Speaker 1: Best Bits of the week with Morgan's listener Q and daytime.
Speaker 1: We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions.
Speaker 2: Scuba is here everybody, and he's ready to answer some
Speaker 2: listener questions.
Speaker 3: You've got questions, We've got answers.
Speaker 2: That was my best deep probably for I can't do again.
Speaker 3: It was never there.
Speaker 2: It was a little bit there. Okay, all right, you
Speaker 2: two are my faves. Scoop should braid his beard like
Speaker 2: a Viking, Jesse and san Diego.
Speaker 3: That'll be kind of cool. You ever seen the TV
Speaker 3: show Vikings and like the main guy talking about Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: Ragno Lothbrook I think is his name. Here's what Ragnor
Speaker 3: lothbrook mouth character, and yeah, he's I think he's a
Speaker 3: pretty big actor. Now, don't know what else he does,
Speaker 3: but his beard's kind of cool. Where that they do
Speaker 3: a couple of little braids here and there, and they
Speaker 3: just a little bit of break, a little bit dazzle
Speaker 3: work for you. Yeah, we should try it. We'll see.
Speaker 2: I can bring it. I know how to love French break.
Speaker 2: I love you on the show. Stephanie from Illinois, shout out.
Speaker 3: I love that. We start with a lot of like confidence.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we do. Shut up, just make him laugh hard.
Speaker 2: It's so funny. Kim from Connecticut. I feel like I
Speaker 2: did that at the very beginning.
Speaker 3: She sure did, Kim, that was for you.
Speaker 2: Michelle from Apple Valley Time my favorite Saturday consistent.
Speaker 3: I appreciate it, Michelle.
Speaker 2: We love consistency. Yeah, she's always very consistent about your episodes.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Does he work all day now that he has his
Speaker 2: night show? What's the schedule like Madison in Florida?
Speaker 3: It is? It was already like an all day thing.
Speaker 3: Now it's just an all day plus, so it is.
Speaker 3: It's Yeah, it's an all day thing. I think my
Speaker 3: only break is when I'm driving somewhere. That's my only break.
Speaker 2: Really. Yeah, so you do you come back? Like do
Speaker 2: you ever go home at all and come back?
Speaker 3: So that's why. So my long term goal or short
Speaker 3: term goal, really it's to move this thing in the
Speaker 3: afternoon so I can just stay here and then go home.
Speaker 3: Because doing the night thing is great because I'm able
Speaker 3: to be a little bit more free and expand and
Speaker 3: try and mess with stuff because it's late at night
Speaker 3: and there's kind of guy whatever. But yeah, because I
Speaker 3: have to leave the comeback. So it is a split
Speaker 3: shift day where I usually leave here around depending on
Speaker 3: if we have meetings or how busy the day is.
Speaker 3: I try to leave here by one p one thirty,
Speaker 3: but it ends up usually being two and then go home,
Speaker 3: pick up the kids, have dinner, and then come back.
Speaker 2: Dang is it worth it?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's worth it because there's an end goal and
Speaker 3: I can see where it's going to go. So yes,
Speaker 3: it's one hundred percent worth it.
Speaker 2: So yeah, see that's what matters. Yeah, the long schedules
Speaker 2: and it sucks and you're in the grind, but when
Speaker 2: you know that it's worth it, yeah, it makes all
Speaker 2: of that a lot easier.
Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, the realness is it is difficult,
Speaker 3: but anything you really want in life isn't going to
Speaker 3: be easy, because I mean, it's so cliche, but it's
Speaker 3: true because if it were easy, then it doesn't come
Speaker 3: with I mean, things can be easy. Sure, if you
Speaker 3: got money, you can buy whatever you want and do
Speaker 3: whatever you want. But I feel like if there isn't
Speaker 3: some sort of grit and something that makes you work
Speaker 3: hard for it, you don't appreciate it once you get there.
Speaker 3: So I'm fine with the grind. It's definitely been adjustment
Speaker 3: to our schedule at home and everything, and even the
Speaker 3: kids are like, Dad, where are you. There's even been
Speaker 3: times where my kids will call into the show and
Speaker 3: I'll be here.
Speaker 2: I've seen your videos from that, yeah, and they'll be like.
Speaker 3: They're like Dad, Like my daughter just called them recently.
Speaker 3: I was going to post a video cause my wife's
Speaker 3: you shoul post more the kids souff. People seem to
Speaker 3: like that more than just whatever, and so I have
Speaker 3: one of them. I'll post one probably this couple days
Speaker 3: here where my daughter called in and she was and
Speaker 3: she's part of the show because they call like Dad,
Speaker 3: when you're coming home, and like when you're gonna be here,
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I'll be here till eleven something midnight,
Speaker 3: so i'll see you tomorrow, see you in the morning. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my goodness. I love that. I love that
Speaker 2: the kid's going to be a part of it. They're
Speaker 2: like your mini co hosts.
Speaker 3: Yeah, in a sense. Yeah, they call in at least
Speaker 3: like once a week, I feel like, and I think
Speaker 3: it relates to because a lot of the listeners are
Speaker 3: either parents very similar to me, or they have grandkids
Speaker 3: or their kids are older, so they kind of like
Speaker 3: to like feel nostalgic about Oh, I remember when my
Speaker 3: kids were six or seven. That's so cool.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So yeah, and they love it too. They're like they've
Speaker 3: always said for the longest time, they're like, like, when's
Speaker 3: the Scoop Steve show going to happen? And then finally
Speaker 3: I did so and it's here. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And another listener wanted to ask. She stayed anonymous, but
Speaker 2: she wanted to know because if energy feels like it's
Speaker 2: changed a little bit from you, so are you happy?
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm just tired, okay. And when I'm tired, I'm cranky.
Speaker 3: And she's relating to the whole hot dog fiasco. I
Speaker 3: guess my shortness, my attention to or my my grace
Speaker 3: giving for others is a little bit less right now,
Speaker 3: not just because that's just who I am. It's just
Speaker 3: because I'm just stretched so thin that that if you
Speaker 3: catch me at the end of the week, which I
Speaker 3: think that was on a Friday, you catch me at
Speaker 3: the end of the week, especially then I was still
Speaker 3: figuring it out and there wasn't a routine yet, and
Speaker 3: the kids are out of school, so it's a little
Speaker 3: bit different. But now that I'm in a routine and
Speaker 3: I have my head on my this is just this
Speaker 3: is what it is, and I've come to grips with
Speaker 3: it that I'm in a better place than I was
Speaker 3: two or three weeks ago as a person.
Speaker 2: Well that's good. I mean, I listen. I wanted to
Speaker 2: check in with you too, make sure you're doing okay.
Speaker 2: I listen. I know being in this shop, there's some
Speaker 2: burnout that happens. There's also a lot of overwhelm that
Speaker 2: a lot of us are wearing multiple hats and doing
Speaker 2: multiple things. So I had to imagine that that was
Speaker 2: a little bit of a volcano moment for you, where
Speaker 2: everything just kind of erupted and it went in a
Speaker 2: whole lot of different directions. Was the vibe that I
Speaker 2: was picking up on, which is why I very nicely
Speaker 2: sat back, and because it wasn't my place one, but two,
Speaker 2: because I could feel from all of you guys just
Speaker 2: this and we were getting to a point where where
Speaker 2: you were about to go on vacation not long from there.
Speaker 2: Everybody was just like we had just been grinding the
Speaker 2: wheels totally.
Speaker 3: For eight months solid. Yeah, and everyone's just like everyone
Speaker 3: was done.
Speaker 2: So I knew what was happening, but I wanted to
Speaker 2: have a checking because another there was quite a few
Speaker 2: questions that we got that were in the terms of
Speaker 2: does Scuba have an anger problem? That's from Jennifer, So
Speaker 2: I wanted to allow you to share.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, And in the moment, I was just like,
Speaker 3: what we're talking about this like just just go get
Speaker 3: the hot dogs and come back. It's kind of one
Speaker 3: of the It's almost like when you get upset to
Speaker 3: your kids for something so little minute they're like, I
Speaker 3: don't want to flush the toilet. You're like, just flush it.
Speaker 3: You have to just just let's move on.
Speaker 2: And for you it is something so little. For her,
Speaker 2: it might have been something big, exactly.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: The difference there was Wayne, And that's why I say,
Speaker 2: like everybody was in this moment where they were having
Speaker 2: their volcanoes explode all at the same time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah.
Speaker 2: So would you like to answer to reverrtue have an.
Speaker 3: Anger and then your problem? No, I just had. I
Speaker 3: just had a burnt out, burnout problems what it was,
Speaker 3: And I think it happens to all of us when
Speaker 3: we get towards the end of the year, we're like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, we're so burnt out because, like you said,
Speaker 3: we're doing so much. We're not doing just the one
Speaker 3: thing we're doing, and everyone experiences burnout in different ways.
Speaker 3: And then you have the personal life mixed with the
Speaker 3: work life, and it's like essentially two full full time job.
Speaker 3: I'm basically three full time jobs. I've got our morning
Speaker 3: show job, our night show job, and the family job,
Speaker 3: which is it takes work to put together and and
Speaker 3: have a relationship with a wife and three kids.
Speaker 2: That are and then a bunch of mini hats within
Speaker 2: each of those jobs exactly.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there's the other main buckets, but every bucket
Speaker 3: has like other little yeah, other little buckets, and you're
Speaker 3: just like you gets to a point where like I'm overwhelmed,
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: And you're still figuring out how that all works within
Speaker 2: your life right now exactly all the beginning phases.
Speaker 3: The beginning phase of figuring it out and figuring some
Speaker 3: things out, but then you still get presented with options.
Speaker 3: You're like, oh, crab, I gotta figure that one, not now.
Speaker 2: Too dang it. Okay, Well, I wanted to give you
Speaker 2: a chance to say your.
Speaker 3: Piece well, like even one thing for example, like I
Speaker 3: used to always coach my son's baseball team, but this
Speaker 3: year I had to take a step back and be like,
Speaker 3: I can't do it, which has been hard because I'm
Speaker 3: sitting there going like and the coach will do something.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, there's a lot of things that, like,
Speaker 2: over the course of your life were priorities changed, and
Speaker 2: you have to As someone who loves to be in
Speaker 2: control of a lot of my life, I totally understand
Speaker 2: that feeling. But a lot of maturity comes when you
Speaker 2: let go and just be like, no, it's fine, I
Speaker 2: would do it differently, but I have to let go
Speaker 2: of the fact that I would have done it differently
Speaker 2: because this is a choice that I made.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 2: And it's hard. It's a really hard thing to Like
Speaker 2: you're literally letting go of the reins. You're not like
Speaker 2: still holding on and let go. You're like, okay, hands
Speaker 2: are up, I swear I'm not touching. Yes.
Speaker 3: But it's awesome though, because then when it comes to practice,
Speaker 3: I don't have to get there thirty minutes early and
Speaker 3: set the field up and make sure whatever I can
Speaker 3: literally get there right five minutes before it starts and
Speaker 3: then as soon as it's over, we're out. There isn't
Speaker 3: any of that. There's just it's so much easier on me.
Speaker 3: It becomes only an hour versus a two three hour thing. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and then and then all the communication with all the
Speaker 3: parents and all that stuff, so that becomes another full
Speaker 3: time job within it. So it's nice to just let
Speaker 3: go and and chill out for a second.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm with our job to You know, something that
Speaker 2: I've gotten really good at now which will probably have
Speaker 2: to be relearned in your new lifestyle change, is that
Speaker 2: I had to separate my personal and my work life.
Speaker 2: Like I had to come in, do my job and leave,
Speaker 2: and like when I leave, like I'm no longer work working,
Speaker 2: and like I have to turn it off even if
Speaker 2: I'm working at home. I had to like put a
Speaker 2: differential place in there because it felt like I was
Speaker 2: carrying so much work into my personal life and like
Speaker 2: just letting a lot of things carry on who I
Speaker 2: am because of things that whether something happened on the
Speaker 2: show or whether they happen on social media or X
Speaker 2: Y and Z, I was carrying so much of that
Speaker 2: load everywhere with me instead of it being like I
Speaker 2: walk out the work doors and like a lot of
Speaker 2: that stays here. Yeah, And I think that's a lot
Speaker 2: of a load that people carry in general too, because
Speaker 2: our work lives are so intertwined with our personal lives.
Speaker 2: Not just for us. I mean, I think it's very
Speaker 2: true for us because we straight up talk about our
Speaker 2: personal lives. Yeah, but I think for most people, when
Speaker 2: you work so much, it's such a big part of
Speaker 2: your life that you start to think they're supposed to
Speaker 2: be like intertwined, and like you'd go home and you
Speaker 2: talk about work all the time, or you're always constantly
Speaker 2: work is always like lingering in your brain. And I
Speaker 2: had to like turn it off as soon as I
Speaker 2: walk out the doors, Like you can't talk about work anymore.
Speaker 2: You can do your work. You go home, you do
Speaker 2: your work, and you get done. But like if anybody
Speaker 2: wants to talk about work or like hang out and
Speaker 2: talk about work, I don't do it. I'm like, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: we're not here for that. You want to talk to
Speaker 2: me there, put me back in the building.
Speaker 3: Exact Yeah, but I'm not there. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I had to kind of create these different boxes in
Speaker 2: my brain because I was getting so overwhelmed and burn
Speaker 2: out because it was like it was like it was
Speaker 2: constantly running in the back of my head.
Speaker 3: Always there. Yeah, and the anals of your mind. Then
Speaker 3: it comes forward. We're like, oh now it's there again.
Speaker 3: I want to shut it off.
Speaker 2: Never off.
Speaker 3: Yeah crap. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So and you'll find your way to do that with
Speaker 2: your new kind of jobs. But I do think that's
Speaker 2: the thing that a lot of people deal with, is
Speaker 2: just like the inability to actually turn off work, even
Speaker 2: if you think that you are. I think most people's
Speaker 2: jobs go home with them.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they take it home always so tough.
Speaker 2: Okay. A quick question on this one before we go
Speaker 2: into the break. Chelsea and Indiana wants to know if
Speaker 2: you could interview any person, who would it be.
Speaker 3: I'll tell you after the break. No, if anyone, who
Speaker 3: would it be? Oh? Man, I think it'd be fun
Speaker 3: to see. That's the only thing too. I get nervous
Speaker 3: about talking to people that I really want to talk
Speaker 3: to because then it becomes I don't know, then it.
Speaker 2: Could okay for you, I think take all the emotions
Speaker 2: and stuff away from it. Like anyone in the world.
Speaker 2: If you could interview somebody on your new show. Who
Speaker 2: would it.
Speaker 3: Be anyone in the world. I mean, just from my
Speaker 3: own personal thing, it'd be cool to talk to Shaq
Speaker 3: Shack or Penny hart Away. Those are two people that
Speaker 3: I love so much growing up.
Speaker 2: As a kid, and I get like the worry of like, Okay,
Speaker 2: well you love them, and then you meet them you're like, oh,
Speaker 2: I don't like they weren't.
Speaker 3: A school as I thought they were, and they look
Speaker 3: so cool.
Speaker 2: But I think you it would override that if you
Speaker 2: wanted to interview them. I think if you had the
Speaker 2: opportunity to be like, it's fine if I meet him
Speaker 2: and it sucks, it's gonna be what it is.
Speaker 3: I want to interview them. There's even people that you
Speaker 3: interview and you're like, oh, I guess I'll do it,
Speaker 3: and then you do it, you're like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: this is this is so cool. Like I interviewed a
Speaker 3: guy named Ted NuGen who's a classic rock guy, and
Speaker 3: it airs. It was aired on Friday Show, but it
Speaker 3: lives on social media now and it was supposed to be.
Speaker 3: His assistant was like, how much you need and I
Speaker 3: was like ten fifteen minutes, Max. We talked for almost
Speaker 3: an hour, wow, And he pulled a guitar, started playing
Speaker 3: guitar for me and stuff, and I was like, this
Speaker 3: is this is so cool because I grew up with
Speaker 3: a father who loved the rock and roll music and
Speaker 3: he was one of those artists that was like a
Speaker 3: staple in his truck, and so to be able to
Speaker 3: talk to him, I was kind of like, I never
Speaker 3: knew him as the human. I only knew him as
Speaker 3: the music. And then I kind of KNWHI as a
Speaker 3: human when he did an MTV Cribs episode in the
Speaker 3: two thousands, and I was like, Wow, this is wild.
Speaker 3: And so that was one of those moments where I
Speaker 3: was like, so, I guess my point is I don't
Speaker 3: want to shut anyone off from an interview because you
Speaker 3: just never know what you can get out of it.
Speaker 3: I guess I'll always go into everything open minded. But
Speaker 3: if I'm picking somebody as Shaquille O'Neil or Penny hard Away.
Speaker 2: Okay, Hey, we're putting it out in the universe.
Speaker 3: Yes it's happening, it's going to happen.
Speaker 2: And now we're taking a break. What is one thing
Speaker 2: in your life right now that you want or need
Speaker 2: to give up? Abby in Tennessee want or need to
Speaker 2: give up. And then I'll give you a second to
Speaker 2: think about this, because that you know I had a second, you.
Speaker 3: Had more than a second. The whole day I.
Speaker 2: Am working on because I'm about I'm about to go
Speaker 2: with my big detoks diet, all the things to get
Speaker 2: rid of long COVID and hopefully get me a lot healthier.
Speaker 2: But it's cheese cheese. Really, ah, I'm gonna have to
Speaker 2: for this die. Not for life, I don't think, but
Speaker 2: because we're trying to get rid of a lot of
Speaker 2: inflammation and stuff in my body. Yeah, cheese is such
Speaker 2: a huge factor in that. Dairy in general is so
Speaker 2: my detox. Part of it is nutrition, and I'll be
Speaker 2: gluten free and dairy free. Gluten free was already something
Speaker 2: I'm used to, but yeah, the dairy free one never
Speaker 2: done it.
Speaker 3: That's tough because I went to one time, I went
Speaker 3: to a restaurant in La My cousin is like cut
Speaker 3: she cut everything off, and we went to a restaurant.
Speaker 3: It was like, I think they had on the menu
Speaker 3: the head lasagna and I was like, oh, that's a
Speaker 3: safe one. It's just cheese and pasta. And it comes
Speaker 3: and I start eating it, and I feel like I'm
Speaker 3: eating a nutri grain bar and like, what the hell
Speaker 3: is this crap? And she's like, oh, it's vegan or
Speaker 3: whatever it is. I was like, what am I eating?
Speaker 3: It should be cheese and a noodle and some tomato sauce.
Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, there's noodle ors tomato sauce. But the
Speaker 3: cheese is actually ground up peanuts. And I was like, oh, oh,
Speaker 3: what the hell, why would anyone do that? Don't even
Speaker 3: pull us on on the menu.
Speaker 2: Yeah, cashew cheese.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't. It's not a thing. No, it's not
Speaker 3: it's no, it shouldn't be a thing.
Speaker 2: Listen. I was trying to find a turn because I'm
Speaker 2: gonna be struggling.
Speaker 3: Well, you should just not even you should just commit it.
Speaker 3: You should just omit it completely from your life.
Speaker 2: I think I will be cash cheese.
Speaker 3: It was so terrible. It was all I left the
Speaker 3: Taco Bell. I was so pissed off. I was like,
Speaker 3: you guys, sit here and eat before we go to
Speaker 3: this comedy show. I'm gonna go to Taco Bell and
Speaker 3: I'll be right back.
Speaker 2: I love Taco Bell.
Speaker 3: I was so pissed.
Speaker 2: That's funny, But how long ago was that.
Speaker 3: That was twenty seventeen.
Speaker 2: They've come a long way.
Speaker 3: Really, even after eight years, it's gotten better, Okay.
Speaker 2: I mean in general, gluten free, vegan, all those foods
Speaker 2: have really come a long way. Okay, even since I
Speaker 2: started being vegetarian when I was seven, things have drastically
Speaker 2: changed over the course.
Speaker 1: Of all of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would give them another try now, but obviously
Speaker 2: with you knowing what it is not going and not
Speaker 2: knowing no idea, that's much worse. I would never like
Speaker 2: trick somebody like eat this and it's yeah, you know full.
Speaker 3: It wasn't even trick. I was just look at the menu,
Speaker 3: think like, what's the safest thing for me here? I
Speaker 3: don't want this, I don't want that. Oh I love
Speaker 3: those on you know, let's do that. Why would they not.
Speaker 2: Have cheese, have full blown vegan?
Speaker 3: Noot? It was l A. It was it was on it.
Speaker 3: It was LA was right next to the largo the logo.
Speaker 3: If anyone knows where that's at, It's like it's like
Speaker 3: it's actually a really cool comedy space where like people
Speaker 3: will out of nowhere, will shut show up, like jud
Speaker 3: Appataw will be there and try out he was there
Speaker 3: that night, but it's in it's like in Beverly Hills
Speaker 3: where it's like super like bougie and like top notch
Speaker 3: of everything, and.
Speaker 2: So that's why it was a vegan shaant.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: That's exactly where.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, stupid.
Speaker 2: Okay, what's yours? Did you have one?
Speaker 3: So what I want to and need to? Is it
Speaker 3: both or is one or the other one? Or need
Speaker 3: or need?
Speaker 2: Like it could be a want or you have to
Speaker 2: you just have to.
Speaker 3: I need to give up spiraling. Like sometimes they'll get
Speaker 3: in a moment where I like spiral, spiral and I
Speaker 3: can't get out of it, and then I spiral into
Speaker 3: it a panic attack, and then I then I then
Speaker 3: I then I come to and I'm like why am
Speaker 3: I spiraling? Why am I in a panic attack? And
Speaker 3: then I then that creates another panic attack of why
Speaker 3: I'm having a panic attack and spiraling. And it usually
Speaker 3: happens like once a quarter where it'll just like the
Speaker 3: whole world feels like it's just falling on you and
Speaker 3: you're like, holy crap. So my wife's like, you need
Speaker 3: to She's always trying to help talk me out of
Speaker 3: it when it happens, and she's like, how can I
Speaker 3: help you? And I'm like, I don't know how to
Speaker 3: help me. When it happens, It just happens. I guess
Speaker 3: I just need to go through it and live it.
Speaker 3: But I guess it becomes why do you get to
Speaker 3: that point? And then it becomes everything around you? So
Speaker 3: it's almost like, so I should I guess I should
Speaker 3: just quit working.
Speaker 2: She's on like Eddie those talks nowhere, They're like, we
Speaker 2: just want to retire right now. Yeah, that sounds like
Speaker 2: what you need. It is true. I mean it's really
Speaker 2: hard to when you have something that's causing that spiral.
Speaker 2: The only way to really avoid that spiral is to
Speaker 2: eliminate it from your life.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you need money to live, so yeah, I
Speaker 3: don't have financial freedom at the moment.
Speaker 2: I mean, therapy could be good to through some stuff.
Speaker 3: I don't want too.
Speaker 2: I'm good, Okay, Well yeah, it's either quitting your job
Speaker 2: or therapy would be yes. No, not really through it.
Speaker 3: Working out though, Like when I used to work out,
Speaker 3: it was it. I was mentally better and physically better
Speaker 3: and I never had any issues with anything. Ever.
Speaker 2: Working out is still like technically coping mechanism. If you
Speaker 2: don't know what you're trying to work out, If you
Speaker 2: know what the problem is, you know what the core
Speaker 2: thing is of that, then yeah, you can go work
Speaker 2: out and you know your coping skills to like get
Speaker 2: through that.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: But if you don't know why the cause of the
Speaker 2: spiral is happening, like actually like root root, cause it's
Speaker 2: going to keep happening regardless of the coping mechanisms because
Speaker 2: you don't have you haven't worked through everything. Does that
Speaker 2: make sense? Yeah, yeah, so yes, short term it will.
Speaker 2: The long term, it will keep happening until you've like
Speaker 2: started to peel back layers and address stuff. Yeah, and
Speaker 2: I know this stuff is not fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but also just for me, just me personally, everyone
Speaker 3: does what they want to do, and I don't shoot
Speaker 3: anyone down for what they were into. Nless they're a pedophile.
Speaker 2: When a different.
Speaker 3: That is always wrong. But I guess for me, it's
Speaker 3: like I'm already a free speaking person to everyone around me.
Speaker 3: Why why would I want to then go and spend
Speaker 3: money and talk to somebody that I don't know and
Speaker 3: then they just give me all their tricks and tips
Speaker 3: that they've learned, especially like you got to talk to
Speaker 3: somebody wo's a therapist and they're like, I've got kid problems,
Speaker 3: and they go, I don't have any kids, but here's
Speaker 3: what I would do. Then you really don't know what
Speaker 3: I'm going through because you don't have children, so you
Speaker 3: have no idea. You're only reading base off of what
Speaker 3: you've learned or seen through your life experiences, which is
Speaker 3: no different than what I'm doing with my life through
Speaker 3: life experiences. So I guess for me, it's hard to
Speaker 3: because my wife sees a therapist and then she just
Speaker 3: kind of gives me those tricks to me, and they
Speaker 3: do some of the things are helpful, but she'll even
Speaker 3: tell me she's like, yeah, I talked to my therapist.
Speaker 3: She's great, but she doesn't have kids, so she doesn't
Speaker 3: even get it. And she'll even admits she doesn't get it.
Speaker 3: So why would I then go talk to somebody who
Speaker 3: doesn't get it.
Speaker 2: Well, I've learned through therapy. There's different types of therapy
Speaker 2: for different stuff that you're working through. So like, if
Speaker 2: a lot of it has to do with you being
Speaker 2: a dad and how you're balancing and all of that,
Speaker 2: then you would want to find a therapist who is
Speaker 2: a dad like and there are I mean like when
Speaker 2: I was coming out of my abusive relationship, I was
Speaker 2: with a therapist who specialized in abusive relationships because I
Speaker 2: wasn't going to go to somebody and talk about that
Speaker 2: and then not have the experience to handle that. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So you could go to different people who specialize and
Speaker 2: you could call it before you ever see him. It
Speaker 2: is like, hey, like, what's your thing that you're really
Speaker 2: good at? Or like if you want to see a
Speaker 2: therapist that specializes in working with men, Like, there's so
Speaker 2: many different levels to that. And I will say, like,
Speaker 2: I get it, cause I'm I'm similar to you. I'm
Speaker 2: a very open book. Everybody knows how I feel what
Speaker 2: I feel pretty easily. But it was always helpful for
Speaker 2: me because I was getting an unbiased perspective. So much
Speaker 2: of the perspectives in my life were biased that like
Speaker 2: having someone sit there and help me understand something without
Speaker 2: any filter really helped me work through it more okay,
Speaker 2: And that was why it was helpful. I get. I
Speaker 2: get that idea of like, well, you know, why would
Speaker 2: I go do this or this? I think if you
Speaker 2: could find someone who specializes in what you want to
Speaker 2: talk about right now, and that can change right Like
Speaker 2: you can be like, Okay, well I've done six sessions
Speaker 2: with you. I feel good, I don't need you anymore.
Speaker 2: And you go to another one that specializes in something
Speaker 2: different that's very common. But then after like that, I
Speaker 2: feel like you get a different You gain a perspective
Speaker 2: that you would have never had, just because it is
Speaker 2: someone who specialized in something that you were struggling with.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes sense, it does.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if i'm explaining super well, you're good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I've always used therapy for me of
Speaker 3: just talking to other people and hearing their life experiences.
Speaker 3: I'm like, man, this is tough. Like, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 3: let me tell you about my thing. I'm like, oh, shoot,
Speaker 3: I don't I guess my theories maybe community, Yeah, well
Speaker 3: I thrive on community. In community, you need therapy. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you need community.
Speaker 2: You need all of it. Honestly, I mean, at the
Speaker 2: end of the day, everybody needs all of it. You
Speaker 2: need you need community to survive, you need therapy through
Speaker 2: certain things to work through. Just with an unbiased opinion. Also,
Speaker 2: the healthiest person in the world goes to therapy. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like, it doesn't mean anything's
Speaker 2: wrong with you. It just means you need a different
Speaker 2: perspective that you're not able to gain elsewhere. That's the
Speaker 2: way I look at therapy. So maybe reshaming re reshaping
Speaker 2: it and help you. But you also don't have to.
Speaker 3: Yeah I have to.
Speaker 2: That's the beauty of all this.
Speaker 3: You don't have to. I'm not going to.
Speaker 2: So maybe one day I'm trying to help you. That's
Speaker 2: viral anymore right now?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: Have you had gained more appreciation for country music since
Speaker 2: working and living in Nashville. It's from Jordan.
Speaker 3: I think I gained appreciation for because of the songwriting
Speaker 3: side of it, because it is kind of cool. It's
Speaker 3: like one of the few genres left that actually has
Speaker 3: like a story, not all the songs, but a lot
Speaker 3: of them do, whereas like hip hop kind of used
Speaker 3: to have a storyline and now it's just kind of
Speaker 3: like flashy and trendy. And so I've kind of fallen
Speaker 3: out of love with hip hop, not the old hip
Speaker 3: hop but the new stuff because it just has no
Speaker 3: substance to it and it's more of like a sound
Speaker 3: and what's trendy and what gets the clicks on TikTok
Speaker 3: versus an actual really good hip hop song, and not
Speaker 3: saying there aren't artists that they are still doing it.
Speaker 3: I mean there's guys like Jordan Lucas and j Cole
Speaker 3: and people like that who are still in Kendrick Lamar,
Speaker 3: but the up and coming ones are just so they're
Speaker 3: so arable. It's so awful, and it's not me being
Speaker 3: the crouchy old man. It really is really bad, like
Speaker 3: there is no substance to it. So I guess I
Speaker 3: appreciate the side here where it is great storytelling, it's
Speaker 3: kind of cool and fun. And then obviously we have
Speaker 3: an advantage of most people. We get to actually physically
Speaker 3: meet these people, and so then there becomes this this
Speaker 3: personal experience that you attached to an artist. You're like, man,
Speaker 3: I really like them. They're really cool or they're really
Speaker 3: nice or whatever. So I have grown to still I'm
Speaker 3: still not a big fan of the music. It's not
Speaker 3: it's not my go to, like when I go in
Speaker 3: the car, I'm never turning on a country song or
Speaker 3: a country radio station. But I am appreciative of.
Speaker 2: What it is and you can enjoy it more. You've
Speaker 2: probably gotten to more concerts with it too, just having
Speaker 2: access to it, yeah.
Speaker 3: Without without even yeah, access to everything. It's like you
Speaker 3: can kind of do whatever with it. But it's still
Speaker 3: not my number one. It's like number seven on the list.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know, at least have moved up maybe
Speaker 2: one or two spots.
Speaker 3: That's probably about the same.
Speaker 2: I'll just kidding, you know what. It moved up over
Speaker 2: new hip hops.
Speaker 3: It didn't move over for sure. Yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, we're gonna jump out of here, Scuba. Thanks
Speaker 2: for being on.
Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. I appreciate it.
Speaker 2: I like your shirt today. You're wearing what is his name?
Speaker 2: Grouchy girl?
Speaker 3: What's in the Oscar of the Grouse?
Speaker 2: Thank you?
Speaker 3: It's like it's a cause shirt the artist cause where
Speaker 3: he puts x's over the eyes.
Speaker 2: I've never heard of that one.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he'll start seeing now. He usually would
Speaker 3: do like a specific animal that he created, but then
Speaker 3: he started doing collabs like Sesame Street and all that
Speaker 3: kind of stuff. You look up cause Kaws.
Speaker 2: You may your animal Oscar the Grouch maybe yeah, it's
Speaker 2: all right, almost mine and almost like secretly the one
Speaker 2: that sets everything on fire.
Speaker 3: So oh yeah, I love them.
Speaker 2: I love you. That's a good Alma voice. Yeah yeah, Okay,
Speaker 2: now you turn it creepy. Okay, goodbye, everybody, Go listen
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Speaker 2: I'm proud of you for posting on your socials more too.
Speaker 3: I know I hate it. I hate it so much,
Speaker 3: so much. It's a job we don't need to do
Speaker 3: within a job that should just be the damn radio,
Speaker 3: especially in my genre where's classic rock. They don't really
Speaker 3: get they don't really care about social media.
Speaker 2: Social media matters. It's important for marketing and brand I
Speaker 2: unders trust me.
Speaker 3: I get that side of it. But god is it
Speaker 3: takes too much damn time, too much consuming. I just
Speaker 3: want to get on thereunder the damn show. God.
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