Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: And you know, we get all the credit for all
Speaker 2: these second dates going viral, for them charting on the
Speaker 2: top comedy podcast. Yeah, but really it's our listeners and
Speaker 2: they're terrible dating decisions that we have to think.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and the people who ghost people.
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, your toxicity has made us so funny.
Speaker 4: Yes, thank you man.
Speaker 2: Don't forget we do have forty five more minutes of this.
Speaker 2: We've got a full show over on the Brook.
Speaker 1: And Jeffrey main feed.
Speaker 2: If you like it, follow that one as well. And
Speaker 2: let's get into your second.
Speaker 4: Date, second date, up date.
Speaker 5: You know, researchers say what you text a person after
Speaker 5: a good first date yeah, can actually be more important
Speaker 5: than the date itself.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean you do look forward to it.
Speaker 2: That is not helpful for people who really overthink that text, jeff.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, look, for example, if you were to text, hey,
Speaker 5: I had a great time with you tonight. Also, I
Speaker 5: accidentally took your fork from the dinner for a DNA test.
Speaker 4: Wait, no, that's not good. You might not go over
Speaker 4: quite so well.
Speaker 2: So you just leave it as I took your fork
Speaker 2: and you're just saying night.
Speaker 4: Just try not to overthink it, That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Because one of our listeners, Carly, says she had a
Speaker 5: text exchange with a guy after they went out and
Speaker 5: it could be the reason she's not getting called back.
Speaker 5: And we're gonna get to that and talk about the
Speaker 5: text in a little bit. But first Carly, welcome to
Speaker 5: the show.
Speaker 6: Hey, everybody, But first Carly, we want to hear the
Speaker 6: good part.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I don't ask this a lot, but how
Speaker 5: important is it for you Carly to get a second
Speaker 5: date here with this guy?
Speaker 4: Is it a like a lot like yay nay or
Speaker 4: hay neighbor type of situation?
Speaker 1: It's hey neighbor.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the media pove.
Speaker 5: Is it a yay nay or hay neighbor? Where are
Speaker 5: you on the important scale?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 6: No, No, it's a yay obviously.
Speaker 1: Okay, why would you not do one through ten?
Speaker 5: No, that's not as fun as yay. We only do
Speaker 5: fun stuff on our show this. Yeah, tell us about
Speaker 5: him and how you two met.
Speaker 6: His name is Blaine and I was at Top Golf
Speaker 6: with some friends. I was there for a party.
Speaker 1: And a great place to meet people.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, what I never want someone to see me
Speaker 6: there nobody.
Speaker 4: Trying to help you.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you guys love to show you.
Speaker 1: I don't like that reach around and just show you
Speaker 1: how to do it.
Speaker 4: Is that what Blaine did for you?
Speaker 6: So, like he was there with a group of guys
Speaker 6: and he were in like the next all over. So
Speaker 6: we were just talking when it wasn't our turn, and
Speaker 6: like we hit it off.
Speaker 4: Cute hit it off, Charley. I knew you would fun. Okay,
Speaker 4: I would, but I don't know. I'm sorry about that. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I already said that joke. But that's okay, Charley, keep going.
Speaker 4: So you guys hit it off?
Speaker 2: How?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 6: How he asked me out? I thought was kind of
Speaker 6: cute because he gave me his number on a golf ball.
Speaker 6: He wrote it on there with a sharpie.
Speaker 7: Oh that's cool.
Speaker 2: Oh, actually, is it bad that I'm already thinking if
Speaker 2: you got married, it would have to all be golf seeing.
Speaker 5: Now, Oh, this guy isn't even calling her backyard. Let's
Speaker 5: not start making the wedding plans and choosing the plates
Speaker 5: and everything.
Speaker 6: That's true.
Speaker 4: Okay, so that sounds really nice. Did you guys end
Speaker 4: up hanging out?
Speaker 6: Yeah, we said we were going to hang out next Friday,
Speaker 6: So we kind of planned that even before we left.
Speaker 6: But then we were texting and I was like, I
Speaker 6: wanted to see him sooner, so I moved it up
Speaker 6: to Tuesday. Also, don't waste a Friday night.
Speaker 4: That's a good call.
Speaker 1: It's a whole chapel roone song. I waste a weekend
Speaker 1: on a guy.
