WEBVTT - Kellie Pickler 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:14.920 Carola, She's the queen of talking. He was sown your man. 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:18.239 She's only this side. She got the snoop on the 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:21.439 on the ones to side. No one can do with 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:36.280 Cliel Carola, Carola, no one can do with quiet Carali Carola. Hey, y'all, 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:39.800 welcome to Hyper Caroline Hobby. I am your host, Caroline Hobby. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:42.479 I know music, I know people, and I know the 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.400 questions do you want to ask? So let's get Hyper 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:49.440 heads up. These are adults having adult conversations, so there 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:53.720 could be adult content. This episode is so fun because 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:58.520 I have Kelly Pickler in the house. What I freaking 0:00:58.760 --> 0:01:02.680 love Kelly Pickler. Who doesn't love Kelly Pickler? Oh wait, 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:05.479 that's why there should be a show on CNT called 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:08.960 I Love Kelly Pickler. And it's happening now. We're on 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:13.120 season two. It's airing every Thursday, and it's so fun. 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.399 I'm on the cast with her, and we've gotten into 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:19.280 some crazy adventures like family feud with Steve Harvey, finding 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:23.120 Jennifer Wayne a date, Kyle and Ken go to the 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:25.800 dog park and find her a man, and just stuff 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:27.680 that we've gotten into already has been crazy, and there's 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:29.480 so much more to come. So Kelly is here and 0:01:29.480 --> 0:01:32.000 we're going to talk about what to expect. And I 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:34.559 love Kelly Pickler and and Kelly Pickler's world in general. 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:41.240 Here she is. We have two cheers, or as we 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:43.480 say in Japan, because I learned a little bit of 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:45.320 Japanese while I was over there, because you went to 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:47.760 Japan for I Love Kelly Pickler, we did. I got 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:50.600 to hear all about it. It was amazing. The most 0:01:50.720 --> 0:01:56.720 important Japanese word that I learned was come pie. Tell 0:01:56.800 --> 0:02:00.360 me about come high. Comepi means cheers, come pile, come 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:06.480 come fie, come f come fie, and that means cheers. 0:02:07.840 --> 0:02:10.760 So tell me about Japan. What is the traditions of Japan? 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:12.959 Because you go there for the season finale of I 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:16.200 Love Kelly Picker, which season two started airing, we're gonna 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:18.680 be three episodes in by the time this podcast airs. Yes, 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:20.560 we're gonna do a little recap right now. We'll talk 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:22.960 about the future. You wright the whole thing up by 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:25.280 going to jumpan Well, we don't know if they're gonna 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:27.720 make it the season finale or if it's going to 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:30.120 be earlier in the show yet, because we can't wait 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:32.079 to see it. We can't well, we can't wait, we 0:02:32.160 --> 0:02:34.600 can't wait. We had the best time, so Colin I 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:38.640 we packed up her suitcases, flew off to Asia, first 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:43.959 time to Asia. Yes, to Japan, Tokyo, and it was incredible. 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:46.000 It was so wonderful. What is it like over there? 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:51.799 It is, well, Tokyo. We went to the observatory and 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:55.959 it made New York City look like our hometowns. Really 0:02:56.240 --> 0:03:00.239 like Waco and album Marble Wake I Texas. We're on 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:05.919 with Carolina seriously made crazy. It's so big. There's just 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:10.280 buildings and buildings and buildings. It's like a sea of cement, 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:15.040 cement jungle, it is. But it's so wonderful that people 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.840 are so great, And what if people like in Japan. 