WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Disorder In The Court

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<v Speaker 1>The second, A true romantic person can make a date

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<v Speaker 1>night out of literally any situation grace, and that's why

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<v Speaker 1>for their third wedding anniversary, Brooke and her husband emptied

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<v Speaker 1>the septic tank together at her parents log cabin, which

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<v Speaker 1>set the mood just right. I hope you didn't go

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<v Speaker 1>rolling around in the mud. If you know what, it

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<v Speaker 1>looks like, there's a clod And that's how her son

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<v Speaker 1>Alder came to be him didn't matter for the tree

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<v Speaker 1>roots that were causing the problems her listeners. Jeremy says

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<v Speaker 1>he came up with a pretty unique date idea that

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't think has ever been done before. And I'm wondering, Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 1>was raw sewage involved in your date night? Or are

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<v Speaker 1>you not as romantic as Brooke is? Maybe not as

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<v Speaker 1>romantic as all that to do a spot? Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about the lady that you met. What's her name? Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>her name's Tessa. We met through a dating app. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of people my age do. Now, how

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<v Speaker 1>long did you guys like text or DM before you

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<v Speaker 1>met up? We were like talking for about like three

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<v Speaker 1>to four weeks a long time. So we're on gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been single for a little bit and we really

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<v Speaker 1>connected over true crime podcasts. I'm really into it at Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so not so much like raw sewage as like human

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<v Speaker 1>blood and internal organs. See, it's still sexy in a way.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's gross. Yeah, okay, so you both bonded

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<v Speaker 1>over true crime. Okay, how do you make a date

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<v Speaker 1>out of that? Though? Are you gonna listen to a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast together? Actually that's where this is going. So, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>since we're both into true crime, I have this idea

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<v Speaker 1>of like, why don't we just go to the courthouse,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like to sit in on like actual trial.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my god. You know, real trials

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<v Speaker 1>are real boring. Alexis just first thought. Guy wants to

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<v Speaker 1>take you to a courthouse sexy or no, not sexy?

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<v Speaker 1>No if the guy's a lawyer. I was going to say, rich,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the case? Like? Im I into it? Like the drama,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the person on trial? I mean, what was it? Like? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was actually really boring? Yeah, how long did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys stay? We sat in on one trial and it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like obviously like a murder case or something really huge.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just domestic assault kind of thing, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was boring. No, it's depressing. Yeah, like you're on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date talking about relationships and then you're seeing the

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<v Speaker 1>worst of the world, but another relationship. On the bright side,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes you look really really good as an option.

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<v Speaker 1>At least couldn't be that bad. At least I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>this side of the jail cell. They stayed through the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing. We like hopped around, you know, we actually

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<v Speaker 1>sat in another one and again it was just like

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<v Speaker 1>a traffic violation, so nothing exciting going on there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like three hours, like, yeah, he was jaywalking, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is hot. We went to the cafeteriaan the courthouse

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<v Speaker 1>and we just had some lunch. I've actually heard doing

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<v Speaker 1>the segment What You're in the Courthouse that the that

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<v Speaker 1>the cafetiers were pretty fire, Like they have nachos and

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<v Speaker 1>pizza slices and stuff. Pretty fire for like stadium feed again,

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<v Speaker 1>but like people can make a romantic data of anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You're on a date. What was her reaction, Well, she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to be like kind of bumped out and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>like she was on her phone quite a bit. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess you didn't find it as interesting as well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, not my fault. I would courthouse has had

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<v Speaker 1>more stuff going on. I can't control that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>So you needed to be more like murder entertainment like

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<v Speaker 1>that do on podcasts and TV. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>The irony is like you like true crime podcasts, but

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like true cry right like in real life. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you went on Yelp and left a bad review.

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<v Speaker 1>Where's the romantic atmosphere in here? Were you guys? Able

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<v Speaker 1>to get back on track? Ever? And not really am?

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<v Speaker 1>And I suggested like, hey, do you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>like see a movie or something, and said it was

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<v Speaker 1>still early afternoon, so we had the whole day and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, oh, I got the single on later to

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<v Speaker 1>day with my friends, so I'm not available. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>after a few hours you kind of that's your window.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's interesting you suggested another activity where you just

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<v Speaker 1>sit and not talk again. I'm now just seeing that.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, clearly a few regrets. Looking back on your date,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how did it end? I just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>peter it out, you know, just said all right, well

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<v Speaker 1>I'll catch you later, just like I kiss on the

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<v Speaker 1>cheek and haven't really gotten I mean, she's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>responded my text, but very short answers, not really engaging,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of putting off another date. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just I need to kind of win her back. If

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have any ideas, like date night ideas or something,

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to ask you what you do differently

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<v Speaker 1>if you got another chance. I don't think we'd obviously

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<v Speaker 1>go to the courthouse again unless there's something really juicy,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, it would have been like one of

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<v Speaker 1>those Netflix true crime stories that we happen to be

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<v Speaker 1>like a part of that history. That would have been

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<v Speaker 1>a game changer. Yeah, the court, but at least now

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<v Speaker 1>we have something to work with. We're gonna google some

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<v Speaker 1>of the biggest crimes that have happened locally in our

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<v Speaker 1>area and maybe we can send you to one of

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<v Speaker 1>those court cases. When we get her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just go with drinks. Maybe you guys should just

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<v Speaker 1>go get drinks. We'll start with drinks, then we'll build

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<v Speaker 1>up to the really romantic stuff murder, and we'll do

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update right after this. Hold on second. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>what a great idea for a first date if you're

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<v Speaker 1>into true crime. Just head right to the source and

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<v Speaker 1>bring your special lady down to the courthouse so the

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<v Speaker 1>two of you can laugh and make fun of the

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<v Speaker 1>criminals being prosecuted for low level misdemeanors and then share

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<v Speaker 1>a hot kiss during the sentencing. Oh is that probation?

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't get to the sentencing party, that's why they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't kiss. I'm just saying, where's that suggestion in Cosmo

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<v Speaker 1>Magazine's Hot Date Night tips. It's probably there, probably because

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<v Speaker 1>that's really where Jeremy took Tessa the other day for

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<v Speaker 1>their first meetup, because the two of them bonded over

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<v Speaker 1>true crime documentaries while they were talking online and thought

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<v Speaker 1>it might be fun to show up to a real one.

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<v Speaker 1>It quickly realized court isn't quite as exciting as it

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<v Speaker 1>seems on the Netflix shows and Judge Judy, so the

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<v Speaker 1>romance never really materialized and he's just really hoping for

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<v Speaker 1>a redo none, right, Jeremy, Yeah, that's exactly right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>hoping for I don't think you should beat yourself up

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<v Speaker 1>over this, though, because it was I mean, Tessa was

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<v Speaker 1>into it too, like it was your decision together. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like to go to it, So maybe she's having

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<v Speaker 1>the same regret right now, like, ah, we would have

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<v Speaker 1>done something different, it would have worked out, but we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't should him back, I know, because because they had

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<v Speaker 1>bad vibes, you know, like the vibes could never get on.

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<v Speaker 1>So you just you don't want to call people back

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<v Speaker 1>after that. Maybe she just needs a little nudge from us. Yea.

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<v Speaker 1>Possibly she fell in love with the defendant, those bad boys,

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<v Speaker 1>they always all I gotta do. Wait three years for

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<v Speaker 1>him to get out. The bailiffs. Oh, I make good money. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>that better not to happen. That bailiff was at least sixty.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll see what Tessa has to say. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to call her number right now, right hopefully she answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see, hopefully she's not missing. Hello. Hey is this Tessa? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he Tessa, what's up? My name is jeff from a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning and

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast. She's really familiar with podcasts. What show are

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<v Speaker 1>you calling from? It's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know what that is. We're on

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<v Speaker 1>radio or on podcast, We're on YouTube, We're all over

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<v Speaker 1>the place. You should listen radio still exists. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hurt Tessa. That was like right in my heart. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that was not called for, and yes it does. That

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<v Speaker 1>was a first degree stabbing. But that's also why we

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<v Speaker 1>have a podcast. We're gonna forgive you, though, if you

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<v Speaker 1>can give us some answers that we've been looking for

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<v Speaker 1>to help out our listener named Jeremy. Wait, Jeremy the

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<v Speaker 1>guy I went on a day with. That's right, you

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<v Speaker 1>do remember why did he call you? Well, because he

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<v Speaker 1>had a well, I can't even say he had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. He he told us that you two met

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<v Speaker 1>up the other day at a courthouse for a date,

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<v Speaker 1>and even he admits that maybe it wasn't the best

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<v Speaker 1>date idea. You thought it was a good idea going

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<v Speaker 1>in as well, right to do the courthouse thing since

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<v Speaker 1>you both like true crime, he said, well, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>just for doing this. Um, I definitely was open to

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<v Speaker 1>the idea because we certainly have the podcast thing in common.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean it was pretty snooze fest. I'll admit.

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<v Speaker 1>He feels really bad that he went through with that

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to switch things up for another meet up

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<v Speaker 1>something more exciting. Some hesitation though from you it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like he didn't give you all the details. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he said, you guys went and aid in the cafeteria.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that lame because that sounds kind of lame. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that was like probably the least concerning part of

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<v Speaker 1>the day. Lunch was fine. There was a concerning part.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, what was that? I don't know, France I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to get him in trouble. But uh, the

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<v Speaker 1>minute we got there, he was like immediately like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to the third floor. And I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>have you been here before? Do you like do this often? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, I've been here before. I was involved

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<v Speaker 1>in a Ponzi scheme when I was younger, So I

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<v Speaker 1>had a trial up on the third floor. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that they need some good trials up there. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get that detail when we talked to him. Wow, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's so casually dropped it like it didn't mean anything

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Yeah. I mean I guess like he kind

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<v Speaker 1>of explained that, like you got accused, that he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>convicted of anything, Okay. He just was like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>know my way around since I've been here before. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So he was innocent. That's good. So is it just

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<v Speaker 1>that history that turned you off? Okay, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about history. So the first trial was boring, so

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<v Speaker 1>we left and he was like, let's go down the

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<v Speaker 1>hallway to this other room. He's like, I know this fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go to this trial for a different reason.

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<v Speaker 1>He's had to go to multiple times. God, because he

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<v Speaker 1>was caught passing sad check and it's all for like,

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<v Speaker 1>boy doesn't have a lot of money. So is that

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<v Speaker 1>something that turns you on or turns you off? Because

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm kind of getting interested because I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so you've been to court twice and he's like, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my twenties. I like found myself on the court system

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<v Speaker 1>quite a bit. He's like, I even got wrongly accused

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<v Speaker 1>of simple assault in a park fight. What it's never

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<v Speaker 1>good when the person's always wrongly accused, Like if it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you're multiple over and over again at some points

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<v Speaker 1>were probably it sounds like he's just in the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>place at the wrong time, all the time, ever the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong one everyone. I'm like, maybe there should be a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast about him, Like we're doing it right now. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>okay's been there. Hey man, that sounds like a hardened criminal.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not breaking the law right now, I promise you that.

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<v Speaker 1>And as I said before, I had a pretty wild

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<v Speaker 1>time in my teens in my twenties, but that's all

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<v Speaker 1>in the past. And yeah, I am a changed man.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean I was honest with you, and I

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<v Speaker 1>let that part of my life available to you, and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you might connect and be sympathetic because you're

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<v Speaker 1>into true crime. But I don't know. That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot like how did you get reformed? Like

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<v Speaker 1>did you get some sort of help or therapy or something,

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<v Speaker 1>because that seems extreme to go through. I don't quite

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<v Speaker 1>believe that you're fully changed. I mean, do people ever

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<v Speaker 1>really change? WHOA Wow, that's a very centical view of things,

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<v Speaker 1>and it seems very judgmental of you right now. Actually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been arrested for anything, so I can't imagine

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually good point. Some people completely change around. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Jeff I did a guy that was a convicted

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<v Speaker 1>grand theft auto. He had that and that was It's

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<v Speaker 1>not something that most people go around dragging about. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying it didn't divine who he was. He made

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<v Speaker 1>a bad choice when he was young, like that happens,

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<v Speaker 1>and he had a pretty good explanation for everything. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you still with him? No? Weird? Why not the auto guy?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the other Maybe you should practice what you preach, Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't break up with him because of his felony. Overall, Tessa,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds to me like Jeremy is being up front

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<v Speaker 1>with you at least about his past. He's not trying

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<v Speaker 1>to hide it from you. He's putting it all out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm literally broadcasting it on the radio now, apparently. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and listen, anyone on the run would not go to

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<v Speaker 1>the courthouse, Okay, if he was wanted for something, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not what he would do. Sure, Yeah, but how do

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<v Speaker 1>I know that? I don't know that for sure. Like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's like going to these courtrooms to like learn

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<v Speaker 1>about how he can be better at crime. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Is how you approach every man is there's a potential

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<v Speaker 1>that things can go bad. Therefore on every man of

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<v Speaker 1>beating has committed a Ponzi scheme and try things works.

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<v Speaker 1>And in his defense, he was absolved of every crime

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<v Speaker 1>he got accused stuff, So in just until proven guilty,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would like to give him the chance to

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<v Speaker 1>prove just how boring he really is by sending you

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<v Speaker 1>on another date with him, and we would pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I'm going to jump in here. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to go ahead and pass myself. Oh, he's

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<v Speaker 1>very judgmental, bad boy, jumping into saying I don't play

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<v Speaker 1>by the rules of the radio anymore. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>do it my way. Thank you for declining, because I

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<v Speaker 1>was about to. I didn't want to have to hurt

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<v Speaker 1>your feelings, but you just showed your Wow. Look at that.

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<v Speaker 1>A guy commits a few, several dozen crimes in his

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<v Speaker 1>life and suddenly he's labeled a bad guy. Wow, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess this is case dismiss We need a gavel. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a gavel. I have a tape dispenser in here.

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<v Speaker 1>So the court dismissed. That just broke the tape dispensers. Look, Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 1>you broke my tape disposer. Put his wants on our

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<v Speaker 1>walls of the tape brooking Jeffrey in the morning. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think about what would have made that

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<v Speaker 1>courtroom date even worse than it already was. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything he should there be worse? Than admitting

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<v Speaker 1>to all the times you've ever had to make an

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<v Speaker 1>appearance in the courtroom before that moment. Well, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're at the place where it happened, how could

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<v Speaker 1>it not be top of mine? For yeah, like I've

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<v Speaker 1>been here many times. This brings back so many happy

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<v Speaker 1>memories for me. Actually, use the bathroom on the second

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<v Speaker 1>floor much nicer. Maybe if the guy at the metal

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<v Speaker 1>detector was like, oh hey, Bob, good to see you again.

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<v Speaker 1>You forgot these and handy some like iron knuckles, then

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<v Speaker 1>it could have been worse iron knuckles. K. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's what you mean. Oh well, everyone art streets

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<v Speaker 1>every Yeah, brass doesn't do the trick on this body.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean other than that, I think it's safe

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<v Speaker 1>to say courtroom first date. Cross that one off of

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<v Speaker 1>your date list. Ideas. Yeah, if anyone else is thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about it there, Yeah, there's one guy that's like, dang it.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, whatever your first date is, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it was romantic or just super boring, we want to

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<v Speaker 1>help you out. You can always email the show. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>call that person who isn't calling you back. And check

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