Speaker 5: Somebody's jaded over there? All right, Okay, so you moved
Speaker 5: it up to Tuesday.
Speaker 4: How did that go?
Speaker 6: Yeah? It was a really good date. I got to
Speaker 6: know a lot about him, like where he grew up
Speaker 6: and like what's important in his life. And you know
Speaker 6: he's into sports and animals. I love animals.
Speaker 2: So okay, so wait, I'm sorry. Were you guys just
Speaker 2: at dinner? Is that what you did on Tuesday?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Like dinner, drinks?
Speaker 4: Okay, cool, way to downplay it, Brooke, No.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to set the scene.
Speaker 4: That's all you did. You just did dinner. Okay. How'd
Speaker 4: you feel after that hangout?
Speaker 6: I mean I felt great, Like he seems like a
Speaker 6: really great, caring guy. We did end up kissing the
Speaker 6: kiss Oh, it was really good.
Speaker 1: She's smiling.
Speaker 5: Okay, you did say the one thing that you're worried
Speaker 5: about that could have stopped you from hanging out again
Speaker 5: was your text message exchange afterwards. Can you get into
Speaker 5: that or just read it?
Speaker 4: Just read it. I don't know how long it is.
Speaker 4: Just give us the vibe I think.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I mean, you know, like sometimes when your friends will
Speaker 6: ask you about to some expensive place and you're just
Speaker 6: not in a place to do that. So I just
Speaker 6: wanted to be honest and let him know where I
Speaker 6: was at. I did tell him that I was a
Speaker 6: little short on I rent this month.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, how did you jump from?
Speaker 2: That?
Speaker 1: Was a fun night?
Speaker 6: The text read.
Speaker 3: I thought you were just going to say, hey, our
Speaker 3: next day, let's not do top golf.
Speaker 4: Maybe something a little lighter.
Speaker 8: You know.
Speaker 1: Wait, didn't he pay for dinner?
Speaker 6: Yeah? He paid for dinner.
Speaker 4: Okay, she's just sharing.
Speaker 5: I think she's trying to like be honest and be like,
Speaker 5: I'm in a vulnerable place to.
Speaker 1: Really get that.
Speaker 2: I'm just curious how you brought it up, Like is
Speaker 2: it seems so out of the blue.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean we were just like talked about date,
Speaker 6: and then we were talking about like, well, what's you're
Speaker 6: week like and what are you doing, and I was
Speaker 6: just feeling a little stressed because of this, and so
Speaker 6: like it was just sharing like general stuff.
Speaker 5: Well it sounds normal to me, Like, don't you when
Speaker 5: you were dating Brooke talk about paying rent with all
Speaker 5: the guys that you hung out with your rent?
Speaker 1: Do think? Like I think it's good to be vulnerable
Speaker 1: with people.
Speaker 2: But I'm wondering if he read it as basically an
Speaker 2: ask for money.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's how I read it. And how did
Speaker 4: he react to that text?
Speaker 6: He was like really sweet, and he he did send
Speaker 6: me a little bit of money.
Speaker 4: I mean like, oh, really, that sounds.
Speaker 6: Like he's an amazing guy who cares. I mean, we've
Speaker 6: been on one date. I wasn't expecting him to do it.
Speaker 4: He set Wow, let's just are you taking notes over there?
Speaker 1: But he set you money and then stop talking to
Speaker 1: you because that's kind of strange.
Speaker 4: Yeah, what happened after that?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 6: And then we were supposed to go out again and
Speaker 6: now he's just not responding.
Speaker 4: Huh.
Speaker 1: Do you think it regrets the money?
Speaker 2: He said, like maybe he sent it when he was
Speaker 2: feeling bad and then after he thought about it, he's like, ah, man,
Speaker 2: that's kind of a week I was money for the date,
Speaker 2: and then he ran out.
Speaker 3: I fought a nice gift for a girl, and you
Speaker 3: found a couple hundred box and then they kind of
Speaker 3: insinuated one another and you realize, all right, this may
Speaker 3: be the base of the whole relationship in the back
Speaker 3: out right.
Speaker 5: Now, an exchange of money or goods can change the
Speaker 5: vibe between two people.
Speaker 1: You would know, Jeff, Yeah, I'm.
Speaker 4: Very cold after the exchange.
Speaker 5: I will tell you that even though I'm satisfied in
Speaker 5: the moment, let's just not get into this. We need
Speaker 5: to call Blaine and figure out where his head is at.
Speaker 5: That's the most important. We're going to come back and
Speaker 5: do that with your second date update.
Speaker 4: Right after this second date update, we're.
Speaker 5: In the middle of a second date update with one
Speaker 5: of our listeners, Carly.
Speaker 4: Am I saying that right, Carly, Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do you want to emphasize the why more Carle exotic?
Speaker 5: It could be the traditional pronunciation of Carly. We're all
Speaker 5: still recovering from some of the information that we learned
Speaker 5: about her date with Blaine, and.
Speaker 1: She shared a lot.
Speaker 5: She did all the highlights real quick. They had a
Speaker 5: great meet up at Top Golf. It's where they met,
Speaker 5: had a great get to know you date Sash, followed
Speaker 5: by kind of an awkward text exchange that involved him
Speaker 5: sending our listener Carly money because she admitted she was
Speaker 5: short on rent.
Speaker 1: Ah, which is really kind of him.
Speaker 4: It is, but it does change the vibe. I mean
Speaker 4: me just saying it. Yeah, it does.
Speaker 5: It feels awkward to say they exchanged money afterwards, but
Speaker 5: he did send her some and then after that did
Speaker 5: not follow through with their plans for another date.
Speaker 8: I have a question. Don't pipe up this early? But
Speaker 8: was it alone?
Speaker 3: Like, is this something you're supposed to pay you back?
Speaker 3: Or he just gave you the money expecting nothing.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he didn't say it was alone.
Speaker 4: He guess it's not if he's not calling you back.
Speaker 1: Okay, he's the worst loan shark.
Speaker 4: Yeah, never mind.
Speaker 2: I mean, maybe it's just because she didn't set him
Speaker 2: a formal thank you.
Speaker 4: Oh I feel like, carl you must have said thank you, right, Oh?
Speaker 6: Yeah of course.
Speaker 4: Okay, So what's running through your head?
Speaker 2: Then?
Speaker 4: What what's going through your mind before we reach out
Speaker 4: to him?
Speaker 6: I don't know. I mean, like it might have made
Speaker 6: it weird, but I really like, I I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't know, but you also made your rent, right,
Speaker 1: so that's good news.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I really like him, so I mean, like I was
Speaker 6: they really bummed if that's the reason, you know.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you, if a guy asked me to
Speaker 2: help pay his rent, I probably would call him back.
Speaker 5: He is husband, Michael, do not ask to ship in
Speaker 5: towards This is on you this time. Let's just reach out.
Speaker 5: We'll see if Blaine picks up. Hopefully he has an
Speaker 5: explanation for us. But here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, is this Blaine.
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's just Blaine.
Speaker 4: Hey man, what's up. It's Jeff.
Speaker 2: Just on a first name basis, Jeff, I thought he
Speaker 2: would know.
Speaker 1: When has anybody ever known?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Thanks a lot.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry. Who are you guys?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll explain. We're a radio show. We're called Brook
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the morning on the show.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good thing.
Speaker 5: We're calling you for a really fun, exciting reason because
Speaker 5: we're doing this segment called second Date Update.
Speaker 4: And we got an email from one of.
Speaker 5: Our listeners named Carly, who says she's very disappointed that
Speaker 5: you two aren't seeing each other and hanging out again.
Speaker 8: Yes, she really liked to Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, does that make you curious.
Speaker 8: You have no, not really. I mean she's cute, she's fun.
Speaker 8: I just not interested in seeing her again. I mean,
Speaker 8: what else do you want me to tell you?
Speaker 7: I get it a million of those out there, but look,
Speaker 7: it would be helpful if we get a little bit
Speaker 7: of information for maybe there's more reasoning why.
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's too much.
Speaker 5: To delve into this, but I did hear that the
Speaker 5: two of you guys kissed at the end of your date.
Speaker 4: And usually when that happens and the.
Speaker 5: Lady says she wants to go out again, that's a
Speaker 5: pretty exciting thing for a guy.
Speaker 8: Yeah, we had a nice guess at the end of
Speaker 8: the date.
Speaker 2: Okay, can you give us something here to tell her?
Speaker 7: Like?
Speaker 8: Well, okay, after our days we started texting each other.
Speaker 8: She said thanks, I had a good time, and then
Speaker 8: we started making plans as she mentioned that she was
Speaker 8: going to be short on rent next month.
Speaker 4: Whoa, that's that's new information to us. Wait to say that, Okay, any.
Speaker 6: Chance you sent her money?
Speaker 8: So I actually did?
Speaker 2: Oh wow, yes, we're all acting surprise now, dude, what
Speaker 2: a generous move.
Speaker 4: Of you.
Speaker 1: Wow, So wait, I have a question. Why did you
Speaker 1: send her money?
Speaker 8: I felt bad, I mean like I've been short too,
Speaker 8: and I just felt like I can help her out.
Speaker 8: I'm in a decent spot. I asked her what her
Speaker 8: VENMO was, and I kicked her two hundred dollars right away.
Speaker 5: She mentioned that you were like a really good, caring guy.
Speaker 5: So that's clearly coming to.
Speaker 2: And when you're describing it too, like you're not shaming her,
Speaker 2: you're not making her feel bad.
Speaker 5: Like, yeah, did that make it weird though to give
Speaker 5: her the two hundred dollars?
Speaker 8: Not exactly, I mean, I'm what what was weird is
Speaker 8: that she was like, she was very appreciative. She was
Speaker 8: like thank you, thank you, you know. Yeah, but then
Speaker 8: she says, I'm still eight hundred short.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, maybe maybe she was just telling you that
Speaker 2: so that.
Speaker 4: So that you could run her finances.
Speaker 1: Yeah, before how she already said she couldn't pay her
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 7: Talking and she should follow up with that.
Speaker 4: What was going on? What was going on with your
Speaker 4: in your mind?
Speaker 8: There's no way I'm giving a thousand dollars to a chick.
Speaker 8: I just met you, and I'm thinking about like, that's
Speaker 8: just a bad feeling, you know, it's a whole bad vibe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's really short on rent.
Speaker 8: Yeah, Yeah, I started thinking like, did she do this
Speaker 8: to other guys?
Speaker 2: It definitely doesn't feel like she's a scam artist or
Speaker 2: anything when we talk to her.
Speaker 4: Yeah, most girls don't at first.
Speaker 8: Brook.
Speaker 1: Oh, I feel like it's pretty honest.
Speaker 8: Whatever her situation is, it's just not something I want
Speaker 8: to be involved with.
Speaker 4: I think before you.
Speaker 5: Make any final decisions on that, I feel like maybe
Speaker 5: you need to hear from Carly herself, because she has
Speaker 5: been listening on the other line wanting to.
Speaker 8: Talk to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's waiting for the other eight hundred dollars, so she.
Speaker 1: Didn't call for that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm kidding.
Speaker 5: We didn't even know about the eight hundred dollars deficit.
Speaker 5: So let's just let Carly talk to you here.
Speaker 6: Call you there, Hey, Yeah, I'm here. I mean, you're
Speaker 6: actually like it's a big deal to ask a question
Speaker 6: like I was, you know, and I didn't even ask
Speaker 6: a big deal, was just informing, like I just told
Speaker 6: him I was still short.
Speaker 4: Are you wait?
Speaker 3: Are you putting it out as a vibe, like as
Speaker 3: an insinuation.
Speaker 8: Like why else would you tell me that after I
Speaker 8: just gave you two hundred dollars? You know, like why why?
Speaker 8: Why else would you share that information? And what's what's
Speaker 8: this thing about? Like now I'm going to have to
Speaker 8: go to work?
Speaker 1: What is that what you said?
Speaker 5: Car?
Speaker 1: You're not working?
Speaker 8: She actually said to me, I still got the text.
Speaker 8: I can read it to you.
Speaker 2: Oh that's what I wanted to please help us, that's
Speaker 2: what I asked her to do.
Speaker 4: What did she say?
Speaker 8: Well, no, it says right here. She's like, look, I
Speaker 8: need eight hundred dollars more from you or I'm going
Speaker 8: to have to go to work.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's way different.
Speaker 1: Wow, I thought you were trying to be vulnerable with
Speaker 1: this guy.
Speaker 6: You have to go to work? I mean, like nobody does.
Speaker 6: I don't want to.
Speaker 8: Why this makes me question everything, Like how did she
Speaker 8: even get that top golf? You know? Did she pay
Speaker 8: for it or somebody else pay for it?
Speaker 5: You know you don't have to pay for top golf,
Speaker 5: Yes you do. If you're at a birthday party, you don't.
Speaker 2: Jeff, Everyone chips in for birthday parties except for you.
Speaker 4: It's the same thing when we go to eating group things.
Speaker 4: And I have to say, Jeff, you have to pay
Speaker 4: leave before they bring the bill. There's nothing they can do.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, just like everything's free, you don't pay.
Speaker 1: Do not back this up, Curly, this is not good
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 5: I just be'tven.
Speaker 8: You want rent going like a sugar dotty site, normal data.
Speaker 4: You don't got a trick people. You could just be
Speaker 4: open to yeah, or.
Speaker 2: Just get a job. Why, it's just a universal rule
Speaker 2: of life.
Speaker 4: Why even being mean, She went to work, she got
Speaker 4: the money, she paid her rent, she said until next month.
Speaker 5: The person that we really need to focus on here
Speaker 5: is Blaine. I bet he feels horrible for not coming
Speaker 5: through for Carly in her time of need and making
Speaker 5: her work auditioned out the eight hundred dollars.
Speaker 8: Right, yeah, I feel so horrib Okay, I.
Speaker 4: Really wanted to hear because he's.
Speaker 8: No, I'm not responsible for no. Man.
Speaker 5: Well here's what you won't have to be responsible for
Speaker 5: paying for your next date with Carly because we will
Speaker 5: cover that bill for you.
Speaker 1: Is that what you call this from the beginning, Carly?
Speaker 4: Because we're going to cover the check. No, actually, wait,
Speaker 4: that made me think of something.
Speaker 5: Carly did you move up the date a few days
Speaker 5: earlier so you could ask him for your rent before
Speaker 5: it was due.
Speaker 8: Friday?
Speaker 4: Is that why you changed the day?
Speaker 6: Remember that it's a coincidence.
Speaker 7: Come on, no, wait, Jesday is way too specific to
Speaker 7: be a coincidence.
Speaker 4: The first of the month, he Carly.
Speaker 5: I am equally parts disappointed and impressed by you.
Speaker 6: Okay, you guys are reading way too much into this,
Speaker 6: like we just get on with the gift card thing.
Speaker 4: Jokes on you, Carly. Nobody here reads. But let's let's
Speaker 4: do what he said.
Speaker 5: Let's ask Blaine, would you like to go out with
Speaker 5: Carly one more time?
Speaker 4: On our time?
Speaker 8: I'm not feeling it. No, I go next thing. I
Speaker 8: know she's probably gonna be trying to sell me some bitcoin.
Speaker 4: Carly. Do you have some available though, because now at
Speaker 4: the time.
Speaker 6: Sounds like no, I don't do crypto, she.
Speaker 1: Doesn't do any money, have nobody?
Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Man, I didn't know that working was optional.
Speaker 3: It's not, jeff We've all been here dedicating her whole life.
Speaker 4: I didn't know I could do that. I really need
Speaker 4: to look on to that.
Speaker 5: Hold on a second, hey, Brooks, I'm a little short
Speaker 5: on plane money this month. You rent your clothes, so
Speaker 5: I'm sure you've got some extra cash.
Speaker 4: Question mark broche Okay, okay, I'll see how she responds
Speaker 4: to that. I don't know, hopefully looking at it is.
Speaker 4: Look at that she said, Yes, I did you picks
Speaker 4: for it? You know what? Inappropriate? Okay, Okay, No, I'm
Speaker 4: not Brook, stop stop it.
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I'm just gonna send her to the link
Speaker 5: to our podcast at Brook and JEFFERYSTI now, I'm gonna
Speaker 5: send her the link and my photos on there. Oh God, God,
Speaker 5: please do not talk to me ever again.
Speaker 4: Thank you. All right, show is going to be weird
Speaker 4: moving forward.
Speaker 1: Don't said that to me.
Speaker 4: There was something in there for you to extra Brook.
Speaker 5: Go check out our podcast where you get yours at
Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey. All of our photos are up on there,
Speaker 5: and email the show if you want help.
Speaker 4: We'll call that person who's not calling you back
Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.