1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 2 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,480 Speaker 2: Can your high school drama follow you long after graduation? 3 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 3: No, Jack, I think the answer is yes, no, considering 4 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,959 Speaker 3: someone on this show was paying child support to two 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:22,600 Speaker 3: different women he was with on prom night. 6 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: Oh we know it's not you. 7 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:25,800 Speaker 4: You didn't have that. 8 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: Much of a fun on the one hand, yikes. On 9 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: the other hand, fist bumpet Jose. That's pretty sweet, well done, bro, 10 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: But it can follow you. 11 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 2: And that's why one of our listeners, Janis, has emailed 12 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 2: the show for help because of some old high school 13 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: drama that's come back to haunt her years later. 14 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: Janice, welcome to the show. 15 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 4: Hey, thank you so much for having me. 16 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 5: Oh this is what happens when you get on Facebook. 17 00:00:50,479 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 5: Can you find all those old people? But you just 18 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 5: got to stay off of that social media site. 19 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: I remember you? 20 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 4: Yes? 21 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: Is that how it happened? You reconnected with somebody over Facebook? 22 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:05,639 Speaker 4: No? No, I have, but no, not this particular person. 23 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: Okay, who's this person? 24 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 4: So? This is Scott? This is a guy dated you 25 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 4: know in high school. We weren't like sweethearts or anything, 26 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 4: but we dated. 27 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 5: Would you consider him an ex boyfriend, like dated him 28 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 5: that much. 29 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 4: Absolutely, he was definitely an ex boyfriend. We dated like 30 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 4: four or five months. 31 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 1: Like brooking her gym teacher. Okay, so I think we understand. 32 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 6: You, mister Dexter. 33 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: Sorry, I bet you he was. 34 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: Still He's in jail now, so he can't do this, Janie, 35 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 2: what's going on with you and this ex boyfriend? 36 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 1: Did you say Scott was his name? 37 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 4: Scott? Yeah? I mean that was seventeen years ago and 38 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 4: I have not seen him since then. 39 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 6: Okay, what's the drama. 40 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 3: He never officially broke up and now you're calling him 41 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 3: to be like, are we spreading? 42 00:01:55,680 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 4: Tell you? 43 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 6: I'm guessing she ran into him or something? 44 00:01:59,120 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 4: Right? 45 00:01:59,480 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: What happened? 46 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 4: Yes? I read into him and it was not a 47 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,559 Speaker 4: good breakup. First of all, I was not a good breakup. 48 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: Who broke up with? 49 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 4: Who? Well? I broke up with him mad apparently because. 50 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 6: I was kidding. Wait, he actually is still mad. 51 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 4: Let meybody would happen? A few weeks ago, I run 52 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 4: into him at curriculum night at my kids' school. My 53 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 4: kid is three years old. I mean, I'm sorry, my 54 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 4: kid is in third grade, not three years old. 55 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 6: Three years old at one point, so it's all the same. 56 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: Okay. 57 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 4: I saw him and I was like, wait, does that 58 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,959 Speaker 4: really him? Like I hadn't even really recognized him, and 59 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 4: I was excited. I hadn't thought about him in years. 60 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:42,399 Speaker 4: I was like, hey, you know, how's everything going. And 61 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 4: he revealed that he recently moved to the area and 62 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 4: put his kid in school. And I thought it was 63 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 4: kind of fun to see him and catch up, and 64 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 4: I thought that everything was or whatever. But I kind 65 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 4: of got the feeling though that I was a little 66 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 4: bit more excited than he was. 67 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 5: I hate that, and like you, I don't realize it 68 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 5: until you're like a good ten minutes into conversation and 69 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 5: then you're like, oh, I maybe need to dial it back. 70 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:08,239 Speaker 6: It happens to me alive. 71 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, what makes you say that he didn't seem as 72 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: excited as you. 73 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 4: Wow, that's what I thought in my mind. I thought 74 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 4: pretty much everything was in the past. But then the 75 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 4: next week, my kid comes home from school. She's in 76 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 4: tears and she said that a kid was mean to her, 77 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 4: and I'm like, oh, and she's like, god, son, your. 78 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 2: Ex boyfriend's child is being mean to your child and 79 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 2: a son, well, okay, lock him up now. 80 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 6: Does that have anything to do with his dad? 81 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 4: Well, he said to my daughter, He's like, will you 82 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 4: marry me? And my daughter was staying along and she 83 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 4: goes okay, yeah, and then he says, well, now I 84 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 4: dump you like your mom dumped my dad. 85 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 6: He's still talking about it that he's talking about it 86 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 6: so much. That is grader what happened? 