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.600 And by the way, if you'all hear big country music fans, 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:23.480 if y'all hear lawnmowers, someone's filling your lawn next door, 0:03:23.840 --> 0:03:25.359 we just like to give you some flavor. It's a 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:29.240 background noise, yes, put our background music. It's a weed 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:32.239 whacker over there, a weed whacker. This is country. This 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:37.200 is country podcast, Country Podcast, Country Carolina. Hey, yeah, okay, 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:41.320 so people love country music in Japan, yeah, really like 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:45.000 they love traditional country music. They love the pop and 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:50.120 what's going on now, but there's big like country music traditionalists. 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:54.920 They're like Dolly Tammy, they know all the classics. So 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:57.520 it really we had a ball. We had a blast. 0:03:57.720 --> 0:04:01.760 So tell me what inspired you to go to Japan for? 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:04.720 To wrap up the show? I love Kelly Pickler season two. Well, 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:09.880 you know, I, Um, I'm an adventure you love it. 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:12.360 I live out of a suitcase. You live out of 0:04:12.400 --> 0:04:15.680 a suitcase too. But you need to travel absolutely. I've 0:04:15.720 --> 0:04:20.320 always said that regardless of what um job I have 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:24.400 as a you know, my profession, whatever it is, it 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:27.440 has to enable me to travel. You want to see 0:04:27.480 --> 0:04:31.000 the world made as many people as I can, different 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:35.480 types of people, study the culture. Um, soak up the 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:39.120 atmosphere and I don't know, it was amazing, so wonderful. 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:42.000 Where does that love of people and culture and traveling 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:44.520 come from? Like? What do you what does I like 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:47.760 to talk about souls? What is your soul wanting? Are 0:04:47.839 --> 0:04:50.400 you just wanting to know people experience things like what 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:54.680 is that that drives that? You know? I think? Um, 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:58.920 I mean I don't know, you know, off the bat, 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:02.720 but I feel in my soul if we're talking soul sister. 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:07.680 You know, conversation here Um, growing up in such a 0:05:07.880 --> 0:05:11.280 tiny little town where you know, you know what you 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:13.280 know and you don't know what you don't know. And 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:17.880 I've always been that person, that little curious George, little 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:22.280 explorer that wanted to push the boundaries and go you 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:25.920 don't want me to go over here? Why what's over there? 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:31.080 What's over there? For myself? And make your own absolutely 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:35.680 so you know, for me, Um, I just from the 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:38.440 time as as far back as I can remember, I've 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:40.560 always wanted to, like I said, live out of a 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:44.680 suitcase and see the world, meet as many different kinds 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:47.400 of people that I can. Why do you believe what 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:51.640 you believe? Tell me? You know, like I'm so curious 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:58.520 about um human just the human race, and UM what 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:02.839 makes you you? So you're not one of those people 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:05.240 that's like, well, this is the way I was raised, 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:06.720 and this is how I was taught, and this is 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:09.920 the way it is. I will not form my opinion 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:13.400 based on yours. I will form my own opinion based 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:15.440 on my own experience. So you need to get out 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:18.599 there and experience. They have to see the world, and well, 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:22.239 I mean it goes hand in hand It's like, there's 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:25.040 always gonna be people that love you, there's gonna be 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:28.440 people that don't really care for you. Um, I would 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:32.880 never want someone that has never met me, that doesn't 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:36.960 know me, to form an opinion on me based on 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:42.200 