to the point 1325 01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:53,840 Speaker 1: where just like I feel like we've had conversations like 1326 01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,720 Speaker 1: the I hate you. We don't want to see you 1327 01:07:56,760 --> 01:08:00,960 Speaker 1: slappy dick on your stomach. No, thank yeah, no, not 1328 01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:04,080 Speaker 1: not even just a little bit. No, oh, I gotta 1329 01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,800 Speaker 1: pay to see you slack you dick on you sum 1330 01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:08,680 Speaker 1: First of all, actually I don't pay for dick ever, 1331 01:08:09,320 --> 01:08:10,960 Speaker 1: I get it for free. But now I think it's 1332 01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:12,680 Speaker 1: weird though, that a lot of them are coming from 1333 01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 1: the past and now are just like, I'm so proud 1334 01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:16,240 Speaker 1: of you. I always knew he was gonna be a star, 1335 01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:21,880 Speaker 1: like and it's just kind of like then we could. 1336 01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:25,000 Speaker 1: It's an awkward feeling awkward. But even if they got 1337 01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:30,439 Speaker 1: sucked in high school and came back high school broke, 1338 01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:34,439 Speaker 1: because we've been doing this for two years, right, we 1339 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:36,200 Speaker 1: come in the studio with the same energy. We'll be 1340 01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:38,360 Speaker 1: head sometimes we don't, you know what I mean, And 1341 01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:41,240 Speaker 1: we've been putting the same energy. It's just now other 1342 01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:44,280 Speaker 1: people are getting energy, you know. And it's funny because 1343 01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:48,519 Speaker 1: like some people would be like, oh, like y'all piped 1344 01:08:48,600 --> 01:08:52,240 Speaker 1: up about nothing but my nigga. Anytime we've arrived at 1345 01:08:52,280 --> 01:08:55,120 Speaker 1: a city the show was sold out. And I don't 1346 01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:56,760 Speaker 1: even want to knock on wood because I don't think 1347 01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:58,720 Speaker 1: I needed to, because that's just the fucking trend. It 1348 01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,120 Speaker 1: is what it is. It's not you know what I mean, 1349 01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:05,040 Speaker 1: y'all fun with us. I've been to enough live podcast 1350 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:08,880 Speaker 1: now to know there is nothing like we do. I 1351 01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:11,200 Speaker 1: don't know what it is. I don't know if it's 1352 01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:13,519 Speaker 1: because of the audience we have. We have great audience. 1353 01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:15,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's even when they sucked, the 1354 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,840 Speaker 1: show was still good. And I'm not gonna say what 1355 01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:20,120 Speaker 1: city was, but you know what I was talking about 1356 01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:22,880 Speaker 1: that was in your opinion, you just didn't We're not 1357 01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:24,880 Speaker 1: gonna get into that. I don't think that audience had 1358 01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:29,040 Speaker 1: the energy that we've had at other shows. But even 1359 01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:32,120 Speaker 1: that show, when I thought I was going to open 1360 01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:34,040 Speaker 1: my d ms and people people are like, I can't. 1361 01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:35,920 Speaker 1: This is I'm so glad I drove all this way, 1362 01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:38,479 Speaker 1: and I'm like, they love it, they thank us, and 1363 01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:42,519 Speaker 1: it's it's engaging. It's also reflective as to what we 1364 01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:44,840 Speaker 1: do on the podcast, like we don't really deter too much, 1365 01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:48,840 Speaker 1: and it's I read a comment where someone said they're 1366 01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:52,920 Speaker 1: exactly what I thought they would be, and I was