87 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 2: He just told the third grader, hay, if you ever 88 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 2: see this little girl do it, it will be funny. 89 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: Well, can can we acknowledge sick burn? 90 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 2: First? Like, come on, let's give us some credit to 91 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 2: this third grader that's that's still talking about it at home. 92 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 4: Exactly you should be talking about anything like that, especially 93 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 4: to his son, like is. 94 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 5: He a single dad or does he have a partner, 95 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 5: because that's even crazier that he would be talking about it. 96 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 2: And if men at the school are single again okay, 97 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 2: bolly question married? 98 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 1: Oh okay. 99 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 2: He told the son to do it, spelled out. 100 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,720 Speaker 1: It was like bank her, it's going to be funny. 101 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 6: How immature would you have to be? 102 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 1: I'm that immature? 103 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 4: I know son right now? 104 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: He has two sons from that prom night. I'm still 105 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: paying for it. 106 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 4: Forgot about. 107 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: Trying to find you to get those checks. 108 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 6: I am just shocked for you. 109 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, Janes, you think that your ex boyfriend from high 110 00:05:05,880 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: school is somehow behind it? 111 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean I think he's somehow trying to get 112 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 4: even with me break it out with him seventeen years 113 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 4: ago by putting out children against each other. 114 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god? 115 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 6: So what have you talked to him at all about it? 116 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 4: No? But I want to know what should I say 117 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 4: because I need to talk to him, Like this is insane. 118 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 2: Now, do you want to call Scott or do you 119 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 2: want to call his son? 120 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 1: Kill the kid? Really? Okay? 121 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 6: Well, and this is so awkward. 122 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 5: It's not like you can go to the teacher and 123 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 5: be like, hey, so my ex boyfriend's son he's in 124 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 5: a class, like. 125 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: You need to force their marriage. 126 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 6: That makes you look so unprofessional. 127 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 2: Okay, So you want to reach out to your ex 128 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 2: boyfriend now? And what are you hoping to get. 129 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: From the call? 130 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 4: I want some clarity and I want him to know 131 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 4: that's unacceptable. Don't ever do that again? Like, I don't 132 00:05:58,279 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 4: play that I have with. 133 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 2: You Like that is so beyond Like, well, let's think 134 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 2: of some advice for what to say to your ex 135 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 2: boyfriend together that. 136 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,239 Speaker 6: He sounds like a loser. 137 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 2: Well, we don't have to regress to third grade name 138 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 2: call it just yet, but we'll come up with something 139 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 2: for you with your awkward Tuesday phone call right after 140 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 2: this hold on, it's awkward. 141 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 4: It's Tuesday. 142 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 143 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 2: Seventeen years ago, our listener Janis broke up with her 144 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 2: high school boyfriend Scott, and then just last week saw 145 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 2: him at a curriculum night at school. What are the 146 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 2: chances they both have third graders in the exact same class? 147 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 5: Now, wow, pretty good since they grew up in the 148 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 5: same area and they were the same high school and 149 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:52,799 Speaker 5: they probably still the same but you know, yeah, sure, Jeffy. 150 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 2: Everybody gets married and has kids at exactly the same time. 151 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 2: But everything was fine until incident happened on the playground 152 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 2: the next week, Janis, will you remind our listeners of 153 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 2: what was said? 154 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, so, basically Scott's son, he goes to my daughter 155 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 4: and he says, will you marry me? My daughter playing 156 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 4: along is like sure, yeah, and he's like cool, Now 157 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 4: I'll dump you like your mom did my dad. 158 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 5: Oh God, I thought it feels better the second time. 159 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 6: It doesn't hear. 160 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 2: It, and now she wants to call Scott the ex boyfriend, 161 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 2: because it needs to be addressed and squashed. 162 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: Now, Brooke, how should she handle this this? 163 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 6: I would so not be good at Janie. 164 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 5: But you need to take the drama out of it, 165 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 5: and you've just got to make it a parent to 166 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 5: parent conversation. You can't bring up the old relationship. 167 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 6: Crap. 168 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 5: These are our kids we're talking about, and that's what 169 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 5: we need to focus on. Okay, does that make sense? 