WEBVTT - Double Trouble

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<v Speaker 1>Hell I Suck At Dating with the Nongler and Jared

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<v Speaker 1>Haven and I heard radio podcast What's Up? Everyone? Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to an all new episode of Help I Suck At Dating.

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<v Speaker 1>The month is August. It's and now it still feels

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<v Speaker 1>like it might be March, right like time is flying by.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, right there, really is. It's insane. It's

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<v Speaker 1>amazing how some of these days felt so long because

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<v Speaker 1>we had nothing to do, but now it's in a

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<v Speaker 1>blink of an eye August. What the hell is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>It's because I think it's because all of us are

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<v Speaker 1>just doing the same monotonous thing over and over again

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<v Speaker 1>that you look back and you're like, what have I

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<v Speaker 1>done the last four months? I feel like is now

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<v Speaker 1>just going to become a way of describing horrible things? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like oh what what? What happened to Stephanie Man? But

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<v Speaker 1>that's definitely gonna be how I'm going to justify my

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<v Speaker 1>my twenty pounds of weight gain over the past four months. Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>you put a little weight on? Yeah? Well yeah. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>We've got a great episode for you guys today. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have quite a few guests. Um, We're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>the Lovely Chelsea Peretti. You've probably seen her all over

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<v Speaker 1>the place Brooklyn nine nine. She also has a new

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<v Speaker 1>movie that's coming onto all streaming platforms, but we'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>to her later about that. We're gonna have Haley and

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<v Speaker 1>Emily Ferguson calling in and dropping a little uh, a

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<v Speaker 1>little a little east not an Easter egg, but podcast

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<v Speaker 1>bomb if you will, on us, So stay tuned for

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<v Speaker 1>that because you're not gonna want to miss out what

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<v Speaker 1>they have to say. Um, before we do all that,

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<v Speaker 1>there has been a couple of headlines about a show

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<v Speaker 1>that's near and dear to mine and Jared's heart. To

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<v Speaker 1>the Bachelorette. Ah, it looks like from what I've seen,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know anything. I am the most in the

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<v Speaker 1>dark person about this. In fact, Caitlin had to walk

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<v Speaker 1>into the bedroom the other night at like eleven PM

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<v Speaker 1>and tell me what was going on. So apparently Claire

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<v Speaker 1>has quote unquote quit the season with a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>she's interested in, uh, And they brought in a new bachelorette,

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<v Speaker 1>which they've officially announced tes Tatia. So I think that

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<v Speaker 1>we're fully welcome to talk about this non spoil or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it looks like. Ta Sho has been brought in

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<v Speaker 1>mid season to replace Claire as the Bachelorette. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is my surface level knowledge of understanding, because again I

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<v Speaker 1>get my uh news of Bachelorette through the curated Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>posts for some reason that they think that I care

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<v Speaker 1>about and I care enough to talk about it. Now, Um, Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think about all this? It's weird because

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<v Speaker 1>like everybody's confirming Tastia as the Bachelorette, but Warner or

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<v Speaker 1>ABC hasn't said anything yet, so that's kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's what I see. And I know that Lauren Zima

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<v Speaker 1>isn't like the voice of Warner or anything like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but she's been tweeting and confirming and saying all this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that tastes a bachelorette e. New said something like

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<v Speaker 1>US Weekly again not warnered themselves saying anything, but it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds to me like it's happening, right, But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it. It sounds like it's happening, which is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Also great because the rumor is Claire left with a guy,

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<v Speaker 1>like the fact that like she had to leave the

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<v Speaker 1>show because she just couldn't fake it. She was so

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<v Speaker 1>in love with this one particular person that they like,

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<v Speaker 1>she they had to get another bacheloret because like there

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<v Speaker 1>everybody knew and the other dudes didn't have a chance.

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<v Speaker 1>So if that is true, that's awesome because then you

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<v Speaker 1>have one love story Claire leaves, and then now you

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<v Speaker 1>insert Tasia and she has the potential of finding her

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<v Speaker 1>own love stories, so you could find you know, two

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<v Speaker 1>people could find their husbands on one season. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty good, isn't in Claire good? God, Like, if

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<v Speaker 1>this is true, talk about like the prototypical right reasons

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<v Speaker 1>person on the show, Like she just doesn't bullshit around.

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<v Speaker 1>She went in, found her husband, was like all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, get me the hell out of here. That's

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<v Speaker 1>crazy that they even literally like I don't know, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know exactly what happened, but it's crazy that

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<v Speaker 1>the show is like, yeah, that's a good idea, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do that, and then we'll just bring someone else in.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's gonna be really interesting to find out

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<v Speaker 1>what exactly happened. Like, I bet you if we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to like any of our friends that have been the

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<v Speaker 1>Bachelor bachelorettes, I bet you they were like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>probably knew like twelve days in, but I had to

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<v Speaker 1>finish out the rest of the season filming wise. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably like that kind of makes sense, like it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it sucks because you knew who you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to pick anyways, But in this case, it sounds very

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<v Speaker 1>much like that's the case, and she's just like, nope,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not gonna film anymore, you know, Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>It's weird, like how great was this was the connection?

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<v Speaker 1>Just like off the charts that she really couldn't fake it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like I feel like, like you said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there are other leads in the past that probably felt

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<v Speaker 1>very similar where they were like, Okay, I know who

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna pick three weeks in and now I just

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<v Speaker 1>have to fake it. I don't want to, but I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I have to. So I'm curious, like what happened?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? We can definitely say about it that

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know what we're talking about. And in addition

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<v Speaker 1>to that, uh no, that' my funny, man, unbelievable. It

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<v Speaker 1>really like, just when you think things can't get anywhere

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<v Speaker 1>or all right, we're gonna insert a different bachelor rette.

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<v Speaker 1>I love though, I'm super happy for same is great.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stoke. I was pulling for Tasia before the Claire announcement. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>happy for Claire. Don't get me wrong, Um, I just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I've been become friends with Tasha through the

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<v Speaker 1>show and everything, so I'm stoked to see her hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>find her love story if that's the case, if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if that actually is confirmed. Again, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know either, but yeah, well I'm a big Tasia

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<v Speaker 1>fan as well. So were you have another topic? Hot

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<v Speaker 1>topics to start off the show? We're recording really ear

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. What time is it? It's like eight thirty?

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<v Speaker 1>Good God, anyway, I have coffee. I'm good. Jason Momoa

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<v Speaker 1>received a birthday wish from his wife, Lisa Bonnet's x

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<v Speaker 1>Lenny Kravitz. And so Lenny is Lisa's ex and Lisa

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<v Speaker 1>is now married to Jason Momoa, and apparently Lenny is

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<v Speaker 1>super close with both Jason and Lisa to the point

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<v Speaker 1>like he's obsessed with them and he's like previously spoken

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<v Speaker 1>about about being close with both of them. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>Lenny posted a picture of Jason Moe for his birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>and people are losing their minds over this thing because

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<v Speaker 1>they just love how much Lenny loves Jason and Lisa.

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<v Speaker 1>So I guess the question for me, Dean is could

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<v Speaker 1>you ever be super close with one of your ex

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<v Speaker 1>is who's in a relationship now. I think that these

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<v Speaker 1>people are just born different, you know, Like it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>Lenny Kravitz arguably like the most uh the most I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, bangable art musician out there. It's freaking Aquaman,

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<v Speaker 1>who everyone's got a heart on for Aquaman. Um So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, I don't like, obviously Lenny Kravitz is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be comfortable enough with his with himself, with his former

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<v Speaker 1>relationships and all these things to be like, uh, happy

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<v Speaker 1>birthday to my bro who's also dating my ex you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. I don't know. I just think

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<v Speaker 1>that these people are just born different and they have zero,

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<v Speaker 1>um uh, what's the word. I'm looking for, zero insecurities

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<v Speaker 1>about this type of stuff, especially like in the entertainment industry.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess like they've been in it for so long

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<v Speaker 1>that they kind of understand, uh that you can't really

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<v Speaker 1>hold these grudges anyway. It's like as sop as it

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<v Speaker 1>is I'm sorry. Language is like, imagine all the good

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<v Speaker 1>pr that they're getting just for this because they're all friends,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't know. Oh yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not just as much a business decision as it

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<v Speaker 1>is a personal decision. But yeah, like you said, like

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<v Speaker 1>Lenny post a picture of Jason mot and it's literally

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<v Speaker 1>blowing up and now Lenny's you know, trending on Twitter

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. Yeah, I agree with you. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like a different world being that like that

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<v Speaker 1>level of celebrity. I I could never relate. They're just

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<v Speaker 1>all they're born different. Like you said, uh, and Lenny

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<v Speaker 1>and least I have a kid together. You guys probably

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<v Speaker 1>know her. It's Zoe Kravitz. So I guess like Jason

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<v Speaker 1>Momoa coming in, it's Jason. I don't know much about

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<v Speaker 1>Jason Momoa. I know him. He's he's cal Drogo on

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<v Speaker 1>Game of thrones's been watching that. He's Aquaman, which I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly I haven't seen that movie, but he's like he's

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<v Speaker 1>like one of the biggest actors in the world at

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<v Speaker 1>the moment too, So it's like he's a sexy man too,

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn stud Yeah, and he's a monster. He's like, he

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<v Speaker 1>looks freaking huge, he's freaking cal drogo for getness sick.

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<v Speaker 1>But my point is it's like, if if Lisa and

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<v Speaker 1>let me have a kid together, then Jason comes into

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<v Speaker 1>the picture, It's like, what choice do they all have

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<v Speaker 1>other than being I'm not I'm not gonna say being

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with each other, because I guess you could maybe

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<v Speaker 1>maybe scale it back a little bit, but uh, it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like they're doing they're doing what's good for not

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<v Speaker 1>only the kids, but for themselves, you know, yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, once you have a kid together, like you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>like you were talking about, it changes at the game

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<v Speaker 1>and like you have, you want to be at least

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<v Speaker 1>cordial with your ex to make sure that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the parents are still very much involve all in the

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<v Speaker 1>kid's life. So it's pretty cool to see that Lenny

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<v Speaker 1>is not only involved but just like best friends with

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<v Speaker 1>them all. Um, So let's talk about let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the next couple that's kind of This one hits a

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<v Speaker 1>little closer to home for me at least. So Brian

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<v Speaker 1>Auson Green and Megan Fox split up. Megan Fox has

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<v Speaker 1>since been dating, you know, presumably monogamously with Machine Gun Kelly.

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<v Speaker 1>But Brian Auson Green apparently has been dating multiple people,

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<v Speaker 1>as we do when we start dating other people, right Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you go on multiple dates, you figure out who you like,

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<v Speaker 1>you figure out who you don't like. But Brian Auson

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<v Speaker 1>Green has come in to talk about how he feels

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<v Speaker 1>like he's being a little unfairly criticized for dating multiple

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<v Speaker 1>multiple people and how his life is under a microscope

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<v Speaker 1>because he is quote unquote famous or in the public

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<v Speaker 1>eye whatever. Um, what do you think about this? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know is he is he getting scrutiny or is

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<v Speaker 1>he just like reading his own Twitter feed? Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like people just read way too much in comments

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<v Speaker 1>and then they start losing their mind. It is funny

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<v Speaker 1>how personal a lot of people take like these, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>these little one off trolling comments on Twitter and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Yeah. I mean, I'm not like in the

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<v Speaker 1>know of pop culture. You know, a lot a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the news I get is from Nashley. But like

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<v Speaker 1>Brian Austin Green, I I haven't heard any criticism for

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<v Speaker 1>for his dating. Maybe he is widely being criticized for

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<v Speaker 1>it and he's he's lashing back for it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like he's reading his own Twitter mentions and

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<v Speaker 1>like half of his Twitter mentions say we love you, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>and half of his Twitter mentions are saying, uh, you suck,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's just like being in the public eye. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like, but I mean, dude, date whoever you want

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<v Speaker 1>if you're single and you're being honest to these women

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<v Speaker 1>and you're just saying, listen, I'm I'm out there, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>dating and I'm not sure if I'm ready to settle down,

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<v Speaker 1>Like then you're fine, you don't. There's our criticism for that.

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<v Speaker 1>There's nothing wrong with being single as long as you're

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<v Speaker 1>being honest. And now he's kind of perpetuating it to

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<v Speaker 1>like we're all talking about him dating or round, which

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<v Speaker 1>means more like you know, there's gonna be like more

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<v Speaker 1>talk of him dating around. I think this issue here

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<v Speaker 1>is going from dating someone like Megan Fox, who is

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<v Speaker 1>like widely heralded as like you know, like she's obviously

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<v Speaker 1>been the hottest girl around for basically two decades at

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<v Speaker 1>this point there, it's like after you go from Megan

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<v Speaker 1>Fox to whoever you go from, you're kind of kind

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<v Speaker 1>of be labeled as a as an f boy, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. So it's like, yeah, fairly though

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, oh, don't get me wrong, it's totally unfair.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like I think people are coming to Megan

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<v Speaker 1>support and being like, oh, Brian Austin Green is now

0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:38.360
<v Speaker 1>dating people like he was never a good guy in

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<v Speaker 1>the first place, you know what I mean. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>remember when Machine Gun Gilly and Eminem had that feud.

0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:48.600
<v Speaker 1>You remember that at all? They they wrote like this

0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:52.760
<v Speaker 1>songs back and forth to each other. The rap worlds

0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:54.960
<v Speaker 1>is a world that I would not be. I would

0:11:54.960 --> 0:11:59.040
<v Speaker 1>not thrive it. But so it's I've never listened to

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<v Speaker 1>Machine Gun Kelly. I find his music, in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>very good. I have friends who know the guy, and

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<v Speaker 1>they all say he's really really great and nice. He's

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<v Speaker 1>also were like really good friends with Pete Davidson, and

0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:16.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm a big Pete Davidson stand guy. So uh um,

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<v Speaker 1>I like Machine Gun Kelly because of that association. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't jumped on the Pete Davidson chain. But you want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about someone that dates around, and that's Pete

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<v Speaker 1>Davidson through and through. It seems like he's always dating

0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:29.719
<v Speaker 1>someone new. I don't know. I mean it does he

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<v Speaker 1>I mean obviously the Ariana Grande stuff like freaking blue up.

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<v Speaker 1>It was that two years ago. Damn, that's crazy. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember that summer when like everybody got engaged, Pete Davidson,

0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:48.400
<v Speaker 1>Ariana Grande, I think nick and what's her name, Prianka? Yes, Nicko,

0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:51.320
<v Speaker 1>Priyanka got engaged. And there's somebody else. Oh, Justin and

0:12:51.360 --> 0:12:53.880
<v Speaker 1>Haley they got married. I don't know, I don't ask me.

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<v Speaker 1>The only reason I remember that is because that was

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<v Speaker 1>the summer actually and I got engaged, and like we

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<v Speaker 1>were like kind of lumped into that group, which is

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<v Speaker 1>like the coolest thing ever because we're so undeserving of it,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, you know, we were the last ones. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like Justin and Haley they were talking about all

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<v Speaker 1>the engagers during the summer, and they were at the top,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we had like a little blurb at the bottom.

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<v Speaker 1>But the fact that we had a little blurb like

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<v Speaker 1>attached to that article was like really cool. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of pissed that Justin Bieber still your thunder a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit? Not at all? The fact that I will

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<v Speaker 1>jump on Justin Bieber's back anytime, I mean, it's good now.

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<v Speaker 1>I looked it up. So I looked at Pete Davidson's

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<v Speaker 1>most recent ex girl friends because I do remember a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of big names in there, and the first ones

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<v Speaker 1>that come up, I'm just gonna read them all for

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<v Speaker 1>you real quick. Okay, I'm ready, all right. So it's uh,

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<v Speaker 1>Carly Aquilino, which I don't know who that is either,

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<v Speaker 1>Kazzie David You know who that is. Oh, that's Larry

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<v Speaker 1>David's daughter. Larry David's daughter. Yep, that's awesome. This was

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of years ago. They split two many two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. Are you on a grandde We all know

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<v Speaker 1>that one's super well. Kate beck and Sale, which was

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<v Speaker 1>the one that I was thinking of. Kate Beckinsale obviously

0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:01.680
<v Speaker 1>is a big name. Remember that one. What a weird

0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:05.200
<v Speaker 1>couple but also awesome at the same time. Didn't Kate

0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:08.080
<v Speaker 1>Beckinsale used to date someone else interesting too. I think

0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:10.640
<v Speaker 1>she's she's dated a lot of guys. She's gotten flak

0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:14.800
<v Speaker 1>for it, which again is such bull I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>could just swear. I swear, I know, but it's just

0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:21.720
<v Speaker 1>gonna get bleaped out. It sucks. We should really start

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<v Speaker 1>swearing on this podcast, because, like, it's just a part

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<v Speaker 1>of my vernacular. But anyway, it's just bulls that Kate

0:14:27.240 --> 0:14:30.560
<v Speaker 1>Beckinsale is getting backlash. She's single too, like who cares?

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<v Speaker 1>Let her date whoever she wants. Yeah, I guess I

0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:36.760
<v Speaker 1>looked it up. She does. She she actually hasn't had

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<v Speaker 1>that many boyfriends, but I guess as soon as she

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<v Speaker 1>started dating Pete Davidson, who I mean, it is admittedly

0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:45.120
<v Speaker 1>twenty years her junior. Maybe that's kind of why drew

0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:49.040
<v Speaker 1>so many more headlines or her junior. You're reminded me

0:14:49.040 --> 0:14:52.800
<v Speaker 1>of Indiana Jones, the Jr. Nobody gets my references. Yeah,

0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:54.720
<v Speaker 1>you're a little too nerdy for for some of those

0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:57.560
<v Speaker 1>actually doesn't get my references either. It's honestly like one

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<v Speaker 1>of the downsides of our relationship because I'm a big

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<v Speaker 1>movie quote guy and she doesn't know any of the

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<v Speaker 1>movies I quote. I'm sure there's a lot of women

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<v Speaker 1>listening that can relate to that that like their guys

0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:09.600
<v Speaker 1>just quote movies and they have no idea what the

0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:11.520
<v Speaker 1>hell they're talking about, and the guy thinks they're really funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and the girl thinks they're an idiot. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of typically how relationships work anyways, the girl

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<v Speaker 1>thinks the guys an idiot and the guy is an idiot. Oh,

0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:24.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's like universally known. But I'm just talking

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<v Speaker 1>about movie other things that you do that Calin just

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<v Speaker 1>like our jokes that you crack that Caitlin just does

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<v Speaker 1>not get like for me, Like I said, I quote movies,

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<v Speaker 1>Well you were what hell you're You're younger than Ashley,

0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:39.160
<v Speaker 1>aren't you by like nine months? Yeah, so you guys

0:15:39.200 --> 0:15:41.480
<v Speaker 1>are pretty close in age. It's funny how much of

0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:45.200
<v Speaker 1>a difference because Caitlin's twenty five, I'm twenty nine. It's

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<v Speaker 1>funny how much of a difference just those four years make.

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<v Speaker 1>In like our pop culture, like the movies that I

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<v Speaker 1>watched as a kid versus the movies that she watched

0:15:52.440 --> 0:15:55.000
<v Speaker 1>as a kid. And and granted, like geography was different.

0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I was in Colorado, she was in Virginia, And people

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<v Speaker 1>just get brought up differently in different parts of the country, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll like there are times where all like reference

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<v Speaker 1>like a Disney Channel original movie, uh, and she has

0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:07.760
<v Speaker 1>never heard of it or never seen it. And you

0:16:07.800 --> 0:16:10.280
<v Speaker 1>ever see like those those memes where it's like if

0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:11.920
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't know the fresh Prince of bel Air in

0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:14.880
<v Speaker 1>show songs, she's too young for you, bro, oh all

0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:17.440
<v Speaker 1>the time. I love those things. Yeah, And so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always like, if she doesn't know who Andy Brink Brinker is,

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<v Speaker 1>she's too young for you, bro, And she like doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know who Brink is, and like just like a little

0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:27.240
<v Speaker 1>stupid things like that, who's Brink? Is that? The Disney

0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:30.120
<v Speaker 1>original movie that you're talking about? Is that the skateboarding one?

0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:36.640
<v Speaker 1>It's not skateboarding, humaniac, it's roller but's soul skating, rollerblading, Okay,

0:16:36.720 --> 0:16:39.680
<v Speaker 1>roller blading. I think I remember that one. That was

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<v Speaker 1>like one of the best, if not the best, Disney

0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:44.080
<v Speaker 1>Channel original movies. So little things like that, even I

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<v Speaker 1>guess because you're thirty two, I'll be thirty two in November,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm a little bit older than you. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I think the movies are a different. So there's

0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:54.680
<v Speaker 1>some jokes that fall to the cracks because of that disconnects.

0:16:54.680 --> 0:16:56.240
<v Speaker 1>But then also she watches like a lot of like

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<v Speaker 1>real housewives and reality shows. Oh, she's a reality v junkie,

0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:02.440
<v Speaker 1>and she's like, do you know who this girl is?

0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:05.320
<v Speaker 1>Or this girl is? And I'm like, uh, not really,

0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:08.520
<v Speaker 1>is that okay? Yeah? And they're like, I guess I

0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:10.280
<v Speaker 1>would recognize their faces. There's a couple of ones that

0:17:10.320 --> 0:17:11.840
<v Speaker 1>she's watching now that I'm like, oh, yeah, I know

0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:14.600
<v Speaker 1>who that person is, but I never would have thought

0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:17.399
<v Speaker 1>to like register them in my memory otherwise, you know

0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:21.280
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. Yeah, Ashley had me watching Fiance last

0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:25.400
<v Speaker 1>week and it's I just it's good. It's good TV.

0:17:25.640 --> 0:17:27.720
<v Speaker 1>I like ninety Day Fiance, but I just have a

0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:30.960
<v Speaker 1>hard time getting into reality TV, which is very ironic

0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:35.440
<v Speaker 1>seeing how my life was surrounded and still is my

0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:40.480
<v Speaker 1>reality TV. Yeah, that is pretty especially just given who

0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:43.000
<v Speaker 1>your wife is. I think. I mean, she's the ultimate

0:17:43.040 --> 0:17:46.320
<v Speaker 1>reality TV junkie personality. That's like just so you know,

0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:48.560
<v Speaker 1>she loves it, you know what, I love my wife.

0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:53.280
<v Speaker 1>She's the best. We do have Chelsea Peretti, who's not

0:17:53.320 --> 0:17:55.480
<v Speaker 1>on the line yet, but she will be coming on

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<v Speaker 1>very shortly and we're very excited to have her on

0:17:58.000 --> 0:18:02.360
<v Speaker 1>the podcast. Um you know her from Brooklyn uh nine.

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<v Speaker 1>She has a new movie coming out on v o

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<v Speaker 1>D Calling Spinster. We're very excited to talk to Chelsea,

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<v Speaker 1>but before we do, let's take a quick break. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>before we take a break, can I say something? Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you can say whatever you want, Jane. This is your podcast,

0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:19.240
<v Speaker 1>this is our podcast. There's gonna be We're gonna probably

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<v Speaker 1>mention this a few times throughout this podcast and next

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<v Speaker 1>week podcast, but I at least want to mention it

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<v Speaker 1>here as well. On August eighteen, at five thirty Pacific,

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<v Speaker 1>You heard that right, We're having a live show. We're

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<v Speaker 1>with these podcasts, so it'll be interesting to see how

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<v Speaker 1>a live show goes. But I'm looking forward to it.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Jared? Yeah, it will be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>We're super excited. Once again August eighteen, and ironically enough,

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see you August eighteen. All right, welcome back to

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<v Speaker 1>help I suck it dating with a very special guests

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<v Speaker 1>on the line right now. You know her from a

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<v Speaker 1>role on Fox's Brooklyn nine nine. She has a new movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's it's been out for a little while, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's coming to v O D and Digital on August seven.

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<v Speaker 1>It is called Spinster. It is the wonderful, the funny

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<v Speaker 1>Chelsea Peretti. Chelsea, thank you so much for joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for having me. Guys know, we appreciate it. So

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<v Speaker 1>talk a little bit about Spinster, which will be like

0:21:06.800 --> 0:21:10.399
<v Speaker 1>I said, on v O D and Digital on August seven. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>Spinster is a story about a woman who uh is

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<v Speaker 1>single on her thirty ninth birthday. And why did you

0:21:19.119 --> 0:21:24.359
<v Speaker 1>want to do this movie? Um? Well, I liked stories

0:21:24.400 --> 0:21:30.520
<v Speaker 1>that aren't like you know, cliche. Um, romance stories and

0:21:31.160 --> 0:21:35.840
<v Speaker 1>this movie was directed by Andrew Dorfman, who lives in

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<v Speaker 1>Nova Scotia. I looked. I checked out her other movies

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<v Speaker 1>when I was off with the role, and I thought

0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:46.600
<v Speaker 1>she was so cool and I love female directors. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>that are good, and uh, I wanted to go to

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<v Speaker 1>Nova Scotia and I liked her work. So it just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of came together. I was, I had it. I

0:21:55.920 --> 0:21:57.960
<v Speaker 1>think my son was eight months old at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>so I kind of me and my son and my

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<v Speaker 1>awesome nanny we all went to Nova Scotia, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>I had this little adventure. But yeah, I just liked

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<v Speaker 1>the role that it was looking at, you know, making

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<v Speaker 1>your own life interesting and making your own life exciting

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<v Speaker 1>and not looking externally for someone else to do that

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<v Speaker 1>for you, you know about especially especially in Nova Scotia.

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<v Speaker 1>I can only imagine how difficult it be to meet

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<v Speaker 1>someone in Nova Scotia. And we watched we watched the

0:22:34.480 --> 0:22:36.760
<v Speaker 1>trailer for the movie just before having you on here,

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<v Speaker 1>and we were admiring it looks great, looks hilarious. Um

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<v Speaker 1>was it? Was it for a role like that? Right?

0:22:44.200 --> 0:22:45.800
<v Speaker 1>Because you are married, you do have a child. Is

0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:48.400
<v Speaker 1>it weird? To like put yourself into a role where

0:22:48.440 --> 0:22:51.199
<v Speaker 1>you're kind of like the same person in ways but

0:22:51.240 --> 0:22:54.520
<v Speaker 1>then also so very different at the same time, you know. Yeah,

0:22:54.560 --> 0:22:57.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean I felt like there was a time before

0:22:57.920 --> 0:23:00.879
<v Speaker 1>I got before I met my husband, where I was like, well,

0:23:01.560 --> 0:23:05.040
<v Speaker 1>men in l A are kind of like suck and

0:23:06.720 --> 0:23:09.199
<v Speaker 1>are you guys based in l A. We are, but

0:23:09.280 --> 0:23:10.800
<v Speaker 1>we fully agree with you that men in l A

0:23:10.840 --> 0:23:14.800
<v Speaker 1>su Yeah, it's it's a nightmare. So I was like,

0:23:14.840 --> 0:23:17.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm a comedian. All my friends are like

0:23:17.520 --> 0:23:22.000
<v Speaker 1>the funniest people in country. Worst case scenario, I'm going

0:23:22.040 --> 0:23:24.960
<v Speaker 1>to travel a lot, I'm gonna laugh a lot, and

0:23:25.000 --> 0:23:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have a great life, and I'm probably never

0:23:27.320 --> 0:23:30.119
<v Speaker 1>going to meet someone in l A. Because, like I said,

0:23:30.840 --> 0:23:36.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, the men here are um questionable. So then

0:23:36.240 --> 0:23:39.120
<v Speaker 1>out of nowhere, my husband came and then I had

0:23:39.119 --> 0:23:42.480
<v Speaker 1>a child, and all these things came together. But I

0:23:42.600 --> 0:23:45.720
<v Speaker 1>certainly wasn't sure my whole life if that's what my

0:23:45.880 --> 0:23:48.320
<v Speaker 1>future would hold, or even if that's what I wanted

0:23:48.760 --> 0:23:54.119
<v Speaker 1>until I met him. Um, but yeah, I had a

0:23:54.160 --> 0:24:00.240
<v Speaker 1>whole vision of what my life would be without out

0:24:00.400 --> 0:24:04.400
<v Speaker 1>my family and and all that, and and I kind

0:24:04.400 --> 0:24:07.000
<v Speaker 1>of come to terms with it. So I liked that

0:24:07.080 --> 0:24:11.800
<v Speaker 1>this character goes on this journey to figure out. You know,

0:24:11.840 --> 0:24:16.240
<v Speaker 1>it's a very small, sweet movie. It's not like you know,

0:24:17.720 --> 0:24:20.320
<v Speaker 1>it's just it's it's sort of like living with someone

0:24:20.359 --> 0:24:23.239
<v Speaker 1>and kind of taking them in and joining them on

0:24:23.320 --> 0:24:27.480
<v Speaker 1>this sort of like small journey to figure out like

0:24:28.000 --> 0:24:31.240
<v Speaker 1>a way to be happy, which you know, as as

0:24:31.760 --> 0:24:34.600
<v Speaker 1>as many of us are quarantined aside from you know,

0:24:34.640 --> 0:24:42.040
<v Speaker 1>all the influencers that are having big parties right now. Yeah, yeah,

0:24:43.359 --> 0:24:46.119
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's it's kind of I think will be

0:24:46.160 --> 0:24:50.000
<v Speaker 1>a nice a nice tone and in that it's very

0:24:50.080 --> 0:24:53.879
<v Speaker 1>kind of meditative. Yeah. I like the message of the

0:24:53.880 --> 0:25:00.000
<v Speaker 1>movie because there is this stigma around women being sing

0:25:00.000 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 1>little later in life. I feel like there's more of

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:06.040
<v Speaker 1>a stingba for it than there is a man, if

0:25:06.040 --> 0:25:08.240
<v Speaker 1>that makes sense, Like a man is single in his

0:25:08.320 --> 0:25:10.960
<v Speaker 1>late thirties, it's seen as more normal, whereas a woman

0:25:11.080 --> 0:25:14.800
<v Speaker 1>who's single in her late thirties it's it's jarring. Which

0:25:17.200 --> 0:25:20.359
<v Speaker 1>most people that I know in big cities tend to

0:25:20.400 --> 0:25:23.359
<v Speaker 1>settle down later, whether they're women or men. You know,

0:25:23.440 --> 0:25:27.320
<v Speaker 1>I kind of feel like it's like a city thing. Um,

0:25:27.359 --> 0:25:29.240
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean, part of the l a thing

0:25:29.320 --> 0:25:32.840
<v Speaker 1>is like every guy here wants to be with like

0:25:32.880 --> 0:25:36.159
<v Speaker 1>a twenty year old, so it's not you know, or

0:25:36.200 --> 0:25:41.680
<v Speaker 1>even younger as some news stories explained. But yeah, so

0:25:42.240 --> 0:25:46.359
<v Speaker 1>it's nice to um, well, now getting out a tangent.

0:25:46.440 --> 0:25:49.879
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, in the in the movie, you know, she

0:25:49.880 --> 0:25:54.159
<v Speaker 1>she's nurturing other relationships in her life, and you know,

0:25:54.240 --> 0:25:56.719
<v Speaker 1>I think like that's the way to love yourself and

0:25:56.760 --> 0:26:01.360
<v Speaker 1>to love someone else's by focusing on all the relationships

0:26:01.400 --> 0:26:05.040
<v Speaker 1>in your life. You can't just isolate and focus everything

0:26:05.080 --> 0:26:07.639
<v Speaker 1>on one person because that's you know, making them like

0:26:07.920 --> 0:26:10.600
<v Speaker 1>God or something. Right. Yeah, there's a lot of messages

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:13.160
<v Speaker 1>in the movie that I really enjoy, one of them

0:26:13.160 --> 0:26:18.280
<v Speaker 1>being you're discussing the like in the movie you talk about, Uh,

0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 1>somebody was like kind of criticizing your character for growing

0:26:21.160 --> 0:26:23.119
<v Speaker 1>up older being single, and you're like, why is that

0:26:23.160 --> 0:26:25.320
<v Speaker 1>a bad thing? Because I'm not dying young. That's a

0:26:25.359 --> 0:26:27.960
<v Speaker 1>good thing, being like having the opportunity to grow old.

0:26:28.280 --> 0:26:30.520
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like, you know, especially in this podcast,

0:26:30.520 --> 0:26:32.440
<v Speaker 1>because this is what we do, we talk about dating relationships,

0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:35.240
<v Speaker 1>but we solely focused on the idea of meeting that person,

0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:38.040
<v Speaker 1>getting married and having kids, which is wonderful and important,

0:26:38.359 --> 0:26:43.080
<v Speaker 1>but also you know, other people, like there's other happiness

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:44.800
<v Speaker 1>in other ways to find love, and I feel like

0:26:44.800 --> 0:26:49.040
<v Speaker 1>it generates from from within mostly, like you have to

0:26:49.040 --> 0:26:50.840
<v Speaker 1>find happiness from within before you can find it with

0:26:50.880 --> 0:26:52.600
<v Speaker 1>someone else. And this is what kind of like the

0:26:52.600 --> 0:26:56.600
<v Speaker 1>theme of the movie is to me. Yeah, yeah, I

0:26:56.600 --> 0:27:00.080
<v Speaker 1>mean I just got distracted because I was like, you know,

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:03.320
<v Speaker 1>I know that we've watched you guys in the Bachelor,

0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:05.720
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I can't I'm trying to remember what

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:08.640
<v Speaker 1>I felt about you, and I can't remember. And it's

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 1>like I I should have been like deeply revisiting these

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:16.000
<v Speaker 1>things before I talk to you, So get into it.

0:27:16.080 --> 0:27:20.080
<v Speaker 1>But I'm wait, so you guys are both are you

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:25.359
<v Speaker 1>and are you single? Are you married? We're both in relationships.

0:27:25.800 --> 0:27:29.840
<v Speaker 1>My mind is a little bit less uh less Eve

0:27:29.880 --> 0:27:32.119
<v Speaker 1>though Dean wears a ring on his finger, but he

0:27:32.160 --> 0:27:35.800
<v Speaker 1>says he's not married. Okay, Okay, so you know, I

0:27:35.840 --> 0:27:38.520
<v Speaker 1>think nowadays you can do it however you want. But

0:27:39.520 --> 0:27:43.240
<v Speaker 1>the true thing is, like with climate change, I think

0:27:43.280 --> 0:27:47.400
<v Speaker 1>that like marriage and kids is starting to seem more

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:52.240
<v Speaker 1>and more. I mean, what is it just seems more

0:27:52.240 --> 0:27:57.600
<v Speaker 1>and more like a choice of many choices, because you know,

0:27:58.040 --> 0:27:59.760
<v Speaker 1>it's scary to have a kid right now and be

0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:04.400
<v Speaker 1>what is the future? Right? That's that's what I mean.

0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:07.840
<v Speaker 1>It's an important thing to talk about. It's actually funny

0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:11.359
<v Speaker 1>because my because Calin really wants kids at some point.

0:28:11.920 --> 0:28:15.199
<v Speaker 1>I've always been pro pro kid up until like the

0:28:15.280 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 1>last five or so years, when I'm starting to say, like,

0:28:18.200 --> 0:28:20.800
<v Speaker 1>is it really ethical to bring a child into this world?

0:28:20.800 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Because like you said, it's like with climate change everything

0:28:23.640 --> 0:28:25.919
<v Speaker 1>and even just like political turmoil that everything is going on,

0:28:25.960 --> 0:28:27.920
<v Speaker 1>It's like, is it really good time to bring bring

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:30.080
<v Speaker 1>a kid in this world? And obviously I think, like

0:28:30.119 --> 0:28:34.639
<v Speaker 1>the thing is, it's like the main reason we're all

0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:36.560
<v Speaker 1>here is for pro creation, right is like to kind

0:28:36.600 --> 0:28:38.960
<v Speaker 1>of pass on our lineage onto the next people below

0:28:39.000 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 1>us or whoever raised children to come after us. But

0:28:42.160 --> 0:28:45.640
<v Speaker 1>like it's just it's maybe it's like you just let

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:47.840
<v Speaker 1>have less children than we're used to having. Like before

0:28:48.200 --> 0:28:50.080
<v Speaker 1>in the seventies, eighties, nineties, it was like, oh, I've

0:28:50.120 --> 0:28:52.360
<v Speaker 1>got a family of seven siblings, but now it's more

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:57.400
<v Speaker 1>like only Child's definitely statistically true, people are having way

0:28:57.480 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 1>less kids. But I also think like on your generations,

0:29:00.960 --> 0:29:03.560
<v Speaker 1>are not even sure if yeah, like what you're saying,

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:06.000
<v Speaker 1>if it's even ethical I have kids. I mean I

0:29:06.640 --> 0:29:11.800
<v Speaker 1>think that, um, you know, on some level where animals,

0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:14.520
<v Speaker 1>even though we convince ourselves where all these other things

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:19.200
<v Speaker 1>like or we're so different from animals, and so I

0:29:19.200 --> 0:29:23.240
<v Speaker 1>think we have like instincts and desires, but I mean

0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:25.120
<v Speaker 1>some of us do not. Everyone wants to have a

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:29.720
<v Speaker 1>kid and um, but so in some ways, I'm like, well,

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:33.160
<v Speaker 1>you just have your kid, and you survive as long

0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:35.880
<v Speaker 1>as you can. But it's just it, it is terrifying

0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 1>to be like, I didn't mean to take this podcast

0:29:39.000 --> 0:29:45.560
<v Speaker 1>to this place. Let's talk about I'm like, the world

0:29:45.720 --> 0:29:51.120
<v Speaker 1>is ending. Don't have kids, it's all downhill. But I mean,

0:29:51.160 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I guess it is like to bring it back to

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:56.920
<v Speaker 1>the movie Spinster. It's like, you know, I think not

0:29:57.080 --> 0:30:03.280
<v Speaker 1>having kids is absolutely I as intelligent and as instinct

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>of of a choice at this point as having kids.

0:30:06.440 --> 0:30:10.640
<v Speaker 1>And you know, it's cool to explore someone who's having

0:30:10.640 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 1>a beautiful life and it's not about that. You know,

0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:18.040
<v Speaker 1>it's like a woman who that's not her her means

0:30:18.080 --> 0:30:22.320
<v Speaker 1>to happiness and contentment, and you know there's no like

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:26.960
<v Speaker 1>to be continued kind of thing. It's just like she figures,

0:30:27.480 --> 0:30:32.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, she she finds a way to um make

0:30:32.440 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 1>her life full. So for the listeners out there, because

0:30:36.160 --> 0:30:39.640
<v Speaker 1>we do have women uh in their you know, thirties, forties,

0:30:39.640 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 1>fifties even that listen to this podcast that are I

0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:45.000
<v Speaker 1>would imagine single, what advice would you have for them?

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:47.320
<v Speaker 1>I know you said to not prioritize your just for

0:30:47.360 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 1>your one romantic relationship. You have all these other relationships

0:30:49.680 --> 0:30:51.240
<v Speaker 1>that you should focus on as well. But is there

0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:53.920
<v Speaker 1>anything maybe that you learned through the movie or even

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:55.920
<v Speaker 1>just through your own personal life that like one bit

0:30:55.920 --> 0:30:58.720
<v Speaker 1>of advice that you can give someone uh that's around

0:30:58.800 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 1>the thirty or forty age range that that might be

0:31:00.560 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 1>struggling with it. Well, this book, there's this this um

0:31:04.240 --> 0:31:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I think she's a therapist. She has this whole book series,

0:31:07.960 --> 0:31:10.400
<v Speaker 1>Dance of This, Dance of that. But one of them

0:31:10.480 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 1>is Dance of Connection. And I read it many many,

0:31:13.600 --> 0:31:19.640
<v Speaker 1>probably decades ago, like five decades. Oh yeah, I forgot,

0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:26.000
<v Speaker 1>but but she talks about that concept of like it's counterintuitive,

0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 1>but if you want to improve your love relationship, you

0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 1>need to work on your other relationships. So like, if

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:34.120
<v Speaker 1>you have issues with your parents and you don't resolve them,

0:31:34.240 --> 0:31:36.760
<v Speaker 1>and then you put all those issues right into your

0:31:37.160 --> 0:31:40.840
<v Speaker 1>new relationship, you know, with this this love relationship. So

0:31:41.600 --> 0:31:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I liked that concept, and I do think this movie

0:31:44.200 --> 0:31:47.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of echoes those concepts. And it's up to you,

0:31:47.400 --> 0:31:50.400
<v Speaker 1>Like do you think where do you think that my

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:54.240
<v Speaker 1>character will eventually wind up? I think it's in the

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:56.520
<v Speaker 1>eye of the beholder. It's up to you too to

0:31:56.840 --> 0:32:01.200
<v Speaker 1>have your own interpretation. But I feel personally attacked after

0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:06.160
<v Speaker 1>hearing that. I'll be honest, Why, Yeah, I got it.

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I got a lot of ironing out my relationship with

0:32:08.520 --> 0:32:11.480
<v Speaker 1>my father to do. But well, listen, don't we all?

0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:16.000
<v Speaker 1>Don't we all? Yeah, those are never even there. You know.

0:32:16.160 --> 0:32:19.560
<v Speaker 1>That's like, that's one hurdle you cleared if your dad

0:32:19.680 --> 0:32:23.080
<v Speaker 1>is even around, right, I'll take this as a as

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:26.360
<v Speaker 1>a catalyst to to help me improve that perhaps, Yeah,

0:32:26.400 --> 0:32:28.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, listen, it doesn't have to be your dad

0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:30.240
<v Speaker 1>if that wants to challenge you. But I'm just saying,

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:32.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, you can't have dysfunction with everyone else in

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:35.480
<v Speaker 1>your life, and then I think that your your love

0:32:35.520 --> 0:32:39.120
<v Speaker 1>relationship is going to be perfect, you know, for sure? Yeah, absolutely,

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:42.360
<v Speaker 1>all right, Kelsea. Well, so we have Spencer coming out

0:32:42.400 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 1>on V O D and digital everywhere August seven, right

0:32:45.600 --> 0:32:48.400
<v Speaker 1>where else can we uh look to find anything else

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 1>that you're working on? Well, I'm I'm a musician now

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:54.800
<v Speaker 1>as well. I've created an album. It's a concept album

0:32:54.840 --> 0:32:59.920
<v Speaker 1>about coffee. Um, and as we all know, coffee is

0:33:00.200 --> 0:33:03.520
<v Speaker 1>very sexy and oh it's the best. I'm drinking mine

0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:06.920
<v Speaker 1>right now. Listen, I had I had a ton this morning.

0:33:07.480 --> 0:33:10.640
<v Speaker 1>Um didn't really help me get organized, but that's right.

0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:14.120
<v Speaker 1>But but yeah, so I have an EP called Foam

0:33:14.200 --> 0:33:18.080
<v Speaker 1>and Flotsam. I wanted to choose the most pretentious title

0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 1>I could think of, and and I have a new

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:24.640
<v Speaker 1>EP coming out um really soon that I'm excited about,

0:33:24.680 --> 0:33:27.000
<v Speaker 1>and then we'll have the album after that. So it's

0:33:27.280 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm working with a producer called cool ko Jack, who

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:35.440
<v Speaker 1>is like a true real producer and has made my

0:33:35.440 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 1>my songs actually sound good. So they're funny and but

0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:41.560
<v Speaker 1>they're still good. Do you guys smell that? I don't

0:33:41.560 --> 0:33:43.240
<v Speaker 1>know if you guys can smell that from all the

0:33:43.360 --> 0:33:46.680
<v Speaker 1>over there, but it smells like a Grammy. That's right,

0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 1>we got a Grammy on our hands. If they still exist,

0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:56.280
<v Speaker 1>we'll see what happens when we all emerge from our houses.

0:33:57.360 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 1>What's going to happen? Fair point? All right, Chelsea, Well,

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:02.520
<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for joining us. For the listeners,

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:04.240
<v Speaker 1>be sure and checker out on Spinster, and be sure

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 1>to check out the album coming out. Come tell me

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 1>one more time. It's Foam and from Them, and then

0:34:09.719 --> 0:34:11.759
<v Speaker 1>there will be on mowep. But if you search my name,

0:34:11.880 --> 0:34:16.399
<v Speaker 1>Chelsea Peretti, one ur two teas, you'll find it. Let's

0:34:16.400 --> 0:34:18.000
<v Speaker 1>get this girl at Grahammy you guys, thank you so

0:34:18.080 --> 0:34:23.319
<v Speaker 1>much for joining us. Thanks guys, Thanks, take care. All right,

0:34:23.320 --> 0:34:25.399
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna take one quick break and when we get back,

0:34:25.480 --> 0:34:27.680
<v Speaker 1>we have two more guests you're not gonna want to miss,

0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:32.280
<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna answer some very pressing listener emails before

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0:34:40.080 --> 0:34:42.399
<v Speaker 1>live show even perhaps, but we'll take a quick break

0:34:42.400 --> 0:34:54.640
<v Speaker 1>and we'll be right back. All right, welcome back to

0:34:54.680 --> 0:34:57.600
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0:34:57.600 --> 0:34:59.560
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<v Speaker 1>it's our privilege. You're gonna do far better than we ever.

0:35:28.880 --> 0:35:33.319
<v Speaker 1>Could I promise you that? No, no way, that's impossible.

0:35:33.440 --> 0:35:35.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean we were pretty funny. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:38.240
<v Speaker 1>We were pretty funny, but you guys are usually pretty funny.

0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 1>So tell us tease us a little bit about what

0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:43.760
<v Speaker 1>we can expect this Thursday from What a Girl Wants. So,

0:35:44.239 --> 0:35:47.480
<v Speaker 1>my sister and I both date professional athletes, so we

0:35:47.560 --> 0:35:50.640
<v Speaker 1>talked about how to land an athlete and some silly

0:35:50.680 --> 0:35:55.400
<v Speaker 1>funny stories about dating European men, and then we, I

0:35:55.400 --> 0:35:57.239
<v Speaker 1>don't know, there's just so much that we do. We

0:35:57.280 --> 0:36:00.040
<v Speaker 1>talk a lot about dating. We how we kind of

0:36:00.160 --> 0:36:02.640
<v Speaker 1>went from sucking at dating to how we are now

0:36:02.719 --> 0:36:06.799
<v Speaker 1>in really good relationships and love now. So yeah, it's

0:36:06.800 --> 0:36:09.200
<v Speaker 1>pretty much it without giving too much away, it's a

0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:12.960
<v Speaker 1>lot about dating. I'm I'm excited to hear this because

0:36:13.280 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 1>last time I talked to Haley, she was like, yeah,

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:16.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to date an athlete because I've talked

0:36:16.760 --> 0:36:18.200
<v Speaker 1>to a couple of them I didn't like them. So

0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:20.080
<v Speaker 1>I gotta say this one has to be very special,

0:36:20.520 --> 0:36:22.640
<v Speaker 1>and I'm looking forward to listening to the podcast because

0:36:22.640 --> 0:36:24.239
<v Speaker 1>we might be able to learn a little bit more

0:36:24.320 --> 0:36:27.319
<v Speaker 1>about what makes them so special. Yeah, it's so true.

0:36:27.360 --> 0:36:30.280
<v Speaker 1>I was definitely dead set on like not dating an athlete,

0:36:30.480 --> 0:36:33.480
<v Speaker 1>but I changed her mind because athletes aren't as bad

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:36.840
<v Speaker 1>as people perceived them to be. I mean, some of

0:36:36.880 --> 0:36:40.239
<v Speaker 1>them probably suck, absolutely, but that just goes for all

0:36:40.440 --> 0:36:44.480
<v Speaker 1>the European ones don't suck. Okay, they're awesome. It seems

0:36:44.480 --> 0:36:46.399
<v Speaker 1>like you guys landed a couple of winners too, which

0:36:46.400 --> 0:36:49.759
<v Speaker 1>is absolutely I definitely feel that way too. And you

0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:51.840
<v Speaker 1>guys also date hockey players, and I feel like hockey

0:36:51.840 --> 0:36:55.600
<v Speaker 1>players just have a different mentality than other professional sports.

0:36:55.840 --> 0:36:57.839
<v Speaker 1>I agree. That actually makes me happy that you said

0:36:57.880 --> 0:37:00.640
<v Speaker 1>that because I agree, like, I definitely like when we

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:02.440
<v Speaker 1>were working in the clubs met a bunch of different

0:37:02.440 --> 0:37:05.480
<v Speaker 1>types of athletes, never really hockey players. But now that

0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:08.839
<v Speaker 1>we've met hockey players, there, to me just a little differ,

0:37:09.480 --> 0:37:11.400
<v Speaker 1>very different, a little more like down to earth. I

0:37:11.400 --> 0:37:15.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I can't explain it, but they're really good people. Well,

0:37:15.160 --> 0:37:17.719
<v Speaker 1>you get the chance to explain it on Thursday when

0:37:17.800 --> 0:37:21.080
<v Speaker 1>we listen to you guys on what what is it?

0:37:21.120 --> 0:37:23.800
<v Speaker 1>What a woman? What a girl wants? I'm sorry, I

0:37:23.880 --> 0:37:25.520
<v Speaker 1>keep wanting to say what a woman wants, but that's

0:37:25.560 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 1>the Mel Gibson movie and I got to stop mixing

0:37:28.000 --> 0:37:32.680
<v Speaker 1>those up. Sweet. Well, we're excited, and honestly, like Jared said,

0:37:32.680 --> 0:37:34.560
<v Speaker 1>you guys are probably gonna host better than we ever

0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:37.680
<v Speaker 1>could and you'll replace us on help. I second dating permanently,

0:37:37.800 --> 0:37:40.640
<v Speaker 1>but it's a risk we're willing to take. Honestly. Oh,

0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:42.960
<v Speaker 1>it's just inevitable at this point. Once you guys got

0:37:43.000 --> 0:37:46.120
<v Speaker 1>your foot in the door, it's all over. Oh No,

0:37:47.160 --> 0:37:51.560
<v Speaker 1>guys are awesome. I'm blushing. That's too nice though. Yeah. Well,

0:37:52.040 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 1>I have a question though for you guys, before you

0:37:55.040 --> 0:37:58.000
<v Speaker 1>started dating your respective boyfriends, what was it like dating

0:37:59.000 --> 0:38:00.799
<v Speaker 1>as twins? Because we all a little bit on that

0:38:01.000 --> 0:38:03.480
<v Speaker 1>on our season of Bachelor Paradise, where you guys, I

0:38:03.520 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 1>forget the guy's name that you guys want to date with,

0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:11.160
<v Speaker 1>but you tricked him that Brandon Brandon. Do you guys

0:38:11.160 --> 0:38:14.799
<v Speaker 1>ever do that outside of Paradise? We're like Emily, you

0:38:14.800 --> 0:38:17.480
<v Speaker 1>would go on a date, but then halfway through the day, Haley,

0:38:17.520 --> 0:38:20.080
<v Speaker 1>you would switch and see if you notice. No, we've

0:38:20.120 --> 0:38:22.759
<v Speaker 1>never done that, but like we've definitely like helped each other,

0:38:22.880 --> 0:38:25.319
<v Speaker 1>righte text messages, like she would take my phone and

0:38:25.360 --> 0:38:27.719
<v Speaker 1>pretend to be me and then like just help me

0:38:27.800 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 1>talk to guys. But we've never actually switched. And the

0:38:32.280 --> 0:38:34.160
<v Speaker 1>boy that Haley dates now is all because of me,

0:38:34.200 --> 0:38:36.479
<v Speaker 1>because I was I was always way better at dating

0:38:36.480 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 1>than Haley Woods just picking guys in general. But I

0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:44.719
<v Speaker 1>mean we usually have complete opposite tastes in men looks. Why,

0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:48.520
<v Speaker 1>so it was never really an issue like dating guys. Yeah,

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:51.879
<v Speaker 1>but like definitely in the past before we started dating,

0:38:51.880 --> 0:38:53.960
<v Speaker 1>athletes who were just terrible at dating never went on

0:38:54.040 --> 0:38:56.840
<v Speaker 1>dates because they're so awkward and so hard to like.

0:38:56.880 --> 0:38:59.520
<v Speaker 1>It's so first dates are the actually worst thing in

0:38:59.520 --> 0:39:02.560
<v Speaker 1>the world. They're so awkward and they usually always want

0:39:02.600 --> 0:39:04.040
<v Speaker 1>to go out to eat, which is just like what

0:39:04.080 --> 0:39:05.919
<v Speaker 1>if food gets stuck in my teeth? Like, I don't

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:08.399
<v Speaker 1>know why used to take fireball shot before you Yeah,

0:39:08.640 --> 0:39:11.440
<v Speaker 1>she used to have fireball in her car ready to

0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:13.799
<v Speaker 1>take shots before her date. You know, you never know

0:39:13.800 --> 0:39:18.279
<v Speaker 1>when you need a little fireball. Yeah. See, well we're

0:39:18.280 --> 0:39:20.400
<v Speaker 1>stuck to listen to more from you guys on Thursday.

0:39:20.440 --> 0:39:22.239
<v Speaker 1>We know you've got to get out of here, but

0:39:22.760 --> 0:39:26.640
<v Speaker 1>on Thursday, What a Girl Wants on the I Heart

0:39:26.680 --> 0:39:29.839
<v Speaker 1>Radio app from this podcast or wherever you get your podcasts,

0:39:29.920 --> 0:39:32.399
<v Speaker 1>be sure to check out Hailey and Emily ferguson We're

0:39:32.440 --> 0:39:37.000
<v Speaker 1>stoked guy. Yeah, of course, looking forward to hearing more

0:39:37.040 --> 0:39:44.640
<v Speaker 1>from your talk soon. Yeah, that's gonna be awesome. All right,

0:39:44.719 --> 0:39:50.279
<v Speaker 1>enjoy getting your hair done. Thank you by all right.

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:54.240
<v Speaker 1>As if we didn't plug it enough this Thursday, Uh,

0:39:54.280 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 1>they will be coming out with their own episode of

0:39:56.719 --> 0:40:01.279
<v Speaker 1>What a Girl Wants, a sub branch podcast of Help

0:40:01.280 --> 0:40:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I Sucker Dating. We're gonna make this more of a

0:40:03.080 --> 0:40:06.960
<v Speaker 1>regular fixture. Well we'll bring in former alums. Of course

0:40:07.000 --> 0:40:09.600
<v Speaker 1>they will be girls, because that's with the title entails.

0:40:10.080 --> 0:40:12.440
<v Speaker 1>You're sick of here in perspective of me and Jared

0:40:12.520 --> 0:40:15.600
<v Speaker 1>of Guys on on on dating and all the stupid

0:40:15.640 --> 0:40:18.200
<v Speaker 1>things that we don't know. So we're bringing in, We're

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:21.319
<v Speaker 1>bringing in more experts. I feel like what we say

0:40:21.360 --> 0:40:24.160
<v Speaker 1>this every week, but we just like continue continue to

0:40:24.200 --> 0:40:27.320
<v Speaker 1>spew nonsense and listen, which is great, thank you for listening.

0:40:27.360 --> 0:40:29.800
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like, maybe bring some women and start

0:40:30.000 --> 0:40:32.400
<v Speaker 1>speaking some intelligence on this podcast would be a good idea.

0:40:32.719 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 1>And even if it's more nonsense that at least it'll

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:37.000
<v Speaker 1>be coming from nonsense without a y chromosome, which I

0:40:37.000 --> 0:40:41.160
<v Speaker 1>think might also be beneficial for our listeners about. Yeah,

0:40:41.280 --> 0:40:43.799
<v Speaker 1>so tune in this Thursday, What a Girl Wants This week,

0:40:43.800 --> 0:40:45.759
<v Speaker 1>we'll have Emily and Haley on. Next week we will

0:40:45.800 --> 0:40:49.719
<v Speaker 1>have another host or hosts. We will tell you more

0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:51.680
<v Speaker 1>about that next week as it goes on. But we're

0:40:51.680 --> 0:40:54.160
<v Speaker 1>stoked about this. I'm excited to hear from them as well.

0:40:54.200 --> 0:40:57.000
<v Speaker 1>So let's tune in, all right, sweet, let's take a

0:40:57.000 --> 0:41:10.600
<v Speaker 1>little break, all right, welcome back. We are going to

0:41:10.760 --> 0:41:13.759
<v Speaker 1>hit a couple of emails before sending you guys on

0:41:13.800 --> 0:41:16.440
<v Speaker 1>your way today, as we always like to do um

0:41:16.719 --> 0:41:21.399
<v Speaker 1>before we do, Before we do this, before burns your

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:24.840
<v Speaker 1>earbuds off. We want to make sure and encourage you

0:41:24.840 --> 0:41:27.920
<v Speaker 1>guys to email us. It's a help. I suck it dating,

0:41:28.080 --> 0:41:31.319
<v Speaker 1>you know, I suck it dating at iHeart Media dot com. Wow,

0:41:31.400 --> 0:41:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm just it's too early, man. I had any coffee? Coffee? Yeah,

0:41:35.960 --> 0:41:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you're doing this podcast. Well, I'm

0:41:38.520 --> 0:41:41.439
<v Speaker 1>staying at Courtney's house in Malibu and I felt bad

0:41:41.520 --> 0:41:43.319
<v Speaker 1>waking him up to make me coffee. He's got like

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 1>a very fancy French press or no, like a spresso machine.

0:41:47.600 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 1>Now tell him it makes the coffee. Yeah, yeah, Courtney

0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:53.719
<v Speaker 1>made me some coffee. Uh yeah, okay, maybe like to

0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:56.200
<v Speaker 1>deliver some of that French press over here to West Hollywood.

0:41:56.200 --> 0:41:59.399
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it. Yeah, alright, anyways, I suck a dating

0:41:59.400 --> 0:42:02.000
<v Speaker 1>at iHeart Media at dot com. Don't forget to email us.

0:42:02.040 --> 0:42:03.880
<v Speaker 1>We love hearing from you guys. You know that, so

0:42:04.040 --> 0:42:07.560
<v Speaker 1>keep them coming. All right. We got an email from

0:42:07.560 --> 0:42:13.520
<v Speaker 1>our favorite emailer, Anonymous a k a. Jared Nick Mile.

0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:17.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's who it is. Uh, Nick wants to know. Okay,

0:42:17.320 --> 0:42:20.000
<v Speaker 1>Anonymous wants to know Hidina, Jared. I love listening to

0:42:20.040 --> 0:42:22.279
<v Speaker 1>your podcast. My question is can you be friends with

0:42:22.320 --> 0:42:24.520
<v Speaker 1>benefits with next? My ex broke up with me and

0:42:24.560 --> 0:42:27.040
<v Speaker 1>we still hook up and hang out. He says he

0:42:27.120 --> 0:42:28.920
<v Speaker 1>still has feelings for me, but he doesn't want to

0:42:28.920 --> 0:42:31.239
<v Speaker 1>be in a relationship. Help, what do I do? Can

0:42:31.280 --> 0:42:36.680
<v Speaker 1>I still be friends with him? I think you're all

0:42:36.800 --> 0:42:41.440
<v Speaker 1>kind of know where this one's going, right, are we

0:42:41.520 --> 0:42:45.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of on the same page of this one saying that, Listen,

0:42:45.360 --> 0:42:47.680
<v Speaker 1>it's hard to be friends of the next, it's even

0:42:47.760 --> 0:42:52.520
<v Speaker 1>harder to be friends with the next that you're sleeping with. Um.

0:42:52.560 --> 0:42:57.200
<v Speaker 1>It sounds like, sorry, sorry to put you into a

0:42:57.200 --> 0:43:00.560
<v Speaker 1>pigeonhole here, Anonymous, but it sounds like you probably still

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:02.200
<v Speaker 1>want to be in a relationship with your ex and

0:43:02.320 --> 0:43:04.880
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't want to be and you might think that

0:43:05.160 --> 0:43:07.560
<v Speaker 1>by sleeping with him and being in a friends with

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:10.839
<v Speaker 1>benefit situation might eventually warm him up to the idea

0:43:10.880 --> 0:43:13.319
<v Speaker 1>of getting back into a relationship with you. And listen,

0:43:13.320 --> 0:43:14.920
<v Speaker 1>don't get me wrong, I've been on both sides of this.

0:43:15.120 --> 0:43:18.879
<v Speaker 1>I have been uh friends with an X that I've

0:43:18.880 --> 0:43:20.560
<v Speaker 1>wanted to get back with and we've been hooking up.

0:43:20.600 --> 0:43:23.600
<v Speaker 1>And I've also been friends of the next hooking up

0:43:23.640 --> 0:43:26.520
<v Speaker 1>with them knowing after the fact that they wanted to

0:43:26.520 --> 0:43:29.280
<v Speaker 1>get back with me. Uh. And I can tell you

0:43:30.080 --> 0:43:35.960
<v Speaker 1>wholeheartedly with confidence that neither of those worked out well.

0:43:36.760 --> 0:43:38.800
<v Speaker 1>They didn't end poorly. There was no fighting, there was

0:43:38.840 --> 0:43:42.440
<v Speaker 1>no bridges being burned, but obviously, uh, we never got

0:43:42.480 --> 0:43:45.200
<v Speaker 1>back to being in relationships, whether I wanted to or

0:43:45.200 --> 0:43:47.239
<v Speaker 1>whether they wanted to, or vice versa. So I just

0:43:47.280 --> 0:43:50.319
<v Speaker 1>want to say, like, for this emailer, if your end

0:43:50.360 --> 0:43:53.000
<v Speaker 1>goal is to get back with your ex, the likelihood

0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:55.319
<v Speaker 1>of that happening, because you guys are in a friends

0:43:55.320 --> 0:43:58.239
<v Speaker 1>with benefit situation now, is very slim. Yeah, I don't

0:43:58.239 --> 0:44:01.759
<v Speaker 1>have expectations for this one. If you're hooking up with

0:44:01.840 --> 0:44:04.800
<v Speaker 1>them and you have no expectations of getting back together

0:44:04.840 --> 0:44:06.839
<v Speaker 1>and you just kind of want to hook up with

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:09.120
<v Speaker 1>your X, I mean, go forward, sure, do whatever you want.

0:44:09.160 --> 0:44:13.600
<v Speaker 1>It's free country, but there's I don't buy into this,

0:44:13.719 --> 0:44:16.960
<v Speaker 1>bs of Oh. I still have feelings for you, but

0:44:17.080 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 1>I just don't want to be in a relationship right now.

0:44:20.760 --> 0:44:24.280
<v Speaker 1>Don't fall for it, don't listen to it. It's probably

0:44:24.320 --> 0:44:26.279
<v Speaker 1>best if you just cut it off right now, like

0:44:26.360 --> 0:44:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Dean says, before you get her even further. Uh, because

0:44:31.640 --> 0:44:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you're not getting back together with this guy. That's what

0:44:33.680 --> 0:44:34.920
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like to me. I mean, you can be

0:44:34.920 --> 0:44:37.160
<v Speaker 1>friends with I'm sure that's what the emailer asked, Like,

0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:38.560
<v Speaker 1>can I be still be friends with him? Of course

0:44:38.560 --> 0:44:40.960
<v Speaker 1>you can't. Sure why not you'd be friends with benefits,

0:44:41.120 --> 0:44:43.800
<v Speaker 1>But if there's feelings involved and you have expectations of

0:44:43.840 --> 0:44:47.840
<v Speaker 1>getting back together, bad news. Cut it off now. Yeah,

0:44:48.160 --> 0:44:50.080
<v Speaker 1>this sounds like something that I would say, like five

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:52.040
<v Speaker 1>years ago, when I was like twenty four. You know,

0:44:52.160 --> 0:44:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that they're probably around that same age change

0:44:54.080 --> 0:44:56.359
<v Speaker 1>as well, But it sounds like something that the guy

0:44:56.440 --> 0:44:59.120
<v Speaker 1>is saying because maybe he does have feelings for her.

0:44:59.600 --> 0:45:02.360
<v Speaker 1>But uh, like, look, he's got every chance to be

0:45:02.400 --> 0:45:04.040
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with you now, and he's not taking

0:45:04.080 --> 0:45:06.640
<v Speaker 1>that chance. So I think he's kind of just being lazy.

0:45:06.800 --> 0:45:08.760
<v Speaker 1>And he knows that you're comfortable, you know, as you're familiar.

0:45:08.800 --> 0:45:10.200
<v Speaker 1>He kind of knows what you like, what you don't like,

0:45:10.600 --> 0:45:15.600
<v Speaker 1>and so he's just basically biding his time by hooking

0:45:15.680 --> 0:45:17.959
<v Speaker 1>up with you, hanging out with you without committing fully

0:45:18.000 --> 0:45:20.600
<v Speaker 1>to a relationship. That's my two cents. I don't doubt

0:45:20.600 --> 0:45:22.319
<v Speaker 1>that this guy probably has feelings for her too, But

0:45:22.360 --> 0:45:25.799
<v Speaker 1>there's a difference between having feelings for someone and being

0:45:25.800 --> 0:45:29.919
<v Speaker 1>willing to commit to someone, and so I like, if

0:45:29.960 --> 0:45:32.200
<v Speaker 1>you're looking if this email is looking for a committed

0:45:32.200 --> 0:45:34.839
<v Speaker 1>relationship with this with this guy that she's friends with,

0:45:35.640 --> 0:45:41.080
<v Speaker 1>I go someplace else. That's that's my advice. Yeah, I agree. Um,

0:45:41.080 --> 0:45:44.319
<v Speaker 1>all right, we have one more emailer from anonymous. Not

0:45:44.400 --> 0:45:47.920
<v Speaker 1>many emails today, so email us I secre dating at

0:45:47.960 --> 0:45:53.120
<v Speaker 1>i heeart media dot com. This emailer says, Jared, this

0:45:53.239 --> 0:45:57.600
<v Speaker 1>question is directed directly at you. I am dating a boy.

0:45:57.840 --> 0:46:00.719
<v Speaker 1>I think he's so great, but I also know that

0:46:00.760 --> 0:46:03.120
<v Speaker 1>he wants to hook up with my best friend. I've

0:46:03.120 --> 0:46:05.400
<v Speaker 1>hooked up with my best friend in the past in college.

0:46:05.400 --> 0:46:08.960
<v Speaker 1>We all have those days in parentheses, um, and and

0:46:09.040 --> 0:46:13.160
<v Speaker 1>we're experimenting. But my boyfriend now wants to hook up

0:46:13.200 --> 0:46:15.280
<v Speaker 1>with her as well, and he wants me to be included.

0:46:15.400 --> 0:46:17.360
<v Speaker 1>Do you think I should let him do it? Or

0:46:17.640 --> 0:46:20.200
<v Speaker 1>do you think I should nix it even though I've

0:46:20.200 --> 0:46:22.799
<v Speaker 1>already hooked up with both of them? Just so you

0:46:22.800 --> 0:46:24.800
<v Speaker 1>guys know, they've never hooked up with each other. A

0:46:24.920 --> 0:46:28.080
<v Speaker 1>ka were twenty six My Boyfriend's seven I Love You

0:46:28.080 --> 0:46:31.439
<v Speaker 1>Guys podcast listen every week five stars on iTunes. Suck

0:46:31.560 --> 0:46:34.560
<v Speaker 1>Army Suck suck suck. That's from Anonymous. Well, thank you

0:46:34.560 --> 0:46:36.520
<v Speaker 1>Anonymous for listening to the podcast, and thank you for

0:46:36.560 --> 0:46:38.640
<v Speaker 1>the five star review. If anybody's listening out there and

0:46:38.640 --> 0:46:40.640
<v Speaker 1>wants to give us a five star review, we would

0:46:40.640 --> 0:46:43.480
<v Speaker 1>obviously love to take it. But seriously, thank you everybody

0:46:43.480 --> 0:46:45.440
<v Speaker 1>listening to this podcast right now, because of course without

0:46:45.440 --> 0:46:47.800
<v Speaker 1>you guys, there is no podcast, and then Dean and

0:46:47.880 --> 0:46:51.200
<v Speaker 1>I are are probably living, uh in a van intervention

0:46:51.440 --> 0:46:55.040
<v Speaker 1>doing that, but now I'd be living in a van. Um.

0:46:55.120 --> 0:46:57.880
<v Speaker 1>Hold on, I'm confused. Is this guy asking for her

0:46:57.920 --> 0:47:01.239
<v Speaker 1>to be in a throutle know, from the sound of it,

0:47:01.239 --> 0:47:03.319
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like he just wants to have like, you know,

0:47:03.320 --> 0:47:07.479
<v Speaker 1>a little a little a little fun, a little manage. Yeah.

0:47:09.800 --> 0:47:14.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean again, depends on your comfort level. I don't know.

0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:17.560
<v Speaker 1>I feel like anytime you introduce a third person into

0:47:17.560 --> 0:47:22.320
<v Speaker 1>a relationship, uh, it causes issues. But I mean, people

0:47:22.360 --> 0:47:24.520
<v Speaker 1>are in throttles and they're very happy, so who am

0:47:24.560 --> 0:47:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I to judge? But I feel like, more often than not,

0:47:27.160 --> 0:47:29.320
<v Speaker 1>if you're not looking to be in a committed relationship

0:47:29.400 --> 0:47:31.440
<v Speaker 1>and you're just introducing a third person into like a

0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:35.799
<v Speaker 1>sexual experiment, I don't know, maybe I'm wrong, but I

0:47:35.800 --> 0:47:39.319
<v Speaker 1>feel like that introduces a lot of insecurities and jealousy.

0:47:40.239 --> 0:47:42.879
<v Speaker 1>But again, it's entirely up to you. It's your that's

0:47:42.880 --> 0:47:45.759
<v Speaker 1>how comfortable you feel, you know, listen, it's as long

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:48.960
<v Speaker 1>as you guys are being safe and honest. Um. You know,

0:47:49.239 --> 0:47:51.480
<v Speaker 1>if you want to experiment and try something new and

0:47:51.520 --> 0:47:54.000
<v Speaker 1>you're both comfortable with it, and everybody involved is comfortable

0:47:54.040 --> 0:47:55.480
<v Speaker 1>and and you know you guys are all on the

0:47:55.520 --> 0:47:57.640
<v Speaker 1>same page and have the same expectations, I would just

0:47:57.840 --> 0:48:00.680
<v Speaker 1>advise communicating with one another thing go or sure? Why not?

0:48:01.719 --> 0:48:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious why this person directed this question towards you.

0:48:05.920 --> 0:48:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe they want you to be part of their throuble.

0:48:10.239 --> 0:48:11.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that could be fun, but unfore, you know,

0:48:12.160 --> 0:48:15.800
<v Speaker 1>not unfortunately, But I'm I also bring Ashley into the equation,

0:48:15.880 --> 0:48:18.439
<v Speaker 1>so it would be a a four of a fourth

0:48:18.880 --> 0:48:23.560
<v Speaker 1>four pal a quadruple. A quadruple would would actually ever

0:48:23.640 --> 0:48:25.360
<v Speaker 1>be interested in doing something like that. It's hard for

0:48:25.400 --> 0:48:29.480
<v Speaker 1>me to imagine the scenario where that'd be okay to do. No, No,

0:48:29.680 --> 0:48:31.520
<v Speaker 1>she would not be down for that. Yeah, I don't think.

0:48:31.520 --> 0:48:32.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't think they wan will be very down for

0:48:32.880 --> 0:48:36.120
<v Speaker 1>it either. Um. I agree with everything you said. It's

0:48:36.120 --> 0:48:40.360
<v Speaker 1>funny because I've had friends, uh, both guys and girls

0:48:40.400 --> 0:48:43.640
<v Speaker 1>on both sides, that have been in relationships with people

0:48:43.800 --> 0:48:46.360
<v Speaker 1>that have introduced a third person for you know, the

0:48:46.480 --> 0:48:48.919
<v Speaker 1>quote unquote fun parts and then also been the third

0:48:48.960 --> 0:48:53.799
<v Speaker 1>person that gets introduced to the couples. Uh. And it's

0:48:53.840 --> 0:48:57.120
<v Speaker 1>funny because I've heard these stories, but they are all

0:48:57.239 --> 0:48:59.279
<v Speaker 1>old stories. Do you know their stories from when they

0:48:59.320 --> 0:49:00.880
<v Speaker 1>were like in their mid to late twenties and they

0:49:00.920 --> 0:49:04.880
<v Speaker 1>were just feeling experimental or whatever. Um. And I've been

0:49:04.920 --> 0:49:07.200
<v Speaker 1>hard pressed to hear a story, like a recent story

0:49:07.239 --> 0:49:09.200
<v Speaker 1>of any of my friends doing this. Did they like

0:49:09.360 --> 0:49:13.040
<v Speaker 1>one being one part of the equation over the other.

0:49:13.480 --> 0:49:15.719
<v Speaker 1>Did they say they enjoyed being in the relationship more

0:49:15.880 --> 0:49:19.560
<v Speaker 1>or they enjoy being like the individual that entered the relationship?

0:49:20.080 --> 0:49:21.680
<v Speaker 1>You want know what's funny is I've never really heard

0:49:21.680 --> 0:49:27.640
<v Speaker 1>of anyone thoroughly enjoying either of them. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:49:27.719 --> 0:49:31.560
<v Speaker 1>all right, um And so yeah, I think I agree

0:49:31.600 --> 0:49:33.560
<v Speaker 1>with what you're saying is communication is important. But also

0:49:33.600 --> 0:49:35.920
<v Speaker 1>it's like, I don't think you should necessarily give into

0:49:35.960 --> 0:49:39.360
<v Speaker 1>your urges for you know, an hour of something that

0:49:39.400 --> 0:49:43.840
<v Speaker 1>you might know like not be happy about days weeks,

0:49:43.840 --> 0:49:46.239
<v Speaker 1>months years later. You know that that's something that could

0:49:46.280 --> 0:49:48.560
<v Speaker 1>drive a ledge potentially through a relationship. And it always

0:49:48.680 --> 0:49:52.400
<v Speaker 1>makes me think of that that Entourage episode where he

0:49:52.560 --> 0:49:55.480
<v Speaker 1>is dating Sloan and then Sloan's like hot friend comes

0:49:55.880 --> 0:49:59.439
<v Speaker 1>and she wants to do that, and Sloan like has

0:49:59.440 --> 0:50:01.239
<v Speaker 1>her rule. She's like, yeah, okay, we can do this,

0:50:01.280 --> 0:50:04.040
<v Speaker 1>but you like you can't have sex with her, uh

0:50:04.080 --> 0:50:06.760
<v Speaker 1>and whatever else, and then like he gets like fixated

0:50:06.800 --> 0:50:09.480
<v Speaker 1>on this other girl uh, and he gets like obsessed

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:11.640
<v Speaker 1>with her and he wants to cheat on his girlfriend

0:50:11.680 --> 0:50:13.520
<v Speaker 1>just to hook up with her just them too, and

0:50:13.560 --> 0:50:16.000
<v Speaker 1>then it creates this divide and then she leaves and

0:50:16.000 --> 0:50:18.759
<v Speaker 1>and all that stuff. But but yeah, I guess more

0:50:18.800 --> 0:50:21.640
<v Speaker 1>of that story is it doesn't really seem like much

0:50:21.680 --> 0:50:26.560
<v Speaker 1>good can come from thruple circumstances. Yeah, I don't know. Again,

0:50:26.680 --> 0:50:29.839
<v Speaker 1>I it's just not I don't know, it's not something

0:50:29.840 --> 0:50:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I could do. But again, to each of their own.

0:50:32.560 --> 0:50:33.960
<v Speaker 1>You know, there's a lot of things that I can't

0:50:34.000 --> 0:50:37.680
<v Speaker 1>do in this world, including probably skydiving. That's something you

0:50:37.719 --> 0:50:40.600
<v Speaker 1>can do. So yeah, yeah, I'm doing that tomorrow. Actually, Um,

0:50:40.719 --> 0:50:44.040
<v Speaker 1>it's funny too because I think about uh, I try

0:50:44.040 --> 0:50:46.320
<v Speaker 1>to put myself in Kaylin's shoes, and it's like, Okay,

0:50:46.719 --> 0:50:49.759
<v Speaker 1>let's say we bring in another girl. And I was like, yeah,

0:50:49.840 --> 0:50:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I guess that would be okay if Caitlin was into it.

0:50:52.040 --> 0:50:53.920
<v Speaker 1>But then I'm like, well, what if we brought in

0:50:53.920 --> 0:50:56.080
<v Speaker 1>another guy? I'd like, well, I wouldn't be okay with that,

0:50:56.880 --> 0:50:58.640
<v Speaker 1>And so it's like, how how could I be How

0:50:58.640 --> 0:51:00.239
<v Speaker 1>could I ever expect Klin to be a he was

0:51:00.280 --> 0:51:02.400
<v Speaker 1>something that I wouldn't be okay with if I was here,

0:51:02.440 --> 0:51:05.600
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Totally, It's it's unfair. But

0:51:05.760 --> 0:51:08.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering if you if you begged the question to Klin,

0:51:09.040 --> 0:51:12.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious what her answer would be if you said, Kalin,

0:51:13.160 --> 0:51:15.279
<v Speaker 1>would you rather bring in a guy? That you have

0:51:15.320 --> 0:51:17.000
<v Speaker 1>to choose one? You have to either bring in a

0:51:17.040 --> 0:51:19.600
<v Speaker 1>girl into this relationship or a guy into this relationship,

0:51:19.600 --> 0:51:21.480
<v Speaker 1>which one you're choosing? For some reason, I feel like

0:51:21.480 --> 0:51:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Caylin would choose a girl because I feel like that's

0:51:23.040 --> 0:51:25.760
<v Speaker 1>what Ashley would choose to. Yeah, I think that that's

0:51:25.880 --> 0:51:28.719
<v Speaker 1>very true as well. I wonder why that is. Yeah,

0:51:28.760 --> 0:51:30.319
<v Speaker 1>I was just about to say that same thing. I

0:51:30.320 --> 0:51:33.040
<v Speaker 1>think that there's just like a weird stigma, a weirder

0:51:33.120 --> 0:51:37.200
<v Speaker 1>stigma about guy on guy versus girl on girl. You know,

0:51:37.719 --> 0:51:40.160
<v Speaker 1>girl and girl I think is more widely acceptable even

0:51:40.200 --> 0:51:43.880
<v Speaker 1>today than guy on guy. Uh. And that just is

0:51:44.000 --> 0:51:47.160
<v Speaker 1>something that I think is ever changing and evolving, and

0:51:47.440 --> 0:51:50.840
<v Speaker 1>even today is better than it was years ago. But

0:51:50.880 --> 0:51:53.160
<v Speaker 1>I think that there's still a lot to overcome for

0:51:53.239 --> 0:51:55.840
<v Speaker 1>that guy on guy stigma too, because I was actually

0:51:55.880 --> 0:51:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I had this conversation, um at this point. It was

0:51:58.560 --> 0:51:59.920
<v Speaker 1>probably a while ago, but for some reason I could

0:52:00.000 --> 0:52:03.120
<v Speaker 1>remember pretty freshly. It was like, let's say you start

0:52:03.200 --> 0:52:06.640
<v Speaker 1>dating someone new, uh in your case, in my case

0:52:06.640 --> 0:52:09.960
<v Speaker 1>would be we're dating a girl because we're heterosexual men,

0:52:10.080 --> 0:52:12.360
<v Speaker 1>and you you come to find out that this girl

0:52:12.440 --> 0:52:15.040
<v Speaker 1>at some point in college had you know, hooked up

0:52:15.080 --> 0:52:17.440
<v Speaker 1>with a girlfriend of theirs. You know, you kind of

0:52:17.480 --> 0:52:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you hear that story and you're like, oh, that's that's interesting,

0:52:19.600 --> 0:52:22.319
<v Speaker 1>that's cool, Like that's you know, a fun experimental thing

0:52:22.360 --> 0:52:24.600
<v Speaker 1>for you to do. So that's fun, that's funny. How

0:52:24.640 --> 0:52:28.040
<v Speaker 1>you articulated that you that's fun, that's cool, that's fun,

0:52:28.040 --> 0:52:32.080
<v Speaker 1>that's cool, that's awesome. Yeah, I'm not trying to be

0:52:32.160 --> 0:52:34.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to be too brolly on the podcast here,

0:52:34.160 --> 0:52:35.920
<v Speaker 1>I guess, but yes, you're right, that's basically what I

0:52:35.920 --> 0:52:38.719
<v Speaker 1>would be saying in my head. Uh. But then it

0:52:38.800 --> 0:52:41.720
<v Speaker 1>flipped that around. And I've had this conversation with girls

0:52:41.760 --> 0:52:47.000
<v Speaker 1>before because while I know that I'm a heterosexual guy,

0:52:47.239 --> 0:52:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I always make the argument that I'm never sure because

0:52:49.600 --> 0:52:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I've never actually had a homosexual experience with another man.

0:52:53.000 --> 0:52:54.839
<v Speaker 1>So that's like, how certain can I be because I've

0:52:54.840 --> 0:52:56.960
<v Speaker 1>never actually done it? Uh. And I always get the

0:52:56.960 --> 0:53:00.239
<v Speaker 1>response from them saying like, well, if I was getting

0:53:00.239 --> 0:53:02.239
<v Speaker 1>a guy and I found out that he hooked up

0:53:02.280 --> 0:53:05.040
<v Speaker 1>with another guy in college or wherever, whenever, I would

0:53:05.160 --> 0:53:08.200
<v Speaker 1>immediately like sever that relationship and cut ties with it.

0:53:08.520 --> 0:53:10.640
<v Speaker 1>And I feel like whenever you you hear a girl

0:53:10.680 --> 0:53:13.160
<v Speaker 1>talk about a guy with a uh, you know, a

0:53:13.239 --> 0:53:16.239
<v Speaker 1>gay or by passed, it's always negatively. But whenever you

0:53:16.280 --> 0:53:18.359
<v Speaker 1>hear a girl talk about a gay or by pass

0:53:18.400 --> 0:53:21.200
<v Speaker 1>it's always kind of looked that positively. Yeah, that is interesting.

0:53:22.560 --> 0:53:24.799
<v Speaker 1>There has to be studies. We should actually do our

0:53:24.800 --> 0:53:26.880
<v Speaker 1>research before next we can find out why that is,

0:53:26.920 --> 0:53:30.480
<v Speaker 1>because that is an interesting topic. Why is it more

0:53:30.560 --> 0:53:34.080
<v Speaker 1>socially acceptable when you find out you're a girl had

0:53:34.480 --> 0:53:36.680
<v Speaker 1>hooked up with a girl in the past rather than

0:53:36.719 --> 0:53:40.480
<v Speaker 1>a guy who hooked up with a guy in the past. Yeah,

0:53:40.520 --> 0:53:42.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. I don't know. I have

0:53:42.040 --> 0:53:44.920
<v Speaker 1>no idea why I've I've thought about it many times.

0:53:44.680 --> 0:53:48.000
<v Speaker 1>It's basically, it's it's constantly. I'm thinking about it right now.

0:53:48.040 --> 0:53:50.200
<v Speaker 1>I thought about it last night. It's basically it's like

0:53:50.200 --> 0:53:52.000
<v Speaker 1>tip for tat. You know, it's like, how is tip

0:53:52.080 --> 0:53:55.080
<v Speaker 1>for tat anything but fair? That's basically as fair as

0:53:55.120 --> 0:53:58.760
<v Speaker 1>it gets. But in this reality, it's, uh, it's looked

0:53:59.000 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>at very different you from both sides. Yeah, I mean,

0:54:02.239 --> 0:54:07.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm speaking from a heterosexual male perspective, so but like,

0:54:07.400 --> 0:54:09.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I get why you'd want to hook up

0:54:09.320 --> 0:54:12.799
<v Speaker 1>with a woman, so like for me, I guess. And

0:54:13.000 --> 0:54:16.279
<v Speaker 1>again this is speaking from a straight males perspective. To

0:54:16.440 --> 0:54:18.080
<v Speaker 1>take this with a grain of salt, but like, women

0:54:18.080 --> 0:54:20.879
<v Speaker 1>are just so beautiful. I can see why women other

0:54:20.920 --> 0:54:23.080
<v Speaker 1>women would be like I I want to, I want to,

0:54:23.200 --> 0:54:25.760
<v Speaker 1>I want to, I want to kiss another woman because

0:54:26.080 --> 0:54:28.320
<v Speaker 1>you want to try it because they're just stunning creatures.

0:54:28.719 --> 0:54:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Where guys were like Harry and like sweaty and stinky,

0:54:33.600 --> 0:54:37.200
<v Speaker 1>but you know, I'm only of those three things you

0:54:37.239 --> 0:54:39.320
<v Speaker 1>just said. I'm only stinky. I'm actually not very hairy

0:54:39.400 --> 0:54:42.760
<v Speaker 1>or sweaty. Ever, No, I'm Harry. I'm not that sweaty.

0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:45.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm Harry. Though. Sometimes I've talked about this on the

0:54:45.440 --> 0:54:48.560
<v Speaker 1>podcast before, something like my really good guy friends will

0:54:48.560 --> 0:54:52.040
<v Speaker 1>like kiss each other sometimes, uh, like a lot of times,

0:54:52.040 --> 0:54:53.680
<v Speaker 1>like on the lips, you know, just to be just

0:54:53.719 --> 0:54:55.560
<v Speaker 1>to like show our affection for one another. I've seen

0:54:55.600 --> 0:54:58.600
<v Speaker 1>Alex do that. Yeah, Alex Sean is like the type

0:54:58.600 --> 0:55:00.440
<v Speaker 1>of guy who like grab you by the back ahead

0:55:00.719 --> 0:55:03.080
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, and for some reason shove your tongue, his

0:55:03.120 --> 0:55:05.680
<v Speaker 1>tongue down your mouth. Alex and I definitely kiss. Usually

0:55:05.680 --> 0:55:07.480
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't involve tongue. It's mostly just a little pecks.

0:55:07.520 --> 0:55:09.839
<v Speaker 1>But uh, there was this one time I was dating

0:55:09.880 --> 0:55:11.319
<v Speaker 1>this girl. I think I've actually shared the story on

0:55:11.320 --> 0:55:13.640
<v Speaker 1>this podcast before, But I was dating this girl, uh,

0:55:13.719 --> 0:55:15.880
<v Speaker 1>and she was hanging out with me and Alex and

0:55:15.880 --> 0:55:17.719
<v Speaker 1>we're all at like this music festival, and so we

0:55:17.719 --> 0:55:20.080
<v Speaker 1>were all like partying and having fun, uh and like

0:55:20.200 --> 0:55:22.680
<v Speaker 1>laughing and whatever, and Alex and I like pecked each

0:55:22.719 --> 0:55:24.600
<v Speaker 1>other and she looked at me and looked at him

0:55:24.600 --> 0:55:26.359
<v Speaker 1>and looks back at me, and it was like very

0:55:26.520 --> 0:55:29.239
<v Speaker 1>very disgusted by it, and uh it kind of like

0:55:29.320 --> 0:55:31.640
<v Speaker 1>drove a legend to our relationship as well. And I

0:55:31.680 --> 0:55:33.200
<v Speaker 1>was like, well, he's like one of my best friends.

0:55:33.200 --> 0:55:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm just kissing him, just showing him how much I

0:55:35.120 --> 0:55:37.000
<v Speaker 1>appreciate him, you know what. It's like I'm making out

0:55:37.000 --> 0:55:39.279
<v Speaker 1>with him and like running off with him or anything that. Yeah,

0:55:39.280 --> 0:55:40.719
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, listen, if you kissed one of your

0:55:40.760 --> 0:55:42.560
<v Speaker 1>girls on all lips as a peck, it would be fine.

0:55:42.600 --> 0:55:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I'd have no issues with it, exactly exactly. Uh So,

0:55:46.480 --> 0:55:48.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, there's like this weird double standard in

0:55:48.280 --> 0:55:50.759
<v Speaker 1>a weird way, but maybe one day we'll be able

0:55:50.760 --> 0:55:53.439
<v Speaker 1>to all work past it. You know. That's what we're

0:55:53.480 --> 0:55:55.600
<v Speaker 1>here for. That's why we do this podcast, get rid

0:55:55.600 --> 0:55:57.440
<v Speaker 1>of those double standards. Baby, do you want know what's

0:55:57.440 --> 0:55:59.719
<v Speaker 1>really funny actually is this might be t M I

0:55:59.760 --> 0:56:02.960
<v Speaker 1>and you over sharing about my relationship. But I kissed

0:56:02.960 --> 0:56:06.680
<v Speaker 1>one of my got good guy friends this past weekend. Uh.

0:56:07.040 --> 0:56:09.440
<v Speaker 1>He and I were we played golf together a lot,

0:56:09.480 --> 0:56:12.879
<v Speaker 1>and we're like, we're pretty good friends, and uh, maybe

0:56:12.880 --> 0:56:15.040
<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't share the story. Because we're in the height

0:56:15.080 --> 0:56:16.920
<v Speaker 1>of a pandemic and I shouldn't be kissing anyone that's

0:56:16.920 --> 0:56:20.279
<v Speaker 1>not my girlfriend. But anyways, it was we were on

0:56:20.320 --> 0:56:22.320
<v Speaker 1>double datos him and his girlfriend and me and Kaylin,

0:56:22.400 --> 0:56:26.799
<v Speaker 1>of course, and we're like out and uh like he

0:56:26.880 --> 0:56:28.800
<v Speaker 1>kissed me for some reason on the lips, and Calen

0:56:28.880 --> 0:56:30.640
<v Speaker 1>looked over and saw it happened, and she like started

0:56:30.719 --> 0:56:32.360
<v Speaker 1>laughing her ass off, and she was like, that was

0:56:32.680 --> 0:56:35.880
<v Speaker 1>like the cutest thing I've ever seen. And she was

0:56:35.880 --> 0:56:38.799
<v Speaker 1>like fully embracing and accepting of me kissing my guy friend.

0:56:38.800 --> 0:56:40.280
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Oh, that's really great of you too

0:56:40.480 --> 0:56:42.799
<v Speaker 1>to be so on on board with that. That's how

0:56:42.840 --> 0:56:44.520
<v Speaker 1>you know you found the one man. You know, see

0:56:44.520 --> 0:56:47.120
<v Speaker 1>your your past ex girlfriends where it didn't work out.

0:56:47.200 --> 0:56:51.080
<v Speaker 1>She wasn't the one. She she was judgmental towards you

0:56:51.120 --> 0:56:53.200
<v Speaker 1>when you kissed your guy friends on the lips. And

0:56:53.239 --> 0:56:56.040
<v Speaker 1>then here we go, fast forward. You're with Klin, you

0:56:56.160 --> 0:56:58.040
<v Speaker 1>kiss one of your guy friends on the lips, and

0:56:58.080 --> 0:57:00.520
<v Speaker 1>she thinks it's the cutest, most adorable out in the world.

0:57:00.600 --> 0:57:03.200
<v Speaker 1>You have found the one. My friend Caitlyn wants me

0:57:03.239 --> 0:57:05.200
<v Speaker 1>kissing my guy friends. Isn't that isn't that the cutest

0:57:05.239 --> 0:57:07.640
<v Speaker 1>thing ever? That's just quite adorable. I mean, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>my dog, so it's not the same. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she's Harry like a guy. Yeah, I mean I guess

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<v Speaker 1>Pappy all the time too. He's a Harry guy too. Happy.

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<v Speaker 1>How is Pappy without his teeth? Oh? Man, he's great,

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<v Speaker 1>he's happy. Actually, we were out at the beach the

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<v Speaker 1>other day and we were gone from the house for

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<v Speaker 1>like five hours, and we got back and there was

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<v Speaker 1>poop in the bathroom, p in the living room, p

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<v Speaker 1>on the bed. So this dog literally jumped off the bed,

0:57:30.720 --> 0:57:32.880
<v Speaker 1>pooped in the bathroom, jumped back on the bed to pee,

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<v Speaker 1>and then jumped off the bed again just to like,

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<v Speaker 1>we think that since he's so used to having us

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<v Speaker 1>around seven since we were gone for like five hours.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like, where the hell is everyone? I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna make them never do this again. What the

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<v Speaker 1>hell is going on? This is ridiculous. It's been thirty minutes.

0:57:48.840 --> 0:57:52.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm pissing it all over this place. Yeah, so he's

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<v Speaker 1>he's great, but that was not that was not a

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<v Speaker 1>cool moment. All right, Well, it's gonna do it for

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<v Speaker 1>this week's episode of Help by Second Dating. Um, Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>is there anything us that you want to add before

0:58:00.800 --> 0:58:02.080
<v Speaker 1>we get out of here? I mean, I can talk

0:58:02.080 --> 0:58:04.040
<v Speaker 1>about our dogs all day long. But you know, Pappy

0:58:04.120 --> 0:58:06.720
<v Speaker 1>is just awesome. I saw I saw the picture of

0:58:06.840 --> 0:58:08.959
<v Speaker 1>like him and like a baby. What are those things

0:58:08.960 --> 0:58:12.040
<v Speaker 1>called that Calin was carrying him around in? Uh, he's

0:58:12.040 --> 0:58:15.480
<v Speaker 1>got like a dog backpack. Yeah, he's like a dog backpack. Anyway,

0:58:15.640 --> 0:58:17.960
<v Speaker 1>let's let's talk about next week. Let's just talk about

0:58:17.960 --> 0:58:20.240
<v Speaker 1>our dogs all week. It's talk about dogs all week.

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<v Speaker 1>Weird ones of pandemics over, like he said, because Pappy

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<v Speaker 1>so used to being around you guys seven and you

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<v Speaker 1>just left them alone for a few hours and then

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<v Speaker 1>he was like not to This is not how it works.

0:58:29.960 --> 0:58:32.240
<v Speaker 1>You're supposed to be home all the time. Full on

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<v Speaker 1>rebellmade it was absolutely insane. It was like walking into

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<v Speaker 1>like a murder scene. Oh Pappy, you know, when you

0:58:38.040 --> 0:58:40.680
<v Speaker 1>gotta go, you gotta go. And Pappy's an old man,

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<v Speaker 1>so he probably can't hold it as well as they

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<v Speaker 1>used to. Poor guy. That's fair. Um, all right, well,

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