like, perfect, yeah, 1367 01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:55,640 Speaker 1: what I want people to think me too, and like 1368 01:09:55,800 --> 01:09:59,240 Speaker 1: that felt good because sometimes I've been to a live 1369 01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:02,920 Speaker 1: podcast where I was so excited to see them and 1370 01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:06,040 Speaker 1: I was like, oh right. I did have a good 1371 01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:09,240 Speaker 1: time at a Brilliance, the one we went to together 1372 01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:13,160 Speaker 1: with your mom my, my first my first um time 1373 01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:16,080 Speaker 1: seeing the Joe Budden pot actually at Highline was really good. 1374 01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:18,800 Speaker 1: They had the live that was a great thing. That 1375 01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:21,120 Speaker 1: was that was a really good. They had the stage 1376 01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:24,519 Speaker 1: set up exactly like the venue. But you know what, 1377 01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:28,720 Speaker 1: and it's funny, what Highline is no longer open? No, No, 1378 01:10:28,840 --> 01:10:31,800 Speaker 1: it wasn't Highlight. I'm wrong. I like the Sony Music Theater, 1379 01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:35,920 Speaker 1: so I think I went to but they did have 1380 01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:38,240 Speaker 1: they had the couch and they had the background and like, 1381 01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,519 Speaker 1: I love that Tony that one too. That was a 1382 01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:42,800 Speaker 1: great one and it was a good one. Um. I 1383 01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:45,160 Speaker 1: guess before we had out of here though, guys, UM, 1384 01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:46,960 Speaker 1: we do want to thank you again. I do want 1385 01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:50,760 Speaker 1: to shout out, um homie Don Cannon sent me to 1386 01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:53,439 Speaker 1: shirts shout out to Don Cannon. I do also want 1387 01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:55,560 Speaker 1: to say that is the studio we use when we 1388 01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:58,640 Speaker 1: are in Atlanta. So if you're in Atlanta and podcasting, 1389 01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:03,479 Speaker 1: mean Street studios is what. Oh I got three, I 1390 01:11:03,560 --> 01:11:04,920 Speaker 1: got three, you can have one of you by the 1391 01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:06,800 Speaker 1: whole bit I was gonna hold, I was gonna give 1392 01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:09,920 Speaker 1: you one. You take the black one because I wanted 1393 01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:13,160 Speaker 1: Neon green one. Uh, I'll give you the black one. 1394 01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:15,840 Speaker 1: But thanks John Canna, shout out to you everything you've 1395 01:11:15,840 --> 01:11:17,960 Speaker 1: got going on. You were creative. So he supports everything 1396 01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:21,080 Speaker 1: that we got going on to UM. I guess is 1397 01:11:21,120 --> 01:11:24,320 Speaker 1: there any other um things that we want to shout out? 1398 01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:28,080 Speaker 1: I guess, um, we've they've supported us and everything that 1399 01:11:28,240 --> 01:11:31,679 Speaker 1: we've done. So if you are in Atlanta, Cocktails Podcast 1400 01:11:31,760 --> 01:11:34,920 Speaker 1: with Kiki and Medina, they added a second show. That's right. Yeah, 1401 01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:38,040 Speaker 1: So if you guys are interested in crating us about Atlanta. 1402 01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:41,280 Speaker 1: Go and support these black girls in your city, nearby 1403 01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:45,240 Speaker 1: your city. They are so sweet. I know, necessilly thing 1404 01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:50,000 Speaker 1: to say, but like this reported us. Um, she's coming 1405 01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:54,040 Speaker 1: to Houston, kicks coming to you from Texas. Yeah, she 1406 01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:58,400 Speaker 1: is so um check them out, super dope, check out. 1407 01:11:58,479 --> 01:12:00,439 Speaker 1: I think they're doing their show to say time we're 1408 01:12:00,439 --> 01:12:03,000 Speaker 1: actually you know, it's so funny, it's like almost unspoken. 1409 01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:07,799 Speaker 1: I think if I had to compare myself to anyone cocktails, 1410 01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:09,360 Speaker 1: I think I'm more like Medina, I think, and I'm 1411 01:12:09,400 --> 01:12:13,080 Speaker 1: more like Kiki, And now I gonna Kiki right and 1412 01:12:13,320 --> 01:12:17,120 Speaker 1: Medina schools out. But we both talked to another one. Um. 1413 01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:19,600 Speaker 1: And then I also to want to give us a 1414 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:21,639 Speaker 1: shout out to wind Down Wednesday and my homegirl Lakes 1415 01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:24,799 Speaker 1: p Indria. Um, they both have been on this podcast 1416 01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:27,800 Speaker 1: and they're building there. Like that episode a lot fun there. Yeah, 1417 01:12:27,960 --> 01:12:31,360 Speaker 1: so check them out. UM, I don't know everyone, We're 1418 01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:32,760 Speaker 1: excited to see you guys on the rest of the 1419 01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:34,920 Speaker 1: Oh god, I'm still sorry. I got to shout out 1420 01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:39,679 Speaker 1: the team really quick. Small podcasts. It's in Connecticut. They're growing. 1421 01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 1: These girls have treated me better than I've treated people 1422 01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:47,320 Speaker 1: that they gauge in it on us. I'm at you 1423 01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:48,960 Speaker 1: posted all that because now people don't think we need 1424 01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:52,840 Speaker 1: to treat them so guilty. So Hi Rise chocolate covered strawberries, well, 1425 01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:55,120 Speaker 1: goddamn they they brought it out because they knew I 1426 01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:57,479 Speaker 1: was allergic to eggs and my birthday was that week. 1427 01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:00,439 Speaker 1: It was that Sunday and they fucking it out with 1428 01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:03,040 Speaker 1: a sparkler. They were just so They wrote me to 1429 01:13:03,080 --> 01:13:05,240 Speaker 1: thank you know, about how much we're an inspiration to them, 1430 01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:08,639 Speaker 1: and like the pictures look dope too. They were so sweet. 1431 01:13:08,720 --> 01:13:10,599 Speaker 1: She was like, we just like a leve hip hop reunion. 1432 01:13:11,080 --> 01:13:13,240 Speaker 1: You know, Bro, I'm gonna talking about funk with them, 1433 01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:15,800 Speaker 1: my nigger. She had to receipt and my money. The 1434 01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:18,560 Speaker 1: second I was done, I was like, thank you. You know, 1435 01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:20,800 Speaker 1: I had my deposit at first, but I funk with 1436 01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:25,760 Speaker 1: that ship because not to say that your words here, 1437 01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:29,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, it's gonna be some black people don't be paying. No, 1438 01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:33,120 Speaker 1: I was gonna say for somebody that is not I 1439 01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:35,680 Speaker 1: didn't know their name at first until they wrote me 1440 01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:40,680 Speaker 1: for something smaller or something not, like, you know, they 1441 01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:43,439 Speaker 1: had their ships so seamless. Bro shout out to that manager. 1442 01:13:43,520 --> 01:13:46,439 Speaker 1: I Legit was like, I think I want you. She 1443 01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:49,920 Speaker 1: was giving these girls towels waters. They didn't do nothing, Mandy, 1444 01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:51,760 Speaker 1: and the way we'll be running around. I've been told 1445 01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:53,439 Speaker 1: you about this ship, but you don't want to give up. 1446 01:13:53,680 --> 01:13:55,280 Speaker 1: She was. I'm telling them how you don't want to 1447 01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:57,439 Speaker 1: pay nobody a percentage. Hope. It's not a percentage that 1448 01:13:57,600 --> 01:13:59,080 Speaker 1: we did all the door. But if we got a 1449 01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:01,720 Speaker 1: manage it, now we gotta. She's I want to pay her. 1450 01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:03,200 Speaker 1: I told her, I would love for you to be 1451 01:14:03,880 --> 01:14:06,840 Speaker 1: part of our growing when I when I arrived with Enoch, 1452 01:14:06,960 --> 01:14:08,800 Speaker 1: she drove me up. She wanted to die. She had 1453 01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:11,599 Speaker 1: she was outside the whole dope. I want to hold her. 1454 01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:14,000 Speaker 1: She was ready outside and willing. Okay. She was like, 1455 01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:15,680 Speaker 1: we have someone assigned to you for the night. If 1456 01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,200 Speaker 1: you need anything. Bro. They was treating me like I 1457 01:14:18,760 --> 01:14:21,560 Speaker 1: was fucking Beyonce, and I'm telling you right now, the 1458 01:14:21,720 --> 01:14:26,519 Speaker 1: fucking Tito's cheese and crackers. Bitch was ready, No eggs, 1459 01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:28,360 Speaker 1: little do that. No, you don't even drink like that, 1460 01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:31,080 Speaker 1: but I was drinking it though. You and I just 1461 01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:33,320 Speaker 1: fun with this and you know, just meeting our listeners 1462 01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:36,440 Speaker 1: and you know, different plays. It was dope, and I realized, 1463 01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:39,280 Speaker 1: like that is the kind of ship we need. We 1464 01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:41,559 Speaker 1: hired that girl that was running around. She was insane. 1465 01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:45,040 Speaker 1: They have flowers ready for me, bitch. I'm not saying 1466 01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:47,160 Speaker 1: we're doing all that, but you don't even want to 1467 01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:50,400 Speaker 1: pay for extra mic and she talks you think she's 1468 01:14:50,400 --> 01:14:52,160 Speaker 1: for pay for I don't want to do all that, 1469 01:14:52,360 --> 01:14:57,200 Speaker 1: you know, I'm just saying. She's like, wait, a wireless 1470 01:14:57,320 --> 01:15:00,360 Speaker 1: costs forty dollars. Actually will take the wire thing said 1471 01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:03,479 Speaker 1: like this makes me live like a little pussy. The 1472 01:15:03,560 --> 01:15:08,760 Speaker 1: same people TV. I don't want to buy flowers, but 1473 01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:11,040 Speaker 1: her the way that they didn't stress and she was 1474 01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:15,120 Speaker 1: running around. We'll just hand the mic off. We don't 1475 01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:18,040 Speaker 1: have to pay that forty dollars. Like, shut your dew 1476 01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:23,160 Speaker 1: ass because you eat cheapest. Fucking you all you're talking 1477 01:15:23,160 --> 01:15:27,600 Speaker 1: about flower. I'm appreciating what they did. I say I 1478 01:15:27,760 --> 01:15:35,280 Speaker 1: want to do it. Saying I appreciate what they did, 1479 01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:36,519 Speaker 1: I didn't want to say I do it, want to 1480 01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:38,479 Speaker 1: do it for other people. I just wanted a manager 1481 01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:41,280 Speaker 1: to come and do our New York. That's all I'm saying. 1482 01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:45,800 Speaker 1: I want thatch halls. It's like all right, but like 1483 01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:50,920 Speaker 1: not a lot, right, I'm not saying with you anyways, guys, 1484 01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,200 Speaker 1: as you guys don't be we are able to be 1485 01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:56,880 Speaker 1: on the tour because of you. There are still tickets 1486 01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:59,680 Speaker 1: left because of you, because of my patrons, by bad 1487 01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:01,639 Speaker 1: and I'd be because of all of them, but because 1488 01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:05,400 Speaker 1: of our patrons. Um. Again, we do have tickets left 1489 01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:08,120 Speaker 1: for the second show that's in l A. It will 1490 01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:10,960 Speaker 1: be at the Hollywood Improv on May twelve. Please check 1491 01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:14,080 Speaker 1: us out. The May eleventh Saturday show is completely sold out, 1492 01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:16,280 Speaker 1: but we have tickets left in l A. And there 1493 01:16:16,320 --> 01:16:19,880 Speaker 1: are a very few tickets left in Toronto other than 1494 01:16:19,920 --> 01:16:22,280 Speaker 1: that which we sold out everywhere else. Houston is officially 1495 01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:28,799 Speaker 1: sold out. UM Miami is officially sold out. Both Chicago 1496 01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:32,400 Speaker 1: shows that we have already done were sold out. Everything 1497 01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:34,479 Speaker 1: sold out for the rest of the tour except for 1498 01:16:34,600 --> 01:16:37,439 Speaker 1: that second show in l A on May twelve and 1499 01:16:37,680 --> 01:16:40,640 Speaker 1: our very last show in Toronto on May eighth. There 1500 01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:43,599 Speaker 1: are less than ten tickets for that though, so we're 1501 01:16:43,640 --> 01:16:45,920 Speaker 1: looking forward to seeing you guys again. This is all 1502 01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:49,240 Speaker 1: because you guys support us and have become patrons and 1503 01:16:49,560 --> 01:16:51,680 Speaker 1: allow us to now travel with the country and give 1504 01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:54,000 Speaker 1: you guys this show and meet you guys in person, 1505 01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:56,400 Speaker 1: So we want to thank you before we get up 1506 01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:57,800 Speaker 1: out of here. We are going to drop you a 1507 01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:01,519 Speaker 1: clip of one of our bonus episodes. And again, this 1508 01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:04,400 Speaker 1: is just a whole another episode that you get. As 1509 01:17:04,439 --> 01:17:07,839 Speaker 1: of right now, we have about thirty extra bonus episodes, 1510 01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:10,439 Speaker 1: so if you are all caught up on all hundred 1511 01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:15,080 Speaker 1: plus episodes, you can become a patron and listen to more. 1512 01:17:15,439 --> 01:17:18,519 Speaker 1: So once again, this has been yet another episode of 1513 01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:26,439 Speaker 1: four Decisions. By the way, I didn't let anybody know 1514 01:17:26,560 --> 01:17:28,360 Speaker 1: until now. Actually I'm ready to talk about it. Not 1515 01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:32,920 Speaker 1: not fully married. He was the one. Yeah, I did. 1516 01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:36,479 Speaker 1: I did. I didn't marry for money because he didn't 1517 01:17:36,479 --> 01:17:39,599 Speaker 1: have it. Um. I'm married because and that's not say 1518 01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:42,200 Speaker 1: that's the truth. I was a breadwinner, you know, Um, 1519 01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:45,800 Speaker 1: and still am. But in terms of I'm married for love, 1520 01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:49,800 Speaker 1: I'm married because I saw someone who I considered my 1521 01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:52,439 Speaker 1: egual and someone that I wanted the best for in 1522 01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:55,120 Speaker 1: us to be able to work and grow together. How 1523 01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:57,840 Speaker 1: many like loves do you think we get on sex 1524 01:17:57,920 --> 01:17:59,800 Speaker 1: in the city, they say you get two great loves, right, 1525 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:02,000 Speaker 1: But there's other things that we read about, like twin 1526 01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:04,280 Speaker 1: flames and this kind of soul mate and blah blah blah. 1527 01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:07,120 Speaker 1: How many do you think we get in life? Do 1528 01:18:07,240 --> 01:18:10,120 Speaker 1: you think as much as I think we have multiple 1529 01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:13,560 Speaker 1: soul mates. I think that um, we go, our bodies go. 1530 01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:16,920 Speaker 1: We are in a constant stage of evolution. And as 1531 01:18:17,040 --> 01:18:19,320 Speaker 1: our minds and our hearts and our spirits continue to 1532 01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:22,479 Speaker 1: grow and we continue to gather information. Right because our 1533 01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:25,360 Speaker 1: bodies are we store that. We store that in our skin, 1534 01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:27,080 Speaker 1: we stored in our minds, we stored it in our 1535 01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:31,320 Speaker 1: eyes and our hearts. With that comes life experiences and 1536 01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:35,120 Speaker 1: over time, you can, yes, have I do believe have 1537 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:38,760 Speaker 1: multiple soul mates. I don't know necessarily all at the 1538 01:18:38,800 --> 01:18:42,240 Speaker 1: same time, but I do believe over time, gradually you 1539 01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:45,080 Speaker 1: meet people in life that you connect with and maybe 1540 01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:47,280 Speaker 1: it's a different connection from what you had before with 1541 01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:49,680 Speaker 1: the other partner. I have a twin flame. May he 1542 01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:51,960 Speaker 1: rest in peace. He will still be my twin flame. 