170 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: Focus on the kids? 171 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: Okay, don't focus on the kids, she said, focus on 172 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 2: the parent to parent. 173 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 5: Jeff, that would be the kids. Yeah, focus on the 174 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 5: kids as you're a parent. You're just talking to a parent. 175 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 5: I'm not talking to your ex boyfriend. 176 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 2: Don't bring up the past relationship that you two had 177 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 2: in the drama there. Just focus on the kid drama. 178 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 6: Oh my god, you talk to any other parents? 179 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 4: Thank you? 180 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 5: Alexis Okay, talk all right. 181 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 2: I'm not sure what the advice was, but Janas, if 182 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 2: it made sense to you, then it makes sense. 183 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: Jose what do you think? 184 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 4: Well? 185 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: I think you do talk about the past. No, right, 186 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: Once you bring up an old. 187 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 2: Positive memory, you guys are gonna bond get him on 188 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 2: your side. 189 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 3: He's probably way more likely to do something after you, 190 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 3: guys reminisce he's rather than just you off. 191 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 6: He's not over the relationship though, don't you say. 192 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: You don't know that? Good time though, bring it up. 193 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 5: He would want people who are over it, don't do 194 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 5: the petty stuff like this. 195 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: Not fair to blame him before we've even heard him speak. 196 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 2: We don't know what has. 197 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:50,319 Speaker 1: Been said by him. 198 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 6: His kids said, absolutely, that's his fault. 199 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's slapped. It was an awesome joke. I respect 200 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: him for it, but I don't know. So let's find out. 201 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 2: We're gonna dial Scott for you and let you talk 202 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 2: to your ex boyfriend. Hopefully you two can work it 203 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 2: out on your own terms. If not, we'll jump in 204 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 2: and provide a little bit of assistance. 205 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 4: Okay, Oh my god, it sounds so weird when you 206 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 4: guys say ex boyfriend, Like, I literally have not thought 207 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 4: about him in that way in such a long time. 208 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: Okay, well, sorry to get your own excited. 209 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 6: I just feel back to this guy's wife. 210 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 2: My god, we don't know anything about him, bro, other 211 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: than his kids said something kind of funny on the playground. 212 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 1: Let's hang out. 213 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 2: Let's hear one word from him first before we judge 214 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 2: his character. That's all I'm saying. 215 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:38,839 Speaker 1: Let's let a man speak once. 216 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 4: The show. 217 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:49,599 Speaker 1: All right, Jannis, good luck, we're here. I'm dialing it now. 218 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 4: Well, hey, well it's me Janice from high school. Yeah, 219 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 4: I remember we saw each other a few weeks ago. Yes, 220 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:18,319 Speaker 4: and I realized this is awkward. But I'm calling because 221 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 4: of a situation at school that happened the other day 222 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 4: and I wanted to talk to you first, not the 223 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 4: teachers or the principal, just between me, you know, you 224 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 4: and I. Oh sounds serious. 225 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 5: What happened? 226 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it kind of was. I mean, your son came 227 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 4: to my daughter asked her to marry him. She's like, yeah, 228 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:42,199 Speaker 4: of course. And he's like yeah, so now I'm want 229 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 4: to dump you like your mom did my dad. Oh yeah, 230 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 4: I told him to say that. Yeah. I thought it'd 231 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 4: be funny. Why do you think this is funny? You 232 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 4: think I always? Come on? Just come on, like, thinking 233 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 4: back a long, it was funny. Conchatch it. 234 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: It's funny. 235 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 4: Got You shouldn't be bringing out kids into this. 236 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: Come on, My kid's great. 237 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 4: I don't know about your kids. My kid loved it. 238 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 4: I see what this is going. This was seventeen years ago, 239 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 4: and you need to let it go. No, you need 240 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 4: to let the fact that this is awkward go like 241 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 4: it was supposed to be like oh haha, I remember, 242 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 4: like let's catch up kind of thing. But you're taking 243 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 4: it long. No, I'm not taking it wrong. When my 244 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 4: child is coming home crying, he couldn't be crying. I 245 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 4: was crying. No children, Yeah, she will. Oh yeah, did 246 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 4: you explain to her that it was a sick burn 247 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 4: and she should stop crying. Oh? You know what, you 248 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 4: need to let this crap go. Was seventeen years ago. 249 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 4: Like I broke up with you for a reason because 250 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:53,840 Speaker 4: you were a jerk. Then you're a jerk now nothing changed, 251 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 4: so it's fair. That's fair. Okay. I take that well, Listen. 