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Speaker 1: All right, Colo, here we go, uh Shanda and Lexington rights.

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Speaker 1: I have two small dogs and the guy I'm dating

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Speaker 1: is allergic to them. He's willing to take allergy mads

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Speaker 1: to be with me. And my dad said, I'm selfish

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Speaker 1: for keeping the dogs. My fur babies come before a man.

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Speaker 1: I've only been dating four months. What should I do?

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Speaker 2: You just said your fur babies come before man. Okay, coach,

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Speaker 2: that's just a decision you made. Ain't no problem, Ain't

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Speaker 2: no problem you get It's a good man said, he's

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Speaker 2: willing to take allergy medicine to be with you because

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Speaker 2: of your dogs.

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Speaker 3: That's a good man.

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Speaker 2: Now if you go keep putting the fur babies in

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Speaker 2: front of him, then go ahead, and you gonna wind

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Speaker 2: up with the fur babies. That's all because if you

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Speaker 2: putting them dogs in front of this man, then you

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Speaker 2: gonna end up with the animals. And if that's your choice,

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Speaker 2: that's your choice. Can you would rather have the dogs

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Speaker 2: than man? That's all? It ain't no you know, because

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Speaker 2: that's what's going to happen. And I don't know if

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Speaker 2: you You may not be mentally in a position to

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Speaker 2: take on.

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Speaker 3: A husband or a serious relationship you.

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Speaker 1: Certainly you're a dog Yeah, you're a dog lover.

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Speaker 2: So Lord, and he'll be gone. I'm not a dog lover.

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Speaker 2: I'm a dog owner. Yeah, Now, I love him. My

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Speaker 2: dog is part of the family. I love him, but

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Speaker 2: he gets no deals over now one of the people.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: Not my family members, Okay, all right. Now, I got

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Speaker 2: a couple of staff members that all go before he goes.

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Speaker 3: But family, all right.

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Speaker 1: Good to know. Moving on to Lina and Columbia, really

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Speaker 1: good to know. Helena writes, my husband is mad because

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Speaker 1: he cooked a full Sunday dinner and I took my

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Speaker 1: mom a plate. He does like my mom and vice versa,

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Speaker 1: and he said if she wanted to eat, she should

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Speaker 1: come apologize to him. Is he right or is he

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Speaker 1: being unreasonable?

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Speaker 3: Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa? What did

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Speaker 3: he say to his mama? I missed that?

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, so he cooked the dinner. He doesn't. He

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Speaker 1: doesn't like his wife's mom. He doesn't like her, and

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Speaker 1: she doesn't like him. He said if the mother in

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Speaker 1: law wanted to eat, she should come and apologize to

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Speaker 1: him first. So Zelena and Columbia wants to know is

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Speaker 1: he right or is he being unreasonable?

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Speaker 3: We ain't got the whole story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you don't know what. They don't like each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, they don't like each other. But I will

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Speaker 2: tell you this, brother. Let me just say this to you,

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Speaker 2: just as a man, if I were you, as here's

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Speaker 2: a strong suggestion, I would get on the high road

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Speaker 2: if I were you, and I would get on the

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Speaker 2: high road for the sake of my wife.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So you're not having a problem with your wife.

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Speaker 2: You having a problem with her mother, and her mother

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Speaker 2: has a problem with you. Now for the sake of

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Speaker 2: your wife. If I were you, I would get on

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Speaker 2: the high road. And as a man, just take it.

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Speaker 2: Whatever she did, man, whatever bro youn hell with the

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Speaker 2: sleep with her?

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Speaker 1: Question? Is the mother, the mother in law going to

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Speaker 1: come over and apologize.

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Speaker 2: Though you waiting on you held the freeze over you,

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Speaker 2: he said, I want you. You wain't on the money

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Speaker 2: to start falling out the sky. No, she's not finna

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Speaker 2: do that, dog, And that's unreasonable for you to make

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Speaker 2: that a condition. See, we don't know what happened, how

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Speaker 2: it started. Maybe you need to be an apology to

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Speaker 2: just just from the standpoint, Hey, look, hey mom, listen, Hey,

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Speaker 2: my bad for the way I handled it. Because it's

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Speaker 2: two it's two people in this. She may have done

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Speaker 2: something wrong. Let's say she did something wrong. She was

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Speaker 2: the initiate, But bro, your reaction could have been different too,

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Speaker 2: And just as me and man, for the sake of

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Speaker 2: the family, it is our job to fix it.

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Speaker 3: Period.

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Speaker 2: Now that's your job. I'm sorry, man, Go ahead, tell

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Speaker 2: me what you know.

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Speaker 3: Everybody say take the higher road. They don't. Don't nobody

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Speaker 3: be on that road.

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Speaker 2: That road be impact road that.

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Speaker 3: There ain't nobody on it.

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Speaker 2: And the words of the great musical producer Ricky Minor.

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Speaker 2: He had a book out that I one of my

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Speaker 2: favorite titles, ain't no traffic on the extra mile. If

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Speaker 2: you go the extra mile, ain't no traffic out there.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, the high road is empty. But that's the

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Speaker 2: road you gotta take for the sake of your wife, man.

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Speaker 3: And that's that's it, all right.

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Speaker 2: Moving on to oh that probably why she by herself anyway.

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Speaker 3: Who herself say that? I just know your hello. She apologized,

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Speaker 3: she's starting and stuff. She messed you know, she started it.

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Speaker 3: You don't know, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to ed and harrisburg Ed writes, I'm sixty

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Speaker 1: one and single. My wife died three years ago, so

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Speaker 1: I'm dating again. I invited a lady over for dinner,

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Speaker 1: and she asked if I planned to remove old family

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Speaker 1: photos from my house. I didn't see the pictures as

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Speaker 1: an issue. Is it best to take my wife's photos down?

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Speaker 3: How did he say?

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Speaker 1: He was sixty one?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, starting to date again.

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Speaker 3: He got some polaroids, He got old pictures up in there.

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Speaker 3: He got polaroids.

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Speaker 2: Come out to camera, he's been saying, in until it

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Speaker 2: came down. He got some, he got there, some he

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Speaker 2: got he still got picture frames leaning up there, all

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Speaker 2: up on the fire place, you know, And uh, it's

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Speaker 2: a fair question, it is. It's a fair question. So

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Speaker 2: what is? What is he is? What is he? Or

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Speaker 2: she wanting to know what?

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Speaker 3: Shop? Well?

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Speaker 1: She she asked him if he planned to take the

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Speaker 1: pictures down, their family pictures, and he said he didn't

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Speaker 1: see the pictures as an issue, but is it best

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Speaker 1: to take his wife's photos down? If he's going to

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Speaker 1: be dating again and having women over here?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah it is, it is, you know, like if

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Speaker 2: you have company come over, I would take them down

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Speaker 2: while they're over there, and then when they leave, you

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Speaker 2: put them back up until you get yourself used to

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Speaker 2: it to see where it's going. But just out of respect,

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Speaker 2: don't nobody want to sit at your house.

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna be real with you, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, because the whole time I'm sitting there, if I'm

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Speaker 2: over a woman house and she got her dead husband

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Speaker 2: all around the place, I'm thinking I showed on one

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Speaker 2: to be nuts. So you know this ain't gonna be

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Speaker 2: a comfortable date. Yeah, yeah, I think he should just

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Speaker 2: when you come over, out of respect.

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Speaker 3: He don't see him as an issue. But he's sixty seven.

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Speaker 2: Years old, he's said in his wave, and he ain't

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Speaker 2: daated in a while, so he don't know nothing is

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Speaker 2: an issue.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, now he does. He should take them down put.

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Speaker 3: He probably don't think that BlackBerry is an issue.

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Speaker 1: Either you got a BlackBerry, an iPhone or an al.

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Speaker 2: And still texting to MySpace people try to get his an.

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Speaker 1: All right, Feelo, thank you you're listening. Harvey Morning Show