1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,520 Speaker 1: Parents trained my inherited. 2 00:00:01,560 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 2: They give it to my sister just because she had 3 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 2: a fatherless baby. 4 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:08,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know this one. This one, I feel 5 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: like there might be a holes on both sides here. 6 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 2: What be just because like a hole for the father 7 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 2: who deserted the sister. You know, it's a hold to 8 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 2: the parents who drained the funds and a hold to 9 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 2: ope for dished the dirt on Reddit. 10 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: You know. Yeah that well, no one ever talks about that. 11 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. Hey, you know, some family secrets need to be kept. 12 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 2: You don't need to actually spread your seed all over 13 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 2: like this fathered was the wind. 14 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: Like some fertilizer. 15 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, this sister's sister's baby daddy is just spreading 16 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: his seed like calm farmer bob. Yeah, freaking wild oats. 17 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: Oh all right, let's go. She's twenty three female. I'm 18 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 2: eighteen female. Grandma died eight years ago, and she left 19 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 2: more than enough money to pay for all her grandkids 20 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 2: colleges educations with a few stipulations. 21 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,319 Speaker 1: Yeah you this, don't you, granny? Ha ha? You got 22 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:04,479 Speaker 1: all these benjamins, you just want to give them away 23 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:07,320 Speaker 1: to your family because you're dead. 24 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 2: All right, Granny got a few stipulations on if they 25 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 2: can get that money or not. You want to hear 26 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 2: those stipulations, Johnny boy hit me all right, So number one, 27 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 2: don't get arrested. If the pop poke coming after you, 28 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: you are punched in the face with no money, that's right. 29 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 2: Don't be a drunk, you know solid. Don't take too 30 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 2: many shots of fireball. I learned that the hard way. 31 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 2: Don't get pregnant or get someone else pregnant. 32 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: What did you like? 33 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 2: Want to have a kid? 34 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: Though? Too bad? Granny's like Greanny's like, the bloodline ends 35 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: with me. No children, Shinny, you keep that, You keep 36 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: that sausage out of that sausage cave. 37 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: The money was put into accounts in the parents' names 38 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: since we were all kids then. And sophomore year, my 39 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 2: sister got pregnant. Oh yeah, god, shit hit the fan 40 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 2: panicking about college the baby daddy left and she hasn't 41 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 2: tried to find him. Slash gets child support and the 42 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 2: stress from that caused a hard, complicated pregnancy. But both 43 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 2: are okay. Damn Duja is left. He wasn't ready for fatherhood. 44 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 2: Gone gone girl or gone dad. Mom and dad still 45 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 2: let her go to college as long as she didn't 46 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 2: have another and maintained a three point five GPA. Don't 47 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 2: don't be popping out no more now babies to make 48 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 2: sure that GPA is high again. 49 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: Like what if she finds someone falls in love with 50 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 1: them and they're like, no. 51 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 2: No more babies, you ain't Mormon, which she did. She 52 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 2: kept the three point five GPA, didn't pop out any 53 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 2: more kids. 54 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: Smart. 55 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 2: She graduated last December with about two grand in debt. 56 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 1: I'm bad, that's fine. 57 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 2: I figured her money. I figured her money must have 58 00:02:58,040 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: been used to help raise her kid and pay for 59 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 2: pregnancy the past two and a half years, so she 60 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: had to get a bit of a loan, which seemed 61 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 2: totally understandable. 62 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,959 Speaker 1: Boy was that wrong. Oh. 63 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: I got accepted to my dream college on the other 64 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: side of the state, but Mom kept trying to get 65 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 2: me to go to a cheaper one near home, so 66 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: I don't need a dorm and it would be a 67 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: cheaper school. I asked her why she was so insistent. 68 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 2: Grandma left. Grandma left plenty of money, I thought. Turns 69 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,359 Speaker 2: out they flushed all the money that was supposed to 70 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:31,640 Speaker 2: go to me down the toilet to take care of 71 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 2: my sister and her kid and her expensive pregnancy. Turns 72 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 2: out it was a lot worse than I was led 73 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 2: to believe. Oh my, if you got no. 74 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: Money from granny, and it's insane how they just pulled 75 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: from her like Op's money. 76 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 2: Isn't there like a rule against that? Like like I thought, 77 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 2: like there's like some kind of trust, dude, So what's 78 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 2: the point of putting Like, what's the point of allocating inheritance? 79 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 2: If like the parents can just take whatever they. 80 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: Want to do whatever they want with it. They could 81 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: they could go buy a giant floating penis that is 82 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: like the size of our first purchase and just put 83 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,119 Speaker 1: it on the water, just for no reason and laugh 84 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: at their children who have no college funds. 85 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 2: What would you call that? What would you name the 86 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: penis yacht? Uh? 87 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: It would be moby dick. Oh that was quick. You've 88 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:20,039 Speaker 1: been thinking about this one. I wasn't I had that 89 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: solid you know, like when a second lasts like one 90 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: hundred years, and you're just like do do do do? Do 91 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: do do do? 92 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: Doing all the calculations, great, great name for a penis boat. 93 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: I broke down and just lost it, crying harder than 94 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 2: I ever have, shouting how they fricked me over and 95 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:39,720 Speaker 2: ruined my life for the kid that fucked up. Damn. 96 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 1: It's though, it's like she did. 97 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 2: Everything right and then her sister who got pregnant and 98 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 2: stole her money. 99 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: You know. Fuck. 100 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 2: But also like what's the alternative, right, that's the problem. 101 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: That's the thing, like like the thing you just let 102 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: your sister die, well not die, but there's complications homeless. Well, 103 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: there's complications from the pregnancy. Yes, I love her, like, yeah, 104 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 2: let her be homeless. 105 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, God, little little little character, you know, 106 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: a little little sidewalks, sidewalks and comfy bro. Yeah, sidewalk bro. 107 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 2: Don't get the you know, like the old hobo thing, 108 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: like get all your belongings, put it on a stick, yeah, 109 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 2: carry it a. 110 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 1: Little little hand. Put the baby in the handkerchief. Yeah, 111 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 1: and carry the baby. Start going on railroad cards. We 112 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: have like a nineteen twenties version of what a homeless 113 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: person is. Just cooking, cooking a can of beans over fire. 114 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, lo key, Like nineteen twenties homeless guys. 115 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: They kind of had it, bro. They're traveling, not paying 116 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: any taxes. 117 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, you got a free transportation, free transportation to uber 118 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 2: when you got the railroad. Dude, Now, I'll have at 119 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 2: least seventy thousand dollars of debt if I go to school. 120 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 2: I guess this upset my sister, and she asked in 121 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 2: a very upset tone, if I'd rather have her be 122 00:05:57,000 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 2: out in the streets, destitute and unable to care for 123 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 2: her kid, who, she reminded me, was a living being 124 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 2: because she didn't have an education support system, just so 125 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: I could go to college and have a good life. 126 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 2: John's answer is yes, have her on the street. 127 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: Yep, yep. What are you doing in this nice comfy 128 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: house and apartment with your with your tuition paid? It? Disgusted? 129 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 2: Does to get out on the street? Work that street? Corner? 130 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: Go go right now? I said, yes, let's go. 131 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 2: How it's not fair that she got to f up, 132 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 2: get drunk and sleep with so many guys. She doesn't 133 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 2: know who the baby daddy is, something she told me, 134 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 2: but apparently not Mom or Dad kept breaking rule after rule. Well, 135 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 2: I haven't even had sex with my boyfriend, bro. I 136 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,799 Speaker 2: feel like, ope, he's just mad she's not getting laid true, 137 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 2: and now I'm the one who has to be punished 138 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 2: for it. Everything just kept evolving into more yelling and 139 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 2: fighting until I left. I've been staying with my boyfriend 140 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 2: for the few I've been staying with my boyfriend for 141 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,799 Speaker 2: the past few days, and now that everything's off the hook, 142 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 2: you might as well, Opie, start riding that cowboy sausage in. 143 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 2: I know, with the rona, I shouldn't go anywhere near, 144 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: but I just wanted to be with one person I 145 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 2: feel like actually gets a damn about me. 146 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:25,679 Speaker 1: True thang, Sorry, Opie, that sucks. Yeah, it sucks. 147 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 2: Mom's been texting, calling, trying to get me to come home, 148 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 2: saying if I could just be reasonable and not vilify 149 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 2: my sister, we could probably work something out. I told her, 150 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 2: unless she has money Grandma left for me, don't talk 151 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 2: to me until I have my college loans paid off. 152 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: In fifty years. 153 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 2: Did I go too far? A lot of it was 154 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 2: driven by emotion, But I really feel fucked over here 155 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 2: because I'm being punished despite the being despite being the 156 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 2: one who followed the rules. And FYI, I've since slept 157 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: with my boyfriend. Oh, I figure if I'm gonna get 158 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 2: punished the same as if I would have I'm I 159 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 2: figure if I'm going to get punished the same as 160 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 2: if I would broke it. I figured, if I'm going 161 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 2: to get punished the same way, what have if I 162 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: had just broken the rules, I can at least have 163 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 2: some I can at least have some fun. 164 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: So edit. 165 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 2: My sister did offer to pay for a book or 166 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 2: two Wow wow, but not more since she wants to 167 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 2: get out from under mom and Dad's thumb. Probably party again, 168 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 2: since she doesn't hide how much she misses it. I 169 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: did contact a lawyer. He says, due to how it 170 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 2: was set up, can't be certain now that we have 171 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 2: a good case, but there might be a shot. Lawyer 172 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 2: says they may have violated the trust gramma set up, 173 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 2: so he's contacting. So he's contacting a trust lawyer friend 174 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 2: of his to help make sure he's reading it all right. There, 175 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 2: there's even more tea. So Auntie got back to me. 176 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 2: She's mad at my parents. When she called to see 177 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 2: what was going on. All they did was try to 178 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 2: justify it. Turns out Mom and Dad offered to pay 179 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 2: for an abortion and SIS didn't want one. Understandable I 180 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:57,559 Speaker 2: wouldn't either, but still don't, but still don't always get 181 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: what we want. And SIS thought going on govern assistance 182 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 2: was trashy and refuse, so mom and dad felt like 183 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 2: this was the only way to keep her safe. 184 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: She says. 185 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 2: They still aren't sorry, and Mom said she'd do it 186 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 2: again if she had to do it all over. And 187 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 2: of course you might imagine they're mad at me for 188 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: telling people, but since it's just making others mad, I'm 189 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 2: just laughing at this point. 190 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, So here's the situation, right, Oh is it unfair? Yes, 191 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: totally unfair. It's totally unfair. But what are you going 192 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: to do? The daughter? The sister has a child has 193 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 1: health complications, so what are they supposed to do? Just 194 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: let her not like they have or like die like no, 195 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 1: yeah literally like like and it's like, I mean you're 196 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: gonna sue your parents like like like that that's gonna 197 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: be terrible. I think like the I mean, yes, it's 198 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: super unfair, but I you know, I have friends that 199 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: have like two hundred thousand dollars of student debt. Yeah, 200 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: like there is and you can get out from under it, 201 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: but you're maybe don't choose a liberal arts major and 202 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: choose like an engineering degree. Yeah, I mean that's like 203 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: she said, I'll be in seventy k in debt. It's 204 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: like okay, like maybe yeah, two years of community college 205 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: or something like that. But what I would say, what 206 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 1: I would say, like, I actually don't know if I 207 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: blame her for trying to soon necessarily because it'd be like, Okay, look, 208 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: you guys made the right decision in terms of helping her, 209 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: but you do still I am still owed the money 210 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: in my inheritance, so like we need to figure out 211 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 1: how to get me that money back to like at 212 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: a bare minimum pay for the schooling I want. Maybe 213 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: that's not the whole Like let's say it was one 214 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 1: hundred K. Maybe my schooling is like seventy K or whatever, 215 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: but like we need to figure this out because you 216 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: did it without telling me, you know what I mean? 217 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, So honestly, I feel like I feel like if 218 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 2: they asked her, maybe she would have said like yes, 219 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 2: like I am. 220 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: I don't know how so hard lined and crazy she 221 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 1: is their stance like yeah, she'd probably have the that 222 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: same reaction of like maybe if they told her the 223 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: health complications, which also, why didn't they that's fucking crazy. 224 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 2: They should definitely say the health complications. I just feel 225 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 2: like like she was so ca I feel like the 226 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 2: main issue. It's not like that they tried to save 227 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 2: their other daughter. That's not the issue. It's like they 228 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 2: didn't tell this daughter that they were taking all of 229 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,559 Speaker 2: this money that was owed to her, Like that was bad. 230 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 2: And but you know, I don't know what you do. Differently, 231 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 2: it's like it's pretty rough because like you can't tell 232 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 2: your daughter to get an abortion if she doesn't want one, yeah, right, 233 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 2: And like you can't, uh, you can't just let your 234 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: daughter die. And if you don't have the money and 235 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 2: you see this money sitting in account, like what. 236 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 1: Do you get any anyone would do that? I would 237 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: send the OP down and be like listen, I would 238 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 1: probably I don't know, this op does sound like a 239 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: little crazy, so I might withdraw the money first and 240 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: be like, listen, this is what's happening to this is 241 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: what's happening with your sister. We need to use this money, 242 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: and we're going to Yeah, but we'll try and figure 243 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: out something or like, well, you know, we'll do whatever 244 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,559 Speaker 1: we can to like like make make it work in 245 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: the best case scenario, but like we're not gonna just 246 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 1: let your sister die. And I think also, who knows 247 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 1: how much of that was the medical expenses and was 248 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: her schooling and housing? Oh no, she was with her parents, 249 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: But I do I am curious on how much was 250 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 1: paid for because the school, I don't think they should 251 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: have used. 252 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 2: It for well, she probably had her own money for 253 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 2: the school if she had inheritance too. 254 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: Well, I think that the inheritance, like, yeah, it'd be 255 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: I would. I would like to see the breakdown of financials. 256 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,199 Speaker 1: But yeah, it is a crap situation, so terrible