Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion to
Speaker 1: talk back. All right, y'all, so listen, this is a
Speaker 1: new I just showed a J B two stuck to
Speaker 1: her like she'd be sexually harassing me. I'm sick of
Speaker 1: Tam like she really be literally sexually harassing me, like
Speaker 1: we recording on this riverside platform. This bitch on camera,
Speaker 1: shes just flashed me, and I just feel violated a
Speaker 1: little bit. Sometimes you feel violent, like this much, look
Speaker 1: like this much. There's some nice titties, bitch, but I
Speaker 1: don't like titties the fuck. I like, like, I don't
Speaker 1: like titties on men or women, and I like, I
Speaker 1: definitely like hips on men. I seen this guy the
Speaker 1: other day. He was so hippy. I was like, damn
Speaker 1: baby bearing hips. Yeah, you your mama soon, y'all. It's
Speaker 1: Tam bam like and it's a j And we are
Speaker 1: back with a new episode of We Talked Back and
Speaker 1: we got some fun ship today. Yes we deal. We
Speaker 1: got the Puerto Rican Prinson, the Puerto Rican pimps. Yes,
Speaker 1: Joscelyn her Nandez stepped into the studio. What we talked
Speaker 1: back and we're not looking amazing. I know. I'm so
Speaker 1: you gotta get my whole life together because I can't deal.
Speaker 1: I can't deal. I was so upset after we, uh
Speaker 1: we hung up with her. I just went to say,
Speaker 1: a fucking you know what, I'm just gonna eat this
Speaker 1: motherfucking can't can't calling me back. It's over for this summer.
Speaker 1: It ain't never over, girl, it ain't never over. No,
Speaker 1: I'm joking because on May one, hold on, what's today?
Speaker 1: So on not today when you're hearing this, but in
Speaker 1: two days, I need you to start doing your squats.
Speaker 1: We're doing the squat Challenge, a hundred squats of day. Ladies,
Speaker 1: y'all been in the d M saying that y'all down.
Speaker 1: I want to see the masses, okay, and not just
Speaker 1: because I like them, but because I want you to
Speaker 1: look good. Y'all. Please make sure y'all charge tam for
Speaker 1: y'all for these pictures. Because this bitch enjoys this type
Speaker 1: of ship, all right. So she so she's she wants
Speaker 1: to see the pictures for her pleasure, So make sure
Speaker 1: y'all send for my pleasure, not just for pleasure. I
Speaker 1: also what is like us to all look fine together?
Speaker 1: We talked back batties. All right, so look we want
Speaker 1: to get into this interview with Jocelyn. We're talking with
Speaker 1: Joscelyn about UM, her new show which is on the
Speaker 1: second season of Johnson's Cabaret. She has some lovely ladies
Speaker 1: on a wild crew, some lovely ones and some not
Speaker 1: so lovely bitches on there. I love all the homes.
Speaker 1: Now my favorite too, UM was the girl from South Carolina. UM,
Speaker 1: big flex lex big flexi, big lexi Flexi. What you
Speaker 1: haveing was? And then the Barbie chick just yes, and
Speaker 1: the Barbie chick because she was just like, oh, I've
Speaker 1: been in nightser places in this like now she's a
Speaker 1: real car hopper, right, she said she get her money
Speaker 1: off the dresser, not the food year that, but which
Speaker 1: one would you prefer? I feel like dancing is less stressed, right,
Speaker 1: and you get in shape. Your pussy ain't getting stretched out.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're pussy really can stretch out,
Speaker 1: but it's not getting used to. Maybe she gets paid
Speaker 1: if she has, like UM, a constant set of clients.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe she grosses, you know, two hundred thousand dollars
Speaker 1: a year. I don't know. I'd like to know the
Speaker 1: difference the pay scales amongst two different industries. I know, um,
Speaker 1: I knew a guy. He was a pimp in Las
Speaker 1: Vegas and his girls only fucked Asian men that were
Speaker 1: in town from Asia, so you know they pussy wouldn't
Speaker 1: get stressed out. Hey, look, before we get in trouble,
Speaker 1: let's get into this motherfucking interview, right, all right, all right,
Speaker 1: my bad, my bad. Here comes jobs with y'all. And
Speaker 1: we had the Puerto Rican Princess on, yes, ma'am, but
Speaker 1: after watching season two, episode one, we need to start
Speaker 1: calling you the Puerto Rican Queen, baby pimp. I don't
Speaker 1: know which one. I'm not a pimp. I'm not a pimp.
Speaker 1: I'm just, you know, I'm just I just felt like
Speaker 1: it was just super dope to be able to put
Speaker 1: camas around me filming the actual cabalaret, and it was
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, the ladies wanted to dance in
Speaker 1: the cabaret with me, they wanted to join the cabaret,
Speaker 1: and you know, it was a petition. So exactly what's
Speaker 1: the premise of the whole show, because we understand so
Speaker 1: are you planning to take this on tour? The show.
Speaker 1: So so we had a performance, and we had the
Speaker 1: first ever performance in Atlanta, and it was crazy. Everybody
Speaker 1: came out to see us. It was a line around
Speaker 1: the corner. The performance weren't great, you know, I side
Speaker 1: of all the nonsense that went behind, you know, behind
Speaker 1: closed doors with the ladies, the performance weren't great. So yeah,
Speaker 1: my whole thing was to always say johnson Is Cabaret
Speaker 1: to Vegas like a show girl show. That was to
Speaker 1: be my whole thing since that, uh, since I came
Speaker 1: out with that, that with the idea of doing Johnson's Cabaret.
Speaker 1: So what better to do putting the show together and
Speaker 1: the performance together than have cameras there. You know, it's
Speaker 1: gonna go mayhem, especially when the ladies are actually trying
Speaker 1: to compete to be on the show. Because a lot
Speaker 1: of the ladies really understood what I was doing with
Speaker 1: the cabaret as far as like going to Vegas and
Speaker 1: having the show and you know, making a huge and
Speaker 1: bigger than life. So a lot of the ladies felt
Speaker 1: my answer. They understood that. So it wasn't great. There's
Speaker 1: one there's one winner, so basically there's one winner for me.
Speaker 1: It was okay, so four ladies join me to dance
Speaker 1: to perform at the end of the cabaret, and one
Speaker 1: of the ladies she won the grand prods and she
Speaker 1: also performed, So it was ten thousand dollars the first
Speaker 1: the lady that wanted, she want ten thousand dollars. She
Speaker 1: actually got to perform and the performance was great. Me.
Speaker 1: I was shocked that they actually did that good and
Speaker 1: the people enjoyed it and clapped steading ovation. That was like, okay, ship,
Speaker 1: what's that what I mean? So I was I was shocked,
Speaker 1: But but then again I wasn't because they actually rehearsed
Speaker 1: every night, every single day. They rehearsed at the house. UM,
Speaker 1: and they did great. M they did great. And you know,
Speaker 1: a lot of these ladies they got their own issues
Speaker 1: and their own problems, so they put everything aside and
Speaker 1: they did what they had to do. Right. You gotta
Speaker 1: music career, you gotta popping ass TV show. You're a
Speaker 1: wife and a mother. How do you juggle all of
Speaker 1: that successfully? How are you doing? I'm not married yet
Speaker 1: because I was gonna get married, but the COVID kind
Speaker 1: of got in the way. But I'm still engaged. Um,
Speaker 1: and you know, being a mother and working and doing
Speaker 1: everything at one time. It gets really hard, right, But
Speaker 1: it's all about having a schedule and the calendar and
Speaker 1: kind of like it's like you gotta make a make
Speaker 1: the world go around, Like everybody wake up every morning
Speaker 1: and were all hustling and working and running here and
Speaker 1: money there. I think I do it pretty well because
Speaker 1: I have you know, I might be late a couple
Speaker 1: of minutes. Okay, I might be late a couple of bits,
Speaker 1: but and then you know, Bonnie's four. She just came forward,
Speaker 1: so it's a little bit easier to take school. She's
Speaker 1: been going to the same school for a while. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, go back, go to the studio, record or
Speaker 1: film something. I'm just I just go do it and
Speaker 1: come back on. You wouldn't come back on, So I
Speaker 1: kind of work it out like that. I was watching
Speaker 1: Season one and I know your fiance saying he wants
Speaker 1: to get married and out of space. Do you feel
Speaker 1: like that's like him buying time or he really want
Speaker 1: to have a celestial wedding, Like he's serious, he would
Speaker 1: love to go get married up there. You're about me,
Speaker 1: I mean I would probably like I don't know if
Speaker 1: I would want to go to school. It would be cool,
Speaker 1: but then I a lot of people won't be able
Speaker 1: to come and join the wedding and see the wedding.
Speaker 1: So you know, I don't know if I would. I
Speaker 1: just want to go get married up there just because
Speaker 1: he wants but wants to. But I think it's a
Speaker 1: cool thing to doing it, and it's doable, right, you
Speaker 1: know because you you can go to space now exactly,
Speaker 1: Elon must doing it. If he can do it, you
Speaker 1: can go to space now, so like you can do it.
Speaker 1: But no, I don't think he's buying time. He's a
Speaker 1: swep guy. And why wouldn't you want to marry me
Speaker 1: like yesterday? Right? Why I wouldn't listen? So, Um, you
Speaker 1: guys made it through the pandemic. So we watched you
Speaker 1: on marriage boot Camp. Do you think that? And I
Speaker 1: guess that was recorded, I would assume yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: So do you think that you know the the therapy
Speaker 1: you guys received in marriage boot Camp um attributed to
Speaker 1: your relationship success now because a lot of people are
Speaker 1: getting divorced and breaking up during quarantine and child you
Speaker 1: get to really know who you went. Well. I definitely learned,
Speaker 1: We definitely learned each other doing quarantine, but we also
Speaker 1: I guess we also grew and because I think, like,
Speaker 1: you know, waking up with a person every day and
Speaker 1: seeing the same face every day, or dealing with the
Speaker 1: same things every day kind of like it's like really,
Speaker 1: but I embraced it, and I think us embracing each other.
Speaker 1: So I actually think I learned that life on the
Speaker 1: book camp. That was a good question. I had to
Speaker 1: think about it, but I should be learned a lot,
Speaker 1: and I think it helped us stay together. But I
Speaker 1: think like people that want to stay together during quarrence,
Speaker 1: you or not, I think that you want to stay together.
Speaker 1: And you know, I think my fiance we do a
Speaker 1: lot of talking and a lot of planning. I think
Speaker 1: when you talk a lot and plane a lot, you're
Speaker 1: always gonna get you where you wants. Yeah, expectations, right,
Speaker 1: especially if you're in a relationship. So I recognize the
Speaker 1: changing you as a woman, you know. I don't know
Speaker 1: if anybody else does, but I can see like a
Speaker 1: change in Johncely I kind of um, I can tell
Speaker 1: that your man is not somebody you could just play with. Uh,
Speaker 1: you know, podcast is exactly so you know, our podcast
Speaker 1: is we talk back and I know you are the
Speaker 1: type of woman that talks back. So, but I also
Speaker 1: saw you submit a little bit on marriage boot Camps.
Speaker 1: Was that hard? Did it come natural when you trust
Speaker 1: the man that you're with? Yeah, definitely trust, realistic and
Speaker 1: um know, I mean sometimes you gotta give in. You
Speaker 1: gotta like let them maybe a man, and then you
Speaker 1: have to be a lady. Um and then you gotta
Speaker 1: know where to do things that you know and when
Speaker 1: to do things. So definitely in a relationship, you've got it.
Speaker 1: It's a given it take. So you have to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, if sometimes your man is upset and he's
Speaker 1: just like let it go, you just gotta let it go.
Speaker 1: And sometimes when you don't feel like you should let
Speaker 1: it go, you shouldn't let it go. So it's only
Speaker 1: about a feeling on how you feel at that moment
Speaker 1: to uh, to deal with to deal with your man
Speaker 1: or your relationship, you know, to submit or to talk
Speaker 1: back or whatever the case. Maybe I think it's just
Speaker 1: like how you feel at that moment, because I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be quiet every single time, right, you know, men
Speaker 1: love women who shut the funk up. I mean I
Speaker 1: think so I think they do, but I think they
Speaker 1: love more than wants to talk. Yes, they want boundaries.
