1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: Best Bits of the week with Morgan's listener Q and daytime. 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: We're Morgan in a show member answer almost all your questions. 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 2: Scuba is here everybody, and he's ready to answer some 4 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: listener questions. 5 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 3: You've got questions, We've got answers. 6 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 2: That was my best deep probably for I can't do again. 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 3: It was never there. 8 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: It was a little bit there. Okay, all right, you 9 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 2: two are my faves. Scoop should braid his beard like 10 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 2: a Viking, Jesse and san Diego. 11 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 3: That'll be kind of cool. You ever seen the TV 12 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 3: show Vikings and like the main guy talking about Okay, yeah, 13 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 3: Ragno Lothbrook I think is his name. Here's what Ragnor 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 3: lothbrook mouth character, and yeah, he's I think he's a 15 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 3: pretty big actor. Now, don't know what else he does, 16 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 3: but his beard's kind of cool. Where that they do 17 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 3: a couple of little braids here and there, and they 18 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 3: just a little bit of break, a little bit dazzle 19 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 3: work for you. Yeah, we should try it. We'll see. 20 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 2: I can bring it. I know how to love French break. 21 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 2: I love you on the show. Stephanie from Illinois, shout out. 22 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 3: I love that. We start with a lot of like confidence. 23 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, we do. Shut up, just make him laugh hard. 24 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 2: It's so funny. Kim from Connecticut. I feel like I 25 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 2: did that at the very beginning. 26 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 3: She sure did, Kim, that was for you. 27 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:26,479 Speaker 2: Michelle from Apple Valley Time my favorite Saturday consistent. 28 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 3: I appreciate it, Michelle. 29 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 2: We love consistency. Yeah, she's always very consistent about your episodes. 30 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 31 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 2: Does he work all day now that he has his 32 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 2: night show? What's the schedule like Madison in Florida? 33 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: It is? It was already like an all day thing. 34 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 3: Now it's just an all day plus, so it is. 35 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 3: It's Yeah, it's an all day thing. I think my 36 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 3: only break is when I'm driving somewhere. That's my only break. 37 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 2: Really. Yeah, so you do you come back? Like do 38 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 2: you ever go home at all and come back? 39 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 3: So that's why. So my long term goal or short 40 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 3: term goal, really it's to move this thing in the 41 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 3: afternoon so I can just stay here and then go home. 42 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: Because doing the night thing is great because I'm able 43 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 3: to be a little bit more free and expand and 44 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 3: try and mess with stuff because it's late at night 45 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 3: and there's kind of guy whatever. But yeah, because I 46 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 3: have to leave the comeback. So it is a split 47 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 3: shift day where I usually leave here around depending on 48 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 3: if we have meetings or how busy the day is. 49 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 3: I try to leave here by one p one thirty, 50 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 3: but it ends up usually being two and then go home, 51 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,760 Speaker 3: pick up the kids, have dinner, and then come back. 52 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 2: Dang is it worth it? 53 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's worth it because there's an end goal and 54 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 3: I can see where it's going to go. So yes, 55 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 3: it's one hundred percent worth it. 56 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 2: So yeah, see that's what matters. Yeah, the long schedules 57 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 2: and it sucks and you're in the grind, but when 58 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 2: you know that it's worth it, yeah, it makes all 59 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 2: of that a lot easier. 60 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, the realness is it is difficult, 61 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 3: but anything you really want in life isn't going to 62 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 3: be easy, because I mean, it's so cliche, but it's 63 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 3: true because if it were easy, then it doesn't come 64 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 3: with I mean, things can be easy. Sure, if you 65 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 3: got money, you can buy whatever you want and do 66 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 3: whatever you want. But I feel like if there isn't 67 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 3: some sort of grit and something that makes you work 68 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 3: hard for it, you don't appreciate it once you get there. 69 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 3: So I'm fine with the grind. It's definitely been adjustment 70 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 3: to our schedule at home and everything, and even the 71 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 3: kids are like, Dad, where are you. There's even been 72 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 3: times where my kids will call into the show and 73 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 3: I'll be here. 74 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: I've seen your videos from that, yeah, and they'll be like. 75 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 3: They're like Dad, Like my daughter just called them recently. 