WEBVTT - Matrimony on Acrimony 

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<v Speaker 1>Hoping to we talk back, where we encourage you to

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<v Speaker 1>hustle hard, laugh louder, and always keep it cute. So

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<v Speaker 1>grab your.

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<v Speaker 2>Coffee, cocktail and crown.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's about a gold damn.

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<v Speaker 2>Talk talk talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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<v Speaker 2>an opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>Who talks back. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, aj Holiday,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, tam Damn Hey, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>I love y'all so so, so so very much. Girl

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<v Speaker 2>on teeth is extra white girl. I put some white

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<v Speaker 2>strips on yesterday. I was smiling and it was like

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<v Speaker 2>a twinge of yellow.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at mine right now because I was using turmeric toothpaste,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what the fuck? And I do do

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<v Speaker 1>teeth white names. I'm like, why the fuck? My shit

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<v Speaker 1>look kind of beingey, especially because I don't got no

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<v Speaker 1>ring light or nothing like that right now. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, bitch, you putting turmeric on your damn teeth?

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch Oh yellow first of all, turk on yellow, anything

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<v Speaker 2>it touched.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I didn't think it was until I saw

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<v Speaker 1>how my toothbrush bristles kind of got kind of y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, it has to be doing the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>to my goddamn.

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<v Speaker 2>Teeth, right, crazy ass. Yeah, but I'm thinking yesterday shout

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<v Speaker 2>out to Chris, that was your weekend. We need some ads, period.

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<v Speaker 2>My weekend was a bunch of havoc, y'all. It was

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<v Speaker 2>my birthday weekend. My birthday was on Sunday.

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<v Speaker 3>Yea hey birthday, yea yeah, birthday to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Happy birthday, easy, hey Jay, Happy birthday to you.

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<v Speaker 1>It was literally a j's holiday, Okay. On Sunday, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Ain't respond to a single message or car what was good?

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<v Speaker 1>Get it?

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<v Speaker 2>Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>From the time I woke up, remember I told you

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing a photo shoot, so I wish y'all

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<v Speaker 1>motherfuckers would have waited for my little pictures. And I

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<v Speaker 1>really was trying. That's why I wanted to do it

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<v Speaker 1>on Saturday. But my little props and shit didn't come

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<v Speaker 1>in and times had to reschedule for Sunday. So from

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<v Speaker 1>the time I woke up to the time this nigga

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<v Speaker 1>got here to do my photos, I was getting ready

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time, and you called me and I was

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<v Speaker 1>literally shooting at the time, and then straight from there

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<v Speaker 1>we had dinner at seven o'clock, so that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my whole day. And then I was so exhausted.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the cars sleeping on the way back to

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<v Speaker 1>the house. I took a shower and I got in

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<v Speaker 1>the bed. I did look at a few messages. I

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<v Speaker 1>thank you all for all the happy birthday wishes, and

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<v Speaker 1>I still hadn't responded to a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Jiyack page, because I don't think you even went on that.

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<v Speaker 1>One on the story.

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<v Speaker 2>No on the page. No, you gotta go check because

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<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of people wish you would have.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, y'all, girl, I catch up on life yet. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>my damn house a mess from just making this the

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<v Speaker 1>studio for a damn day. It's just a mess, man.

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<v Speaker 2>The pictures are absolutely stunny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I got some other ones to post. I just

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<v Speaker 1>gotta get my edits back and stuff. So yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a good time. Took me forever, girl. I

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<v Speaker 1>do not know how to pose, y'all. I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>just start practicing poles and ship.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I need to do too, because every time

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm eating and then I look at the

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<v Speaker 2>picture and I look.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, my body looked like that. What the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck is happening right now? Like why am I? Am

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<v Speaker 1>I really standing like that? In my mind?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm really like posing like that. You look as

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<v Speaker 2>stupid the whole time. But you know what, me and

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<v Speaker 2>you are both so hard on ourselves when it comes

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<v Speaker 2>to photos.

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<v Speaker 1>No, them pictures are looking dumb. Okay. And also because

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<v Speaker 1>this isn't a studio, my backdrop didn't come, so I

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<v Speaker 1>the pictures had to be like more close up kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>Also I didn't have enough wall space basically like with

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<v Speaker 1>the backdrop to do what I wanted to do, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just had to make do Yeah, So it worked

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<v Speaker 1>out a little tiny bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Where'd you go to dinner?

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<v Speaker 1>Ah? Damn? What's the name of this? It's called Kings

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<v Speaker 1>on Dange's Island. I don't know if you've ever been

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<v Speaker 1>to Dang's Island in Charleston. But it's like a little

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<v Speaker 1>riverfront restaurant. No, it is not good. It was No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's called King something and I don't want to really like,

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<v Speaker 1>but we ended up with a super discount on dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how bad our dinner was. It took a long

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<v Speaker 1>time to come out, and then when it came it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't ever add season into my food after

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<v Speaker 1>it's cooked. May I cook it or like a restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>I just deal with it. But when I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>I had to ask for salt, like you cannot cook pasta.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a lobster pasta. You cannot not seasoned pasta,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like spinish spinish noodles. You gotta season

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<v Speaker 1>that ship tastes like nothing. Nothing I was. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know the best part was my dessert.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I would like for you to go to visit

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<v Speaker 2>this place. It's close by you. It's called, oh your

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<v Speaker 2>Tunji village.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean a Hellnhead area. Yeah, I've been there. African village. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there twice.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know what it looks like nowadays. We

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<v Speaker 1>went like I went one time, but like a field

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<v Speaker 1>trip because it is an actual African village. But people

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<v Speaker 1>don't really live in there. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It's more so tourist attraction nowadays. Oh really, yeah, now

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<v Speaker 1>you can. It's some places around there where you could

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<v Speaker 1>go get you some work done if you need it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. You're looking for somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>do some shit. To somebody. Yeah that was nobody.

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<v Speaker 2>I want somebody to do something to me, help me

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<v Speaker 2>this weak.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but yeah, I've been there.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how I look. Documentary on it over the weekend

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, oh wow, this is like really

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<v Speaker 2>really dope, y'all. If y'all get a chance, check out

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<v Speaker 2>a documentary on the Oh your tonguey village in South Carolina,

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<v Speaker 2>the only African village existing in South Carolina. That's dope.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what I did this weekend. I watched documentaries

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<v Speaker 2>after documentaries. Oh, and I got my hair locked and

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<v Speaker 2>it took.

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<v Speaker 1>A long, long long. The hair is fleaky, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks you know. It's just when I get my

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<v Speaker 2>hair like this, I turn into somebody else. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>The energy just shift.

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<v Speaker 1>Not you a hole, teph you black women in their hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>Very earthly.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been hugging and talking to the trees like it's

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<v Speaker 2>just very it's given, very earthy. Girl. I almost went

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<v Speaker 2>out with no deodorant one day, but I ain't that.

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<v Speaker 1>Your spirituality is not an aesthetic that's given right now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's how I feel on the inside that's just coming out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because you have locks, no I got the locks because

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<v Speaker 2>of how I was feeling on the inside. It's all.

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<v Speaker 2>What's what you see on the outside is a representation

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<v Speaker 2>of how I've been feeling on this da.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all, Dan, how she started a conversation after right and

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<v Speaker 1>my tripping.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling y'all, I'll tell y'all how I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like she adjusted to the hair, not.

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<v Speaker 2>The hair hair, the hair adjusted to me. And this

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<v Speaker 2>clarity and feelings I've been having because of this seventy

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<v Speaker 2>five heart. Yeah, my I'm elevated period, way up.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's put it. What was your weekend? Like, that's it?

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<v Speaker 1>You just got your hair done?

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<v Speaker 2>I watched documentaries and got my hair done.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you know, that's a good weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I did my workouts. You know that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on y'all today. Well, by the time you hear this,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be on day sixty seven.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's gonna happen at seventy five? You're gonna keep

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<v Speaker 1>going eighty.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you're gonna drink some liquor. Drinking some liquor, Like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>day seventy six, I'm gonna have me a cocktail and

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<v Speaker 2>a bacon cheeseburger.

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<v Speaker 1>You already know.

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<v Speaker 2>I already know I'm gonna have you espress on martini

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<v Speaker 2>and a bacon cheeseburger that day. But I'm definitely gonna

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<v Speaker 2>continue to work out. Instead of seven days a week,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna cut back to like five days a week,

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<v Speaker 2>and instead of two workouts a day, I'm just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do one, you know, because I need my life back.

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<v Speaker 2>This really take a large portion of your life from you,

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<v Speaker 2>like so yeah, and it's not sustainable. It's not something

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<v Speaker 2>you could do forever. Seven days a week, two workouts

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<v Speaker 2>a day is just you know, saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people be doing it. I guess that's all they

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<v Speaker 1>got to do. Though. Those niggas who you see in

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<v Speaker 1>the damn gym every day every day, I can all day.

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<v Speaker 1>Some days like I've been, I've cried in there, I've

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<v Speaker 1>drug getting there. I remember one day, I was like

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<v Speaker 1>laying on the bike, and I know that bike filthy.

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<v Speaker 1>I was laying on that bitch like you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was laying on that bitch just moving my feet,

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<v Speaker 2>just moving it a little bit too. And the forty

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<v Speaker 2>five minutes, I think I barely made it four miles.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not like for to go for five minutes. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't usually do like eleven or twelve miles. I barely

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<v Speaker 2>like right, yeah, I barely made it four miles. So

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<v Speaker 2>it was just days where I was just pushing through

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<v Speaker 2>the best I could.

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<v Speaker 1>I to check with my complex and see where the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck my bike went at because I was out of

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<v Speaker 1>town and they like moved things I had, like under

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<v Speaker 1>the stairwell.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's cracking with your bike right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, where is my fucking bike? I know it had

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<v Speaker 1>looked dusty from falling and all that because it just

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't time to ride bike yet. Yep, but I want

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<v Speaker 1>my bike.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, before somebody take the shit.

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<v Speaker 1>They better than not had throw my bike out. I

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<v Speaker 1>never saw it by the trash can by the dumbstairs.

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<v Speaker 2>That's because somebody took it home.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen. I've been avoided asking them about it because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel like cussing people out, because I just know

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<v Speaker 1>in my spirit that I'm a custom people out in

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<v Speaker 1>that office. I already feel like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell y'all something. You know how I'm speaking

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<v Speaker 2>of cussing people out. I always say like I'm better now,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm healed, But I realized I ain't as healed as

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<v Speaker 2>I think because I just cussed somebody smooth fuck out.

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<v Speaker 1>The other day, it's necessary. Sometimes that doesn't mean you're

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<v Speaker 1>not healed, but you got to work on the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that triggered you to then cuss them out. But sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>that shit is fucking necessary.

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<v Speaker 2>It's what I'm talking about. It was the thing the

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<v Speaker 2>reason I cussed them out because they wouldn't go see

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<v Speaker 2>a doctor. Oh yeah, and I cussed them smoother fuck out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about bad. I called them an MF, a

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<v Speaker 2>stupid mfort and hung up in their face.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the prognosis, Like, what's happening with them?

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<v Speaker 2>They got like one day they tilted to the side

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<v Speaker 2>where they the way they walking right now, it looked

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<v Speaker 2>like the hunchback of Notre Dame, right, so they back

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<v Speaker 2>is fucked up. And then they also having like bad

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<v Speaker 2>hemorrhoid issue and not going to the doctor is insane

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<v Speaker 2>to me, and I just I cussed them out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's slumped over it. I don't know. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>going to say what it's given, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but when you get see it, it's just black men, y'all. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what it is with black men and

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<v Speaker 2>not wanting to go to the doctor. But it's just

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<v Speaker 2>really because they made an appointment and they was like,

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<v Speaker 2>well I felt a little better, so I canceled it.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm what. Yeah, I don't know why they neglect

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<v Speaker 1>their health. And then they're like, what's the benefits of

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<v Speaker 1>heaven and wife?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>We be keeping y'all niggas alive? Y'all? Are y'all kind

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<v Speaker 1>of slow? Because why the fuck was you just sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there and suffering and not go see about.

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<v Speaker 2>It and just medicating? That is not how you heal

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<v Speaker 2>your body. Yeah, you're just masking the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember one of my classmates she passed away, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as an adult now, but she was having some type

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<v Speaker 1>of stomach issues and like, I don't know why been

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<v Speaker 1>in Charleston like Goodie headache powders is like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody takes a Goodie headache powder and some ginger ale

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<v Speaker 1>for her stomach. When she passed, her stomach was full

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<v Speaker 1>of Goodie headache powder acid essentially, that's all she was

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<v Speaker 1>masking it, just having pain and just taking the medicine

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<v Speaker 1>girl over the counter.

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<v Speaker 2>Shit, that's crazy because this is a man that I know.

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<v Speaker 2>He died for a brain aneurysm, and he was in

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<v Speaker 2>his car when like he died in the car driving.

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<v Speaker 2>When they found him, his car was covered with goodie

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<v Speaker 2>powder empty packets because his brain was hurting. Your head

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<v Speaker 2>was hurting so bad, and he was just taking goodie

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<v Speaker 2>powders to mask the pain instead of going to your

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<v Speaker 2>body was telling you it's something wrong. And instead of

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<v Speaker 2>going to the doctor, you just taking drugs. Y'all, y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>please everybody listening. If you are experiencing some type of

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<v Speaker 2>pain or some type of ailment and you're just taking

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<v Speaker 2>pain pills, go to the doctor. Your body is trying

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you that there's something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, like in the movies, how to turn

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<v Speaker 1>you around. Because you don't have health care. If you

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<v Speaker 1>go to the emergency room, they're just going to give

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<v Speaker 1>you a dumb ass bill, but they will see you.

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<v Speaker 1>They got to see you. And on top of that,

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<v Speaker 1>Obamacare still exists, right, so you still get Medicaid. Just

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<v Speaker 1>people aren't applying. I've never not I think maybe I've

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<v Speaker 1>been out without without insurance one time in life. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have like a deductible and she like that

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<v Speaker 1>for labs and things like that listen that let that

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<v Speaker 1>shit stack up and just be debt as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>your eyes dying. You'll figure it out. What everything the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck else? Go to the doctor. What is happening to

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor?

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<v Speaker 2>I know? And then last thing, I had a friend

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<v Speaker 2>who ended up dying from a heart issue and he

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<v Speaker 2>used to be beating on his chest all the time

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<v Speaker 2>and I and I'd be like, you need to go

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<v Speaker 2>to a doctor. What you be doing that. He's like, man,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm waiting for this insurance to kick in. You worried

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<v Speaker 2>about money and end up dying from that heart issue

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<v Speaker 2>instead of seeing the doctor nuts So so I customer out.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was my thing is there's a better way

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<v Speaker 2>to say how I feel. I gotta work on that.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of calling him a stupid motherfucker, I could have

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<v Speaker 2>been like, you know, I want you to be here

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<v Speaker 2>a long time and I care about you and that

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want you to die or so. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what I could have said, but something better than

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, you're a stupid ass motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 1>But had you but had you already said something to

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<v Speaker 1>him before about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So that's where it came from. Yeah, that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly where it came from.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well let's get in the sin as, y'all, because.

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<v Speaker 1>We already did sentence, did we We have a talking

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<v Speaker 1>about some bullshit for too long? All right, y'all shd

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<v Speaker 1>damn y'all niggas talk too much?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, we talked too much. That's what we need.

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<v Speaker 1>The name show.

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<v Speaker 2>Keep Sweat drags modern single lady. So Keep Sweat had

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<v Speaker 2>to show y'all over the weekend or I think it

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<v Speaker 2>might have been late last week. And he addressed the

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<v Speaker 2>crowd and said that he was single, and he know

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<v Speaker 2>how to wash his own clothes and he can cook

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<v Speaker 2>his own food because these women now, they don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to do nothing. They don't want to bring to the table.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't want to iron his clothes, they don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to cook him no meal. And he said he's done

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<v Speaker 2>with too many entitlement things. You got to bring something

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<v Speaker 2>to the table to get something from me. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to cook no more. I washed my own clothes,

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<v Speaker 2>iron my own clothes. Gotta do something for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever known any woman to be associated with

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<v Speaker 1>Keith Sweat like? Has he just been a batch his

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<v Speaker 1>entire life?

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<v Speaker 2>I can't think of nobody me either. Okay, so his

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<v Speaker 2>persona maybe he was, like, you know, he is the

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<v Speaker 2>lover boy, so heaven right would probably mess with his

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<v Speaker 2>you know, identity as that lover boy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, lover boys and now here you are? How old

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<v Speaker 1>is Keith Sweat? Let's school? How old is Keith?

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<v Speaker 2>While you google that, let me tell you I remember

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<v Speaker 2>the only thing I was Steve three.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>My daddy when I was little, I always used to

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<v Speaker 2>remember my daddy saying, I hate this begging ass motherfucker,

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<v Speaker 2>like everybody used to say that, all the parents. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what I remember about Keith Sweating. As a kid. My

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<v Speaker 2>daddy would always talk about the big always begging, wow, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>which is to do anything he's sticking y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, women who are sixty three are not

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<v Speaker 1>modern women. Women who are sixty three cook clean and

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<v Speaker 1>do all the fucking things. So who is his target market?

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<v Speaker 1>Who is he actually dating that isn't doing anything for him?

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<v Speaker 2>Us?

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly? He's dating young and even us our age group. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I would I would beg to differ, okay, that he's

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<v Speaker 1>dating women even younger than us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>At sixty three years old because he think he looks

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<v Speaker 1>young because he dies his hair. You are old, fart.

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<v Speaker 1>I need you to chill out and get a woman

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<v Speaker 1>at least fifty, at least fifty. But they don't want

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<v Speaker 1>fifty year old women. They still want to chase and

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<v Speaker 1>do the like Shannon Sharp when he was talking to

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<v Speaker 1>who is he talking to? And they would They basically said, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be Uh you date the same age girls I date.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think you're gonna get? Those are fun

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<v Speaker 1>girls you're not even dating because they're even in those

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<v Speaker 1>age ranges. There are mature women right who got the

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<v Speaker 1>shit together, who do all the things in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Those aren't the women you're going for. You are going

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<v Speaker 1>for the women that you got to take care of, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And they just come and they look pretty all right.

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<v Speaker 2>They come here to cook you no food, Yes the

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<v Speaker 2>fuck what you thought? Make reservations?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, what you said last week? Make it mean uber

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<v Speaker 1>or dash? Yeah, that's about it. What are you really

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<v Speaker 1>looking for? These men have to really be honest with themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Just say I'm full of shit and this is what

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<v Speaker 1>I like. I mean because I'm a woman whose father

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<v Speaker 1>is seventy five and his wife is the same age

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<v Speaker 1>as she's in between my two sisters, Sam's forty six,

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<v Speaker 1>forty five, and I think my oldest sister's forty nine.

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<v Speaker 1>So my step mom quote unquote is your peer. She's

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<v Speaker 1>my peer, and she's in between the two of them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she she cooked, so does my dad, like they

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<v Speaker 1>do all the things. So you can find a woman, right,

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<v Speaker 1>a little younger than you, who's who does the things.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not what he's looking for. That's not, obviously not

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<v Speaker 1>who he's dating to sit up on stage in front

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<v Speaker 1>of all these women and talk about what modern women

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<v Speaker 1>aren't doing. Right, modern women be cooking. I don't these

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<v Speaker 1>niggas be lying on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Woman be cooking?

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<v Speaker 1>Who they have been lying on us since Adam and Eve.

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<v Speaker 1>These niggas is walking around with the apple and they

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<v Speaker 1>fucking neck and saying that we ate the apple they

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<v Speaker 1>literally got.

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<v Speaker 2>I need y'all to look when y'all stop, when this

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<v Speaker 2>is over, I want y'all to look around at all

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<v Speaker 2>the men. They ain't got no more Adam's apple. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't see them no more. They gone.

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<v Speaker 1>I see them on some men, some men and something

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, maybe we might be a little bit chunkier nowadays.

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<v Speaker 1>Also the neck kind of fat. But I do see

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<v Speaker 1>men with Adam's apples. You see that, Look.

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<v Speaker 2>At it, Look at that cloud though they look like

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<v Speaker 2>jay Z And then I'll be looking at I have no.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gone evolution, y'all are like for some reason, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>something's happening. And the men want to be caddled like

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<v Speaker 1>children and they want to be treated like bad bitches.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what's happening, and that's why the Adams. Yes, they

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<v Speaker 1>turn it into women. We might fuck around and start

0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:29.400
<v Speaker 1>getting Adams apples, right, but yeah, quite lying on us.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop lying on us. Women's ally, dudes lie like a rug.

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<v Speaker 2>So now this kind of pissed me off, this one

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<v Speaker 2>right here. Cocoa Golf won the French Open over the weekend,

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<v Speaker 2>and she manifested that ship because she even had a

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<v Speaker 2>piece of paper write that I will win the French

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<v Speaker 2>Open five yeah, right down. Yeah. And this girl who

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<v Speaker 2>she played against, I can't pronounce her name. I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>mess it up, Arna Arnia erna sublinka. She gonna say

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<v Speaker 2>that Coco didn't play a good game. She just played

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<v Speaker 2>a bad game. Basically, Cocoa ain't good and she just

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<v Speaker 2>she's better than Coco. She just played a bad game.

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<v Speaker 2>My girl takes the l And first of all, Coco

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<v Speaker 2>has beat you before. Did you play a bad game then, too, bitch? Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you always playing bad games against Coco? Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>So you know this is where bad thing where you know,

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<v Speaker 1>children are now being caddled more thinking everybody can be

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<v Speaker 1>a winner. And this is what happens when they grow up, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're unable to accept when they fucking lost because

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<v Speaker 1>everybody cannot win every time. You're not gonna always win.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you don't show gratitude for the winners, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>never be a winner again.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. Let me tell you then, participation trophies was the

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<v Speaker 2>worst thing that happened to these kids. Once they started

0:22:01.240 --> 0:22:03.920
<v Speaker 2>getting everybody in a ribbon that field day, it's over

0:22:04.000 --> 0:22:09.280
<v Speaker 2>for us to get a ribbon. You don't deserve one

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<v Speaker 2>if you did not win.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you didn't win the super Bowl, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>go to the White House. Not everybody go to the

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<v Speaker 1>white House. You know what I'm saying, Both like ship

0:22:18.000 --> 0:22:19.919
<v Speaker 1>like that. That is not how it's supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 1>There are winners and then there are losers. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna always be be a winner, and you won't always

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<v Speaker 1>be a loser.

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<v Speaker 2>And then think about taking the l gracefully. It makes you,

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<v Speaker 2>it keeps you humble, and it makes the win you

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<v Speaker 2>do win, it makes it that much better. Like you

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<v Speaker 2>gotta take your l's gracefully. You gotta be prideful and

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<v Speaker 2>congratulate the winner always. So so Blinko or whatever your

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<v Speaker 2>name is, girl, that was what you said. I know

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<v Speaker 2>you was upset. I imagine you made it all the

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<v Speaker 2>way to the top just to get beat by this beautiful, black,

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<v Speaker 2>bad black dude. You mad.

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, but I don't get him.

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<v Speaker 2>I get why she was mad. She lost. Nobody likes losing,

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<v Speaker 2>but you could have handled that much better, woy. A

0:23:09.280 --> 0:23:13.199
<v Speaker 2>joyful loser is very rare, but you don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>be a bitch about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Wendy Williams ex Kevin Hunter. He is planning to

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<v Speaker 1>do a tell all interview. I wonder what this may

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<v Speaker 1>consist of. Kevin Hunter is reportedly preparing for a one

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<v Speaker 1>on one interview with Gail King to speak his truth.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot stand that thing that's saying that's my truth.

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<v Speaker 1>This might I can't stand it because your truth oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>could be a very very much so a lie, So

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<v Speaker 1>it says. Interview with King is expected to touch on

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<v Speaker 1>deeply personal and public chapters of his life. Those specific

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<v Speaker 1>details have not been released. Who has just started pouring

0:23:53.520 --> 0:23:56.480
<v Speaker 1>down ring? Can you hear that? Hunter has been in

0:23:56.560 --> 0:24:02.240
<v Speaker 1>the spotlight due to his legal battle with debmar Mercury.

0:24:02.520 --> 0:24:05.639
<v Speaker 1>The producers of the Wenny Williams show okay following the

0:24:06.160 --> 0:24:08.840
<v Speaker 1>divorce of Wendy Williams in twenty nineteen. So y'all know,

0:24:08.880 --> 0:24:11.000
<v Speaker 1>Wendy Williams is making her a little comeback. She gets

0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:15.280
<v Speaker 1>she getting her freedom back, literally, right, And I wouldn't

0:24:15.280 --> 0:24:17.440
<v Speaker 1>doubt that he was probably a part of the reason

0:24:17.440 --> 0:24:19.679
<v Speaker 1>why she ended up ended up in this predicament anyway,

0:24:20.160 --> 0:24:23.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, just the heartache, the betrayal. That shit can

0:24:23.400 --> 0:24:26.120
<v Speaker 1>lead you down a very dark road, y'all. God never

0:24:26.200 --> 0:24:28.920
<v Speaker 1>let the devil sit back next to him, because betrayal

0:24:29.000 --> 0:24:32.680
<v Speaker 1>is the ultimate sin. Okay, So you can't come back

0:24:32.720 --> 0:24:36.359
<v Speaker 1>around me once you have betrayed me. Right, So he's

0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:38.920
<v Speaker 1>married to his side bitch now who he had living

0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:41.919
<v Speaker 1>down the street from them. They have a baby together.

0:24:43.440 --> 0:24:48.240
<v Speaker 1>You don't really even who are you without Wendy Williams right,

0:24:48.640 --> 0:24:50.679
<v Speaker 1>And this is why he's just still harping on this,

0:24:50.800 --> 0:24:54.560
<v Speaker 1>like I just don't between this shit right here, and

0:24:54.600 --> 0:24:56.480
<v Speaker 1>then like the shit that's going on with remym and

0:24:56.480 --> 0:25:00.720
<v Speaker 1>Pappoof's like where is the love? Where is is the love?

0:25:01.200 --> 0:25:05.000
<v Speaker 2>There's a thin line where about that? That ship is

0:25:05.080 --> 0:25:08.240
<v Speaker 2>so fucking thin it's scary.

0:25:08.480 --> 0:25:11.000
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Like you mean to tell me we we are

0:25:11.040 --> 0:25:13.680
<v Speaker 1>no longer and now we're just gonna go on this

0:25:13.800 --> 0:25:19.200
<v Speaker 1>disparaging rampage against each other. That shit is everybody, see,

0:25:20.680 --> 0:25:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I like wreak up.

0:25:21.960 --> 0:25:25.560
<v Speaker 2>I pray over myself that that, you know, if I

0:25:25.640 --> 0:25:28.199
<v Speaker 2>ever First of all, I pray that when I actually

0:25:28.240 --> 0:25:32.159
<v Speaker 2>meet my husband we stay together forever. And if we don't,

0:25:32.600 --> 0:25:35.119
<v Speaker 2>that is never like that just amicable.

0:25:35.119 --> 0:25:36.560
<v Speaker 1>We don't got you know what I'm saying. We enjoyed

0:25:36.560 --> 0:25:38.840
<v Speaker 1>each other, We appreciate each other, the time we spend

0:25:38.880 --> 0:25:39.640
<v Speaker 1>and move on.

0:25:40.160 --> 0:25:43.600
<v Speaker 2>So it says, go ahead, well and then I'll, you know,

0:25:43.680 --> 0:25:45.840
<v Speaker 2>and I will be a pleasant widow because that's the

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:48.840
<v Speaker 2>only way you're going anyway.

0:25:48.960 --> 0:25:51.520
<v Speaker 1>I'd be listen, y'all think I'd be playing. But I

0:25:51.520 --> 0:25:53.520
<v Speaker 1>don't even like losing friends. And shit like that because

0:25:53.520 --> 0:25:56.240
<v Speaker 1>I'd be not and shared all my intimate details about

0:25:56.240 --> 0:25:58.520
<v Speaker 1>my life with the motherfucker. Now we're not friends no more.

0:25:58.800 --> 0:26:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I be waiting on some ship like this, if shit,

0:26:01.160 --> 0:26:03.880
<v Speaker 1>you're real popping or it's like this is the type

0:26:03.920 --> 0:26:07.560
<v Speaker 1>of shit like I got him for h money for

0:26:09.200 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 1>So since leaving the show, Hunter has faced financial challenges.

0:26:12.880 --> 0:26:15.280
<v Speaker 1>So this is this is when the bullshit start happening, right,

0:26:15.320 --> 0:26:18.280
<v Speaker 1>So now you need some money, including selling his Florida

0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:21.480
<v Speaker 1>home and dealing with legal action over alleged credit card debt.

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:25.000
<v Speaker 1>The interview with Gail King could shed new light on

0:26:25.080 --> 0:26:28.480
<v Speaker 1>both Kevin Hunters and Wendy Williams lives following their divorce

0:26:28.520 --> 0:26:32.320
<v Speaker 1>in twenty twenty after over two decades of marriage, which

0:26:32.480 --> 0:26:35.600
<v Speaker 1>ended due to Hunter's infidelity and birth of a child

0:26:35.840 --> 0:26:39.119
<v Speaker 1>with another woman. So you destroyed our marriage. Now they

0:26:39.160 --> 0:26:41.239
<v Speaker 1>always had like a little they should always was kind

0:26:41.280 --> 0:26:47.080
<v Speaker 1>of iffy, But you destroyed our shit. You start a

0:26:47.119 --> 0:26:51.359
<v Speaker 1>whole new family, and that's not enough for you. You

0:26:51.400 --> 0:26:56.720
<v Speaker 1>gotta destroy me too, right, He's the worst type of person,

0:26:57.200 --> 0:27:00.160
<v Speaker 1>like the beef he had with Charlemagne. Like this nigga,

0:27:00.200 --> 0:27:05.240
<v Speaker 1>this this, this, this nigga is like he's just not

0:27:05.359 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 1>a good person. He's not a good person, like unless

0:27:10.560 --> 0:27:12.600
<v Speaker 1>day he'd be trying to destroy Charlamagne.

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:16.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure he's gonna get paid for this particular interview,

0:27:17.119 --> 0:27:19.720
<v Speaker 2>and he need the money. But I can't wait to

0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:21.360
<v Speaker 2>hear what the story is, what he gonna say.

0:27:22.760 --> 0:27:24.760
<v Speaker 1>He ain't got nothing to say. Just take your fucking

0:27:24.880 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 1>l and go. What's wrong with people not being able

0:27:26.560 --> 0:27:30.760
<v Speaker 1>to take their l's? Just go? You got what you wanted, right,

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:34.720
<v Speaker 1>No he wants more apparently, yeah, because he ain't got

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:36.760
<v Speaker 1>no money to take care of that girl no more.

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:40.000
<v Speaker 1>She probably ain't working nowhere. You just over here struggling

0:27:40.040 --> 0:27:47.320
<v Speaker 1>with the old nigga. Now, I'll be damn.

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:49.919
<v Speaker 2>All right, all right, this is the last thing I

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 2>want to do. So I keep seeing people talk shit

0:27:53.080 --> 0:27:55.520
<v Speaker 2>about Tyler Perry, and I know, stay for that, because

0:27:56.400 --> 0:28:02.919
<v Speaker 2>one Tyler Perry employees black people and it almost seems

0:28:02.960 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 2>like nothing but us. And when he pays, he pays

0:28:06.240 --> 0:28:10.640
<v Speaker 2>people what they're worth, and he tells our stories, people

0:28:10.640 --> 0:28:14.199
<v Speaker 2>are like, oh he he capitalizes on black trauma, Like

0:28:14.280 --> 0:28:17.679
<v Speaker 2>these stories ain't really happening, Like he ain't making this

0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:20.640
<v Speaker 2>shut up. Black women go through a lot of shit,

0:28:21.160 --> 0:28:23.080
<v Speaker 2>But tell me a story where he didn't have the

0:28:23.080 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 2>black woman come out on top for the most part.

0:28:26.040 --> 0:28:28.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's yeah, they be coming out on top

0:28:28.600 --> 0:28:33.120
<v Speaker 1>sometimes and then sometimes it's still kind of disparaging sometimes, Yeah.

0:28:32.880 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 2>But is that not real life? Is that not real life? Though?

0:28:36.400 --> 0:28:38.360
<v Speaker 1>I guess I think the problem is because I just

0:28:38.360 --> 0:28:40.440
<v Speaker 1>had this conversation with a friend yesterday, and I'm like,

0:28:40.640 --> 0:28:43.560
<v Speaker 1>why white people don't feel like that, like somebody's exploiting

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:47.360
<v Speaker 1>them about their movies because it's coming from one person

0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:50.320
<v Speaker 1>though that the type of the genre is coming from

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:56.360
<v Speaker 1>one one studio, one production, right Whereas.

0:28:57.040 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because he's the only studio doing black stories a lot.

0:29:00.960 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 2>And I guess that that's where we need.

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:07.720
<v Speaker 1>We need variety, right, we need to make sure we're

0:29:07.760 --> 0:29:10.640
<v Speaker 1>showing all aspects, but black lives.

0:29:11.240 --> 0:29:14.480
<v Speaker 2>Because what's her name, marl Bora could kill She makes

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 2>movies and shows and she just did Forever that was

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:20.960
<v Speaker 2>a beautiful story about blackness that it wasn't It wasn't

0:29:21.000 --> 0:29:25.800
<v Speaker 2>anybody in there depicted in a way that was disparaging. Yeah, So,

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:30.160
<v Speaker 2>and it's more true stories. Maybe Tyler Perry makes stories

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:32.560
<v Speaker 2>about black female trauma, because that's what he knows.

0:29:34.200 --> 0:29:36.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I guess you know.

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:38.240
<v Speaker 2>So I don't like when they talk about him. And

0:29:38.280 --> 0:29:40.560
<v Speaker 2>then here's another thing that he did. He always poured

0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:43.760
<v Speaker 2>back into our community. He always keeps us employed. He

0:29:44.080 --> 0:29:46.840
<v Speaker 2>gave Simbad. Tim Bad was in a movie Simbad had

0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:49.720
<v Speaker 2>a massive stroke five years ago. When nobody's checking for

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:52.280
<v Speaker 2>Simbad or trying to help Simbad. But and his role

0:29:52.280 --> 0:29:54.200
<v Speaker 2>in the movie was very small, but he was like, look,

0:29:54.240 --> 0:29:56.440
<v Speaker 2>I got to check for you, Simbad because I love you.

0:29:56.720 --> 0:29:59.480
<v Speaker 2>I've seen what you've done for our community. You brought

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:01.160
<v Speaker 2>a lot of way. I'm gonna make sure some money

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:04.560
<v Speaker 2>in your pocket. Who else doing that? Y'all? Please don't

0:30:04.560 --> 0:30:08.400
<v Speaker 2>play with me by Tyler Perry. Okay, who else doing that? Nobody?

0:30:08.440 --> 0:30:10.720
<v Speaker 1>Don't don't play with time by Tyler Perry. Chill, I

0:30:10.760 --> 0:30:12.800
<v Speaker 1>ain't playing with you by Tyler Perry. Got it?

0:30:13.200 --> 0:30:16.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay? Thank you? Because I love him? You got it?

0:30:16.880 --> 0:30:20.240
<v Speaker 1>Girls, when we talk about the day, because I'm scared.

0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:31.160
<v Speaker 2>Acrimony, perfect segue. Bitch, were getting into the movie Acrimony,

0:30:31.280 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 2>another movie about a black woman.

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:38.960
<v Speaker 1>Not just scoring a dumb bitch. We'll get into it

0:30:39.000 --> 0:30:40.960
<v Speaker 1>after this commercial. I'll be right back.

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 2>All right, y'all. So people were in the ds d

0:30:47.640 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 2>M saying they really loved our movie breakdown episodes, and

0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:54.880
<v Speaker 2>I love them too, because you know, I love me

0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:56.440
<v Speaker 2>a movie and I'm you don't want to be in

0:30:56.560 --> 0:31:03.200
<v Speaker 2>him Tyler Perry. So I wanted to break down acrimony

0:31:03.560 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 2>because that just really aligns with what we'd be talking

0:31:07.040 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 2>about on this show when it comes to relationships and

0:31:09.360 --> 0:31:13.760
<v Speaker 2>how shit be going sometimes. So I want to talk

0:31:13.760 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 2>about the alright. So if you haven't seen it, go

0:31:16.360 --> 0:31:18.800
<v Speaker 2>watch it and then come back to this episode, because.

0:31:18.600 --> 0:31:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Y'all seen them wigs in acrimony. Y'all had to have

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:23.800
<v Speaker 1>seen acrimony. It's been a couple of years now. I

0:31:23.800 --> 0:31:25.560
<v Speaker 1>thought there was going to be an acrimony too.

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:28.520
<v Speaker 2>I was hoping that would be acrimony to where she

0:31:28.640 --> 0:31:33.239
<v Speaker 2>didn't get she didn't die. First of all, this is

0:31:33.280 --> 0:31:37.880
<v Speaker 2>such a sad story because do you feel like either

0:31:38.000 --> 0:31:42.840
<v Speaker 2>character was wrong? All right, let's talk about the plot.

0:31:43.360 --> 0:31:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Acrimony is about a loyal wife, Melinda, who becomes increasingly

0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:52.200
<v Speaker 2>unhinged after feeling betrayed by her husband Robert, following years

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:56.440
<v Speaker 2>of personal and financial sacrifice to support his dreams. All right,

0:31:56.520 --> 0:32:00.160
<v Speaker 2>So Milenda me's Robert in college after a word or

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:04.080
<v Speaker 2>when romance. She supports him financially, even using her inheritance,

0:32:04.360 --> 0:32:07.880
<v Speaker 2>while he works on his inventuring the battery. They struggle

0:32:07.960 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 2>financially for years, and Melinda eventually divorces Robert. After divorce,

0:32:13.520 --> 0:32:17.240
<v Speaker 2>Robert's invention finally pays off, and he becomes a wealthy

0:32:17.280 --> 0:32:20.640
<v Speaker 2>man that marries another woman, a woman that he had

0:32:20.720 --> 0:32:25.320
<v Speaker 2>cheated on her with when they were younger. Melinda spirals

0:32:25.360 --> 0:32:28.320
<v Speaker 2>into rage and obsession, believing she was old. More than

0:32:28.360 --> 0:32:31.360
<v Speaker 2>just money, she wanted the life she helped build. The

0:32:31.400 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 2>story ends in tragedy, with Melinda's mental state completely unraveling. Okay, so.

0:32:43.160 --> 0:32:54.880
<v Speaker 1>In the beginning of Acrimony, we saw how crazy Melinda was. Yeah,

0:32:54.920 --> 0:32:58.480
<v Speaker 1>she was always a little rammed his trailer off of

0:32:58.480 --> 0:33:01.720
<v Speaker 1>a cliff, did he not not because he was in

0:33:01.800 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>there with a woman another woman? Right, So we knew

0:33:06.920 --> 0:33:09.600
<v Speaker 1>she was capable of being crazy, and she.

0:33:09.640 --> 0:33:11.920
<v Speaker 2>Hurt herself to so much to the point where she

0:33:11.920 --> 0:33:13.959
<v Speaker 2>could never conceive by doing that.

0:33:14.680 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm.

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:20.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, that's on you. You know, that's on you, even.

0:33:20.840 --> 0:33:22.360
<v Speaker 1>If you take accountability for that.

0:33:22.640 --> 0:33:27.560
<v Speaker 2>Nope, Okay, so I would say, Melinda has mental health

0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:32.720
<v Speaker 2>issues always hey, or you just know you ain't supposed

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:34.960
<v Speaker 2>to play with her, sir.

0:33:35.040 --> 0:33:37.520
<v Speaker 1>Her and his man was married for a very long time.

0:33:38.880 --> 0:33:41.959
<v Speaker 1>And I think this kind of it kind of like

0:33:44.640 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 1>it definitely depicts how women put their partners before them, right.

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:51.920
<v Speaker 1>So it is like, it is hurtful when I see

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:54.840
<v Speaker 1>men say what is the benefit of marriage and stuff

0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 1>like that, because it is a big sacrifice for women.

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:02.520
<v Speaker 1>We sacrifice our bodies, the children. I have seen this

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:05.200
<v Speaker 1>post the other day. This girl was like, this is

0:34:05.240 --> 0:34:09.040
<v Speaker 1>a video of a woman saying she lost all of

0:34:09.080 --> 0:34:14.200
<v Speaker 1>her teeth okay, during pregnancy due to vitamin deficiency, and

0:34:14.360 --> 0:34:17.920
<v Speaker 1>men out here saying why do I need to get married?

0:34:18.040 --> 0:34:19.719
<v Speaker 1>Why do I need to Why do I need to uh,

0:34:20.600 --> 0:34:22.480
<v Speaker 1>why need to go fifty fifty? Or even why do

0:34:22.560 --> 0:34:26.359
<v Speaker 1>I have to finance this woman's entire life? We we

0:34:26.480 --> 0:34:31.800
<v Speaker 1>literally sacrifice our lives for everybody else. I'm leaning to

0:34:31.920 --> 0:34:36.960
<v Speaker 1>wars not wanting to do that. Okay, nowadays it's crazy,

0:34:37.320 --> 0:34:40.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, Like, that's why I got

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:42.000
<v Speaker 1>to draw the line at my goddamn teeth.

0:34:42.000 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 2>Right, I love my teeth, But think about it, I've like,

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:52.040
<v Speaker 2>especially we're doing here. I've seen women lose all their

0:34:52.080 --> 0:34:57.279
<v Speaker 2>hair after having a baby. I've seen them have like

0:34:57.400 --> 0:35:01.160
<v Speaker 2>complete back lee actly covering their whole back and ship

0:35:01.440 --> 0:35:04.120
<v Speaker 2>like just all kind of stuff that happens to your

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:08.759
<v Speaker 2>body even after after the baby that left it out

0:35:08.800 --> 0:35:10.520
<v Speaker 2>of the body and it's still being affected.

0:35:10.640 --> 0:35:14.480
<v Speaker 1>So, yeah, you're not the same person. You literally you

0:35:14.520 --> 0:35:16.840
<v Speaker 1>were single and now you're a mom and your wife.

0:35:17.040 --> 0:35:18.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not the same person.

0:35:18.360 --> 0:35:21.680
<v Speaker 2>And my edge is gone, and my teeth man ship,

0:35:23.080 --> 0:35:24.400
<v Speaker 2>and my back looked like brow.

0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:31.480
<v Speaker 1>You don't even notice like who you are anymore. And

0:35:29.640 --> 0:35:34.440
<v Speaker 1>you got a baby hanging off your titties like.

0:35:34.600 --> 0:35:37.000
<v Speaker 2>A stranger hanging off your body because they're not your

0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:39.040
<v Speaker 2>y'all just met and.

0:35:39.000 --> 0:35:41.719
<v Speaker 1>You got you have a group of people in this

0:35:41.800 --> 0:35:45.240
<v Speaker 1>world who think that being a female, being a woman,

0:35:45.560 --> 0:35:49.280
<v Speaker 1>being a human adult female is just an aesthetic.

0:35:50.640 --> 0:35:50.839
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:57.600
<v Speaker 1>I was watching Jason Lee Hollywood Unlocked with Yeah it's

0:35:57.600 --> 0:36:01.839
<v Speaker 1>crazy here Hollywood on Locked with can his Owens on there,

0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:06.719
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, well, why can't Rachel Dozel say

0:36:06.760 --> 0:36:09.040
<v Speaker 1>that she's black if women can, if men can say

0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 1>that they're women, a woman like he was like, no,

0:36:11.440 --> 0:36:14.480
<v Speaker 1>that's not the same thing. It is exactly the same thing, Right,

0:36:14.640 --> 0:36:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I can be something because I feel like that's what

0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I am. And then Jason he made a statement. I

0:36:20.680 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 1>was so disgusted. He was like, I mean, I know

0:36:24.120 --> 0:36:25.919
<v Speaker 1>some of the trans girl who even do it better

0:36:25.960 --> 0:36:29.960
<v Speaker 1>than better than actual women? Do what better than actual women?

0:36:30.520 --> 0:36:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Just look like a woman? That is what you think

0:36:33.320 --> 0:36:36.239
<v Speaker 1>being a woman is. Y'all can never deal with half

0:36:36.280 --> 0:36:39.160
<v Speaker 1>of this shit women deal with on a daily basis,

0:36:39.160 --> 0:36:42.200
<v Speaker 1>Like we'd be walking around hemorrhaging and acting like ain't

0:36:42.239 --> 0:36:46.200
<v Speaker 1>nothing going on, Okay, still doing all the things, taking

0:36:46.200 --> 0:36:49.880
<v Speaker 1>care of kids, working, working out, just all the things.

0:36:49.880 --> 0:36:54.120
<v Speaker 1>We still doing it hemorrhaging and an actual fucking pain

0:36:54.640 --> 0:36:59.080
<v Speaker 1>all day all day. Yeah, I agree, But you think

0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:02.399
<v Speaker 1>just doing away, going and sebilistic and address is doing

0:37:02.480 --> 0:37:06.480
<v Speaker 1>it better than an actual woman. Listen, that's how you

0:37:06.520 --> 0:37:08.880
<v Speaker 1>know women are the gods on the planet because these

0:37:08.960 --> 0:37:10.280
<v Speaker 1>niggas literally.

0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:12.560
<v Speaker 2>And that's hurtful to say. And I don't think people

0:37:12.760 --> 0:37:15.960
<v Speaker 2>understand like what it really entails. And that's why they

0:37:15.960 --> 0:37:18.960
<v Speaker 2>say stuff like that, because it's like talking to a

0:37:19.000 --> 0:37:20.920
<v Speaker 2>fish and asking a fish what water is. They don't

0:37:20.960 --> 0:37:23.160
<v Speaker 2>know because they in it. You know, like, you can't

0:37:23.239 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 2>explain it to them, so I don't even try. All right,

0:37:26.200 --> 0:37:29.879
<v Speaker 2>So did Melinda deserve more than just compensation?

0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:36.520
<v Speaker 1>Okay? So once her husband once Robert like sold his invention,

0:37:38.320 --> 0:37:42.000
<v Speaker 1>which didn't come until after she had left him, right,

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:44.920
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I'm saying. Sometimes you may have to

0:37:45.000 --> 0:37:47.239
<v Speaker 1>leave people for them to reach their full potential for

0:37:47.280 --> 0:37:49.839
<v Speaker 1>things to happen. It may not was it probably wasn't

0:37:49.840 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 1>supposed to happen with them together in the first place.

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:55.400
<v Speaker 1>But they were trying to stay together, you know what

0:37:55.400 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, while the whole time he's going through this transition,

0:37:58.800 --> 0:38:01.080
<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out, trying to get somebody to buy

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:03.040
<v Speaker 1>into his invention and all that, and the minute they

0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:04.120
<v Speaker 1>break up, it happens.

0:38:04.400 --> 0:38:07.760
<v Speaker 2>But it's just the other woman to come along, That's

0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:10.120
<v Speaker 2>what That's what's so crazy how it got worked sometime

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:13.480
<v Speaker 2>because it took this other woman who was already a

0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:16.719
<v Speaker 2>part of this company to you know, give help him

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:19.840
<v Speaker 2>with the opportunity to even be seen because he stayed

0:38:19.840 --> 0:38:22.799
<v Speaker 2>with Melinda, that probably would have never happened, you know, I.

0:38:22.719 --> 0:38:25.000
<v Speaker 1>Mean, it could have still had like it was happening

0:38:25.120 --> 0:38:26.839
<v Speaker 1>when he was kind of with her. Did he did

0:38:26.920 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 1>he did he meet the lady after Melinda left him?

0:38:31.400 --> 0:38:33.560
<v Speaker 1>He already knew her. I think no, he ran into

0:38:33.680 --> 0:38:35.240
<v Speaker 1>Was this not the bitch that was in the trailer?

0:38:35.480 --> 0:38:35.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:38:35.920 --> 0:38:42.399
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so look so now years later you run into

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:45.080
<v Speaker 1>your old thing and she's actually working at the place

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:46.719
<v Speaker 1>you was trying to get your foot in for all

0:38:47.120 --> 0:38:52.000
<v Speaker 1>this time. That's what I'm saying, Like, sometimes the relationship,

0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 1>the relationships you were in, will shape your life. So

0:38:54.600 --> 0:38:57.880
<v Speaker 1>it was a negative for Melinda, it was more of

0:38:57.880 --> 0:39:02.080
<v Speaker 1>a positive for him. He used her, He used her youth,

0:39:02.800 --> 0:39:04.880
<v Speaker 1>he used her life for us. He saw how crazy

0:39:04.880 --> 0:39:06.720
<v Speaker 1>she started looking at the house. He put her house

0:39:06.840 --> 0:39:09.000
<v Speaker 1>up for sale, her mama's house.

0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:10.120
<v Speaker 2>She did that.

0:39:11.080 --> 0:39:14.640
<v Speaker 1>She mortgaged the house. Yeah, she mortgaged the house. They

0:39:14.640 --> 0:39:16.600
<v Speaker 1>were about to lose their home.

0:39:16.840 --> 0:39:17.719
<v Speaker 2>They did lose it.

0:39:18.719 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 1>They they ended up they ended up buying it back,

0:39:20.840 --> 0:39:22.799
<v Speaker 1>or he ended up buying it back. And and once

0:39:22.800 --> 0:39:23.880
<v Speaker 1>he got all the money.

0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:26.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he bought it back for her. Yeah, they lose it.

0:39:27.239 --> 0:39:30.680
<v Speaker 1>So she she literally gave her entire life to him.

0:39:30.960 --> 0:39:31.399
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm.

0:39:32.080 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 2>And then down Now, you can't say that that woman

0:39:34.080 --> 0:39:36.759
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't do whatever for him. She did it all. She

0:39:36.800 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 2>took she took care of him while he was trying to,

0:39:39.960 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, get his invention off.

0:39:41.960 --> 0:39:43.399
<v Speaker 1>The because she believed in him.

0:39:43.560 --> 0:39:43.759
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:46.520
<v Speaker 1>So you have these men on these podcasts telling women,

0:39:47.080 --> 0:39:49.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, stop dating for potential stuff like that the

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:51.480
<v Speaker 1>man has to do this. But then on the other hand,

0:39:51.560 --> 0:39:54.720
<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh, y'all, y'all, y'all want somebody who's already together,

0:39:54.880 --> 0:39:56.319
<v Speaker 1>like you just want to come in and kick your

0:39:56.320 --> 0:40:00.440
<v Speaker 1>feet up. Like there's no right or wrong in any

0:40:00.440 --> 0:40:02.840
<v Speaker 1>of these situations. But women are definitely damned if we

0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:07.000
<v Speaker 1>do and damned if we don't. You picked wrong, y'all

0:40:07.040 --> 0:40:09.640
<v Speaker 1>need to make better decisions. You did all that for

0:40:09.680 --> 0:40:13.200
<v Speaker 1>the wrong nigga, It's not true, like you just never know.

0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:17.400
<v Speaker 2>You never know, you never know because pet Poofs and

0:40:17.640 --> 0:40:20.200
<v Speaker 2>really remind doing this was never on my bingo card.

0:40:21.160 --> 0:40:25.040
<v Speaker 2>I always thought they were like, always be together and

0:40:25.120 --> 0:40:27.879
<v Speaker 2>be quiet about the things that because there's no doubt

0:40:27.880 --> 0:40:31.520
<v Speaker 2>in my mind that pet Poofs had other things going on, absolutely,

0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:35.279
<v Speaker 2>but they were very respectful about it. What happened to

0:40:35.360 --> 0:40:37.040
<v Speaker 2>the respect you know, saying.

0:40:40.120 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 1>You don't remember when Jada Janat pinked and Will Smith

0:40:45.719 --> 0:40:48.839
<v Speaker 1>was going through the whole Uh what does she call

0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:52.279
<v Speaker 1>it an entanglement when they were going through that whole debacle, Like,

0:40:52.320 --> 0:40:55.120
<v Speaker 1>there is no doubt in my mind that there was

0:40:55.160 --> 0:40:58.239
<v Speaker 1>an outside entity, right that exposed all us. It wasn't

0:40:58.280 --> 0:41:00.520
<v Speaker 1>them in their marriage. Jada didn't do it. Will didn't

0:41:00.520 --> 0:41:03.840
<v Speaker 1>do it. Oh boy did it. What's his name? August

0:41:04.440 --> 0:41:06.880
<v Speaker 1>August Asina. He put them on blast. He put the

0:41:06.920 --> 0:41:09.600
<v Speaker 1>relationship with Jada Pikan on blast kind of right, So

0:41:09.640 --> 0:41:11.400
<v Speaker 1>she was like hanging out with him, but that was

0:41:11.440 --> 0:41:16.840
<v Speaker 1>her son's friend also, right, But when when Will Smith?

0:41:17.040 --> 0:41:20.480
<v Speaker 1>When when the chick hit the fan? Right? I'm pretty

0:41:20.480 --> 0:41:23.080
<v Speaker 1>sure through all these years of marriage, Will Smith has

0:41:23.160 --> 0:41:27.000
<v Speaker 1>done things in that marriage. But what Jada didn't do

0:41:27.280 --> 0:41:30.439
<v Speaker 1>is take it as an opportunity to disparage him. Once

0:41:30.440 --> 0:41:33.719
<v Speaker 1>her ship was on the forefront, she took accountability for it.

0:41:33.760 --> 0:41:35.480
<v Speaker 1>She didn't get online and say, well, this was during

0:41:35.520 --> 0:41:37.400
<v Speaker 1>a time when you was fucking so so and so so.

0:41:37.560 --> 0:41:40.080
<v Speaker 1>I needed attention then, and this is why this happened.

0:41:40.120 --> 0:41:40.680
<v Speaker 2>She didn't do it.

0:41:41.120 --> 0:41:43.319
<v Speaker 1>She just took her fucking l and she kept her

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:44.200
<v Speaker 1>mouth shut.

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:47.200
<v Speaker 2>And when I was raking her over the colds.

0:41:47.200 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and never once did she come out and say, well, y'all,

0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:54.200
<v Speaker 1>Will Smith ain't fucking innocent, right, not one time? But

0:41:54.320 --> 0:41:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I just want men to like, ain't no way in

0:41:56.640 --> 0:41:59.200
<v Speaker 1>the in hell men think Will Smith is innocent and

0:41:59.239 --> 0:42:01.839
<v Speaker 1>hadn't done anything. I think that for years they had

0:42:02.000 --> 0:42:06.800
<v Speaker 1>this open relationship type situation that people thought existed. Wasn't sure,

0:42:07.480 --> 0:42:11.120
<v Speaker 1>but maybe it was one of those like not don't

0:42:11.160 --> 0:42:14.799
<v Speaker 1>ask on tail, but like or maybe ask before you

0:42:14.840 --> 0:42:20.000
<v Speaker 1>do this bullshit. And she basically she led somebody in

0:42:20.040 --> 0:42:23.920
<v Speaker 1>their relationship who had something, who didn't have nothing to lose. Basically,

0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:26.279
<v Speaker 1>you gotta fuck with people who lost something to lose. Yeah,

0:42:26.320 --> 0:42:28.120
<v Speaker 1>he was a fucking kid. So I think that's the

0:42:28.120 --> 0:42:30.719
<v Speaker 1>difference between her bullshit and will Smith bullshit. Girl, why

0:42:30.719 --> 0:42:31.840
<v Speaker 1>are you fucking on this child?

0:42:37.320 --> 0:42:39.080
<v Speaker 2>Was Melinda a victim marvillain?

0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:44.080
<v Speaker 1>I think she was both. I think she was both

0:42:44.320 --> 0:42:47.719
<v Speaker 1>because I feel like after she knocked his trailer like

0:42:47.920 --> 0:42:51.600
<v Speaker 1>earlier on, he should have never engaged with her ever again,

0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:54.920
<v Speaker 1>Like that should have been it. You know, it's not.

0:42:55.080 --> 0:42:57.160
<v Speaker 1>That's not really love. That is possession.

0:42:57.280 --> 0:42:58.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you tried to murder me?

0:42:58.880 --> 0:43:04.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, people, that's that's being very much possessive, right, so

0:43:04.200 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 1>the signs were there earlier on that she was capable

0:43:07.280 --> 0:43:09.759
<v Speaker 1>of some some real bullshit. And do y'all really want

0:43:09.760 --> 0:43:11.240
<v Speaker 1>a woman that follows you blindly?

0:43:12.760 --> 0:43:12.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:43:14.280 --> 0:43:16.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that means if somebody else comes along that

0:43:16.640 --> 0:43:19.000
<v Speaker 1>talks a good game, she could be suited over there,

0:43:19.000 --> 0:43:21.440
<v Speaker 1>if it sounds a little bit better. Y'all don't want

0:43:21.480 --> 0:43:25.640
<v Speaker 1>somebody who just blindly follows people, right, They think that's

0:43:25.640 --> 0:43:27.399
<v Speaker 1>what they want. They think they want a dumb bitch

0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:29.640
<v Speaker 1>until you actually get one, and then you be on

0:43:29.680 --> 0:43:32.959
<v Speaker 1>the phone complaining with the bitch with depth, right, talking

0:43:33.000 --> 0:43:36.200
<v Speaker 1>shit about your wife or girlfriend with that person, Tiler,

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:36.879
<v Speaker 1>flip it over.

0:43:37.040 --> 0:43:38.000
<v Speaker 2>That's what happened.

0:43:39.920 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 1>So I do think she was she was made to

0:43:42.719 --> 0:43:46.200
<v Speaker 1>be the villain in this movie because she was the

0:43:46.239 --> 0:43:51.560
<v Speaker 1>one doing the most damage, right, acting the craziest. So

0:43:51.680 --> 0:43:54.880
<v Speaker 1>she was the villain in the movie. But I feel

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:59.399
<v Speaker 1>like her husband, I probably would consider him a villain too.

0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:02.480
<v Speaker 1>Why you depleted her life source?

0:44:03.840 --> 0:44:03.920
<v Speaker 2>What?

0:44:04.040 --> 0:44:05.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand everything she had?

0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:09.600
<v Speaker 2>Why you wasn't working, That's what I'm saying.

0:44:09.920 --> 0:44:10.520
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck?

0:44:10.719 --> 0:44:10.799
<v Speaker 2>Like?

0:44:10.880 --> 0:44:14.600
<v Speaker 1>Who and nobody gets to just sit and chase their

0:44:14.680 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 1>dreams like you got to do both? You could have

0:44:17.000 --> 0:44:20.319
<v Speaker 1>been working at McDonald's someplace else. Like he literally was

0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:23.400
<v Speaker 1>just fixated on this thing. And when you when you

0:44:23.440 --> 0:44:26.840
<v Speaker 1>are fixated on a thing, it is bound to That

0:44:27.000 --> 0:44:30.279
<v Speaker 1>is what makes things happen. It's consistency, right, it's doing

0:44:30.320 --> 0:44:34.400
<v Speaker 1>it every fucking day, not knowing the outcome. It will

0:44:34.440 --> 0:44:38.200
<v Speaker 1>eventually happen, but it could be twenty years, right, you

0:44:38.239 --> 0:44:39.959
<v Speaker 1>see what I'm saying. It could take a very long

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:43.600
<v Speaker 1>time for things to come to fruition. And she's stuck

0:44:43.719 --> 0:44:48.200
<v Speaker 1>in there the entire time, and he's take He's.

0:44:48.040 --> 0:44:51.799
<v Speaker 2>In her ear too. She had her sisters in her

0:44:51.840 --> 0:44:53.560
<v Speaker 2>ear like telling her, you know, like.

0:44:53.920 --> 0:44:56.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because it didn't make sense to anybody. How does

0:44:56.360 --> 0:44:57.600
<v Speaker 1>this make sense to anybody?

0:44:58.360 --> 0:45:03.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I get it. But then when he was all

0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:05.319
<v Speaker 2>bossed up, everybody was looking stupid, you know.

0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 1>But it took him how many years to get bossed up?

0:45:08.640 --> 0:45:11.879
<v Speaker 1>Twenty years? That is excessive. So he should he at

0:45:11.920 --> 0:45:14.319
<v Speaker 1>some point he should have like, hey, I need to

0:45:14.320 --> 0:45:17.000
<v Speaker 1>help my family, I need to help my wife. Let

0:45:17.040 --> 0:45:20.839
<v Speaker 1>me take Let me not do this all day long

0:45:20.960 --> 0:45:23.320
<v Speaker 1>and go work. This is the equivalent to a nigga

0:45:23.320 --> 0:45:25.719
<v Speaker 1>playing PlayStation all day long while you're working. And he

0:45:25.760 --> 0:45:28.359
<v Speaker 1>got your car, and shit, it's the same thing. Yeah,

0:45:28.560 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 1>it's better, right because he has an actual invention, he

0:45:31.960 --> 0:45:35.160
<v Speaker 1>has an actual vision, he's driven, he has purpose.

0:45:35.200 --> 0:45:37.440
<v Speaker 2>And he's smart. You know, like this is something that

0:45:37.440 --> 0:45:40.080
<v Speaker 2>could really work, but it.

0:45:40.080 --> 0:45:44.200
<v Speaker 1>Took too fucking long. Yeah that is like she should

0:45:44.200 --> 0:45:45.520
<v Speaker 1>have never stuck in there that long.

0:45:45.800 --> 0:45:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like you can work on that after work, after work. Yeah,

0:45:50.719 --> 0:45:52.920
<v Speaker 2>it's all the after work time to that. But you're

0:45:52.960 --> 0:45:54.759
<v Speaker 2>gonna have to help around here. I can't just do

0:45:54.840 --> 0:45:55.600
<v Speaker 2>it by myself.

0:45:55.960 --> 0:45:58.440
<v Speaker 1>And I know it's a movie, but listen, you got

0:45:58.520 --> 0:46:01.840
<v Speaker 1>niggas who be spending a girlfriend's tax return on studio

0:46:01.920 --> 0:46:05.360
<v Speaker 1>time and she over there in the corner cheering them on,

0:46:06.160 --> 0:46:08.320
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, and he's ever what s

0:46:08.360 --> 0:46:12.839
<v Speaker 1>y'all mean? Little phrase was in his first book. Uh,

0:46:13.160 --> 0:46:17.280
<v Speaker 1>fuck your dreams. That might be somebody else's dream. Okay,

0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:21.239
<v Speaker 1>it may never work for you. Fuck your dreams. You

0:46:21.320 --> 0:46:26.239
<v Speaker 1>gotta be realistic sometimes something like that. Listen, you have

0:46:26.440 --> 0:46:29.520
<v Speaker 1>to be realistic, except but you also have to be

0:46:29.560 --> 0:46:34.040
<v Speaker 1>delusional about your dream though. Yeah, not on somebody else's dying.

0:46:34.760 --> 0:46:36.480
<v Speaker 1>He would have never been able to do any of

0:46:36.480 --> 0:46:39.960
<v Speaker 1>those things if she didn't exist if he was sitting

0:46:39.960 --> 0:46:40.359
<v Speaker 1>there in.

0:46:40.320 --> 0:46:43.880
<v Speaker 2>A house, that he delusion, delusional about your dream on

0:46:44.000 --> 0:46:46.200
<v Speaker 2>somebody else's dying, by all means do it?

0:46:46.480 --> 0:46:50.399
<v Speaker 1>No, that that's abuse. What the hell by all means doing?

0:46:51.000 --> 0:46:53.600
<v Speaker 2>Listen, in business, they say don't use your own money,

0:46:53.719 --> 0:46:55.480
<v Speaker 2>use somebody else's all the time.

0:46:55.920 --> 0:46:59.320
<v Speaker 1>You and your we're talking about a husband and wife, tammy, Okay,

0:46:59.360 --> 0:47:03.040
<v Speaker 1>we're not talking about going to bank for a loan. Okay,

0:47:03.520 --> 0:47:07.120
<v Speaker 1>these motherfuckers was about to be popers. That's how much

0:47:07.120 --> 0:47:10.560
<v Speaker 1>he drained her because he didn't have any money to

0:47:10.600 --> 0:47:12.960
<v Speaker 1>do these things. I know these people in real life.

0:47:12.960 --> 0:47:16.439
<v Speaker 1>This is why I sound like this right now. I'm

0:47:16.520 --> 0:47:20.160
<v Speaker 1>the fucking lutley who be going very close okay, who'll

0:47:20.160 --> 0:47:21.920
<v Speaker 1>be going through. And I want her to get a

0:47:21.960 --> 0:47:25.320
<v Speaker 1>new husband. She should have been had a new husband.

0:47:25.640 --> 0:47:25.799
<v Speaker 2>Rap.

0:47:26.920 --> 0:47:31.080
<v Speaker 1>No, he don't wrap, but he can't keep a goddamn job.

0:47:31.880 --> 0:47:35.919
<v Speaker 1>And you always funding and finance in his fucking dreams. Yes,

0:47:36.080 --> 0:47:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I know these people, and she she hasn't reached her

0:47:40.080 --> 0:47:42.560
<v Speaker 1>full potential because that energy has been in her life

0:47:42.600 --> 0:47:47.320
<v Speaker 1>for twenty years. I feel like she should be way further.

0:47:47.400 --> 0:47:50.960
<v Speaker 1>She's fucking she's an intellectual, she's really really smart. But

0:47:51.040 --> 0:47:53.680
<v Speaker 1>this is the dumbest part of her life.

0:47:54.040 --> 0:47:59.360
<v Speaker 2>Love, you know what I'm.

0:47:59.239 --> 0:48:02.280
<v Speaker 1>Saying, Like, No, this is not like going to a bank.

0:48:02.360 --> 0:48:06.840
<v Speaker 1>This is in your household. You don't use somebody. You

0:48:06.880 --> 0:48:10.600
<v Speaker 1>don't use people, and people are meant to be used.

0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:10.879
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:12.759
<v Speaker 1>If you can't be used, you're just a fucking as

0:48:12.920 --> 0:48:15.279
<v Speaker 1>You're just a liability. He was a fucking liability. She

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:16.600
<v Speaker 1>couldn't use him.

0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:19.080
<v Speaker 2>I think you should use each other.

0:48:20.440 --> 0:48:25.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she wasn't getting nothing out of it, right, yeah

0:48:25.480 --> 0:48:27.759
<v Speaker 1>at that time. Okay, so now, yeah, you got all

0:48:27.760 --> 0:48:29.600
<v Speaker 1>the money. He wrote her a big check to pay

0:48:29.640 --> 0:48:33.040
<v Speaker 1>for all the things that was I now, y'all not together,

0:48:33.200 --> 0:48:37.440
<v Speaker 1>your shit blew up? You give her the check, understandable, right.

0:48:37.600 --> 0:48:39.879
<v Speaker 1>That wasn't enough for her because she still loved him.

0:48:40.320 --> 0:48:43.520
<v Speaker 1>She wanted her man to and the good life.

0:48:43.680 --> 0:48:45.960
<v Speaker 2>Now you get to be like, oh, yeah, this emotional

0:48:46.000 --> 0:48:49.600
<v Speaker 2>investment that wasn't paid on. Yes, that's really what it was.

0:48:49.600 --> 0:48:52.880
<v Speaker 2>It was no money that could have satisfied how she

0:48:52.960 --> 0:48:56.040
<v Speaker 2>felt because it was the emotional investment that was missing

0:48:56.080 --> 0:48:56.440
<v Speaker 2>for her.

0:48:57.360 --> 0:48:59.480
<v Speaker 1>And this is why I always say I'm okay with

0:48:59.520 --> 0:49:07.040
<v Speaker 1>giving a a woman a refurbished man, Right, because maybe

0:49:07.080 --> 0:49:08.640
<v Speaker 1>you're not meant to do the things with me, And

0:49:08.680 --> 0:49:11.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm okay with that, right, So you're gonna go on.

0:49:11.880 --> 0:49:14.560
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna learn from this relationship and you're gonna be

0:49:14.600 --> 0:49:18.440
<v Speaker 1>a better man to the next woman. If you keep saying, oh, now,

0:49:18.760 --> 0:49:21.759
<v Speaker 1>if you keep thinking about what that person is gonna do,

0:49:22.239 --> 0:49:25.040
<v Speaker 1>they're gonna do better now and with somebody else. If

0:49:25.040 --> 0:49:27.759
<v Speaker 1>you keep thinking of wanting to return on your investment,

0:49:28.160 --> 0:49:31.279
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be disappointed all the time. You're gonna be

0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:34.280
<v Speaker 1>like Melinda. So you gotta be okay with leaving somebody

0:49:34.320 --> 0:49:37.920
<v Speaker 1>when things are right aren't right with y'all together?

0:49:38.400 --> 0:49:41.640
<v Speaker 2>And you can't give so much of yourself that you

0:49:41.719 --> 0:49:44.120
<v Speaker 2>have resentment to this level exactly.

0:49:44.160 --> 0:49:47.480
<v Speaker 1>We talked about this the other day, Like, yeah, like,

0:49:47.600 --> 0:49:50.359
<v Speaker 1>don't do don't do anything if it's not from the heart,

0:49:51.800 --> 0:49:54.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, and don't do if you expect return.

0:49:54.520 --> 0:49:58.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, even if it is from the heart, don't overextend

0:49:58.120 --> 0:50:01.680
<v Speaker 2>yourself to the point where you feel this inful because

0:50:01.680 --> 0:50:04.560
<v Speaker 2>it can happen. It can happen, and you look up

0:50:04.600 --> 0:50:07.239
<v Speaker 2>and you've given a man your best years and he

0:50:07.360 --> 0:50:09.080
<v Speaker 2>go off to be happy with somebody else.

0:50:09.520 --> 0:50:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you gotta be okay with that possibility. Don't

0:50:12.200 --> 0:50:15.080
<v Speaker 1>stay in a relationship because you're you feel like, man,

0:50:15.239 --> 0:50:17.200
<v Speaker 1>if we break up, what's she going to go do

0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:19.200
<v Speaker 1>better with somebody else? You gotta be okay with that,

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:22.840
<v Speaker 1>Go get better with somebody else. Do it too exactly,

0:50:23.200 --> 0:50:25.280
<v Speaker 1>So you're thinking a little bit too little of yourself

0:50:25.280 --> 0:50:27.680
<v Speaker 1>if you think that you can't get into another relationship

0:50:27.680 --> 0:50:30.120
<v Speaker 1>where things are better for you as well.

0:50:31.000 --> 0:50:33.960
<v Speaker 2>So was that in an innocent party or a homewrecker?

0:50:35.200 --> 0:50:37.960
<v Speaker 2>I believe she was an innocent party, you know what

0:50:38.000 --> 0:50:40.839
<v Speaker 2>I'm saying. She had the tools that he needed and

0:50:40.880 --> 0:50:43.560
<v Speaker 2>if you're my friend, why wouldn't I help you? And

0:50:43.640 --> 0:50:45.680
<v Speaker 2>that home was already read by the time they started,

0:50:46.040 --> 0:50:49.360
<v Speaker 2>you know, exactly in a romantic way. That home was

0:50:49.400 --> 0:50:50.120
<v Speaker 2>already broken.

0:50:50.360 --> 0:50:52.279
<v Speaker 1>And he didn't want to break up. He didn't want

0:50:52.280 --> 0:50:54.040
<v Speaker 1>to break out with Melnda. He wasn't really trying to

0:50:54.120 --> 0:50:57.000
<v Speaker 1>leave her. So that's what that's the part where he's

0:50:57.040 --> 0:51:00.480
<v Speaker 1>a villain because he was using her, right he he doesn't.

0:51:00.520 --> 0:51:02.160
<v Speaker 1>He may not see it that way, and people watching

0:51:02.160 --> 0:51:04.640
<v Speaker 1>the movie may not see it that way. He definitely

0:51:04.719 --> 0:51:07.400
<v Speaker 1>used the hell out of his wife, and she allowed

0:51:07.440 --> 0:51:10.239
<v Speaker 1>him to use her because he because she believed in him.

0:51:10.800 --> 0:51:13.640
<v Speaker 2>But that's why he tried to wrote her check for

0:51:13.680 --> 0:51:17.160
<v Speaker 2>like what, ten million dollars. He bought her house back.

0:51:17.600 --> 0:51:20.880
<v Speaker 2>You know, he tried to make amends for all the

0:51:21.000 --> 0:51:27.000
<v Speaker 2>years of abuse, you know, financial abuse. He tried to

0:51:27.000 --> 0:51:29.120
<v Speaker 2>make amends for that, but there was no amends to

0:51:29.160 --> 0:51:32.320
<v Speaker 2>be made because what she wanted didn't have a dollar

0:51:32.360 --> 0:51:35.560
<v Speaker 2>amount on it. He wanted the life that was promised

0:51:35.560 --> 0:51:38.440
<v Speaker 2>to her. She wanted to house him by, she wanted

0:51:38.480 --> 0:51:40.560
<v Speaker 2>the boat, and he gave all this to this other

0:51:40.600 --> 0:51:43.239
<v Speaker 2>woman and the baby that she could never have. That

0:51:43.360 --> 0:51:46.440
<v Speaker 2>girl was in the courtroom chastising her, rubbing her belly,

0:51:46.440 --> 0:51:49.800
<v Speaker 2>looking at her baby. I know that pissed, and that

0:51:49.800 --> 0:51:52.440
<v Speaker 2>would have pisce anybody off right, because she knows she

0:51:52.480 --> 0:51:55.040
<v Speaker 2>can't mother a child. And this is the same woman

0:51:55.640 --> 0:51:58.560
<v Speaker 2>that you cheated on me with and had me go to.

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:00.919
<v Speaker 2>Now she had to take account of what she did

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:04.080
<v Speaker 2>because you can't have a baby because you drive, like

0:52:04.120 --> 0:52:06.000
<v Speaker 2>anybody who drive a car into a building.

0:52:07.960 --> 0:52:12.360
<v Speaker 1>A baby. You need therapy, y'all. Somebody I remember somebody

0:52:12.400 --> 0:52:15.160
<v Speaker 1>had commented on Instagram. I just started thinking about just now,

0:52:15.160 --> 0:52:16.800
<v Speaker 1>when you were talking about the girl rubbing the belly.

0:52:16.880 --> 0:52:19.440
<v Speaker 1>Somebody had commented it was like AJ seemed like she

0:52:19.520 --> 0:52:24.280
<v Speaker 1>got built up or bent up, anger or something inside.

0:52:24.560 --> 0:52:26.480
<v Speaker 1>I really don't. But let me tell y'all how people

0:52:26.480 --> 0:52:29.239
<v Speaker 1>be fucking with me? Right because I know who I

0:52:29.280 --> 0:52:32.200
<v Speaker 1>am and they can't, so they really try real hard

0:52:32.200 --> 0:52:35.080
<v Speaker 1>to fuck with me. Don't y'all know? My ex sent

0:52:35.200 --> 0:52:38.959
<v Speaker 1>me a picture of him he delivered his child after

0:52:39.000 --> 0:52:41.040
<v Speaker 1>we broke up. Right, He had a baby, got somebody pregnant,

0:52:41.080 --> 0:52:44.480
<v Speaker 1>had another baby, third baby, third baby, Mama nigga. He

0:52:44.600 --> 0:52:48.000
<v Speaker 1>was not the prize. He sent me a picture delivering

0:52:48.040 --> 0:52:50.479
<v Speaker 1>this baby at the house. He sent me a picture

0:52:50.520 --> 0:52:52.880
<v Speaker 1>of this baby straight out the pussy, like the girl's

0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:56.160
<v Speaker 1>foot amiotic fluid was on the floor. The girl's foot

0:52:56.239 --> 0:52:58.000
<v Speaker 1>was in the picture. But you sent my mom on

0:52:58.040 --> 0:53:00.680
<v Speaker 1>the regularized picture with the baby would close on and

0:53:00.719 --> 0:53:05.080
<v Speaker 1>shit like that, like what the fuck? Like that type

0:53:05.080 --> 0:53:07.040
<v Speaker 1>of ship will make you kill.

0:53:06.840 --> 0:53:09.600
<v Speaker 2>A nigga's because he knew how you wanted to be.

0:53:10.360 --> 0:53:13.919
<v Speaker 1>It's not And you know, I still I realize now

0:53:13.960 --> 0:53:16.560
<v Speaker 1>that things aren't supposed to happen because you're not. You're

0:53:16.600 --> 0:53:18.400
<v Speaker 1>not in a situation you're supposed to be in for

0:53:18.520 --> 0:53:21.600
<v Speaker 1>it to fucking happen, right, So I was never supposed

0:53:21.600 --> 0:53:23.960
<v Speaker 1>to have his child. It wasn't that I wanted a

0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:27.560
<v Speaker 1>child so bad. It's my subconscious mind not allowing it

0:53:27.600 --> 0:53:29.520
<v Speaker 1>to happen because I wasn't where I was supposed to

0:53:29.520 --> 0:53:32.640
<v Speaker 1>be at, right, That's all it is. We determine when

0:53:32.640 --> 0:53:35.040
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna have kids for real, and women do have

0:53:35.120 --> 0:53:40.359
<v Speaker 1>to be comfortable to conceive and I wasn't. But the

0:53:40.400 --> 0:53:45.040
<v Speaker 1>nerve of you, son of a bitch send me that

0:53:45.120 --> 0:53:47.200
<v Speaker 1>fucking picture with that, I just couldn't believe it. This

0:53:47.239 --> 0:53:50.160
<v Speaker 1>ship was fucking funny as it held to me. But

0:53:50.320 --> 0:53:52.319
<v Speaker 1>this you and I went through the fucking fire with

0:53:52.400 --> 0:53:54.239
<v Speaker 1>a nigga, and this is how it will repay you,

0:53:55.120 --> 0:53:58.440
<v Speaker 1>because why you think I want to see that? And

0:53:58.480 --> 0:54:00.239
<v Speaker 1>then I had to also think like maybe he didn't

0:54:00.239 --> 0:54:02.840
<v Speaker 1>even think about it like that, you know what I'm saying.

0:54:03.200 --> 0:54:06.200
<v Speaker 1>But then I just knowing his uh, like the routine

0:54:06.239 --> 0:54:10.480
<v Speaker 1>bullshit from him. He definitely did that on purpose.

0:54:11.880 --> 0:54:15.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah he did, and that was hurtful. Weird, Oh shit,

0:54:15.280 --> 0:54:18.960
<v Speaker 2>that was hurtful. Yeah, that's how people be fucking me.

0:54:19.040 --> 0:54:22.160
<v Speaker 2>So it's not bent up anger because I talk about

0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:27.680
<v Speaker 2>my shit bitch. So it's not something that's like settling inside.

0:54:27.920 --> 0:54:29.400
<v Speaker 2>But imagine that for a second.

0:54:31.200 --> 0:54:32.600
<v Speaker 1>The fuck anyway?

0:54:33.200 --> 0:54:35.919
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like I couldn't be like, so you don't feel

0:54:35.920 --> 0:54:36.640
<v Speaker 2>like you're angry.

0:54:37.600 --> 0:54:42.040
<v Speaker 1>No, No, I am just I am fucking strict. I'm

0:54:42.160 --> 0:54:45.120
<v Speaker 1>very stern. I don't play about me. So that's probably

0:54:45.160 --> 0:54:48.440
<v Speaker 1>how it comes out to people, because you cannot play

0:54:48.480 --> 0:54:51.000
<v Speaker 1>with me. That's all it is. I am not a

0:54:51.160 --> 0:54:54.440
<v Speaker 1>fucking nice person. I am good. I go above and

0:54:54.480 --> 0:54:57.520
<v Speaker 1>beyond for people, and I just be wanting that same

0:54:57.640 --> 0:55:01.480
<v Speaker 1>thing in return. But realize in that, you know, everybody

0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:05.200
<v Speaker 1>just isn't like that. It's okay, So but I'm gonna

0:55:05.239 --> 0:55:06.520
<v Speaker 1>defend me every time.

0:55:06.680 --> 0:55:09.720
<v Speaker 2>So a question overall? Do you think men are good?

0:55:10.000 --> 0:55:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Overall?

0:55:11.160 --> 0:55:13.680
<v Speaker 2>I think an audience to know, like where you're standing.

0:55:13.840 --> 0:55:16.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think a lot of men. I think a

0:55:16.400 --> 0:55:20.080
<v Speaker 1>lot of men lack integrity, right, I think a lot

0:55:20.120 --> 0:55:23.799
<v Speaker 1>of men they lie a lot. And it's not just me.

0:55:23.960 --> 0:55:25.839
<v Speaker 1>I think most women feel the same way.

0:55:25.960 --> 0:55:26.160
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:55:26.800 --> 0:55:29.120
<v Speaker 1>Men will not tell you the truth. They will put

0:55:29.160 --> 0:55:32.480
<v Speaker 1>your life in their hands and make decisions for you,

0:55:32.640 --> 0:55:34.640
<v Speaker 1>as opposed to telling you the truth and give you

0:55:35.080 --> 0:55:38.160
<v Speaker 1>all the information. So you're making an informed decision about

0:55:38.200 --> 0:55:41.040
<v Speaker 1>what you want for your life. So that's really all

0:55:41.080 --> 0:55:44.320
<v Speaker 1>it is. A lot of most men lack integrity. Yes,

0:55:45.520 --> 0:55:48.120
<v Speaker 1>I saw this post on Instagram recently, and this guy

0:55:48.280 --> 0:55:50.879
<v Speaker 1>was like, if I tell you this, I'm not gonna

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:54.279
<v Speaker 1>get the pussy. Like, if you tell you don't know

0:55:54.320 --> 0:55:55.960
<v Speaker 1>that though you know what I'm saying. So they don't

0:55:55.960 --> 0:55:57.720
<v Speaker 1>even want to run the risk of you not fucking

0:55:57.760 --> 0:55:59.600
<v Speaker 1>with them. So from day one, they just met you.

0:55:59.640 --> 0:56:03.400
<v Speaker 1>At one, they'll start with lies. That is somebody who

0:56:03.520 --> 0:56:06.600
<v Speaker 1>lacks integrity. Yeah, you're just lying for no reason. I'm

0:56:06.640 --> 0:56:08.720
<v Speaker 1>a stranger. Tell me the truth and let me decide

0:56:08.760 --> 0:56:10.040
<v Speaker 1>whether or not I want to fuck with you or not.

0:56:10.440 --> 0:56:12.360
<v Speaker 1>Tell me you married, Tell me you got a baby

0:56:12.400 --> 0:56:14.720
<v Speaker 1>on the way, Tell me all you want is pussy,

0:56:14.920 --> 0:56:15.600
<v Speaker 1>Tell me that.

0:56:15.560 --> 0:56:16.560
<v Speaker 2>I might just want to fuck.

0:56:17.640 --> 0:56:19.040
<v Speaker 1>I might not want nothing either.

0:56:19.520 --> 0:56:23.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't think most men like integrity.

0:56:23.200 --> 0:56:25.480
<v Speaker 1>When it comes to relationships with women.

0:56:26.200 --> 0:56:29.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think that. I think most of the

0:56:29.920 --> 0:56:34.120
<v Speaker 2>men we've dated, I think there are good men out there.

0:56:34.160 --> 0:56:36.600
<v Speaker 2>I think they're just not available to us anymore. I

0:56:36.600 --> 0:56:38.719
<v Speaker 2>think they're don't just say men we dated, Let's talk

0:56:38.719 --> 0:56:46.640
<v Speaker 2>about our dads, Okay, I hate to generalize all men

0:56:47.080 --> 0:56:50.399
<v Speaker 2>negative connotation and be like, oh, because I didn't, I didn't.

0:56:50.440 --> 0:56:53.400
<v Speaker 1>I said most. I didn't say all. I did say most, though.

0:56:53.520 --> 0:56:55.640
<v Speaker 2>Because I hate whomen do that to us and be like,

0:56:55.760 --> 0:56:59.319
<v Speaker 2>most women are gold diggers? Are most women we should be?

0:56:59.400 --> 0:56:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Though?

0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:00.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't. I don't.

0:57:00.800 --> 0:57:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm not offended by that women should be gold diggers.

0:57:03.400 --> 0:57:05.719
<v Speaker 1>It is our job to make sure we pick the

0:57:05.760 --> 0:57:08.880
<v Speaker 1>best suitable mates to procreate with. Okay, and if we

0:57:09.080 --> 0:57:11.480
<v Speaker 1>actually did that, a lot of niggas would die having

0:57:11.600 --> 0:57:16.240
<v Speaker 1>never had sex, if we actually did the primal thing

0:57:16.440 --> 0:57:19.280
<v Speaker 1>right and picked the best person to have to have

0:57:19.320 --> 0:57:19.840
<v Speaker 1>a family with.

0:57:20.000 --> 0:57:22.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I agree, But I think a gold digger

0:57:22.760 --> 0:57:25.720
<v Speaker 2>is something different, you know. I don't think because that

0:57:26.000 --> 0:57:31.360
<v Speaker 2>that that's not just about money. That's as about emotional intelligence, integrity,

0:57:31.600 --> 0:57:34.919
<v Speaker 2>like spirituality and all those things in conface, A good

0:57:34.960 --> 0:57:38.200
<v Speaker 2>mate is not just finances, whereas a gold digger is

0:57:38.200 --> 0:57:40.720
<v Speaker 2>a woman who's looking for the man with the most money.

0:57:41.160 --> 0:57:44.040
<v Speaker 2>You know. So, I, you know, I don't believe that

0:57:44.080 --> 0:57:47.040
<v Speaker 2>to be true. Not all women are gold diggers. Now,

0:57:47.080 --> 0:57:49.400
<v Speaker 2>do they want a man who can provide and be

0:57:49.480 --> 0:57:53.440
<v Speaker 2>a good mate and a good father, Yes, Why wouldn't

0:57:53.440 --> 0:57:55.520
<v Speaker 2>you want that? No, I don't want to know who

0:57:55.560 --> 0:57:58.600
<v Speaker 2>wants somebody who they got to drag along like another child.

0:57:58.680 --> 0:58:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Nobody wants that, So go digging different.

0:58:03.120 --> 0:58:08.840
<v Speaker 1>I think everything is necessary. Right. Women who only date

0:58:08.960 --> 0:58:12.360
<v Speaker 1>men for money, I'm pretty sure that at some point

0:58:12.480 --> 0:58:16.040
<v Speaker 1>they were dating for love to right, and they realize

0:58:16.080 --> 0:58:20.640
<v Speaker 1>that because men want to dig your pussy? Why you

0:58:20.680 --> 0:58:24.320
<v Speaker 1>can't dig the gold? Okay, why can't I? But it's

0:58:24.360 --> 0:58:28.880
<v Speaker 1>a man more than this pussy? Am I tripping?

0:58:28.960 --> 0:58:29.200
<v Speaker 2>Y'all?

0:58:29.800 --> 0:58:35.280
<v Speaker 1>Oh? You think they reduce us to cooking, cleaning and fucking?

0:58:35.680 --> 0:58:39.400
<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? That is what we're like, Supposedly,

0:58:39.440 --> 0:58:42.040
<v Speaker 1>that's all we're good for. I just told somebody last week, like,

0:58:42.080 --> 0:58:45.000
<v Speaker 1>women have an innate thing about them that you can't

0:58:45.000 --> 0:58:47.720
<v Speaker 1>even see or touch, but you only can feel. Right,

0:58:47.760 --> 0:58:50.200
<v Speaker 1>and if you are not a man with purpose, right,

0:58:50.600 --> 0:58:53.120
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be you're looking you don't realize that this

0:58:53.200 --> 0:58:56.560
<v Speaker 1>woman that you're taking care of, who have buried your children? Right,

0:58:56.600 --> 0:58:58.320
<v Speaker 1>there's two different type of men in the world. It's

0:58:58.400 --> 0:59:01.200
<v Speaker 1>either one who wants to take care of like a

0:59:01.240 --> 0:59:03.720
<v Speaker 1>man who feeds his ego based on how many people

0:59:03.760 --> 0:59:05.720
<v Speaker 1>he can take care of and then the other man

0:59:05.840 --> 0:59:08.360
<v Speaker 1>is how many bitches he can fuck? All right, those

0:59:08.360 --> 0:59:10.080
<v Speaker 1>are the two types of men that we're dealing with.

0:59:10.240 --> 0:59:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I prefer, you know, men who like to take care

0:59:13.520 --> 0:59:16.280
<v Speaker 1>of people who go above and beyond for.

0:59:16.280 --> 0:59:18.920
<v Speaker 2>Their family out there, that are healed, healthy, looking for

0:59:18.960 --> 0:59:24.320
<v Speaker 2>a partner to grow with, build generational wealth with, start

0:59:24.320 --> 0:59:24.960
<v Speaker 2>a family with.

0:59:25.200 --> 0:59:27.400
<v Speaker 1>They may feel just like us right now, and.

0:59:27.360 --> 0:59:31.440
<v Speaker 2>It's not just based on fucking cooking and what else she.

0:59:31.440 --> 0:59:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Said, and sucking dick and cleaning.

0:59:35.640 --> 0:59:35.840
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:59:36.240 --> 0:59:38.720
<v Speaker 1>Yes, there are some men, right, but they may they

0:59:38.760 --> 0:59:41.960
<v Speaker 1>may have given the best in themselves to the gold diggers,

0:59:42.000 --> 0:59:44.200
<v Speaker 1>to whoever else. So it's gonna be hard for us

0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:46.440
<v Speaker 1>to meet them, you know, you know what I'm saying,

0:59:46.440 --> 0:59:48.959
<v Speaker 1>because they probably feeling like us. Shit, I do better

0:59:49.000 --> 0:59:52.560
<v Speaker 1>by myself, right, I don't need a man. I don't

0:59:52.560 --> 0:59:53.320
<v Speaker 1>need a woman for this.

0:59:54.960 --> 0:59:56.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't need y'all.

0:59:56.440 --> 1:00:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't need y'all. It's it's it's it's probably given

1:00:01.160 --> 1:00:03.320
<v Speaker 1>that for those men, they probably in the house like me,

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<v Speaker 1>in the house, trying trying to get their portfolios together, right,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to diversify their portfolio, like really working on their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Because women come with the money first of all. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would suggest all men just just focus on the

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<v Speaker 1>money for real, just focus on getting the bag, so

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<v Speaker 1>then you could get you can attract the partner you want.

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<v Speaker 2>But it may be.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the problem. They like the women who only because

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<v Speaker 1>that you would. I think a lot of modern women

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<v Speaker 1>because I have a different, different definition of modern women.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of modern women we take men's

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<v Speaker 1>jobs away. The man's job is to provide. But when

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<v Speaker 1>you acting like you the nigga with money, then you complain,

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<v Speaker 1>you get somebody who's a taker. You end up with

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<v Speaker 1>this nigga who needs your money, who needs your time,

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<v Speaker 1>who needs your energy.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, like the nigga wo't the money me either.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm always the damsel.

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<v Speaker 1>And see it's tough for me to be the damsel

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<v Speaker 1>in distress, right because I won't act like the nigga

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<v Speaker 1>with the money. But I probably have an ore about

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<v Speaker 1>myself that I'm gonna be okay without you, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Really know, Like I make these niggas feel like I need.

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<v Speaker 1>I need you, and that's how men have to feel

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<v Speaker 1>like they Yeah, but then everybody gets burnt out right.

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<v Speaker 1>So imagine a man who's been taking care of his

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<v Speaker 1>family for fifteen years, and he's the prime decision maker, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Your wife doesn't make any decisions. It's probably because you're

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<v Speaker 1>a control free right. You pick this type of woman

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<v Speaker 1>because you want to be in control of everybody in

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<v Speaker 1>your household. So that's something that man has to work through.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can't have resentment towards her for not using

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<v Speaker 1>her brain much. That's the type of woman you want it,

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<v Speaker 1>right you? And I think often somebody you got to

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<v Speaker 1>take care of.

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<v Speaker 2>These women, don't They do have brains, but you have,

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<v Speaker 2>You have made it to a place where she hasn't

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<v Speaker 2>had to use it, you know, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, and then he go when he when he gets

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<v Speaker 1>to a certain place, he might leave you. You ain't

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<v Speaker 1>stacked none of his money.

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<v Speaker 2>But let me tell you, let me let me recant that,

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<v Speaker 2>because any woman who's in there raising your children has

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<v Speaker 2>to use her brain a lot, a lot, So she

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<v Speaker 2>may not be using it toward business and things like

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<v Speaker 2>that and more money. Well, when it comes to raising

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<v Speaker 2>these children, it is a job in itself. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like if you are that woman in that way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like if you are a man with means,

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<v Speaker 1>a man of integrity, you realize the that innate like

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<v Speaker 1>the value that a woman actually brings, like Mama's come

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<v Speaker 1>with a loaf of bread. You get the right woman,

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<v Speaker 1>your whole life elevates. You get married, you have a

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<v Speaker 1>fucking We can use Charlemagne as a private prime example.

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<v Speaker 1>I met Jessica and Charlemagne at the same time. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm seventeen, however old they are, like Jessica's low bit

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<v Speaker 1>older than me. Charlemagne is older both of us, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm at them at the same time when he was

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<v Speaker 1>just working at radio station part time type shit. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>it is her energy and you know people won't see

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<v Speaker 1>that though. Right, It is her energy that got him

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<v Speaker 1>to where he is, and he knows that as a man.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why Charlamagne always surround himself with women, because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what some successful men do. It is just something like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna have to worry about the cockfights because

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<v Speaker 1>kings are born, right, you can't really like you can

1:03:26.720 --> 1:03:30.160
<v Speaker 1>beat apprenticeship underneath another king to get your king position, right,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what a smart man would do. But a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these niggas want to be the fucking chief they won.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want to be the Indian. And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>we're missing in our community. Men learning from actual other

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<v Speaker 1>men so that they can then be in position. These

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<v Speaker 1>niggas just want to take somebody else's position because they

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<v Speaker 1>think they deserve it. Right, you don't know what this

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<v Speaker 1>person had to go through to get there. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know who else made sacrifices for this person to get

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<v Speaker 1>to where they're going. Also, so it is the energy

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<v Speaker 1>of the woman that enables the man to do the things,

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<v Speaker 1>to go out and get the bread, right to bring

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<v Speaker 1>it back home. It's the energy of his family. No one,

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<v Speaker 1>he has his purpose. I gotta take care of these people.

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<v Speaker 1>This is my responsibility. They're gonna do it. But when

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<v Speaker 1>they they were somebody to take care of them.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing, that's what it says in the Bible. You

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<v Speaker 2>know a woman would beat you as a man. I agree,

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<v Speaker 2>these they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>These men don't realize it though we're not this this

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<v Speaker 1>life is based off of double occupancy. None of us

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<v Speaker 1>should be trying to do it ourselves. Y'all should see

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<v Speaker 1>that based on the fucking economy, no one person should

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<v Speaker 1>be trying to afford their lives by theirselves. Like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>women have been forced to do that though now because

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<v Speaker 1>it's easier than to be with the second person, having

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<v Speaker 1>then struggle with them because oftentimes we're taking other people

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<v Speaker 1>into consideration before we take ourselves.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you know, you get dragged Big MoMA and

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<v Speaker 2>then they didn't really have a lot of choice, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they had to be with someone because they couldn't afford

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<v Speaker 2>to do it by themselves. It wasn't like the opportunities

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<v Speaker 2>that we have now, because I don't you know, do

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<v Speaker 2>we think that Big Mama would have wanted to stay

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<v Speaker 2>with Granddaddy if she could could go out on her

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<v Speaker 2>own and do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not. But I don't believe every Big Mama's story

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<v Speaker 1>is the same because there were some real good men

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<v Speaker 1>back then, right who didn't have multiple families.

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<v Speaker 2>There's good men now. Yeah, I don't want to like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they they definitely exist. I know some. I've ran

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<v Speaker 1>into some, right, and then I just didn't like them

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<v Speaker 1>and ended up somewhere I wasn't supposed to fucking be

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<v Speaker 1>because it was funner over there. This nigga was strict

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<v Speaker 1>over here, you know what I'm saying. So I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>know good men exist. I'm not saying they don't exist.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm also not gonna say I've never dated a

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<v Speaker 1>good man, because I have. I think if you are

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<v Speaker 1>a woman who say all niggas ain't shit, chances are

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<v Speaker 1>you ain't shit either, Right, That's not what I'm saying, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because I am shit. But I do believe again, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of men do lack integrity, right, even the good ones,

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<v Speaker 1>even self proclaimgas I just.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, But I don't think it's just men. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's just people. You know, people lack integrity, People

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<v Speaker 2>need therapy, people need to work on themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>And who'll be working on themselves the most so we

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<v Speaker 1>can put so we can show up as our higher

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<v Speaker 1>selves to people.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we do. I think women, you know, are

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<v Speaker 2>definitely actively trying to be better versions of theirselves. But

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like men are too, you know, we just

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<v Speaker 2>may be doing it faster. I don't think. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it's some men that's just out here, ain't shit and

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<v Speaker 2>don't care, you know, and they're just gonna die, ain't shit.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think it's uh, you know, there's men out

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<v Speaker 2>here who are not proud of their past and trying

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<v Speaker 2>to be better versions of their self actively every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, leave that, nigga. Let me tell y'all, men learn

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<v Speaker 1>from hurt, Men learn from consequence consequences. Men learn from pain.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling y'all what I fucking know, right, so he

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<v Speaker 1>will remember the hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody likes to be left, especially a narc. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>just call Ice cold a ass. They're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a good man to the next bitch, Savannah, Meg, it

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<v Speaker 1>just wasn't supposed to be for you. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>can get somebody else's a furbished nigga. Okay, and then

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<v Speaker 1>while I you got a husband, it's got to be open.

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<v Speaker 2>Though.

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<v Speaker 1>I would never be Melinda, and I won't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>My last relationship, we were starting businesses and stuff like

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<v Speaker 1>that together. I haven't gotten a return on any investment. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The last conversation I had with this food we was

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<v Speaker 1>arguing about the food truck. Shit, this last conversation, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get my return on the investment. You got the

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<v Speaker 1>food truck. I'm just saying, you can't have the name,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't have the company, you can't have the trademark.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll sell it to you. I'll license it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you think I'm not supposed to get anything?

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<v Speaker 1>You came up, you wanted to do this thing right,

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<v Speaker 1>and I made the initial investment, so I kicked it off.

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<v Speaker 2>So do you think trust?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't. I just want my fair share. I

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<v Speaker 1>wish we could have been I wish we could have been,

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<v Speaker 1>like still in a position where we could do business

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<v Speaker 1>together and not be together. But he's not that type

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<v Speaker 1>of person. I definitely wish we could have done that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wouldn't have been able to be in a

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<v Speaker 1>new relationship and having to deal with him on a

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<v Speaker 1>daily basis now other way around. I don't care who

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<v Speaker 1>you wit. Let's get this fucking money. I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>had we could have done that, but no, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>no resentment towards it. But you ain't about to play me.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not about to play me. So, yeah, I need mine,

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<v Speaker 1>I need my money, honey.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm not mad at that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you can give me my money back. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even have to give me interest. You just

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<v Speaker 1>give me back what I put in and I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>okay with it. But no, you're not just about to

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<v Speaker 1>get everything, and you're sending me foots and amniotic fluid

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<v Speaker 1>pictures with fucking umbilical cords still attached.

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<v Speaker 2>Hurtful. That was heurtful to send you, And I bet

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<v Speaker 2>you in his mind he wasn't trying to be hurtful

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<v Speaker 2>to you. I think he was trying to celebrate.

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<v Speaker 1>Possibly possibly right, But I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Think people sometimes don't understand how even their joy can

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<v Speaker 2>be hurtful to you, you know, especially if you had

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<v Speaker 2>been in a relationship and knowing that motherhood was something

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<v Speaker 2>that I wanted, you know, So I hate that. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't like that. I don't like nothing about what happened

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<v Speaker 2>uh with that relationship for you. And I do hope

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<v Speaker 2>that the next relationship or the current is the one

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<v Speaker 2>that gives you, not the next or the current gives

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<v Speaker 2>you everything that you've always wanted.

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<v Speaker 1>Your I'm always going to get what I want. I

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<v Speaker 1>just have to. I think what women need to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is not just for me. Right, we need

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<v Speaker 1>to trust ourselves. Talked about the clitical thinking last week.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to trust ourselves more, right, and stop and

1:10:06.280 --> 1:10:09.800
<v Speaker 1>stop using because the men like to say they're more logical, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to try to be more logical and actually

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<v Speaker 1>you got to do both right, so that innate thing

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<v Speaker 1>and then do like a data assessment what is actually

1:10:19.680 --> 1:10:25.080
<v Speaker 1>happening right right, and make your decisions based off of

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<v Speaker 1>that and not just pure heart and emotion.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Because you look up and you Melinda.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly. You don't want to be Melinda. You don't want

1:10:37.280 --> 1:10:39.960
<v Speaker 1>to be like crashing out like she did. I was

1:10:40.000 --> 1:10:42.400
<v Speaker 1>thinking she survived. I don't know, she did get shot

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<v Speaker 1>and went into the ocean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard to survive that. But crazy people live a

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<v Speaker 2>long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Evil lives long.

1:10:51.280 --> 1:10:53.040
<v Speaker 2>Crazy too crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So one of the things here that say was

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<v Speaker 1>Robert a dream of manipulator. He was both Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't mad at either character because I don't think

1:11:08.880 --> 1:11:13.240
<v Speaker 2>he meant to be that, you know, a user. I

1:11:13.240 --> 1:11:16.040
<v Speaker 2>don't think that was his intention. He was just focused

1:11:16.080 --> 1:11:21.200
<v Speaker 2>on his own dream. I don't think. Uh, but Linda

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<v Speaker 2>wanted She just wanted to love her husband down and

1:11:23.800 --> 1:11:26.800
<v Speaker 2>wanted to be loved back, and she had mental health

1:11:26.840 --> 1:11:30.200
<v Speaker 2>issues where she couldn't handle her anger. I don't think

1:11:30.240 --> 1:11:33.160
<v Speaker 2>either one of them was like intentional villains.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he had no room for error though in

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<v Speaker 1>that relationship. Aside from like, as long as she knew

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<v Speaker 1>he was there working on that thing, that Nigga had

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<v Speaker 1>no room for anything else, no errors, She probably would

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<v Speaker 1>have killed him. She tried to kill him again, he

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<v Speaker 1>probably would have killed him again. So yeah, story, I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to see an acrimony too. What's your last?

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<v Speaker 2>Last?

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<v Speaker 1>For this? For the movie?

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<v Speaker 2>No, just for the conversation itself, because this is more

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<v Speaker 2>than the movie, right, I tell mine, why are you

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<v Speaker 2>thinking of yours?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it would be yeah, go ahead, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it.

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<v Speaker 2>Always circles back to keep your regrets to a minimum.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all your regrets to a minimum. Try to make the

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<v Speaker 2>best choices for your life, and then consider others as

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<v Speaker 2>you go. You know, you can't be too selfish. It's

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<v Speaker 2>all about balance. Can't be too selfish, but you also

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<v Speaker 2>need to be a bit selfish. It has to be

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<v Speaker 2>like that middle ground or you could end up resentful

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<v Speaker 2>and wasting your time and it just love yourself on

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<v Speaker 2>purpose and others. So all I got.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just feel like she gave him everything, her money,

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<v Speaker 1>her time, her youth, all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So, I think what women often are looking for is reciprocity,

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<v Speaker 1>give and take and no relationship, maybe in a romantic

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<v Speaker 1>relationship or even with your friends or family. There should

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<v Speaker 1>not You should not always be somebody that someone calls

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<v Speaker 1>to take from. Right, people should also be doing for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's where you know you don't end up with

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<v Speaker 1>resentment because I guess I want to pose a question

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<v Speaker 1>to the listeners. If you invest in someone's potential and

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<v Speaker 1>they finally win big, what do they owe you? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel is just do? What do you feel like?

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<v Speaker 1>How do you what do you feel about the check?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it big enough?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What would you require to be okay? After you've given

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<v Speaker 1>your entire life to somebody else? Because she gave her

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<v Speaker 1>mental health, this is what she's never she would if

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<v Speaker 1>she lived, she was never going to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>go and be with somebody else. This had her fucked up?

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<v Speaker 2>Why though, That's the thing because.

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<v Speaker 1>That in her mind, that was her person, That is

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<v Speaker 1>who I was supposed to spend the rest of my

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<v Speaker 1>life with in her mind. But I guess it had

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<v Speaker 1>conditions also, right.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you should ever be that attached to

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<v Speaker 2>anybody in this life.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not. I I purposely practice detachment.

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<v Speaker 2>Just you know you got because you are going up

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<v Speaker 2>out of here by yourself. I don't give a damn

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<v Speaker 2>who you. You know, you got to leave here by yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's okay to love, but the greatest love is

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<v Speaker 2>to love yourself, God itself, because you you can't take

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<v Speaker 2>nobody with you. Nope, So I don't know. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you are dad attached to someone, then you need to

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<v Speaker 2>go to therapy and see how to untether in that way.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not healthy, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, y'all, we gotta start making these. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we'll start doing the movie episodes for like Patreon. We

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<v Speaker 1>can't just keep doing movie reviews for episodes, y'all. I

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<v Speaker 1>like it too, I mean because it opens up dialogue

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<v Speaker 1>for other conversations, right, not just the movie, like how

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<v Speaker 1>would you do it? Who's tripping? Anyway? So if y'all

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in every Thursday on The

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<v Speaker 1>a tam.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all, it's official, Tam bam. I love y'all own purpose.

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to love your cell phone purpose and

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<v Speaker 2>always channel the energy of Cardi b Casu, Doal, Taylor, Anderiod.

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<v Speaker 1>Move on, yes, all right, remember it now and never

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<v Speaker 1>hold them niggas. Girl it up out of asked net.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye bye,