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Speaker 1: you are married and you've been lied to?

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Speaker 2: Straight up?

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Speaker 1: I mean that's it.

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Speaker 3: That's exactly what it is.

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Speaker 1: Okay, how did your husband lie to you? What happened?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, to me, this is pretty major. Maybe

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Speaker 3: it's just me, but.

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Speaker 1: Hello, are you there? Your phone work a little bit? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so you think this is pretty major? What happened?

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Speaker 3: He's been on ozema for six months and he's been

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Speaker 3: not only not telling me, but he just straight up

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Speaker 3: lied to me about it.

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Speaker 1: How did he lie to you about it?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 3: Because I mean, obviously, if he's taking azembic, he's losing weight.

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Speaker 3: So I'm asking him. I'm like, howyay, you know you're

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Speaker 3: doing oh, you know, just diet exercise, diet exercise, which, yeah,

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Speaker 3: he does work out, but he's not working out more

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Speaker 3: than he normally does. One of those people we eat

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Speaker 3: We eat pretty well. I mean, we eat pretty healthy.

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Speaker 3: We don't eat out a lot, we don't do fast

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Speaker 3: food and stuff like that very much. But he just

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Speaker 3: told me that that's all he was doing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So so he's losing all this weight. You're like, man,

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Speaker 1: you look right, it's wow. It's hard work. You know,

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Speaker 1: hard work in the gym. You know, hard work is

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Speaker 1: transformed in my life. You know, abou god tails old

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Speaker 1: as time, Paulina. I mean this is twice a day

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Speaker 1: I've said, tale so old, this tale might be and so,

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Speaker 1: but you're not. You're not lying to people and telling

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Speaker 1: them that you're, you know, out here running five case

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Speaker 1: and marathons and iron Man's and stuff. Correct.

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Speaker 5: But when it comes to my husband, I do have

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Speaker 5: to fabricate some things or move some things around. When

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Speaker 5: it comes to him, I can't be straight up because

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Speaker 5: he doesn't understand.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's my own thing. Okay, So you you find

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Speaker 1: out that he's on a how did you find out

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Speaker 1: he was an ozampic? Well, I founded in the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: So that was a little scary because you know, you

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Speaker 3: walk in and there's like a needle in the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so expects our heroin or a zempic. Yeah, rights, right,

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Speaker 1: all right, so you say something to him, You're like,

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Speaker 1: wait a minute, I found ozampic. I'm not taking it,

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Speaker 1: so it must be you. Why are you lying to

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Speaker 1: me about it? Like, why wouldn't you just tell me?

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Speaker 1: I mean we're married?

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Speaker 3: Well, because and that's that's my biggest sticking point, is

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Speaker 1: That's fine.

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Speaker 3: But his whole thing was he actually said to me, well,

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Speaker 3: I didn't tell you because it's not your business. You're

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Speaker 3: my husband. It's absolutely my business. You know, what if

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Speaker 3: he has some kind of allergic reaction to it or something.

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Speaker 3: thing and we go to the hospital and they're like,

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Speaker 3: and they treat him for something that interacts with you

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Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Like, I know, I'm probably worst

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Speaker 1: Why do you think that he was a shame to

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Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. Like the thing that people being

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Speaker 1: if it helps you and you think it's appropriate for

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Speaker 1: changing your life. And then I don't really know what

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Speaker 1: I had it. I mean, And again I don't I'm

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Speaker 1: not a physician. I don't know any of this for

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Speaker 1: But why do you think, why do you think you

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Speaker 3: Well, to be fair, he was doing the work like

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Speaker 3: but he did it on top of that too. He

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Speaker 3: again I'm just and I know I've already brought that up,

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Speaker 3: was like, Okay, I got to walk away from this

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Speaker 3: to me, well, it's my body choice. It's none of

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Speaker 3: your business. I'm going to tell you. Oh oh say,

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Speaker 3: And I was like, sir, I okay, sure so you.

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Speaker 1: For you, it's less about the ozembic use, but it's

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Speaker 3: So for you, it's the lies, it's one hundred percent

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Speaker 3: about the lies. Like he can it is his decision

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Speaker 3: He's doing it under doctor supervision, not one of those

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Speaker 3: I asked him and he lied to my face, like

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Speaker 1: Now people are texting. What one text here is is

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Speaker 1: asking about the money aspect of it, because it is

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Speaker 1: so is it such that maybe you both couldn't afford

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Speaker 1: to take it? So like he's using the money for

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Speaker 1: you both can't afford it. So he doesn't want you

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Speaker 1: to know that he's spending all the money on it.

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Speaker 1: Is that a possibility or is that not an.

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Speaker 3: Issue he had No, he actually got it covered by

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Speaker 3: insurance because medical history. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, it had nothing to do with money.

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Speaker 3: It's something he wanted to do, which again I would

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Speaker 3: I asked him how he was doing it, he had

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Speaker 1: Yeah. People are also texting that he's uh, he's probably

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Speaker 1: this body transformation for someone I don't know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess it lends itself to a lot of things

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Speaker 1: when he's lying about it, right, Like if he just

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Speaker 1: or you know, I didn't think he would support me

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Speaker 1: really anti medicine? And are you somebody who know? Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that's not it.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I'm not like an anti vaxxer or anything

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Speaker 3: like that, like I know, not at all. It was

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Speaker 3: There's literally no reason he wasn't telling me. And kind

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Speaker 3: of with what you were just saying about, like he's

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Speaker 3: looking for somebody else or whatever, it's making me question

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Speaker 1: I have noticed this though, like people who are very

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Speaker 1: it's fun to get the compliments when you're working on

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Speaker 1: necessarily working towards it. I can see the resentment. It's like,

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Speaker 1: and you're taking a shot. Everyone says how good you look.

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Speaker 1: Instantly it's like, well that sucks, But that's that's not

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Speaker 1: a reason to lie to your partner about it. I

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Speaker 1: Let me see if people have to say, Whitney, thank

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Speaker 1: you for calling. Good luck. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: You know what to do, Thanks for listening. I mean,

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Speaker 1: of course, the right thing to do is call the

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Speaker 1: radio show, call the Friend Show. When you don't know

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Speaker 1: what to do, you call the frend Show. And I'm

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Speaker 1: one of the seventeen of us on this show. We'll

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Speaker 1: give you the advice that you need. Eight five five

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Speaker 2: I would say that. I mean, first of all, we

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Speaker 2: are Mary, what what the reason there's no reason to lie?

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Speaker 2: You'll be asking too, is what happens? I also you lie? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: go ahead, it's just by experience. I mean my fiancee

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with you. I agree. Thank you, Gabby.

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Speaker 6: Like if you want, if you want to post on

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Speaker 6: Once you out me on the light, then I can't

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Speaker 1: Well, here's Luca. Luca turned your radio down. Luca and Luke,

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Speaker 1: to hang up. Well, he Luca says he lies about

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Speaker 1: being ozebic, which is why I wanted to hear. Why. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to know why you do that and turn

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Speaker 6: Well, people get socied for taking it because people are upset.

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Speaker 6: People are upset because you may choose to lose weight

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Speaker 1: But I'm not shaving people to their I'm being I'm

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Speaker 6: People get on Instagram and pretend like they're working out

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Speaker 1: And what's you're a husband's issue with it? My husband's well,

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Speaker 5: Yes, I am FA. So my husband is just like

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Speaker 5: So that's his whole spiel on the ozembic situation. I

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Speaker 5: Now, and I use it as a tool because you're right, Fred,

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Speaker 5: To get a subscription, you know my husband doesn't believe

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Speaker 4: Everybody except accept one of my children?

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Speaker 4: Because of the way people think of it. I mean,

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Speaker 1: See, I think it's really honest. I know I know

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Speaker 4: pushing the conversation. I just don't understand what you why

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Speaker 6: It's shady. No way to look at it other it's

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Speaker 6: Didn't tell you because you know, I didn't want you

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