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Speaker 1: Talking to We Talk Back, where we encourage you to

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Speaker 1: hustle hard, laugh, letter and always keep it cute. So

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Speaker 1: grab your coffee, cocktail and crown because it's about to

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Speaker 1: go down talk talk.

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Speaker 3: You're just too unapologizely black women with an opinion. Who talks?

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, it's your girl, AJ Holiday, what's up, tam Dam.

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Speaker 3: Y'all's official tam Oh? No am my official Tambam. I'm

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Speaker 3: just Tambam. I love y'all.

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Speaker 1: Hey, AJ, you change your Instagram name?

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Speaker 3: No, that's it, but I already say my Instagram name crazy.

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Speaker 1: I'm good girl. How you feeling?

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Speaker 3: You know what? I always enjoy spring because you know

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Speaker 3: the season is changing. But when I tell you this,

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Speaker 3: pollar is whooping my ass like real bad this year,

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Speaker 3: like worse than ever before. I can't handle it. I

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Speaker 3: understand that the trees gotta have sex, but it is

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Speaker 3: I didn't ask to be a part of the orgy.

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Speaker 3: I did not ask to be a part of it.

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Speaker 1: Girl, Like Zertac can't take enough of my fucking money.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting like the big packs from Costco. Okay, my

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Speaker 1: mama even text me ask me if I needed some

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Speaker 1: more zyrt Tech because it's real nasty. Like my car

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Speaker 1: was green. Yeah, I didn't know my car that much

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Speaker 1: last week and it just looked like an abandoned car

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just gross. It really is gross outside, but

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Speaker 3: I still went out in it. I went, oh, we

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Speaker 3: know that I went to in New York. I went

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Speaker 3: to Saint It's a restal lounge. I don't know what

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Speaker 3: that means to me, that it's a club, but the

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Speaker 3: owner told me it's not a club, it's a restal lounge.

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Speaker 3: So I guess that's like a.

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Speaker 1: Club restaurant slash lounge.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess yeah, because they do sell really good food.

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Speaker 3: And then he bought me a drink at the end

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Speaker 3: of the night and I was like, I want what

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Speaker 3: you drinking. There was a mistake, baby, when I tell you,

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Speaker 3: I was drukist.

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Speaker 1: Fuck.

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Speaker 3: I had to go home after that drink. I had

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Speaker 3: to leave in my business. But that was it. Oh

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Speaker 3: and I also we went to Pergola, so we went

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Speaker 3: to two hooga bars. It was cool, but then I

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Speaker 3: was supposed to go out on Sunday. I can't do

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Speaker 3: two days in a row. It's one or the other

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Speaker 1: Yeah, from six to ten. That was my operational hours,

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Speaker 1: six to ten. If you don't got me out the

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Speaker 1: and if you don't got me out by six. It's

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Speaker 1: a rap. Okay. I had a good weekend too, and

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Speaker 1: you know, I really I had a tough week last week. Right,

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Speaker 1: So Saturday morning was actually my test to see if

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Speaker 1: dressed for a great cause. Though. So one of my

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Speaker 1: women in the world of merchant semens. Right. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it's a great, great, great, great great idea. So

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Speaker 1: Be yeah on the reality like the cast members right.

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Speaker 3: So why are you men to get up at four

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Speaker 1: Because it was from eight to twelve, and yeah, we

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Speaker 1: were recording everything. It was really nice set up and

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Speaker 1: you know, real professional. So it's called Beyond the Anchor.

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Speaker 1: So it's going to be following the lives of women

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Speaker 1: who are in this very hard industry. A lot of

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Speaker 1: people in Charleston our merchant semens, so they work alongside

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Speaker 1: the Navy on these ships, you know, around the world

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Speaker 1: all year long. They're away from away from their families, children,

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Speaker 1: So it's it's it's some good ass storylines going off.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of merchant symen in Virginia too. I

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Speaker 3: know a lot of people who do that in Virginia. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: so we are smith.

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Speaker 1: The casting was the casting was basically from head to

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Speaker 3: That's gonna be very interesting. They came up with something good.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so we'll see Chad. So that was my weekend

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Speaker 1: and then I just was for real in the bed

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Speaker 1: from maybe four o'clock Saturday to twelve o'clock Sunday.

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Speaker 3: Girl, listen, let me tell you how I missed up.

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Speaker 3: I was. I stayed out drinking all night Saturday. And

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Speaker 3: let me tell y'all that niggas was outside. They was

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Speaker 3: on the kid. That's where they was like, they was

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Speaker 1: One second, next bit, you better get one of the

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Speaker 1: little things. We all get a number.

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Speaker 3: Every take a number and stand in line with your

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Speaker 3: it was given. You got clear?

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Speaker 1: Do you have clear?

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Speaker 3: Nigga? Right pre check? Send him to me for TSA

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Speaker 3: for aj PreCheck period. So after that Sunday, I had

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Speaker 3: I can't wait. God bless me, y'all sub like, subscribe

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Speaker 3: our shit, buy some T shirts from us. So I

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Speaker 3: no more so anyway. And then Sunday I stayed in

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Speaker 1: And those that's my favorite thing to do.

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Speaker 3: That's what you need to make the shirts.

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Speaker 1: I love lay Down.

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Speaker 3: I love it because I will buy it. Let's get

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Speaker 3: in the scene, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, y'all what we got going on? I need streets

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Speaker 1: with a case. So y'all know that, uh, the infamous,

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Speaker 1: super famous. I guess it was a YouTube Dayton show

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Speaker 1: at this point. Now they're heading the Netflix. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: beginning April tenth, twenty twenty five, viewers will tune in

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Speaker 1: every Thursday at eight pm for a roller coaster of romance, chaos,

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Speaker 1: and enough tension to make your stomach drop. So thanks

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Speaker 1: to the thanks to The Bachelor, think oh yeah, think

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Speaker 1: of The Bachelor. Okay, but with balloons. So y'all know

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Speaker 1: the pop the Balloon Dayton Show. They're heading to Netflix.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited for that.

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Speaker 3: I'm congratulations. Round up a plot.

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Speaker 1: They got over like one hundred million like YouTube views,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Since they've been on YouTube

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Speaker 3: People really enjoy that shit. I could never go on

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Speaker 3: no Pop to Balloon. I couldn't pop a balloon, nor

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Speaker 3: could I be the I couldn't be the poppy or

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Speaker 3: nobody feeling. And if you pop a balloon on me,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna cry. So I'm a cry or fight. I

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Speaker 3: don't know which one is or both. So I don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that shit is damn that show is treacherous.

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Speaker 1: I don't think my my esteem is set up to

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Speaker 1: go on that shit, okay, because you are not going

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Speaker 1: to be for everybody. So imagine going into a room

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Speaker 3: Anybody, and you walk out and everybody like pop hop

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Speaker 1: For real. I'm crying like right there on the spot.

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Speaker 1: So I commend those people, you know, who get up

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Speaker 1: And are let Amalie Amalie. That's what we see doing

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Speaker 3: Know, yeah, we love her from Insecure the Virgin. I

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Speaker 3: wonder if she's still a virgin, why would she not be?

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Speaker 1: Might as well? We ain't heard about her getting married.

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Speaker 1: I did catch like some of the shade with some

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Speaker 1: some of the older castmates still around. Okay, so Kenya

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Speaker 1: Kenya Moore is still around, Porscha is back on the show,

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Speaker 1: what's Cynthia's there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so there's a newcomer. Her name is Brittany Edie eighty.

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Speaker 1: She was added to this current season and this last episode.

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Speaker 3: So he might have been like reaching with that statement,

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Speaker 1: And I can't recall what this girl's husband name is

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Speaker 3: She makes to you know, use it on the castmates.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy, right, Yeah, you're tripping. Yeah, yeah, so we'll see.

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Speaker 3: But let's talk about all right. So last week we

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Speaker 3: So this week we're gonna do a thin line between

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Speaker 3: but really it was Darius Darnell. Darnell, Darnell motherfucked the mask.

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Speaker 1: We know Darnell's Okay, Darnell is alive, and well.

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Speaker 3: When we get back from this break, we're gonna get

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all. So again, okay, so this week we

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Speaker 1: know the Darnell's in life, We know the Brandy's in life.

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Speaker 1: Brandy was like the crazy bitch on the show, right,

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Speaker 1: people like to drive you crazy and then call you crazy,

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Speaker 1: Brandy was skippings the steps because she ain't have no friends.

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Speaker 3: That's the problem. She didn't consult with her Really, she.

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Speaker 1: Really was consulting with her fucking subconscious mind and them

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Speaker 3: Ex was physically violent or so she said. We don't remember.

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Speaker 1: She beat herself up now and Darnelle arrested, So she

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Speaker 3: Her own ass to get you in trouble. You don't

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Speaker 1: Whoop yond as. Don't whoop me whoop yond ass.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's next level.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's let's so let's do a deep dive. Right, So,

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Speaker 1: when's the last time you watched then line between leven?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, anyway, it was. I didn't even have to watch

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Speaker 1: that'd be the main thing y'all want to do is

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Speaker 1: Oh how is that fun?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Who is this fun for? Because it's not fun

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Speaker 3: All the stalkers that I've ever had, I've never had

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Speaker 1: Had mad bitch. I remember that bitch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're not gonna talk about that. We don't want

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Speaker 3: That is scary when you had somebody really like obsessed

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Speaker 1: So I did Google. Now, this is what Google says.

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Speaker 3: That the title was so perfect in line between love

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Speaker 1: I saw a nigga I used to fuck with and

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Speaker 1: don't talk, but he asked me, like to meet him out.

435
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: So I'm like, nigga, I just seen you two weeks

436
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: ago rubbing a bitch feet under the table, like are

437
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:08,560
Speaker 1: you stupid?

438
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 3: Right?

439
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 1: And he just like lie, he was like, girl, hush,

440
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 1: this is he texts me, girl hush. And I say,

441
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 1: you lucky that I'm playing because I almost embarrassed both

442
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,920
Speaker 1: of us. I probably, like I really wanted to spit

443
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 1: on that nigga, not because like I have any type

444
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 1: of real feelings for him, and no shit like that anymore.

445
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: It's just that who the fuck you think you're playing with?

446
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 1: And the problem is men be counting on our integrity, right,

447
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 1: they be counting on us to keep it fucking cool.

448
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 1: But everybody ain't gonna be like me. Right, you want

449
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 1: to run into a.

450
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:45,199
Speaker 3: Brandy, run into a brandy, and they're gonna ruin your

451
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 3: whole shit for you.

452
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's Darnelle truly like the villain or just

453
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 1: the immature guy who met the wrong woman at the

454
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,040
Speaker 1: wrong time or at the right fucking time, get his

455
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: ass together.

456
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 3: I want to consider him a villain, you know, he's

457
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 3: I would say he was real selfish because he was

458
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 3: playing the game. You know, he wanted he bet with Tea.

459
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 3: He had a bet with Tea that he couldn't get her,

460
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,119
Speaker 3: you know, and he was like, oh, watch watch this,

461
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 3: I can get any woman I want because I'm not charming.

462
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 3: I'm that cool. I got the finess and watch how

463
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 3: I finess her. So I don't think he realized how

464
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 3: serious it could get, you know, when you're playing with

465
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 3: people emotions, because that woman definitely was like, look, I've

466
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,640
Speaker 3: been hurt I pretty much. I stay clear of y'all

467
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 3: motherfuckers because I don't want to be hurt again. And

468
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 3: then here you come, and how he did it, like

469
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 3: like she finally let this nigga in. He laid in

470
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 3: her bed and said I love you, and she made

471
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 3: they made love or she made love to him and

472
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 3: he just got some pussy and yeah. Then right after

473
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 3: he calls his homeboy to let him know that he

474
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 3: got the draws basically like I won and tell me

475
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 3: I'm the man and then now she's all, I'm fully in,

476
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 3: I'm letting down my guard. I'm going to show you

477
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 3: that I care about you. And then she took him

478
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 3: shopping on her birthday and bought him designing shit in

479
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 3: nice clothes and was like, take my car, handle your business.

480
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 3: Meet me tonight, it's my birthday. And then she had

481
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 3: a cake. Can you imagine sitting in your house with

482
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,239
Speaker 3: the cake waiting on the Nigga, you just bought all

483
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 3: his clothes for her on your birthday and he never

484
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 3: show up. That is so hurtful.

485
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 1: He dropped her off the crazy like literally like put

486
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: her in the car and drove her there and then

487
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: called her fucking crazy. And how about the part where

488
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: he like like she's trying to cuddle with him after

489
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: sex and he like moves his hand her hand off

490
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 1: of him. Now this is where you know I had

491
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 1: I'm guilty of telling men like if you don't really

492
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,439
Speaker 1: fuck with a woman and you want to fuck, like

493
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 1: don't be getting but don't be getting butt naked having

494
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: sex with a bitch, like just pull your dick out

495
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: the hole. So you know what it is like that

496
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: skin to skin shit is a problem too, And if

497
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: you're not going to verbally say hey, I just want

498
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 1: to fuck, And you may not have said that, but

499
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: everything else you're doing just says you want to fuck.

500
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: Like Martin Lawrence, he really just he wasn't. He never

501
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 1: said I just want to fuck. He was doing all

502
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: the things to ma sure that he was interested in her,

503
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 1: like seriously, right.

504
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,439
Speaker 3: But then you do like he the man came to

505
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 3: her fucking job, he made an appointment with her, wasting

506
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 3: her time where she could be selling the house to

507
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 3: somebody who really wants to buy a house. And then,

508
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,959
Speaker 3: I mean he went the extra mile. He had his

509
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 3: homeboy that Sutter drive him in a fine car up

510
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 3: there so it looked like he got a little more

511
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 3: than he got. And then he put a lot of

512
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 3: leak baby bird in the house prior to them getting

513
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,479
Speaker 3: there so she could see it because he knew that

514
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 3: she was into crystals. Like you are doing the most

515
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 3: to just want some pussy, right, y'a say that. Listen,

516
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 3: I've had a guy do me like this at all. Right, y'all,

517
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 3: I met this guy. He had been in my DMS

518
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 3: for a while, but I ain't ignored him. And then

519
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 3: he was like, I'm coming to Charlotte. I want to

520
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 3: see you. No, He's like, I'm he sent me a

521
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 3: message like, oh I'm in Charlotte. I was like, enjoying

522
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 3: the Queen City. I was not interested, right, I wasn't

523
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 3: paying him, even though he was good looking, but he

524
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 3: just looked like you know how sometimes he on some bullshit,

525
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 3: like he looked like he got to be a fuck nigga, right,

526
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 3: And I just felt that in my spirit, and that's

527
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 3: why I wasn't giving him no chance. So he was like,

528
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 3: what are you doing? And I was like, I'm going

529
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 3: to a white party with my friends so you can

530
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 3: enjoy the Queen City. So then I see this motherfucker

531
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 3: at this white party in Red. He's like I found

532
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 3: every white party in the city and I had to

533
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 3: pay extra to get in here with Red. But I

534
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 3: knew I had to come see you.

535
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 1: Oh lord girl, he a whole demon.

536
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 3: Demon, right, So then then he started showing me and

537
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 3: my friends like he bought us bottles drinks. He was

538
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 3: doing the most, like showing making my friends laugh and shit,

539
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 3: you know, doing the most. So then my homegirls was like, girl,

540
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 3: he following you around like a put be giving him

541
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 3: a chance, give him a chance. So I'm like, okay,

542
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 3: So then I let this man take me on a night.

543
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 3: Like we went to dinner, and the next night we

544
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,919
Speaker 3: went to dinner. We went to a nice dinner. I

545
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 3: mean he was whining and dyning me, like he asked

546
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 3: me what did I like to drink? And when we

547
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 3: got to the table, was sitting there already waiting on me,

548
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:22,920
Speaker 3: like just real smooth. He was smooth or whatever. We started,

549
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,959
Speaker 3: we'd be on the phone. Now I'm starting to like, okay,

550
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 3: entertain him. He's a businessman. He got this shit together,

551
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 3: you know. He said he want a wife, all these things,

552
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 3: and he's attractive. And we started spending a bunch of

553
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 3: time together. I wouldn't sleep with him still. I was

554
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 3: just like being very cautious with my body, you know.

555
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 3: And we had went out this particular night. We had

556
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 3: spent the night together, but I you know, I wasn't

557
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 3: ready for sex and I let him know. And the

558
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 3: only reason we spent the nights because we were both drunk. Anyway,

559
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 3: So we went out again. We went to Fahrenheit and

560
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 3: Charlotte and we were on the rooftop. We were drinking.

561
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 3: It was so beautiful. We left We went to my apartment,

562
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 3: and with my building had a rooftop and fire pits.

563
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 3: We're out there at the fire pit, just chilling. I

564
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 3: had wine, so we were drinking wine. And y'all know

565
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 3: I'm a cancer. So I got emotional and I was like,

566
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 3: I just want to thank you for being such a

567
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 3: good person, Like I meet a lot of people who

568
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 3: try to take advantage of my good heart, and I

569
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 3: really appreciate it. And I think I might have had

570
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 3: to shed a little thug tear. Right if I'm a

571
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 3: cry baby, got a thug tear, the energy shifted immediately,

572
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 3: all the energy changed, right, so, and I felt it

573
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 3: and it was weird. And then he left shortly after,

574
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 3: and then he ghosted. I didn't hear from him. He

575
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 3: didn't answer my call the next day, he didn't respond

576
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 3: to text. So then a few maybe like three months

577
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 3: goes by and he reaches out to me, and now

578
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, what the fuck do you want? Basically, do

579
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 3: you know this motherfucker told me that he was married,

580
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 3: that his wife was a travel nurse and that's why

581
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 3: she was never around, and that's how he was able

582
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 3: to spend so much time with me and be on

583
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 3: the phone with me because she was out in California

584
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 3: working for three months as a nurse, you know, and

585
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 3: he was out here, and him and a bitch from

586
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 3: a Facebook group that I was in made a bet

587
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 3: on who they could who could fuck me first? Her girl?

588
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 1: What the bitch was on thet Yeah, it was.

589
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 3: Her or him, which one to fuck me first?

590
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 1: Did you know the girl? Yeah?

591
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 3: She was pursuing me too.

592
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: Did you fuck the girl?

593
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 3: I never know? I did not. I did not fuck the.

594
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: Girl, y'all know. We got to ask TAMPI ship four

595
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: to five times.

596
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 3: Me and her never even hung out, you know, me

597
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 3: and her never hung out, but we were all that wild?

598
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 3: Ain't that wild? And he was like, I like, once

599
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 3: I was spending time with you, I just assumed you

600
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 3: were different than what you were and I didn't. I

601
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 3: couldn't do you like that. And I guess he thought

602
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 3: I was gonna be like, well, thank you for not

603
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 3: taking me. Yeah, I said, bitch, y'all, spit in your face.

604
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 3: That's how I responded, because you wasted my time and

605
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 3: play with me. Still, even if you grew up conscious

606
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 3: in that moment, you still.

607
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: A grown ass man doing this, Like why what if

608
00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: I still go ahead and to send a shit to

609
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: your wife, because this is the type of stop of

610
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: shit you out here doing.

611
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 3: Right, And that's what I should have done. But I

612
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 3: just told him, don't ever contact me again, or I'll

613
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 3: spit in your face, bitch or something along the rides

614
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 3: a real life Darnell, Because that's a real life Darnell.

615
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: A grown ass Darnell, Like what are you doing? What

616
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: are you and this bitch doing? Why y'all look at

617
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: me and thought y'all could play with me like that? Yeah?

618
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 1: Like what are times somebody played with me? You know?

619
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: Because people are gonna try everybody, right, But I always

620
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: this is where I be fucking up, right, because I'd

621
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: be trying to figure out, Okay, where did I what

622
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: did I do? Like how did I invite this energy?

623
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: What am I doing at somebody think that they can

624
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 1: play with me like this? Like, so, I, even though

625
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 1: I know it has nothing to do with me, I

626
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 1: still find myself questioning, like what could I have done

627
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: differently for a different result?

628
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 3: There was nothing you could have done. How was I

629
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 3: to know that this was playing in the background, you know?

630
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: Like right, nuts, So, y'all, this is our character breakdown

631
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: for Brandy Web. Okay, so and look, we know real

632
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: Brandy Web in real life too. But she ain't a killer,

633
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: I don't think. But that's just her first and last name.

634
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: But so, she's wealthy, elegant, elegant woman with deep emotional

635
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: scars from past relationships. Her character traits, she's like super sophisticated, confident,

636
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 1: but deeply wounded and vengeful with fucking hurt and hate. Okay,

637
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: so she was hesitant at first, but eventually falls with

638
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: Darnielle's charm. She does show super early signs of possessiveness,

639
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: you know when she stabbed that fucking cake. Okay, and

640
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: like she did like a quick transformation from lover to stalker.

641
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 1: Now I got a homegirl like she just real. She

642
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: not crazy like Brandy, but she's real vindictive like cause

643
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: she go well, she and my homegirl anymore. This a

644
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: whole nother reasons why we're not friends no more. But

645
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: I have seen her do some really fucked up shit

646
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: to people that I would could never like fathom in

647
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: my mind to do right. But she she is the

648
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: type of person that will go above and beyond, and

649
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: those type of people are necessary, right. She helps people financially,

650
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: just with her time and shit like that, and the

651
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: minute you fuck her over, like she's really studying, like

652
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 1: how to fuck your whole life up.

653
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 3: Though.

654
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: I know for sure she got two niggas in prison

655
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 1: right now, Like she help the police put their ass

656
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: in jail because they owe her money. They ended up

657
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 1: going to jail with something like one nigga he was

658
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: on parole and he flashing guns on social media. So

659
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: she sent that shit to his po M money yeah,

660
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 1: because he owed her money, like fuck you out here.

661
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: And then she actually talked to a girl that he

662
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 1: was fucking with and the girl basically told her like, yeah,

663
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: we use that money that you gave him to get

664
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: our apartment. So she just saw red after that.

665
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 3: Yeah. I could see why though, like oh you think

666
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 3: it's a game. Yeah, now now you got to live

667
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:29,839
Speaker 3: in the cell.

668
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 1: Yeah. So just like my friend, my ex friend, right,

669
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: was Brandy always dangerous or Darnelle pushed her over the edge?

670
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 3: Basically, No, she was all that bitch was always dangerous,

671
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,479
Speaker 3: but she I feel like she was loving to him

672
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 3: and she wanted him to love her. And I don't

673
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,799
Speaker 3: think he would have seen that side of her if

674
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 3: he didn't bring it out, you know, I don't think

675
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 3: that would have came up, because she was ready to

676
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 3: give him everything. Take my car, here's some clothes, here's

677
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 3: some money, here's whatever. I'm gonna teach you how to

678
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 3: ride a horse. I'm gonna teach you all these things

679
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 3: because I like you and I feel like you like me.

680
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: But so she's really not dangerous, like this thing has

681
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,719
Speaker 1: to be induced, this thing that comes out.

682
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:17,320
Speaker 3: She's still fooled though, because after he dumped her, essentially

683
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 3: she was in his house trying to make breakfast. Then

684
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 3: I remember like, son.

685
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,720
Speaker 1: Because I'm we're not done until I say.

686
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 3: But they already said it. He came to her house

687
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 3: and she was like, it's finny while I lasted, you know,

688
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 3: acting unbothered. Right Like, basically she.

689
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: Knew at that point, she knew at that point she

690
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: had to kill him.

691
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 3: Though, no, but then no, but then she acted unbothered.

692
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 3: And then the next day he woke up smelling some

693
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 3: shit burning in the kitchen and she was at his

694
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 3: house trying to like bake some biscuits and some shit

695
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 3: like baby and in here trying to cook, and he

696
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 3: was like, get the fucking pushed her up against the

697
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 3: wall and then she's like, you put your hands on

698
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 3: the wrong one. And that's when that she switched up

699
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 3: because she was trying to get her nigga back. She

700
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 3: was in there trying to bake biscuits and she's like,

701
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 3: don't go, I love you, and that's when the signals

702
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 3: got crossed.

703
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: Noah, no, look I'm with Brandy. Okay, don't tit if

704
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: you don't want me fucking tatten, just don't. And you

705
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,399
Speaker 1: don't know who's going to be crazy. So your best

706
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,959
Speaker 1: bet is just to be the best person you could

707
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: be in every single situation. But the oftentimes men aren't.