Speaker 1: Men want boundaries just like right, So I think, like, really,
Speaker 1: the ladies that get the most love, it's the ones
Speaker 1: that you know, they don't really care. They got their
Speaker 1: own stuff going. They're not thinking about the man, and
Speaker 1: they're like, listen, this is what we're gonna do. Right.
Speaker 1: And you get to see him on um this episode.
Speaker 1: You get to hit to see him in every episode
Speaker 1: on Join Its Cavalaret Atlanta, he was there the whole time.
Speaker 1: He helped me through everything. He made the music for
Speaker 1: the cavalret and um, yeah, he was staying in the
Speaker 1: house with us. He helped us out a lot. So
Speaker 1: you'll get to see a lot more realistic. I got
Speaker 1: a question about that. So on uh, the episode one
Speaker 1: of season two, you said, don't be trying to come
Speaker 1: in the house and suck my nigga, dick. You said
Speaker 1: that right off the gate. How did you feel comfortable
Speaker 1: having your man in the house with so many women
Speaker 1: who have a profession where they aren't stud things man like?
Speaker 1: I mean, how did I mean? Because I trust him?
Speaker 1: M hm, So I wasn't thinking about them, I was
Speaker 1: you know it's about him, like do you trust him?
Speaker 1: You know. I'm not saying I don't trust the ladies,
Speaker 1: but I don't know that eighties like that, you know.
Speaker 1: But I know him and I didn't think he would
Speaker 1: do anything to her me, especially when it comes down
Speaker 1: to me, uh doing you know for him, like he's
Speaker 1: you know, he's a beautiful man and he's had many
Speaker 1: beautiful woman. He's not like a thirsty man that would
Speaker 1: just do that, you know. So I think that if
Speaker 1: somebody would have tried to suck if they get with
Speaker 1: him and like bag yo, come get her, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, I would definitely feel like he would
Speaker 1: have called me and he would have let me know
Speaker 1: what was happening. He wasn't just gonna get Lettuce, I
Speaker 1: don't think right alright. Question, you had like a falling
Speaker 1: out with Daisy and Tastity in season one, and y'all
Speaker 1: seem like y'all was pretty cool at one point and
Speaker 1: then y'all made up in the season finale, y'all squash
Speaker 1: you'all be Will we see them in season two at all?
Speaker 1: Are they completely out of the picture, Like, are y'all
Speaker 1: cool now? Or actually they're not in season two. The
Speaker 1: only person that's on season two from season one is
Speaker 1: two ladies. He's uh Sapphire and mhm. So they came back,
Speaker 1: and I mean, I haven't seen Daisy, I haven't seen
Speaker 1: another of the other ladies from season one. I don't
Speaker 1: know what they're doing. But Lucky definitely came back. And
Speaker 1: Lucky was a big part of Johnston's Cavaray Atlanta. She
Speaker 1: really stepped her game up and she really came to play.
Speaker 1: She really came to win, she really came to handle
Speaker 1: her business, and uh, you will get to see a
Speaker 1: lot of Luck at this season. She was really She's
Speaker 1: one of my favorites too. She she surprised me, like
Speaker 1: how she came back this season, because like last season
Speaker 1: she was a little scared. It was a little different.
Speaker 1: Now she came and she she put that she's very
Speaker 1: she's very strong, and I was like, damn, you shocked me.
Speaker 1: I didn't know he was gonna come back doing all
Speaker 1: of that, right, But like I just feel like she
Speaker 1: was like, man, I'm not gonna let nobody punk me
Speaker 1: right right, She's the Cavalret captain. Let her tell her now.
Speaker 1: But she's definitely at the Cavalret captain, but she is
Speaker 1: about the bottom bitch. Lucky term what is it? What
Speaker 1: is the bottom? Is really just the bitch that handles
Speaker 1: when you like when I'm when I'm doing some of
Speaker 1: this stuff and I can't handle the Cavalret ladies. She's
Speaker 1: gonna come through and make sure everything wrong. Smoothe Lee.
Speaker 1: The Barbie girl says she was the bottom bitch. On
Speaker 1: the first episode, she decided she was the bottom bitch
Speaker 1: for you, and her and Lucky seemed to have like
Speaker 1: some friction. Does that go on throughout the season? Bobby,
Speaker 1: Bobbie and I was really cool and we're still cool.
Speaker 1: You know, I've just seen him at the at the
Speaker 1: viewing of the show. Barbie is actually cool. She we
Speaker 1: were really cool. We was hanging out a lot, and
Speaker 1: I put her in one of my videos, which is
Speaker 1: the soundtrack for Johnson M'scvarey Atlanta, which is Living your
Speaker 1: Best Life. She was on the video, you know, she
Speaker 1: just you know, she is on the video. Actually she
Speaker 1: just felt like I guess because I put her on
Speaker 1: the video and then we was hanging out before we
Speaker 1: started feeling Johnson It's Cavaray Atlanta. I think that she
Speaker 1: feels like she was gonna get like special treatments in
Speaker 1: the house, you can tell them. And I just feel like,
Speaker 1: you know, it was one of those things that threw
Speaker 1: her kind of off. But she's seeing that I wasn't
Speaker 1: showing her any special treatments. You know, it's a competition.
Speaker 1: Everybody's gotta everybody they we gotta compete, right, you gotta
Speaker 1: compete to be in the cabaret. So that's just what
Speaker 1: I feel. But I honestly, I love Barbie and and look,
Speaker 1: I funked with Barbie. I funk with Lucky too, right,
Speaker 1: I funk with Barbie. So Barbie is like funny for me.
Speaker 1: She's super funny to me, like just a little one
Speaker 1: little liner. She says. It's kind of dizzy, but it's
Speaker 1: real fun. And I like Big Lex just because she's
Speaker 1: from South Carolina. We're originally from South Carolina as well.
Speaker 1: Big was it big flex Lex, a big Lex Flex
Speaker 1: or whatever. I like her too. And she's like a
Speaker 1: trouble starter right in the house, and she that way
Speaker 1: the whole show. I mean, I really don't feel like
Speaker 1: any of the girls were troublemakers. I just felt like
Speaker 1: just being in the house with ten ladies was hard
Speaker 1: and that's what made them argue a fight. I really
Speaker 1: feel like everybody was cool. I feel like everybody was nice.
Speaker 1: I feel like everybody was you know that it was
Speaker 1: a lot of fights. Like episode two, it's like three fights.
Speaker 1: Are you guys in the house? We're sat in the
Speaker 1: house for fifteen days? Okay, So I just I don't
Speaker 1: really feel like nobody was a troublemaker. I just feel
Speaker 1: like everybody just had something slick to stay to each
Speaker 1: other to get to the point of the performance that
Speaker 1: was like real petty with there. What they were saying
Speaker 1: to each other. They were funny. You know when you
Speaker 1: when you put a bunch of pussies in the house,
Speaker 1: this is what's gonna happen. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You put a bunch of pussies in the house. You know,
Speaker 1: half of the bitches were bleeding throughout the whole god
Speaker 1: day in season. Everybody here probably linked up at the time,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. They clicked up so quick.
Speaker 1: So it was one of those things where like, of
Speaker 1: course that aroused the problems and the energy in the
Speaker 1: house to make everybody feel how they failed. But outside
Speaker 1: of that I think everybody's sucking awesome. I thought everybody
Speaker 1: was great. I thought everybody went there for the cabaret,
Speaker 1: and everybody wanted to perform in the cabaret or win
Speaker 1: the money or you know, get something out of us.
Speaker 1: So I just felt like the ladies were great. I
Speaker 1: feel like they you know, they got on my nerve
Speaker 1: a lot because they just at the beginning of the
Speaker 1: first week, it was non stop fighting mhm, so that
Speaker 1: I have to like work work through that, and then
Speaker 1: I was sleeping in the same house within my nighttime,
Speaker 1: so it's like, you know, I had to make sure
Speaker 1: my door was locked every night. So I have a question,
Speaker 1: all right. Watching the show, I thought it was gonna
Speaker 1: be like Bad Girls Club with strippers, but I noticed
Speaker 1: that you do like a lot of mentoring of these ladies,
Speaker 1: like you're speaking life into these women who are going
Speaker 1: through hardships. There was a young lady on season one
Speaker 1: that with the glasses. I can't remember what her name was,
Speaker 1: and she had lost her mother and things like that.
Speaker 1: Do you keep in contact with these ladies or like
Speaker 1: they've been calling me, got my number, they text me,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like we could link up
Speaker 1: every every time I did that with Johnson and Cavalariy
Speaker 1: Atlanta to like one of the young ladies in the
Speaker 1: first season, she wanted to commit suicide, and I was like,
Speaker 1: hold god, I saw that You're definitely a mentor for
Speaker 1: these ladies. I'm like, no, that's not what we're doing.
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of the ladies that went
Speaker 1: to the cabaret, or a lot of ladies outside of
Speaker 1: the cabaret, you know, their mothers wasn't there for them.
Speaker 1: And when your mother is not there for them teaching
Speaker 1: you and showing you the way, it's like you just
Speaker 1: don't know. You just don't get it, you know. And
Speaker 1: for me, I had to I feel like I have
Speaker 1: to step in. I feel like I have to say, like,
Speaker 1: this is not how you should do it, you know,
Speaker 1: and you know life is difficult, but the worst thing
Speaker 1: that you could do is skill yourself. Right. That's not
Speaker 1: a way to walk around and wake up every morning.
Speaker 1: Those thoughts just really got to be clear from your mind.
Speaker 1: You should want to fight every day to like live
Speaker 1: it better life. Absolutely every day you want to wake
Speaker 1: up to be a better person of yourself, so a
Speaker 1: better person that you was last night. And I try
Speaker 1: to teach them. I try to teach them that, not
Speaker 1: just them, I try to tell you everybody that that's
Speaker 1: just easy, Like be the best version of you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta have self responsibility, you know, you gotta have
Speaker 1: self matter possibility. Don't matter how you were, how you
Speaker 1: were raised, or your life experiences, you're using to make
Speaker 1: itself stronger. And you have to have self responsibility and accountability, accountability.
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't have it. Everybody wants to
Speaker 1: blame everything on everybody, and you shouldn't. You shouldn't blame no, no, nobody.
Speaker 1: Your parents, like your parents trying their best, usually your
Speaker 1: your parents, you know, they try and they suffering trauma
Speaker 1: of their own that they're trying to survive, you know,
Speaker 1: and you know, you know, coming from me, like I
Speaker 1: came from the sun sep Puerto Rico, it was definitely
Speaker 1: a traumatic place to come from. And so nobody has
Speaker 1: an excuse. Like, you know, if you can get past that,
Speaker 1: you can get past anything absolutely, you know, and be
Speaker 1: strong and and survive by here, because it's all about surviving,
Speaker 1: not here, because we all like we all have our
Speaker 1: own little problems in our minds and well That's probably
Speaker 1: why you identify so much with the underdog because on
Speaker 1: last season, Todaisy and Chastity, they weren't as put together
Speaker 1: or the light skinned bitches in Miami, and you celebrate
Speaker 1: it them more. I felt like, is that why? Because
Speaker 1: of your upbringing and what you remember as growing up
Speaker 1: in the slums of Puerto Rico. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: like fake people, and I don't like bitches that be
Speaker 1: trying too hard, like you ain't gotta do. See, when
Speaker 1: you do things, um and they're sincere, I'm gonna support you.
Speaker 1: But when you do things and you're not sincere, you're
Speaker 1: like a fake bitch and you're just doing it just
Speaker 1: because you think you can. And yeah, like when you
Speaker 1: do when you do too much and it's not really sincere,
Speaker 1: it's like, I'm not gonna really feel you. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna feel you because I know where I come from
Speaker 1: and I know how you're supposed to go. You don't,
Speaker 1: and so you I'm gonna always support the ladies that
Speaker 1: need my support. If you think you gotta know you
Speaker 1: don't need my support, I'm gonna let you do. You
Speaker 1: go ahead. I don't heed he I like sweet ladies.
Speaker 1: You're not sweet, I ain't working with you. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: let you go out there and do your own thing.
Speaker 1: You got it. So what do you think about the
Speaker 1: demo homicide comment? I know that's something that's where I
Speaker 1: was about to go next turnding on social media right now.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to get in depth because
Speaker 1: we're all grown women. We've all been through things, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's a woman's choice at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: Me personally, I don't believe in struggling. You know, if
Speaker 1: that's a if that's a hard, tough decision you needed
Speaker 1: to make at that time and that was best for you.
Speaker 1: I don't think women should not have that, um that
Speaker 1: the right to take care of it in a safe way,
Speaker 1: you know. I don't. I don't really. I mean I
Speaker 1: didn't really pay, you know, too much attention to the
Speaker 1: double homicide. I didn't. I didn't understand why people think
Speaker 1: you was so funny. But then again, you can't. Maybe
Speaker 1: people can laugh at whatever they want to laugh at,
Speaker 1: so you can't be like, okay, but I feel like, hmmm,
Speaker 1: I feel like everybody has the right to do what
Speaker 1: they want with their bodies. And I also feel like
Speaker 1: everybody has the right to say what they want out
Speaker 1: their mouths. My prayer for Aqua is that she heals
Speaker 1: from their abortions and everything that she's going through or
Speaker 1: going through because she's I don't know why Alqua goes
Speaker 1: through so much as a woman. And I think she's beautiful.
Speaker 1: I think she's the tass Stallion, but I don't know,
Speaker 1: I think just her beauty. Her mind got to catch
Speaker 1: up to her beauty. Yeah, a lot of women just
Speaker 1: don't know that. And I feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: things that we do, a lot of the different mens
Speaker 1: that we date, is just literally based off our self esteem.
Speaker 1: It's gotta be because there's no way she's beautiful. So
Speaker 1: she made you know, she just has to probably work
Speaker 1: through that, maybe some therapy or so. I hope she's
Speaker 1: good now because I know you went through a lot
Speaker 1: them with that situation. She went through a lot, and
Speaker 1: I just, you know, it's not a funny, laughing matter.
Speaker 1: It wasn't. I mean, I didn't think it was funny,
Speaker 1: but it made for good content for your show though, honestly, really,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, it was just one of those
Speaker 1: things that needed to talk about. And then we'll talk
Speaker 1: about it more throughout the whole uh season, which will
Speaker 1: be on air for three and a half months. We'll
Speaker 1: talk about it for the whole season because you because
Speaker 1: you see, we'll talk to therapists and we do a
Speaker 1: lot of talking about everything that happened. So I think
Speaker 1: that the girls are going to hear it from it.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be a cool, cool season to watch. I mean,
Speaker 1: you gotta have popcorn, you gotta have a cocktail. It's
Speaker 1: like a movie. How much are you involved in the
Speaker 1: production of the show. Well, you know, I owned, I
Speaker 1: owned the show, and I'm a secutive producer and I'm
Speaker 1: I'm the creator. I'm the creator of the show. I'm
Speaker 1: a secutive producer. Um, I mean I'm involved. I'm put
Speaker 1: it this way. Nothing goes out on this high. Prove.
Speaker 1: Are you gonna give us as much music in season
Speaker 1: two as in season one? You know what, I didn't
Speaker 1: really get to work in a lot of music on
Speaker 1: season one just because I was so focused on getting
Speaker 1: the CABA ray itself off the ground. But season two,
Speaker 1: like I have three singles, I have like four or
Speaker 1: five singles out right now. We got finger fucking check,
Speaker 1: we got slave We Gotta Live Your Best Life, which
Speaker 1: is the soundtrack for Johnson and Scaba Ray Atlanta. We
Speaker 1: got Griico, which we performed it. We performed that the
Speaker 1: Cava Ray. So I got like four singles out right now.
Speaker 1: So this season you'll get to hear a lot, a
Speaker 1: lot more. Hold on before we get into anything else,
Speaker 1: Let's pay some bills real quick. We have a segment
Speaker 1: called dumb Best Story. So we are going to read
Speaker 1: a story that a woman sends us about some ship
Speaker 1: that happened to him where they got played by Nigga
Speaker 1: or something like that, and we're gonna discuss it, and
Speaker 1: I want to hear your thoughts on her story. And
Speaker 1: then I want to know if you got a dumb
Speaker 1: in story to tell us. Okay, so actually, do you
Speaker 1: have it, send it to you dumb bitch stories, because
Speaker 1: we've all been a dumb bitch at least once or twice. Story,
Speaker 1: y'all play well. We asked people to send stuff in.
Speaker 1: We asked people to send stuff in so then we
Speaker 1: can give them advice. I mean we kind of give
Speaker 1: good bad advice a lot of times. What do you
Speaker 1: mean good bad? Not not bad? But I mean, um,
Speaker 1: we try to give good advice, but you know, sometimes
Speaker 1: we may interpret the situation it might be bad. All right.
Speaker 1: So I'm a forty two year old and my fiance
Speaker 1: and I have been together for twelve years. He is
Speaker 1: the father of my two sons. Really he proposed, He
Speaker 1: said he was ready to get married. He told me
Speaker 1: that he's never been in love like this with any
Speaker 1: other woman. We were in share bliss until a month
Speaker 1: later after he asked me to marry him, a woman
Speaker 1: called me and told me that she's been dealing with
Speaker 1: my fiance for six years. Oh my gosh. Exactly when
Speaker 1: I confronted him, he confess and apologized, told me that
Speaker 1: at the time he started the affair, he was feeling
Speaker 1: low and he was having some issues with himself, within himself.
Speaker 1: I forgave him. Then two months later I found out
Speaker 1: about the other woman that he has been dealing with
Speaker 1: for many years as well. I had no idea about
Speaker 1: his side relationships. He has always suggested couples therapy. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't really know who this guy is anymore. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to make it work, but it's painful and so hard,
Speaker 1: and it's so hard to work past the portrayal lies,
Speaker 1: in deceit. What do you think I should do? Should
Speaker 1: I leave that, Should I believe excuse me, Jesus Christ.
Speaker 1: Should I believe that he's he's a changed man and
Speaker 1: marry him? Because I am happy? Wow? I say, if
Speaker 1: you happy staving because it's hard to find happy this
Speaker 1: out here. If you're happy, stay it work, trying to
Speaker 1: make it work. If you're happy. The last thing she
Speaker 1: said is I am happy. Happiness is what we all
Speaker 1: strive for. Right. The difference between her and some of
Speaker 1: the other ladies that she found out right. I'm sure
Speaker 1: she's not the only one that that's being done to exactly,
Speaker 1: but she just found out right because probably the the
Speaker 1: other lady heard about the proposal. M that's probably what
Speaker 1: it is. So I couldn't stay with that nigger. Though
Speaker 1: you wouldn't, I probably could stay. It depends. It depends
Speaker 1: if it's a lot of money involved, Like if we
Speaker 1: have a lot of therapy, if we have a lot
Speaker 1: of businesses together and stuff like that. I'm gonna just
Speaker 1: keep the flow going the way it was golf, Right,
Speaker 1: If y'all weren't getting no money together, and you're getting
Speaker 1: your money and he getting here, you would leave but
Speaker 1: she said she's happy though, like, well, how could she
Speaker 1: be happy? Though? Pussy outside of pussy is not a
Speaker 1: deal breaker for me, It's not, it's not is not.
Speaker 1: A dead teen is not a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 1: It's just about how you do it. You're a bad bitch.
Speaker 1: It's a deal breaker for you completely. I mean, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't know. I'm not saying it's okay, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like, oh, go get outside pussy and
Speaker 1: then come on home. But that's not a reason for
Speaker 1: me to dissolve my complete happiness, honestly, Yeah, because you
Speaker 1: would literally be dissolving everything that you worked for just
Speaker 1: because of a piece of sucking asks and then a
Speaker 1: woman who has been on the side for years, and
Speaker 1: now you're mad because he's now marrying me. It's why
Speaker 1: you reached out to me, because you wouldn't never told me.
Speaker 1: She would have never told me exactly. You were quiet
Speaker 1: until you know he wanted to marry me for six years.
Speaker 1: You was quiet exactly. So me personally, like, if I
Speaker 1: felt like I'm gonna bring up this bitch in every argument,
Speaker 1: you should probably leave because if you're over it, stay
Speaker 1: over it and don't be bringing the past up every
Speaker 1: time I'll get into some ship. I just don't see
Speaker 1: how she'll she'll be able to do that, like because
Speaker 1: I know how I am, I would be. And then
Speaker 1: let's just say I go fun on somebody. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be deflecting like I'm gonna I'm be like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: well you had a whole bitch for six years, and
Speaker 1: that would be you should just leave because it's gonna
Speaker 1: become toxic. I believe, I know it's gonna become toxic.
Speaker 1: The best thing to do is separate, separate. It's it's
Speaker 1: so hard to find happy with somebody though. It's so
Speaker 1: hard to come by that word, like really truly happy.
Speaker 1: If she's truly happy, I say, working at it just
Speaker 1: because it's hard out here. How you know he's not
Speaker 1: gonna do it again, that's the question. But you get
Speaker 1: out here somebody this imagine with somebody and steal it
Speaker 1: from you and ship like you just gotta pick battles us,
Speaker 1: which was gonna be worse. You know me? I like
Speaker 1: to pick my battles too. I feel on the same ship,
Speaker 1: i'd be all picking the battles like you gotta pick
Speaker 1: and choose which one you're going, like, like, you can't
Speaker 1: just yeah, exactly exactly, And that's how I feel about
Speaker 1: that situation, Like, if you're happy to make it, try
Speaker 1: to make the work, don't just walk out on it.
Speaker 1: Happiness is so hard to come by, very hard. Yeah. Alright.
Speaker 1: So now our last segment before we go um is
Speaker 1: ask a Black Friend. So this is where we have
Speaker 1: non black people ask us a question about anything pertaining
Speaker 1: to black people. Okay, so this one is from a
Speaker 1: do name Brandon and says, Hello, my name is Brandon.
Speaker 1: I'm a twenty three year old white male. I grew
Speaker 1: up in the hood with mostly black people. I never
Speaker 1: treated blacks differently than myself, and they didn't treat me
Speaker 1: different from them. I feel like a N word with
Speaker 1: an A not at the e, R at the end,
Speaker 1: l O L. When I'm with my homies, I used
Speaker 1: the N word, and it's all of My question for
Speaker 1: y'all is, if I have lived the culture, why can't
Speaker 1: I say openly? Thanks? Brandon a real nigga at heart?
Speaker 1: Why can't can't he say openly, Joscelyn, how do you
Speaker 1: feel about that? That's a that's a sensitive word for
Speaker 1: people and I guess if your skin color is not black, Uh,
Speaker 1: then I don't know because it's a sensitive thing. If
Speaker 1: a white person called me a nigga, I'm gonna be mad.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I just honestly, I feel like, if
Speaker 1: you're white, you shouldn't say it because you're just not
Speaker 1: that color. So it's not your culture. You didn't grow
Speaker 1: up being like what that nigga? Whatout? What out? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, it's not what you said. He
Speaker 1: did grow up that, he said. He did grow up
Speaker 1: like that. That's what he said. He said, but he
Speaker 1: didn't don't say that because he's white, No, he did.
Speaker 1: So I guess they gave him a black card because
Speaker 1: he grew up in the hood, so he was able
Speaker 1: to say that, and he feels like a real nigga himself.
Speaker 1: My thing is is that, to me, black is a culture.
Speaker 1: It's not necessarily a nation of people. So if the
Speaker 1: culture is black, he grew up in the black culture.
Speaker 1: He then to him mentally, he may identify as he'll
Speaker 1: never experience, actually have the actual experience that a black
Speaker 1: person has. So I mean, he could say that ship
Speaker 1: in his hood. That's what I'm saying. Come outside your neighborhood.
Speaker 1: You might get your ass beat, Brandon. And that's that's
Speaker 1: just the gist of it. You might get sunked up
Speaker 1: out here if you come outside of your neighborhood with
Speaker 1: your friends talking about what's something my nigga? Like, I'm
Speaker 1: it's not gonna find remember the first one to be like,
Speaker 1: who the fuck is he talking to that around me?
Speaker 1: No matter you're struggle, no matter where you grew up,
Speaker 1: no matter how many black friends you have, you just
Speaker 1: can't say, nigga, you just can't. We don't care about that.
Speaker 1: We can't. We can't. We're not gonna take that right.
Speaker 1: That's not what's gonna happen. It's not gonna play. No,
Speaker 1: it's not not gonna go for that. It's not cool.
Speaker 1: But you can try it, Brandon, if you want to.
Speaker 1: I just don't know how well it's gonna work in
Speaker 1: your favor. You that writing his ship, bless his ship,
Speaker 1: split his wig, Brandon relaxed. But why did he saying
Speaker 1: kind of cool? Like what's uping, nigga? Like why do
Speaker 1: you want to say it anyway? Though? Like why that's
Speaker 1: why that's when they ain't gonna say what's something that
Speaker 1: girls don't say that? Right, what's up my nigga? Don't
Speaker 1: say no, Just stay away from man for real. It's
Speaker 1: just not yours to have. Oh you know why, pe
Speaker 1: would just be feeling so it's tired, old child. They
Speaker 1: just want to say it's so bad, like they just
Speaker 1: wanted to accept them saying it's so bad. Just relax.
Speaker 1: There's other words you can use here, so many other ones. Right,
Speaker 1: You're never gonna be a nigga no matter how hard
Speaker 1: you try. All Right, last question, I know we gotta
Speaker 1: wrap up. Yes, I gotta get out of here. Look,
Speaker 1: before the last question, I want to tell everybody to
Speaker 1: go and follow me on Instagram or Twitter or Facebook.
Speaker 1: My Instagram means Jocelyn, my Twitter is miss Jocelyn, and
Speaker 1: my Facebook is Johnson. I'm gonna this and just press
Speaker 1: the link so you can catch Johnson E scab right
Speaker 1: Atlanta every night on Sunday at a p m. That's
Speaker 1: how you did to see Johnson Discovery Atlanta, which is popping.
Speaker 1: We've got a new episode this week on this network.
Speaker 1: Shout out to suits network. We don't give it no
Speaker 1: shout out to the network, shout out suit, shout him
Speaker 1: out loose network. All right, last question, Okay, how the
Speaker 1: fuck do you keep your body so motherfucking tight? Justly
Speaker 1: and tell the girls what we need to do. You
Speaker 1: need to do hi yoga, hi yoga, that's what I do.
Speaker 1: See my tracks won't allow that. Ship. Yeah, we're going
Speaker 1: with Joscelyn. I said, Okay, maybe I should go to
Speaker 1: hot yoga for sure. Yoga baby, how yoga baby? Getting
Speaker 1: with the press thing to get out of here, ladies,
Speaker 1: how much? Thank you for having me or not coming
Speaker 1: on and come back? And yes, thank you for having
Speaker 1: me in your amazing podcast. I'll be back whenever you
Speaker 1: want to have another conversation. We'll probably jump back on
Speaker 1: before we finished, before the season finishes, we'll come back
Speaker 1: on and talk some more. Let's do it. Come back, Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you? Bye. I really enjoyed talking to Jocelyn. That
Speaker 1: bitch is bad, you hear me? That's a one bad
Speaker 1: bitch right there? Boy? Yes, so Johnson said she does
Speaker 1: hot yoga for the body. Are we doing that this
Speaker 1: summer group? On? All right, here's the thing. I can't
Speaker 1: just be only buying vibrators off group on I've been
Speaker 1: doing we lately. I'm gonna have to switch it up
Speaker 1: then if I would do hot yo, because my tracks
Speaker 1: gonna come out. Man, I can't do hot nothing right
Speaker 1: that gets some fol locks or something and nice protective
Speaker 1: All right, ladies questions? Do I feel sexy with your
Speaker 1: fol locks and braids? I feel like I feel cute
Speaker 1: with them, But when I tried to sexy it up,
Speaker 1: I'll just be having trouble feeling sexy with it. Is
Speaker 1: this is that weird? Is it just me? They had
Speaker 1: a whole post on that, but you will never wear
Speaker 1: no brad. I had braids one time last year for
Speaker 1: the first time many years, but I haven't had raisons
Speaker 1: and me neither. I love Jocelyn. She's so authentic and
Speaker 1: always herself. You ain't gotta worry about her putting on
Speaker 1: the front for absolutely absolutely not. The Puerto Rican princes
Speaker 1: really a baddy who talks back, you know, yep. And
Speaker 1: she's very authentic. I think, um, you know, she was
Speaker 1: saying how she can't deal with with fake as people.
Speaker 1: I feel her with that ship. I always have to
Speaker 1: be myself. I feel uncomfortable trying to conform conform assimilate
Speaker 1: for other motherfucker's. So yeah, it's a real life free
Speaker 1: This is freedom to me. So people, I don't even
Speaker 1: know how to be anybody but right, this is because
Speaker 1: you do here for a living. But you know, coming
Speaker 1: from the corporate world, like sometimes you gotta code switch
Speaker 1: and be somebody else. But I never was like that.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't make it look any job I ever had
Speaker 1: when I would come into office and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: hair comes trouble. Your motherfucking right, always been trouble, always
Speaker 1: been a problem. I'm not problematic though, But anyway, I
Speaker 1: really enjoyed our conversation with um Joshly and I do
Speaker 1: appreciate her for pulling up on we talk. Yes, at
Speaker 1: the end of the season, we want her back for sure.
Speaker 1: I'm happy that she has the show and she's completely
Speaker 1: hands on with it. She owns it. Who ray, keep
Speaker 1: getting your bag job, Yes, keep getting your bag girl. Yes.
Speaker 1: I love to see it, and I love to see
Speaker 1: her in a nice, good relationship. It seems nice. It
Speaker 1: seems good. She found someone that she's compared up with. Right,
Speaker 1: and she submits too, Yeah, because he don't play that ship.
Speaker 1: You don't look like and like i'd be scared him
Speaker 1: for her on that marriage marriage boot camp. Not really scared,
Speaker 1: but you know, like you gotta compromise, like you're not
Speaker 1: gonna be able to just be wilding out to hold
Speaker 1: your whole life, you know what I'm saying. At some
Speaker 1: point you gotta calm down. So I see that in her,
Speaker 1: So I think that relationships girl, you ain't even crunk. Now,
Speaker 1: shut up, you don't be doing ship girl, your regularst girl.
Speaker 1: Shut up right. I'm gonna have a high girl summer.
Speaker 1: God damn it. Girl. Last summer was cold and sunk.
Speaker 1: I didn't go nowhere. In summer nineteen, I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do nothing, and in summer twenty
Speaker 1: I couldn't do ship. Summer twenty one, it DM me.
Speaker 1: I'm pulling up and look, please send flight details when
Speaker 1: when you d d M don't No, no, it's no
Speaker 1: w y ds this summer. Okay, no w y ds
Speaker 1: this summer. We ain't taking that ship. What you're doing,
Speaker 1: what you're doing just some basic guys. What you do
Speaker 1: in text? No that that text me to come with
Speaker 1: a whole plan. If you're trying to fund on me
Speaker 1: this summer and it's s u M m me this
Speaker 1: summer hot girl summer, hot girls summers exactly. This is
Speaker 1: a warm, warm girl summer. No, it's hot for me popping.
Speaker 1: So look, before we get out of here, do we
Speaker 1: have any uh random sex facts for the day? I
Speaker 1: think I might have running the cut if you pop
Speaker 1: your pussy more to the left side than the right
Speaker 1: when you have it sex. It's like I'm making. Today's
Speaker 1: random sex fact is brought to you by health dot
Speaker 1: com um, and it's talking about, you know, how many
Speaker 1: thrust or how many pumps does a sex uh session
Speaker 1: usually consist of? So this says that average sex session
Speaker 1: goes from one hundred to five hundred thrust. Article says
Speaker 1: ever been in the middle of a booty session and thought,
Speaker 1: I wonder how many thrust that was? Yeah, neither have we,
Speaker 1: But apparently someone has because researchers took the time to
Speaker 1: calculate that intercourse typically last hundreds of five hundred thrust,
Speaker 1: according to a report in the journal Royal Society Open Science.
Speaker 1: So if that's how long sex last and thrust, how
Speaker 1: long does it go for in well minutes? Seventeen survey
Speaker 1: of three thousand, eight hundred thirty six people. Conducted by
Speaker 1: the UK based stating website saucy dates dot Com found
Speaker 1: that couples in the United States stay in the game
Speaker 1: for about seventeen minutes and five seconds. That's just intercourse,
Speaker 1: not for play. It might seem strange the time how
Speaker 1: long you last between the sheets, but hey, there's nothing
Speaker 1: wrong with wanting to see how you stack up. So
Speaker 1: you think that's about right. Seventeen minutes and fifty seconds.
Speaker 1: A hundred to five thrust depends on which nigga you're
Speaker 1: talking about, right, girl, Five thrust is a damn jack rabbit.
Speaker 1: I don't like to get funk off fast and stupid,
Speaker 1: do you. It depends often, all, right, which nigga you're
Speaker 1: talking about it. It just depends on what the experience is,
Speaker 1: what's the vibe. So if you feel like getting fun,
Speaker 1: it would be like the jack rabbit. Then if you
Speaker 1: want something that a little bit more nice and sensual,
Speaker 1: some slower, longer thrust, yeah, but I like I like
Speaker 1: them all. Yeah, I'd like some combo penis. Combo penis
Speaker 1: is nice. You know, wait for my signal, wait for
Speaker 1: me to tell you to beat that ship up. Like first,
Speaker 1: start off slow and I'd be like, man, beat it
Speaker 1: up or this pussy. Yeah, then you start doing jack rapping.
Speaker 1: You'd be saying that I can see you, and you
Speaker 1: don't say that. I don't know what I say. You
Speaker 1: know what you'd be saying. I'll be saying ship like
Speaker 1: you came to kill this pussy. Oh god, you fucking
Speaker 1: Caucasian bitch. You can't even kill this one. You came
Speaker 1: to kill this. I didn't say this, Oh your cock,
Speaker 1: your cock, so you came to kill this. I don't
Speaker 1: feel like Caucasian girls say that. I feel like they
Speaker 1: say something about your cock. You came to kill this pussy.
Speaker 1: I don't say it, like I guess I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't know how to say it. What else? I I'm embarrassed,
Speaker 1: but I know what else I be saying during sex? Girl?
Speaker 1: I hate? Don't you hate when a man a guy
Speaker 1: mentions like how you are acting and things you said
Speaker 1: during sex, I get like so embarrassed, Like why are
Speaker 1: you even talking about that? I'm not even that person
Speaker 1: right now. It's like, after you feel this at your porn,
Speaker 1: you slam the computer down, like that's a different person
Speaker 1: right now. That was that was you know, that was
Speaker 1: a J. Now, I'm Ashley. Why why are you talking
Speaker 1: about a J like that? Like she's not here right now? Listen,
Speaker 1: this is your girl a J. If you guys like
Speaker 1: this podcast, if you like our content, I want you
Speaker 1: to go on YouTube channel in subscribe. I want you
Speaker 1: to follow us on We Talk Back podcast on Instagram
Speaker 1: and my personal instagram is a J Holiday two point
Speaker 1: oh if you like to check me out. I don't
Speaker 1: got my ship on there, but hey, I'm on Instagram
Speaker 1: as at official Tam Bam. Y'all follow me. I do
Speaker 1: have ship on my page. I'm always posting all my ship.
Speaker 1: Well all my story. Did you guys on your story?
Speaker 1: You don't how she thinking constantly see your ship disappears
Speaker 1: in twenty four hours the way, just the way I like.
Speaker 1: Come look at the story. Fandom pussy, she got that
Speaker 1: fan of mask. She'll be showing y'all asked for like
Speaker 1: a little couple of minutes, right and it takes it down.
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, I'm show me your cock. Get off
Speaker 1: my phone, bitch. Bye,