WEBVTT - We Talk Back: A Thin Line Between Love And Hate

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<v Speaker 1>Speaks to the Plannet.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking to We Talk Back, where we encourage you to

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<v Speaker 1>hustle hard, laugh, letter and always keep it cute. So

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<v Speaker 1>grab your coffee, cocktail and crown because it's about to

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<v Speaker 1>go down talk talk.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just too unapologizely black women with an opinion. Who talks?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, y'all, it's your girl, AJ Holiday, what's up, tam Dam.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all's official tam Oh? No am my official Tambam. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just Tambam. I love y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, AJ, you change your Instagram name?

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's it, but I already say my Instagram name crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good girl. How you feeling?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? I always enjoy spring because you know

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<v Speaker 3>the season is changing. But when I tell you this,

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<v Speaker 3>pollar is whooping my ass like real bad this year,

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<v Speaker 3>like worse than ever before. I can't handle it. I

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<v Speaker 3>understand that the trees gotta have sex, but it is

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't ask to be a part of the orgy.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not ask to be a part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, Like Zertac can't take enough of my fucking money.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting like the big packs from Costco. Okay, my

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<v Speaker 1>mama even text me ask me if I needed some

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<v Speaker 1>more zyrt Tech because it's real nasty. Like my car

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<v Speaker 1>was green. Yeah, I didn't know my car that much

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<v Speaker 1>last week and it just looked like an abandoned car

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<v Speaker 1>after a while.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's just gross. It really is gross outside, but

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<v Speaker 3>I still went out in it. I went, oh, we

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<v Speaker 3>know that I went to in New York. I went

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<v Speaker 3>to Saint It's a restal lounge. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>that means to me, that it's a club, but the

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<v Speaker 3>owner told me it's not a club, it's a restal lounge.

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<v Speaker 3>So I guess that's like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Club restaurant slash lounge.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess yeah, because they do sell really good food.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he bought me a drink at the end

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<v Speaker 3>of the night and I was like, I want what

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<v Speaker 3>you drinking. There was a mistake, baby, when I tell you,

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<v Speaker 3>I was drukist.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck.

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<v Speaker 3>I had to go home after that drink. I had

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<v Speaker 3>to leave in my business. But that was it. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>and I also we went to Pergola, so we went

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<v Speaker 3>to two hooga bars. It was cool, but then I

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<v Speaker 3>was supposed to go out on Sunday. I can't do

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<v Speaker 3>two days in a row. It's one or the other

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<v Speaker 3>peak one because that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, from six to ten. That was my operational hours,

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<v Speaker 1>six to ten. If you don't got me out the

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<v Speaker 1>house by six o'clock at any one weeknd notice in advance,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you don't got me out by six. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a rap. Okay. I had a good weekend too, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I really I had a tough week last week. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So Saturday morning was actually my test to see if

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<v Speaker 1>I can do all the things. Okay, So I really

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<v Speaker 1>had to push myself to get up four point thirty

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, put makeup on, all this shit, get

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<v Speaker 1>dressed for a great cause. Though. So one of my

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<v Speaker 1>friends friends, so my homegirl, volunteered me for this thing

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<v Speaker 1>and I just committed to it. And I committed to

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<v Speaker 1>it a month ago, so I had to follow through.

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<v Speaker 1>But I almost I almost told them bitches, I ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to make it. But I'm glad I

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<v Speaker 1>pushed through. But so, she's one of my friend's friend

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<v Speaker 1>is doing a reality TV show and it's about the

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<v Speaker 1>women in the world of merchant semens. Right. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's a great, great, great, great great idea. So

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<v Speaker 1>we actually did like a panel interview for a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of people who actually showed up to and I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like she's gonna have a good cast too, which I need.

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<v Speaker 3>You were helping interview people to participate to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be yeah on the reality like the cast members right.

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<v Speaker 3>So why are you men to get up at four

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<v Speaker 3>thirty in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it was from eight to twelve, and yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>were recording everything. It was really nice set up and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, real professional. So it's called Beyond the Anchor.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's going to be following the lives of women

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<v Speaker 1>who are in this very hard industry. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people in Charleston our merchant semens, so they work alongside

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<v Speaker 1>the Navy on these ships, you know, around the world

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<v Speaker 1>all year long. They're away from away from their families, children,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's it's it's some good ass storylines going off.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of merchant symen in Virginia too. I

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<v Speaker 3>know a lot of people who do that in Virginia. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so we are smith.

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<v Speaker 1>The casting was the casting was basically from head to

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<v Speaker 1>Virginia essentially because a lot of the boats are docked

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<v Speaker 1>in Charleston, a lot of them docked in Virginia. The

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<v Speaker 1>port cities, right, Miami.

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<v Speaker 3>That's gonna be very interesting. They came up with something good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, so we'll see Chad. So that was my weekend

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<v Speaker 1>and then I just was for real in the bed

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<v Speaker 1>from maybe four o'clock Saturday to twelve o'clock Sunday.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl, listen, let me tell you how I missed up.

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<v Speaker 3>I was. I stayed out drinking all night Saturday. And

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<v Speaker 3>let me tell y'all that niggas was outside. They was

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<v Speaker 3>on the kid. That's where they was like, they was

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<v Speaker 3>lined up. I was like, okay, wait.

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<v Speaker 1>One second, next bit, you better get one of the

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<v Speaker 1>little things. We all get a number.

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<v Speaker 3>Every take a number and stand in line with your

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<v Speaker 3>number is called please push for it because that's what

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<v Speaker 3>it was given. You got clear?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have clear?

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<v Speaker 3>Nigga? Right pre check? Send him to me for TSA

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<v Speaker 3>for aj PreCheck period. So after that Sunday, I had

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<v Speaker 3>to get up and do some hair. Girl like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know why I signed up for that, but I

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<v Speaker 3>had to get up and do it so in it

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<v Speaker 3>hurts so bad. I'm not built to be outside and

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<v Speaker 3>go I remember when I was younger, I could. I

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<v Speaker 3>could literally party TI time to go to work and

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<v Speaker 3>be good. Baby. It hurts so bad. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't wait. God bless me, y'all sub like, subscribe

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<v Speaker 3>our shit, buy some T shirts from us. So I

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<v Speaker 3>gotta do this no more. I don't want to do here,

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<v Speaker 3>no more so anyway. And then Sunday I stayed in

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<v Speaker 3>bed all day. All day, I didn't I took a

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<v Speaker 3>shower and laid back down and that was it. I

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<v Speaker 3>could not go back outside.

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<v Speaker 1>And those that's my favorite thing to do.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you need to make the shirts.

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<v Speaker 1>I love lay Down.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it because I will buy it. Let's get

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<v Speaker 3>in the scene, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, y'all what we got going on? I need streets

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<v Speaker 1>with a case. So y'all know that, uh, the infamous,

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<v Speaker 1>super famous. I guess it was a YouTube Dayton show

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<v Speaker 1>at this point. Now they're heading the Netflix. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>beginning April tenth, twenty twenty five, viewers will tune in

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<v Speaker 1>every Thursday at eight pm for a roller coaster of romance, chaos,

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<v Speaker 1>and enough tension to make your stomach drop. So thanks

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<v Speaker 1>to the thanks to The Bachelor, think oh yeah, think

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<v Speaker 1>of The Bachelor. Okay, but with balloons. So y'all know

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<v Speaker 1>the pop the Balloon Dayton Show. They're heading to Netflix.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited for that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm congratulations. Round up a plot.

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<v Speaker 1>They got over like one hundred million like YouTube views,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Since they've been on YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>that's when.

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<v Speaker 3>People really enjoy that shit. I could never go on

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<v Speaker 3>no Pop to Balloon. I couldn't pop a balloon, nor

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<v Speaker 3>could I be the I couldn't be the poppy or

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<v Speaker 3>the popper because I don't want to pop and hurt

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<v Speaker 3>nobody feeling. And if you pop a balloon on me,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna cry. So I'm a cry or fight. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know which one is or both. So I don't

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<v Speaker 3>need to be on them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that shit is damn that show is treacherous.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think my my esteem is set up to

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<v Speaker 1>go on that shit, okay, because you are not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be for everybody. So imagine going into a room

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<v Speaker 1>where you're not for anybody in there.

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<v Speaker 3>Anybody, and you walk out and everybody like pop hop

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<v Speaker 3>pop pop.

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<v Speaker 1>For real. I'm crying like right there on the spot.

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<v Speaker 1>So I commend those people, you know, who get up

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<v Speaker 1>there with all that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So the series creators Bolia Mandu, I believe their

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<v Speaker 1>husband and wife, right.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't think so because the last names aren't

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<v Speaker 3>the same.

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<v Speaker 1>And are let Amalie Amalie. That's what we see doing

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<v Speaker 1>the she's a host right now, So now she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the executive producer of the show, and basically

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<v Speaker 1>she won't be like you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, yeah, we love her from Insecure the Virgin. I

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<v Speaker 3>wonder if she's still a virgin, why would she not be?

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<v Speaker 1>Might as well? We ain't heard about her getting married.

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<v Speaker 1>I did see she was dating, so yeah, come this

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<v Speaker 1>far to turn back? Now, I doubt it. Now. I

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<v Speaker 1>am not a TV watcher for real, right, but I

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<v Speaker 1>have kept up with Atlanta Housewives every so often, like

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<v Speaker 1>I'll skip around years and seasons. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>I decided to watch the season. It's probably because Portia

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<v Speaker 1>is back on the show and I want to see

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<v Speaker 1>what the fuck is going on with her and Simon

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<v Speaker 1>and all the things. Like I just knew it was

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<v Speaker 1>going to be a good time, so I have been

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in. Now. I did not catch this most recent episode,

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<v Speaker 1>but apparently some shit is going on.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I did catch like some of the shade with some

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<v Speaker 1>of the new cast members. And then you have like

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<v Speaker 1>some of the older castmates still around. Okay, so Kenya

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<v Speaker 1>Kenya Moore is still around, Porscha is back on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>what's Cynthia's there?

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<v Speaker 3>Dora?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so there's a newcomer. Her name is Brittany Edie eighty.

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<v Speaker 1>She was added to this current season and this last episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the preview preview for it. I hadn't watched

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<v Speaker 1>it yet, but you can see the tension between her

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<v Speaker 1>and Kenya. So apparently Kenya tweeted out about how she

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<v Speaker 1>was threatened by Brittany like behind the scenes on set.

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<v Speaker 1>It says this year, Brittany Edie was added to the

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<v Speaker 1>cast of season sixteen, which is currently being filmed. However,

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<v Speaker 1>Edie's time on the show might not last very long,

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<v Speaker 1>as there was allegedly a severe situation on set with

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<v Speaker 1>Kenya Moore. According to the Neighborhood Talk, So they got

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<v Speaker 1>into the argument and Brittany basically says says, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a gun for bitches like you, whether she had a

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<v Speaker 1>gun at the time or just saying, you know, for

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<v Speaker 1>future reference, bitch, I got a gun for you. Kenya

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<v Speaker 1>Moore did not take that shit lightly at all, and

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<v Speaker 1>she shouldn't. You can't just threaten me with a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't leave out this building before me either, right

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<v Speaker 1>because basically you just tell me you'll kill me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's the only thing I would hear right, So,

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<v Speaker 1>as it stands, is unclear what went down between needs

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<v Speaker 1>to However, what we do know is that people on

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<v Speaker 1>set were shook. Photographer Eric Robinson was at the scene

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<v Speaker 1>and on social media he revealed just how shaken up

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<v Speaker 1>he was by everything and quotes it says, I am

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<v Speaker 1>still trying to recover myself. I couldn't even take a photo.

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<v Speaker 1>My mouth fell to the floor and I am just

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<v Speaker 1>in awe, Like, what was the most deadliest scene? Probably?

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<v Speaker 1>We were what.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't readbitch? You said it was the that was

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<v Speaker 3>the most deadliest scene, probably in the franchise history for him,

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<v Speaker 3>that's what he's saying. But I mean, didn't nobody die?

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<v Speaker 3>So he might have been like reaching with that statement,

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<v Speaker 3>but did anybody didn't get it? Supposed to be like classy,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, women with money? She teld me, I got

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<v Speaker 3>a gun for bitches. Like take that to love and

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<v Speaker 3>hip hop, Atlanta. You on the wrong show. This is

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<v Speaker 3>real high sis. We don't do that here.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can't recall what this girl's husband name is

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<v Speaker 1>on the show, but one he doesn't seem to like her.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a couple of people who like the men that

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<v Speaker 1>they have with them. On the show, like does he

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<v Speaker 1>even like you?

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<v Speaker 3>For real?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm questioning it just how they are responding to

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<v Speaker 1>their wives on camera.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm saying is like Drusi Door and her husband

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<v Speaker 1>all over again with some of these new cast mates.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know her husband. It seems like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he was an accident of something. His

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<v Speaker 1>face is like half frozen kind of. He looks dangerous

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<v Speaker 1>as far as I'm conservage, and I think they might

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<v Speaker 1>be from New York. I don't know, but about right,

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<v Speaker 1>that shit sound about right. She looked like she might be.

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<v Speaker 1>She heard her say yes, But her husband looked like

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<v Speaker 1>he done did some shit, damn okay, and he looked

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<v Speaker 1>like you got these cameras in my life and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just here because you won't do this shit. He really

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<v Speaker 1>look like he be on some bullshit. But anyway, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so shout out to Real Housewives of Atlanta child kenymore

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<v Speaker 1>you better and you know she'd be strapped up too

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<v Speaker 1>now because Kenya has talked about you know, how.

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<v Speaker 3>She makes to you know, use it on the castmates.

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<v Speaker 1>It's crazy, right, Yeah, you're tripping. Yeah, yeah, so we'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>But let's talk about all right. So last week we

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<v Speaker 3>did Waited to Exhale and we analyzed all the characters

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<v Speaker 3>and I really enjoy that. That was a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 3>So this week we're gonna do a thin line between

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<v Speaker 3>love and hate and just talk about how they tried

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<v Speaker 3>to get us to hate Brandy when the movie came out,

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<v Speaker 3>but really it was Darius Darnell. Darnell, Darnell motherfucked the mask.

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<v Speaker 1>We know Darnell's Okay, Darnell is alive, and well.

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<v Speaker 3>When we get back from this break, we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 3>into it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all. So again, okay, so this week we

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<v Speaker 1>want to break down a thin line between love hate

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we try to like associate it with

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<v Speaker 1>dating today, right because it is the same bullshit. We

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<v Speaker 1>know the Darnell's in life, We know the Brandy's in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Brandy was like the crazy bitch on the show, right,

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<v Speaker 1>but really was she crazy? You know a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people like to drive you crazy and then call you crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>and that'd be the fuck that thing. Like you get

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<v Speaker 1>me to one hundred. Now you're trying to tell me

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<v Speaker 1>this a verity of the situation, No, bitch, you're gaslighting me, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know I'm not crazy. And you know how

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm not crazy because I'll call my friends first,

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<v Speaker 1>tell them what I did, tell them what that other

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<v Speaker 1>person did, and bitch, am I crazy? Or am I

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<v Speaker 1>tripping before I while out on your ass? See, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>Brandy was skippings the steps because she ain't have no friends.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the problem. She didn't consult with her Really, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Really was consulting with her fucking subconscious mind and them

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<v Speaker 1>intrusive thoughts was telling her to kill niggas because I

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<v Speaker 1>believe she had killed and X, but the.

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<v Speaker 3>Ex was physically violent or so she said. We don't remember.

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<v Speaker 1>She beat herself up now and Darnelle arrested, So she

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<v Speaker 1>probably did that in the last situation too, because you

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned that'll be.

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<v Speaker 3>Her own ass to get you in trouble. You don't

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<v Speaker 3>need to fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoop yond as. Don't whoop me whoop yond ass.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's next level.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's let's so let's do a deep dive. Right, So,

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<v Speaker 1>when's the last time you watched then line between leven?

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<v Speaker 3>I watched it last night?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you really?

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<v Speaker 3>I did?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't rewatch it. Okay, So y'all known Temy already,

0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.960
<v Speaker 1>always know all the fucking movies anyway, so this shit

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<v Speaker 1>is fresh on her frontal lobe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, anyway, it was. I didn't even have to watch

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<v Speaker 3>it over because I know this movie. This movie is

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<v Speaker 3>so triggering. I was cussing Martin Lawrence ass out the

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<v Speaker 3>whole movie, like the entire movie, even before he started

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<v Speaker 3>cutting up. I was like, because I knew what was coming.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like, you motherfucker right.

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<v Speaker 1>And so the movie is still relevant today's because we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about like toxic relationships, karma, emotional manipulation, and like

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<v Speaker 1>the blurred lines between love and obsession. Because I have

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<v Speaker 1>seen people online say, if my man don't do this,

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<v Speaker 1>he don't love me, like and it bes like some stalkershit.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, if you've never been stalked before, you

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<v Speaker 1>really don't know how that feels. And you don't want that.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't want somebody to really be obsessed with you. See,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all bitches, when y'all want to do magic and shit,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be the main thing y'all want to do is

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<v Speaker 1>get somebody to fall in love with you. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to get rid of that nigga, You're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to. Now, you got to call the police. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to get the course involved to get a

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<v Speaker 1>restrained in order against this nigga, because you don't put

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<v Speaker 1>his ass in a jar. Honey, Okay, yeah, I'm careful.

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<v Speaker 3>So have you ever been in a situation where in

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<v Speaker 3>love turned into something dangerous?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 3>Hell?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I feel like I talk about it a lot

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<v Speaker 1>on here, and maybe not in depth like situation the situation,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have been in some real sticky shit in relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like I'm usually Yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm usually the one that's a little bit more sane, right.

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<v Speaker 1>But when men feel feelings get involved, they get different,

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<v Speaker 1>They turn different, you know, because I think they have

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<v Speaker 1>a different idea also of what love is. Because men,

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<v Speaker 1>when they love you now they feel like they like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of own you, like you are their property. I

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<v Speaker 1>saw this post on social media last week, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a guy asking a lady like, what's the big

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<v Speaker 1>problem with a man saying that you're his property? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you want? Exactly right? It's the verbiage. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>how is he supposed to care for you, die for you,

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<v Speaker 1>provide for you if he doesn't own you. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>am I a car? Because I know a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>niggas with dirty asked cars, and they'll start killing me

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<v Speaker 1>about that dirty ass car.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not a car, I'm not he can't own me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So a lot of people, a lot of men

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<v Speaker 1>like when they fall in love and their feelings get involved.

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<v Speaker 1>Is different, And I've experienced some fucking crazy shit.

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<v Speaker 3>I ain't never I've never been in love with someone crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I luckily have like witnessed like, oh I

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<v Speaker 3>see their flag, I see the red flags, and when

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<v Speaker 3>you showed me a little bit of crazy, I will

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<v Speaker 3>get up out of there. I remember I had this

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<v Speaker 3>one guy and he was just too aggressive with how

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<v Speaker 3>he handled me mm hm, even just playfully, it was

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<v Speaker 3>just too much. I was like, oh no, I got

0:19:43.640 --> 0:19:45.520
<v Speaker 3>to get up out of here. I remember he picked

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<v Speaker 3>me up and put me on the top of the

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<v Speaker 3>car and then grabbed my legs and was like pulling

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<v Speaker 3>me off the car, playing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh how is that fun?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Who is this fun for? Because it's not fun

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<v Speaker 3>for me. Let me go and put me down. Now.

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<v Speaker 3>All the stalkers that I've ever had, I've never had

0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:06.560
<v Speaker 3>relationships with them, they be mad because I don't want

0:20:06.560 --> 0:20:09.560
<v Speaker 3>to be like I've had female stalkers and I've.

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<v Speaker 1>Had mad bitch. I remember that bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're not gonna talk about that. We don't want

0:20:14.119 --> 0:20:14.919
<v Speaker 3>to bring that bitch up.

0:20:15.440 --> 0:20:20.920
<v Speaker 1>But scary ass. Yeah, yeah, that shit was scary.

0:20:21.080 --> 0:20:24.880
<v Speaker 3>That is scary when you had somebody really like obsessed

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<v Speaker 3>with you and threatening you and saying all kind of

0:20:27.240 --> 0:20:31.360
<v Speaker 3>crazy shit for no reason like they got clearly got

0:20:31.359 --> 0:20:36.439
<v Speaker 3>mental illness. This is definitely terrifying. But this wasn't the

0:20:36.520 --> 0:20:41.639
<v Speaker 3>case with Brandy and Darnell because she pretty much let

0:20:41.760 --> 0:20:46.760
<v Speaker 3>him know, don't fucking play with me, because she ain't

0:20:46.800 --> 0:20:49.800
<v Speaker 3>say I ain't raped tight. But she was given signs,

0:20:49.880 --> 0:20:52.720
<v Speaker 3>you know, the science, and he thought it was the game.

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<v Speaker 3>So let's let's break down the characters.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did Google. Now, this is what Google says.

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<v Speaker 1>Google says that darn Now was in his twenties, like

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<v Speaker 1>early to mid twenties, and Brandy was in her late thirties.

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<v Speaker 1>And mind you remember Brandy was previously married to somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like you could tell like she had

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<v Speaker 1>her whole shit together, like money. Okay, she was that girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, she was a real estate of executive of

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<v Speaker 3>some sort, like she had her she was in her bag,

0:21:26.080 --> 0:21:29.359
<v Speaker 3>she was showing million dollar homes, she had a driver,

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<v Speaker 3>she had she had looked like a million dollar home

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<v Speaker 3>of her own.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hm. So she had her life together and Darnell

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<v Speaker 1>was outside playing like he still was a playboy.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, a womanizer.

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<v Speaker 1>M hmm. Yeah, so Darnell he's a charming ladies man

0:21:46.720 --> 0:21:49.800
<v Speaker 1>who plays games with women's hearts but meets his match

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<v Speaker 1>in Brandy. Essentially he's a womanizer, we could say that, right. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's emotionally immature and he probably he also like underestimates

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<v Speaker 1>the power of emotions.

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<v Speaker 3>That the title was so perfect in line between love

0:22:11.160 --> 0:22:13.480
<v Speaker 3>and hate, and it really is. You can see that

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<v Speaker 3>shit happening right now in real life every day women

0:22:17.440 --> 0:22:20.879
<v Speaker 3>and men relationships dis all and they went from I

0:22:20.920 --> 0:22:23.800
<v Speaker 3>love you so much to I can't I hate that motherfucker?

0:22:24.040 --> 0:22:27.879
<v Speaker 3>Look at Cardi b in offset right should. I had

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<v Speaker 3>a situation just recently too.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw a nigga I used to fuck with and

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<v Speaker 1>he was literally outside rubbing a bitch feet under the table,

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<v Speaker 1>like in my face, just recently, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>then I blocked this nigga on social media recently, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I could have sworn I ben had him blocked

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<v Speaker 1>like on the phone, don't you know. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>he probably doesn't know my life right now because we

0:22:55.440 --> 0:23:00.000
<v Speaker 1>don't talk, but he asked me, like to meet him out.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, nigga, I just seen you two weeks

0:23:02.400 --> 0:23:07.600
<v Speaker 1>ago rubbing a bitch feet under the table, like are

0:23:07.600 --> 0:23:08.560
<v Speaker 1>you stupid?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:23:09.280 --> 0:23:11.680
<v Speaker 1>And he just like lie, he was like, girl, hush,

0:23:11.840 --> 0:23:15.480
<v Speaker 1>this is he texts me, girl hush. And I say,

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<v Speaker 1>you lucky that I'm playing because I almost embarrassed both

0:23:19.119 --> 0:23:21.920
<v Speaker 1>of us. I probably, like I really wanted to spit

0:23:22.000 --> 0:23:24.640
<v Speaker 1>on that nigga, not because like I have any type

0:23:24.640 --> 0:23:26.800
<v Speaker 1>of real feelings for him, and no shit like that anymore.

0:23:27.200 --> 0:23:29.119
<v Speaker 1>It's just that who the fuck you think you're playing with?

0:23:30.200 --> 0:23:34.680
<v Speaker 1>And the problem is men be counting on our integrity, right,

0:23:34.760 --> 0:23:36.960
<v Speaker 1>they be counting on us to keep it fucking cool.

0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:40.720
<v Speaker 1>But everybody ain't gonna be like me. Right, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to run into a.

0:23:41.480 --> 0:23:45.199
<v Speaker 3>Brandy, run into a brandy, and they're gonna ruin your

0:23:45.200 --> 0:23:46.160
<v Speaker 3>whole shit for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So it's Darnelle truly like the villain or just

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<v Speaker 1>the immature guy who met the wrong woman at the

0:23:53.200 --> 0:23:56.040
<v Speaker 1>wrong time or at the right fucking time, get his

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<v Speaker 1>ass together.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to consider him a villain, you know, he's

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<v Speaker 3>I would say he was real selfish because he was

0:24:03.560 --> 0:24:06.880
<v Speaker 3>playing the game. You know, he wanted he bet with Tea.

0:24:07.600 --> 0:24:10.000
<v Speaker 3>He had a bet with Tea that he couldn't get her,

0:24:10.200 --> 0:24:12.119
<v Speaker 3>you know, and he was like, oh, watch watch this,

0:24:12.880 --> 0:24:15.080
<v Speaker 3>I can get any woman I want because I'm not charming.

0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:17.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm that cool. I got the finess and watch how

0:24:17.520 --> 0:24:21.240
<v Speaker 3>I finess her. So I don't think he realized how

0:24:21.280 --> 0:24:23.720
<v Speaker 3>serious it could get, you know, when you're playing with

0:24:23.760 --> 0:24:26.960
<v Speaker 3>people emotions, because that woman definitely was like, look, I've

0:24:26.960 --> 0:24:29.640
<v Speaker 3>been hurt I pretty much. I stay clear of y'all

0:24:29.640 --> 0:24:32.000
<v Speaker 3>motherfuckers because I don't want to be hurt again. And

0:24:32.040 --> 0:24:37.960
<v Speaker 3>then here you come, and how he did it, like

0:24:37.960 --> 0:24:41.520
<v Speaker 3>like she finally let this nigga in. He laid in

0:24:41.560 --> 0:24:45.640
<v Speaker 3>her bed and said I love you, and she made

0:24:45.720 --> 0:24:48.919
<v Speaker 3>they made love or she made love to him and

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:54.119
<v Speaker 3>he just got some pussy and yeah. Then right after

0:24:54.160 --> 0:24:56.159
<v Speaker 3>he calls his homeboy to let him know that he

0:24:56.200 --> 0:24:59.240
<v Speaker 3>got the draws basically like I won and tell me

0:24:59.280 --> 0:25:03.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm the man and then now she's all, I'm fully in,

0:25:03.760 --> 0:25:06.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm letting down my guard. I'm going to show you

0:25:06.080 --> 0:25:09.000
<v Speaker 3>that I care about you. And then she took him

0:25:09.040 --> 0:25:12.359
<v Speaker 3>shopping on her birthday and bought him designing shit in

0:25:12.480 --> 0:25:16.920
<v Speaker 3>nice clothes and was like, take my car, handle your business.

0:25:17.320 --> 0:25:21.720
<v Speaker 3>Meet me tonight, it's my birthday. And then she had

0:25:21.720 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 3>a cake. Can you imagine sitting in your house with

0:25:25.440 --> 0:25:28.239
<v Speaker 3>the cake waiting on the Nigga, you just bought all

0:25:28.240 --> 0:25:30.840
<v Speaker 3>his clothes for her on your birthday and he never

0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:33.800
<v Speaker 3>show up. That is so hurtful.

0:25:34.280 --> 0:25:36.920
<v Speaker 1>He dropped her off the crazy like literally like put

0:25:36.960 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 1>her in the car and drove her there and then

0:25:40.840 --> 0:25:42.840
<v Speaker 1>called her fucking crazy. And how about the part where

0:25:42.840 --> 0:25:45.080
<v Speaker 1>he like like she's trying to cuddle with him after

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:48.040
<v Speaker 1>sex and he like moves his hand her hand off

0:25:48.080 --> 0:25:50.400
<v Speaker 1>of him. Now this is where you know I had

0:25:50.800 --> 0:25:52.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm guilty of telling men like if you don't really

0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:54.439
<v Speaker 1>fuck with a woman and you want to fuck, like

0:25:54.440 --> 0:25:57.399
<v Speaker 1>don't be getting but don't be getting butt naked having

0:25:57.400 --> 0:25:59.400
<v Speaker 1>sex with a bitch, like just pull your dick out

0:25:59.440 --> 0:26:04.560
<v Speaker 1>the hole. So you know what it is like that

0:26:04.720 --> 0:26:07.600
<v Speaker 1>skin to skin shit is a problem too, And if

0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:09.520
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to verbally say hey, I just want

0:26:09.520 --> 0:26:12.119
<v Speaker 1>to fuck, And you may not have said that, but

0:26:12.160 --> 0:26:14.720
<v Speaker 1>everything else you're doing just says you want to fuck.

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:18.320
<v Speaker 1>Like Martin Lawrence, he really just he wasn't. He never

0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:20.200
<v Speaker 1>said I just want to fuck. He was doing all

0:26:20.240 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 1>the things to ma sure that he was interested in her,

0:26:23.560 --> 0:26:24.679
<v Speaker 1>like seriously, right.

0:26:24.720 --> 0:26:26.439
<v Speaker 3>But then you do like he the man came to

0:26:26.520 --> 0:26:29.760
<v Speaker 3>her fucking job, he made an appointment with her, wasting

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:32.320
<v Speaker 3>her time where she could be selling the house to

0:26:32.359 --> 0:26:34.639
<v Speaker 3>somebody who really wants to buy a house. And then,

0:26:34.720 --> 0:26:36.959
<v Speaker 3>I mean he went the extra mile. He had his

0:26:37.000 --> 0:26:40.040
<v Speaker 3>homeboy that Sutter drive him in a fine car up

0:26:40.040 --> 0:26:41.680
<v Speaker 3>there so it looked like he got a little more

0:26:41.720 --> 0:26:44.240
<v Speaker 3>than he got. And then he put a lot of

0:26:44.320 --> 0:26:48.280
<v Speaker 3>leak baby bird in the house prior to them getting

0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:50.479
<v Speaker 3>there so she could see it because he knew that

0:26:50.520 --> 0:26:53.480
<v Speaker 3>she was into crystals. Like you are doing the most

0:26:53.840 --> 0:26:58.480
<v Speaker 3>to just want some pussy, right, y'a say that. Listen,

0:26:58.560 --> 0:27:01.560
<v Speaker 3>I've had a guy do me like this at all. Right, y'all,

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:03.920
<v Speaker 3>I met this guy. He had been in my DMS

0:27:03.960 --> 0:27:06.160
<v Speaker 3>for a while, but I ain't ignored him. And then

0:27:06.160 --> 0:27:08.040
<v Speaker 3>he was like, I'm coming to Charlotte. I want to

0:27:08.040 --> 0:27:10.080
<v Speaker 3>see you. No, He's like, I'm he sent me a

0:27:10.119 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 3>message like, oh I'm in Charlotte. I was like, enjoying

0:27:12.000 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 3>the Queen City. I was not interested, right, I wasn't

0:27:14.560 --> 0:27:16.680
<v Speaker 3>paying him, even though he was good looking, but he

0:27:17.359 --> 0:27:19.920
<v Speaker 3>just looked like you know how sometimes he on some bullshit,

0:27:20.200 --> 0:27:22.800
<v Speaker 3>like he looked like he got to be a fuck nigga, right,

0:27:22.920 --> 0:27:24.760
<v Speaker 3>And I just felt that in my spirit, and that's

0:27:24.800 --> 0:27:27.199
<v Speaker 3>why I wasn't giving him no chance. So he was like,

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:28.560
<v Speaker 3>what are you doing? And I was like, I'm going

0:27:28.600 --> 0:27:30.280
<v Speaker 3>to a white party with my friends so you can

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:33.480
<v Speaker 3>enjoy the Queen City. So then I see this motherfucker

0:27:33.520 --> 0:27:36.280
<v Speaker 3>at this white party in Red. He's like I found

0:27:36.359 --> 0:27:39.439
<v Speaker 3>every white party in the city and I had to

0:27:39.440 --> 0:27:41.080
<v Speaker 3>pay extra to get in here with Red. But I

0:27:41.160 --> 0:27:42.240
<v Speaker 3>knew I had to come see you.

0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh lord girl, he a whole demon.

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:48.919
<v Speaker 3>Demon, right, So then then he started showing me and

0:27:48.960 --> 0:27:52.159
<v Speaker 3>my friends like he bought us bottles drinks. He was

0:27:52.200 --> 0:27:54.960
<v Speaker 3>doing the most, like showing making my friends laugh and shit,

0:27:55.200 --> 0:27:58.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, doing the most. So then my homegirls was like, girl,

0:27:58.600 --> 0:28:00.679
<v Speaker 3>he following you around like a put be giving him

0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:03.320
<v Speaker 3>a chance, give him a chance. So I'm like, okay,

0:28:03.400 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 3>So then I let this man take me on a night.

0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:08.919
<v Speaker 3>Like we went to dinner, and the next night we

0:28:08.960 --> 0:28:10.919
<v Speaker 3>went to dinner. We went to a nice dinner. I

0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:13.520
<v Speaker 3>mean he was whining and dyning me, like he asked

0:28:13.560 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 3>me what did I like to drink? And when we

0:28:15.280 --> 0:28:17.879
<v Speaker 3>got to the table, was sitting there already waiting on me,

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:22.920
<v Speaker 3>like just real smooth. He was smooth or whatever. We started,

0:28:23.320 --> 0:28:25.959
<v Speaker 3>we'd be on the phone. Now I'm starting to like, okay,

0:28:26.160 --> 0:28:28.840
<v Speaker 3>entertain him. He's a businessman. He got this shit together,

0:28:29.520 --> 0:28:32.680
<v Speaker 3>you know. He said he want a wife, all these things,

0:28:32.880 --> 0:28:35.919
<v Speaker 3>and he's attractive. And we started spending a bunch of

0:28:35.960 --> 0:28:39.200
<v Speaker 3>time together. I wouldn't sleep with him still. I was

0:28:39.240 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 3>just like being very cautious with my body, you know.

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:46.720
<v Speaker 3>And we had went out this particular night. We had

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:49.400
<v Speaker 3>spent the night together, but I you know, I wasn't

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 3>ready for sex and I let him know. And the

0:28:51.240 --> 0:28:54.320
<v Speaker 3>only reason we spent the nights because we were both drunk. Anyway,

0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:57.040
<v Speaker 3>So we went out again. We went to Fahrenheit and

0:28:57.160 --> 0:28:59.560
<v Speaker 3>Charlotte and we were on the rooftop. We were drinking.

0:28:59.560 --> 0:29:03.000
<v Speaker 3>It was so beautiful. We left We went to my apartment,

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:05.840
<v Speaker 3>and with my building had a rooftop and fire pits.

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:07.720
<v Speaker 3>We're out there at the fire pit, just chilling. I

0:29:07.760 --> 0:29:09.960
<v Speaker 3>had wine, so we were drinking wine. And y'all know

0:29:10.000 --> 0:29:12.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm a cancer. So I got emotional and I was like,

0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:15.480
<v Speaker 3>I just want to thank you for being such a

0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:17.720
<v Speaker 3>good person, Like I meet a lot of people who

0:29:17.720 --> 0:29:20.800
<v Speaker 3>try to take advantage of my good heart, and I

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:22.760
<v Speaker 3>really appreciate it. And I think I might have had

0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:25.240
<v Speaker 3>to shed a little thug tear. Right if I'm a

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:29.880
<v Speaker 3>cry baby, got a thug tear, the energy shifted immediately,

0:29:30.040 --> 0:29:34.840
<v Speaker 3>all the energy changed, right, so, and I felt it

0:29:34.920 --> 0:29:37.320
<v Speaker 3>and it was weird. And then he left shortly after,

0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 3>and then he ghosted. I didn't hear from him. He

0:29:40.640 --> 0:29:43.240
<v Speaker 3>didn't answer my call the next day, he didn't respond

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 3>to text. So then a few maybe like three months

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 3>goes by and he reaches out to me, and now

0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:53.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, what the fuck do you want? Basically, do

0:29:53.520 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 3>you know this motherfucker told me that he was married,

0:29:58.400 --> 0:30:02.440
<v Speaker 3>that his wife was a travel nurse and that's why

0:30:02.440 --> 0:30:04.520
<v Speaker 3>she was never around, and that's how he was able

0:30:04.560 --> 0:30:06.840
<v Speaker 3>to spend so much time with me and be on

0:30:06.880 --> 0:30:09.440
<v Speaker 3>the phone with me because she was out in California

0:30:09.880 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 3>working for three months as a nurse, you know, and

0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:16.720
<v Speaker 3>he was out here, and him and a bitch from

0:30:16.800 --> 0:30:19.560
<v Speaker 3>a Facebook group that I was in made a bet

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:22.600
<v Speaker 3>on who they could who could fuck me first? Her girl?

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:26.120
<v Speaker 1>What the bitch was on thet Yeah, it was.

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 3>Her or him, which one to fuck me first?

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Did you know the girl? Yeah?

0:30:31.080 --> 0:30:32.320
<v Speaker 3>She was pursuing me too.

0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Did you fuck the girl?

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:36.920
<v Speaker 3>I never know? I did not. I did not fuck the.

0:30:36.880 --> 0:30:40.160
<v Speaker 1>Girl, y'all know. We got to ask TAMPI ship four

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:40.760
<v Speaker 1>to five times.

0:30:42.560 --> 0:30:44.920
<v Speaker 3>Me and her never even hung out, you know, me

0:30:44.960 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 3>and her never hung out, but we were all that wild?

0:30:47.960 --> 0:30:51.960
<v Speaker 3>Ain't that wild? And he was like, I like, once

0:30:52.080 --> 0:30:56.320
<v Speaker 3>I was spending time with you, I just assumed you

0:30:56.360 --> 0:30:59.640
<v Speaker 3>were different than what you were and I didn't. I

0:30:59.640 --> 0:31:03.440
<v Speaker 3>couldn't do you like that. And I guess he thought

0:31:03.480 --> 0:31:06.280
<v Speaker 3>I was gonna be like, well, thank you for not

0:31:07.240 --> 0:31:11.920
<v Speaker 3>taking me. Yeah, I said, bitch, y'all, spit in your face.

0:31:12.040 --> 0:31:19.000
<v Speaker 3>That's how I responded, because you wasted my time and

0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:22.080
<v Speaker 3>play with me. Still, even if you grew up conscious

0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:24.160
<v Speaker 3>in that moment, you still.

0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:27.040
<v Speaker 1>A grown ass man doing this, Like why what if

0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I still go ahead and to send a shit to

0:31:28.480 --> 0:31:30.000
<v Speaker 1>your wife, because this is the type of stop of

0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:31.240
<v Speaker 1>shit you out here doing.

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:33.840
<v Speaker 3>Right, And that's what I should have done. But I

0:31:33.920 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 3>just told him, don't ever contact me again, or I'll

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:39.960
<v Speaker 3>spit in your face, bitch or something along the rides

0:31:44.080 --> 0:31:47.400
<v Speaker 3>a real life Darnell, Because that's a real life Darnell.

0:31:47.440 --> 0:31:50.480
<v Speaker 1>A grown ass Darnell, Like what are you doing? What

0:31:50.520 --> 0:31:52.440
<v Speaker 1>are you and this bitch doing? Why y'all look at

0:31:52.480 --> 0:31:54.720
<v Speaker 1>me and thought y'all could play with me like that? Yeah?

0:31:54.920 --> 0:31:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Like what are times somebody played with me? You know?

0:31:57.760 --> 0:32:01.080
<v Speaker 1>Because people are gonna try everybody, right, But I always

0:32:01.120 --> 0:32:02.800
<v Speaker 1>this is where I be fucking up, right, because I'd

0:32:02.800 --> 0:32:04.480
<v Speaker 1>be trying to figure out, Okay, where did I what

0:32:04.560 --> 0:32:07.560
<v Speaker 1>did I do? Like how did I invite this energy?

0:32:07.640 --> 0:32:09.800
<v Speaker 1>What am I doing at somebody think that they can

0:32:09.880 --> 0:32:12.000
<v Speaker 1>play with me like this? Like, so, I, even though

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I know it has nothing to do with me, I

0:32:13.520 --> 0:32:15.960
<v Speaker 1>still find myself questioning, like what could I have done

0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:17.200
<v Speaker 1>differently for a different result?

0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:19.920
<v Speaker 3>There was nothing you could have done. How was I

0:32:19.960 --> 0:32:22.760
<v Speaker 3>to know that this was playing in the background, you know?

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:27.680
<v Speaker 1>Like right, nuts, So, y'all, this is our character breakdown

0:32:27.720 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 1>for Brandy Web. Okay, so and look, we know real

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:33.480
<v Speaker 1>Brandy Web in real life too. But she ain't a killer,

0:32:33.600 --> 0:32:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't think. But that's just her first and last name.

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:41.880
<v Speaker 1>But so, she's wealthy, elegant, elegant woman with deep emotional

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 1>scars from past relationships. Her character traits, she's like super sophisticated, confident,

0:32:48.680 --> 0:32:54.760
<v Speaker 1>but deeply wounded and vengeful with fucking hurt and hate. Okay,

0:32:55.920 --> 0:32:58.840
<v Speaker 1>so she was hesitant at first, but eventually falls with

0:32:58.920 --> 0:33:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Darnielle's charm. She does show super early signs of possessiveness,

0:33:04.720 --> 0:33:08.360
<v Speaker 1>you know when she stabbed that fucking cake. Okay, and

0:33:09.040 --> 0:33:12.480
<v Speaker 1>like she did like a quick transformation from lover to stalker.

0:33:12.720 --> 0:33:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Now I got a homegirl like she just real. She

0:33:15.200 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 1>not crazy like Brandy, but she's real vindictive like cause

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:21.840
<v Speaker 1>she go well, she and my homegirl anymore. This a

0:33:21.840 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 1>whole nother reasons why we're not friends no more. But

0:33:24.160 --> 0:33:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I have seen her do some really fucked up shit

0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 1>to people that I would could never like fathom in

0:33:30.320 --> 0:33:32.920
<v Speaker 1>my mind to do right. But she she is the

0:33:32.960 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 1>type of person that will go above and beyond, and

0:33:34.760 --> 0:33:38.240
<v Speaker 1>those type of people are necessary, right. She helps people financially,

0:33:38.360 --> 0:33:40.760
<v Speaker 1>just with her time and shit like that, and the

0:33:40.840 --> 0:33:44.120
<v Speaker 1>minute you fuck her over, like she's really studying, like

0:33:44.240 --> 0:33:46.560
<v Speaker 1>how to fuck your whole life up.

0:33:46.560 --> 0:33:46.840
<v Speaker 3>Though.

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 1>I know for sure she got two niggas in prison

0:33:50.040 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 1>right now, Like she help the police put their ass

0:33:55.280 --> 0:33:58.440
<v Speaker 1>in jail because they owe her money. They ended up

0:33:58.440 --> 0:34:00.360
<v Speaker 1>going to jail with something like one nigga he was

0:34:00.400 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 1>on parole and he flashing guns on social media. So

0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:09.120
<v Speaker 1>she sent that shit to his po M money yeah,

0:34:09.160 --> 0:34:11.480
<v Speaker 1>because he owed her money, like fuck you out here.

0:34:11.719 --> 0:34:14.000
<v Speaker 1>And then she actually talked to a girl that he

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:16.919
<v Speaker 1>was fucking with and the girl basically told her like, yeah,

0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 1>we use that money that you gave him to get

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:23.440
<v Speaker 1>our apartment. So she just saw red after that.

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:26.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I could see why though, like oh you think

0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:29.400
<v Speaker 3>it's a game. Yeah, now now you got to live

0:34:29.440 --> 0:34:29.839
<v Speaker 3>in the cell.

0:34:30.440 --> 0:34:32.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So just like my friend, my ex friend, right,

0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:37.200
<v Speaker 1>was Brandy always dangerous or Darnelle pushed her over the edge?

0:34:37.239 --> 0:34:40.520
<v Speaker 3>Basically, No, she was all that bitch was always dangerous,

0:34:40.800 --> 0:34:44.479
<v Speaker 3>but she I feel like she was loving to him

0:34:44.480 --> 0:34:47.160
<v Speaker 3>and she wanted him to love her. And I don't

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:49.799
<v Speaker 3>think he would have seen that side of her if

0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:52.799
<v Speaker 3>he didn't bring it out, you know, I don't think

0:34:53.480 --> 0:34:56.040
<v Speaker 3>that would have came up, because she was ready to

0:34:56.040 --> 0:34:59.560
<v Speaker 3>give him everything. Take my car, here's some clothes, here's

0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:01.279
<v Speaker 3>some money, here's whatever. I'm gonna teach you how to

0:35:01.360 --> 0:35:03.759
<v Speaker 3>ride a horse. I'm gonna teach you all these things

0:35:04.320 --> 0:35:06.239
<v Speaker 3>because I like you and I feel like you like me.

0:35:07.280 --> 0:35:10.000
<v Speaker 1>But so she's really not dangerous, like this thing has

0:35:10.040 --> 0:35:12.719
<v Speaker 1>to be induced, this thing that comes out.

0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:17.320
<v Speaker 3>She's still fooled though, because after he dumped her, essentially

0:35:19.400 --> 0:35:24.200
<v Speaker 3>she was in his house trying to make breakfast. Then

0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 3>I remember like, son.

0:35:26.400 --> 0:35:29.720
<v Speaker 1>Because I'm we're not done until I say.

0:35:30.000 --> 0:35:32.160
<v Speaker 3>But they already said it. He came to her house

0:35:32.200 --> 0:35:34.920
<v Speaker 3>and she was like, it's finny while I lasted, you know,

0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:37.960
<v Speaker 3>acting unbothered. Right Like, basically she.

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:39.640
<v Speaker 1>Knew at that point, she knew at that point she

0:35:39.640 --> 0:35:40.200
<v Speaker 1>had to kill him.

0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:44.879
<v Speaker 3>Though, no, but then no, but then she acted unbothered.

0:35:44.920 --> 0:35:47.000
<v Speaker 3>And then the next day he woke up smelling some

0:35:47.040 --> 0:35:49.279
<v Speaker 3>shit burning in the kitchen and she was at his

0:35:49.360 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 3>house trying to like bake some biscuits and some shit

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:54.000
<v Speaker 3>like baby and in here trying to cook, and he

0:35:54.080 --> 0:35:55.920
<v Speaker 3>was like, get the fucking pushed her up against the

0:35:55.960 --> 0:35:58.400
<v Speaker 3>wall and then she's like, you put your hands on

0:35:58.480 --> 0:36:01.480
<v Speaker 3>the wrong one. And that's when that she switched up

0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:03.799
<v Speaker 3>because she was trying to get her nigga back. She

0:36:03.880 --> 0:36:05.759
<v Speaker 3>was in there trying to bake biscuits and she's like,

0:36:06.400 --> 0:36:11.640
<v Speaker 3>don't go, I love you, and that's when the signals

0:36:11.640 --> 0:36:12.320
<v Speaker 3>got crossed.

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Noah, no, look I'm with Brandy. Okay, don't tit if

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:21.600
<v Speaker 1>you don't want me fucking tatten, just don't. And you

0:36:21.760 --> 0:36:24.399
<v Speaker 1>don't know who's going to be crazy. So your best

0:36:24.440 --> 0:36:26.959
<v Speaker 1>bet is just to be the best person you could

0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:32.000
<v Speaker 1>be in every single situation. But the oftentimes men aren't.

0:36:32.440 --> 0:36:35.279
<v Speaker 1>They be misleading people intentionally. And the thing is, if

0:36:35.320 --> 0:36:40.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't have the wherewithal right, just it just bes

0:36:40.400 --> 0:36:42.960
<v Speaker 1>you gotta pay attention to that may not be right

0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:43.800
<v Speaker 1>in front of your face.

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:44.440
<v Speaker 3>Right.

0:36:44.520 --> 0:36:46.799
<v Speaker 1>I can understand why she was misled me.

0:36:46.760 --> 0:36:50.960
<v Speaker 3>Too, but she did. She do have some issues because

0:36:51.080 --> 0:36:53.960
<v Speaker 3>remember she was sitting in the house and he ain't

0:36:53.960 --> 0:36:56.640
<v Speaker 3>show up, and she stabbed that cake. She don't know,

0:36:56.680 --> 0:36:58.800
<v Speaker 3>he could have been hurt, he could have been all

0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:02.600
<v Speaker 3>these different You didn't know yet you know you already

0:37:02.640 --> 0:37:07.440
<v Speaker 3>went immediately to enrage, stabbing a cake Like that is

0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 3>next level of nuts, because what if something happened to him?

0:37:10.719 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 3>There was no social media. We didn't even have cell

0:37:12.719 --> 0:37:15.680
<v Speaker 3>phones back then, so it might have been cell phones,

0:37:15.719 --> 0:37:18.799
<v Speaker 3>but many people didn't have them. So you ain't know

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:20.520
<v Speaker 3>what was going on with that nigga before you went

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:21.239
<v Speaker 3>to level ten.

0:37:26.080 --> 0:37:28.839
<v Speaker 1>What's that Salmon Walker song? Session thirty two?

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:29.359
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

0:37:29.440 --> 0:37:31.840
<v Speaker 1>I love that you don't? Yeah, it's like real short.

0:37:31.840 --> 0:37:33.239
<v Speaker 1>I need her to make it until a five to

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:35.960
<v Speaker 1>ten minute song, right, But that you don't know what

0:37:36.000 --> 0:37:38.080
<v Speaker 1>love is. If you don't stay up all night, if

0:37:38.120 --> 0:37:40.520
<v Speaker 1>you don't call one hundred times to me, that's not love.

0:37:41.400 --> 0:37:45.120
<v Speaker 1>If I call somebody phone one hundred times, I've lost

0:37:45.200 --> 0:37:48.240
<v Speaker 1>my mind. Yeah, somebody calls my phone one hundred times.

0:37:48.239 --> 0:37:51.319
<v Speaker 1>Your fucking nuts, because I, like you just said, I

0:37:51.320 --> 0:37:54.680
<v Speaker 1>could be dead, I could be anything could be happening. Right,

0:37:55.040 --> 0:37:57.200
<v Speaker 1>So you call on my phone that many times has

0:37:57.320 --> 0:37:59.719
<v Speaker 1>nothing to do with actually being concerned about me. It

0:37:59.800 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 1>has more to do what you just wanting me to

0:38:02.800 --> 0:38:05.200
<v Speaker 1>acquiesce to how you want me to be right now.

0:38:05.280 --> 0:38:06.960
<v Speaker 1>You want me to answer that phone and probably just

0:38:07.000 --> 0:38:10.400
<v Speaker 1>say nothing. You keep calling just so I can answer

0:38:10.480 --> 0:38:13.720
<v Speaker 1>the phone. If I call you one time and text

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:16.000
<v Speaker 1>you one time. I'm not calling back until you respond.

0:38:16.920 --> 0:38:19.440
<v Speaker 1>That's it. A hundred times you see me call the

0:38:19.480 --> 0:38:22.320
<v Speaker 1>first time. So now you're trying to force a response

0:38:22.360 --> 0:38:26.680
<v Speaker 1>out of somebody, and that's where that shit get fucking nuts.

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:29.680
<v Speaker 3>If I if you my nigga, I might call three,

0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:30.759
<v Speaker 3>but that's it.

0:38:32.880 --> 0:38:36.839
<v Speaker 1>I might call three and then block you because who

0:38:36.880 --> 0:38:39.640
<v Speaker 1>the fuck are you playing with? Now? I'm gonna turn

0:38:39.680 --> 0:38:41.279
<v Speaker 1>the abuse. That's my abusive way.

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:45.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'll give you. I'll call three, but after three,

0:38:45.640 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 3>I ain't calling back. And when you call back, who died?

0:38:49.640 --> 0:38:51.959
<v Speaker 1>You better have a Oh did you just get out?

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:54.040
<v Speaker 1>What hospital room were you in?

0:38:54.320 --> 0:38:54.759
<v Speaker 3>Who? Like?

0:38:56.920 --> 0:38:58.960
<v Speaker 1>Nah? Three times? And enough if you miss the whole

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:01.120
<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours talking to me. First of all, we

0:39:01.160 --> 0:39:04.000
<v Speaker 1>done broke up. You just don't know it yet. It'd

0:39:04.040 --> 0:39:06.879
<v Speaker 1>be like, really, boyfriend girlfriend twenty four hours past. I'll

0:39:06.880 --> 0:39:10.600
<v Speaker 1>give somebody a day, I won't. You know what I'm saying.

0:39:10.680 --> 0:39:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I bet like still, that's kind of pushing it, but

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:17.120
<v Speaker 1>I'll give you twenty four hours and then tomorrow I

0:39:17.239 --> 0:39:20.279
<v Speaker 1>better have it better be a real good reason. I'm

0:39:20.280 --> 0:39:22.120
<v Speaker 1>not fucking with you no more, but I'm not calling

0:39:22.160 --> 0:39:25.120
<v Speaker 1>a hundred times. That is very stockerish. So for anybody

0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:28.160
<v Speaker 1>who thinks that's okay to do to a boyfriend is not.

0:39:28.880 --> 0:39:31.080
<v Speaker 1>It's not okay to call somebody's phone that many times.

0:39:31.280 --> 0:39:33.400
<v Speaker 3>Now you just to charge for that at that point.

0:39:33.800 --> 0:39:36.839
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you're trying to force a response like I'm

0:39:36.880 --> 0:39:38.400
<v Speaker 1>too playing for that shit. I don't never want a

0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:40.160
<v Speaker 1>nigga to be able to show the next nigga hide

0:39:40.200 --> 0:39:41.960
<v Speaker 1>on call a for one hundred times like they stroll

0:39:42.000 --> 0:39:44.160
<v Speaker 1>and do this shit like this bitch, don't call me,

0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:46.360
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not.

0:39:48.600 --> 0:39:52.239
<v Speaker 3>So let's talk about Regina King's character, all right. She's

0:39:52.320 --> 0:39:57.160
<v Speaker 3>Durnall's childhood friend, the woman who genuinely loves him for him.

0:39:57.200 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 3>She knows him in real life, not all the ness,

0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:02.880
<v Speaker 3>the player, the club, She knew him before all of that.

0:40:03.800 --> 0:40:07.920
<v Speaker 3>Her character Trace is loyal, grounded, the complete opposite of Brandy.

0:40:08.280 --> 0:40:10.480
<v Speaker 3>She ain't got no whole lot of money. Even though

0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:12.480
<v Speaker 3>they had her with that master sergeant rank in the

0:40:12.520 --> 0:40:14.160
<v Speaker 3>Air Force, and I was like, who they're playing with

0:40:14.200 --> 0:40:17.080
<v Speaker 3>because anybody who really know the Air Force, No, there's

0:40:17.120 --> 0:40:18.720
<v Speaker 3>no way Mia can have that much rain.

0:40:19.600 --> 0:40:25.759
<v Speaker 1>That age right now, who's g I Jane? She was

0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:28.520
<v Speaker 1>like in her twenties as well, right straight.

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:32.280
<v Speaker 3>From high school. And I was like, oh, they played

0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:35.879
<v Speaker 3>on our top with that. Oh, let's go.

0:40:35.840 --> 0:40:38.480
<v Speaker 1>Back to him, her being the childhood friend and genuinely

0:40:38.520 --> 0:40:39.440
<v Speaker 1>loves him for who he is.

0:40:39.560 --> 0:40:39.719
<v Speaker 3>Right.

0:40:40.600 --> 0:40:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Do men really like people to really know exactly who

0:40:43.000 --> 0:40:43.319
<v Speaker 1>they are?

0:40:44.920 --> 0:40:45.360
<v Speaker 3>I think so.

0:40:45.920 --> 0:40:48.280
<v Speaker 1>I think that's when you start having problems with men

0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:52.319
<v Speaker 1>when you know them in and out, you know, and

0:40:52.400 --> 0:40:56.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot of times that's why relationships spoil and then

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:59.320
<v Speaker 1>they go on to somebody who don't know the old them.

0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:02.400
<v Speaker 1>Like actually, when they get their money money, you know

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:04.880
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like, that's why the first baby mama,

0:41:04.920 --> 0:41:06.800
<v Speaker 1>that's who you want to consult with. If you're fucking

0:41:06.840 --> 0:41:10.120
<v Speaker 1>with the baby daddy, right, you won't always consult with

0:41:10.600 --> 0:41:12.840
<v Speaker 1>that first If he just has one baby mama, that

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:15.040
<v Speaker 1>would be great, right, But if he has a couple

0:41:15.080 --> 0:41:18.840
<v Speaker 1>of them three two, consult with the first one because

0:41:18.880 --> 0:41:23.319
<v Speaker 1>she knows exactly who he is. And that's why oftentimes

0:41:23.320 --> 0:41:27.920
<v Speaker 1>they hate that first baby mama because she saw their struggle.

0:41:28.400 --> 0:41:28.560
<v Speaker 3>Right.

0:41:29.360 --> 0:41:32.839
<v Speaker 1>So, do men really like you to know who they

0:41:32.840 --> 0:41:35.239
<v Speaker 1>are through and through? I don't think so, because they

0:41:35.680 --> 0:41:38.239
<v Speaker 1>put on for their friend that you know, exactly who they.

0:41:38.200 --> 0:41:42.200
<v Speaker 3>Are except who they are through you know, once they

0:41:42.239 --> 0:41:46.040
<v Speaker 3>can be that comfortable and just strip away all the

0:41:46.200 --> 0:41:48.760
<v Speaker 3>armor and all the facade and all that stuff.

0:41:51.280 --> 0:41:54.440
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't think so, I really I still don't

0:41:54.480 --> 0:41:57.640
<v Speaker 1>think so do we all? Do we ever know anybody

0:41:57.680 --> 0:41:58.200
<v Speaker 1>through them through?

0:41:59.200 --> 0:42:01.120
<v Speaker 3>Do we know our else all the way through and through?

0:42:01.200 --> 0:42:03.919
<v Speaker 3>I think it's always a growth. You're always growing, You're

0:42:03.920 --> 0:42:06.400
<v Speaker 3>always changing. So that's why i'd be like the first baby,

0:42:06.400 --> 0:42:09.080
<v Speaker 3>may I'm a new one version of you, the youngest

0:42:09.160 --> 0:42:12.239
<v Speaker 3>version of you, the one who just probably becoming an

0:42:12.320 --> 0:42:17.080
<v Speaker 3>adult half the time. Mm hmm. Because I believe men

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:21.520
<v Speaker 3>they're growing change too, you know, so who they was

0:42:21.560 --> 0:42:23.520
<v Speaker 3>with their first baby Mama might not be who they

0:42:23.560 --> 0:42:28.000
<v Speaker 3>are with you. You don't think so it's possible.

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:33.160
<v Speaker 1>And then I honestly don't think people change that much,

0:42:33.600 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like we might tweak a

0:42:35.600 --> 0:42:37.879
<v Speaker 1>little bit depending on who we are with now, right,

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:40.520
<v Speaker 1>We do do that, We compromise in relationships, We kind

0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:43.320
<v Speaker 1>of sweak who we are to suit this this current.

0:42:43.320 --> 0:42:47.160
<v Speaker 1>But I deep down inside, do people really three do

0:42:47.280 --> 0:42:49.520
<v Speaker 1>three sixties? No?

0:42:49.520 --> 0:42:52.440
<v Speaker 3>No, maybe not a three sixty, but like just growth,

0:42:52.600 --> 0:42:53.680
<v Speaker 3>you know, some growth.

0:42:55.480 --> 0:42:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just feel like I don't know if you

0:42:59.160 --> 0:43:01.040
<v Speaker 1>capable of something at any point in your life is

0:43:01.040 --> 0:43:04.880
<v Speaker 1>still in you somewhere, Like if you capable of some

0:43:05.000 --> 0:43:07.600
<v Speaker 1>like real foul shit, I just don't see you, like

0:43:07.640 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 1>because it's just certain shit I'm not going to do

0:43:10.200 --> 0:43:12.680
<v Speaker 1>because it's just not in my DNA to do. So

0:43:12.800 --> 0:43:15.040
<v Speaker 1>I'll always be looking at the person like, damn, that's you.

0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:19.960
<v Speaker 1>It's surprising and I can't ever forget that because I

0:43:20.000 --> 0:43:21.759
<v Speaker 1>feel like you're still capable of that.

0:43:22.000 --> 0:43:24.120
<v Speaker 3>Do you think about it? I think about like, uh,

0:43:25.160 --> 0:43:27.759
<v Speaker 3>girls that you knew was like super holes in their

0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:31.920
<v Speaker 3>twenties and now the pastor at the church or liked

0:43:32.080 --> 0:43:34.000
<v Speaker 3>to Sunday announcements.

0:43:33.760 --> 0:43:37.719
<v Speaker 1>They're still capable a sucking dick on Saturday. Absolutely, that

0:43:37.800 --> 0:43:38.600
<v Speaker 1>is what I expect.

0:43:39.000 --> 0:43:41.840
<v Speaker 3>You're not no more. They've just grown from that version.

0:43:42.040 --> 0:43:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh we know, they probably got better at hiding it.

0:43:45.120 --> 0:43:45.319
<v Speaker 3>See.

0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 1>You know you don't give people we ain't talking about

0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:49.359
<v Speaker 1>no church people, man, that that right there.

0:43:49.680 --> 0:43:52.960
<v Speaker 3>You don't give people enough credit the growth and changing.

0:43:53.719 --> 0:43:58.200
<v Speaker 1>I know, school teacher, that's why my fucking extra credit. Okay,

0:43:58.200 --> 0:44:00.120
<v Speaker 1>Then we got Bobby Brown, which is just like the

0:44:00.160 --> 0:44:05.319
<v Speaker 1>comic relief. He's supposedly the voice of reason right. He's

0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Darnell's best friend and fellow club promoter. He's fun loving,

0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:14.960
<v Speaker 1>he's blind, provides comedic relief, but often speaks the truth.

0:44:15.480 --> 0:44:19.279
<v Speaker 1>He warns Donnell about Brandy being dangerous. Darnell did not

0:44:19.400 --> 0:44:23.239
<v Speaker 1>take heed, Okay, he gets caught in the crossfire. Darnell's

0:44:23.920 --> 0:44:27.680
<v Speaker 1>poor decision because didn't he get shot? Didn't she accidentally

0:44:27.680 --> 0:44:29.840
<v Speaker 1>shoot him? No, Darnell got shot.

0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:35.759
<v Speaker 3>No, didn't nobody get shot. They just fighting. Yeah, they

0:44:35.800 --> 0:44:41.960
<v Speaker 3>were tussling the good in the air and then they

0:44:42.000 --> 0:44:42.960
<v Speaker 3>fell out the window.

0:44:44.080 --> 0:44:47.759
<v Speaker 1>So how important do you think his character is in

0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:48.440
<v Speaker 1>the show.

0:44:51.200 --> 0:44:51.560
<v Speaker 3>Or is he?

0:44:51.800 --> 0:44:53.360
<v Speaker 1>Is? He at fault for some of the ship Like

0:44:53.400 --> 0:44:54.400
<v Speaker 1>the Homeboy.

0:44:54.840 --> 0:44:57.359
<v Speaker 3>He was complicit in the behavior a lot of the time.

0:44:57.440 --> 0:44:59.400
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't like because, I mean, he was the reason

0:44:59.400 --> 0:45:00.839
<v Speaker 3>why he was going. It was so hard to bet

0:45:00.880 --> 0:45:04.000
<v Speaker 3>because he told him he couldn't get that bitch right. So,

0:45:04.120 --> 0:45:09.239
<v Speaker 3>I mean his character was important. But he definitely told

0:45:09.280 --> 0:45:11.680
<v Speaker 3>him to calm down with the foolishness before you get hurt.

0:45:12.760 --> 0:45:14.399
<v Speaker 3>But it was the old I feel like it was

0:45:14.440 --> 0:45:17.600
<v Speaker 3>the old Nigga, the club owner who was really like

0:45:18.440 --> 0:45:20.919
<v Speaker 3>telling him it's a thin line between no. Dela Reices

0:45:20.960 --> 0:45:23.360
<v Speaker 3>told him that, but he told him stop playing with

0:45:23.400 --> 0:45:26.759
<v Speaker 3>these bitches because when emotions get involved, somebody could get hurt.

0:45:26.800 --> 0:45:29.080
<v Speaker 3>And then ultimately he was he was hurting the most

0:45:29.080 --> 0:45:31.759
<v Speaker 3>out of everybody because this club got burned down. He

0:45:31.840 --> 0:45:35.799
<v Speaker 3>had heard damage, water damage, electrical damage. That bitch came

0:45:35.840 --> 0:45:41.600
<v Speaker 3>through and pretty much like like your friend, like I

0:45:41.640 --> 0:45:43.000
<v Speaker 3>would end everything you love.

0:45:43.680 --> 0:45:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm yeah, because I mean take it you putting

0:45:46.680 --> 0:45:49.880
<v Speaker 1>somebody in jailous This is essentially like metaphorically taking a

0:45:50.000 --> 0:45:50.480
<v Speaker 1>life away.

0:45:50.719 --> 0:45:54.360
<v Speaker 3>Right when she saw Birdie, I can't believe this is

0:45:54.400 --> 0:45:58.840
<v Speaker 3>the little nappy head that you played me for.

0:45:59.680 --> 0:46:05.640
<v Speaker 1>So is Brandy that stereotypical crazy ex or is her

0:46:05.680 --> 0:46:09.719
<v Speaker 1>behavior rooted in something much deeper? You know? Because men

0:46:09.840 --> 0:46:12.600
<v Speaker 1>love to say, oh this one was crazy, that one

0:46:12.680 --> 0:46:15.000
<v Speaker 1>was crazy, but they neglect to tell you the shit

0:46:15.120 --> 0:46:18.640
<v Speaker 1>that they did, you know, make them crazy? And can

0:46:18.760 --> 0:46:23.040
<v Speaker 1>somebody make you crazy? Right? Is your mental health your responsibility?

0:46:23.960 --> 0:46:27.080
<v Speaker 3>Oh that's a good question. Your mental health is ultimately

0:46:27.120 --> 0:46:29.759
<v Speaker 3>your responsibility. I was just watching something and say, like,

0:46:30.239 --> 0:46:34.080
<v Speaker 3>nobody could make you angry. You know, you decide to

0:46:34.120 --> 0:46:38.439
<v Speaker 3>display anger based on someone else's action, and that's a choice, right.

0:46:39.239 --> 0:46:44.560
<v Speaker 3>So I mean I get that, but in theory, in theory, right,

0:46:44.600 --> 0:46:47.840
<v Speaker 3>because in real life and I'm not on that level

0:46:47.880 --> 0:46:52.879
<v Speaker 3>of actual self actualization, I guess, because people do have

0:46:52.960 --> 0:46:57.560
<v Speaker 3>the power to hurt my feelings, to make me angry,

0:46:57.920 --> 0:47:02.240
<v Speaker 3>to make me want revenge and things like that. You know. Now, Brandy,

0:47:03.280 --> 0:47:06.360
<v Speaker 3>although she had the right to be upset and want revenge,

0:47:06.800 --> 0:47:10.200
<v Speaker 3>she took it to a level that was it was

0:47:10.239 --> 0:47:15.040
<v Speaker 3>greater than what darnell. The consequences were greater than the action.

0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:19.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that's what I was talking about with that

0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:25.719
<v Speaker 1>severity thing, right, Who can tell me how to respond? Right? So, yes,

0:47:25.840 --> 0:47:28.839
<v Speaker 1>my mental health and you know, all that is it

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:33.160
<v Speaker 1>is definitely up to me. Right, But that could be

0:47:33.280 --> 0:47:38.320
<v Speaker 1>like somebody, like just disrespect can be like a deadly

0:47:38.440 --> 0:47:42.080
<v Speaker 1>sin for somebody, and apparently it was for Brandy. So

0:47:42.239 --> 0:47:46.120
<v Speaker 1>who determines like what's serious and what's not serious?

0:47:46.800 --> 0:47:48.960
<v Speaker 3>Right? That's why I always say it's just in your

0:47:49.000 --> 0:47:51.279
<v Speaker 3>best bed to just be kind to people, because you

0:47:51.320 --> 0:47:55.120
<v Speaker 3>don't know what a person's mental state, and you're one

0:47:55.160 --> 0:47:58.319
<v Speaker 3>thing that might seem small to you might be the

0:47:58.320 --> 0:48:01.239
<v Speaker 3>one thing that pushed them over the top and now

0:48:01.280 --> 0:48:03.839
<v Speaker 3>they're in there boiling your bunny. You know what that

0:48:03.880 --> 0:48:04.719
<v Speaker 3>movie is?

0:48:05.160 --> 0:48:05.680
<v Speaker 1>You know what?

0:48:06.960 --> 0:48:12.920
<v Speaker 3>No, not a line. Fatal attraction. Oh right, yeah, that's

0:48:12.960 --> 0:48:16.120
<v Speaker 3>another one. That bitch went nuts. Please don't play with her.

0:48:18.120 --> 0:48:18.800
<v Speaker 1>On her own.

0:48:19.000 --> 0:48:21.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she was already nuts. He didn't that was warranted.

0:48:21.760 --> 0:48:25.719
<v Speaker 1>But yeah she didn't. Nobody like induce that, Like she

0:48:25.960 --> 0:48:26.879
<v Speaker 1>just was like that.

0:48:27.239 --> 0:48:31.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she just was fatally attracted to the motherfucker.

0:48:31.520 --> 0:48:33.759
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I'm saying. Like Brandy was minding her

0:48:33.800 --> 0:48:36.920
<v Speaker 1>fucking business because she knows she's crazy, right, you know

0:48:36.960 --> 0:48:39.160
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Because I know I'm crazy. Let me

0:48:39.280 --> 0:48:41.799
<v Speaker 1>just and a lot of women might feel like that.

0:48:41.880 --> 0:48:43.359
<v Speaker 1>That might be why a lot of women now are

0:48:43.440 --> 0:48:46.000
<v Speaker 1>choosing to be by themselves too, because they just they

0:48:46.040 --> 0:48:48.399
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like being feeling crazy no more. They don't

0:48:48.400 --> 0:48:51.279
<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, the ups and downs and emotions,

0:48:51.320 --> 0:48:54.239
<v Speaker 1>like it's just too scary to start over for somebody else,

0:48:54.280 --> 0:48:56.640
<v Speaker 1>with somebody else and possibly go through the same shit

0:48:57.239 --> 0:49:00.000
<v Speaker 1>that you've been through in previous relationships. It's just tough.

0:49:00.880 --> 0:49:03.000
<v Speaker 1>One of the girls this past weekend, she was like, girl,

0:49:03.040 --> 0:49:05.799
<v Speaker 1>the only reason why I stole date? Uh, stole fuck

0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:09.160
<v Speaker 1>with men is because I ain't gay. That's the only

0:49:09.200 --> 0:49:13.200
<v Speaker 1>reason why, Because I mean, we got we need to

0:49:13.200 --> 0:49:15.239
<v Speaker 1>get some other sexes out here. But this is the

0:49:15.280 --> 0:49:17.200
<v Speaker 1>only reason why I'm so fucking with niggas, because I

0:49:17.200 --> 0:49:19.040
<v Speaker 1>don't like bitches. I love me.

0:49:19.560 --> 0:49:22.239
<v Speaker 3>When I was outside, when I was outside Saturday and

0:49:22.360 --> 0:49:27.080
<v Speaker 3>Saint and they was lining up, I was like, lord, one,

0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:31.439
<v Speaker 3>how do I pick one? Like I don't want one?

0:49:31.760 --> 0:49:33.520
<v Speaker 1>I just say one enough things from the d m

0:49:33.600 --> 0:49:36.040
<v Speaker 1>V man A little little ticket snatches.

0:49:36.160 --> 0:49:40.319
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I need one of those socking pants around, baby,

0:49:40.320 --> 0:49:44.680
<v Speaker 3>because the niggas is outside. But then on Valentine's Day

0:49:44.680 --> 0:49:47.640
<v Speaker 3>when I didn't pick one, and now I'm by myself

0:49:47.640 --> 0:49:50.279
<v Speaker 3>on Valentine's Day, I be sad. I gotta figure it out.

0:49:51.400 --> 0:49:53.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you gotta. You gotta pick one and just see

0:49:53.320 --> 0:49:55.799
<v Speaker 1>what happened. Just I don't know, maybe you gotta write

0:49:55.800 --> 0:49:57.239
<v Speaker 1>their names on the thing and put it in a

0:49:57.360 --> 0:49:58.840
<v Speaker 1>jar and shake it around and pick.

0:49:59.520 --> 0:50:03.600
<v Speaker 3>Went out at this point, because yes, and see what happens.

0:50:05.040 --> 0:50:08.600
<v Speaker 1>But you know things I always tell people, you know, relationships,

0:50:08.600 --> 0:50:11.640
<v Speaker 1>stuff like hurt. That shit kind of changes your DNA.

0:50:12.560 --> 0:50:15.040
<v Speaker 1>Because I am not the same person I was. I

0:50:15.040 --> 0:50:18.400
<v Speaker 1>would say, six years ago, like, I'm not the same

0:50:18.600 --> 0:50:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't have the same like emotions in relationships. I

0:50:22.640 --> 0:50:24.799
<v Speaker 1>just don't. And it might come off a little bit

0:50:24.920 --> 0:50:29.680
<v Speaker 1>a little cold, right, because I realized that even in

0:50:29.719 --> 0:50:32.680
<v Speaker 1>a relationship. And I'm not telling anybody to be selfish,

0:50:32.880 --> 0:50:34.920
<v Speaker 1>but you got to make sure you're not losing yourself

0:50:35.480 --> 0:50:37.520
<v Speaker 1>as a woman, right because we be doing all the

0:50:37.560 --> 0:50:40.800
<v Speaker 1>things for a man in a relationship. You got to

0:50:40.840 --> 0:50:43.040
<v Speaker 1>make sure you still be putting yourself first. And I

0:50:43.040 --> 0:50:44.880
<v Speaker 1>feel like most of the time we be putting ourselves

0:50:44.920 --> 0:50:45.640
<v Speaker 1>on the back burner.

0:50:45.760 --> 0:50:48.600
<v Speaker 3>And you don't want to end up bitter or jaded,

0:50:49.560 --> 0:50:52.640
<v Speaker 3>you know. And that's the hard part, because so many

0:50:52.719 --> 0:50:57.600
<v Speaker 3>times of being played with will ultimately make you start

0:50:57.640 --> 0:51:00.440
<v Speaker 3>making you turn bitter or make you start feeling jaded

0:51:00.640 --> 0:51:08.040
<v Speaker 3>and displaying negative you know, characteristics and characters traits toward relationships,

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:09.480
<v Speaker 3>and then you end up like Brandy.

0:51:10.120 --> 0:51:12.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've seen this post online. I can't I probably

0:51:12.360 --> 0:51:13.560
<v Speaker 1>won't be able to find it, but it was on

0:51:13.600 --> 0:51:17.200
<v Speaker 1>Instagram and it was a guy saying like once you break,

0:51:17.239 --> 0:51:19.480
<v Speaker 1>and it's for women in particular, no matter of fact,

0:51:19.480 --> 0:51:21.520
<v Speaker 1>it may not just just have been for women. It

0:51:21.600 --> 0:51:25.319
<v Speaker 1>said Basically, once you break someone's trust, it takes like

0:51:25.760 --> 0:51:28.360
<v Speaker 1>X amount of time to build that trust back. So like,

0:51:28.440 --> 0:51:32.319
<v Speaker 1>imagine you breaking your weird woman's trust four times out

0:51:32.360 --> 0:51:34.360
<v Speaker 1>the years, like she's just finding out some bullshit, you

0:51:34.480 --> 0:51:39.160
<v Speaker 1>cheating money miss whatever it is, right, it might take

0:51:39.239 --> 0:51:41.480
<v Speaker 1>ten years for her to get over that shit. Who

0:51:41.520 --> 0:51:43.360
<v Speaker 1>can tell me how long it's gonna take for me

0:51:43.400 --> 0:51:44.839
<v Speaker 1>to be okay with you?

0:51:44.920 --> 0:51:45.120
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:51:45.760 --> 0:51:47.600
<v Speaker 1>I can tell you how much it's gonna take, but

0:51:47.640 --> 0:51:51.440
<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you how long? Right cause it you

0:51:51.600 --> 0:51:54.640
<v Speaker 1>get me about five million dollars, Bitch, I done forgot everything,

0:51:54.800 --> 0:51:58.640
<v Speaker 1>like he ain't nothing ever happened.

0:51:58.640 --> 0:51:59.719
<v Speaker 3>We started from scratching it.

0:51:59.719 --> 0:52:02.480
<v Speaker 1>You're brand new nigga. So I could tell you how

0:52:02.640 --> 0:52:05.239
<v Speaker 1>much is gonna cost you, but I can't tell how

0:52:05.239 --> 0:52:05.920
<v Speaker 1>long it's gonna take.

0:52:06.000 --> 0:52:09.239
<v Speaker 3>Right, But after like think about the relationships where money

0:52:09.320 --> 0:52:12.839
<v Speaker 3>has never been an issue. You know, they've always had

0:52:12.840 --> 0:52:15.200
<v Speaker 3>a bunch of money, and now you're doing shit. You

0:52:15.239 --> 0:52:17.879
<v Speaker 3>can't buy your way out of something that's already spent.

0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:21.520
<v Speaker 3>You know you already got money, so now what right

0:52:21.640 --> 0:52:24.880
<v Speaker 3>you know? But we we don't know about that. So

0:52:24.920 --> 0:52:25.800
<v Speaker 3>if you got five.

0:52:25.680 --> 0:52:29.239
<v Speaker 1>Leagues, money always gonna fuck people up. It don't matter

0:52:29.239 --> 0:52:31.719
<v Speaker 1>how much you got. This is why men still fight

0:52:31.800 --> 0:52:35.360
<v Speaker 1>women and divorces and vice versa. Like nobody wants nobody

0:52:35.360 --> 0:52:38.000
<v Speaker 1>playing with their fucking money. So money is actually where

0:52:38.040 --> 0:52:40.440
<v Speaker 1>you hit them at. That's how you get people together.

0:52:40.760 --> 0:52:42.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I'm saying, if you're in a marriage where

0:52:42.800 --> 0:52:45.960
<v Speaker 3>a woman has access to millions of dollars already, then

0:52:46.000 --> 0:52:50.840
<v Speaker 3>it's kind of like giving her, you know, more money.

0:52:51.239 --> 0:52:52.759
<v Speaker 3>Is that gonna that's what you're saying.

0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:56.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I guess at that point then you well listen,

0:52:56.960 --> 0:53:01.680
<v Speaker 1>you threat divorce right, and I'm gonna take half that

0:53:02.360 --> 0:53:06.040
<v Speaker 1>because so leaving now, So when you got millions of

0:53:06.080 --> 0:53:09.600
<v Speaker 1>dollars already, the threat of leaving right could get your

0:53:09.680 --> 0:53:13.319
<v Speaker 1>ass killed, right that part. So money is still the root.

0:53:14.160 --> 0:53:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Money is still going to be like the thing that'll

0:53:17.080 --> 0:53:23.719
<v Speaker 1>make somebody stop acting up or forget right for me,

0:53:24.480 --> 0:53:26.799
<v Speaker 1>For me, I don't know about everybody else, but for me,

0:53:27.600 --> 0:53:35.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, my forgiveness can be bought. Sorry, So toxic

0:53:35.800 --> 0:53:40.840
<v Speaker 1>masculinity and accountability. So Darnell's lack of emotional maturity, the

0:53:40.920 --> 0:53:44.960
<v Speaker 1>lesson and taking responsibility for how you treat people. Do

0:53:45.040 --> 0:53:46.879
<v Speaker 1>you think he learned his lessons, so now he could

0:53:46.880 --> 0:53:49.440
<v Speaker 1>be in a better relationship or I guess if him

0:53:49.480 --> 0:53:54.520
<v Speaker 1>and Mia decide to be together. His childhood friend he was.

0:53:54.560 --> 0:53:56.880
<v Speaker 3>Laying in that hospital bed sipping from that straw. I

0:53:56.920 --> 0:54:01.120
<v Speaker 3>think he definitely learned a valuable listening about how to

0:54:01.160 --> 0:54:03.360
<v Speaker 3>handle people in their emotions.

0:54:04.040 --> 0:54:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I used to be with this guy in my twenties,

0:54:06.600 --> 0:54:08.400
<v Speaker 1>and I would always tell him because I'm not the

0:54:08.400 --> 0:54:11.799
<v Speaker 1>crazy bitch, right, but I would always warn him. I'm like,

0:54:12.640 --> 0:54:15.359
<v Speaker 1>somebody gonna do something to you one day, because the

0:54:15.400 --> 0:54:19.680
<v Speaker 1>things he would do would definitely have a crazy bitch

0:54:19.960 --> 0:54:22.560
<v Speaker 1>doing a lot of shit to him and my ex fiance,

0:54:22.760 --> 0:54:24.480
<v Speaker 1>Like this bitch was pulling up and knocking on the

0:54:24.520 --> 0:54:27.000
<v Speaker 1>bedroom window and shit like that. Like that's a crazy person,

0:54:27.840 --> 0:54:29.239
<v Speaker 1>and you still putting dick in her.

0:54:30.520 --> 0:54:35.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. My grandma said she's seen somebody cut her brother.

0:54:35.200 --> 0:54:37.759
<v Speaker 3>I brought him a suit and cut the suit off

0:54:37.800 --> 0:54:39.680
<v Speaker 3>his ass out of the juke joint when they're young.

0:54:40.360 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 3>What cutting him right out of the suit. He had

0:54:46.520 --> 0:54:50.839
<v Speaker 3>to go home and ask naked. I like him up.

0:54:51.600 --> 0:54:54.080
<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm indifferent about Brandy character. I really feel

0:54:54.080 --> 0:54:56.719
<v Speaker 1>like she's not that crazy, Like she is crazy in

0:54:56.800 --> 0:54:59.839
<v Speaker 1>theory like she is, but she is not just right.

0:55:00.120 --> 0:55:04.799
<v Speaker 3>She ain't just crazy for the strength of being crazy. No,

0:55:04.960 --> 0:55:09.160
<v Speaker 3>you led her there, you took her there, and you

0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:11.799
<v Speaker 3>got you suffer the consequences of it, and that's a

0:55:11.880 --> 0:55:13.920
<v Speaker 3>valuable lesson. It's a lot of people missing from this

0:55:13.960 --> 0:55:17.000
<v Speaker 3>earth today because they played with somebody feelings mm hm.

0:55:17.280 --> 0:55:19.879
<v Speaker 3>And that flies to women too, y'all, y'all, don't play

0:55:19.880 --> 0:55:22.000
<v Speaker 3>with these niggas because they got emotions too.

0:55:23.800 --> 0:55:28.000
<v Speaker 1>And you know, there is truly a thin line between

0:55:28.000 --> 0:55:32.080
<v Speaker 1>love and hate, because I believe that they're the same emotion, right,

0:55:32.840 --> 0:55:36.319
<v Speaker 1>loving somebody and hating them. It's like, it's very, very

0:55:36.400 --> 0:55:39.960
<v Speaker 1>extremely strong emotions, especially like being in love with somebody

0:55:40.320 --> 0:55:43.560
<v Speaker 1>and ain't getting hurt like that shit will alter who

0:55:43.600 --> 0:55:47.319
<v Speaker 1>you are a little bit. So yeah, like just this,

0:55:47.640 --> 0:55:51.680
<v Speaker 1>it's the same on different ends of the spectrum. Be

0:55:51.920 --> 0:55:52.840
<v Speaker 1>fucking careful.

0:55:53.080 --> 0:55:57.279
<v Speaker 3>But they so close together. Ain't that the crazy part?

0:55:57.560 --> 0:56:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm? Yeah, So set your emotional boundaries, Okay, tell

0:56:04.520 --> 0:56:07.439
<v Speaker 1>people who you are upfront. Hey, I'm crazy, you put

0:56:07.440 --> 0:56:09.800
<v Speaker 1>that dick in me, raw, shit gonna get lit, Okay,

0:56:09.960 --> 0:56:13.840
<v Speaker 1>just letting you know upfront, out of that for some reason,

0:56:15.360 --> 0:56:17.879
<v Speaker 1>and they keep fucking crazy bitch. They keep putting dick

0:56:17.960 --> 0:56:20.439
<v Speaker 1>and the girl who be busting a card when doing

0:56:20.440 --> 0:56:22.640
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that, and that is just not who I am.

0:56:22.760 --> 0:56:28.080
<v Speaker 1>So maybe that's why our relationships be going array with

0:56:28.200 --> 0:56:31.600
<v Speaker 1>me because I'm not crazy. I know, men like mean girls.

0:56:31.800 --> 0:56:34.200
<v Speaker 1>I am a mean bitch. Now I could be a

0:56:34.239 --> 0:56:39.200
<v Speaker 1>mean girl, but I'm not a crazy girl. You know,

0:56:39.360 --> 0:56:41.600
<v Speaker 1>I might sound like like your mama a little bit

0:56:41.640 --> 0:56:42.919
<v Speaker 1>when I'm telling you to do some shit.

0:56:43.600 --> 0:56:47.560
<v Speaker 3>See, I think I have I identify more with Brandy, like

0:56:48.120 --> 0:56:50.600
<v Speaker 3>I'd be nice and nice and nice and nice, and

0:56:50.640 --> 0:56:54.040
<v Speaker 3>then I spit in your face, bitch, like I told

0:56:54.080 --> 0:56:56.399
<v Speaker 3>Hi anything like. I know he was surprised to hear

0:56:56.440 --> 0:56:59.600
<v Speaker 3>me say that because I've been like this. Sweet you know,

0:57:00.080 --> 0:57:04.279
<v Speaker 3>I saw little thing the whole time again. Now you

0:57:04.360 --> 0:57:06.279
<v Speaker 3>took me here and now just how I'm talking to you,

0:57:07.160 --> 0:57:11.640
<v Speaker 3>and I mean it by working on that, y'all. I'm

0:57:11.640 --> 0:57:12.120
<v Speaker 3>working on it.

0:57:12.920 --> 0:57:15.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we are all work in progress, and I'm working

0:57:15.160 --> 0:57:19.160
<v Speaker 1>on not being mean. Right. It is just shit. Shit

0:57:19.320 --> 0:57:23.560
<v Speaker 1>just make you be mean sometimes. Man. That's not my

0:57:23.640 --> 0:57:25.960
<v Speaker 1>normal setting either. It wasn't. It used to not be

0:57:26.040 --> 0:57:29.320
<v Speaker 1>my normal setting. But things I've been through some shit. Okay,

0:57:29.600 --> 0:57:33.200
<v Speaker 1>that just it just has me different, and I might

0:57:33.280 --> 0:57:35.800
<v Speaker 1>not even care enough to be mean nowadays, so it's

0:57:35.800 --> 0:57:38.680
<v Speaker 1>really not even I don't even say nothing anymore for real.

0:57:39.480 --> 0:57:41.240
<v Speaker 1>So that might be a problem too, because now like,

0:57:41.800 --> 0:57:43.720
<v Speaker 1>even if you don't feel like some shit is festering,

0:57:43.760 --> 0:57:45.880
<v Speaker 1>it might be festering. And so when you finally do

0:57:45.920 --> 0:57:48.680
<v Speaker 1>say something about it, it might come out in anger, right,

0:57:48.760 --> 0:57:51.240
<v Speaker 1>because you've just been just not saying.

0:57:51.160 --> 0:57:53.960
<v Speaker 3>It, holding on to it. So what's your last last

0:57:54.000 --> 0:57:55.560
<v Speaker 3>for the girls and guys listening.

0:57:56.200 --> 0:57:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm a little bit of brandy, okay, just a tiny

0:57:59.040 --> 0:58:02.280
<v Speaker 1>bit of brandy, tiny tiny bit of brandy, A little

0:58:02.280 --> 0:58:05.000
<v Speaker 1>bit of brandy. Like one of my homegirls sent the

0:58:05.080 --> 0:58:08.280
<v Speaker 1>nigga who she's pregnant for some balloons to his birthday

0:58:08.280 --> 0:58:13.360
<v Speaker 1>party that his bitch planned for him. She sent congratulations

0:58:13.360 --> 0:58:15.960
<v Speaker 1>it's a boy, big dumb ass balloons that had him

0:58:15.960 --> 0:58:19.360
<v Speaker 1>delivered via Instacart to his birthday party. That's my level

0:58:19.360 --> 0:58:19.800
<v Speaker 1>of crazy.

0:58:19.960 --> 0:58:22.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's nice. Yeah, that's not too much.

0:58:22.680 --> 0:58:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Just in case somebody didn't know, right, everybody who love

0:58:26.560 --> 0:58:28.120
<v Speaker 1>you that's in here, No, you got a baby on

0:58:28.120 --> 0:58:31.680
<v Speaker 1>the way, right, Yeah, Like I think that's nice. That's

0:58:31.760 --> 0:58:32.600
<v Speaker 1>my level of crazy.

0:58:32.680 --> 0:58:35.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and that's not too much. You know, nobody gonna die,

0:58:36.040 --> 0:58:41.280
<v Speaker 3>nobody getting shot, you know, that's right. But if he

0:58:41.440 --> 0:58:44.120
<v Speaker 3>wasn't outside playing, that wouldn't happened to him. He wouldn't

0:58:44.120 --> 0:58:47.280
<v Speaker 3>begin in balloons if he was being having integrity And

0:58:47.400 --> 0:58:51.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm real honest, yeah, with some and that's my last last.

0:58:51.920 --> 0:58:54.480
<v Speaker 3>Just operate with integrity and then you don't have to

0:58:54.480 --> 0:58:58.680
<v Speaker 3>worry about nobody being Brandy, right, being a Brandy sending

0:58:58.720 --> 0:59:01.120
<v Speaker 3>you no balloons or calling you a bitch and telling

0:59:01.120 --> 0:59:04.080
<v Speaker 3>you that they gonna spit on you. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Allright, y'all listen, be careful out here because Brandy's be

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