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Speaker 1: Because it's about a gold damn.

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Speaker 2: Talk talk talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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Speaker 1: Who talks back. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, aj Holiday,

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Speaker 1: what's up, tam Damn Hey, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all so so, so so very much. Girl

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Speaker 1: Look at mine right now because I was using turmeric toothpaste,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, what the fuck? And I do do

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Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, you putting turmeric on your damn teeth?

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Speaker 2: Bitch Oh yellow first of all, turk on yellow, anything

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I didn't think it was until I saw

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Speaker 2: Teeth, right, crazy ass. Yeah, but I'm thinking yesterday shout

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Speaker 2: out to Chris, that was your weekend. We need some ads, period.

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Speaker 2: My weekend was a bunch of havoc, y'all. It was

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Speaker 3: Yea hey birthday, yea yeah, birthday to you.

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Speaker 4: Happy birthday, easy, hey Jay, Happy birthday to you.

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Speaker 1: It was literally a j's holiday, Okay. On Sunday, she.

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Speaker 2: Ain't respond to a single message or car what was good?

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Speaker 1: Get it?

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Speaker 1: That's my whole day. And then I was so exhausted.

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Speaker 2: No on the page. No, you gotta go check because

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Speaker 2: Like I'm really like posing like that. You look as

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Speaker 2: Well, I would like for you to go to visit

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You're looking for somebody to

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Speaker 2: So that's what I did this weekend. I watched documentaries

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Speaker 1: Your spirituality is not an aesthetic that's given right now.

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Speaker 1: Y'all, Dan, how she started a conversation after right and

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Speaker 2: And then I did my workouts. You know that's it.

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Speaker 2: day seventy six, I'm gonna have me a cocktail and

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Speaker 2: I already know I'm gonna have you espress on martini

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Speaker 1: They better than not had throw my bike out. I

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Speaker 1: Listen. I've been avoided asking them about it because I

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Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all something. You know how I'm speaking

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Speaker 2: I'm healed, But I realized I ain't as healed as

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Speaker 2: I think because I just cussed somebody smooth fuck out.

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Speaker 1: The other day, it's necessary. Sometimes that doesn't mean you're

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Speaker 2: It's what I'm talking about. It was the thing the

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Speaker 2: you know what, you're a stupid ass motherfucker.

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Speaker 2: Right, we talked too much. That's what we need.

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Speaker 1: The name show.

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Speaker 2: Keep Sweat drags modern single lady. So Keep Sweat had

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Speaker 1: Have you ever known any woman to be associated with

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Speaker 2: I can't think of nobody me either. Okay, so his

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Speaker 1: Okay, lover boys and now here you are? How old

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Speaker 2: While you google that, let me tell you I remember

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Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead.

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Speaker 2: My daddy when I was little, I always used to

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Speaker 2: remember my daddy saying, I hate this begging ass motherfucker,

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Speaker 1: First of all, women who are sixty three are not

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Speaker 1: Who is he actually dating that isn't doing anything for him?

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Speaker 1: Exactly? He's dating young and even us our age group. Okay,

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Speaker 1: At sixty three years old because he think he looks

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Speaker 1: at least fifty, at least fifty. But they don't want

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Speaker 1: What do you think you're gonna get? Those are fun

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Speaker 1: girls you're not even dating because they're even in those

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Speaker 1: And they just come and they look pretty all right.

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Speaker 2: fuck what you thought? Make reservations?

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Speaker 1: Yes, what you said last week? Make it mean uber

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Speaker 1: or dash? Yeah, that's about it. What are you really

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Speaker 1: Just say I'm full of shit and this is what

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Speaker 1: That's not what he's looking for. That's not, obviously not

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Speaker 2: Woman be cooking?

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Speaker 1: Who they have been lying on us since Adam and Eve.

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Speaker 2: I need y'all to look when y'all stop, when this

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Speaker 1: I see them on some men, some men and something

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Speaker 2: At it, Look at that cloud though they look like

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Speaker 1: It's gone evolution, y'all are like for some reason, Uh,

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Speaker 1: something's happening. And the men want to be caddled like

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Speaker 1: That's what's happening, and that's why the Adams. Yes, they

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Speaker 2: So now this kind of pissed me off, this one

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Speaker 2: Open five yeah, right down. Yeah. And this girl who

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Speaker 2: that Coco didn't play a good game. She just played

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Speaker 2: she's better than Coco. She just played a bad game.

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Speaker 2: My girl takes the l And first of all, Coco

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Speaker 2: has beat you before. Did you play a bad game then, too, bitch? Like?

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Speaker 1: So you know this is where bad thing where you know,

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Speaker 1: a winner. And this is what happens when they grow up, right,

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Speaker 1: and they're unable to accept when they fucking lost because

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Speaker 1: And if you don't show gratitude for the winners, you'll

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Speaker 2: Right. Let me tell you then, participation trophies was the

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Speaker 2: for us to get a ribbon. You don't deserve one

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Speaker 2: if you did not win.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you didn't win the super Bowl, you can't

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Speaker 2: And then think about taking the l gracefully. It makes you,

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Speaker 2: do win, it makes it that much better. Like you

436
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 2: gotta take your l's gracefully. You gotta be prideful and

437
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 2: congratulate the winner always. So so Blinko or whatever your

438
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:50,479
Speaker 2: name is, girl, that was what you said. I know

439
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 2: you was upset. I imagine you made it all the

440
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 2: way to the top just to get beat by this beautiful, black,

441
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 2: bad black dude. You mad.

442
00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: I get it, but I don't get him.

443
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 2: I get why she was mad. She lost. Nobody likes losing,

444
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 2: but you could have handled that much better, woy. A

445
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:13,199
Speaker 2: joyful loser is very rare, but you don't have to

446
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:14,440
Speaker 2: be a bitch about it.

447
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: So, Wendy Williams ex Kevin Hunter. He is planning to

448
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: do a tell all interview. I wonder what this may

449
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: consist of. Kevin Hunter is reportedly preparing for a one

450
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 1: on one interview with Gail King to speak his truth.

451
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 1: I cannot stand that thing that's saying that's my truth.

452
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,639
Speaker 1: This might I can't stand it because your truth oftentimes

453
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 1: could be a very very much so a lie, So

454
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 1: it says. Interview with King is expected to touch on

455
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 1: deeply personal and public chapters of his life. Those specific

456
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: details have not been released. Who has just started pouring

457
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 1: down ring? Can you hear that? Hunter has been in

458
00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 1: the spotlight due to his legal battle with debmar Mercury.

459
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 1: The producers of the Wenny Williams show okay following the

460
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 1: divorce of Wendy Williams in twenty nineteen. So y'all know,

461
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: Wendy Williams is making her a little comeback. She gets

462
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: she getting her freedom back, literally, right, And I wouldn't

463
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:17,440
Speaker 1: doubt that he was probably a part of the reason

464
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 1: why she ended up ended up in this predicament anyway,

465
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: you know, just the heartache, the betrayal. That shit can

466
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,120
Speaker 1: lead you down a very dark road, y'all. God never

467
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 1: let the devil sit back next to him, because betrayal

468
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 1: is the ultimate sin. Okay, So you can't come back

469
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 1: around me once you have betrayed me. Right, So he's

470
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 1: married to his side bitch now who he had living

471
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 1: down the street from them. They have a baby together.

472
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 1: You don't really even who are you without Wendy Williams right,

473
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,679
Speaker 1: And this is why he's just still harping on this,

474
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: like I just don't between this shit right here, and

475
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: then like the shit that's going on with remym and

476
00:24:56,480 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 1: Pappoof's like where is the love? Where is is the love?

477
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 2: There's a thin line where about that? That ship is

478
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 2: so fucking thin it's scary.

479
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: Yes, Like you mean to tell me we we are

480
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 1: no longer and now we're just gonna go on this

481
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 1: disparaging rampage against each other. That shit is everybody, see,

482
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: I like wreak up.

483
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 2: I pray over myself that that, you know, if I

484
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,199
Speaker 2: ever First of all, I pray that when I actually

485
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:32,159
Speaker 2: meet my husband we stay together forever. And if we don't,

486
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 2: that is never like that just amicable.

487
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: We don't got you know what I'm saying. We enjoyed

488
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 1: each other, We appreciate each other, the time we spend

489
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 1: and move on.

490
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 2: So it says, go ahead, well and then I'll, you know,

491
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 2: and I will be a pleasant widow because that's the

492
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 2: only way you're going anyway.

493
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: I'd be listen, y'all think I'd be playing. But I

494
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: don't even like losing friends. And shit like that because

495
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: I'd be not and shared all my intimate details about

496
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: my life with the motherfucker. Now we're not friends no more.

497
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 1: I be waiting on some ship like this, if shit,

498
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,880
Speaker 1: you're real popping or it's like this is the type

499
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: of shit like I got him for h money for

500
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: So since leaving the show, Hunter has faced financial challenges.

501
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: So this is this is when the bullshit start happening, right,

502
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: So now you need some money, including selling his Florida

503
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: home and dealing with legal action over alleged credit card debt.

504
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 1: The interview with Gail King could shed new light on

505
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 1: both Kevin Hunters and Wendy Williams lives following their divorce

506
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: in twenty twenty after over two decades of marriage, which

507
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: ended due to Hunter's infidelity and birth of a child

508
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 1: with another woman. So you destroyed our marriage. Now they

509
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:41,239
Speaker 1: always had like a little they should always was kind

510
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 1: of iffy, But you destroyed our shit. You start a

511
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: whole new family, and that's not enough for you. You

512
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: gotta destroy me too, right, He's the worst type of person,

513
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,160
Speaker 1: like the beef he had with Charlemagne. Like this nigga,

514
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: this this, this, this nigga is like he's just not

515
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: a good person. He's not a good person, like unless

516
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: day he'd be trying to destroy Charlamagne.

517
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 2: I'm sure he's gonna get paid for this particular interview,

518
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 2: and he need the money. But I can't wait to

519
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:21,360
Speaker 2: hear what the story is, what he gonna say.

520
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: He ain't got nothing to say. Just take your fucking

521
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: l and go. What's wrong with people not being able

522
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: to take their l's? Just go? You got what you wanted, right,

523
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: No he wants more apparently, yeah, because he ain't got

524
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: no money to take care of that girl no more.

525
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: She probably ain't working nowhere. You just over here struggling

526
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: with the old nigga. Now, I'll be damn.

527
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 2: All right, all right, this is the last thing I

528
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: want to do. So I keep seeing people talk shit

529
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 2: about Tyler Perry, and I know, stay for that, because

530
00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 2: one Tyler Perry employees black people and it almost seems

531
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 2: like nothing but us. And when he pays, he pays

532
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 2: people what they're worth, and he tells our stories, people

533
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 2: are like, oh he he capitalizes on black trauma, Like

534
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 2: these stories ain't really happening, Like he ain't making this

535
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 2: shut up. Black women go through a lot of shit,

536
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: But tell me a story where he didn't have the

537
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 2: black woman come out on top for the most part.

538
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's yeah, they be coming out on top

539
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 1: sometimes and then sometimes it's still kind of disparaging sometimes, Yeah.

540
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 2: But is that not real life? Is that not real life? Though?

541
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: I guess I think the problem is because I just

542
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: had this conversation with a friend yesterday, and I'm like,

543
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: why white people don't feel like that, like somebody's exploiting

544
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: them about their movies because it's coming from one person

545
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: though that the type of the genre is coming from

546
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: one one studio, one production, right Whereas.

547
00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, because he's the only studio doing black stories a lot.

548
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 2: And I guess that that's where we need.

549
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: We need variety, right, we need to make sure we're

550
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: showing all aspects, but black lives.

551
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 2: Because what's her name, marl Bora could kill She makes

552
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 2: movies and shows and she just did Forever that was

553
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 2: a beautiful story about blackness that it wasn't It wasn't

554
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 2: anybody in there depicted in a way that was disparaging. Yeah, So,

555
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 2: and it's more true stories. Maybe Tyler Perry makes stories

556
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 2: about black female trauma, because that's what he knows.

557
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess you know.

558
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 2: So I don't like when they talk about him. And

559
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 2: then here's another thing that he did. He always poured

560
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 2: back into our community. He always keeps us employed. He

561
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: gave Simbad. Tim Bad was in a movie Simbad had

562
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 2: a massive stroke five years ago. When nobody's checking for

563
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 2: Simbad or trying to help Simbad. But and his role

564
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 2: in the movie was very small, but he was like, look,

565
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 2: I got to check for you, Simbad because I love you.

566
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 2: I've seen what you've done for our community. You brought

567
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 2: a lot of way. I'm gonna make sure some money

568
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 2: in your pocket. Who else doing that? Y'all? Please don't

569
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 2: play with me by Tyler Perry. Okay, who else doing that? Nobody?

570
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: Don't don't play with time by Tyler Perry. Chill, I

571
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: ain't playing with you by Tyler Perry. Got it?

572
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 2: Okay? Thank you? Because I love him? You got it?

573
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: Girls, when we talk about the day, because I'm scared.

574
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 2: Acrimony, perfect segue. Bitch, were getting into the movie Acrimony,

575
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 2: another movie about a black woman.

576
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 1: Not just scoring a dumb bitch. We'll get into it

577
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 1: after this commercial. I'll be right back.

578
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 2: All right, y'all. So people were in the ds d

579
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 2: M saying they really loved our movie breakdown episodes, and

580
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 2: I love them too, because you know, I love me

581
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: a movie and I'm you don't want to be in

582
00:30:56,560 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 2: him Tyler Perry. So I wanted to break down acrimony

583
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 2: because that just really aligns with what we'd be talking

584
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 2: about on this show when it comes to relationships and

585
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 2: how shit be going sometimes. So I want to talk

586
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 2: about the alright. So if you haven't seen it, go

587
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 2: watch it and then come back to this episode, because.

588
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: Y'all seen them wigs in acrimony. Y'all had to have

589
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: seen acrimony. It's been a couple of years now. I

590
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: thought there was going to be an acrimony too.

591
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 2: I was hoping that would be acrimony to where she

592
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:33,239
Speaker 2: didn't get she didn't die. First of all, this is

593
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 2: such a sad story because do you feel like either

594
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 2: character was wrong? All right, let's talk about the plot.

595
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 2: Acrimony is about a loyal wife, Melinda, who becomes increasingly

596
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 2: unhinged after feeling betrayed by her husband Robert, following years

597
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: of personal and financial sacrifice to support his dreams. All right,

598
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 2: So Milenda me's Robert in college after a word or

599
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 2: when romance. She supports him financially, even using her inheritance,

600
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 2: while he works on his inventuring the battery. They struggle

601
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 2: financially for years, and Melinda eventually divorces Robert. After divorce,

602
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: Robert's invention finally pays off, and he becomes a wealthy

603
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: man that marries another woman, a woman that he had

604
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 2: cheated on her with when they were younger. Melinda spirals

605
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: into rage and obsession, believing she was old. More than

606
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 2: just money, she wanted the life she helped build. The

607
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 2: story ends in tragedy, with Melinda's mental state completely unraveling. Okay, so.

608
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: In the beginning of Acrimony, we saw how crazy Melinda was. Yeah,

609
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: she was always a little rammed his trailer off of

610
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 1: a cliff, did he not not because he was in

611
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: there with a woman another woman? Right, So we knew

612
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 1: she was capable of being crazy, and she.

613
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 2: Hurt herself to so much to the point where she

614
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,959
Speaker 2: could never conceive by doing that.

615
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

616
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, that's on you. You know, that's on you, even.

617
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: If you take accountability for that.

618
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: Nope, Okay, so I would say, Melinda has mental health

619
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: issues always hey, or you just know you ain't supposed

620
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 2: to play with her, sir.

621
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: Her and his man was married for a very long time.

622
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,959
Speaker 1: And I think this kind of it kind of like

623
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 1: it definitely depicts how women put their partners before them, right.

624
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 1: So it is like, it is hurtful when I see

625
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 1: men say what is the benefit of marriage and stuff

626
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 1: like that, because it is a big sacrifice for women.

627
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: We sacrifice our bodies, the children. I have seen this

628
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: post the other day. This girl was like, this is

629
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: a video of a woman saying she lost all of

630
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 1: her teeth okay, during pregnancy due to vitamin deficiency, and

631
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: men out here saying why do I need to get married?

632
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 1: Why do I need to Why do I need to uh,

633
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: why need to go fifty fifty? Or even why do

634
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:26,359
Speaker 1: I have to finance this woman's entire life? We we

635
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:31,800
Speaker 1: literally sacrifice our lives for everybody else. I'm leaning to

636
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: wars not wanting to do that. Okay, nowadays it's crazy,

637
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, that's why I got

638
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: to draw the line at my goddamn teeth.

639
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 2: Right, I love my teeth, But think about it, I've like,

640
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 2: especially we're doing here. I've seen women lose all their

641
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 2: hair after having a baby. I've seen them have like

642
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 2: complete back lee actly covering their whole back and ship

643
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 2: like just all kind of stuff that happens to your

644
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 2: body even after after the baby that left it out

645
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: of the body and it's still being affected.

646
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: So, yeah, you're not the same person. You literally you

647
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 1: were single and now you're a mom and your wife.

648
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: I'm not the same person.

649
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 2: And my edge is gone, and my teeth man ship,

650
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 2: and my back looked like brow.

651
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: You don't even notice like who you are anymore. And

652
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: you got a baby hanging off your titties like.

653
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: A stranger hanging off your body because they're not your

654
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 2: y'all just met and.

655
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: You got you have a group of people in this

656
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,240
Speaker 1: world who think that being a female, being a woman,

657
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:49,280
Speaker 1: being a human adult female is just an aesthetic.

658
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 2: Right.

659
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 1: I was watching Jason Lee Hollywood Unlocked with Yeah it's

660
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:01,839
Speaker 1: crazy here Hollywood on Locked with can his Owens on there,

661
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: and she was like, well, why can't Rachel Dozel say

662
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 1: that she's black if women can, if men can say

663
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 1: that they're women, a woman like he was like, no,

664
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: that's not the same thing. It is exactly the same thing, Right,

665
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 1: I can be something because I feel like that's what

666
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: I am. And then Jason he made a statement. I

667
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: was so disgusted. He was like, I mean, I know

668
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,919
Speaker 1: some of the trans girl who even do it better

669
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: than better than actual women? Do what better than actual women?

670
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: Just look like a woman? That is what you think

671
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 1: being a woman is. Y'all can never deal with half

672
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 1: of this shit women deal with on a daily basis,

673
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: Like we'd be walking around hemorrhaging and acting like ain't

674
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: nothing going on, Okay, still doing all the things, taking

675
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 1: care of kids, working, working out, just all the things.

676
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: We still doing it hemorrhaging and an actual fucking pain

677
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: all day all day. Yeah, I agree, But you think

678
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:02,399
Speaker 1: just doing away, going and sebilistic and address is doing

679
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: it better than an actual woman. Listen, that's how you

680
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: know women are the gods on the planet because these

681
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:10,280
Speaker 1: niggas literally.

682
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: And that's hurtful to say. And I don't think people

683
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 2: understand like what it really entails. And that's why they

684
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 2: say stuff like that, because it's like talking to a

685
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 2: fish and asking a fish what water is. They don't

686
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 2: know because they in it. You know, like, you can't

687
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 2: explain it to them, so I don't even try. All right,

688
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:29,879
Speaker 2: So did Melinda deserve more than just compensation?

689
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: Okay? So once her husband once Robert like sold his invention,

690
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: which didn't come until after she had left him, right,

691
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. Sometimes you may have to

692
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 1: leave people for them to reach their full potential for

693
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,839
Speaker 1: things to happen. It may not was it probably wasn't

694
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 1: supposed to happen with them together in the first place.

695
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: But they were trying to stay together, you know what

696
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, while the whole time he's going through this transition,

697
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 1: trying to figure out, trying to get somebody to buy

698
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: into his invention and all that, and the minute they

699
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: break up, it happens.

700
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:07,760
Speaker 2: But it's just the other woman to come along, That's

701
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 2: what That's what's so crazy how it got worked sometime

702
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,480
Speaker 2: because it took this other woman who was already a

703
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 2: part of this company to you know, give help him

704
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 2: with the opportunity to even be seen because he stayed

705
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,799
Speaker 2: with Melinda, that probably would have never happened, you know, I.

706
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 1: Mean, it could have still had like it was happening

707
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: when he was kind of with her. Did he did

708
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: he did he meet the lady after Melinda left him?

709
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: He already knew her. I think no, he ran into

710
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,240
Speaker 1: Was this not the bitch that was in the trailer?

711
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 2: Yeah?

712
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:42,399
Speaker 1: Okay, so look so now years later you run into

713
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: your old thing and she's actually working at the place

714
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: you was trying to get your foot in for all

715
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: this time. That's what I'm saying, Like, sometimes the relationship,

716
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: the relationships you were in, will shape your life. So

717
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: it was a negative for Melinda, it was more of

718
00:38:57,880 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: a positive for him. He used her, He used her youth,

719
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 1: he used her life for us. He saw how crazy

720
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:06,720
Speaker 1: she started looking at the house. He put her house

721
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: up for sale, her mama's house.

722
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 2: She did that.

723
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: She mortgaged the house. Yeah, she mortgaged the house. They

724
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 1: were about to lose their home.

725
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 2: They did lose it.

726
00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 1: They they ended up they ended up buying it back,

727
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: or he ended up buying it back. And and once

728
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 1: he got all the money.

729
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, he bought it back for her. Yeah, they lose it.

730
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: So she she literally gave her entire life to him.

731
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

732
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 2: And then down Now, you can't say that that woman

733
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 2: wouldn't do whatever for him. She did it all. She

734
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 2: took she took care of him while he was trying to,

735
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 2: you know, get his invention off.

736
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:43,399
Speaker 1: The because she believed in him.

737
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 2: Right.

738
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: So you have these men on these podcasts telling women,

739
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 1: you know, stop dating for potential stuff like that the

740
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: man has to do this. But then on the other hand,

741
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, y'all, y'all, y'all want somebody who's already together,

742
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 1: like you just want to come in and kick your

743
00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 1: feet up. Like there's no right or wrong in any

744
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,840
Speaker 1: of these situations. But women are definitely damned if we

745
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:07,000
Speaker 1: do and damned if we don't. You picked wrong, y'all

746
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: need to make better decisions. You did all that for

747
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 1: the wrong nigga, It's not true, like you just never know.

748
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 2: You never know, you never know because pet Poofs and

749
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 2: really remind doing this was never on my bingo card.

750
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 2: I always thought they were like, always be together and

751
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:27,879
Speaker 2: be quiet about the things that because there's no doubt

752
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 2: in my mind that pet Poofs had other things going on, absolutely,

753
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 2: but they were very respectful about it. What happened to

754
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 2: the respect you know, saying.

755
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: You don't remember when Jada Janat pinked and Will Smith

756
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 1: was going through the whole Uh what does she call

757
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 1: it an entanglement when they were going through that whole debacle, Like,

758
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: there is no doubt in my mind that there was

759
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 1: an outside entity, right that exposed all us. It wasn't

760
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: them in their marriage. Jada didn't do it. Will didn't

761
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 1: do it. Oh boy did it. What's his name? August

762
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: August Asina. He put them on blast. He put the

763
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: relationship with Jada Pikan on blast kind of right, So

764
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 1: she was like hanging out with him, but that was

765
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 1: her son's friend also, right, But when when Will Smith?

766
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: When when the chick hit the fan? Right? I'm pretty

767
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: sure through all these years of marriage, Will Smith has

768
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: done things in that marriage. But what Jada didn't do

769
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,439
Speaker 1: is take it as an opportunity to disparage him. Once

770
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 1: her ship was on the forefront, she took accountability for it.

771
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 1: She didn't get online and say, well, this was during

772
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,400
Speaker 1: a time when you was fucking so so and so so.

773
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: I needed attention then, and this is why this happened.

774
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 2: She didn't do it.

775
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 1: She just took her fucking l and she kept her

776
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: mouth shut.

777
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 2: And when I was raking her over the colds.

778
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: Yes, and never once did she come out and say, well, y'all,

779
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: Will Smith ain't fucking innocent, right, not one time? But

780
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: I just want men to like, ain't no way in

781
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: the in hell men think Will Smith is innocent and

782
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: hadn't done anything. I think that for years they had

783
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 1: this open relationship type situation that people thought existed. Wasn't sure,

784
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: but maybe it was one of those like not don't

785
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 1: ask on tail, but like or maybe ask before you

786
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: do this bullshit. And she basically she led somebody in

787
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,920
Speaker 1: their relationship who had something, who didn't have nothing to lose. Basically,

788
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 1: you gotta fuck with people who lost something to lose. Yeah,

789
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 1: he was a fucking kid. So I think that's the

790
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 1: difference between her bullshit and will Smith bullshit. Girl, why

791
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: are you fucking on this child?

792
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 2: Was Melinda a victim marvillain?

793
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: I think she was both. I think she was both

794
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 1: because I feel like after she knocked his trailer like

795
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: earlier on, he should have never engaged with her ever again,

796
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: Like that should have been it. You know, it's not.

797
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 1: That's not really love. That is possession.

798
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 2: Yeah you tried to murder me?

799
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, people, that's that's being very much possessive, right, so

800
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,680
Speaker 1: the signs were there earlier on that she was capable

801
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 1: of some some real bullshit. And do y'all really want

802
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,240
Speaker 1: a woman that follows you blindly?

803
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

804
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that means if somebody else comes along that

805
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: talks a good game, she could be suited over there,

806
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: if it sounds a little bit better. Y'all don't want

807
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: somebody who just blindly follows people, right, They think that's

808
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 1: what they want. They think they want a dumb bitch

809
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: until you actually get one, and then you be on

810
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,959
Speaker 1: the phone complaining with the bitch with depth, right, talking

811
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: shit about your wife or girlfriend with that person, Tiler,

812
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 1: flip it over.

813
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 2: That's what happened.

814
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: So I do think she was she was made to

815
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 1: be the villain in this movie because she was the

816
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: one doing the most damage, right, acting the craziest. So

817
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: she was the villain in the movie. But I feel

818
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:59,399
Speaker 1: like her husband, I probably would consider him a villain too.

819
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: Why you depleted her life source?

820
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 2: What?

821
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: I don't understand everything she had?

822
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: Why you wasn't working, That's what I'm saying.

823
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: What the fuck?

824
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 2: Like?

825
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: Who and nobody gets to just sit and chase their

826
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: dreams like you got to do both? You could have

827
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 1: been working at McDonald's someplace else. Like he literally was

828
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 1: just fixated on this thing. And when you when you

829
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: are fixated on a thing, it is bound to That

830
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 1: is what makes things happen. It's consistency, right, it's doing

831
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: it every fucking day, not knowing the outcome. It will

832
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 1: eventually happen, but it could be twenty years, right, you

833
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:39,959
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying. It could take a very long

834
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: time for things to come to fruition. And she's stuck

835
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: in there the entire time, and he's take He's.

836
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,799
Speaker 2: In her ear too. She had her sisters in her

837
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 2: ear like telling her, you know, like.

838
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it didn't make sense to anybody. How does

839
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: this make sense to anybody?

840
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 2: Yeah? I get it. But then when he was all

841
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 2: bossed up, everybody was looking stupid, you know.

842
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 1: But it took him how many years to get bossed up?

843
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:11,879
Speaker 1: Twenty years? That is excessive. So he should he at

844
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: some point he should have like, hey, I need to

845
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: help my family, I need to help my wife. Let

846
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,839
Speaker 1: me take Let me not do this all day long

847
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 1: and go work. This is the equivalent to a nigga

848
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 1: playing PlayStation all day long while you're working. And he

849
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 1: got your car, and shit, it's the same thing. Yeah,

850
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: it's better, right because he has an actual invention, he

851
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: has an actual vision, he's driven, he has purpose.

852
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 2: And he's smart. You know, like this is something that

853
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 2: could really work, but it.

854
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: Took too fucking long. Yeah that is like she should

855
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 1: have never stuck in there that long.

856
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you can work on that after work, after work. Yeah,

857
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 2: it's all the after work time to that. But you're

858
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 2: gonna have to help around here. I can't just do

859
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 2: it by myself.

860
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 1: And I know it's a movie, but listen, you got

861
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 1: niggas who be spending a girlfriend's tax return on studio

862
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 1: time and she over there in the corner cheering them on,

863
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and he's ever what s

864
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:12,839
Speaker 1: y'all mean? Little phrase was in his first book. Uh,

865
00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 1: fuck your dreams. That might be somebody else's dream. Okay,

866
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: it may never work for you. Fuck your dreams. You

867
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: gotta be realistic sometimes something like that. Listen, you have

868
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: to be realistic, except but you also have to be

869
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 1: delusional about your dream though. Yeah, not on somebody else's dying.

870
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: He would have never been able to do any of

871
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: those things if she didn't exist if he was sitting

872
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 1: there in.

873
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 2: A house, that he delusion, delusional about your dream on

874
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: somebody else's dying, by all means do it?

875
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:50,399
Speaker 1: No, that that's abuse. What the hell by all means doing?

876
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 2: Listen, in business, they say don't use your own money,

877
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 2: use somebody else's all the time.

878
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,320
Speaker 1: You and your we're talking about a husband and wife, tammy, Okay,

879
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: we're not talking about going to bank for a loan. Okay,

880
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: these motherfuckers was about to be popers. That's how much

881
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: he drained her because he didn't have any money to

882
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 1: do these things. I know these people in real life.

883
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:16,439
Speaker 1: This is why I sound like this right now. I'm

884
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: the fucking lutley who be going very close okay, who'll

885
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:21,920
Speaker 1: be going through. And I want her to get a

886
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:25,320
Speaker 1: new husband. She should have been had a new husband.

887
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 2: Rap.

888
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: No, he don't wrap, but he can't keep a goddamn job.

889
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:35,919
Speaker 1: And you always funding and finance in his fucking dreams. Yes,

890
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: I know these people, and she she hasn't reached her

891
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,560
Speaker 1: full potential because that energy has been in her life

892
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:47,320
Speaker 1: for twenty years. I feel like she should be way further.

893
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: She's fucking she's an intellectual, she's really really smart. But

894
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: this is the dumbest part of her life.

895
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:59,360
Speaker 2: Love, you know what I'm.

896
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,280
Speaker 1: Saying, Like, No, this is not like going to a bank.

897
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 1: This is in your household. You don't use somebody. You

898
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: don't use people, and people are meant to be used.

899
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:10,879
Speaker 2: Right.

900
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: If you can't be used, you're just a fucking as

901
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,279
Speaker 1: You're just a liability. He was a fucking liability. She

902
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 1: couldn't use him.

903
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 2: I think you should use each other.

904
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:25,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, she wasn't getting nothing out of it, right, yeah

905
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 1: at that time. Okay, so now, yeah, you got all

906
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: the money. He wrote her a big check to pay

907
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: for all the things that was I now, y'all not together,

908
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 1: your shit blew up? You give her the check, understandable, right.

909
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,879
Speaker 1: That wasn't enough for her because she still loved him.

910
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 1: She wanted her man to and the good life.

911
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 2: Now you get to be like, oh, yeah, this emotional

912
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 2: investment that wasn't paid on. Yes, that's really what it was.

913
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 2: It was no money that could have satisfied how she

914
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: felt because it was the emotional investment that was missing

915
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 2: for her.

916
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: And this is why I always say I'm okay with

917
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 1: giving a a woman a refurbished man, Right, because maybe

918
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 1: you're not meant to do the things with me, And

919
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that, right, So you're gonna go on.

920
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 1: You're gonna learn from this relationship and you're gonna be

921
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: a better man to the next woman. If you keep saying, oh, now,

922
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 1: if you keep thinking about what that person is gonna do,

923
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: they're gonna do better now and with somebody else. If

924
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 1: you keep thinking of wanting to return on your investment,

925
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: you're gonna be disappointed all the time. You're gonna be

926
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,280
Speaker 1: like Melinda. So you gotta be okay with leaving somebody

927
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: when things are right aren't right with y'all together?

928
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: And you can't give so much of yourself that you

929
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 2: have resentment to this level exactly.

930
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: We talked about this the other day, Like, yeah, like,

931
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,359
Speaker 1: don't do don't do anything if it's not from the heart,

932
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: you know, and don't do if you expect return.

933
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, even if it is from the heart, don't overextend

934
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: yourself to the point where you feel this inful because

935
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 2: it can happen. It can happen, and you look up

936
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 2: and you've given a man your best years and he

937
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 2: go off to be happy with somebody else.

938
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you gotta be okay with that possibility. Don't

939
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: stay in a relationship because you're you feel like, man,

940
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: if we break up, what's she going to go do

941
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: better with somebody else? You gotta be okay with that,

942
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 1: Go get better with somebody else. Do it too exactly,

943
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:25,280
Speaker 1: So you're thinking a little bit too little of yourself

944
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: if you think that you can't get into another relationship

945
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: where things are better for you as well.

946
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 2: So was that in an innocent party or a homewrecker?

947
00:50:35,200 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 2: I believe she was an innocent party, you know what

948
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:40,839
Speaker 2: I'm saying. She had the tools that he needed and

949
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 2: if you're my friend, why wouldn't I help you? And

950
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 2: that home was already read by the time they started,

951
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 2: you know, exactly in a romantic way. That home was

952
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 2: already broken.

953
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 1: And he didn't want to break up. He didn't want

954
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: to break out with Melnda. He wasn't really trying to

955
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 1: leave her. So that's what that's the part where he's

956
00:50:57,040 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 1: a villain because he was using her, right he he doesn't.

957
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: He may not see it that way, and people watching

958
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 1: the movie may not see it that way. He definitely

959
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 1: used the hell out of his wife, and she allowed

960
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: him to use her because he because she believed in him.

961
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 2: But that's why he tried to wrote her check for

962
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 2: like what, ten million dollars. He bought her house back.

963
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 2: You know, he tried to make amends for all the

964
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 2: years of abuse, you know, financial abuse. He tried to

965
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 2: make amends for that, but there was no amends to

966
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 2: be made because what she wanted didn't have a dollar

967
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 2: amount on it. He wanted the life that was promised

968
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:38,440
Speaker 2: to her. She wanted to house him by, she wanted

969
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 2: the boat, and he gave all this to this other

970
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: woman and the baby that she could never have. That

971
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:46,440
Speaker 2: girl was in the courtroom chastising her, rubbing her belly,

972
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 2: looking at her baby. I know that pissed, and that

973
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 2: would have pisce anybody off right, because she knows she

974
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 2: can't mother a child. And this is the same woman

975
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 2: that you cheated on me with and had me go to.

976
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:00,919
Speaker 2: Now she had to take account of what she did

977
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 2: because you can't have a baby because you drive, like

978
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 2: anybody who drive a car into a building.

979
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:12,360
Speaker 1: A baby. You need therapy, y'all. Somebody I remember somebody

980
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 1: had commented on Instagram. I just started thinking about just now,

981
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:16,800
Speaker 1: when you were talking about the girl rubbing the belly.

982
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: Somebody had commented it was like AJ seemed like she

983
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:24,280
Speaker 1: got built up or bent up, anger or something inside.

984
00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: I really don't. But let me tell y'all how people

985
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 1: be fucking with me? Right because I know who I

986
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: am and they can't, so they really try real hard

987
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 1: to fuck with me. Don't y'all know? My ex sent

988
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:38,959
Speaker 1: me a picture of him he delivered his child after

989
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 1: we broke up. Right, He had a baby, got somebody pregnant,

990
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 1: had another baby, third baby, third baby, Mama nigga. He

991
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: was not the prize. He sent me a picture delivering

992
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,479
Speaker 1: this baby at the house. He sent me a picture

993
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: of this baby straight out the pussy, like the girl's

994
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: foot amiotic fluid was on the floor. The girl's foot

995
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: was in the picture. But you sent my mom on

996
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 1: the regularized picture with the baby would close on and

997
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 1: shit like that, like what the fuck? Like that type

998
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,040
Speaker 1: of ship will make you kill.

999
00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 2: A nigga's because he knew how you wanted to be.

1000
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,919
Speaker 1: It's not And you know, I still I realize now

1001
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 1: that things aren't supposed to happen because you're not. You're

1002
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 1: not in a situation you're supposed to be in for

1003
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: it to fucking happen, right, So I was never supposed

1004
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 1: to have his child. It wasn't that I wanted a

1005
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: child so bad. It's my subconscious mind not allowing it

1006
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: to happen because I wasn't where I was supposed to

1007
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: be at, right, That's all it is. We determine when

1008
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 1: we're gonna have kids for real, and women do have

1009
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 1: to be comfortable to conceive and I wasn't. But the

1010
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: nerve of you, son of a bitch send me that

1011
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: fucking picture with that, I just couldn't believe it. This

1012
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: ship was fucking funny as it held to me. But

1013
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,319
Speaker 1: this you and I went through the fucking fire with

1014
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: a nigga, and this is how it will repay you,

1015
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: because why you think I want to see that? And

1016
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: then I had to also think like maybe he didn't

1017
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 1: even think about it like that, you know what I'm saying.

1018
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: But then I just knowing his uh, like the routine

1019
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: bullshit from him. He definitely did that on purpose.

1020
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah he did, and that was hurtful. Weird, Oh shit,

1021
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 2: that was hurtful. Yeah, that's how people be fucking me.

1022
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 2: So it's not bent up anger because I talk about

1023
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 2: my shit bitch. So it's not something that's like settling inside.

1024
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:29,400
Speaker 2: But imagine that for a second.

1025
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: The fuck anyway?

1026
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I couldn't be like, so you don't feel

1027
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: like you're angry.

1028
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 1: No, No, I am just I am fucking strict. I'm

1029
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 1: very stern. I don't play about me. So that's probably

1030
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 1: how it comes out to people, because you cannot play

1031
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 1: with me. That's all it is. I am not a

1032
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 1: fucking nice person. I am good. I go above and

1033
00:54:54,480 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 1: beyond for people, and I just be wanting that same

1034
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: thing in return. But realize in that, you know, everybody

1035
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: just isn't like that. It's okay, So but I'm gonna

1036
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:06,520
Speaker 1: defend me every time.

1037
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,720
Speaker 2: So a question overall? Do you think men are good?

1038
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: Overall?

1039
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 2: I think an audience to know, like where you're standing.

1040
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think a lot of men. I think a

1041
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: lot of men lack integrity, right, I think a lot

1042
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 1: of men they lie a lot. And it's not just me.

1043
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:25,839
Speaker 1: I think most women feel the same way.

1044
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 2: Right.

1045
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: Men will not tell you the truth. They will put

1046
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: your life in their hands and make decisions for you,

1047
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 1: as opposed to telling you the truth and give you

1048
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 1: all the information. So you're making an informed decision about

1049
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: what you want for your life. So that's really all

1050
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:44,320
Speaker 1: it is. A lot of most men lack integrity. Yes,

1051
00:55:45,520 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 1: I saw this post on Instagram recently, and this guy

1052
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:50,879
Speaker 1: was like, if I tell you this, I'm not gonna

1053
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 1: get the pussy. Like, if you tell you don't know

1054
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 1: that though you know what I'm saying. So they don't

1055
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:57,720
Speaker 1: even want to run the risk of you not fucking

1056
00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: with them. So from day one, they just met you.

1057
00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:03,400
Speaker 1: At one, they'll start with lies. That is somebody who

1058
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 1: lacks integrity. Yeah, you're just lying for no reason. I'm

1059
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,720
Speaker 1: a stranger. Tell me the truth and let me decide

1060
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 1: whether or not I want to fuck with you or not.

1061
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,360
Speaker 1: Tell me you married, Tell me you got a baby

1062
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:14,720
Speaker 1: on the way, Tell me all you want is pussy,

1063
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: Tell me that.

1064
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 2: I might just want to fuck.

1065
00:56:17,640 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 1: I might not want nothing either.

1066
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: I don't think most men like integrity.

1067
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: When it comes to relationships with women.

1068
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:29,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that. I think most of the

1069
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 2: men we've dated, I think there are good men out there.

1070
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 2: I think they're just not available to us anymore. I

1071
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 2: think they're don't just say men we dated, Let's talk

1072
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 2: about our dads, Okay, I hate to generalize all men

1073
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:50,399
Speaker 2: negative connotation and be like, oh, because I didn't, I didn't.

1074
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:53,400
Speaker 1: I said most. I didn't say all. I did say most, though.

1075
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 2: Because I hate whomen do that to us and be like,

1076
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 2: most women are gold diggers? Are most women we should be?

1077
00:56:59,400 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 1: Though?

1078
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:00,800
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't.

1079
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 1: I'm not offended by that women should be gold diggers.

1080
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 1: It is our job to make sure we pick the

1081
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 1: best suitable mates to procreate with. Okay, and if we

1082
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 1: actually did that, a lot of niggas would die having

1083
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: never had sex, if we actually did the primal thing

1084
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: right and picked the best person to have to have

1085
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 1: a family with.

1086
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I agree, But I think a gold digger

1087
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 2: is something different, you know. I don't think because that

1088
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 2: that that's not just about money. That's as about emotional intelligence, integrity,

1089
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,919
Speaker 2: like spirituality and all those things in conface, A good

1090
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 2: mate is not just finances, whereas a gold digger is

1091
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 2: a woman who's looking for the man with the most money.

1092
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 2: You know. So, I, you know, I don't believe that

1093
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 2: to be true. Not all women are gold diggers. Now,

1094
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 2: do they want a man who can provide and be

1095
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 2: a good mate and a good father, Yes, Why wouldn't

1096
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 2: you want that? No, I don't want to know who

1097
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 2: wants somebody who they got to drag along like another child.

1098
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 2: Nobody wants that, So go digging different.

1099
00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 1: I think everything is necessary. Right. Women who only date

1100
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: men for money, I'm pretty sure that at some point

1101
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 1: they were dating for love to right, and they realize

1102
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: that because men want to dig your pussy? Why you

1103
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:24,320
Speaker 1: can't dig the gold? Okay, why can't I? But it's

1104
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: a man more than this pussy? Am I tripping?

1105
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 2: Y'all?

1106
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:35,280
Speaker 1: Oh? You think they reduce us to cooking, cleaning and fucking?

1107
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? That is what we're like, Supposedly,

1108
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 1: that's all we're good for. I just told somebody last week, like,

1109
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 1: women have an innate thing about them that you can't

1110
00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: even see or touch, but you only can feel. Right,

1111
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 1: and if you are not a man with purpose, right,

1112
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 1: you're gonna be you're looking you don't realize that this

1113
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 1: woman that you're taking care of, who have buried your children? Right,

1114
00:58:56,600 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: there's two different type of men in the world. It's

1115
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 1: either one who wants to take care of like a

1116
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: man who feeds his ego based on how many people

1117
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: he can take care of and then the other man

1118
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 1: is how many bitches he can fuck? All right, those

1119
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 1: are the two types of men that we're dealing with.

1120
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 1: I prefer, you know, men who like to take care

1121
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: of people who go above and beyond for.

1122
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:18,920
Speaker 2: Their family out there, that are healed, healthy, looking for

1123
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 2: a partner to grow with, build generational wealth with, start

1124
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:24,960
Speaker 2: a family with.

1125
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 1: They may feel just like us right now, and.

1126
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 2: It's not just based on fucking cooking and what else she.

1127
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: Said, and sucking dick and cleaning.

1128
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 2: Right.

1129
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:38,720
Speaker 1: Yes, there are some men, right, but they may they

1130
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: may have given the best in themselves to the gold diggers,

1131
00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 1: to whoever else. So it's gonna be hard for us

1132
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:46,440
Speaker 1: to meet them, you know, you know what I'm saying,

1133
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:48,959
Speaker 1: because they probably feeling like us. Shit, I do better

1134
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: by myself, right, I don't need a man. I don't

1135
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 1: need a woman for this.

1136
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 2: I don't need y'all.

1137
00:59:56,440 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: I don't need y'all. It's it's it's it's probably given

1138
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 1: that for those men, they probably in the house like me,

1139
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 1: in the house, trying trying to get their portfolios together, right,

1140
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: trying to diversify their portfolio, like really working on their lives.

1141
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 1: Because women come with the money first of all. So

1142
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:15,400
Speaker 1: I would suggest all men just just focus on the

1143
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: money for real, just focus on getting the bag, so

1144
01:00:18,600 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: then you could get you can attract the partner you want.

1145
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 2: But it may be.

1146
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 1: That's the problem. They like the women who only because

1147
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 1: that you would. I think a lot of modern women

1148
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 1: because I have a different, different definition of modern women.

1149
01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 1: I think a lot of modern women we take men's

1150
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: jobs away. The man's job is to provide. But when

1151
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 1: you acting like you the nigga with money, then you complain,

1152
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 1: you get somebody who's a taker. You end up with

1153
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 1: this nigga who needs your money, who needs your time,

1154
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 1: who needs your energy.

1155
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 2: I don't know, like the nigga wo't the money me either.

1156
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 2: I'm always the damsel.

1157
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 1: And see it's tough for me to be the damsel

1158
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 1: in distress, right because I won't act like the nigga

1159
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 1: with the money. But I probably have an ore about

1160
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: myself that I'm gonna be okay without you, you know

1161
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I don't.

1162
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 2: Really know, Like I make these niggas feel like I need.

1163
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 1: I need you, and that's how men have to feel

1164
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 1: like they Yeah, but then everybody gets burnt out right.

1165
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 1: So imagine a man who's been taking care of his

1166
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 1: family for fifteen years, and he's the prime decision maker, right,

1167
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 1: Your wife doesn't make any decisions. It's probably because you're

1168
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 1: a control free right. You pick this type of woman

1169
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 1: because you want to be in control of everybody in

1170
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 1: your household. So that's something that man has to work through.

1171
01:01:37,600 --> 01:01:40,479
Speaker 1: But you can't have resentment towards her for not using

1172
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 1: her brain much. That's the type of woman you want it,

1173
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: right you? And I think often somebody you got to

1174
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 1: take care of.

1175
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 2: These women, don't They do have brains, but you have,

1176
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 2: You have made it to a place where she hasn't

1177
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:55,479
Speaker 2: had to use it, you know, so.

1178
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: Right, and then he go when he when he gets

1179
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 1: to a certain place, he might leave you. You ain't

1180
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:03,320
Speaker 1: stacked none of his money.

1181
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 2: But let me tell you, let me let me recant that,

1182
01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 2: because any woman who's in there raising your children has

1183
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 2: to use her brain a lot, a lot, So she

1184
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 2: may not be using it toward business and things like

1185
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 2: that and more money. Well, when it comes to raising

1186
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:25,400
Speaker 2: these children, it is a job in itself. Yeah, And

1187
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 2: I feel like if you are that woman in that way.

1188
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like if you are a man with means,

1189
01:02:30,920 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 1: a man of integrity, you realize the that innate like

1190
01:02:36,320 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 1: the value that a woman actually brings, like Mama's come

1191
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 1: with a loaf of bread. You get the right woman,

1192
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 1: your whole life elevates. You get married, you have a

1193
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,960
Speaker 1: fucking We can use Charlemagne as a private prime example.

1194
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:52,600
Speaker 1: I met Jessica and Charlemagne at the same time. All right,

1195
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm seventeen, however old they are, like Jessica's low bit

1196
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 1: older than me. Charlemagne is older both of us, but

1197
01:02:59,720 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm at them at the same time when he was

1198
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 1: just working at radio station part time type shit. Right,

1199
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 1: it is her energy and you know people won't see

1200
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 1: that though. Right, It is her energy that got him

1201
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:14,600
Speaker 1: to where he is, and he knows that as a man.

1202
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: And that's why Charlamagne always surround himself with women, because

1203
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 1: that's what some successful men do. It is just something like,

1204
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: you're not gonna have to worry about the cockfights because

1205
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:26,200
Speaker 1: kings are born, right, you can't really like you can

1206
01:03:26,720 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 1: beat apprenticeship underneath another king to get your king position, right,

1207
01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:32,440
Speaker 1: That's what a smart man would do. But a lot

1208
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 1: of these niggas want to be the fucking chief they won.

1209
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:36,840
Speaker 1: They don't want to be the Indian. And that's what

1210
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 1: we're missing in our community. Men learning from actual other

1211
01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 1: men so that they can then be in position. These

1212
01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:45,760
Speaker 1: niggas just want to take somebody else's position because they

1213
01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 1: think they deserve it. Right, you don't know what this

1214
01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 1: person had to go through to get there. You don't

1215
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 1: know who else made sacrifices for this person to get

1216
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 1: to where they're going. Also, so it is the energy

1217
01:03:56,720 --> 01:03:59,840
Speaker 1: of the woman that enables the man to do the things,

1218
01:03:59,840 --> 01:04:02,919
Speaker 1: to go out and get the bread, right to bring

1219
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:05,800
Speaker 1: it back home. It's the energy of his family. No one,

1220
01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: he has his purpose. I gotta take care of these people.

1221
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 1: This is my responsibility. They're gonna do it. But when

1222
01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:14,120
Speaker 1: they they were somebody to take care of them.

1223
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 2: The thing, that's what it says in the Bible. You

1224
01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:18,480
Speaker 2: know a woman would beat you as a man. I agree,

1225
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 2: these they don't.

1226
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 1: These men don't realize it though we're not this this

1227
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:24,720
Speaker 1: life is based off of double occupancy. None of us

1228
01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 1: should be trying to do it ourselves. Y'all should see

1229
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 1: that based on the fucking economy, no one person should

1230
01:04:30,880 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 1: be trying to afford their lives by theirselves. Like, yes,

1231
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 1: women have been forced to do that though now because

1232
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:39,720
Speaker 1: it's easier than to be with the second person, having

1233
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 1: then struggle with them because oftentimes we're taking other people

1234
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:47,040
Speaker 1: into consideration before we take ourselves.

1235
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 2: And then you know, you get dragged Big MoMA and

1236
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 2: then they didn't really have a lot of choice, you know,

1237
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:56,560
Speaker 2: they had to be with someone because they couldn't afford

1238
01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 2: to do it by themselves. It wasn't like the opportunities

1239
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,920
Speaker 2: that we have now, because I don't you know, do

1240
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 2: we think that Big Mama would have wanted to stay

1241
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 2: with Granddaddy if she could could go out on her

1242
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 2: own and do it.

1243
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:14,560
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. But I don't believe every Big Mama's story

1244
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 1: is the same because there were some real good men

1245
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:19,720
Speaker 1: back then, right who didn't have multiple families.

1246
01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:21,960
Speaker 2: There's good men now. Yeah, I don't want to like.

1247
01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, they they definitely exist. I know some. I've ran

1248
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 1: into some, right, and then I just didn't like them

1249
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:31,240
Speaker 1: and ended up somewhere I wasn't supposed to fucking be

1250
01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: because it was funner over there. This nigga was strict

1251
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: over here, you know what I'm saying. So I definitely

1252
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,280
Speaker 1: know good men exist. I'm not saying they don't exist.

1253
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 1: And I'm also not gonna say I've never dated a

1254
01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:44,920
Speaker 1: good man, because I have. I think if you are

1255
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:47,680
Speaker 1: a woman who say all niggas ain't shit, chances are

1256
01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:51,000
Speaker 1: you ain't shit either, Right, That's not what I'm saying, okay,

1257
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 1: because I am shit. But I do believe again, a

1258
01:05:56,360 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 1: lot of men do lack integrity, right, even the good ones,

1259
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 1: even self proclaimgas I just.

1260
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 2: I agree, But I don't think it's just men. I

1261
01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 2: think it's just people. You know, people lack integrity, People

1262
01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 2: need therapy, people need to work on themselves.

1263
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: And who'll be working on themselves the most so we

1264
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: can put so we can show up as our higher

1265
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 1: selves to people.

1266
01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 2: I think we do. I think women, you know, are

1267
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 2: definitely actively trying to be better versions of theirselves. But

1268
01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 2: I feel like men are too, you know, we just

1269
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:31,960
Speaker 2: may be doing it faster. I don't think. I mean

1270
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:34,120
Speaker 2: it's some men that's just out here, ain't shit and

1271
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 2: don't care, you know, and they're just gonna die, ain't shit.

1272
01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 2: But I think it's uh, you know, there's men out

1273
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:43,280
Speaker 2: here who are not proud of their past and trying

1274
01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:46,080
Speaker 2: to be better versions of their self actively every day.

1275
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, leave that, nigga. Let me tell y'all, men learn

1276
01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: from hurt, Men learn from consequence consequences. Men learn from pain.

1277
01:06:57,400 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 1: I'm telling y'all what I fucking know, right, so he

1278
01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 1: will remember the hurt.

1279
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 2: Right.

1280
01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: Nobody likes to be left, especially a narc. Okay, you

1281
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 1: just call Ice cold a ass. They're going to be

1282
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 1: a good man to the next bitch, Savannah, Meg, it

1283
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 1: just wasn't supposed to be for you. And then you

1284
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 1: can get somebody else's a furbished nigga. Okay, and then

1285
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:23,600
Speaker 1: while I you got a husband, it's got to be open.

1286
01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:25,440
Speaker 2: Though.

1287
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:28,880
Speaker 1: I would never be Melinda, and I won't say that.

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Speaker 1: My last relationship, we were starting businesses and stuff like

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Speaker 1: that together. I haven't gotten a return on any investment. Okay.

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Speaker 1: The last conversation I had with this food we was

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Speaker 1: arguing about the food truck. Shit, this last conversation, I

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Speaker 1: didn't get my return on the investment. You got the

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Speaker 1: food truck. I'm just saying, you can't have the name,

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Speaker 1: you can't have the company, you can't have the trademark.

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Speaker 1: I'll sell it to you. I'll license it to you.

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Speaker 1: But do you think I'm not supposed to get anything?

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Speaker 1: You came up, you wanted to do this thing right,

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Speaker 1: and I made the initial investment, so I kicked it off.

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Speaker 2: So do you think trust?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't. I just want my fair share. I

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Speaker 1: wish we could have been I wish we could have been,

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01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 1: like still in a position where we could do business

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01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 1: together and not be together. But he's not that type

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01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:17,479
Speaker 1: of person. I definitely wish we could have done that,

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01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:19,680
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't have been able to be in a

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Speaker 1: new relationship and having to deal with him on a

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01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:24,880
Speaker 1: daily basis now other way around. I don't care who

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Speaker 1: you wit. Let's get this fucking money. I wish I

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01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: had we could have done that, but no, and there's

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Speaker 1: no resentment towards it. But you ain't about to play me.

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Speaker 1: You're not about to play me. So, yeah, I need mine,

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Speaker 1: I need my money, honey.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not mad at that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can give me my money back. You know,

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Speaker 1: you don't even have to give me interest. You just

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Speaker 1: give me back what I put in and I'll be

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Speaker 1: okay with it. But no, you're not just about to

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01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:55,559
Speaker 1: get everything, and you're sending me foots and amniotic fluid

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01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 1: pictures with fucking umbilical cords still attached.

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Speaker 2: Hurtful. That was heurtful to send you, And I bet

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01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:07,959
Speaker 2: you in his mind he wasn't trying to be hurtful

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01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:12,280
Speaker 2: to you. I think he was trying to celebrate.

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01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 1: Possibly possibly right, But I don't.

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Speaker 2: Think people sometimes don't understand how even their joy can

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01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 2: be hurtful to you, you know, especially if you had

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01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:28,960
Speaker 2: been in a relationship and knowing that motherhood was something

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01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 2: that I wanted, you know, So I hate that. I

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01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 2: don't like that. I don't like nothing about what happened

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01:09:34,720 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 2: uh with that relationship for you. And I do hope

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01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 2: that the next relationship or the current is the one

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01:09:45,520 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 2: that gives you, not the next or the current gives

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01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:49,920
Speaker 2: you everything that you've always wanted.

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01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:51,680
Speaker 1: Your I'm always going to get what I want. I

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01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 1: just have to. I think what women need to do,

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01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 1: and this is not just for me. Right, we need

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01:09:57,400 --> 01:10:02,400
Speaker 1: to trust ourselves. Talked about the clitical thinking last week.

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01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 1: We need to trust ourselves more, right, and stop and

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01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 1: stop using because the men like to say they're more logical, Right,

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01:10:10,160 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 1: we need to try to be more logical and actually

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01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,240
Speaker 1: you got to do both right, so that innate thing

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01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:19,639
Speaker 1: and then do like a data assessment what is actually

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01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:25,080
Speaker 1: happening right right, and make your decisions based off of

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01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 1: that and not just pure heart and emotion.

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Speaker 2: Right, Because you look up and you Melinda.

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01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 1: Exactly. You don't want to be Melinda. You don't want

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01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 1: to be like crashing out like she did. I was

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01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 1: thinking she survived. I don't know, she did get shot

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01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 1: and went into the ocean.

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01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,640
Speaker 2: It's hard to survive that. But crazy people live a

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01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 2: long time.

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01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:49,719
Speaker 1: Evil lives long.

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01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:53,040
Speaker 2: Crazy too crazy.

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01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:55,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. So one of the things here that say was

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01:10:55,400 --> 01:11:00,839
Speaker 1: Robert a dream of manipulator. He was both Yeah, yeah.

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01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:01,200
Speaker 2: He's a thing.

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01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 1: Like.

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01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:08,800
Speaker 2: I wasn't mad at either character because I don't think

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01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:13,240
Speaker 2: he meant to be that, you know, a user. I

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01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 2: don't think that was his intention. He was just focused

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01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:21,200
Speaker 2: on his own dream. I don't think. Uh, but Linda

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01:11:21,280 --> 01:11:23,760
Speaker 2: wanted She just wanted to love her husband down and

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01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:26,800
Speaker 2: wanted to be loved back, and she had mental health

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01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:30,200
Speaker 2: issues where she couldn't handle her anger. I don't think

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01:11:30,240 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 2: either one of them was like intentional villains.

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Speaker 1: You know, he had no room for error though in

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01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:39,920
Speaker 1: that relationship. Aside from like, as long as she knew

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01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:42,880
Speaker 1: he was there working on that thing, that Nigga had

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01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 1: no room for anything else, no errors, She probably would

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01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 1: have killed him. She tried to kill him again, he

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01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:56,640
Speaker 1: probably would have killed him again. So yeah, story, I

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Speaker 1: would love to see an acrimony too. What's your last?

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01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 2: Last?

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01:12:03,479 --> 01:12:05,519
Speaker 1: For this? For the movie?

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01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:09,439
Speaker 2: No, just for the conversation itself, because this is more

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01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 2: than the movie, right, I tell mine, why are you

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01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 2: thinking of yours?

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Speaker 1: I guess it would be yeah, go ahead, go ahead.

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01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:20,479
Speaker 1: I think it.

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01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:25,000
Speaker 2: Always circles back to keep your regrets to a minimum.

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01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:27,640
Speaker 2: Y'all your regrets to a minimum. Try to make the

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01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:30,760
Speaker 2: best choices for your life, and then consider others as

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01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 2: you go. You know, you can't be too selfish. It's

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01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 2: all about balance. Can't be too selfish, but you also

1384
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:41,760
Speaker 2: need to be a bit selfish. It has to be

1385
01:12:41,880 --> 01:12:45,640
Speaker 2: like that middle ground or you could end up resentful

1386
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:53,160
Speaker 2: and wasting your time and it just love yourself on

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01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:55,400
Speaker 2: purpose and others. So all I got.

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Speaker 1: So I just feel like she gave him everything, her money,

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01:13:04,280 --> 01:13:07,400
Speaker 1: her time, her youth, all the things.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:11,640
Speaker 1: So, I think what women often are looking for is reciprocity,

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01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 1: give and take and no relationship, maybe in a romantic

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01:13:17,400 --> 01:13:20,360
Speaker 1: relationship or even with your friends or family. There should

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01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:22,559
Speaker 1: not You should not always be somebody that someone calls

1395
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:26,679
Speaker 1: to take from. Right, people should also be doing for you.

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01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,240
Speaker 1: And that's where you know you don't end up with

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01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:32,599
Speaker 1: resentment because I guess I want to pose a question

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01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:35,920
Speaker 1: to the listeners. If you invest in someone's potential and

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01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:40,400
Speaker 1: they finally win big, what do they owe you? What

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01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 1: do you feel is just do? What do you feel like?

1401
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 1: How do you what do you feel about the check?

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01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 1: Is it big enough?

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01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:47,880
Speaker 2: Like?

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01:13:48,040 --> 01:13:52,360
Speaker 1: What would you require to be okay? After you've given

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01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:56,800
Speaker 1: your entire life to somebody else? Because she gave her

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01:13:56,840 --> 01:13:59,320
Speaker 1: mental health, this is what she's never she would if

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01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:02,360
Speaker 1: she lived, she was never going to be able to

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01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:07,280
Speaker 1: go and be with somebody else. This had her fucked up?

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01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 2: Why though, That's the thing because.

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01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:13,240
Speaker 1: That in her mind, that was her person, That is

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01:14:13,280 --> 01:14:14,880
Speaker 1: who I was supposed to spend the rest of my

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01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:18,320
Speaker 1: life with in her mind. But I guess it had

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01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:20,760
Speaker 1: conditions also, right.

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01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:24,760
Speaker 2: I don't think you should ever be that attached to

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01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 2: anybody in this life.

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01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:32,680
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I I purposely practice detachment.

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01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 2: Just you know you got because you are going up

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01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 2: out of here by yourself. I don't give a damn

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01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:41,160
Speaker 2: who you. You know, you got to leave here by yourself.

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01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:46,680
Speaker 2: So it's okay to love, but the greatest love is

1421
01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:51,439
Speaker 2: to love yourself, God itself, because you you can't take

1422
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:56,680
Speaker 2: nobody with you. Nope, So I don't know. And if

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01:14:56,720 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 2: you are dad attached to someone, then you need to

1424
01:14:58,800 --> 01:15:03,599
Speaker 2: go to therapy and see how to untether in that way.

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01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:05,840
Speaker 2: That's not healthy, you know.

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01:15:07,680 --> 01:15:10,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, y'all, we gotta start making these. Maybe

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01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 1: we'll start doing the movie episodes for like Patreon. We

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01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 1: can't just keep doing movie reviews for episodes, y'all. I

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01:15:19,040 --> 01:15:21,120
Speaker 1: like it too, I mean because it opens up dialogue

1430
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:24,840
Speaker 1: for other conversations, right, not just the movie, like how

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01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 1: would you do it? Who's tripping? Anyway? So if y'all

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01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:30,560
Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in every Thursday on The

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01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:32,840
Speaker 1: Black Effect. iHeartRadio Apple, wherever the fuck you get your

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01:15:32,840 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 1: podcast dot. This is your co host AJ Holiday on

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01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: the Ones and TUESA two point on Instagram. Okay, kick

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01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:41,200
Speaker 1: a tam.

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01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:43,679
Speaker 2: Y'all, it's official, Tam bam. I love y'all own purpose.

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01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 2: I want you to love your cell phone purpose and

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01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:53,200
Speaker 2: always channel the energy of Cardi b Casu, Doal, Taylor, Anderiod.

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01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 1: Move on, yes, all right, remember it now and never

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01:15:59,040 --> 01:16:04,000
Speaker 1: hold them niggas. Girl it up out of asked net.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye,