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Speaker 1: The Jubil Show on demand Jebils Dirty Little Secret.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hey, what's up you? You have a dirty

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Speaker 2: little secret?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's kind of a bit of a long one.

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Speaker 3: So I know someone who is older. They have two kids.

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Speaker 3: Their two kids each have an individual that they're partnered with.

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Speaker 3: And both of these children will not children.

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Speaker 4: They're in their mid thirties. They actually overdosed recently. The

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Speaker 4: one of them doesn't know. The one that's married is

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Speaker 4: an active addict with his wife. The one that isn't

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Speaker 4: married right now is an active addict but will not

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Speaker 4: say anything to its fiance.

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Speaker 3: She's actually uprooting and moving to a different state entirely

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Speaker 3: with the.

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Speaker 4: Son that is engaged. So it's just one giant cluster fart.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, that needs to know. That's really a

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Speaker 5: tough spot to put you in. I mean that somebody's

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Speaker 5: life and a secret. I mean, I don't know, and.

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Speaker 3: It's like, I feel so bad because I want to

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Speaker 3: tell the fiance.

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Speaker 4: So she doesn't, you know, So I mean she may

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Speaker 4: or may say with him, but the thing.

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Speaker 3: Is I want her to know because she deserves to make.

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Speaker 4: That informed decision of Okay, do I want to uproot.

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Speaker 3: My life and still continuously or do I want to

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Speaker 3: cut my losses now and carry on?

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Speaker 2: I would tell her.

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Speaker 5: I know you didn't ask us, but I really do

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Speaker 5: think you should tell her.

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Speaker 4: See, I'm I have I've been feeling the same way too,

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Speaker 4: and it's like I needed other like validation that I'm

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Speaker 4: not you know that I know these things are wrong,

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Speaker 4: but these people need to know.

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Speaker 5: You'd essentially be saving her life by telling her, and

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Speaker 5: then if she chooses to stay anyway, then that's on her.

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Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, this is a dirty secret. But

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Speaker 4: it's also it's stressful to know this, and I really

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Speaker 4: need to get this out.

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Speaker 3: And I feel so much better than actually said something

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Speaker 3: that like I feel a little emotional, like I feel

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Speaker 3: like I'm gonna cry.

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Speaker 4: I'm pro I'm gonna cry after I'm done with you guys.

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Speaker 4: It's the fact that I said something to somebody else

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Speaker 4: and I.

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Speaker 3: No longer have to carry this guilt of knowing and

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Speaker 3: now that I have validation that.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I should be the person to say something that

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Speaker 4: I need to.

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Speaker 2: I think so yes, definitely.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you for having that outlet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for telling us your dirty little secret.

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Speaker 2: I mean say it all the time. You know that.

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Speaker 2: It is a good way to get things off your

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Speaker 2: chest because carrying around stuff like that it affects you,

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Speaker 2: whether you know it or not. You know, so thank you.

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Speaker 3: Just because I know so much about that family, and

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Speaker 3: it's it's so so.

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Speaker 4: Depressing because it's like, wow, oh all right, thank you guys,

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Speaker 4: thank you, appreciate you.

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Speaker 3: Appreciate you too.

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Speaker 2: Good luck, you got this for real?

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Speaker 1: What's your dirty little secret?

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Speaker 4: University