1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for suspecting my wife of 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: cheating on her friend's bachelorett trip. Kind of sounds like, uh, 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,440 Speaker 1: you know, securities, insecurities, whoa, whoa. Well, this is all 4 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: to answer which mistakes in a relationship are inexcusable? And 5 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 1: this comes from Chocolate Ford twenty fifty eight, who says, 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: I am in the middle of probably the biggest crisis 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: of my adult life and I can barely think. So 8 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: I apologize in advance if this comes across as weird 9 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: or rambly. My wife went to Mexico last week for 10 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: a friend's bachelorette party, and aside for the plane tickets 11 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:33,520 Speaker 1: the hotel, on first day's food and drinks, she didn't 12 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 1: spend a penny all week. Hey or what boys? What's 13 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: where's the problem? Sorry? Over boys, sound off this queen. 14 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: We're still at the end of this episode. You have 15 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 1: to tell me why you hate sound off? 16 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 2: Okay, I can tell you now, because tell me save it? Okay, 17 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 2: I mean on the credit card. 18 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: It's clear as day that on Monday up until around 19 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: nine pm she was buying dinner stuff at the hotel, 20 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: shop drinks at the bar, souvenirs, and then at nine pm. 21 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: She didn't spend another cent the entire week until she 22 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 1: was at her layover airport in Dallas. WHOA are you 23 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: seeing what I'm seeing? Riley? It's an ICU. She's so. Actually, 24 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: he was like, I see credit card transactions every day 25 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: until nine pm? Why is it every day at nine 26 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: pm she stops spending. That's probably when she's asleep. She's 27 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: asleep at nine pm on a bachelorette trip in Mexico. 28 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 2: Good sir, Maybe maybe her friends are buying stuff, Riley, 29 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 2: we're not talking about Sophia here. 30 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: You're right, you're right, You're okay, you're right. You're talking 31 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: about the opie's wife. Okay. So she says it's because 32 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: her friend took over and paid for everything. To Riley's theory, 33 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: I guess this is plausible, but it is still giving 34 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: me a funny feeling. What's worse is that my wife 35 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: is a person who posts her entire life on Instagram, 36 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: on TikTok, mostly Instagram, but if she does anything from 37 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: getting a lot d to picking up the kids in school, 38 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: she will post it as either a picture or as 39 00:01:56,000 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: a story. The last thing Riley loves this one. It 40 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: already yeah, yeah, well not that. 41 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 2: But that's sus all of a sudden, one day, you're 42 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,919 Speaker 2: not posting everything that's happening in your. 43 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: Life exactly exactly. The last thing she posted on TikTok 44 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: was a trend of people jumping into the vacation from 45 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 1: the airport, and after that her social media blank. I 46 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: was kind of keeping an eye on it because I 47 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: was excited for her to go on the trip, and again, 48 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 1: I guess I feel it's plausible, but it gives me 49 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: a funny feeling. When she got home, I said I 50 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 1: can't wait to see all the picks she took, and 51 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: she really just blew me off and said that she 52 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: didn't feel like taking picks that lead you always take 53 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 1: pics and share with everyone. Didn't even take piccks privately 54 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: for yourself, for for your hubby this time. That is 55 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 1: pretty odd. Little Pekuillier strange. She also has been incredibly distant, 56 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: and last night she said she just felt like sleeping 57 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: on the couch because the ac hits better. But Opie 58 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: says this is one hundred percent true. But but I 59 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: swear I hear her talking on the phone in the 60 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: middle of the night when I got a check on 61 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: her I accidentally tripped over the dog and made a 62 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: huge racket. So when I got downstairs, she appeared to 63 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 1: be a sleep Guys, I see you. We need more 64 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: ic us in the comments, which I need to see 65 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: more icy us than I'm currently seeing at this moment. 66 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: I brought up all of this this morning and said, 67 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: I'm not accusing her of anything, but all this put 68 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: together is making me feel uneasy. I wasn't trying to 69 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: bait her or fight with her, just get my feelings 70 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: on the table. She said, you you you you, Yeah, 71 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: you're a major fing a hole. Okay, because I don't 72 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 1: have any other humans to point too, put it the 73 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: fifty nine people here right Ooh you're right there. Oh 74 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: my gosh, said I am a major fing a hole 75 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: for bringing this up on her first day back at work. 76 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: I said I wasn't trying to pry, just communicating with her, 77 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: and she said, your communication is prying and I'm not 78 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,119 Speaker 1: discussing this with you ever again. Never. She then took 79 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: the kids to summer camp and left. So am I 80 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: the a whole. We do have relevant comments. We do 81 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: have an update that is just mere hours later from 82 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: where we're being left off right now. Dang, it's hot, heavy, 83 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: it's juicy. This is a good one. Wow. We have 84 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 1: to stop right here real quick. Okay, first off, we 85 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: need a poll in the chat. Welcome to everyone watching 86 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 