1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit all looking back to 3 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: back down, giving them like a million buck things. And 4 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: it's not good. Steve Hartley, I don't join me. You 5 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:42,119 Speaker 1: gotta use that turn. You gotta turn to turn them out, 6 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: turn my love, got to turn out to turn turn 7 00:01:46,880 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: the water the water. Come come on your tha, uh huh, 8 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:06,639 Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, 9 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: Come on now, dig me want and only Steve Harvey, God, 10 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 1: what radio show man? What you're doing with it? Trying 11 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: to do the very very best I can with it? 12 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: I really am. You know, I get tired sometimes on 13 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: my journey. I'm not gonna kid you. UM. Trying to 14 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: make something about yourself is a task. UM. If you 15 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: want to attempt to do something and and and understand 16 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 1: going in that that. If the thing you're trying to 17 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: do is to improve yourself, to better your position, to 18 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 1: better your relationship, your family, anything, you're trying to be 19 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: a better you. You're trying to make more money, you're 20 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: trying to get it together, you're trying to change change. 21 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 1: If any of those things are in your hopes and dreams. 22 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: Know this right here, you are about to face some challenges. 23 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: But you might as well go ahead anyway and face 24 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: those challenges, because if you don't, you have a whole 25 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 1: other set of challenges to face. You know, it's a 26 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 1: it's a it's an amazing thing. Man. How people sit 27 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: around and they watch other people strike out to become successful. 28 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: They sit in the stands watching these people play out 29 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: these games, and they and they, and they criticize, They boo, 30 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: they laugh at their efforts and everything, and they talk 31 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: about the fairies. He missed that game when it shot. Boy, 32 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: he sucked. Man, he did this. He ain't worth that. 33 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: I hear people who sit and stands who criticize people 34 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: who are out there on the playing field. Now, when 35 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: you're on the playing field, you have a set of 36 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: challenges in front of you. You're going to be open 37 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: to criticism. You're going to be open to ridicule. You're 38 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: going to be talked about when you don't know the 39 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 1: people who are talking about you. Now here's the upside 40 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: to being the player on the field that's facing all 41 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: the challenges, to criticisms, the laughing, the joke, to being 42 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: talked about he has something going for him. This person, boy, woman, child, girl, 43 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: man has an opportunity to win. They have an opportunity 44 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: to win. And then the game of life. Just because 45 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: you lose one of the games, or you lose one 46 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 1: of the matches, it don't mean you've lost. You don't 47 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: get put out. You keep playing. When you're playing, here's 48 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 1: the upside. You have the opportunity to win. And but 49 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 1: guess what, You're gonna win some of the matches. You're 50 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,480 Speaker 1: gonna win some of the points. You're gonna make some 51 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: of the dunks. You're gonna hit some of them over 52 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: the wall. You're gonna hit some of them out the park. 53 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: You're gonna score some goals. You will if you're playing 54 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: the game. Here's the problem with the people who don't 55 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: face criticism, who nobody boos or cheers for, who sits 56 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 1: in the stands and knows neither victory nor defeat. Those people, 57 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: without realizing it, are facing a set of challenges also. 58 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: And the challenges they're facing is how I'm gonna live 59 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: with myself? What I'm gonna do? Now? What direction am 60 00:05:54,480 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: I going in? Where am I gonna live? Wonder what 61 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: job will hire me? Wonder if I can get paid 62 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 1: for criticizing. Oh woe is me? I can't find the 63 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: purpose in my life. And man, I'm just waking up 64 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: in a state of confusion. I don't know what to do. Now, 65 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: let me ask you something which one of them said, 66 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 1: of challenges you rather be faced with. Because if I'm 67 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: on the flow playing, if I'm on the field playing, 68 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 1: if I'm out on the court playing, then guess what 69 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: I got a chance at winning? But guess what I'm 70 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 1: doing every day while I'm playing. I'm strategizing. I'm waking 71 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: up with a purpose. I'm waking up trying to come 72 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: up with another angle. I'm in pursuit of a goal 73 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: every single day. Versus the people in the stands who 74 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:06,480 Speaker 1: know neither victory nor defeat. Get in the game. Face 75 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: the challenges. Better yourself, better your wife, better your children, 76 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: better your condition, better your employment status, better your job, 77 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: better your career. Take a shot. Come on, man, what 78 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: you're waiting on? Because the alternative is to watch other 79 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: people play the game? You know what I just do? 80 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: Sometimes Sometimes I just I get Forbes magazine or Money magazine, 81 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: or sometimes I still grab a copy of rob Report. 82 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: I just flipped through it just to see. I used 83 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 1: to get these this book called Unique Homes. Unique Homes 84 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 1: is a magazine that just has a lot of extravagant 85 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: houses that's on sale across the country, across the world. 86 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: I used to flip through. Man, let me just see, man, 87 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: what the people that's playing the game out there doing. 88 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: Stop watching other people become successful when you could very 89 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: easily be you if you make the decision. But when 90 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: you make the decision to become successful, get ready for 91 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: a series of challenges. I think it's more difficult not 92 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: to accept the challenge. I think it's for me. This 93 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: is just for me. It may not be the case 94 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: for you. For me, I think it's far more difficult 95 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: to wake up and just see how life gonna go today, 96 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:22,800 Speaker 1: because man, it could just deal you any kind of 97 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: hand today. You understand, I don't like, you know, spades. 98 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: Let's let's talk a card game, folks, the game of spades. Really, man, 99 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: it ain't a whole lot you can do if you 100 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:39,439 Speaker 1: don't get no spades. Really, it's a little couple of 101 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 1: little strategies you're gonna do. But you can have all 102 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: this age, King Queen Diamond, all you want. But man, 103 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 1: you ain't got no spades. They're cutting them. You're in trouble. 104 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: Be it whist different game. You can create what's in 105 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: your hand. You got dealt a hand too, But you 106 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: can create a hand. You can call a trump. You 107 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 1: can make diamonds your spades. You can make hard to 108 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: clubs your spades. That's what I'm saying. That's what it is. 109 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: You can do something with it. It's a different game, man. 110 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: You can strategize. I would rather have a say so 111 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: in my life than to wake up every day and 112 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: just see how it's going. I think it's more difficult 113 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 1: to not accept the challenge to be something than it 114 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 1: is to accept the challenge to be something. I think 115 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 1: it's more difficult to sit around and not be nothing. 116 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 1: I think it's harder to watch everybody's life going somewhere 117 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: but mine. I think it would be very difficult for 118 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: me to sit here and hear them talking about other 119 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: people and never mention my name. I would be difficult 120 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: for me to see everybody rise and getting promotions accept me. 121 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: That would be difficult for me. It may not be 122 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: for you, but for me it would be quite challenging. 123 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 1: I would rather accept the challenge of making something out 124 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: of my life than to sit there and criticize those 125 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: and then watch and see how my life just may go. Okay, 126 00:09:55,520 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: just a thought today you're listening one two, one, two three? 127 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: Here we go. I got it? What you talking about? 128 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:13,319 Speaker 1: I got it? What do you mean? I got it? 129 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: Saying one more time? I got it? What that time? 130 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: I got it? Make a lot of noise with it? 131 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 1: I got it? Oh, I got it? Hey, ain't got it? Yeah. 132 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. The theme today 133 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:47,319 Speaker 1: is I got it. Yeah. I got gratitude, I got 134 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: a guilt. I have means, I got peace of mind. Yeah, 135 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: I have a measure of health. I got it. Welcome 136 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry callin for 137 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: real Mississippi Monica and the legend that is Nephew Tommy top. 138 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: That's all the morning. Normally I would say, Junior Horse, 139 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: on your mind, But I will go over to Tommy 140 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 1: now and go, Tommy, what's on your mind? On your cheese? 141 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: All right? Let me see here, let me see here, stupid. Yeah. 142 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: So somebody tried to tell me the other day that 143 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: I need to try to keep as much electure lights 144 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 1: in my system, drink more electric lights? Now, why would 145 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 1: I want to drink that and get electrocuted? Does that 146 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 1: make any sense to you at all? Why would I 147 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 1: take the risk of getting electrocuted? And how all the 148 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,280 Speaker 1: electro lights in me that don't make no damn Well? 149 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 1: I have an idea for you, Tommy. This is what 150 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: I suggest you do to help this out. Get you 151 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 1: a small Dixie cup out of your bathroom dispense if 152 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:24,319 Speaker 1: they still have those, I don't know, Or get your 153 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,599 Speaker 1: bathroom and water cup and fill it with water and 154 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: put a little bit on your hand and have the 155 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: rest of it in your hand. Then go outside the 156 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 1: bathroom because I don't want you to be in there. 157 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 1: What can't nobody hear you? And I want you to 158 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: start sitting the floor next to an outlet and start 159 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:47,079 Speaker 1: drinking the water and then put that wet hand in 160 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 1: the outlet. Why are you drinking water? And then let's 161 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,559 Speaker 1: see how many electro lights your ass can get in 162 00:12:56,679 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: you at once. And I'm reason I didn't want you 163 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: to do it in the bathroom so people can hear 164 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 1: you in the hallway. Oh okay, okay, yeah, that it 165 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 1: makes perfect sense, I just I just don't think it's 166 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: safe to hell lecture lightsing your sister. I just don't. 167 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: I just think it's danger. It's just me. I'm surprised. 