WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Just A Little Short

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, we get all the credit for all

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<v Speaker 2>these second dates going viral, for them charting on the

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<v Speaker 2>top comedy podcast. Yeah, but really it's our listeners and

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<v Speaker 2>they're terrible dating decisions that we have to think.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, and the people who ghost people.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, your toxicity has made us so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, thank you man.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't forget we do have forty five more minutes of this.

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<v Speaker 2>We've got a full show over on the Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>And Jeffrey main feed.

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<v Speaker 2>If you like it, follow that one as well. And

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<v Speaker 2>let's get into your second.

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<v Speaker 4>Date, second date, up date.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, researchers say what you text a person after

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<v Speaker 5>a good first date yeah, can actually be more important

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<v Speaker 5>than the date itself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I mean you do look forward to it.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not helpful for people who really overthink that text, jeff.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying, look, for example, if you were to text, hey,

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<v Speaker 5>I had a great time with you tonight. Also, I

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<v Speaker 5>accidentally took your fork from the dinner for a DNA test.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, no, that's not good. You might not go over

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<v Speaker 4>quite so well.

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<v Speaker 2>So you just leave it as I took your fork

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<v Speaker 2>and you're just saying night.

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<v Speaker 4>Just try not to overthink it, That's all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Because one of our listeners, Carly, says she had a

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<v Speaker 5>text exchange with a guy after they went out and

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<v Speaker 5>it could be the reason she's not getting called back.

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<v Speaker 5>And we're gonna get to that and talk about the

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<v Speaker 5>text in a little bit. But first Carly, welcome to

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<v Speaker 5>the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, everybody, But first Carly, we want to hear the

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<v Speaker 6>good part.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I don't ask this a lot, but how

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<v Speaker 5>important is it for you Carly to get a second

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<v Speaker 5>date here with this guy?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it a like a lot like yay nay or

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<v Speaker 4>hay neighbor type of situation?

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<v Speaker 1>It's hey neighbor.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's the media pove.

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<v Speaker 5>Is it a yay nay or hay neighbor? Where are

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<v Speaker 5>you on the important scale?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, it's a yay obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, why would you not do one through ten?

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<v Speaker 5>No, that's not as fun as yay. We only do

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<v Speaker 5>fun stuff on our show this. Yeah, tell us about

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<v Speaker 5>him and how you two met.

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<v Speaker 6>His name is Blaine and I was at Top Golf

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<v Speaker 6>with some friends. I was there for a party.

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<v Speaker 1>And a great place to meet people.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, what I never want someone to see me

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<v Speaker 6>there nobody.

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<v Speaker 4>Trying to help you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you guys love to show you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like that reach around and just show you

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<v Speaker 1>how to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what Blaine did for you?

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<v Speaker 6>So, like he was there with a group of guys

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<v Speaker 6>and he were in like the next all over. So

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<v Speaker 6>we were just talking when it wasn't our turn, and

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<v Speaker 6>like we hit it off.

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<v Speaker 4>Cute hit it off, Charley. I knew you would fun. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I would, but I don't know. I'm sorry about that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I already said that joke. But that's okay, Charley, keep going.

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<v Speaker 4>So you guys hit it off?

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<v Speaker 2>How?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>How he asked me out? I thought was kind of

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<v Speaker 6>cute because he gave me his number on a golf ball.

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<v Speaker 6>He wrote it on there with a sharpie.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh that's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, actually, is it bad that I'm already thinking if

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<v Speaker 2>you got married, it would have to all be golf seeing.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, Oh, this guy isn't even calling her backyard. Let's

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<v Speaker 5>not start making the wedding plans and choosing the plates

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<v Speaker 5>and everything.

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<v Speaker 6>That's true.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so that sounds really nice. Did you guys end

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<v Speaker 4>up hanging out?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we said we were going to hang out next Friday,

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<v Speaker 6>So we kind of planned that even before we left.

