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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't let your death freaking rule my vibe rain

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what real diseases. Oh you're killing my vibe? Wow. Wow,

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Speaker 2: I'm getting that that cancer wow over my good party vibes?

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Speaker 2: I'm literally trying to party and drink away my pain, brilliant,

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Speaker 1: Wow. That I know how to handle with alcohol exactly

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Speaker 1: that real life solutions from Okay, now let's see if

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Speaker 1: we can solve this. So I twenty five female, work

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Speaker 2: Nuggets, have a life threatening illness? Yeah, I'm breaking up

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Speaker 2: So like all right, all right, it's it's twenty nineteen, yep, right,

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Speaker 1: So I do have to think I'm being honest here.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god. Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 1: This is what I'm doing. I think you.

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Speaker 1: Get it.

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Speaker 2: My husband openly brags to me and the kids about

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Speaker 2: I'm Samuel daughter and I'm John Fry and John people

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Speaker 2: All right, John, I got history, I got his story.

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Speaker 2: Hit me with the baby, all right. My husband openly

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Speaker 2: throw themselves at him kind of something you don't want to,

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Speaker 2: If you're like kids, you wouldn't believe the dime that

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Speaker 1: Maybe we just used all kids nineteen fifties terms describe

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Speaker 1: That Wow? See why college and no one is offended.

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Speaker 2: Like this, this dad's investing in these broads. She is

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Speaker 2: is salami. I'm salami service, yummy. I mean all right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Sam is the king of deals. I chry I

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Speaker 1: So everyone's on board. Yeah, it sounds like an adventure.

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Speaker 2: After just two months apart, I could sense a drastic

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Speaker 2: asked a woman who approached him at a bar, which

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Speaker 2: My husband then started criticizing my appearance a lot, and

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Speaker 2: Absolutely keep your eyes on your food, or your wife,

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Speaker 2: getting dark, This is getting dark. When we tried some

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Speaker 2: My daughter found a bunch of contacts on his phone

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Speaker 2: and instead of at least pretending to be ashamed for

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you're cheating on mom, and it's like

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Speaker 2: And then it turned into a diatribe about how he

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it happens where we're at restaurants and hotels and

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Speaker 1: And it's like, these are people who just want your money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bro, this has nothing nothing to do with your life,

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Speaker 2: nothing at all.

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Speaker 1: They just trying to milk you for all it's worth.

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Speaker 1: Move moo mooh.

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Speaker 2: I've been to support groups and have been told to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we'll give you better support than freaking whatever

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Speaker 2: to the contrary, I feel bad for people who need

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Speaker 2: We had a big fight that night, and I went

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Speaker 2: When I came back home, he glared at me and said, oh,

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Speaker 2: you're back. What if I don't want you here anymore?

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Speaker 1: Excuse me? Rude? Rude. I do not know what to do.

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Speaker 2: My support group keeps telling me that he will get

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Speaker 2: off his power trip, but if I leave him, I

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Speaker 2: will likely lose any assets I have here. My kids

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Speaker 2: obviously still have school and love their classmate. I need

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Speaker 2: any advice on how to save my marriage or how

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Speaker 2: to get my husband to stop thinking that I am

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Speaker 2: not enough for him when I haven't changed from when

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Speaker 2: we were not expats. Well, he respected and appreciated me

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Speaker 2: back at home, he scorns me here What should I do?

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Speaker 1: Wow? I mean god, what a bro?

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Speaker 2: The post says it all break up with him, leave

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Speaker 2: with the kids, get a divorce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, God, he like run far far away. He's treating

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Speaker 1: you like our like he's not doing anything at all. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And it's and also it's like it's just so clear

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Speaker 1: his behavior before and after. So it's like something there

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Speaker 1: made him change. And I think we all have a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, escorts yep man, run for the hills, bro, just

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Speaker 2: like Op, you deserve.

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Speaker 1: Better, absolutely, And you know where our listeners should run to, Samuel.

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Speaker 2: Oh, they should run to the okop support group otherwise

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