252 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:00,079 Speaker 4: I didn't mean anything by it, just so you know, 253 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 4: I don't want any feud with you, Janice, Okay. I 254 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 4: just thought it would be funny. And for the record, 255 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 4: if we're considering families, your family got dumped the latest. 256 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 4: If we're you know, be technical, I'm happy to see 257 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 4: if you're still the jerk Scott anyway, I would appreciate 258 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:18,400 Speaker 4: it if you would speak to your son and make 259 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 4: sure that he never plays any type of joke on 260 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 4: my daughter. Again. We don't find that fair. No, fair, 261 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 4: that's fair. I don't want any issues. I'll make sure 262 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,839 Speaker 4: that my son apologies about that. You know what I 263 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 4: would think would make it better what my daughter asked 264 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 4: your son to marry him and he says yes, and 265 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 4: then the second that he does, she'll just freaking dumb them. 266 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:43,079 Speaker 5: Oh all right, okay, the same thing that his kid 267 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 5: just did to your kids. 268 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 4: All right, Jannis, that's really nice. 269 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know if Scott's hearing us. Scott, what's 270 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:51,839 Speaker 1: going on? 271 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 4: Who are these people? 272 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, Scott, you're on a radio show called Brooke and 273 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning right now. 274 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 6: Don't worries that the high school listening it in? 275 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, you have no You have no idea how 276 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 2: much I was trying to defend you before we made 277 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 2: this phone call. 278 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I. 279 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 6: Wasn't gonna ask for anyone to tell me I was right. 280 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 4: Why didn't you give me like a brief You should 281 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 4: have gave me like a briefing telling me I was 282 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 4: going to be on the radio. I would have answered 283 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 4: much better. 284 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 1: Well, you wouldn't. 285 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,439 Speaker 6: Yes, it's like I wouldn't have been honest, is what 286 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 6: he's saying. 287 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 5: Scott, what are you doing telling your kid to do 288 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 5: that to Janice's kid? 289 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 6: Me ignoring you should have to do it? Bay, You 290 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 6: sound just like her. 291 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 4: You can't take a joke. 292 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: Okay. 293 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 5: Kids aren't supposed to be the butt of joke, you know, like, 294 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 5: you don't use them as your little joke machine. 295 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: Unless it's really really funny. 296 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 6: Unmust the kids understand it? 297 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 4: My joke machine is state of the art, thank you. 298 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 2: Okay, But Scott, what we're doing here is a segment 299 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 2: called the Awkward Tuesday Phone Call. Our entire goal was 300 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 2: to help our listener, Janis squash this weird, dumb beef 301 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 2: going on between your two kids over what sounds like 302 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 2: your guys' relationship from seventeen years ago your. 303 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 6: High school girlfriend dumped you. Who cares? 304 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, du. 305 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 1: Now you're saying exactly what his kids says. 306 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 5: I was trying to make it as like it's not 307 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 5: a big deal, not as a burns like. 308 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, like jokes and sick burns aside. Is there 309 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 2: any way that you two can just find a middle 310 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 2: ground for the sake of your children. 311 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 5: And just coexist, I mean, honestly without any of your 312 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 5: past coming up, Like. 313 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 1: Let's call a truce. 314 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I found this situation mostly funny. 315 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, well, so you gotta respect that a little bit. 316 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: It wasn't the kid, it wasn't malicious. 317 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 2: But the effects were negative. And Scott, you have to 318 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 2: acknowledge that. 319 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 4: I mean, I'll acknowledge it because I'm on the radio, 320 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 4: but as soon as I'm off the air, I'm taking 321 00:14:57,160 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 4: it back. Oh. 322 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 6: I am so annoyed with this guy. 323 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 4: I mean, real mature s guy. Can't you just do 324 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 4: what they suggested and call it trus like we're in 325 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 4: our thirties now, this is true, This is the truth. Okay. 326 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 6: Why do I feel like he's got his fingers crossed? 327 00:15:20,040 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: You find the whoopee cushion? 328 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I'll tell my kids to back off. Well 329 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 4: it's all good, Okay, Well there we go. 330 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 6: That was the first saying thing we've heard. 331 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 2: We have peace on the playground after seventeen years of 332 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 2: high school drama. 333 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 4: Ye yay. 334 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 6: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning