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Speaker 1: Ever been lots of waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey, Jay, welcome to the show. How are

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Speaker 1: you okay?

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Speaker 2: Good? Just all right? So we're trying to help you

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Speaker 2: out here.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: Emma is a woman who you met somehow and went

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Speaker 1: on a date with, and you're confused about where things stand.

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Speaker 1: So kind of give us all the backstory.

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Speaker 2: What happened.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we were day and I thought it went well.

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Speaker 4: The conversation was going out, just kept going the whole time.

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Speaker 4: And so I don't I think I'm a full catch,

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Speaker 4: you know, I make a case and ravening I address well,

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Speaker 4: so I don't know what the issue is. She's like

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Speaker 4: not responding to me now, So I don't know what happened.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, So you thought this date went really well.

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Speaker 1: They all do, and and you've reached out since then

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Speaker 1: to plan another date because you felt good about it.

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Speaker 1: Except she's not responded to you at all. She's ghosting you,

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Speaker 1: leaving you on red.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know what this is, all right.

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Speaker 1: Let's call her now. Good luck? Hisu Semma? It is Hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm a good morning. My name is Fredam calling from

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show, the morning radio show, and I have

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Speaker 1: to tell you that we are on the radio right now.

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Speaker 1: I do need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 1: Can we chat for a little bit?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: I know it's a little bit startling, but you can

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Speaker 1: hang up any time. But we're calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a guy who I guess you met you on an app.

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Speaker 1: His name is Jay. Do you remember Jay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, all right, you remember Jay.

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Speaker 2: This is not sounding good. So what happened with this guy?

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Speaker 1: Because he reached out to us says that he thought

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Speaker 1: everything went really well, that you guys were getting along

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Speaker 1: and the date went well and he was excited to

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Speaker 1: see you again. But he can't get a hold of

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Speaker 1: you now. He feels like you're ghosting him. Sounds like

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Speaker 1: maybe you are, so why.

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Speaker 3: He started before we even went out, Guys, before we

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Speaker 3: even went out, he texted me, if this Jake goes well,

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Speaker 3: I'll cheek you out on my boat this summer.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and w was the focus the entire I'm not kidding.

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Speaker 2: Like at first I thought me he was joking.

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Speaker 3: I kind of ignored it, and then once I got

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Speaker 3: there to the date, I realized he wasn't like the

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Speaker 3: whole night, grated things on how stuff was going down,

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Speaker 3: like saying things like, you know, you're getting closer to

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Speaker 3: being able to to be able to come out and hang.

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Speaker 2: Out with me. You're getting closer to boat access.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Keep wow because he said that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, keep this up and we'll be getting drunk on

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Speaker 3: my boat soon, like going off.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so we were we using the boat as a tool.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, the honor of being chosen to be on

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Speaker 1: the boat this summer.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, because I've heard of women using men for boats,

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Speaker 1: but I've never heard of him. Well maybe I think

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Speaker 1: men do it indirectly, but I guess I've never heard

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Speaker 1: of anyone like hanging that over your head, like if

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Speaker 1: you're a good girl, then you could come on my

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Speaker 1: boat this summer. I forgot to mention the Jay is here,

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Speaker 1: Captain j Jay. What I mean? What are why are we?

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Speaker 1: Why are we operating like that? Why not just have

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Speaker 1: a good time and things go well? And then and

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Speaker 1: then you ask her on the boat when it's boating season.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't I'm listening to all this and

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Speaker 4: I don't see an issue likes with Carol for a spot.

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Speaker 1: On my boat a spot on the roster.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean I thought I had a good thing, Like,

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Speaker 4: you know, I have a boat and everyone wants to get.

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Speaker 2: On it, and like I just like a waiting list

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Speaker 2: or something.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I do say and be nice

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Speaker 1: to everyone because you don't know who might.

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Speaker 2: Have a boat.

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Speaker 1: I mean that is truth. Yeah, it's it's not having

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Speaker 1: a friend with the boat. I mean I get that

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Speaker 1: you'll get on it, but like how many women are

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Speaker 1: you trying to get on this boat? Like my question

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Speaker 1: is are you trying to date now? Because like, okay,

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Speaker 1: we got a little a little bit to go before

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Speaker 1: it's time to pull the boat out. And I mean

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Speaker 1: are you trying to stack the deck here? I mean

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Speaker 1: are we recruiting? Is this some sort of like a

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Speaker 1: lineup or what are we doing?

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Speaker 4: I just I just thought.

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Speaker 1: That would be a good selling point, Like I have

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Speaker 1: a boat. Yeah, do you have a boat? I was

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Speaker 1: unfamiliar with it. It's a boat like that goles in

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Speaker 1: the lake and stuff. Wow, that's incredible. Does this work

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Speaker 1: a lot of times? Like do women are they more

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Speaker 1: interested in you because of the boat or are you

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Speaker 1: over compensating?

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's because of my boat.

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Speaker 4: I just think they just liked me because me and

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Speaker 4: then I just also have a boat.

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Speaker 2: Right right, I can see that.

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Speaker 1: So I am not really impressed with the opportunity that

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Speaker 1: lie ahead if you behave yourself, No, not for me.

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Speaker 3: Maybe if you would have led with like who you

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Speaker 3: are versus your boat as your identity, like okay, but

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Speaker 3: no it's not for me.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, we've lost access to the boat.

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Speaker 2: Boy, what a higher we could get you on a boat?

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Speaker 2: We don't need to be on his boat. Oh I

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Speaker 2: don't like him for you people, I mean she emma

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Speaker 2: just lost access to the boat. A very good girl,

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Speaker 2: a dean. Are we talking about like a full sized yacht?

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Speaker 2: What are we out here? Buddy? Do you want to

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Speaker 2: get on a boat?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Well? Will he'll do?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Right? Is it like a big boat? Is it a

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Speaker 2: little boat? To have a bathroom? Him on it? What

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Speaker 2: kind of you know? Are you the captain? Now? Say

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about your favorite topic?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 2: Are you there?

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Speaker 4: It's a it's a big boat.

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Speaker 2: Never mind, that's much work. Yeah, I wonder that list

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Speaker 2: is getting shorter. Yeah, that's too much work. He needs

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Speaker 2: workers to right, don't host the sale? He needs a.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's too much work. Never mind what we're doing

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Speaker 1: over here? You got the sext it out? What are

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Speaker 1: we looking at the compass?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, I'm not taking a sailboat to the

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Speaker 2: play pen.

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Speaker 1: Hold hold certain, all right, never mind, this is not

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Speaker 1: nearly a sexy Kaylin's out. Everyone's out is out, all right?

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Speaker 1: Laughing with your sailboat? Uh do you weark like your

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Speaker 1: sweater tied around your neck?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 2: Do you do that?

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Speaker 3: Jam?

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Speaker 2: I do not know?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, captain, Well, Emma, thank you for your time. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: it's not going to work out. Jay, good luck out

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Speaker 1: there with the sailboat that changed everything. Everybody in here,

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Speaker 1: drive up, everybody?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry man,