76 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 3: I was going to post a video cause my wife's 77 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 3: you shoul post more the kids souff. People seem to 78 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 3: like that more than just whatever, and so I have 79 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 3: one of them. I'll post one probably this couple days 80 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 3: here where my daughter called in and she was and 81 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 3: she's part of the show because they call like Dad, 82 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 3: when you're coming home, and like when you're gonna be here, 83 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 3: And I'm like, I'll be here till eleven something midnight, 84 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 3: so i'll see you tomorrow, see you in the morning. Yeah, exactly. 85 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my goodness. I love that. I love that 86 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 2: the kid's going to be a part of it. They're 87 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 2: like your mini co hosts. 88 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, in a sense. Yeah, they call in at least 89 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 3: like once a week, I feel like, and I think 90 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 3: it relates to because a lot of the listeners are 91 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 3: either parents very similar to me, or they have grandkids 92 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 3: or their kids are older, so they kind of like 93 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 3: to like feel nostalgic about Oh, I remember when my 94 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 3: kids were six or seven. That's so cool. 95 00:03:58,720 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 96 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: So yeah, and they love it too. They're like they've 97 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 3: always said for the longest time, they're like, like, when's 98 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 3: the Scoop Steve show going to happen? And then finally 99 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 3: I did so and it's here. Yeah. 100 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 2: And another listener wanted to ask. She stayed anonymous, but 101 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 2: she wanted to know because if energy feels like it's 102 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: changed a little bit from you, so are you happy? 103 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 3: Yes, I'm just tired, okay. And when I'm tired, I'm cranky. 104 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 3: And she's relating to the whole hot dog fiasco. I 105 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 3: guess my shortness, my attention to or my my grace 106 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 3: giving for others is a little bit less right now, 107 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 3: not just because that's just who I am. It's just 108 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 3: because I'm just stretched so thin that that if you 109 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 3: catch me at the end of the week, which I 110 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 3: think that was on a Friday, you catch me at 111 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 3: the end of the week, especially then I was still 112 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 3: figuring it out and there wasn't a routine yet, and 113 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 3: the kids are out of school, so it's a little 114 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 3: bit different. But now that I'm in a routine and 115 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 3: I have my head on my this is just this 116 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 3: is what it is, and I've come to grips with 117 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 3: it that I'm in a better place than I was 118 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 3: two or three weeks ago as a person. 119 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 2: Well that's good. I mean, I listen. I wanted to 120 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,600 Speaker 2: check in with you too, make sure you're doing okay. 121 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: I listen. I know being in this shop, there's some 122 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 2: burnout that happens. There's also a lot of overwhelm that 123 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 2: a lot of us are wearing multiple hats and doing 124 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: multiple things. So I had to imagine that that was 125 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 2: a little bit of a volcano moment for you, where 126 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: everything just kind of erupted and it went in a 127 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 2: whole lot of different directions. Was the vibe that I 128 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 2: was picking up on, which is why I very nicely 129 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 2: sat back, and because it wasn't my place one, but two, 130 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 2: because I could feel from all of you guys just 131 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 2: this and we were getting to a point where where 132 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 2: you were about to go on vacation not long from there. 133 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 2: Everybody was just like we had just been grinding the 134 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 2: wheels totally. 135 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 3: For eight months solid. Yeah, and everyone's just like everyone 136 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 3: was done. 137 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 2: So I knew what was happening, but I wanted to 138 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: have a checking because another there was quite a few 139 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 2: questions that we got that were in the terms of 140 00:05:57,120 --> 00:06:00,159 Speaker 2: does Scuba have an anger problem? That's from Jennifer, So 141 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: I wanted to allow you to share. 142 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, And in the moment, I was just like, 143 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 3: what we're talking about this like just just go get 144 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 3: the hot dogs and come back. It's kind of one 145 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:09,040 Speaker 3: of the It's almost like when you get upset to 146 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 3: your kids for something so little minute they're like, I 147 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 3: don't want to flush the toilet. You're like, just flush it. 148 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 3: You have to just just let's move on. 149 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: And for you it is something so little. For her, 150 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 2: it might have been something big, exactly. 151 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 152 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 2: The difference there was Wayne, And that's why I say, 153 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 2: like everybody was in this moment where they were having 154 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 2: their volcanoes explode all at the same time. 155 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah. 156 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 2: So would you like to answer to reverrtue have an. 157 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 3: Anger and then your problem? No, I just had. I 158 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 3: just had a burnt out, burnout problems what it was, 159 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 3: And I think it happens to all of us when 160 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 3: we get towards the end of the year, we're like, 161 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 3: oh my god, we're so burnt out because, like you said, 162 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 3: we're doing so much. We're not doing just the one 163 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 3: thing we're doing, and everyone experiences burnout in different ways. 164 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 3: And then you have the personal life mixed with the 165 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 3: work life, and it's like essentially two full full time job. 166 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 3: I'm basically three full time jobs. I've got our morning 167 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 3: show job, our night show job, and the family job, 168 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 3: which is it takes work to put together and and 169 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 3: have a relationship with a wife and three kids. 170 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 2: That are and then a bunch of mini hats within 171 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 2: each of those jobs exactly. 172 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there's the other main buckets, but every bucket 173 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 3: has like other little yeah, other little buckets, and you're 174 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 3: just like you gets to a point where like I'm overwhelmed, 175 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 176 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 2: And you're still figuring out how that all works within 177 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 2: your life right now exactly all the beginning phases. 178 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 3: The beginning phase of figuring it out and figuring some 179 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 3: things out, but then you still get presented with options. 180 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 3: You're like, oh, crab, I gotta figure that one, not now. 181 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 2: Too dang it. Okay, Well, I wanted to give you 182 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 2: a chance to say your. 183 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 3: Piece well, like even one thing for example, like I 184 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 3: used to always coach my son's baseball team, but this 185 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 3: year I had to take a step back and be like, 186 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 3: I can't do it, which has been hard because I'm 187 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 3: sitting there going like and the coach will do something. 188 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, there's a lot of things that, like, 189 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 2: over the course of your life were priorities changed, and 190 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 2: you have to As someone who loves to be in 191 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 2: control of a lot of my life, I totally understand 192 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 2: that feeling. But a lot of maturity comes when you 193 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 2: let go and just be like, no, it's fine, I 194 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 2: would do it differently, but I have to let go 195 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 2: of the fact that I would have done it differently 196 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 2: because this is a choice that I made. 197 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 3: Yep. 198 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 2: And it's hard. It's a really hard thing to Like 199 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 2: you're literally letting go of the reins. You're not like 200 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 2: still holding on and let go. You're like, okay, hands 201 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 2: are up, I swear I'm not touching. Yes. 202 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 3: But it's awesome though, because then when it comes to practice, 203 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 3: I don't have to get there thirty minutes early and 204 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 3: set the field up and make sure whatever I can 205 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 3: literally get there right five minutes before it starts and 206 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 3: then as soon as it's over, we're out. There isn't 207 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 3: any of that. There's just it's so much easier on me. 208 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 3: It becomes only an hour versus a two three hour thing. Yeah, 209 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 3: and then and then all the communication with all the 210 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 3: parents and all that stuff, so that becomes another full 211 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 3: time job within it. So it's nice to just let 212 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 3: go and and chill out for a second. 213 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 2: Well, I'm with our job to You know, something that 214 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 2: I've gotten really good at now which will probably have 215 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 2: to be relearned in your new lifestyle change, is that 216 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: I had to separate my personal and my work life. 217 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 2: Like I had to come in, do my job and leave, 218 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 2: and like when I leave, like I'm no longer work working, 219 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 2: and like I have to turn it off even if 220 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 2: I'm working at home. I had to like put a 221 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 2: differential place in there because it felt like I was 222 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 2: carrying so much work into my personal life and like 223 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 2: just letting a lot of things carry on who I 224 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 2: am because of things that whether something happened on the 225 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 2: show or whether they happen on social media or X 226 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 2: Y and Z, I was carrying so much of that 227 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: load everywhere with me instead of it being like I 228 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 2: walk out the work doors and like a lot of 229 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 2: that stays here. Yeah, And I think that's a lot 230 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 2: of a load that people carry in general too, because 231 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 2: our work lives are so intertwined with our personal lives. 232 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 2: Not just for us. I mean, I think it's very 233 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 2: true for us because we straight up talk about our 234 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 2: personal lives. Yeah, but I think for most people, when 235 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 2: you work so much, it's such a big part of 236 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,319 Speaker 2: your life that you start to think they're supposed to 237 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 2: be like intertwined, and like you'd go home and you 238 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 2: talk about work all the time, or you're always constantly 239 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: work is always like lingering in your brain. And I 240 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 2: had to like turn it off as soon as I 241 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 2: walk out the doors, Like you can't talk about work anymore. 242 00:09:58,520 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 2: You can do your work. You go home, you do 243 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 2: your work, and you get done. But like if anybody 244 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:03,439 Speaker 2: wants to talk about work or like hang out and 245 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 2: talk about work, I don't do it. I'm like, no, no, no, 246 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 2: we're not here for that. You want to talk to 247 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 2: me there, put me back in the building. 248 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 3: Exact Yeah, but I'm not there. Yeah. Yeah. 249 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 2: I had to kind of create these different boxes in 250 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 2: my brain because I was getting so overwhelmed and burn 251 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 2: out because it was like it was like it was 252 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 2: constantly running in the back of my head. 253 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 3: Always there. Yeah, and the anals of your mind. Then 254 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 3: it comes forward. We're like, oh now it's there again. 255 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 3: I want to shut it off. 256 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 2: Never off. 257 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 3: Yeah crap. Yeah. 258 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 2: So and you'll find your way to do that with 259 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,079 Speaker 2: your new kind of jobs. But I do think that's 260 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 2: the thing that a lot of people deal with, is 261 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 2: just like the inability to actually turn off work, even 262 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 2: if you think that you are. I think most people's 263 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 2: jobs go home with them. 264 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they take it home always so tough. 265 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 2: Okay. A quick question on this one before we go 266 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 2: into the break. Chelsea and Indiana wants to know if 267 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 2: you could interview any person, who would it be. 268 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:58,719 Speaker 3: I'll tell you after the break. No, if anyone, who 269 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 3: would it be? Oh? Man, I think it'd be fun 270 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 3: to see. That's the only thing too. I get nervous 271 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 3: about talking to people that I really want to talk 272 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 3: to because then it becomes I don't know, then it. 273 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 2: Could okay for you, I think take all the emotions 274 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 2: and stuff away from it. Like anyone in the world. 275 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 2: If you could interview somebody on your new show. Who 276 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 2: would it. 277 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,319 Speaker 3: Be anyone in the world. I mean, just from my 278 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 3: own personal thing, it'd be cool to talk to Shaq 279 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 3: Shack or Penny hart Away. Those are two people that 280 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 3: I love so much growing up. 281 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,959 Speaker 2: As a kid, and I get like the worry of like, Okay, 282 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 2: well you love them, and then you meet them you're like, oh, 283 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 2: I don't like they weren't. 284 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 3: A school as I thought they were, and they look 285 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 3: so cool. 286 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 2: But I think you it would override that if you 287 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 2: wanted to interview them. I think if you had the 288 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: opportunity to be like, it's fine if I meet him 289 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 2: and it sucks, it's gonna be what it is. 290 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 3: I want to interview them. There's even people that you 291 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 3: interview and you're like, oh, I guess I'll do it, 292 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 3: and then you do it, you're like, oh my god, 293 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 3: this is this is so cool. Like I interviewed a 294 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 3: guy named Ted NuGen who's a classic rock guy, and 295 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 3: it airs. It was aired on Friday Show, but it 296 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 3: lives on social media now and it was supposed to be. 297 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 3: His assistant was like, how much you need and I 298 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 3: was like ten fifteen minutes, Max. We talked for almost 299 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 3: an hour, wow, And he pulled a guitar, started playing 300 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 3: guitar for me and stuff, and I was like, this 301 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 3: is this is so cool because I grew up with 302 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 3: a father who loved the rock and roll music and 303 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 3: he was one of those artists that was like a 304 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 3: staple in his truck, and so to be able to 305 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 3: talk to him, I was kind of like, I never 306 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 3: knew him as the human. I only knew him as 307 00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 3: the music. And then I kind of KNWHI as a 308 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 3: human when he did an MTV Cribs episode in the 309 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 3: two thousands, and I was like, Wow, this is wild. 310 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 3: And so that was one of those moments where I 311 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 3: was like, so, I guess my point is I don't 312 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:26,720 Speaker 3: want to shut anyone off from an interview because you 313 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 3: just never know what you can get out of it. 314 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 3: I guess I'll always go into everything open minded. But 315 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 3: if I'm picking somebody as Shaquille O'Neil or Penny hard Away. 316 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 2: Okay, Hey, we're putting it out in the universe. 317 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 3: Yes it's happening, it's going to happen. 318 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 2: And now we're taking a break. What is one thing 319 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 2: in your life right now that you want or need 320 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 2: to give up? Abby in Tennessee want or need to 321 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,599 Speaker 2: give up. And then I'll give you a second to 322 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 2: think about this, because that you know I had a second, you. 323 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 3: Had more than a second. The whole day I. 324 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 2: Am working on because I'm about I'm about to go 325 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 2: with my big detoks diet, all the things to get 326 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 2: rid of long COVID and hopefully get me a lot healthier. 327 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 2: But it's cheese cheese. Really, ah, I'm gonna have to 328 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 2: for this die. Not for life, I don't think, but 329 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 2: because we're trying to get rid of a lot of 330 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 2: inflammation and stuff in my body. Yeah, cheese is such 331 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 2: a huge factor in that. Dairy in general is so 332 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 2: my detox. Part of it is nutrition, and I'll be 333 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 2: gluten free and dairy free. Gluten free was already something 334 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 2: I'm used to, but yeah, the dairy free one never 335 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 2: done it. 336 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 3: That's tough because I went to one time, I went 337 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:36,199 Speaker 3: to a restaurant in La My cousin is like cut 338 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,760 Speaker 3: she cut everything off, and we went to a restaurant. 339 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 3: It was like, I think they had on the menu 340 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 3: the head lasagna and I was like, oh, that's a 341 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 3: safe one. It's just cheese and pasta. And it comes 342 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 3: and I start eating it, and I feel like I'm 343 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 3: eating a nutri grain bar and like, what the hell 344 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 3: is this crap? And she's like, oh, it's vegan or 345 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 3: whatever it is. I was like, what am I eating? 346 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 3: It should be cheese and a noodle and some tomato sauce. 347 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,319 Speaker 3: She's like, yeah, there's noodle ors tomato sauce. But the 348 00:13:57,440 --> 00:14:00,199 Speaker 3: cheese is actually ground up peanuts. And I was like, oh, oh, 349 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 3: what the hell, why would anyone do that? Don't even 350 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 3: pull us on on the menu. 351 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, cashew cheese. 352 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't. It's not a thing. No, it's not 353 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 3: it's no, it shouldn't be a thing. 354 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 2: Listen. I was trying to find a turn because I'm 355 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 2: gonna be struggling. 356 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 3: Well, you should just not even you should just commit it. 357 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 3: You should just omit it completely from your life. 358 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 2: I think I will be cash cheese. 359 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,599 Speaker 3: It was so terrible. It was all I left the 360 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 3: Taco Bell. I was so pissed off. I was like, 361 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 3: you guys, sit here and eat before we go to 362 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 3: this comedy show. I'm gonna go to Taco Bell and 363 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 3: I'll be right back. 364 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: I love Taco Bell. 365 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 3: I was so pissed. 366 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 2: That's funny, But how long ago was that. 367 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 3: That was twenty seventeen. 368 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 2: They've come a long way. 369 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 3: Really, even after eight years, it's gotten better, Okay. 370 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 2: I mean in general, gluten free, vegan, all those foods 371 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 2: have really come a long way. Okay, even since I 372 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: started being vegetarian when I was seven, things have drastically 373 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 2: changed over the course. 374 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 1: Of all of that. 375 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:49,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would give them another try now, but obviously 376 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 2: with you knowing what it is not going and not 377 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 2: knowing no idea, that's much worse. I would never like 378 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 2: trick somebody like eat this and it's yeah, you know full. 379 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 3: It wasn't even trick. I was just look at the menu, 380 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 3: think like, what's the safest thing for me here? I 381 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 3: don't want this, I don't want that. Oh I love 382 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 3: those on you know, let's do that. Why would they not. 383 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 2: Have cheese, have full blown vegan? 384 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 3: Noot? It was l A. It was it was on it. 385 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 3: It was LA was right next to the largo the logo. 386 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,840 Speaker 3: If anyone knows where that's at, It's like it's like 387 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 3: it's actually a really cool comedy space where like people 388 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 3: will out of nowhere, will shut show up, like jud 389 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 3: Appataw will be there and try out he was there 390 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 3: that night, but it's in it's like in Beverly Hills 391 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 3: where it's like super like bougie and like top notch 392 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 3: of everything, and. 393 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 2: So that's why it was a vegan shaant. 394 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. 395 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 2: That's exactly where. 396 00:15:33,680 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, stupid. 397 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: Okay, what's yours? Did you have one? 398 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 3: So what I want to and need to? Is it 399 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 3: both or is one or the other one? Or need 400 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 3: or need? 401 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 2: Like it could be a want or you have to 402 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 2: you just have to. 403 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 3: I need to give up spiraling. Like sometimes they'll get 404 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 3: in a moment where I like spiral, spiral and I 405 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 3: can't get out of it, and then I spiral into 406 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 3: it a panic attack, and then I then I then 407 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 3: I then I come to and I'm like why am 408 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 3: I spiraling? Why am I in a panic attack? And 409 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 3: then I then that creates another panic attack of why 410 00:15:57,000 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 3: I'm having a panic attack and spiraling. And it usually 411 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 3: happens like once a quarter where it'll just like the 412 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 3: whole world feels like it's just falling on you and 413 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 3: you're like, holy crap. So my wife's like, you need 414 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 3: to She's always trying to help talk me out of 415 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 3: it when it happens, and she's like, how can I 416 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 3: help you? And I'm like, I don't know how to 417 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 3: help me. When it happens, It just happens. I guess 418 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 3: I just need to go through it and live it. 419 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 3: But I guess it becomes why do you get to 420 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 3: that point? And then it becomes everything around you? So 421 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 3: it's almost like, so I should I guess I should 422 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 3: just quit working. 423 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 2: She's on like Eddie those talks nowhere, They're like, we 424 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 2: just want to retire right now. Yeah, that sounds like 425 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 2: what you need. It is true. I mean it's really 426 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 2: hard to when you have something that's causing that spiral. 427 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: The only way to really avoid that spiral is to 428 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 2: eliminate it from your life. 429 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you need money to live, so yeah, I 430 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 3: don't have financial freedom at the moment. 431 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 2: I mean, therapy could be good to through some stuff. 432 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 3: I don't want too. 433 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 2: I'm good, Okay, Well yeah, it's either quitting your job 434 00:16:53,680 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 2: or therapy would be yes. No, not really through it. 435 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:03,640 Speaker 3: Working out though, Like when I used to work out, 436 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 3: it was it. I was mentally better and physically better 437 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 3: and I never had any issues with anything. Ever. 438 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 2: Working out is still like technically coping mechanism. If you 439 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 2: don't know what you're trying to work out, If you 440 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 2: know what the problem is, you know what the core 441 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 2: thing is of that, then yeah, you can go work 442 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: out and you know your coping skills to like get 443 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 2: through that. 444 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:21,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 445 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 2: But if you don't know why the cause of the 446 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 2: spiral is happening, like actually like root root, cause it's 447 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 2: going to keep happening regardless of the coping mechanisms because 448 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 2: you don't have you haven't worked through everything. Does that 449 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 2: make sense? Yeah, yeah, so yes, short term it will. 450 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 2: The long term, it will keep happening until you've like 451 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 2: started to peel back layers and address stuff. Yeah, and 452 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 2: I know this stuff is not fun. 453 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, but also just for me, just me personally, everyone 454 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 3: does what they want to do, and I don't shoot 455 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 3: anyone down for what they were into. Nless they're a pedophile. 456 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 2: When a different. 457 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:01,120 Speaker 3: That is always wrong. But I guess for me, it's 458 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 3: like I'm already a free speaking person to everyone around me. 459 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:06,479 Speaker 3: Why why would I want to then go and spend 460 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 3: money and talk to somebody that I don't know and 461 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 3: then they just give me all their tricks and tips 462 00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 3: that they've learned, especially like you got to talk to 463 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 3: somebody wo's a therapist and they're like, I've got kid problems, 464 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 3: and they go, I don't have any kids, but here's 465 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 3: what I would do. Then you really don't know what 466 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 3: I'm going through because you don't have children, so you 467 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:24,159 Speaker 3: have no idea. You're only reading base off of what 468 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 3: you've learned or seen through your life experiences, which is 469 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 3: no different than what I'm doing with my life through 470 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 3: life experiences. So I guess for me, it's hard to 471 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:33,879 Speaker 3: because my wife sees a therapist and then she just 472 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 3: kind of gives me those tricks to me, and they 473 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 3: do some of the things are helpful, but she'll even 474 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 3: tell me she's like, yeah, I talked to my therapist. 475 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 3: She's great, but she doesn't have kids, so she doesn't 476 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 3: even get it. And she'll even admits she doesn't get it. 477 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:44,959 Speaker 3: So why would I then go talk to somebody who 478 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 3: doesn't get it. 479 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:49,719 Speaker 2: Well, I've learned through therapy. There's different types of therapy 480 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 2: for different stuff that you're working through. So like, if 481 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 2: a lot of it has to do with you being 482 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 2: a dad and how you're balancing and all of that, 483 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 2: then you would want to find a therapist who is 484 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 2: a dad like and there are I mean like when 485 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 2: I was coming out of my abusive relationship, I was 486 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 2: with a therapist who specialized in abusive relationships because I 487 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:07,479 Speaker 2: wasn't going to go to somebody and talk about that 488 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 2: and then not have the experience to handle that. Yeah, 489 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 2: So you could go to different people who specialize and 490 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 2: you could call it before you ever see him. It 491 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 2: is like, hey, like, what's your thing that you're really 492 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 2: good at? Or like if you want to see a 493 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 2: therapist that specializes in working with men, Like, there's so 494 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 2: many different levels to that. And I will say, like, 495 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,160 Speaker 2: I get it, cause I'm I'm similar to you. I'm 496 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,480 Speaker 2: a very open book. Everybody knows how I feel what 497 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 2: I feel pretty easily. But it was always helpful for 498 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 2: me because I was getting an unbiased perspective. So much 499 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 2: of the perspectives in my life were biased that like 500 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,360 Speaker 2: having someone sit there and help me understand something without 501 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 2: any filter really helped me work through it more okay, 502 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 2: And that was why it was helpful. I get. I 503 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 2: get that idea of like, well, you know, why would 504 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 2: I go do this or this? I think if you 505 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,800 Speaker 2: could find someone who specializes in what you want to 506 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 2: talk about right now, and that can change right Like 507 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 2: you can be like, Okay, well I've done six sessions 508 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 2: with you. I feel good, I don't need you anymore. 509 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 2: And you go to another one that specializes in something 510 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:07,280 Speaker 2: different that's very common. But then after like that, I 511 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 2: feel like you get a different You gain a perspective 512 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 2: that you would have never had, just because it is 513 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 2: someone who specialized in something that you were struggling with. 514 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:16,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes sense, it does. 515 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if i'm explaining super well, you're good. 516 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I've always used therapy for me of 517 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 3: just talking to other people and hearing their life experiences. 518 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:24,919 Speaker 3: I'm like, man, this is tough. Like, yeah, I mean, 519 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 3: let me tell you about my thing. I'm like, oh, shoot, 520 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 3: I don't I guess my theories maybe community, Yeah, well 521 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 3: I thrive on community. In community, you need therapy. Yeah, 522 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 3: you need community. 523 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:35,720 Speaker 2: You need all of it. Honestly, I mean, at the 524 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 2: end of the day, everybody needs all of it. You 525 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 2: need you need community to survive, you need therapy through 526 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 2: certain things to work through. Just with an unbiased opinion. Also, 527 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 2: the healthiest person in the world goes to therapy. Yeah, 528 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like, it doesn't mean anything's 529 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 2: wrong with you. It just means you need a different 530 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:55,879 Speaker 2: perspective that you're not able to gain elsewhere. That's the 531 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 2: way I look at therapy. So maybe reshaming re reshaping 532 00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:03,159 Speaker 2: it and help you. But you also don't have to. 533 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 3: Yeah I have to. 534 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:04,879 Speaker 2: That's the beauty of all this. 535 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 3: You don't have to. I'm not going to. 536 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 2: So maybe one day I'm trying to help you. That's 537 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,880 Speaker 2: viral anymore right now? 538 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 1: Right? 539 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 2: Have you had gained more appreciation for country music since 540 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 2: working and living in Nashville. It's from Jordan. 541 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 3: I think I gained appreciation for because of the songwriting 542 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 3: side of it, because it is kind of cool. It's 543 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 3: like one of the few genres left that actually has 544 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 3: like a story, not all the songs, but a lot 545 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 3: of them do, whereas like hip hop kind of used 546 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 3: to have a storyline and now it's just kind of 547 00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 3: like flashy and trendy. And so I've kind of fallen 548 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 3: out of love with hip hop, not the old hip 549 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 3: hop but the new stuff because it just has no 550 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 3: substance to it and it's more of like a sound 551 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 3: and what's trendy and what gets the clicks on TikTok 552 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 3: versus an actual really good hip hop song, and not 553 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 3: saying there aren't artists that they are still doing it. 554 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 3: I mean there's guys like Jordan Lucas and j Cole 555 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 3: and people like that who are still in Kendrick Lamar, 556 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 3: but the up and coming ones are just so they're 557 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 3: so arable. It's so awful, and it's not me being 558 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 3: the crouchy old man. It really is really bad, like 559 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 3: there is no substance to it. So I guess I 560 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 3: appreciate the side here where it is great storytelling, it's 561 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 3: kind of cool and fun. And then obviously we have 562 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 3: an advantage of most people. We get to actually physically 563 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,199 Speaker 3: meet these people, and so then there becomes this this 564 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,199 Speaker 3: personal experience that you attached to an artist. You're like, man, 565 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 3: I really like them. They're really cool or they're really 566 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 3: nice or whatever. So I have grown to still I'm 567 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 3: still not a big fan of the music. It's not 568 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 3: it's not my go to, like when I go in 569 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 3: the car, I'm never turning on a country song or 570 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 3: a country radio station. But I am appreciative of. 571 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 2: What it is and you can enjoy it more. You've 572 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 2: probably gotten to more concerts with it too, just having 573 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 2: access to it, yeah. 574 00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 3: Without without even yeah, access to everything. It's like you 575 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 3: can kind of do whatever with it. But it's still 576 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 3: not my number one. It's like number seven on the list. 577 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know, at least have moved up maybe 578 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 2: one or two spots. 579 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:53,320 Speaker 3: That's probably about the same. 580 00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 2: I'll just kidding, you know what. It moved up over 581 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 2: new hip hops. 582 00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 3: It didn't move over for sure. Yeah, oh my god. 583 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, we're gonna jump out of here, Scuba. Thanks 584 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 2: for being on. 585 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:04,919 Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. I appreciate it. 586 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,200 Speaker 2: I like your shirt today. You're wearing what is his name? 587 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 2: Grouchy girl? 588 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 3: What's in the Oscar of the Grouse? 589 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 2: Thank you? 590 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 3: It's like it's a cause shirt the artist cause where 591 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,119 Speaker 3: he puts x's over the eyes. 592 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 2: I've never heard of that one. 593 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he'll start seeing now. He usually would 594 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 3: do like a specific animal that he created, but then 595 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 3: he started doing collabs like Sesame Street and all that 596 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 3: kind of stuff. You look up cause Kaws. 597 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:34,120 Speaker 2: You may your animal Oscar the Grouch maybe yeah, it's 598 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 2: all right, almost mine and almost like secretly the one 599 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 2: that sets everything on fire. 600 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 3: So oh yeah, I love them. 601 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 2: I love you. That's a good Alma voice. Yeah yeah, Okay, 602 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 2: now you turn it creepy. Okay, goodbye, everybody, Go listen 603 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 2: to Scuba. 604 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 1: Show the Rock. 605 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 3: Yes, you can call me A six one five seven 606 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 3: three seven one o five nine or follow me on 607 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:58,600 Speaker 3: instagram Scooba Steve Radio. 608 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:00,919 Speaker 2: I'm proud of you for posting on your socials more too. 609 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 3: I know I hate it. I hate it so much, 610 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:06,560 Speaker 3: so much. It's a job we don't need to do 611 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,399 Speaker 3: within a job that should just be the damn radio, 612 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,360 Speaker 3: especially in my genre where's classic rock. They don't really 613 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 3: get they don't really care about social media. 614 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 2: Social media matters. It's important for marketing and brand I 615 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:15,920 Speaker 2: unders trust me. 616 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 3: I get that side of it. But god is it 617 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,159 Speaker 3: takes too much damn time, too much consuming. I just 618 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,879 Speaker 3: want to get on thereunder the damn show. God. 619 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,159 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, you can follow me out I have girl Morgan, 620 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 2: or you can go follow the show at Bobby Bone 621 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 2: Show by everybody. 622 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 1: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks 623 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 1: for listening. 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