Speaker 1: Second brooke. If a guy offers to cook for you
Speaker 1: on a first date, is that a sexy move? Or
Speaker 1: are you thinking, Ah, he's trying too hard. I don't
Speaker 1: like it.
Speaker 2: No, I love it?
Speaker 1: You do? Yeah?
Speaker 2: I do? Especially if he can actually cook.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah. He goes into the kitchen and he
Speaker 1: comes out to the table with the best hot pocket
Speaker 1: that you ever tasted. And he's made it look pretty
Speaker 1: too by putting a colorful toothpick flag.
Speaker 3: No you marry that?
Speaker 4: What if he cuts it in the half from the
Speaker 4: how do I still put my mouth on it?
Speaker 1: We've heard some home cooked meals go very well on
Speaker 1: this segment, some not so well. We're gonna find out
Speaker 1: how it went for one of our listeners named Todd,
Speaker 1: who said he cooked for his date the other night
Speaker 1: and now he needs our help. Todd, what's up man?
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Hey, how you doing?
Speaker 4: Did you go with the o g ham and cheese
Speaker 4: because that is my personal Oh yeah, I'll take ham
Speaker 4: and cheese all day.
Speaker 5: That's more of a lunch just for me.
Speaker 3: Okay, Hey Todd, can I ask are you a good cook?
Speaker 3: Because I think the effort of cooking, whether you're good
Speaker 3: or bad is sexy to ladies. But are you like
Speaker 3: a chef or something?
Speaker 5: Now, I wouldn't say I'm a chef. I have worked
Speaker 5: in a kitchen before. Okay, I can cook too, like
Speaker 5: really really good Italian dishes. That's pretty much it. But
Speaker 5: like it works well, I mean I cook a mean
Speaker 5: shrimp alfredo.
Speaker 4: Okay, are we just going to talk about his food
Speaker 4: or are you talk about his stage?
Speaker 6: Can we?
Speaker 1: I do want to just talk about the culinary side
Speaker 1: of it, but we should focus on the girl that
Speaker 1: you went out with. What's her name?
Speaker 5: It was Laurie, Laurie.
Speaker 4: I'm guessing you went with the shrimp alfredo. Did you
Speaker 4: talk that up?
Speaker 5: It's funny because I met Laurie online and in her
Speaker 5: bio she had put like her favorite foods is seafood, right,
Speaker 5: oh nice? And so you know, you got to have
Speaker 5: a good opening line. So actually my opening line was, is, hey,
Speaker 5: so all you like seafood? Just so you know, my
Speaker 5: shrimp alfredo is a real catch a.
Speaker 2: Do you like that? Alexis?
Speaker 6: I don't like sure, Belfrido some on the wrong person ask.
Speaker 1: I say, you know, Alexis just wants a bank statement.
Speaker 1: As the first text and then she'll make a decision
Speaker 1: from there.
Speaker 3: You should have followed up with I'm just being krill
Speaker 3: with you.
Speaker 1: It's possible to overdo it though. Did she liked it? Yeah?
Speaker 5: I mean she gave a little lol and and then
Speaker 5: we were texting for like a week. It was really
Speaker 5: it was really flirty and really good. And I invited
Speaker 5: her over to prove it, you know, and she was down.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it means a lot, like I feel like when
Speaker 4: people go to someone's house on a first date, when
Speaker 4: they meet on an Apple.
Speaker 1: That's why it's so cluch that you guys chatted for
Speaker 1: a week before she agreed to do.
Speaker 3: That, trusted each other a little bit.
Speaker 5: How did it go well? I thought it went really well.
Speaker 5: I was really nervous because I really liked her. I
Speaker 5: thought she was really cute.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 5: I did maybe go a little above. I lit a
Speaker 5: lot of candles in the house, and you know, when
Speaker 5: she showed up, she noticed just like, oh are we
Speaker 5: doing a seance? And I was like, uh, is that
Speaker 5: what she said?
Speaker 1: That's hysterical at wow.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like you didn't bring the Wii board, No,
Speaker 5: no easy board. I was just like, I just told
Speaker 5: I was like, Oh, I was just trying to set
Speaker 5: the atmosphere, you know.
Speaker 2: Raising the dead. Did she laugh?
Speaker 6: I mean?
Speaker 4: Was she cool? No?
Speaker 5: Yeah, she was cool, you know. And I had a
Speaker 5: fresh garlic bread that I had made garlic bread brod.
Speaker 4: Was the food ready when she got there? Did you
Speaker 4: guys cook it together?
Speaker 5: No? No, the way I set it up, it was
Speaker 5: basically like halfway done, because I kind of did want
Speaker 5: to finish cooking the meal, you know, while she was there. Yeah,
Speaker 5: but yeah, I mean I served her the food and
Speaker 5: it was good, and she said she liked the food.
Speaker 5: I was like, I said, I was really nervous. I
Speaker 5: felt like, thinking back, I may have been asking about
Speaker 5: the food too much, you know, when you're like, oh,
Speaker 5: how is it is good? And then like five minutes later, oh,
Speaker 5: can you taste the fresh fasal?
Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of like a needy waiter at
Speaker 1: the minutes like are you sure over?
Speaker 2: Okay, what did you guys do after dinner?
Speaker 5: After dinner, we sat down on the couch for a
Speaker 5: movie and it was nice. We weren't necessarily as close
Speaker 5: as I wanted to be on the couch, but I
Speaker 5: thought this was a first date.
Speaker 1: You know, when she just screwed over a little bit.
Speaker 1: It's your couch.
Speaker 5: It's kind of.
Speaker 4: Awkward though, once you're sitting and then you move over,
Speaker 4: you know, like you have to do it right as
Speaker 4: the sitting happens.
Speaker 1: I like to slowly in show, like every minute you
Speaker 1: just slide like a little bit closer, until she doesn't
Speaker 1: even realize all of a sudden, she's in your arms.
Speaker 1: She help you? Is that that's not the movie you
Speaker 1: went with?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 2: Nah?
Speaker 5: No, I mean I was a little nervous, to be honest,
Speaker 5: and you know, I sat down first, and she kind
Speaker 5: of sat down where she was going to sit down.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's a good call.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Like she didn't sit on the opposite end
Speaker 5: of the couch, but she wasn't like in my you
Speaker 5: were touching all yeah, No, we weren't.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, how did it end? How did the
Speaker 1: night end?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 5: When the movie was over, okay, she stayed for the
Speaker 5: whole after she wanted to like have another glass of
Speaker 5: wine and talk a little more. But right after the
Speaker 5: movie was over, she was like, I gotta go. Yeah,
Speaker 5: And I did kind of feel like there was a
Speaker 5: little bit of a drop off, you know, in that
Speaker 5: like it. The light was definitely over and so she
Speaker 5: went home. And that's why I'm talking to you guys.
Speaker 5: You know, it's just been very very sporadic communication. The
Speaker 5: energy that I mean, she's still kind of texting me,
Speaker 5: but I just feel like it's totally different now. I
Speaker 5: don't know what went wrong. I mean the food. I
Speaker 5: know the food was great, but and I was a
Speaker 5: little nervous.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're nervous. Energy maybe got the best of you.
Speaker 3: It could just be a classic case of what a
Speaker 3: lot of girls admit to, which is they just wanted
Speaker 3: a free meal. If a guy a free fresh cooked meal,
Speaker 3: you don't sit through a movie though.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think just went on too long, Like you
Speaker 4: ate a bunch of alfredo and you're laid on the
Speaker 4: couch for two hours. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've heard of being friend zoned before, but
Speaker 1: chef zone. Maybe you got put in the chef zone.
Speaker 1: We'll find out when we call her and get your
Speaker 1: second date update right after this. All right, all right,
Speaker 1: hold on Italian food, fine wine and sitting ten feet
Speaker 1: apart from each other on the couch while watching the
Speaker 1: Gooniesy is that that?
Speaker 2: Did you find out something about the movie that we
Speaker 2: didn't know.
Speaker 1: No, I made an assumption.
Speaker 3: I was probably wasn't that, Jeff?
Speaker 1: And you know now that I'm saying it, what would
Speaker 1: have been a better move, Todd? As if you'd bought
Speaker 1: a smaller couch so that she physically couldn't sit that
Speaker 1: far away from.
Speaker 2: He's actually really smart in a two seat. Why they
Speaker 2: call him love seats.
Speaker 3: He just slaps his knee.
Speaker 1: A right plenty of own. But that's because Todd invited
Speaker 1: a woman named Laurie over to his place recently to
Speaker 1: show off his cooking skills, which he thought went pretty well.
Speaker 1: But after their date, Laurie's not texting him as much
Speaker 1: as she was before. Or could it be that your
Speaker 1: famous shrimp alfredo was so delicious it sent her into
Speaker 1: a delayed food coma ah, and now she's just on
Speaker 1: her couch sleeping it off for a long time, for
Speaker 1: a week. It's that tasty.
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yeah maybe, uh, if you think about it, Yeah,
Speaker 5: it was really good.
Speaker 1: We'll find out. But we do want you to send
Speaker 1: us a sample to the studio, just so that we
Speaker 1: can be sure.
Speaker 5: It's called you Gotta come over, You gotta come over.
Speaker 5: I do it at my house with all the candles
Speaker 5: and everything.
Speaker 2: The candles seemed to be like that may be one
Speaker 2: of the things that went wrong. She did note that
Speaker 2: it could be a seance.
Speaker 3: My yeah, is a fire.
Speaker 1: Marshal, and this is why is the ghost of Abraham
Speaker 1: Lincoln on this data. But we'll see what she asked
Speaker 1: to say, and maybe it's none of those things. Could
Speaker 1: be something totally out of your control. We'll call her
Speaker 1: and find out.
Speaker 5: All right, Yeah, let's see here we go.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call her number right now. Hell, hey, is
Speaker 1: this Lori?
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is she.
Speaker 1: Well she is conscious, so we're gonna have to strike
Speaker 1: that talking that's possible. Are you awake right now? Are
Speaker 1: you asleep?
Speaker 6: I'm way?
Speaker 2: Who says that's a funny call.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning.
Speaker 6: Oh my goodness, I know you guys.
Speaker 2: Sorry, Hi. Should happen more often than it does, so
Speaker 2: we appreciate that.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: What's sadder that our reactions like, oh my god, he
Speaker 3: knows somebody who recognizes me.
Speaker 1: Well, this is good that you listen to us because
Speaker 1: we're doing a second date update. Are you familiar with that?
Speaker 4: Oh? I think so.
Speaker 6: I mean, I know your voice is weird to talk
Speaker 6: to you on the phone. Not really sure what that is,
Speaker 6: but what's up.
Speaker 1: We're trying to get a hold of you on behalf
Speaker 1: of our listener who cooked for you the other night
Speaker 1: named Todd.
Speaker 2: Oh shrip Alfredo guy?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, warehouse full of candles.
Speaker 6: There were a lot of candles. Like, I'm like, is
Speaker 6: this guy into Santa Ria? I don't know.
Speaker 1: From the way that you're talking, it sounds like maybe
Speaker 1: you like Todd.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like it.
Speaker 6: He's really nice. I just I feel we're talking about
Speaker 6: this on the radio.
Speaker 1: Me too, I feel weird about it. So we're all
Speaker 1: on the same boat here.
Speaker 3: Everything he says on the radio jet.
Speaker 1: But obviously Todd reached out to us because he's feeling
Speaker 1: a little bit confused that in the week following your
Speaker 1: date the communications kind of dried up.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well okay, so it's a weird situation, like you No,
Speaker 6: I did not mean that to happen. Like I'm gonna
Speaker 6: wear the situation right now.
Speaker 2: Oh man, it's an X, isn't it.
Speaker 6: I'm not saying that one person. I'm on a dating app,
Speaker 6: so I'm not exclusive with anybody. You're dating multiple people
Speaker 6: right now, two and they both happen to be chefs,
Speaker 6: And I swear I did not intend this to happen.
Speaker 2: Like, wait, is Todd counted in the two?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I mean you just went on one.
Speaker 1: Date with him and he told us that he's not
Speaker 1: a professional chef, that he just he likes to cook.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well the other guys like legit chef, but hes
Speaker 6: a good cook too, So I mean I did it.
Speaker 2: Like why are you not calling Todd back? Though? Like,
Speaker 2: I mean, are you just too busy with the other dude?
Speaker 2: Are you hanging out with him more often?
Speaker 6: I don't really know what to do, Like I've never
Speaker 6: been in the situation before, and like one's really good
Speaker 6: at Italian, the other is really good at Mexican. Makes
Speaker 6: it as a.
Speaker 4: Lot, And they were like to divor, you're basing your
Speaker 4: love life on how well they couldn't cook.
Speaker 2: Why are you stopping talking to one? Keep it up?
Speaker 4: Just cheat?
Speaker 2: I don't know what the rules are. There's no Yeah,
Speaker 2: there's no rules. Alexis is right.
Speaker 4: I mean, you've gone out on one date. You didn't
Speaker 4: even sit next to him on the couch. He said,
Speaker 4: I think you're fine, Like.
Speaker 6: I'm kind of used to the dating app thing, and
Speaker 6: it's like, for me, it's a little strange to be
Speaker 6: dating more than one person. I feel like I need
Speaker 6: to make a decision, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You're not comfortable juggling multiple guys, like the women on
Speaker 1: this show are.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they don't care.
Speaker 2: It's what even pre dating apps, it's what dating is, right.
Speaker 3: I think she's already thinking if she likes them both,
Speaker 3: eventually one of them she'll probably.
Speaker 2: Become What were you waiting for to make your choice?
Speaker 6: I don't know, Like they're like some bolts, and they're
Speaker 6: both great cooks. I mean, you say way to a
Speaker 6: man's hearts or stomach, but you know, oh yeah, I'm
Speaker 6: with you.
Speaker 5: Girls.
Speaker 3: I have an idea. Have you considered a real life
Speaker 3: cooking competition, like the chef you make them all come
Speaker 3: over and you're like, look, boys, you're cooking for your
Speaker 3: livelihoods right now, you're cooking for me.
Speaker 2: And then you yell at them really mean.
Speaker 4: Like like.
Speaker 6: It don't make it the wrong way, but like is
Speaker 6: Italian the only thing you can cook?
Speaker 1: Or like you see okay, I mean we're talking and
Speaker 1: we're joking about this a lot but I do wonder
Speaker 1: how Todd feels because he's been listening the entire time. Everybody.
Speaker 5: What, wait, Lauria, are you serious You're you're seeing two
Speaker 5: different chefs.
Speaker 6: I mean, I really did not intend to happen. It's
Speaker 6: not like I'm trolling for chef I promised you.
Speaker 5: I mean I didn't want to believe that them when
Speaker 5: they were saying, you know, ladies love a free meal.
Speaker 5: But that seems like you're running a train on the
Speaker 5: you know, the Cusine Ryne I told you by accident.
Speaker 2: No, it's just what she put in her dating profile.
Speaker 2: She said she loves seat. That's their only pickup line. Yes,
Speaker 2: it's a good.
Speaker 6: How are your enciladas?
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't cook Mexican food, but I'm sure
Speaker 5: my food is better.
Speaker 2: Oh that's a little throwdown.
Speaker 1: So you're not You're not intimidated by the other chef
Speaker 1: that possibly could be cooking better than you.
Speaker 3: Todd.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm honestly shocked. I didn't know, Lauria, I
Speaker 5: didn't know you were seeing someone else. I mean I
Speaker 5: thought we were just having a date. I didn't know
Speaker 5: there was anyone else in the picture.
Speaker 6: Well, like I'm on dating app and I'm meeting different
Speaker 6: people and trying to get like out of my comfort zone.
Speaker 6: But like, are you saying you're not meeting anybody else?
Speaker 5: I mean, no, I'm not. I mean I I'm you know,
Speaker 5: I try to focus my attention on one person. I'm not,
Speaker 5: you know, disrespecting what you're doing. But heads up would
Speaker 5: be nice. Hey, I eat at a different guy's house
Speaker 5: every night of the week. Just letting me know and
Speaker 5: then I know, I mean, look, I get it, like
Speaker 5: we just met, we've only been on one date. But no,
Speaker 5: I'm not, I'm not seeing anybody. It would just be
Speaker 5: nice to know what you're doing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so where do you stand with the other guy?
Speaker 6: It's like I said, it's out of my comfort zone.
Speaker 6: So I'm just kind of trying to go with it.
Speaker 1: I bet mister Enchiladas didn't use as many candles in
Speaker 1: his apartment as Todd.
Speaker 4: Yes, the camels, do you know this?
Speaker 2: So that's one point for Todd, But he may have
Speaker 2: paired it with a fresh margarita.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, we're tied one to one.
Speaker 3: Now can I ask an important question? All decide personality wise?
Speaker 1: Who do you like more? No one can.
Speaker 3: Could be funnier I could be.
Speaker 1: That's all Si.
Speaker 6: They're really both great guys, they are.
Speaker 2: Can you just share the wealth a little bit?
Speaker 1: Like? Okay, well, I'm gonna throw out an idea that's
Speaker 1: kind of unique.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 1: I propose that Laurie, you and the Mexican chef get
Speaker 1: together and go over to Todd's place and have Todd
Speaker 1: cook for both of you. Then Todd, you and Laurie
Speaker 1: get together and go over to mister Mexican Chef's place.
Speaker 5: Like, I'm not trying to get involved in a throuple.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, Okay, suddenly you were uncomfortable just seeing
Speaker 4: two men separately, and now you want them all in
Speaker 4: the same rooms.
Speaker 5: By I mean, come on for a week.
Speaker 3: Why don't we you have both chefs come to our
Speaker 3: studios cook for all, including Laurie. We can all do
Speaker 3: a vote.
Speaker 2: I'm not making out with him.
Speaker 3: I was some tacos.
Speaker 1: We'll kiss them for it. I'm willing to some good shrimp.
Speaker 1: But we would like you to get back together with Todd, Laurie,
Speaker 1: and we would pay for you to meet up again.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I would really like that.
Speaker 5: I would like it if he's okay with for a second, day.
Speaker 5: I was happy to hear that she was a little
Speaker 5: shy on the couch because I was also a little nervous,
Speaker 5: So maybe we could get closer there go.
Speaker 6: I mean, that's the thing about the couch. It's harder
Speaker 6: to get closer to the Mexican chef because of all
Speaker 6: the beans and everything.
Speaker 1: Invo That's what all the scented candles in his room
Speaker 1: are for.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, whatever, you do, not lift the blanket up.
Speaker 2: The less.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. Why is the text board blowing
Speaker 1: up right now suggesting I dress up as one of
Speaker 1: the chefs and make out with both of them.
Speaker 3: I don't see at all.
Speaker 1: Actually, wait, that's not the text sport. I wrote that
Speaker 1: down on this piece of page. This show is so
Speaker 1: confusing sometimes. But no, like Brooks said, I am interested
Speaker 1: in getting an update from those two.
Speaker 2: But it's certain you think texts coming up pieces.
Speaker 1: You're going old fashioned. You know, the technology your isn't great.
Speaker 1: You know, once the dust settles and dinner time rolls around,
Speaker 1: she's going to be over at her place thinking don't
Speaker 1: want Mexican or do I want Italian?
Speaker 4: To now?
Speaker 1: Tough choice, but a great.
Speaker 2: Choice for real, And she's going to get cooked from
Speaker 2: both of the.
Speaker 1: Yeah, either way, she wins, and we want to help
Speaker 1: you win in your dating life. Email the show, we'll
Speaker 1: call that person who isn't calling you back. And if
Speaker 1: you want to check out any of our second date updates,
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