WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Man Of The Month

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. If you thought we were in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of another hot girl summer, you'd be wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>This season is officially boy Sober Summer. If you don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because it's not about that, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know what that is. It's gaining traction online right

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<v Speaker 1>now as single women across the country are trying out

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<v Speaker 1>this new trend abstaining from any romantic relationship with men

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<v Speaker 1>whatsoever for the next few months. We're talking no hookups,

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<v Speaker 1>no situationships, no getting back with the exes. That doesn't count.

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<v Speaker 2>Either them's open doesn't count.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't One of our listeners, Emma, swore she was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do this and that lasted for all of six days.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you're so pretty good.

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<v Speaker 4>I saw it.

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<v Speaker 1>I welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey guys, what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>You were so strong?

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<v Speaker 3>I know, yeah, I like four off online dating. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, over it, it's too much work. And then

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<v Speaker 3>a few days later I like saw this cool trend

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, Okay, I want.

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<v Speaker 1>To try that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, and then using that trend like that's how

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<v Speaker 3>I found the guy. A few months later that were

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<v Speaker 3>like calling today, That's how.

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<v Speaker 1>I what was this online trend that you tried that

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<v Speaker 1>turned everything around.

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<v Speaker 3>It was called man of the Month.

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<v Speaker 2>Man of the Month. What does that mean? Is it

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<v Speaker 2>a calendar?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I get it.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, okay, so like you get twelve friends and you

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<v Speaker 6>have them basically set you up on one date a month.

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<v Speaker 3>For the year. Oh you exactly, Like one friend gets

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<v Speaker 3>their shot to be like exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>I can tell what your algorithm is on social media

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<v Speaker 4>because you were doing all the trends.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you know basically.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I hadn't heard this one, but it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like this is kind of rough because it requires that

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<v Speaker 1>you have at least twelve friends.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm I know some people are less fortunate in

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<v Speaker 3>that area.

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<v Speaker 5>You can shorten it.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, yeah, double, I don't know. I figure like

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<v Speaker 3>this just feels way better. Like my friends know me,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, they know you know, they know what I'm

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<v Speaker 3>into it, they know all my red flags so they

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<v Speaker 3>can avoid them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 7>I literally had her friend recently that was like, dude,

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<v Speaker 7>you would be so into this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just a little too put together for you, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I get it, but out.

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess it's true because you have like friends

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<v Speaker 1>that are always wanting to say like oh, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to set you up with someone, and then

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<v Speaker 1>it never actually happens.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly, and like almost feels like now I'm putting the

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<v Speaker 3>burden on you, like you keep bringing up, Oh I've

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<v Speaker 3>got this guy, what about this one? Okay, well, here's

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<v Speaker 3>your chance to your homework.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of pressure. I hope they're still.

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<v Speaker 3>Or the opposite, like, I hope it works.

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<v Speaker 2>Was the very first month successful?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? So the so the first month wasn't.

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<v Speaker 7>Successful, okay, okay, but this month, Yeah, one of my

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<v Speaker 7>friends has a coworker, Lawrence, and yeah, like she showed

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<v Speaker 7>me a picture and everything super cute.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, okay, oh exactly, I'm already excited, and

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<v Speaker 3>so we agree to meet up. We met up for drinks,

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<v Speaker 3>and honestly, like moment one, it was already better than

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<v Speaker 3>any online really anything. Yeah, like he's all dressed nice,

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<v Speaker 3>like he was very cute looking, and like he brought

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<v Speaker 3>me a little thing of flowers.

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<v Speaker 2>He put effort in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I kind of try hard, but yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome. Are you texting your friend during the date, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so normally I would, but I really tried. I

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<v Speaker 3>tried to be good.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I would you usually do a quick snapchat?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's a quick not in front of the guy though, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, good right right, you know, all right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>well good. He made a great first impression on you.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the rest of the night go?

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was great. We had a great conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like we had a lot in common. And

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<v Speaker 3>there was even like this like awkward, funny moment that

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<v Speaker 3>happened where I was Okay, So I admittedly I was

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<v Speaker 3>wearing a very cute dress, but it was a little

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<v Speaker 3>on the cheap side, admittedly, And I got up to

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<v Speaker 3>go to the bathroom and my like strap got caught. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>oh god, Like where where did it rip on?

