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Speaker 1: This is Okayop. I'm Samuel Donner and I'm Jo We

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Speaker 1: tell the funniest stories on the Internet. And John Boy,

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Speaker 1: do I have one for you?

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Speaker 2: Another delicious story, Another delicious story, like a laughy taffy

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Speaker 2: because you're about to get a laugh love it, but

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Speaker 2: maybe not.

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Speaker 1: From the title, late husband's estranged abusive parents are demanding

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Speaker 1: access to my unborn son.

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Speaker 2: Ah. You know I'm gonna say something maybe not everyone

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Speaker 2: would agree with. Sounds like a mess, sounds like commercial,

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Speaker 2: but that sounds like a difficult situation.

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Speaker 1: I am a thirty year old woman who lost my

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Speaker 1: husband to cancer last year. Rough we'd always wanted kids,

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Speaker 1: so we had some of his nut juice frozen for

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Speaker 1: a later night. Also, like frozen nut juice reminds me

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Speaker 1: of like like you're freezing a human for further use,

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Speaker 1: Like three thousand years in the future, you're gonna come

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Speaker 1: out of this ice tray and some alien's gonna be like,

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Speaker 1: now we can repopulate the earth, like well Disney frozen

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Speaker 1: head kind of head, actually frozen, that's what they say.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I believe it.

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Speaker 2: I believe it if I got a bajillion dollars like

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Speaker 2: I'm going in my.

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Speaker 1: Head, my head, why not sadly this is a turn.

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Speaker 1: Sadly he lost his battle and passed away. I'm not

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Speaker 1: I'm not loving, but it is sad. I love because

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Speaker 1: the turn was so bad. It is crazy from Walt

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Speaker 1: Disney's head to answer sadness. I'm now in a place

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Speaker 1: where I feel capable mentally of taking care of a

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Speaker 1: child myself, and it was a success. I am expecting

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Speaker 1: a little boy from my husband's frozen nut juice. My

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Speaker 1: husband's parents somehow got wind of this and are constantly

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Speaker 1: demanding that they be allowed in my son's life, as

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Speaker 1: he will be the last part of their son. Okay,

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Speaker 1: which makes sense, Like I guess, like legacy, you want

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Speaker 1: to be part of your family.

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Speaker 2: Grandparents want to meet the grandchild. That's not unusual.

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Speaker 1: Especially with him having passed away. Right, true, true, True.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, though my husband had nothing to do

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Speaker 1: with his parents growing up, they were emotionally abusive to him,

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Speaker 1: and he got out of there as soon as he could.

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Speaker 1: He hadn't spoken to them in ten years, and when

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Speaker 1: it became clear things were taking a nosedive, he made

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Speaker 1: sure I knew he didn't want them at the funeral.

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Speaker 1: Oh parents, Wow, parents freaking removed from the funeral.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: That a good version.

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Speaker 2: That alone says it all. Don't put my parents in

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Speaker 2: my funeral Like that kind of describes their relationship in

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Speaker 2: a nutshell.

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Speaker 1: Which is like rough, because you know when you're when

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Speaker 1: you're when you're when you're on your deathbed. I feel

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Speaker 1: like you like it, you would reach out. Yeah, it

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Speaker 1: sounds to be pretty bad for you to not want

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Speaker 1: to make amends at all. Yeah. So I do not

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Speaker 1: think he'd want them in our son's life at all either,

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Speaker 1: So I'm trying to respect his wishes. But family and

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Speaker 1: friends are telling me I should give them a chance

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Speaker 1: that perhaps they have changed, and how this could be

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Speaker 1: a second chance for them. Perhaps it's cool, but I

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Speaker 1: don't want my son to be a guinea big trial

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Speaker 1: run if they're better, So is it an asshole move

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Speaker 1: not to give them the chance to prove themselves and

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Speaker 1: deny them contact with my son. I get the guinea

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Speaker 1: pig trial thing, like you want them their their first

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Speaker 1: try at being good humans to uh end up with

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Speaker 1: them and eventually being bad humans and just just screwing

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Speaker 1: up your son.

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Speaker 2: She's really in between a rock and a hard place

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Speaker 2: here because like, on one look, people can change, right,

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Speaker 2: and it is possible. And we don't know the exact

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Speaker 2: situations that went down with Op's deceased husband, but like

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Speaker 2: it had to be terrible for him to, you know,

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Speaker 2: not bring him to the funeral and everything, so like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Personally, I'm leaning kind.

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Speaker 2: Of towards like if it was really so horrendous, like

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Speaker 2: not doing it, or you know what, here we go compromise,

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Speaker 2: meet with the parents, oh pee, meet with the parents,

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Speaker 2: not with the baby, and sess it out for herself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but what is the bait? Like the parents meeting

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Speaker 1: the baby is not gonna screw anything out, like maybe

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Speaker 1: like the babysit or something. Yeah, introduced slowly, introduced, slowly,

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Speaker 1: But there's more to the story. My own parents have

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Speaker 1: said how if the positions were reversed, it would break

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Speaker 1: their hearts to be kept from my child. They have

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Speaker 1: suggested supervised visits, which I agree with supervise visits, but

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Speaker 1: I am against even that, which I don't agree with.

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Speaker 1: Supervised visits seems like a very small consolation price. I'm

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Speaker 1: feeling under so much stress about this as they're constantly

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Speaker 1: messaging my social media and I've had to block them. Also,

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Speaker 1: when everyone says like constantly messaging my social media, it

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Speaker 1: sounds like you have like a social media managers, like

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Speaker 1: my social media person, and they've been coming to my

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Speaker 1: home to try to convince me. Oh goodness, talk about

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Speaker 1: some that's loitering that you don't want to happen. No, no,

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Speaker 1: you don't want your dead husband's parents to come to

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Speaker 1: your doorstep asking about the babying dong than dog.

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Speaker 2: Let me say a kid, my puppies in your yard?

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Speaker 1: Am upstairs going hard? Okay op