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Speaker 1: My ex is cruel, So I stole his dreamsuv. Steal it.

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Speaker 2: Drive cross country.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe pack some friends. You got an suv, it's

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Speaker 1: pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: Listen to Okay Storytime.

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Speaker 1: This is gonna be a long one, so buckle up

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Speaker 1: in your suv. In twenty seventeen, i' me met a

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Speaker 1: guy let's call him Earl. I hadn't been in any

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Speaker 1: sort of long term, serious relationship for eight years, and

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Speaker 1: I was a single, working mom with young kids, and

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Speaker 1: I didn't have time nor the energy for a relationship.

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Speaker 1: After my kids were a little older, I decided to

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Speaker 1: try dating here and there, and that is when I

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Speaker 1: met Earl. All By the way, this comes from Mt.

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Speaker 1: Mad Woman on the r slash Okay story Times, so

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Speaker 1: I read it. So do you ever go through things

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Speaker 1: in your life and realize, once you're out of them

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Speaker 1: and looking back, that the entire situation was one giant

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Speaker 1: red flag? Only your self esteem was so brittle and

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Speaker 1: boundaries so poor you didn't realize it until everything had

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Speaker 1: hit the fan and you were out on the other

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Speaker 1: side trying to scrape up the pieces you had left

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Speaker 1: so you could start to feel human again. Wow. What

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Speaker 1: a description. Wow, Well, that's how it ended. A liit

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Speaker 1: like that. But you never see the beginning, do you.

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Speaker 1: You never see the romantic hard worker who picks you

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Speaker 1: wild flower bouquets, poor sweet, talks your ears off and

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Speaker 1: buys you thoughtful little gifts. Poor good old Earl was

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Speaker 1: all that in a bag of chips, solicious. Bit by bit,

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Speaker 1: those little things started surfacing, things not matching up, suspicious

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Speaker 1: things always cleared with a smile and a story. Oh babe,

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Speaker 1: Oh you're wondering what that uh that mascara is on

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Speaker 1: my shirt? You know, I just you know how I

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Speaker 1: love to do my magic show. I always wear mascara,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes it runs when I get a magic trick

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Speaker 1: wrong because I'm crying. Couldn't be a lady's mess, Gary, the.

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Speaker 2: Kiss marks all over my body?

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Speaker 3: Uh, you know, there's a new temporary tattoo artists crazy

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Speaker 3: And I'm just trying to help my friend out get

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Speaker 3: getting his practicing exactly.

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Speaker 4: Oh that girl's name of my inner thigh, that's just

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Speaker 4: my mom.

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Speaker 1: That's just my mom. She changed her name. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's her maiden name. Yeah, I know, her maiden name

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Speaker 1: being Crystal is crazy, But you know that's just how

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Speaker 1: it works. But things did not match up. Suspicious things

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Speaker 1: always clear with the smiling story. And because I was

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Speaker 1: putting effort in this relationship, wanting it to work so bad,

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Speaker 1: maybe hoping to make that happen through sheer, willpower and delusion,

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Speaker 1: my own denial kicked in and his gas lighting became

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Speaker 1: the gas lighting I gave myself. It became a self

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Speaker 1: propelling cycle.

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Speaker 2: Wow, pressed the gas on those lights.

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Speaker 1: Tragic. Yeah, you're pressing the gas all the way to

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Speaker 1: a cliff and riding that into the sunset. That's not fun.

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Speaker 1: Things got worse. Environmental aggression, a glass candle hole being

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Speaker 1: the first to go. Well, that mean that flew into

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Speaker 1: my shin, Oh, the first of many scars he would

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Speaker 1: bless me with outside and in. He was a three

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Speaker 1: tour Iraq Army veteran with two tours of active combat

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Speaker 1: and infantry. So man probably has an arm Before anyone

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Speaker 1: riding on a horse high starts judging me for staying,

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Speaker 1: I will say I used to ride that steed too.

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Speaker 1: Talking about the guy or not sure? Until you walk

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Speaker 1: through that reality, you don't know what you would do

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Speaker 1: in this situation. And I will tell you now if

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Speaker 1: you ever have been the one who wants to please

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Speaker 1: others or present one face to the public world and

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Speaker 1: another behind closed doors. It can happen to you. I

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Speaker 1: found out from a gay friend of mine that my

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Speaker 1: ex was trying to hook up with him on a

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Speaker 1: gay hookup app. That wow, what for the other team?

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Speaker 1: My friend sent me picks that my ex had sent

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Speaker 1: to him of himself, let's say, brushing his tonsils with

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Speaker 1: another man's body part, and the message saying, she don't

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Speaker 1: know that I play without.

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Speaker 2: Her brushing his tonsils.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy, that's wild.

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Speaker 1: Crazy. Man's got some talent hygiene. He's a two way player,

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Speaker 1: pitching and catching. My friend told me he had way

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Speaker 1: too much respect for me to not let me know

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Speaker 1: what was going on. Okay, w friend me, being more

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Speaker 1: old school and ignorant of how these sites worked, had

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Speaker 1: a nice long chat with my loyal friend about this site. Grinder,

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Speaker 1: you know, a place where budding friendships can start with

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Speaker 1: anyone around you. Yeah, just a couple of handshakes. I mean,

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Speaker 4: A place to go if you're tired of always being

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, come out and started as a bottom.

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Speaker 1: And now I'm here, I mean, now I'm on top.

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Speaker 1: I mean now now I'm here. Of how these sites worked.

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Speaker 1: My royal friend about the site who talked about to

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Speaker 1: talk to him. Grinder, a location based hookup app, told

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Speaker 1: me how it worked. My ex went to another state

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Speaker 1: to visit family. So I did a little bit of

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Speaker 1: online research and set up a fake Grinder account of

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Speaker 1: my own, spoofing my location so that it looked like

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Speaker 1: a few blocks away. When I clicked on his profile,

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Speaker 1: I did that. When he asked me for pictures, I

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Speaker 1: am sure the clear face shot in my single finger

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Speaker 1: salute were not the pictures he was hoping for. He

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Speaker 1: and I busted him like like, as in, found him

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Speaker 1: out while we chatted. Now. I know that some people

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Speaker 1: are addicted to booze and some to drugs, but apparently

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Speaker 1: Because as much as I am ashamed to admit it,

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Speaker 1: I allowed his sobbing, his pleading his non relentless calling

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Speaker 1: just as he was right before. Later on I bought

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Speaker 1: he totaled the truck. Oh my god, his why he

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Speaker 1: should never give RoadHead while driving. The next year, I

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Speaker 2: Totaled two total cars.

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Speaker 1: He assured me he would buy me a new vehicle

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Speaker 1: seven Toyota FJ Cruiser. He had talked about it for

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Speaker 1: over a year and one for multiple years. On a

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Speaker 1: in my home state, however, so to avoid sales tax

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Speaker 1: by his own state, he had to put my name

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Speaker 1: stop the madness. Meanwhile, my truck I had bought after

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Speaker 1: he told my car was beginning to have some major

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Speaker 1: with over two hundred and seventeen thousand miles again on

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Speaker 1: his state. Tell me he wanted to improve his credit

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Speaker 1: whole time he'd been telling me how he was a

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Speaker 1: new man, he was faithful, he loved me, same song,

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Speaker 1: different dance. I end up finding a video on his

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Speaker 1: She don't care anymore.

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Speaker 2: He really did put his legs in the air because

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Speaker 2: he just doesn't care. Yeah, he literally did. That's exactly

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Speaker 1: You know, don't let your wife stop you from finding

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Speaker 2: That is that is a motto. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: God, I was nothing more than this dude's hetero attempted alibi,

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Speaker 1: let's call him Wayne, and asked me your name is

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Speaker 1: on the title, right, And I'm like, yeah, you say

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Speaker 1: I tell him, then, let's just drive it down there

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Speaker 2: So basically, just take.

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Speaker 1: The car truck swap rex, swap rex swap Okay. So

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend insisted on being the one to drive the

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Speaker 1: because it would have been like watching a mastiff fight

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Speaker 1: a boodle, and the mastiff was whose truck I was

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Speaker 2: We never know until slakes.

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Speaker 1: You know, Wayne did say he was a little sad

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Speaker 1: The next morning my phone rang an eight a m.

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Speaker 1: YouTube and Facebook and TikTok just taper profile. But there's another

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Speaker 1: relevant update. But do you think op did anything wrong here?

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Speaker 3: So basically, she she did this swap because that's the

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Speaker 3: that's the higher value car.

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah, get the higher value car.

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Speaker 1: Well, she did the swap because it's in it's that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm guessing it's higher value because otherwise why

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, it's just I mean, you swap it because

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Speaker 1: But I think mostly it's because it's in her name.

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Speaker 1: And no, just that one. The other one's in his name.

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Speaker 4: Got but she paid for the getting totaled.

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Speaker 4: I uh, she paid for two total cars, I thought.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he bought with his settlement money, right, yeah, I think, uh,

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Speaker 2: But I mean, ultimately, if it worked out, it worked

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Speaker 3: And also, like I guess it could, it does avoid

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I honestly think it probably solves more problems than

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Speaker 1: So but two days after I got back from picking

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Speaker 1: So am I d a hole? Honestly I am totally

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Speaker 3: I say no, no, I's say no, take more stuff?

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Speaker 3: Actually yeah, yeah, yeah, yea, Let's let's let's rob him

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Speaker 3: more Can we have his table, all of his furniture TV.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think that is one way to get

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Speaker 2: You know, get him, get a band, get him banned.

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Speaker 1: I think, just take it, you know, repossessed, repossess the

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Speaker 2: M hm, I like it. I'm I'm with it. I'm

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Speaker 3: Basically, just steal everything, steal everything, feal everything, good tomo

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Speaker 1: But I went to a concert with my female best friend.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't tell my girlfriend. That sounds like the

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Speaker 1: do you want right there? The impeller things that she

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Speaker 5: Are you comfortable this one simple trick, never telling them

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, this is a long and complex story, like

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Speaker 1: I'm half Mexican, half Italian. I've had a girl for

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Speaker 1: for three years. When I was in my second year

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Speaker 1: All four of us are Mexican, whereas my girlfriend is Spanish,

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Speaker 2: Close an opportunity.

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Speaker 1: I mean, where could you move You could have you

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Speaker 2: I don't know. At the end of the story, my legs.

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Speaker 1: Down, but I really struck a connection with one of

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Speaker 2: I see double Bachelor's right here.

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Speaker 1: Say that again, despite my girlfriend saying she liked them.

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Speaker 1: Obviously obviously, I mean, they're so close. It seemed like

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Speaker 1: I talked about it with my girlfriend, and although voicing

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's it's like this just.

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Speaker 2: My thoughts are Sam's chest.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it doesn't seem like she's one hundred percent

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Speaker 2: Either she's suspicious.

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Speaker 1: She is suspicious. It's not an outright like I'm opposing,

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Speaker 1: but it's like it's not outright saying yes it is.

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Speaker 6: I think it's like, you show me some more proof.

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Speaker 2: I feel like.

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Speaker 1: She can never really oppose the idea. Is not fully

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Speaker 2: I disagree?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I mean she's not fully on board.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, no, that yes she is. She is, Yes, But

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Speaker 5: what I'm saying is that there, it doesn't seem like

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Speaker 1: No, she's not shutting the door, but she is semi.

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Speaker 1: I feel like the more accurate thing is she semi

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Speaker 2: Yes, exactly.

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Speaker 1: What disagree? Say it say it speak speaks speak.

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Speaker 2: I disagree. I disagree. I disagree because I disagree.

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Speaker 5: He's just quoting Adam Sandler from that one moment of

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Speaker 3: Well, I think they went to a concert with a

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Speaker 2: That's what that's that's all I'm saying, that's all.

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Speaker 6: I'm saying, astute, thank you, So I accept it on fro.

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Speaker 1: It's now, it's now the summer. I invited my childhood

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Speaker 1: So now it's these two girls that he's lived with

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Speaker 5: Why isn't his friend there because she's busy, Well, she

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Speaker 1: Brain blast again.

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Speaker 5: No, but yeah, I guess it's understandable that you can't

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Speaker 1: This is just uh, this is just a summer thing.

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Speaker 2: But it goes back to Mexico for the summer.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I didn't even I didn't even pick that up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, sorry, So I had to love it. I

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Speaker 1: We all got along really well and had no discussions

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there's a whole There's a lot of gum of geometry,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, which leg is mine? Which leg is Keon's.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the geometric let's rub them to find out.

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Speaker 1: My best friend, Uh, Jesus God, job, Jesus.

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Speaker 4: John got a whole chub going on.

440
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Speaker 1: I couldn't betray my best friend by saying anything, but

441
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 1: I also wasn't doing right to my girlfriend, as she

442
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 1: would want me to tell her. My girlfriend and her

443
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 1: best friend meanwhile started suspecting something was up after seeing

444
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 1: photos of the trip in Mexico where the girls were

445
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: hugging my guy friends. So tensions kept getting worse. So

446
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,880
Speaker 1: someone's asking for whiteboard is asking for white board. All

447
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: you need to know is OPI is with his girlfriend

448
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 1: who did not come to Mexico. His childhood best friend,

449
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:56,160
Speaker 1: and his two friends girl friends that he's living with,

450
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 1: are in Mexico with him. The childhood best friend is

451
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 1: having a thing with one of the girls that he

452
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,360
Speaker 1: lives with, and op kind of had like a connection

453
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: with the other girl that he lives with.

454
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Speaker 6: There's a whole lot of wronggoing.

455
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 1: There's a whole lot of wronggoing here. And also Op's

456
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 1: girlfriend is best friends with his childhood best friends girlfriend.

457
00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 2: It's so simple, so simple.

458
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: Does that help?

459
00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 4: That's all I needed to know.

460
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 5: I just want to know if we think this guy

461
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 5: is gonna blow it or if things are gonna work out.

462
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 2: I think guy's gonna blow blow something.

463
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: So tensions kept getting worse between my girlfriend and my

464
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Speaker 1: female roommates. Eventually, January came and a new semester at

465
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Speaker 1: UNI began, and my childhood friend found some new roommates

466
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 1: so he finally could move out from our house. One night,

467
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 1: he calls me and go is to me that he

468
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: got a handy from my roommate and that he was

469
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 1: going to tell his girlfriend, my girlfriend's best friend once

470
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: that all comes out. Of course, my girlfriend fell all

471
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 1: her suspicions about my roommates. We're right, and she obviously

472
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: hated them now, which honestly fair.

473
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I understand she's on the money now, she's I

474
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 5: actually don't believe that you haven't gotten a handy from

475
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 5: those rooms.

476
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Speaker 6: I would believe that.

477
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 1: Believe I'm on that he's writing this whole post to

478
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,159
Speaker 1: show his girlfriend see, I didn't didn't do anything.

479
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,439
Speaker 4: I get a hand from my roommates all the time.

480
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: We always try to give that we give a help forgivers,

481
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: forgiver forgivers.

482
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Speaker 5: Can I just say really quick that I think this

483
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 5: shot is when you're on Sam and ke because when

484
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 5: you do the wide angle, Keon looks like when like

485
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 5: a professional athlete has a press conference and their kid

486
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 5: is like sitting in their lap while Sam's reading and

487
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 5: Keon's just sitting there like true, Oh, I want to

488
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 5: go home and eat Dino nuggets.

489
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 1: We'll get Dino nuggets.

490
00:25:52,240 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, exactly, yes, yes, very well behaved child.

491
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's the best. He's the best. Honestly, I'll take

492
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: him to every press conference from now on. I don't

493
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: think I could read a story without you. It's the

494
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: motivation I need. I need some kind of stimulation below

495
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: the belt so I can keep everything above the belt.

496
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 2: You know, you were so close, so I mean, why

497
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: are you blocking the cross?

498
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: That's that's true. Once it all comes out, of course,

499
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:35,360
Speaker 1: you decide anyway, once it all says, spicy handshake, spicy handshakes.

500
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 1: Once it all comes out, of course. My girlfriend felt

501
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 1: all her suspicions about my roommates were right, and she

502
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,119
Speaker 1: obviously hated them. Now, the roommate I was closest to

503
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,440
Speaker 1: got caught in the crossfire, and I couldn't hang out

504
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: or do stuff with her alone, like go to exhibitions

505
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:53,199
Speaker 1: without my girlfriend getting upset, like I guess like art

506
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: exhibitions or is he an exhibition is Yeah.

507
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 6: There's all kinds of exhibition.

508
00:26:58,600 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think that matters.

509
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 1: We had really similar interest and had a lot of

510
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 1: stuff we wanted to do. Her visit together with my

511
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 1: girlfriend's opinion, got of the way, Yo, girl.

512
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 6: With the pay He's blowing this real quick, dude.

513
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 1: My girlfriend believed every day more that my roommate liked me, uh,

514
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: and so she wanted me to cut her out of

515
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 1: my life, even though she would never say so explicitly.

516
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,159
Speaker 1: I started to feel I was getting put in a

517
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 1: box and I wasn't able to do stuff I really

518
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:27,919
Speaker 1: want to do, like get a handy for my roommate.

519
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: So I wrongly started doing some stuff like going to

520
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 1: events or visits without telling my girlfriend. Oh, this guy

521
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 1: is totally in the wrong, by the way. Yeah.

522
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: No.

523
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,199
Speaker 5: So, just to sum up what has happened so far

524
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 5: in this story, because I'm seeing some people like what's

525
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 5: going on, I'm confused.

526
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 6: I'll tell you right now. This guy just really wants

527
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 6: to cheat on his girlfriends with this.

528
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 5: Other girl, and he's trying to convince himself that he doesn't,

529
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 5: but he does, and I bet you will find out

530
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 5: that he does.

531
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 2: Everyone just needs a breakup, and yeah, come with each other.

532
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: As soon as he breaks up with his girlfriend, there's

533
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: there's no way they're not hooking up.

534
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 6: They're going to look at each other one time and

535
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 6: it's over over.

536
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 1: I didn't want to miss out on experiences just because

537
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: my girlfriend hated this girl, so eventually I made a

538
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: big mistake. A huge artist me and my female friend

539
00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 1: love announced a concert in my hometown in Italy just

540
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 1: three days before the actual concert. We really wanted to go,

541
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 1: but it felt like I could never tell my girlfriend

542
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: she didn't like the artist and couldn't come that I

543
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 1: wasn't going to go. I could never tell my girlfriend

544
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 1: that I wasn't going to go home with my roommate

545
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: to see a concert, so I stupidly told her I

546
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: was going to go back home to visit my parents

547
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: for the weekend when I really went home with this

548
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: girl for the concert. Of course, around a month later,

549
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: my girlfriend found out and understandably got furious at me.

550
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: This guy, where's he blong at Coda, Sport, Cloud, the Fort,

551
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 1: the Orphanage.

552
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 6: Well, he hasn't done any cheating yet, didn't from man.

553
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 5: Cloud.

554
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 2: This guy's like in the.

555
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 5: Sun right even to the sun, or maybe even the

556
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 5: moon right now until he cheats, which I'm sure he will.

557
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 6: Like that part, he's already emotionally cheating. He's lying to her.

558
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 6: That is pretty dunes, I mean, but he's That's just

559
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 6: he's stupid for doing that. That's why this is what's happening.

560
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 6: He didn't want to tell his girlfriend this because he

561
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 6: knew if he did, they'd break up, So he break

562
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 6: so break up. But dude or Cloud is reserved for

563
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 6: more intense what do you say earlier? He's not in

564
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 6: the wrong, but.

565
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: I did say he's not on the wrong episode.

566
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: Of course, around a month later, my girlfriend found out

567
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: and understandably got furious at me. Hiding it from her

568
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: made it look so much worse. After a while trying

569
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: to explain why I did the stupid mood, she decided

570
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: to forgive me girl no, but now has some trust

571
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: issues in me. Of course, she hates my roommate even

572
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: more now, and it made everything worse because I still

573
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: had stuff I wanted to do but couldn't. What do

574
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: you want to do? By the way, you know what

575
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: you can do to us is you.

576
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: Can join our live on YouTube ogo.

577
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Speaker 1: Every weekday at three pm PST. Just tap our profile.

578
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 5: If you're watching this in the future, we might even

579
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Speaker 5: be live right now, so go check it out.

580
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: Facebook this story. It's now been more than a year

581
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: since that happened, and there is more to tell, But

582
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how to make this long story even longer.

583
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: So that's the gist of it. I want some advice.

584
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: Is there anything I can do to make the situation better? Breakup?

585
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: I've paid. The only thing I can do is choose

586
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 1: between my girlfriend and my best friend. But I don't

587
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: want to do that, and I've always felt that my

588
00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: girlfriend shouldn't make you make such decisions. I just need

589
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: some help or wisdom on my situation. A fresh, unbiased

590
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: opinion would really help, Thank you very much. What do

591
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 1: you think?

592
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 6: Boys one, two, three, and then probably start dating that

593
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 6: other girl.

594
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, bro is trying to have like yeah, yeah, we

595
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 2: can't we can't do we can't do it.

596
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: All that takes too much time, it's too much, too

597
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: much multi doubt. But that's where that story ends. We

598
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: have one more. We have one more, one, one single one,

599
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 1: one spanking story left. Yeah,