WEBVTT - JOSHY WEDDING RECAP

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<v Speaker 1>And five, four, three, two. What up, y'all? Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the Thing. I'm Kev on stage.

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<v Speaker 2>She's... The whole gang is back.

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<v Speaker 1>Joshi has returned.

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<v Speaker 2>The lights are on.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in the studio. In the studio. Joshi is a

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<v Speaker 1>married man. He lost his virginity earlier this month.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so proud of him.

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<v Speaker 1>He went on his first trip. He moved in with

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<v Speaker 1>his wife. All these amazing things that God has done. Yay!

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<v Speaker 1>We missed him terribly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Me and Angel made it through. We forgot to record sometime. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>my God. I know Josh was like, put it down.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm going to be right back. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be right back. But the gang is back. Joshy, please.

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<v Speaker 1>The Patreon has been waiting to hear. Angel and I

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<v Speaker 1>have not talked publicly about your wedding since it happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Start from the beginning, Joshy.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Josh, I want

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<v Speaker 3>you to have my seat so that you can sit

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<v Speaker 3>in it.

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<v Speaker 2>Angel, I'm not going to. You're out of your mind.

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<v Speaker 2>You're out of your mind. You can sit here, Josh.

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<v Speaker 2>With all the women hate in the internet right now,

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 1>Sit in my seat. You're in the big chair. Make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you sound good. They said my mic was. Check yourself, Joshy.

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<v Speaker 1>They said they can't hear me, so that means they

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<v Speaker 1>won't be able to hear you.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, Kevin, take my idea when I gave.

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<v Speaker 1>The idea first. No, that's a good idea, but I

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<v Speaker 1>can't let you stand up as a woman. I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>As a married man, I cannot do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't do that. Hold on. I'm going to check you, Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, Josh.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not learning then as a main man. You listen

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<v Speaker 4>to the woman in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>Six, seven, eight, nine. Oh. Okay, you're good. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little low. What number am I?

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on. Watch it spike because I had to move

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<v Speaker 2>some stuff around.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're two? Oh, is it? Yeah, I think you're good.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you sound good. All right, Joshy, let's start

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<v Speaker 1>over from the beginning. And.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. All right, go ahead, Joshy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so what... Is this just a Q &amp; A

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<v Speaker 2>or what are we doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so I'll cue you up with a question.

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<v Speaker 1>Q them up. Lob me up. I'll read questions too, Angel,

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<v Speaker 1>if you run out of stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so let's start from... Let's start at the week

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<v Speaker 4>leading in to the wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll start there.

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<v Speaker 2>I was here the Tuesday... Of me driving down to

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding. That's why I got my haircut here due

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<v Speaker 2>to time. Imara wanted to get down there on Tuesday

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<v Speaker 2>for our wedding Thursday because she needed an Airbnb, even

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<v Speaker 2>though I'm anti-Airbnb. I don't like big Airbnb. The owners

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<v Speaker 2>are raggedy. And if the owner of the house is watching,

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<v Speaker 2>this is still what I believe. Owners are raggedy. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't believe in paying for a cleaning fee.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then having to clean up the house before. What

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<v Speaker 2>else don't I like about Airbnb? I'm getting sidetracked.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess you are.

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<v Speaker 2>So anyway, we had to get an Airbnb before because

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<v Speaker 2>Imara made the cake for our wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>She did. So crazy, but you... Insane. You took pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>I took a photo of her walking down the aisle.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. You got to let people do what they

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<v Speaker 1>do if their stuff goes at weddings.

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<v Speaker 2>At the very least.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I tried to talk her out of it, but

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, man, watch out.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was great.

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<v Speaker 2>I never even tried. The only thing I was able

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<v Speaker 2>to at least put in her head was that she

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to do that and big pan tiramisu so we

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<v Speaker 2>could serve people and have like a moment with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Personally make both? Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Because she did it for another wedding and it's actually

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<v Speaker 2>a really cool moment for couples... Um, it's, it's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>It's got the, just married on it, the last name, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was like, Hey. Two, one is a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Two is double than one.

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<v Speaker 1>That would have been like you taking pictures and being

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<v Speaker 1>the photographer. Yes. Right, which you didn't do. No, no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>We had way too many people. Once I saw the

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<v Speaker 2>amount of people, that's another, we'll get to that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, can't wait to get to that.

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<v Speaker 4>That was a full-blown production company that was at your wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>So what was your level of angst leading into the,

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<v Speaker 4>like if we want to scale one to 10 of,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my God, this is actually, oh my God, this

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<v Speaker 4>is actually happening.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I.

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<v Speaker 2>Got that until the day of. Because I also was

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<v Speaker 2>not juggling, but I was closing out a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>side work going into that era or that little season.

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<v Speaker 2>So my mind was occupied in different places. And then

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<v Speaker 2>even the day of, I played golf, which was a

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<v Speaker 2>crazy stretch.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah, I did. The day you got married?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh-huh, at Pechanga. Shouts out to the good folks at Pechanga.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, wow.

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<v Speaker 4>What made you do that? What made you say that

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<v Speaker 4>it would help relieve some stress?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I was like, what else am I going to do?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to sleep well, number one. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to be up early. Both boxes were checked. And then

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have to be anywhere until like 1, well,

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<v Speaker 2>technically 1230, but really 230. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you're not getting your makeup and your hair. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need glam. You're not doing it. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to glam.

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<v Speaker 3>You see this face.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to hog that, people.

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<v Speaker 3>You see this face.

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<v Speaker 2>So at that point, and I think that's when... Well,

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<v Speaker 2>Imar had a very good reason of why I probably

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<v Speaker 2>should not golf.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in my thirties. I play golf in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I need a little golf nap after in the early afternoon.

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<v Speaker 2>So her thing was just like, do, do your thing. Just,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, if I see a yawn, so help me God.

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<v Speaker 2>And I know I wasn't going to be yawning just

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<v Speaker 2>from all the adrenaline and whatnot. Yeah. Um, so I

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<v Speaker 2>played in the morning. I still got to the venue

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<v Speaker 2>by like 1245. Uh, you play by yourself or your

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<v Speaker 2>friend with, um, with my friend, my friend, Mark, um,

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<v Speaker 2>best man, Mark. So he, So, yeah. So, we played

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning. But back to your question. I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>really feel the jitters because I had something to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Even the day before was, like, rehearsal day. In rehearsal,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I felt it a little bit, but it wasn't, like,

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<v Speaker 2>as outer body. The outer body moments were, I think,

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<v Speaker 2>the night of the rehearsal dinner and then the actual...

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<v Speaker 2>Some of the ceremony stuff. God bless you.

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<v Speaker 1>So....

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't really feel the angst until I think me

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<v Speaker 2>waiting for stuff, having to physically stop and wait for

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<v Speaker 2>stuff to start happening after I was ready, after my

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<v Speaker 2>getting ready photos and all that fun. That's when I

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<v Speaker 2>started feeling like, okay, now it's like wedding, like this

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<v Speaker 2>is the wedding wedding now. So I think I preoccupied

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<v Speaker 2>myself with some healthy stuff, work aside, leading into those

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<v Speaker 2>moments that helped me like from... getting like the anxious

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<v Speaker 2>sweats all morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so we now at the day of the wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>First of all, did y'all stay with each other the

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<v Speaker 4>night of or did y'all stay separate?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean the morning before.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we stayed with each other through the morning of,

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<v Speaker 2>but when I left for golf, which was like at six,

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<v Speaker 2>I did my goodbye, have a good day, have fun,

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<v Speaker 2>try to enjoy it. Aww.

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<v Speaker 1>Aww. So you had the altar with your white dress.

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<v Speaker 3>That's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>We ain't getting no younger.

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<v Speaker 3>We might as well do it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I will say, not to skip past over the

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<v Speaker 2>dinner rehearsal, the dinner rehearsal was really good and we

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<v Speaker 2>both agreed that it was tough to be fully present

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<v Speaker 2>because it felt that was the first outer body.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we're like, dang, this is our dinner rehearsal for

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<v Speaker 2>our wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all's wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when everything started like.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say getting more real, but it

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<v Speaker 2>started feeling not weird, but different.

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<v Speaker 3>Who all was at the dinner rehearsal? Who all was there?

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<v Speaker 1>Who all was over there, man?

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<v Speaker 2>My dad, my uncle, and just literally some family and

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of friends that were in town that flew

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<v Speaker 2>out there to state that we're going to be there

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<v Speaker 2>the night before. That's who we extended it to.

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<v Speaker 3>Her people weren't there?

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<v Speaker 2>Her dad was. Her sister, her sister's boyfriend, her brother...

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<v Speaker 2>And then people that were in the wedding. It was

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<v Speaker 2>probably less than, I think, she's going to say I'm wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>but I think it was at or about 15 to

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<v Speaker 2>20 people.

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<v Speaker 1>Where was the dinner? Oh, it was at the venue.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it wasn't. It was at another winery called Wilson Creek.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, look at the winery. This is all the wineries.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, how y'all rehearse at a different venue?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no.

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<v Speaker 3>The dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>We ate.

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<v Speaker 3>The dinner, not the rehearsal.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you said dinner rehearsal.

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<v Speaker 2>I did. It is. And I never understood it either,

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<v Speaker 2>to be honest with you. It's just the way that

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<v Speaker 2>those names are.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the rehearsal dinner. So you rehearse, and then you

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<v Speaker 3>have dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>You rehearse where you're supposed to have the wedding, but

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<v Speaker 4>you can have dinner wherever afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I thought it was at the same place.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought y'all said, okay, I'm full. Do I stand? Mm-hmm. No. No, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all rehearsed and then had dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we rehearsed. And rehearsal was early also. She's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be mad I'm talking about this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no. It's like, not mad, mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>We had our rehearsal at our venue scheduled for 12

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<v Speaker 2>o'clock up until the week before. She's like, hey, we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to have to move it to 1 o'clock. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, why? She's like, oh, some people want to

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<v Speaker 2>take their engagement photos at the venue. I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>On our day?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, well, technically we didn't pay for

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<v Speaker 2>the rehearsals.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Imara, we paid for everything that's a part of that.

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<v Speaker 5>If y'all drank all the water in that lake behind there,

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<v Speaker 5>it was your water to drink.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's typing. Okay, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 3>Make sure you're okay, Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>You ain't starting this wedding off.

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<v Speaker 2>You're married!

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you leave her that morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, and then when you finish golfing, where do you

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<v Speaker 3>return back to? Not the Airbnb. Do you go to

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<v Speaker 3>the venue where your stuff is?

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<v Speaker 2>No, we checked out of the Airbnb because we checked

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<v Speaker 2>into Pechanga that night. We stayed at Pechanga Thursday to Saturday.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I needed a little... I didn't want to clean

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<v Speaker 2>up anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>You said, I'm done.

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<v Speaker 1>No problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Enough um but we did i went straight to the

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<v Speaker 2>venue so where we all had dinner at the um

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<v Speaker 2>at the venue looking at the building the stairs we

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<v Speaker 2>came down at the bottom of those stairs there's two

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<v Speaker 2>rooms on each side those are the bridal suites yes

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<v Speaker 2>Groom Suite was on the right side. Actually, I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>go straight in there. I started walking around and talking

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<v Speaker 2>to vendors, checking in with everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>You said, listen, I know you got the money.

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<v Speaker 2>That's also my anxious tick, and I wanted to say

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<v Speaker 2>hi to everybody, even though I know they got the money.

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<v Speaker 2>But because there was a couple moving parts that I

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<v Speaker 2>needed to finalize, like the slideshow thing that we'll get into,

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<v Speaker 2>I had to go talk to the sound guy to

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<v Speaker 2>make sure that he... had everything for me. And then

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<v Speaker 2>that ended up being a whole pivot in real time day. Um,

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<v Speaker 2>and then our coordinator, bless her heart. She was asking

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<v Speaker 2>me when I was out there, she was like, go

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<v Speaker 2>to the groom suite, but also can you help me

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<v Speaker 2>decide this one thing? Um, we were supposed to have

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<v Speaker 2>a drape behind the altar or the stage and it

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<v Speaker 2>was too windy and the drape was blowing like a sail.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, just take it out, just take

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<v Speaker 2>it out because it's not going to be consistent. I'm thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>I was thinking about everything. Um, So when I got there,

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<v Speaker 2>I went to the groom suite and then just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of hung out in and out for about an hour

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<v Speaker 2>and a half until I got ready. But I was

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<v Speaker 2>at the venue at like 1230, 1245.

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<v Speaker 1>Fully dressed?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no. I had suit over shoulder.

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<v Speaker 1>That shoot, my nigga boy.

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<v Speaker 3>It was fire.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>At least we'll get to the suit. But shout out

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<v Speaker 2>to Germany and George for holding me down on this.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, Germany Stout just did an amazing job. The pendant,

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<v Speaker 4>the charm on your lapel.

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<v Speaker 1>With the camera.

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<v Speaker 2>And I got that delivered when we were here on Tuesday. Oh, wow.

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<v Speaker 2>I almost didn't make the cut.

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<v Speaker 3>It was such a pretty accessory.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so nice. That suit was nice. That's who

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<v Speaker 1>was just very nice. It was. That's all I've ever said. Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I've ever said.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all you've ever said?

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I've ever said is it was very nice.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you said it. What did he say? Look good

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<v Speaker 3>as a bitch? What'd you say? Clean as a bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Clean as a whistle.

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<v Speaker 1>Clean as a whistle.

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<v Speaker 3>No, there was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it like BT. That's the clean dinner. Whistle.

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<v Speaker 3>Whistle.

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<v Speaker 1>Whistle.

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<v Speaker 4>And so was your groomsman there your best man there?

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<v Speaker 4>What time did your party arrive?

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<v Speaker 2>He got there probably well he brought me there and

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<v Speaker 2>it's funny because he dropped me off and there was

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<v Speaker 2>a couple signs at the venue because the venue also

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<v Speaker 2>God bless them this is why I didn't feel a

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<v Speaker 2>type of way but I thought it was funny that

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<v Speaker 2>they bumped us an hour during the rehearsal day. They

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<v Speaker 2>have three venues on the property, all going 30 minutes

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<v Speaker 2>apart from each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, dang.

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<v Speaker 2>For the sake of ingest people in parking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The third one just opened this year. They've been opening

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<v Speaker 2>a venue every year.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>And they are booked. Our venue was booked, when we

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<v Speaker 2>booked last April in 2025, they were booked out the

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<v Speaker 2>rest of the year. Both venues.

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<v Speaker 1>Dang! That's money.

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<v Speaker 2>They're pumping two a day, and they only take Tuesday

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<v Speaker 2>and Wednesday off, so the winery members can still have.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, A time to actually come and drink.

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<v Speaker 1>Two weddings a day, every day?

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<v Speaker 3>That's fire.

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<v Speaker 2>My God. And wine is.

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<v Speaker 1>Big bread, too. Yeah. That's big bread.

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<v Speaker 2>So I got dropped off, and there was a person

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<v Speaker 2>in a golf cart basically saying that we can't park there,

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<v Speaker 2>but also if we needed to ride somewhere. And my

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<v Speaker 2>name was on the little sign right there. And they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>where are you headed? I was like, oh, I'm Josh

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<v Speaker 2>for the Josh.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait a minute. That's me.

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<v Speaker 1>Mr. Gons was my father's name. Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, he dropped me off. Well, he made sure

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<v Speaker 2>I got situated. Then he went to go get... His

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<v Speaker 2>son was the ring bearer.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>And he did pretty good.

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<v Speaker 3>He did.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he was a cutie pie.

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<v Speaker 3>He did great.

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<v Speaker 1>He did great. He was a variable. If you don't cry.