1543 01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:55,400 Speaker 1: You know, He's someone that I can still feel every 1544 01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:57,720 Speaker 1: now and then, or I'll see these little glimmers and 1545 01:18:57,800 --> 01:19:00,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, you came through you, you showed me 1546 01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:04,360 Speaker 1: you're still around. And I believe in that um and 1547 01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:07,160 Speaker 1: so to answer your question, I think that we, over 1548 01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:09,760 Speaker 1: time can have more than one soul mate and not 1549 01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:14,560 Speaker 1: just too. What about when you've had them, Have you 1550 01:19:14,680 --> 01:19:18,120 Speaker 1: noticed anything that's the same, because I have when I 1551 01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:22,120 Speaker 1: meet these people, have you what is it like for me? 1552 01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:27,040 Speaker 1: I think, Um, what is the same? Is feeling something familiar? 1553 01:19:27,360 --> 01:19:29,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I was just gonna say, whenever I 1554 01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:31,320 Speaker 1: meet a guy that I know will be around, or 1555 01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:34,240 Speaker 1: a friend I know i'll see again, I'm like, I 1556 01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:36,160 Speaker 1: feel like I know you already. Yeah. What I and 1557 01:19:36,240 --> 01:19:38,439 Speaker 1: what I say to that is I'll say it's nice 1558 01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:40,280 Speaker 1: to see you again, and they know what I mean 1559 01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:45,160 Speaker 1: because they understand it. Really, Yeah, it's nice to see 1560 01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:48,720 Speaker 1: you again the first time you meet them. Like the 1561 01:19:48,880 --> 01:19:50,720 Speaker 1: last person I met like that, who was Jeeves, the 1562 01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:53,240 Speaker 1: guy you saw at the show. It was actually sitting 1563 01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:56,080 Speaker 1: across from me. Yeah, that's super fucking depressing breakup I 1564 01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:59,840 Speaker 1: had right and I was like, I'm never going to 1565 01:19:59,880 --> 01:20:01,600 Speaker 1: be anybody else And it was a date that I 1566 01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:03,840 Speaker 1: didn't want to go on, and it was just like, fuck, 1567 01:20:04,560 --> 01:20:06,960 Speaker 1: I meet this guy. It was like ten minutes, maybe 1568 01:20:07,040 --> 01:20:09,639 Speaker 1: less than that, Maybe I don't know. I was sitting 1569 01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:11,160 Speaker 1: there and I texted my friends like, oh my god, 1570 01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:13,519 Speaker 1: he's gonna be my next boyfriend. Like I could feel it, 1571 01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:17,120 Speaker 1: feel it. And it's so crazy because we go on 1572 01:20:17,240 --> 01:20:20,000 Speaker 1: these dates with people and we immediately know we may 1573 01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:22,360 Speaker 1: not see them again or they're not that interesting. Why 1574 01:20:22,439 --> 01:20:26,360 Speaker 1: do we stay because we I think for the why 1575 01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:29,439 Speaker 1: we stay is because it's innate within us to not 1576 01:20:29,600 --> 01:20:32,040 Speaker 1: give up right away and still give it one more try, 1577 01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:34,240 Speaker 1: like let me see this out one more time or 1578 01:20:34,320 --> 01:20:37,000 Speaker 1: two more times and see where that goes. So that's 1579 01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:39,280 Speaker 1: why I think we we do stay for an extra 1580 01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:42,120 Speaker 1: day or third date is to say, well, sometimes people 1581 01:20:42,120 --> 01:20:45,000 Speaker 1: are nervous on the first try. It's just like nervous sex. 1582 01:20:45,120 --> 01:20:47,160 Speaker 1: You know. It's like, let's just get that ship out 1583 01:20:47,200 --> 01:20:50,760 Speaker 1: the way, like true, you know, and maybe be able 1584 01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:53,760 Speaker 1: to Is the one going to be like that? Probably not? 1585 01:20:54,360 --> 01:20:58,400 Speaker 1: Probably not. I've had I've had soul mates that are 1586 01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:01,360 Speaker 1: you know, because they are these are former lovers, but 1587 01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:05,240 Speaker 1: we're still good friends and they know who they are. 1588 01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:10,120 Speaker 1: And I knew just by them walking in the room. 1589 01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:14,320 Speaker 1: My throat felt like it was choking up because my 1590 01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:17,680 Speaker 1: I just knew, like physically and spiritually and emotionally. I 1591 01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:20,400 Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, my body the compass is 1592 01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:24,560 Speaker 1: towards him and it felt the same way and body compass, 1593 01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:27,519 Speaker 1: my body compass. Now the person that you're dating, you've 1594 01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:31,439 Speaker 1: been friends with, I'm curious to know because I always 1595 01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:34,280 Speaker 1: feel like if we didn't immediately get together, and maybe 1596 01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:38,120 Speaker 1: we're not supposed to be together, right so I think, um, 1597 01:21:38,360 --> 01:21:42,200 Speaker 1: and you're so in love. I think for me, the 1598 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:46,400 Speaker 1: space that I'm in right now is where the older 1599 01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:49,200 Speaker 1: I get, the more that I realized that love comes 1600 01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,600 Speaker 1: in many ways, and I'm in a headspace to be 1601 01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:54,120 Speaker 1: able to communicate that to anyone I'm dating or who 1602 01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm currently dating, is to be able to say, like, 1603 01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:59,639 Speaker 1: this is where I'm at. Um. It can also sound 1604 01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:03,160 Speaker 1: like I'm saying open relationship or a polyamorous relationship. I'm 1605 01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:05,840 Speaker 1: not saying that, which I do support, by the way, like, 1606 01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:08,520 Speaker 1: if if it works for you, I support open relationships, 1607 01:22:08,600 --> 01:22:12,040 Speaker 1: I support polly life, go for it. Definitely, it's not 1608 01:22:12,200 --> 01:22:14,439 Speaker 1: for everyone. I've done it, but I think that's also 1609 01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:17,439 Speaker 1: two case by case. I also think monogamy is beautiful 1610 01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:19,360 Speaker 1: if you have someone that you are interested in and 1611 01:22:19,720 --> 01:22:24,400 Speaker 1: it's consensual, for sure, But the kind of love space 1612 01:22:24,520 --> 01:22:30,200 Speaker 1: that I'm in right now, is experiencing experience Wow, that happened. 1613 01:22:30,760 --> 01:22:34,600 Speaker 1: Is receiving, delivering and receiving all forms of love, and 1614 01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:37,719 Speaker 1: that could be anything from self love. It can also 1615 01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:39,680 Speaker 1: be love that I want to exchange with you, that 1616 01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:42,160 Speaker 1: I want to exchange with the person that I'm dating. UM. 1617 01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:46,479 Speaker 1: And why I say that is because for me, one 1618 01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:50,439 Speaker 1: person cannot be my everything and that sounds that sounds 1619 01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:54,120 Speaker 1: horrible right now, How does that factor into monogamy? Because 1620 01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:57,640 Speaker 1: I agree with that statement, But which one the monogamy 1621 01:22:57,760 --> 01:22:59,519 Speaker 1: or no? No, No, you're saying that one person can't 1622 01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:01,800 Speaker 1: be or everything, so you don't necessary You're saying you 1623 01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:04,080 Speaker 1: don't necessarily need to have another boyfriend to be everything. 1624 01:23:04,160 --> 01:23:05,960 Speaker 1: You just need to have those people in your life. Yes, 1625 01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:06,200 Speaker 1: and