WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Let's Chalk About It

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of dating. Dating is a lot like

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<v Speaker 1>riding a bike. First, you do it with dad's help.

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<v Speaker 1>Why because right behind you making sure that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>get hurt because it's scary the first few times.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is your dad there?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, mom's holding the camera shouting positive things, don't close

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes, stop crying.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a really close family.

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<v Speaker 1>But then eventually dad let's go. And suddenly look at

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<v Speaker 1>that you're doing it all by yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Why is mom still there with the video camera?

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<v Speaker 1>Asked her to be there? But I bring you back

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<v Speaker 1>afar up because one of our listeners, Dennis, emailed the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and Dennis It says, this was your first date that

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<v Speaker 1>you've gone on in quite a while. Like, were you

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship before that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I was in a long term relationship for a

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<v Speaker 3>little while, okay, and I've been single for two years now, What.

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<v Speaker 2>You've been single for two years but you just haven't dated.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I kind of gave up one dating for a while.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I was just down on myself, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I just had some self esteem issues and things I

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<v Speaker 3>needed to work on, and it kind of got into

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<v Speaker 3>a pity party sort of thing for a little while.

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<v Speaker 3>And I had to come back out of it.

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<v Speaker 4>So I love that you did you, Dennis, and it

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<v Speaker 4>looks like it turned out pretty good because you're back

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<v Speaker 4>up on the top. I love hearing those type of stories.

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<v Speaker 2>We all do.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I got into a gym, got back in the racquetball,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm rock climbing now, and I'm even on an adult

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<v Speaker 3>kickball team. Fun.

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<v Speaker 2>We don't need a second date update with him. We're

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<v Speaker 2>going to do self help with Dennis. I mean this

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<v Speaker 2>is great.

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<v Speaker 1>Who needs women just playing racketball until you die? You

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<v Speaker 1>got mountains to climb. Well, I mean that's great that

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<v Speaker 1>you came out the other end, and it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a better place. So you ended up meeting

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<v Speaker 1>somebody met lady named Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, you'll real smart and a great sense of humor.

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<v Speaker 3>We hooked up after work.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you sound confident, but I didn't really.

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<v Speaker 3>When I say hooked up, I just mean we got together.

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<v Speaker 3>I told you guys, I haven't been dating for a while.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what all the lingo is.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hooking up. Just so you know, Dennis tends to

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<v Speaker 1>be like you get intimate, like romantic.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, women, I want to like you, you haven't done

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<v Speaker 5>this in two years?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you feeling?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>What's going through your head when you're going to meet her?

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<v Speaker 3>Very excited, excited, at a little a little anxious.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you and Stephanie end up doing for

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<v Speaker 1>your date?

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<v Speaker 3>We ended up doing what I like to do and

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to share with her, which is a passion

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<v Speaker 3>of mine. It's rock clock cool.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a sexy date. I like it. I like it.

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<v Speaker 4>Had she ever climbed before? Was it brand new to her?

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<v Speaker 3>No, she'd never done it before, but she was really

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<v Speaker 3>open minded to the idea. When totally turn on.

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<v Speaker 1>You hooked up with her with the cables, with the cable.

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<v Speaker 3>Showing the ropes. Baby, Yeah, okay, Cara.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she seem like she was having fun?

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<v Speaker 3>She was. She was totally in dude. I was totally

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<v Speaker 3>into her. And even during the thing, some of my

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<v Speaker 3>friends from class came over. They were really cool. So

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<v Speaker 3>it actually made me look good. Baby looked like I

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<v Speaker 3>had some sort of popularity there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's such a smart thing too, Like it's

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<v Speaker 4>a way to bond together.

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<v Speaker 2>She's trying something new.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of adrenaline is going on when you're climbing

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<v Speaker 4>like it's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So is rock climbing the only thing that you did

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<v Speaker 1>for the day or was there more?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? We went to a bar afterwards. I had a

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<v Speaker 3>few drinks. I'm a tequila guy, so I had a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of.

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<v Speaker 1>Pops, you know, a couple of what shots, A couple

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<v Speaker 1>of pops pops? What's pop?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's old school aingo, you know, pops like soda, pop,

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<v Speaker 3>like a can of pop, that sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>To have some soda with tequila.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Wow, we figured it out. I was thinking Coca cola.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all over the Yeah, I got it.

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<v Speaker 5>Tequila soda.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I like popular and dating right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You can say that, yes, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>I just love to have a good time with her.

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<v Speaker 3>It was really great enjoying her company. She's a great conversationalist, captivating,

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<v Speaker 3>almost to the point of just other people were walking

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<v Speaker 3>by and looking at the two of us like, wow,

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<v Speaker 3>those people most really like each other.

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<v Speaker 2>That's sweet.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, she's not calling you back, so there must

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<v Speaker 4>be something going on. Did you get a chance to

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<v Speaker 4>really learn about her, because it sounds like this was

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<v Speaker 4>a lot about your interests, your activities.

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<v Speaker 3>It was. She did a lot of talking, but mostly

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<v Speaker 3>was about her work and her job. I mean, she's okay,

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<v Speaker 3>she got like a high pressure job.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And did you hook up in the modern.

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<v Speaker 3>If you mean, did we do anything that somebody would

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<v Speaker 3>be saying we should have done on a first date

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<v Speaker 3>or anything like that. No, we did that.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody on this show would say the wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>Show a nice little goodbye, just a hug, a little

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<v Speaker 3>peck of the cheek, nothing, nothing out of the ordinary.

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<v Speaker 1>Well overall, it sounds like it's a pretty solid date.

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<v Speaker 1>How long has it been since you last talked to her?

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a couple of months? What months been a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of months?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you dated since? Or you did the one day?

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<v Speaker 2>After two years? And we've done nothing since playing the.

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<v Speaker 1>Really slow game.

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<v Speaker 3>I've gone I've gone out a couple of times with

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<v Speaker 3>other people. It hasn't felt the same, Okay, Okay, it

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<v Speaker 3>was fun still, I mean I had fun. We didn't

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<v Speaker 3>do the rock climbing thing. We pretty much just did

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of times little bar Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we didn't focus on them. Let's focus on seventy

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna play a song. We'll come back We'll

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<v Speaker 1>call and see if she remembers you, because two months

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<v Speaker 1>in the modern dating world is for like ever. She

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<v Speaker 1>could be married by It's possible. We're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call her and try and get a second date. Update.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, sounds great?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on it, Dennis. I know you've been

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<v Speaker 1>telling us that you just got back into the dating

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<v Speaker 1>scene and you didn't know what you were doing. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing that Stephanie thought you were a player, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just into the rock climbing place with your extra large

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<v Speaker 1>harness on, acting like a boss fist, bumping all your friends,

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<v Speaker 1>talking about your new clubs and activities. I bet she

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<v Speaker 1>thought you were some type of smooth talker. It gets

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<v Speaker 1>around town.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no way she could though.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, I would like you to prove right now that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not pretend that Brooke is single and you just

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<v Speaker 1>saw her out on the street. Give us your best

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<v Speaker 1>pickup line to get her interested. Go ahead, Dennis, Hey, Brooke, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what should do it?

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<v Speaker 2>Doing? Radio? My job right now? Dennis? What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Why don't you come on over here and sit on

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<v Speaker 3>Daddy's let.

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<v Speaker 1>You're proving me right, Dennis.

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<v Speaker 2>Line so quickly I thought if you was a different person.

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<v Speaker 1>That you went out with Stephanie two months ago, and

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<v Speaker 1>now we're going to be reaching back out to her again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure if she's even gonna remember going out.

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<v Speaker 3>With you, dude.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe the rock climbing party she'll remember.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think she'll remember. I think she'll remember me.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you tried calling or texting in that period in between?

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<v Speaker 3>I did. I just never heard anything back.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and you have no idea, why.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no idea whatsoever?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we're gonna try and get you some

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<v Speaker 1>answers here.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, sit down, daddy, She's gonna tell you where

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<v Speaker 4>to I'm gonna dial with Stephanie's number and let's see

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<v Speaker 4>what she has to say.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, all right, good, here we go. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is a Stephanie. Yeah, Hey Stephanie. My name is

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<v Speaker 1>jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing today?

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<v Speaker 3>Really? Yeah, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the whole show's here. Brooke Jose alexis Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I've heard the show before, but it's been a

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<v Speaker 6>little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you can always catch up on our podcast, available

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<v Speaker 4>anywhere you get your podcast Spotify, Apple.

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<v Speaker 1>Periodically, you listen to whatever you want to listen to, Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're calling you today because we're trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update for one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a guy that you went out with a little

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<v Speaker 1>while ago. His name's Dennis. Do you remember a couple

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<v Speaker 1>months back.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, that's quite a while ago.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the reaction, remember, Yeah, that's the reaction we had

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<v Speaker 4>when he told us how long it had been.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's been it's been a while, so I I

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<v Speaker 6>have to think for a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's a good sign that he's reaching out to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's a little bit late, but yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>told us about your date and said he had a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time with you. And afterwards he said he

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<v Speaker 1>tried texting and calling you, but he hasn't gotten any response.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh have you been seeing those?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>You know, he was a really nice guy. I just

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like he was just looking for something else.

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<v Speaker 1>I oh, yeah, can you explain.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, I mean I just have different expectations at this

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<v Speaker 6>point in my life, and he just seemed to we

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<v Speaker 6>just seemed to be out of alignment. Second.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, I mean he told us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about your date that you guys went rock climbing and

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<v Speaker 1>went to a bar and got to talking a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about your lives. Is something come up?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean things are great, we're reviving and made

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<v Speaker 6>a couple of beers, and he kind of gets to

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<v Speaker 6>you more a little bit of like yourself. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 6>he threw in a line where he said something like

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<v Speaker 6>he was just looking for a hookup buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>What yeah, wow, yeah, wait, he didn't say anything like

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<v Speaker 1>that to us.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounded like to us that he was looking for

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<v Speaker 4>a long term relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we talked to him about how he had.

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<v Speaker 4>Spent two years single, working on himself and that he

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<v Speaker 4>was finally ready to see what was out there because

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<v Speaker 4>he felt like he had something to offer someone.

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, that's not the vibe I got. He said

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<v Speaker 6>he was happy that he had a friends with benefits now.

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<v Speaker 2>Friends friends with benefits, that's what he said.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Oh no, I can't really just say that.

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<v Speaker 4>That means like, as in, you are his friend with

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<v Speaker 4>benefits even though you haven't given him any benefits yet.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, right, Like I had been assigned the title.

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<v Speaker 2>Of this what and that's not how that works. Like

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<v Speaker 2>friends of benefits is like somebody you already.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, and then you're like, Okay, maybe on the side

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<v Speaker 4>we'll hook up because I'm in a dry spell.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I think that's why he was insinuating. He wanted

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<v Speaker 6>things to be that way, and I'm not anyone side.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't call him back. At least he was honest

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<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 1>There's some sort of miscommunication here. Either Dennis isn't telling

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<v Speaker 1>the truth or she misheard something. So let's just get

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<v Speaker 1>Dennis on the phone right now, because Stephanie, I need

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you he's been there the entire time listening.

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<v Speaker 3>Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wow, okay, are you say, Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>My goodness, I have such an apology to make to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Is good. You heard what I said, but that's not

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<v Speaker 3>at all what I meant. Oh, I said to you

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<v Speaker 3>friends with benefits. I meant the fact that you have

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<v Speaker 3>a great job and you have medical benefits.

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<v Speaker 2>Shut really shut up.

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<v Speaker 3>The last girl I was with, part of the reason

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<v Speaker 3>why we ended up going separate ways is because she

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have any and she only wanted to be with

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<v Speaker 3>me because she thought I could get her benefits.

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<v Speaker 1>That you're telling me that you didn't know what friends

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<v Speaker 1>with benefits meant.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm talking about benefits a movie. I don't know nothing

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<v Speaker 3>about that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, are you understanding what it means?

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<v Speaker 3>Like now now I understand why she felt the way

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<v Speaker 3>she felt.

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<v Speaker 2>Also told that you just wanted to hook up.

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<v Speaker 4>What you said, hook up buddy or something like that, Right, Stephanie,

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<v Speaker 4>isn't that what he said?

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<v Speaker 6>He said he wanted friends with benefits, and I guess

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<v Speaker 6>I assumed he meant a hook up, buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it is. Yeah, right, buddy was dental? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it sounds like you guys just didn't understand

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<v Speaker 1>what each other were saying, and you're actually looking for

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing, dude, And he messed up on a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of phrases with us before she even got on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. It's true, like Stephanie, he did. He told

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<v Speaker 1>us that he hooked up with you when you guys

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<v Speaker 1>first met, when you just linked up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've been saying the wrong thing the whole time,

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<v Speaker 3>But you guys can tell I don't know what I'm

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<v Speaker 3>talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I mean, Dennis, are you like a arp like broo?

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<v Speaker 3>I No, I've just I've just been out of the loop.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have a lot of young people around me,

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<v Speaker 3>And what do you want me to do? Watch him TV?

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<v Speaker 1>And then nobody watch.

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<v Speaker 4>People watching TV watching what I know, get a TikTok account.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>What I gotta watch, Stephanie, I mean I gotta watch.

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<v Speaker 1>You can hear Dennis. He sounds like a pretty nice,

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<v Speaker 1>genuine guy. He needs a little bit of updating in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of dating terminology. But we'd like to send you

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date and maybe you can help teach

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<v Speaker 1>him some of those things and we'll pay for the date.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it sounds like fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Stephany will you Stepanie? Will you go with me?

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<v Speaker 6>It's a misunderstanding. Will go out? It'll be great.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good.

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<v Speaker 3>So see now I have a true friend with benefits.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm just make sure you go to the Urban

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<v Speaker 1>Dictionary before you go on this day. Okay, Dennis, look

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<v Speaker 1>up Mexican.

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<v Speaker 2>No freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel kind of happy for Dennis. You know, he's

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<v Speaker 1>a he's a likable guy. Sure kind of stuck in

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<v Speaker 1>a time warp and apparently hasn't watched TV or listen

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<v Speaker 1>to radio or watched the news.

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<v Speaker 4>In thirty years, participated in society.

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<v Speaker 1>Even because he doesn't know anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Even would know what friends with benefits met.

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<v Speaker 1>But isn't that kind of a good thing, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>get the chance to be with a guy who's basically a.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby That sounds terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>He's pure, he's untouched, unworn to dating. Now, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying like he's not scarred and it is not jaded

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<v Speaker 1>by the dating. He's not going on you how literally yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Accidentally, I guess exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>Or he's just gonna claim dumb every time he gets

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<v Speaker 4>caught doing something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to argue against jaded. Yeah, you're one of

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<v Speaker 1>the jaded ones. You don't believe them.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't want a baby man. I want a man man,

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<v Speaker 2>not a baby man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you want one that's been with thousands and thousands.

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<v Speaker 5>He's got paperwork that checks out things are still good.

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<v Speaker 1>But texting to seven eight, five nine to tell us

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<v Speaker 1>if you think these two are gonna make it, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good sound coming from yah. I remember if you

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<v Speaker 1>ever want to get a second date up that you

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<v Speaker 1>can always email our show. We can call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,