1 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm happy that I have both of you on here 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: because I feel like, Jennica, you're a little bit more 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: traditional on certain things, and Johnny is a little bit 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: more of a gen Z for sure. Growing up, Grandma 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: and Grandpa would always say, Okay, when are you gonna 6 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: have kids? Do you feel that pressure, Jenica or No? 7 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 2: I don't and I don't feel like I need to 8 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 2: have children now. 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: Do you guys believe in monocomy. 10 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 3: I've never been in any kind of polyamorous relationship, but 11 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 3: you know, monogamous relationships. I've noticed as I've gotten older, 12 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 3: they've gotten more challenging for me. 13 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: Hey what up? Everyone, Welcome to Cheeky's and Chill. I 14 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: hope you're having a beautiful day. I'm not sure what 15 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: day you're listening to this episode, but whichever day is, 16 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 1: I hope you're having a really great one. Today's episode 17 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: is going to be really fun. It features my sister 18 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: and best friend, Jenica, this is her second time on 19 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: the Cheeky's and Chill podcast, and Johnny, my baby boy 20 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: brother who's not really baby anywhere. He's twenty one. So 21 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna be talking about generational divide. We'll be weighing 22 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: in on a range of topics to see how millennials 23 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: feel about certain things versus gen Zers. Okay, so I'm 24 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: super excited to have them both here on Cheese and Chill. 25 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: As you know, I'm a millennial, which means I was 26 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: born between the years of nineteen eighty one and nineteen 27 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: ninety six, and both Johnny and Jenica are from the 28 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: generation gen Z, which means they were both born after 29 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety six. So let's just get into it. Hi, 30 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 1: Johnny and Jenica, how are you, guys. 31 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 4: I'm good. I'm excited. 32 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 2: I feel like I'm still like millennial. I'm only a 33 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: year after the cutoff. 34 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: I'm ninety seven, So you feel like you're on the cusp. 35 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like I'm on the cusp. 36 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 5: Like I feel like I have a little bit of both. 37 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, she is on the cuff. There was like a 38 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 3: whole thing for nineties kids seven, ninety eight, ninety ninety 39 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 3: They grew up with like nineties stuff, but like they 40 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 3: still had like two thousands. So like they're in between 41 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 3: like gen Z millennials. It's a weird thing. They have 42 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 3: their own thing going on. 43 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: Okay, which is great because I'm happy that I have 44 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: both of you on here because I feel like, Jenica, 45 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: you're a little bit more traditional and certain things, and 46 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: Johnny is a little bit more of a gen Z 47 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: for sure. I don't know. Do you feel like you're 48 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: a little bit more open minded? Johnny? 49 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, to an extent. I definitely feel like I have 50 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 3: an old soul about a lot of certain things about 51 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 3: you know, maybe the way I carry myself, but definitely. 52 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 3: As I've gotten older and I started talking to more 53 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 3: people in my age because I didn't used to do 54 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,519 Speaker 3: that before, I've noticed I'm like, Okay, there's some things 55 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 3: I have in common. There's a natural open mindedness nice. 56 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: And I think it also has to do with who 57 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: you were raised by, you know. I think feel like 58 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 1: mom was very like open minded in certain things and 59 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: then very traditional and not to sound bad, but narrow 60 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,839 Speaker 1: minded kind of in a sense in certain things. Let's 61 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: just call it more traditional, I guess whatever. But moving forward, 62 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: this is your sister talking. It's not your second mother. Okay, 63 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: so let's be very open and have an open conversation. 64 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: Can we agree to agree? 65 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 4: Yes? 66 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: All right, So let's start with marriage. Okay, how do 67 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 1: you feel about marriage? Jenica. 68 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 4: Okay, the way that we grew up, Mom had multiple divorces, 69 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 4: So me, I don't know if marriage is ideal for me, 70 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 4: And I feel like marriage kind of tends to like 71 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 4: ruin things. 72 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: I feel like it's not necessary to me if I've 73 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 2: been with someone for like, let's say, seven eight years, 74 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: and they want to get married all of a sudden. 75 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: I feel like we basically are married, if. 76 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 4: We've already lived together, if we have a kid. 77 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 2: Or et cetera, et cetera. I think it's beautiful. I 78 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 2: would love to have a wedding, but I don't know 79 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 2: if it's like necessary for me to get married. I'm 80 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: kind of over the have a kid after marriage like 81 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 2: all that stuff. Like I'm kind of over. 82 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 4: I feel like that's like, oh, honestly depends on how 83 00:03:58,680 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 4: you were raised. 84 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: I don't I feel like it's necessary if someone wants 85 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: proposed and yeah, and I feel like it's like you 86 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: have to find that certain balance. But I feel like 87 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 2: if you've been with someone for so long, you're basically 88 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 2: married already. 89 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: Okay, So do you feel like your life would be 90 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: complete even if you don't get married. 91 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's just a title even when, 92 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 2: like nowadays, when people ask you to be their boyfriend girlfriend, 93 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 2: I don't feel like it's necessary, Like titles aren't important. 94 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: I know what about you, John. 95 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 3: Her thoughts really echo mine, dude, and that's why I'm 96 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 3: so surprised. 97 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: Well, you guys are both gen zs. I know. 98 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 3: It's just like I thought it was just me, you 99 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 3: know what I mean. I've always felt like my life 100 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: circumstances may have made me unfit for marriage. You obviously 101 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,679 Speaker 3: like you're raised, you're growing up, and you're thinking about 102 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 3: like that as like an angle or something. But it's 103 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 3: just I don't know, it's our life circumstances have been 104 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 3: so different, and I feel like if I am going 105 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 3: to marry someone, I would need to put in a 106 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 3: lot of work with myself before I do something like that. 107 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 3: And I'm talking on them like not like two or 108 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 3: three years more, I'm talking about like like seven years 109 00:04:58,520 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 3: or something. 110 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: I feel like, you guys, they're both too young personally. 111 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: That's there we go. There's the mother in me. I'm thinking, 112 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: you gus are too young. But I honestly feel that people 113 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: shouldn't get married in the twenties personally, that's the time 114 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 1: where you guys should just get to know yourself and 115 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: build a relationship and then maybe later on in life. 116 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: I don't know. 117 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 3: That's the whole rule I have of myself is I 118 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 3: don't want to get married until after I'm thirty. System 119 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 3: open rule with myself. But also just not that I'm 120 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 3: like calling that upon me, But it's just it's hard 121 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 3: to envision a marriage lasting. But that's also just because 122 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 3: we don't know. Our bloodline has run in so much divorce. 123 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 1: I know, but we are going to break generational curses. Guys. Okay, 124 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: it's going to start with us. It is starting with us. 125 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: But do you think the issue is more getting married 126 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: period or getting married to the wrong person. 127 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 3: Maybe to the wrong person. And I was kind of 128 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 3: thinking that while jen was talking, because I think my 129 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:54,159 Speaker 3: first relationship I felt really hard, and now whenever I 130 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 3: date anyone, it's really hard for me to like fall 131 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 3: like that or just I don't know, it's almost like 132 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 3: I'm one foot in one foot it out, So to 133 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 3: make a step like marriage is like, I don't know, 134 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 3: it's hard. 135 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: It's probably the wrong person. What about Eu, Jenica or 136 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: just in general, you're just not interested. 137 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 4: It's not that I'm not interested. I'm not opposed to 138 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 4: getting married. 139 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: I just like I said, I don't find it necessary 140 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: and I don't find it necessary for someone to ask 141 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 2: me to be their girlfriend, like a whole little proposal thing. 142 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 2: Like I don't know, I feel like titles are. 143 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 4: So overrated now later on, Yeah, sure, Like. 144 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 2: Ultimately I don't want to have to get divorced, so 145 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 2: obviously marry the right person. 146 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 1: Well that makes sense, that makes sense as a millennial. 147 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it has to do also 148 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: with how we grew up where I wasn't like that 149 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: type of girl that was like, oh my gosh, I 150 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: dream of the day that I might get married and 151 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: my dress and this is what I want. Like I 152 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 1: was never that type of girl, but when it came around, 153 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: I really did want to get married. When I got married, 154 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 1: and we all know what happened with that. But I 155 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: guess it's weird because I'm like, I wouldn't mind getting 156 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 1: married again, but I'm okay if I don't. I think 157 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: as far as marriage, it has to do with how 158 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: we grew up. What's your take on heavy children? Do 159 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:01,919 Speaker 1: you guys want to have kids? 160 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,240 Speaker 2: Johnny wants to have a kid already. I just feel 161 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 2: like I'm very content with my nieces and nephews that 162 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 2: I don't need to have my own unless I am 163 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: with someone that I'm gonna be with for the rest 164 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 2: of my life. 165 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: I think it is important to have children with the 166 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: right people personally, I mean, how are you supposed to know? 167 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: Everyone changes? 168 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: You know? 169 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, but you don't feel like in a rush. 170 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: You don't feel like me growing up, I felt like 171 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: Grandma and Grandpa would always say like, Okay, when are 172 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: you gonna have kids, like I want grandchildren, and set 173 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: like you're getting older, and it's like I feel all 174 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: this pressure of if I don't have kids now, I'm 175 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: like I'm useless. Like someone once told me, you're here 176 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: to reproduce. That's not the only thing I'm here for. 177 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: I'm here to do what I'm doing now. Not having 178 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: children doesn't make me less of a woman. Do you 179 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: feel that pressure, Johnika or No? 180 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: No, I don't, And I don't feel like I need 181 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 2: to have children now. Ultimately, it's like, whatever I want 182 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 2: to choose. Even when I'm with someone like say my husband, 183 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 2: like and he wants to have kids, I feel like 184 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 2: I still have that right and that decision to choose 185 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 2: when I want to have the baby or not, because 186 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 2: it's just my body and what I personally prefer. I'm 187 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 2: not in a rush. I'm not in a rush to 188 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 2: even get married or to even be with anyone. I 189 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 2: do agree like having kids young. I don't want to 190 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 2: have kids when i'm like I'm fifty, because I want 191 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 2: to be able to enjoy them. I want to be 192 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 2: able to have fun and like grow with them, and 193 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 2: I don't want to be old. But I do think 194 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: that there's no rush. I feel like when the time 195 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 2: is right, the times right. 196 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: So do you think I'm too old to have children? Jinnia, No, 197 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: absolutely not. Okay, cool, that's good, yeah, because I don't 198 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: feel it, you know. I just like I always say 199 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 1: this all the time, like I don't feel like I 200 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 1: need to have children right now because I feel a 201 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: lot younger than I am, to be honest, and I'm 202 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: not just saying I just really do feel that. Like 203 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: sometimes when I say my age, I'm like, what when 204 00:08:56,920 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: did that even happen? But shit, I'm sexy, you know, 205 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: But whatever, I think you could be sexy at fifty sixty, that's, 206 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:07,440 Speaker 1: you know, not the case. But anyways, Johnny, You've told 207 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: me plenty of times you need to have a child, 208 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:11,800 Speaker 1: you need to leave something on this earth. Do you 209 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: still feel that way? 210 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 5: Yeah? 211 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, I really really do. It's just something I feel 212 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 3: like it would be fulfilling for me. I would love to. 213 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:19,719 Speaker 5: Have them ani me. 214 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, Jenica, what age do you think if you 215 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: were to have children, how would you want to be? 216 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 2: I'm twenty four going on twenty five. I feel like, 217 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 2: I don't know, probably like thirty five. 218 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 3: Okay, Johnny, that's just me, just because I've always wanted 219 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 3: to be like a more youthful dad. 220 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 5: Hopefully I can. 221 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 3: Get my shit together by the time I'm twenty five, 222 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,439 Speaker 3: as much as I can, But I don't know twenty 223 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 3: five or thirty. 224 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: And when you guys have conversations with your friends, do 225 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 1: you guys hear them say like they want to have 226 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: kids too? Or I've heard a lot of conversations even myself. 227 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: I think I've told you this too, Johnny, where I'm like, 228 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: how am I going to bring a child into this world? 229 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: You know, those are my personal concerns, or like even 230 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: you know we're overpopulated. I don't know. I think about everything. 231 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 5: Oh, you can't help but think of those things sometimes. 232 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 2: I think for me, I've had conversations like this too, 233 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 2: like or they want to have kids young, like by thirty. 234 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 2: And I don't think about the overpopulation like I feel like, 235 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 2: whatever happens happened, God lets it happen. He'll make the 236 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 2: earth bigger. 237 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 5: I don't know. 238 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: Now, let's move on to home ownership. You guys, how 239 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: important do you feel it is to own your own home? 240 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: Do you think it's necessary? I mean we grew up, 241 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: like you got to work to buy your own home. 242 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: Mom own her first home at nineteen years old. I 243 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: own my first home at thirty two. I think it 244 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: was What do you guys think about. 245 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 4: That, Well, I owned my own home. 246 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 1: Yes, it's a blessing. 247 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know how old I was. Yes, it 248 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 2: is very much a blessing. I believe I was twenty 249 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,719 Speaker 2: one twenty two when I got the house. 250 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: And that was something Mom wanted for us. She says 251 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:10,319 Speaker 1: she was going to give us X amount of money 252 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: for a down payment. So shout out to Mama up 253 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: in heaven. Thank you. But do you feel like it's 254 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 1: a marker of success? Do you feel like good saying, Oh, 255 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 1: I own my own home. 256 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I believe that it's super important. I always 257 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: felt like I always felt like I was wasting money 258 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 2: renting at an apartment, or why am I spending so 259 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 2: much here when I could put it towards something that 260 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 2: I can own, versus not being able to put up 261 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 2: my own fucking like teas or like the core stuff 262 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 2: like that because of an apartment rules or stuff like that. 263 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 2: I feel like it's super important, and ultimately, I think 264 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 2: it's an investment because either. 265 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 4: Way it adds on to your name. 266 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: And yeah, well, because Jenica left at eighteen, you guys, 267 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,319 Speaker 1: she just said, peace out. I'm eighteen. I want to 268 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 1: be independent. I mean, I'm glad we're having this conversation 269 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,079 Speaker 1: because I feel like I'm a little bit more like Johnny. 270 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:58,719 Speaker 1: I really thought that I was going to live in 271 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: mom's house forever I was comfortable. I felt like, I'm 272 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 1: not going to get married. I'm going to live my 273 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,439 Speaker 1: life for my mom, for my siblings and be there 274 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: for them. And until my mom literally had to push 275 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: me out, it was like, you know, you gotta go, 276 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: but Johnny, and I'm not asking this question because I 277 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: want you to move out. You know, I love having 278 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: you here, and I would love having Jenica here if 279 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: she wanted. But I understand, you know, but I want 280 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 1: to hear you a little bit. 281 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 3: It's definitely a goal. It's just more so with me 282 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 3: figuring out when it is going to be the right 283 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 3: time for me to take some step like that. Especially 284 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 3: more so it's an emotional thing. I think we've been 285 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 3: so attached to one another for so long. That's where 286 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 3: it it's really difficult, But it's definitely like a goal. 287 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 3: And I look at videos like when Mom had her 288 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:45,719 Speaker 3: housewarming party, and I wonder like how she felt there, 289 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It's just something to think about, 290 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 3: you some vision, what it would be like to be 291 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 3: in those shoes, you know what I mean? 292 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, So monogamy, I'm interested in this. Do you 293 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 1: guys believe in monogamy? When you do get in a relationship, 294 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: do you feel like I respect this person. I don't 295 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: believe in having an open relationship. 296 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, unless there's like clear Boundar's like, hey, you 297 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 2: know what, like I kind of just want to fuck Like. 298 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: Then sure, okay, so you are DTF. 299 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:21,680 Speaker 2: Yeah basically, well, I don't know right now, as of today. 300 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: No, you're chilling. 301 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 2: I'm chilling, but I do believe like one partner at 302 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 2: a time, I don't want you dating anybody else or 303 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 2: talking to anybody else. 304 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, same, all right, Okay, yeah, because I've asked myself, 305 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:39,079 Speaker 1: I've spoken to other gen zs and they're kind of like, no, 306 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 1: I want to have an open relationship, and they're pretty 307 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: straight up about it. They're like, I will tell the 308 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: person i'm dating, hey, yeah, you're the only guy I'm dating. 309 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: But I also like to kiss girls once in a while, 310 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 1: and I'll let you know, like I'm at least I'm 311 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: being honest sort of thing, you know, which is cool. 312 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: Whatever tickles your pickle. 313 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 3: What about you, John, Yeah, I definitely think it's like 314 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 3: monogamous relationships can be great. I've never been in any 315 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 3: kind of polyamorous relationship at all, but you know, monogamous relationships, 316 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 3: I've noticed as I've gotten older, they've gotten more challenging 317 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 3: for me. I don't know what exactly it is, but 318 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 3: I remember my first relationship it was very easy for 319 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 3: me just to be loyal. But also I think that 320 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 3: also has to do with the fact that I just 321 00:14:20,640 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 3: don't let myself fall as in love as I did 322 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 3: the first time, because you know, when you love like 323 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 3: you cease to be you know what I mean, Like 324 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 3: you you lose your individuality a little bit. 325 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 1: So you feel that did that first relationship scare you 326 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: a little bit? And you feel like maybe not? 327 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, basically just because I went through so much. 328 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 3: I was cheated on and I came out publicly and 329 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 3: I found out that, you know, it was that week 330 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 3: actually that I had gotten cheated on. So oh man, 331 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 3: I felt like I made myself look so stupid, and 332 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 3: it's like, I don't ever want to make myself look 333 00:14:57,960 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 3: that stupid again. 334 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you felt like it was a slap in 335 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: your face. And if I could just give you some 336 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: advice as your sister, as a friend, I don't think 337 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:06,120 Speaker 1: that you should look at it that way where you 338 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 1: feel like you made yourself look stupid. I think you 339 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 1: were being honest with yourself in that season of your life, 340 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: and this is what I'm living. You were being honest 341 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 1: and open, and I think that you made a lot 342 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: of people feel a lot more comfortable in their own sexuality. 343 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 1: And that's something that I feel like, eventually, maybe we 344 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: can have another conversation where we could talk a little 345 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: bit more about that, so you could elaborate if you like. 346 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 1: But I don't think that you should feel stupid. And 347 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: I don't think that because that one relationship where you 348 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: were monogamous and you were faithful didn't work out, does 349 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: that mean that everyone else is going to be the same. 350 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: You know, And I think it's just going to take time. 351 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: I think right now, you guys are young. You're young, Johnny, 352 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 1: you're twenty one, Like, this is the time for you 353 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: to explore your body, to meet other people, to date 354 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: different people. And I'm not saying just go and just 355 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: give your penis to everyone. That's not what I'm saying. 356 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: I mean, whatever you want to do. But I mean 357 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, right now your twenties is to 358 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: kind of figure out, Okay, who am I? What do 359 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: I want in life? Just to get your shit to 360 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: get So don't feel bad about that. 361 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's all I've been taking in And all I 362 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 3: heard going into my twenties was that your twenties was 363 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 3: just you finding yourself, losing yourself, and just finding yourself 364 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 3: all over again until you're thirty. 365 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 1: Absolutely, that's exactly what it is, and you just have 366 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 1: to be compassionate with the process entrepreneurship. Okay, Jenica, you 367 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:26,400 Speaker 1: are an entrepreneur. You have Overcomfort now more than ever. 368 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: I feel like everyone wants to be like a CEO, 369 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 1: own their own business versus having a nine to five job. 370 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: How do you feel about that. 371 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:37,160 Speaker 2: I believe that everyone could be an entrepreneur. I believe 372 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 2: that people that have a nine to five are limiting 373 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 2: their mind and creativity to be something greater. 374 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 4: I personally don't think I could ever do a nine 375 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 4: to five. I like what I do now. 376 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 2: I like being able to help people, and I mean 377 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 2: nine to five like a corporate There's only so much 378 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 2: that you could do in a nine to five, like 379 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 2: working for someone else. And I like knowing that I 380 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 2: could do things for myself and creak my own schedule 381 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 2: and at the end of the day, for me, at 382 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 2: least for over Comfort, it's it's something that can help 383 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 2: people and inspire people on the daily. I feel like 384 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 2: there's room at the table for everybody, Like, no matter 385 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 2: what it is, whatever you want to create. But yeah, 386 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 2: I feel like entrepreneurship is the way to go. And 387 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 2: also I feel like that's the way mom raised me 388 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 2: as well. Mom was very hands on, like business woman 389 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 2: and all that, so I feel like it's the only 390 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 2: way I know versus actually going to work out a 391 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 2: nine to five. 392 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: I agree, there are times where I have thought it's 393 00:17:38,920 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: just going to be easier if I do a nine 394 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: to five, I'd have less stress, you know what I mean. 395 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 1: But I do enjoy what I do, so I get that. 396 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: I mean now talking about college, I've thought about it 397 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: so many times where it's like I wish I would 398 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 1: have gone to college in the earlier years of my life. 399 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:55,919 Speaker 1: I feel like it's never too late and there's no 400 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: shame you guys, just going back to the nine to five, 401 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:01,640 Speaker 1: There's no shame in doing an nine to five whatever 402 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: works for you. And now we do have more opportunities 403 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:08,120 Speaker 1: because of social media to push businesses, which I think 404 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 1: is awesome as well, but it's a lot of work. 405 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 1: Like Jennica said, to have your own your own business, 406 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: which takes me back to what I was saying in 407 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: the college think. You know, for a long time, I 408 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:20,199 Speaker 1: thought like I should have gone to college because I 409 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 1: had dedicated my life we know this story already to 410 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 1: my mom, to my family, and I thought like that's 411 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: something that no one can ever take away from me, 412 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 1: my education, you know, learning something a trade of my own, 413 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,600 Speaker 1: so that I did not find myself at twenty six, 414 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 1: like what the hell am I going to do with 415 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 1: my life? But I feel like now more than ever, 416 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:40,359 Speaker 1: I understand and I'm grateful for how things went. But 417 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: I still kind of want to go to college. Sometimes, 418 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 1: you guys, do you guys feel like you want to 419 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 1: go to college? Like, I don't know. I mean, Johnny, 420 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: I know you tried. What school did you go to again? 421 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 3: Papa? 422 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: It was the Hollywood what it? 423 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 3: Los Angeles Film School? Yes, I was going up until 424 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 3: January or February this year. I just because everything I 425 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 3: so hectic with mom stuff that thought, I'm not going 426 00:18:58,880 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 3: to be able. 427 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 5: To give it the time it means. 428 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:05,160 Speaker 3: But I've even though it's been online, but I spent 429 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 3: about three months of it in actual like everyday school. 430 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,920 Speaker 3: I was getting up early and whatnot. And I enjoyed 431 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 3: the experience like it was it was fun and it 432 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 3: was different. But I don't know, I just have to 433 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 3: be passionate about whatever I'm doing because something actually that 434 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:24,919 Speaker 3: scared me about choosing something to do in college was. 435 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 3: I always heard about how so many people end up 436 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 3: usually switching their majors. I'm glad I went for something 437 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,959 Speaker 3: that I know was like, you know, not naturally going 438 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 3: to stick with me. 439 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 5: It's music, something that I really love. I'm glad I 440 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 5: went for that. 441 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 3: But as far as like anything else, like I know, 442 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 3: I would like to get a business. 443 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:44,439 Speaker 1: Degree at some point that would be good. And do 444 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: you want to complete the music and film school? 445 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely want to. 446 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,159 Speaker 1: Because Jennica, you also tried going to college, right. 447 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, it just wasn't for me, you know, And I 448 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:58,639 Speaker 2: love school. It's not like I don't love school. I 449 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:02,040 Speaker 2: just feel like I don't know a moment click to 450 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 2: me where it's like I'm not going to be a doctor. 451 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:05,719 Speaker 2: I'm not going to be a lawyer. I'm not going 452 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 2: to be a surgeon. 453 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: Like then what am I doing? 454 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:12,239 Speaker 2: Because the benefits that you get in other jobs just 455 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:15,040 Speaker 2: aren't necessarily worth it for me. I always wanted to 456 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 2: be a teacher, a preschool teacher, like I loved taking 457 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 2: care of kids. But then I knew that there was 458 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:26,160 Speaker 2: something more out there for me. And now, like with overcomfort, 459 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 2: I'm able to still help children and make donations for 460 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 2: foster care or like stuff like that where I feel 461 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 2: like I'm making a much more bigger difference in my opinion. 462 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: Okay, I like that and see that. That's my take. 463 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm all about education. If you, like Jennka said, if 464 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: you're going to go to school, you have to be passionate. 465 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: Like they both said, you have to just be passionate 466 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,679 Speaker 1: about what you're doing, at what you're learning about, whatever 467 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 1: it may be. It's just having something of your own 468 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: to fall back on is so important. And that's why 469 00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 1: I'm an advocate for education and I want to give 470 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: out more our scholarships because I don't care what it is. 471 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 1: If you're going to go to a traditional college to 472 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 1: be a psychologist, let's say, or you're going to go 473 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: to cosmetology school, like I want to be able to 474 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: help people achieve their dreams. I just knowledge is power. 475 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: That's all it is. That's my take on it. But 476 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: I was very curious to see how you guys felt. 477 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: You guys know that I support all the decisions you make. 478 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:33,760 Speaker 1: Now you guys vaping, Jenica, I see it more now 479 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 1: than ever. You always have a vape in your hand, 480 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: and I see a lot of gen zs with vapes 481 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 1: in their hand. Can I ask why? Like, is it 482 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 1: like something to do? Does it help with your anxiety? 483 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 2: Okay? For me, I used to be against it until 484 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,920 Speaker 2: everyone started having it around me, and then it did 485 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 2: help with my anxiety. Like I just grab it and 486 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, just take some deep risks, et cetera, 487 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 2: et cetera. But now I've moved done. It's more of 488 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:04,440 Speaker 2: a habit for me. It's not like I absolutely need 489 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,600 Speaker 2: it to survive. No, I feel like I just like 490 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 2: blowing out the air. So I switched over to like 491 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 2: these zero nicotine ones. But it doesn't really like mess 492 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 2: with my lungs and my body and all that. But 493 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 2: some other people really like it. I agree, it's not 494 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 2: the healthiest for your body. So that's why I like, 495 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 2: I just move on to like other alternatives. 496 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 1: Or just smoke weed, all right? 497 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? 498 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: Is that I was gonna ask, what about marijuana? 499 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 2: I like it? Yeah, I just can't function every day high, 500 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 2: Like me. 501 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: Why do you smoke weed so much? Johnny? 502 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 5: Well? 503 00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 3: When I started, honestly, it's just because I had so 504 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 3: many moments of like introspection alone, and I don't know, 505 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 3: I just started realizing like a lot of my problems 506 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 3: like we're fixable. That's where it first started. I'm like, 507 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:49,400 Speaker 3: I love the introspection. 508 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 5: I love that. I feel like I was like learning 509 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 5: a lot about myself. 510 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 3: And then music, music and movies, dude, they're just better music, 511 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,119 Speaker 3: especially like especially when I always say I'm going to 512 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 3: take a break from smoke and weed, it's always music. 513 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 5: I'm like, I really want to listen to this, to 514 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 5: this on high. 515 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:10,480 Speaker 1: I think there are so many benefits with smoking marijuana. 516 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 1: Of course, responsibly, you guys, our elders, they saw it 517 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: and I don't know if they still do, but saw 518 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 1: it as something so negative, you know what I mean, 519 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 1: because that's how we grew up. I mean, for a 520 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:24,640 Speaker 1: long time it was illegal. Now it's legal here in California. 521 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 1: But I smoke weed. And I've shared this with you 522 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: guys before here on the podcast. I do it to sleep, 523 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: to relax. It's helped me with headaches, with stress. You guys, 524 00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 1: I just feel a lot better, you know what I mean, 525 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 1: since I've been kind of smoking. You and your brother 526 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 1: Mikey are are stoners for sure, you guys. Wake and bake. Huh. 527 00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was waking and baking through my bond all 528 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 3: of February and I would do it before I ran, 529 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 3: And dude. 530 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,040 Speaker 5: It helps. 531 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,159 Speaker 1: That's crazy, see, And I think it just it works 532 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 1: differently for everyone. I mean, I can't smoke during the day, 533 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 1: like it's just not my things. And it's not even 534 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: every day. I can't, it's like every other day because 535 00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: it can make me a little lethargic I feel sometimes. 536 00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 1: But for sure to work out. I've never tried it, 537 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 1: but it's for sure medicinal, you guys. But anyways, okay, 538 00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 1: let's talk about tattoos. You both have tattoos, plenty of them. 539 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,199 Speaker 1: They used to be very taboo. I mean when I 540 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,919 Speaker 1: got my first tattoo, I was eighteen, and one of 541 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,359 Speaker 1: our uncles was so upset and said, you are the 542 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: first one to have a tattoo in the family, how 543 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: dare you? Of course, it was a tram stamp. Now 544 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 1: I removed it. I regret it. I'm not gonna lie. 545 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 4: You know. 546 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: I don't regret many things in my life, but I 547 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: do regret that tattoo because it was just dumb. Thank goodness, 548 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 1: you guys are smarter than me, and you're all of 549 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 1: your tattoos have a lot of thought in them. But 550 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: when I was growing up, it was like, oh my gosh, 551 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: I just won't ask socia if you have tattoos, Like, 552 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,199 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, how ladies don't do that? You know? 553 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 1: But I think, like the tattoos on you guys look 554 00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: so nice. Why has it changed? Why is it just 555 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:49,360 Speaker 1: more acceptable now? 556 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 2: I think that people have meaning for them. I don't 557 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,880 Speaker 2: think that it's necessarily a problem. Like, if my kids 558 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 2: want to have tattoos, go for it. I would never 559 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,159 Speaker 2: hold them. Like mom didn't like tattoo. 560 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Mom didn't like them. She didn't have one. 561 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think that was she wanted to, but 562 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 3: she was like afraid because of her mom. 563 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:12,200 Speaker 1: Now, yeah, because grandma didn't like tattoos and didn't want 564 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 1: her to have any, so she wanted to. She was curious, 565 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,199 Speaker 1: but she was like, no, how are they gonna look 566 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 1: when I turned sixty or seventy, I'm going to be 567 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 1: a grandma with all these tattoos. It's not going to 568 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,560 Speaker 1: look cute. But she let me have it. I never 569 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: got a tattoo without asking her, So I was just 570 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 1: even when I was not living at home, I was like, hey, Mom, 571 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: I want to get a tattoo. Are you quit with it? 572 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,199 Speaker 1: But anyways, I mean, I was just wondering because I 573 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,879 Speaker 1: feel like tattoos. I see them as something nice, you know, 574 00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 1: I see them as a form of expression, now you know? Okay, 575 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:43,480 Speaker 1: So last question. Celebrities versus influencers are the same. What's 576 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 1: the definition of someone famous? How has it changed? 577 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 5: I don't know. 578 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,640 Speaker 2: I feel like they're the same. 579 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 1: In what way. 580 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 2: Celebrities can influence people? Like you're a singer, right, You're 581 00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,360 Speaker 2: an artist, but you are able to get these brands 582 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: to influence people to purchase products, not necessarily a brand, 583 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,400 Speaker 2: but even on your day to day things that you use, 584 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 2: like you influence people. A celebrity influences people to change things, 585 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 2: like Kim Kardashian, Like she's a celebrity and everybody looks 586 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 2: up to her. 587 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 3: But hasn't it always just been likeed that I do, 588 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 3: because they'd be celebrities like singers, actors for marketing campaigns 589 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 3: and put them on Billboard advertisements. 590 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,040 Speaker 5: That's all it is, exactly. I feel like it's just 591 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 5: on Instagram now, yeah, it just happens to be on 592 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 5: social media. I feel like it's the same thing. 593 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,359 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because for a long time it was I 594 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: mean I've gotten this so many times, like, oh, you're 595 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 1: not a singer, you're an influencer, and I'm like, uh no, 596 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 1: I am a singer, and yes, I also am an influencer. 597 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 1: I guess there's a huge difference between being an influencer 598 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: and actually being influential. So that's something that I had 599 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,159 Speaker 1: to also accept because it was kind of like frowned 600 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: upon that I would do kind of both. And I 601 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 1: feel like it's a blessing that I can sing and 602 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 1: write books and be an author and stuff, but I 603 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 1: can also get on Instagram and be honest and transparent 604 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 1: with people. I think again, going back to our elders, 605 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: they would see it as you haven't worked as hard 606 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 1: as we did to get where you're at, because you 607 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 1: have everything in your fingertips through social media. And I'm 608 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 1: like two middle fingers up in the air for you, 609 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 1: because it's still hard. You know, it's a lot of 610 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 1: work in doing videos and reels and all this stuff. 611 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:21,680 Speaker 1: You know, it's it's work. 612 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, But honestly, dude, I feel like if Mom was here, 613 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 3: she would have like ended up being a queen of it. 614 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 3: Like she would have mastered it. 615 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 1: Oh for sure, because if we think about it, celebrities 616 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 1: came from like acting and singing just that, you know. 617 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: So now some people are like, oh, influencers is just 618 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: social media? So do you guys see them as influencers? Like, 619 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: for instance, let's say Ellen, it's you know, he's our homie. 620 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 1: Do you see him as a celebrity or do you 621 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,880 Speaker 1: see him as an influencer influencer? 622 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 2: It's hard, it's hard to Yeah, I get the difference, 623 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,919 Speaker 2: but it's I don't know, that's a weird topic. 624 00:27:59,119 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. 625 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 5: I think it's just it's just fame, dude, that's all 626 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:07,440 Speaker 5: it is. Like it's I mean, at the end of 627 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 5: the day, all it goes down to it's just fame. 628 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,959 Speaker 2: And I had no shape like people. Obviously I'm an 629 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 2: influencer too. 630 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 4: Like people got to make their money. 631 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 2: Everyone has their own way to make their money. And 632 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 2: I don't think that it's a problem for people to 633 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 2: use social media as an outlet for money, Like if 634 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,640 Speaker 2: that's where it's coming from, like, go ahead, go for it. 635 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 2: If you're doing something else, good for you too, Like 636 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 2: I don't think it downgrades how much effort or work 637 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 2: that you do. I feel like you're putting just as 638 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 2: much work as anybody else. 639 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's one thing that I had to kind 640 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 1: of come to peace with because the first time I 641 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 1: ever heard the word influencer was when I was trying 642 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: to get a show on a network, right, and they 643 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: were like, okay, so but what do you do? And 644 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, I'm come on in reality shows and 645 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: like no, but we need you to do something and 646 00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 1: I'm like what, Like they're like, but you're more like 647 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: an influencer, and it was kind of like a negative connotation, 648 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm like, no, wait a second, Like 649 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 1: we just said, you know, it takes a lot of 650 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 1: work and it's time consuming to also be an influencer. 651 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: But anyways, yes, I agree, whether you know, I think 652 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,160 Speaker 1: it's a blessing that you can use social media now 653 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 1: to have your own business to sell products. You know, 654 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 1: it's a blessing. So whatever works for whoever it is, 655 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: I think it's it's fine. 656 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: Yep, I agree. 657 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: I loved this conversation that we've had, and thank you 658 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 1: both for being a part of this podcast and just 659 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 1: having an open conversation. I wanted to just kind of 660 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 1: get in your guys's mind, see what you guys were thinking. 661 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 1: I think because we come from the same womb, and 662 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 1: you guys were raised right, wonderful, powerful, great women. You know, 663 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: just kidding, You guys are great. I just wanted to 664 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 1: hear your guys' thoughts and your opinions on these things, 665 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: because I mean, I don't know. Sometimes I feel like 666 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: I'm a traditional in some ways and then in other 667 00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 1: ways I'm not. I'm very open minded. I just think 668 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 1: it has to do lot with how you're raised. At 669 00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 1: the end of the day. Yep, all right, guys, so 670 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 1: thank you again. If you guys want to share your 671 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 1: social media's, let's start with Johnny Angel share social media. 672 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,680 Speaker 3: I'm on Twitter and Instagram as the Great Single. 673 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: Okay, what about you, Jenica? 674 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:23,840 Speaker 2: I am Jennica Underscore Lopez on Instagram and we have overcomfort. 675 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 2: Gonna plug that into mm hmm. 676 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: That's awesome. Okay, guys, Well make sure to follow them. 677 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 1: They are wonderful human beings, not just because they're my siblings, 678 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: but they really are, so go ahead and follow them 679 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,800 Speaker 1: on their socials. And as you guys know, we always 680 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 1: end every episode with a motivational quote, and I feel 681 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 1: like it goes very well with what we're talking about. 682 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 1: The quote is love is the greatest gift that one 683 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: generation can leave another. So it doesn't matter if you're 684 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,200 Speaker 1: a millennial or a gen Z doesn't matter at the 685 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,720 Speaker 1: end of the day, is a moving force of the universe. 686 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for listening, and I will 687 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 1: see you here on the next episode of Cheeky's and Chill. 688 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: Do you need advice on love, relationships, health emails? 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