708
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 1: They be misleading people intentionally. And the thing is, if

709
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: you don't have the wherewithal right, just it just bes

710
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: you gotta pay attention to that may not be right

711
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 1: in front of your face.

712
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 3: Right.

713
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,799
Speaker 1: I can understand why she was misled me.

714
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 3: Too, but she did. She do have some issues because

715
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 3: remember she was sitting in the house and he ain't

716
00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 3: show up, and she stabbed that cake. She don't know,

717
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 3: he could have been hurt, he could have been all

718
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 3: these different You didn't know yet you know you already

719
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 3: went immediately to enrage, stabbing a cake Like that is

720
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 3: next level of nuts, because what if something happened to him?

721
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 3: There was no social media. We didn't even have cell

722
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 3: phones back then, so it might have been cell phones,

723
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 3: but many people didn't have them. So you ain't know

724
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 3: what was going on with that nigga before you went

725
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 3: to level ten.

726
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 1: What's that Salmon Walker song? Session thirty two?

727
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:29,359
Speaker 3: Oh?

728
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: I love that you don't? Yeah, it's like real short.

729
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: I need her to make it until a five to

730
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: ten minute song, right, But that you don't know what

731
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 1: love is. If you don't stay up all night, if

732
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: you don't call one hundred times to me, that's not love.

733
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: If I call somebody phone one hundred times, I've lost

734
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 1: my mind. Yeah, somebody calls my phone one hundred times.

735
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 1: Your fucking nuts, because I, like you just said, I

736
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: could be dead, I could be anything could be happening. Right,

737
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: So you call on my phone that many times has

738
00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: nothing to do with actually being concerned about me. It

739
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: has more to do what you just wanting me to

740
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: acquiesce to how you want me to be right now.

741
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: You want me to answer that phone and probably just

742
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 1: say nothing. You keep calling just so I can answer

743
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,720
Speaker 1: the phone. If I call you one time and text

744
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 1: you one time. I'm not calling back until you respond.

745
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: That's it. A hundred times you see me call the

746
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,320
Speaker 1: first time. So now you're trying to force a response

747
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: out of somebody, and that's where that shit get fucking nuts.

748
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 3: If I if you my nigga, I might call three,

749
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 3: but that's it.

750
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,839
Speaker 1: I might call three and then block you because who

751
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: the fuck are you playing with? Now? I'm gonna turn

752
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 1: the abuse. That's my abusive way.

753
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll give you. I'll call three, but after three,

754
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 3: I ain't calling back. And when you call back, who died?

755
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,959
Speaker 1: You better have a Oh did you just get out?

756
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: What hospital room were you in?

757
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 3: Who? Like?

758
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 1: Nah? Three times? And enough if you miss the whole

759
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: twenty four hours talking to me. First of all, we

760
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: done broke up. You just don't know it yet. It'd

761
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 1: be like, really, boyfriend girlfriend twenty four hours past. I'll

762
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: give somebody a day, I won't. You know what I'm saying.

763
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: I bet like still, that's kind of pushing it, but

764
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: I'll give you twenty four hours and then tomorrow I

765
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: better have it better be a real good reason. I'm

766
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: not fucking with you no more, but I'm not calling

767
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: a hundred times. That is very stockerish. So for anybody

768
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: who thinks that's okay to do to a boyfriend is not.

769
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: It's not okay to call somebody's phone that many times.

770
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 3: Now you just to charge for that at that point.

771
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're trying to force a response like I'm

772
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: too playing for that shit. I don't never want a

773
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 1: nigga to be able to show the next nigga hide

774
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: on call a for one hundred times like they stroll

775
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: and do this shit like this bitch, don't call me,

776
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: Absolutely not.

777
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:52,239
Speaker 3: So let's talk about Regina King's character, all right. She's

778
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 3: Durnall's childhood friend, the woman who genuinely loves him for him.

779
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 3: She knows him in real life, not all the ness,

780
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 3: the player, the club, She knew him before all of that.

781
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 3: Her character Trace is loyal, grounded, the complete opposite of Brandy.

782
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 3: She ain't got no whole lot of money. Even though

783
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 3: they had her with that master sergeant rank in the

784
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 3: Air Force, and I was like, who they're playing with

785
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 3: because anybody who really know the Air Force, No, there's

786
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:18,720
Speaker 3: no way Mia can have that much rain.

787
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: That age right now, who's g I Jane? She was

788
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 1: like in her twenties as well, right straight.

789
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,280
Speaker 3: From high school. And I was like, oh, they played

790
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,879
Speaker 3: on our top with that. Oh, let's go.

791
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 1: Back to him, her being the childhood friend and genuinely

792
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: loves him for who he is.

793
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 3: Right.

794
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: Do men really like people to really know exactly who

795
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 1: they are?

796
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 3: I think so.

797
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,280
Speaker 1: I think that's when you start having problems with men

798
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: when you know them in and out, you know, and

799
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: a lot of times that's why relationships spoil and then

800
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 1: they go on to somebody who don't know the old them.

801
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: Like actually, when they get their money money, you know

802
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, that's why the first baby mama,

803
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:06,800
Speaker 1: that's who you want to consult with. If you're fucking

804
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: with the baby daddy, right, you won't always consult with

805
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 1: that first If he just has one baby mama, that

806
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: would be great, right, But if he has a couple

807
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 1: of them three two, consult with the first one because

808
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 1: she knows exactly who he is. And that's why oftentimes

809
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 1: they hate that first baby mama because she saw their struggle.

810
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 3: Right.

811
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,839
Speaker 1: So, do men really like you to know who they

812
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: are through and through? I don't think so, because they

813
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: put on for their friend that you know, exactly who they.

814
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 3: Are except who they are through you know, once they

815
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 3: can be that comfortable and just strip away all the

816
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,760
Speaker 3: armor and all the facade and all that stuff.

817
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: No, I don't think so, I really I still don't

818
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: think so do we all? Do we ever know anybody

819
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: through them through?

820
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 3: Do we know our else all the way through and through?

821
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,919
Speaker 3: I think it's always a growth. You're always growing, You're

822
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 3: always changing. So that's why i'd be like the first baby,

823
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 3: may I'm a new one version of you, the youngest

824
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 3: version of you, the one who just probably becoming an

825
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 3: adult half the time. Mm hmm. Because I believe men

826
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 3: they're growing change too, you know, so who they was

827
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:23,520
Speaker 3: with their first baby Mama might not be who they

828
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 3: are with you. You don't think so it's possible.

829
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: And then I honestly don't think people change that much,

830
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like we might tweak a

831
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 1: little bit depending on who we are with now, right,

832
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: We do do that, We compromise in relationships, We kind

833
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,320
Speaker 1: of sweak who we are to suit this this current.

834
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: But I deep down inside, do people really three do

835
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: three sixties? No?

836
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 3: No, maybe not a three sixty, but like just growth,

837
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 3: you know, some growth.

838
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like I don't know if you

839
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 1: capable of something at any point in your life is

840
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: still in you somewhere, Like if you capable of some

841
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: like real foul shit, I just don't see you, like

842
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: because it's just certain shit I'm not going to do

843
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: because it's just not in my DNA to do. So

844
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: I'll always be looking at the person like, damn, that's you.

845
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: It's surprising and I can't ever forget that because I

846
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: feel like you're still capable of that.

847
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 3: Do you think about it? I think about like, uh,

848
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 3: girls that you knew was like super holes in their

849
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 3: twenties and now the pastor at the church or liked

850
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 3: to Sunday announcements.

851
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 1: They're still capable a sucking dick on Saturday. Absolutely, that

852
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: is what I expect.

853
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,840
Speaker 3: You're not no more. They've just grown from that version.

854
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: Oh we know, they probably got better at hiding it.

855
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 3: See.

856
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: You know you don't give people we ain't talking about

857
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:49,359
Speaker 1: no church people, man, that that right there.

858
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 3: You don't give people enough credit the growth and changing.

859
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 1: I know, school teacher, that's why my fucking extra credit. Okay,

860
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 1: Then we got Bobby Brown, which is just like the

861
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 1: comic relief. He's supposedly the voice of reason right. He's

862
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: Darnell's best friend and fellow club promoter. He's fun loving,

863
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: he's blind, provides comedic relief, but often speaks the truth.

864
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 1: He warns Donnell about Brandy being dangerous. Darnell did not

865
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 1: take heed, Okay, he gets caught in the crossfire. Darnell's

866
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 1: poor decision because didn't he get shot? Didn't she accidentally

867
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 1: shoot him? No, Darnell got shot.

868
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 3: No, didn't nobody get shot. They just fighting. Yeah, they

869
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 3: were tussling the good in the air and then they

870
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 3: fell out the window.

871
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: So how important do you think his character is in

872
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 1: the show.

873
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 3: Or is he?

874
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,360
Speaker 1: Is? He at fault for some of the ship Like

875
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 1: the Homeboy.

876
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,359
Speaker 3: He was complicit in the behavior a lot of the time.

877
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 3: It wasn't like because, I mean, he was the reason

878
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:00,839
Speaker 3: why he was going. It was so hard to bet

879
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 3: because he told him he couldn't get that bitch right. So,

880
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 3: I mean his character was important. But he definitely told

881
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 3: him to calm down with the foolishness before you get hurt.

882
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:14,399
Speaker 3: But it was the old I feel like it was

883
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 3: the old Nigga, the club owner who was really like

884
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,919
Speaker 3: telling him it's a thin line between no. Dela Reices

885
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 3: told him that, but he told him stop playing with

886
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 3: these bitches because when emotions get involved, somebody could get hurt.

887
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 3: And then ultimately he was he was hurting the most

888
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 3: out of everybody because this club got burned down. He

889
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 3: had heard damage, water damage, electrical damage. That bitch came

890
00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 3: through and pretty much like like your friend, like I

891
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 3: would end everything you love.

892
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: Mm hmm yeah, because I mean take it you putting

893
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 1: somebody in jailous This is essentially like metaphorically taking a

894
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: life away.

895
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 3: Right when she saw Birdie, I can't believe this is

896
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 3: the little nappy head that you played me for.

897
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: So is Brandy that stereotypical crazy ex or is her

898
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: behavior rooted in something much deeper? You know? Because men

899
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: love to say, oh this one was crazy, that one

900
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: was crazy, but they neglect to tell you the shit

901
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: that they did, you know, make them crazy? And can

902
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: somebody make you crazy? Right? Is your mental health your responsibility?

903
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 3: Oh that's a good question. Your mental health is ultimately

904
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 3: your responsibility. I was just watching something and say, like,

905
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 3: nobody could make you angry. You know, you decide to

906
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:38,439
Speaker 3: display anger based on someone else's action, and that's a choice, right.

907
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 3: So I mean I get that, but in theory, in theory, right,

908
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 3: because in real life and I'm not on that level

909
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:52,879
Speaker 3: of actual self actualization, I guess, because people do have

910
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 3: the power to hurt my feelings, to make me angry,

911
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:02,240
Speaker 3: to make me want revenge and things like that. You know. Now, Brandy,

912
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 3: although she had the right to be upset and want revenge,

913
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 3: she took it to a level that was it was

914
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 3: greater than what darnell. The consequences were greater than the action.

915
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's what I was talking about with that

916
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: severity thing, right, Who can tell me how to respond? Right? So, yes,

917
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,839
Speaker 1: my mental health and you know, all that is it

918
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: is definitely up to me. Right, But that could be

919
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:38,320
Speaker 1: like somebody, like just disrespect can be like a deadly

920
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 1: sin for somebody, and apparently it was for Brandy. So

921
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: who determines like what's serious and what's not serious?

922
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 3: Right? That's why I always say it's just in your

923
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 3: best bed to just be kind to people, because you

924
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 3: don't know what a person's mental state, and you're one

925
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 3: thing that might seem small to you might be the

926
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 3: one thing that pushed them over the top and now

927
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 3: they're in there boiling your bunny. You know what that

928
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 3: movie is?

929
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: You know what?

930
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 3: No, not a line. Fatal attraction. Oh right, yeah, that's

931
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 3: another one. That bitch went nuts. Please don't play with her.

932
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:18,800
Speaker 1: On her own.

933
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was already nuts. He didn't that was warranted.

934
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 1: But yeah she didn't. Nobody like induce that, Like she

935
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:26,879
Speaker 1: just was like that.

936
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, she just was fatally attracted to the motherfucker.