1: on the Members only live right now. If you're watching 87 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: this episode afterwards and you're like, oh, how do I 88 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,920 Speaker 1: get to be on the episodes while they recorded, just 89 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: join as a member like these amazing people here, but 90 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: my amazing members, we're gonna put up a pole that 91 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: is cheating or not cheating or not. I currently feel 92 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:37,279 Speaker 1: like she is cheating, and I feel like that because Opie, 93 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: that's it's a pretty Yes. Sometimes it can be confrontational, 94 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,160 Speaker 1: be like hey, you've been seeming a little bit off 95 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: like things of that nature, but it's not that her 96 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: response and blowback was way worse than the possible insinuation 97 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 1: of like, hey, you're not you know, you're being rude 98 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: and disrespectful and all this. Am I right? Am I wrong? Really, 99 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: it's very sneak the way she's going about all of this. 100 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: She's sleeping on the good like you just got back. 101 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: I want to I wanna be with you and sleep 102 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:08,159 Speaker 1: in the same bed. 103 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 2: No, no, no, they see they see not not taking 104 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 2: pictures on a bad shirts. Come on, dude, you know 105 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 2: she picked up those outfits weeks before it happen. 106 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: Dude, If she's instagramming getting her kids every day, there 107 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 1: is not a shot in the universe. There is zero 108 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: possibility that she didn't want to take pictures of everything 109 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: happening unless there was something that she could not take 110 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,119 Speaker 1: pictures of that was happening. Yes, speaking of one hundred 111 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: percent certainty, our members right now recording this live episode, 112 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: one hundred percent say they're cheating. Oh my god. Literally, 113 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 1: not even one person so far thinks that Opie's wife 114 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: is not cheating. Wow, I think you meet everyone on 115 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: the live everyone's in agreement. But ladies and gentlemen, let's 116 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: find out. Let's do it if she was actually cheating. 117 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: So onto some relevant comments, which the King of Brinn 118 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: Maher says, not the a whole there's a lot of 119 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: missing information here. But the fact that she won't discuss 120 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: the vacation with you and even considers that prying when 121 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: you ask about it is very strange. Sleeping on the 122 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: couch is kind of the nail in the coffin for me. 123 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: Twenty three, Mateo sixteen says this right here. If for 124 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: whatever reason, I didn't go on vacation with my significant other, 125 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: I'm definitely in contact the whole time and would be 126 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 1: super happy to talk about everything when I got back. 127 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: Who does it? When I saw who I met, experiences 128 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 1: and everything, I see a lot of red flags here. 129 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: Missus Sassin Lady says, I went to Disneyland for the 130 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: first time two years ago with my friend. I was 131 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: constantly texting my husband and sending him pictures when I 132 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: rarely take picture slash post, especially of myself. When I 133 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 1: got home, I told him all about the trip and 134 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: everything we did. There is something definitely suspicious about Op's wife. 135 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 2: Because miss as as in lady, missus Sassin Lady. 136 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 1: Miss miss as in the lady to hers. 137 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 2: You know she doesn't post loge. She was excited, so 138 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: that's why she did all that things. 139 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: Who truly, who wouldn't. I cannot think of any scenario, 140 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: possibly on planet Earth, where you wouldn't wouldn't share it? 141 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: But another relevant comments here. Chemical ad sixty three oh 142 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: one says, it's wild that when you told her it 143 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: was a little suspicious, she made it even more suspicious 144 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 1: with her reaction. You already know, don't you WHOA Old 145 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: Willingness thirty six twenty two says, check her friends social media. 146 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: I'm sure you'll find stuff and look at their text 147 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: messages that the other person's insta great looking at her 148 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: text messages. I don't know. That's a door you go 149 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: through and won't come back exactly, you can't. You can't 150 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: come back from that, and you're you're getting in the ditch. 151 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: We what percentage of cheating certainty do you have to 152 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: be in order to check your partner's phone? Hmmm, dude, 153 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: that's a great question because it's one hundred percent you 154 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: don't need to check it. I think, I mean the 155 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: safest answer. And and something Sam has said that I 156 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: do agree with is the probable clause call not not? 157 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: Is it probable cause it's it's where you're you're rolling 158 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: by and you witness it by. So if you're holding 159 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: the phone and a text comes in and is like, 160 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: hey baby, remember that last night in Mexico? Zooey mama, Yeah, 161 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: then then you have okay. 162 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, literally, little silly fangirl. Does I agree with that? 163 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 2: I agree with Yeah, that's a that's a pretty good 164 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 2: you don't see any of that. It's like, Okay, what 165 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: percentage of I'm pretty sure this person's cheat on me. 166 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: You look at the phone. Yeah, eight sounds good. Eighty 167 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: five percent is a pretty reasonable number. I think. I 168 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: think most people behind that. But Opie replies to that, saying, 169 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: dang it, I should have included that her friend posted 170 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: on social media up until the third day, but there 171 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: were no picks or tags of my wife, and then 172 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: my friend deleted everything from a couple of days leading 173 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: up to the trip. Dude, the evidence is stacking. The 174 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: evidence is stacking. The bride to be rarely posts, so 175 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: it's not surprising that she doesn't have much. Ludy Chrystal 176 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 1: Capacious says, that's really really odd something happened on that trip. 177 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: It may not even be cut and dry cheating, but 178 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: something really weird had to have happened. I mean, what 179 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:06,479 Speaker 1: could it be other than cheating that everyone doesn't Uh, 180 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: that's a good point. Maybe they were doing some substances 181 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: that maybe they don't want their their families other people 182 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: to see. Check out this line. I'm about to hit 183 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: line of poetry that I'm reading. I'm auch to them. 184 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 1: My friend honestly Riley, what if it was both just 185 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 1: hear me out. Hear me out if op was sneaking 186 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: off and doing some stuff, because what were they at 187 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 1: the strip club all day? It's like, oh, I have 188 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: to imagine at some point op Opie's wife sorry, would 189 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 1: go off and you know, do the dastardly deeds. But 190 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: also the fact that she deleted everything leading up to it, 191 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 1: the fact that the wife had like I could see 192 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: the wife having like just the morning when they're getting brunch, 193 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: but what if they're doing some crazy stuff the whole time. 194 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 2: That's what I thought after reading this the first time, 195 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 2: I thought they like somebody oh. 196 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah from uh mixedwarmy sounds like they did a crime. 197 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,080 Speaker 1: I'm honestly, I kind of think that's the wild our 198 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: conspiracy theory here. Yeah, yeah, tell me what you guys 199 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:05,559 Speaker 1: think in the comments. But what crimes did they do? 200 00:10:05,720 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: Because the fact that she deleted everything, I don't know. Honestly, 201 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: I think it might be imagine she actually didn't cheat, 202 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 1: was super faithful, but somebody in the group, maybe OPI's 203 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: wife committed a crime. Are you do you break up 204 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: if she she hiding all those from me? Yeah? Or 205 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: is she hiding it from me to keep me safe. 206 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 2: Because if you're well, because if your wife is like 207 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 2: a er, you know, if you're on a live ry. Yeah, 208 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 2: but they still got to spend money after nine pm. 209 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 2: That's yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right. 210 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:37,680 Speaker 1: That doesn't explain that. If anything, you'd be going to 211 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 1: home depot and buying ropes and bags and bleach. 212 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 2: Whoa explain yourself? Why are we getting all that stuff? 213 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: Hold to the next update. So a few hours later, 214 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: by the way, totally not changing the subject. It's a 215 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 1: few hours later. It's impart edit. So I just realized 216 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: that her text probably sink to her iPad. So I 217 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: just checked Opie did it? Opie Dance with the It 218 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: took me a while to figure out the passcode, but 219 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: I did. But there was an I message at nine 220 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: to fifteen the night she got to the resort from 221 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: a number with no contact information that said, Okay, I'll 222 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 1: meet you in the lobby. Is the app you said? Signal? 223 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 1: Oh wait, you know what that means, don't you. Yeah, 224 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: don't you have that app? Yes? Tell me about it. 225 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 1: Signal is It's basically like the most locked down messaging 226 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 1: app there is. So so AKA if you want to 227 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: cheat with someone and have it as secluded and out 228 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 1: of the way as humanly possible. No sponsored name brand app, Yes, 229 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: thank you. Well you know what they mentioned it, so 230 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: i'll say it, but that if you're gonna cheat, that 231 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: is the app to cheat with. Okay, what a sponsorship 232 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: that is? Wow, you want to cheat? I got the 233 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 1: app for you, but I looked up a signal and 234 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 1: it's kind of like WhatsApp. The iPad doesn't have signal 235 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: on it, meaning did she use it then delete it, 236 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: hit it and quit it? One could say edit number two. 237 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: If you have been following my comments, you've seen that 238 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: my sister is coming over and that she's an insane 239 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 1: Internet salute and it was relentless when it comes to 240 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: this cheating stuff. She also scares me a bit, so 241 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: I'm hoping this isn't a mistake. Oh what's bro If 242 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: I'm afraid of what the sister's gonna do too? If 243 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: if op's already just like, let's just go through, go 244 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: through the messages. I'm going to probably stop responding for 245 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,240 Speaker 1: a while so we can talk and she can do 246 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: her thing. I am numb, but she can do this. 247 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 1: Thanks to everyone, for the nice comments and the reality check. 248 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: It's not looking good. Edit number three, she cheated? You cheated? 249 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:35,439 Speaker 1: Are we relieved that it's not an unliving situation? Yeah, honestly, 250 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: this is not a true crime documentary. I am kind 251 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 1: of happy that way. That is low key, kind of better. 252 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:44,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, go through divorce, but at least she doesn't go 253 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 2: to Joe murdered as a kouchie, not a human. 254 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's too bad. Too horrendous things. But she cheated. 255 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 1: My sister was able to get lots of info from 256 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: the real estate guy. Okay, and my wife denied it 257 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 1: at first but then admitted to it. Sorry it took 258 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 1: so long to update, but I'm numb. I have literally 259 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 1: zero idea what to do now. Guys, we have more 260 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: relevant comments with with lots of back and forth responses 261 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: from op and another update just a few hours after 262 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: this point. This guy is going through it. Real estate guy? 263 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: Who is this? Yeah? I don't know what the real 264 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 1: estate guy is. New character enters chat. A new character 265 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: has entered. Apparently she was able to through the real 266 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 1: the real estate agent unlock enough evidence to confront her 267 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 1: about the cheating, and then she admitted to it. I 268 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 1: don't know, but okay, we're at this point, we're here. 269 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: We know that she cheated. She went, she went to 270 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: the Mexico trip. She was she snapped at him, she was, 271 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 1: you know, doing the classic like oh, I'm gonna lash 272 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: out at you because you're just because you're asking, because 273 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm the one that cheated and the wrong here divorce, Yeah, 274 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 1: can we get a quick pull up? Yeah? I so 275 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: you think divorce instead of going to therapy and counseling first. 276 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, no, divorce. I feel like the wife 277 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 2: is checked out of the relationship. 278 00:13:58,400 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: Hmmm. 279 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,599 Speaker 2: Whenever she went on that trip and like she was 280 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:03,440 Speaker 2: sleeping on the couch, I just I just see a 281 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: lot of. 282 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: Like she's just given up completely. Yeah, that is a 283 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 1: great point. Like if if it's pre she. 284 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 2: Came back and was like sorry, checked up on them, 285 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 2: you know, did the did the work, But she's not 286 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 2: doing any work. 287 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: I don't know did she do the work. 288 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 2: She's doing the work to keep it hidden, she's not. Yeah, 289 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 2: she did the work to cover up the dirt. That's 290 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 2: the only work that she did. 291 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think that is honestly, because again, we usually 292 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: go therapy counseling first. And then go for the decision. 293 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: But if someone has very clearly checked out and they're 294 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: not trying to or there, it's pretty clear that they've 295 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: given up on the relationship. And also, I think if 296 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: someone cheats on you, especially if you like that, that 297 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: is that is grounds fending the relationship, you know, Yeah, 298 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 1: that breaks all, that breaks the whole foundation of trust 299 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: of the whole relationship. So yeah, how did the sister 300 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: get out of her? Apparently? Yeah, garden B says she's 301 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: past the point of therapy. He'll never be at ease 302 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: in this relationship. Oh and Bell Conkling makes another fantastic point. 303 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: It's premeditated cheating. Yeah, honestly, that is significant. It's one 304 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: thing if like she went out with the friends and 305 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 1: then there was a guy's hitting on her, like again, 306 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 1: all terrible, all trust broken. But if she had like 307 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: maybe made out or slept with the guy, immediately was 308 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: like I totally fed up. Everything went. It was like, hey, 309 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: this is chances are she slept with this guy way 310 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 1: more than once, Right, a whole week long trip in Mexico. 311 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: You're always sleeping together once? Yeah, African rite dick everywhere 312 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: just slanging that dang and we're at one hundred percent 313 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: again of divorce. Chad has spoken. Honestly, I will say 314 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 1: I was debating in my head, oh do do we 315 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 1: do therapy or counseling first? But I think Riley, you 316 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: and everyone in the comments have kind of convinced me 317 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: that she's checked out. It was premeditated, She's kind of 318 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: done with the relationship. So what yeah, not everyone's like 319 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: you and your girl and everyone's good people. That's true, 320 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 1: that's true. Anyways, you know what else has started is 321 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: this next section Armageddon one two one says she should 322 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: do this professionally private investigator. Basically what oh oh the 323 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: sister should be a private investigator. Honestly, yeah, like kudos, 324 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: Opie says. I love my little sister to death, and 325 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 1: obviously her skills and tenacity if we're invaluable here, but 326 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: I don't think the world is ready for how vicious 327 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: she could be. Dang See six fourteen says, so what 328 00:16:23,120 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 1: did little sis find out in the past twenty four hours? 329 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: You haven't really given any kind of update. Great point, 330 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 1: Opie responds. My sister had a burner phone and texted 331 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: him as my wife that her husband me was suspicious. 332 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 1: So she had a new phone and for him to 333 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: contact her on signal there if he wanted to stay 334 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: in touch. Literally within seconds, he sent a signal message, 335 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: and through the course of an hour or so, my sister, 336 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: again pretending to be my wife, was able to get 337 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: him to reminisce about the week they had. He sent 338 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: picks of them together in the bar, them on a 339 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 1: beach together, et cetera, et cetera. I mean, I am screaming, dude, 340 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: this is some FBI level espionage right here. Wow. I'm 341 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:08,200 Speaker 1: taking notes, bro. Wow, hopefully you never have we never 342 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 1: have to use those notes. Yeah, just for the general 343 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: life skill. Oh my god. We took pics of the 344 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: signal messages with another phone, so there is one hundred 345 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 1: percent smoking gun evidence of her with the guy and 346 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 1: him saying how much fun they had. Wow. Mister bill 347 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 1: X says, really gross that a couple of dinners and 348 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 1: drinks was all it took. Sorry, brother Opie says, What 349 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 1: I can't get over is how sleazy the guy is. 350 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:34,919 Speaker 1: He's not attractive, he's overweight. His real estate website reads 351 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 1: like some get rich quick scheme. Oh maybe that's where 352 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: the real estate came in. They like cooberated, like, hey, 353 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 1: check the Real Estate Network or something. I don't know. 354 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 1: He literally looks like Tony Soprano with thirty extra pounds 355 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: in greasier hair. I'm ripping myself up because I just 356 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 1: don't get it. I probably make more money than he does. Combined, 357 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 1: we certainly do. So what does he have that was 358 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: worth it? Is it that I spent our money on 359 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: maxing out our retirement accounts in college savings and not 360 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: on flashy bs like he does? Dude? I mean, I 361 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 1: could understand if she was attracted to a hippie, a 362 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,479 Speaker 1: rock climber, surfer dude with rock hard abs, but this 363 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 1: guy makes it so much worse. I feel like a failure. 364 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is another story I've read where like someone 365 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 2: cheats on another person and the other person they're cheating 366 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 2: on with is unattractive Brileyett. 367 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: Now I have to ask it, do you would you 368 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 1: rather be cheated on with a really handsome guy or 369 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: a really ugly guy? I think after reading this really 370 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 1: ugly I mean I mean a really handsome. 371 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, really hands because it's like exactly what OPI said, 372 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 2: what about this was worth it? 373 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: At least you're like, Okay, he's like a Greek god. Okay, 374 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,360 Speaker 1: not that it doesn't change anything, but it just feels 375 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:49,640 Speaker 1: worse if it's like, Yo, this guy is greasy tony soprano. Yeah, 376 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 1: who ate too many pizzas? I don't like it. Yeah, 377 00:18:52,119 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 1: I don't like it. I feel like such a failure. 378 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 1: I forgot that last line of that one. Ouch Initial 379 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 1: Training three twenty says I'd also be curious to know 380 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,439 Speaker 1: how your sister found out. Did she pretend to be 381 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 1: your wife on a caller text? I was sure you 382 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 1: were going to have trouble figuring it out, so good 383 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:08,400 Speaker 1: for you and your sister. Op. I'm sorry, I've had 384 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 1: well over one thousand questions asking for clarification. If you 385 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:13,719 Speaker 1: were asking how we found out who the guy is, 386 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: it went like this. I logged into my wife's iPad 387 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 1: and there was a single imassage from an unknown number 388 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 1: where my wife said she would meet him in the lobby. 389 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: Asking what the signal app is? I googled that number 390 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: and it's a real estate agent's number who works in 391 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 1: South Florida. Dude. I found his Instagram and was able 392 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 1: to verify that he was in fact in Mexico this 393 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: past week opposedly on a golf trip with his friends. 394 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Wow, dude, I. 395 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 2: Am RP from a boy rip. Oh great, poll by 396 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 2: the way, more prettier. 397 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:47,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see, we'll see. Oh my god, dude, I 398 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 1: just keep getting sadder. Guys, I just keep getting sadder 399 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 1: reading all of this. I don't know. Sophia Callan says, 400 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 1: I feel like if he's ugly makes it easier just 401 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 1: to see how bad your significant other is, because if 402 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 1: they're hot, you might stand it more. No, that's a 403 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 1: good point. I guess that that is a good point. 404 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: Like it does make it because sometimes we read these 405 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:08,920 Speaker 1: scenarios where a person's like should I stay or should 406 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 1: I go? And to Sophia Collown's point, it's like, hey, 407 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: if if they threw it all away for someone who's 408 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 1: like way, you know, quote unquote, you know, a few 409 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 1: a few leagues below your own, that makes it a 410 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: lot easier to just like cut it. Olivia Gray says, 411 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 1: whether they are ugly or handsome, I think the spouse 412 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 1: who is being cheated on would probably feel that way. Yeah, Like, 413 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 1: no matter what, no matter what, you're gonna be hurt, 414 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:33,200 Speaker 1: no matter what it's going to be probably relationship ending, 415 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, it looks like everyone says more pretty 416 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,400 Speaker 1: rather than more ugly got you. Yeah, but you would 417 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,680 Speaker 1: lose either way. Yeah, you really just lose. I mean, 418 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: this is a comment Tanya Gonzalez says too, just because 419 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,439 Speaker 1: I know I look good and I would just clown 420 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,920 Speaker 1: him for the rest of my life. Low low key 421 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,439 Speaker 1: does give you clowning abilities, yea even more even more clowning, 422 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:57,719 Speaker 1: you know. But if but if someone, if someone uh 423 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 1: chiefs son, you can already clown on them, be cause 424 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: they're being a we're geating. True, But I kind of 425 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: want to finish this story because I just keep meeting sad. Yeah, 426 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 1: and this next update, Riley, is yet another few hours later. 427 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,360 Speaker 1: This man has not gone to sleep yet. 428 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 2: I feel like his sister's just like making it go 429 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 2: way faster. This has all happened in a nine to five. 430 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 2: Some people get a days of work done. They end 431 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 2: an entire relationship in a day wow, or figure out 432 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 2: that you should end it anyways. Edit number four, So 433 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 2: for people looking for our personal stuff, we don't live 434 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 2: in Lubbock. That's interesting, Nor does my wife work for 435 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 2: the Lubbock school system. 436 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:36,120 Speaker 1: People are crazy don't sleuth on them. But we grew 437 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:37,919 Speaker 1: up in the area and went to college there, but 438 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: we have long since moved to another community. Please don't 439 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 1: try to research this, as you may hurt someone who 440 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: is totally not involved. I'm getting lots of advice to 441 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,880 Speaker 1: delete this and I don't want you, but I may 442 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: have to edit number five. I know people really want updates, 443 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:55,879 Speaker 1: and we've been talking, arguing, screaming, threatening all day long. 444 00:21:56,320 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: A man, I'm more confused than I was this morning, 445 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: that's for sure. But I'm also confused, exhausted, sad, upset, nervous, 446 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: and I don't know what to do. I did make 447 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 1: a preliminary appointment with a family law attorney again same 448 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: day tomorrow, my God, tomorrow, to talk about protecting assets 449 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:16,480 Speaker 1: and how to navigate the legal way ahead. Regardless of 450 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: what I choose to do, I will say that there's 451 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: a subreddit that this was cross posted to, and it 452 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 1: may be the most toxic group of people I've ever 453 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,560 Speaker 1: seen online, and I feel really bad for those people. 454 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:30,359 Speaker 1: Definitely not okay. Story time, definitely not there. As for 455 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 1: the privacy issues, no one has figured out who we are. 456 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 1: That's not a challenge by the way. I'm very tired, 457 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 1: and I doubt people are still invested, but if there's 458 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 1: still interest, I can update either on this post or 459 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 1: on a new one in a few days. I'm really 460 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:47,960 Speaker 1: hoping to sleep tonight, Please hope me. Please sleep. Look, 461 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 1: stop typing on Reddit and lay your head on a pillow, 462 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: please for all of us. My sister still has the 463 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: kids and they're having a blast. I forgot they had kids. 464 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: I forgot they had kids together. Ooh oh, worse ah. 465 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 1: And I went to the lake with her boyfriend's family 466 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: his sister's boyfriend's family today, So I'm glad they're in 467 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 1: good hand. For a second, I thought he was saying 468 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,320 Speaker 1: they went to the lake with my wife's boyfriend. I 469 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:17,160 Speaker 1: was like, what, oh, though, okay, that was a dollar 470 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: General brand. What's that guy? 471 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 2: Who? 472 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 1: Who do you say you look like greasy? What? Oh? 473 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 1: Greasy Tony so the great Value Tony Sobrano, the greasier, 474 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 1: thirty pound heavier Tony Soprano. Oh my god, guys, but 475 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,360 Speaker 1: we're not over. We're gonna close it out with these 476 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:34,200 Speaker 1: relevant comments, and then it's it's finito. It's finito. We'll 477 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 1: see if we get a confirmation whether they go through 478 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 1: divorce or not. OPI does respond a lot. No Range 479 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 1: thirty one twenty says, I am sorry, Opie, definitely not 480 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,160 Speaker 1: the ahole. I know you've had a lot to sort 481 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: through right now, emotionally and logistically. There are a lot 482 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 1: of people in your corner. Also, there is no excuse 483 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 1: for cheating. Do not let her justify and manipulate and 484 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: gas plank, I mean gaslight you into believing anything else. 485 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: Get your divorce and some therapy. Everything will get worse, 486 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 1: but it will get better. Bet too, good luck. Everything 487 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 1: will get worse, but it will get better too. Is 488 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 1: kind of a kind of a bar. That is a bar. 489 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 1: It'll all get worse and all get better. Dang Opie 490 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 1: response and one of her more lucid moments today. I 491 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 1: was begging her to tell me why she chose a 492 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: guy who weighs three hundred pounds with greasy hair on 493 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: his fourth marriage with at least six kids, and she 494 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 1: flat out told me that he made her feel special. Dude, 495 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say to that. I'm 496 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: also speaceless. Usually we have all kinds of commentary. I 497 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,880 Speaker 1: guess I don't know women at all, because I've spent 498 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,919 Speaker 1: my entire life trying to not be that guy and 499 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 1: have my wife set up for retirement, have my kids 500 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 1: set up for college. We have a nice second home 501 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 1: on the lake. I took risks to move from engineering 502 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: management in my company so I could provide our family 503 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 1: with everything. I work late hours. I love my kids, 504 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: coach little league in volleyball and swimming, even though I 505 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: could barely doggy paddle. I love her parents and paid 506 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: for them to go why with us last year and 507 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,439 Speaker 1: effing fat Tony Soprano with his rented ferrari on his 508 00:25:05,560 --> 00:25:08,959 Speaker 1: awful Florida real estate website made her feel special. And 509 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 1: I'm looking at the prospect of legitimately not seeing my 510 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,360 Speaker 1: kids on Christmas morning ever again, Oh no, no, no, 511 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,879 Speaker 1: that's not gonna happen. I I. Yeah. I feel like 512 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 1: we've said this many times, and I've had people, many 513 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 1: people in the chat and common say, if there is 514 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,199 Speaker 1: infidelity and it's provable, which he literally has, I like, 515 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: pretty much ironclad proof. I think he'll be able to 516 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: add a bare minimum be able to see his children before. 517 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: I mean the fact that he would get zero percent 518 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: custody after she cheated and iced him out dude, just 519 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,160 Speaker 1: get a good lawyer. It'll be fun. Yeah, and he's 520 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 1: already talking to one right now. Crubin says, does your 521 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 1: wife even care that she just rumined her entire family? 522 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 1: Opie says. In one minute, she's devastated and begging me 523 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: not to do anything rash and asking me to think 524 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 1: of what the kids will do being raised in a 525 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 1: split household. I hate that. I hate that. And in 526 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:02,199 Speaker 1: the next day she he's utterly unapologetic and telling me 527 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 1: I caused all of this. Oof. I'm all over the 528 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: place emotionally too, so I get it, but it's a 529 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 1: little hard to hear that I caused. Yeah, I'm still 530 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 1: left wondering, like, yeah, he made her feel special, but 531 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: it's like, what what is it? Yeah? Oh, here we go. 532 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: Miss Jaybird says, if he was working late all the time, 533 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 1: she could have felt neglected, but that's no reason. She 534 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 1: with the first person that gives you attention, you talk 535 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: about it with your partner. Honestly, Miss Jaybird, I think 536 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 1: that is probably the most accurate theory I've seen so far, 537 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,199 Speaker 1: because he's basically like I mean, think about it, he 538 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 1: worked hard enough to get a second house on a 539 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: lake and has retirement funds, retirement funds and college funds 540 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 1: for the kid, paying for Hawaii vacations for her parents. Bro, 541 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 1: that takes hard work. That takes hard work. So possibly, 542 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:53,680 Speaker 1: and again, we can only ever hear from like opis side, 543 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: so that's all we have to go off of. But 544 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 1: if we're taking Opie's word. 545 00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, with what miss Jaybird said, I could see 546 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 2: where she felt neglected, it's still no excuse. 547 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's like she she didn't give the 548 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 1: attention she wanted and she used that to justify it 549 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 1: in her own mind. Yeah, she'd been like, hey, baby, 550 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,520 Speaker 1: I don't have attention. I mean, but no, we have 551 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: to sleep with three hundred pounds tony soprano in mixicon. 552 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,360 Speaker 1: That is all we have to do. Riley the Mandatory 553 00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 1: common add fifty five eighty six says, you know, after 554 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 1: reading your comments, isn't it imperative that you informed the 555 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: sleees ball's wife that she has a husband who cheats. Interesting? 556 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: I would run that idea past your sister and see 557 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: what she thinks. Op responds, It will definitely happen, but 558 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,359 Speaker 1: I need to talk to the lawyer tomorrow first. I 559 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: think if I hadn't asked my sister to babysit yesterday 560 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 1: and today, this would now be a viral cheater story 561 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 1: all over TikTok, with the pictures to prove it. Initial 562 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: Training three twenty says, I hope that there are no 563 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 1: graphic photos that would make her famous in South Florida. 564 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,119 Speaker 1: At least I hope that you didn't have to see 565 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:59,639 Speaker 1: any Opie said. No, nothing graphic, just selfie's taken at 566 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: the bar with their arms around each other, them sitting 567 00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: on the beach in lounge chairs, sort of stuggled up. 568 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 1: There's a few picks where he paid for her to 569 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 1: do apparel, sailing and riding ATVs. There's enough where she 570 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,919 Speaker 1: can't deny she was spending time with them, but nothing 571 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,439 Speaker 1: graphic enough that would make me want to blow my 572 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: brains out. And that's it. Wow, ladies and gentlemen. While 573 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: we didn't get like a one thousand percent confirmation, I'm 574 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 1: leaving her, it seems to me that he was headed 575 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,120 Speaker 1: in that direction. Yeah, and I have to imagine that's 576 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:29,840 Speaker 1: probably where it ended up. 577 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no way that's gonna work out because she's 578 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 2: still He's still like she saying, it's your vault. 579 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, she goes back and forth to like, I 580 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 1: think she's just literally trying to say whatever she can 581 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: to get him to take her back, because probably she's 582 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 1: also like, oh crap, now I'm losing out on the 583 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 1: lake house, the I doubt he would pull the vacations 584 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: for my parents, all the other financial support. Yeah. I 585 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,320 Speaker 1: think she's just trying to say whatever she thinks will work, yeah, 586 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: and freaking out to answer. I'm going to quickly answer 587 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 1: this question for the episode, which mistake in a relationship 588 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 1: are inexcusable? I would definitely say this. I think this 589 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 1: instance of cheating, and to be specific with it, she 590 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,800 Speaker 1: was lashing out on him before he found out she 591 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 1: was projecting onto him. She was the one that did 592 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 1: the dirt. She's going back and forth between being apologetic 593 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 1: and blaming it all on him, even the I guess 594 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:22,920 Speaker 1: he asked, but even the comment of like he made 595 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,680 Speaker 1: her feel special, like if anything, I should be like, 596 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 1: I think how miss jay Bird communicated it, where was like, hey, 597 00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,040 Speaker 1: you were working so long, I want to do have 598 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 1: some sort of attention paid to me or whatever, if 599 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 1: that's what that was, which I think that kind of 600 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: equates to feeling special. But yeah, I think this cheating 601 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 1: like this is inexcusable. We have had lots of stories 602 00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 1: where someone cheats where it's like a kind of like 603 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: we said at the beginning of a story, where it's 604 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 1: like a one time thing. They instantly regret it, tell 605 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: the partner everything, and try to do everything they can. 606 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,840 Speaker 1: And in some cases we've seen they were together for 607 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: like ten fifteen years after the instance of cheating too, 608 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 1: and it ultimately worked out for them. When it comes 609 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: to telling the sleeze Ball's wife, here's the theory. Yes, 610 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 1: talk to me. 611 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 2: He did the same thing that he did to Opie's wife. 612 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 2: He feels special. I think he said this his fourth wife, 613 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 2: Not sure if that's true. 614 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: Not fourth. 615 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, he probably cheated on her too and got her 616 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 2: the same way he got. 617 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 1: Initially she was the affair partner. Then he stole her away, 618 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 1: and maybe he keeps losing him because of how he's 619 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 1: getting them. He's just like, oh, I'll just cheat with 620 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 1: someone until I get them to marry me. Honestly, just logically, 621 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,160 Speaker 1: why would you marry them? Like, if you just want 622 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: to cheat all the time, why not just why not 623 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: literally just be single? I don't understand. Olivia Gray says, Okay, 624 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 1: story time consistently validates my decision to be slash stay 625 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 1: happily single. We do read the craziest, the craziest relationship 626 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 1: stories every like worst case scenario in a relationship we 627 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: have read on the show without it out. That is true. 628 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 1: This is true? Oh man and oh man, Well that's 629 00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: I think that's a wrap on that. Unless on that. 630 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 1: Why do you hate sound off so much? Please explain? 631 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,840 Speaker 2: All right, Well here's another thing, a tip from man 632 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 2: guy pissed Riley. I just started the stream and I'm 633 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 2: not going to see your response until later. But the 634 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 2: phrase sound off from the military US military manning officers, 635 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 2: yellow and expect. Hey, yes, sir, so yeah, start Afia 636 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,080 Speaker 2: didn't make it up. Okay, I don't know the way 637 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 2: she just says it. 638 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just like I've heard of sound 639 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 1: off before, you have, Yeah, Like in the context, he's 640 00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,560 Speaker 1: just like sound off, found off queens. So you think 641 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 1: she invented it and that's why you and she used away, Yeah, 642 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 1: trying to pass it off. I mean she did invent 643 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: so much hate. Oh yeah, that's even that's so wrong. Yeah, 644 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 1: but sound off I've heard sound off. I don't know. 645 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 1: I just it just doesn't. It just doesn't go off 646 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,800 Speaker 1: the tongue ride. It's not it's not clicking for you. 647 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 1: It's not does it click for you? Sound off? I 648 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: like sound off? That off's good. I like, I can, 649 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 1: I can, I can get down with a sound off 650 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: sound off? 651 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 2: No, I just can't. It feels wrong for some reason. 652 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 2: It's like the other word though, makes sense why it 653 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 2: feels wrong for me? 654 00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 1: But what other words? Oh glazed? Oh yeah, yeah, see 655 00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,200 Speaker 1: I won't torture Riley with that one, but I will 656 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 1: torture him with sound off? 657 00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: Why? 658 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 1: And I have a new because I have a new 659 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 1: one one one and also like it's like it's like 660 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,280 Speaker 1: it's a lesser of two evils, is it not? It 661 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,320 Speaker 1: is a lesser to us. So I won't torture you 662 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: that much. I'll touch you a little bit. 663 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 2: Uh Riley being a hater, I guess I am being 664 00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 2: a hater for this word. 665 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 1: It just doesn't click. I will hate on it. If 666 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: you love us, make sure to subscribe We Love You, 667 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 1: and see it tomorrow.