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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: And you know, we get all the credit for all

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Speaker 2: these second dates going viral, for them charting on the

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Speaker 2: top comedy podcast. Yeah, but really it's our listeners and

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Speaker 2: they're terrible dating decisions that we have to think.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, and the people who ghost people.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, your toxicity has made us so funny.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thank you man.

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Speaker 2: Don't forget we do have forty five more minutes of this.

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Speaker 2: We've got a full show over on the Brook.

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Speaker 1: And Jeffrey main feed.

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Speaker 2: If you like it, follow that one as well. And

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Speaker 2: let's get into your second.

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Speaker 4: Date, second date, up date.

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Speaker 5: You know, researchers say what you text a person after

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Speaker 5: a good first date yeah, can actually be more important

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Speaker 5: than the date itself.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean you do look forward to it.

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Speaker 2: That is not helpful for people who really overthink that text, jeff.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying, look, for example, if you were to text, hey,

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Speaker 5: I had a great time with you tonight. Also, I

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Speaker 5: accidentally took your fork from the dinner for a DNA test.

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Speaker 4: Wait, no, that's not good. You might not go over

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Speaker 4: quite so well.

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Speaker 2: So you just leave it as I took your fork

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Speaker 2: and you're just saying night.

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Speaker 4: Just try not to overthink it, That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: Because one of our listeners, Carly, says she had a

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Speaker 5: text exchange with a guy after they went out and

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Speaker 5: it could be the reason she's not getting called back.

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Speaker 5: And we're gonna get to that and talk about the

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Speaker 5: text in a little bit. But first Carly, welcome to

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Speaker 5: the show.

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Speaker 6: Hey, everybody, But first Carly, we want to hear the

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Speaker 6: good part.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I don't ask this a lot, but how

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Speaker 5: important is it for you Carly to get a second

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Speaker 4: Is it a like a lot like yay nay or

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Speaker 4: hay neighbor type of situation?

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Speaker 1: It's hey neighbor.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the media pove.

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Speaker 5: Is it a yay nay or hay neighbor? Where are

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Speaker 5: you on the important scale?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 6: No, No, it's a yay obviously.

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Speaker 1: Okay, why would you not do one through ten?

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Speaker 5: No, that's not as fun as yay. We only do

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Speaker 5: fun stuff on our show this. Yeah, tell us about

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Speaker 5: him and how you two met.

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Speaker 6: His name is Blaine and I was at Top Golf

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Speaker 6: with some friends. I was there for a party.

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Speaker 1: And a great place to meet people.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, what I never want someone to see me

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Speaker 6: there nobody.

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Speaker 4: Trying to help you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you guys love to show you.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that reach around and just show you

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Speaker 1: how to do it.

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Speaker 4: Is that what Blaine did for you?

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Speaker 6: So, like he was there with a group of guys

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Speaker 6: we were just talking when it wasn't our turn, and

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Speaker 6: like we hit it off.

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Speaker 4: Cute hit it off, Charley. I knew you would fun. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I would, but I don't know. I'm sorry about that. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I already said that joke. But that's okay, Charley, keep going.

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Speaker 4: So you guys hit it off?

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Speaker 2: How?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: How he asked me out? I thought was kind of

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Speaker 6: cute because he gave me his number on a golf ball.

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Speaker 6: He wrote it on there with a sharpie.

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Speaker 7: Oh that's cool.

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Speaker 2: Oh, actually, is it bad that I'm already thinking if

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Speaker 2: you got married, it would have to all be golf seeing.

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Speaker 5: Now, Oh, this guy isn't even calling her backyard. Let's

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Speaker 6: That's true.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so that sounds really nice. Did you guys end

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we said we were going to hang out next Friday,

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Speaker 6: So we kind of planned that even before we left.

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Speaker 6: But then we were texting and I was like, I

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Speaker 6: to Tuesday. Also, don't waste a Friday night.

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Speaker 4: That's a good call.

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Speaker 1: It's a whole chapel roone song. I waste a weekend

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Speaker 5: Somebody's jaded over there? All right, Okay, so you moved

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Speaker 4: How did that go?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? It was a really good date. I got to

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Speaker 2: So okay, so wait, I'm sorry. Were you guys just

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Like dinner, drinks?

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Speaker 4: Okay, cool, way to downplay it, Brooke, No.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to set the scene.

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Speaker 4: That's all you did. You just did dinner. Okay. How'd

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Speaker 6: I mean I felt great, Like he seems like a

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Speaker 1: She's smiling.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you did say the one thing that you're worried

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Speaker 5: about that could have stopped you from hanging out again

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Speaker 5: was your text message exchange afterwards. Can you get into

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Speaker 5: that or just read it?

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Speaker 4: Just read it. I don't know how long it is.

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Speaker 4: Just give us the vibe I think.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you know, like sometimes when your friends will

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Speaker 6: little short on I rent this month.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, how did you jump from?

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Speaker 2: That?

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Speaker 1: Was a fun night?

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Speaker 6: The text read.

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Speaker 3: I thought you were just going to say, hey, our

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Speaker 4: Maybe something a little lighter.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 1: Wait, didn't he pay for dinner?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? He paid for dinner.

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Speaker 4: Okay, she's just sharing.

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Speaker 5: I think she's trying to like be honest and be like,

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Speaker 1: Really get that.

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Speaker 2: I'm just curious how you brought it up, Like is

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean we were just like talked about date,

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Speaker 6: just feeling a little stressed because of this, and so

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Speaker 5: Well it sounds normal to me, Like, don't you when

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Speaker 5: you were dating Brooke talk about paying rent with all

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Speaker 1: Do think? Like I think it's good to be vulnerable

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Speaker 2: But I'm wondering if he read it as basically an

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's how I read it. And how did

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Speaker 6: He was like really sweet, and he he did send

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Speaker 4: I mean like, oh, really, that sounds.

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Speaker 6: Like he's an amazing guy who cares. I mean, we've

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Speaker 4: He set Wow, let's just are you taking notes over there?

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Speaker 1: But he set you money and then stop talking to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what happened after that?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: And then we were supposed to go out again and

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Speaker 4: Huh.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it regrets the money?

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Speaker 2: He said, like maybe he sent it when he was

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Speaker 2: that's kind of a week I was money for the date,

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Speaker 2: and then he ran out.

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Speaker 3: I fought a nice gift for a girl, and you

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Speaker 3: found a couple hundred box and then they kind of

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Speaker 3: insinuated one another and you realize, all right, this may

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Speaker 5: Now, an exchange of money or goods can change the

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Speaker 1: You would know, Jeff, Yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Very cold after the exchange.

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Speaker 5: I will tell you that even though I'm satisfied in

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Speaker 5: to call Blaine and figure out where his head is at.

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Speaker 5: That's the most important. We're going to come back and

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Speaker 5: do that with your second date update.

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Speaker 4: Right after this second date update, we're.

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Speaker 5: In the middle of a second date update with one

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Speaker 4: Am I saying that right, Carly, Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to emphasize the why more Carle exotic?

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Speaker 5: It could be the traditional pronunciation of Carly. We're all

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Speaker 5: still recovering from some of the information that we learned

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Speaker 5: about her date with Blaine, and.

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Speaker 1: She shared a lot.

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Speaker 5: She did all the highlights real quick. They had a

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Speaker 5: great meet up at Top Golf. It's where they met,

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Speaker 5: had a great get to know you date Sash, followed

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Speaker 5: by kind of an awkward text exchange that involved him

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Speaker 5: sending our listener Carly money because she admitted she was

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Speaker 1: Ah, which is really kind of him.

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Speaker 4: It is, but it does change the vibe. I mean

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Speaker 4: me just saying it. Yeah, it does.

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Speaker 5: It feels awkward to say they exchanged money afterwards, but

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Speaker 5: he did send her some and then after that did

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Speaker 5: not follow through with their plans for another date.

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Speaker 8: I have a question. Don't pipe up this early? But

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Speaker 8: was it alone?

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Speaker 3: Like, is this something you're supposed to pay you back?

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Speaker 3: Or he just gave you the money expecting nothing.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he didn't say it was alone.

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Speaker 4: He guess it's not if he's not calling you back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, he's the worst loan shark.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, never mind.

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe it's just because she didn't set him

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Speaker 2: a formal thank you.

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Speaker 4: Oh I feel like, carl you must have said thank you, right, Oh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah of course.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So what's running through your head?

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 4: What what's going through your mind before we reach out

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Speaker 4: to him?

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I mean, like it might have made

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Speaker 6: it weird, but I really like, I I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't know, but you also made your rent, right,

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Speaker 1: so that's good news.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I really like him, so I mean, like I was

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Speaker 6: they really bummed if that's the reason, you know.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you, if a guy asked me to

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Speaker 5: He is husband, Michael, do not ask to ship in

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, is this Blaine.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's just Blaine.

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Speaker 4: Hey man, what's up. It's Jeff.

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Speaker 2: Just on a first name basis, Jeff, I thought he

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Speaker 1: When has anybody ever known?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Thanks a lot.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry. Who are you guys?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll explain. We're a radio show. We're called Brook

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good thing.

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Speaker 5: We're calling you for a really fun, exciting reason because

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Speaker 4: And we got an email from one of.

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Speaker 5: Our listeners named Carly, who says she's very disappointed that

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Speaker 8: Yes, she really liked to Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, does that make you curious.

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Speaker 8: You have no, not really. I mean she's cute, she's fun.

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Speaker 8: I just not interested in seeing her again. I mean,

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Speaker 7: I get it a million of those out there, but look,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it's too much.

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Speaker 5: To delve into this, but I did hear that the

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Speaker 4: And usually when that happens and the.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, we had a nice guess at the end of

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Speaker 2: Okay, can you give us something here to tell her?

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 8: Well, okay, after our days we started texting each other.

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Speaker 8: She said thanks, I had a good time, and then

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Speaker 8: we started making plans as she mentioned that she was

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Speaker 4: Whoa, that's that's new information to us. Wait to say that, Okay, any.

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Speaker 6: Chance you sent her money?

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Speaker 8: So I actually did?

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, yes, we're all acting surprise now, dude, what

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Speaker 4: Of you.

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Speaker 1: Wow, So wait, I have a question. Why did you

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Speaker 8: I felt bad, I mean like I've been short too,

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Speaker 8: I'm in a decent spot. I asked her what her

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Speaker 5: She mentioned that you were like a really good, caring guy.

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Speaker 5: So that's clearly coming to.

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Speaker 2: And when you're describing it too, like you're not shaming her,

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Speaker 5: Like, yeah, did that make it weird though to give

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Speaker 8: Not exactly, I mean, I'm what what was weird is

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Speaker 8: like thank you, thank you, you know. Yeah, but then

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Speaker 8: she says, I'm still eight hundred short.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, maybe maybe she was just telling you that

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Speaker 4: So that you could run her finances.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, before how she already said she couldn't pay her

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Speaker 7: Talking and she should follow up with that.

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Speaker 4: What was going on? What was going on with your

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Speaker 8: There's no way I'm giving a thousand dollars to a chick.

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Speaker 8: I just met you, and I'm thinking about like, that's

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Speaker 8: just a bad feeling, you know, it's a whole bad vibe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's really short on rent.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Yeah, I started thinking like, did she do this

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Speaker 2: It definitely doesn't feel like she's a scam artist or

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Speaker 4: Yeah, most girls don't at first.

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Speaker 8: Brook.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I feel like it's pretty honest.

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Speaker 8: Whatever her situation is, it's just not something I want

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Speaker 4: I think before you.

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Speaker 5: Make any final decisions on that, I feel like maybe

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Speaker 8: Talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's waiting for the other eight hundred dollars, so she.

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Speaker 1: Didn't call for that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm kidding.

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Speaker 5: We didn't even know about the eight hundred dollars deficit.

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Speaker 5: So let's just let Carly talk to you here.

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Speaker 6: Call you there, Hey, Yeah, I'm here. I mean, you're

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Speaker 4: Are you wait?

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Speaker 3: Are you putting it out as a vibe, like as

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Speaker 8: Like why else would you tell me that after I

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Speaker 8: Why else would you share that information? And what's what's

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Speaker 8: this thing about? Like now I'm going to have to

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Speaker 1: What is that what you said?

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Speaker 5: Car?

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Speaker 1: You're not working?

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Speaker 8: She actually said to me, I still got the text.

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Speaker 8: I can read it to you.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's what I wanted to please help us, that's

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Speaker 2: what I asked her to do.

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Speaker 4: What did she say?

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Speaker 8: Well, no, it says right here. She's like, look, I

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, that's way different.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I thought you were trying to be vulnerable with

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Speaker 6: You have to go to work? I mean, like nobody does.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to.

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Speaker 8: Why this makes me question everything, Like how did she

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Speaker 8: even get that top golf? You know? Did she pay

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Speaker 5: You know you don't have to pay for top golf,

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Speaker 5: Yes you do. If you're at a birthday party, you don't.

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Speaker 2: Jeff, Everyone chips in for birthday parties except for you.

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Speaker 4: It's the same thing when we go to eating group things.

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Speaker 4: And I have to say, Jeff, you have to pay

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Speaker 4: leave before they bring the bill. There's nothing they can do.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying, just like everything's free, you don't pay.

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Speaker 1: Do not back this up, Curly, this is not good

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 5: I just be'tven.

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Speaker 8: You want rent going like a sugar dotty site, normal data.

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Speaker 4: You don't got a trick people. You could just be

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Speaker 2: Just get a job. Why, it's just a universal rule

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Speaker 4: Why even being mean, She went to work, she got

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Speaker 5: The person that we really need to focus on here

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Speaker 5: through for Carly in her time of need and making

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Speaker 8: Right, yeah, I feel so horrib Okay, I.

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Speaker 8: No, I'm not responsible for no. Man.

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Speaker 5: Well here's what you won't have to be responsible for

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Speaker 1: Is that what you call this from the beginning, Carly?

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Speaker 4: Because we're going to cover the check. No, actually, wait,

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Speaker 5: Carly did you move up the date a few days

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Speaker 8: Friday?

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Speaker 4: Is that why you changed the day?

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Speaker 6: Remember that it's a coincidence.

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Speaker 7: Come on, no, wait, Jesday is way too specific to

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Speaker 4: The first of the month, he Carly.

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Speaker 5: I am equally parts disappointed and impressed by you.

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Speaker 6: Okay, you guys are reading way too much into this,

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Speaker 4: Jokes on you, Carly. Nobody here reads. But let's let's

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Speaker 5: Let's ask Blaine, would you like to go out with

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Speaker 4: On our time?

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Speaker 8: I'm not feeling it. No, I go next thing. I

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Speaker 8: know she's probably gonna be trying to sell me some bitcoin.

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Speaker 4: Carly. Do you have some available though, because now at

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Speaker 6: Sounds like no, I don't do crypto, she.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't do any money, have nobody?

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Speaker 6: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Man, I didn't know that working was optional.

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Speaker 3: It's not, jeff We've all been here dedicating her whole life.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know I could do that. I really need

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Speaker 5: Hold on a second, hey, Brooks, I'm a little short

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Speaker 5: on plane money this month. You rent your clothes, so

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Speaker 5: I'm sure you've got some extra cash.

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Speaker 4: Question mark broche Okay, okay, I'll see how she responds

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Speaker 4: to that. I don't know, hopefully looking at it is.

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Speaker 4: Look at that she said, Yes, I did you picks

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Speaker 4: for it? You know what? Inappropriate? Okay, Okay, No, I'm

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Speaker 4: not Brook, stop stop it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I'm just gonna send her to the link

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Speaker 5: to our podcast at Brook and JEFFERYSTI now, I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: send her the link and my photos on there. Oh God, God,

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Speaker 5: please do not talk to me ever again.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. All right, show is going to be weird

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Speaker 4: moving forward.

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Speaker 1: Don't said that to me.

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Speaker 4: There was something in there for you to extra Brook.

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Speaker 5: Go check out our podcast where you get yours at

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Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey. All of our photos are up on there,

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Speaker 5: and email the show if you want help.

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Speaker 4: We'll call that person who's not calling you back

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Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.