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<v Speaker 5>You either don't cry or you cry so horribly that

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<v Speaker 5>it's funny again.

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<v Speaker 3>It's never funny ever.

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<v Speaker 1>It was funny when McCry cried. At our Valor Noir,

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, I don't want to do this anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>She was funny.

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<v Speaker 3>But that was your second wedding. If it was your

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<v Speaker 3>first one, push her down.

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<v Speaker 1>Get her out! New baby! New baby!

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all your kids did good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, he was a variable, though, because he's a

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<v Speaker 2>wild boy. He'll just take his clothes off.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's why I don't be one kid that wins, though,

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<v Speaker 4>because they don't do right unless they sack after us.

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<v Speaker 2>So we were, I already had the ring separate. They

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<v Speaker 2>weren't in the box.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I didn't think, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>One of my nieces was like, he might eat them.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that's something I didn't think about.

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<v Speaker 1>Not that ring you don't. No, listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Not that one.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay so let's jump to we're actually at the the

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<v Speaker 4>wedding day so just real quick because josh wasn't a

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<v Speaker 4>part of this you got people who know how to

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<v Speaker 4>show up to some stuff on time you hear me

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<v Speaker 4>we showed up other than my mother and tony baker.

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<v Speaker 2>Mind you And this is why I wanted to tell

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<v Speaker 2>some people, not all people, wedding was always starting at 4.30.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so glad you told me.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we told you that.

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<v Speaker 3>You told me.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, cool. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Wedding was always telling what we put 4.30 because

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<v Speaker 2>we were starting at 4.30 because we were not going

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<v Speaker 2>over at that place.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It was a drive to get there.

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<v Speaker 4>So we were like by around, I want to say 4.10,

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<v Speaker 4>almost all the bodies were already there.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people was in there sitting down with the little

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<v Speaker 1>umbrellas and the champagne and.

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<v Speaker 3>And let me tell you.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys get your welcome drink?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I did get my glass of champagne.

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<v Speaker 1>I got my drink. I drank mine. I drank Lissa's.

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<v Speaker 1>I drank another. I was taking in all the festivities.

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<v Speaker 3>Drinking and drinking and drinking. And let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 3>I took my reserved seat so seriously. I said, I

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<v Speaker 3>think that's ours.

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<v Speaker 2>And I told the coordinator, I told the coordinator, these two,

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to have a problem if they're not reserved.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly. And somebody almost tried to move.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I'm so sorry. No, this is my seat, okay?

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<v Speaker 4>I won a game at the bridal shower, so this...

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<v Speaker 4>is my seat.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want a game at the bridal shower, no.

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<v Speaker 1>I was told by AppleCare that this was my seat.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want a game at the bridal shower.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, Imar will have your head, okay? Because she's

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<v Speaker 4>a woman of her word. So, everything's set up. Everybody's seated.

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<v Speaker 4>People have their parasols. How you get a pretty officiant?

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<v Speaker 4>That nigga was pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Mark. He was a gorgeous nigga, man. Gorgeous?

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<v Speaker 3>I said ain't no mother.

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<v Speaker 2>Hair, hair, full of curls, tall. There was four flower girls, right?

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<v Speaker 2>Three of them, that's his lineage.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm-hmm. Oh, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>He married a Filipina American.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>So they're babies.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he black? What is he? What was he like?

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<v Speaker 2>He's half.

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<v Speaker 3>He black?

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<v Speaker 1>I know he had some other stuff going in there,

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<v Speaker 1>but I knew some black was in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's got a little Latinx and a little, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>why he take. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But he over here with us. Mostly. Oh, mostly.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't see that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I saw that nigga up in there.

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<v Speaker 2>He identifies on that side of the fence.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, come on Rico Suave. I was like, who

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<v Speaker 3>is this pretty nigga going up here to talk? This

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<v Speaker 3>is not your moment, sir.

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<v Speaker 4>And let's not forget, sorry, before we get to you

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<v Speaker 4>coming down the aisle, y'all had an amazing violinist.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yes. To set the mood. Yes, he was, I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen him at a few events. He's a beast.

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<v Speaker 3>We tried to hire him for the Cotillion. He costs

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of money. And I said, you have a

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<v Speaker 3>good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe he got a, well, no, he wasn't cheap, but

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<v Speaker 2>he wasn't like.

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<v Speaker 3>We were broke for the Cotillion.

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<v Speaker 1>He was, he's expensive.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But he was great.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he was amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Great mood setter.

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<v Speaker 2>Great mood setter. Good vibe. That was the first time

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<v Speaker 2>actually meeting him in person. Everything else was through the agent,

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<v Speaker 2>through the agent, through the manager. He'd be booked for

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<v Speaker 2>real now.

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<v Speaker 5>It was so black culture. Like he did a scissor song.

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<v Speaker 5>I think he did snooze. It was something scissor. And

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, I would never even thought this is

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<v Speaker 5>a violinable song.

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<v Speaker 1>But he did his good work.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it was great.

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<v Speaker 1>And hard bottoms. He had the tabbies on, too. He

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<v Speaker 1>had the prods on, too. Hey, Violin Pay, baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Be the elite.

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<v Speaker 1>Be the elite. Proud of him. Hey, oh, Josh, he's

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<v Speaker 1>back for real now. Bow.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so now we're jumping to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Because you, after Mark gets up there, after fine Mark

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<v Speaker 4>gets up there to tell us, Put your phones down.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was so mad. I had my, I had

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<v Speaker 3>all my stuff out. I was like, I can't wait.

0:18:27.020 --> 0:18:29.670
<v Speaker 3>And he was like, put it away. I was like, okay.

0:18:29.710 --> 0:18:33.300
<v Speaker 1>Then who comes in? 15 minutes later, with no hard

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<v Speaker 1>bottoms on. Oh, my God. Just had said, please, no recording.

0:18:38.859 --> 0:18:41.109
<v Speaker 1>People were like, oh, okay, no problem. Respect the wishes.

0:18:41.420 --> 0:18:42.980
<v Speaker 1>Who comes with soft shoes?

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<v Speaker 2>Look at who you came to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a burglar. Big tall, big thong. Yes. One of

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<v Speaker 1>the people on your team, also, he wasn't sitting down.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he.

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<v Speaker 2>Going for a seat or did they move him up top?

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<v Speaker 5>No, he was going towards his seat, but then he

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<v Speaker 5>kind of stopped behind the seat and was just like,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm recording.

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<v Speaker 1>And the lady was like, he was like, oh. And

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<v Speaker 1>then he just put his phone in his pocket and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, oh, sit down as well.

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<v Speaker 2>This is great because we didn't even get the audience

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<v Speaker 2>POV yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how, I mean, that's how obviously separated we were.

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<v Speaker 1>From, from the move we were from. I was like, Tony, sit.

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<v Speaker 1>But down, wear your hard bottoms.

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<v Speaker 3>Why don't you got no hard bottoms?

0:19:21.450 --> 0:19:24.460
<v Speaker 1>He came in late, no hard bottoms, and filming. Three strikes,

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<v Speaker 1>you're out.

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<v Speaker 2>And he had a regular tie on, didn't he?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, regular tie. He texted me.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, at the very least, just wear a shirt

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<v Speaker 2>and the.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow tie, man.

0:19:32.680 --> 0:19:34.899
<v Speaker 5>And he's like, you can go clip on.

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<v Speaker 1>My bow tie was clip on. I don't know how

0:19:36.940 --> 0:19:38.560
<v Speaker 1>to tie a bow tie, and I don't want to learn.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew the hard bottoms were going to be 50-50

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<v Speaker 2>with him, because he asked. He was like, what's the

0:19:43.150 --> 0:19:44.870
<v Speaker 2>dress code again? Once he said that, I was like, man,

0:19:44.890 --> 0:19:46.590
<v Speaker 2>you don't want to be doing that. But I said,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a black tie. Guys are in tuxes, ideally, at

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<v Speaker 2>least a bow tie. and white dress.

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<v Speaker 5>Shirt he looked right at that and said at least

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<v Speaker 5>he said.

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<v Speaker 3>Regular tie black shirt he didn't even wear a white

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<v Speaker 3>shirt the.

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<v Speaker 2>Only person i think he wore a white shirt i

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<v Speaker 2>said imara said she'll meet you halfway with some all

0:20:04.300 --> 0:20:06.560
<v Speaker 2>black dressy shoes They were.

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<v Speaker 1>Not all black. That's all he saw. That's all he saw.

0:20:08.900 --> 0:20:09.540
<v Speaker 3>All black sneakers.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't have to be hard bottoms for you, Tony Baker.

0:20:11.980 --> 0:20:15.320
<v Speaker 2>Emphasis on the this is for you only. Because we

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<v Speaker 2>just wanted him to be there.

0:20:16.420 --> 0:20:18.060
<v Speaker 1>And he showed up, though. He did.

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<v Speaker 3>He was there. So you come in.

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<v Speaker 4>Because when I say that wedding started at 430 on

0:20:23.210 --> 0:20:24.369
<v Speaker 4>the dot.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, and they had me and the kids out. In

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<v Speaker 2>the walkway at 4.15, I should have looked at the

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<v Speaker 2>watch because I was like, this is a little too

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<v Speaker 2>early for the kids to be standing out there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, 15 minutes is a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>But yes, it started on time, though.

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<v Speaker 1>Praise God.

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<v Speaker 3>So your thoughts when you hit... What'd you say?

0:20:42.270 --> 0:20:44.820
<v Speaker 1>I was trying to be dropped. I put it on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm done now.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to be dropped for just a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not going to do it no more.

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<v Speaker 4>You hit the top of the aisle. What are you thinking?

0:20:53.040 --> 0:20:54.860
<v Speaker 4>You're seeing all the people looking at you cheating.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's funny about the aisle walk And I chose

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<v Speaker 2>to walk with my mom.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you did.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, she looked great, too.

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<v Speaker 3>She looked so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Rehearsal, everything was fine the day before. The walk was good.

0:21:06.310 --> 0:21:09.940
<v Speaker 2>We hit our point. We found, instead of cutting across

0:21:09.980 --> 0:21:11.440
<v Speaker 2>the grass, because they're always like, there's going to be

0:21:11.460 --> 0:21:14.320
<v Speaker 2>aisles here. 90 degree turn is going to be better.

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<v Speaker 2>We start walking day of, and we're just passing the bridge.

0:21:19.900 --> 0:21:22.399
<v Speaker 2>And I look over, she's already crying. I was like, mom,

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<v Speaker 2>you're setting my emotional.

0:21:26.490 --> 0:21:27.889
<v Speaker 2>You're setting me off too early.

0:21:27.910 --> 0:21:29.590
<v Speaker 1>You're setting me too high. Because I've been.

0:21:29.530 --> 0:21:33.169
<v Speaker 2>Mentally prepping for, and we'll get to the vows, I've

0:21:33.190 --> 0:21:36.159
<v Speaker 2>been mentally prepping for a certain point in the vows

0:21:36.440 --> 0:21:38.400
<v Speaker 2>where I knew it was going to come. I look

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<v Speaker 2>over and I see my mom tearing up. I'm just like, hey, hey,

0:21:41.720 --> 0:21:42.780
<v Speaker 2>what's going on?

0:21:43.000 --> 0:21:44.180
<v Speaker 3>You her only baby.

0:21:44.320 --> 0:21:48.070
<v Speaker 2>I was like, is it the music? Because we should

0:21:48.090 --> 0:21:51.090
<v Speaker 2>have practiced with the music then if it was the music. Also,

0:21:51.109 --> 0:21:54.290
<v Speaker 2>Olivia Deen. Great choice, Imara.

0:21:54.750 --> 0:21:55.610
<v Speaker 1>Great choice.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to figure out a good processional.

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<v Speaker 3>Processional.

0:22:02.410 --> 0:22:05.250
<v Speaker 2>That music, I think, was the hardest part. We'll also

0:22:05.270 --> 0:22:05.630
<v Speaker 2>get to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Joshie, how do I turn the little camera back on? Oh,

0:22:07.750 --> 0:22:10.930
<v Speaker 1>I got to do it. You're not going to see it. Sorry, guys. Sorry.

0:22:11.350 --> 0:22:14.930
<v Speaker 1>Stop touching shit. I was just trying to... No, no, no.

0:22:15.010 --> 0:22:17.810
<v Speaker 1>Stop touching shit. On? On. Picture, picture. So you have

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<v Speaker 1>to press that every time you go off?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why when I disappear and start talking, they're like,

0:22:22.690 --> 0:22:24.120
<v Speaker 2>Where's Josh again? Where's Josh again?

0:22:24.140 --> 0:22:26.520
<v Speaker 1>Sorry, okay. I'm not going to touch nothing else with Russell.

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<v Speaker 2>So, walking out with my mom. But I don't understand why.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, of course she's going to cry. Josh, do you

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<v Speaker 3>not realize you're her only child?

0:22:34.850 --> 0:22:38.440
<v Speaker 2>I lied to myself. Or maybe I was not. I

0:22:38.440 --> 0:22:40.080
<v Speaker 2>don't want to say I was in denial. I didn't

0:22:40.119 --> 0:22:41.840
<v Speaker 2>think that was going to happen. So that caught me

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<v Speaker 2>off guard. I should have prepared if I would have

0:22:43.740 --> 0:22:45.830
<v Speaker 2>prepared for it, because then I was teary eyed walking

0:22:45.869 --> 0:22:48.530
<v Speaker 2>down the aisle. I was teary eyed early. And then

0:22:48.550 --> 0:22:50.399
<v Speaker 2>I see everybody and I'm just like, okay, this is,

0:22:50.510 --> 0:22:54.790
<v Speaker 2>this is more teary eyes. Um, so then I'm trying

0:22:54.810 --> 0:22:59.719
<v Speaker 2>to like fight my teary eye back to cope for her,

0:23:00.000 --> 0:23:02.380
<v Speaker 2>to try to give her some strength, to get to the, to,

0:23:02.440 --> 0:23:07.410
<v Speaker 2>to the front, to her seat. Um, But that's when

0:23:08.010 --> 0:23:09.689
<v Speaker 2>all the emotions jumped on me.

0:23:09.990 --> 0:23:10.530
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:23:10.550 --> 0:23:12.530
<v Speaker 2>Was when I started walking with my mom and seeing

0:23:12.570 --> 0:23:13.310
<v Speaker 2>her tear up.

0:23:13.530 --> 0:23:13.930
<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah.

0:23:13.950 --> 0:23:14.989
<v Speaker 2>Because that's what caught me off.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't expect her to do well at all. I

0:23:17.190 --> 0:23:19.630
<v Speaker 4>thought she would have been already crying while y'all were

0:23:19.650 --> 0:23:20.550
<v Speaker 4>waiting out there.

0:23:21.310 --> 0:23:23.189
<v Speaker 3>But she looked good. That's what we knew was going

0:23:23.210 --> 0:23:25.220
<v Speaker 3>to be the case. So you get up there. You're

0:23:25.240 --> 0:23:27.379
<v Speaker 3>standing there. We're looking at you. We're like, look at Josh.

0:23:28.040 --> 0:23:28.900
<v Speaker 3>The children come.

0:23:28.920 --> 0:23:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Uh-huh.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, what made you all decide we don't need our

0:23:32.980 --> 0:23:33.920
<v Speaker 4>bridal party anymore?

0:23:34.160 --> 0:23:36.679
<v Speaker 3>To walk down the aisle. Because they were already seated.

0:23:36.920 --> 0:23:38.980
<v Speaker 2>We didn't have a bridal party like that. Or like that.

0:23:39.200 --> 0:23:41.990
<v Speaker 4>Y'all had a best man in a matron of honor

0:23:42.109 --> 0:23:43.409
<v Speaker 4>and they did not walk down the aisle.

