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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, and entertainment

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Speaker 1: news Beyonce kicked off her Cowboy Carter tour in LA

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Speaker 1: and ticket prices have been slashed. Diddy's defense team believes

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Speaker 1: did he had quote diminished mental capacity during alleged crimes

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Speaker 1: and get these guys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Three hundred thousand dollars fell off of Brinks truck in

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Speaker 1: Illinois and the money is still missing.

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Speaker 2: That's all at the top of the hour.

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Speaker 1: But right now it it's time to ask the CLO

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Speaker 1: our chief love Officer, Steve Harvey. Yeah, all right, here

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Speaker 1: we go with Oneisha in Chesterfield. Onesha writes, I'm married

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Speaker 1: to a former pastor and he is a great man.

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Speaker 1: The only problem is that he sucks in bed. He's

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Speaker 1: only been with three women, he was married twice and

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Speaker 1: he never cheated. I want to spice up our sex life.

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Speaker 1: Will he think less of me if I do that?

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Speaker 3: Well speaking, if I were a form of pastor, yes.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't be bothered by it at all.

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Speaker 3: Bring it uh huh, slang it mm hm and let's

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Speaker 3: get's going be about it?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, So you wouldn't think less of her? Good

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Speaker 1: because that's in the words.

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Speaker 3: Of George Michaels, teach you there are things that I

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Speaker 3: still have to learn. Teacher ter things that I still

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Speaker 3: have to learn.

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Speaker 4: Oh boy, we had a song faveritething back then, all right.

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Speaker 1: Next one is Perry and Fairburn. Perry writes, my wife

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Speaker 1: is aside sixteen now, and her sex drive is off

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Speaker 1: the charts. I try to close my eyes and flash

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Speaker 1: back to five years ago when she was besides twelve.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to do sixteen, no matter how much I

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Speaker 1: love her. How do I gently encourage her to get

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Speaker 1: back down to twelve.

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Speaker 4: I'most stay out of this one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not gonna get into this.

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Speaker 1: He said, gently encouraged, though, well, I don't, bro, you

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Speaker 1: don't know how to gently.

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Speaker 5: You gotta get to the gym. That's that sixteen ain't

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Speaker 5: going down no time. So he gotta get to the gym.

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Speaker 1: That's not gently, nephew, Oh.

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Speaker 2: We gotta get to the gym. He didn't gently get

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Speaker 2: to the sixteen.

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Speaker 6: She ain't at sixteen, he asked, Hey, gently, I just.

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Speaker 5: Saying I used to Hey, hey, I used to love

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Speaker 5: him sixteen you already know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, but the delivery yet deliver up I just I.

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Speaker 5: Just know what he up against. I know what he

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Speaker 5: wrestling with. Does somebody want to explain to him?

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Speaker 2: Your dad say, men?

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Speaker 4: Is ask anybody asked him? Nothing? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well help him.

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Speaker 3: There's a reason why I'm trying to handle it this way, fool,

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Speaker 3: Go ahead and help him.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you.

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Speaker 3: Realize it, but you have side sixteen listeners.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 3: you right now. What you need to do is get

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Speaker 3: on this page. These four figure are modeling pages, and

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Speaker 3: it's some sixteens that are surprised. Yeah, he just don't

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Speaker 3: know how to wrestle with it, though he trying to

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Speaker 3: ask you how to wrestle with it.

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Speaker 2: Sureley, what's the next?

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Speaker 4: We just don't go down the further down the dog

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Speaker 4: hole with Steven.

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Speaker 1: Come on, words, gently encourage all right? Kyla in Newark

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Speaker 1: is where we're going now, Steve. She says, I'm in

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Speaker 1: a friends with benefits relationship with a co worker.

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Speaker 2: When we go on work trips, we share a.

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Speaker 1: Room, we play around sexually, but we've never gone all

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Speaker 1: the way. I am thinking that she wants me like

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Speaker 1: I want her. Should I make the first move. Now

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Speaker 1: you already made the move. Y'all share the room.

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Speaker 2: These are two women, These are two women.

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Speaker 4: See oh?

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Speaker 1: Kyla wrote it. Kyla from Newark. She's in a friends

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Speaker 1: with benefits relationship. They share a room when they go

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Speaker 1: on work trips. They play around sexually, but they've never

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Speaker 1: gone all the way. Kyla says she's thinking that the

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Speaker 1: woman wants her as much as she wants her, so

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Speaker 1: should she make the first move?

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Speaker 2: That's what she's asking.

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Speaker 4: Not understanding. It's your segment. Remember, I have some questions.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, if you're fooling around sexually, mm hmm, but

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Speaker 3: you haven't gone all the way.

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Speaker 2: All the way?

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Speaker 4: What is in that doing that? Because I need to

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Speaker 4: know that question.

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Speaker 2: What are they doing?

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Speaker 4: Are they just kissing?

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Speaker 1: Well, they pled around sexually, so yeah, that's yeah.

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Speaker 3: If you fooled around sexually, but you haven't gone all

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Speaker 3: the way. What what what are we doing with you?

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Speaker 6: What about the issue that they're coworkers though, I mean,

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Speaker 6: you know the co workers, but that doesn't seem to matter.

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Speaker 4: They didn't overlook that issue.

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Speaker 1: They shared rooms or works exactly.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, But what I'm saying is if they move forward

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Speaker 6: with this relationship and it goes bad, they still have

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Speaker 6: to work together, you know, that's part of it.

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Speaker 4: That's part of it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it is right now, it's going good. We

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Speaker 3: can't wait on the next work.

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Speaker 1: But what are the benefits if they haven't gone all

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Speaker 1: the way? They're in the friends with benefits relationship.

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Speaker 3: See, I don't I don't understand that because I don't

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Speaker 3: know what she's asking me.

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Speaker 4: We fooled around sexually, but we haven't gone all the way.

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Speaker 1: Maybe there's been some touching or you like you say, kissing,

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Speaker 1: but you know, well.

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Speaker 3: I would if we're doing that. How they getting in

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Speaker 3: the bed? They share a room. Shouldn't anybody somebody gotta take.

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Speaker 4: A shot.

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Speaker 6: Trying to Yeah, yeah, this is morning radio. It's only

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Speaker 6: so much we could say.

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Speaker 3: So what Well, if there's only so much, you can say,

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Speaker 3: where do I come in at?

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Speaker 2: Because she just wants to know should she make the.

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Speaker 4: First Yes, go ahead and do it?

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Speaker 2: And you're telling her that why.

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Speaker 4: Because she won't?

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Speaker 2: You like, if she didn't want.

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Speaker 4: You, she wouldn't be fooling around with you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're you're thinking like a man, That's what I mean.

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Speaker 4: And that's all I could do act like a lady

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Speaker 4: like a man. I wrote the book. Now what you

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Speaker 4: asked me for going to do it?

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Speaker 3: Because I was said, yes, she won't you and she's

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Speaker 3: not going to rebuff you or rebuke you, whatever you

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Speaker 3: want to call it. Make you move, get it in act,

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Speaker 3: let's connect you. Okay, reject you.

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Speaker 4: We in here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's not going to do that either. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: all right, so that's your advice. Go ahead and make

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Speaker 1: the first move.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what we're talking about. Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: Last one, Steve. This is from Derek and Beaumont.

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Speaker 1: He says, I love to cook, so when I smoked

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Speaker 1: meat on the weekends, I invite people over. I invited

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Speaker 1: a new neighbor over and my wife was nice to her,

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Speaker 1: but she was very mad when the lady left. The

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Speaker 1: woman is not attractive, So why was my wife tripping?

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Speaker 4: What? Because you invited her over.

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Speaker 3: And you you invited a woman over to your house

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Speaker 3: and didn't tell your wife.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm, bro, that's simple.

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Speaker 2: Her wife His wife was nice, was the lady?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but after she left? How did she get over here?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 2: Thank you? Celo.

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Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you. Right after this, you're listening

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