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Speaker 1: Her husband wants me to be out of the picture,

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Speaker 1: but I can't give him my child. Am I the actfule?

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Speaker 2: You know? I think there's really a solution here bone

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Speaker 2: the husband three way marriage, baby way marriage.

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Speaker 1: Polygamy is always the solution. It really is. Opened that

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Speaker 1: up and squeeze that dick in. Yes, look, I know

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Speaker 1: it's my choice and I have a right to say no,

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Speaker 1: but right now it feels like the rest of the

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Speaker 1: world doesn't agree. So honestly, I twenty six male, don't

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Speaker 1: know this woman that well. When we first met through

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Speaker 1: a dating site, she was thirty five and, according to

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Speaker 1: her profile, was single. Hmmmmm, very interesting.

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Speaker 2: I also heard this twenty six year old male's name

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Speaker 2: rhymes with Damuel Sonner.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it is one of my illegitimate It was one

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Speaker 1: of my illegitimate children. Ah, I am secretly putting in

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Speaker 1: my own stories into OKOPI ooh, that actually might be true?

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Speaker 1: Is this story for me? Is the last one who knows?

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Speaker 1: You find out she ever told me she was married.

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Speaker 1: We went out on a few dates for four months

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Speaker 1: until she told me she wasn't interested anymore, so bing

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Speaker 1: bang boom, she zooms out of the life boom. I

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Speaker 1: later found out it was because her husband was getting

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Speaker 1: It hadn't been that long since we had slept together,

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Speaker 1: and she confessed everything. Her husband still doesn't know yet

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Speaker 1: because she wanted to find out who the father was. First,

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Speaker 1: we did the pre natal paternity test and confirm that

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Speaker 1: her baby is also mine. Oh no, oh, pe, what

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Speaker 1: did you learn in sex health? Man? You gotta wrap up, you, Jimmy.

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Speaker 1: You gotta wrap it before you tap it. That's right.

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Speaker 1: You gotta bag it before you give the old hagot

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Speaker 1: or before you one. Maybe you know she's thirty five,

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Speaker 1: he's twenty six, exactly. I'm not calling thirty five year

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Speaker 1: old old Hags. To be clear, Samuel Donners breaking news.

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Speaker 1: She had to tell him after that, and it was

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Speaker 1: an absolute shoe. He wanted to speak to me and

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Speaker 1: called me like crazy. She got him to leave me

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Speaker 1: alone after telling him. I never knew about her being married.

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Speaker 1: We were both lied to her. Honestly, it sounds like

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Speaker 1: it's in a lot in comment. Yeah, really, like like

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Speaker 1: about it for dinner. Yeah, get it, Get drinks, yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: hot in here. Oh goodness, let's take off all our clothes.

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Speaker 1: These woods are reminding men don't don't would Okay, they're

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Speaker 1: apparently trying to work things out. But here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: Her husband wants me completely out of the picture picture frame,

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Speaker 1: husband out of there and is willing to adopt my baby. Bro.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you got you gotta get out of

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Speaker 1: But I have to terminate my parental right. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: his only condition, or he's divorcing her and taking their

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Speaker 1: two kids. Interesting, So it's like, literally, op is going

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Speaker 1: to make her break this marriage.

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Speaker 2: If there's one thing we know, ultimatums always work.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I actually think this is a great foundation

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Speaker 2: Of this marriage. Yeah, really sturdy ground right here. Either

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Speaker 1: Leaving you in the dust. You are dusty. Don't know

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Speaker 1: if you can actually do that, But she's begging me

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Speaker 1: Maybe you should have thought of that before you jan. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: didn't pay attention to physics class. Every action has an

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Speaker 1: there is an update, pretty juicy update. But John, what

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Speaker 1: do you think? What should Opie do as certain his

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Speaker 2: Sounds like Opie wants to be in the child's life.

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Speaker 2: So if that's what Opie wants, he has every right

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Speaker 1: Let's go. It's been a while since I posted this,

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Speaker 1: and a lot has happened since then. And by a lot,

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Speaker 1: I mean I finally became a dad. Oh wait, my

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Speaker 1: So here's what happened. Oh. I decided to try again

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Speaker 1: She lied about him still having this condition, and this

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Speaker 1: I actually have two kids and a wife. Whoa. The

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Speaker 1: wife says, hey, actually, if you carry this baby to term,

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Speaker 1: we will adopt it. What do you do? That's the question?

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Speaker 1: And fellas, what would you do if you were an

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Speaker 1: OP situation? That's right, So I just gender swapped it.

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Speaker 1: But whoa, I want to know what everyone would do.

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Speaker 1: Put your answers to the comments below immediately and we'll

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Speaker 1: see you soon. So I confronted the homophobic bully. But

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Speaker 1: How did you confront the homophobe bully? You afraid of wieners?

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Speaker 1: How about this weiener? They called me the spider manmaher.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like a sitcom? It does it? Does? It

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Speaker 2: So I am not ashamed of my family, so I

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Speaker 1: Wow, which one of them is the mom good one? Duncan,

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Speaker 2: Which I promptly told the teacher, Missus Smith, who was like, he's.

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Speaker 2: Well, Duncan started to escalate. Oh my god, enjoy your

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Speaker 1: It'll get worse when your sinner family goes to Hell. Ah,

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Speaker 2: Benefit of the doubt removed, revoked, and again when I

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Speaker 1: Be prejudiced with his religion. It's wrong in the Bible.

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Speaker 1: He's just trying to understand. Bro Man's not trying to understand.

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Speaker 1: He just said, you're going to hell. Logic.

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Speaker 2: In my country, every class has only one responsible teacher,

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Speaker 1: There's only one responsible teacher.

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Speaker 2: I have many examples, but this paints the picture. After

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Speaker 2: The fox and the hound. It didn't take long for

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Speaker 1: Thank you. She let me tell the whole story.

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Speaker 2: Even when mister Smith tried to interrupt me to defend Duncan.

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Speaker 1: Sweet, there we go. When we left the office, mister

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Speaker 2: Because you decided to weaponize your femininity instead of being

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Speaker 1: Bro, Why aren't you getting mad at Duncan for being

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Speaker 1: I'll suffer because they choose to love each other, and

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Speaker 1: I'll not bring anything I can handle to worry them.

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Speaker 1: Oh huh oh p oh p don't inside.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't feel like I'm wrong, But with mister

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Speaker 2: Smith's warning and Duncan's friends, I'm starting to doubt. So

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Speaker 2: update that we will get to, But I mean, I

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Speaker 1: No, Op, He's not the a hole, even like like

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Speaker 1: is off the rockers. First of all, amber Heard punched

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Speaker 1: same thing at all, not at all, But there is more.

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Speaker 2: First, I like to thank you guys for opening my

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Speaker 2: I set my dad's down and told them everything. I

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Speaker 2: angry side of Adam, my other dad, not at me,

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Speaker 2: always have my family behind me. OPI has like the

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Speaker 2: best dads ever. This is absolutely correct. Wow, this is beautiful.

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Speaker 2: He thanked me for loving them so much that I

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Speaker 2: and told her everything.

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Speaker 1: Oh they're about that throw it down the spiders.

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Speaker 2: Bum gets back up about the texts I had showed

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Speaker 2: I gave all the infol I could, I was asked

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Speaker 2: miss Yates two choices. She could remove mister Smith from

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Speaker 2: and LGBT causes that my dads were willing to pay for.

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Speaker 2: Or they could remove me from the school, sue the school,

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Speaker 1: Wow, that is ultimatum. That is bricking two choyson. You

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Speaker 1: got two options, lady, really you only got one? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Pick Wisely, she chose the first option smart, but asked

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Speaker 2: for a month to find another teacher. Meanwhile, she will

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Speaker 2: monitor my class closely and mister Smith won't be allowed

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Speaker 2: to penalize my grades like some of you guys feared.

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Speaker 2: Apparently Adam has a bit more experience dealing with this

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Speaker 2: A new co host is into the chat, and that

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Speaker 2: He told me that many children from public schools like

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Speaker 2: have the support we got this time. So nothing really extraordinary.

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Speaker 2: It all went like many of you guys predicted. Duncan

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Speaker 2: won't bully any more of us. He was real asshole

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Speaker 2: in this situation. Also, my papa is awesome.

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Speaker 1: Ain't a badass? Agreed wholeheartedly agree. Yeah, for real, I'm

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Speaker 1: glad that this call got resolved.

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Speaker 2: Pretty sick, yeah, I mean real shout out to Adam

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Speaker 1: The way that she someone to go to bat for

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Speaker 1: First, I think the five days suspension for Duncan was good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think that's kind of like around what it deserved.

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Speaker 2: Like, if I anytime you find that, it's got to

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Speaker 1: Kept going at her insanity exactly. Yeah, so I think

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Speaker 1: There's gotta be other encounters like this exactly. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: what are like the weirdest punishments or worst punishments or

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Speaker 1: your classroom cries for help, so put them in the

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