Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, my beautiful people, Welcome to yet another episode
Speaker 1: of Cheeky's and Chill. Today is a very special episode
Speaker 1: because a very special person is here. Is my guest,
Speaker 1: my special guest and very special to my heart. And
Speaker 1: if some of you guessed my fiance, well you're absolutely right.
Speaker 2: Hi Vabe, how are you?
Speaker 3: It's good.
Speaker 1: I'm good.
Speaker 3: It's exciting to hear you say my fiance.
Speaker 1: I know, right, Oh my god, I was about to
Speaker 1: say that because the last time you were on the podcast, well,
Speaker 1: we didn't have the set first of all, and then
Speaker 1: it was a year ago.
Speaker 2: And we were just boyfriend and girlfriend. Yeah we were,
Speaker 2: and now we're fiances. Yeah, how do you feel about that?
Speaker 3: I'm excited. It feels great. It's uh, you know, almost
Speaker 3: a year later, and I still get excited when you
Speaker 3: say my fiance, my fiance. I like saying it too.
Speaker 2: What about when I say my husband?
Speaker 3: Oh? I don't know if I can handle that one.
Speaker 2: Oh? Why why?
Speaker 3: I'm excited for that? I'm excited.
Speaker 2: Yeah you're not scared? No, no at all, not even Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm not there anymore. Nothing feel good?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, we can get into that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, let's get into that I love that.
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, we're gonna have a serious conversation.
Speaker 2: Mind you guys.
Speaker 1: He has no idea what I'm going to ask him
Speaker 1: what we're going to talk about. I just wanted him
Speaker 1: to come on the podcast because it's a new set.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited that we're just like celebrating three seasons
Speaker 1: of Cheeky's and chilling thanks to you guys. And well,
Speaker 1: I want to bring people that I had on the
Speaker 1: first two seasons to the set, and of course I
Speaker 1: have to have you on here. So I just have
Speaker 1: notes here just so that I don't forget certain things.
Speaker 1: But I'm just gonna let the conversation flow. There's certain
Speaker 1: things that I just wanted to talk about, like, yes,
Speaker 1: we are engaged, you guys, And do we have a
Speaker 1: date set for the wedding?
Speaker 3: Yes, we do.
Speaker 2: Exclusive with Amelia Sanchez, Yes we do.
Speaker 1: And I want to keep it very private, but we
Speaker 1: do have a date. It's going to be a small, intimate,
Speaker 1: like I said on the podcast, you guys, a small,
Speaker 1: big wedding because we want it very intimate. But it's
Speaker 1: not gonna be like twenty people. That's what I mean
Speaker 1: by small.
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, And also it'll be super tight, but also
Speaker 3: it's a small wedding, but there'll probably be a lot
Speaker 3: of big energy between us, super.
Speaker 2: Tight like my face. Eh, it's my podcast. We cut
Speaker 2: out whatever we want or not, who cares. We're just in.
Speaker 2: You know, you know me, my love, This is why
Speaker 2: you love me? Hi? Are you sure you want this forever?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's see, there's a lot to talk about.
Speaker 1: Like I mean, it's been a whole year since you've
Speaker 1: been on the podcast, so now, yes, we're engaged, we
Speaker 1: have a date. We did the IVF thing. I feel
Speaker 1: great after I did that. Honestly, I feel like I
Speaker 1: can just enjoy our relationship without pressure.
Speaker 2: How do you feel, Yeah, we've talked about it, but
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know something on that. Before we did it,
Speaker 3: people always said, even like more natural way, people always said,
Speaker 3: if you're trying, it's not gonna happen, and if you
Speaker 3: just forget about it and let go, it'll happen naturally.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: When you don't have a backup like IVF, I feel
Speaker 3: like you can't just let go of it and not
Speaker 3: think about it for sure. And I think this what
Speaker 3: this has done for me it truly has let me
Speaker 3: let go of it of like not worrying about it.
Speaker 3: So now I feel like I don't think about it now.
Speaker 3: Yeah I think about us having kids and stuff, but
Speaker 3: I don't think of the pressure of like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: is it going to happen or not?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, And it really has helped us out.
Speaker 1: Like in our relationship, I feel like it's not I mean,
Speaker 1: I think I was a little bit more argumentative in
Speaker 1: regards to it, where it's like, Okay, well what if
Speaker 1: I can't and this and that, and like what are
Speaker 1: you gonna do? Or are you gonna leave me here?
Speaker 1: And like, you know, I would just start bail for
Speaker 1: no reason and he'd be like, dude, get over it.
Speaker 1: But then now I feel like, Okay, I don't have
Speaker 1: to worry about that because I want.
Speaker 2: To work this day.
Speaker 1: I sat down with him because couple's therapy has helped
Speaker 1: us a lot, guys, Yeah, and I sat down and
Speaker 1: I said, look, babe, this is what I'm thinking this year.
Speaker 1: I really want I have Diamond, you know, my whole
Speaker 1: idea with you know, Diamond tour, with the album. I
Speaker 1: was like, I want to give it all that I
Speaker 1: got obviously we're both turning a year older, and as
Speaker 1: a woman, you know, my eggs are deteriorating, you know,
Speaker 1: their their quality, the quality the eggs aren't as good
Speaker 1: as they were a year ago, two years ago. So
Speaker 1: I was like, I just want to do it. I
Speaker 1: know I had said I didn't want to do it.
Speaker 1: We're going to try naturally. Whatever, and we're still going
Speaker 1: to try naturally.
Speaker 3: That's the plan, right, Yeah, we're at a place in
Speaker 3: our life where I don't think we should stop it
Speaker 3: from happening.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but but way we have a plan though.
Speaker 3: I like our I love our plan.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love our plan.
Speaker 3: I love our plan. I love the outcome of our plan.
Speaker 2: Yes, but if it happens, you mean.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't I'd be extremely excited. Yeah, but knowing our
Speaker 3: plan is super exciting to sea.
Speaker 2: Yes, me too.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm like, I want us to be on
Speaker 1: the same page where it's like okay, because I follow
Speaker 1: like my little calendar thing. If you guys don't have
Speaker 1: a period tracker, ladies, it's awesome, but like you like
Speaker 1: put it in there, like okay, I started my period today,
Speaker 1: I finished my period, and it like helps you like
Speaker 1: on the calendar with like your frtility day.
Speaker 2: So it's like it's not that.
Speaker 1: We're not going to do it those days, but we
Speaker 1: got to be just extra careful because we're on we
Speaker 1: have a plan. I just want to make sure because
Speaker 1: I'm something. I mean, I don't feel like I'm pressuring you.
Speaker 1: Like I just said, hey, this is what I would like,
Speaker 1: and you like agreed, You're like hell, yeah, Like, let's
Speaker 1: do this and then next year we'll talk about, Okay,
Speaker 1: let's start banging it.
Speaker 2: Out and seeing what happens. Yeah, and have fun what
Speaker 2: we're doing it.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, I think we're having because we're.
Speaker 2: Still banging it out, but now like now intentionally.
Speaker 3: I think we're having the most fun, right, Yeah, because
Speaker 3: of the pressure is off. Yeah, Like we haven't sure.
Speaker 3: We haven't even talked about since we've done this, we
Speaker 3: haven't talked about do you think we can have kids
Speaker 3: or not? Like we haven't even had that conversation because
Speaker 3: we don't think about it anymore. We're not worrying about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I think it's one of the best things I
Speaker 1: could have done. It was very emotionally like it was
Speaker 1: a lot, you know, I think, but you were with
Speaker 1: me the entire way, and I'm so grateful for you
Speaker 1: because I told him already that like you would mix
Speaker 1: the medicine for me, like you would help me. You
Speaker 1: were there holding my hand, trying to go to every appointment,
Speaker 1: only missed one because you had to work, and I
Speaker 1: was like, don't feel bad, go but you wanted me
Speaker 1: to FaceTime you and everything, like he's been very he
Speaker 1: was very good. And you know what, like we just
Speaker 1: celebrated three years. I can't believe that it's gonna it
Speaker 1: was three years. I mean, I don't know who asked
Speaker 1: this the other day, but they're like, does it feel
Speaker 1: like three years? And I'm like, it doesn't. It feels
Speaker 1: like shorter. That's a good thing, right. I don't feel like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'll go with this guy forever. Like
Speaker 1: I feel like it's so brad now.
Speaker 2: I'm like three years already because we were never fought.
Speaker 1: We have we have a lot of fun. Honestly, I
Speaker 1: enjoy my time with you so much, like you're my
Speaker 1: favorite person to hang out with and I'm fine with it.
Speaker 1: I've never felt that way, right.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to be with you all day every day.
Speaker 1: We too dude, I love eating with you, I love
Speaker 1: writing bikes with you. Like we just I've never i'vever
Speaker 1: been able to get away. And I've said this so
Speaker 1: many times, but I really truly mean it, like where
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, I'm so excited to get away just
Speaker 1: with you and we have dinner and we don't necessarily
Speaker 1: have to talk about anything. It's just we're there and
Speaker 1: we're just happy.
Speaker 2: And we've been sober.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's been huge for us too, Like both of
Speaker 1: us been sober, like no cannabis, no alcohol.
Speaker 3: Just shrooms a couple times.
Speaker 1: A couple times when we went to Big Sur to
Speaker 1: celebrate our three years, we did shrooms and not like
Speaker 1: crazy amounts. You guys, it's not like and we don't
Speaker 1: do it to like, oh let's fucking party and like
Speaker 1: get crazy. Like we're always super intentional about like being
Speaker 1: spiritually aligned and doing it for spiritual reasons.
Speaker 2: And it was beautiful. We got in the jacuzzie and
Speaker 2: we just talked and we just talked. It was so awesome. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: it was awesome.
Speaker 3: This one was a good one because we were functional
Speaker 3: and we were able to have really great conversations. Yeah,
Speaker 3: in a jacuzzie overlooking a mountain. Yeah, like it was incredible.
Speaker 2: It was awesome.
Speaker 1: We were in nature. I swear I was like talking
Speaker 1: to the trees and not like talking to the ship.
Speaker 1: But I was like, dude, they're alive. They're alive, And
Speaker 1: it just made me appreciate nature so much in the moment.
Speaker 2: It was so awesome.
Speaker 1: You guys, And for those of you shrooms they sound
Speaker 1: really bad, but they're mushrooms. Okay, they come from the earth,
Speaker 1: you guys are psychedelic psilocybin. It comes from the earth.
Speaker 1: It's supernatural. They're medicinal. And if you don't know more
Speaker 1: about it, maybe one day we can talk about it.
Speaker 1: We talked about it on the pod. We're gonna probably
Speaker 1: have to invite someone to come and really get into
Speaker 1: it now that we have a set. But like, I
Speaker 1: feel like there even I always say this even better
Speaker 1: than Thailand, or even better than a lot of things
Speaker 1: that we eat and drink on a daily basis. But
Speaker 1: that's just my opinion. And we're grown ups and we're good.
Speaker 1: But we do it together and we're on the same frequency,
Speaker 1: and I feel like it's really helped our relationship as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot.
Speaker 3: My favorite benefit of you know, psilocybin is how present
Speaker 3: it makes us. And every time we've had it, whether
Speaker 3: it felt like it was a bad trip or not,
Speaker 3: it always brought out what needed to come out. And
Speaker 3: oh my god, yes, because sometimes we have we're smooth, say,
Speaker 3: and sometimes it gets a little rocky and rough, but
Speaker 3: after it's like it brings out the things that we
Speaker 3: might be holding in and we talk, we talk, we
Speaker 3: sit there, we cry together, we let everything out. And
Speaker 3: I think that's like there's always a benefit after.
Speaker 2: We do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, And I always pray God, this medicine that
Speaker 1: comes from like the earth that you have provided, like
Speaker 1: let it like enter my body and bring out only
Speaker 1: the best. And I remember right now that you brought
Speaker 1: that up. And I'm not sure if we've ever talked
Speaker 1: about it or I did. But when we did it
Speaker 1: one time in Zion and we had a massive argument,
Speaker 1: you guys before going into like the narrows and we
Speaker 1: were supposed to we had this whole day plan, had
Speaker 1: our little snacks, everything so excited and then it just
Speaker 1: kicked in right when we parked and it was crazy,
Speaker 1: like we had really not horrible like we're hitting each other, no,
Speaker 1: but we just had a very deep discussion and I
Speaker 1: started crying and he was crying, and I left the
Speaker 1: car and then like I felt like a little girl
Speaker 1: like something.
Speaker 2: I don't know remember. I don't even remember what the
Speaker 2: argument was.
Speaker 1: About, but I just remember after that, I just we
Speaker 1: walked into the narrows together and it was just so awesome.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I also don't remember what the argument was about
Speaker 3: or what the conversation was about, but that time, like
Speaker 3: I hold onto that time. I feel it a lot.
Speaker 3: I get reminded of it a lot, especially when we
Speaker 3: do shrooms, because what I take from it it was
Speaker 3: it made us be present with each other and you know,
Speaker 3: express the things that we needed to express, and then
Speaker 3: it felt clean, And which is why I like to go.
Speaker 2: To took out some junk, I guess.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, which is why I like to go to
Speaker 3: places like that with you, because we're like so close
Speaker 3: to the earth, and I feel like I believe Mother
Speaker 3: Nature created those places for us to go there, and
Speaker 3: and it's she's doing wonders for us and like cleans
Speaker 3: us and she's like, you know what, come here, be
Speaker 3: grounded here with me, and I'll clean you up a
Speaker 3: little bit. Yeah, and we leave rejuvenated. Yeah, rejuvenated face cream,
Speaker 3: face cream, face cream.
Speaker 1: Every time I say rejuvenated, guys, Now he's like face cream.
Speaker 2: He uses my products and he loves them, don't lie.
Speaker 3: I do every day every day he uses.
Speaker 2: My skincare products. Does it feel different like now that
Speaker 2: you're my fiance?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 2: Does it feel different like?
Speaker 1: Because I know, like there are times you guys, and
Speaker 1: he gets so mad at me when I'm with my boyfriend.
Speaker 2: He's like, I'm here what I'm oh? Yeah, I'm sorry,
Speaker 2: my fiance. I have done that.
Speaker 3: I've done that maybe once or twice.
Speaker 2: Yeah, But.
Speaker 3: I feel more connected to you for sure being fiancee,
Speaker 3: and I feel like we're It means like we're you know,
Speaker 3: committed to the same path, to the same things that
Speaker 3: we want in our life. And it's just like it
Speaker 3: to me, it's that prep It's that you know, right
Speaker 3: before husband and wife.
Speaker 2: So it's like starting to feel like more what's the
Speaker 2: word solidified?
Speaker 3: Yes, I feel that a lot.
Speaker 2: He taught me how to say that word correctly, guys,
Speaker 2: because I used to say, what felicitate? You felicit felicity facilitate.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, you're right, babe. Sorry, and then I
Speaker 1: said solidified or sacilic. I don't know what I used
Speaker 1: to say, but anyways, it's the word. But yes, it
Speaker 1: does feel more so, it does. It does, and I
Speaker 1: like it. I like it, and I feel I feel
Speaker 1: like we're in a really good place. And I don't know,
Speaker 1: I really do see us eventually helping other couples out.
Speaker 1: I mean, because I've been very open about myself and
Speaker 1: the things that I've had to work through and within
Speaker 1: myself and my past relationships. And he's, as you guys
Speaker 1: could see, he's very like level headed and very mature
Speaker 1: and like.
Speaker 2: He really grounds me.
Speaker 1: And I feel that that's why it's worked, because you've
Speaker 1: been so so patient.
Speaker 2: It's like the word that I can like. You've been very.
Speaker 1: You've given me a lot of grace because I've been
Speaker 1: very honest and said, hey, this is I let it
Speaker 1: all hang out. Is who I am yo, you know,
Speaker 1: And and he's been okay cool, like I let him know,
Speaker 1: and he's been very He's really helped me through it
Speaker 1: and and I'm just I think, I don't know, and
Speaker 1: we're in a good place because we're doing couples therapy.
Speaker 2: You guys, Yeah, it's helped.
Speaker 3: A lot, which like reminds me of like what I
Speaker 3: wanted to say about being a fiance. It's even even this,
Speaker 3: I would say, almost a year of being engaged. It's
Speaker 3: changed dramatically since the beginning of our engagement to even now.
Speaker 3: And I feel one of the biggest things that I
Speaker 3: took from our premarital counting is that everyone's pre marital here. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was like, it's not a couples therapy.
Speaker 3: Okay, everyone plans for a wedding, but no one plans
Speaker 3: for a marriage. And I think the difference between us
Speaker 3: and maybe you know, anyone else who's maybe not prepping
Speaker 3: correctly is that we are prepping. We're putting in the
Speaker 3: work this year, yeah, preparing for our marriage, and we're
Speaker 3: like getting things in line so that once we're married,
Speaker 3: we're not like, what do you think about this?
Speaker 2: What do you think about that?
Speaker 3: And yeah, and we're doing everything before it happens. And
Speaker 3: I think that's why we feel so ready. We put
Speaker 3: in the work to prep for it, and I think
Speaker 3: that's why we get are excited and we're not really
Speaker 3: worried about as many things we were worried before that
Speaker 3: come with spending the rest of your life with someone.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So that's why I feel.
Speaker 1: Like we're both very open to the process, very open
Speaker 1: and talking about there's certain things out in premarital counseling,
Speaker 1: like I feel nervous to tell him, just him and
Speaker 1: I because I'm like, I don't want to hurt his
Speaker 1: feelings or what if I say it wrong. But I
Speaker 1: go in there and I'm like, I have to be honest.
Speaker 1: This is my chance. And he takes it so well
Speaker 1: and I take it so well. And I think because
Speaker 1: we're both just open to growing and making this relationship right,
Speaker 1: Like we have to choose each other every single day.
Speaker 1: And that's once that clicked in my mind. It's like,
Speaker 1: this is a choice. I have to choose this person,
Speaker 1: which means I have to make certain adjustments. I have
Speaker 1: to be willing to compromise, and that wasn't as easy
Speaker 1: for me before. But you also give me the room
Speaker 1: for that, you know. I think it's because we're both ready,
Speaker 1: you know, And it makes the biggest difference in the world.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I think one of the biggest things that we
Speaker 3: learned was that were a.
Speaker 2: Team and that was like one.
Speaker 3: And even like what that really means and in our
Speaker 3: daily life and our language towards each other and how
Speaker 3: we say things and how we decide on things, and
Speaker 3: it's and it's never gonna just be you versus me.
Speaker 3: It will never be you versus me. It's always us.
Speaker 3: And you know, and I think switching our mind into
Speaker 3: that mentality, it's it's helped a lot versus like there's
Speaker 3: there's no half and half, it's we're one, you know.
Speaker 3: So it's it's changed.
Speaker 2: A lot, for sure.
Speaker 1: And that's another thing that I was listening to a
Speaker 1: to a friend of mine, and I'm so grateful because
Speaker 1: she was explaining like how her partner is like, well,
Speaker 1: if we have to go to therapy, then that means
Speaker 1: we shouldn't be together.
Speaker 2: And I was just.
Speaker 1: Like shit, like that's so which that's not the right
Speaker 1: way to see things, Like it's like it's not, oh,
Speaker 1: if I have to go to therapy, something's wrong with me,
Speaker 1: I'm damaged, I'm this and that Like, no, it's it's
Speaker 1: really we're two different people, you guys. This is why
Speaker 1: I'm such a huge advocate of of you know, counseling,
Speaker 1: of life coaching, of therapy, is because we're two different
Speaker 1: people coming together and that could be very difficult because
Speaker 1: we're so said in our ways. But if we're open
Speaker 1: to expanding and becoming one, it's not necessarily losing myself
Speaker 1: because that was what I was scared of. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, I still want to be me. I still
Speaker 1: want to be free, I still want to like and
Speaker 1: I now I know I can be myself and I
Speaker 1: can't also let him be himself, not let him he
Speaker 1: should be and I should be. And then we just
Speaker 1: come together and discuss certain things. And I think that's
Speaker 1: what dude, I've grown so much, even like in the
Speaker 1: past freaking few months, like where I'm like, oh, dude,
Speaker 1: like it's I had an epiphany. I'm like, I'm always evolving.
Speaker 1: I'm always like, oh my god, I'm so glad because
Speaker 1: like I used to see this differently.
Speaker 2: Now I'm like, yes, we're a team.
Speaker 1: And it just completely switched everything for me. And I
Speaker 1: wasn't very easy, but I wanted to, you know, and
Speaker 1: you know, and we even talked about IVF in you know, premarital,
Speaker 1: you know, and it's like with something like you guys
Speaker 1: really got to talk about this.
Speaker 2: Do you guys really want kids? And I was like, well,
Speaker 2: I'm eighty percent.
Speaker 1: No. I was like I'm chilling, Like I'm like I'm
Speaker 1: already at this age, like I barely like Johnny's just
Speaker 1: moved out, Like I'm just I'm really trying to figure
Speaker 1: myself out. But then so many things happen. It's like
Speaker 1: we talked about it and we were just like we
Speaker 1: decided even on we'll go back to IVF for now.
Speaker 1: But even with like the wedding date, like I was
Speaker 1: I don't know where right and you were were we
Speaker 1: weren't in the same city. I was traveling. I don't
Speaker 1: remember where we were at. But anyways, I was thinking
Speaker 1: and we had talked about, okay, so are we really
Speaker 1: going to get married like next year, like what's the plan?
Speaker 1: And then we kind of like had a little discussion.
Speaker 1: I was in Mexico, actually I was in TJ, and
Speaker 1: we kind of it was like starting to become like
Speaker 1: a little bit of an argument. And then I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, we'll talk about it when we get home,
Speaker 1: and You're like, yeah, let's talk about it because this
Speaker 1: is something I really want to talk about. Like I
Speaker 1: was like, oh shoot, I was like all right, So
Speaker 1: I started thinking about it, and I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: going to pray about this. I was like, let me
Speaker 1: just settle. And then I was like, okay, I'm going
Speaker 1: to talk to him about this and I have a plan.
Speaker 2: I have a plan.
Speaker 1: Hopefully he'll be on board and see what he thinks
Speaker 1: or whatever. And the crazy thing is is when I
Speaker 1: came and I said, Babe, this is what I was thinking.
Speaker 1: What if we just do this type of wedding And
Speaker 1: he's like what I was thinking the same exact thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, yeah, And I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: this is god. I was like, okay, yeah.
Speaker 3: Because I felt a little nervous, but like I just
Speaker 3: felt a little antsie because things a lot of things
Speaker 3: started happening quickly, and I.
Speaker 2: Was like my career.
Speaker 3: I was like, what's going to happen? And you know,
Speaker 3: and I don't know. I kind of figured I kind
Speaker 3: of put the pieces together for the rest of the year.
Speaker 3: And then it was exactly what you were thinking as well.
Speaker 2: It's because like you just got to talk about it.
Speaker 1: And I think he felt like, hello, we had like, well,
Speaker 1: where's the wedding going to fit in? Because we both
Speaker 1: were like we don't want to be engaged for a
Speaker 1: long time like that's not what we want.
Speaker 2: We want to get married.
Speaker 1: But then I started getting a bunch of opportunities and
Speaker 1: then he's, you know, with his career, and we're like,
Speaker 1: oh wait, what's really going to happen? You know, It's
Speaker 1: like so anyways, he was worried, I was worried, and
Speaker 1: it just so happened to be that we were on
Speaker 1: the same page and now we have a plan and
Speaker 1: it's like great and IVF is done.
Speaker 2: Actually talking about.
Speaker 3: IBF, Yeah, I kind of wanted to say something on that.
Speaker 3: I think about when you were like, you know, eighty
Speaker 3: percent now you always leaned more towards you didn't want
Speaker 3: to have kids. Yeah, and I think as our relationship
Speaker 3: has progressed and we've been more secure about our future
Speaker 3: and what we want and you makes.
Speaker 2: Me feel safe that's why.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so do you. And also creating the space in
Speaker 3: our lives for that with you know, it really got
Speaker 3: us to a place to where you felt open to it.
Speaker 3: And then as things started happening, I just was sitting back.
Speaker 3: I didn't want to like say anything, but like I
Speaker 3: was really sitting back through the IVF process and like
Speaker 3: letting it sink into your head.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I saw the excitement growing each week, and for me,
Speaker 3: I was like, you deserve this, and I felt that
Speaker 3: out seeing you excited about finally being open to having kids, Like,
Speaker 3: I was like, you deserve this, You deserve to have
Speaker 3: all these things, and it shouldn't you should not have
Speaker 3: that because you were scared of anything.
Speaker 1: Or yeah I was. I had a lot of things
Speaker 1: that I hadn't even impact. I thought it was for
Speaker 1: one reason or another, and it was just a bunch
Speaker 1: of reasons. And but then at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the heck, Like I would love to
Speaker 1: see a little human that we can grow like together
Speaker 1: and then mold. And it was just started becoming very
Speaker 1: excited then to see you, Like I knew he was
Speaker 1: going to be a great dad, And we talked about
Speaker 1: this on one of the first episodes, like I'm like
Speaker 1: one with Ryu with our dog, how you are just
Speaker 1: so patient and like the way you train him. And
Speaker 1: I know, obviously you can't like compare a dog to
Speaker 1: like a human being, but when I saw that, I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, he's so patient. He wakes
Speaker 1: up every like three hours, and it's like I'm like
Speaker 1: he'd be a really good dad because I'm like then,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I wouldn't mind you be my baby daddy.
Speaker 2: You know I ain't got no other baby mama drama.
Speaker 1: I'm chilling, like you know, you have a beautiful family,
Speaker 1: you have a beautiful mind, Like I knew, if God
Speaker 1: forbid anything ever happened to me and I have to
Speaker 1: leave this earth, I know my baby would be in
Speaker 1: great hands. And that's what to me is so important
Speaker 1: because I didn't have the best father figure. You know,
Speaker 1: he was a good dad, but so much shit happen,
Speaker 1: as you guys know, you know, and he's out of
Speaker 1: my life, and I just want to make sure that
Speaker 1: you know my baby has a good family. And I
Speaker 1: love your family. I love your mother, I love your
Speaker 1: g I love your whole family. And it's just such
Speaker 1: a blessing. So is there any advice that you would
Speaker 1: like to give any guys out there that are going
Speaker 1: and be honest, because I know I was a handful,
Speaker 1: but was it really I don't know say the truth
Speaker 1: about IVF. Is there any type of advice that you
Speaker 1: would like to give anybody out there?
Speaker 3: Because it's what I really want and I know I
Speaker 3: want this with you. There wasn't a real part of
Speaker 3: the process that was like like, ah, this is too
Speaker 3: hard or this is the Only thing I can think
Speaker 3: of is just seeing you going through, you know, all
Speaker 3: the medications and you being you know, a little sluggish,
Speaker 3: and the pain of you physically putting a needle in you.
Speaker 3: But besides that physical toll on you, like, the entire
Speaker 3: process emotionally is honestly more exciting than scary, and especially
Speaker 3: knowing what we were going for and learning about it,
Speaker 3: learning about your body. Like, I felt really excited throughout
Speaker 3: the entire process versus scary. The only thing that was
Speaker 3: a little scary and I got a little sad on
Speaker 3: was just you and physical pain. But one thing too, though,
Speaker 3: I'm really glad that we were only able to I mean.
Speaker 2: That we only had to go through it once.
Speaker 3: Yes, that we only had to go through at one time.
Speaker 2: I prayed for that a lot. Guys.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I could imagine how tough it could
Speaker 3: be if we had to do it two, three, maybe
Speaker 3: even four times.
Speaker 1: Yeah, recommend Yeah, And I admire the women that have
Speaker 1: because it is a lot on your body, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, and on your emotional state. And you
Speaker 1: feel like, oh my god, why do I There are
Speaker 1: moments where I was like, Okay, it sucks that I
Speaker 1: have to do this, you know, But then I'm like, well, no,
Speaker 1: this is a blessing. And I would go back and forth,
Speaker 1: and it's just I prayed for it so much. I
Speaker 1: was like, God, please, I just want to do this
Speaker 1: one time. The entire year, I was thinking about work,
Speaker 1: I was thinking about my body. I was thinking about
Speaker 1: just so many different things that I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: so grateful, and you're right, you know, because it is women.
Speaker 2: We go through a lot. You guys, we go through
Speaker 2: a lot.
Speaker 3: One thing on the amount of where the regret if
Speaker 3: we didn't do it or if we did for us,
Speaker 3: I told you after we retrieved eggs. So just for
Speaker 3: general knowledge, like if people want one kid, the doctor
Speaker 3: recommends to have at least two healthy eggs. If they
Speaker 3: want more than two kids, it's you know, three four.
Speaker 3: But you know, were we agreed we're okay with one.
Speaker 3: So our goal was for two. And I told you
Speaker 3: that before we get the results back on if they're
Speaker 3: healthy or not. I if we got if we got
Speaker 3: one and we needed to, I would probably push for
Speaker 3: a conversation to be like, hey, maybe we should try
Speaker 3: this one more time. Yeah, because I felt like we're
Speaker 3: kind of right there, right if we got none, I
Speaker 3: told you we wouldn't have to go through it again
Speaker 3: if you didn't want to. And I'm okay with at
Speaker 3: my peace with us trying and if it happens naturally,
Speaker 3: happens naturally. But that's where I was with the numbers,
Speaker 3: and I was totally okay with not doing it again
Speaker 3: if we got zero.