168 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: I thought I was surprised. You ain't up surprising my damn. 169 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 1: I thought this is gonna turn the hydrated though, that's 170 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:33,319 Speaker 1: but what about it? Though? He didn't disappoint me. No, 171 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: he didn't hydrated? All right, coming up in thirty two 172 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, nephew, Tommy is coming up. Would 173 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: run that frank back right after this. You're listening morning show? 174 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 1: All right? Time to start your morning off? Would run 175 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 1: that frank back with the nephew, what you got nef, 176 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:56,880 Speaker 1: me and your baby getting married? Me and your baby 177 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 1: getting married? Cat dog? If you would hello, Hello, I'm 178 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: trying to reach I'm trying to reach mister. Yes, hey, mister, 179 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm trying. Let me let me make 180 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 1: you I'm calling the right person. Your daughter is Crystal? Yes, okay, cool, yo, 181 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: I got the right person. Hey, listen, well, I wanted 182 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: to do mister Richards's call and introduce myself to you 183 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: and let you know who I was. My name is Jeff, 184 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 1: Jeff and I've been uh seeing Crystal, uh you know, 185 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: pretty much like the last five or six months, and 186 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: I wanted to, um, let you know that I'm very 187 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: very interested in you. And I know this kind of 188 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: crazy for you to get a phone call for me 189 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: when I'm very interested in Crystal right now. And I 190 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: wanted to, you know, I just wanted to do the 191 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: man thing and just reach out to your man and 192 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 1: say I'm really interested in and uh in marrying your 193 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:57,480 Speaker 1: daughter and marrying my daughter. Well, hold on, man, what 194 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: what what you say? You name of you? My name 195 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: is Jeff, Jeff. Okay, Jeff Jeff listen. I'm very close 196 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 1: with my daughter, and my daughter has never ever mentioned you. 197 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: I talk to my daughter every day. Wow. I don't 198 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 1: know what else about what it's been like about five 199 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: close to six months that me and Cristal been you know, 200 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: going out, you know, up here at the school. But 201 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: what I wanted to do is tell you that I 202 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: really really really like Crystal man, and I wanted to 203 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: call and tell you that, you know, I'm really really 204 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: interested in May and Crystal. You know, I want, I 205 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 1: really do want Krista to be my wife. Well, I again, 206 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: I've never heard of you before. And my daughter has 207 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 1: never ever mentioned you. My daughter isn't dating anybody right now. 208 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: My daughter's in grad school. I understand that. And you know, 209 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: we you know, it's been you know, we've been you know, 210 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 1: a little back and forth or whatever. But you know, 211 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: the main thing is me and Kristal really, you know, 212 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: we really, we really do love each other and I 213 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: want to But if you love my daughter, she would 214 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: have told me that she was in love with someone. Well, 215 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: you know what you know, And maybe it's a situation 216 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: where christ is like a little maybe a little uneasy 217 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: about talking to you about it. You know what I'm saying. 218 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 1: My daughter can talk to me about anything. We talk 219 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 1: every day, right right, You're like you, I talked to 220 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,960 Speaker 1: my daughter every day, your daughter. And how old is 221 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 1: your daughter? My daughter fifteen? Hold hold on a minute, man, 222 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: you say your daughter was fifteen, right right? Right? Okay, 223 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: Well how old are you? I'm forty six, forty six, 224 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: you're forty six years old? You want to man my 225 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: twenty five year old daughter? Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, 226 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 1: let me say this right here. Love ain't got no limit, man, 227 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 1: And I understand you know, I was a little shot 228 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: at first, about the age difference between us. But you 229 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: get you know what, man, Okay, And I understand that. 230 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to explain to you, man, is 231 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: that it's come a time man when you just you 232 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: just don't know what's gonna happen. Man. Love just love 233 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: is love, man, And you've been locked up on parole 234 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:11,159 Speaker 1: at the university on work releasing that my daughter. Yeah, man, 235 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,639 Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna say this, man, Crystal is just a 236 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: beautiful person. Man. Hold on, man, you calling me at 237 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: the Blue Daughter. Look, man, I'm never work. I got 238 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:22,800 Speaker 1: a lot of work on my damn desk and you 239 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 1: calling me telling me up for a gentle bird wants 240 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: to marry my daughter, my twenty five year old daughter, 241 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 1: and you damn that fifty you damn it at my 242 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 1: age you want to marry my daughter. Man, I'm not 243 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 1: trying to talk to you, but well, I need to 244 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: do I need to talk to Crystal and get to 245 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:38,879 Speaker 1: the bottom of this. That's what the hell I need 246 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,159 Speaker 1: to do. Hey, And I understand that, mister, you was 247 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 1: probably gonna I want to talk to and I ain't 248 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: got no problem with that. What I'm trying to explain 249 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: to you is that man. Live ain't got no limit. Man, 250 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:51,920 Speaker 1: It's just something that album Crystal love Me, I love 251 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 1: huh and it is what it is. I just wanted 252 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 1: to try to get your blessings on this. You can't 253 00:17:56,720 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: get my listeners. Love still gonna marry my daughter. Now. 254 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:05,880 Speaker 1: My daughter's been in private school. I love damn life. 255 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 1: She's gonna do all four years of college and she's 256 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 1: going to grad school and you're gonna marry my daughter. 257 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 1: You're working, miss. I understand that. What I'm what I'm 258 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,479 Speaker 1: trying to explain to you that you know what, man, 259 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,119 Speaker 1: Sometimes I love is right the second time around? You 260 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying. What the hell you mean the 261 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: second time? I got kids already. What I'm trying to 262 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:27,480 Speaker 1: say is it didn't work out with me on the 263 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: first time. What I wanted to do, man, is just 264 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: called you is solidified. The culinary experience got just doing food. 265 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:40,400 Speaker 1: But the helln't you talking about? Listen? Look, look, look, look, 266 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 1: I gotta talk to my daughter. I'm gonna call Crystal 267 00:18:43,080 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna find out what the hell is going on, 268 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 1: because look, man, I'm not even trying to have this 269 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:50,440 Speaker 1: conversation with you. And I miss, miss Comparis, I understand 270 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 1: all that, I understand what you're saying. What I want 271 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 1: to say to you is just right here. Crystal is 272 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:58,640 Speaker 1: twenty five. Even if you don't agree with this, here, 273 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna eat Lowe and make sure that we do. 274 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: Look at him. You ain't doing a thing with my 275 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: daughter unless it's mine. Look here, man, you ain't doing. 276 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: I don't even know your jail bird. You ain't doing. 277 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna call my daughter final horn. You really are 278 00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 1: lost your mind if you think your old jail bird 279 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: is gonna be marrying my daughter. My daughter's not a future. 280 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: You ain't got the head is wrong with Jill rust mine. 281 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit and go back and forth with you. Miss. 282 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: Me and Crystal getting married. That will not happen under 283 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: any circumstances, not what you think the circumstances are. Me 284 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:42,719 Speaker 1: and Crystal getting married. That's it. Not the love. Man, 285 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: don't know who the hell you think you are. It's 286 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:48,360 Speaker 1: wrong with you about what it's gotta be. I got 287 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: one more thing I need to say, and then me 288 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: and Crystal just gonna come over there and dry down 289 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 1: there and tell you exactly what's going on in our 290 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: life right now. You got to say to me, are 291 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:03,359 Speaker 1: you listening to me? I got to say this. This 292 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 1: is nephew taught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 293 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:12,040 Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your daughter Crystal and her boyfriend. 294 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:26,720 Speaker 1: Ain't I'm outside my job looking at me. I'm crazy, man, 295 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 1: Your baby girl just wanted to put a smile on 296 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: your face. Man, I gotta ask you, what is What 297 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show 298 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 1: in the land. Man, Steve Harvey Morning Shuffak goodness. You 299 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: can thank my stupid later. Go ahead, go ahead, you 300 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 1: can thank my stupid all right, thank you. Nephew who 301 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: coming up next? Asked the clo Right after this, You're 302 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 1: listening morning show coming up at the top of the hour. 303 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 1: In trending All Star Game weekend highlights from Cleveland, Steve Harborley, Cleveland, 304 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,280 Speaker 1: We'll have it for your celebrity baby news. R and 305 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 1: B singer Kicky Wyatt is pregnant with her one to three, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, 306 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:23,879 Speaker 1: eleventh child, eleven child. Yes, yes, okay, I'm about to 307 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 1: do that no more. Are you for real? Yeah? Yes, 308 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:40,439 Speaker 1: are you for eleven? Eleven am farm has some farm 309 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: activity there every year. I ain't got nothing to do, 310 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: don't have another child? Love baby. That's right. She loves 311 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: being pregnant. She talks about that, how she loved being 312 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: pregnant and she loves having children. And the NAACP Image 313 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: Awards to this Sunday. We'll talk about all of these stories, 314 00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: like I said at the top of the hour, but 315 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 1: right now it is time or ask the CLO. Lisa 316 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 1: in Atlanta writes to our CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 317 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight and I'm dating a thirty year old 318 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 1: man I met online. He checks off every box on 319 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: my list except one. He's a great lover, but he's 320 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,479 Speaker 1: not willing to explore all of me. He said. There 321 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,960 Speaker 1: are a few things he will never do. If I 322 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 1: enjoy doing it for him, should he be willing to 323 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: try it for me? Is he being selfish? Or is 324 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: this normal? Well? I ain't saying this normal. I'm just 325 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:41,159 Speaker 1: saying he ain't. Ain't what he doing? You know? I 326 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 1: do you type thing that ain't that ain't what he 327 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: fin to do? Oh? You know, so that you have 328 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,280 Speaker 1: it now? If that's a deal breaker for you, and 329 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 1: they probably need to break up now. But if it's 330 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: not a deal breaker, they're gone and explore. But it 331 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 1: seems like he's pretty much set on this. It's a 332 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 1: decision he's made. See what could have happened? He thirty. 333 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 1: You don't know, but he might have had a really, 334 00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: really bad traumatic experience with that. And now I'll shut 335 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: you down. You run, you run up into something that 336 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: ain't quite what you thought it was, and it'll shut 337 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 1: you down. So it could have been. He used to 338 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: do everything, but he don't stopped exploring everywhere he dialed 339 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: it back, didn't it? Yeah, he said, never something happened. 340 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,120 Speaker 1: So not putting your toe in my mouth, you could ask, 341 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 1: I'm telling you all right. Moving on to Taylor in Southfield. 342 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 1: Taylor says, I'm thirty three and I've been divorced for 343 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: two years. I had husband is getting remarried, and I 344 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: got a wedding invite. He called me last week to 345 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: say that his fiance wants me to change my last 346 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 1: name back to my maiden name because she wants to 347 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: be the only woman with my name. Should I relinquish 348 00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: the name or not? Well, huh, you know what did 349 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 1: this wedding invitation had to do with anything. But secondly, 350 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,919 Speaker 1: his current wife to be wants you to change your 351 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 1: name back. My question to you is, why would you 352 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 1: want the name of a man that don't want you? 353 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:29,360 Speaker 1: That's my only question to you. I would be more 354 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 1: than happy to get back to who I was after 355 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 1: I find out that who I thought I was don't 356 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 1: want me to be that no more, So I would 357 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: forget the fact. See, normally, when you get divorced and 358 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 1: it don't come up because ain't nobody married, you just 359 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,120 Speaker 1: don't feel like going down that change in the paperwork. 360 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,920 Speaker 1: I would imagine it's just a hassle. Now, if you 361 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: got the kids, that's a whole other story. The kid's 362 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 1: name can't change. I don't think. I'm not sure, but 363 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: I don't think that's why. But but if you all 364 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 1: don't have kids, I think the only thing that would 365 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: bother you is the fact that she said she don't 366 00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 1: want you to have it. But I think the real 367 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 1: question is why would you want to keep it from 368 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: a man that don't want you. I would change it 369 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: and not let it be about this woman saying I 370 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 1: don't want her to have your name no more. You 371 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 1: would change change with no kids, Oh, with no kids, 372 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 1: I think I think that's more of a female question. Uh, Carl, 373 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,440 Speaker 1: it would you change if you didn't have kids and 374 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 1: you divorce the man, would you keep his last name? 375 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,880 Speaker 1: I don't think so. If I didn't have any children, 376 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I know my mother got a 377 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,680 Speaker 1: divorce with my dad. She kept his name because of me, 378 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 1: you know, because she had a kid, right, daughter, I 379 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 1: did the same thing, because right, But if you have 380 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: a child, that changes everything, because you don't want to 381 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 1: change your name and have your daughter or your ass 382 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: out up at the school. Well, who is miss Perkins? Yes? 383 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 1: It was always so confusing when growing up. It was like, 384 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 1: you know, the kid's name was Johnson and the mother's 385 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 1: name was brand you know. And I think I think, 386 00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,360 Speaker 1: if you have children, I think you keep the name 387 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 1: because it just keeps it clear for you why your 388 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 1: mama named that exactly, you know, So I understand that. Yeah, 389 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,679 Speaker 1: for child, it makes a difference. Okay, all right, all right? 390 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: Moving on to Leah and New York. Leah says, I've 391 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 1: been dating a mama's boy for almost a year. I'd 392 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,280 Speaker 1: hope that by now he would want more of me 393 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: and less of mama, But he still has dinner with 394 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 1: her several times a month, and he tells her all 395 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 1: of our business. It causes her to look at me differently. 396 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 1: Is it a loss cause with him and his mama? 397 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 1: Will this ever get better? No? No? Once a mama's 398 00:26:55,359 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: boy always. What can you do to change the dynamics 399 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 1: of the relationship of a mama's boy? Nothing? You're not 400 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 1: gonna do. What is mama? Do? You already doing some 401 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: things that is mama don't do. And if that don't 402 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 1: make a difference, I don't know what will. That's not 403 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 1: gonna change. This is a mama's boy. He has dinner 404 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: with his mama several times a month. I don't know 405 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: how many times that is. But that's cool, you know 406 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That don't make him a mama's boy. 407 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:32,360 Speaker 1: But if you're telling all the business. But and it's 408 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:36,719 Speaker 1: a lot more than that, that mama's boy thing turns 409 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 1: into texting and laughing and sitting up on the phone 410 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 1: telling jokes and Mama coming over watching movies with y'all. 411 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 1: And you know he I'm staying at Mama's house tonight 412 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:53,440 Speaker 1: because she's scared. The wind was blowing you know that 413 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: stuff like that. Yeah, you know, I got to go 414 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 1: over here and I got to get my mom car fixed, 415 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: so we ain't gonna be able to get out car 416 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 1: fixed this month. You know when to get into that. 417 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: It's dangerous. Got another one? Sho, Yes, I do? Uh 418 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,399 Speaker 1: Norris and Philly says, I'm a single man in my 419 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 1: late twenties and I'm having sex with a girl that 420 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,159 Speaker 1: lives next door to me. My girlfriend and I are 421 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: on and off a lot, so this woman feels in 422 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 1: the gap when we're having problems. It's just sex for me, 423 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: but the neighbor is catching feelings. She knows I have 424 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: a girl. So why is she getting caught up? What? Yeah? Yeah, No, 425 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: next dough, Why is she getting cause she know I 426 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 1: got a girlfriend. Because that's the plan. See, y'all keep 427 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: being off. She jump in the off spot, figuring that 428 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: one day you ain't gonna be back home. I got 429 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 1: news for you. She gonna come over that knock on 430 00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: the door next time your girlfriend over there. I got 431 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 1: news for you. Do this fitn't be a problem. Next 432 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 1: Dough not fing to sit there and he on that 433 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 1: commotion going on up against a wall, and she not 434 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 1: gonna say nothing, m you know, putting me on the 435 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 1: wall like that last week when you was off with him. 436 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:14,239 Speaker 1: That's right, all right, sella thank you. Coming up at 437 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment dudes 438 00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 1: for you. Right after this. You're listening Stave Harvey Morning Show, 439 00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:26,320 Speaker 1: we'll all start game weekend highlights they were this weekend. Uh. 440 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 1: First of all, let's get this out of the way 441 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,719 Speaker 1: right now. Who saw Macy Gray thing the national anthem? 442 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 1: I did? Yeah, take a Linchen, take a listen, and 443 00:29:37,400 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: we'll talk about it. Yeah. Game, she didn't have no 444 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 1: V in her braid, was no V in her braid, 445 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 1: trailed off the V in it, but it was pure 446 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 1: Macy Gray though it was. Yeah, well she sung it 447 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,680 Speaker 1: in pure Cleveland. So we was up in that holland laughing. 448 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 1: I don't even give it that Cleveland. Don't care, man, 449 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you. What did you see when they 450 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: showed the lebron and Steph Cary trying to play it off? 451 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 1: And I love Macy Gray. Oh I do too, doo. 452 00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 1: I love her, And that's what you expect Macy Gray. 453 00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 1: You hired. Yeah, so the lebron m buss out laughing. 454 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:13,360 Speaker 1: They they wanted to though, Tim, They was just I'm 455 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: talking about set back down. Yeah, Cleveland, it is what 456 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 1: it is in Cleveland. Man, that's funny. And I watched 457 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: the slam dunk contest. You know I didn't didn't see 458 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: none of this, dude. I worked my butt out. What 459 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 1: what tell me about it? Dunk contest? Who want the 460 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 1: dude out of New York? Yeah, he was supposed to 461 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: win it. He was the best. Yeah, you know, I 462 00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,080 Speaker 1: can't even touch your rim no more so them days. 463 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 1: It is done. But I mean them dudes was some 464 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:54,600 Speaker 1: of the stuff was. It just wasn't what I na. 465 00:31:54,880 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 1: It wasn't nothing, man. It was Jordan's, Vince Carter, nobody. 466 00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: It wasn't nobody doing nothing special. Yeah. Nah. The one 467 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: dunk I saw where he did the three sixty up 468 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: under the leg win wheel, that was who. That was funky. 469 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 1: But the one he missed. I wanted to see him 470 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: tap it on the backboard then go on his legs 471 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 1: and dunk, but he never got it back off the backboard, 472 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 1: and Shack just looked thoroughly. Man. Yes, but I don't 473 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: like when you do four five attempts at a dunk 474 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: and you don't make it because even if you do 475 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 1: make it, after that, you know there's too many chances. Yeah, 476 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 1: the performance were DJ Khaled, Mary J. Blige, Ludicrous, Little Wayne, 477 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: Little Baby, and Amigos. So that was good. Then on Sunday, 478 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: during the All Star Game itself, Lebron James pulled out 479 00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 1: a game winning three pointer to score the win for 480 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 1: Team Lebron, the final score one sixty three to one 481 00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 1: sixty against Team Durant. Now, Kevin Durant was not there 482 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 1: due to the passing of his grandmother, And yeah, our 483 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:14,200 Speaker 1: condolences of course. Um, and it wasn't all Lebron. Steph 484 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,880 Speaker 1: Curry was welcomed by the crowd with booze. Again they 485 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: were in Cleveland because he's beat because he's beat Cleveland 486 00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: several times in the finals. We don't forgive Timmy. That 487 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: ain't what we do. We're not forgiving people. You know, 488 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: we're not in that lost. No, it's not no, it's 489 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: not no, it's not a game. It's called hatred. That's 490 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 1: what we have and we're not letting it go. So 491 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 1: you came in here and you beat us and won 492 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 1: the title. We hate you. Don't come up here to play. 493 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 1: Ween sportsmen were not fitting play like you know, we 494 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,680 Speaker 1: care for you, we re respect your talent. None of that. 495 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 1: It's hatred. But did you see did you see Michael Jordan, 496 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: Isaiah Thomas, doctor Jay, et cetera. All of them were there. 497 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,600 Speaker 1: Did you see the legend? Yeah? Man, because it was 498 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 1: the seven Way. I mean, everybody was there. Man. It 499 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,839 Speaker 1: was nice. It was nice. Crowd was on their feet 500 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,479 Speaker 1: as Steph Curry said an all time Games All Star 501 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: game record. He was named MVP, scoring fifty total points 502 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 1: for Team LA. Wow. Yeah again, Yeah, congratulates on the 503 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 1: fifty points. Oh, by the way, we still hate you. 504 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 1: All right, We'll moving on from the hatred to some love, 505 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:46,360 Speaker 1: some blessings and celebrity baby news. R and B singer 506 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:50,800 Speaker 1: key Key Wyatt posted on her Instagram page that she 507 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: is pregnant with her eleventh child. Eleventh child. She looked 508 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,719 Speaker 1: we were doing throwback babies. Now we're just doing some 509 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:06,879 Speaker 1: nineteen forty. Oh it's just because that's a lot of kids. Yeah, 510 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 1: is it the same day? The second child Tommy with 511 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: her third husband, her third husband, I don't know, her 512 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: second child with her third husband. She got leven kids, 513 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 1: shared yeah, I know. So she's had other kids with 514 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 1: her others of her previous marriages. Yeah, I like her. Man, 515 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 1: she cool girl. You can do your things. That's what 516 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:36,080 Speaker 1: you want to do. I'm not having eleven kids at all, 517 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 1: seven nothing. Did not want all them, honest, every baby story. 518 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean they here now, but you know, 519 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 1: you know, champagne and bubbles when I got the news 520 00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more 521 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 1: of Steve Robert Morning Show coming up right after this 522 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 1: you're listening to show. Yesterday was President's Day, and in 523 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 1: honor of the occasion, a new poll looked to find 524 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:15,440 Speaker 1: out whether people would have any desire to be president themselves, 525 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,520 Speaker 1: just even for one day, just one day. It looks 526 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,879 Speaker 1: like most people do not want that job. Okay, only 527 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:25,880 Speaker 1: thirty nine percent of Americans are very or somewhat interested 528 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 1: in being president for a day. Fifty five are not 529 00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: very or not interested at all. And Steve, you here 530 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,360 Speaker 1: at all the time people say you should run for president. 531 00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,720 Speaker 1: So do you think you would be a better president 532 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: than the average historical president and how would you do 533 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:46,880 Speaker 1: things differently? Yeah, well, I would definitely be a better 534 00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: president than all of them, Joe's, Washington, Aid, Lincoln, all 535 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:56,840 Speaker 1: of them. No, I'm being better. I'd act, you know, 536 00:36:56,880 --> 00:37:01,440 Speaker 1: I'd be a better president than all of them because 537 00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: of the way what I'm not gonna accept. See, I'm 538 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 1: not I'm not talking. Y'all. Can't say what you want 539 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,879 Speaker 1: to say to me, and don't expect me to say 540 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 1: nothing back. And I'm doing that Supreme Order stuff all 541 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:21,360 Speaker 1: the time. That executive order, I'm doing all that. I 542 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: don't give a damn what your sin its say. I'm 543 00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,719 Speaker 1: signing it into order. That's what I'm doing. Nothing to 544 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:33,520 Speaker 1: ask you nothing. I'm care about what your party say, 545 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 1: what my party say. I'm the president. Yeah, you're gonna 546 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 1: have the briefings, briefings in the morning. Hey listen, Hey, 547 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,640 Speaker 1: thank y'all all for coming. This is what we're doing now. 548 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 1: I pull all troops out of all parts of the world. 549 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 1: We're not doing this no more. And I'm on fighting, 550 00:37:57,320 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: and I'm on fighting. All y'all are signing up for 551 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 1: all the free educations, probably ain't gonna have them. Well, 552 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: everybody signed up in a military for these free educations 553 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 1: that probably ain't gonna have them, because we ain't gonna 554 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 1: be we're gonna lose a lot of y'all in the 555 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:19,759 Speaker 1: you know process or withdrawals. Appreciate your service. We're gonna 556 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,440 Speaker 1: get you your check, but we ain't gonna need you 557 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 1: over here. We're gonna sell all these guns. Yes, any 558 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 1: police officer that shoots a black person will be shot. 559 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: They damn self. Right now, Slow this down, right now. Yeah, 560 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,840 Speaker 1: you'll come before me. I'm gonna look at the video 561 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna pass judgment. No more cases, no more trials. 562 00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:52,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna look at the video and I'm gonna make 563 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,279 Speaker 1: the call based on the video. If you don't have 564 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:59,880 Speaker 1: your body cam own, I'm assuming you are hiding everdence, 565 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 1: your ass is gone anyway. But mister President, that's what 566 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,400 Speaker 1: That's not what the Constitution said. Are you a judge 567 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: of the press. Yeah, yeah, Well let me ask you 568 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:15,200 Speaker 1: a question. Have you read the Constitution? Not all of it? Yeah? 569 00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 1: You feel as though were in there any way. So wise, 570 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 1: we're paying attitchen to it. Coming up at thirty four 571 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,680 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve 572 00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:27,160 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to the 573 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. The police officer who killed Dante 574 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 1: Wright has received what can only be considered a light sentence. 575 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:41,480 Speaker 1: Brooklyn Heights, Minnesota officer Kim Potter was convicted of first 576 00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:45,400 Speaker 1: and second degree manslaughter. She aimed her gun and fired 577 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,520 Speaker 1: on right during a traffic stop, but she said she 578 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,880 Speaker 1: thought she pulled her taser, not her gun. She's been 579 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: sentenced to just twenty four months, twenty four months in custody, 580 00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 1: sixteen in prison, and eight under supervi to release. She 581 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,280 Speaker 1: could have faced up to twenty five years behind bars. 582 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 1: Prosecutors were seeking seven years. Judge Regina Chew defended the 583 00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 1: two years sentence she gave officer Keim Potter by saying 584 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:15,120 Speaker 1: Potter was a cop who made a tragic mistake, not 585 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,919 Speaker 1: who committed murder. Citing the case of George Floyd, civil 586 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,880 Speaker 1: rights attorney Ben Crump said, there are black people in 587 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,720 Speaker 1: prison serving greater time for selling marijuana, which is legal 588 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 1: in most states, than this police officer gets for killing 589 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,560 Speaker 1: this young black man. It just goes to show you 590 00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: the actual value that they placed on black life. Because 591 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, if a black police officer 592 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 1: had done this same thing and killed a white person 593 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:49,279 Speaker 1: of any gender, age, whatever, do you think for one 594 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 1: moment that they would just say he made a tragic mistake. 595 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:57,280 Speaker 1: Not at all. No, he did not honor his training. 596 00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:01,280 Speaker 1: He should have known better. You can mistake your taser 597 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 1: for your gun. I'm sorry. It can't happen. You can't 598 00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:11,480 Speaker 1: take a person's life and get twenty four months. I'm sorry. 599 00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:15,680 Speaker 1: And the amazing thing of this, and what I keep 600 00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:22,839 Speaker 1: saying is this never happens to white people ever. They're 601 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 1: never accidentally shot, they're never there, they're never shot in 602 00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:32,160 Speaker 1: the back running by the police. When white people get 603 00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 1: shot by the police, they are in that active act 604 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:41,279 Speaker 1: of committing a felony or crime. Other than that, they 605 00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:45,960 Speaker 1: don't make mistakes with white people, they don't, But they 606 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: make them with black people all the time, which lets 607 00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:55,520 Speaker 1: me know it's not mistakes, it's training. And like and 608 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: like Benjamin Crump said, it's black people doing more time 609 00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:01,920 Speaker 1: for selling weed. It make no sense, man, that you 610 00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,200 Speaker 1: can do that. But she's a white lady and she 611 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:09,080 Speaker 1: killed a black man. What what? What's the big deal? 612 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:16,120 Speaker 1: And and guess what, ain't a damn thing we can 613 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,279 Speaker 1: do by itself. Get over here and be all right 614 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 1: with it. But see, we tied it at though, because 615 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 1: we've never really been all right with it. If any 616 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,840 Speaker 1: white people are listening, we would like to make the 617 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:32,400 Speaker 1: announcement we as black people have never been okay with 618 00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 1: the sentences that's been paying handed down and the treatment 619 00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,800 Speaker 1: of blacks in the judicial system. Just to go on 620 00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:42,600 Speaker 1: record officially, we have never been okay with this. In 621 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:47,400 Speaker 1: case you're thinking that we think it's powerful power for 622 00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:49,840 Speaker 1: the course, or we think it's just the way it is, 623 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:54,400 Speaker 1: We're not okay with it. And that's been our protest 624 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 1: the entire time, and even though you all have allowed 625 00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:02,239 Speaker 1: our protest to fall on deaf years, Please know we 626 00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:06,920 Speaker 1: are not okay with it, but we have come to 627 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:14,200 Speaker 1: the conclusion that you are. That's what's sad to me. 628 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,239 Speaker 1: I wish I had time to play something that I 629 00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:20,959 Speaker 1: pulled up from this lady that had asked a group 630 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:25,360 Speaker 1: of whites to question online, and it was just so 631 00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: compelling because the answer was, let me see if I 632 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,279 Speaker 1: got it, let me see if I can play it. 633 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,239 Speaker 1: I think I have it. If you, as a white person, 634 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:36,160 Speaker 1: would be happy to see the same treatment that our 635 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:41,359 Speaker 1: black citizens are in this society, please stand. You didn't 636 00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:45,920 Speaker 1: understand the directions if you white folks want to be 637 00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:50,760 Speaker 1: treated the way blacks are in this society, stand nobody's 638 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:55,440 Speaker 1: standing here. That says very plainly that you know what's happening. 639 00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,239 Speaker 1: You know you don't want it for you. I want 640 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,640 Speaker 1: to know why you're so willing to accept it our tally. 641 00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 1: That's just that's all I have to say. Thank you, 642 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:11,239 Speaker 1: That's all I have to say. Thank you. Having a 643 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,560 Speaker 1: nice day, y'all. It's in case you thought we was 644 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,880 Speaker 1: okay with it. Coming up next, we're gonna switch gears here. 645 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy is in the building with today's prank phone call. 646 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:24,719 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show. 647 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,799 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, about four 648 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:32,000 Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today, and today's 649 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,320 Speaker 1: subject is what was she doing while I was gone 650 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 1: find out? We'll get into it in just a little bit, 651 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,919 Speaker 1: but right now the nephew is here with today's pryank 652 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us? Nap? All right now, 653 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask. I'm just gonna say it. You know, 654 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,640 Speaker 1: don't let it be shocking to you, but you know, 655 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:54,400 Speaker 1: it's just something we're working on it. We need you 656 00:44:54,560 --> 00:45:01,600 Speaker 1: to be a slave for a day? What slave? What 657 00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 1: for a day? I mean it's black history. So just 658 00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:06,160 Speaker 1: work with us, now, just work with us that we 659 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:12,279 Speaker 1: ain't asking for months. Slaves for a day, let's up. Hey, 660 00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:16,279 Speaker 1: Hey it's just a day. Okay, it's just a day. 661 00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:24,759 Speaker 1: Give us let's go cat dog slave for a day. Hello. Hello, 662 00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:28,960 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach to you, missus Glinda, Please, miss Glenda. 663 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 1: This is Gary. Gary. I'm with the Black History Okay 664 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,279 Speaker 1: you you you participated last year in the in the 665 00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:39,879 Speaker 1: Black History Parade? Am I right? Yes? I should did. Okay, 666 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:41,440 Speaker 1: I got your name from one of the members on 667 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 1: the committee and we're trying to see if you can 668 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 1: actually build some help for this year's Black History. Um, 669 00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:50,799 Speaker 1: for this month, I should be glad to help. Okay, listen, UM, 670 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,759 Speaker 1: we're having an auction tomorrow and wanted to see if 671 00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 1: you could actually maybe build some help with the auction 672 00:45:56,640 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 1: that we actually have gone on tomorrow. Yes, do I 673 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:04,360 Speaker 1: need to donate anything or but no that you need No, 674 00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:06,759 Speaker 1: we're not really trying to get some donation from you 675 00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:08,719 Speaker 1: this time. We're trying to see if you have some 676 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,320 Speaker 1: time tomorrow to come out and actually help out with 677 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:15,919 Speaker 1: the actual auction. Okay, what time tomorrow? Probably like about 678 00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:19,200 Speaker 1: nine o'clock in the morning. I can do that, Okay. 679 00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,440 Speaker 1: Now we're asking that you wear something that you'll be 680 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:25,600 Speaker 1: comfortable in all day tomorrow possible, okay, Okay, pretty much 681 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,200 Speaker 1: an all day event that we're trying to get you 682 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:30,360 Speaker 1: to do. Okay, I could be there around nine the 683 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:32,759 Speaker 1: time we have to leave about four. Well, I'll tell 684 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,440 Speaker 1: you what. We'll see what we can, how we can 685 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,200 Speaker 1: work it out, but we definitely want you to come 686 00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,000 Speaker 1: and be a part of what we're doing. So what 687 00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:42,120 Speaker 1: is it that you really need be to do? Um? Well, actually, 688 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 1: you know, we we we got a lot of people 689 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,400 Speaker 1: doing different things at the you know, at the auction, 690 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:47,880 Speaker 1: you know, so we just want you to come out 691 00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 1: and be of some help with everything that's going on. Okay, Well, 692 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:53,520 Speaker 1: I want to be prepared. So what exactly do I 693 00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:56,920 Speaker 1: need to do? Work the concessions they in something like that. No, really, 694 00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:59,520 Speaker 1: what we had is actually you being a part of 695 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:04,480 Speaker 1: the auction, being a part of the auction such as well, 696 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,520 Speaker 1: what we're doing tomorrow is we have already we already 697 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:09,919 Speaker 1: have fifty people who are signed up and you would 698 00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,360 Speaker 1: be you know, one of those people that are that 699 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 1: are that are signed up to do the actual What 700 00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,239 Speaker 1: is is we're having slaves for a day, and what 701 00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna be doing is auctioning you. Often, somebody's gonna 702 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,960 Speaker 1: buy you tomorrow and you will be the for the 703 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 1: day slaves. Yeah, you will be the slave for the day. 704 00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: That's what that's what we've decided to do with the 705 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,560 Speaker 1: Black history. We decided. I didn't mean I don't I 706 00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:37,920 Speaker 1: want to participate, but being a slave no, okay, but 707 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,560 Speaker 1: see what you what I want you to understand that 708 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,520 Speaker 1: this is a word that calls though you know we 709 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:46,440 Speaker 1: want worthy call but I'm not gonna be no play Well, 710 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:47,719 Speaker 1: well you I mean you don't have to call it 711 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:51,040 Speaker 1: a slave. I mean as a servant, you know, a butler. 712 00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 1: You know what I mean when you want to call it. 713 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, no slave, Okay, okay, man man, miss 714 00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,440 Speaker 1: miss Glenna. We don't trying to explain this is a 715 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 1: word to call for the Black history and we're trying 716 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 1: to get you to be there. Somebody may buy you 717 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,840 Speaker 1: for five hundred dollars tomorrow. No, I'm not gonna do it. Okay, 718 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:12,400 Speaker 1: are you are you? Are you turning us down for 719 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 1: a word that calls mister glense, Yes, I am turning 720 00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:18,160 Speaker 1: your down. Don't call me with that kind of no more. 721 00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't understand what what the problem is. 722 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,360 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes we got to repeat history, so we 723 00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 1: don't go back to the history. Sometimes we got to 724 00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 1: do it again so we don't go back to what 725 00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:30,040 Speaker 1: you understand? But it isn't seem like you You acting 726 00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,200 Speaker 1: like a houseene grow or something like you two up 727 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 1: at the hawsne grow house need grow. Who's the chairman 728 00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:41,000 Speaker 1: of this? Excuse me the chairman? Last time I spoke 729 00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:44,560 Speaker 1: with mister Wilson and we didn't have no like this. Okay, 730 00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:46,560 Speaker 1: and I understand that. But what I'm trying to explain 731 00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,040 Speaker 1: to you is this is something that I don't want 732 00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,759 Speaker 1: you to explain pain to me. Do not call me 733 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,480 Speaker 1: with this kind of again. Are you gonna show up tomorrow? 734 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:56,000 Speaker 1: But we can sell you? Do you understand me? Are 735 00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 1: you gonna show him tomorrow so we can sell you? 736 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,320 Speaker 1: We already have you know, We're gonna say, tell me 737 00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:04,319 Speaker 1: we are listed to be sold tomorrow. Sell you. We've 738 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:07,200 Speaker 1: got you listed to be sold tomorrow, ma'am, can we 739 00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 1: please make shoot don't be sold and you not call 740 00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,240 Speaker 1: here again. Hey, listen, if you don't show up tomorrow, 741 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:15,759 Speaker 1: then we will come to your house and sell you there. 742 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,760 Speaker 1: Come too. If I got to come out, you would 743 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,120 Speaker 1: over here. If you want to listen, I will come 744 00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,040 Speaker 1: there to sell you. If you're not gonna come out 745 00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:28,399 Speaker 1: to the auction, come on to my house, you bad, 746 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,759 Speaker 1: come on to my mouse. Okay, I tell you you 747 00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:32,319 Speaker 1: know what I need you to do this. You need 748 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,000 Speaker 1: to start saying yes sir and no sir to me 749 00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:36,400 Speaker 1: right now. Okay, I need to get you in the 750 00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,720 Speaker 1: in the frame of mind being a save for to day. Okay, 751 00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 1: I didn't hear what you said. Kiss my black I'm 752 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,279 Speaker 1: coming to your house tomorrow and I'm gonna sell you 753 00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:48,839 Speaker 1: in front of your house. If you want to come 754 00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:51,440 Speaker 1: down to the auction tomorrow morning at nine o'clock, you 755 00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 1: better not bring you house. Do you better not? Do 756 00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:59,200 Speaker 1: you understand me? I a march for civil rights. I 757 00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 1: don't have time no like that. And we got for 758 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:06,520 Speaker 1: president you I understand we got a black man for president. 759 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,440 Speaker 1: But right now we're trying to raise some money for 760 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:11,320 Speaker 1: black history and we need to sell you tomorrow morning. 761 00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:14,080 Speaker 1: You're not gonna sell me. You're not gonna sell me. 762 00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:17,200 Speaker 1: You don't call my house no more? Do you understand? 763 00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 1: Do not call? I understand exactly what you're saying. Can 764 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:22,320 Speaker 1: I tell you something else? Who else is gonna be 765 00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,960 Speaker 1: so tomorrow? Tell all now? Don't tell me. I got 766 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 1: one more thing I do need to tell you. What 767 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,840 Speaker 1: is it? Bess is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey 768 00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:37,120 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You just got planked by your sisters, My sister, 769 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:46,680 Speaker 1: my sister. I can't believe that I'm gonna get Huh. 770 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:52,440 Speaker 1: I can't believe you to did clemba? You all right? 771 00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:57,160 Speaker 1: Oh all right? This is so crazy. I can't believe it. 772 00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:03,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna for this. It doesn't sound like 773 00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:08,000 Speaker 1: you were gonna get stolen. No way. You wasn't getting 774 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:12,640 Speaker 1: on this auction block. Huh, No, no way, Because miss 775 00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,080 Speaker 1: Flinders have been there, I've been at the city end, 776 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:19,200 Speaker 1: the marches, I've done something everything, ma'am. Well, I tell 777 00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,040 Speaker 1: you what, Missus Glendon, if it wasn't for people like you, 778 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,359 Speaker 1: we probably wouldn't be where we are today. That's right. 779 00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,239 Speaker 1: We showed thank you, we showed, thinking I just wanted 780 00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,359 Speaker 1: to play a joke on Did I get you? Yes? 781 00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:33,160 Speaker 1: You did you? Sure? Indeed it. I got one more. 782 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,160 Speaker 1: I got one more thing to ask you. What is 783 00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:37,840 Speaker 1: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 784 00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:41,239 Speaker 1: show in the land. The Steve Harvey Morning showed that 785 00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:46,000 Speaker 1: the nephew Tommy, We love you, missus Glendon, Okay, love 786 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:55,439 Speaker 1: you too, kiss mob blank blank and blank, happy black. 787 00:51:55,480 --> 00:52:02,600 Speaker 1: Heyst ladies and gentle happy blacky. You ain't gonna be 788 00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:09,000 Speaker 1: no slave, kiss my black. What you what you want 789 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 1: me to do with the auction? Now? What am I doing? Now? 790 00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 1: What exactly? You know you don't want me working the concessions? 791 00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,160 Speaker 1: So what you want me doing? Thank you? She kind 792 00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,759 Speaker 1: of knew then when she saw asking questions, she was like, 793 00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:25,080 Speaker 1: just about to be some that you did. That's right, Wow, 794 00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,319 Speaker 1: she said, I paved the way. Baby. I've been there 795 00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 1: to the sit ends, the boycotts, all of that, and 796 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 1: here you come with this foolishness. You come with this foolishness. Hey, 797 00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,120 Speaker 1: I want to thank Baltimore, Maryland man. Y'all sold me 798 00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:43,000 Speaker 1: out this weekend. I appreciate y'all coming to see the ignorant, 799 00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:46,600 Speaker 1: ad stupid nephew. And that's what everybody's saying in the audience. 800 00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 1: Stupid Tom, stay stupid, stay stupid. You ain't fun, You're stupid. 801 00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:58,480 Speaker 1: I saw Kings King Solomon, who are out of Richmond. Yeah? 802 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,399 Speaker 1: Coming up next March nineteenth. I'm in Beaumont, Texas, y'all. 803 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,879 Speaker 1: Julie Rodgers the one show, Saturday Night. Tickets on sale 804 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:10,720 Speaker 1: right now. Laying in the cut is Nashville, Tennessee. Zany's 805 00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:13,520 Speaker 1: Comedy Club April first through the third. That's April Fool's weekend. 806 00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:17,440 Speaker 1: The food is coming to Nashville. And then April eighth 807 00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:21,680 Speaker 1: through the tent that Shaly, North Carolina, the comment Zone. 808 00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: The nephew is coming to town. Back on the road again. Baby, 809 00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,600 Speaker 1: got the microphone in my hand. Let's come watching me work. 810 00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:31,640 Speaker 1: I am ignorant at its best. Okay, Baltimo, thanks again? 811 00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:34,000 Speaker 1: Which one I'm gonna be? Stupid? Stupid? I got it 812 00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,279 Speaker 1: all right? Made him a month? All right? Thank enough? 813 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 1: You Coming up next, Strawberry letters subject what was she 814 00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:43,480 Speaker 1: doing while I was gone? Well we'll find out right 815 00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:49,279 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show Time Now 816 00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:53,240 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you need advice on relationships, 817 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:57,120 Speaker 1: on dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit your 818 00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and submit Strawberry Letter. 819 00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,960 Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 820 00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:07,279 Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now, 821 00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,440 Speaker 1: and you just never know. It could be yours. This 822 00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:13,120 Speaker 1: one could be you never know. Buckle up and hold 823 00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:14,759 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you here it is 824 00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:19,000 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject what was she doing 825 00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:22,439 Speaker 1: while I was gone? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty 826 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:25,799 Speaker 1: three year old black man married for nine years. When 827 00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 1: I got married, I was young and still in the streets. 828 00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:32,000 Speaker 1: Over time, I got an associate's degree and I got 829 00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:34,920 Speaker 1: a job in a position of leadership, but I was 830 00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,839 Speaker 1: still hanging out with the same crew, and I got 831 00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:40,840 Speaker 1: caught up and ended up in jail. A friend of 832 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,080 Speaker 1: mine asked me to drive him to the liquor store, 833 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,840 Speaker 1: so I did. He went in and came out, and 834 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,040 Speaker 1: we left. I had no idea that he had committed 835 00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:51,920 Speaker 1: an armed robbery until I was arrested for being a 836 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:55,520 Speaker 1: getaway driver. My wife had just had our third son, 837 00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,160 Speaker 1: but she held me down because she knows I'm not 838 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:01,279 Speaker 1: a bad guy. I did time and I got home 839 00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:04,600 Speaker 1: six months ago. I listened to the radio show while 840 00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,440 Speaker 1: I was locked up, and this is my favorite subject, 841 00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,640 Speaker 1: so I'm trying to see if you could help me. 842 00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:13,359 Speaker 1: My wife is a lot different since I got home. 843 00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:17,720 Speaker 1: She dresses differently, and she smokes weed, which is legal 844 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 1: in our area. She dictates if and when we have sex, 845 00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:24,960 Speaker 1: and she rations out money to me. I feel as 846 00:55:25,040 --> 00:55:27,359 Speaker 1: if I can't say anything because of what I put 847 00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,880 Speaker 1: her through while I was locked up. We were watching 848 00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:32,279 Speaker 1: TV the other night and her phone rang and she 849 00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:35,160 Speaker 1: left the room to talk. I didn't say a word. 850 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,000 Speaker 1: The next morning, she got a call and I could 851 00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,040 Speaker 1: hear that it was a man on the phone. She 852 00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,600 Speaker 1: talked for about three minutes, and as soon as she 853 00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 1: hung up, I told her she has a lot of 854 00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:47,320 Speaker 1: nerve allowing men to call her while she's home, and 855 00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:51,320 Speaker 1: there is no way this can continue. She told me 856 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 1: to hush and be glad I still have a home 857 00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:57,320 Speaker 1: because her friends helped her out by doing things in 858 00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:00,560 Speaker 1: and around the house while I was away. I asked 859 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:03,640 Speaker 1: her what in and around the house meant, and she 860 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:07,200 Speaker 1: ignored me. I have to keep cool and not explode 861 00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:13,479 Speaker 1: on her. What's the best way to approach it? Well, 862 00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:15,800 Speaker 1: you know, right now the best thing you can do 863 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:19,600 Speaker 1: is get yourself together. Okay, time doesn't stop when you 864 00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:24,040 Speaker 1: go to prison. Stop expecting things to be the same, 865 00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,000 Speaker 1: and you need to think about the future. What was 866 00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:30,360 Speaker 1: she doing while you were gone, Well, she was surviving. Obviously, 867 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,480 Speaker 1: she was taking care of three kids alone. She was 868 00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:36,560 Speaker 1: probably scared. You said. She held it down while you 869 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:40,920 Speaker 1: were in jail, and she did let you come back home. Okay, 870 00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:44,680 Speaker 1: but the respect and apparently the love are gone out 871 00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:48,839 Speaker 1: of this relationship. You see and hear what she's doing. 872 00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,480 Speaker 1: She's talking with other men. Of course you don't like it. 873 00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,040 Speaker 1: I mean what man would like that from their wife. 874 00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:58,439 Speaker 1: So now you need to concentrate on your next move 875 00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,520 Speaker 1: and that that's being your own And because your wife 876 00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:03,960 Speaker 1: is doing her thing, there's nothing you can do about it. 877 00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,000 Speaker 1: Right now, you said it. You have to keep cool 878 00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:10,880 Speaker 1: and not explode on her. You need to get your dignity, 879 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,840 Speaker 1: your self respect back. So I suggest you get a 880 00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,080 Speaker 1: job somewhere, you start making your own money so she 881 00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:20,320 Speaker 1: won't have to ration it out to you. As you say, 882 00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:25,360 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, no man wants that save it 883 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:30,160 Speaker 1: for your apartments. You know, then you know, fix the 884 00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:32,760 Speaker 1: situation with your wife and these kids. You might have 885 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,960 Speaker 1: to arrange visitation rights if you do eventually get your 886 00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 1: own apartment, And I say, making sure your kids are okay, 887 00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 1: that should be your top priority right now anyway, because 888 00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,640 Speaker 1: they missed a lot of time with you. Your youngest 889 00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:48,920 Speaker 1: son orly even knows you. You're concentrating on the wrong things. 890 00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:51,880 Speaker 1: I think you expect things to be the same. Clearly 891 00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:53,880 Speaker 1: your wife has moved on. You need to do the 892 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:59,479 Speaker 1: same now, but with purpose. Okay, Steve, this is gonna 893 00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:01,640 Speaker 1: be a tough went to answer for your young brother. 894 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:06,600 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna just take you through this thing step 895 00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:10,760 Speaker 1: by step because one of the first things when you're 896 00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:16,040 Speaker 1: trying to solve his problem is taking full responsibility and 897 00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,720 Speaker 1: knowing what it is that you can do to bring 898 00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:22,840 Speaker 1: about change. The question is in the subject what was 899 00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,960 Speaker 1: she doing while I was gone? Now, you're thirty three 900 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 1: year old black man, married for nine years. When you 901 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:31,440 Speaker 1: got married, you were young and still in the streets, 902 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:35,520 Speaker 1: so you were twenty four when you got married, same 903 00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:39,080 Speaker 1: ages me at my first marriage. That is young to 904 00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:43,720 Speaker 1: be married for anybody. But you were still in the streets. 905 00:58:43,800 --> 00:58:46,360 Speaker 1: Over time, you got an associate degree, and you got 906 00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 1: a job in a position of leadership. So you're realizing 907 00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:53,040 Speaker 1: that you got to do better for yourself. Here's the 908 00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:56,080 Speaker 1: mistake you made. But I was still hanging with the 909 00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,600 Speaker 1: same crew, and I got caught up and ended up 910 00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:02,880 Speaker 1: in jail. Hell, how many times have I said this 911 00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:06,480 Speaker 1: to people? Everybody come with you can't go with you. 912 00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:10,800 Speaker 1: In order to grow, you have to go. I've said, 913 00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:15,120 Speaker 1: it's so many different ways. You can't wear about keeping 914 00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:18,360 Speaker 1: it real. You got to keep it moving. I've said 915 00:59:18,440 --> 00:59:20,880 Speaker 1: all of these things that tie us to the hood, 916 00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:24,680 Speaker 1: that ties to our old relationships and friends, But you 917 00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:28,080 Speaker 1: can't go get an associate degree. Here's another one I 918 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,640 Speaker 1: said a long time ago. You can't be a college 919 00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:33,400 Speaker 1: student and a thug in the same census. It don't match. 920 00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:39,880 Speaker 1: Thugging and college student don't match. Now, you didn't know 921 00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,040 Speaker 1: what was going on, but you dropped your friend off 922 00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,480 Speaker 1: at a liquor store. He goes in and comes back out. 923 00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:46,800 Speaker 1: Next thing you know, you're arrested because you the getaway 924 00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:49,440 Speaker 1: car driver. You didn't know this fool went in here 925 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:53,240 Speaker 1: and robbed the damn liquor store. So now you're out 926 00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:57,520 Speaker 1: and you're an accomplished to committing an arm robbery. Your 927 00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:01,520 Speaker 1: wife had just had your third son, but she held 928 01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:03,880 Speaker 1: you down because she knows I'm not a bad guy, 929 01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:07,439 Speaker 1: did my time, and I came home six months ago. 930 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:11,360 Speaker 1: Now here's a problem. You're not telling me how long 931 01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,760 Speaker 1: you were in You're not saying that, and you're leaving 932 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:18,600 Speaker 1: that out of the letter because it helps you. But 933 01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:23,080 Speaker 1: uncle Steve, no better m robbery. Even with a plea 934 01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:28,040 Speaker 1: you year a half two. Even if they believed you, 935 01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:31,760 Speaker 1: they they let you plead to this right here. All right, 936 01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,160 Speaker 1: hang on, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming 937 01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,360 Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour of subject 938 01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:38,560 Speaker 1: what was she doing while I was gone? We'll get 939 01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:44,280 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening show, all right, 940 01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today Strawberry letter. The subject 941 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,200 Speaker 1: what was she doing while I was gone? Well, thirty 942 01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:53,080 Speaker 1: three year old black man married for nine years, was 943 01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:55,160 Speaker 1: in the streets when you got married. But you messed 944 01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:58,640 Speaker 1: around and got self degree, congratulations, got you a job 945 01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:01,760 Speaker 1: of position and leadership. But the mistake you made. You 946 01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:04,080 Speaker 1: was still hanging with the same crew. You got caught 947 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,840 Speaker 1: up and you got ended up in jail. Now, you 948 01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,160 Speaker 1: drop a friend off at the liquor store a little 949 01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:11,520 Speaker 1: too you know, he goes in and he robs the place. 950 01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:13,880 Speaker 1: He comes back and gets in the car. You don't 951 01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:16,960 Speaker 1: know this until you get arrested because you were driving 952 01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:21,400 Speaker 1: the getaway car. Okay. Now, your wife had just had 953 01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:25,200 Speaker 1: your third son, but she held you down in prison 954 01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:27,720 Speaker 1: jail because she knows you're not a bad guy. You 955 01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,040 Speaker 1: did your time, and you got home six months ago. 956 01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:32,840 Speaker 1: You didn't really say how much time you're doing. I'm 957 01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:36,840 Speaker 1: assuming a couple of years, you know, eighteen months something 958 01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,480 Speaker 1: on the plea you did because they believe that you 959 01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:42,160 Speaker 1: just went in there and you didn't know. But let's 960 01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:44,320 Speaker 1: say you were gone a couple of years, all right. 961 01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:47,320 Speaker 1: You come out and you listen to the radio show 962 01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:50,080 Speaker 1: while he was locked up. Thank you and Strawberry Letter 963 01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 1: one your favorite things. So that got you through. We 964 01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 1: appreciate y'all, brothers. Since is it's on lockdown, I hope 965 01:01:55,800 --> 01:02:01,120 Speaker 1: we do something to get you through. Not. You come 966 01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,400 Speaker 1: home and you notice that your wife is a lot 967 01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:10,800 Speaker 1: different since you got home. She dresses differently, she smokes weed, 968 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:15,080 Speaker 1: which is legal in our area. She dictates if and 969 01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:17,960 Speaker 1: when we have sex, and she rashes out money to me. 970 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:20,680 Speaker 1: I feel as though I can't say anything because of 971 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:24,320 Speaker 1: what I put her through while I was locked up. Now, 972 01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:26,280 Speaker 1: y'all watch the TV. The other night, the phone rang 973 01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:28,720 Speaker 1: and she left the room to talk. You ain't say nothing. 974 01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,280 Speaker 1: Next morning, she got a call and you could hear 975 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:33,680 Speaker 1: that it was a man on the phone. She talked 976 01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:35,600 Speaker 1: about three minutes. As soon as she hung up, I 977 01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:39,400 Speaker 1: told her she got a lot of nerve allowing me 978 01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,440 Speaker 1: and to call her while she's home, and there's no 979 01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:47,120 Speaker 1: way this can continue. She told me to hush. Pretty sure. 980 01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:50,479 Speaker 1: The word wasn't hushed. I think it was a little 981 01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:54,000 Speaker 1: bit more harsh than that. I think it started with 982 01:02:54,160 --> 01:03:05,400 Speaker 1: shut yeah, okay, Sutley, and glad that you still have 983 01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,280 Speaker 1: a home because her friends helped her out by doing 984 01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:10,920 Speaker 1: things in and around the house while I was away. 985 01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:13,600 Speaker 1: I asked her what in and the house meant, and 986 01:03:13,640 --> 01:03:16,480 Speaker 1: she ignored me. I have to keep cool and not 987 01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:20,600 Speaker 1: explode on her. What's the best way to approach it? Well, brother, 988 01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:25,919 Speaker 1: things have changed. She dressing different, and she's smoking weed. 989 01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:30,120 Speaker 1: She's gone through a lot holding his family down while 990 01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:34,320 Speaker 1: you was gone. But really, though, brother, these is the 991 01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:39,480 Speaker 1: consequences of your actions because you didn't leave them streets alone. 992 01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:42,400 Speaker 1: Well let's say you left the streets alone, but you 993 01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:47,800 Speaker 1: hang with the same crew. Association brings on participation. So 994 01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:51,720 Speaker 1: now here we are. One of your ignorant ass friends 995 01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:57,720 Speaker 1: did something ignorant selfishly didn't tell you. You got caught up. 996 01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:04,160 Speaker 1: You had to do time. Now your girl been watching 997 01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:06,840 Speaker 1: you out in this streets. She has told you you're 998 01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:09,080 Speaker 1: leaving that part out the letter. She'd been told you 999 01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,760 Speaker 1: stopped hanging with them fools. You wouldn't do it because 1000 01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:15,920 Speaker 1: you was keeping it real instead of keeping it moving. 1001 01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,840 Speaker 1: You was not forgetting where you from. You was getting 1002 01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:22,880 Speaker 1: caught up in all that hood. Then go there. Ain't 1003 01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:26,320 Speaker 1: got nothing to do with your family. So now here's 1004 01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:31,360 Speaker 1: a deal. Shirley said it right. You've got to get 1005 01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,720 Speaker 1: yourself together. But now you have a police record. Hard 1006 01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:39,160 Speaker 1: to get employed with a police record. So now you've 1007 01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:42,960 Speaker 1: got everything's all of this you bought on yourself. Brother, 1008 01:04:43,960 --> 01:04:46,400 Speaker 1: So now I can't tell you that your marriage will 1009 01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:50,680 Speaker 1: ever get back because you never really allowed it to 1010 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:54,400 Speaker 1: get off the ground the right way. You stayed out 1011 01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,320 Speaker 1: there in the streets. It's your marriage could be over. 1012 01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:03,640 Speaker 1: She has male friends, now, she has people that has 1013 01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:07,440 Speaker 1: done things for her to help her out. Now, I'm 1014 01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:09,560 Speaker 1: gonna just tell you flat out, if a man hadn't 1015 01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:13,640 Speaker 1: done something to help you out, then we gotta think 1016 01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:17,640 Speaker 1: about that for a second. I'm not saying she did anything, 1017 01:05:17,760 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 1: but you were. Man. But let's be fair. Let's not 1018 01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:25,160 Speaker 1: be angry with this sister because you put this sister 1019 01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:30,320 Speaker 1: in the position where she had to survive. And once 1020 01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:33,400 Speaker 1: you put a person in survival mode, man, you can't 1021 01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:38,040 Speaker 1: get mad at how they choose to survive. You just can't. Now, 1022 01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:41,640 Speaker 1: while she dressing different, I don't know. I don't know. 1023 01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:51,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if she wearing your clothes. I don't 1024 01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:54,080 Speaker 1: know what this change or outfits is. That she wear 1025 01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:57,680 Speaker 1: a lot of your clotheses. She wear baseball hats cocked 1026 01:05:57,720 --> 01:06:01,760 Speaker 1: to the sides. I don't know what the clothes is. 1027 01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:05,160 Speaker 1: But she rationed and out sex and money because she 1028 01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:08,400 Speaker 1: don't know how long you're gonna be round. You might 1029 01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:11,160 Speaker 1: have to go again. I don't know what it is, brother, 1030 01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:13,840 Speaker 1: but you got to get yourself together. Don't be so 1031 01:06:14,040 --> 01:06:17,400 Speaker 1: angry with the woman because she was put in survival mode. 1032 01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:21,840 Speaker 1: I don't think you should explode on her because you 1033 01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:25,680 Speaker 1: left her in a really, really bad situation with your 1034 01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:30,960 Speaker 1: third son. Woman got three kids, she got put in 1035 01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:33,960 Speaker 1: survival mode. She has some male friends, it looks like, 1036 01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:39,040 Speaker 1: and they're not your male friends. Good luck. Don't explode 1037 01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,560 Speaker 1: on the sister. Maybe it's time for you to just 1038 01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:44,200 Speaker 1: go somewhere and get yourself together, like Shirley say, take 1039 01:06:44,280 --> 01:06:47,240 Speaker 1: care of your kids. Thank you, all right? Thanks Steve 1040 01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:50,479 Speaker 1: Poster comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey, f Emine, 1041 01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:53,480 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 1042 01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,320 Speaker 1: demand coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, 1043 01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:59,520 Speaker 1: We'll have Sports with We'll have Sports with UNC and 1044 01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:03,960 Speaker 1: NET right after this. Yeah, you're listening to the Steve 1045 01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:09,400 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Junior is out today, Tommy and Steve. 1046 01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:13,880 Speaker 1: Michigan basketball head coach Juwan Howard has been suspended for 1047 01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:16,400 Speaker 1: the rest of the regular season. You guys were asking 1048 01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:19,320 Speaker 1: about that yesterday. What was going to happen? He had 1049 01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:22,040 Speaker 1: that altercation at the end of the laws against Wisconsin 1050 01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:26,640 Speaker 1: on Sunday. Here's a breakdown of the suspensions. Okay head 1051 01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:30,840 Speaker 1: coach Juwan Howard coaching suspension five games, which is the 1052 01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:35,040 Speaker 1: remainder of the season. He got fined forty thousand dollars. 1053 01:07:35,840 --> 01:07:38,320 Speaker 1: He has not lost his job though he still works. No, no, no, 1054 01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:41,320 Speaker 1: he's just suspended for the rest of the season. Okay, 1055 01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:47,840 Speaker 1: student athlete Terrence Williams the second suspension one game, effective immediately, 1056 01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:54,600 Speaker 1: Student athlete Musa Diambatte suspension one game, effective immediately. And 1057 01:07:54,800 --> 01:07:59,160 Speaker 1: for the University of Wisconsin head coach Greg Carr, Greg 1058 01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:04,560 Speaker 1: Gardin ten thousand dollars ten well, he ain't forty Okay, 1059 01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:10,680 Speaker 1: ten thousand um And student athlete Jacobe Neath suspension one 1060 01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:13,680 Speaker 1: game effective immediately. So there was what was the second 1061 01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:16,720 Speaker 1: kid's name you're seeing, Shirley. I try to get it right. 1062 01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:21,599 Speaker 1: Most all of them is about black man that's African, 1063 01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:25,720 Speaker 1: though he in trouble. Her mom didn't gonna well, let 1064 01:08:25,760 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 1: me say this, Uh, there's a little The problem I 1065 01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:35,040 Speaker 1: have with this is not Juan's suspension. I knew they 1066 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,839 Speaker 1: was gonna go hard because the athletic director of Michigan 1067 01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:44,960 Speaker 1: was against Juwan Howard from the outset. This is unacceptable. 1068 01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:48,560 Speaker 1: We were not This is Michigan, so I knew he 1069 01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:51,040 Speaker 1: was in trouble with that. Juan Howard's a good dude. 1070 01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:54,840 Speaker 1: But when I look at the tapes, the initiator of 1071 01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:59,080 Speaker 1: this whole thing was to head coach for Wisconsin. Right 1072 01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:02,240 Speaker 1: when he tried to stop Juan, and Juan tried to 1073 01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:04,400 Speaker 1: walk by him, and he grabbed his arm and pushed 1074 01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:07,960 Speaker 1: it practically behind Juan and Juan will hold man, get 1075 01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,840 Speaker 1: your hand off me. Then Juwan grabbed his fabric under 1076 01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:14,000 Speaker 1: his skin shirt and then let his hand go. But 1077 01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:17,719 Speaker 1: then Juwan's reason he's suspended is because of a punch 1078 01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:20,360 Speaker 1: of the open hand swipe he took at the other 1079 01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,479 Speaker 1: coach at the other right. Obviously, you're the only one 1080 01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:26,360 Speaker 1: on the planet who saw that. Then, No, I don't know. 1081 01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:28,720 Speaker 1: I don't know how they did. I watched it a 1082 01:09:28,800 --> 01:09:32,160 Speaker 1: bunch of times. The initiator of all contact was the 1083 01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:35,640 Speaker 1: head coach from Wisconsin. He the first person put his 1084 01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:39,400 Speaker 1: hands on Jiuana. Doesn't now Jiwan is paying for this 1085 01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:41,800 Speaker 1: whole thing. I think it's a I was a little 1086 01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: disappointed in a couple of the sports casts the way 1087 01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:47,040 Speaker 1: they jumped on Juan about it too, but it is 1088 01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:49,400 Speaker 1: what it is now, so he gonna pay the fund, 1089 01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:53,559 Speaker 1: all of them. Stephen A. Smith said that he should 1090 01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:56,479 Speaker 1: be suspended and needed. Stephen A. Smith said, you're the 1091 01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:59,479 Speaker 1: only one that really happens. Stephen, ain't see what happened 1092 01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:01,640 Speaker 1: at first, don't know what the I don't know how 1093 01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:03,640 Speaker 1: they didn't. I watched the tape, the whole tape. That 1094 01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:08,559 Speaker 1: initiation of physical contact was the Wisconsin coach. Forty thousand 1095 01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:11,320 Speaker 1: dollars fine, ten thousand dollars fine, Okay, you do the 1096 01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,160 Speaker 1: man coming up at the top of the hour. We'll 1097 01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:16,560 Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1098 01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:23,320 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Valentine's Day 1099 01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:25,840 Speaker 1: was a week ago, and we don't really know if 1100 01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:29,559 Speaker 1: this story is true, but according to Barstool Sports, Buffalo 1101 01:10:29,680 --> 01:10:33,800 Speaker 1: Bill's players Stefan Diggs allegedly had two women in the 1102 01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:37,639 Speaker 1: same hotel in two different rooms on Valentine's Day. That's 1103 01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:42,200 Speaker 1: come on. One of the women is. One of the 1104 01:10:42,240 --> 01:10:45,479 Speaker 1: women is his regular girlfriend, okay, the other one is 1105 01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:50,240 Speaker 1: his new boom. Both posted pictures on Valentine's Day with 1106 01:10:50,360 --> 01:10:54,599 Speaker 1: flowers balloons, which are now allegedly posted on a blogs 1107 01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:57,560 Speaker 1: i G page, and it's not really clear if the 1108 01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:06,719 Speaker 1: women are staying at the same hotel. It's all very confusing. Anyway, 1109 01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:12,200 Speaker 1: here's the question, here's the question, going from one room 1110 01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:16,639 Speaker 1: to the other. If they could have had a joining suite. Okay, anyway, 1111 01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:20,680 Speaker 1: have you ever juggled two different people? This? This is 1112 01:11:20,920 --> 01:11:24,719 Speaker 1: you know, for you guys, if you've ever jugged this morning, 1113 01:11:31,320 --> 01:11:35,799 Speaker 1: that means is that a yes? Tommy? Is that a yes? Anyway? 1114 01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:39,040 Speaker 1: Have you ever juggled two different people who both thought 1115 01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:41,240 Speaker 1: that you were into them at the same time and 1116 01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:45,560 Speaker 1: the same That's it. That's the question. I juggled some 1117 01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:51,360 Speaker 1: balls in a Shakespeare plate. I'm not look at Steve. 1118 01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:54,920 Speaker 1: Steve's hand is on his face. Stuff you ask us, 1119 01:11:55,720 --> 01:12:02,960 Speaker 1: amaze man, tell us story, Steve. Let's go back to 1120 01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:08,439 Speaker 1: Let's go back and talk about that story. I do 1121 01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:14,320 Speaker 1: want to say something about Stefan Diggs. If you have 1122 01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:20,120 Speaker 1: two girls in the same hotel, in different rooms on 1123 01:12:20,439 --> 01:12:26,439 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, you cannot get arrested for this. This is 1124 01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:31,439 Speaker 1: not a crime being committed, you know. Uh. If they 1125 01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:36,719 Speaker 1: both got the same types of rooms, that's that's good. 1126 01:12:38,920 --> 01:12:43,000 Speaker 1: Where do you sleep at well, you don't sleep, Tommy. 1127 01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:46,920 Speaker 1: It's a lot of a lot of back and forth, 1128 01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:52,680 Speaker 1: a lot of ice ice. Now you're gonna have to 1129 01:12:52,800 --> 01:12:57,479 Speaker 1: have a friend involved in this who can call your phone, 1130 01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:01,880 Speaker 1: who has an offsight emergency that requires you to drive 1131 01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:05,320 Speaker 1: there and help him. That's what would you do? Because 1132 01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:10,920 Speaker 1: here comes the lies. Well, okay, Shirley you wanted the women, 1133 01:13:11,560 --> 01:13:16,000 Speaker 1: and caller you wanted the women. And now I got 1134 01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:21,400 Speaker 1: to leave Caller's room to go up to Shirley's room. 1135 01:13:21,760 --> 01:13:25,320 Speaker 1: So here's what I'm gonna say to caller. Hevery baby, 1136 01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:27,880 Speaker 1: hold on, I'm gonna go. I left something in the car. 1137 01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:29,679 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go down to the car and get something. 1138 01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:39,840 Speaker 1: Everything I got flowers. You deserve more, baby, There's no 1139 01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:41,640 Speaker 1: way on and went through all this. Listen, I'm not 1140 01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:45,360 Speaker 1: gonna give you everything you deserve on Valentine. Sit tight. 1141 01:13:45,479 --> 01:13:48,320 Speaker 1: It's gonna take me a minute to range everything because 1142 01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:50,560 Speaker 1: I'm waiting on something else to happen. But I'll be 1143 01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:59,639 Speaker 1: right back. Click gone two hours. She win this Teddy 1144 01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:03,479 Speaker 1: alone on time. You know that I'm up at Sherley 1145 01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:09,120 Speaker 1: room for two hours. I just got here. Lord have message. 1146 01:14:09,160 --> 01:14:12,200 Speaker 1: I'm so happy to see you. Let's get it on, 1147 01:14:13,120 --> 01:14:19,240 Speaker 1: Marvin Gay, I've been waiting. I know, I'm here, almost over. 1148 01:14:19,880 --> 01:14:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm here. I had an emergency. What was the emergency? 1149 01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:28,959 Speaker 1: I had a friend of mine that called. He got arrested. 1150 01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:33,479 Speaker 1: He got arrested. You know howse football players he is. 1151 01:14:33,560 --> 01:14:36,880 Speaker 1: We're always getting in trumble. But what didn't he do though? 1152 01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:40,439 Speaker 1: That a solo battery of a police are No, I'm 1153 01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:44,439 Speaker 1: his best friend trying me leave him, and we're trying 1154 01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:46,600 Speaker 1: to keep this and quit making me talk about it 1155 01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:48,760 Speaker 1: because we're trying to keep this hush hush before the 1156 01:14:48,880 --> 01:14:52,519 Speaker 1: end up on TMZ. Well, baby, if Valentine's Day here, 1157 01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:56,320 Speaker 1: I am plus you the second chick anyway, because you 1158 01:14:56,560 --> 01:15:00,880 Speaker 1: number two coming up a third three this after the hour, 1159 01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:03,360 Speaker 1: we'll play around it, would you rather? Right after this 1160 01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:09,840 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Here's a 1161 01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:13,960 Speaker 1: crazy story. And lots of people get tattoos, right, lots 1162 01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:17,719 Speaker 1: of people get tattoos to mark important occasions in their lives. 1163 01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:23,000 Speaker 1: And Gloria, don't I just remember stuff? Yeah, but a 1164 01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:26,240 Speaker 1: lot of people do get tattoos. Gloria Weeberg is one 1165 01:15:26,320 --> 01:15:30,360 Speaker 1: of them. She's from Michigan. She's celebrating an important milestone. 1166 01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:33,760 Speaker 1: Next month, she will be turning one hundred years old, 1167 01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:38,040 Speaker 1: and she's getting a tattoo to celebrate that fact. Gloria 1168 01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:41,160 Speaker 1: may not be the age of the average tattoo shop customer, 1169 01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:44,439 Speaker 1: but this isn't her first visit. She actually got her 1170 01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:48,040 Speaker 1: very first tattooed twenty years ago when she turned eighty. 1171 01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:53,400 Speaker 1: Then when she turned ninety, she got another tattoo. Now 1172 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:56,479 Speaker 1: the latest addition to her left arm is to mark 1173 01:15:56,840 --> 01:16:00,200 Speaker 1: one zero zero, one hundred. She now probably for it 1174 01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:04,360 Speaker 1: say New York nineteen twenty two tattoo and for the 1175 01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:08,120 Speaker 1: year in place of her birth, and a goddess representing 1176 01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:12,000 Speaker 1: Mother Earth and seven stars representing her children. Three people 1177 01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:15,320 Speaker 1: gotta do her tattoos, though, how so, because you got 1178 01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:18,280 Speaker 1: two people gotta pull her skin on both sides or 1179 01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:21,920 Speaker 1: to lay flat, then the tattoo artists can start. You 1180 01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,560 Speaker 1: need two people pulling her skin, stretch it out like 1181 01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:27,840 Speaker 1: an old cloth so it'll be smooth. It's three people 1182 01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:30,400 Speaker 1: to do her tattoos because you got to stretch your skin. 1183 01:16:30,560 --> 01:16:33,879 Speaker 1: I'll make it flat first, and then when it's snapped, 1184 01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:38,080 Speaker 1: the tattoo don't look like it do like it's gonna 1185 01:16:38,120 --> 01:16:40,479 Speaker 1: say one hundred, but when it's snapped back, it's gonna 1186 01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:46,519 Speaker 1: say ten. A happy upcoming birthday, missus Gloria Wee Bird 1187 01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:49,160 Speaker 1: coming up at thirty three minutes after, we'll play a 1188 01:16:49,280 --> 01:16:51,519 Speaker 1: round it Would you rather right at? I swear to 1189 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:56,840 Speaker 1: god it is you're listening to Morning show time Now 1190 01:16:56,960 --> 01:16:59,400 Speaker 1: guys for a round of would you rather? Would you 1191 01:16:59,600 --> 01:17:05,200 Speaker 1: rather remember everything you see? Or would you rather remember 1192 01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:12,720 Speaker 1: everything you hear? Maybe here? Okay, so you say, yeah, yea, 1193 01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:16,439 Speaker 1: I'll rather remember everything out here because everything you see 1194 01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:20,639 Speaker 1: wasn't wasn't real, no way. But I really remember everything 1195 01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:25,680 Speaker 1: out here because here's hearing this is knowledge seeing this 1196 01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:31,240 Speaker 1: to seven? Okay, all right, okay? Would you rather give 1197 01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:35,280 Speaker 1: up cursing forever forever? Would you rather give cursing forever? 1198 01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:39,160 Speaker 1: Or would you rather give up ice cream for five years? Oh? 1199 01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:41,720 Speaker 1: I give up ice cream for five years because you 1200 01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:48,960 Speaker 1: can't give up cursing about that ice cream? Though, give 1201 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:53,040 Speaker 1: up cursing forever or ice cream for five years? Yeah, 1202 01:17:53,720 --> 01:17:55,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give up that ice cream for five years, 1203 01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:59,840 Speaker 1: for five five years as much as you love ice cream? Yeah, yeah, 1204 01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:06,400 Speaker 1: you know more. I just It's not that I love cursing, 1205 01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:09,519 Speaker 1: It's just I think it's a necessity. I don't know 1206 01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:12,599 Speaker 1: how because there's a lot of ways. Yeah, I keep 1207 01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:14,680 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff off me with that. Plus there's 1208 01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:17,960 Speaker 1: a lot of people that I have in my life 1209 01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:21,080 Speaker 1: that I have to It's like I can't talk to 1210 01:18:21,200 --> 01:18:24,680 Speaker 1: my oldest brother lest we CUsing it's no way me 1211 01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:28,640 Speaker 1: and Turke can have a conversation. Les custom all right, 1212 01:18:29,160 --> 01:18:32,759 Speaker 1: rather would you rather change the outcome of the last 1213 01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:36,879 Speaker 1: election or would you rather get to decide the outcome 1214 01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:39,840 Speaker 1: of the next election? So would you rather change the 1215 01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,400 Speaker 1: last one or get to decide the outcome of the 1216 01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:48,360 Speaker 1: upcoming election? Yeah? Um, upcoming? Yeah? Joe Biden and you 1217 01:18:48,439 --> 01:18:51,040 Speaker 1: know so, yeah cool, I should have said the one 1218 01:18:51,120 --> 01:18:55,880 Speaker 1: before that one. Who do I think would make a 1219 01:18:56,040 --> 01:19:00,800 Speaker 1: great new president from the Democratic side? I'm not sure 1220 01:19:00,840 --> 01:19:04,840 Speaker 1: who we have. Yeah, And I don't know if Joe 1221 01:19:05,040 --> 01:19:09,320 Speaker 1: is gonna be capable to run again due to his age, 1222 01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:12,680 Speaker 1: but if he's up, if he if he propped up, 1223 01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:17,040 Speaker 1: they're gonna run him again. I think Joe came in 1224 01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:20,240 Speaker 1: just to do for That's what I think. But you know, 1225 01:19:20,320 --> 01:19:23,240 Speaker 1: it's amazing, man, that they got Trump out of that though, 1226 01:19:23,320 --> 01:19:27,720 Speaker 1: because usually the incumbent usually wins. Yeah, but they got 1227 01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:31,200 Speaker 1: they got Trump out of there. Um, all right? Would 1228 01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:33,719 Speaker 1: you would you rather be forced to live the same 1229 01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:38,040 Speaker 1: day over and over again for a full year or 1230 01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:41,639 Speaker 1: take three years off the end of your life? Oh? 1231 01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:45,000 Speaker 1: I little Si. We're just gonna keep on doing Monday. 1232 01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:46,680 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn you guys gonna keep on 1233 01:19:51,479 --> 01:19:55,840 Speaker 1: being shaving no time off yep that I don't know 1234 01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:59,280 Speaker 1: what's fit to happen too. I can turn that into something. 1235 01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:02,720 Speaker 1: All right, that's what you're rather for today. Coming up 1236 01:20:02,720 --> 01:20:04,960 Speaker 1: at forty nine minutes after the hour, it's our last 1237 01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:07,360 Speaker 1: break of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks 1238 01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:09,680 Speaker 1: from the one on only Steve Harvey right after this. 1239 01:20:10,360 --> 01:20:15,599 Speaker 1: You're listening to show all right, guys, it is our 1240 01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:19,439 Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday, and Steve, 1241 01:20:19,640 --> 01:20:22,360 Speaker 1: it's time for our closing remarks. Hey, here it is 1242 01:20:22,479 --> 01:20:25,320 Speaker 1: today you all. I want to encourage people asual, but 1243 01:20:25,400 --> 01:20:28,240 Speaker 1: I want to remind you of something. You have an 1244 01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:35,240 Speaker 1: opportunity to make a decision that can alter the course 1245 01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:42,720 Speaker 1: of your life. You you have an opportunity to make 1246 01:20:42,760 --> 01:20:50,040 Speaker 1: a decision that can alter the course of your life. Okay, Steve, 1247 01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:53,240 Speaker 1: what do you mean by that? I mean this, and 1248 01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:57,320 Speaker 1: this is just a true fact. If you change your 1249 01:20:57,439 --> 01:21:01,679 Speaker 1: thought process, if you change the way you look at things, 1250 01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:06,160 Speaker 1: if you take every negative spin and put a positive 1251 01:21:06,200 --> 01:21:10,280 Speaker 1: spin on it, if you start setting your dreams and goals, 1252 01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:13,880 Speaker 1: if you start praying, if you start confiding in God, 1253 01:21:14,160 --> 01:21:17,640 Speaker 1: if you form a relationship with your creator, you have 1254 01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:22,200 Speaker 1: done the necessary things. You have made a decision that 1255 01:21:22,400 --> 01:21:26,360 Speaker 1: can alter the course of your life. All you have 1256 01:21:26,600 --> 01:21:32,120 Speaker 1: to do is believe that is so that simple thing 1257 01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:36,520 Speaker 1: is so difficult for the average person to even conceive 1258 01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:39,960 Speaker 1: for themselves. And why is that? I'll tell you why. 1259 01:21:40,360 --> 01:21:44,400 Speaker 1: Because the devil is brilliant. Because the devil uses all 1260 01:21:44,520 --> 01:21:48,240 Speaker 1: the tricks to persuade you to think the opposite way. 1261 01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:51,479 Speaker 1: His only job is to rob you of your destiny. 1262 01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:54,760 Speaker 1: And if he can make you think that what I 1263 01:21:54,920 --> 01:21:58,839 Speaker 1: just said is not possible for you, it is the beginning. 1264 01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:04,519 Speaker 1: But let's go back and look at it. If you 1265 01:22:04,640 --> 01:22:09,240 Speaker 1: look at all the success stories of most honest people, 1266 01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:14,160 Speaker 1: they will tell you at some point I believed it, 1267 01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:19,320 Speaker 1: I wanted it, and I worked for it. But if 1268 01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:24,080 Speaker 1: you do not have the belief. We can stop right there. 1269 01:22:26,200 --> 01:22:34,200 Speaker 1: If you don't believe something it's for you. If you 1270 01:22:34,320 --> 01:22:38,160 Speaker 1: don't believe in something you want or aspire to, we 1271 01:22:38,320 --> 01:22:43,880 Speaker 1: can stop right there. Now. Think about it. Have you 1272 01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:47,200 Speaker 1: given up on the belief system? Have you given up 1273 01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:50,280 Speaker 1: on believing in the things that you used to want 1274 01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:54,320 Speaker 1: for yourself? Because in the delaying of it happening, you 1275 01:22:54,520 --> 01:22:58,400 Speaker 1: perceive the delay as a denial. How many of you 1276 01:22:58,520 --> 01:23:01,360 Speaker 1: are guilty of that. It's have a real moment here now. 1277 01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:04,559 Speaker 1: How many of you have ever wanted something really badly 1278 01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:07,280 Speaker 1: and you wanted at a particular time and it didn't happen, 1279 01:23:07,640 --> 01:23:11,920 Speaker 1: so you assumed because it was delayed, it was denied. 1280 01:23:12,400 --> 01:23:14,240 Speaker 1: How many of you have ever felt that way? I 1281 01:23:14,360 --> 01:23:18,519 Speaker 1: know I have, I know I know the majority of 1282 01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:23,120 Speaker 1: people have. But if that's the way you use your 1283 01:23:23,200 --> 01:23:29,519 Speaker 1: thought process, it proves that what I'm saying is true 1284 01:23:30,600 --> 01:23:32,720 Speaker 1: because the moment you change the way you think, you 1285 01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:41,120 Speaker 1: change everything. Because it's delayed doesn't mean it's denied because 1286 01:23:41,880 --> 01:23:46,599 Speaker 1: you don't believe something to be So it's the very 1287 01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:50,240 Speaker 1: call of the possibility of it happened, And it gets 1288 01:23:50,320 --> 01:23:54,080 Speaker 1: down to the real basis of what faith is. Faith 1289 01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:59,560 Speaker 1: is the belief in things that you cannot see. I 1290 01:23:59,720 --> 01:24:02,840 Speaker 1: don't need a lot of faith to walk to the bathroom. 1291 01:24:03,280 --> 01:24:06,200 Speaker 1: I just don't. I just say, man, I got to 1292 01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:07,680 Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, and I get up in a 1293 01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:12,920 Speaker 1: walk over there. It doesn't require faith for me. But 1294 01:24:13,040 --> 01:24:17,240 Speaker 1: if I decide to set up a goal that to 1295 01:24:17,439 --> 01:24:21,040 Speaker 1: gain attention for my foundation or to gain attention to 1296 01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:24,759 Speaker 1: a cause, and I make the announcement on Facebook, Steve 1297 01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:28,759 Speaker 1: Harvey is going to walk from Atlanta, Georgia to Cleveland, Ohio, 1298 01:24:29,479 --> 01:24:31,840 Speaker 1: a lot of people gonna get cameras out, We're gonna 1299 01:24:31,840 --> 01:24:35,479 Speaker 1: go see this here because you know why, that ain't regular. 1300 01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:38,360 Speaker 1: That ain't nothing I've ever done before. They ain't nothing 1301 01:24:38,439 --> 01:24:41,280 Speaker 1: I can see. So that would require faith, wouldn't it 1302 01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:45,599 Speaker 1: would It would require faith for a person to say 1303 01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:48,599 Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna I'm gonna go survive some in climate 1304 01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:51,439 Speaker 1: clement weather for twenty one days, neck it and afraid 1305 01:24:51,560 --> 01:24:54,800 Speaker 1: or whatever. It requires some measure of faith. But if 1306 01:24:54,800 --> 01:24:56,640 Speaker 1: you watch that show, a lot of people don't make 1307 01:24:56,680 --> 01:24:58,760 Speaker 1: it because what they thought was gonna be easy is 1308 01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:01,400 Speaker 1: never that easy. And then somewhere a line that the 1309 01:25:01,560 --> 01:25:06,160 Speaker 1: majority of people don't make it on that show. But 1310 01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:11,879 Speaker 1: listen to me. Everything starts from the basis of your belief. 1311 01:25:13,400 --> 01:25:18,240 Speaker 1: Get back to believing. I believe that twenty twenty two 1312 01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:20,360 Speaker 1: is gonna be the best year of my life. I 1313 01:25:20,640 --> 01:25:24,000 Speaker 1: expect that. I am looking forward, I am watchful for 1314 01:25:24,439 --> 01:25:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm paying close attention to everything I'm saying to God 1315 01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:30,320 Speaker 1: so far in twenty twenty two, because I have claimed 1316 01:25:30,360 --> 01:25:33,599 Speaker 1: a victory for myself in twenty twenty two. If you've 1317 01:25:33,680 --> 01:25:37,160 Speaker 1: not done that, when stuff don't happen your way, who 1318 01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:40,320 Speaker 1: you're mad at you didn't put the belief out there. 1319 01:25:40,600 --> 01:25:42,800 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, y'all, why would you not try that? 1320 01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:46,680 Speaker 1: Why would you not give that a shot. It's a 1321 01:25:46,800 --> 01:25:52,760 Speaker 1: simple exercise in belief. It's a simple exercise in the 1322 01:25:52,920 --> 01:25:58,280 Speaker 1: law of attraction. It's a simple exercise in faith. But 1323 01:25:58,520 --> 01:26:01,800 Speaker 1: you've got to attempt it. All that donna work, Yo. 1324 01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:03,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something. Somebody really really close to me. 1325 01:26:05,040 --> 01:26:08,080 Speaker 1: I've been begging them to come to me and sit 1326 01:26:08,200 --> 01:26:11,960 Speaker 1: down with a vision list because I tell everybody and 1327 01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:14,840 Speaker 1: this person is really close to me, and they've yet 1328 01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:19,040 Speaker 1: to come and sit with me. But they keep wandering 1329 01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:23,479 Speaker 1: around aimlessly in their life, and I watch them time 1330 01:26:23,560 --> 01:26:26,000 Speaker 1: after time after time, thing not go right. Thing not 1331 01:26:26,120 --> 01:26:28,400 Speaker 1: go right. And they keep telling me about it. And 1332 01:26:28,560 --> 01:26:30,760 Speaker 1: all I said to them was come and sit with 1333 01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:34,639 Speaker 1: me with your vision list, your dream board. They still 1334 01:26:34,760 --> 01:26:39,400 Speaker 1: ain't made one. Well maybe if they would start believing 1335 01:26:39,439 --> 01:26:42,160 Speaker 1: that that system works, maybe they could change something. Maybe 1336 01:26:42,200 --> 01:26:45,280 Speaker 1: they're listening today. I hope so, I hope you heard it. 1337 01:26:45,479 --> 01:26:48,559 Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks today. It starts with the belief. 1338 01:26:48,680 --> 01:26:51,639 Speaker 1: Y'all get back to believing. Have a great day. Talk 1339 01:26:51,720 --> 01:27:03,800 Speaker 1: to God he loved to hear from me. For all 1340 01:27:03,840 --> 01:27:07,560 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants 1341 01:27:07,640 --> 01:27:10,519 Speaker 1: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1342 01:27:10,640 --> 01:27:14,400 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1343 01:27:14,560 --> 01:27:18,559 Speaker 1: FM dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.