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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Keon and.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend refused to eat the meals I make him

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Speaker 2: because he's a picky eater.

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Speaker 3: Let's just recollect ourselves.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he likes, Yeah, make him.

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Speaker 3: Something he likes. I'll be like, hey, teach me how

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Speaker 3: to make the food that you like. And if we're

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Speaker 3: missing nutrients that you need as a person, then let's

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Speaker 3: figure it out.

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Speaker 2: No more Dino Nuggies. So my boyfriend, he's a very

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Speaker 2: picky eater.

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Speaker 3: Ok.

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Speaker 2: And we've been living together for a few months and

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Speaker 2: it seems like I can never get his food right

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Speaker 2: and it's honestly discouraging. I have kids, they seem happy

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Speaker 2: to eat my food. I cook for family gatherings, church

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Speaker 2: events and have never had a problem with people eating

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Speaker 2: my food except for with him. Hmmm. Interesting. And by

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Speaker 2: the way, this comes from Moon Rabbit thirty six. And

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Speaker 2: if you want to speirral stories, what are the r

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Speaker 2: slash Okay stories? So I'm sub Reddit, I'm Riley.

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Speaker 1: I'm elo, Hi, and I'm Keon and yes, we have

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Speaker 1: a very special guest today, Ilona Garcia.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 1: She's a Filipino Australian singer, songwriter and actress. She's known

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Speaker 1: for her music under the record label eighty eight Rising

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Speaker 1: with songs like All That, which has received over a

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Speaker 1: million views in four days, or.

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Speaker 3: Entertain Me, entertain He's like my favorite best.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and what newer songs like could have been and

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Speaker 1: question Mark Yes. She also gained fame after finishing as

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Speaker 1: the first runner up on Pinoy Big Brother and was

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Speaker 1: the first Filipino to be featured on the American fashion magazine.

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Speaker 1: Eleona has been called a style icon and a voice

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Speaker 1: of her generation.

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Speaker 2: Wait what really, you're learning things?

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Speaker 1: See, you don't even.

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Speaker 3: Know that I am learning things about myself.

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Speaker 1: We're learning things about you.

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Speaker 3: That's that's cool. Yeah that makes sense though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I've always had to introduce myself to

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Speaker 3: which is always like the most fun, but not me

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Speaker 3: learning about myself through you guys, that's kind of crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, we've like looked into your whole life. You

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Speaker 2: can ask us more questions and what you know really yeah,

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Speaker 2: like you relationship with your family, we know about that.

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Speaker 3: Why are you gonna say like that?

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Speaker 1: Sorry? Yeah, I mean as the resident Filipino. Come on,

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Speaker 1: we have to share the same at least some common

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Speaker 1: traits with our families.

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Speaker 3: Okay, give me an example.

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Speaker 1: Are you always late? See? You have to think about it.

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Speaker 3: No, because okay, okakay, it depends when it comes to

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Speaker 3: like when it comes to work functions, sometimes it makes

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Speaker 3: more sense to show up a little later because that's

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Speaker 3: when more people come through.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what about what about like the family party.

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Speaker 3: When it comes to family parties, I'm actually always on.

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Speaker 1: Time, so like two days later?

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Speaker 3: Right, No, always on time. I'm always on time. But

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Speaker 3: but the problem is because it's a family function, and

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Speaker 3: I go with my family to the bigger family function,

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Speaker 3: right yeah, I have to literally just wait in the

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Speaker 1: I know you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: See.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we do share that, okay.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, And by the way, we're here to give

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Speaker 2: good advice, goofully, and we don't have all the answers,

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Speaker 2: but if you know something, please add it down in

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Speaker 2: the comments sound below.

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Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, that would be so helpful. I feel like,

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Speaker 3: you know, young ready to learn, not trying to make

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Speaker 3: too many mistakes. So good, I'm ready, and we want.

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Speaker 2: To shout out Lana and Powell. They work behind the scenes,

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Speaker 2: they live in the Philippines and you do. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: they absolutely love you, so they wanted could you shout

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Speaker 2: them out? Lana and Pale Yeah, Pale, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Hi guys. I wish I got to meet you

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Speaker 3: at least like through FaceTime or zoom, but even if

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Speaker 3: it's after, that's totally fine. I just wanted to say

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Speaker 3: guys's stories. Thank you for being fans of what I do.

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Speaker 2: That's really cool, awesome. Heck yeah, So here's the story.

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Speaker 2: It's like every day there's new rules with with Op

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Speaker 2: and our partner, Okay can't eat chicken for dinner because

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Speaker 2: he had chicken for lunch. He really isn't in the

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Speaker 2: mood for pork chops.

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Speaker 3: That's valid. Do you know how long it takes too?

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry for no, but do you know how

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Speaker 3: long it takes to actually digest pork?

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Speaker 2: I tried it a while ago and it took longer

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 3: How long did it take you?

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Speaker 2: I wanted it to be twelve minutes, and it took

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Speaker 2: me like twenty two to twenty four.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean for pork chops that we're.

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Speaker 3: Talking about, It actually usually takes four hours four hours.

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Speaker 2: Yes, what kind of pork chops are you making?

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Speaker 3: No, it's just pork period.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what about cream barbecue when you have like

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Speaker 2: thin slices, It takes like maybe a couple of minutes

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Speaker 3: But more so like digesting the food itself, not cooking it. Oh,

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Speaker 3: it takes four hours. Wow, it's a lot.

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Speaker 2: It does take a lot. That explains a lot too.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I'm such a terrible Filipino because I

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Speaker 3: You don't wait, that's kind of that's kind of cool.

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Speaker 3: I mean it's pretty healthy.

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Speaker 2: It's annoying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty healthy for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's also annoying because it's like, oh, I want

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Speaker 2: to go to this Ken's like, I don't eat that.

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Speaker 3: Oh do they not have options?

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Speaker 1: We do well sometimes, but I just don't like pork.

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Speaker 3: You just don't like pork. You've never liked pork. That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: A don't see my parents kind of like gas lip

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Speaker 1: me or my mom did with like pork a dopo,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, this doesn't taste like chicken, and like, no,

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Speaker 3: I feel like you just haven't had it the right way.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's good, respectfully.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about this later. Talk about this.

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Speaker 2: It does eat at a lot of restaurants. Wow, so

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Speaker 2: it's just missing something. He doesn't eat onions, tomatoes, fish,

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Speaker 2: any kind of Asian food. He doesn't eat most vegetables,

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Speaker 2: with the exception of broccoli.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's good.

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Speaker 2: He only eats vanilla ice cream. And he doesn't like

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Speaker 2: food heated in the microwave. Leftovers are out. He doesn't

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Speaker 2: be a good partner. I could eat the macrowife thing.

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Speaker 3: No, corn's catching astray.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Wait, there was no resistance to like beef.

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Speaker 2: Right, we didn't know. He hasn't say anything about beef

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Speaker 1: It doesn't say anything about like a food allergy. Either

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Speaker 1: it just seems like doesn't eat that stuff. It was

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Speaker 1: a food allergy would makes sense, I guess, yeah, But

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Speaker 1: or like like for me, I don't eat pork. I

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Speaker 1: just don't like it. But he doesn't like a lot

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It just doesn't seem like he likes

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, is he starving?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe has he cooked before?

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Speaker 2: So he says he can't really cook at all. His

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Speaker 2: favorite meal is hamburger.

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Speaker 3: Helper, hamburger helper. Wait, what's that?

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh, I hate it.

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Speaker 2: I can't. I can't eat hamburger helper. Huh it's mac

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Speaker 2: and cheese, okay, with already added meat. Is that right?

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Speaker 1: It's like it's like you put like hamburger meat and

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Speaker 1: it's like mixed, but you microwave it. It's like in

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Speaker 3: Wait, I thought it doesn't like microwaving food.

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Speaker 2: He might.

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Speaker 1: I think like leftovers. I think left their front. So

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Speaker 1: like if you already if it was already made, and

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Speaker 1: then you have to put in the fridge and it

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Speaker 1: He doesn't like that.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, no, that's kind of valid because like it

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Speaker 3: leaves the room for bacteria to.

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Speaker 2: Kind of just yeah, but if you're like I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I'm actually not sure. But I also just on my end,

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Speaker 3: No way, and I wish that wasn't the case, because

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Speaker 3: that feels very high maintenance. But that's just been And

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Speaker 3: you're on the road a lot too, I am.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, why you have your friend back there? She

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Sweet, Okay, damn sorry, I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 3: how we solve this situation.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we have a lot more context to

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Speaker 2: I think a lot of it is how he grew up,

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Speaker 2: but dang, it is frustrating. The first picture is tonight's dinner.

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Speaker 2: I added more pictures of stuff I have cooked that

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Speaker 2: he won't eat, Like he will door dash jack in

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Speaker 2: the box and he'll be apologetic, but it's just really bad.

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Speaker 2: We have an image here.

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Speaker 3: Can I see?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Also, hi, everybody, someone said making hamburger helper is cooking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah wait, what did we I'm so sorry. I legit

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Speaker 3: for gob what we said.

