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Speaker 1: So there's a billionaire who has a pickup line that

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Speaker 1: he wants everybody to know about, and I want to

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Speaker 1: know if this would work. What I really want to

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Speaker 1: know is is what what would work in twenty twenty

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Speaker 1: five as it pertains to I guess this could be online,

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Speaker 1: but you know, I suppose you could DM this to somebody,

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Speaker 1: but you know, maybe in person. But this guy's name

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Speaker 1: is Bill Ackman. He's a hedge fund guy. Now I

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Speaker 1: don't know how I get all the money. Maybe it

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Speaker 1: was from hedge funds. But his pickup line that he

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Speaker 1: claims works is or did work. I'm not sure if

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Speaker 1: the guy's married. He's a older guy. May I meet you?

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Speaker 2: May may I meet you? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: So he got mocked online after sharing dating advice for

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Speaker 1: a young man on social media.

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Speaker 2: He's always fifty nine?

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Speaker 1: Is you know? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It's giving. I thought he was older actually, but he's

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Speaker 2: fifty nine.

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Speaker 1: And he suggested using the pickup line may I meet

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Speaker 1: you before starting a conversation with women. Say that you

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Speaker 1: almost never got to know when he was younger. So

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Speaker 1: this was a post on X I guess. It's been

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Speaker 1: twenty six million times and prompted thousands of comments and

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Speaker 1: mocking memes. People called him out of touch and joked

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Speaker 1: to trying the line and getting to we'll get the

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Speaker 1: police called on them. One person said that women only

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Speaker 1: said yes to him because he's a billionaire financier, but

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Speaker 1: he replied that he didn't have money back when he

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Speaker 1: was using that line.

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Speaker 2: May I meet you?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: What is James mad about?

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Speaker 1: James says, uh, I'm supposed to stop throwing shade at you.

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Speaker 1: I mean apparently, I don't know. Yeah, I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: there was no shade. Yeah, I know, I know, I'm

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Speaker 1: just I'm confused. Anyway, I was confused, man, what does stop? Right?

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Speaker 2: You know she knows she can say.

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Speaker 1: Like throw some shade, I'll throw some shade. Not not

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Speaker 1: our James. This was a text. No, I know, this

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Speaker 1: was not our boss, James. Next our boss James did

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Speaker 1: not ask me. She actually like he would like more

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Speaker 1: I meet you?

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Speaker 2: May I meet you? Absolutely not only in the dark.

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Speaker 3: I guess I think that sounds like one of those

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Speaker 2: You know I'm talking about, like may I meet you?

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Speaker 2: Like said send you money? Like that's what it's giving.

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Speaker 1: Oh he's talking about belahemine. By the way, that the cavities,

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Speaker 1: she has five cavities.

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Speaker 4: She told us that, well she had six, but she

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Speaker 4: gets to take two out with her wisdom teams.

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Speaker 1: I thought all of them had cavity. I thought she'd

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Speaker 1: have all they all had cavit. I thought she had

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Speaker 1: ten total or something? Was it two of the wisdom

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Speaker 2: So there were eight?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Or six? Anyway? Man meet you? A man meet you? No, No,

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Speaker 2: can I meet me? I don't like that at all.

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Speaker 2: And he meet anyone?

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Speaker 1: And I literally the bars on the floor, and that

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Speaker 2: I would feel like you're trying to, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: If you said, if I got a thing a DM

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Speaker 1: that said may I meet you, I would think it

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Speaker 2: Or lived in a different country. That's what I would

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Speaker 1: Because that's just not the way people talk and it's

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Speaker 4: Someone asked if I was spoken for the other day

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Speaker 2: The forties, Like it, are you spoken spoken for?

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Speaker 2: Do you have a dowry? Yeah? Well do you? I'd

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, trade me out to get you to get you

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Speaker 2: May I meet you? M Yeah? But what here's the better?

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Speaker 2: The better question? Though?

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Speaker 1: Eight five, five, five, nine one one o three five

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Speaker 2: What what would work? Like?

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Speaker 1: What do you want to hear from men approaching you?

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Speaker 1: Is that because you have a boyfriend or because you

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Speaker 2: But like, here's the thing, real period, I know you're kidding,

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Speaker 1: like all I should think, I just.

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Speaker 4: Wear a sweatsuit that says I have a boyfriend in

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Speaker 1: And I guess this person couldn't read because I think

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Speaker 2: And every day?

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Speaker 1: But I you know, you hear a lot, whether it's

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Speaker 1: the wild. The problem is out of you know, you

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Speaker 1: make fun of the guys who approach them in the wild,

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Speaker 1: And so you can't have it both ways. Or you

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Speaker 1: And I'm not talking about the guys who said like

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Speaker 1: that is well highly inappropriate. That is that is that

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Speaker 2: Sometimes they take a step back and I go, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm not even mad, like I got it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I'm like, I'm not I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: Now and again, I think you could you could say

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Speaker 1: times out of ten that's not going to work. Nine

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Speaker 1: fun of. But so that's my thing is do you

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Of course you want them to be respectful and and

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Speaker 2: But like the key to this is you want to

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Speaker 1: If I'm guessing you want to be approached by the

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Speaker 1: we as men don't know whether wh're the guy you

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Speaker 1: You need to not respond. If it's in a DM,

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Speaker 1: you don't need to have some smart comeback because you

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Speaker 1: were rejected. You don't have to project, you don't have

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Speaker 1: to say something I don't want you anyway, which is

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Speaker 2: There's so much of this stuff. That's my favorite.

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Speaker 1: The people do it's any want to go out with me? No, well,

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Speaker 1: you know you think you're hot stuff. Dude, you asked

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Speaker 1: this isn't all on women. This is on men too,

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Speaker 1: because men have a tendency to act like idiots.

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Speaker 4: I'm a fan of the like for both of both

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Speaker 4: parties involved. The like don't make it feel like you're

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Speaker 4: hitting on me situations, so like, come up, talk about

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Speaker 4: something different, make a joke, point something out at the bar.

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Speaker 4: Then feel my energy if I'm engaging or if I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Don't be like hello, ma'am. You know I'd like to

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Speaker 2: Do I have a drink? YadA YadA?

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Speaker 4: Okay, And so no one gets embarrassed either way, because

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Speaker 4: then you could feel if I'm like, I got to

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Speaker 2: That's true, that's true.

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Speaker 2: If you're forcing it, walk away, it's over. Then you're

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Speaker 2: not embarrassed, and neither am I. Kiki? How you know? Well?

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Speaker 2: What why are your eyes?

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Speaker 1: You're technically single but engaged because you're not married, but

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Speaker 1: when you were actually actually single? Yes, how did you

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Speaker 1: want to see what I'm talking about? That's why I

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Speaker 1: But how did you want to be approached?

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Speaker 2: So I want you to approach me?

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Speaker 6: And then just if I call the police on you,

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Speaker 6: that doesn't means I know I want you, and then

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Speaker 6: if I don't, it's.

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Speaker 2: A good sign. In my experience, that's been a good sign.

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Speaker 6: If I don't call the police, be good, you know,

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Speaker 6: like keep talking rast because I am one of those

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Speaker 6: women who I would hype me in up, like you

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Speaker 6: gotta approach women. Man, You gotta go out there in

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Speaker 6: a while. You got to shoot your shot. Man, and

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Speaker 6: then the moment you shoot your shot at me, if

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Speaker 6: you're not the man I want, I'm like, please get him.

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Speaker 1: This is kind of what I'm talking about, right because

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Speaker 2: Don't know, I don't know, Like you know, it's like

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Speaker 2: I don't want to wind it.

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Speaker 1: If I walk up to the right girl at the

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Speaker 1: and then I talked to her, then that's what she

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm a little insecure about it. But but

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Speaker 1: then but then you say, that's what you want, But

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Speaker 2: They want to look at screens, like they don't want

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Speaker 1: Or there's this Ashley, Hey, Ashley, Hi, So this is great.

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Speaker 1: Actually, everybody knows the mistake that was made here was it?

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Speaker 1: It's may I wear you were skinning on my face?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, anyway, how long you guys been married?

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Speaker 5: Didn't that work for me though?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're engaged down.

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Speaker 5: I mean I just literally walked past him, told him

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Speaker 2: So you you objectified him?

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Speaker 2: Does he shave? Why are so smooth? Yeah? He has

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Speaker 1: Go okay now. Now, honestly, if he now this is

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Speaker 5: Been really weird because I didn't have any like shorts

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Speaker 1: Okay, but nine times out of ten, that's not gonna work, right, Like,

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Speaker 1: So this is a perfect example of it worked for you, guys,

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Speaker 2: But maybe one time it will work. But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Like it worked for her, it did work for you,

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Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, you're good for you, Stephanie. All right,

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Speaker 1: have a good day, Nags. Hey, Destiny, Yeah, Destiny. What happened?

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Speaker 1: This is a pickup line? First of all, did it

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Speaker 3: It worked enough for a first date?

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Speaker 2: Okay? What happened?

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Speaker 3: I was dancing in the middle of a bar and

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you know the game Trivia Crack.

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Speaker 3: A game that asked questions, and he's like, hey, you

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Speaker 3: ended up telling me, He's like, just to let you

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Speaker 2: That's cute, okay, but only one day.

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Speaker 3: It didn't get I mean, it didn't get any farther,

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, all right, thank you, Jessiny, have a

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Speaker 1: I think we also need to get past the thing

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Speaker 2: But like the thing where we go on a.

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Speaker 2: That's over.

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Speaker 1: So now the first time I'm getting any vibe from

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, Like this is nothing new.

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Speaker 1: The only thing that's different now is that you can

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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, I think technology all around is screwing

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Speaker 2: That's the game.

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Speaker 1: And so that if I don't get a second date,

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Speaker 1: I can be disappointed, but like or if they goes

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Speaker 2: But I think it kind of comes with the territory,

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Speaker 2: right I think so too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, mag go out with you.

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Speaker 2: You got a thousand dollars, Okay, so that's that's it.

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Speaker 2: I got a thousand dollars