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Speaker 1: Brooking Jubels second d day. Some people don't get called

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Speaker 1: back after a first date. Not everybody's like Lydia Cruz,

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Speaker 1: who has Hollywood producers fallen in love with her and

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Speaker 1: stalk her after going on one date, she gets marriage

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Speaker 1: proposals after one date. Right now, we've got Julie on

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Speaker 1: the phone. Julie didn't get a call back after a date.

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Speaker 1: Hi Julie? Hi, how are you pretty good? How are

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Speaker 1: you did? Okay? Yeah? Now, you emailed us about a

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Speaker 1: guy named George. Tell us a little bit about him.

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Speaker 1: I met him on mine and we went out winking thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was really really, really fun. Um, you know,

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Speaker 1: the whole night just went so smoothly, and I mean

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Speaker 1: we really did and it seemed like he really liked me.

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Speaker 1: I just did something at the end of the night

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Speaker 1: that I really don't normally do. Would you do? Now?

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Speaker 1: Did you just use the line on us that ever?

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Speaker 1: You go like, I don't normally do this. I've used

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Speaker 1: that line before. So after wine tasting you went home

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Speaker 1: with him? Yes, I did? Okay, After you went home

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Speaker 1: with him, you guys did your thing? How did the

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Speaker 1: next morning go? Honestly, everything was great. I mean, there

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Speaker 1: was absolutely no signs of anything that anything was weird.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you see like you really liked me. Did

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Speaker 1: he did he leave right away? Or did you guys

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Speaker 1: get breakfast? Did take you home? No? I mean we

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Speaker 1: ate a little something, but nothing too major. Okay, it

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Speaker 1: wasn't like a long drawn out thing. But he actually

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Speaker 1: got up out of bed and at least walked you

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Speaker 1: to the door. Yeah, oh yeah, I mean, I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you it was like the perfect ending, doing an evening

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Speaker 1: and then an evening overnight. Right, What was the last

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Speaker 1: thing he said to you? He just said I had

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Speaker 1: a really great time, and I said I did too,

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Speaker 1: And then and then you did the walk of shame.

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Speaker 1: And you have you tried to get a hold of him. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have called him, and you know, I have left

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Speaker 1: some messages in about two weeks, so I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: All right, but I don't know what I did. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: we'll call him right after this. See if we get

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Speaker 1: him on the phone and ask him why, Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning. Second date, Julie called us

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Speaker 1: about a guy she met online. They went out on

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Speaker 1: the date. They ended up hooking up that night. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she says she doesn't normally do that. I believe her.

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Speaker 1: I believe We're gonna call him him right now. His

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Speaker 1: name is George, and see we can get him on

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Speaker 1: the phone and ask him why he didn't call you back.

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Speaker 1: Are you ready, Julie, Actually, before you do that, I

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Speaker 1: really haven't actually told you the whole story. Oh really, really? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What more is there? I just wanted to know that

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Speaker 1: he did call me after the date that the second date,

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Speaker 1: so there was a second date set up. But I'm

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Speaker 1: just I was really embarrassed to say it because he

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Speaker 1: just didn't show up for it, and so he still

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Speaker 1: he actually stood you up for your second date when

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Speaker 1: you guys will meet up, Julie. Yeah, anyway, I just

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Speaker 1: want you to know. So that's something like that comes out,

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Speaker 1: You're hoping that he has a good excuse for not

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Speaker 1: showing up and then not getting back to you. Oh yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's weird. We'll give him a call right now, and uh, okay, hey,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to George? George? What's up? Dude? This

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Speaker 1: is Jewil from Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm

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Speaker 1: moving ninety two point five. I wanted to call it

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Speaker 1: talk to you about something if you got a minute. Uh, okay,

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Speaker 1: do you ever listen to the show George. So we

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Speaker 1: have a mutual friend, a girl named Julie that you, um,

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Speaker 1: you went on one date with and then you had

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Speaker 1: a second date scheduled, but you kind of ditched her.

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Speaker 1: And I was just calling ask why, I mean the psychopath?

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Speaker 1: Truly what psychopath you talked to her? Right? Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: just know her as Julie, not the psychopath though, tell

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Speaker 1: us why you called her a psychopath? What did she

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Speaker 1: tell you? Did she say that she spent the night? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she said, you guys went wine tasting and things went great.

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Speaker 1: She went back to your house the night of everything

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Speaker 1: was great. Two days later, a girl friend of mine,

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Speaker 1: a buddy, just a friend, texted me and saying, what's

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Speaker 1: your deal? What was your problem last night? Apparently Julie

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Speaker 1: went into my phone texted this girl back staying stay

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Speaker 1: away from George, don't come near this guy, and then

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Speaker 1: deleted her contact and so from my phone while I

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Speaker 1: was in the bathroom or in my kitchen, who knows

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Speaker 1: where Julie, Yeah, yeah this bill No, No, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I was yeah, I know I know what I know.

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Speaker 1: You're talking about Julie. I was asking Julie if this

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Speaker 1: was true. She's on the phone right now, George. Yes,

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Speaker 1: But I didn't want this other girl just screwing this up.

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Speaker 1: I was having an awesome time. I mean, the a

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Speaker 1: girl texting while we're in a date, that's that's so rude, Julie.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you realize it was a first date, Julie.

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Speaker 1: I just don't think that that's fair. This is the

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Speaker 1: second our second date is on the radio discussing why

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Speaker 1: you deleted other people's contacts from like, Oh, that's insane. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So here's the question. Did you set up the second

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Speaker 1: date where you stood her up before you knew about this? George? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I've found out afterwards. I after I'd already made the plans.

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Speaker 1: But she was a psycho on I'm not a psycho.

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Speaker 1: That's ridiculous. It's just your psycho, Julie. You went into

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Speaker 1: my phone, so I texted you a couple of different times,

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Speaker 1: and I saw it was right in front of me.

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Speaker 1: So she's my friend. Have you been accused of being

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Speaker 1: a little possessive before? Julie? No psycho? George. Oh, would

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Speaker 1: you you met Julie online? You didn't know much about her,

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Speaker 1: would you? Would you expect I should not have dated

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Speaker 1: girls online? This is you know, this is twenty first

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Speaker 1: century dating is a failure for me so far. George,

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Speaker 1: you're a little angry. I mean, you know what, in

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Speaker 1: George's defense, I'd be a little angry too, especially if

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Speaker 1: somebody deleted contact info from my phone. But were you

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Speaker 1: hooking up with this other girl? And that's why you're

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Speaker 1: angry because you ruined your game with the other girl. No,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't hooking up with this Other's just a friend

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Speaker 1: of mine. And now I have to, like, it's this

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Speaker 1: awkward situation where I have to explain this girl I

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Speaker 1: was hanging out with send you hateful text messages? Is

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Speaker 1: it like a pretty bizarre circumstance, Julie, can you see

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Speaker 1: his point of view here? I know you sound kind

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Speaker 1: of defensive, but can you see his point of view

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Speaker 1: that that's kind of weird to do at all, but

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Speaker 1: especially on a first date. I honestly don't see you

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Speaker 1: with the problem is it was like, right in front

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Speaker 1: of me as texting a couple of different times, I'm

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Speaker 1: having a great time, and I'm thinking, obviously it was

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Speaker 1: like we were going to go home with each other.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's for the way it was going to be,

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Speaker 1: going from thinking, okay that this guy is totally totally

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Speaker 1: to timing me. Who knows if there's others out there, Julie,

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Speaker 1: what would you do if the if the rules were

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Speaker 1: reversed and George went through your phone, I probably would

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Speaker 1: just say something to him and then explain it instead

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Speaker 1: of not calling me back. So I think the thing

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Speaker 1: is here, Julie, Like, this is not weird behavior for you,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not judging you. Yeah you are, I am inside,

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Speaker 1: I am lying, but this is normal behavior for you.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying that that to me was just wrong

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Speaker 1: and I felt the need to do something about it.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, you, I guess you know now why

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Speaker 1: George didn't meet up with you for your second I mean,

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Speaker 1: he could have at least called me and you know,

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Speaker 1: plaint it or something, but he just decided to not

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Speaker 1: to show up. I just feel like that's just rude.

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Speaker 1: You know. At the end of the second date updates,

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Speaker 1: we always ask people if they want to go on

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Speaker 1: a second date, we will pay for you guys to

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Speaker 1: go out again if you want to. George would you

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Speaker 1: like to go out with Julie again? Yeah? Yeah, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell her. I'll text her and think about it. I

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Speaker 1: think that's a no Julie. Oh Julie, No, I don't know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's a two timer. I wouldn't want to go with

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Speaker 1: him either, broken the money and getting vice