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<v Speaker 6>The strap?

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<v Speaker 3>You're saying, yeah, like the strap ripped. It was fine,

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<v Speaker 3>Like the dress was tight enough that it didn't. Nothing

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<v Speaker 3>came out right right, right, But what happened was he

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<v Speaker 3>ended up like giving me his jacket so that I,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, wouldn't feel too uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it all sounds so great. I don't understand why

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<v Speaker 4>you'd be on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, well, the problem would probably be that he's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Calling her back tell her what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>I know, so, like, yeah, it's super weird because the

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<v Speaker 3>rest of the night, like nothing crazy happened, Like he

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<v Speaker 3>waited for me, like for my uber, like gave me

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<v Speaker 3>a kiss on the cheek and everything. Yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I just I just stopped hearing from like I never

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<v Speaker 3>heard anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Else at all after the date.

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<v Speaker 3>No, and like she was trying to get a feel

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<v Speaker 3>for what was going on, and he's just not budging,

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<v Speaker 3>like he's not telling her anything.

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<v Speaker 5>So I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell him about that you're the second man

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<v Speaker 1>of the month and there are there's eleven other men

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<v Speaker 1>of the month that I need to.

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<v Speaker 2>Make me only ten because she'd done one before.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I figured maybe wait, you know, that might might

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<v Speaker 3>scare somebody away, the other guys, but they don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't set up early.

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<v Speaker 1>You might have to go back to boy sober summer.

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<v Speaker 1>Then if that doesn't work, we're going to try and

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<v Speaker 1>help you out though with this guy, Lawrence will come back,

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<v Speaker 1>give him a call and try and get you your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Right after this second date update, we've

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<v Speaker 1>got a listener named Emma on the phone who just

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<v Speaker 1>taught us about a new dating hack for women who

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<v Speaker 1>are tired of the online stuff. It's called Man of

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<v Speaker 1>the Month, where you have twelve of your friends set

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<v Speaker 1>you up on a date each month of the year,

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<v Speaker 1>and every friend gets assigned a specific month. That way,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of them just telling you, oh, I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to set you up and then they never actually do it,

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<v Speaker 1>now they have a deadline. It's like a sexy homework assignment.

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<v Speaker 2>October I saw you turning to me, and I even

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<v Speaker 2>takes the entire next five years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe you can set brook up up on a

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<v Speaker 1>dated and alexis that.

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<v Speaker 5>I can help?

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<v Speaker 2>What's your how young you are?

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<v Speaker 7>You okay with.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is? That's how our listener Emma got set

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<v Speaker 1>up with a guy named Lawrence. They went out and

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<v Speaker 1>had drinks together and it went so well her clothes

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<v Speaker 1>were literally taking themselves off.

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<v Speaker 2>They were jumping right off of her body.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an accident, I think, so maybe an accident,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe fade. But afterwards he's been totally quiet and the

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<v Speaker 1>friend who set her up doesn't know what's going on either.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why she's turned us for him.

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<v Speaker 4>And it was a romantic moment, right like, your dress

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<v Speaker 4>broke and he helped you out.

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<v Speaker 2>That was awesome.

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<v Speaker 5>Gave your jacket. Jacket was very, very cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a real gentleman. We'll see how gentlemanly

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<v Speaker 1>he is when we actually get him on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Sound doubtful, he's her, that's not super gentleman.

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<v Speaker 5>I really I really want this guy.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to do like these other monks. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm hoping this guy is it kind is so cute.

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<v Speaker 5>To hear you don't even want to do this game?

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<v Speaker 7>You like him that much?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Because there are ten other men of the month that

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<v Speaker 1>she has left to me. But if this goes well enough,

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<v Speaker 1>we can cancel on them.

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<v Speaker 4>I could do September for you.

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<v Speaker 1>She's desperate to pawn off all of her old single friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you have so many?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the most put together? Look at the marriage. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's focus on Lawrence for now. I'm gonna dial I'm here,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking at a talk

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<v Speaker 1>with Lawrence.

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<v Speaker 5>Speaking.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Lawrence, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the Morning. What sorry this I know it's confusing,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're a show on the radio. We do this

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<v Speaker 1>segment called what's.

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<v Speaker 8>It called second Update I've done Sorry, Yeah, we're called

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<v Speaker 8>it's a second Date update, and we're trying to help

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<v Speaker 8>one of our listeners that you actually went out with

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<v Speaker 8>the other night to get drinks with named Emma.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you guys were set up by a mutual friend.

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<v Speaker 2>I think your coworker set you up.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh yeah, yeah, I know, Emma. It was a little

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<v Speaker 5>it was a little weird. How much do you guys

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<v Speaker 5>know about all this?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean enough, Yeah, we know that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>went out to drinks and she said she had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. You brought her flowers, she was so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>You gave her your jacket when her dress had a

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<v Speaker 1>little wardrobe malfunction. Is all that, right?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's the general gist of how things went, But

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<v Speaker 5>it was really confusing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well that's why we're calling you because she's also

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<v Speaker 1>confused and doesn't know if something went wrong in between.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just you're not calling her afterwards.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think that she doesn't like you?

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<v Speaker 5>It's all right, So we kind of give you some

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<v Speaker 5>something from my perspective here. So I've got this coworker.

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<v Speaker 5>Her name is Ali and one day out of the blue,

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<v Speaker 5>she came up to me and she said that she

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<v Speaker 5>had the perfect person for me. Okay, but this woman

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<v Speaker 5>is a business professional, she's super cute. She thinks that

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<v Speaker 5>I'm cute too. Now I'm thinking, in the back of

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<v Speaker 5>my head, is this Ali's way of asking me out

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<v Speaker 5>on a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you thought your coworker was talking about herself and

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<v Speaker 4>like a like shee.

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<v Speaker 1>That toy waved it somebody like like somebody you know

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<v Speaker 1>very well? Right, oh god, exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>And look, she never really said that it was a

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<v Speaker 5>setup or anything.

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<v Speaker 2>What she didn't show you a picture of Emma or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>No, because he doesn't care about women's looks. He's not

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<v Speaker 1>that type of guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody cares about it. Sure, before you go out on

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<v Speaker 2>a bland.

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<v Speaker 1>Day, maybe shall remember.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, unless you think that the person you're

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<v Speaker 4>dating is the person standing in front of you, Lawrence.

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<v Speaker 1>You date for personality, right, yeah, always always. So you

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<v Speaker 1>thought at that point your coworker was saying that it

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<v Speaker 1>was her.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what I was thinking, because like, low key, for

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<v Speaker 5>the long time I've had a crush on Ali. Maybe

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<v Speaker 5>this was like her reciprocating it.

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<v Speaker 4>So you thought the flowers you got you were actually

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<v Speaker 4>bringing to Ali.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Like, I was just told to go to this

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<v Speaker 5>bar at seven, and in my head, I'm thinking, like

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<v Speaker 5>this could be it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, this is so what happened when Emma

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<v Speaker 1>showed up.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, okay, so I get there and this random girl

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<v Speaker 5>comes up to me and she's like, Hi, are you Lawrence?

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<v Speaker 5>And she was like really super sweet, and I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>do I know you from somewhere? And it's like she's

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<v Speaker 5>my date?

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<v Speaker 4>Icebreaker questions, But she said it was good right off

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<v Speaker 4>the bat.

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<v Speaker 2>In your head you're like, oh she did.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, good on you for like sticking out

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<v Speaker 1>the night.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, don't get me wrong. For what it was,

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<v Speaker 5>it was still a good date. Okay, I had a

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<v Speaker 5>crush on Allie and that's really.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not going to be good.

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<v Speaker 4>And obviously Ali doesn't know that because she would never

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<v Speaker 4>set you up with Emma exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was just this a whole weird awkward thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, it's gonna get really Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to tell you the awkwardness might go up

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<v Speaker 1>a notch because actually we have Emma on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>listening to this.

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<v Speaker 5>God oh.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, it did not your fault.

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<v Speaker 2>Not your fault.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I do want to come out and say, like

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<v Speaker 5>I did have a really good time with you and

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<v Speaker 5>it was a lot of fun, and but it just

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<v Speaker 5>that's not what I had in mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Is there?

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<v Speaker 5>And this is gonna sound like super callous with everything

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<v Speaker 5>else going on, but is there any way that we

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<v Speaker 5>can we can slip this around a little bit, like

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<v Speaker 5>can we reversus a little bit?

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<v Speaker 2>You're coming off. She hasn't even processed any of this, dude, chill.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now, Emma, Wow, I don't even know what is happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you okay?

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<v Speaker 3>It's neither of our faults. And I think I would

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<v Speaker 3>have been able to get over that if he didn't

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<v Speaker 3>ask me to ask my blend like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>let it like.

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<v Speaker 5>It's settled for a minute. Wow, thing, I promise, like

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<v Speaker 5>under I mean, under different circumstances, if Valley wasn't involved,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, something could have potentially happened. But like, like

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<v Speaker 5>we've we've had this great relationship at work, and really

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<v Speaker 5>I just thought that this was like she's kind of

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<v Speaker 5>shy sometimes and I just thought this was her way

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<v Speaker 5>of picking up on me and.

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<v Speaker 7>Person Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, okay, suck. Yeah, I'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is your friend Ali's fault because she

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<v Speaker 1>never said specifically that she was setting him up with

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<v Speaker 1>a different woman.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I think she probably was not, assuming that

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<v Speaker 3>Lauren thought it that her.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't you and Ali need to go get drinks.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to write up the scripts for your friends

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<v Speaker 2>in the next two months.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, don't worry about her. She's got ten dudes lined

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<v Speaker 5>up the rest of the year, so she's gonna be fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Lore, Yeah, I mean I really am going to be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>But oh my god, but.

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<v Speaker 5>Really, really though, I mean, if you do have a

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<v Speaker 5>chance to have drinks with Ali, maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>You liked Ali so much, why didn't you just ever

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<v Speaker 2>ask her out, Lawrence?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, she's engaged, so I just thought this was her.

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<v Speaker 2>Phone.

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<v Speaker 7>She's not.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not married to make him jealous. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>are you back to Sober Boys summer yet?

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<v Speaker 3>I think so, because I.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, Okay, is this count is rock bottom.

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<v Speaker 7>For him?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we can't know for sure until we offer to

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<v Speaker 1>send you guys out on a date. Now, it could

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<v Speaker 1>come along as the third wheel.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I'd be okay with like double dating and

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<v Speaker 5>Ally's there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a big difference.

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<v Speaker 5>Not a full ring on the finger yet you know

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<v Speaker 5>it was a ring on the finger.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just not he doesn't have the wedding band.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Lawrence is up for anything as long as

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<v Speaker 1>Alley's there, am I.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm good. He's clearly only into engaged women.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you could take Lawrence as your date to Ali's wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you would love to be your plus one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, nobody's gonna stand up and interrupt the ceremony.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not saying that I wouldn't, but I probably would.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. You know that made me think,

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<v Speaker 1>why are we not doing more second date updates with

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<v Speaker 1>engaged people?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I think there's a one word clue there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, I just think it would open up a

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<v Speaker 1>whole new level of drama that we haven't been able

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<v Speaker 1>to tap into.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and maybe lawsuits.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not our problem. So yeah, I'm not happy with

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<v Speaker 1>our producer. He's not getting enough engaged people who are

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<v Speaker 1>looking to stray. So he's fired again from the show.

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<v Speaker 1>But again we'll welcome back eventually. But yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>a wild one. So make sure if you're setting somebody

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<v Speaker 1>up on a date that you explicitly say it's a

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<v Speaker 1>setup and it's not with yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>You would think that people would assume it's not with

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<v Speaker 4>you when you are wearing an agagement ring, like it

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<v Speaker 4>feels like you wouldn't have to say that, but the knowledge.

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<v Speaker 2>Of I yah.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But a lot of men think that a women just

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<v Speaker 1>giving them attention is enough. Yeah, So make sure you

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<v Speaker 1>make that clear and also make sure you follow us

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<v Speaker 1>at Brook and Jeffrey wherever you get your podcasts, Apple, Spotify,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is. We'll see you there. Yeah, it's Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning.