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Speaker 1: Okay, guys, here are my dates for the High and

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Speaker 1: Mighty Tour. In May the thirtieth of May, I will

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Speaker 1: be in Vegas at my residency. In June, i will

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Speaker 1: be in Saratoga Springs, New York, port Chester, New York.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to Boston at the Wang Theater. I'll be

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Speaker 1: in Portland, Oregon, Seattle, and then Hyannas, Massachusetts, and then

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Speaker 1: two shows in Nantucket. In August, you can find me

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Speaker 1: in Red Bank, New Jersey, Montclair, New Jersey, and Calgary.

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Speaker 1: That's Canada. And September I will be in Santa Barbara,

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Speaker 1: San Diego, New York City, Philly, and New Haven, Connecticut.

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Speaker 1: October is Atlanta, Baltimore, Saginaw, Michigan, Pittsburgh, Toronto, Boise, Idaho,

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Speaker 1: and Spokane. And then in November I'll be in San Francisco.

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to Salt Lake City, Austin, Houston, Dallas, Babies,

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Speaker 1: I'll be there. And then in December, I am closing

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Speaker 1: out my tour in Denver and Vancouver. So get your

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Speaker 1: tickets at Chelseahandler dot com for the High and Mighty Tour. Hello, Hi, Chelsea, Hi, everybody.

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Speaker 1: I am High and Mighty. My voice is gone. My

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Speaker 1: throat is sore because I was with Yaminika all weekend

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Speaker 1: and she forced me to smoke marijuana perfect, so I

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Speaker 1: can't breathe as usual. I have to replace her.

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Speaker 2: You're just gonna replace her with somebody who also smokes

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Speaker 2: just as much.

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Speaker 1: She just smokes all and I don't even smoke as

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Speaker 1: much as she does. Obviously I couldn't, but I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what are her lungs made out of steel? I need

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Speaker 1: a lung transplant. I shouldn't joke about that, but I

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Speaker 2: Have you seen this new documentary on HBO called The

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Speaker 2: Dark Wizard?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: Is it?

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Speaker 1: Which one is this?

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Speaker 3: It's about like a guy who does like mountain clients.

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Speaker 1: It's awesome, girl, it is. I'm gonna watch it tonight.

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Speaker 1: It's I've watched it twice all the way really it is.

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Speaker 1: It's called The Dark Wizard.

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Speaker 2: Dark Wizard, which is kind of kind of a weird name,

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Speaker 2: but it makes sense when you watch it. It's this

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Speaker 2: guy who he like was a precursor to Alex Hanold,

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Speaker 2: but Alex is in the movie as well. It's sort

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Speaker 2: of like this competition thing. But like I will say,

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Speaker 2: the first five minutes. I was like, do I want

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Speaker 2: to watch a movie about a man who's like doing

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Speaker 2: feats of strength?

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Speaker 3: And then like it really grabs you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen people talking about it. It's so good.

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Speaker 3: It's like if you like Free Solo, if you like

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Speaker 3: Girl Climber With I like you, I like those movies alone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a really beautiful story. But yeah, that's what

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Speaker 2: I'm That's like literally just what I've been doing. List

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Speaker 2: it's just rewatching that. Oh how many episodes is it?

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Speaker 2: It's four, so it's like a pretty fast watch and

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Speaker 2: it's very engaging the entire time.

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Speaker 3: So there's all kinds of things. There's a redemption arc.

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Speaker 4: I mean it.

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Speaker 3: Wonderful, wonderful, it's all beautiful.

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Speaker 1: I like any good television.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, are you watching anything or are reading anything right now?

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Speaker 5: You?

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Speaker 1: I am reading a book called ken k I N

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Speaker 1: That's pretty good. It takes a while to get going though.

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Speaker 1: My friend is reading in with me and she already

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Speaker 1: And then we just added some dates to Nantucket. If

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Speaker 1: you are listening, come see me on the High Mighty tour,

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Speaker 1: you guys, I'm coming to you. I'm coming to Dallas, Texas, Irving.

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Speaker 1: It's Irving, but it's Dallas and Austin, and I'm coming

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Speaker 1: to all the odd the Texas cities. You can go

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Speaker 1: to chelsea other dot com for tickets for any of

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Speaker 1: my dates, but I just added a bunch. So our

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Speaker 1: guest today is going We are going to get stoned

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Speaker 1: again because the situation calls for it. And who cares

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Speaker 1: about my throat? You know her from Hacks. You know

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Speaker 1: her from Borat and her long running Vegas comedy show.

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Speaker 1: Please welcome back the original bad girl of comedy, Linelle.

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Speaker 1: Should we smoke this joint?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Why not? You know mama lipstick?

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Speaker 6: Do you?

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Speaker 1: I'll give you your own?

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Speaker 1: Well I like this. Do you want this one?

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Speaker 1: You take that.

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Speaker 4: I want to do it at the same time as you.

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Speaker 4: You already started without me.

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Speaker 3: Why?

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Speaker 1: Why do you think that is. It's such a thing.

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Speaker 4: It went too hard, they did wrong ship and they

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I know people that have gone too hard

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Speaker 4: Everybody can reel it back in.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you do you ever go too hard?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I went too hard.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever got cocktail too? I like this.

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Speaker 3: I'm having a cocktail.

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Speaker 2: I'm having a little old tom gin, which is my

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Speaker 4: That's going too far right there, that's right there.

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Speaker 3: I have to be able to read later, so I

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Speaker 4: Girl. You need to see my actual on what Well.

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Speaker 3: That's what we were talking about before.

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people went too hard

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Speaker 3: On it once and they can't stand up.

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Speaker 4: Now that's stick on the multiple times.

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Speaker 1: on that. Okay, great, So when was your biggest drug phase?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what time what time of your life was.

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Speaker 8: This before I had my daughter could answer, but who cares?

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Speaker 4: And maybe up to four years after and then that

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Speaker 1: That was your serious drug. Face. It was that like

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Speaker 2: Just for the hot box I'm getting?

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Speaker 1: So it's totally rude write them, But that was in

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Speaker 4: Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so barely because I'm on tour too.

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Speaker 4: So I come out of the first black person in

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Speaker 1: No, you're not the first black person in front of you.

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Speaker 4: Did you hear that? M I mean besides workers?

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Speaker 1: Okay? So how did you get your shit together after that?

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Speaker 4: Basically I was smoking crack, oh shit before it was

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Speaker 4: No, it came on this scene. Got it and when

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Speaker 4: And then you got it? I got it.

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Speaker 1: But when I was around people that smoked crack, and

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Speaker 4: say that I'm gonna make some more. Everybody don't make

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Speaker 4: money every week, Chelsea? You know?

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Speaker 1: Do you like that? Chelsea? I'm of my calumonade that

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Speaker 4: Could be stronger, but yes, okay.

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Speaker 1: It could be stronger. It's a day drink, but I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like this, but I think it's got weed

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Speaker 4: I heard Snoop said, that's the only person who out

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Speaker 4: smoked him. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I smoked weed with Willie Nelson. Yeah, on his trailer,

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Speaker 1: That would be fun.

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Speaker 4: It's the easiest, simplest thing. I met a man. We

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Speaker 4: No, we got married. We got married in ninety days

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Speaker 1: Do you want to lie in your back?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to sit on the floor? I would do?

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Speaker 4: You know how wishes I have? You humping?

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Speaker 4: Let me talk to people. Chelsea Handler has mounted me

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Speaker 1: I will receive my affection eye on those who want

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Speaker 1: Remember the time we first met, what was it Dave

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Speaker 3: See you're an ally.

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Speaker 1: See the light that's ready, hear honey?

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Speaker 4: Thanks baby? See you think you grunted?

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Speaker 1: I so what's up with you and men? Are you

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Speaker 4: Well? Oh sounds like a yes, well there's sex and

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Speaker 4: No, you know when you mess around, but you really

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Speaker 4: I like the kids? Fine though, ship like that, like.

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Speaker 4: Opportunity? Oh okay, well get the opportunity. Okay, so and

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Speaker 4: But but the opportunity arises, it's going to go down.

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Speaker 1: Is the person you're talking about? Bill Cosby?

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Speaker 4: Not yet? Not yet. I'm waiting for my pills to arrive.

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Speaker 1: I hope you don't get a red pill, don't you?

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Speaker 1: You know what red pills are, like those Maga bros? Right,

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Speaker 4: Stopping out mangu pill. No, I'm that anti megapill.

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Speaker 1: What do you think is wrong with men? Lunell?

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Speaker 4: Well, you know it's buddy, I just did a podcast

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Speaker 1: Because yeah, I just was thinking, you're not because you're.

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Speaker 4: You're not gonna tell it all.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. It's vulnerable.

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Speaker 4: You'll tell all that somebody you're paying though, but you know,

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Speaker 4: not not even your friends. That's what therapy is. They

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Speaker 3: That's like my husband go talk to his friends.

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Speaker 2: One of them will be getting a divorce or something like, well,

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Speaker 1: the tea exactly. But with that combination, you have to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, every man should start out in therapy and every

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Speaker 4: More like we need the therapy because.

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Speaker 1: Because of the men, right, I know, they've inflicted us

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Speaker 4: Men are broken if it wasn't, I think, and pussy,

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Speaker 4: They're sexually frustrated. They're pissed the fuck off. Which sexual

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Speaker 4: single motherfucking thing. How do you convince a bunch of

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Speaker 4: no height because they're not being loved on. And where

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Speaker 4: I think it happens every generation. You know, our moms

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Speaker 4: Yeah, gonna fuck that up.

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Speaker 4: To say, I do, I like to think that things

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but no everybody had them. Everybody had good old days.

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Speaker 1: Do you think you would work out a brothel? I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you've got madam. Yeah, yeah, I think I

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Speaker 3: I think you both.

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Speaker 4: It would have to be my own.

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Speaker 1: Well, then we'd have to be sister brothels.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm definitely a fetish as we give advice on

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Speaker 4: Done been a long time. I love no, I love

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Speaker 3: Well, our first question is just an email.

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Speaker 2: This one's not a caller, so Angelica says, Dear Chelsea,

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Speaker 2: I'm writing to ask for your honest thoughts on sugar dating.

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Speaker 2: Is it morally wrong to seek out an older, wealthy

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Speaker 2: hear your thoughts, Angelica.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to start?

443
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Speaker 4: No, you start, but I definitely have my opinion.

444
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Speaker 3: Since we've got two madams talking.

445
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Speaker 1: About with two tops, all right, even though I'm about

446
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 1: nova were tops, I would definitely say go for it.

447
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:06,879
Speaker 1: If you have no qualms about it and it's not

448
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:10,199
Speaker 1: a moral issue for you, which it shouldn't be, then

449
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 1: do whatever you want that is going to make you happy.

450
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 2: I know.

451
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 1: I don't think it's I don't think it's sexist or

452
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 1: what was the question?

453
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 3: I think is anti feminine?

454
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,359
Speaker 1: No, it's not, because you're you know what the situation is,

455
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 1: and you're getting money in exchange for your services basically,

456
00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 1: so go for it.

457
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:26,440
Speaker 4: I think.

458
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 1: I Yes, I think that's feminist.

459
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 4: I think they're not just paying for your time and attention.

460
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 4: They're paying for your time and attention and simplicity, Now

461
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:38,879
Speaker 4: do I think.

462
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 1: Included time and attention is included.

463
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 4: What's the name Anna? He didn't get he couldn't so he,

464
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:57,440
Speaker 4: in essence was paying for time and attention. There's old

465
00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 4: guys out there like that, but but with the ones

466
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 4: that can fuck do want to fuck your little ass? Now?

467
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 4: Is it morally wrong?

468
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 9: Not?

469
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 4: I mean not in my opinion, you know, but but

470
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 4: it's gross. You know, if you can handle the grossness

471
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 4: of this old motherfucker wants to fuck you, and who

472
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 4: wants to fucker? Oh ass, motherfucker, this big, oh beast

473
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 4: motherfucker wants the fuck You's got all the money in

474
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 4: the world. I got somebody in mind, Please don't mind

475
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 4: need to tell you what I'm thinking about. They got

476
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,159
Speaker 4: all the money in the world. But I mean, you

477
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 4: got a fucking what was that pretty woman? Richard Gear

478
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 4: is not paying for your time and attention, bitch, It's

479
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 4: somebody that you don't want to be with. So you know,

480
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 4: if you can deal with it, and you can handle it,

481
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 4: walk on that motherfucker's arm, proudbly with your motherfucking cardiac

482
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,640
Speaker 4: ship and take the trips and do all that if

483
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 4: you don't mind spending time with this old, fat motherfucker.

484
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,120
Speaker 1: That's exactly why I had the reaction I had, because

485
00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 1: I kept envisioning myself with the choice I would make

486
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 1: is And it's like I couldn't do it, Like I

487
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 1: really couldn't have sex with someone unless.

488
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Speaker 4: I would just say you couldn't do it for a

489
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,479
Speaker 4: long time. Don't say you couldn't do it, because everybody

490
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 4: hits a lick, you know. I'dn't been in a bit

491
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 4: with some idiot's motherfuckers, but not for a long time.

492
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 4: Maybe for that night, got that lick and moved on.

493
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 4: That gonna be this is cannot be reoccurring.

494
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Speaker 2: Well in these days, there's a lot of different ways

495
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 2: to do that. You can like just sell feet picks

496
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Speaker 2: if you don't want to actually like hook up me

497
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Speaker 2: the guy.

498
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Speaker 1: I mean, really, yeah, that's incredible. But it sounds like

499
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Speaker 1: if she's positing that question, like she's clearly thought it

500
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: through to a certain degree, and she.

501
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Speaker 4: Asked some kind of morals, so she wouldn't be asking about.

502
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Speaker 1: Them, right, you know, And I and I don't, But

503
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Speaker 1: I also don't think it's a moral judgment like or

504
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to be morally judgmental of that. I

505
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,119
Speaker 1: think it's like you're able to do that.

506
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Speaker 2: I think it's a fine line between what she's taught

507
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 2: talking about and just like a beautiful woman who dates

508
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 2: an older, successful, wealthy guy, like, where is the line?

509
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 4: I think successful wealthy though, does not equal handsome. See,

510
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 4: that's the payoff is that this gross motherfucker has got

511
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 4: a bad bitch on his arm. You're getting what you want.

512
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 4: The sacrifice is that you gotta be escorted around. And

513
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 4: then there's always an awkward moment when you're with this

514
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 4: old fuck and you see the finest motherfucker you've ever

515
00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 4: seen in your life and you want to get it him,

516
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 4: but you're gonna fuck up the bag if you make

517
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 4: Big Daddy pissed off. Right, So it's a business, honey.

518
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 3: Well, our next question bred do we have Hannah on

519
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 3: the line.

520
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 1: Okay, Hannah einbinder. We're just talking about it, you.

521
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 6: Know it is.

522
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 2: She wants to talk about Hack season six. Okay, So

523
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 2: Hannah's kind of an interesting conundrum. She's thirty five, and

524
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 2: she says, Dear Chelsea, I'm writing in because I'm in

525
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 2: a situation that feels like it belongs on the podcast,

526
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: and I genuinely don't know what the right move is.

527
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 2: I was in an on and off relationship with a

528
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 2: man for a long time. The connection was intense, emotional,

529
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,479
Speaker 2: and honestly pretty chaotic. We always seem to come back

530
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,360
Speaker 2: to each other, even after saying we're done. When things

531
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 2: were good between us, we talked about having kids one

532
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 2: day once life felt a little more stable and settled.

533
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 2: It wasn't a crazy idea in our world. It felt

534
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 2: like something that action might happen down the road. Recently,

535
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,880
Speaker 2: things blew up between us in a really hurtful way,

536
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 2: and he's now completely avoiding me. No conversations, no closure, nothing.

537
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 2: Then I found out I'm pregnant. He knows, but his

538
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: reaction was not great. Since then, he's basically disappeared. No

539
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 2: real discussion, no plan, just silence. I feel stuck between

540
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 2: wanting to handle this in a mature, grounded way and

541
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: wanting to call his mom, his friends, and everyone he

542
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 2: knows and ask what the hell is wrong with him.

543
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 2: Part of me wants to keep my dignity and move

544
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 2: forward on my own. Part of me feels like the

545
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 2: situation involves him, whether he likes it or not, and

546
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 2: avoiding it doesn't make it go away. Do I keep

547
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,600
Speaker 2: trying to talk to him or do I accept the

548
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 2: silence and move forward without him?

549
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:08,879
Speaker 1: Hannah, that's heavy?

550
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 4: Are you ready for Yeah?

551
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: All right, lunell, did you want to start?

552
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 4: I've had a relationship like that between the ages of

553
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 4: nineteen and probably up to about six years ago, on

554
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 4: and off, chaotic, motherfucker best sense ever, very deep and

555
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 4: all that shit. I feel like, blow up the fucking spot.

556
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 4: Tell every motherfucking body. Let him know. It's going to

557
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 4: come out one day anyway. The kid needs to know, like,

558
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 4: blow up the spot. Tell your mama, tell every motherfucking

559
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 4: body you fucked with the wrong one. But I'm sick

560
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 4: of women being left holding the bag. You know, these

561
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 4: motherfuckers just skeating. You make a baby and walk the

562
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 4: fuck away. That's not fair. And so you have decisions

563
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 4: to make, which is do I just take on this

564
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 4: burden all alone in my heart? Ready for it? What

565
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 4: will I say to the kid? Am I bitter? Or

566
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 4: why should he get off the hook with making a

567
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,239
Speaker 4: whole human being? This kid now has a grandmother, now

568
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 4: might have siblings, and it's not fair.

569
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 3: No, it's not fair.

570
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 1: But I also think, like, honestly, let it. You have

571
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: to figure out a way to let it go. Yeah,

572
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,920
Speaker 1: you can blow it up. Yeah, tell everybody about it,

573
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 1: like he should.

574
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 4: You got to get your mind that I'm bad blows.

575
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: But he should be accountable. He should be accountable for it,

576
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 1: and his family should know that he did get you

577
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: pregnant and whatever. But then let it, Like you have

578
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: to walk away from it with the understanding that he

579
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: may never show up. Right, he's already proved himself to

580
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 1: be unreliable, And don't hang your hat on something that

581
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: you don't need. You don't need somebody who's going to

582
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 1: be that kind of presence in your life. You need

583
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: to be a strong, independent woman who's gonna have a

584
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: baby by yourself, and then it's probably gonna meet someone

585
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: else that's gonna end up being her father because he's

586
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 1: not the one. Less he goes to like major therapy

587
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: or gets a major health Like, don't allow yourself to

588
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: be constantly disappointed by the same type of behavior because

589
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: he's already shown you who he is and you don't

590
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: have time for this. You're pregnant, now it's grown up time.

591
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: So if he can wants to come along, great. Otherwise, no,

592
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: you're gonna go do it on your own, and probably

593
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: better on your own, right, Frank.

594
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like solo parenting in this situation is

595
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 2: like the best possible scenario. But like that also doesn't

596
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 2: mean you don't have to file for like child support.

597
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: Like do file for child support. Do make sure his

598
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 2: family knows just in case they want to be involved

599
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 2: in the child's life. And even if he doesn't pay

600
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 2: child support right away, that doesn't mean you're not getting

601
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 2: a big check later, you know.

602
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: And you never know, he might in six years be like,

603
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: oh my god, you know what am I doing? This

604
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 1: is crazy? Right, But that's not your problem. Your problem

605
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:43,959
Speaker 1: is you and your baby, right.

606
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 2: And the other thing is six years from now, Like

607
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 2: if you don't say anything to anyone, he could come

608
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 2: after parental rights and join custody and all that stuff.

609
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 2: So like it's better to get everything out of the

610
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 2: bag right now and move forward that way.

611
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 4: But I agree with you about to let it go

612
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 4: because times you want how hard to break?

613
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: What do you think you're gonna do?

614
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 6: What?

615
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: Based on our conversation, have you what's your game plan?

616
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 7: My game plan is I you know, I do know

617
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 7: his mom relatively well. I do know that she would

618
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 7: want to know and be a part of this. I'm

619
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 7: definitely going to communicate with her. I think right now,

620
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 7: I'm just focusing on what's best for me and what's

621
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 7: best for this pregnancy and the future of the baby.

622
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 4: How pregnant are you right now? How far? Yeah?

623
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 7: I just finished the first trimester, so I'm a little

624
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 7: over twelve weeks.

625
00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 3: This is a really exciting time for you as well.

626
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 4: I hope you have a beautiful, healthy bab Yeah, thank you.

627
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: I know it doesn't sound like what your ideal scenario

628
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 1: would look like. It doesn't seem like that, so there's

629
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,200
Speaker 1: like a minute for you to have to adjust. But

630
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: like you can't browbeat somebody into caring about something.

631
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 4: That they're not interesting. Are you working?

632
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 7: I am, yep, yep. I'm working full time and it's

633
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 7: a good job. I recently, in the last few years

634
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 7: purchased a manufactured home. It's newer, so I feel like,

635
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 7: considering the circumstances, it's not the worst and I am thankful.

636
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 4: You're gonna be okay. Yeah, yep, I will say this too,

637
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 4: as do you have any children? No, okay, it's the

638
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 4: only woman in the room with children. I know that

639
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 4: I was not prepared, I was not ready. I didn't

640
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 4: have you know, all that nursery shit set up. And

641
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 4: I have one piece of paper in my purse with

642
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 4: five people's phone number on it. Apparently I'm pregnant. I

643
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 4: think I'm gonna have a baby. When I do call them,

644
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 4: you don't. You're never really, really, really ready. But something

645
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 4: kicks in when you have this baby, and it's a

646
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 4: maternal thing, and it's genetic and it's scientific, and you

647
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 4: will become a version of yourself that you didn't.

648
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: No, you might even start smoking crack or Finnish asshole,

649
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: you know, Hannah.

650
00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 2: I would also suggest pick up a book called there's

651
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 2: a book called Matressan's. It's not a new term, but

652
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 2: it's like a term a lot of people don't know about.

653
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 2: It's exactly what Luna was talking about, where like your

654
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: gray matter and your brain changes when you become a mom,

655
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 2: like all these different things. Physiologically, yeah, it's like a second.

656
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:33,719
Speaker 4: Adult bird things us. It's nature. Yes, unless you're it's

657
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 4: a complete weirdo funck narcissists or some weird shit like that.

658
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 4: If you are just in your hormonal right mind and

659
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 4: you have this baby, it's like just how puppies take

660
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 4: the dogs. Think you're gonna it's it's it's just it

661
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 4: just happens. You'll be fine.

662
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Hannah. Any other questions we can answer

663
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 3: for you.

664
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I just want to like give you a

665
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: lot of love and support.

666
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 7: Yeah, thank you, Yeah, thank you, thank you so much

667
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 7: for taking the time to answer my email. And yeah,

668
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 7: it's definitely been probably one of the most challenging situations

669
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 7: I've ever had to deal with so far in my life.

670
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 7: So thank you so much.

671
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 2: In six months, we need to follow up email or

672
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 2: like maybe in eight months when you've like you know,

673
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: had a minute.

674
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: Anytime, anytime in your life where something doesn't go the

675
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: way that you planned for it to go is an

676
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: opportunity for you to go, oh my god, I'm going

677
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 1: to handle this like a fucking pro.

678
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's thank you. Yes, I have been trying very

679
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:41,600
Speaker 7: hard to reframe my brain and not just want to

680
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 7: cry all.

681
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, totally.

682
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 7: The hormones don't help, but I will definitely send in

683
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 7: a photo in about eight months or so, you'll see

684
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 7: how we're doing.

685
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, and like you've got this, like you're a full adult,

686
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 2: you're thirty five, Like you're you've got this.

687
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 4: You know what the crying part is. I think it's

688
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 4: like when you finally realize I don't got got like

689
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 4: I'm caught, like I'm pregnant, like.

690
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 1: The brain stuff. I was like, if that brain stuff.

691
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 4: I'm saying this like oh my god, because I was

692
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 4: pregnant and I was like, this kid's got to come

693
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:27,280
Speaker 4: out of me. Where will I be? How does this happen?

694
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 4: What's going on? Will I be in the store? Will

695
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 4: I'll be driving? Am I going to be alone? I

696
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 4: don't know what to do? How much has I heard?

697
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 4: There's all that ship?

698
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: I went, all, you're trapped anyway, We're gonna let you go.

699
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,919
Speaker 1: We'll hang up, we'll hang up with you now. Thank

700
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: you for it, Okay, I.

701
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 7: Will thank you so much. Have a great rest of

702
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:50,560
Speaker 7: your day.

703
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 3: By thanks you wonderful.

704
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,360
Speaker 1: It's so funny that you say the thing of it,

705
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: because I was like, crazy, I've never even gotten that

706
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 1: far along with my That's all I when I think

707
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: about pregnancy, it stops at nine months of no drinking

708
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 1: and no, pardon, that's where it ends. Imagine, it's not

709
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 1: even about the kid first, It's about that period of

710
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: time where I have to incubate something.

711
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 4: Like yeah, but something in you also wants to stop,

712
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 4: wants to stop, something in you. I don't want the vodka,

713
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 4: all right?

714
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, right to protect them, which is yeah, that

715
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 8: set of circles, Yeah, happened over there, I would Yeah, well.

716
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: I think you might be me. I mean, there's a

717
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: lot of similarities going to kid.

718
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: All right, Well, our next question comes from Cassidy and

719
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 2: she is calling in with her husband Brandon.

720
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:52,919
Speaker 3: It's a couple. It's a couple, a couple, a little

721
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 3: lighter questions.

722
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: It's going to be about all watch, Cassidy says your Chelsea.

723
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 3: I'm thinking about drugging my husband for good reason of

724
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 3: cl I.

725
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:02,479
Speaker 1: Told you about.

726
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 3: Here's the issue.

727
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: He hates flying and refuses to take anything for flight anxiety.

728
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: I'm no fan myself, but I've learned to manage my husband, however,

729
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,800
Speaker 2: expresses every trepidation allowed, which gives me a helpful running

730
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 2: list of reminders of what to panic about when we're

731
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 2: trapped in a metal tube in the sky.

732
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 3: He also has the.

733
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: Scaries for days leading up to the flight, and especially

734
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: the return flight. He sometimes even hijacks sweet moments with

735
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 2: anxiety at random while on our trip. So on longer

736
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 2: scary flights, I take a nibble of xanax to subdue

737
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,760
Speaker 2: the nerves or get some sleep, leaving my poor husband

738
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 2: to white knuckle it solo or worse ruin my high.

739
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 2: But he doesn't want to take anything. He won't even

740
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 2: trial run it. He's skeptical of most meds, especially not prescribed,

741
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: and insists he would rather suffer. He calls it exposure therapy.

742
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 2: I call it stubborn and childish. The thing is, we

743
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: fly a lot. He travels monthly for work mostly, but

744
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: we go back and forth between Austin and and Mice

745
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 2: several times a year, four hours of him catastrophizing and

746
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 2: me being the emotional support human. I've listened to every episode,

747
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 2: and I don't think you've covered the ethics of non

748
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 2: consensually sedating.

749
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:07,800
Speaker 3: Your spouse Hypothetically.

750
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 2: Should I tell him to try breathing exercises, hypnosis or

751
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 2: shouldn't it just drug him and tell him afterward help.

752
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 2: My marriage is great, but our flights are turbulent. Cassidy

753
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 2: and Brandon.

754
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 1: Dude by guys, Brandon, mute yourself, Brandon an interest, Brandon.

755
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 1: You can't subject you can't subject the woman who loves

756
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 1: you to this kind of behavior. You have to start

757
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: taking you know what it's like what you're doing, Brandon.

758
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 1: It's like you have the magic pill. It's right here.

759
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: It will make your life so easy. It will make

760
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: your life's wife much easier. There's whatever version of it it's.

761
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 1: It could be xanax, it could be a kalana, and

762
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: it could be a joint. It could be I don't know.

763
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 1: Figure it out and then imagine. I mean, that's a

764
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: gift that you are giving to your life, and that

765
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: is decency, courtesy and respect. You'll think her later, yeah, right,

766
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 1: don't you agree?

767
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:15,319
Speaker 4: You can't keep sucking up the trip, bro. Just drug him, girl.

768
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 4: He's not willing, you know, do it on the plane,

769
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 4: because you'll think that there's no way for you to.

770
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,320
Speaker 1: Do it on the watching this right now, so I

771
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 1: think he's got his eyes closed.

772
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 4: She just drug him, girl, and tell.

773
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 3: Him to look out the window at the beautiful view.

774
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,919
Speaker 1: And then you slip it on a more serious note.

775
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I like that note.

776
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 4: Too.

777
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 1: But have you tried hypnosis?

778
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 4: No, I don't look like a hypnosis type of guy.

779
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 1: Okay, but you have to be open to these types

780
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: of things. You can't just sit around and suffer. You

781
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,240
Speaker 1: do you understand that that's going to be a bigger

782
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,399
Speaker 1: and become a bigger and bigger problem in your life.

783
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 4: No, he can suffer. He's making her suffer.

784
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 5: Well, I always get on the plane. It doesn't ruin trip, sir,

785
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 5: anything of that sort. It's just I always get on.

786
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 5: We've never not get on a flight because I'm too

787
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 5: anxious for it.

788
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: So no, I know, but that's not the point, because

789
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: you're torturing her while you're on the flight, your sweaty hands,

790
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 1: like your anxiousness, your anxiety is a problem for her.

791
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,280
Speaker 1: When there's a solution, maybe you guys should fly separately,

792
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: and he oh, never.

793
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 4: Well, we do that.

794
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 3: So he's actually he's in New York right now and

795
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 3: I'm home.

796
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 6: So he'll fly by himself on Friday, but I will

797
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 6: definitely be by the phone, like the pilot's gonna be fine.

798
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 3: So that's why I had to come to you.

799
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 6: Guys, because I was this close to literally doing what

800
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 6: Catherine said and just putting a little zooage in this

801
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 6: water bottle, letting him take a good nap, and then

802
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 6: when we get there, then he'll understand that it's not

803
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 6: that pud right.

804
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 2: You know what Brandon, you might also try is like

805
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 2: a beta blocker, like a pro panelog.

806
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, that's easy. That's a nothing drug. That's not

807
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 1: like a xanax at all. It's not a benzodiazepine. It's

808
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: called a pro randal all and it's like a bit

809
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 1: of black carp But she said you won't take anything, right,

810
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: you won't even a prescription.

811
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 2: It's a prescription, but it's not going to make you

812
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:10,920
Speaker 2: feel funny in your head at all.

813
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:12,399
Speaker 3: It just like slows down your heart.

814
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: That's actually what it takes away any nervous anxiety.

815
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just don't get nervous.

816
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 5: You have me?

817
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do, actually outload of it upstairs. Do you

818
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 1: want something? I wish I had some for you, but

819
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: it doesn't. I just think, Brandon, like, do you understand

820
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 1: the point that you should? It would be nice and

821
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 1: respectful to be more open to suggestion when something is

822
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:34,439
Speaker 1: kind of being become a real thorn in your partner side.

823
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean I understand what.

824
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 5: I try to really in as much as possible, but

825
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 5: I fly enough every time I do it. I don't

826
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 5: want to have to take a annex. I haven't done

827
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 5: it in the past, so maybe it's a lack of

828
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 5: knowing what it's going to be like. But I'm flying

829
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 5: at least once twice three times a month normally, so

830
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 5: having it takes annex every other week, it seems like

831
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 5: something I'm not really interested.

832
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: Okay, I understand that that's understandable, but there are there

833
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,399
Speaker 1: are other solutions out there. You don't have to become

834
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 1: addicted to xanax.

835
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 4: I feel if his system is as clean as it is,

836
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:11,320
Speaker 4: he could take a natural melanite, a meloton gummy and

837
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 4: just he'll go and just go take a little nap.

838
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 4: You'll wake up where you are. Like he said, he

839
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 4: ain't never missed no plane or nothing like that. He

840
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 4: starts three or fours just being a baby. And she

841
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 4: just has to girl. You said, for better or worse,

842
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 4: richer porous sickness in hell, psycho or no psycho. So

843
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 4: that's what you got to do to bring your husband

844
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 4: through the flight. You might just be struck doing a

845
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 4: girl unless you drugging.

846
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 6: Well, sometimes on like a Friday or something and we're

847
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 6: going together, I'm like, why don't you get on.

848
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 3: My level a little bit and we'll just hang out

849
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 3: have a little party.

850
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fine. Actually, you're missing out to brandon on

851
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 1: that you gotta be. You're so rigid, like, let it go,

852
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 1: let it rip a little bit. Life is easier if

853
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 1: you're just a little bit looser.

854
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:56,880
Speaker 3: How about this. I think this might be a good compromise.

855
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 2: If you don't want to take anything, then you have

856
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 2: to go see either someone to do some hypnotherapy or

857
00:42:03,840 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 2: a therapist about this, or anal or anal. I thought

858
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 2: this question was gonna be about anal.

859
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 9: I don't really I don't really know much about the hypnosis.

860
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 4: What is that like?

861
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 9: What would that be?

862
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 1: I've been to hypnosis for smoking cigarettes and I didn't

863
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 1: smoke cigarettes for ten years after that. It was like

864
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 1: a three time thing. There's a guy named Kerry Gainer.

865
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: He's in Santa Monica, California. I know you guys don't

866
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 1: live in Santa Monica, but he works. I've had so

867
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: many friends have gone to him and quit smoking. It

868
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: worked for me. He does all sorts of he does

869
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 1: fear of flying. He does all different sorts of like phobias.

870
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: And his name is Kerry Gainer spelled with a K.

871
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: So if you know, that's one, but there's there's a

872
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: lot of those. I just know that one because I

873
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 1: live in la and that Armical Chaire is like two

874
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,560
Speaker 1: or three sessions I think where they kind of hypnotize

875
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: you and go through the motions of getting on a plane.

876
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: And it seems to do the trick for a lot

877
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 1: of people, so it's worth trying, for sure.

878
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:01,359
Speaker 4: Not can I ask you this, I don't know if

879
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 4: you don't know anything about me, I'm extremely blunt. Your

880
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 4: husband looks like he's a nice guy, but a blow job.

881
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 4: I'm sure he wouldn't be opposed to that.

882
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 3: Before.

883
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 4: Before maybe in the right away to the air now

884
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 4: I was like, where do you do that? Back those

885
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 4: days of old? And I bet you he would be

886
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 4: so relaxed he wouldn't even need a Melowton and nothing

887
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:29,320
Speaker 4: like that.

888
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 9: Now we're thinking, look, who just perked on?

889
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: Somebody just came here?

890
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 5: We go.

891
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,360
Speaker 8: I mean, when you're married, you got to do stuff

892
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 8: like we should submit this episode for a Webbie.

893
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 3: Absolutely mental health awareness.

894
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 1: Absolutely like, Wow, you guys, we nailed it. I think

895
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 1: we solved everybody's problem.

896
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 3: All right, do you have your marching orders?

897
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 1: Okay, oh, blow job and news blow therapy, and okay,

898
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: I love that.

899
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 9: I'm open to I'm open to the hypnosis. I'll give

900
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 9: that a shot.

901
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:16,200
Speaker 1: And that's good. That's open to something. And also, let's

902
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,839
Speaker 1: goody first he finishes the hypnosis and then he gets

903
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 1: the blow.

904
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 4: Job, and you'll be asleep like a little baby.

905
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 9: Bye, guys, thank you, by bye.

906
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:30,479
Speaker 4: See they're laughing, So that's a good start.

907
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:35,919
Speaker 3: Are you guys ready for another question?

908
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

909
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:41,360
Speaker 3: Absolutely. You're like, I'm surprised, like you guys are stone

910
00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 3: but like you're pulling it out. You're pulling it out.

911
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 4: Really really good voice of reason. I'm like, fucking almost everything.

912
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 4: But she really, you know, people got the wrong This

913
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 4: is a smart ass bitch right here, and she's got

914
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 4: a really good head on turns.

915
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: People have the wrong idea about it.

916
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 4: I just think you're sluttie and drunk.

917
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 3: So so Jess says dear Chelsea.

918
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,280
Speaker 2: I'm going to Spain for my forty first birthday celebration

919
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 2: and would love some advice. I'll be there for the

920
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 2: entire month of September twenty twenty six, with friends and

921
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 2: family popping in and out at different times, just like

922
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 2: you do, Chelsea.

923
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 3: I know you love my Yorka. It has been a

924
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 3: dream of mine to visit.

925
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 2: My most important question, what do I need to know

926
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 2: about having sex with men in a new country? Not

927
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 2: sure if I'll get lucky or not, but would love

928
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:26,800
Speaker 2: some tips and or knowledge you may have on the topic.

929
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 2: She goes, men might be a bit presumptuous, more probably

930
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 2: a singular man. Love your podcast. My sisters and I

931
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 2: listen every week, all the best jests.

932
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: What does she What do you mean men might be

933
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 1: more presumptuous?

934
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 3: What she's saying, it is probably just me one man?

935
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:40,920
Speaker 4: But like you.

936
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 1: Speak, Okay, Oh, I see well, I don't know what

937
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: to say about European men. I mean I find it

938
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,399
Speaker 1: all men to be fun, like you can find fun

939
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: guys in a lot of places, definitely in Spain. But

940
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would say that would you

941
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: have to look? I guess not being circumcised.

942
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 4: Not no Jamaica. You ain't gonna get you implicya. You

943
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 4: would get big Donald, but during a gets Applicia.

944
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: Down here in Jamaica specifically, just that island.

945
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 4: Well, I haven't been all of them but once when it's.

946
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: Very very that's unfortunate.

947
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 4: I don't like I don't go that often. Yeah, but

948
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 4: like you said, there is circumcisional regional differences. There's I

949
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 4: think that it's more fun to meet guys European guys.

950
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 4: You got an accent, you got a different culture. They

951
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 4: show you things, you learn things every day. These motherfuckers

952
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 4: here in the States have fucking had it pretty much.

953
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 4: And so I'm ball in an envy of going and

954
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 4: having a European romance.

955
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a good time to go to your period.

956
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: It's a good time to go to Europe and it's

957
00:46:56,160 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 1: a good time to be with the European man. So

958
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: there's a lot to look forward to. And I don't know,

959
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 1: I've only dated one Spanish guy, and I don't know

960
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: how I would differentiate it.

961
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, would you hook up with like a local? Would

962
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:07,879
Speaker 3: you hook up with an ex pat?

963
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 2: Like?

964
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: You got to find someone you have a vibe with

965
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: and then have a good time.

966
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 3: And where are we meeting guys? I said at a

967
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 3: restaurant you have to be out.

968
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 4: And a beach bar Yeah, beach bars are fun.

969
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: Happens especially at night. A beach bar at night. I

970
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:24,120
Speaker 1: like that till night.

971
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 4: That's when it's really fair. Daytail night. Yeah, webhit all

972
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 4: night long.

973
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, well those are all our questions.

974
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: That's okay, we can wrap it up.

975
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 4: I absolutely adore coming to see you in any capacity.

976
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 1: I love it, you know.

977
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 4: I don't let me just say this to the people.

978
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:46,720
Speaker 4: I don't give a fuck about a lot of these bitches. Okay.

979
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 4: I played the game and I'd be nice, which is

980
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:51,239
Speaker 4: a big thing for me because I used to not

981
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,439
Speaker 4: even be nice. But I'd be nice and I played

982
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 4: the game. But there are certain people that I really

983
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 4: do funk with, Like I really after oh wow, I

984
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 4: can't go too long without checking in or sending a

985
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 4: message or something like that and letting them know I'm

986
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 4: thinking about them. And I watch what they do and

987
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 4: study and learn from. And that's you for me. I

988
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,800
Speaker 4: never thought I was gonna know you, you know, and

989
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 4: I definitely didn't think we was gonna get along, and

990
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 4: then we are. I feel very like minded in a

991
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 4: lot of ways. And she's a lot of fun And

992
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 4: don't give a fucking you're not having fun in life.

993
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 4: Then you're fucking miserable. It's really only one reason to

994
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 4: be here is say if you get a kid, raise

995
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 4: a viable kid, and to have fun. I don't even

996
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 4: want to be involved with any guys. If they're not fun,

997
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 4: what are we doing. I don't need you to not

998
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 4: be fun. You are the fun I need, motherfucker. So

999
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 4: but I really enjoy coming here and seeing in any.

1000
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: I love your chairs, cheers chairs. We've christened the podcast

1001
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: room with a nice day of joint smoking. I appreciate

1002
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 1: you for that. So I needed to break.

1003
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 4: I need a plaque. I need. I'm down with a

1004
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 4: plaque of the disc room Christen the Great lou Now, okay,

1005
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 4: I want that. Next time I come over, I'll be

1006
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 4: looking for it.

1007
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 2: If you want advice from Chelsea, write into Dear Chelsea

1008
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 2: podcast at gmail dot com. Dear Chelsea is a production

1009
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:25,480
Speaker 2: of iHeartMedia. Follow Chelsea on all socials at Chelsea Handler,

1010
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:29,040
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1011
00:49:29,200 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 2: is edited and engineered by Brandon Dickert executive producer Katherine Law.

1012
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