what they've heard. Okay, you know, so I want to 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:44.600 do the same for anyone else. You want to give 0:06:44.640 --> 0:06:48.800 everyone a shot, Absolutely to them, I'm not going to 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:52.080 form an opinion based on anything other than what I 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:55.840 witnessed with my own eyes or get that with you know, 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:58.680 where do you get that mentality? I don't know. I 0:06:58.760 --> 0:07:02.040 mean that's just how I my are you though, after 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:03.920 knowing you now, like we've got the chance to become 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:06.039 good friends over these past few years, which I really 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:14.560 have loved you. Really you have a good guiding compass 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:18.160 inside of you, like your moral code. You know, some 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:22.960 people don't necessarily know right or wrong or know what's 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:25.520 right for them or I don't know, you have a 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:28.680 guiding compass in you that knows the way and knows 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:31.480 the right way, Like after hearing you talk about because 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:33.000 you've talked to me about a lot of stuff and 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:34.920 you've given me a great advice and you're a great friend, 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:40.120 but like your compass is just it's it's really knows 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:43.040 what to do? How do you know that I'm and 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:46.880 I don't always know what to do? Um, but I 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:51.960 feel that you know, as a human being, we all 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:58.280 know what feels good right and what feels bad. And 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:02.200 a lot of times we can be pulled in that 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:06.920 feel bad direction because it's kind of glamorous. Sometimes it 0:08:07.000 --> 0:08:12.240 can be. It can be and sexy, but you have 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:14.720 to go back to what's the motive of your heart? 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:19.600 And you know it's I don't know. For me, it's 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:26.080 it was always growing up where I wanted to. I'm 0:08:26.120 --> 0:08:29.320 not going to become a product of my environment. You 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.000 knew that from a young age. I did. Um. I've 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:37.120 always been very independent, somewhat of a loner. Which people 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:41.160 would be surprised to know or hear about me, is 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:46.079 that I'm very much a loner. I I enjoy me 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:53.120 time to recharge, absolutely that and to just reflect. And um, 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:59.000 I don't know, um, you know right from wrong? There's 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:01.320 that little it doesn't matter. We don't get to choose 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:06.240 the place the day that we're born, but we choose 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:08.400 what we do with our life. It's like we're not 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:14.120 the dealer. We don't deal the cards. Sometimes we never 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:17.640 meet the dealer. We wake up and these are the 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:20.480 cards that are laid. Sometimes are not fair. You're brought 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:22.880 into the world, Like I said, you don't choose the 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:25.520 place the day that you're born. So we come into 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:29.520 the world. We're dealt this hand of cards, and we 0:09:30.120 --> 0:09:32.280 don't And I've said this before. We talked about this 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:36.120 many times where we were not the dealer. We don't 0:09:36.160 --> 0:09:37.960 choose the hand that we're dealt, but we choose how 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:40.720 we play the game. And the motive of your heart 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:48.800 UM guides you and you you learn that the community, 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:53.120 the people that you surround yourself by UM very much 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:58.920 make those desires or help make those desires become a reality. 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:04.079 M So, if you surround yourself by yes people, I 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:10.559 call them yes people's UM, it's easy to stray, get sidetracked, 0:10:10.840 --> 0:10:14.880 and UM you don't look back on a life that 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:17.640 you're proud of. You have to surround yourself by people 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:20.400 that I love you enough to tell you when you're wrong. 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:24.080 More important, but you are the kind. But you also 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:25.959 got to realize a lot of people who get to 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:28.280 these positions where they do have a team around them 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:31.320 They don't want people to tell them if they're wrong, 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:33.440 you know, and and they have to live with those 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:36.599 choices and there's no judgment there. That is. What you 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:39.080 do with your life is your business, and we should 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:43.120 all be able to break bread. So UM, I don't know. 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:45.920 I just you want to be the best version of yourself. Yeah, 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:48.360 I mean, I think that's all we can hope to be, 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:52.160 is the best version of ourselves possible, you know. And 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:57.000 we're gonna hit speed momps or climbed mountains in the process. 0:10:57.120 --> 0:11:01.240 But you just you live and learn and love and 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:06.040 hope that you will come out brighter then, you know. 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:12.760 So before So what drives you? Everyone's driven by something? 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:15.839 What is your drive when you wake up every day? 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:17.840 Of course you want to be successful, and of course 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:20.800 you want to fulfill your talent, But what is your drive? 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:25.360 What's your goal? I don't know if the thing that 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:36.400 drives me um per se is uh wanting to Uh? 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:40.880 I can't. I can't just put it on one thing. 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:46.400 It's many things. One thing being UM, I never wanted 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:50.280 to become a product of my environment, right, So there's 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:55.599 that there is this um love and light that I 0:11:55.760 --> 0:12:00.440 see in the people closest to you know me, whether 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:04.680 it's my husband, our friends, our community, um my sister. 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:11.199 There's this fire that the people that I love and 0:12:11.360 --> 0:12:16.160 hold so dearly, they just light in me and they 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:20.439 just ignite this flame. And it's like, man, I have 0:12:20.600 --> 0:12:23.079 to do great, not just for myself, but I have 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:27.480 to do great for them. Does that make sense? You 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:31.720 care about your people, It's well, I mean, you care 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:35.480 about yourself and your people. You care about yourself. You 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:37.760 have to love yourself. You have to get to a 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:40.440 place where you do love yourself. There's gonna be times 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:44.040 where you're disappointed in yourself, for sure, but you know 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:46.000 there's gonna be times you got funk. I shouldn't have 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:50.440 said that. I shouldn't have said fuck whatever. But you know, man, 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:53.480 I shouldn't have done that. But we are, like you said, 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:57.839 we're human and we have to learn from you know, 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:03.440 those doings and whatnot. And and we're human. We're gonna 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:06.120 we're gonna sunk up, We're gonna do things that we're 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:08.319 not proud of. We learn from it, we move on. 0:13:08.920 --> 0:13:12.880 But you surround yourself with people that you admire and 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:18.079 that um are a sanctuary for you and hopefully you 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:22.319 are a sanctuary for them as well, and they drive you, 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:25.520 they push you, they motivate you to be the best 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:28.040 version of yourself that you can be. You know, you 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:31.480 have those friends that you call or come to their 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.959 house and you talk about whatever is going on in 0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:37.480 your personal life that you know nobody else needs to 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:39.360 know about. You just need to vent. You need a 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:44.680 sanctuary and absolutely advice, but you want good advice. Yeah, 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:48.959 you want to be Um, you need clarity because you're in, 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:54.880 You're in, it's cloudy, so you need clarity. Um. And 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:57.640 I don't know if it's the people that I've been 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:02.760 so blessed to surround my self by, my husband, my friends. 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:06.360 You're one of them. Um my sister, I always say, 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:11.559 my sister, she's the strongest woman I know. UM, I 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:14.559 don't know that community that pushes you and gives you 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:17.679 that job to be the best version of yourself that 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:21.960 you can be, and and that motivates you. If that 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:24.080 makes sense, it makes sense. Okay, I want to start 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:26.160 off with a little rapid fire. We'll not start off now. 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:30.240 We're like ten minutes in. Say the first word that 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:35.920 comes to mind when I say we can blue bloop 0:14:36.000 --> 0:14:43.560 and bleep. Okay, excited excited? What makes you excited? Don't 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:49.640 think about it excited, Um, comics make excited. You guys 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:53.360 have the best relationship. He's so wonderful. He does excite me. 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:59.120 So okay, Kyle, Okay, what's a must for you? We 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:03.080 put that mike up to your mouth? Put that yes, girl, 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:05.320 you know, get it all in, make love to that, 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:13.040 make love to it. Yeah, there you go. Sorry, Okay, um, 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:16.360 what was the question? A must? What is a must 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:24.120 for you? A must? Yeah? Fried okra? Yes, I love 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:27.440 fried okra best. I just got the best fried okra 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:29.480 at ed least have you got it there yet? I 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:33.640 don't think so. It is so good. Yes, I have 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:37.600 to love fried ok like country cooking, then fried ocras 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:41.520 where it's at, but least at least barbecue. Okay, I'll 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:43.920 do that. I'll take you there. Okay, that's so good. Okay, 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:48.360 forward to it. We m Okay, what do you try 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:59.400 to avoid? I try to avoid um assholes. I don't know, like, 0:15:59.560 --> 0:16:02.360 I just um you know me, like I'm a big 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:06.080 energy person. So when I feel that I'm in a 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:10.080 dark presence, I just like detour. I didn't even need 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:13.200 to talk about what's going out over going on over there? 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:16.000 I just want to get out of there, So to 0:16:16.120 --> 0:16:20.000 the door and get out. I don't like um, I 0:16:20.080 --> 0:16:23.320 don't know, I'm I get really overwhelmed with people's energies, 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:26.040 which people would probably be surprised by. When you said 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.520 something to which I agree with you. You can see 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:31.920 everything you need to see about someone in their eyes generally, 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:36.560 do I have good eyes? Do you see good stuff? God? 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:42.200 Lucif Linda Blair when the next or says, I'm right now, No, 0:16:42.640 --> 0:16:45.480 you're beautiful. But you look at people's eyes. The eyes 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:50.160 are the window to the well they are. But even 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:54.600 if you were if you were blind, like there's this energy, 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:57.120 Like have you ever been in the room with someone 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:01.760 and you didn't even see them walk in, but you 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:05.840 felt the presence and all of a sudden you're like, wow, 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:09.159 this is really heavy. I just I feel like we 0:17:09.480 --> 0:17:15.720 are we we can feed off of each other's energies. 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:19.640 And when people it's like if you're in a at 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:24.280 a dinner with friends and everybody's happy and laughing and 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:30.320 joking around and it's lighthearted and whatever, and everybody's just 0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:34.680 having a good time, and then someone walks into the 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:38.480 room and you don't even see them. You feel them 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:42.680 before they you know, before you make eye contact. I 0:17:42.720 --> 0:17:47.200 don't know. I just I'm an energy person. I love weird, 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:50.880 so I try to detour I beline like out of there. 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:55.560 If I feel not a good bad energy, Bye bad energy, 0:17:55.880 --> 0:18:02.080 Bye bye bye bye blae bye vibebe. Speaking of Lance Bass, 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:10.120 who we played beautiful, You're not amazing, He's amazing, amazing, amazing. Yes, 0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:12.159 we got to talk about him because that is episode 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:14.320 two of I Love Kelly Pickler, when we went to 0:18:14.400 --> 0:18:18.720 family Feud, which we're gonna get to Lance Bassy. What's 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:23.480 your vision board, vision board? Where do you see yourself? 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:27.919 What's your vision head? Yeah, what's your vision board? In life? 0:18:28.240 --> 0:18:33.600 In life? Um, I just want to all in all, 0:18:33.720 --> 0:18:40.240 I guess, long story longer. UM. I just want to 0:18:40.280 --> 0:18:42.200 be a bright light in the world. I just wanted 0:18:42.200 --> 0:18:45.560 to make people happy, and I want to be happy. 0:18:45.800 --> 0:18:49.240 I am. I'm blessed. We have a beautiful life, beautiful 0:18:49.320 --> 0:18:52.520 people in our lives with great hearts and great motives, 0:18:52.640 --> 0:18:55.680 and we're all, I don't know, just trying to get 0:18:55.760 --> 0:18:59.480 through this world and make it. Um. I just want 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:02.639 to be in good company and I want people to 0:19:06.000 --> 0:19:09.040 I don't know. There's this My Angelo quote that I 0:19:09.200 --> 0:19:11.280 love so much and I'm probably going to butcher it, 0:19:12.359 --> 0:19:19.480 but um, it is something along the lines of, you know, 0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:23.040 people will forget what you said, and people forget what 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:26.000 you said, I forget what you do, remember how you 0:19:26.040 --> 0:19:29.399 made them feel feel. Yes, people will never forget how 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:31.560 you made them feel. And I just want to make 0:19:31.640 --> 0:19:36.960 people feel like they matter. I love that. Does it 0:19:37.040 --> 0:19:41.720 make sense? It really has nothing to do with your job, 0:19:41.880 --> 0:19:46.159 your profession, what you do for a living. Um. You know, 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:50.880 you can do anything as an occupation and still make 0:19:50.960 --> 0:19:55.600 eye contact with people and make them know, not just feel, 0:19:55.760 --> 0:20:00.119 but know that they're important. Yeah, that they matter, or 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:04.080 that you know, we are a human race. You know 0:20:04.480 --> 0:20:06.720 where does that drive come from to make people feel 0:20:06.720 --> 0:20:13.000 like they matter? Um, it's it's just human decency. But 0:20:13.119 --> 0:20:15.480 not everyone has that. Not everyone has that motive of 0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:19.399 their heart. It just I don't know, it's how I'm wired. 0:20:20.240 --> 0:20:23.920 You want to make people feel special? I do, um, 0:20:24.640 --> 0:20:27.879 because we all need to feel loved. And there are 0:20:28.160 --> 0:20:32.440 so many people that come from broken homes where they 0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:39.359 never felt that they had purpose a reason for living. 0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:44.360 And you know, I mean we've talked. You know, I've 0:20:44.400 --> 0:20:46.960 been there. You know, I've been that person that felt 0:20:47.280 --> 0:20:50.240 you know, that way, and it's so dark and it's 0:20:50.320 --> 0:20:56.000 so scary. Um, I would never want anyone to feel 0:20:56.280 --> 0:21:01.720 that there. Um, I don't know. The breath, the air 0:21:01.800 --> 0:21:05.440 and their lungs does not serve for a greater purpose. 0:21:06.920 --> 0:21:11.119 It makes sense, yes, Um, totally makes sense. So I 0:21:11.200 --> 0:21:15.680 don't know where that comes from. It's just humans, Like 0:21:15.880 --> 0:21:20.080 we're people. Well maybe you have, like you said, you 0:21:20.240 --> 0:21:23.000 came from a little bit of of of that broken background, 0:21:23.080 --> 0:21:24.800 and like you don't want people to feel that way. 0:21:25.320 --> 0:21:30.200 Absolutely not, and you know the we're in this really 0:21:30.240 --> 0:21:40.520 deep moment and go to town. Yeah, whack it off, ship, 0:21:43.240 --> 0:21:45.920 But no, I mean we we have to realize that 0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:52.280 this is, you know, one world and we all share 0:21:52.400 --> 0:21:57.280 the same planet, and we have to we have to 0:21:57.440 --> 0:21:59.919 love and take care of each other and and how 0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:06.200 grace and compassion and and just have a heart, you know, 0:22:06.480 --> 0:22:10.320 and never let people make our minds up for us. 0:22:13.200 --> 0:22:16.399 Other people dictate why you feel the way you feel. 0:22:16.600 --> 0:22:19.600 Make sure that this is exactly how you feel and 0:22:19.760 --> 0:22:24.680 not what someone else told you or so be your 0:22:24.720 --> 0:22:28.280 own person. Um, you don't have to become a product 0:22:28.320 --> 0:22:30.879 of your environment. No matter where you come from, you 0:22:30.960 --> 0:22:33.320 can go out into the world and build your own life. 0:22:33.359 --> 0:22:36.320 And you know, we live in America. We're so blessed. 