0:23:43.450 --> 0:23:44.429
<v Speaker 3>They were seated.

0:23:44.450 --> 0:23:47.010
<v Speaker 2>I think that was... Once we decided we weren't going

0:23:47.030 --> 0:23:49.970
<v Speaker 2>to have a bridal party up there, they were always

0:23:49.990 --> 0:23:52.129
<v Speaker 2>going to be seated. We kind of had the roles

0:23:52.270 --> 0:23:54.850
<v Speaker 2>for the sake of... Not the roles, but like.

0:23:55.230 --> 0:23:55.570
<v Speaker 1>The honor.

0:23:55.670 --> 0:23:56.530
<v Speaker 3>The titles and the honor.

0:23:56.550 --> 0:24:01.060
<v Speaker 2>The honor and the title. And this wasn't even anything

0:24:01.080 --> 0:24:03.340
<v Speaker 2>to them. I think we always wanted a cleaner.

0:24:04.840 --> 0:24:07.320
<v Speaker 2>Because also for the photos, like to frame everybody.

0:24:07.460 --> 0:24:09.800
<v Speaker 1>People are going away from the full bridal party. It's

0:24:09.840 --> 0:24:10.140
<v Speaker 1>a lot.

0:24:10.200 --> 0:24:13.290
<v Speaker 2>And also, that's a lot of suits. That's a lot

0:24:13.369 --> 0:24:16.210
<v Speaker 2>of gifts. That's a lot of this, that, and a third.

0:24:16.270 --> 0:24:17.210
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 5>And if it's not even, then you end up having

0:24:19.530 --> 0:24:22.469
<v Speaker 5>somebody you're not really cool with just to make numbers match.

0:24:23.170 --> 0:24:24.669
<v Speaker 2>You're probably not talking to in 10 years.

0:24:25.380 --> 0:24:26.169
<v Speaker 1>And there you go.

0:24:26.190 --> 0:24:33.640
<v Speaker 2>So... That wasn't like a hard decision like we don't

0:24:33.660 --> 0:24:38.630
<v Speaker 2>want them. It's just not how the dice rolled I think.

0:24:38.750 --> 0:24:44.190
<v Speaker 2>Since we didn't really have a bridal party party per se.

0:24:44.250 --> 0:24:45.390
<v Speaker 2>Besides the roles to your point.

0:24:45.600 --> 0:24:45.859
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:24:46.280 --> 0:24:46.600
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:24:47.100 --> 0:24:49.399
<v Speaker 4>So after the kids came down they did a good job.

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:51.720
<v Speaker 4>I love that y'all made the kids sit down more

0:24:51.740 --> 0:24:53.109
<v Speaker 4>than anything. I said god dang it.

0:24:53.119 --> 0:24:55.900
<v Speaker 3>Yes right. You got your turn. Now sit down because

0:24:55.920 --> 0:25:00.250
<v Speaker 3>it's not about you no more. Then we see off

0:25:00.790 --> 0:25:02.670
<v Speaker 3>in the distance, coming.

0:25:02.250 --> 0:25:05.950
<v Speaker 4>Down like an angel descending from heaven.

0:25:06.070 --> 0:25:09.900
<v Speaker 5>Imara's always been a very beautiful person, but that day

0:25:09.940 --> 0:25:10.740
<v Speaker 5>was like, this.

0:25:10.700 --> 0:25:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Nigga Josh done hit the lottery. Powerball 2.7. I know

0:25:15.619 --> 0:25:16.119
<v Speaker 1>it was!

0:25:16.160 --> 0:25:17.300
<v Speaker 2>She didn't have that hair when I left her in

0:25:17.320 --> 0:25:19.660
<v Speaker 2>the morning.

0:25:20.270 --> 0:25:21.890
<v Speaker 1>Her feet were not on the ground, Angel.

0:25:21.910 --> 0:25:23.530
<v Speaker 3>She was gliding.

0:25:23.710 --> 0:25:25.570
<v Speaker 1>There was no steps. She was like.

0:25:25.590 --> 0:25:27.670
<v Speaker 3>She floated over the lake.

0:25:29.060 --> 0:25:31.610
<v Speaker 1>Floating over the ledge. Over the bridge. I thought she

0:25:31.619 --> 0:25:32.030
<v Speaker 1>was going.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, shoot.

0:25:35.630 --> 0:25:38.369
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Josh. What did you do? I hit a button.

0:25:38.570 --> 0:25:41.169
<v Speaker 1>I can't stand you. Okay, we're back. We're back. Okay, okay.

0:25:41.330 --> 0:25:42.270
<v Speaker 1>I just bumped it.

0:25:42.290 --> 0:25:44.220
<v Speaker 3>This is why I was going to get up.

0:25:44.270 --> 0:25:48.810
<v Speaker 1>I'm stepping back. Because you don't do that. I'm so sorry.

0:25:48.830 --> 0:25:51.090
<v Speaker 2>I just touched it. It's what happens when you cuss, kid.

0:25:52.790 --> 0:25:55.800
<v Speaker 3>So what was your first thought when you saw your bride?

0:25:55.820 --> 0:25:59.159
<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God. Was my first thought. But also, what

0:25:59.180 --> 0:26:01.900
<v Speaker 2>was hard too is I couldn't see her until she

0:26:01.980 --> 0:26:07.720
<v Speaker 2>turned down the middle. Because how close the stage was

0:26:07.940 --> 0:26:13.280
<v Speaker 2>to the aisle and the people, I didn't have that

0:26:13.320 --> 0:26:13.859
<v Speaker 2>line of sight.

0:26:14.060 --> 0:26:14.399
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:26:15.340 --> 0:26:17.300
<v Speaker 2>And I definitely didn't see her come around on that

0:26:17.359 --> 0:26:18.580
<v Speaker 2>first little turn by the bridge.

0:26:18.820 --> 0:26:19.119
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:26:19.359 --> 0:26:21.570
<v Speaker 2>So I genuinely did not really see her until.

0:26:23.310 --> 0:26:25.530
<v Speaker 2>She was turning the corner. And also, during that time

0:26:25.550 --> 0:26:27.770
<v Speaker 2>where everybody's looking at her is when my cameras were

0:26:27.790 --> 0:26:28.189
<v Speaker 2>handed to me.

0:26:28.609 --> 0:26:29.010
<v Speaker 1>Oh, yes.

0:26:29.050 --> 0:26:31.090
<v Speaker 2>So that was always a plan of like, how do

0:26:31.109 --> 0:26:33.790
<v Speaker 2>I get my cameras to me without it being a

0:26:33.850 --> 0:26:34.860
<v Speaker 2>thing and like people.

0:26:35.800 --> 0:26:37.740
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I didn't even know. When I turned back around,

0:26:37.800 --> 0:26:38.980
<v Speaker 1>you had your camera in your hand. Yeah, yeah.

0:26:39.140 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 3>Because I did.

0:26:39.840 --> 0:26:41.210
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, who brought it to you?

0:26:41.220 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to... My best man's wife, McKenna.

0:26:44.430 --> 0:26:46.650
<v Speaker 1>That's good, because when I turned around, you were like,

0:26:46.670 --> 0:26:49.050
<v Speaker 1>and then I was like, he's taking a picture of her.

0:26:49.410 --> 0:26:51.990
<v Speaker 1>That's when I first cried. When I saw you see

0:26:52.030 --> 0:26:55.990
<v Speaker 1>her and you did this, I said, oh, no. The

0:26:56.030 --> 0:26:57.330
<v Speaker 1>baby's done grown up.

0:26:57.430 --> 0:27:01.080
<v Speaker 2>As she turned, I felt the water glaze my eye,

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:02.160
<v Speaker 2>and I looked in the viewfinder.

0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:03.360
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I can't see shit.

0:27:03.380 --> 0:27:04.189
<v Speaker 2>I can't even see.

0:27:04.220 --> 0:27:06.820
<v Speaker 1>I can't see shit. Why is it raining? Get out

0:27:06.900 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 1>of focus.

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:11.090
<v Speaker 2>But I look, and there's a... one of the content

0:27:11.109 --> 0:27:14.109
<v Speaker 2>creators got me because i remember saying like oh my

0:27:14.150 --> 0:27:16.869
<v Speaker 2>god like as like she turned and that's when i

0:27:16.910 --> 0:27:18.649
<v Speaker 2>put the camera up but i read that on my

0:27:18.690 --> 0:27:23.930
<v Speaker 2>lips um no and then i quickly got uh two

0:27:23.990 --> 0:27:27.030
<v Speaker 2>or three film photos and then two or three the

0:27:27.050 --> 0:27:28.389
<v Speaker 2>digital ones the digital ones are the ones that i

0:27:28.410 --> 0:27:32.210
<v Speaker 2>posted i slept to get the film ones but um

0:27:32.710 --> 0:27:33.490
<v Speaker 2>overwhelming though.

0:27:33.609 --> 0:27:36.730
<v Speaker 5>Or did those feel like I know when you take

0:27:36.770 --> 0:27:39.570
<v Speaker 5>like photos of like concerts, you feel like the moment, did.

0:27:39.470 --> 0:27:42.030
<v Speaker 1>That feel like, yes. Okay.

0:27:42.390 --> 0:27:45.159
<v Speaker 2>That, that felt like, I'm so happy I got to

0:27:45.180 --> 0:27:47.359
<v Speaker 2>take this photo. And I try to touch on that

0:27:47.420 --> 0:27:50.730
<v Speaker 2>feeling in the caption of the photo. When I posted it,

0:27:51.600 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 2>there's a lot. And that's something that I've just learned

0:27:53.580 --> 0:27:57.300
<v Speaker 2>through photography. Like there are certain moments that like, Oh dang,

0:27:57.320 --> 0:27:58.580
<v Speaker 2>I wish I got a moment of this. Cause I

0:27:58.619 --> 0:28:00.940
<v Speaker 2>wanted to remember how this fully felt.

0:28:01.050 --> 0:28:02.669
<v Speaker 1>Just the memory of it. Yeah.

0:28:03.270 --> 0:28:06.280
<v Speaker 2>Um, And a lot of times I don't get that perspective.

0:28:07.420 --> 0:28:11.159
<v Speaker 2>Or I get other people's perspectives of them looking wherever

0:28:11.440 --> 0:28:14.820
<v Speaker 2>or those kind of moments. But this was... a canon

0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:17.060
<v Speaker 2>moment of like, Imar looking at me too.

0:28:17.220 --> 0:28:19.480
<v Speaker 3>That's what I was, that's the part that got me.

0:28:19.619 --> 0:28:24.270
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's you, her, her, you. Yes. Love. Distance closing.

0:28:24.290 --> 0:28:31.689
<v Speaker 1>Everything we've been through. Macaroons! I'm getting teary eyed again.

0:28:31.790 --> 0:28:33.290
<v Speaker 1>I just was like, y'all did it.

0:28:33.490 --> 0:28:36.230
<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh she loves this part of him

0:28:36.330 --> 0:28:39.530
<v Speaker 3>too she was just cheesing at you like my my

0:28:39.570 --> 0:28:43.160
<v Speaker 3>husband's taking my picture even when i introduced.

0:28:42.840 --> 0:28:45.900
<v Speaker 2>The idea i was almost hesitant of it because like

0:28:47.020 --> 0:28:49.520
<v Speaker 2>in my in my head i didn't want to interrupt

0:28:49.640 --> 0:28:53.050
<v Speaker 2>the overall moment and and like i i wrestled with

0:28:53.090 --> 0:28:54.770
<v Speaker 2>it because i didn't want to fully take myself out

0:28:54.810 --> 0:28:56.890
<v Speaker 2>of it but i realized that i didn't because um

0:28:59.240 --> 0:29:00.220
<v Speaker 2>It was still my moment there.

0:29:00.260 --> 0:29:03.000
<v Speaker 1>For sure. And it's your day. Literally.

0:29:03.080 --> 0:29:06.200
<v Speaker 5>Like, you get to do whatever TF you want to

0:29:06.220 --> 0:29:09.010
<v Speaker 5>because it's you and her day.

0:29:09.650 --> 0:29:11.970
<v Speaker 2>But she also was like, I'm not... She's like, I think...

0:29:11.830 --> 0:29:13.950
<v Speaker 2>I don't remember exactly how she said it, but she

0:29:13.990 --> 0:29:16.110
<v Speaker 2>wasn't opposed to it. And that's when I was like, oh,

0:29:16.130 --> 0:29:17.790
<v Speaker 2>then I have to... Like, I have to do it

0:29:17.850 --> 0:29:18.170
<v Speaker 2>for me.

0:29:18.430 --> 0:29:21.270
<v Speaker 3>I got to do it. Because she just was smiling

0:29:21.350 --> 0:29:22.130
<v Speaker 3>at you like.

0:29:22.270 --> 0:29:22.910
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:29:23.070 --> 0:29:25.790
<v Speaker 2>Well, the thing was, too, is... There was supposed to

0:29:25.810 --> 0:29:27.890
<v Speaker 2>be other moments, but like, it is never, she's supposed

0:29:27.920 --> 0:29:32.340
<v Speaker 2>to stop in the middle, one by herself, but like

0:29:32.380 --> 0:29:34.280
<v Speaker 2>I said, everything just, we didn't do any of the

0:29:34.300 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 2>stuff we were supposed to do.

0:29:35.460 --> 0:29:36.090
<v Speaker 3>That's okay.

0:29:36.150 --> 0:29:37.390
<v Speaker 2>With the handoff or the handshake.

0:29:37.430 --> 0:29:37.810
<v Speaker 1>On the day.

0:29:37.830 --> 0:29:38.510
<v Speaker 2>None of that happened.

0:29:38.650 --> 0:29:38.910
<v Speaker 3>I know.

0:29:39.110 --> 0:29:39.530
<v Speaker 1>On the day.

0:29:39.550 --> 0:29:41.040
<v Speaker 3>On the day. talking about with you and the dad?

0:29:41.280 --> 0:29:42.020
<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah. Oh, no.

0:29:42.080 --> 0:29:48.290
<v Speaker 3>I noticed that. He was like, she's mine already. You

0:29:48.350 --> 0:29:50.710
<v Speaker 3>are just the formality right now. Everything that we were

0:29:50.730 --> 0:29:52.130
<v Speaker 3>supposed to do went out the window, but.

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:55.900
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<v Speaker 2>I'm so glad that, and I think it's also too, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so glad that I also got to have that

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<v Speaker 2>There's so many times where I hear grooms saying like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it was outer body and I kind of blacked out.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything felt like a blur.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:32:53.710 --> 0:32:56.430
<v Speaker 2>That is like the few seconds before and after that,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I could forget. So I'm grateful that

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<v Speaker 4>It was beautiful so you at the altar now with

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:10.160
<v Speaker 4>your with your bride uh um mark said a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of really great things before and enduring to really set

0:33:15.790 --> 0:33:18.630
<v Speaker 4>the mood and to really like set the foundation of

0:33:19.110 --> 0:33:23.070
<v Speaker 4>like how you all wanted your love to be represented

0:33:23.910 --> 0:33:28.660
<v Speaker 4>to us um so kudos to him But I want

0:33:28.680 --> 0:33:31.600
<v Speaker 4>to jump to you all's vows. You all had them

0:33:31.620 --> 0:33:33.959
<v Speaker 4>written in these beautiful little green books.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God. Before we get to that.

0:33:35.980 --> 0:33:36.500
<v Speaker 3>Go, please.

0:33:38.020 --> 0:33:40.760
<v Speaker 2>What took me so long to start getting ready was

0:33:40.820 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 2>I lied to myself saying that writing those vows was

0:33:43.480 --> 0:33:46.460
<v Speaker 2>only going to take five minutes. Not from scratch. I

0:33:46.500 --> 0:33:55.510
<v Speaker 2>had them in my phone. People were... People were.

0:33:59.650 --> 0:34:00.530
<v Speaker 2>They wanted it handwritten.

0:34:00.930 --> 0:34:02.370
<v Speaker 3>Okay. That's what I, uh-huh.

0:34:02.870 --> 0:34:07.310
<v Speaker 2>People wanted, people wanted it handwritten. So, I was like, cool.

0:34:07.690 --> 0:34:10.770
<v Speaker 2>It's 2.15. Let me, let me knock this. I only

0:34:10.810 --> 0:34:12.930
<v Speaker 2>need 10 minutes. I'll be even early for my 2.30.

0:34:12.910 --> 0:34:13.370
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:34:14.590 --> 0:34:17.770
<v Speaker 2>I start at 2.15. It takes me 30 minutes to

0:34:17.890 --> 0:34:21.950
<v Speaker 2>rewrite what's already written in my phone. Yeah. In the booklet.

0:34:21.989 --> 0:34:22.189
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:34:22.510 --> 0:34:25.830
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And I was like, now if I'm late, I'm wrong. Yeah.

0:34:25.969 --> 0:34:28.290
<v Speaker 1>Because I'm writing the things in the booklet. Yep.

0:34:28.950 --> 0:34:33.790
<v Speaker 2>Um, So that was a quick backstory with getting those in.

0:34:33.810 --> 0:34:35.450
<v Speaker 2>Because also, I was going to write those the night

0:34:35.469 --> 0:34:37.069
<v Speaker 2>before in the booklet. But I was like, I feel

0:34:37.090 --> 0:34:39.239
<v Speaker 2>like I'm going to need stuff to, not stuff to do.

0:34:39.260 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm going to want to do that

0:34:41.260 --> 0:34:41.840
<v Speaker 2>the day of.

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:43.000
<v Speaker 1>And I did.

0:34:43.460 --> 0:34:47.640
<v Speaker 2>And it took way longer to transfer it over.

0:34:47.660 --> 0:34:50.620
<v Speaker 3>Hammering can take a lot. It's a whole muscle. And

0:34:50.640 --> 0:34:52.840
<v Speaker 3>if you're not using it a lot, you get cramps.

0:34:52.880 --> 0:34:57.470
<v Speaker 1>It took even longer to say them. I was like,

0:34:57.850 --> 0:34:59.189
<v Speaker 1>just get through it, Josh.

0:34:59.230 --> 0:34:59.489
<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah.

0:35:00.390 --> 0:35:03.950
<v Speaker 4>Let's talk about that because you cried big time through

0:35:03.989 --> 0:35:06.630
<v Speaker 4>them vows.

0:35:06.730 --> 0:35:10.570
<v Speaker 2>So back to the early tears, walking my mom down

0:35:10.590 --> 0:35:18.580
<v Speaker 2>that offset my emotional trajectory. There was a point in

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:20.660
<v Speaker 2>my vows when I was writing them and reading them

0:35:20.700 --> 0:35:22.339
<v Speaker 2>back when I was like not practicing them, just really

0:35:22.360 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 2>just going over them for timing because the point was

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:25.060
<v Speaker 2>never to memorize them.

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:26.060
<v Speaker 1>For sure.

0:35:27.360 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 2>There was a point like halfway through when I started

0:35:30.120 --> 0:35:32.700
<v Speaker 2>talking about like her patience with me and work sometimes,

0:35:33.700 --> 0:35:35.520
<v Speaker 2>and that's where I got emotional because I feel like

0:35:35.560 --> 0:35:43.140
<v Speaker 2>that is, um, a continuous hill that we cycle through.

0:35:44.780 --> 0:35:47.980
<v Speaker 2>And that's, that's where I start tearing up when I

0:35:48.000 --> 0:35:50.140
<v Speaker 2>was reading in the practice.

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:50.980
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:35:51.360 --> 0:35:55.340
<v Speaker 2>So when, when my emotional trajectory was offset early and

0:35:55.469 --> 0:35:59.020
<v Speaker 2>I'd started crying after the first three sentences i was

0:35:59.040 --> 0:36:02.710
<v Speaker 2>like oh this is this is gonna be this is

0:36:02.750 --> 0:36:03.149
<v Speaker 2>gonna be.

0:36:03.070 --> 0:36:06.029
<v Speaker 5>Tricky your mind is connecting to that part of your

0:36:06.170 --> 0:36:09.410
<v Speaker 5>heart man and they are you you are like speaking

0:36:09.550 --> 0:36:10.670
<v Speaker 5>from your heart.

0:36:10.590 --> 0:36:13.000
<v Speaker 2>And it's also the first time i'm reading these words

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:14.920
<v Speaker 2>to the woman that they're supposed to.

0:36:14.900 --> 0:36:17.400
<v Speaker 5>Be written and there you go now it's not theoretical

0:36:17.480 --> 0:36:18.939
<v Speaker 5>and i look up and she's.

0:36:18.600 --> 0:36:21.570
<v Speaker 6>Just like and now your mind going back to the

0:36:21.610 --> 0:36:27.779
<v Speaker 6>memories of when she did it all the outcomes of

0:36:27.820 --> 0:36:29.080
<v Speaker 6>me not stopping to.

0:36:29.010 --> 0:36:33.250
<v Speaker 3>Cry more yeah it wasn't happening.

0:36:36.230 --> 0:36:39.489
<v Speaker 2>But yeah the vows I wanted to do my best

0:36:39.510 --> 0:36:40.710
<v Speaker 2>because also I knew it was going to help me

0:36:40.730 --> 0:36:42.649
<v Speaker 2>through to.

0:36:45.700 --> 0:36:46.460
<v Speaker 1>Keep it.

0:36:48.120 --> 0:36:52.489
<v Speaker 2>Me without it being too light yeah yeah without it

0:36:52.510 --> 0:36:57.270
<v Speaker 2>being too long. And why say light? Like, to have

0:36:57.290 --> 0:36:58.859
<v Speaker 2>my sense of humor in it, but also I didn't

0:36:58.890 --> 0:37:00.540
<v Speaker 2>want it to just be, like, a sense of humor.

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:03.700
<v Speaker 1>What happened, Kev? You okay? No, I was reading the comments. Okay, cool.

0:37:03.739 --> 0:37:04.379
<v Speaker 1>Marla's in here.

0:37:04.640 --> 0:37:06.620
<v Speaker 2>Oh, is she? Yeah. Oh, wow, that's a first-timer.

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:09.450
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, first-timer, welcome. Welcome to the family.

0:37:09.469 --> 0:37:09.529
<v Speaker 5>So.

0:37:12.410 --> 0:37:15.690
<v Speaker 2>I was trying to do all that within three to

0:37:15.830 --> 0:37:18.380
<v Speaker 2>five-ish minutes at max. And not for the sake of

0:37:18.620 --> 0:37:20.400
<v Speaker 2>just trying to get through it. For sure. I just

0:37:20.420 --> 0:37:23.759
<v Speaker 2>didn't want to be up there reading a dissertation for

0:37:23.800 --> 0:37:24.239
<v Speaker 2>that long.

0:37:25.380 --> 0:37:28.290
<v Speaker 5>I think you guys both took a good amount of time.

0:37:28.350 --> 0:37:30.469
<v Speaker 5>It never felt like... First of all, the people there

0:37:30.489 --> 0:37:33.509
<v Speaker 5>for you, we got nowhere to go. And we've been

0:37:33.530 --> 0:37:34.510
<v Speaker 5>waiting for this.

0:37:34.570 --> 0:37:35.760
<v Speaker 3>He said, it's also hot.

0:37:35.820 --> 0:37:36.439
<v Speaker 1>It was hot.

0:37:36.460 --> 0:37:38.700
<v Speaker 3>But we had already gotten used to it. We had

0:37:38.739 --> 0:37:39.160
<v Speaker 3>been hot.

0:37:39.440 --> 0:37:41.920
<v Speaker 1>And you had the things. And a lot of black

0:37:41.940 --> 0:37:44.280
<v Speaker 1>women had them little fans. We were good. We was listening.

0:37:45.040 --> 0:37:48.690
<v Speaker 4>Just as a side note, what I did, because I

0:37:48.710 --> 0:37:52.169
<v Speaker 4>had been in and been to many a wedding, and

0:37:52.390 --> 0:37:53.730
<v Speaker 4>you all cut to the chase.

0:37:54.130 --> 0:37:54.850
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:37:54.910 --> 0:37:56.050
<v Speaker 3>That's what I like.

0:37:56.390 --> 0:38:00.370
<v Speaker 4>I said, oh, nobody's singing. Nobody's doing an extra long prayer.

0:38:00.390 --> 0:38:01.910
<v Speaker 4>We already at the vows.

0:38:02.030 --> 0:38:02.890
<v Speaker 1>No praise dance.

0:38:03.489 --> 0:38:06.480
<v Speaker 3>We were at the vows at 435. The wedding started

0:38:06.739 --> 0:38:07.380
<v Speaker 3>at 430.

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:08.200
<v Speaker 1>We're here.

0:38:08.219 --> 0:38:08.299
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:09.940
<v Speaker 3>I loved it.

0:38:10.280 --> 0:38:13.640
<v Speaker 2>That was, I mean, that wasn't always our, something that

0:38:13.660 --> 0:38:15.430
<v Speaker 2>was going to be important to us, but we didn't

0:38:15.469 --> 0:38:20.530
<v Speaker 2>want that ceremony to go 30 minutes and feel 30 minutes.

0:38:20.870 --> 0:38:22.569
<v Speaker 2>We're like, if it can be 20 to 30, cool.

0:38:22.590 --> 0:38:24.109
<v Speaker 2>But if it goes a little over cool, as long

0:38:24.130 --> 0:38:26.250
<v Speaker 2>as it doesn't feel like we're doing a lot of

0:38:26.290 --> 0:38:30.390
<v Speaker 2>rituals just to check the ritual boxes. Um, and not

0:38:30.430 --> 0:38:34.260
<v Speaker 2>to be necessarily for things that we don't like fully

0:38:34.320 --> 0:38:41.100
<v Speaker 2>align with, but, um, like we wanted to for sure

0:38:41.140 --> 0:38:45.180
<v Speaker 2>have one or two prayers just to at least have

0:38:45.239 --> 0:38:48.400
<v Speaker 2>like that as the base of, um, The ceremony without

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:49.620
<v Speaker 2>it feeling like a church ceremony.

0:38:50.100 --> 0:38:52.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It's good.

0:38:52.320 --> 0:38:55.180
<v Speaker 4>That's why y'all's vows being longer did not feel like,

0:38:56.180 --> 0:38:58.280
<v Speaker 4>you niggas couldn't say this last night to each other.

0:38:58.450 --> 0:39:00.450
<v Speaker 4>It felt fine because there wasn't a whole bunch of

0:39:00.570 --> 0:39:01.549
<v Speaker 4>other stuff we had to sit.

0:39:01.510 --> 0:39:02.190
<v Speaker 3>Through to get to that moment.

0:39:02.210 --> 0:39:04.009
<v Speaker 1>You focused on the things that were important to you.

0:39:04.170 --> 0:39:04.390
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:39:04.410 --> 0:39:05.489
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's what it felt like.

0:39:05.510 --> 0:39:07.290
<v Speaker 1>Therefore, it was like, yeah, take your time.

0:39:07.890 --> 0:39:10.450
<v Speaker 2>Also, I wasn't trying to write the vows and have 30%

0:39:10.450 --> 0:39:13.029
<v Speaker 2>of it just be like the traditional.

0:39:13.050 --> 0:39:14.390
<v Speaker 1>For sure. Both of y'all felt very....

0:39:16.489 --> 0:39:20.680
<v Speaker 5>Personal to you as people. They reflected your personality, but

0:39:20.700 --> 0:39:22.680
<v Speaker 5>it also reflected your love for each other.

0:39:22.960 --> 0:39:23.180
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:39:23.280 --> 0:39:26.330
<v Speaker 1>Which I think a lot of times it doesn't, it's

0:39:26.430 --> 0:39:27.210
<v Speaker 1>not always that.

0:39:27.730 --> 0:39:30.530
<v Speaker 4>How did you feel hearing Imara say that? her words

0:39:30.590 --> 0:39:32.000
<v Speaker 4>about you you.

0:39:31.960 --> 0:39:37.219
<v Speaker 2>Know what's funny is like she because she asked me

0:39:37.280 --> 0:39:39.520
<v Speaker 2>like in terms of not the writing style right but

0:39:39.600 --> 0:39:40.739
<v Speaker 2>I was like I think that's the first time I

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:43.680
<v Speaker 2>heard you like as a writer and heard that like

0:39:43.739 --> 0:39:47.040
<v Speaker 2>creative side of you and let alone it be attached

0:39:47.080 --> 0:39:49.560
<v Speaker 2>to like your emotion like not your emotions but like

0:39:50.530 --> 0:39:54.750
<v Speaker 2>what you think about me so it was not a

0:39:54.810 --> 0:39:59.630
<v Speaker 2>lot it was like it was very eye-opening and also

0:39:59.670 --> 0:40:03.150
<v Speaker 2>like a crazy affirmation real time of like dang this

0:40:03.210 --> 0:40:08.129
<v Speaker 2>is really like where i'm where i feel like where

0:40:08.170 --> 0:40:11.250
<v Speaker 2>i feel like very like safe and supposed.

0:40:10.989 --> 0:40:13.600
<v Speaker 3>To be Mm-hmm. That's beautiful.

0:40:14.020 --> 0:40:15.969
<v Speaker 1>I'll cry right now. I almost did. Oh, no, he did.

0:40:16.070 --> 0:40:17.359
<v Speaker 3>I was like, go ahead.

0:40:17.680 --> 0:40:19.190
<v Speaker 1>I'll cry right now.

0:40:19.270 --> 0:40:21.710
<v Speaker 2>And I had to look away because Angel, she gave

0:40:21.730 --> 0:40:22.009
<v Speaker 2>me that.

0:40:22.110 --> 0:40:24.890
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Angel gonna try to pull you in. That's what

0:40:24.910 --> 0:40:25.750
<v Speaker 1>she loves.

0:40:25.810 --> 0:40:26.090
<v Speaker 5>Mm-hmm.

0:40:26.130 --> 0:40:28.129
<v Speaker 3>Let's get there. Let's get there.

0:40:28.150 --> 0:40:31.430
<v Speaker 2>No, because, like, her words, like, I didn't expect, not

0:40:31.469 --> 0:40:34.750
<v Speaker 2>that I didn't expect to hear what she said or

0:40:34.790 --> 0:40:38.210
<v Speaker 2>what she wrote, but, like, those were all, like, not

0:40:38.250 --> 0:40:40.410
<v Speaker 2>things that she hadn't fully said to me before, but, like,

0:40:41.540 --> 0:40:43.890
<v Speaker 2>deeper lines of what she meant by the things that

0:40:43.930 --> 0:40:44.810
<v Speaker 2>she said to me. Yeah.

0:40:44.890 --> 0:40:48.259
<v Speaker 5>And he also hit different in the, like the, the,

0:40:48.920 --> 0:40:50.860
<v Speaker 5>The weight of the moment.

0:40:51.520 --> 0:40:54.939
<v Speaker 1>It's like them words are like, boom, love. Your mind's

0:40:54.980 --> 0:40:56.260
<v Speaker 1>going back to the memory.

0:40:56.320 --> 0:40:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Battleship.

0:40:57.120 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 1>Battleship. Your brain is pulling all those things. They all

0:41:00.620 --> 0:41:01.360
<v Speaker 1>feel real.

0:41:01.460 --> 0:41:03.980
<v Speaker 5>And then it's also like this is really happening. And

0:41:04.040 --> 0:41:08.180
<v Speaker 5>then the people that you love are there just smiling.

0:41:08.210 --> 0:41:10.850
<v Speaker 3>Because y'all basically up there naked, which is holding y'all's

0:41:10.870 --> 0:41:11.750
<v Speaker 3>heart and being like.

0:41:14.250 --> 0:41:19.690
<v Speaker 3>This is what i feel fully about him.

0:41:18.710 --> 0:41:21.670
<v Speaker 2>That's what i thought about too not necessarily like i

0:41:21.710 --> 0:41:23.759
<v Speaker 2>changed the way i wrote the vows at all i

0:41:23.820 --> 0:41:25.799
<v Speaker 2>didn't but i was like dang these are gonna be

0:41:25.840 --> 0:41:28.700
<v Speaker 2>like words that i'm reading in front of everybody close

0:41:28.719 --> 0:41:32.500
<v Speaker 2>to me yes um because i think we talked about

0:41:32.540 --> 0:41:34.180
<v Speaker 2>it uh imar and i and i can't remember if

0:41:34.219 --> 0:41:36.700
<v Speaker 2>it was first like for sure of like how i

0:41:36.750 --> 0:41:40.760
<v Speaker 2>felt with doing that um And I was like, honestly,

0:41:40.800 --> 0:41:42.379
<v Speaker 2>I don't even think I'm going to be thinking about

0:41:42.420 --> 0:41:43.180
<v Speaker 2>them like that.

0:41:43.260 --> 0:41:43.580
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:41:43.820 --> 0:41:47.140
<v Speaker 2>Cause up there, it's really just like, it's just us.

0:41:47.219 --> 0:41:48.890
<v Speaker 2>I mean, our people are here, but it's also not

0:41:48.950 --> 0:41:51.029
<v Speaker 2>stuff that like, I wouldn't necessarily say in front of

0:41:51.070 --> 0:41:58.450
<v Speaker 2>them generally. Um, but yeah, I will like when I, uh,

0:41:58.610 --> 0:42:00.370
<v Speaker 2>when I was reading my vows and I started crying, crying,

0:42:01.489 --> 0:42:03.430
<v Speaker 2>I had, I literally told myself, I was like, Josh,

0:42:03.450 --> 0:42:06.910
<v Speaker 2>you have to take a break. And like, I was like,

0:42:06.930 --> 0:42:08.750
<v Speaker 2>the only way you know how to is to like,

0:42:09.340 --> 0:42:12.980
<v Speaker 2>not make it funny, but like defuse with humor, defuse.

0:42:13.340 --> 0:42:15.979
<v Speaker 2>Cause that's also for me, everybody's reaction was even better.

0:42:16.060 --> 0:42:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Cause I was like, Oh, that, that even, that puts

0:42:18.040 --> 0:42:19.420
<v Speaker 2>a more of a battery in my back to take

0:42:19.460 --> 0:42:25.049
<v Speaker 2>a break and lock back in. But, uh, that was great.

0:42:25.150 --> 0:42:29.330
<v Speaker 2>I wish we got, um, I didn't think I really

0:42:29.390 --> 0:42:32.770
<v Speaker 2>wanted our vows to be recorded and we got it

0:42:32.830 --> 0:42:36.310
<v Speaker 2>on camera. I just wish we like did it good.

0:42:37.120 --> 0:42:39.239
<v Speaker 3>Like I had sound or what you mean?

0:42:39.320 --> 0:42:41.020
<v Speaker 2>Had like three cams and sound.

0:42:41.239 --> 0:42:44.690
<v Speaker 4>No, like really, really captured it. What made you not

0:42:44.730 --> 0:42:46.410
<v Speaker 4>do that in the beginning? You just thought you wanted

0:42:46.430 --> 0:42:47.509
<v Speaker 4>in the moment or.

0:42:47.550 --> 0:42:49.549
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we wanted to be really present for all that.

0:42:49.570 --> 0:42:51.870
<v Speaker 2>And also we never, we never really like wanted to

0:42:51.969 --> 0:42:56.259
<v Speaker 2>record our stuff. Like at least those, like that part

0:42:56.300 --> 0:42:58.640
<v Speaker 2>of it, just to be able to post it. But

0:42:58.680 --> 0:42:59.819
<v Speaker 2>a part of me is just like, dang, I wish

0:42:59.840 --> 0:43:00.520
<v Speaker 2>we just got that.

0:43:00.860 --> 0:43:02.080
<v Speaker 3>Just so y'all can have it.

0:43:02.140 --> 0:43:02.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:43:03.140 --> 0:43:04.839
<v Speaker 2>Um, But yeah.

0:43:04.950 --> 0:43:06.509
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure Tony has it on his phone.

0:43:06.590 --> 0:43:06.969
<v Speaker 1>Oh, he might.

0:43:07.030 --> 0:43:08.750
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure somebody does.

0:43:09.250 --> 0:43:10.390
<v Speaker 2>He's probably got all the angles.

0:43:10.410 --> 0:43:12.410
<v Speaker 1>If anybody does, Tony Baker has it.

0:43:12.430 --> 0:43:13.310
<v Speaker 3>Jeez Louise.

0:43:14.030 --> 0:43:14.529
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, go ahead.

0:43:14.969 --> 0:43:20.180
<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you all do your vows. The prayer happens.

0:43:20.280 --> 0:43:22.480
<v Speaker 4>You are now husband and wife.

0:43:22.700 --> 0:43:22.819
<v Speaker 1>Uh-huh.

0:43:23.600 --> 0:43:26.140
<v Speaker 3>Where is Josh in his head?

0:43:27.540 --> 0:43:29.969
<v Speaker 2>Like, oh my God. It was, it was, and I

0:43:30.010 --> 0:43:31.910
<v Speaker 2>think that's also part of it too, is like, I

0:43:31.930 --> 0:43:33.509
<v Speaker 2>worked a few weddings over the last couple years.

0:43:33.910 --> 0:43:34.029
<v Speaker 1>Mm-hmm.

0:43:34.750 --> 0:43:39.130
<v Speaker 2>And it always feels so different watching it. But being like...

0:43:39.570 --> 0:43:46.700
<v Speaker 2>It being yours... And looking around and seeing everybody in

0:43:46.739 --> 0:43:54.220
<v Speaker 2>that intimate little aisle, it was really cool because you're like, dang,

0:43:55.020 --> 0:43:56.370
<v Speaker 2>these are really the people that are rooting for us.

0:43:57.580 --> 0:43:57.739
<v Speaker 3>And.

0:43:57.760 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was just really cool. It was very.

0:44:07.230 --> 0:44:09.730
<v Speaker 2>That was an outer body too. At least like walking

0:44:09.790 --> 0:44:14.049
<v Speaker 2>through to like the concrete of the artificial grass. But

0:44:14.150 --> 0:44:16.450
<v Speaker 2>it was very, I don't want to say uplifting. It

0:44:16.469 --> 0:44:19.009
<v Speaker 2>was just very, I don't want to keep saying outer

0:44:19.030 --> 0:44:20.410
<v Speaker 2>body either, but it just felt like.

0:44:20.770 --> 0:44:22.950
<v Speaker 3>I could believe outer body would describe it though.

0:44:25.450 --> 0:44:27.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it felt crazy. Like I don't know how to,

0:44:28.090 --> 0:44:30.600
<v Speaker 2>I really don't know how to describe that feeling of

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:31.319
<v Speaker 2>walking through there.

0:44:31.340 --> 0:44:31.960
<v Speaker 3>Mm-hmm.

0:44:33.190 --> 0:44:36.050
<v Speaker 4>Y'all never looked more like children to me than y'all's wedding.

0:44:36.670 --> 0:44:40.690
<v Speaker 4>I was like, these are babies marrying each other. As

0:44:40.790 --> 0:44:43.560
<v Speaker 4>gorgeous and as sexy as Imara looked, I was like,

0:44:43.620 --> 0:44:44.260
<v Speaker 4>what is this.

0:44:44.140 --> 0:44:50.200
<v Speaker 3>12-year-old girl doing? Married my nephew, who's only 15. Y'all

0:44:50.260 --> 0:44:52.149
<v Speaker 3>looked like children.

0:44:52.450 --> 0:44:55.530
<v Speaker 1>Y'all was going to get on and ride bikes home. Yes.

0:44:56.570 --> 0:44:57.310
<v Speaker 1>Y'all looked so.

0:44:57.350 --> 0:45:01.300
<v Speaker 4>I mean, it's not that I don't respect y'all as adults.

0:45:01.440 --> 0:45:03.760
<v Speaker 4>It was just, I think, because y'all's love is so young.

0:45:04.380 --> 0:45:06.259
<v Speaker 4>And like, there was such innocence.

0:45:06.620 --> 0:45:07.919
<v Speaker 1>And purity.

0:45:08.060 --> 0:45:09.950
<v Speaker 3>Yes, that I was like, these are babies.

0:45:09.969 --> 0:45:14.230
<v Speaker 1>It was very much Sadie Hawkins' dance. Yes, come on, man.

0:45:14.270 --> 0:45:16.190
<v Speaker 1>That man 33 years old, and we like, look at

0:45:16.210 --> 0:45:17.049
<v Speaker 1>that baby.

0:45:17.210 --> 0:45:17.850
<v Speaker 3>I know.

0:45:17.890 --> 0:45:18.930
<v Speaker 1>Just children.

0:45:19.150 --> 0:45:19.660
<v Speaker 3>And truly.

0:45:19.719 --> 0:45:22.180
<v Speaker 1>Went behind the ear. I mean, let me bounce you

0:45:22.239 --> 0:45:25.700
<v Speaker 1>on my knee, Joshie. Man got a mortgage. I know it.

0:45:25.940 --> 0:45:28.080
<v Speaker 1>I know it. Homeowner for five years.

0:45:28.140 --> 0:45:30.400
<v Speaker 3>I was like, how are they doing this with school?

0:45:32.090 --> 0:45:35.350
<v Speaker 4>You got a biology exam next.

0:45:35.550 --> 0:45:36.370
<v Speaker 3>What is going on?

0:45:36.550 --> 0:45:37.290
<v Speaker 2>It's a school night.

0:45:37.430 --> 0:45:42.270
<v Speaker 3>Yes, it was. Are they doing this with school?

0:45:42.310 --> 0:45:44.960
<v Speaker 5>Y'all know y'all staying up till 10 and y'all got

0:45:44.980 --> 0:45:45.700
<v Speaker 5>school in the morning.

0:45:45.760 --> 0:45:50.759
<v Speaker 4>Who drove y'all here? I forgot to ask this. What

0:45:50.780 --> 0:45:52.300
<v Speaker 4>did you think of Imara's look?

0:45:52.460 --> 0:45:54.359
<v Speaker 3>The dress? Because you hadn't seen any of it. What

0:45:54.380 --> 0:45:55.280
<v Speaker 3>did you think of all of that?

0:45:55.510 --> 0:45:59.569
<v Speaker 2>I told her... I knew she was going to have

0:45:59.630 --> 0:46:02.210
<v Speaker 2>more of a vintage lace feel, but for me, I

0:46:02.250 --> 0:46:05.980
<v Speaker 2>thought it was going to be something more just on

0:46:06.020 --> 0:46:10.140
<v Speaker 2>the train or on the bottom of her dress. I

0:46:10.160 --> 0:46:13.540
<v Speaker 2>didn't think it was going to be like... I had

0:46:13.580 --> 0:46:15.259
<v Speaker 2>a feeling she was going to have a little shoulder out,

0:46:17.450 --> 0:46:23.460
<v Speaker 2>but I couldn't have imagined... a dress like that at all.

0:46:23.480 --> 0:46:25.920
<v Speaker 4>She went full sexy you can see through her dress

0:46:25.960 --> 0:46:28.899
<v Speaker 4>i said you better show your body girl that's right

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:31.280
<v Speaker 4>we ain't in no church let's see it all girl

0:46:31.540 --> 0:46:35.969
<v Speaker 4>she looks so freaking gorgeous she looks so good okay

0:46:35.989 --> 0:46:40.989
<v Speaker 4>let's let's jump to the um the photos.

0:46:40.610 --> 0:46:42.690
<v Speaker 3>In the cocktail hour we were in the cocktail hour.

0:46:42.530 --> 0:46:44.569
<v Speaker 4>Which was great because we did need a reprieve from

0:46:44.590 --> 0:46:48.230
<v Speaker 4>the heat And I was like, oh, these niggas got money.

0:46:48.290 --> 0:46:49.169
<v Speaker 3>This is an open bar.

0:46:49.190 --> 0:46:50.250
<v Speaker 1>Drinks were flowing.

0:46:50.430 --> 0:46:51.069
<v Speaker 3>Oh, my God.

0:46:51.110 --> 0:46:54.299
<v Speaker 1>Signature cocktails were getting drunk like water. Oh, my God.

0:46:54.380 --> 0:46:58.540
<v Speaker 4>I had so many spicy margaritas.

0:46:58.580 --> 0:47:00.760
<v Speaker 3>Give it to me right that day.

0:47:00.940 --> 0:47:01.780
<v Speaker 1>Oh, nah.

0:47:02.340 --> 0:47:04.440
<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, Josh is rich. I knew it.

0:47:04.960 --> 0:47:05.310
<v Speaker 3>I knew it.

0:47:05.660 --> 0:47:05.860
<v Speaker 1>Oh, no.

0:47:05.860 --> 0:47:08.399
<v Speaker 2>That was the middle tier. That was the middle tier

0:47:08.420 --> 0:47:09.960
<v Speaker 2>of three. Shit.

0:47:10.020 --> 0:47:12.100
<v Speaker 3>I had no tier when we got married. We said,

0:47:12.140 --> 0:47:14.100
<v Speaker 3>if y'all want a drink for free, you better bring

0:47:14.120 --> 0:47:16.410
<v Speaker 3>it in the trunk of your car. Because when you

0:47:16.450 --> 0:47:18.290
<v Speaker 3>get in here, you're paying for every lick of alcohol.

0:47:18.310 --> 0:47:20.390
<v Speaker 1>We were too safe to even drink at our wedding.

0:47:20.760 --> 0:47:21.600
<v Speaker 3>Well, that second one.

0:47:22.239 --> 0:47:25.060
<v Speaker 1>No, that second one. I thought I was sober. I

0:47:25.100 --> 0:47:27.700
<v Speaker 1>looked at those videos. I was like, oh, brother, you

0:47:27.739 --> 0:47:31.680
<v Speaker 1>were sweaty drunk. You was not sober for many hours.

0:47:31.910 --> 0:47:32.270
<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah.

0:47:32.330 --> 0:47:34.690
<v Speaker 3>It was so, so, but it was so delicious. Oh,

0:47:34.710 --> 0:47:36.150
<v Speaker 3>what were the three signature drinks?

0:47:36.370 --> 0:47:41.980
<v Speaker 2>Three signature drinks were the spicy margarita. The espresso martini,

0:47:42.000 --> 0:47:43.180
<v Speaker 2>which I heard was out of this world.

0:47:43.219 --> 0:47:46.330
<v Speaker 1>It was fan-freaking-tastic. I did not try it.

0:47:46.380 --> 0:47:48.480
<v Speaker 5>I went spicy mark for a few. The male was like, Kev,

0:47:48.500 --> 0:47:52.920
<v Speaker 5>try the espresso martini. Went those for a few. They

0:47:52.980 --> 0:47:54.000
<v Speaker 5>were great.

0:47:54.020 --> 0:47:55.719
<v Speaker 3>They had names. They had pizza, too.

0:47:56.350 --> 0:47:59.130
<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm trying to remember the names. Let me

0:47:59.150 --> 0:47:59.529
<v Speaker 2>phone a friend.

0:47:59.550 --> 0:48:02.450
<v Speaker 3>There was a figgy pudding. What's the name of your children?

0:48:03.250 --> 0:48:08.130
<v Speaker 2>Oh, oh, oh. There was Sugar on the Rockefeller. I

0:48:08.170 --> 0:48:09.069
<v Speaker 2>think that was the.

0:48:12.190 --> 0:48:13.790
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if that was the.

0:48:15.670 --> 0:48:16.590
<v Speaker 2>Oh, dang, I'm blanking.

0:48:16.930 --> 0:48:17.330
<v Speaker 1>We had.

0:48:17.350 --> 0:48:18.549
<v Speaker 2>I gotta.

0:48:22.450 --> 0:48:22.850
<v Speaker 1>Call Imara.

0:48:24.150 --> 0:48:25.270
<v Speaker 3>You're telling the child, man.

0:48:25.280 --> 0:48:26.069
<v Speaker 1>You made the menus.

0:48:26.360 --> 0:48:26.839
<v Speaker 2>Another thing.

0:48:27.160 --> 0:48:28.040
<v Speaker 3>She made everything.

0:48:28.060 --> 0:48:29.580
<v Speaker 2>So much stuff.

0:48:29.719 --> 0:48:32.140
<v Speaker 4>Oh, and I can tell. Listen, she's a woman after

0:48:32.180 --> 0:48:36.799
<v Speaker 4>my own heart. Because we made our invitations. We made

0:48:36.860 --> 0:48:41.140
<v Speaker 4>our bouquets. I said, Imara, yes. Get your creative juices off.

0:48:42.360 --> 0:48:44.120
<v Speaker 2>Hi, Amara, you're live on the podcast that you're watching

0:48:44.180 --> 0:48:44.420
<v Speaker 2>at home.

0:48:44.440 --> 0:48:47.200
<v Speaker 3>You sound like a married woman.

0:48:47.280 --> 0:48:48.880
<v Speaker 1>Hi, Amara. Hi, Ms. Gonzalez.

0:48:48.980 --> 0:48:53.470
<v Speaker 3>Hello, hello.

0:48:53.670 --> 0:48:53.910
<v Speaker 1>Hi.

0:48:53.989 --> 0:48:56.330
<v Speaker 2>Can you relay the names of the drinks? Because I'm blanking.

0:48:57.230 --> 0:48:59.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so it's Sugar on the Rockefeller. I had that one.

0:48:59.890 --> 0:49:00.870
<v Speaker 3>Which was the old-fashioned.

0:49:00.930 --> 0:49:01.190
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:49:01.510 --> 0:49:02.670
<v Speaker 3>Because, like, on the rocks.

0:49:02.930 --> 0:49:03.149
<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm.

0:49:04.200 --> 0:49:08.200
<v Speaker 3>Little Figgy's, which was a spicy margarita because Figgy is spicy.

0:49:08.320 --> 0:49:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Little Figgy.

0:49:09.280 --> 0:49:13.070
<v Speaker 3>And then the other one was the Cat's Espresso Martini

0:49:13.170 --> 0:49:14.950
<v Speaker 3>after Cat's Deli in L.E.S.

0:49:15.770 --> 0:49:18.049
<v Speaker 2>And Lil Figgy's was a spin on Lil Frankie's, which

0:49:18.110 --> 0:49:21.009
<v Speaker 2>is an Italian spot in L.E.S. for my New Yorkers.

0:49:21.610 --> 0:49:22.470
<v Speaker 3>Okay.

0:49:22.510 --> 0:49:22.719
<v Speaker 1>Love it.

0:49:23.620 --> 0:49:24.480
<v Speaker 3>Love it.

0:49:24.480 --> 0:49:27.100
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to think of anything else that we named

0:49:27.380 --> 0:49:28.960
<v Speaker 2>while I have you. That's kind of it, right?

0:49:28.980 --> 0:49:30.020
<v Speaker 3>Imara, real quick.

0:49:30.160 --> 0:49:32.320
<v Speaker 4>Can you run off the list of all the things

0:49:32.360 --> 0:49:38.379
<v Speaker 4>you made for your wedding? Yeah, can you just, like,

0:49:38.460 --> 0:49:41.359
<v Speaker 4>name some of the things that you made for your wedding?

0:49:42.620 --> 0:49:47.100
<v Speaker 3>Well, the bar menus for the beginning cocktail hour and

0:49:47.360 --> 0:49:49.279
<v Speaker 3>the wine bar portion of the night.

0:49:49.300 --> 0:49:50.580
<v Speaker 1>The little booklets?

0:49:51.600 --> 0:49:53.100
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, all of the signage.

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:56.420
<v Speaker 6>So, like, all of the linen signage that had, like,

0:49:57.160 --> 0:49:59.780
<v Speaker 6>the Gonzalez's on it, the stuff for after.

0:49:59.800 --> 0:50:02.010
<v Speaker 3>Obviously, the cake.

0:50:02.190 --> 0:50:03.090
<v Speaker 2>The little napkins.

0:50:03.270 --> 0:50:08.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the appetizer napkins, the cake. All of the dinner menus.

0:50:08.850 --> 0:50:12.670
<v Speaker 3>So every single dinner menu was a hand cut on

0:50:12.690 --> 0:50:15.770
<v Speaker 3>my cricket. And then also all of the name cards.

0:50:15.790 --> 0:50:17.230
<v Speaker 2>So all of the swans I did.

0:50:17.250 --> 0:50:21.250
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to think. I feel like there's one more thing.

0:50:21.550 --> 0:50:22.670
<v Speaker 2>Also a hand wrote.

0:50:23.590 --> 0:50:25.130
<v Speaker 3>All the cards. Are we getting to that?

0:50:25.350 --> 0:50:26.070
<v Speaker 2>Oh, yeah.

0:50:26.110 --> 0:50:26.790
<v Speaker 3>We're going to get to that.

0:50:26.830 --> 0:50:27.570
<v Speaker 1>Oh, that was great.

0:50:27.630 --> 0:50:30.310
<v Speaker 3>And I also made those. I designed those too. Such

0:50:30.330 --> 0:50:32.270
<v Speaker 3>a good job. Such a queen.

0:50:32.290 --> 0:50:33.990
<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

0:50:34.290 --> 0:50:37.580
<v Speaker 3>Are you happy with how your wedding turned out? I'm

0:50:37.640 --> 0:50:38.160
<v Speaker 3>so happy.

0:50:38.380 --> 0:50:40.640
<v Speaker 1>It was honestly such a perfect day.

0:50:40.660 --> 0:50:44.700
<v Speaker 3>It was so much fun. When I think back on it,

0:50:44.719 --> 0:50:47.450
<v Speaker 3>I just think it was just like the best day ever. Like,

0:50:47.870 --> 0:50:51.589
<v Speaker 3>I have nothing but positive, fun memories of that day.

0:50:52.010 --> 0:50:58.930
<v Speaker 3>That's a blessing. Yeah. Congratulations, Imara. Thank you. Her voice

0:50:58.950 --> 0:51:01.509
<v Speaker 3>has gotten deeper. You can tell she's a wife. She

0:51:01.550 --> 0:51:02.590
<v Speaker 3>sounds more like a wife.

0:51:02.660 --> 0:51:04.980
<v Speaker 1>So crazy, Angel.

0:51:08.840 --> 0:51:10.700
<v Speaker 3>All right, we're about to keep grilling your husband about

0:51:10.719 --> 0:51:10.980
<v Speaker 3>the day.

0:51:11.000 --> 0:51:12.239
<v Speaker 2>All right, love you, bye.

0:51:12.260 --> 0:51:13.800
<v Speaker 3>Love you too, bye.

0:51:15.480 --> 0:51:18.660
<v Speaker 4>Okay, so cocktail hour, we're having a blast in there, okay?

0:51:18.840 --> 0:51:21.439
<v Speaker 4>So how are the pictures going? Jeremy's still there.

0:51:21.540 --> 0:51:22.000
<v Speaker 1>He's going crazy.

0:51:22.020 --> 0:51:25.900
<v Speaker 4>Oh, yeah, Jeremy's up in there. So good, so amazing.

0:51:26.060 --> 0:51:27.660
<v Speaker 4>So you all were taking pictures while we were in

0:51:27.680 --> 0:51:28.600
<v Speaker 4>the cocktail hour, yeah?

0:51:28.660 --> 0:51:31.940
<v Speaker 2>We took a few photos. I'm trying to think. We

0:51:31.960 --> 0:51:34.719
<v Speaker 2>took like three sets of photos, maybe four sets of

0:51:34.739 --> 0:51:35.319
<v Speaker 2>photos that day.

0:51:35.620 --> 0:51:35.950
<v Speaker 1>Uh-huh.

0:51:36.620 --> 0:51:38.890
<v Speaker 2>The yes we went out to that little bridge area

0:51:39.120 --> 0:51:41.719
<v Speaker 2>yeah um so the photo that that was taken of

0:51:41.780 --> 0:51:43.549
<v Speaker 2>us like walking towards the bridge and stuff like that

0:51:43.630 --> 0:51:46.890
<v Speaker 2>that was during that time um a lot of it

0:51:46.910 --> 0:51:48.489
<v Speaker 2>was kind of just right there oh then we did

0:51:48.530 --> 0:51:50.989
<v Speaker 2>the steps yeah the steps photo was there we took

0:51:51.010 --> 0:51:53.690
<v Speaker 2>a couple more with immediate family there um that we

0:51:53.710 --> 0:51:56.230
<v Speaker 2>didn't get before we try to break it up which

0:51:56.290 --> 0:51:58.609
<v Speaker 2>is also a plus of working weddings is knowing kind

0:51:58.630 --> 0:52:02.089
<v Speaker 2>of what is most efficient um so we took like

0:52:02.989 --> 0:52:05.989
<v Speaker 2>mom and dad photos before the wedding. And then after that,

0:52:06.010 --> 0:52:11.460
<v Speaker 2>we took like some of the aunts, uncles. Um, and then, yeah.

0:52:12.560 --> 0:52:16.100
<v Speaker 2>So we took the, anything by the steps together. We

0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:17.880
<v Speaker 2>took those after, and then we took the ones by

0:52:17.920 --> 0:52:22.260
<v Speaker 2>like the vineyard area, bridge area during the cocktail hour.

0:52:22.420 --> 0:52:24.020
<v Speaker 2>Cause the whole time too, I was like, I want to,

0:52:24.239 --> 0:52:27.140
<v Speaker 2>I want to go be with my cocktail, even for

0:52:27.160 --> 0:52:27.620
<v Speaker 2>five minutes.

0:52:27.980 --> 0:52:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:52:28.160 --> 0:52:31.160
<v Speaker 2>Because like, I don't fully believe that like, The bride

0:52:31.180 --> 0:52:32.660
<v Speaker 2>and groom shouldn't be able to at least experience a

0:52:32.700 --> 0:52:33.440
<v Speaker 2>little bit of everything.

0:52:33.500 --> 0:52:33.700
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:52:33.719 --> 0:52:35.680
<v Speaker 2>Even if it's, and I'm not saying like the whole time,

0:52:35.719 --> 0:52:37.680
<v Speaker 2>let's go drink or whatever. I also felt like it

0:52:37.700 --> 0:52:39.080
<v Speaker 2>was a good opportunity to go say hi to everybody.

0:52:39.239 --> 0:52:40.299
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:52:40.440 --> 0:52:43.420
<v Speaker 2>Which that's what it ended up being too, which was cool. But,

0:52:43.900 --> 0:52:46.020
<v Speaker 2>but yeah, the photos are amazing. Shout out to Aaliyah,

0:52:46.040 --> 0:52:50.480
<v Speaker 2>Aaliyah Clark, forever by her. She has two Instagrams for

0:52:50.500 --> 0:52:54.500
<v Speaker 2>personal and wedding stuff. She was amazing. Her team was great.

0:52:55.469 --> 0:52:58.390
<v Speaker 2>I really loved it. Picking a photographer was difficult, as

0:52:58.430 --> 0:53:03.719
<v Speaker 2>you could imagine. Imara found her, and the minute we

0:53:03.900 --> 0:53:06.140
<v Speaker 2>spoke on the phone, she felt like a cousin to us. Oh,

0:53:06.140 --> 0:53:08.940
<v Speaker 2>that's beautiful. She was very personable. She didn't seem like

0:53:08.960 --> 0:53:13.430
<v Speaker 2>she had the mask on to get us the book

0:53:13.469 --> 0:53:16.730
<v Speaker 2>or whatever. But we also loved just how on the

0:53:16.770 --> 0:53:19.630
<v Speaker 2>fly she was, other than the list we gave her

0:53:19.650 --> 0:53:20.950
<v Speaker 2>of stuff we for sure wanted to get.

0:53:20.969 --> 0:53:21.330
<v Speaker 1>Mm-hmm.

0:53:21.570 --> 0:53:24.150
<v Speaker 2>With people but she was very creative and like i

0:53:24.190 --> 0:53:25.910
<v Speaker 2>saw the way that she shot and like saw stuff

0:53:25.950 --> 0:53:29.360
<v Speaker 2>and i i mean i knew for a fact we

0:53:29.380 --> 0:53:32.279
<v Speaker 2>were gonna like majority of it of our gallery and

0:53:32.300 --> 0:53:34.120
<v Speaker 2>i don't think there's a photo that we really don't like.

0:53:34.540 --> 0:53:38.440
<v Speaker 4>It was it she did great there was 58 photographers

0:53:39.260 --> 0:53:39.660
<v Speaker 4>on her.

0:53:39.620 --> 0:53:43.319
<v Speaker 3>Team so they all weren't with her oh what the

0:53:43.400 --> 0:53:44.660
<v Speaker 3>who were they with.

0:53:44.860 --> 0:53:49.570
<v Speaker 2>It's interesting our Makeup Girl, Shouts to Paint It by Kim.

0:53:50.070 --> 0:53:54.930
<v Speaker 2>She brought a content creator. Our planner brought a content creator.

0:53:55.110 --> 0:53:55.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh, wow.

0:53:56.930 --> 0:54:01.460
<v Speaker 2>Our photographer had one to two people on her team.

0:54:04.300 --> 0:54:08.460
<v Speaker 2>One of them left, though. And then Lugo, friend of

0:54:08.500 --> 0:54:12.200
<v Speaker 2>the pod, also helped us on the Bald Brothers tour.

0:54:13.200 --> 0:54:15.080
<v Speaker 2>He was a guest. Him and his wife were invited guests.

0:54:15.940 --> 0:54:18.169
<v Speaker 2>And he's like, hey, I want to shoot some stuff

0:54:18.210 --> 0:54:20.029
<v Speaker 2>for you. I was like, listen, we didn't ask you

0:54:20.170 --> 0:54:22.810
<v Speaker 2>to do... I was like, if you want to bring

0:54:22.830 --> 0:54:24.989
<v Speaker 2>your camera, cool. He's like, honestly, it'd be good for

0:54:25.010 --> 0:54:27.129
<v Speaker 2>my portfolio. I was like, then go crazy. Do what

0:54:27.150 --> 0:54:29.200
<v Speaker 2>you want, but we want you to enjoy it. Your

0:54:29.219 --> 0:54:33.580
<v Speaker 2>wife's also coming too, so I don't want you guys to...

0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:35.419
<v Speaker 2>He ended up shooting a lot, a lot. I'm really

0:54:35.460 --> 0:54:37.980
<v Speaker 2>interested to see what he gets because his stuff looks

0:54:38.040 --> 0:54:44.190
<v Speaker 2>like a storybook video. Uh, but yes. So I didn't

0:54:44.230 --> 0:54:48.010
<v Speaker 2>realize how dense the team was to your point until

0:54:48.030 --> 0:54:50.790
<v Speaker 2>we were shooting down by the stage.

0:54:51.210 --> 0:54:51.430
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:54:51.550 --> 0:54:54.390
<v Speaker 2>And I look out and I'm just like, this is crazy.

0:54:54.469 --> 0:54:56.450
<v Speaker 3>It was a lot of people, a lot of people.

0:54:56.910 --> 0:54:59.180
<v Speaker 4>It was might as well been a movie premiere for Marvel.

0:54:59.540 --> 0:55:00.560
<v Speaker 3>And there was a step and repeat.

0:55:00.640 --> 0:55:01.000
<v Speaker 1>Exactly.

0:55:01.780 --> 0:55:04.239
<v Speaker 2>Everybody wanted their content though. So I was like, okay,

0:55:04.280 --> 0:55:05.980
<v Speaker 2>I get it. And so I think there was like

0:55:06.160 --> 0:55:10.989
<v Speaker 2>three different content people for, for, the different teams, I guess.

0:55:11.489 --> 0:55:14.070
<v Speaker 2>So that's what added the extra three bodies, even though

0:55:14.290 --> 0:55:17.969
<v Speaker 2>there were still like, I think six to eight, which

0:55:18.010 --> 0:55:20.879
<v Speaker 2>was above and beyond what we paid for.

0:55:21.020 --> 0:55:22.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:55:22.260 --> 0:55:23.980
<v Speaker 2>But everything that came out of it was really cool.

0:55:25.260 --> 0:55:27.919
<v Speaker 2>The content that was made, the photos that they got,

0:55:27.940 --> 0:55:29.790
<v Speaker 2>the coverage, they got some film photos too, which were cool.

0:55:29.830 --> 0:55:33.379
<v Speaker 2>They had like little Film cameras. It was also really

0:55:33.410 --> 0:55:36.660
<v Speaker 2>cool seeing the photos that you guys got. People took.

0:55:36.780 --> 0:55:37.259
<v Speaker 3>That we took.

0:55:37.420 --> 0:55:37.939
<v Speaker 1>People took.

0:55:37.960 --> 0:55:40.060
<v Speaker 2>Because it was like selfies. And it was crazy because

0:55:40.120 --> 0:55:44.440
<v Speaker 2>it's like you're seeing people together that like have been

0:55:44.500 --> 0:55:46.529
<v Speaker 2>met for the first time or maybe just met before.

0:55:46.780 --> 0:55:47.750
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:55:48.550 --> 0:55:51.009
<v Speaker 2>But that was a cool kind of reveal in the

0:55:51.030 --> 0:55:53.320
<v Speaker 2>little film disposable photos too.

0:55:53.790 --> 0:55:56.890
<v Speaker 4>Okay, so I'm going to chunk these two sections together,

0:55:58.300 --> 0:56:02.279
<v Speaker 4>which is the dinner and the place cards. So me

0:56:02.320 --> 0:56:04.900
<v Speaker 4>and Marcus completely missed this, and it wasn't until somebody

0:56:04.920 --> 0:56:07.620
<v Speaker 4>told us, no, go over to that little table. Josh

0:56:07.640 --> 0:56:10.839
<v Speaker 4>and Imara, I think me and Kevin talked about this

0:56:10.890 --> 0:56:13.970
<v Speaker 4>when we talked about y'all's wedding right after y'all got married.

0:56:14.350 --> 0:56:20.370
<v Speaker 4>They had personalized cards, handwritten cards to everyone that went

0:56:20.410 --> 0:56:23.920
<v Speaker 4>along with their table placement. So it was an envelope

0:56:23.960 --> 0:56:25.700
<v Speaker 4>with your name that said the table you were at,

0:56:25.739 --> 0:56:29.759
<v Speaker 4>but inside of there was a handwritten letter. What made

0:56:29.800 --> 0:56:32.609
<v Speaker 4>you all say, we're going to tackle this and write

0:56:32.680 --> 0:56:33.490
<v Speaker 4>everybody a letter?

0:56:34.050 --> 0:56:36.750
<v Speaker 2>Um, I don't want to say it definitely wasn't the

0:56:36.770 --> 0:56:40.310
<v Speaker 2>cost effectiveness wasn't the lead, but like it's traditional that

0:56:40.330 --> 0:56:45.300
<v Speaker 2>like the table settings are on like big cutouts or, uh,

0:56:46.560 --> 0:56:49.370
<v Speaker 2>you just kind of go up. It's like, a quick experience.

0:56:49.390 --> 0:56:50.890
<v Speaker 2>You go up, you see your name, you see the table.

0:56:51.230 --> 0:56:54.090
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's confusing because since it's organized by table number,

0:56:54.550 --> 0:56:55.609
<v Speaker 2>you're sitting up there kind of.

0:56:55.590 --> 0:56:57.290
<v Speaker 3>Going through whatever. Trying to find your name.

0:56:57.310 --> 0:56:58.810
<v Speaker 2>So Imar was like, I kind of want to have,

0:56:58.890 --> 0:57:01.450
<v Speaker 2>she was like, I have this idea where we put

0:57:01.510 --> 0:57:04.620
<v Speaker 2>everybody's names on an envelope in alphabetical order and it's

0:57:04.640 --> 0:57:06.200
<v Speaker 2>got their table number on the envelope so you don't

0:57:06.239 --> 0:57:07.620
<v Speaker 2>even necessarily have to open it there if you didn't

0:57:07.640 --> 0:57:11.160
<v Speaker 2>do it. But each of it has like, each one

0:57:11.180 --> 0:57:14.719
<v Speaker 2>inside has a handwritten, and I would say they were

0:57:14.739 --> 0:57:19.060
<v Speaker 2>split between us, but it was more like 75- 25

0:57:19.890 --> 0:57:26.780
<v Speaker 2>being 25 me percent. Because I later found out that

0:57:26.860 --> 0:57:28.680
<v Speaker 2>she didn't do hers the night before. She had done

0:57:28.920 --> 0:57:31.000
<v Speaker 2>hers weeks before. Little by little.

0:57:31.260 --> 0:57:32.740
<v Speaker 3>Did you do all yours the night before?

0:57:32.760 --> 0:57:35.230
<v Speaker 2>Not all of them. Maybe like the last two nights before.

0:57:35.510 --> 0:57:36.810
<v Speaker 3>Jesus!

0:57:37.010 --> 0:57:39.150
<v Speaker 2>But to be fair, I needed fresh memories. I wanted

0:57:39.230 --> 0:57:41.370
<v Speaker 2>all the memories to light up to the night that

0:57:41.390 --> 0:57:45.390
<v Speaker 2>I could have included. Because I definitely was a little

0:57:45.410 --> 0:57:48.010
<v Speaker 2>overwhelmed with the idea of having to handwrite something. And also,

0:57:48.110 --> 0:57:50.530
<v Speaker 2>what am I going to say? She's like, just say

0:57:50.550 --> 0:57:51.800
<v Speaker 2>whatever comes to mind about the person. It doesn't need

0:57:51.820 --> 0:57:52.200
<v Speaker 2>to be perfect.

0:57:52.220 --> 0:57:53.060
<v Speaker 1>It could be a recent memory.

0:57:53.580 --> 0:57:58.620
<v Speaker 2>It could be an inside joke. Just something that gives

0:57:58.720 --> 0:58:02.620
<v Speaker 2>interaction between you guys. So I thought that was super special.

0:58:02.720 --> 0:58:05.170
<v Speaker 2>I've never seen... It was special.

0:58:05.230 --> 0:58:07.370
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was the greatest thing ever. I just

0:58:07.390 --> 0:58:09.010
<v Speaker 1>thought it was my name. And then I read it,

0:58:09.030 --> 0:58:09.690
<v Speaker 1>I said, oh.

0:58:09.910 --> 0:58:11.630
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I didn't know until y'all said it. It was

0:58:11.670 --> 0:58:12.250
<v Speaker 3>so beautiful.

0:58:12.890 --> 0:58:15.770
<v Speaker 4>Marcus really almost teared up when he saw fuck you

0:58:15.850 --> 0:58:18.160
<v Speaker 4>on his card.

0:58:18.530 --> 0:58:19.460
<v Speaker 1>And it could have.

0:58:19.380 --> 0:58:22.100
<v Speaker 3>Just said that. And he would have been like... It

0:58:22.120 --> 0:58:23.340
<v Speaker 3>was so perfect.

0:58:23.680 --> 0:58:25.680
<v Speaker 1>That's my dude right there. When he turned around at

0:58:25.720 --> 0:58:29.200
<v Speaker 1>the table, his eyes were glistening. He said, look.

0:58:29.340 --> 0:58:32.790
<v Speaker 5>That's why I think cussing ain't all bad. That can

0:58:32.810 --> 0:58:33.770
<v Speaker 5>mean I love you.

0:58:33.850 --> 0:58:37.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. That meant a lot to him. It was so

0:58:37.600 --> 0:58:38.439
<v Speaker 1>freaking funny.

0:58:38.520 --> 0:58:40.860
<v Speaker 2>And then on drinks, on drinks, I wrote she.

0:58:40.880 --> 0:58:46.420
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? That's personal. There's nothing more personal. Yes.

0:58:46.440 --> 0:58:47.340
<v Speaker 1>That's why I cuss now, y'all.

0:58:47.640 --> 0:58:50.630
<v Speaker 4>It was so beautiful. It was so beautiful. Okay, so

0:58:50.650 --> 0:58:53.590
<v Speaker 4>then we're all outside. The tables turned out so great.

0:58:53.630 --> 0:58:55.870
<v Speaker 4>Her snake tables that she really wanted.

0:58:55.910 --> 0:58:57.350
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, serpentine.

0:58:57.410 --> 0:58:58.250
<v Speaker 3>You put all of us.

0:58:58.250 --> 0:58:59.790
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I was in Italy for a little bit.

0:58:59.890 --> 0:59:00.650
<v Speaker 2>It was gorgeous.

0:59:00.670 --> 0:59:03.310
<v Speaker 1>That courtyard was ridiculous. Tuscan little village.

0:59:03.330 --> 0:59:04.110
<v Speaker 2>That was the plan.

0:59:04.230 --> 0:59:04.990
<v Speaker 1>The way that the.

0:59:08.280 --> 0:59:11.940
<v Speaker 1>The way that venue is designed in that courtyard. Thank you.

0:59:12.600 --> 0:59:16.100
<v Speaker 5>I've been to Italy and I've had lunch in Venice

0:59:16.220 --> 0:59:18.380
<v Speaker 5>and it felt like the only thing was different. There's

0:59:18.420 --> 0:59:21.860
<v Speaker 5>no like clothes hanging out. But other than that, I

0:59:21.860 --> 0:59:23.430
<v Speaker 5>was like, yo, this feels just like.

0:59:23.590 --> 0:59:24.530
<v Speaker 2>All the trees were imported.

0:59:25.300 --> 0:59:25.860
<v Speaker 1>Really?

0:59:25.940 --> 0:59:27.260
<v Speaker 2>They spared no expense.

0:59:27.600 --> 0:59:28.800
<v Speaker 1>Wow.

0:59:28.820 --> 0:59:30.020
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it's supposed to give that feel. And that

0:59:30.060 --> 0:59:32.020
<v Speaker 2>was Imara's goal was to find something that it felt

0:59:32.060 --> 0:59:33.680
<v Speaker 2>like Italy without going to Italy.

0:59:33.780 --> 0:59:34.590
<v Speaker 1>Oh my God.

0:59:34.620 --> 0:59:35.700
<v Speaker 2>She did it out of the park.

0:59:35.950 --> 0:59:37.450
<v Speaker 3>That thing was gorgeous.

0:59:37.470 --> 0:59:37.810
<v Speaker 2>It was so great.

0:59:38.330 --> 0:59:41.430
<v Speaker 4>So you all came in and then my favorite part,

0:59:41.530 --> 0:59:43.170
<v Speaker 4>you all danced.

0:59:44.390 --> 0:59:45.770
<v Speaker 3>Oh, you all danced.

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<v Speaker 1>Angel set us up.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so, now what made y'all think that crazy one?

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<v Speaker 3>Ask her.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was the easiest call.

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<v Speaker 3>Really?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Cause at first, um, and also this was, uh, a

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<v Speaker 2>real time discovery. I didn't, I, I mean, as a man,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I just didn't think that like anything other

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<v Speaker 2>than the suede is, is safe.

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<v Speaker 1>The suede?

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<v Speaker 2>The suede, just the, the, the suede dance.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, oh, suede.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Like the suede slow dance.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, I don't really want to do it. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, okay. Um, and at that point I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 2>what is it? I don't know what, it could possibly

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<v Speaker 2>look like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Cause I'm not, I mean like I'm, I'm good in

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<v Speaker 2>the two step, but you know, I'm not, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>an America's best dance crew. Um, so I want to

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<v Speaker 2>say it was her idea. She's like, what if you

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<v Speaker 2>think we ask angel to help choreograph our dance? I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't think there's anybody else that we

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<v Speaker 2>should have asked.

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<v Speaker 3>I was on the plane drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't think I could have helped choreograph?

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<v Speaker 3>You could have did a little something.

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<v Speaker 1>It would have been like this. Y'all, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't, what else? Okay, so then you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>go left arm. Y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>That's harder, though. It is hard. Yeah, it's hard to

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<v Speaker 3>go left. I thought you all did so good.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, when you all texted me, I was on

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<v Speaker 4>the plane and I already had two glasses of wine.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was just like, what?

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<v Speaker 3>And immediately on the plane started choreographing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, man. Right away?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Immediately the wine is gone. Get out of my brain now.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to dance the choreograph. Boom, cat. Boom, cat.

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<v Speaker 3>It was the wine that was saying that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, now.

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<v Speaker 2>And we had already sent you the song with it, right?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I said, what song? And y'all were like, Always

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<v Speaker 4>and Forever. And I was like, great, because I already

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<v Speaker 4>knew it. So I was just like, Always.

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<v Speaker 2>And it took us a while to find our songs too.

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<v Speaker 3>That was a perfect song.

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<v Speaker 4>It was so old school. It was so, it, it,

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<v Speaker 4>it was just beautiful. Um, now let's get to the toast.

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<v Speaker 4>Your mother's toast to Imara about took me out.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God. I was fighting for my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Dog. I said, man, why are you doing that, Esther? No.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been done crying. I've got to have a Gatorade

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm done with this. Uh-huh.

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<v Speaker 5>And knowing your mom already and knowing Imara and knowing

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<v Speaker 5>your relationship to your mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 5>And your mom was like, it's like Jay-Z. You didn't

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<v Speaker 5>lose a daughter, gain a son, or whatever he said

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<v Speaker 5>in two times. Your mom said, I got two kids now.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all she's wanted. I know.

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<v Speaker 3>And you could tell Imara was just like, and yes.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted two! I want it.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me have it too.

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<v Speaker 1>What is wrong with you? Why would you yell that? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I want it too.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like, look at them.

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<v Speaker 1>Good job, Josh. Good job.

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<v Speaker 3>You paired the two people real well.

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<v Speaker 1>Because in-laws not liking the thing is just... It's just, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you just making life harder. So being full love, both

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<v Speaker 1>arm hugs, no side hugs.

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<v Speaker 2>It's less houses to check off during the holidays, man.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's make it easy.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, my gosh. It was, but why? I want you

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<v Speaker 3>to know.

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<v Speaker 4>This, that my mother, the whole wedding, through majority of

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<v Speaker 4>the reception, thought that your mom was Imara's mother.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, of course she did.

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<v Speaker 3>She said your daughter....

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<v Speaker 4>Such an amazing young girl. I said, remember, who did

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<v Speaker 4>you say that to? I said, Mama, who did you

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<v Speaker 4>say that to?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what's funny? I think she, I can't remember

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<v Speaker 2>if she said that she's met Imara. Was that the

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<v Speaker 2>first time she met my mom?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I can't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I can see that. I was going to say,

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<v Speaker 2>now I can see that because I feel like she's

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<v Speaker 2>thought that she's met Imara's mom before and that was

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<v Speaker 2>my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Now it makes sense because I was like, no, you

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<v Speaker 2>haven't met her because I haven't met her. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, when she said, I talked to Imara's mom,

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<v Speaker 4>I said, well, who did you talk to? I said,

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<v Speaker 4>point to who you talked to right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I just say, your mom is fantastic. Fun as crap. Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She do not... I know she's in her 70s, but she... Oh, Dorothy? Dorothy!

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<v Speaker 1>That was my little friend. Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Dorothy is a good time. She's so fun. I mean, obviously,

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<v Speaker 5>she's your mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But she is funny and fun. She always knows

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<v Speaker 1>what to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Or not.

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<v Speaker 3>And she'll still say it. She had herself a.

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<v Speaker 4>When she got that last minute invitation, baby, she went

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<v Speaker 4>to Macy's and was like, I've got to get.

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<v Speaker 3>Me a dress. I said, mama, it cannot be blue.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what it say. Dude, it can't be blue.

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<v Speaker 4>She said, okay, I'm a fine. And I said, you

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<v Speaker 4>put that shit on mama. But yeah, I was like, who,

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<v Speaker 4>who did you talk to?

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<v Speaker 3>She said, the woman in the dress. I said, mama,

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<v Speaker 3>that is Josh's mama.

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<v Speaker 4>She said, oh, I said, it's okay. I know she

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<v Speaker 4>knows you were talking about Amara and she probably, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Just might've been a more appropriate time to say Josh.

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<v Speaker 2>she's your daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Your mother was just like that. Damn right.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Damn right.

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<v Speaker 3>That is my child. She is amazing. So, okay. The

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<v Speaker 3>food was great.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all I wanted.

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<v Speaker 5>Wedding food, boy, they gonna give you a dry little

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<v Speaker 5>chicken breast, lemon, overdue, little cutlet that tastes like tire,

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<v Speaker 5>some green beans.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I sat down and said, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>this is great.

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<v Speaker 2>And we moved some stuff around, too, because when we

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<v Speaker 2>did the tasting, they're like, yeah, normally the mashed potatoes

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<v Speaker 2>come with the fish and only the fish. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>can we just put that on every plate? Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Because for us, the mashed potatoes were like some of

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<v Speaker 2>the best tasting stuff. Short Rib was out of this world, too.

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<v Speaker 1>It was out of this world.

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<v Speaker 2>I heard the fish was good.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything was good.

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<v Speaker 3>It was, oh, yeah, I tore that food up.

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<v Speaker 1>And then y'all had extra food at the little reception.

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<v Speaker 1>A little pizza spot. Pizzas came out. I said, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know how to dance. We some eaters right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, pizza too? Y'all just did too much.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all was, oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I love me a little pizza. Oh, man.

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<v Speaker 4>And also let me say thank you for making me

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<v Speaker 4>table captain. I said, these people are just a gift

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<v Speaker 4>that keep on giving.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, what is this? Instructions for me? We got

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<v Speaker 3>to take a picture. We got to fill out a card.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so excited. I was so excited. So yes,

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<v Speaker 3>the reception, you all had DJ Night Train.

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<v Speaker 2>Night Train.

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<v Speaker 1>Night Train!

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<v Speaker 2>Who shouts to my dog because he's on tour with J.

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<v Speaker 2>Cole right now. He had just finished five nights in

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<v Speaker 2>New York City.

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<v Speaker 1>Dang.

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<v Speaker 2>They had an off night and then two nights in Boston.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>The off night that he had, he spent it with us.

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<v Speaker 1>He got on a flight. All the way back to Boston?

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<v Speaker 2>That night. Actually, he left on a 6 a.m. the

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<v Speaker 2>next morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Dang.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, people are going to move heaven and earth.

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<v Speaker 3>When they love you. When they love you.

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<v Speaker 1>We're heaven and earth, Joshy.

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<v Speaker 2>And there was a point where I was literally, I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to book his flight just so I know.

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<v Speaker 1>That he's going to make it where he's supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, no, I got it. I got it. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, all right, man.

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<v Speaker 5>Josh, you have shown up for people time and time again.

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<v Speaker 5>There was no way on earth. You don't even ask

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<v Speaker 5>for much.

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<v Speaker 1>Right. I can't remember you asking for hardly anything in

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<v Speaker 1>eight years. No, more than that. 13.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait.

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<v Speaker 1>13 years. Your wedding? You think somebody was going to

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<v Speaker 1>miss that, man?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, no. There was a comment.

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<v Speaker 4>What I noticed at the reception mainly was y'all don't

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<v Speaker 4>know a lot of white people.

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<v Speaker 1>Man. I said.

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<v Speaker 2>The ones that were there, they're pretty much it.

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<v Speaker 3>There were two white people. I count it.

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<v Speaker 1>There were two.

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<v Speaker 2>And not tokens. They're big white. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It was Imara's sister's boyfriend and then your mama's friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Those were the only two white people I saw.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Anybody else, if they have to mark off white, they

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<v Speaker 4>spicy white. Like they got like you Middle Eastern.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 2>That's really funny.

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<v Speaker 3>But I noticed. I said, ain't no white.

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<v Speaker 1>Ain't no white people.

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<v Speaker 3>Ain't no white people. Oh, they don't know no white people.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. That way they look like this podcast room.

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<v Speaker 4>And really, I said, I have never seen a wedding

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<v Speaker 4>look this diverse and really know why.

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<v Speaker 3>If they're white people, they were the vendors.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, I will say the best gift that you all

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<v Speaker 4>gave out were them damn flip flops.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that was good call. I was like, thank you, Jesus.

1:08:07.720 --> 1:08:10.740
<v Speaker 5>I remember Alyssa and Mel were doing the like, oh,

1:08:10.780 --> 1:08:13.200
<v Speaker 5>my feet hurt. And somebody was like, on your team

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<v Speaker 5>was like, oh, in the, well, actually there was more

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<v Speaker 5>than one station.

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<v Speaker 2>There was supposed to be more, uh, They were supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to be in a place that people were seeing them

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<v Speaker 2>on the way, not by the bar.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, when they recognized they had flip-flops in there, you

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<v Speaker 5>saw the relief.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, my God. All sizes. That's just a really thoughtful

1:08:30.370 --> 1:08:32.110
<v Speaker 1>thing for women. It was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was great.

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<v Speaker 1>Tony would have wore high bottoms. He could have went

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<v Speaker 1>to the flip-flop.

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<v Speaker 2>But this was a all-hands-on-deck project. Shouts to Ernie's mom.

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<v Speaker 2>She tied all those together. She put the ribbons on

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<v Speaker 2>the tambourines. The tambourines were also cool, too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was good.

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<v Speaker 2>But, yeah, the flip-flops were a huge... We're a huge

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<v Speaker 2>call by Imara.

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<v Speaker 1>Imara, man.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, there will not be anybody barefoot on my watch.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Not on my watch. Not.

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<v Speaker 4>There were two, I had two favorite guests of your wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>Amar's dad. He was a good time. Him and Marcus

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<v Speaker 4>cut up the entire wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>They're two peas in a pod. From the minute Imara

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<v Speaker 2>met Marcus. She's like, he will be my dad's friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, and it was immediate.

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<v Speaker 2>Just talk bourbon and whiskey all day long.

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<v Speaker 3>Marcus was like, Imara's dad is a nigga. I said,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm with the niggas tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody said that. It feels all right. Hey.

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<v Speaker 4>Because he literally got, he said, before the reception, he said,

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<v Speaker 4>this choreography better be good. and I was like her

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<v Speaker 4>dad said that to me and I said excuse me

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<v Speaker 4>I said well I don't know I said depends on

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<v Speaker 4>how nervous they are he said I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>hear that either it's good or it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you prepare or did you not prepare.

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<v Speaker 4>I said okay bet and then afterwards he's like you

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<v Speaker 4>did the dang damn thing I said I know I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know question me the other person that was a

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<v Speaker 4>good time and I'm not sure if you saw her

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<v Speaker 4>was your mother's friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Christina I think she's Asian she's a Filipina Filipina she

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<v Speaker 3>was popping that pussy on the dance floor do you

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<v Speaker 3>not recall Kevin You didn't see her?

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<v Speaker 2>We got a photo of her.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody had on evening gowns. Her dress at the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the night was this short.

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<v Speaker 2>By herself in the corner, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't got to have nobody to twerk with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Ain't no rock going to twerk out for me.

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<v Speaker 3>She was throwing that thing in a circle. I know

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<v Speaker 3>I saw her panties at least six times.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God. I'm glad I didn't see any of

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<v Speaker 2>those things.

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<v Speaker 3>She pulled her dress so far up. I said, she's

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<v Speaker 3>going to get something.

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<v Speaker 2>She had to get some air in the undercarriage, man.

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<v Speaker 1>Shake that.

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<v Speaker 3>No more. I said, she's having a time of her life.

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<v Speaker 3>Get it, girl. Okay, so what were your top.

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<v Speaker 4>Five moments of Mr.

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<v Speaker 3>And Mrs.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonzalez day?

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<v Speaker 2>Easy ones off the bat, taking a photo of Imar

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<v Speaker 2>walking down the aisle, taking a photo of her with

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<v Speaker 2>her cake. Me not dropping her on either the lips.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so proud.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw her dress. Literally, that was another thought I

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<v Speaker 2>had too. I was like, ooh, girl. With that dress?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we didn't practice anything with the big dress on.

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<v Speaker 3>You looked like a strong man. You did good, Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>What else?

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<v Speaker 2>My mom's speech. Oh, excuse me.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Her dad's speech. Her dad had a good speech.

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<v Speaker 3>Your dad's speech was great.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I made her dad cry.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, I looked over when you were saying your vows.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's a hidden one. He's going to deny

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<v Speaker 2>it to this day.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, dang, I couldn't see it because

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<v Speaker 2>we did opposites. How the seating was.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, we were opposite. And I noticed that. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>did they put us on the wrong side? Oh, well.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because that's so each side can see the person.

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<v Speaker 3>The person they came to see.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's five.

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<v Speaker 3>Give us one more.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The cake was amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 1>A wedding cake is not usually good. No.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was three different flavors.

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<v Speaker 2>It was vanilla caramel, chocolate cherry, and then like a

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<v Speaker 2>lemon raspberry, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So to close, Kevin, what's your top three moments of

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<v Speaker 3>the wedding? I'll give my top three.

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<v Speaker 1>Josh, taking a picture of you tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Swag surfing. Oh, swag.

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<v Speaker 2>I told my mom I had a swag surf.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she was in there.

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<v Speaker 1>When we were swag surfing, I was just like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is just the greatest moment. Yeah, yeah. I'm really.

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<v Speaker 2>Nitrane, man.

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<v Speaker 1>Nitrane does such a good job.

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<v Speaker 5>Even though he's much younger than us and not black,

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<v Speaker 5>he knows how to curate the proper vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>And he played all the dances. Yeah, he did.

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<v Speaker 3>And everybody was on the dance floor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and probably Josh's mom... talking about Amara.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I was just like, I like to see the family,

1:13:16.439 --> 1:13:18.620
<v Speaker 5>I mean, this has been the case for most of

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<v Speaker 5>my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to see the families fully embrace each other. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, because sometimes the family don't go for it.

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<v Speaker 5>It makes, it just strains the people who are in love.

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<v Speaker 5>So her being like that was just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, this is just great. It was. Those are the

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<v Speaker 1>top three for Kev Kev.

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<v Speaker 2>What were your top three moments at the Gonzo?

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<v Speaker 4>First seeing Imara, because that did feel like I was

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<v Speaker 4>in a Disney movie.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, what? This is unreal.

1:13:43.320 --> 1:13:44.220
<v Speaker 1>But to see Imara for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Obviously, next moment was the dance. I just felt like

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<v Speaker 4>y'all just did so good.

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<v Speaker 3>And you did. You caught her on every single lift.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, oh, thank you, Jesus. I know

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<v Speaker 3>you couldn't. I know you couldn't.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, it don't even matter. But y'all

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<v Speaker 4>did find it at the end. Y'all found it at

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<v Speaker 4>the end.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, don't nobody know when they supposed

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<v Speaker 3>to be doing this stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>No. This is perfect. That's true.

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<v Speaker 3>And I would agree with Kevin.

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<v Speaker 4>Not just the words that your mom said to Imara,

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<v Speaker 4>but seeing how they impacted Imara.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like, this is what, this is.

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<v Speaker 4>The dream to have a relationship like this with somebody

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<v Speaker 4>that is not your blood, but you now.

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<v Speaker 3>Know they're your family forever.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just like, I said, she don't even know how

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<v Speaker 4>lucky she is because there's a lot of women that

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<v Speaker 4>hate their mother-in-laws.

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<v Speaker 5>Honorable mention when y'all came out from the balcony, it

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<v Speaker 5>was very presidential. Y'all just the first lady and the

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<v Speaker 5>president of the United States.

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<v Speaker 3>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like.

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<v Speaker 3>They said we had our tambourines.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes!

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I was like, they rich.

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<v Speaker 2>Honorable mention, Imara sent this one to... My dad's saying

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<v Speaker 2>he met her a year and a half ago.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I said. I said, Josh's dad chose.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, dog, please.

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<v Speaker 5>When your dad said that, I said, hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>I know he done showed you to that baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Josh's dad is too handsome to remember stuff now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, man.

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<v Speaker 2>He's big 60s now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, congratulations to the both of you. Thank you. Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you so much for allowing us to be a part

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<v Speaker 3>of that day. Yeah, that was good.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so honored. Y'all got to hear it all now. Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Honorable mention for me. Listen, I'm going to see how

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<v Speaker 4>many weddings I can do one margarita at. This is

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<v Speaker 4>number two.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, we played it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. We played it?

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<v Speaker 2>It was on our playlist. And I'll share the playlist

1:15:37.250 --> 1:15:41.580
<v Speaker 2>with you guys. It was on our playlist. And Imar's like,

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<v Speaker 2>she's going to want to perform. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>if she does, cool. If not, it's a fun sing-along

1:15:45.229 --> 1:15:48.270
<v Speaker 2>for everybody. And immediately, I'm at the bar. I hear

1:15:48.310 --> 1:15:50.130
<v Speaker 2>the song come on, and I just see red feathers.

1:15:50.330 --> 1:15:51.170
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was like, here it comes.

1:15:51.770 --> 1:15:54.950
<v Speaker 3>Because Night Train looked at me. He was like, who listened?

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<v Speaker 3>I still got my voice. Let's go.

1:15:56.770 --> 1:15:57.010
<v Speaker 1>Let's go.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I was like, there are children. I cannot be

1:15:58.729 --> 1:16:02.100
<v Speaker 3>talking about sucking dick and stuff. So I had to

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<v Speaker 3>do the radio edit. But yes, congratulations. I hope you

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<v Speaker 3>all enjoyed this recap. Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all. Here's another banger for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's another banger for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's another one.

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<v Speaker 3>Here's another banger for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's another banger for you.

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<v Speaker 3>With my boy Kev on stage.

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<v Speaker 1>And that chick Angel.