Speaker 1: But yeah, butin goodness, you know, we've got twelve total,
Speaker 1: and then we got seven after like they retrieve them
Speaker 1: or like they do the thing.
Speaker 2: Right, was it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, once they mixed it, Yeah, once they mixed Yeah.
Speaker 1: So anyways, that's IVF And I'm so grateful and like,
Speaker 1: I'm so appreciative that I have a partner that's so
Speaker 1: great and so like understanding because it is something that
Speaker 1: I felt like, oh my god, that sucks, like he's
Speaker 1: gonna think something's wrong with him. But in reality, it's not.
Speaker 1: That's not it, you guys. It's just it's time. It's
Speaker 1: it's life. It's what happens, and it's part of being
Speaker 1: a woman. And I see it in a different way,
Speaker 1: and it really I'm really happy that I did it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I am. Also because I've always told you that
Speaker 3: I'm okay if we don't have kids, because you can't, like,
Speaker 3: I won't ever put that on you. Not trying is
Speaker 3: a different thing. But yeah, I feel like you find
Speaker 3: and believe me now now that we have done IVF
Speaker 3: to where you know you you believe what I say.
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is what I want. If we can
Speaker 3: do it, great. If we can't, it's also okay. And
Speaker 3: there's you know, I won't ever like hold that against
Speaker 3: you in any sort of way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you've been You've been good. You said
Speaker 2: you'd be fine with just me, my handful. It's a lot. Whatever.
Speaker 1: So now that the Johnny has moved out, how do
Speaker 1: you feel about that? We haven't really talked about it
Speaker 1: too much.
Speaker 2: I mean we have we miss.
Speaker 3: Him, little comments for sure, little comments here and there.
Speaker 3: It does feel weird. I'll go downstairs and I'm like,
Speaker 3: there's no one else here, and I'm like, and and
Speaker 3: we just had routines and we just bump into each
Speaker 3: other and we just would talk and it it does.
Speaker 3: It's bittersweet because it does. If I miss Johnny. I
Speaker 3: miss Johnny in the house and it feels weird with
Speaker 3: him not there, like super close, even though he still
Speaker 3: is kind of close, but it's not as close as like, hey, John,
Speaker 3: come downstairs.
Speaker 2: But uh, I love you.
Speaker 3: I love John I know.
Speaker 2: I love that they love each other.
Speaker 3: Dude. I'm also like just super happy for him to
Speaker 3: like see his growth from you know, from when I
Speaker 3: met you guys to now. And yeah, you know the
Speaker 3: thing that like kind of like I'm okay with is
Speaker 3: saying how happy he is right now. I've never seen
Speaker 3: him so just he's thriving, comfortable and thriving and super happy.
Speaker 3: And I'll drive by his building and I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: he's one that he's good.
Speaker 2: I know, same, same, But yeah, it's crazy. Sorry, it's okay.
Speaker 2: You don't have to be sorry. I love that about you.
Speaker 1: I love that, you know, there's so much like we've
Speaker 1: talked about this as well, that you know, being latinos
Speaker 1: and stuff, and it's like, oh, guys, don't cry, And
Speaker 1: I like, I love the fact that you're so willing
Speaker 1: to be vulnerable and not a lot of guys are.
Speaker 1: And I think that's why I fall in love with you,
Speaker 1: because you're just You're just.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think I found you or you
Speaker 2: found me.
Speaker 1: We found each other at the right time, because it
Speaker 1: wouldn't have worked if like the things that you say
Speaker 1: that how you were before and how I was, it
Speaker 1: just wouldn't have worked.
Speaker 2: Like we had to go through everything we went through
Speaker 2: in order to be here.
Speaker 1: So, if anything, I am so grateful that you loved me,
Speaker 1: because I've been in situations where it's been the complete
Speaker 1: opposite and it was the worst thing ever for me.
Speaker 1: So the fact that you've always been so you've always
Speaker 1: embraced him. And he texts you, I think more than
Speaker 1: he texted me, I love you, I miss you. Like
Speaker 1: it's like, I'm like, it makes me so happy. I'm like,
Speaker 1: just like I love this.
Speaker 2: I love it. And he wants us to have a
Speaker 2: kid so bad. You have no idea. Yeah, He's like,
Speaker 2: this is it. This is a guy. You need to
Speaker 2: have a kid. This is it. I see it. It's
Speaker 2: going to happen this year. I'm like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: And he's and we all know he's a little psychic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so he's a prophet. So I'm just like, dude, I
Speaker 1: like it's I guess Johnny said, we got to do it, man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, That's why anytime he tells us anything, I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 3: it's gonna happen. I have to worry about it.
Speaker 1: I know, it's like, dude, he's the youngest, but it's
Speaker 1: like a lot of the ship that he has said,
Speaker 1: I'm like.
Speaker 2: Fuck, he's right.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it, and he always has valid
Speaker 1: reasons about a lot of things.
Speaker 2: But it's just that it's crazy. He has a gift.
Speaker 3: I think that's also why I connected so much of
Speaker 3: john because I feel like we think the same things,
Speaker 3: and I feel like we're always on the same page.
Speaker 3: And so like anytime he says something and everyone goes
Speaker 3: against them, I'm like.
Speaker 2: I agree with him. I agree with you. You know shit,
Speaker 2: sorry if but you know ship, he really does. He
Speaker 2: really does. Yeah. I mean, I'm so grateful.
Speaker 1: I want to play a game with you, a game
Speaker 1: that I think you may very well know because you
Speaker 1: shoot all their pictures.
Speaker 3: Who are not really strangers. Yeah nice, yea.
Speaker 2: I bought a bunch of them.
Speaker 3: I thought we were already getting deep deeper.
Speaker 1: We'll pull out a couple of cards. We have had
Speaker 1: these cards. He knows the owner, and I know them too.
Speaker 1: I met them through him, but he does all their
Speaker 1: product pictures and they're in Target.
Speaker 2: Actually it's pretty cool.
Speaker 1: But anyways, I really love this, this this game, and
Speaker 1: I've never played it with him. We've had it in
Speaker 1: our drawer in the nightstand and we've never played it. Actually, look,
Speaker 1: we've never played it.
Speaker 2: I'm not lying. So do you want to help me
Speaker 2: unwrap these real quick? Yes?
Speaker 1: It's a couple's addition, and we're going to get to
Speaker 1: know each other a little bit more. These are like
Speaker 1: having This is about having a real conversation with strangers,
Speaker 1: with your couple, with your friends, with your family, and
Speaker 1: really talking about deep shit that usually you wouldn't talk about.
Speaker 2: So this facilitates it. I couldn't say anonymous before either,
Speaker 2: and I learned that one too. I don't know why.
Speaker 1: I would just get like a little difficult to pronounce
Speaker 1: certain words.
Speaker 3: Different levels. Yes, the one that you grab.
Speaker 1: This one, this is three, and this is two. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, I give this a miss Kim over there?
Speaker 1: All right, guys, So basically, I mean we've done this before.
Speaker 1: I pulled out a three cards. But anyways, this is
Speaker 1: the Couple's edition. And we're gonna pull one, two or three.
Speaker 3: We should I think we should do whatever you want.
Speaker 3: I say, let's do one, two three. But if you
Speaker 3: want to go one.
Speaker 2: Two, three, three, okay, cool? Can you pick one from
Speaker 2: level one?
Speaker 3: Describe the first time we met through your perspective in detail, the.
Speaker 2: First time we through my perspective.
Speaker 1: Okay, guys, So this is this is the truth. I
Speaker 1: met him when I was going through a really tough time.
Speaker 1: I was going through separation and emotionally, I was nowhere
Speaker 1: near like wanting or in.
Speaker 2: Any business trying to get into a relationship.
Speaker 3: I was.
Speaker 2: It was a really bad place for me.
Speaker 1: But I remember him walking in and because he was
Speaker 1: taking pictures of me. It was for We've talked about
Speaker 1: it a little bit, but it was he was taking
Speaker 1: pictures of me for a video shoot that I was
Speaker 1: going to have with Becky g for Joelene and anyways,
Speaker 1: we were in the pandemic. So anyways, that's how I
Speaker 1: met him. Why I met him and he came into
Speaker 1: the house and I just remember I'm like, oh my god.
Speaker 1: I was like there was something about him, like he
Speaker 1: just smiles it Hi, I'm a Milia And I'm like
Speaker 1: oh hi, and I just looked and I was like,
Speaker 1: damn ye, it's really pretty eyes. I didn't say anything, obviously.
Speaker 1: I was just I thought it and I told my
Speaker 1: makeup people and I was like, oh my god, like,
Speaker 1: you know, he's very cute, and I'm like, can you
Speaker 1: ask if he's married? And it was Carlos. He's doing
Speaker 1: my makeup that day. His name is Carlos Tomorrow and anyways,
Speaker 1: and he's.
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, don't ture bitch. I got it. So I
Speaker 2: was like, okay.
Speaker 1: So he's like you want to sneak in there, and
Speaker 1: I guess he asked you, right, are you married? And
Speaker 1: then you said no? And then I was and I
Speaker 1: was like, well, does he have a girlfriend. I was like,
Speaker 1: did you ask if he has a girlfriend?
Speaker 2: The follow up question? And he's like, no, bitch, but.
Speaker 1: He ain't married, so that don't matter. And I was like, okay, fine.
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I guess you know.
Speaker 1: But I was like, you know what, I'm going through
Speaker 1: way too much. I'm separated right now, but there's a
Speaker 1: lot of things I have to unpack. So I just
Speaker 1: was like whatever, and then I was like, okay, be professional.
Speaker 1: So I was I think very professional.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: You tell me if I was. I thought that I was.
Speaker 2: I did, but for the most part, I wasn't. Like,
Speaker 2: was I being flirty a little.
Speaker 3: Bit a little slightly okay?
Speaker 1: Maybe? Yeah, okay, cool, then I was being flirty, but
Speaker 1: I felt like I was being respectful.
Speaker 2: But yes, I did tell him.
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, I like your eyeballs, That's what
Speaker 1: I told him. And he was very professional, you guys,
Speaker 1: which I love. He was very professional. I didn't even
Speaker 1: think that he was like into me or anything. He
Speaker 1: was just very nice.
Speaker 3: And then you were looking a little thick that day.
Speaker 1: I was a little little thick, but yeah, so then
Speaker 1: that's it was really nice. And I remember I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: he's really cute and he.
Speaker 2: Was so professional. He was so nice, and that was
Speaker 2: what I thought. That was my perspective when we first.
Speaker 1: Met, and then we met again after that, and that
Speaker 1: was even That was bunner. But that's not the question, okay.
Speaker 1: So like, usually the way the game works, you guys,
Speaker 1: is that we both have to respond. So I went
Speaker 1: deeper in it. So if you want to add anything, babe,
Speaker 1: real quick, and then I'll choose one because I want
Speaker 1: to ask him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I our first we know our first and second time.
Speaker 3: We kind of like mixed them together because we know
Speaker 3: each other.
Speaker 2: But what did you think of me?
Speaker 3: Describe the first time we met? Through you we met.
Speaker 3: I remember when you came out of your glam m hmm.
Speaker 3: This has never happened to me, and I'm sure it
Speaker 3: really did happen, but you came out of that glamor
Speaker 3: room in slow motion and I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 3: And then we came up to each other and then
Speaker 3: we were both like.
Speaker 2: I would say, how are you?
Speaker 3: And that that actually happened for real? Has it never
Speaker 3: happened in my life? And that happened?
Speaker 2: Told me that I had like this glow around like
Speaker 2: in the movies. Yeah, he told me that.
Speaker 3: I was like, really, you were across the room and
Speaker 3: you were walking to motion. I was like, oh my god.
Speaker 3: And then I couldn't speak.
Speaker 2: I hope it ever goes away.
Speaker 3: It doesn't, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't choose what this is fun? Okay, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, I would choose this freaking card. Okay, there
Speaker 1: you go. When was the last time I hurt you?
Speaker 1: Perhaps unintentionally?
Speaker 3: Oh all right, we're getting into it.
Speaker 2: Let's do it.
Speaker 3: Oh man, Uh, the last time you hurt me, I
Speaker 3: would say, oh, he's like two hours ago, and I
Speaker 3: was kidding. You know, Thankfully, we don't really hurt each
Speaker 3: other a lot in this relationship. I think we're both
Speaker 3: mature enough to understand that things do happen, and you know,
Speaker 3: we do spend every day interacting with each other. And
Speaker 3: but I feel sometimes, you know, if if I'm in
Speaker 3: a jolly mood and maybe you're not, and sometimes it
Speaker 3: might feel to me that you might take something out
Speaker 3: on me. But I've also learned that, you know, unless
Speaker 3: I really know I did something to you, it's it's
Speaker 3: something that likes to be patient. You know, we're both
Speaker 3: going through a lot of things every single day, and
Speaker 3: I don't take things personal from you if I know
Speaker 3: that it's not intended for me. But but yeah, just.
Speaker 2: Sometimes that my tone of voice, huh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and it makes me think, like, oh, she
Speaker 3: not love me today? Why is she being mean?
Speaker 1: Is that?
Speaker 2: You know? Yeah?
Speaker 1: But yeah, and that's something that you brought up to me,
Speaker 1: like not so long ago, where you're like, you know what,
Speaker 1: sometimes like your tone of voice, you know, it makes
Speaker 1: me feel a certain way and I'm like, shit, Like
Speaker 1: it's not the first time I hear that, so I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: I really want I definitely don't want to hurt you.
Speaker 1: You're one person that I don't want to hurt. So
Speaker 1: I'm just like, every time you bring something to my attention,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I need to fix it.
Speaker 2: I want to fix it, you know.
Speaker 1: And I think that I've done pretty good with that
Speaker 1: with the things that you tell me, but it is
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm not even I'm dealing with so much, so
Speaker 1: many other things that have nothing to do with the
Speaker 1: relationship that you. We tend to take it out on
Speaker 1: the closest person to us, and I admit to that.
Speaker 1: And for the most part, I'm very good at like
Speaker 1: if I'm upset at one person, I'm upset at that person,
Speaker 1: and I don't take it out on the world.
Speaker 2: But for some reason, my partner, because I'm.
Speaker 1: He's you're the closest person to me, and I'm like
Speaker 1: so vulnerable with you and everything, like you get the
Speaker 1: shorter end of the stick and that's not fair. So
Speaker 1: I get that, and I and I I'm sorry about that,
Speaker 1: and I love you.
Speaker 2: And I'm sorry about that.
Speaker 1: That's Okay, so yeah, okay, what about you and take
Speaker 1: another one.
Speaker 2: It'll be the last one.
Speaker 3: Okay. What did this conversation teach you about our relationship?
Speaker 3: What did it teach you about yourself?
Speaker 2: Hmmm?
Speaker 1: It taught me about our relationship that that we're in
Speaker 1: a really good place that I'm very proud of us.
Speaker 1: It taught me that there's always room to grow, that
Speaker 1: I continue to learn more about myself and things that
Speaker 1: I want to work on for the betterment of our relationship.
Speaker 1: And I love having these conversations with you because I
Speaker 1: have the deepest conversations with you about our relationship and
Speaker 1: things that have nothing to do with our relationship, and
Speaker 1: I always learn something and I'm just grateful. It taught
Speaker 1: me to just be grateful for the person that I
Speaker 1: have in front of me and to just continue on
Speaker 1: this path that we're on.
Speaker 2: That's what That's what.
Speaker 3: It taught me. That because because I've said this before
Speaker 3: last time, but we really talk to each other like
Speaker 3: this every day, and for me, what it's making me
Speaker 3: kind of realize is like how normal it is in
Speaker 3: our relationship that we have these conversations a lot, because
Speaker 3: I don't feel like pressure around them. I don't feel
Speaker 3: scared around them, but obviously today we're doing it on
Speaker 3: your podcast, so now it made me see it different
Speaker 3: where I'm like, what is there to be scared of
Speaker 3: because or nervous because we do this. We do this
Speaker 3: every day and these conversations are how they go, and
Speaker 3: you know, I think it's something that is so it's
Speaker 3: such a benefit for relationships. And I think if more
Speaker 3: people were more comfortable with speaking to their partners in
Speaker 3: a calm manner and actually listening, a lot of things
Speaker 3: can be resolved. And I think that's why we've been
Speaker 3: able to have so much growth.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, I agree, yeah, you and I love this conversation.
Speaker 1: And I love my podcast because I'm able to just
Speaker 1: be vulnerable and share and be transparent with people and
Speaker 1: help other people through my experiences, through our experiences. And
Speaker 1: thank you for being open enough to be on this
Speaker 1: podcast again and taking me with everything that I do,
Speaker 1: because it's not just my podcast. I do quite a
Speaker 1: bit and you freaking are awesome. You're fucking trooper man.
Speaker 1: Thanks And I'm cool with you, like you know, shooting.
Speaker 2: Sexy ass girls, you know, and I'm cool with it.
Speaker 2: And it's okay because you love me.
Speaker 3: I love you so much and you show me every day.
Speaker 2: Yes, I do. So you want to kiss me? Or no?
Speaker 2: Oh sorry dude?
Speaker 3: God?
Speaker 2: Nice? Nice? Anyways, you guys. Anyways, you guys, here's my mic.
Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us on this episode of Cheeky's
Speaker 1: and Chill catch me on the one babe. Anything you
Speaker 1: want to tell anybody before we go?
Speaker 3: No, thank you for having me. I'm glad we were
Speaker 3: able to do this. And if anyone ever has questions
Speaker 3: for us, we love to help people. We love to
Speaker 3: help relationships, and for sure it's something that we're really
Speaker 3: passionate about. So yeah, if we can help other people,
Speaker 3: you know, I love that, that'd be great.
Speaker 1: I think we will one day, some way, somehow. I
Speaker 1: feel it.
Speaker 3: Nice.
Speaker 2: Peace out, guys, I love you so much.
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