0:22:36.440 --> 0:22:38.760 We didn't get to choose this country that we were 0:22:38.800 --> 0:22:42.960 born into. Where we can be women born into this 0:22:43.320 --> 0:22:47.240 generation that can have careers and have lives, and we 0:22:47.359 --> 0:22:49.399 can be a wife, we can be a homemaker, and 0:22:49.520 --> 0:22:53.840 we can also go and do things. Absolutely, we can 0:22:53.920 --> 0:22:57.320 do whatever we want with our lives. And that is 0:22:57.440 --> 0:23:02.200 a that is a blessing. And and UM did not come, 0:23:02.560 --> 0:23:07.040 you know, to our doorstep without sacrifice. So you know, 0:23:07.320 --> 0:23:13.520 you honor the people and and um shine a light 0:23:13.600 --> 0:23:16.920 on the people that enable you to live this beautiful 0:23:17.000 --> 0:23:22.480 life here that we have. And having been born in 0:23:22.600 --> 0:23:26.000 a place where we are so blessed, it's so important 0:23:26.200 --> 0:23:29.800 for us to go to other dark places and shine 0:23:29.840 --> 0:23:32.840 a light there and say it's okay, so you sell 0:23:32.880 --> 0:23:38.080 a calling with your life to shine light in dark places. Absolutely, 0:23:38.280 --> 0:23:43.080 but that's just you do. But you have I mean yes, 0:23:43.240 --> 0:23:45.600 But like at the same time, you have a platform 0:23:45.760 --> 0:23:47.840 that a lot of people could say, don't do this, 0:23:48.000 --> 0:23:50.080 don't do that, don't do this, but you say no, 0:23:50.359 --> 0:23:53.119 I'm gonna do what I want to do, which honestly 0:23:53.200 --> 0:23:55.560 lead you to your show. I love Kelly Pickler. I 0:23:55.640 --> 0:23:58.240 feel like the premise of that show is to be 0:23:58.320 --> 0:24:00.920 a bright light. Like you've it to me before, and 0:24:01.000 --> 0:24:02.840 you said it to the cast before we were filming. 0:24:03.040 --> 0:24:05.399 You're like, I want this to be something that brightens 0:24:05.480 --> 0:24:08.120 people's days. I want people to watch this and feel happy. 0:24:08.240 --> 0:24:16.080 There's so much toxic um, negative energy. There's so many 0:24:16.160 --> 0:24:19.600 bad things going on. There's these little, bad, evil seeds 0:24:19.680 --> 0:24:24.200 that are being planted all over the place every day. 0:24:25.200 --> 0:24:28.520 But there's also good seeds that are being planted as well. 0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:32.440 And I feel like if we nurture that, and if 0:24:32.560 --> 0:24:35.560 we surround ourselves by good farmers and when I say 0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:39.040 good farmers, I mean good people were the motives of 0:24:39.119 --> 0:24:42.040 their hearts in the in the right place. You surround 0:24:42.080 --> 0:24:47.560 yourself by good farmers and you nurture those beautiful, good seeds, 0:24:48.440 --> 0:24:53.879 and it will take over. It will grow, absolutely, absolutely so. 0:24:54.119 --> 0:24:56.800 But you're committed to putting it out there. Yeah, absolutely, 0:24:56.840 --> 0:24:59.760 why not? Why not? Why not? You can? Why wouldn't you? 0:25:00.080 --> 0:25:03.680 Why not? So? And you do every day, so you 0:25:03.760 --> 0:25:08.600 are very bright lights. That is one reason why. Many reasons, 0:25:09.000 --> 0:25:12.520 but one of the biggest reasons why Colin, I feel 0:25:13.280 --> 0:25:15.440 just drawn to hold you close. I feel drawn to you. 0:25:15.800 --> 0:25:19.000 You have always been someone who I have thought has 0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:21.639 just been so bright. Like when I think of you, 0:25:21.760 --> 0:25:25.200 I think of brightness. And I watched you in American Idol. 0:25:25.240 --> 0:25:27.040 I watched you come up through the rinks. You didn't 0:25:27.119 --> 0:25:30.119 have any He's been eleven years. Eleven years. It's not 0:25:30.200 --> 0:25:33.040 like someone handed you this perfect silver platter of like, oh, 0:25:33.200 --> 0:25:35.080 let me just make your life easy, and here's an 0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:37.440 entertainment career. You fought for it, you got it, You 0:25:37.520 --> 0:25:39.760 went out there and you overcame stuff. And I love 0:25:39.840 --> 0:25:42.160 that about you because everything in your life you've turned 0:25:42.200 --> 0:25:45.600 it into either a lesson or a stepping stone to positivity. 0:25:45.640 --> 0:25:48.399 And I think that is such an example. Thank you 0:25:48.560 --> 0:25:52.240 very much. Okay, so let's talk about I love Kelly 0:25:52.280 --> 0:25:54.760 Pickler because this show has been a riot in season two. 0:25:55.880 --> 0:25:58.639 Season two has been so fun. We've gotten after this 0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:01.200 air is it will be three episodes in yes, Oh 0:26:01.280 --> 0:26:03.920 my gosh, can you believe it? And we've shot for 0:26:04.000 --> 0:26:06.240 what three or four months? And now it's just like 0:26:06.359 --> 0:26:11.520 flying by. The whole show kicked off with Kyle coming 0:26:11.600 --> 0:26:14.800 to a bar, me and Jin. Jennifer Wayne was there 0:26:15.359 --> 0:26:18.760