WEBVTT -  Anger Issues? The One Thing We Want To Change In Our Lives

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<v Speaker 1>Best Bits of the week with Morgan's listener Q and daytime.

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<v Speaker 1>We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions.

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<v Speaker 2>Scuba is here everybody, and he's ready to answer some

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<v Speaker 2>listener questions.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got questions, We've got answers.

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<v Speaker 2>That was my best deep probably for I can't do again.

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<v Speaker 3>It was never there.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a little bit there. Okay, all right, you

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<v Speaker 2>two are my faves. Scoop should braid his beard like

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<v Speaker 2>a Viking, Jesse and san Diego.

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<v Speaker 3>That'll be kind of cool. You ever seen the TV

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<v Speaker 3>show Vikings and like the main guy talking about Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Ragno Lothbrook I think is his name. Here's what Ragnor

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<v Speaker 3>lothbrook mouth character, and yeah, he's I think he's a

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<v Speaker 3>pretty big actor. Now, don't know what else he does,

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<v Speaker 3>but his beard's kind of cool. Where that they do

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of little braids here and there, and they

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<v Speaker 3>just a little bit of break, a little bit dazzle

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<v Speaker 3>work for you. Yeah, we should try it. We'll see.

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<v Speaker 2>I can bring it. I know how to love French break.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you on the show. Stephanie from Illinois, shout out.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that. We start with a lot of like confidence.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we do. Shut up, just make him laugh hard.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so funny. Kim from Connecticut. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>did that at the very beginning.

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<v Speaker 3>She sure did, Kim, that was for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Michelle from Apple Valley Time my favorite Saturday consistent.

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<v Speaker 3>I appreciate it, Michelle.

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<v Speaker 2>We love consistency. Yeah, she's always very consistent about your episodes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Does he work all day now that he has his

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<v Speaker 2>night show? What's the schedule like Madison in Florida?

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<v Speaker 3>It is? It was already like an all day thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Now it's just an all day plus, so it is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's Yeah, it's an all day thing. I think my

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<v Speaker 3>only break is when I'm driving somewhere. That's my only break.

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<v Speaker 2>Really. Yeah, so you do you come back? Like do

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<v Speaker 2>you ever go home at all and come back?

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<v Speaker 3>So that's why. So my long term goal or short

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<v Speaker 3>term goal, really it's to move this thing in the

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<v Speaker 3>afternoon so I can just stay here and then go home.

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<v Speaker 3>Because doing the night thing is great because I'm able

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<v Speaker 3>to be a little bit more free and expand and

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<v Speaker 3>try and mess with stuff because it's late at night

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<v Speaker 3>and there's kind of guy whatever. But yeah, because I

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<v Speaker 3>have to leave the comeback. So it is a split

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<v Speaker 3>shift day where I usually leave here around depending on

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<v Speaker 3>if we have meetings or how busy the day is.

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<v Speaker 3>I try to leave here by one p one thirty,

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<v Speaker 3>but it ends up usually being two and then go home,

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<v Speaker 3>pick up the kids, have dinner, and then come back.

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<v Speaker 2>Dang is it worth it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's worth it because there's an end goal and

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<v Speaker 3>I can see where it's going to go. So yes,

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<v Speaker 3>it's one hundred percent worth it.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, see that's what matters. Yeah, the long schedules

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<v Speaker 2>and it sucks and you're in the grind, but when

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<v Speaker 2>you know that it's worth it, yeah, it makes all

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<v Speaker 2>of that a lot easier.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like, yeah, the realness is it is difficult,

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<v Speaker 3>but anything you really want in life isn't going to

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<v Speaker 3>be easy, because I mean, it's so cliche, but it's

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<v Speaker 3>true because if it were easy, then it doesn't come

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<v Speaker 3>with I mean, things can be easy. Sure, if you

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<v Speaker 3>got money, you can buy whatever you want and do

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<v Speaker 3>whatever you want. But I feel like if there isn't

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<v Speaker 3>some sort of grit and something that makes you work

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<v Speaker 3>hard for it, you don't appreciate it once you get there.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm fine with the grind. It's definitely been adjustment

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<v Speaker 3>to our schedule at home and everything, and even the

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<v Speaker 3>kids are like, Dad, where are you. There's even been

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<v Speaker 3>times where my kids will call into the show and

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be here.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen your videos from that, yeah, and they'll be like.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like Dad, Like my daughter just called them recently.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to post a video cause my wife's

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<v Speaker 3>you shoul post more the kids souff. People seem to

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<v Speaker 3>like that more than just whatever, and so I have

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<v Speaker 3>one of them. I'll post one probably this couple days

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<v Speaker 3>here where my daughter called in and she was and

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<v Speaker 3>she's part of the show because they call like Dad,

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<v Speaker 3>when you're coming home, and like when you're gonna be here,

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, I'll be here till eleven something midnight,

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<v Speaker 3>so i'll see you tomorrow, see you in the morning. Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Oh my goodness. I love that. I love that

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<v Speaker 2>the kid's going to be a part of it. They're

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<v Speaker 2>like your mini co hosts.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, in a sense. Yeah, they call in at least

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<v Speaker 3>like once a week, I feel like, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>it relates to because a lot of the listeners are

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<v Speaker 3>either parents very similar to me, or they have grandkids

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<v Speaker 3>or their kids are older, so they kind of like

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<v Speaker 3>to like feel nostalgic about Oh, I remember when my

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<v Speaker 3>kids were six or seven. That's so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, and they love it too. They're like they've

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<v Speaker 3>always said for the longest time, they're like, like, when's

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<v Speaker 3>the Scoop Steve show going to happen? And then finally

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<v Speaker 3>I did so and it's here. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And another listener wanted to ask. She stayed anonymous, but

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<v Speaker 2>she wanted to know because if energy feels like it's

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<v Speaker 2>changed a little bit from you, so are you happy?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'm just tired, okay. And when I'm tired, I'm cranky.

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<v Speaker 3>And she's relating to the whole hot dog fiasco. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess my shortness, my attention to or my my grace

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<v Speaker 3>giving for others is a little bit less right now,

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<v Speaker 3>not just because that's just who I am. It's just

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<v Speaker 3>because I'm just stretched so thin that that if you

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<v Speaker 3>catch me at the end of the week, which I

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<v Speaker 3>think that was on a Friday, you catch me at

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<v Speaker 3>the end of the week, especially then I was still

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<v Speaker 3>figuring it out and there wasn't a routine yet, and

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<v Speaker 3>the kids are out of school, so it's a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit different. But now that I'm in a routine and

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<v Speaker 3>I have my head on my this is just this

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<v Speaker 3>is what it is, and I've come to grips with

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<v Speaker 3>it that I'm in a better place than I was

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<v Speaker 3>two or three weeks ago as a person.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's good. I mean, I listen. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>check in with you too, make sure you're doing okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I listen. I know being in this shop, there's some

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<v Speaker 2>burnout that happens. There's also a lot of overwhelm that

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of us are wearing multiple hats and doing

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<v Speaker 2>multiple things. So I had to imagine that that was

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of a volcano moment for you, where

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<v Speaker 2>everything just kind of erupted and it went in a

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<v Speaker 2>whole lot of different directions. Was the vibe that I

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<v Speaker 2>was picking up on, which is why I very nicely

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<v Speaker 2>sat back, and because it wasn't my place one, but two,

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<v Speaker 2>because I could feel from all of you guys just

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<v Speaker 2>this and we were getting to a point where where

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<v Speaker 2>you were about to go on vacation not long from there.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody was just like we had just been grinding the

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<v Speaker 2>wheels totally.

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<v Speaker 3>For eight months solid. Yeah, and everyone's just like everyone

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<v Speaker 3>was done.

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<v Speaker 2>So I knew what was happening, but I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>have a checking because another there was quite a few

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<v Speaker 2>questions that we got that were in the terms of

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<v Speaker 2>does Scuba have an anger problem? That's from Jennifer, So

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to allow you to share.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, yeah, And in the moment, I was just like,

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<v Speaker 3>what we're talking about this like just just go get

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<v Speaker 3>the hot dogs and come back. It's kind of one

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<v Speaker 3>of the It's almost like when you get upset to

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<v Speaker 3>your kids for something so little minute they're like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to flush the toilet. You're like, just flush it.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to just just let's move on.

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<v Speaker 2>And for you it is something so little. For her,

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<v Speaker 2>it might have been something big, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The difference there was Wayne, And that's why I say,

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<v Speaker 2>like everybody was in this moment where they were having

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<v Speaker 2>their volcanoes explode all at the same time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So would you like to answer to reverrtue have an.

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<v Speaker 3>Anger and then your problem? No, I just had. I

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<v Speaker 3>just had a burnt out, burnout problems what it was,

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<v Speaker 3>And I think it happens to all of us when

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<v Speaker 3>we get towards the end of the year, we're like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, we're so burnt out because, like you said,

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<v Speaker 3>we're doing so much. We're not doing just the one

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<v Speaker 3>thing we're doing, and everyone experiences burnout in different ways.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you have the personal life mixed with the

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<v Speaker 3>work life, and it's like essentially two full full time job.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm basically three full time jobs. I've got our morning

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<v Speaker 3>show job, our night show job, and the family job,

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<v Speaker 3>which is it takes work to put together and and

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<v Speaker 3>have a relationship with a wife and three kids.

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<v Speaker 2>That are and then a bunch of mini hats within

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<v Speaker 2>each of those jobs exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, there's the other main buckets, but every bucket

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<v Speaker 3>has like other little yeah, other little buckets, and you're

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<v Speaker 3>just like you gets to a point where like I'm overwhelmed,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're still figuring out how that all works within

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<v Speaker 2>your life right now exactly all the beginning phases.

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<v Speaker 3>The beginning phase of figuring it out and figuring some

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<v Speaker 3>things out, but then you still get presented with options.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, oh, crab, I gotta figure that one, not now.

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<v Speaker 2>Too dang it. Okay, Well, I wanted to give you

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<v Speaker 2>a chance to say your.

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<v Speaker 3>Piece well, like even one thing for example, like I

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<v Speaker 3>used to always coach my son's baseball team, but this

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<v Speaker 3>year I had to take a step back and be like,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't do it, which has been hard because I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sitting there going like and the coach will do something.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, oh, there's a lot of things that, like,

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<v Speaker 2>over the course of your life were priorities changed, and

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<v Speaker 2>you have to As someone who loves to be in

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<v Speaker 2>control of a lot of my life, I totally understand

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<v Speaker 2>that feeling. But a lot of maturity comes when you

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<v Speaker 2>let go and just be like, no, it's fine, I

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<v Speaker 2>would do it differently, but I have to let go

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<v Speaker 2>of the fact that I would have done it differently

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<v Speaker 2>because this is a choice that I made.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's hard. It's a really hard thing to Like

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<v Speaker 2>you're literally letting go of the reins. You're not like

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<v Speaker 2>still holding on and let go. You're like, okay, hands

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<v Speaker 2>are up, I swear I'm not touching. Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's awesome though, because then when it comes to practice,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have to get there thirty minutes early and

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<v Speaker 3>set the field up and make sure whatever I can

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<v Speaker 3>literally get there right five minutes before it starts and

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<v Speaker 3>then as soon as it's over, we're out. There isn't

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<v Speaker 3>any of that. There's just it's so much easier on me.

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<v Speaker 3>It becomes only an hour versus a two three hour thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and then and then all the communication with all the

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<v Speaker 3>parents and all that stuff, so that becomes another full

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<v Speaker 3>time job within it. So it's nice to just let

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<v Speaker 3>go and and chill out for a second.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm with our job to You know, something that

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<v Speaker 2>I've gotten really good at now which will probably have

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<v Speaker 2>to be relearned in your new lifestyle change, is that

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<v Speaker 2>I had to separate my personal and my work life.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I had to come in, do my job and leave,

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<v Speaker 2>and like when I leave, like I'm no longer work working,

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<v Speaker 2>and like I have to turn it off even if

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<v Speaker 2>I'm working at home. I had to like put a

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<v Speaker 2>differential place in there because it felt like I was

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<v Speaker 2>carrying so much work into my personal life and like

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<v Speaker 2>just letting a lot of things carry on who I

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<v Speaker 2>am because of things that whether something happened on the

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<v Speaker 2>show or whether they happen on social media or X

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<v Speaker 2>Y and Z, I was carrying so much of that

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<v Speaker 2>load everywhere with me instead of it being like I

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<v Speaker 2>walk out the work doors and like a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>that stays here. Yeah, And I think that's a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of a load that people carry in general too, because

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<v Speaker 2>our work lives are so intertwined with our personal lives.

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<v Speaker 2>Not just for us. I mean, I think it's very

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<v Speaker 2>true for us because we straight up talk about our

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<v Speaker 2>personal lives. Yeah, but I think for most people, when

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<v Speaker 2>you work so much, it's such a big part of

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<v Speaker 2>your life that you start to think they're supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be like intertwined, and like you'd go home and you

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<v Speaker 2>talk about work all the time, or you're always constantly

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<v Speaker 2>work is always like lingering in your brain. And I

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<v Speaker 2>had to like turn it off as soon as I

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<v Speaker 2>walk out the doors, Like you can't talk about work anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>You can do your work. You go home, you do

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<v Speaker 2>your work, and you get done. But like if anybody

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<v Speaker 2>wants to talk about work or like hang out and

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<v Speaker 2>talk about work, I don't do it. I'm like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>we're not here for that. You want to talk to

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<v Speaker 2>me there, put me back in the building.

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<v Speaker 3>Exact Yeah, but I'm not there. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to kind of create these different boxes in

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<v Speaker 2>my brain because I was getting so overwhelmed and burn

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<v Speaker 2>out because it was like it was like it was

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<v Speaker 2>constantly running in the back of my head.

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<v Speaker 3>Always there. Yeah, and the anals of your mind. Then

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<v Speaker 3>it comes forward. We're like, oh now it's there again.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to shut it off.

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<v Speaker 2>Never off.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah crap. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So and you'll find your way to do that with

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<v Speaker 2>your new kind of jobs. But I do think that's

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<v Speaker 2>the thing that a lot of people deal with, is

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<v Speaker 2>just like the inability to actually turn off work, even

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<v Speaker 2>if you think that you are. I think most people's

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<v Speaker 2>jobs go home with them.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, they take it home always so tough.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. A quick question on this one before we go

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<v Speaker 2>into the break. Chelsea and Indiana wants to know if

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<v Speaker 2>you could interview any person, who would it be.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll tell you after the break. No, if anyone, who

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<v Speaker 3>would it be? Oh? Man, I think it'd be fun

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<v Speaker 3>to see. That's the only thing too. I get nervous

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<v Speaker 3>about talking to people that I really want to talk

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<v Speaker 3>to because then it becomes I don't know, then it.

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<v Speaker 2>Could okay for you, I think take all the emotions

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff away from it. Like anyone in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>If you could interview somebody on your new show. Who

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<v Speaker 2>would it.

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<v Speaker 3>Be anyone in the world. I mean, just from my

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<v Speaker 3>own personal thing, it'd be cool to talk to Shaq

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<v Speaker 3>Shack or Penny hart Away. Those are two people that

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<v Speaker 3>I love so much growing up.

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<v Speaker 2>As a kid, and I get like the worry of like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>well you love them, and then you meet them you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like they weren't.

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<v Speaker 3>A school as I thought they were, and they look

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<v Speaker 3>so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think you it would override that if you

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to interview them. I think if you had the

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<v Speaker 2>opportunity to be like, it's fine if I meet him

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<v Speaker 2>and it sucks, it's gonna be what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to interview them. There's even people that you

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<v Speaker 3>interview and you're like, oh, I guess I'll do it,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you do it, you're like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>this is this is so cool. Like I interviewed a

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<v Speaker 3>guy named Ted NuGen who's a classic rock guy, and

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<v Speaker 3>it airs. It was aired on Friday Show, but it

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<v Speaker 3>lives on social media now and it was supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 3>His assistant was like, how much you need and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like ten fifteen minutes, Max. We talked for almost

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<v Speaker 3>an hour, wow, And he pulled a guitar, started playing

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<v Speaker 3>guitar for me and stuff, and I was like, this

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<v Speaker 3>is this is so cool because I grew up with

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<v Speaker 3>a father who loved the rock and roll music and

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<v Speaker 3>he was one of those artists that was like a

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<v Speaker 3>staple in his truck, and so to be able to

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<v Speaker 3>talk to him, I was kind of like, I never

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<v Speaker 3>knew him as the human. I only knew him as

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<v Speaker 3>the music. And then I kind of KNWHI as a

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<v Speaker 3>human when he did an MTV Cribs episode in the

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<v Speaker 3>two thousands, and I was like, Wow, this is wild.

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<v Speaker 3>And so that was one of those moments where I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, so, I guess my point is I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to shut anyone off from an interview because you

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<v Speaker 3>just never know what you can get out of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I'll always go into everything open minded. But

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<v Speaker 3>if I'm picking somebody as Shaquille O'Neil or Penny hard Away.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Hey, we're putting it out in the universe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes it's happening, it's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>And now we're taking a break. What is one thing

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<v Speaker 2>in your life right now that you want or need

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<v Speaker 2>to give up? Abby in Tennessee want or need to

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<v Speaker 2>give up. And then I'll give you a second to

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<v Speaker 2>think about this, because that you know I had a second, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Had more than a second. The whole day I.

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<v Speaker 2>Am working on because I'm about I'm about to go

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<v Speaker 2>with my big detoks diet, all the things to get

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<v Speaker 2>rid of long COVID and hopefully get me a lot healthier.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's cheese cheese. Really, ah, I'm gonna have to

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<v Speaker 2>for this die. Not for life, I don't think, but

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<v Speaker 2>because we're trying to get rid of a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>inflammation and stuff in my body. Yeah, cheese is such

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<v Speaker 2>a huge factor in that. Dairy in general is so

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<v Speaker 2>my detox. Part of it is nutrition, and I'll be

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<v Speaker 2>gluten free and dairy free. Gluten free was already something

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<v Speaker 2>I'm used to, but yeah, the dairy free one never

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<v Speaker 2>done it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's tough because I went to one time, I went

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<v Speaker 3>to a restaurant in La My cousin is like cut

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<v Speaker 3>she cut everything off, and we went to a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like, I think they had on the menu

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<v Speaker 3>the head lasagna and I was like, oh, that's a

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<v Speaker 3>safe one. It's just cheese and pasta. And it comes

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<v Speaker 3>and I start eating it, and I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>eating a nutri grain bar and like, what the hell

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<v Speaker 3>is this crap? And she's like, oh, it's vegan or

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<v Speaker 3>whatever it is. I was like, what am I eating?

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<v Speaker 3>It should be cheese and a noodle and some tomato sauce.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, yeah, there's noodle ors tomato sauce. But the

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<v Speaker 3>cheese is actually ground up peanuts. And I was like, oh, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>what the hell, why would anyone do that? Don't even

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<v Speaker 3>pull us on on the menu.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, cashew cheese.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you can't. It's not a thing. No, it's not

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<v Speaker 3>it's no, it shouldn't be a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen. I was trying to find a turn because I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be struggling.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you should just not even you should just commit it.

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<v Speaker 3>You should just omit it completely from your life.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I will be cash cheese.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so terrible. It was all I left the

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<v Speaker 3>Taco Bell. I was so pissed off. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys, sit here and eat before we go to

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<v Speaker 3>this comedy show. I'm gonna go to Taco Bell and

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<v Speaker 3>I'll be right back.

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<v Speaker 2>I love Taco Bell.

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<v Speaker 3>I was so pissed.

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<v Speaker 2>That's funny, But how long ago was that.

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<v Speaker 3>That was twenty seventeen.

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<v Speaker 2>They've come a long way.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, even after eight years, it's gotten better, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean in general, gluten free, vegan, all those foods

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<v Speaker 2>have really come a long way. Okay, even since I

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<v Speaker 2>started being vegetarian when I was seven, things have drastically

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<v Speaker 2>changed over the course.

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<v Speaker 1>Of all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would give them another try now, but obviously

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<v Speaker 2>with you knowing what it is not going and not

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<v Speaker 2>knowing no idea, that's much worse. I would never like

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<v Speaker 2>trick somebody like eat this and it's yeah, you know full.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't even trick. I was just look at the menu,

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<v Speaker 3>think like, what's the safest thing for me here? I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want this, I don't want that. Oh I love

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<v Speaker 3>those on you know, let's do that. Why would they not.

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<v Speaker 2>Have cheese, have full blown vegan?

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<v Speaker 3>Noot? It was l A. It was it was on it.

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<v Speaker 3>It was LA was right next to the largo the logo.

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<v Speaker 3>If anyone knows where that's at, It's like it's like

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<v Speaker 3>it's actually a really cool comedy space where like people

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<v Speaker 3>will out of nowhere, will shut show up, like jud

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<v Speaker 3>Appataw will be there and try out he was there

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<v Speaker 3>that night, but it's in it's like in Beverly Hills

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<v Speaker 3>where it's like super like bougie and like top notch

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<v Speaker 3>of everything, and.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's why it was a vegan shaant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>That's exactly where.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know, stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's yours? Did you have one?

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<v Speaker 3>So what I want to and need to? Is it

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<v Speaker 3>both or is one or the other one? Or need

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<v Speaker 3>or need?

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<v Speaker 2>Like it could be a want or you have to

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<v Speaker 2>you just have to.

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<v Speaker 3>I need to give up spiraling. Like sometimes they'll get

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<v Speaker 3>in a moment where I like spiral, spiral and I

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<v Speaker 3>can't get out of it, and then I spiral into

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<v Speaker 3>it a panic attack, and then I then I then

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<v Speaker 3>I then I come to and I'm like why am

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<v Speaker 3>I spiraling? Why am I in a panic attack? And

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<v Speaker 3>then I then that creates another panic attack of why

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<v Speaker 3>I'm having a panic attack and spiraling. And it usually

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<v Speaker 3>happens like once a quarter where it'll just like the

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<v Speaker 3>whole world feels like it's just falling on you and

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<v Speaker 3>you're like, holy crap. So my wife's like, you need

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<v Speaker 3>to She's always trying to help talk me out of

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<v Speaker 3>it when it happens, and she's like, how can I

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<v Speaker 3>help you? And I'm like, I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 3>help me. When it happens, It just happens. I guess

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<v Speaker 3>I just need to go through it and live it.

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<v Speaker 3>But I guess it becomes why do you get to

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<v Speaker 3>that point? And then it becomes everything around you? So

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<v Speaker 3>it's almost like, so I should I guess I should

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<v Speaker 3>just quit working.

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<v Speaker 2>She's on like Eddie those talks nowhere, They're like, we

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<v Speaker 2>just want to retire right now. Yeah, that sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>what you need. It is true. I mean it's really

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<v Speaker 2>hard to when you have something that's causing that spiral.

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<v Speaker 2>The only way to really avoid that spiral is to

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<v Speaker 2>eliminate it from your life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you need money to live, so yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have financial freedom at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, therapy could be good to through some stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want too.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good, Okay, Well yeah, it's either quitting your job

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<v Speaker 2>or therapy would be yes. No, not really through it.

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<v Speaker 3>Working out though, Like when I used to work out,

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<v Speaker 3>it was it. I was mentally better and physically better

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<v Speaker 3>and I never had any issues with anything. Ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Working out is still like technically coping mechanism. If you

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what you're trying to work out, If you

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<v Speaker 2>know what the problem is, you know what the core

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<v Speaker 2>thing is of that, then yeah, you can go work

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<v Speaker 2>out and you know your coping skills to like get

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<v Speaker 2>through that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you don't know why the cause of the

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<v Speaker 2>spiral is happening, like actually like root root, cause it's

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<v Speaker 2>going to keep happening regardless of the coping mechanisms because

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have you haven't worked through everything. Does that

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<v Speaker 2>make sense? Yeah, yeah, so yes, short term it will.

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<v Speaker 2>The long term, it will keep happening until you've like

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<v Speaker 2>started to peel back layers and address stuff. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know this stuff is not fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but also just for me, just me personally, everyone

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<v Speaker 3>does what they want to do, and I don't shoot

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<v Speaker 3>anyone down for what they were into. Nless they're a pedophile.

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<v Speaker 2>When a different.

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<v Speaker 3>That is always wrong. But I guess for me, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm already a free speaking person to everyone around me.

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<v Speaker 3>Why why would I want to then go and spend

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<v Speaker 3>money and talk to somebody that I don't know and

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<v Speaker 3>then they just give me all their tricks and tips

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<v Speaker 3>that they've learned, especially like you got to talk to

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<v Speaker 3>somebody wo's a therapist and they're like, I've got kid problems,

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<v Speaker 3>and they go, I don't have any kids, but here's

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<v Speaker 3>what I would do. Then you really don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going through because you don't have children, so you

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<v Speaker 3>have no idea. You're only reading base off of what

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<v Speaker 3>you've learned or seen through your life experiences, which is

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<v Speaker 3>no different than what I'm doing with my life through

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<v Speaker 3>life experiences. So I guess for me, it's hard to

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<v Speaker 3>because my wife sees a therapist and then she just

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<v Speaker 3>kind of gives me those tricks to me, and they

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<v Speaker 3>do some of the things are helpful, but she'll even

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<v Speaker 3>tell me she's like, yeah, I talked to my therapist.

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<v Speaker 3>She's great, but she doesn't have kids, so she doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>even get it. And she'll even admits she doesn't get it.

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<v Speaker 3>So why would I then go talk to somebody who

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I've learned through therapy. There's different types of therapy

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<v Speaker 2>for different stuff that you're working through. So like, if

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of it has to do with you being

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<v Speaker 2>a dad and how you're balancing and all of that,

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<v Speaker 2>then you would want to find a therapist who is

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<v Speaker 2>a dad like and there are I mean like when

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<v Speaker 2>I was coming out of my abusive relationship, I was

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<v Speaker 2>with a therapist who specialized in abusive relationships because I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't going to go to somebody and talk about that

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<v Speaker 2>and then not have the experience to handle that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>So you could go to different people who specialize and

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<v Speaker 2>you could call it before you ever see him. It

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<v Speaker 2>is like, hey, like, what's your thing that you're really

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<v Speaker 2>good at? Or like if you want to see a

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<v Speaker 2>therapist that specializes in working with men, Like, there's so

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<v Speaker 2>many different levels to that. And I will say, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I get it, cause I'm I'm similar to you. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a very open book. Everybody knows how I feel what

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<v Speaker 2>I feel pretty easily. But it was always helpful for

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<v Speaker 2>me because I was getting an unbiased perspective. So much

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<v Speaker 2>of the perspectives in my life were biased that like

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<v Speaker 2>having someone sit there and help me understand something without

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<v Speaker 2>any filter really helped me work through it more okay,

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<v Speaker 2>And that was why it was helpful. I get. I

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<v Speaker 2>get that idea of like, well, you know, why would

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<v Speaker 2>I go do this or this? I think if you

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<v Speaker 2>could find someone who specializes in what you want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about right now, and that can change right Like

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<v Speaker 2>you can be like, Okay, well I've done six sessions

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<v Speaker 2>with you. I feel good, I don't need you anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>And you go to another one that specializes in something

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<v Speaker 2>different that's very common. But then after like that, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you get a different You gain a perspective

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<v Speaker 2>that you would have never had, just because it is

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<v Speaker 2>someone who specialized in something that you were struggling with.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that makes sense, it does.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know if i'm explaining super well, you're good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I guess I've always used therapy for me of

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<v Speaker 3>just talking to other people and hearing their life experiences.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, man, this is tough. Like, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>let me tell you about my thing. I'm like, oh, shoot,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't I guess my theories maybe community, Yeah, well

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<v Speaker 3>I thrive on community. In community, you need therapy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you need community.

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<v Speaker 2>You need all of it. Honestly, I mean, at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the day, everybody needs all of it. You

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<v Speaker 2>need you need community to survive, you need therapy through

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<v Speaker 2>certain things to work through. Just with an unbiased opinion. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>the healthiest person in the world goes to therapy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, Like, it doesn't mean anything's

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<v Speaker 2>wrong with you. It just means you need a different

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<v Speaker 2>perspective that you're not able to gain elsewhere. That's the

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<v Speaker 2>way I look at therapy. So maybe reshaming re reshaping

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<v Speaker 2>it and help you. But you also don't have to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah I have to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the beauty of all this.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have to. I'm not going to.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe one day I'm trying to help you. That's

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<v Speaker 2>viral anymore right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you had gained more appreciation for country music since

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<v Speaker 2>working and living in Nashville. It's from Jordan.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I gained appreciation for because of the songwriting

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<v Speaker 3>side of it, because it is kind of cool. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like one of the few genres left that actually has

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<v Speaker 3>like a story, not all the songs, but a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of them do, whereas like hip hop kind of used

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<v Speaker 3>to have a storyline and now it's just kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like flashy and trendy. And so I've kind of fallen

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<v Speaker 3>out of love with hip hop, not the old hip

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<v Speaker 3>hop but the new stuff because it just has no

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<v Speaker 3>substance to it and it's more of like a sound

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<v Speaker 3>and what's trendy and what gets the clicks on TikTok

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<v Speaker 3>versus an actual really good hip hop song, and not

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<v Speaker 3>saying there aren't artists that they are still doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean there's guys like Jordan Lucas and j Cole

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<v Speaker 3>and people like that who are still in Kendrick Lamar,

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<v Speaker 3>but the up and coming ones are just so they're

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<v Speaker 3>so arable. It's so awful, and it's not me being

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<v Speaker 3>the crouchy old man. It really is really bad, like

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<v Speaker 3>there is no substance to it. So I guess I

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<v Speaker 3>appreciate the side here where it is great storytelling, it's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of cool and fun. And then obviously we have

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<v Speaker 3>an advantage of most people. We get to actually physically

0:22:15.680 --> 0:22:18.199
<v Speaker 3>meet these people, and so then there becomes this this

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<v Speaker 3>personal experience that you attached to an artist. You're like, man,

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<v Speaker 3>I really like them. They're really cool or they're really

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<v Speaker 3>nice or whatever. So I have grown to still I'm

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<v Speaker 3>still not a big fan of the music. It's not

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<v Speaker 3>it's not my go to, like when I go in

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<v Speaker 3>the car, I'm never turning on a country song or

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<v Speaker 3>a country radio station. But I am appreciative of.

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<v Speaker 2>What it is and you can enjoy it more. You've

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<v Speaker 2>probably gotten to more concerts with it too, just having

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<v Speaker 2>access to it, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Without without even yeah, access to everything. It's like you

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<v Speaker 3>can kind of do whatever with it. But it's still

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<v Speaker 3>not my number one. It's like number seven on the list.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, you know, at least have moved up maybe

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<v Speaker 2>one or two spots.

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<v Speaker 3>That's probably about the same.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just kidding, you know what. It moved up over

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<v Speaker 2>new hip hops.

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<v Speaker 3>It didn't move over for sure. Yeah, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, we're gonna jump out of here, Scuba. Thanks

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<v Speaker 2>for being on.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for having me. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>I like your shirt today. You're wearing what is his name?

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<v Speaker 2>Grouchy girl?

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<v Speaker 3>What's in the Oscar of the Grouse?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>It's like it's a cause shirt the artist cause where

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<v Speaker 3>he puts x's over the eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never heard of that one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think he'll start seeing now. He usually would

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<v Speaker 3>do like a specific animal that he created, but then

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<v Speaker 3>he started doing collabs like Sesame Street and all that

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<v Speaker 3>kind of stuff. You look up cause Kaws.

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<v Speaker 2>You may your animal Oscar the Grouch maybe yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>all right, almost mine and almost like secretly the one

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<v Speaker 2>that sets everything on fire.

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<v Speaker 3>So oh yeah, I love them.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you. That's a good Alma voice. Yeah yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>now you turn it creepy. Okay, goodbye, everybody, Go listen

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<v Speaker 2>to Scuba.

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<v Speaker 1>Show the Rock.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, you can call me A six one five seven

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<v Speaker 2>I'm proud of you for posting on your socials more too.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I hate it. I hate it so much,

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<v Speaker 3>so much. It's a job we don't need to do

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<v Speaker 3>within a job that should just be the damn radio,

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<v Speaker 3>especially in my genre where's classic rock. They don't really

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<v Speaker 3>get they don't really care about social media.

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<v Speaker 2>Social media matters. It's important for marketing and brand I

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<v Speaker 2>unders trust me.

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<v Speaker 3>I get that side of it. But god is it

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<v Speaker 3>takes too much damn time, too much consuming. I just

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<v Speaker 3>want to get on thereunder the damn show. God.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, you can follow me out I have girl Morgan,

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<v Speaker 2>or you can go follow the show at Bobby Bone

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