937
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. Like Brandy was minding her

938
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: fucking business because she knows she's crazy, right, you know

939
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Because I know I'm crazy. Let me

940
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 1: just and a lot of women might feel like that.

941
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 1: That might be why a lot of women now are

942
00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: choosing to be by themselves too, because they just they

943
00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: don't feel like being feeling crazy no more. They don't

944
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, the ups and downs and emotions,

945
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 1: like it's just too scary to start over for somebody else,

946
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: with somebody else and possibly go through the same shit

947
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: that you've been through in previous relationships. It's just tough.

948
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: One of the girls this past weekend, she was like, girl,

949
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:05,799
Speaker 1: the only reason why I stole date? Uh, stole fuck

950
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: with men is because I ain't gay. That's the only

951
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: reason why, Because I mean, we got we need to

952
00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: get some other sexes out here. But this is the

953
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 1: only reason why I'm so fucking with niggas, because I

954
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: don't like bitches. I love me.

955
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 3: When I was outside, when I was outside Saturday and

956
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 3: Saint and they was lining up, I was like, lord, one,

957
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,439
Speaker 3: how do I pick one? Like I don't want one?

958
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: I just say one enough things from the d m

959
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: V man A little little ticket snatches.

960
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 3: Yes, I need one of those socking pants around, baby,

961
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 3: because the niggas is outside. But then on Valentine's Day

962
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 3: when I didn't pick one, and now I'm by myself

963
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 3: on Valentine's Day, I be sad. I gotta figure it out.

964
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta. You gotta pick one and just see

965
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 1: what happened. Just I don't know, maybe you gotta write

966
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: their names on the thing and put it in a

967
00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 1: jar and shake it around and pick.

968
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 3: Went out at this point, because yes, and see what happens.

969
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: But you know things I always tell people, you know, relationships,

970
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 1: stuff like hurt. That shit kind of changes your DNA.

971
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 1: Because I am not the same person I was. I

972
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 1: would say, six years ago, like, I'm not the same

973
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: I don't have the same like emotions in relationships. I

974
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 1: just don't. And it might come off a little bit

975
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: a little cold, right, because I realized that even in

976
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 1: a relationship. And I'm not telling anybody to be selfish,

977
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: but you got to make sure you're not losing yourself

978
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: as a woman, right because we be doing all the

979
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:40,800
Speaker 1: things for a man in a relationship. You got to

980
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: make sure you still be putting yourself first. And I

981
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:44,880
Speaker 1: feel like most of the time we be putting ourselves

982
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 1: on the back burner.

983
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 3: And you don't want to end up bitter or jaded,

984
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 3: you know. And that's the hard part, because so many

985
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 3: times of being played with will ultimately make you start

986
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 3: making you turn bitter or make you start feeling jaded

987
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 3: and displaying negative you know, characteristics and characters traits toward relationships,

988
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 3: and then you end up like Brandy.

989
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen this post online. I can't I probably

990
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: won't be able to find it, but it was on

991
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: Instagram and it was a guy saying like once you break,

992
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: and it's for women in particular, no matter of fact,

993
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: it may not just just have been for women. It

994
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:25,319
Speaker 1: said Basically, once you break someone's trust, it takes like

995
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 1: X amount of time to build that trust back. So like,

996
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:32,319
Speaker 1: imagine you breaking your weird woman's trust four times out

997
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:34,360
Speaker 1: the years, like she's just finding out some bullshit, you

998
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: cheating money miss whatever it is, right, it might take

999
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 1: ten years for her to get over that shit. Who

1000
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:43,360
Speaker 1: can tell me how long it's gonna take for me

1001
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 1: to be okay with you?

1002
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 3: Right?

1003
00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: I can tell you how much it's gonna take, but

1004
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: I can't tell you how long? Right cause it you

1005
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: get me about five million dollars, Bitch, I done forgot everything,

1006
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: like he ain't nothing ever happened.

1007
00:51:58,640 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 3: We started from scratching it.

1008
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 1: You're brand new nigga. So I could tell you how

1009
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 1: much is gonna cost you, but I can't tell how

1010
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: long it's gonna take.

1011
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 3: Right, But after like think about the relationships where money

1012
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:12,839
Speaker 3: has never been an issue. You know, they've always had

1013
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 3: a bunch of money, and now you're doing shit. You

1014
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,879
Speaker 3: can't buy your way out of something that's already spent.

1015
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 3: You know you already got money, so now what right

1016
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 3: you know? But we we don't know about that. So

1017
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:25,800
Speaker 3: if you got five.

1018
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 1: Leagues, money always gonna fuck people up. It don't matter

1019
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 1: how much you got. This is why men still fight

1020
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 1: women and divorces and vice versa. Like nobody wants nobody

1021
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 1: playing with their fucking money. So money is actually where

1022
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 1: you hit them at. That's how you get people together.

1023
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm saying, if you're in a marriage where

1024
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 3: a woman has access to millions of dollars already, then

1025
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:50,840
Speaker 3: it's kind of like giving her, you know, more money.

1026
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 3: Is that gonna that's what you're saying.

1027
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I guess at that point then you well listen,

1028
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:01,680
Speaker 1: you threat divorce right, and I'm gonna take half that

1029
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: because so leaving now, So when you got millions of

1030
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: dollars already, the threat of leaving right could get your

1031
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:13,319
Speaker 1: ass killed, right that part. So money is still the root.

1032
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: Money is still going to be like the thing that'll

1033
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: make somebody stop acting up or forget right for me,

1034
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 1: For me, I don't know about everybody else, but for me,

1035
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: you know, my forgiveness can be bought. Sorry, So toxic

1036
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:40,840
Speaker 1: masculinity and accountability. So Darnell's lack of emotional maturity, the

1037
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 1: lesson and taking responsibility for how you treat people. Do

1038
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:46,879
Speaker 1: you think he learned his lessons, so now he could

1039
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 1: be in a better relationship or I guess if him

1040
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: and Mia decide to be together. His childhood friend he was.

1041
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 3: Laying in that hospital bed sipping from that straw. I

1042
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 3: think he definitely learned a valuable listening about how to

1043
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 3: handle people in their emotions.

1044
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 1: I used to be with this guy in my twenties,

1045
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 1: and I would always tell him because I'm not the

1046
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 1: crazy bitch, right, but I would always warn him. I'm like,

1047
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,359
Speaker 1: somebody gonna do something to you one day, because the

1048
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: things he would do would definitely have a crazy bitch

1049
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: doing a lot of shit to him and my ex fiance,

1050
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: Like this bitch was pulling up and knocking on the

1051
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: bedroom window and shit like that. Like that's a crazy person,

1052
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 1: and you still putting dick in her.

1053
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 3: Yeah. My grandma said she's seen somebody cut her brother.

1054
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 3: I brought him a suit and cut the suit off

1055
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 3: his ass out of the juke joint when they're young.

1056
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 3: What cutting him right out of the suit. He had

1057
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:50,839
Speaker 3: to go home and ask naked. I like him up.

1058
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 1: I guess I'm indifferent about Brandy character. I really feel

1059
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:56,719
Speaker 1: like she's not that crazy, Like she is crazy in

1060
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,839
Speaker 1: theory like she is, but she is not just right.

1061
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 3: She ain't just crazy for the strength of being crazy. No,

1062
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 3: you led her there, you took her there, and you

1063
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:11,799
Speaker 3: got you suffer the consequences of it, and that's a

1064
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 3: valuable lesson. It's a lot of people missing from this

1065
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 3: earth today because they played with somebody feelings mm hm.

1066
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:19,879
Speaker 3: And that flies to women too, y'all, y'all, don't play

1067
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 3: with these niggas because they got emotions too.

1068
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 1: And you know, there is truly a thin line between

1069
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 1: love and hate, because I believe that they're the same emotion, right,

1070
00:55:32,840 --> 00:55:36,319
Speaker 1: loving somebody and hating them. It's like, it's very, very

1071
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: extremely strong emotions, especially like being in love with somebody

1072
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: and ain't getting hurt like that shit will alter who

1073
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:47,319
Speaker 1: you are a little bit. So yeah, like just this,

1074
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 1: it's the same on different ends of the spectrum. Be

1075
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 1: fucking careful.

1076
00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 3: But they so close together. Ain't that the crazy part?

1077
00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: Mm hmm? Yeah, So set your emotional boundaries, Okay, tell

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00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:07,439
Speaker 1: people who you are upfront. Hey, I'm crazy, you put

1079
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:09,800
Speaker 1: that dick in me, raw, shit gonna get lit, Okay,

1080
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: just letting you know upfront, out of that for some reason,

1081
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 1: and they keep fucking crazy bitch. They keep putting dick

1082
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,439
Speaker 1: and the girl who be busting a card when doing

1083
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 1: stuff like that, and that is just not who I am.

1084
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:28,080
Speaker 1: So maybe that's why our relationships be going array with

1085
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: me because I'm not crazy. I know, men like mean girls.

1086
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 1: I am a mean bitch. Now I could be a

1087
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 1: mean girl, but I'm not a crazy girl. You know,

1088
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: I might sound like like your mama a little bit

1089
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:42,919
Speaker 1: when I'm telling you to do some shit.

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Speaker 3: See, I think I have I identify more with Brandy, like

1091
00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 3: I'd be nice and nice and nice and nice, and

1092
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 3: then I spit in your face, bitch, like I told

1093
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 3: Hi anything like. I know he was surprised to hear

1094
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 3: me say that because I've been like this. Sweet you know,

1095
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 3: I saw little thing the whole time again. Now you

1096
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 3: took me here and now just how I'm talking to you,

1097
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 3: and I mean it by working on that, y'all. I'm

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00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 3: working on it.

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00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, we are all work in progress, and I'm working

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Speaker 1: on not being mean. Right. It is just shit. Shit

1101
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:23,560
Speaker 1: just make you be mean sometimes. Man. That's not my

1102
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 1: normal setting either. It wasn't. It used to not be

1103
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: my normal setting. But things I've been through some shit. Okay,

1104
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 1: that just it just has me different, and I might

1105
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 1: not even care enough to be mean nowadays, so it's

1106
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: really not even I don't even say nothing anymore for real.

1107
00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 1: So that might be a problem too, because now like,

1108
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:43,720
Speaker 1: even if you don't feel like some shit is festering,

1109
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: it might be festering. And so when you finally do

1110
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 1: say something about it, it might come out in anger, right,

1111
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: because you've just been just not saying.

1112
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 3: It, holding on to it. So what's your last last

1113
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 3: for the girls and guys listening.

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Speaker 1: I'm a little bit of brandy, okay, just a tiny

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00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 1: bit of brandy, tiny tiny bit of brandy, A little

1116
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: bit of brandy. Like one of my homegirls sent the

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00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 1: nigga who she's pregnant for some balloons to his birthday

1118
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: party that his bitch planned for him. She sent congratulations

1119
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,960
Speaker 1: it's a boy, big dumb ass balloons that had him

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Speaker 1: delivered via Instacart to his birthday party. That's my level

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00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 1: of crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's nice. Yeah, that's not too much.

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00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: Just in case somebody didn't know, right, everybody who love

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00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: you that's in here, No, you got a baby on

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00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 1: the way, right, Yeah, Like I think that's nice. That's

1126
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 1: my level of crazy.

1127
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:35,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's not too much. You know, nobody gonna die,

1128
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 3: nobody getting shot, you know, that's right. But if he

1129
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 3: wasn't outside playing, that wouldn't happened to him. He wouldn't

1130
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 3: begin in balloons if he was being having integrity And

1131
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 3: I'm real honest, yeah, with some and that's my last last.

1132
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 3: Just operate with integrity and then you don't have to

1133
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 3: worry about nobody being Brandy, right, being a Brandy sending

1134
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 3: you no balloons or calling you a bitch and telling

1135
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 3: you that they gonna spit on you. You know.

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Speaker 1: Allright, y'all listen, be careful out here because Brandy's be

1137
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 1: fucking lurking, maybe lurking, y'all niggas, be careful out here

1138
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:18,919
Speaker 1: with y'all dating these these bitches. I like this, y'all.

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Speaker 1: get on kicking.

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Speaker 3: I love y'all so much. Thank y'all for tuning in

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Speaker 3: once again. Remember speak now.

1148
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Speaker 1: And never hold your crazy because fuck these niggas, because

1149
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:50,520
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