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Speaker 1: No, it's a meal in the box that you add

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Speaker 1: hamburger two while you're cooking it on the stove. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you cook it on the stove. Some people microwave it,

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Speaker 1: but like, oh, I don't know, it's not like the

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Speaker 1: freshest thing.

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Speaker 2: It's like saying cooked like chicken noodle soup.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's a bunch of okay, so it's a bunch

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Speaker 1: of images.

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Speaker 3: I've never made chicken noodle soup. I'm so sorry. I

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Speaker 3: wish I understood rumen.

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Speaker 2: Literally, it's like putting it in a can, into a

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Speaker 2: pot and heating it up.

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Speaker 3: Oh really, that's how you do it.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 3: You don't make it from scratch.

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Speaker 2: What about tomato soup? Have you ever made that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh okay, cool. Yeah, it's just like making tomato soup.

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Speaker 1: You're just crazy of things.

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Speaker 2: I know, the paper plates are very lazy on my part.

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Speaker 2: Mostly I want to say thank you. I was not

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Speaker 3: Well, if it's not what she wants to do, then

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, she's running around feeding him and the kids

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Speaker 1: Are they married, dyfriend?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh okay, Honestly, I feel like we need to

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Speaker 2: like an amazing like oh gosh, like a physical therapist

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Speaker 3: Oh man, Well, I will say, like, uh, just how

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's actually great, Like it was very interesting.

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Speaker 2: Do your parents know that you're like one of their kids?

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Speaker 2: Like that's like forgotten about life.

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Speaker 3: And that's what I've heard. I wish I understood what

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Speaker 3: And I would say, like a lot of the stuff

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Speaker 2: Step away from normal. Yes, it doesn't sound like a

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Speaker 2: She's helping me with my caffeine.

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Speaker 3: A didgar never, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: She's like, you should take my music. She was giving

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's beautiful, looky, but yeah, that's that's like the

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Speaker 1: Let's not talk about why.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you're hustling.

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Speaker 3: Do you take caffeine?

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Speaker 2: No I do not? I okay every other day? Have

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Speaker 1: Now I'm proud of you.

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Speaker 2: Look at you dogs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but for me, I would probably get on average

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Speaker 3: Three to five hours.

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Speaker 3: If you need to go to bed right now, please

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Speaker 2: Just keep us one, that's all we have.

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Speaker 3: right now, it's almost five am. Why are you awake?

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's a morning person, that is that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Man, do you remember that sound when you wake up

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Speaker 1: Yeah, with the roosters. Yeah. I show my girlfriend to

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Speaker 1: Who's that? I'm like, that's that's my that's my morning coffee.

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Speaker 1: Right there.

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Speaker 3: That's cool.

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Speaker 2: So this person has a solution to Opie's problem. Really,

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Speaker 2: so Creddington twenty twenty three says, stop cooking for him.

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Speaker 2: He can cook, slash order what he wants. You're just

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Speaker 2: I work full time. He and I commute together to

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Speaker 3: Ooh, this problem very valid. Yeah, I just feel like

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking, here's my heart take okay, taking advantage of

448
00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:13,199
Speaker 2: the situation. Oh, He's like, all right, sure, cook for me,

449
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:15,639
Speaker 2: but like, I'll eat whatever I want. I'll eat it

450
00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:19,160
Speaker 2: when I want. Because he likes chicken, but he refuses

451
00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,640
Speaker 2: to eat it because he just had it earlier. I'm

452
00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:23,040
Speaker 2: not really getting I don't know.

453
00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:24,679
Speaker 1: I'm kind of one of those people. I can't have

454
00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:26,440
Speaker 1: like the same thing all day.

455
00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I need to have food fatigue.

456
00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, fatig I get variability. Like sure, if it's there,

457
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,639
Speaker 1: I won't complain, Like it's food, I'm gonna eat it.

458
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,920
Speaker 1: But if I'm eating chicken for every meal every day,

459
00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,880
Speaker 1: I'm going to start to hate chicken. I get it. Yeah,

460
00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:43,480
Speaker 1: I need to switch it up. But like when it

461
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,560
Speaker 1: comes to like veggies or like mashed potatoes, the same

462
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,960
Speaker 1: thing I just need, Like for us, it's like rice,

463
00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,160
Speaker 1: like we love I love rice. I'll have rice every day.

464
00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 1: I will never get tired of rice.

465
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,440
Speaker 3: That's cool. I love rice too.

466
00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

467
00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,639
Speaker 2: Repost from four chan says any kind of Asian food,

468
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 2: having traveled to seven countries in Asia, I have no

469
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,200
Speaker 2: idea what that means. They eat everything. He says fair

470
00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:11,639
Speaker 2: about the Asian food. He won't eat sushi, won't eat dupplings,

471
00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:15,160
Speaker 2: won't eat stir fry, won't eat fried rice or rice noodles,

472
00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:19,080
Speaker 2: won't eat toafood or Okay, it probably be faster to

473
00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,960
Speaker 2: list what he does eat. He eats ground beef, potatoes,

474
00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:28,240
Speaker 2: chicken without bones, rice to a degree, cheese, chili, pickles, sausage,

475
00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:33,280
Speaker 2: green beans only Italian cut and only out of a can,

476
00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:37,240
Speaker 2: canned stewed, fast food hamburgers with no veggies on them,

477
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 2: fast food tacos with only meat and cheese on them,

478
00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,040
Speaker 2: vanilla ice cream, and beef jerky.

479
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:43,919
Speaker 1: Is he not no pickles or like vegetables?

480
00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,280
Speaker 2: Don't tell him that he probably will stop eating it?

481
00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:46,919
Speaker 3: Interesting?

482
00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think about this guy's nutrition?

483
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 1: This guy's diet is interesting?

484
00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:56,240
Speaker 3: Mmm? I guess it just because everything that you said

485
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:58,879
Speaker 3: is like all the things that he eats, right, But

486
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 3: it's not the thing that he eats in a day.

487
00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 3: Those are just things that if he thinks of.

488
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:05,800
Speaker 1: Like that's like his food limit, Like he won't try

489
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 1: anything else. He won't eat anything else. That's like that's

490
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:09,640
Speaker 1: all he'll eat.

491
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,440
Speaker 3: I mean, is his goal to just like keep to that?

492
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:14,119
Speaker 2: Like? Is he?

493
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,840
Speaker 3: I just have more questions. Is he trying to bulk

494
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 3: up for the season? Is he?

495
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 2: Is he trying to.

496
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,920
Speaker 3: Stick to that? So he's not trying to try new restaurants?

497
00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:25,160
Speaker 3: So new food?

498
00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 1: Okay, Now, if you said, hey, I got chicken a

499
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 1: double right here or something like my friend's Filipino lumpia,

500
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 1: simple the easiest thing. Everyone loves lumpia for the most part.

501
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 1: And you introduced it to him and he said, no,

502
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,959
Speaker 1: won't touch that one. He won't even bite it. How

503
00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:41,360
Speaker 1: would you.

504
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,680
Speaker 3: React, Well, I mean, that's just that's just what it is.

505
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,399
Speaker 1: He's like he has ground, it has ground, beef, it

506
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 1: has everything that you like in there, you know, but

507
00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 1: he won't try it because it's just something he's not

508
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 1: used to, or he's like he's never had before.

509
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,120
Speaker 2: I know a guy that only eats potatoes. Wait, what

510
00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:58,480
Speaker 2: only eats potatoes?

511
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 3: Like nothing else, nothing else he.

512
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,680
Speaker 2: Won't eat he doesn't like meat. He eats French fries

513
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 2: and he's like he's like almost twenty and he's going bald.

514
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:12,159
Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa Wait, sorry that was a shaka.

515
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, no going bold. Yeah.

516
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,719
Speaker 3: Is it just because he only eats potatoes, because that's crazy.

517
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, only only potatoes. Yeah, it's sad. It's really sad.

518
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 3: Do you guys, like, do you guys know all of

519
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 3: this stuff? Like if you only eat potatoes, you're gonna

520
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 3: lose hair. Someone literally said Riley with the fuck.

521
00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know he's Yeah, I won't talk

522
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 2: more about that guy, but yeah, it's kind of sad.

523
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 2: It's kind of sad. Someone said, Italian cut green beans.

524
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 2: Is that even a thing? I've never heard of those before?

525
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 2: MENI though, Yeah, I didn't know Italians messed with green

526
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: beans like that. I have a long history with green beans.

527
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 2: Oh yep. I grew up a kind of on a farm.

528
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 2: Oh nice, worked at the sawmill in the morning till three,

529
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 2: and then in the evening worked in the garden picking

530
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 2: green beans. Yeah. The green beans were probably like fifteen

531
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:02,720
Speaker 2: meters long, and then there were like one, two, three, four,

532
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 2: six rows of them, six to nine rows fifteen meters long,

533
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 2: and there were two gardens of that. How long does

534
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 2: it take you, too, uh to pick them? Oh gosh,

535
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,119
Speaker 2: probably like a row. It'll take like two to three hours.

536
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 2: You'll get like a bushels, like like three to four gallons,

537
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 2: and you'll get like a bushel in that time. Yeah,

538
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,640
Speaker 2: and you sell it by the bushel.

539
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,120
Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, that's kind of cool.

540
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 2: It's real Southern stuff r out there.

541
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, okay.

542
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:34,120
Speaker 2: This other person says Thomas and Anna. I say this

543
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 2: with love, Ope, but this relationship sounds exhausting. You're working

544
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 2: very hard with your job, giving your children delicious meals,

545
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,479
Speaker 2: making informed decisions on what news you consume in this

546
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 2: crazy world. You sound like a lovely human being, And

547
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 2: I'll ask something that was once asked for me. Does

548
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:56,719
Speaker 2: this man make your life better? Notes? I'm not asking

549
00:23:56,760 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 2: if you love him, but does he improve your well being? Hiness,

550
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 2: et cetera, et cetera. Like you do for him, what

551
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 2: is he bringing to your life? No P. Says as

552
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 2: a downvoted comment, I had to read this a few

553
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 2: times and sit with it. He listens to me, reminds

554
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 2: me to take my medicine. He drives me and I'm

555
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 2: such a nervous driver. He cares when I cry. He

556
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 2: makes me laugh If I'm truthful, it hasn't been good

557
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 2: for my health. I do too much and neglect my health.

558
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:30,000
Speaker 2: But don't women do that? Don't We burn brightly for

559
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,119
Speaker 2: people we love and it always comes at a cost,

560
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 2: doesn't it. It isn't always like that interesting, So we

561
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 2: kind of got a little insight on their life. We

562
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 2: have another update.

563
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 1: Dang, that's rough. The fact that she's like, you always

564
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: have to sacrifice something, right, Oh, That's what being a

565
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,159
Speaker 1: woman is is just sacrificing every day to make the

566
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 1: people you love happy at a point, Yes.

567
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 3: But I got from my mom. Yeah.

568
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, But it's like you also need to realize sometimes

569
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: you need to have your self at the top of

570
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: that list. You know, you can't always put yourself at

571
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: the bottom. You sure some dates, but not every day.

572
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: And those people that you love should also have you

573
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: on top of that list too. Not treat you like

574
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: you're at the bottom of that list every day. That's crazy.

575
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 2: If the planes crashing, what do you got to do first?

576
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 2: Are you?

577
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 3: Oh this is not rhetorical, john planes crashing?

578
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 2: I mean things drop down. What do you do first? Oh?

579
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 3: Don't you? Don't you take the thing and then breathe?

580
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 2: Put you put your oxygen mask on first before you

581
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:29,959
Speaker 2: put others on?

582
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 3: Oh? Yes, yes, yes, I was like, wait, did you mean,

583
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 3: like Johnson, the.

584
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 1: First thing you do is jump and that's it?

585
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:37,679
Speaker 2: Are we are? We crashed?

586
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

587
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta like put your oxygen mask on before

588
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,400
Speaker 2: you can help others. Yes, if you keep burning, burning brightly,

589
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: gonna fizzle out.

590
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: What's the what's the one that John always says about?

591
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: You know, this is a lot, but it's like you

592
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: like your yourself on fire to warm other people up.

593
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, don't light yourself on fire to warm others.

594
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 2: If you've been doing that.

595
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say so. I think i've I've found a

596
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 3: good balance to make all of it work. It definitely is.

597
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 3: It's a lot of how do I say this, It's

598
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 3: a lot of thinking that has to go onto play.

599
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 2: It feels like chess, Yeah, forty chess or just five

600
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:16,400
Speaker 2: D five.

601
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 3: D yeah, just to make sure everything is moving and everybody,

602
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 3: including myself is taken care of. It's fun though for me.

603
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,360
Speaker 3: I like chess a lot, But I'm trying to think

604
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,719
Speaker 3: about the situation. I feel like the first question that

605
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 3: comes to mind is what do you want out of life?

606
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: Mmm?

607
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 3: Like that's that feels like the overarching question, and then

608
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 3: that's going to lead to a bunch of more questions

609
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 3: just to kind of realign her.

610
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 2: With Yeah, have we lost the path in some ways?

611
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 2: You really like how everything's going? We need to pivot.

612
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, I like that. We have a

613
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 2: little bit of an update here two days ago or

614
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 2: two days later. I think things are changing. Just me

615
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,439
Speaker 2: posting the post was a sign to myself that I

616
00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 2: am not happy with the status quo. I'm generally a

617
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 2: pretty patient person, but like last night, I made him

618
00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 2: chili dogs in fries because that is something he will

619
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:09,200
Speaker 2: consistently eat, and I was cooking something for the kids

620
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: that I knew he wouldn't eat. When I took it

621
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 2: to him, he said, you're not gonna believe this, but

622
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 2: I had chili dogs for lunch, and I blurted out,

623
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 2: I don't care. We were both shocked, and I think

624
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 2: I went back to the kitchen. Oh, we have another

625
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 2: small update the next day. This was tough love, and

626
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 2: I thank you for it. This post was just me

627
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 2: venting from my kitchen into the void, but it turned

628
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 2: into something very different. Apparently there are a lot of

629
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 2: things that I thought or think or normal that are

630
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 2: maybe not normal at all. I made a decision to

631
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 2: start Therapye. Oh that's good. Wow, it's a big, big step.

632
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 3: That is a big step.

633
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 2: It's fully covered through my job, and I think it's

634
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 2: going to be helpful to have a sane adult I

635
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 2: can talk to. I know it might not be the

636
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 2: big step people would like to see me take, but

637
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 2: I just don't trust myself fully right now to be

638
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 2: making the big decisions.

639
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 3: Wait, that's good though, that's self aware.

640
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,360
Speaker 2: This is a big step. Yeah. Yeah, I just want

641
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 2: to say thank you and to let you know that

642
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 2: it did read your comments and it did help me

643
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 2: and we have another update.

644
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

645
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

646
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 2: I think that's brilliant taking that step. Yeah, because if

647
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 2: you're like, am I crazy? It's good to have a

648
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 2: good soundboard to talk too.

649
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 3: That's true.

650
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: Also, just that's just crazy. That ope, he made a

651
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: specific meal for him that he knows that, like, oh,

652
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: you know what, I cooked the kid's dinner. But I

653
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: love this guy. I'm gonna cook him a chili dog

654
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: because he loves chili dog. And he responds with I

655
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: had that for lunch. I don't want that.

656
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 2: Dude, I just throw the chili dogs in his face. Sorry,

657
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 2: if that's violent, Can.

658
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 1: You imagine like saying that to your mom or like

659
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: your mom cooked you like your favorite meal, but you

660
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: already had it earlier in that day and you're like, eh,

661
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: I don't want that.

662
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, that can't happen exactly, and no.

663
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: A Filipino mother, Nope, it's the you get what you

664
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Speaker 1: get and you don't get upset.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Wow, that is like that's a thought that would

666
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Speaker 3: never enter my mind to say mm hmm in.

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Speaker 2: My house, if like you didn't want to eat it,

668
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Speaker 2: you just make yourself up peanut butter and jelly sandwich.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's cool though. Yeah I love peanut butter. Yeah, yeah,

670
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 3: it's so good, great and protein.

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Speaker 2: It is it is. I've been I make smoothies hmm,

672
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Speaker 2: and I put peanut butter powder in it.

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Speaker 3: That's actually yeah, yeah that's something I've actually never tried.

674
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Speaker 3: But it is a hack litll.

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Speaker 2: Hack Okay, less fat and plus like it kind of

676
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: like fluffs up the smoothie. Nice.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, going back to what you were saying, Okay, like.

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Speaker 1: M hm, why didn't he a little bit right?

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00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but why didn't he at least text.

680
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Speaker 1: So or because he seems very pampered, very spoiled, and

681
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: oh he's spoiled. Oh you can tell. Yeah, because he's like,

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Speaker 1: I'll just eat whatever I want to eat. I get

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Speaker 1: what I want. I don't care like if you cook,

684
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Speaker 1: if you cook this, I'm not trying to get as

685
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Speaker 1: if it's something I will eat and if I already

686
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Speaker 1: had that that day, you have to make me something else.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Kimberly Fun, you have the pauses. Kimberly says,

688
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Speaker 2: one time, I had a really long day at work

689
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Speaker 2: and I ate two famous bowls throughout the day. Had

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Speaker 2: a date with my husband at the drive in that

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Speaker 2: night and he stopped at KFC slash Taco Bell. I

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Speaker 2: had one of those of my hometown too. Kimberly fun,

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Speaker 2: I kept my mouth shut, and another famous bowl plus

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Speaker 2: a burrito. I felt like I was dying. Do not recommend?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I couldn't. I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: Wait. Why. I feel like you could have said someone that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you'd be like, ah, honey, I'll just

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Speaker 1: have that for lunch tomorrow, Like I'm not hungry at

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Speaker 1: that point.

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Wait? Why?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Man? But he has another update.

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Speaker 3: Okay, hey, it's Angie, your favorite fake redhead host here,

703
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Speaker 3: and we're going to get back to the stories.

704
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Speaker 1: But he's a three minute ad break from our sponsors.

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Speaker 2: Two days later. Thank you. This was very thoughtfully written.

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Speaker 2: I am. I'm still trying to sort out what to do.

707
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: I want to make the right decision with a cool head.

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00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 2: I think it's leaning very much in that direction. She's

709
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Speaker 2: about to break up.

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Speaker 3: Oh really? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So I set his plate in front of him, and

712
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Speaker 2: he looked at it for a minute, got up and

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Speaker 2: took it to the kitchen. He came back with some chips.

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00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 2: I said, not good, he said no, and I didn't

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Speaker 2: offer to make him anything else, didn't ask him what

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Speaker 2: was wrong with it, just said oh okay and shrugged

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00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 2: and went back to dinner. That sug him up, I

718
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Speaker 2: think because he's not used to me being nonchalant about it.

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00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 2: So I feel like something has changed. My mindset is changing.

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Speaker 2: I'm grateful for the encouragement and all the good advice.

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00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 2: I'm continuing to read the comments and replying when I

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00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 2: get breaks. It might be pathetic, but I don't really

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Speaker 2: have any grown up friends to talk to about this stuff,

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Speaker 2: so it's been helpful. And we have another update. So

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking this is what's happening. She cooks food, gives

726
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Speaker 2: it to him, I don't want it. She goes back

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Speaker 2: cook something else and brings it to him, so she's

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Speaker 2: kind of wasting her day. It seems like.

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Speaker 1: She's already high strung, high stress with school kids, cooking,

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Speaker 1: cleaning the whole nine yards pretty much.

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Speaker 3: But what the heck? And she also doesn't really have

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Speaker 3: much friends, which means she's like she only has really

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Speaker 3: herself as a soundboard before she saw a therapist, and

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Speaker 3: also the boyfriend. Boyfriend has her only other soundboard.

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Speaker 2: Oh not good, not good, We have another update.

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Speaker 3: She's very isolated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say I would show this man

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Speaker 1: ratituy and be like, listen, anybody could cook. That's like,

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Speaker 1: if you're gonna complain about my cooking, go ahead and

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Speaker 1: cook because you look like you got free time to

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Speaker 1: just hang out and have someone cook for you. You

742
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Speaker 1: know what, you could. I want Opie to have someone

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Speaker 1: cook for her because it seems like she's always cooking.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, i'd cook for her.

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Speaker 3: Does she never like want to order in?

746
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Speaker 1: Sometimes they look like they do fast food?

747
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 2: But I could afford it because just to the kids too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Update four, He's not going to eat the pork chops.

751
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Speaker 1: So true bad that's a crazy title.

752
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Speaker 2: So about a month ago, I'm going to host here

753
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Speaker 2: because my boyfriend didn't want to eat the pork chops

754
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 2: I cook for dinner. Well tonight I made pork chops again,

755
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Speaker 2: and he's not going to eat these either because we

756
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Speaker 2: broke up and he moved out.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, holy cow, she did it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, how is she? How's she doing? Now? How's she feeling?

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Speaker 2: I am so much better off and I just want

761
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Speaker 2: to say thank you for all the kind words and advice.

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Speaker 2: It was very eye opening to me. And I wish

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Speaker 2: I could invite you all to dinner and she has

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Speaker 2: some more images of yummy food. Good for her. She

765
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Speaker 2: needed to do this. Then you think, could you see

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Speaker 2: this coming?

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Speaker 3: I mean I did, ye, yeah, I just man, I

768
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Speaker 3: think the lack of clarity of what she wanted, like

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Speaker 3: as as you were reading, and I probably, man, my

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Speaker 3: bad for not letting you finish every everything, Like I said,

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Speaker 3: interrupt me cool with that.

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Speaker 1: That's what we do here. Yeah, yeah, we It happens

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Speaker 1: a lot where we're reading something and they were like

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Speaker 1: do this and literally the next sentence is I did it,

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Speaker 1: and you're.

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Speaker 2: Like a good for you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just one sentence.

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00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,319
Speaker 2: No live reactions are good. Yeah, no, it was.

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Speaker 3: It's just more so if they I'm not even sure

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Speaker 3: if they aligned on what they wanted like and like

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Speaker 3: honestly so just even the lack of clarity on that

782
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Speaker 3: end to be able to know if if this was

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Speaker 3: a compatible incompatible situation relationship, it could have saved her

784
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Speaker 3: so much time.

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Speaker 1: And this is what I pulled up this image because

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Speaker 1: this is this just like a happy meal for oph

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Speaker 1: That looks awesome. Yeah, and she's cooking that for the kids,

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00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 1: but it seems like he doesn't want to eat that.

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Speaker 1: M I could eat that, right, that looks really good.

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Speaker 1: This is probably her like her first time making a meal,

791
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Speaker 1: and she's genuine not dreading cooking joint cooking.

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00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 2: Some of Opie's comments, fun Button says, were you the

793
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Speaker 2: one where he would order Jack in the box and

794
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Speaker 2: eat it lukewarm instead of eating your home cooking? Oh what?

795
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 2: And Opie says, yes, he would door dash Jack in

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Speaker 2: the box instead of eating her cooking Jack in the box.

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Speaker 3: To my understanding, I've actually never had Jack in the box.

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Speaker 2: I don't around the corner if you didn't check it out.

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Speaker 3: No, is it not the healthy? I don't know if

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Speaker 3: it's not.

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Speaker 1: It's fast food. It's fast food.

802
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 2: Got Winny's, McDonald's.

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Speaker 1: It's jolly. It's like, if you look at the rankings

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00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 1: of fast food Jack in the boxes, not to bash

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00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 1: on them, there is just like a little bit lower

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00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 1: than like in and out, you know.

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00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's so sad.

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00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, so Opie clarifies, I broke up with him. It

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00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 2: wasn't right after my last post, but after my last

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00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 2: appointment I made with a therapist. During my second appointment,

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Speaker 2: I just blurted out everything that I was really unhappy

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00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 2: with and told the lady.

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Speaker 3: Everything, Okay, that's good, that's good.

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00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, ride a bunch, slept on it. Broke up with

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Speaker 2: him the next day. He moved in with his brother

816
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,360
Speaker 2: that weekend. Wow, so there was, like you said earlier,

817
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 2: there was so much more happening behind the scenes.

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00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so crazy.

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Speaker 2: M h.

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Speaker 3: I hope she's happier. I hope she's healthier, and I

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Speaker 3: hope the kids are safe and we'll see and happy

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Speaker 3: and learning doing well because this is just such a

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00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 3: crazy situation. Especially I don't even know if like them

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Speaker 3: when they were a couple at the time, if they

825
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 3: had fights in front of the kids. I just I

826
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Speaker 3: hope it's a healthier environment for everybody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems like OPI so much happier. She's working

828
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Speaker 2: on what she wants to do. Yeah, no more manchild

829
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 2: being upset.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we get it. There's like sometimes there's compromise.

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Speaker 1: I get it. If like for me, I don't eat pork.

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Speaker 1: So my partner she's like, okay, won't eat pork or

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00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 1: you know, she'll try and to be thoughtful about that,

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Speaker 1: especially if she orders food, because I love food, so

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Speaker 1: she like try this, and obviously we share meals. But

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Speaker 1: if it's pork, I'm like, no, it's okay, eat it,

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Speaker 1: and she's like, are you sure. I'm like, yeah, you

838
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: can eat around it. No. But this seems a little

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Speaker 1: bit too too much where my partner like, again, if

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Speaker 1: it's a food allergy or our film or something like

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00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,320
Speaker 1: that makes sense, but it just seemed like he was stubborn,

842
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: didn't care.

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00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you should. You should read one.

844
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:22,959
Speaker 1: Well. I was gonna say, we have some red flag

845
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: green flags.

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00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 3: Oh oh okay, guess.

847
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 2: We should do that.

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00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 1: I think there's some red flag green flags behind you, rightley.

849
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: But before while you're grabbing that, we do have a

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Speaker 1: special guest here today, Elo. If you want to go

851
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: ahead and introduce yourself one more time, who you are,

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00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: what you do, Please go ahead and let the people know.

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00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 3: Hi, guys, my name's Alana Gacia, but you can call

854
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:47,720
Speaker 3: me Elo as the boys do. And I'm a artist

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00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 3: that does music and film, right now my focuses are

856
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 3: releasing music. Hence forth, the two singles not me putting

857
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 3: two two's up or singles called question marking could have been.

858
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,959
Speaker 3: I just released it almost a four month ago, which

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00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,399
Speaker 3: is crazy to think about. But yeah, I honestly forgot

860
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Speaker 3: what I was saying. But yes, hi, uh, and I'm

861
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 3: here today because these lads are just really really cool.

862
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 3: They reached out and I just wanted to collaborate with

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00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 3: cool people.

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Speaker 2: All right, yea to hear some crazy stories. Yeah, okay, yeah,

865
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Speaker 2: this is for you. Okay, red flag flag for you? Okay,

866
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 2: key On made these, by the way, some of them. Okay,

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Speaker 2: here we go, we go. Red flag, green flag. Your

868
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: boyfriend says that he loves your independent but gets upset

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Speaker 2: when you make plans without asking him first.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It could be a bag flag, It could be both flags.

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00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, really, don't be on the fence.

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00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 2: Red flagger green?

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00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 3: Can I plead the fifth?

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00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 2: No? Really, you gotta put up a flag?

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00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:57,800
Speaker 3: Can you read it to me? Almosign?

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00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 2: We're time? Red flag, green flagg. Your boyfriend says that

878
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 2: he loves your independent but gets upset when you make

879
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Speaker 2: plans without asking him.

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00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 3: First, mmm, for now, I'll do a red flag, but

881
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 3: I will say why, I'm not sure about asking your

882
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:20,000
Speaker 3: partner if it's okay to do things to make plans.

883
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 3: I think it's more so, Hey, like, here's my plans

884
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 3: for the day. What are your plans for the day.

885
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 3: Because just in case, like let's say you want to

886
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 3: eat a meal together, or you want to catch a

887
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 3: movie together. Of course it's like appropriate to a line

888
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:36,319
Speaker 3: on whatevery, what you guys' schedule is yeaheah.

889
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I would say red flag.

890
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 3: Too, okray, do you want to put it up.

891
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 2: I'm putting it up. She's putting up for yeah, no,

892
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 2: no fair. Yeah. But like let's say, like he's like,

893
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 2: but I want to make sure.

894
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 3: Like your safe type for safe that's valid though, or

895
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 3: is it still red? I would make that green because

896
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 3: it like safety at least on my end. I man,

897
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 3: I got really lucky because I grew up being very

898
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 3: very well protected. Knowing the world out there, especially for women,

899
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 3: it can be very dangerous, especially in the industry on

900
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 3: my end that I'm in, there can be a lot

901
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 3: of predatory behavior. So if my partner per se were

902
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 3: to look out for my health. Not my health, sorry

903
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 3: for my safety. I'd respect that and I'd appreciate it. Yeah,

904
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 3: because safety is a big thing.

905
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 2: It is is our next red flat green flag.

906
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 3: Okay, hey, it's Carly, your favorite Axeltel host.

907
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:31,879
Speaker 4: Here.

908
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 3: We're going to get back to the stories, but here's

909
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,320
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910
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: Red flat green flag. Your partner needs to research and

911
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 2: plan every detail of a trip three months in advance.

912
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 2: Where he gets anxious.

913
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 3: That's so valid. Yeah, it's so valid though, like having

914
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 3: to plan three months in advance.

915
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 5: Mm hmm, like every to the tea, Yeah, twelve oh five,

916
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 5: restroom break, twelve oh six. Oh that putting up this

917
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 5: zipper twelve oh seven.

918
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a little. That's a little too.

919
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: And okay, if he doesn't do it, he gets anxious.

920
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 3: On that's kind of hey, to each their own.

921
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that he plans every detail.

922
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 3: Okay, by the as long as he can, he collaborate

923
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 3: with me.

924
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 2: He needs a planet if he needs to plan.

925
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 3: It and we're both going on the trip, How does

926
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 3: that make sense? Because what if I have needs?

927
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, it's so easy to make it a

928
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:28,360
Speaker 1: red flag.

929
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, easy, you make it a red flag Riley.

930
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 2: Well, what I was gonna do is be like but

931
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 2: then he does this, okay, so so red flag or

932
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 2: green flag, he lets you collaborate.

933
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 3: If he collaborates with me, then it's a green flag.

934
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:47,959
Speaker 3: Planning like this, planning for the rest, like I would say, yes,

935
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 3: like having to plant advance, like even years ahead.

936
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,439
Speaker 2: What years ahead? Yeah? Wait, what do you have planned

937
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 2: out years ahead?

938
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,439
Speaker 3: Year's ahead, like releasing music, going on tour. Oh yeah,

939
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 3: like I think it's most because of the industry I

940
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 3: come from. I'm not sure about you guys.

941
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:06,240
Speaker 2: No, I mean we got our next ten years playing ahead.

942
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 3: That's cool though, but like see that makes sense, right.

943
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, every weekday we're here live at three pmpst key on.

944
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a green flag. But yeah, like I get.

945
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 2: It, I do.

946
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, like to make it more intense,

947
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: what it's like a not like not like Riley's like

948
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 1: every minute, every every second, but like he plans it

949
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 1: out three days, three months in advance. But it's like

950
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,840
Speaker 1: every day you have an itinerary. You don't have like

951
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: a free day. It's just like you're going you're going

952
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: back home, You're going to Sydney. But you can't go

953
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: see your family. We have to keep bam bam, bam,

954
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: bam bam. You don't have free time? Is that a

955
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 1: red flag or a green flag?

956
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 3: Not being able to see my family and him not

957
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 3: wanting to see my family is like, it's kind of sad,

958
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 3: man why I love my family.

959
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: Family, tight schedule elo.

960
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 3: Okay, but what's the goal here? Like, what are we

961
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:53,200
Speaker 3: trying to do. We're trying to explore.

962
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, if we're exploring.

963
00:42:55,280 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 3: Why not explore time? That's the weird. I'm sorry, why not?

964
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 2: It's a red flag?

965
00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 3: These people raised me. That's a red flag. I'd want

966
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 3: to meet your family. Come on.

967
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh here's another one red flag, green flag. Your

968
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 2: boyfriend comments, you don't need makeup, you're beautiful without it.

969
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 3: Also, ciba, I think you're catching a straight someone. Also,

970
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 3: I learned the term stray in the States, So let

971
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:22,280
Speaker 3: me know if I'm using it appropriately.

972
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:23,080
Speaker 2: Oh you are? You are?

973
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 3: But someone said Riley does not have years planned out?

974
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: L mio.

975
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 3: Is that true?

976
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: I don't really talk about Okay, here's the thing about me.

977
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:30,879
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

978
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 2: I am a doer and not a talker.

979
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:35,879
Speaker 3: That's good though.

980
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I don't really talk about things that I'm

981
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,400
Speaker 2: going to do because if I say I'm going to

982
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 2: do it, I'm going to do it. Is Angie's not

983
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 2: gonna watch this issuear?

984
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 3: Probably, But what if it's like yeah, but if you

985
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 3: have goals with your team per se or like your partner,

986
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 3: shouldn't you talk about it with them?

987
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I've talked about like having kids and getting married,

988
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 2: but I haven't been like, you want to do it?

989
00:43:58,640 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 2: You know?

990
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 3: I have asked a question, Sorry, that's like so crazy,

991
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 3: Yeah okay, yeah, yeah yeah.

992
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 2: Or like you know, I'll sign a contract be here

993
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:09,839
Speaker 2: for a couple of years, but I'm not. I don't

994
00:44:09,880 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 2: know if it's I guess like I just don't really

995
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 2: talk about my my plans going in the future, so

996
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,319
Speaker 2: I don't make many. So I feel like if I

997
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 2: say it, it's going to have to happen. And I

998
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 2: wrote then in a journal like a few years ago,

999
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 2: like my five year plan, I'm totally off, not near

1000
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 2: it supposed to getting married next year really yeah, and

1001
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 2: my five year plan.

1002
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 3: I mean, do you want but here's a question, do

1003
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 3: you want that? Still?

1004
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 2: I wrote that five year plan after a breakup and

1005
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 2: my life has changed so much since then, so it

1006
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 2: was just like just it was just like help me

1007
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 2: get aligned.

1008
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,399
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, but do you still want that though?

1009
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 2: Getting married? I mean eventually. I don't think i'll get married. Yeah,

1010
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 2: twenty six, I might get married to like twenty eight, okay,

1011
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 2: something that. Yeah, I mightn't even get married. Who knows.

1012
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 2: I might become I don't know the next month.

1013
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 3: As long as it's what you want.

1014
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you ride the life wave, you know.

1015
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I might I don't know, produce beat and then

1016
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 2: become the next DJ.

1017
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 3: That's cool. Yeah, that's really cool. Or just let me

1018
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 3: know if you have shows. I want to show up.

1019
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I got you free tickets.

1020
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 1: You a collab?

1021
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 3: Yeah that's it?

1022
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, next one, okay, Red flag, green flag.

1023
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 2: Your boyfriend comments, you don't need makeup. You're beautiful without

1024
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 2: it every time you get ready to go out.

1025
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 3: But that's sweet though, like him saying that, But I

1026
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 3: think overatching question of why is it at that those

1027
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 3: specific times? Yeah, why could you could you explain more?

1028
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 2: Well, give me give me a flag first.

1029
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 3: I would do this as a question mark because I

1030
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 3: don't know why. Like I appreciate you saying I don't

1031
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 3: need to put makeup on? But why is it only

1032
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 3: every time I get ready to.

1033
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 2: Go that time, not whenever I don't have the makeup.

1034
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 1: On, or like we're going out? Yeah yeah, Like, how

1035
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: come it's only one? Why are you saying that now? Yeah? Exactly?

1036
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:54,479
Speaker 2: Sure?

1037
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 3: Are you guys talking like that?

1038
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 2: Man?

1039
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,680
Speaker 3: You guys are so funny. You paint the picture really well.

1040
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 2: Though. He's probably saying it because you put you feel

1041
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 2: like you have to like show up for the girls

1042
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 2: in your best fit, but you don't need to.

1043
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 3: Oh wait, that's so sweet. That's a green flag. I however,

1044
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 3: I don't know how to relate purely because one, I

1045
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 3: don't have a partner. Two, it is part of my

1046
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 3: job to put on makeup, oh yeah, And three like

1047
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 3: I don't usually go out unless I go to like

1048
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 3: a round one and get plusues.

1049
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but I usually just.

1050
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: Have a hat on. I don't usually put makeup on,

1051
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 3: wow I when I go out, okay in those occasions.

1052
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So we don't even know if this person

1053
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 2: could say that to you. Yeah, they might be like, yeah,

1054
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 2: makeup on, good, I'm glad you did that. Okay, Well, no,

1055
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 2: once you get a partner. You let me know what

1056
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 2: he says.

1057
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 3: Well, I'll say this then, because my family, Yeah, they

1058
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 3: always appreciate it when I don't have makeup on because

1059
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 3: girl growing up, like, I started working when I was seven, right,

1060
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 3: so I had been around a lot of makeup artists.

1061
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 3: They did my makeup and hair and I had to

1062
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 3: wear very very performance ready outfits. Yeah, so they saw

1063
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 3: me switch from me with plushes and not having makeup

1064
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 3: and like in very very comfortable clothes. Two then me

1065
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,840
Speaker 3: like being performance ready. It kind of is like a

1066
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 3: signal to them that if I don't like, if I'm

1067
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 3: not performance ready, like I get to spend more time

1068
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:29,359
Speaker 3: with them.

1069
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like you.

1070
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 3: I think that that's a green flag and yeah, and

1071
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 3: they love that.

1072
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 2: So yeah, Keon, can you please read these You have

1073
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 2: to read these next Yeah.

1074
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 3: Sure you get it right, Jelly, I am a singer songwriter,

1075
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 3: Pillipan or Australian. I believe I got that right, Yes

1076
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,719
Speaker 3: you did. I'm giving you the validation.

1077
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can read on these, Jella Buss, she loves it.

1078
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:57,359
Speaker 2: These next ones are surrounded by the Filipino culture, so

1079
00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 2: I have to like read these two. O.

1080
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 3: What is it?

1081
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: Oh?

1082
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 3: Some Katie said, makeup is not for him. Makeup could

1083
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 3: just be for fun. That's true, and I think that

1084
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:09,359
Speaker 3: that's beautiful. Make sure he knows that.

1085
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 2: Then.

1086
00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,359
Speaker 1: All right, now it's uh, what is this? Because you're

1087
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 1: full Filipino, right, I am? Okay, So it's one and

1088
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: a half Filipinos here now, Okay, they are talking. I'm

1089
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: on behalf okay.

1090
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:23,760
Speaker 3: So I do have a bit of Spanish and Chinese blood.

1091
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: I mean that's a yeah, yeah, that makes sense if

1092
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 1: you look down a like the actual like break it

1093
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: down to the DNA, you're like Filipinos just have like

1094
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 1: crazy just lineages, you know.

1095
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:33,279
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

1096
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 3: I did a proper deep dive in mine last year.

1097
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 3: I got a crazy lineage. I had no idea.

1098
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what was the craziest thing if you want

1099
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: to talk about you don't have to tell us, But

1100
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: if what was the craziest thing that you found?

1101
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 3: My relatives are a political dynasty in the Philippines. That

1102
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,240
Speaker 3: was one of the craziest things I found.

1103
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 1: I feel like it's always connected, Like if you go

1104
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 1: down to like our lineage, we might be related.

1105
00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 3: Probably what's your last name?

1106
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: My mother's last name is grospe Yeah.

1107
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:03,960
Speaker 3: I'm Garcia.

1108
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: It makes sense. That's cool.

1109
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 3: I hope it does make sense. Nang saying Gussia is

1110
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 3: a big name in pH Man. It's been a while

1111
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 3: since I've been back home. I really do want to

1112
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 3: come back. I want to. I want a toll. I

1113
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 3: want to. I misconnecting with the fans in passion.

1114
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,879
Speaker 1: Who is this lovely person with all these plushes around her?

1115
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: And if you want to go to introduce yourself one

1116
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: last time?

1117
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 3: Well last time? Do you guys want me to introduce myself?

1118
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 3: Unlass time?

1119
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 2: Hi?

1120
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 3: My name is Elona Garcia. You can call me Elo.

1121
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 3: And these are plushies.

1122
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 1: She's like the Filipino snow white. She She's got all

1123
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: the animals around her.

1124
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 3: She sings, should it be snow white through my snow brown?

1125
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 3: It shouldn't even be snow brown? Or should just be

1126
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 3: brown brown?

1127
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: Maybe you're you're you're rain brown, rain snow white.

1128
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 3: Okay, you get it, yeah, rain brown. Yeah, that's crazy.

1129
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,359
Speaker 3: I remember, like in the industry, I was just really

1130
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 3: in the Philippines, the beauty standards was having pulselin white skin.

1131
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: I know all about that.

1132
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was not. I was not that.

1133
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: I mean you kidding me.

1134
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 3: I could not deliver.

1135
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 1: I tried.

1136
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:15,759
Speaker 3: I tried everything I did. I put lemon all over

1137
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 3: my skin one time, like the.

1138
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: What's the the orange soap, the whitenings.

1139
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 3: I tried that too. It did not work.

1140
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 1: My mom gave that to me too, and you use it.

1141
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, no, I'm not going to do that.

1142
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 3: Good on you. I I definitely gave into the pressure.

1143
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 1: But it's a huge thing.

1144
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, Luckily I was very appreciated for my skin though.

1145
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's like, as a kid, it's a

1146
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: good thing. But then like you grew up, you're like,

1147
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: I love my skin. I love who I am. I'm

1148
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 1: proud to be pinnay PANOI. All right, we have a

1149
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 1: couple more red flag green flags. As I know, we're

1150
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: short on time here, Oh we are.

1151
00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:53,240
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, guys, No, no, no, no.

1152
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: It's for it's it's just for you. We're good, we

1153
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,400
Speaker 1: can keep going, but it's for you. Oh valid, Okay,

1154
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 1: so red flag green flag? You ready for this?

1155
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 4: Yes?

1156
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: He loves to gossip or talk drama twenty four to seven.

1157
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:10,919
Speaker 3: That's fine. Yeah, yeah, you have a gossip buddy. Isn't

1158
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 3: as long as it's not that serious.

1159
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, It's like that's like his personality. Yes,

1160
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: guess the T. Like first things like how is your

1161
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: It's not how was your day? He's like, guess the T.

1162
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 1: Guess what T I have? Is that a red flag

1163
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: or green flag? I think it sounds like how.

1164
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 3: How he grew up, Like if that's just something that

1165
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:33,800
Speaker 3: his family or his friendship groups like always.

1166
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: That's how I agree?

1167
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 3: Did Yeah, then I think that's a green flag.

1168
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: Well it wasn't like it's not like my personality is

1169
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 1: like I need drama twenty four to seven or I

1170
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:45,720
Speaker 1: love drama. It's all right, I have the T. Yeah,

1171
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: everyone tells me everything and their secrets. Yeah, I mean

1172
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: else I'm not going to share those secrets, but I

1173
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:50,920
Speaker 1: know things.

1174
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 2: You're a burden to carry, yes.

1175
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: Literally literally, Yeah, I think that's okay. I think it's

1176
00:51:57,480 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 1: okay to have a little bit like if it's always

1177
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 1: he's twenty four seven, Like, can you just tell me

1178
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 1: how your day was?

1179
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 3: Right?

1180
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:03,440
Speaker 1: Ask me how my day was?

1181
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,359
Speaker 3: Oh wait, twenty four seven?

1182
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,919
Speaker 1: Rate is twenty four seven. I don't want my life

1183
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:11,840
Speaker 1: to be a Filipino you know, drama every every minute,

1184
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: every waking hour. But it is.

1185
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 3: It also depends on what his job is. M okay

1186
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,040
Speaker 3: a right, Like what if he's a reporter, Okay, but

1187
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 3: if he's a journalist.

1188
00:52:20,480 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: I like, how are you looking for like plot holes?

1189
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 3: You're like, I am looking for holes because that person,

1190
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 3: good bro, I'm in entertainment, you know what I mean?

1191
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 3: So I had like I've been through, man, but I

1192
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 3: always try to I always try to understand to the

1193
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:41,120
Speaker 3: best of my abilities, like the three sixty situation. I

1194
00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 3: don't want to misunderstand anything because then you could like

1195
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 3: wrongfully accuse someone, Yeah, and that would hurt both of you.

1196
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:47,839
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1197
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: And you also don't want to be spreading rumors.

1198
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 3: Yes, because how does that make you any better?

1199
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 1: Exactly? Yeah, exactly?

1200
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:55,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1201
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 1: All right, here's another one. Are you ready? Red flag,

1202
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: green flag? They always arrive late. I know we touched

1203
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: on the subject earlier, but it's the it's the good

1204
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 1: old Filipino time.

1205
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 3: I would okay, okay, off principle, it's a red flag

1206
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:17,240
Speaker 3: because it does signal, first off, that you don't respect

1207
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:18,319
Speaker 3: the other person's time.

1208
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's time frame right right, But.

1209
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,280
Speaker 3: Like to I would like to understand the situation because

1210
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:28,879
Speaker 3: you know, I will say, living and working in Australia,

1211
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:34,280
Speaker 3: the Philippines, in America, it is difficult to make a living.

1212
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:39,240
Speaker 3: Some blessed more than others. Yes, unfortunately, that's just a situation.

1213
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: He's going to be late sometimes.

1214
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I've read incredibly late.

1215
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,919
Speaker 1: When the time that tricycle, it's gonna be late.

1216
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 3: Oh sorry that you Oh you were saying jeepney. Yeah,

1217
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 3: oh that's valid. Have you taken a jeepney?

1218
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course. Nice. They're fun until you get in

1219
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,280
Speaker 1: one and then you're like, I'm going to lose my life.

1220
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:01,000
Speaker 1: Yeah I was.

1221
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, I was like. The driving the

1222
00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 3: Philippines already has me freaking out. Sorry. Yeah, the driving

1223
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 3: the Philippines, from my experience, it's like they can. They

1224
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 3: can make anything happen if they put them mind to it.

1225
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:14,760
Speaker 3: They can fit anyway.

1226
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:18,399
Speaker 1: No, exactly, I'm not. See I'm a really good driver here.

1227
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: I can't drive in the Philippines. I know. It's just

1228
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: like I can. I can, but I'm too scared too,

1229
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,240
Speaker 1: because the drivers is are just there are no laws,

1230
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: there are no palid there are no laws. I'm scared.

1231
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:34,480
Speaker 3: I get it. I'm honestly scared to drive anyway though,

1232
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 3: because the driving in Australia is also drastically different. Everybody

1233
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:41,760
Speaker 3: drives really fast, like really fast.

1234
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:44,120
Speaker 1: Do you want a fun fact about me? The first

1235
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 1: time I drove was in Australia.

1236
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 3: How was it for you?

1237
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:49,360
Speaker 1: It was on the other side, like the steering wheels

1238
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:52,479
Speaker 1: on the other side, the roads were different. Ye, not great,

1239
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: but at least they're wide on it, so it makes sense.

1240
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 3: Okay, yeahs Sydney's fast.

1241
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: Bro Sydney's it needs a lot like San Francisco when

1242
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: I've compared it to really because it's like hilly and

1243
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 1: like Bay bayish.

1244
00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:10,320
Speaker 3: Like Okay, if you're driving in the city, yeah, okay,

1245
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 3: in the city, that I understand. But driving in La

1246
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 3: let's hear it. In La is where I've seen the

1247
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 3: most car crash.

1248
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, compare the big three of Australian

1249
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: Australian drivers, Filipino drivers or like driving in the Philippines,

1250
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 1: driving in Australia and driving in the US. Kid, you

1251
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:28,759
Speaker 1: rank that. You don't have to.

1252
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 3: You can tell it's not that I would actually so

1253
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 3: I would drive in Australia, Okay as number one. Okay,

1254
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 3: they're really fast, but I've also acclimated. I can acclimate

1255
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 3: really really fast.

1256
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,399
Speaker 1: Everyone's on Milo and Vegemie. Yeah makes sense, Bra.

1257
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 3: Love Milo Wow, Okay, okay, Vegemite. I will have once

1258
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 3: a month. I will have once a month.

1259
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: Sofia's upset over there.

1260
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, Sophia number two. I'll put sorry, I'll

1261
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 3: put La. But I still am kind of afraid to

1262
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:01,439
Speaker 3: drive because sometimes they're just driving on the wrong street

1263
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 3: and then the wrong way in l A.

1264
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and talking about the Philippines, Yeah, the Philippines is

1265
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: the same thing, the Philippines. There is no one way.

1266
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 1: It's just it's the way.

1267
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 3: The Philippines is the same thing. But I will say,

1268
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 3: like traffic wise is probably the worst thing about it

1269
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 3: in my opinion.

1270
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:19,399
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but.

1271
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 3: La, I think I've just experienced seeing a lot of

1272
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 3: car crashes, like in real time, m and just people

1273
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 3: driving the wrong way, a lot of drunk drivers.

1274
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, where are you driving? I've lived here and I've

1275
00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 1: only seen it seen like a couple like real time.

1276
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:37,320
Speaker 3: Accidentally, most of the accidents I've seen are in North Hollywood.

1277
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense, it does.

1278
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 3: Why does it make sense.

1279
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 1: Because a lot of tourists go there, one, a lot

1280
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 1: of tourists like go to like the Hollywood area, but

1281
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: also there's a lot of like bars and like nightlife

1282
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 1: around there.

1283
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah true.

1284
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 1: So like as you said, adult beverages, people want to drive.

1285
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:55,600
Speaker 1: They don't want to pay for ubers or anything like that.

1286
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,920
Speaker 3: They're expensive, all right.

1287
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: I think I have a couple more here, Yes, red flag,

1288
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 1: green flag. They add hot dog to their pasta or spaghetti.

1289
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 3: Oh wait, no, that's fine, like hot dog like little sausages. Right, yeah,

1290
00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,880
Speaker 3: that's fine, Like we have that in our spaghetti.

1291
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:16,920
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, that's okay. But if you said that

1292
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 1: to like Sophia.

1293
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 2: What why is that?

1294
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 4: Why would I be against that?

1295
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: Well, you don't eat meat?

1296
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 3: Well are you against? Oh you don't eat meat?

1297
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 4: No, but I do. I put like, like the beyond

1298
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 4: sausage in my pasta.

1299
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 3: What's a beyond sausage.

1300
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 4: It's like a vegetarian sausage. It's so good Italian specifically

1301
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 4: really good.

1302
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 1: That's cool.

1303
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:37,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually want to try that.

1304
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 4: That's really I highly recommend. It's the only sausage, like

1305
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 4: vegetarian sausage.

1306
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:42,240
Speaker 3: Like does it make you gassy?

1307
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 1: Trick question? Sofia is always.

1308
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 4: Gassyidding you I'm a little sick over here and you.

1309
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: Just just tag me feel like a little sisters.

1310
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:01,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's I'm not you got.

1311
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: You said that like you are?

1312
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 4: You guys are not.

1313
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Speaker 3: Sofa sofa You're a sofa king said I've been.

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. Yeah, we see, I'm just kidding. I'm

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Speaker 1: playing with you.

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00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 3: Why are you playing with me? Then? Now you're a

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00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 3: red flag I'm joking.

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00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm Filipino and toxic. What do you do?

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00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 4: WHOA?

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Speaker 3: That's crazy to say, don't expose your people like that.

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00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 1: If they expose themselves, we.

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00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 3: Probably need to learn as an entire country. It's let's

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00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:31,720
Speaker 3: not be toxic.

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00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:33,280
Speaker 1: It's the thing of like if you ever met a

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00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:36,920
Speaker 1: Filipino and they say they're schalant, they're lying because Filipinos

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00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 1: are never nonchalant or never chalant. We're always nonchalant or

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00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 1: they're never nonchalant, like they're never.

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00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 4: Like just chal not.

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00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 1: We're not like, no, Filipinos are never nonchalant. It's a

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00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 1: double negative, never nonchalive.

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00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 3: Never heard that, but that's it does check out. We're

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00:58:53,520 --> 00:58:55,440
Speaker 3: always like ready for conversation.

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00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 1: We're always ready for karaoke, dancing, and eating and eating.

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Speaker 3: I love food.

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00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 1: Yes, you see I say that I love food, but

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00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 1: like my girlfriend knows this that I love food. Yeah,

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00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: I can't stop like that. It's not I can't stop eating.

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00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 1: It's like I got to try everything. Do you like

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00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: cooking a little bit? I'm getting more into cooking now.

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00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 3: That's cool.

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00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it sucks because like my mom was obviously

1342
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 1: the main cook of the house, and she's like, no,

1343
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: I got a cook like, I'll make it.

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00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:26,360
Speaker 3: Does teach you like you guys can collect.

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00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: My mom didn't really teach me how to cook. She

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00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: wasn't really. It was like her domain, you know, like

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00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,040
Speaker 1: I get that, Like I would watch her from time

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00:59:33,080 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 1: to time, so like I would make like a curry

1349
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 1: fried rice. She taught me how to make that. That's like.

1350
00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 1: But like trying to learn like Filipino dishes, it's a

1351
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 1: little bit more difficult. I don't know why when it

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00:59:43,040 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 1: came to her trying to teach it to me. Mmm, okay,

1353
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. She wasn't very patient. Maybe that's why.

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00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, mom, love.

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00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 3: You, Yes, we love moms.

1356
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 1: But guys, this is this is the end of the episode.

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00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 3: Oh, it is the end of the episode.

1358
00:59:57,040 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: Yes, this is it?

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00:59:58,080 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 3: Wait did you not want to read one more?

1360
00:59:59,520 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: You want one?

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01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 3: I do?

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01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: Okay?

1363
01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 3: Do you guys want one more?

1364
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:05,400
Speaker 1: Lets you one more? Some of these are funny, some

1365
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 1: of these are just like real red flag, green flag,

1366
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: mm hmm. He buys you a Burken handbag within the

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01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 1: first month of dating.

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01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 3: Whoa wait?

1369
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,600
Speaker 1: Why he just loves you that much? He wants to

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01:00:16,640 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 1: go he wants to buy you something really nice.

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01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's really nice. I love Buccans. Okay, okay,

1372
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 3: so I'll make that clear. But was it at least

1373
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 3: clear that that is what she wanted? Like she has

1374
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 3: an interest in fashion, she has an interest in bags.

1375
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: Probably that like say it's you like you like, yeah, yeah,

1376
01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: I love burkin I love a Birken handbag. But he

1377
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 1: surprises you with with this out of the blue, like

1378
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 1: out for just one month of dating. Hmmm, he like

1379
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 1: overheard you like you said your first date, like, oh yeah,

1380
01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: I love fashion. I love a Birken handbag to you know,

1381
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: to be accessorized m hm, to make the outfit pop.

1382
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 1: And he's like, okay, cool, I listen. But and he

1383
01:00:57,880 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: just buys you a Birken handbag.

1384
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 3: What's his job. Sorry, I'm like, I just don't want

1385
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 3: you to go something. I don't want you to go

1386
01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 3: broke just because I wanted one.

1387
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, something that he can you know, obviously buy in.

1388
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 3: Okay, still okay, Yeah, as long as he's still okay,

1389
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 3: Like maybe this this could be a red flag for

1390
01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 3: me because I think it's okay, But like, I love

1391
01:01:21,240 --> 01:01:22,280
Speaker 3: being able to gift.

1392
01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: Are you a gift giver?

1393
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 3: I am.

1394
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 1: I'm also a huge gift giver.

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01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:30,160
Speaker 3: That makes sense because I meant.

1396
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 4: I've gotten some good gifts from Keon.

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01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:31,439
Speaker 3: I love that.

1398
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just a thing Ailie.

1399
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, because also you know Basalubong right.

1400
01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, that makes sense.

1401
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, so how is that like that wouldn't be a

1402
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 3: I mean just raised.

1403
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 1: To be gift is our like love, language, hospitality is

1404
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 1: a big totality gift giving. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.

1405
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 3: So I think it's I think it's fine, right because

1406
01:01:47,760 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 3: it's part about culture.

1407
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, green flag, she says, it's a green flag. Well, okay,

1408
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 1: this is the end of the episode. Thank you think. Well,

1409
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:00,120
Speaker 1: it seems like you had so much fun you all

1410
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: the animals out, all the all the all the cute

1411
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:03,400
Speaker 1: little guys.

1412
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 3: My friends. Do you need to zoom out a bit

1413
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 3: more just to see we can't?

1414
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:11,000
Speaker 1: Now never mind, It's okay, But thank you so much

1415
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 1: for coming in today hanging out with us, having I

1416
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:14,800
Speaker 1: hope you had so much fun.

1417
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 3: I did. I had fun with everybody here, yeah, and

1418
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 3: especially the plushies.

1419
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, one last time, please introduce yourself and talk

1420
01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 1: about your singles and anything coming up for the future

1421
01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: for you. I know you're still working on music, of course,

1422
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: but if you want to let us know, yes.

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01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 3: Okay, So hi guys again, unfortunately for the last time.

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01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 3: My name is Alona Garcia. You can call me Elo

1425
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:46,760
Speaker 3: as the boys do. I am an artist who makes

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01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 3: music and who does film. I'm here today because I

1427
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 3: thought these guys are really really cool, so I wanted

1428
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,640
Speaker 3: to collaborate, but I also needed to do my job

1429
01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 3: and promote the two singles that I have out, which

1430
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 3: had been released January sixteen, twenty twenty six. The songs

1431
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 3: are called could have been in question Mark. Question Mark

1432
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 3: is pretty much about the POV of females who are

1433
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 3: in romantic relationships and they're inexperienced.

1434
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 1: Oh wow, so just.

1435
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:24,960
Speaker 3: Trying to understand how relationships work, especially romantic ones, especially

1436
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 3: when you're new to it, feeling like you're crazy, feeling

1437
01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 3: like you're not really sure how to vocalize things that

1438
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 3: you're seeing. Yeah, like that's what question mark is about.

1439
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 3: Would love to get everybody's thoughts. And then could Have

1440
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 3: Been is a song that is comprised of all the

1441
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 3: inspirations in movies, music, gaming that I've had growing up

1442
01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 3: that was introduced to me by my late brother. Thank

1443
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 3: you very much for everything. The song is for him.

1444
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 1: We have we had to do that.

1445
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:06,960
Speaker 3: Come on, Yes, no, I love that, especially because just

1446
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 3: said Selma.

1447
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 1: But that's awesome, guys. That is ELO's time again. Everyone.

1448
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:13,080
Speaker 1: I think everyone in the chat saying thank you so

1449
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 1: much for coming in. And the Aussie accent is so eloquent.

1450
01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 3: Ah, thank you. It used to be so much more

1451
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 3: difficult to understand. I had to americanize it a little

1452
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 3: bit for the Filipino audience.

1453
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: But I'm grateful, amazing. Well again, thank you so much

1454
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 1: for being here, Thank you so much for coming in.

1455
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: We hope to have you in it again, and then

1456
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: maybe we'll get to whole sometime.

1457
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:37,479
Speaker 3: Really you want to make it the next time?

1458
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 1: See yeah, yeah, we should do like a little cooking thing, like, yes,

1459
01:04:41,160 --> 01:04:44,680
Speaker 1: like a little Filipino cooking. Yes, how to Yeah, Lumpia,

1460
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 1: it'd be fun. The Chinese shanghaima. Do you like esau?

1461
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:51,640
Speaker 1: I'm I like it.

1462
01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:55,320
Speaker 3: It's a very interesting texture. I'm not the biggest fan,

1463
01:04:55,520 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 3: but I can eat it for sure.

1464
01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: I love Synagogue. My girlfriend loves synegong. You yeah, oh yeah,

1465
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: I like oh really yeah, I love a good fish inegong. Okay,

1466
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 1: obviously no pork for me, but yeah, as are good.

1467
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, more in my way. Okay, look at this.

1468
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 1: This is just like two cousins talking now.

1469
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,160
Speaker 3: And that's a cool.

1470
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,760
Speaker 1: Well, I'll go ahead and walk you guys out. Okay again,

1471
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: shout out to Elo for hanging out. Thank you vibeing

1472
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 1: for for a little bit here with us, and yes,

1473
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 1: hang out with all our stuffed animals.

1474
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 2: I know.

1475
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 3: Again, Like, thank you guys so much for having me

1476
01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 3: and for being super kind. You guys are actually really

1477
01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:35,200
Speaker 3: really kind. Thank you. It is a really cold industry

1478
01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:37,440
Speaker 3: out there, so this really does mean a lot. I

1479
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 3: just did want to ask though, as you guys gave

1480
01:05:40,760 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 3: a lot of your thoughts when it came to the

1481
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 3: stories we were reading I would love to get you

1482
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 3: guys's thoughts on the singles.

1483
01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we'll definitely get that, and especially with this,

1484
01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: could it be posted in a little bit Well, of course,

1485
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 1: we'll let you and l know when that's gonna happen

1486
01:05:55,720 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 1: with the full edit and everything cool. I know our

1487
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:02,040
Speaker 1: Filipino Filipinos on the back end are screaming with joy,

1488
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:02,760
Speaker 1: right yea.

1489
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:07,680
Speaker 3: Lana and Powell, Yes, yes, Hi guys again, I really

1490
01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 3: do want to meet you guys, whether it's in person

1491
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:12,560
Speaker 3: and I go to the Philippines or if it's like

1492
01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 3: via a zoom call. I just I love being able

1493
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 3: to get to know everybody's teams and getting to know

1494
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 3: everybody's stories and their goals. That's very beautiful to me.

1495
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:24,600
Speaker 1: Amazing. All right, guys, this is the end of the stream,

1496
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:27,160
Speaker 1: or at least end of this episode, So if you

1497
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 1: love us, make sure to subscribe

1498
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,320
Speaker 3: And we love you and see you tomorrow.