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<v Speaker 6>But then we were texting and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 6>wanted to see him sooner, so I moved it up

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<v Speaker 6>to Tuesday. Also, don't waste a Friday night.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good call.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a whole chapel roone song. I waste a weekend

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<v Speaker 1>on a guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Somebody's jaded over there? All right, Okay, so you moved

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<v Speaker 5>it up to Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 4>How did that go?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? It was a really good date. I got to

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<v Speaker 6>know a lot about him, like where he grew up

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<v Speaker 6>and like what's important in his life. And you know

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<v Speaker 6>he's into sports and animals. I love animals.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, so wait, I'm sorry. Were you guys just

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<v Speaker 2>at dinner? Is that what you did on Tuesday?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Like dinner, drinks?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, cool, way to downplay it, Brooke, No.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to set the scene.

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<v Speaker 4>That's all you did. You just did dinner. Okay. How'd

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<v Speaker 4>you feel after that hangout?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I felt great, Like he seems like a

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<v Speaker 6>really great, caring guy. We did end up kissing the

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<v Speaker 6>kiss Oh, it was really good.

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<v Speaker 1>She's smiling.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you did say the one thing that you're worried

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<v Speaker 5>about that could have stopped you from hanging out again

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<v Speaker 5>was your text message exchange afterwards. Can you get into

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<v Speaker 5>that or just read it?

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<v Speaker 4>Just read it. I don't know how long it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Just give us the vibe I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you know, like sometimes when your friends will

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<v Speaker 6>ask you about to some expensive place and you're just

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<v Speaker 6>not in a place to do that. So I just

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<v Speaker 6>wanted to be honest and let him know where I

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<v Speaker 6>was at. I did tell him that I was a

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<v Speaker 6>little short on I rent this month.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, how did you jump from?

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<v Speaker 2>That?

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<v Speaker 1>Was a fun night?

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<v Speaker 6>The text read.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought you were just going to say, hey, our

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<v Speaker 3>next day, let's not do top golf.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe something a little lighter.

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<v Speaker 8>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, didn't he pay for dinner?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? He paid for dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she's just sharing.

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<v Speaker 5>I think she's trying to like be honest and be like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm in a vulnerable place to.

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<v Speaker 1>Really get that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just curious how you brought it up, Like is

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<v Speaker 2>it seems so out of the blue.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean we were just like talked about date,

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<v Speaker 6>and then we were talking about like, well, what's you're

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<v Speaker 6>week like and what are you doing, and I was

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<v Speaker 6>just feeling a little stressed because of this, and so

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<v Speaker 6>like it was just sharing like general stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>Well it sounds normal to me, Like, don't you when

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<v Speaker 5>you were dating Brooke talk about paying rent with all

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<v Speaker 5>the guys that you hung out with your rent?

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<v Speaker 1>Do think? Like I think it's good to be vulnerable

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<v Speaker 1>with people.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm wondering if he read it as basically an

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<v Speaker 2>ask for money.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, that's how I read it. And how did

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<v Speaker 4>he react to that text?

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<v Speaker 6>He was like really sweet, and he he did send

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<v Speaker 6>me a little bit of money.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean like, oh, really, that sounds.

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<v Speaker 6>Like he's an amazing guy who cares. I mean, we've

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<v Speaker 6>been on one date. I wasn't expecting him to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>He set Wow, let's just are you taking notes over there?

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<v Speaker 1>But he set you money and then stop talking to

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<v Speaker 1>you because that's kind of strange.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what happened after that?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>And then we were supposed to go out again and

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<v Speaker 6>now he's just not responding.

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<v Speaker 4>Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think it regrets the money?

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<v Speaker 2>He said, like maybe he sent it when he was

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<v Speaker 2>feeling bad and then after he thought about it, he's like, ah, man,

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<v Speaker 2>that's kind of a week I was money for the date,

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<v Speaker 2>and then he ran out.

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<v Speaker 3>I fought a nice gift for a girl, and you

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<v Speaker 3>found a couple hundred box and then they kind of

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<v Speaker 3>insinuated one another and you realize, all right, this may

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<v Speaker 3>be the base of the whole relationship in the back

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<v Speaker 3>out right.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, an exchange of money or goods can change the

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<v Speaker 5>vibe between two people.

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<v Speaker 1>You would know, Jeff, Yeah, I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Very cold after the exchange.

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<v Speaker 5>I will tell you that even though I'm satisfied in

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<v Speaker 5>the moment, let's just not get into this. We need

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<v Speaker 5>to call Blaine and figure out where his head is at.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the most important. We're going to come back and

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<v Speaker 5>do that with your second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>Right after this second date update, we're.

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<v Speaker 5>In the middle of a second date update with one

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<v Speaker 5>of our listeners, Carly.

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<v Speaker 4>Am I saying that right, Carly, Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to emphasize the why more Carle exotic?

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<v Speaker 5>It could be the traditional pronunciation of Carly. We're all

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<v Speaker 5>still recovering from some of the information that we learned

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<v Speaker 5>about her date with Blaine, and.

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<v Speaker 1>She shared a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>She did all the highlights real quick. They had a

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<v Speaker 5>great meet up at Top Golf. It's where they met,

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<v Speaker 5>had a great get to know you date Sash, followed

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<v Speaker 5>by kind of an awkward text exchange that involved him

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<v Speaker 5>sending our listener Carly money because she admitted she was

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<v Speaker 5>short on rent.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, which is really kind of him.

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<v Speaker 4>It is, but it does change the vibe. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>me just saying it. Yeah, it does.

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<v Speaker 5>It feels awkward to say they exchanged money afterwards, but

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<v Speaker 5>he did send her some and then after that did

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<v Speaker 5>not follow through with their plans for another date.

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<v Speaker 8>I have a question. Don't pipe up this early? But

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<v Speaker 8>was it alone?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, is this something you're supposed to pay you back?

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<v Speaker 3>Or he just gave you the money expecting nothing.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, he didn't say it was alone.

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<v Speaker 4>He guess it's not if he's not calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, he's the worst loan shark.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, never mind.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, maybe it's just because she didn't set him

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<v Speaker 2>a formal thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I feel like, carl you must have said thank you, right, Oh?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah of course.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So what's running through your head?

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<v Speaker 2>Then?

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<v Speaker 4>What what's going through your mind before we reach out

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<v Speaker 4>to him?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. I mean, like it might have made

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<v Speaker 6>it weird, but I really like, I I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you don't know, but you also made your rent, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's good news.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I really like him, so I mean, like I was

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<v Speaker 6>they really bummed if that's the reason, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell you, if a guy asked me to

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<v Speaker 2>help pay his rent, I probably would call him back.

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<v Speaker 5>He is husband, Michael, do not ask to ship in

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<v Speaker 5>towards This is on you this time. Let's just reach out.

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<v Speaker 5>We'll see if Blaine picks up. Hopefully he has an

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<v Speaker 5>explanation for us. But here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, Hey, is this Blaine.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it's just Blaine.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey man, what's up. It's Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>Just on a first name basis, Jeff, I thought he

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<v Speaker 2>would know.

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<v Speaker 1>When has anybody ever known?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks a lot.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm sorry. Who are you guys?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'll explain. We're a radio show. We're called Brook

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<v Speaker 5>and Jeffrey in the morning on the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 5>We're calling you for a really fun, exciting reason because

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<v Speaker 5>we're doing this segment called second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 4>And we got an email from one of.

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<v Speaker 5>Our listeners named Carly, who says she's very disappointed that

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<v Speaker 5>you two aren't seeing each other and hanging out again.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, she really liked to Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, does that make you curious.

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<v Speaker 8>You have no, not really. I mean she's cute, she's fun.

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<v Speaker 8>I just not interested in seeing her again. I mean,

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<v Speaker 8>what else do you want me to tell you?

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<v Speaker 7>I get it a million of those out there, but look,

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<v Speaker 7>it would be helpful if we get a little bit

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<v Speaker 7>of information for maybe there's more reasoning why.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if it's too much.

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<v Speaker 5>To delve into this, but I did hear that the

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<v Speaker 5>two of you guys kissed at the end of your date.

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<v Speaker 4>And usually when that happens and the.

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<v Speaker 5>Lady says she wants to go out again, that's a

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<v Speaker 5>pretty exciting thing for a guy.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, we had a nice guess at the end of

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<v Speaker 8>the date.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, can you give us something here to tell her?

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<v Speaker 7>Like?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, okay, after our days we started texting each other.

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<v Speaker 8>She said thanks, I had a good time, and then

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<v Speaker 8>we started making plans as she mentioned that she was

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<v Speaker 8>going to be short on rent next month.

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<v Speaker 4>Whoa, that's that's new information to us. Wait to say that, Okay, any.

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<v Speaker 6>Chance you sent her money?

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<v Speaker 8>So I actually did?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, yes, we're all acting surprise now, dude, what

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<v Speaker 2>a generous move.

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<v Speaker 4>Of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, So wait, I have a question. Why did you

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<v Speaker 1>send her money?

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<v Speaker 8>I felt bad, I mean like I've been short too,

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<v Speaker 8>and I just felt like I can help her out.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm in a decent spot. I asked her what her

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<v Speaker 8>VENMO was, and I kicked her two hundred dollars right away.

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<v Speaker 5>She mentioned that you were like a really good, caring guy.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's clearly coming to.

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<v Speaker 2>And when you're describing it too, like you're not shaming her,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not making her feel bad.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, yeah, did that make it weird though to give

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<v Speaker 5>her the two hundred dollars?

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<v Speaker 8>Not exactly, I mean, I'm what what was weird is

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<v Speaker 8>that she was like, she was very appreciative. She was

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<v Speaker 8>like thank you, thank you, you know. Yeah, but then

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<v Speaker 8>she says, I'm still eight hundred short.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, maybe maybe she was just telling you that

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<v Speaker 2>so that.

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<v Speaker 4>So that you could run her finances.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, before how she already said she couldn't pay her

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>Talking and she should follow up with that.

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<v Speaker 4>What was going on? What was going on with your

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<v Speaker 4>in your mind?

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<v Speaker 8>There's no way I'm giving a thousand dollars to a chick.

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<v Speaker 8>I just met you, and I'm thinking about like, that's

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<v Speaker 8>just a bad feeling, you know, it's a whole bad vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that's really short on rent.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, Yeah, I started thinking like, did she do this

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<v Speaker 8>to other guys?

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<v Speaker 2>It definitely doesn't feel like she's a scam artist or

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<v Speaker 2>anything when we talk to her.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, most girls don't at first.

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<v Speaker 8>Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I feel like it's pretty honest.

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<v Speaker 8>Whatever her situation is, it's just not something I want

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<v Speaker 8>to be involved with.

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<v Speaker 4>I think before you.

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<v Speaker 5>Make any final decisions on that, I feel like maybe

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<v Speaker 5>you need to hear from Carly herself, because she has

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<v Speaker 5>been listening on the other line wanting to.

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<v Speaker 8>Talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she's waiting for the other eight hundred dollars, so she.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't call for that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm kidding.

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<v Speaker 5>We didn't even know about the eight hundred dollars deficit.

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<v Speaker 5>So let's just let Carly talk to you here.

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<v Speaker 6>Call you there, Hey, Yeah, I'm here. I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 6>actually like it's a big deal to ask a question

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<v Speaker 6>like I was, you know, and I didn't even ask

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<v Speaker 6>a big deal, was just informing, like I just told

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<v Speaker 6>him I was still short.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you wait?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you putting it out as a vibe, like as

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<v Speaker 3>an insinuation.

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<v Speaker 8>Like why else would you tell me that after I

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<v Speaker 8>just gave you two hundred dollars? You know, like why why?

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<v Speaker 8>Why else would you share that information? And what's what's

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<v Speaker 8>this thing about? Like now I'm going to have to

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<v Speaker 8>go to work?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that what you said?

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<v Speaker 5>Car?

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<v Speaker 1>You're not working?

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<v Speaker 8>She actually said to me, I still got the text.

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<v Speaker 8>I can read it to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's what I wanted to please help us, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I asked her to do.

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<v Speaker 4>What did she say?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, no, it says right here. She's like, look, I

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<v Speaker 8>need eight hundred dollars more from you or I'm going

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<v Speaker 8>to have to go to work.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, that's way different.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I thought you were trying to be vulnerable with

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<v Speaker 1>this guy.

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<v Speaker 6>You have to go to work? I mean, like nobody does.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 8>Why this makes me question everything, Like how did she

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<v Speaker 8>even get that top golf? You know? Did she pay

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<v Speaker 8>for it or somebody else pay for it?

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<v Speaker 5>You know you don't have to pay for top golf,

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<v Speaker 5>Yes you do. If you're at a birthday party, you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeff, Everyone chips in for birthday parties except for you.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the same thing when we go to eating group things.

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<v Speaker 4>And I have to say, Jeff, you have to pay

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<v Speaker 4>leave before they bring the bill. There's nothing they can do.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying, just like everything's free, you don't pay.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not back this up, Curly, this is not good

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 5>I just be'tven.

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<v Speaker 8>You want rent going like a sugar dotty site, normal data.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't got a trick people. You could just be

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<v Speaker 4>open to yeah, or.

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<v Speaker 2>Just get a job. Why, it's just a universal rule

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<v Speaker 2>of life.

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<v Speaker 4>Why even being mean, She went to work, she got

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<v Speaker 4>the money, she paid her rent, she said until next month.

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<v Speaker 5>The person that we really need to focus on here

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<v Speaker 5>is Blaine. I bet he feels horrible for not coming

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<v Speaker 5>through for Carly in her time of need and making

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<v Speaker 5>her work auditioned out the eight hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, yeah, I feel so horrib Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Really wanted to hear because he's.

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<v Speaker 8>No, I'm not responsible for no. Man.

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<v Speaker 5>Well here's what you won't have to be responsible for

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<v Speaker 5>paying for your next date with Carly because we will

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<v Speaker 5>cover that bill for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you call this from the beginning, Carly?

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<v Speaker 4>Because we're going to cover the check. No, actually, wait,

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<v Speaker 4>that made me think of something.

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<v Speaker 5>Carly did you move up the date a few days

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<v Speaker 5>earlier so you could ask him for your rent before

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<v Speaker 5>it was due.

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<v Speaker 8>Friday?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that why you changed the day?

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<v Speaker 6>Remember that it's a coincidence.

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<v Speaker 7>Come on, no, wait, Jesday is way too specific to

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<v Speaker 7>be a coincidence.

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<v Speaker 4>The first of the month, he Carly.

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<v Speaker 5>I am equally parts disappointed and impressed by you.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you guys are reading way too much into this,

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<v Speaker 6>like we just get on with the gift card thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Jokes on you, Carly. Nobody here reads. But let's let's

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<v Speaker 4>do what he said.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's ask Blaine, would you like to go out with

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<v Speaker 5>Carly one more time?

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<v Speaker 4>On our time?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm not feeling it. No, I go next thing. I

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<v Speaker 8>know she's probably gonna be trying to sell me some bitcoin.

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<v Speaker 4>Carly. Do you have some available though, because now at

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<v Speaker 4>the time.

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<v Speaker 6>Sounds like no, I don't do crypto, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't do any money, have nobody?

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<v Speaker 6>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, I didn't know that working was optional.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not, jeff We've all been here dedicating her whole life.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know I could do that. I really need

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<v Speaker 4>to look on to that.

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<v Speaker 5>Hold on a second, hey, Brooks, I'm a little short

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<v Speaker 5>on plane money this month. You rent your clothes, so

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sure you've got some extra cash.

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<v Speaker 4>Question mark broche Okay, okay, I'll see how she responds

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<v Speaker 4>to that. I don't know, hopefully looking at it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Look at that she said, Yes, I did you picks

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<v Speaker 4>for it? You know what? Inappropriate? Okay, Okay, No, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not Brook, stop stop it.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Okay, I'm just gonna send her to the link

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<v Speaker 5>to our podcast at Brook and JEFFERYSTI now, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>send her the link and my photos on there. Oh God, God,

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<v Speaker 5>please do not talk to me ever again.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you. All right, show is going to be weird

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<v Speaker 4>moving forward.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't said that to me.

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<v Speaker 4>There was something in there for you to extra Brook.

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<v Speaker 5>Go check out our podcast where you get yours at

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<v Speaker 5>Brook and Jeffrey. All of our photos are up on there,

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<v Speaker 5>and email the show if you want help.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll call that person who's not calling you back

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<v Speaker 8>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.