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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl Alex Pete and it

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Speaker 1: is suggarl Dreya on a call and.

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Speaker 2: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.

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Speaker 1: Wear a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 2: So y'all already know when I'm on this side of

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Speaker 2: the couch, that means we ain't got no guests today.

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Speaker 3: We ain't got no guess today.

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Speaker 2: So, like I said, I said this on Twitter the

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Speaker 2: other day, I was like, we're gonna do a favor

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Speaker 2: to the listeners because y'all have been supporting us for

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Speaker 2: so long. We're gonna go back to dropping the solo

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Speaker 2: episodes and the guest episodes like back and forth. But

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Speaker 2: when I said, y'all, y'all have been doing y'all's big

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Speaker 2: one with supporting us because we know we ain't hoigh

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Speaker 2: demand now and people want to come on the show.

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Speaker 1: Is in how demand a little bit? I like that.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of like really good episodes drop me.

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Speaker 2: A lot of fire episodes dropping with what I'm liking

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Speaker 2: is that, first of all, happy.

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Speaker 4: Birthday to you, Happy birthday to YEA happy day, Happy

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Speaker 4: birth Yeah you see I get that.

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Speaker 1: Hold.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So this is a special birthday shop for driving.

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Speaker 1: Thanks y'all.

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Speaker 5: It's my birthday all is and y'all did a phenomenal

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Speaker 5: job with the background beat.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I like that. Man. We're gonna go on one

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Speaker 2: So yes, this is a special birthday episode for my girl.

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Speaker 2: So we came in the studio to record it. So

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Speaker 2: this is like the first time in a long time

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Speaker 2: that we record an episode and it's dropping like two

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Speaker 2: days later, so we can talk about a lot of

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Speaker 2: like current things that are going on right now. So

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Speaker 2: I'm really happy to record this episode today.

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Speaker 5: I'm excited too, and I love the decor so nice.

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Speaker 5: Thank you bad thank you y'all for all decorating from me.

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Speaker 1: This is so beautiful. Yes, it's a little beautiful. Thank

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Speaker 1: you girl.

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Speaker 5: Y'all need a little one fool that was. This is

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Speaker 5: giving very class. It's giving me a class. Turning thirty three,

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Speaker 5: I'm class. I feel like that's a lady. I'm coming

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Speaker 5: a lady. I'm not really like you're a ladymore.

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Speaker 1: I'm a lady. This is your Jesus here, right, you know, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: He's my Jesus here. But always he trying to figure

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Speaker 5: out what exactly does that mean? Because Jesus died that year,

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Speaker 5: just when you become that's but he he he was

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Speaker 5: residents always like a re so it's like a rebirth.

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Speaker 1: And yes, he became greater that he already was.

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Speaker 5: That's a good perspective, you know, because I've been definitely

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Speaker 5: trying to figure out, like why do people just always

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Speaker 5: be like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jesus here. That's when that's not.

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Speaker 5: When people be like, oh, twenty three years your Jordan year,

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Speaker 5: You're about to go play basketball.

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Speaker 1: You're about to get them raine, You're about to feel

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Speaker 1: like I got on a championship? Like why do people

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Speaker 1: do that? See, that's how I know you really not

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Speaker 1: in your Jesus here, No who I am talk about positivity? No,

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Speaker 5: I agree with you, Like that's a great person that

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Speaker 1: Dyd He did, he did, but it wasn't about but

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Speaker 1: he was. He was risen. So it's a rebird.

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Speaker 5: It's a rebird. That's fair that he changed the world

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Speaker 5: that you I do feel like I'm changing and evolving, Okay, And.

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Speaker 2: That's what I wanted to ask before you know, we

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Speaker 1: It is a blessing to be. You know where you

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Speaker 1: are in life, you.

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Speaker 2: Know your that your podcast is thriving, your businesses abused

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Speaker 2: beauty is thriving. You're healthier, you're glowing, you're looking better.

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Speaker 2: So how do you feel in the transitional period from

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Speaker 2: thirty two to thirty three? Like, what can you tell

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Ever since I turned thirty, to be completely honest, I

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Speaker 5: I think I talked about this on another episode that

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Speaker 5: that you asked me that I actually got into a

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Speaker 2: Oh Jesus rist I called you and told you, Oh

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Speaker 5: But you know what's crazy, It's like as I get older,

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Speaker 5: I start to notice, like my perspectives one life and

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Speaker 5: it was not my fault. It was the other driver's fault,

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Speaker 5: But like, I just be thinking about how would me

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Speaker 5: four years ago, Like how would how would twenty nine

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Speaker 5: eight year old Dre have handled this situation? That bitch

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Speaker 2: your cash, ad No, I need to send me some money.

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Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't have did No, that's not true.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't did that because the thing is I had

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Speaker 5: the situation. And it was a minor inconvenience, Like my

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Speaker 1: And I'm just like, oh my god, I.

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Speaker 5: Wasn't even super excited about my birthday coming up. And

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Speaker 5: being unappreciated. Let me remind you you have so many

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Speaker 5: things to be grateful for it, because even with that situation,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it definitely could have been.

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Speaker 2: But and that's how I say, that's how you know

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Speaker 2: you get money because when something like that happening, Dad,

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Speaker 5: Laugh now, I got hitting my rover today. It was

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Speaker 5: so crazy. Lex was so crazy. It is how you know,

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Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all, I got a hip today.

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Speaker 5: It was such a crazy thing because I was going.

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Speaker 2: And I was like a girl because I would have

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Speaker 5: But like I said, like I said, I guess the

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Speaker 5: I don't know why people are like afraid to grow older,

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Speaker 5: Like I'm still okay, I'm okay, I'm healthy. The lady

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Speaker 5: Material positions can be replaced than they could be fixed,

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Speaker 5: It's crazy because I was talking my sensation with my

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Speaker 1: When you say this is what I told you, I

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Speaker 2: Kay, especially when I have conversations with my friends in

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Speaker 1: So I owed her this.

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Speaker 2: When it comes to life in general, God is gonna

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Speaker 2: a little grain of sand today was your grain of saying.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, He's gonna be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: He gonna throw that rock and be like, hello, you

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Speaker 2: I was complaining in my life. I was miserable, I

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So today was.

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Speaker 2: Just you know, him dropping that little brain and saying

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Speaker 5: Don't be unappreciated. I mean, Drea, what did I tell you?

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Speaker 1: And I got you? You got me, bro life, I

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Speaker 1: don't care what you say. How lucky I am. You

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Speaker 1: do is call me. It's crazy that God loved me

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Speaker 1: that much. God really loved his only begotten daughter, that

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Speaker 5: They need in the comments all day too. Like I

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Speaker 1: I bet y'all do too bad, so sad, But like

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Speaker 1: I said, I have been. It has been.

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Speaker 2: A beautiful thing to see your growth as well. Like

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Speaker 2: I give my testimony as you know your best friends.

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Speaker 2: I dude, you know this this episode is about you,

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Speaker 2: and this is to celebrate you, and I loved it. Mommy,

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 1: So you know, we living and we learning, but shut

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Speaker 1: out to you yo Jesus. Yes she has risen. That's

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Speaker 2: And we have a very special announcement. Your girls will

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Speaker 5: Yes, absolutely, we're gonna be there April twenty seven, and

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Speaker 5: make sure y'all get y'all tickets at black Effects dot com. Yes,

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Speaker 5: Horrible Decisions will be there, carefully, reckless, deeply, well and

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be so fun.

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Speaker 2: So if you've never seen Poor Minds Live, I'm telling

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Speaker 1: And get your tickets. Period, Okay, period, Okay.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into some fun stuff.

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Speaker 1: Let me get this is some fun stuff now.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we have a very special guest for our drink

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Speaker 2: of the Week segment this week. So y'all know we

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Speaker 2: Y'all know we swear by we love it and Liz

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Speaker 8: What's up?

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Speaker 8: How's it going?

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Speaker 7: Yes, before we get into that, we have.

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Speaker 2: To do a catch up first, let's go. You know,

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Speaker 2: all the time. The poor crew has been absolutely loving it.

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Speaker 7: I love ratcheting ghetto. I just want to see you

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Speaker 7: guys were blessing to work with. It's been amazing. The

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Speaker 8: Congratulations to both of you. Thank you.

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Speaker 7: Everything that you've been doing is because you're genuine I

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Speaker 7: Like I think you're headlining the podcast festival with he's

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Speaker 7: being you up, thank you, thank you, and yeah, and

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Speaker 7: I think it's just it's just dope. It's just dope

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you so much with you guys man,

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Speaker 1: And what we are. And it's been a pleasure working

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Speaker 5: And talk about evolution, because we went from sitting on

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Speaker 7: And I'm gonna tell you something, you've cut the eye

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Speaker 1: Man, you guys are everywhere because of poor minds.

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Speaker 7: That's amazing and whatever. So like, honestly, you guys are

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Speaker 2: Also show how smart you are because a lot of

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, you were smart though you still.

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Speaker 7: I saw Kenny fifteen seconds with you guys on that already.

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Speaker 7: But but to be honest, yeah, I think it's uh.

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Speaker 7: Now you know you're you're you're basicing people's lives every week. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: that's like you're probably more in contact with them and

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Speaker 8: Right, Yeah, you're in their ears, you're on their TV.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like yeah, I think, yeah, I think it's amazing,

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Speaker 7: I'm just telling you that we're gonna leave a little

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And like I always say, I always loves to say,

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Speaker 5: This is why I think, like you know, it's partner

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and we're really making we're disturbing the disrupting sorry

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Speaker 1: But like you shall not be spoken.

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Speaker 8: But yeah, but yeah, definitely appreciate y'all.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we don't get into this context. So for

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Speaker 2: the people who are like new listeners and everything, tell

441
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Speaker 2: us a bit about the context that you have.

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Speaker 7: So basically, we did this contest, which is the L

443
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Speaker 7: Scream five K Challenge contest where where people basically did

444
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Speaker 7: their old This is like, yeah, I'm sure if the

445
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Speaker 7: person is watching right now the episode, she's like, oh

446
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Speaker 7: my god, I think.

447
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Speaker 8: Right.

448
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Speaker 7: Yeah, but anyways, but yeah, so basically people could do

449
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Speaker 7: all made cocktails using L Scream. They would tag us,

450
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Speaker 7: they would tag of course our minds and basically yeah

451
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Speaker 7: and basically showcase one of the mad cocktails and guys,

452
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Speaker 7: the response have been increased.

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Speaker 1: It was there was submission, yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so so yeah, so people just submit and today

455
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Speaker 7: we're going to announce the winners.

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Speaker 8: Do we have a dumb drum drum.

457
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Speaker 1: And the winner and the winner is.

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Speaker 8: I don't know which camera it is. I'm gonna put

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Speaker 8: it like this, guys, there you go new Kirk.

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Speaker 7: So she won doing the L S Cream Colado, which

461
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Speaker 7: you guys are drinking right now. It was pretty much

462
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Speaker 7: it was pretty much anonymous with the judges text time.

463
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Speaker 7: And yeah, so how you guys do it feeling to drink?

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Speaker 5: It is so goodishous, that's what I just said. She

465
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Speaker 5: did her be like, this is so right.

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Speaker 2: Now, what we're gonna do is take it to Tie

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Speaker 2: so Ty can give us a real breakdown of exactly

468
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Speaker 2: what's in it.

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Speaker 9: All right, congratulations, Ebany. This is the LS Cream Colada,

470
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Speaker 9: and this includes this is a blended cocktail.

471
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Speaker 1: So we have some spice.

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Speaker 9: Rum, the LS cream liquor, some cream of coconut, pineapple juice,

473
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Speaker 9: and some crushed ice, blended it all together.

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Speaker 1: We garnished it.

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Speaker 9: With some coconut flakes, some cinnamon, and then we put

476
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Speaker 9: some pineapple fronds in there.

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Speaker 1: So this is the LS Cream Colada. Cheers, yes, and

478
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Speaker 1: it's so good.

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Speaker 5: And let me just add this to really quick because

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Speaker 5: I know, you know, I drink tequila and Lakes drinks vodka,

481
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Speaker 5: so we actually have tequila and vodka in ours. And

482
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Speaker 5: it's so good. It actually even tastes good without the

483
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Speaker 5: rum too. So if you are a tequila or a vodka drinker,

484
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Speaker 5: you can use whatever kind of liquor you want to

485
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Speaker 5: use any steel bomb and.

486
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Speaker 7: That's what I'm going to add. One of the reasons

487
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Speaker 7: I'm doing this convention and talking to distributors and all

488
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Speaker 7: the people in the industry discovering ls for the first time.

489
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Speaker 7: Sometimes they tasted they're like, it's really good, but there's

490
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Speaker 7: something I'm not getting. That's because we use neutral grain

491
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Speaker 7: spirits instead of whiskey, instead of rum, instead of vodka

492
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Speaker 7: as a base for the product, meaning it mixes well

493
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Speaker 7: with everything else.

494
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Speaker 8: So that's the reason.

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Speaker 7: So you get your alcohol intake without having the aftertaste

496
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Speaker 7: of alcohol. So you mixed the alcohol of your choice

497
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Speaker 7: and you can do twists on that. And this is

498
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Speaker 7: a twist on a pina colada, which is amazing.

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Speaker 1: It is so good, so thy.

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Speaker 2: Being a bartender who is highly skilled and you're the

501
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Speaker 2: best of the best, talk to your period, what is

502
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Speaker 2: your opinion on the drink and like the flavors that

503
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Speaker 2: mix together, and like how did you feel making the drink.

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Speaker 9: So I made one of these for that earlier just

505
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Speaker 9: to like try it out, make sure I'm blending it

506
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Speaker 9: together very well.

507
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Speaker 1: And it is actually really good.

508
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Speaker 9: I'm not a super peanut colada, super sweet cocktail drinker,

509
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Speaker 9: but this is nice and well balanced. I was thinking

510
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Speaker 9: of adline doesn't neath the lime juice like it just

511
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 9: flows very good, very well together the rum, the tequila

512
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Speaker 9: in the boca because I try, y'alls, Like you said,

513
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Speaker 9: it works with any spirit that you choose to include

514
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Speaker 9: in it.

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Speaker 1: Yummy, Ebany, you did your finger, You did, girl.

516
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Speaker 2: You deserve to, because I know people are going to

517
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Speaker 2: be making this recipe at home, like on the scale

518
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Speaker 2: of one to ten, one being easy, ten being hard,

519
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Speaker 2: like how difficult or easy you get.

520
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Speaker 1: To make it.

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Speaker 9: So I didn't blend it. That's the only difference that

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Speaker 9: I didn't do. And that's just because I didn't have

523
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Speaker 9: a blender. We're on camera, whatever, whatever, But as so

524
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Speaker 9: I did it. Shaking the cocktail super easy to make.

525
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Speaker 9: You're just adding in all the ingredients. I will say

526
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Speaker 9: that when you're adding that cream of coconut, sometimes it's

527
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Speaker 9: super thick, so you really want to just add a

528
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Speaker 9: little extra shake to it, just to make sure everything

529
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Speaker 9: is blended together. But with this up in a couple

530
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Speaker 9: of minutes and easy sailing, Yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 7: And you guys, it was such a success that I

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Speaker 7: want to announce breaking news. Oh we're running it. Back listen,

533
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 7: listen this get you and then you win, but yeah,

534
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Speaker 7: running it back. So guys, like, listen, we're gonna announce

535
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Speaker 7: more details, but uh get you know, get your bottles,

536
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Speaker 7: get your cocktails. Recipe ready because it's coming back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah also ready.

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Speaker 2: I'm breddy Well, thank you so much. I appreciate you, y'all.

539
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Speaker 2: Make sure y'all look up this a recipe. We're going

540
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Speaker 2: to actually post it and get it mad.

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Speaker 1: You know what. We're not only gonna drink some of

542
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Speaker 1: this this weekend. It's hurt.

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Speaker 6: We are.

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Speaker 1: We're leaving for on Friday. Episode drops Friday now and.

545
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Speaker 7: I listened you guys. I'm going back to Montreal. You guys, Yes,

546
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Speaker 7: thank you, Thank you guys again.

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Speaker 2: Yes' the ls S CREAMR.

548
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Speaker 1: This is good.

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Speaker 5: I'm excited and I feel like even if you know

550
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Speaker 5: you not in the tropics, it's gonna make you feel

551
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Speaker 5: like you're in the tropics on your patio in the backyard,

552
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Speaker 5: because that's what it's getting.

553
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Speaker 1: Speaking of patio, I'm moving.

554
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, And I just want to talk about this

555
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Speaker 2: real quick because I'm I'm giving all the ketchup because

556
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: we don't we never get to do this because we

557
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:24,959
Speaker 2: rarely do solo episodes.

558
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Speaker 1: Don't rarely do.

559
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Speaker 2: So I have just been like, I've been in my

560
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Speaker 2: apartment at the same apartment for what three years now two.

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Speaker 5: I feel like it's been longer than that. I think

562
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Speaker 5: it's been three year maybe three. Oh the apartment I

563
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Speaker 5: thought she meant, like the complex, like the beauty. Yeah,

564
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Speaker 5: I've been there for three years, right, I feel like

565
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Speaker 5: it's been longer than I was.

566
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Speaker 1: At the other apartment longer.

567
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I moved from my other apartment after the pandemic.

568
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Speaker 2: I was in my laughter, yes, because I was in

569
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Speaker 2: my old apartment during the pandemic. Really, yes, I don't

570
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:01,920
Speaker 2: know why I thought you were already in this building.

571
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Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, So it's been about three years. So

572
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Speaker 2: I'm finally, y'all. I'm finally I'm.

573
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Speaker 1: Finally moving to a dlux apartment in a scrap And

574
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Speaker 1: when I say y'all, I'm all night.

575
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Speaker 2: But I mean we were speaking on blessings and things earlier,

576
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Speaker 2: and I just kind of had a full circle moment

577
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Speaker 2: because when I think about my apartment when I first

578
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Speaker 2: moved to Atlanta, I had a really bad moment because

579
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Speaker 2: when I went to my apartment complex, it was like

580
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Speaker 2: nine hundred dollars for a studio apartment. It was like

581
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Speaker 2: nine hundred and fifty dollars, and I remember they showed

582
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Speaker 2: me the model apartment, and y'all know the model apartment

583
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 2: always is like.

584
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Speaker 1: Super bad and super fire.

585
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Speaker 2: So I didn't go to the actual apartment that I

586
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Speaker 2: was going to be living in. I was like, you

587
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Speaker 2: know what, I'll take it. This is what I can afford, barely,

588
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Speaker 2: but I'll take it. So when I finally got my keys,

589
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 2: I had signed the least. When I finally got my keys,

590
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Speaker 2: the first day was the first time me seeing my apartment.

591
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Speaker 2: I walked in my apartment, I did have a view

592
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Speaker 2: of anything. You know, I'm in a midrise and it

593
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: was white walls. It was just I laid on the

594
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Speaker 2: floor on the air mattress Drea had gave me, and

595
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Speaker 2: I cried myself.

596
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Speaker 5: Now I had a home and having a refully true story.

597
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 2: So I was like leaping in an air mattress in

598
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Speaker 2: a studio apartment for nine hundred and fifty dollars on

599
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Speaker 2: the East Side, waking up every three hours to pump

600
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Speaker 2: that bitch back up, and I'm crying.

601
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Speaker 1: At least you had a mattress. That's all I could.

602
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Speaker 2: I did you know what I'm saying to fast forward

603
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Speaker 2: to be moving in an apartment on the eighteenth floor,

604
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Speaker 2: you know, like a high.

605
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Speaker 1: Rise, windows all around.

606
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Speaker 2: Like I'm just excited, and it's just a testament just

607
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Speaker 2: to keep going.

608
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Speaker 1: You know, it's not a house.

609
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 2: Yet, you know, we getting there because I know y'all

610
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 2: gonna be in the comments like, uh love you wasting.

611
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Speaker 2: It's not a waste of money. It's just a testament

612
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Speaker 2: to where I'm at in life.

613
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Speaker 1: And I can.

614
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 2: Always remember being a young girl in Houston work. You know,

615
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 2: we used to go to Grasshopper and all those clubs,

616
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 2: Butterfly Lounge, and there was these high rise apartments in

617
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Speaker 2: the middle of downtown Houston and they had the like

618
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 2: the pan ramic windows and it was just I just

619
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Speaker 2: always remember looking at those apartments being like, man, I

620
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: cannot wait to have an apartment like.

621
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Speaker 1: That one day.

622
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Speaker 2: And I always said before I purchased the home, I

623
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 2: do want to do the high rise living. So the

624
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 2: fact that I'm here in this moment, I'm super excited.

625
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 2: So I got approved quickly because they seen that bank account.

626
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 2: That was like, oh, approve period. So I got approved,

627
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 2: and I'm excited. And now we're gonna be neighbor.

628
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Speaker 5: That's actually the crazy part me. It's gonna be neighbors

629
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 5: since we live writing in it. Like literally our buildings

630
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 5: are right next doors.

631
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Speaker 1: Welsome to the high rids. Like, yes, I finally caught

632
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: up to my seat.

633
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 5: But now what I was gonna say though, Like you

634
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 5: also have to give yourself credity thought because you were

635
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 5: saying like about your first apartment, but that apartment was

636
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 5: small and stuff, but like you really like dick that

637
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 5: shit out, Like that apartment was so nice.

638
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: Like literally I can remember like walking from.

639
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 5: Outside in the hallway to like walking inside the apartment.

640
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 5: It seemed like two different worlds, like you would forget

641
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 5: that she.

642
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: Was even in that building, you know what. It was

643
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: so nice.

644
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, one thing about me, I'm not gonna lie my

645
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 2: home the core taste I eat. Yeah, I mean it

646
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 2: was really nice.

647
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Speaker 5: The way you had that apartment that we actually recorded

648
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 5: a few episodes in there, y'all, like scroll back down.

649
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: It was like a gray wall. Yeah, my gray mouth,

650
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: gray mirror wall I had.

651
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 2: I don't know why, Like my boyfriend recently moved into

652
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 2: a townhouse and baby, the way I have just put

653
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 2: my touch in there, like it's just coming together.

654
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: It's so nice.

655
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Speaker 2: But I really do have like a secret skill that

656
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 2: a lot of people when it comes to home with

657
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 2: the core. Because even my apartment I was in now

658
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: decked out, Yeah you're right now, beautiful. I was actually

659
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 2: thinking about doing a video since I'm leaving now, just

660
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: kind of show people how I looked. But I've already

661
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 2: started packing it up.

662
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 5: But what things about me? And you know, we need

663
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Speaker 5: so easting because have we ever talked about that? Even

664
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 5: like the building you live in now is the building

665
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 5: I first lived in I first moved.

666
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 2: It's crazy because when I was sleeping on her couch,

667
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 2: that was the building that she was in. And then

668
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 2: when I moved from the East Side to Atlantic Station,

669
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: I was living in the apartment that I first was

670
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 2: living at when I was sleeping on her couch.

671
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Speaker 1: So it's crazy.

672
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just I just feel like it's it's always

673
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 2: been full circle moments because even when I moved in

674
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 2: that apartment, that was an upgrade, like it was a

675
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 2: nicer apartment for me.

676
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: And don't get me wrong.

677
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 2: I've had an amazing experience at these apartments. I love it.

678
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 2: It was just like a stepping stone. So now me

679
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 2: moving into this high rise. Well, the window it's a beauty. Well,

680
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know you somebody now you.

681
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 5: Got to live somewhere. They got a little concierge and stuff. Yeah,

682
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 5: twenty four hours security.

683
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

684
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 2: It's more so about the secure security thing, you know,

685
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 2: for me. So I'm just really excited to be moving.

686
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 2: And yeah, I'm proud of myself. I'll say that. I'm

687
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 2: proud of myself.

688
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm proud of you too.

689
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690
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Speaker 1: Okay, so we're.

728
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Speaker 2: Gonna get into these topics today. So I'm gonna let

729
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 2: you introduce the first top so you can spill to

730
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Speaker 2: the girls, you know what I'm saying.

731
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:06,280
Speaker 5: Okay, So for the first topic, I really want us

732
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 5: to talk about this, and the topic is basically like,

733
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,280
Speaker 5: if it's not a hell yes.

734
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: You know, it's a no.

735
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 5: I think that that's the philosophy and that's how you

736
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 5: should take a lot of things in life, whether it's

737
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 5: you know, relationships like romantic relationships, friendships, any type of

738
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 5: relationships in your life, like, if it's not a hell yes,

739
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 5: it's a no.

740
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: I think people.

741
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 5: Have a hard time walking away from situations because sometimes

742
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 5: they'll feel like, oh, well, this person is showing me

743
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 5: this every once in a while, or they're giving me

744
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 5: like this feeling two three times out the week, with

745
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:46,839
Speaker 5: the other four days it's something else. I think that

746
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 5: you have to have the discernment to be like, if

747
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 5: it's not yes all the time, it's no. Because I

748
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 5: feel like it's not to say that any relationship is

749
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 5: not going to have its ups and downs, and be

750
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 5: perfect all the time. But I think that when someone

751
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 5: consistently chooses you every day and again, this is more

752
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 5: than like romantic relationships. This is also platonic relationships as well.

753
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 5: You know, like I think people know when somebody is

754
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 5: not choosing them all the time. It's very obvious because

755
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 5: you could be mad at somebody but still know that

756
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 5: they want to be here.

757
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's crazy that you put it that way because me,

758
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,359
Speaker 2: I was talking to you about this earlier and you

759
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 2: were like, you know what, friend, cause y'all know, y'all

760
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 2: be like, oh, Lex, you be in love every other

761
00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:33,960
Speaker 2: day and I get that, but like she do, and

762
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 2: I'm never gonna stop. I told you I'm a lover.

763
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 2: I'm built out of love. People be like, oh I

764
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 2: want to meet somebody and they fall in love with me. Baby,

765
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: I come and love. The only word I'm gonna stop

766
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 2: loving you is how your actions right out what I'm

767
00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 2: gonna do, you.

768
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

769
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 2: So I say all that to say is you said

770
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 2: something to me today and it was like, Okay, this

771
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 2: is different because you were like free, you are so happy.

772
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 1: You were like you aren't really happy?

773
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you was like I just it's something different

774
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: than me that everybody has noticed, because this is the

775
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 2: first time I feel like I've had this is I'm

776
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. This is the first healthy relationship I've

777
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 2: ever been in, one hundred percent in all angles. So

778
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 2: me and my boyfriend, we have this thing that we do.

779
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 2: It's like, you know what, we know that we love

780
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 2: each other. But sometimes it'll be like, you know what, babe,

781
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 2: I don't like you today, and that's okay, cause he's like,

782
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 2: this is what you're doing and it's aggravating me or

783
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: vice I'm like, you know what, I don't like you today,

784
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 2: but we choose each other every day.

785
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: I don't like you today, You're doing this and it's

786
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 1: bothering me and it's getting on my nerves. And that's

787
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: how I'm like.

788
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what, Maybe I am doing too much,

789
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 2: or he's like, okay, you know what, I am doing

790
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 2: too much. But I know even on those days where

791
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 2: he don't like me, he still loves me.

792
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 1: He's still choosing me. It's a hell yes every day.

793
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, because I came from a situation being

794
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 2: it was it's never a gray area in love, and

795
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 2: I truly believe that, yeah, it's black and it's white,

796
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 2: you either love me or you doing people be like no,

797
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 2: because sometimes everybody's not like that. No, if a person

798
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 2: loves you, it's black and it's white.

799
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 5: You know, you made a really good point because I

800
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 5: feel like I'm not gonna lie, Like I don't really

801
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 5: be likely to talk about my personal my relationships too

802
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 5: much on the show.

803
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: Like not in depth, but like me and my me

804
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: and my man, we've been going.

805
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 5: Through like this weird space for like the past few months.

806
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 5: But the crazy thing that I can say, which is

807
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 5: kind of another thing that wanted made me like prompted

808
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 5: me to want to talk about this topic today. It's

809
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 5: just that, like, no matter what we be going through,

810
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 5: he called me every day. I love I love to

811
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 5: be there. He called me every day, like even when

812
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 5: we be getting into it, even we be arguing like

813
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 5: itre'd been times when we was into it bad. We

814
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:50,480
Speaker 5: didn't have six for like two weeks, three weeks. Yeah,

815
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 5: cause I don't want to have sex with you. I

816
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 5: am street. But the funny thing is that it don't

817
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 5: even always be me.

818
00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: He a little strict to some stuff.

819
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 5: So so anyway, so yeah, but it's just like no

820
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 5: matter what though, like he called me every day and

821
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,879
Speaker 5: he check on me every day.

822
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,200
Speaker 1: He tried to see how my day going.

823
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 5: Like even if he made at me, he'd be like,

824
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 5: all right, you straight, you need something good. And I

825
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 5: just think again, that just goes back to like always

826
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 5: choosing somebody.

827
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 1: It's a hell yes, even when.

828
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 5: Even when you even when you lucky, like no, I

829
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 5: don't like you because I don't like you today.

830
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 1: You annoying me, you know.

831
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 5: My nerves, But I feel not gonna throw the towel

832
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 5: in because it's still a yes. It's still a hell yes.

833
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 5: And I think a lot of time people like overlook

834
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:38,720
Speaker 5: those red flags because a lot of the time people

835
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 5: be selling you.

836
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 1: It's hell no, you don't be taking it as no no, no,

837
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: no no.

838
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 5: Maybe they just upset today, Maybe they just maybe they

839
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 5: just been in as a weird space. And see that's

840
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,280
Speaker 5: the thing, because I think I used to do that, oh,

841
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 5: because I've been in weird spaces with men that I've

842
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 5: dated before and it would be like a weird space

843
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 5: and I'd be like, oh, maybe this is just temporary,

844
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 5: but then they would go days but I was talking

845
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 5: to me, they wouldn't call me and check on me

846
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 5: for a few days, or like, if it's something that

847
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 5: they told me that they were gonna do and then

848
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 5: now we not in a good space, they wouldn't do

849
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,320
Speaker 5: it no more. One thing I can honestly say about

850
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,640
Speaker 5: my nigga, even if we in a bad space, if

851
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 5: he telling me he gonna do some sheep, he's still

852
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 5: do this.

853
00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:17,880
Speaker 1: She let me.

854
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: This is a little deeper than that. Yeah, well, let

855
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 2: me disagree with the statement you made earlier because you

856
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:25,319
Speaker 2: said something you said, because they're if they aren't, if

857
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 2: they're not giving you a hell yes, they're giving you

858
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 2: a hell no. Now they're but they're What I'm saying

859
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 2: is they're giving you a hell no. But they're not

860
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 2: straight up saying that either. They're giving you a little

861
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,839
Speaker 2: they're giving you little seeds of hope just to keep

862
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 2: you around, because that's what manipulators do. That's what people

863
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 2: with bad communication who just want you around so they're

864
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 2: not lonely, and they want you when they can have you,

865
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 2: that's what they do. So that's why you're in a

866
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 2: gray area. They're not saying hell no. If you were

867
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 2: aware and you wasn't digmatized a pussy whipped, you would

868
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 2: be able to see that.

869
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 1: But but they are staying he'll no. But like you,

870
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 1: they're not saying it in black and white. Is that

871
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: they're not?

872
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 5: But I think and maybe that's where sometimes I am

873
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 5: a little bit of a fucked up person, because I

874
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 5: don't always think people gotta make shit black and white

875
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 5: for you.

876
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 1: Are you slow? Yeah, that's always about it, because if

877
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: it's not a hell, yes, it's so. That's what I'm saying.

878
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, you have to

879
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 1: get to a point.

880
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 5: And I say this with love because I at one

881
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 5: point used to feel like, oh, well, if they're not

882
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 5: saying no, it's not no. They don't gotta tell you no. Though,

883
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 5: come on, people don't gotta tell you no. Like actions

884
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 5: speak louder than words. Sometimes people ain't gonna never tell

885
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 5: you she They just gonna keep draaking.

886
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 1: I know, you can't come over and drop that puss off,

887
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: or it's just convenient.

888
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 5: I think a lot of the time, especially with men,

889
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 5: men will keep women around until they find that one.

890
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 5: They're not gonna tell you though, They just gonna keep

891
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,799
Speaker 5: keep fucking with you until they find that one. And

892
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:55,800
Speaker 5: then it's gonna be a no with you for shall

893
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 5: then it's gonna be like, oh, we can't do this somewhere,

894
00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:59,919
Speaker 5: but they gonna keep dealing with you. So I feel

895
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 5: like sometimes people don't have to give you like a

896
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 5: black or white answer. Their action show you how they feel.

897
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 5: You have to love yourself enough to be like, Okay,

898
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 5: I'm gonna walk away from this situation because sometimes he

899
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 5: gotta be you because eventually, because if it's not you,

900
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 5: eventually it's gonna be him. Any of your feeling's gonna

901
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 5: be even more hurt, or it's gonna be let me

902
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 5: not even make this like just slowly towards women, or

903
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 5: if you keep doing it, eventually it's gonna be her.

904
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 5: They'd be like, you know what, I'm actually cool on

905
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 5: me when you could have decided that you could have

906
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 5: been walked away cause she been.

907
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 1: Giving you signs and nigga, she been showing.

908
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 2: You and I'm glad you brought that up too, because

909
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 2: you was like they used to go like two or three.

910
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: Days without talking.

911
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 2: I had convinced myself that I was okay not talking

912
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 2: to my partner every day because I was dealing with

913
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 2: men who were like that's what was normal for them,

914
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 2: which there's nothing wrong with that. If that's what works

915
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 2: for you, that's fine. That's not what I really wanted.

916
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 2: I convinced myself that it was okay for me not

917
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,160
Speaker 2: to talk to my partner every day because that's but

918
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:04,240
Speaker 2: this man wanted. And to me, there are deal breakers

919
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 2: that are larger than other ones, right, But to me,

920
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:10,399
Speaker 2: if it's too many small deal breakers, all that shit

921
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 2: is gonna pile up and it's gonna be the demise

922
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 2: of the relationship. You have to see eye to eye

923
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 2: on more things than you don't. You don't have to

924
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 2: see eye to eye on everything, but there needs to

925
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 2: be more things that you're in agreeance with and things

926
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 2: that you're not.

927
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: Like you said, you and.

928
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 2: Your men get into it, and he still calls you

929
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 2: and checks in with you. Since the day I've been

930
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 2: talking to him, my man, I haven't gone a day without.

931
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: Talking to him.

932
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 5: I think anybody that can go longer than one day

933
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 5: without talking to you, if you're in a relationship they

934
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 5: don't love you for real, like they not worried about you.

935
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 2: Well, I'll say this, that's not everybody's case, cause some people,

936
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 2: if you don't have to talk to your partner every

937
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 2: day that you love. You need to find somebody else

938
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 2: who's like that. That's what I'll say. There's different strokes

939
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 2: for different folks, That's all I mean.

940
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:54,720
Speaker 5: I agree with you, it's different strokes for different folks.

941
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 5: But I just feel like I don't know. I also

942
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 5: just believe like if you're truly in love with somebody,

943
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 5: you cannot go longer than a day without checking on them.

944
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 5: I think people can be in relationships that you can

945
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,760
Speaker 5: care about somebody and fuck with them, but like somebody

946
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 5: that you're really in love with, Because if I don't

947
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 5: talk to a person that I love for like a day, I'm.

948
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: Wondering if you okay? Right?

949
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 5: Well, I guess it's deeper than like me trying to

950
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 5: like I'm not trying to keep tabs on it or

951
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 5: I feel like you owe that to me, but like

952
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 5: I'm literally concerned about you, like I want to make

953
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 5: sure you straight, So like not talking to you for

954
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 5: a day or two, are you still alive?

955
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 6: Right?

956
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 2: But I mean, but look at it this way, me

957
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 2: and you are best friends. I love you dearly. I

958
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 2: don't talk to you every.

959
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 5: Day, but you see me post every day or I

960
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 5: see you post every day.

961
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:41,439
Speaker 1: Oh we texted. We do text them every day every day.

962
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 2: But like I said, I guess I don't.

963
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 5: See you on Twitter. I know you alive, VISU tweeting.

964
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 5: I tweet all you do.

965
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 2: Clocking in if you need to know, if y'all ever

966
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 2: wonder if I'm missing my Twitter, if I didn't tweet

967
00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,240
Speaker 2: for thirty minutes, somebody got me, bitch.

968
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: I love. They can never make me hate that. That's

969
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

970
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 5: And so it was like, and this is kind of

971
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,319
Speaker 5: off topic, but I was talking to my best friend,

972
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 5: one of my best friends the other day, and she

973
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 5: basically was just like, yes, one thing about you and

974
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 5: your nigga, Like y'all. She was like, I can't even

975
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 5: say it's you. It's both of y'all. Y'all don't stand

976
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:17,920
Speaker 5: on Disney sweet each other.

977
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: I do. I don't give a fuck.

978
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 5: She was like, y'all never said she was, but she

979
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 5: was like, but you, it's so crazy to watch this

980
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 5: situation because you have always been a person who staying

981
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 5: on busnys. You do not play when it comes to

982
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 5: your relationships.

983
00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 2: Why are your eyes because I just no, you do.

984
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: And that's why I be laughing because you always be

985
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 2: like because I'm about to do this, and I'm about

986
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: to do this, I'm like, okay, miss.

987
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 5: Guirrel, but yeh, she'd be like, y'all don't stand on

988
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 5: business with each other. And so it was funny because

989
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 5: I was just having a conversation with him and I

990
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 5: didn't tell him who said it, but I was like, oh,

991
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 5: I was talking to one of my friends and they

992
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 5: was like, y'all, don't stand on business. When he comes

993
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 5: to each other, y'all be saying, we not gonna talk

994
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 5: to each other. We're gonna take a break any two

995
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 5: days later, y'all be. He gets it, and he was like, well,

996
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 5: am I supposed to stand on business with you when

997
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 5: I'm trying to be with you and be the future

998
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,279
Speaker 5: with you? Like all these games, all these games don't

999
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 5: need to be played. You try to stand on business

1000
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 5: with people that you don't want to be.

1001
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: We eight up. I tweeted at the other day, nothing

1002
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: to stand on Disney song.

1003
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 2: I'm not doing it, bro. I want to feel vulnerable.

1004
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 2: I want to feel safe. I want to feel like, hey,

1005
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 2: if I have an issue and I bring it up

1006
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: to you, I don't have to worry about you not

1007
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 2: talking to me for four.

1008
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: Days, said I said this to you earlier.

1009
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 2: I am a healthy relationship, is so healthy it makes

1010
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 2: me look back at my relationship. And I was like

1011
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,399
Speaker 2: me and that man were at war, not at war.

1012
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 2: I was thirty four at war, you righty? He was

1013
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 2: thirty four. Wards to know he was older than me.

1014
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 2: He was, I'm talking about I know a whole time.

1015
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 2: Oh he was forty at ward.

1016
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: Don't do him like that because you know he's probably

1017
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 1: gonna watch this. But man, he gonna disapproach you.

1018
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 5: I don't give a fuck, and it's gonna be his

1019
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 5: fault because then everybody gonna know who you is.

1020
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,479
Speaker 1: And I'm just paying.

1021
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,839
Speaker 2: But anyways, you know, I don't like to I long

1022
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:11,800
Speaker 2: he used to like him though, like he was cool.

1023
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 2: He was at one point. He's a cool person. He

1024
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 2: actually is a cool person, but he ate that freestyle.

1025
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: He eats a.

1026
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 2: Lot of his stuff. I'm not ever gonna take away

1027
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:21,839
Speaker 2: from his talent.

1028
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 1: But what I'm.

1029
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 2: Saying is me and him together was not anything good.

1030
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 2: And I, like I said, God gonna throw that grain,

1031
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 2: that grain of sand, he gonna throw that pebble, he

1032
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 2: gonna throw that rock. He dropped that boulder on my ass,

1033
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 2: and that's what it took for me to walk away.

1034
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 1: And guess what, he tests.

1035
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 2: Me again, because every time we would fall out, he

1036
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 2: would do the same thing, send me a text message.

1037
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: We laugh.

1038
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 2: But by the time he sent that text message, baby,

1039
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 2: I was deep. I was deep with my new baby,

1040
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 2: and it was hell. It's so outside of me being

1041
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: fall in love and me being a lover. Girl, it's

1042
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 2: so healthy, like your new baby makes me laugh. Funny,

1043
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 2: he is funny, I know, But I'm just saying, like,

1044
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 2: it's just crazy because outside of us getting along, it's

1045
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 2: just good to be in a happy relationship. And outside

1046
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,919
Speaker 2: of being happy, it's always a hell yes, you know,

1047
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 2: it feels good to be in a hell yes, and

1048
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 2: not a gray or a no or a maybe.

1049
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, my bed because I was

1050
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 5: supposed to say, you know, he funny if he make

1051
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,839
Speaker 5: me laugh, yeah, because you don't think nobody funny, bro,

1052
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 5: I don't, and you really be sending me stuff like girl,

1053
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:37,720
Speaker 5: look at this, Oh yes, because he's a riot. Okay,

1054
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 5: it's funny. Funny too, though, Like that's how I always

1055
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 5: tell people, Like that's how I knew you was funny

1056
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:44,240
Speaker 5: for real.

1057
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 1: Because I was. I was always not that.

1058
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:51,560
Speaker 5: I'm like, what's the people called, not that I'm the

1059
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 5: standing of comedy dragon at a theater like this make

1060
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 5: me laugh, hoen not gonna lie up for real. If

1061
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 5: somebody is consistently funny to me, you're really funny. And

1062
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 5: that's how it feels about you. When I first met y'all,

1063
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 5: was like, this bitch is fianny.

1064
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:13,360
Speaker 2: She's yeah, it's crazy. I'm just gonna bring this up

1065
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 2: real quick and we're gonna move on. Because I tweeted,

1066
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 2: I was like, y'all. I was on a date with

1067
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 2: my man and I asked him, do you have like

1068
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:22,799
Speaker 2: I'm trying to be freaky in my sexy bad We

1069
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 2: was at the sushi spot getting drunk. I'm feeling a

1070
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 2: little nasty and I was like, babe, is there like

1071
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 2: a little fetish or not that tuna going to yo?

1072
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: This is not soon. This is not tuna.

1073
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 5: This is a great a shirtle on, that's like me,

1074
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 5: it's steak.

1075
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it got a little it's a little

1076
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:49,839
Speaker 1: pink in the metal, so brown on the house.

1077
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,160
Speaker 5: But but see, you think about tuna in a way

1078
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 5: that is snink like. I'm like, he's talking about the

1079
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 5: tuna steak, the tuna tall tall, I'm talking about like.

1080
00:48:58,000 --> 00:48:59,920
Speaker 1: The tuna the high levels.

1081
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 5: I never fish, never a fish, never, never a fish.

1082
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 5: Never never gave that, not in a deep blue seat, bitch.

1083
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 5: He never gave arial.

1084
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 1: Hope. I like, Ariel, well she cute. That's cute for you.

1085
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 2: But anyways, so we getting drunking. I was trying to

1086
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 2: be sick thinking.

1087
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 5: I was like, babe, do you have like a secret

1088
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 5: fitish that I don't know about?

1089
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:27,479
Speaker 2: He was like silence and he ate me up bad.

1090
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,239
Speaker 2: It was to the point where we was both non laughing, right,

1091
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 2: So I tweeted it and it ended.

1092
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: Up going viral.

1093
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 6: Right.

1094
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 2: I saw that I had people in my comments for

1095
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 2: days telling me this man don't love you.

1096
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 1: You need to leave. He don't. You are not his peace.

1097
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: You need to shut the fuck up.

1098
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:46,839
Speaker 2: And I was like, bro, if y'all that's why it's

1099
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 2: so crazy, because I'm like, this is how I know

1100
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 2: the Internet is not a real place, because if y'all

1101
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 2: knew who my nigga was, y'all be like, oh, he

1102
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 2: don't get serious. He is very serious and he don't

1103
00:49:56,000 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 2: give you silence, bitch. So that's why don't ever go

1104
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 2: to the internet for validation. That's why it'd be so

1105
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 2: funny when people be saying commious to us on the internet, like,

1106
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 2: oh you bitches, you whores, no one will ever love

1107
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:14,759
Speaker 2: you. You're gonna be alone forever. People love us outside. That's

1108
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 2: why I say, when you have a podcast or anything

1109
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 2: that you're pushing online, that's cool to have an online presence,

1110
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 2: but you need to have a presence in real life

1111
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 2: as well. People love us outside. I go outside. I

1112
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:27,800
Speaker 2: go outside when people are mean to me on the internet.

1113
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 5: I don't delete tweet, I'll log off and I go outside. Yeah,

1114
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 5: I'll be outside of life. And on top of that, like,

1115
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 5: we have so many people around us in real life

1116
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 5: that love us, Like not even people that we just

1117
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 5: meet randomly, but talk about our friends, our family, surrounded

1118
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 5: by love.

1119
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,399
Speaker 1: Like surrounded by love, surrounded by love.

1120
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 2: Okay, so we don't keep on the topic of love.

1121
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:52,440
Speaker 1: We don't get into the next.

1122
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 2: Topic because this actually goes into what we're talking about

1123
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 2: a little bit. Because you know what I'm gonna call

1124
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 2: this topic love TK No, we're not talking about love TKO.

1125
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 1: Now lived knock us out yet. No, I just like

1126
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 1: this song. And you always say he looks like your daddy.

1127
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 1: He does look like my dad.

1128
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 6: You do.

1129
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:15,399
Speaker 2: If y'all ever ever seen Teddy pittograss, you don't see

1130
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:19,959
Speaker 2: my daddy, bitch, Well I don't think they've seen either.

1131
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 2: Well they in the same Placehold nigga, y'all don't see him.

1132
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 2: One day we all will bitch. But that's another topic.

1133
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 2: She has a reason, amen, but this Sorry, I really

1134
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 2: have dark humor, and I know why would I say

1135
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:40,799
Speaker 2: that our dark humor is so bad? We'll be on

1136
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,239
Speaker 2: the phone, I think sometimes though, that's when that's why

1137
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 2: people think we be paying means to each other, But

1138
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 2: we really just be playing. Yeah we get it, Yeah

1139
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 2: we get it. Yeah, we don't need them to get it.

1140
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 2: Fu the whole nigga, huh whole ass niesus. I ain't

1141
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,959
Speaker 2: say it like you though said it good enough. Now, Okay,

1142
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 2: so I'm gonna call this topic. Let me cater to

1143
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 2: you because I know I'm being annoying and I'm being

1144
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 2: that girl like my man, my me and my man.

1145
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 2: But somebody said something to me and the things, the

1146
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 2: comments that me and Dred get they never get to me.

1147
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 2: But it was just so funny to me because I

1148
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:18,359
Speaker 2: saw somebody comment on the Van the Van clip, one

1149
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 2: of the clips that we did with Van went by

1150
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 2: or recently. That's why I'm so glad this episode drops

1151
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 2: on Friday because we can talk about this now. And

1152
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 2: we were talking about the fifty K topic and Van

1153
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 2: was giving his opinion and somebody was like, you know,

1154
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 2: Van gives a very good point, which Vin is very smart.

1155
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:35,720
Speaker 2: He did give a good point, and I was actually

1156
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,360
Speaker 2: agreeing with him with the stuff. What he was saying,

1157
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 2: y'all have to realize these clips are clipped. That was

1158
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 2: a forty five second clip of a thirty minute conversation.

1159
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:47,879
Speaker 2: So going back to what I was saying, he was like, man,

1160
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 2: it's so crazy how women expect men to provide and

1161
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 2: do all of these things, and y'all are using men

1162
00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 2: for dates. Y'all don't want to cook, y'all don't want

1163
00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 2: to clean, y'all can't even bear hold a conversation.

1164
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, I wanted to reply, but.

1165
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, I'm gonna talk about

1166
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 2: this on the show because let me tell you something,

1167
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 2: when you and.

1168
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:14,319
Speaker 1: A person actually like each other.

1169
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 2: Y'all will understand why a lot of times these men

1170
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 2: are providing for these women. When I say provide, they're

1171
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 2: providing what that woman needs, whether it's taking her own dates,

1172
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 2: buying her flowers weekly, you know, just being thoughtful and

1173
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:29,320
Speaker 2: thinking of her. When I stay provided, I'm not necessarily

1174
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 2: talking about financial aspect. You're providing an experience for this woman, Okay,

1175
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:38,440
Speaker 2: and you're providing this experience, I guess when in return,

1176
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 2: that woman is gonna love you. Now, a woman loves love.

1177
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 1: Bitch. If you treat a woman like a human being.

1178
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 2: Versus a piece of meat that you're fucking, you're gonna realize,

1179
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 2: Oh shit, this is how it is to be treated

1180
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 2: nice by a woman.

1181
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: Y'all be like, Oh, women don't bring nothing.

1182
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 2: To sayle This woman is gonna cook clean, never smell

1183
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 2: like onion rings.

1184
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1185
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 2: She gonna keep that that that whipper snap a real

1186
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 2: type because you are loving her correctly. It is the

1187
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 2: circle of life.

1188
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:19,399
Speaker 1: Hole anigg and y'all not following the motherfucking rules, bitch, Yes,

1189
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: these women.

1190
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,280
Speaker 2: Beyonce was on the song talking about let Me Candle

1191
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:24,240
Speaker 2: to You, jay.

1192
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 1: Z was loving her now still singing about jay Z

1193
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:31,959
Speaker 1: Onion rings is crazy. I'm sorry, I like that.

1194
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 5: I know who roady, but it's just like, at least

1195
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 5: from my personal experiences, rings don't even say yeah, be

1196
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 5: smelling delics.

1197
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:54,959
Speaker 1: You love red robin your you get an uggr ring towel,

1198
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: don't get me.

1199
00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 5: Look a ring smelled delices first, and but if you

1200
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 5: gotta get it real quick, he's gonna really smell good,

1201
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:05,240
Speaker 5: but a good funny one.

1202
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: That does not. Onion rings do not. They don't stink.

1203
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,399
Speaker 2: But that's not how a body should smell, is what

1204
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 2: he meant, No fags, but bodies should smell like a

1205
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 2: lot of things.

1206
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: But you need to still be fucking like dry up.

1207
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 5: I would prefer an onion ring over some of the

1208
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 5: smells and niggas bill before me fishy, fishy, I smell,

1209
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:31,959
Speaker 5: I've smelled how hide.

1210
00:55:33,239 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 1: The cow hide? Sorry? Porkskin?

1211
00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 5: A porkskin is nuts a crackling, it's crazy porkskins sausage caseing.

1212
00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 1: Remember that's time. That means. Do you know what duck

1213
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: butter is? Yes? I googled it when everybody was sucking buddy,

1214
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:55,839
Speaker 1: so duck butter.

1215
00:55:56,040 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 2: They say, that's that stuff under like a man. Balls

1216
00:55:58,160 --> 00:55:59,279
Speaker 2: when you don't clean real good.

1217
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 1: You know, sometimes y'all scratch all balls and y'all sniffing

1218
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,080
Speaker 1: and the thing that's duck butter.

1219
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 5: I don't want that duck but don't smell good, duck butter.

1220
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 5: You shouldn't have duck butter. Though, you shouldn't have duck

1221
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 5: but duck butter.

1222
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 2: It gives like when you press your ear and you

1223
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 2: smell the back of your ear ring.

1224
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 1: That's what duck butter is.

1225
00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,479
Speaker 5: Okay, Because I was gonna say, what's the old what's

1226
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 5: the female equivalently of duck butter?

1227
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:25,399
Speaker 1: The feed?

1228
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:28,879
Speaker 2: I don't think that we have like dunk under there

1229
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 2: because we don't really have folds like that. Well, some

1230
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 2: women do have folds, let me not. I'm not vagina shaming,

1231
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 2: but my vagina don't have like folds like that. But

1232
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 2: I think that out happens when the skin is rubbing together.

1233
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:41,879
Speaker 1: Can you men?

1234
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 2: Are y'all gonna be honest in here? Y'all y'all balls

1235
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,440
Speaker 2: sometimes they don't be that fresh. Sometimes right.

1236
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:56,799
Speaker 3: After he be like duck butter, stink little man.

1237
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 2: I think every every man has had a little duck

1238
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 2: butter before. But you just gotta go wash it off,

1239
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 2: wash that duck, but all I can't be leave them

1240
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 2: old ladies used to be telling us to do she

1241
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,279
Speaker 2: with the whole time. It was the reason why it's say,

1242
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 2: come on now, no, I know, but okay, we got yeah,

1243
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 2: but wash that duck but off. But we get back

1244
00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 2: to the point that I was making, was that, like,

1245
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 2: we don't.

1246
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 5: Really eat that the way he needs. My daddy used

1247
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 5: to make onion rings. I used to be like, so your.

1248
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:31,560
Speaker 1: Daddy spelled like your No, he used to make them.

1249
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 1: But sometimes you used to cook. No, but sometimes you

1250
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 1: smell like the food you're cooking. I know, time no

1251
00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:42,280
Speaker 1: time about smell like a panicle.

1252
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 5: Let me say, I can see that the dress is

1253
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 5: giving and I don't going to say that beautiful. It

1254
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 5: looks very tropical, very vacation ish. But she wan't to

1255
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 5: talk about so bad any Wait, so anyway, it's not

1256
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 5: one thing I said about my daddy and not to

1257
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:02,960
Speaker 5: make this about him. When my daddy used to smell

1258
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 5: the fuck good, I think that's why, like maybe I

1259
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 5: kind of have like a fetish for like fragrancies and

1260
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 5: like men that smell really good.

1261
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 1: He started with my daddy, like I can tell your

1262
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 1: daddy smelled good.

1263
00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 5: Though no, and I swear my mama will tell you this.

1264
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 5: My daddy used to smell so fucking good all the time,

1265
00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 5: like he had a collection.

1266
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 2: I really like you know how you know your daddy

1267
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 2: smelled good.

1268
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:26,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to you. On my fucking heart.

1269
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 2: I could tell your daddy smelled good because like every

1270
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 2: picture I've seen him, and he had the wrinkles in

1271
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 2: his forehead right. I can't do the rink I can't

1272
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 2: do the face because I got both.

1273
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 1: But that means he was wont like this.

1274
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,040
Speaker 5: And the foehead was wrinkling up because he knew when

1275
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 5: he walked in the building, the holes knew he was there.

1276
00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie wrinkles because he was walking in

1277
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:49,840
Speaker 1: like them day.

1278
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 2: Because them holes knew, Like Yo, daddy was so stuff

1279
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 2: for real, he was in his days. I mean he's

1280
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:01,160
Speaker 2: he was a handsome man from the that I've seen. Yeah,

1281
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 2: when you got that tattoo, he was looking like this.

1282
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: That's how you was not looking like. I really want

1283
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 1: you to camera because them wrinkles is in. I'm not

1284
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: showing it because I know the hobby gonna boom me.

1285
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell y'all he's she's not so show but

1286
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 2: her tattoo her dad looking.

1287
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: Like this girl, I'm gonna show you just because you

1288
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 1: know he was.

1289
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:25,440
Speaker 8: She said it like this.

1290
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: You can see the wrinkles though, because he given them that. Yeah,

1291
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: you y'all you can see. That's what I'm saying he needs.

1292
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying.

1293
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 2: But getting back to the point of letting cater to you,

1294
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 2: Like I said, y'all gonna murder me for this in

1295
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 2: the comments. I know y'all are, but I'm gonna be

1296
00:59:56,960 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 2: honest because you ain't even Yes, I was with a

1297
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 2: man for seven years and I did not cook for him,

1298
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 2: not one time.

1299
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 1: I didn't cook for him, not one time. The one

1300
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 1: time I.

1301
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:09,520
Speaker 2: Did kind of cook something, it was like I just

1302
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 2: like literally put like boot in the other men. I

1303
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:15,479
Speaker 2: would go to his house, I bootan with five every time.

1304
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 2: But that's nothing that booty, my booty and booty party.

1305
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 1: See this one. Shut the fuck up, brot me. I'm sorry.

1306
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 2: So I say all that to say, I was with

1307
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 2: a man for seven years on and off, and I

1308
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 2: never like when I was to his house, I wouldn't

1309
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:35,160
Speaker 2: really clean, I wouldn't really cook. I didn't care about

1310
01:00:35,200 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 2: doing that for him. But like I said, subconsciously, I

1311
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:42,200
Speaker 2: knew I wasn't being loved properly, and vice versa. There

1312
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 2: was things that he probably wasn't doing for me because

1313
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 2: I wasn't loving him properly. I'm not gonna put all

1314
01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 2: the blame on him. So that's why I said, y'all

1315
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 2: gonna eat me up in these timeents, like how can

1316
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 2: you be with somebody for seven years and you never

1317
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:53,440
Speaker 2: cooked or clean and he wasn't doing X y Z

1318
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 2: because we were toxic for each other.

1319
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 1: When I tell y'all, I mean that cooking in.

1320
01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 2: That kitchen, whipping it up because I was like, oh

1321
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 2: my god, I actually like to cook. And I forgot

1322
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 2: that because I was like, I like cooking for people,

1323
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 2: used to cook for me all theme I'm telling you,

1324
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:11,200
Speaker 2: I really, and it's so amazing because I'm like, oh man,

1325
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 2: I really enjoy being in the kitchen. Man, that's because

1326
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 2: I'm being loved properly. So I was able to be

1327
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 2: reminded of that. So it's like, I like cooking for people, like, well,

1328
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:21,840
Speaker 2: you know how when you cook for people and everybody

1329
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 2: be like ooh this shit good you sitting in the

1330
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 2: corner like this, Yeah, that's how I'll be doing, Like yes, yes,

1331
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 2: So I feel like y'all talking about Oh, women don't

1332
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 2: bring nothing to the table. Now, obviously we bring more

1333
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 2: things to the table outside of cooking and cleaning. But

1334
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:40,960
Speaker 2: I think a lot of the things that men look

1335
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 2: to when you're talking about like basic things that you want,

1336
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 2: women do still do that very much. So I think

1337
01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:51,800
Speaker 2: women bring people to the table and anything else is extra.

1338
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: What do you mean you lucky that we literally bring

1339
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: people to the table like having baby heres Oh okay, okay, we.

1340
01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:00,439
Speaker 5: Are literally the reason why the world is poppy. Yeah,

1341
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 5: absolutely anything else it's just like you know it's.

1342
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 2: On the Q.

1343
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1344
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 2: But I say that because I haven't brought a person

1345
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 2: into this world. So, but I value either I value

1346
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 2: you know what I value about myself. I value curating

1347
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 2: a home. I value bringing peace to a situation. Like

1348
01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:22,439
Speaker 2: when somebody couldn't really ask me like what I would

1349
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 2: bring to the table, I hate having this conversation, but

1350
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:27,080
Speaker 2: if somebody really asked me, like what do I like?

1351
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 1: I bring peace? I curate a home.

1352
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 2: Like I feel like if a person has been out

1353
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,120
Speaker 2: all day working and they have the troubles of the world.

1354
01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 2: They be like, Oh, I can't wait to get home

1355
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 2: to my girl because I know I'm gonna feel peace.

1356
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 2: I'm gonna feel safe. I know I'm some food cook,

1357
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 2: I know I have a listening ear. I'm gonna just

1358
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 2: feel good, like I'm a safe space. And that has

1359
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 2: nothing to do with how much money I got, how

1360
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 2: wet and warm and good shit is pussy.

1361
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 1: Oh, but that's another topic.

1362
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:58,280
Speaker 3: It's not to be fee sorry, sorry, sorry, but I'm

1363
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:00,720
Speaker 3: saying that's all the extra stuff that but.

1364
01:03:00,680 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: You can get that from anywhere. Though you can get

1365
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: a bad bitch anywhere, you can get that usher goodshit,

1366
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: puss it, you can't get that anywhere. That's like. But

1367
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is that those are things that like.

1368
01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 2: Don't matter, like but that's what I feel like, like I

1369
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 2: can really curate a home like I can really you

1370
01:03:18,520 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So I feel like was valuable

1371
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 2: to me. I mean, and that's important. But like you say,

1372
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:25,360
Speaker 2: you have to be in the space to want to

1373
01:03:25,440 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 2: do that from somebody. I think that that is why men,

1374
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 2: the men that get online.

1375
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 5: And say that those are men that, like women have

1376
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:36,959
Speaker 5: not wanted to create that space for you, right because

1377
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 5: you didn't give them a just for whatever reason, you

1378
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 5: didn't make them comfortable enough. Because I feel like women, naturally,

1379
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 5: by nature, we're a nurturer. Yes, we're gonna turn the

1380
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:45,600
Speaker 5: house into a home.

1381
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna. I mean, I'm for real though, we gonna.

1382
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:52,680
Speaker 5: We just innately have that ability like it's in us,

1383
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 5: you know. So if a woman is not doing those

1384
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 5: things for you, you have not made her comfortable to

1385
01:03:58,360 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 5: feel like she needs to create this space for you.

1386
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: So you need to ask yourself.

1387
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 5: As a men, because people always be like, oh, well,

1388
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 5: y'all grandmothers and X, Y and Z, he was doing shit,

1389
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 5: Like first of all, let's chat about it though, come on,

1390
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 5: let's chat about it, like, yeah, our grandmothers was doing

1391
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 5: that shit because they were being stay at home mothers,

1392
01:04:16,120 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 5: stay at home wives. But part of the reason why

1393
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 5: their job was to take care of the home and

1394
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,520
Speaker 5: take care of the kids was because back in the day,

1395
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 5: men was really doing hard labor.

1396
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:30,840
Speaker 1: Y'all need to keep back in the field, niggas. I mean,

1397
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:33,800
Speaker 1: build some railroads.

1398
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 5: But I'm just being real, but not trying to be funny,

1399
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 5: but for real, do that's the type of work men.

1400
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 1: Used to have back in the day. Some cool. They

1401
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 1: used to be building.

1402
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 5: Fucking railroads, mining coal, being at what working at plants.

1403
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 1: My mama used to work at a plant.

1404
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 5: Now working at plants, working on ships. Like people really

1405
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 5: used to be doing hard building buildings, construction people really,

1406
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 5: And it's obvious you're still men that do construction. But

1407
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 5: I think these days it's a lot more jobs, especially

1408
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 5: for us as a as the black community. Men are

1409
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:12,840
Speaker 5: able to get a lot more like leisure, not leisure,

1410
01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 5: but like jobs that are not as hard on the body. Right,

1411
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 5: so you're able to come home and have more education now.

1412
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 5: So at the end of the day, like niggas is

1413
01:05:21,400 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 5: not out in the field for real, no more. Like

1414
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 5: but you want me to do everything? Why you can't

1415
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:28,960
Speaker 5: do you you were sitting inside all that you at Google.

1416
01:05:29,080 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: Nigga, nigga, you were sitting You're an engineer at Google.

1417
01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 2: You make great money, but you've been sitting on your

1418
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 2: But on that day you bout come.

1419
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 5: And pick these greens like me and you exactly, So

1420
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 5: why you can't wash some clothes too?

1421
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: Like why you can't wash.

1422
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 5: The d shirt too too. If I cook the meal,

1423
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:48,920
Speaker 5: why you can't wash the dhu, you know. Like, so

1424
01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:51,920
Speaker 5: I think that men these days, I don't know. I

1425
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 5: think if people are looking for things to go back

1426
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 5: to be being to how they were seventy years ago,

1427
01:05:58,480 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 5: one hundred years ago.

1428
01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,840
Speaker 1: That's not going to happen. Yeah, that's fair.

1429
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 5: That's a fair because at the end of the day,

1430
01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 5: you niggas also don't be working as hard as the

1431
01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 5: niggas used to be working.

1432
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 1: I agree, But I do feel like a house and

1433
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:12,240
Speaker 1: the cost of living is higher.

1434
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 5: Sometimes it's like we both got to work. That's all

1435
01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 5: I was just about to say.

1436
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:19,120
Speaker 2: I believe a household should be fifty fifty, not as

1437
01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 2: far as paying the bills. Hold my say no, no,

1438
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:25,040
Speaker 2: that's when you lost me me personally. I don't I

1439
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:27,080
Speaker 2: was with you and so no, no, no, I'm talking about

1440
01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 2: fifty fifty. Is like we're both contributing as far as

1441
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 2: making the household function and run. You know what I'm saying,

1442
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:35,120
Speaker 2: Like there is going to be type of balance, like Okay,

1443
01:06:35,280 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 2: he's paying the mortgage, he's paying the bills, he's doing this,

1444
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:39,600
Speaker 2: so yes, I'm going to.

1445
01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:41,600
Speaker 1: Make sure, you know I'm going to curate the home.

1446
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: I'm going to do this.

1447
01:06:42,360 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 2: I just feel like, whatever your fifty fifty is figured out,

1448
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 2: me and my man know what are fifty fifty.

1449
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:50,240
Speaker 5: But if you're not doing certain shit, I just kind

1450
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 5: of feel like, what is your value in a relationship?

1451
01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 5: Like everybody should have grows, everybody should have something that

1452
01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 5: they're doing. Even with me, for example, like once I

1453
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 5: get a home, once me and my man have a

1454
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:04,880
Speaker 5: home together, I don't see like I definitely want to

1455
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:08,120
Speaker 5: have like a cleaner come sometimes because I feel like

1456
01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:10,960
Speaker 5: I plan on having like a big home where it

1457
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 5: might be that might be a lot for me to

1458
01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 5: just take care of by myself, but it's certain things

1459
01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 5: if we having to outsource people to do everything, and

1460
01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:21,880
Speaker 5: what the fuck you need me for?

1461
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 6: Right?

1462
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:24,959
Speaker 2: Like because I think a cleaner is not bad because

1463
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:26,439
Speaker 2: I know they're gonna be in this common saying something.

1464
01:07:26,440 --> 01:07:28,000
Speaker 2: But Jackie ain't a I love her, y'all know, I'll

1465
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 2: talk about her all the time.

1466
01:07:29,120 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 1: She has a.

1467
01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 2: Home, very large home, her and her man living. She

1468
01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 2: was like, I have a cleaner that comes. I can't

1469
01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 2: remember how often she said they come, but it's like

1470
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:37,680
Speaker 2: if you have a big, big home.

1471
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: That's a lot. But sometimes with.

1472
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 5: Women, I think when they get especially when they get

1473
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 5: with men who have a lot of money, they feel like, oh, well,

1474
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 5: we can afford a nanny, we can afford a cleaner,

1475
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 5: we can afford a scheff, we can afford all of

1476
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 5: these things. And I think those things are nice to

1477
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 5: like help a little bit with things. But then it's

1478
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 5: like if the nanny, the chef, the cleaner, the gardener,

1479
01:07:57,200 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 5: all these people doing everything all the time, like.

1480
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 2: What you're doing with the meet right, No, I agree,

1481
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:04,920
Speaker 2: you should definitely step up, and.

1482
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

1483
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 5: And they're not working and you're not bringing any money in.

1484
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:09,360
Speaker 5: It's just kind of like, yeah.

1485
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 2: I get it to a certain extent, Like what That's

1486
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:13,600
Speaker 2: why I said the household should always.

1487
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:14,080
Speaker 1: Be fifty to fifty.

1488
01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:15,600
Speaker 2: And when I say fifty fifty, it is not all

1489
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:18,800
Speaker 2: the ways about financing. Yeah, but people here fifty fifty

1490
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 2: like you said you was like, oh no, you lost

1491
01:08:21,439 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 2: me there. No, I'm not talking about finance finances. To

1492
01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 2: run a household is more than just paying the bills.

1493
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:28,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You have to actually like

1494
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:30,680
Speaker 1: run the house. You gotta run the house. You know,

1495
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: some people have.

1496
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:35,120
Speaker 2: Some millionaires and billionaires have houses so big there is

1497
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,880
Speaker 2: a job title out there called a house manager. These

1498
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 2: people have a job of literally running a house and

1499
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 2: making sure people are there to cut the lawn, people

1500
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 2: are there to.

1501
01:08:44,760 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 1: Clean the pool and shit like that.

1502
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 2: Like there is a job title for that that has

1503
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:50,960
Speaker 2: been created. So it's a lot to like manage a

1504
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 2: house and run a house and keep everybody on schedule,

1505
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:56,240
Speaker 2: especially if you have kids. But back to the point

1506
01:08:56,280 --> 01:09:00,000
Speaker 2: at hand, and we're gonna wrap this up, it's very

1507
01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:02,760
Speaker 2: easy to get a woman to cater to you. All

1508
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 2: you have to do is be a decent man and

1509
01:09:04,479 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 2: treat her right. And this goes not even to just relationships.

1510
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 2: Even if you and a woman, maybe y'all aren't going

1511
01:09:11,320 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 2: to be together forever, maybe you are in a situationship

1512
01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:15,720
Speaker 2: and y'all just are friends with benefits.

1513
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 1: It's okay to treat a woman like a human being.

1514
01:09:18,840 --> 01:09:20,920
Speaker 2: Just because you're fucking somebody doesn't mean you have to

1515
01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:23,920
Speaker 2: treat them like you don't know them in public, or

1516
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 2: y'all can't say hey to each other, or you have

1517
01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:28,680
Speaker 2: to just give them the bare minimum. I've seen a

1518
01:09:28,680 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 2: tweet the other day and a guy was like, man,

1519
01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:34,240
Speaker 2: I walked in this whole house and her handle was gone.

1520
01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 2: It looked like the handle on her bathtub or something

1521
01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 2: had fell off. He was like, I'm never coming over

1522
01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:41,559
Speaker 2: here again. And a guy had retweeted you the handle.

1523
01:09:41,640 --> 01:09:44,120
Speaker 2: Damn he's treat But maybe you're just a little lose.

1524
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying the guy a guy had retweeted.

1525
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 1: And he was like, or if you see how like

1526
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 1: fist right?

1527
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 2: But he said, this is how I know y'all fumble

1528
01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 2: because twenty dollars at home depot and a conversation that

1529
01:09:57,320 --> 01:10:00,160
Speaker 2: girl would have been melting in your hand because you

1530
01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 2: had to do it.

1531
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:01,880
Speaker 1: Be like you know what, ba, let me fix this

1532
01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 1: for you.

1533
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 2: And he was like, people like, well, I'm not doing

1534
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 2: that for a situationship. You can't treat a woman like

1535
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:10,799
Speaker 2: a human being. Twenty dollars and a screwdriver.

1536
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 1: Bro, and you're not doing it for a situation.

1537
01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:14,200
Speaker 5: But like, you're not gonna fuck with her no more

1538
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 5: over like a twenty dollars problem, Like broy, y'all all.

1539
01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: So stupid, But that's what I'm saying, y'all.

1540
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:22,040
Speaker 2: Change the narrative because y'all want to be like, oh,

1541
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:24,679
Speaker 2: y'all trip and y'all act like everybody got money, everybody

1542
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 2: got this, everybody got that. But at the same time,

1543
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,240
Speaker 2: when you do see somebody who maybe doesn't know how

1544
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:32,200
Speaker 2: to fix something, or somebody who is struggling or whatever,

1545
01:10:32,320 --> 01:10:36,679
Speaker 2: y'all want to dehumanize them. So it's like Ushi Walley,

1546
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:38,800
Speaker 2: I one mic bitch, which one is it?

1547
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying because I think.

1548
01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 2: If somebody needs help that you are involved with, whether

1549
01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 2: it's somebody you love or somebody that you're just fucking,

1550
01:10:48,760 --> 01:10:52,559
Speaker 2: it's okay to treat people with respect, bare minimum and

1551
01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:53,880
Speaker 2: help them out if they need it.

1552
01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 1: Like if I had a nigga I was just fucking.

1553
01:10:56,320 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 2: And he needed something like something that's not you know,

1554
01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:01,200
Speaker 2: not like asked me to pay his rent or what

1555
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 2: if he asked you for a thousand dollars, Wow, a

1556
01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:06,720
Speaker 2: thousand dollars, A thousand.

1557
01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 1: Dollars, a thousand dollar. I'm not gonna lie.

1558
01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 10: No, no, okay, laugh like no, I know like you

1559
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 10: would laugh like this, though.

1560
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 5: I said little things like if you know what if

1561
01:11:24,920 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 5: he asks a five honey, no, I mean something like

1562
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:30,679
Speaker 5: we got two honeyt the hell out legs.

1563
01:11:30,880 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 1: What's two hundred dollars.

1564
01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 2: To a bos You know what, I will make him

1565
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:36,759
Speaker 2: two hundred dollars. Maybe he got a little business promote.

1566
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 2: I'm been promoted on the show. You're gonna make two.

1567
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 5: Dollars if your feed for hours, I can go to

1568
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:43,880
Speaker 5: the nail shop and get that done.

1569
01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:45,800
Speaker 1: You're still you're gonna pay two hundred dollars to them

1570
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:47,519
Speaker 1: people too at the end of the day.

1571
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:49,920
Speaker 2: If it's something little that I can do to help

1572
01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:52,799
Speaker 2: a person, like if this is a man I'm fucking

1573
01:11:52,800 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 2: and say he got an ebook or something, or say

1574
01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:57,960
Speaker 2: he got a business to promote. Hey, go get your

1575
01:11:58,000 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 2: plumbing done by Darius. You got a toilet, they needed

1576
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:03,080
Speaker 2: some pipes fixed. There's gonna hook you up.

1577
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 6: Man.

1578
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 1: I like plumbing by Peter, plumbing by Hey. If you

1579
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:13,440
Speaker 1: got a little club, Hey, y'all go to the local shaken.

1580
01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 2: Down fast, the juke joint, the juke joint. I got

1581
01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:18,800
Speaker 2: a whole platform. I come promote La Sean. That's what

1582
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 2: I'm saying, just because I like that.

1583
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So that's what I'm saying.

1584
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 2: You can do things for people and you don't have

1585
01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:26,320
Speaker 2: to dehumanize them or treating like, oh, I'm just fucking you.

1586
01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:28,519
Speaker 2: I don't got to do nothing. I just think people

1587
01:12:28,720 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 2: like we forget that people are still humans.

1588
01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 1: You know, he's gonna eat hell. Yeah, it's just a

1589
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:33,679
Speaker 1: little weird.

1590
01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 2: So the fact that he was like, oh, I ain't

1591
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:37,519
Speaker 2: never coming back over here again, and the guy was like,

1592
01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 2: if you would have just fixed it, this girl would

1593
01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 2: have been melting in your hands. So yeah, y'all, don't

1594
01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 2: have women bending over backwards for you because you're rude

1595
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 2: and you're with him nasty, because then it's different though

1596
01:12:49,120 --> 01:12:51,000
Speaker 2: if you go and then it's like a masstress on

1597
01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 2: the floor with pee on you or something.

1598
01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 1: You can't do that. Pea is nuts? Is it a

1599
01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 1: dog getting there? Because that's what.

1600
01:12:59,200 --> 01:13:01,840
Speaker 5: I'm saying, Like that stuff that you can't really work through,

1601
01:13:01,880 --> 01:13:04,080
Speaker 5: Like I can't, I can't help you with these I

1602
01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:04,680
Speaker 5: got to go.

1603
01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't like that. I don't like that.

1604
01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:21,800
Speaker 10: Okay, so now it's time.

1605
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 5: To get into the big bowl a bowl, little bit

1606
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:29,280
Speaker 5: bow bow bow bow bow.

1607
01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:29,920
Speaker 1: Okay.

1608
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:33,040
Speaker 2: Soone honor of your birthday episode, we're gonna talk about

1609
01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 2: birthday sex.

1610
01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:42,479
Speaker 1: Birthday sex girl. You know, girl, you know? Eat do

1611
01:13:42,520 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 1: your birthday? No you know, I won't know. Sip moseys

1612
01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:53,560
Speaker 1: and no more. My ouch. We is sitting on our couch, cheers,

1613
01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:55,080
Speaker 1: sipping the Moesy.

1614
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:58,080
Speaker 5: We came a long way now we got a couch.

1615
01:14:00,560 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 5: I had a couch. We just show us to sit

1616
01:14:02,920 --> 01:14:04,560
Speaker 5: on the floor. I don't why did it?

1617
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:09,240
Speaker 2: Why did reach with the plug when we couldn't set

1618
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:12,080
Speaker 2: it on the table sit on the couch.

1619
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 1: You used to be the technical person. I just needs

1620
01:14:14,200 --> 01:14:14,679
Speaker 1: to be there.

1621
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about birthday sex today. I

1622
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 2: feel like birthday sex.

1623
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:23,400
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask, does birthday.

1624
01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:26,240
Speaker 2: Sex differ from the sex that you have on a

1625
01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:28,720
Speaker 2: regular basis what you mean?

1626
01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:30,880
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Not if it's good?

1627
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 5: If you having good sex on a regular And I

1628
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:34,639
Speaker 5: don't think birthday sex is gonna be different.

1629
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 2: But you don't think like it's your birthday, like you

1630
01:14:36,920 --> 01:14:38,360
Speaker 2: should pull out something.

1631
01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:41,640
Speaker 1: Extra anyway, because that's how I am now I get it.

1632
01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 2: But I feel like sexually, there's so many different things

1633
01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:47,840
Speaker 2: to explore, right Like I feel like if you and

1634
01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:49,880
Speaker 2: your man are having good sex on the regular, there's

1635
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 2: no problem. But maybe there's something in the back of

1636
01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:54,880
Speaker 2: your mind that you wanted to try, or something that

1637
01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 2: you haven't got the guts to do.

1638
01:14:56,840 --> 01:14:58,519
Speaker 1: Most of the time you're drunk on your birthday.

1639
01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:00,720
Speaker 2: So I feel like this is the moment that you

1640
01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:02,960
Speaker 2: can pull out something that you wanted to try and

1641
01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:05,080
Speaker 2: you don't get no judgment. You know what I'm saying,

1642
01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:07,599
Speaker 2: Like if you've ever wanted to like role play, bringing

1643
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:11,479
Speaker 2: a toy like anything like that. Stuff sounds basic, you

1644
01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:14,240
Speaker 2: know to us, but sometimes people don't use toys in

1645
01:15:14,240 --> 01:15:14,639
Speaker 2: the bedroom.

1646
01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:14,880
Speaker 1: Right.

1647
01:15:14,880 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 5: That's why I think we should have a half. That's

1648
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 5: why I think we should have had another person for

1649
01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 5: this topic, because because I'm gonna do what I want

1650
01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:24,799
Speaker 5: with these my birthday and night.

1651
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:26,200
Speaker 1: But not everybody.

1652
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:28,640
Speaker 5: It's like that, I do feel like I know, but

1653
01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 5: I thought you was asking me.

1654
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 2: I am asking you, but I feel like on my birthday,

1655
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

1656
01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 1: I do feel like you need to do.

1657
01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 2: Something different on my birthday, like what I don't know,

1658
01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:43,719
Speaker 2: And it surprised me. Who ad like I should walk

1659
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:46,320
Speaker 2: in and see like a sex swing hanging from the ceiling, Like,

1660
01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:49,759
Speaker 2: oh my goodness, but that's Kland for you or sex.

1661
01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 2: I'll never use a sex wing. That's what I'm saying.

1662
01:15:52,680 --> 01:15:55,960
Speaker 2: So I feel like birthday sexy should already be different

1663
01:15:56,000 --> 01:15:58,200
Speaker 2: because one most of the time we should be out

1664
01:15:58,240 --> 01:15:59,880
Speaker 2: the country on some shit, or we should be in

1665
01:15:59,880 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 2: a hotel. And y'all know how I feel about hotel sex.

1666
01:16:03,120 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 2: Hotel sex is nasty because we ain't gotta clean this

1667
01:16:05,280 --> 01:16:09,519
Speaker 2: shut up. Yeah, better be none on these walls, right.

1668
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 1: I want to shut on these walls. Right, don't remember

1669
01:16:13,000 --> 01:16:16,639
Speaker 1: a scary movie. It's time to get real. Mother fucking

1670
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:20,200
Speaker 1: freaky on the wall. Too freaky for me. But that's

1671
01:16:20,240 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Now, you want to talk about what's okay?

1672
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:27,680
Speaker 5: Were sawing my earlier? I don't know that's what she

1673
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:29,639
Speaker 5: says on the wall, But.

1674
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:32,600
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, I want to tell this mo the

1675
01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:37,879
Speaker 2: jill down. I feel like we having sex in a hotel.

1676
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 1: Why you don't have an example?

1677
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:39,679
Speaker 6: Though?

1678
01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:41,840
Speaker 2: Like remember when I told y'all a long time and

1679
01:16:41,840 --> 01:16:43,360
Speaker 2: when I told y'all that story that man when he

1680
01:16:43,400 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 2: pour a wine all over me, that's what That's what

1681
01:16:47,120 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 2: the type of ship I want?

1682
01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:56,960
Speaker 1: Was that exciting a little bit? It was I'm not

1683
01:16:57,000 --> 01:16:59,040
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I was mad because I was like, oh

1684
01:16:59,040 --> 01:16:59,920
Speaker 1: my God, i'ma have a year.

1685
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:04,639
Speaker 5: Tomorrow, I'm gonna be baking bread and this motherfuckery you walk.

1686
01:17:04,520 --> 01:17:08,680
Speaker 1: Around making a croissant, but I'm not gonna lie.

1687
01:17:08,680 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 5: It was kind of like, I'm not go I don't

1688
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:16,320
Speaker 5: think of bugget. Croissant's kind of like crobiloky.

1689
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 2: Okay, but my pussy was a little solder next day.

1690
01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:21,760
Speaker 1: I say all that to say.

1691
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:23,559
Speaker 2: It was exciting, though I was a little mad, but

1692
01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:26,280
Speaker 2: it was like, oh my goy, it took.

1693
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 1: Me by surprise.

1694
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 2: So yes, I feel like birthday sex should be a

1695
01:17:29,320 --> 01:17:30,639
Speaker 2: little different from the sex.

1696
01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:33,839
Speaker 5: Like a little hot candle wax on your something.

1697
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 1: Something.

1698
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:37,960
Speaker 2: Do something that's gonna make me be like my degree burns.

1699
01:17:38,240 --> 01:17:40,600
Speaker 2: Something I need to wake up the next morning, be

1700
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:42,719
Speaker 2: like what the fuck was last night?

1701
01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:43,400
Speaker 1: You?

1702
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:48,679
Speaker 2: Birthday sex should be different. Good sex can happen every day.

1703
01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:50,840
Speaker 2: I get that. What I'm saying is it should just

1704
01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:53,439
Speaker 2: be a little adventurous. Y'all need to be. I don't

1705
01:17:53,439 --> 01:17:55,400
Speaker 2: care how good your sex is, what toys you use.

1706
01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:58,160
Speaker 2: You need to do something on your birthday. It's like

1707
01:17:58,320 --> 01:17:59,960
Speaker 2: that's not something y'all do on the regular.

1708
01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:01,080
Speaker 1: I think that's how you keep.

1709
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:03,360
Speaker 5: Things being you know, I'm really not trying to be

1710
01:18:03,400 --> 01:18:03,960
Speaker 5: funny though.

1711
01:18:04,080 --> 01:18:05,080
Speaker 1: That's the crazy thing.

1712
01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:07,320
Speaker 5: Like I think when I was like twenty seven, I

1713
01:18:07,320 --> 01:18:09,680
Speaker 5: could have probably been like, yeah, birthday, sex and need

1714
01:18:09,720 --> 01:18:12,320
Speaker 5: to be special. I don't really I can't really think

1715
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:15,680
Speaker 5: of too many things I have not done.

1716
01:18:15,160 --> 01:18:18,200
Speaker 1: Like adding somebody else in yeah, I mean even something

1717
01:18:18,240 --> 01:18:18,559
Speaker 1: like that.

1718
01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:21,280
Speaker 5: Maybe time up and I've done that too, just not

1719
01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:24,680
Speaker 5: with but that's what I'm saying. Maybe just time up

1720
01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:26,240
Speaker 5: and beat the hell out of them.

1721
01:18:26,280 --> 01:18:28,800
Speaker 1: You might like that. We're not about to do that,

1722
01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:30,680
Speaker 1: but sometimes like that to me.

1723
01:18:30,760 --> 01:18:33,479
Speaker 2: But sometimes people like that they want to talk down

1724
01:18:33,479 --> 01:18:33,800
Speaker 2: on them.

1725
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 1: You a little nasty RD.

1726
01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:38,360
Speaker 5: I asked you, though, would you be okay with somebody

1727
01:18:38,360 --> 01:18:40,519
Speaker 5: putting a collar on you and you walking you like

1728
01:18:40,600 --> 01:18:40,920
Speaker 5: at all?

1729
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:43,839
Speaker 1: And you said no. But you know, like the crazy

1730
01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:44,360
Speaker 1: thing is.

1731
01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:46,880
Speaker 5: That you're trying to have this conversation with me right now,

1732
01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:49,320
Speaker 5: but you're not really that I but I'm not gonna lie.

1733
01:18:49,400 --> 01:18:50,840
Speaker 5: I don't let somebody walk me.

1734
01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:51,280
Speaker 1: Like it all.

1735
01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 2: And if it was his bar like that, if it

1736
01:18:54,560 --> 01:18:56,400
Speaker 2: was his birthday and I was something he wanted to do,

1737
01:18:57,680 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 2: calm me, rove a bit or maybe a cat, I'm

1738
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:02,160
Speaker 2: finna walk around that room.

1739
01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:04,640
Speaker 1: Is this a birthday? Maybe I'm finna be in that

1740
01:19:04,680 --> 01:19:05,200
Speaker 1: bitch like.

1741
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 5: And what if he had a little whip and he

1742
01:19:07,520 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 5: was thinking, I'm clips a bitch, the big red mother macker.

1743
01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:23,000
Speaker 5: I don't That's what catch oh.

1744
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:22,360
Speaker 1: When I'm open to Coachie every time I say that, who,

1745
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:26,719
Speaker 1: that's exactly how a busting open.

1746
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:30,600
Speaker 5: I'm telling you, honest, birthday section be something y'all have

1747
01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:31,920
Speaker 5: never done before.

1748
01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:36,760
Speaker 1: I hear you, that's fair open minded. But the thing

1749
01:19:37,000 --> 01:19:39,360
Speaker 1: is I am. That's why I feel like I've done

1750
01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 1: so much shit. I am open minded.

1751
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:43,719
Speaker 5: So that's why I think at this point in my life,

1752
01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 5: I'm not hard for you. I'm not saying that birthday

1753
01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:48,880
Speaker 5: six should not be special and it should not be

1754
01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:51,600
Speaker 5: you trying something different. I just at this point in

1755
01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:53,800
Speaker 5: my life, I really can't think of anything that would

1756
01:19:53,840 --> 01:19:57,080
Speaker 5: make birthday sick special for me because I do everything

1757
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:58,400
Speaker 5: on a regular basis.

1758
01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:00,880
Speaker 1: I did some crazy shit to be weak. I don't

1759
01:20:00,880 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 1: want to know. I might tell you off already talk cool.

1760
01:20:07,120 --> 01:20:09,200
Speaker 1: It was fun, all right.

1761
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:14,520
Speaker 2: Can y'all in the comments, though, give Drea some ideas

1762
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:18,440
Speaker 2: of things that she can do for her birthday, because obviously.

1763
01:20:20,520 --> 01:20:23,519
Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying about being blindfoldy. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie.

1764
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:26,080
Speaker 5: This is this is probably cemi. I haven't had BV

1765
01:20:26,240 --> 01:20:29,080
Speaker 5: in like four years. Okay, it's like it's been a

1766
01:20:29,120 --> 01:20:31,559
Speaker 5: long time. Okay, But like that happened when you don't

1767
01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 5: really like care for you. Sometimes it just that shit

1768
01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:39,080
Speaker 5: can happen overnight, like something literally, like you have sex

1769
01:20:39,120 --> 01:20:40,639
Speaker 5: with somebody and they.

1770
01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:42,080
Speaker 1: Don't have sex with somebody else. You can wake up

1771
01:20:42,080 --> 01:20:44,320
Speaker 1: and you can have BV. Like I just said, not

1772
01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:46,000
Speaker 1: knowing how to care for your kuchie.

1773
01:20:46,040 --> 01:20:48,400
Speaker 2: Well that's but but what I'm saying is if you

1774
01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:52,760
Speaker 2: have sex with somebody and you wake up in the morning, yeah,

1775
01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:53,880
Speaker 2: I mean, men.

1776
01:20:53,880 --> 01:20:55,639
Speaker 1: Cheat, men do whole ass ship.

1777
01:20:55,680 --> 01:20:58,160
Speaker 2: So what I'm saying is you've been blessed enough to

1778
01:20:58,200 --> 01:21:00,360
Speaker 2: not be in that situation. But sometimes BV is not

1779
01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 2: about a woman not taking care of her body. It

1780
01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:04,960
Speaker 2: just be like fucked up ship doesn't happen, you know

1781
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:05,519
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1782
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:08,880
Speaker 5: It's not about not taking care of your body, but

1783
01:21:08,920 --> 01:21:10,479
Speaker 5: a lot of things can't prevent it.

1784
01:21:11,040 --> 01:21:13,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't prevent it, but you being strict too,

1785
01:21:13,760 --> 01:21:14,719
Speaker 2: sometimes that coming.

1786
01:21:15,040 --> 01:21:17,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta slot that mother fuck off.

1787
01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:24,200
Speaker 6: With you.

1788
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:28,680
Speaker 1: But the point that I said that was trying to

1789
01:21:28,680 --> 01:21:29,160
Speaker 1: be funny.

1790
01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:31,559
Speaker 2: I wasn't trying to be funny. Used a little proud

1791
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 2: A little room smelled like on your rings. The room

1792
01:21:35,439 --> 01:21:36,639
Speaker 2: don't ever smell like onion.

1793
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:38,400
Speaker 1: But I thought you said it was okay to smell like.

1794
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:42,880
Speaker 5: Room to smell like on your rings with somebody cooking them.

1795
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:46,280
Speaker 5: I didn't say it's okay for the room to smell

1796
01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:47,040
Speaker 5: like on your rings.

1797
01:21:47,040 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 1: If you funk okay, okay. I just had to clarify tuna.

1798
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 1: I told you it was.

1799
01:21:58,240 --> 01:22:03,760
Speaker 2: Okay on y'all in the comments. Please let Drea know

1800
01:22:04,040 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 2: some freaky stuff that she can try for Harberd thirty third.

1801
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:12,000
Speaker 2: She has risen and so has he.

1802
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 6: Chill come Ona, So now it's to get into the

1803
01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:28,640
Speaker 6: bop the bobo.

1804
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:35,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Joy, what you been listening to this week? Beyonce?

1805
01:22:36,080 --> 01:22:39,160
Speaker 5: Oh my god, we have not talked about Beyonce's album.

1806
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:41,880
Speaker 5: We have not talked about Cowboy Carter And like, at

1807
01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 5: the end of the motherfucking day, let me tell you something,

1808
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 5: Oh Lord, why say I love this album? Like at first,

1809
01:22:51,760 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 5: gotta keep it real with y'all, I was kind of like,

1810
01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 5: nothing on top Renaissance. It's not happening no fucking way,

1811
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:03,320
Speaker 5: because Renaissance was that girl. And then let's not even

1812
01:23:03,360 --> 01:23:06,400
Speaker 5: get into if you actually went to the tour. So

1813
01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:08,519
Speaker 5: I was just like, it's in no way this is

1814
01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:10,520
Speaker 5: gonna have me in a choke hold the way Renaissance

1815
01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:13,520
Speaker 5: had me in a show cold. I was so motherfucking

1816
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:19,400
Speaker 5: wrong from front to motherfucking bag. The whole fucking album bangs.

1817
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:22,840
Speaker 5: And the crazy thing is she said that she was

1818
01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:26,720
Speaker 5: supposed to drop this album before Renaissance, and I actually,

1819
01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 5: like towards the end of the album, like I feel

1820
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:31,200
Speaker 5: like the last four or five songs you can actually

1821
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:34,519
Speaker 5: hear like how this was probably supposed to drop before

1822
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:37,400
Speaker 5: Renaissance because a lot of the songs, like towards the

1823
01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:41,320
Speaker 5: end of the album kind of have like certain like

1824
01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:46,120
Speaker 5: synchronies and sounds that kind of go into the Renaissance album.

1825
01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 1: So it's just so good.

1826
01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 5: Like, but my favorites on the album is Hands to

1827
01:23:50,280 --> 01:24:00,240
Speaker 5: Heaven Tired, Yeah, two Hands to Heaven Tiring, Rivertens Levi's.

1828
01:23:59,600 --> 01:24:05,240
Speaker 1: Levi, and Tumos Wanted. So what's your worst?

1829
01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:09,760
Speaker 2: I'm gonna give a full spiel on Cowboy Carter So

1830
01:24:09,880 --> 01:24:14,320
Speaker 2: first things first, my favorite songs are Tyrant Bodyguard, Oh Bodyguard.

1831
01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:17,080
Speaker 1: So I forgot about that. So this is what I

1832
01:24:17,120 --> 01:24:17,639
Speaker 1: have to say.

1833
01:24:18,120 --> 01:24:20,320
Speaker 2: A lot of people had a lot of critiques to

1834
01:24:20,360 --> 01:24:23,360
Speaker 2: give her, and this is the thing, y'all have to

1835
01:24:23,479 --> 01:24:30,200
Speaker 2: understand music to really give a fair review. If somebody

1836
01:24:30,240 --> 01:24:33,680
Speaker 2: who has been listening to country music their entire life

1837
01:24:33,920 --> 01:24:36,519
Speaker 2: wants to give me a review about a jay Z album,

1838
01:24:36,680 --> 01:24:38,840
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear their review because you have

1839
01:24:38,960 --> 01:24:40,599
Speaker 2: no knowledge on hip hop and what.

1840
01:24:40,520 --> 01:24:42,360
Speaker 1: It truly is. So a lot of.

1841
01:24:42,320 --> 01:24:45,120
Speaker 2: Y'all coming in and telling about, oh, this album is horrible.

1842
01:24:45,760 --> 01:24:48,360
Speaker 2: If you didn't like country music, you should have known

1843
01:24:48,400 --> 01:24:50,479
Speaker 2: this album wasn't for you. So we don't need your

1844
01:24:50,520 --> 01:24:53,160
Speaker 2: commentary on it. And I'm not saying I'm the most

1845
01:24:53,320 --> 01:24:56,080
Speaker 2: educated on all genres of music, but I've never hear

1846
01:24:56,160 --> 01:24:58,120
Speaker 2: the fact that I love country music. I don't put

1847
01:24:58,200 --> 01:25:01,160
Speaker 2: y'all on so much country mus over the years. Y'all

1848
01:25:01,160 --> 01:25:04,479
Speaker 2: know when I tell you this is an album that

1849
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 2: story tells. It tells a story, and if you know

1850
01:25:08,200 --> 01:25:10,920
Speaker 2: the history of country music and what it is, it's

1851
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:13,360
Speaker 2: supposed to tell a story and.

1852
01:25:13,320 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 1: To be fair.

1853
01:25:14,200 --> 01:25:19,000
Speaker 5: Like also, I haven't necessarily been like a country music connoisseur.

1854
01:25:19,560 --> 01:25:21,840
Speaker 5: But I am from Texas, so I feel like I

1855
01:25:21,880 --> 01:25:26,479
Speaker 5: grew up like hearing country music. And it is certain

1856
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 5: songs like it is certain already certain songs that I

1857
01:25:29,160 --> 01:25:29,719
Speaker 5: like that I.

1858
01:25:29,640 --> 01:25:30,400
Speaker 1: Will listen to.

1859
01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:33,120
Speaker 5: But the crazy thing about this album to me is

1860
01:25:33,120 --> 01:25:35,439
Speaker 5: that it's like it's not really a country album like

1861
01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:38,439
Speaker 5: Beyonce Conda eight when she said it's not a country album,

1862
01:25:38,479 --> 01:25:39,920
Speaker 5: it's a Beyonce album.

1863
01:25:39,920 --> 01:25:44,160
Speaker 1: Because it's still not really is not a country song.

1864
01:25:44,280 --> 01:25:46,320
Speaker 5: I mean, it's a few songs on the album that's

1865
01:25:46,360 --> 01:25:48,960
Speaker 5: not necessarily country songs. So I feel like it's not

1866
01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:52,760
Speaker 5: really a country album. It's Beyonce doing what Beyonce does,

1867
01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 5: and she ate that.

1868
01:25:55,600 --> 01:25:56,559
Speaker 1: Well. I'll say this too.

1869
01:25:56,800 --> 01:25:58,719
Speaker 2: A lot of people need to understand that there's different

1870
01:25:58,920 --> 01:26:01,840
Speaker 2: genres of country. Y'all look at country as being one thing,

1871
01:26:02,560 --> 01:26:05,320
Speaker 2: just like there's different genres of hip hop. You got

1872
01:26:05,400 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 2: trap music, you know what I'm saying. You got gangster

1873
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:10,679
Speaker 2: music or whatever. You got southern music.

1874
01:26:11,600 --> 01:26:14,320
Speaker 1: It really seventy three, damn, you know what I'm saying.

1875
01:26:14,360 --> 01:26:16,519
Speaker 3: But they have different genreship.

1876
01:26:16,680 --> 01:26:19,320
Speaker 1: I think the kids call it drill me drill music.

1877
01:26:19,640 --> 01:26:21,360
Speaker 2: I mean, well, I'm thinking of like I was thinking of,

1878
01:26:21,400 --> 01:26:21,920
Speaker 2: like Californa.

1879
01:26:21,960 --> 01:26:23,360
Speaker 1: What do they call California music?

1880
01:26:25,760 --> 01:26:28,800
Speaker 2: No, not high fee, I'm thinking about like Nipsey Bench Boys,

1881
01:26:29,320 --> 01:26:30,120
Speaker 2: your Last.

1882
01:26:29,920 --> 01:26:30,880
Speaker 1: Given seventy three.

1883
01:26:31,000 --> 01:26:33,160
Speaker 2: When you think about like old school like ice Cube

1884
01:26:33,200 --> 01:26:35,559
Speaker 2: and Easy E Records, what would you categorize that? As

1885
01:26:35,640 --> 01:26:37,200
Speaker 2: I would say, like gangster music?

1886
01:26:38,160 --> 01:26:38,880
Speaker 1: What else do you call it?

1887
01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:43,400
Speaker 2: What would you categorize Easy ice Cube, NWA, Doctor Dre music,

1888
01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:46,000
Speaker 2: gangs of music, right, niggas with attitude?

1889
01:26:46,120 --> 01:26:47,759
Speaker 1: Okay, gangster music?

1890
01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:51,720
Speaker 2: So I say all that to say, there's different genres

1891
01:26:51,840 --> 01:26:54,360
Speaker 2: and hip hop, just like there are with country music.

1892
01:26:54,760 --> 01:26:56,800
Speaker 2: And to me, yes, this is a Beyonce album. But

1893
01:26:56,840 --> 01:27:00,360
Speaker 2: if I had to categorize this, it's pop country. You

1894
01:27:00,400 --> 01:27:03,479
Speaker 2: have your deep bluegrass music in country, Okay, that's not

1895
01:27:03,560 --> 01:27:06,519
Speaker 2: what this is. So if you're looking for that bluegrass sound,

1896
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:09,519
Speaker 2: that's not what Beyonce was giving y'all. Okay, So I

1897
01:27:09,560 --> 01:27:11,639
Speaker 2: feel like she did an amazing job.

1898
01:27:11,760 --> 01:27:12,719
Speaker 1: She did her research.

1899
01:27:12,760 --> 01:27:14,760
Speaker 2: This is not something that she just woke up and

1900
01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:15,759
Speaker 2: decided to do.

1901
01:27:15,840 --> 01:27:18,400
Speaker 1: Y'all have to realize she had legends on this album.

1902
01:27:18,640 --> 01:27:21,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, wille Cmas, the Cmas that had did her dirty.

1903
01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:24,760
Speaker 2: She said she felt so uncomfortable at the CMA. Y'all

1904
01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:27,120
Speaker 2: have to realize that lady left that building with a plan.

1905
01:27:27,720 --> 01:27:31,479
Speaker 2: When she left the building that night, she everything started there.

1906
01:27:31,600 --> 01:27:33,639
Speaker 1: I mean, but she has again. She has so many

1907
01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:34,639
Speaker 1: legends on the album.

1908
01:27:34,720 --> 01:27:38,040
Speaker 5: Like she had Willie Neilsen, she had Elena Martell, she

1909
01:27:38,080 --> 01:27:41,120
Speaker 5: had Dolly parton Yeah crazy.

1910
01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:44,200
Speaker 1: I mean, like, stop playing on bus.

1911
01:27:43,960 --> 01:27:47,200
Speaker 2: And stop playing with Molly Cyrus harkcause people, Molly Cyrus

1912
01:27:47,240 --> 01:27:48,719
Speaker 2: is a legend in her own right too. I would

1913
01:27:48,760 --> 01:27:52,519
Speaker 2: give that status to Moley. Molly comes from country roots.

1914
01:27:53,600 --> 01:27:56,240
Speaker 2: One of the best covers of Joe Lean in history.

1915
01:27:57,600 --> 01:27:58,439
Speaker 1: Yes, I said it.

1916
01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:01,360
Speaker 2: She had one of the best covers of Joe Len

1917
01:28:01,880 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 2: in history. And Beyonce. Beyonce did Joelene Justice. Y'all were

1918
01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:09,479
Speaker 2: so mad how she rewrote it. I loved it because

1919
01:28:09,479 --> 01:28:11,400
Speaker 2: I feel like I could vibe more with that. I

1920
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:13,400
Speaker 2: could never vibe with big enough. She should not be

1921
01:28:13,479 --> 01:28:17,920
Speaker 2: with my neiggir being like, don't ruin our family, please please, I.

1922
01:28:17,960 --> 01:28:18,759
Speaker 1: Need this nigga.

1923
01:28:19,200 --> 01:28:22,200
Speaker 5: Don't do Dolly like that now. No, I'm not doing

1924
01:28:22,200 --> 01:28:25,200
Speaker 5: her like nothing. I'm just saying the original version, which

1925
01:28:25,240 --> 01:28:27,679
Speaker 5: was a classic, which I did listen to as well.

1926
01:28:27,760 --> 01:28:30,240
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna like act like I never listened to it,

1927
01:28:30,600 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 5: but I vibe I Bang with Beyonce version Bang.

1928
01:28:34,720 --> 01:28:37,160
Speaker 2: You too ghetto for the see. That's why they said

1929
01:28:37,240 --> 01:28:39,040
Speaker 2: keep these mirrors out of here.

1930
01:28:39,800 --> 01:28:46,360
Speaker 5: I Bang, I Bang with Joan Brody on the album

1931
01:28:46,640 --> 01:28:48,639
Speaker 5: she said, I got shooters in our Bang Bang.

1932
01:28:48,840 --> 01:28:53,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, but listen the lyrics to Joline the Beyonce version,

1933
01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:54,639
Speaker 2: he said she will.

1934
01:28:56,080 --> 01:28:58,200
Speaker 5: Want so. He said, I'm warning you don't come for

1935
01:28:58,360 --> 01:29:00,519
Speaker 5: my man. Yeah, don't play with me. You don't play

1936
01:29:00,520 --> 01:29:02,880
Speaker 5: with my nigga. You cannot ruin these family.

1937
01:29:04,160 --> 01:29:05,439
Speaker 1: And he's gonna ride for me.

1938
01:29:05,560 --> 01:29:07,360
Speaker 2: But okay, can I say something before we move on?

1939
01:29:07,840 --> 01:29:11,200
Speaker 2: Beyonce said, there's a thousand girls in every room that

1940
01:29:11,360 --> 01:29:13,360
Speaker 2: act as desperate as you do.

1941
01:29:13,560 --> 01:29:16,479
Speaker 5: You're a bird gonna sing your song. You know what's crazy.

1942
01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:19,040
Speaker 2: People were really mad at that line because they were like,

1943
01:29:19,080 --> 01:29:22,280
Speaker 2: nobody wants jay Z. Beyonce, you're delusional. Is rapping about

1944
01:29:22,320 --> 01:29:25,520
Speaker 2: your man? Let me nobody want a billionaire yours?

1945
01:29:25,560 --> 01:29:27,479
Speaker 1: You alls are crazy.

1946
01:29:28,760 --> 01:29:31,560
Speaker 2: If jay Z divorced Beyonce today.

1947
01:29:31,400 --> 01:29:35,320
Speaker 1: And he's slitting your dms, y'all going so stop.

1948
01:29:35,040 --> 01:29:37,240
Speaker 2: Getting on the Internet and acting like Beyonce is delusional

1949
01:29:37,280 --> 01:29:39,519
Speaker 2: when she be in these rooms, and there's probably been

1950
01:29:39,600 --> 01:29:42,920
Speaker 2: hell of women who have disrespected her in front of him,

1951
01:29:43,000 --> 01:29:45,920
Speaker 2: just hoping that they can get a sliver of his time.

1952
01:29:46,439 --> 01:29:49,200
Speaker 2: She's riding from her experience. So y'all be trying to

1953
01:29:49,200 --> 01:29:51,680
Speaker 2: be like, oh, Beyonce, you're a delusional No, she's not.

1954
01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:53,440
Speaker 1: She's speaking from experience.

1955
01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:55,920
Speaker 5: I don't even be caring. I want to be a

1956
01:29:55,960 --> 01:29:57,160
Speaker 5: delusional billionaire.

1957
01:29:57,280 --> 01:29:57,920
Speaker 1: I can't wait.

1958
01:29:58,800 --> 01:30:02,679
Speaker 5: Okay, So, so Cowboy Catter is a hit.

1959
01:30:02,760 --> 01:30:04,960
Speaker 2: I hope she does go on tour. Speaking of tours,

1960
01:30:04,960 --> 01:30:07,719
Speaker 2: I got my tickets to the meg Tour this summer.

1961
01:30:07,760 --> 01:30:08,439
Speaker 2: I'm excited.

1962
01:30:09,520 --> 01:30:12,160
Speaker 5: I'm excited too, but shooting, give me, I can only

1963
01:30:12,160 --> 01:30:15,679
Speaker 5: get two. Amy's my birthday, girl.

1964
01:30:15,800 --> 01:30:18,519
Speaker 2: That concert is in July. That's not your birthday, bitch.

1965
01:30:19,400 --> 01:30:21,760
Speaker 5: I'm saying it was close to my birthday. When you

1966
01:30:21,760 --> 01:30:22,880
Speaker 5: bought the tiki, I had to.

1967
01:30:22,800 --> 01:30:26,519
Speaker 1: Get a ticket for my sister. You just got I couldn't.

1968
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:27,880
Speaker 1: They had two left.

1969
01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:32,160
Speaker 5: I had the refresh the cashta what's it called the

1970
01:30:32,240 --> 01:30:34,280
Speaker 5: cashta cash?

1971
01:30:34,960 --> 01:30:37,080
Speaker 1: Y'all know what the hell I'm talking about. I had

1972
01:30:37,080 --> 01:30:40,320
Speaker 1: to pick once one got a bike. I love jazz though,

1973
01:30:40,400 --> 01:30:41,400
Speaker 1: so it's fine.

1974
01:30:41,320 --> 01:30:44,040
Speaker 2: Okay, So anyways, I'm gonna make a show. But anyways,

1975
01:30:44,080 --> 01:30:47,719
Speaker 2: my bop of the week. I love to see new

1976
01:30:47,880 --> 01:30:50,640
Speaker 2: emerging artists just do the big one. Y'all know. I

1977
01:30:50,680 --> 01:30:53,680
Speaker 2: usually shout out like smaller artists and indie artists, but

1978
01:30:53,680 --> 01:30:55,160
Speaker 2: I had to shout out a big artist this week

1979
01:30:55,160 --> 01:30:56,280
Speaker 2: that has just been doing her thing.

1980
01:30:56,560 --> 01:30:57,639
Speaker 1: Her team is amazing.

1981
01:30:57,840 --> 01:31:01,120
Speaker 2: And I always say, there's so many talented people out there,

1982
01:31:01,160 --> 01:31:03,200
Speaker 2: but you're only gonna go as far as how good

1983
01:31:03,240 --> 01:31:04,000
Speaker 2: your team is.

1984
01:31:05,960 --> 01:31:10,439
Speaker 1: Tyler she her album Solid it Is.

1985
01:31:10,520 --> 01:31:17,839
Speaker 2: I agree Solid is talented, and I was pleasantly surprised

1986
01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:18,880
Speaker 2: because I'm not gonna what was the part?

1987
01:31:19,000 --> 01:31:20,280
Speaker 1: Maybe is what I thought.

1988
01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:21,599
Speaker 2: It was like, Oh, this is a cute little bob,

1989
01:31:21,640 --> 01:31:24,360
Speaker 2: but it was given like a TikTok viral moment. I'm

1990
01:31:24,360 --> 01:31:26,680
Speaker 2: not big on the TikTok trends, y'all know. Auntie, Oh,

1991
01:31:26,840 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 2: I want to hear some I want to hear something.

1992
01:31:29,760 --> 01:31:32,479
Speaker 2: When she dropped that album and I heard that song

1993
01:31:32,720 --> 01:31:36,600
Speaker 2: art that and it's still going viral on TikTok. But

1994
01:31:36,800 --> 01:31:40,040
Speaker 2: outside of it going viral on TikTok, the lyrics I

1995
01:31:40,080 --> 01:31:41,680
Speaker 2: don't know who wrote that song. I don't know if

1996
01:31:41,680 --> 01:31:43,679
Speaker 2: it was her somebody else. I didn't do my research

1997
01:31:43,720 --> 01:31:46,839
Speaker 2: on it. That is a beautiful song. It is beautifully written.

1998
01:31:47,240 --> 01:31:49,720
Speaker 2: And I'm not gonna lie. I see some longevity for her,

1999
01:31:50,040 --> 01:31:54,160
Speaker 2: I really do. She's beautiful, she can dance, she can

2000
01:31:54,200 --> 01:31:55,000
Speaker 2: hold a note.

2001
01:31:55,280 --> 01:31:58,280
Speaker 1: I'm rooting for Tyler. They said they feel like she's

2002
01:31:58,320 --> 01:31:59,400
Speaker 1: the new Adrianna.

2003
01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:02,160
Speaker 2: I do think the route that they're taking, how they're

2004
01:32:02,160 --> 01:32:04,760
Speaker 2: trying to market Hercause y'all gotta remember Rihanna in her

2005
01:32:04,840 --> 01:32:08,400
Speaker 2: early days, she was making the the the what's the

2006
01:32:08,479 --> 01:32:11,640
Speaker 2: called music, the Caribbean type music.

2007
01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:14,200
Speaker 1: She was she was making if it's loving at your

2008
01:32:14,240 --> 01:32:19,240
Speaker 1: own and usually meet come miss the DJ somebody. Yeah,

2009
01:32:19,400 --> 01:32:20,960
Speaker 1: Like that's the kind of music she was making.

2010
01:32:21,439 --> 01:32:23,599
Speaker 2: So I don't, we don't, I mean, we can't say

2011
01:32:23,640 --> 01:32:25,559
Speaker 2: what type of music she's gonna make ten years.

2012
01:32:25,400 --> 01:32:35,880
Speaker 1: From sleeping her heart. Please miss the DJ. Tell me

2013
01:32:36,000 --> 01:32:40,920
Speaker 1: if you're hear the music right now.

2014
01:32:41,720 --> 01:32:46,000
Speaker 5: She was like this, they goes one mail, it goes

2015
01:32:46,080 --> 01:32:48,880
Speaker 5: one bottle, one in two by two girl, everybody on

2016
01:32:48,960 --> 01:32:50,680
Speaker 5: the dance floor, apparently.

2017
01:32:50,400 --> 01:32:52,840
Speaker 2: Let's go below and they gonna bring it up slow.

2018
01:32:53,479 --> 01:32:57,120
Speaker 2: That was a good tune. But yeah, but I'm not

2019
01:32:57,160 --> 01:32:59,160
Speaker 2: gonna lie. I'm rooting for Tyler. I think the way

2020
01:32:59,200 --> 01:33:02,240
Speaker 2: they're marketing her, it makes sense how people are comparing

2021
01:33:02,280 --> 01:33:04,400
Speaker 2: the two careers, so I think so. So I'm excited

2022
01:33:04,400 --> 01:33:06,439
Speaker 2: to see where she goes. I think she's a good artist.

2023
01:33:07,200 --> 01:33:09,679
Speaker 2: I like her album too, It's a solid album. Yeah,

2024
01:33:09,680 --> 01:33:10,320
Speaker 2: I listened to it.

2025
01:33:10,680 --> 01:33:11,040
Speaker 1: I haven't.

2026
01:33:11,080 --> 01:33:13,600
Speaker 2: I listened to it like twice. So that was one

2027
01:33:13,640 --> 01:33:15,560
Speaker 2: of the songs that caught my ear. But I'm a

2028
01:33:15,800 --> 01:33:17,200
Speaker 2: you know, listen to it some more and see what

2029
01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:19,519
Speaker 2: grows on me. Okay, So now it's time to get

2030
01:33:19,560 --> 01:33:21,799
Speaker 2: into the item of the week. So for the item

2031
01:33:21,920 --> 01:33:24,880
Speaker 2: of the week, I wanted to talk about my hair

2032
01:33:26,800 --> 01:33:29,960
Speaker 2: because I have some braids and we actually just started

2033
01:33:30,000 --> 01:33:33,320
Speaker 2: working with a new hair company called Crowns of Love,

2034
01:33:34,520 --> 01:33:39,640
Speaker 2: and so basically the company's like mission statement. They are

2035
01:33:39,720 --> 01:33:44,000
Speaker 2: basically a company where they donate wigs and hair.

2036
01:33:44,400 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 5: To women who have cancer, women who have alopecia, women

2037
01:33:48,160 --> 01:33:50,920
Speaker 5: who have suffered from hair loss, like they normally donate hair.

2038
01:33:51,320 --> 01:33:54,320
Speaker 5: And she's actually about to start her own company where

2039
01:33:54,320 --> 01:33:56,360
Speaker 5: she actually sells the hair, but a portion of the

2040
01:33:56,439 --> 01:33:59,600
Speaker 5: profits will go towards the non profit organization.

2041
01:34:00,360 --> 01:34:02,479
Speaker 1: So I have the hair in right now. This is

2042
01:34:02,520 --> 01:34:03,479
Speaker 1: the body Wave hair.

2043
01:34:03,720 --> 01:34:06,000
Speaker 5: It's so pretty too, and it's three bundles that I

2044
01:34:06,080 --> 01:34:08,600
Speaker 5: also got, Like one of the bundles dyed blunt. I

2045
01:34:08,600 --> 01:34:09,960
Speaker 5: don't know if y'all can kind of see like my

2046
01:34:10,000 --> 01:34:12,760
Speaker 5: little highlights sets in my braids, but I got one

2047
01:34:12,760 --> 01:34:16,040
Speaker 5: of the bundles died blunt. It highlighted, I mean, it

2048
01:34:16,160 --> 01:34:19,040
Speaker 5: died really well, and it also kept the texture. So

2049
01:34:19,120 --> 01:34:21,120
Speaker 5: this is like some really good hair. I've been getting

2050
01:34:21,240 --> 01:34:23,960
Speaker 5: so many compliments on this hair, and so Lex and

2051
01:34:24,000 --> 01:34:25,920
Speaker 5: I are actually gonna be working with this company now

2052
01:34:26,160 --> 01:34:29,120
Speaker 5: and she's going to launch I think the website on

2053
01:34:29,280 --> 01:34:33,000
Speaker 5: April twenty fourth, so it'll be a few days after

2054
01:34:33,320 --> 01:34:35,519
Speaker 5: these WIBs, I mean after this episode drops.

2055
01:34:35,720 --> 01:34:38,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we'll update the bio and put that. So

2056
01:34:38,439 --> 01:34:41,000
Speaker 2: I feel like this black when we're already buying hair.

2057
01:34:41,280 --> 01:34:43,799
Speaker 2: You already buy hair, so why not buy good quality

2058
01:34:44,760 --> 01:34:46,960
Speaker 2: for a cause? Like I don't know, I just feel

2059
01:34:47,040 --> 01:34:50,240
Speaker 2: like sometimes you can't give back like you want to.

2060
01:34:50,360 --> 01:34:52,439
Speaker 2: But it's like, if you're gonna buy something, buy something

2061
01:34:52,479 --> 01:34:55,439
Speaker 2: that has you know, some something tied to.

2062
01:34:55,560 --> 01:34:56,920
Speaker 1: It that's doing good for people.

2063
01:34:56,960 --> 01:34:59,000
Speaker 5: If you gotta spend five hundred dollars on some hair

2064
01:34:59,520 --> 01:35:02,360
Speaker 5: either way, why not see five hundred dollars in one

2065
01:35:02,400 --> 01:35:04,040
Speaker 5: hundred and fifty of it or one hundred of it

2066
01:35:04,160 --> 01:35:07,759
Speaker 5: goes Swim non profit organization that's gonna help other women

2067
01:35:08,080 --> 01:35:11,120
Speaker 5: who have cancer, who have alopecia, who are suffering from

2068
01:35:11,160 --> 01:35:13,800
Speaker 5: hair loss, and can help make them more confident and

2069
01:35:13,880 --> 01:35:16,439
Speaker 5: feel secure in themselves. Because I feel like, as a

2070
01:35:16,479 --> 01:35:20,120
Speaker 5: black woman, like our hair is like we're really around, Yeah,

2071
01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:23,000
Speaker 5: it really is. So I think that we should all

2072
01:35:23,200 --> 01:35:27,120
Speaker 5: have the opportunity and you know, to just feel good

2073
01:35:27,160 --> 01:35:28,080
Speaker 5: and look good in our hair.

2074
01:35:28,479 --> 01:35:28,720
Speaker 1: Y'all know.

2075
01:35:28,800 --> 01:35:30,439
Speaker 2: I'll talk about how my old we's used to look

2076
01:35:30,479 --> 01:35:33,080
Speaker 2: all the time and there was a struggle for me.

2077
01:35:33,880 --> 01:35:36,479
Speaker 1: We don't have I have one. If y'all ever need

2078
01:35:36,600 --> 01:35:40,080
Speaker 1: refree Okay, they don't need reference. Now, they don't need

2079
01:35:40,120 --> 01:35:42,200
Speaker 1: that reference. If they have any works for why they

2080
01:35:42,240 --> 01:35:45,160
Speaker 1: should buy Crowns a little bit. Yeah, so shout out

2081
01:35:45,160 --> 01:35:47,800
Speaker 1: to Crowns alone. We're gonna put their Instagram below so

2082
01:35:47,920 --> 01:35:49,519
Speaker 1: y'all can follow them and go get their hair.

2083
01:35:57,200 --> 01:35:59,639
Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into our favorite segment

2084
01:35:59,680 --> 01:36:02,080
Speaker 2: of the We make sure y'all. Email us at Pour

2085
01:36:02,160 --> 01:36:06,439
Speaker 2: your Heart Out at Wait, Ask Wait, ask poor Minds

2086
01:36:07,120 --> 01:36:09,519
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com. Sorry, so yes, email us at

2087
01:36:09,560 --> 01:36:12,400
Speaker 2: askfour Minds at gmail dot com. Get your question answered

2088
01:36:12,400 --> 01:36:14,080
Speaker 2: on the show. If you're a Patrearon member, make sure

2089
01:36:14,080 --> 01:36:16,200
Speaker 2: you put that in the headline and send us an email.

2090
01:36:16,240 --> 01:36:21,920
Speaker 2: You get to skip the line. Okay, thanks sad, Thank you, sad. Okay,

2091
01:36:22,120 --> 01:36:23,400
Speaker 2: So you got a question number one?

2092
01:36:23,479 --> 01:36:24,160
Speaker 6: Or do I you do?

2093
01:36:24,360 --> 01:36:24,639
Speaker 1: Okay?

2094
01:36:25,200 --> 01:36:28,880
Speaker 2: Question number one? Hi, I love y'all so far. I'm

2095
01:36:28,920 --> 01:36:31,600
Speaker 2: a new listener. Oh, I love new listeners. It's so

2096
01:36:31,760 --> 01:36:33,439
Speaker 2: weird that we've been doing this this long and people

2097
01:36:33,439 --> 01:36:35,040
Speaker 2: are still just now getting to know us.

2098
01:36:35,320 --> 01:36:39,000
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. Okay, Hi, I love y'all so far. I'm

2099
01:36:39,000 --> 01:36:40,000
Speaker 1: a new listener. Question.

2100
01:36:40,160 --> 01:36:42,519
Speaker 2: I've been dating my man for six years now, Still

2101
01:36:42,600 --> 01:36:45,320
Speaker 2: no proposal or a ring. We talk about the future

2102
01:36:45,520 --> 01:36:48,799
Speaker 2: quite often. It sounds long term. Should I be expecting

2103
01:36:48,840 --> 01:36:50,840
Speaker 2: a proposal or just be happy the way it is?

2104
01:36:51,200 --> 01:36:53,759
Speaker 2: We live together, pay bills together, and he is faithful

2105
01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:56,640
Speaker 2: as am I. We've been on three trips out the

2106
01:36:56,680 --> 01:36:59,280
Speaker 2: country together. I have two kids and he is a

2107
01:36:59,360 --> 01:37:02,160
Speaker 2: full time that father, but my kids only know him

2108
01:37:02,200 --> 01:37:02,639
Speaker 2: as dad.

2109
01:37:02,960 --> 01:37:04,040
Speaker 1: Thanks. PS.

2110
01:37:04,200 --> 01:37:07,240
Speaker 2: I have a new found love and respect for Loyati.

2111
01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:09,559
Speaker 2: He is very down to earth. Shout out to Loyati.

2112
01:37:09,840 --> 01:37:10,360
Speaker 1: I think this.

2113
01:37:10,760 --> 01:37:13,320
Speaker 2: I'll say this because I've been in this situation when

2114
01:37:13,360 --> 01:37:15,880
Speaker 2: I was When I was young, my mother was in

2115
01:37:15,960 --> 01:37:17,240
Speaker 2: a relationship with the guy.

2116
01:37:17,840 --> 01:37:18,800
Speaker 1: She had two kids.

2117
01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:22,080
Speaker 2: They had been together for years, and he did propose

2118
01:37:22,160 --> 01:37:23,920
Speaker 2: to her, but they never got married.

2119
01:37:24,080 --> 01:37:25,680
Speaker 1: I don't know for what I mean, I was a

2120
01:37:25,760 --> 01:37:26,760
Speaker 1: small child. I don't know.

2121
01:37:26,840 --> 01:37:30,400
Speaker 2: I've seen this happen a lot because my exe was

2122
01:37:30,479 --> 01:37:34,320
Speaker 2: kind of in a situation like that. And I'll say this,

2123
01:37:34,520 --> 01:37:37,040
Speaker 2: if marriage is what you want, what you want, you

2124
01:37:37,360 --> 01:37:41,000
Speaker 2: have to understand do mean this person aligning on these views,

2125
01:37:41,800 --> 01:37:45,800
Speaker 2: because sometimes that may not be her prince charming. Now,

2126
01:37:45,840 --> 01:37:47,960
Speaker 2: I'm not saying to leave, but this needs to be

2127
01:37:48,040 --> 01:37:49,960
Speaker 2: a sit down conversation that you need to have with

2128
01:37:50,080 --> 01:37:52,600
Speaker 2: your partner. Hey, you know what, we've been together for

2129
01:37:52,680 --> 01:37:55,160
Speaker 2: six years, we lived together. Why are we not married?

2130
01:37:55,600 --> 01:37:59,200
Speaker 2: Understand his reasoning. A conversation needs to happen. But I

2131
01:37:59,280 --> 01:38:02,920
Speaker 2: will say when my mom left her situation, it was

2132
01:38:03,000 --> 01:38:04,920
Speaker 2: kind of like things got better in the household.

2133
01:38:05,560 --> 01:38:06,360
Speaker 1: I didn't know.

2134
01:38:07,000 --> 01:38:09,040
Speaker 2: Because I was a child, but I didn't know how

2135
01:38:09,160 --> 01:38:12,200
Speaker 2: sad and struggling my mom was in that situation until

2136
01:38:12,200 --> 01:38:14,760
Speaker 2: I saw after he left how happy and enjoyable my

2137
01:38:14,840 --> 01:38:15,320
Speaker 2: mom got.

2138
01:38:15,400 --> 01:38:15,920
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

2139
01:38:16,560 --> 01:38:19,439
Speaker 2: So I think that you need to have a serious

2140
01:38:19,479 --> 01:38:22,320
Speaker 2: sit down conversation with your man and try to understand

2141
01:38:22,520 --> 01:38:24,840
Speaker 2: why y'all aren't married. Because if y'all are living together,

2142
01:38:25,200 --> 01:38:29,400
Speaker 2: he's a stepfather, y'all paying bills, y'all faithful, it's common

2143
01:38:29,479 --> 01:38:33,240
Speaker 2: law marriage at this point, so what's the issue. And

2144
01:38:33,360 --> 01:38:36,240
Speaker 2: now I just think being with somebody for six years

2145
01:38:36,320 --> 01:38:41,840
Speaker 2: these nights, that doesn't mean that y'all necessarily should be

2146
01:38:41,960 --> 01:38:44,519
Speaker 2: moving towards a proposal if he haven't made you feel

2147
01:38:44,640 --> 01:38:46,000
Speaker 2: like that's where he's trying to head.

2148
01:38:46,120 --> 01:38:47,560
Speaker 1: Like, have y'all had the conversation?

2149
01:38:48,000 --> 01:38:50,759
Speaker 2: Well, yes, she said that we talk about the future

2150
01:38:50,880 --> 01:38:54,160
Speaker 2: often and they lived together, and like six years not

2151
01:38:54,320 --> 01:38:56,920
Speaker 2: living together, no kids involved, is very different with six

2152
01:38:57,040 --> 01:38:59,599
Speaker 2: years y'all living together and creating a home together.

2153
01:39:00,080 --> 01:39:02,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, but talking about the future is like, to me,

2154
01:39:02,479 --> 01:39:05,519
Speaker 5: very open ended, like are we talking about being together?

2155
01:39:05,920 --> 01:39:08,920
Speaker 5: Like okay, yeah, we can see each other staying with

2156
01:39:09,080 --> 01:39:12,439
Speaker 5: each other, we can see ourselves like living together, having

2157
01:39:12,560 --> 01:39:15,800
Speaker 5: more children, or are you talking about marriage. That's why

2158
01:39:15,800 --> 01:39:18,400
Speaker 5: are you talking about a proposal? Because just because you've

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Speaker 5: been with somebody for six years does not mean that

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Speaker 5: you should automatically assume like, oh, we're gonna get married.

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Speaker 1: He gonna propose to me.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I just don't like, why live

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Speaker 2: with somebody if that's not the plan? Though, if that's

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Speaker 2: not the.

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Speaker 1: Plan, I mean, but you can't say that because people

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Speaker 1: do that all the time.

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Speaker 5: People live together for ten years, fifteen years, and then

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Speaker 5: they finally decide one day after all that time, we're

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Speaker 5: gonna get married. It's different strokes for different folks. But

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Speaker 5: I'm saying, like, I think that people who want the

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Speaker 5: same things should be together and it should be aligned

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Speaker 5: with one another. If you want marriage and marriage is

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Speaker 5: important to you, for a proposal, it's important to you,

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Speaker 5: then you need to make sure that y'all are on

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Speaker 5: the same page.

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Speaker 1: Because six years being.

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Speaker 5: With somebody and y'all doing all of these marriage things

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Speaker 5: and relationship things like even with you bringing up going

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Speaker 5: out the country together, what does that mean?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think she's just talking about like the

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Speaker 2: things that they've done, because maybe he didn't do that

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Speaker 2: with other people, or maybe that's just like they've had

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Speaker 2: a journey together.

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Speaker 1: I think that's what more she was touching on. But

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Speaker 1: either way, I agree.

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Speaker 5: I disagreeing with that, But I just when I think

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Speaker 5: about commitment, like, I don't think that some of these

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Speaker 5: things mean anything when it comes to commitment until you

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Speaker 5: have a conversation with a person and they like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I want commitment, right, Like, that's the conversation that needs

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Speaker 5: to be had.

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Speaker 1: I want these, you want these. We both want the

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Speaker 1: same thing.

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Speaker 5: All of the trips, all of the y'all living together,

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Speaker 5: all of that stuff doesn't really matter if y'all don't

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Speaker 5: ultimately want the same thing, which is commitment, a partnership, a.

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Speaker 1: Marriage, a legally binding relationship.

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Speaker 2: Right Because, like you said, going back to what you

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Speaker 2: said about the ten fifteen years, a lot of times

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01:40:55,240 --> 01:40:57,679
Speaker 2: people are together ten fifteen years and they finally get married.

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Speaker 2: But that's probably something that they agreed on they were

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Speaker 2: both okay with.

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Speaker 5: Maybe I make a lot of the time after people

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01:41:03,439 --> 01:41:08,280
Speaker 5: have gotten out of long term marriages divorce, they realized

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Speaker 5: I don't want to get married again.

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Speaker 1: I just I love this person.

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Speaker 5: I want to live my life with them, but I

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01:41:13,760 --> 01:41:17,040
Speaker 5: don't feel like I need the legal papers. I don't

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Speaker 5: feel like I need it to be a marriage for

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Speaker 5: me to feel like he's real. You feel real enough

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Speaker 5: for me, and I've already done that because divorces get missy,

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01:41:25,920 --> 01:41:27,679
Speaker 5: so a lot of people just choose to not even

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Speaker 5: go through that again.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, you need to find out if marriage is

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Speaker 1: something that he even wants to do at all.

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Speaker 5: Right, Okay, I'm gonna try this again because that must

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Speaker 5: have forgot My first question was weg I started watching

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01:41:38,760 --> 01:41:41,000
Speaker 5: y'all heavy last year after my ex d some shit

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01:41:41,040 --> 01:41:42,360
Speaker 5: that pushed me away completely.

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Speaker 1: Y'all really have been a major part of my healing journey.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all.

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Speaker 5: I have been in therapy for a while, which also helps,

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01:41:49,439 --> 01:41:52,200
Speaker 5: but recently I've been really struggling. I feel like I've

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01:41:52,240 --> 01:41:54,639
Speaker 5: lost the love of my life and my best friend.

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01:41:54,840 --> 01:41:58,240
Speaker 5: I cry all the time. I tried dating, but nothing least.

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Speaker 5: It's been almost six months since we've talked, and she

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01:42:01,000 --> 01:42:04,640
Speaker 5: has another girlfriend, which I know is a rebound. I

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01:42:04,760 --> 01:42:06,760
Speaker 5: tell myself, if it's meant to be, it'll be, and

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01:42:06,840 --> 01:42:09,559
Speaker 5: I have tried to let go. I've blocked her on everything,

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01:42:09,640 --> 01:42:12,720
Speaker 5: and she continued watching my story from multiple pages and

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01:42:12,800 --> 01:42:16,720
Speaker 5: even though she's in a relationship quote unquote, Anyways, this

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01:42:16,920 --> 01:42:19,519
Speaker 5: is long, but I'm looking for advice y'all might have.

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Speaker 2: This goes exactly to what we were saying earlier. If

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01:42:23,040 --> 01:42:26,680
Speaker 2: it's not a hell yes, it's a no, y'all be like, oh,

2235
01:42:26,760 --> 01:42:30,040
Speaker 2: they watched my story. Oh she has a new girlfriend.

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01:42:30,080 --> 01:42:31,200
Speaker 2: But I know it's a rebound.

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01:42:31,280 --> 01:42:31,920
Speaker 1: No, you don't know that.

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01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:35,080
Speaker 2: Just because somebody watch your story, that doesn't mean anything.

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01:42:35,720 --> 01:42:38,960
Speaker 2: Sometimes people are so manipulative. They'll watch your story because

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Speaker 2: they know you gonna see it, and they want you

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01:42:40,640 --> 01:42:42,640
Speaker 2: to feel how you're feeling. They want you to be

2242
01:42:42,760 --> 01:42:45,600
Speaker 2: deep in thought, like, oh my god, they watched my story. So,

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01:42:46,800 --> 01:42:48,439
Speaker 2: like we said, if it's not a hell yes, it's

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01:42:48,479 --> 01:42:52,240
Speaker 2: a no, this is not your person. Like if they

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01:42:52,320 --> 01:42:54,120
Speaker 2: want to come get you, and like you said, whatever

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01:42:54,280 --> 01:42:56,080
Speaker 2: is meant to be, it'll be. So if y'all are

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01:42:56,080 --> 01:42:58,040
Speaker 2: meant to be together down the line, maybe that'll be.

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01:42:58,160 --> 01:43:00,920
Speaker 2: But for right now, focus on yourself. Focus on your

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01:43:00,960 --> 01:43:04,360
Speaker 2: own self growth. You said you're in therapy, you know,

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Speaker 2: maybe you're not ready to date. I think a lot

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01:43:06,720 --> 01:43:09,400
Speaker 2: of times people look at oh I'm going through a breakup,

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01:43:09,479 --> 01:43:11,800
Speaker 2: I need to date. That's not the solution all the time.

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01:43:12,479 --> 01:43:15,160
Speaker 2: You need to work on yourself. You're not ready to date,

2254
01:43:15,240 --> 01:43:18,360
Speaker 2: and that's okay. Getting over a breakup does not mean

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Speaker 2: getting a new person. So I think that maybe if

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Speaker 2: you just take your time focus on yourself, you know,

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01:43:24,880 --> 01:43:27,600
Speaker 2: focus on work, some hobbies, things like.

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01:43:27,680 --> 01:43:30,960
Speaker 1: That, you can actually do the healing that you need

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01:43:31,040 --> 01:43:38,720
Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, you don't have no advice for no

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01:43:38,880 --> 01:43:45,679
Speaker 1: advice really okay, that's fine.

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Speaker 2: Well, like I said, by the time y'all watch this,

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01:43:48,640 --> 01:43:53,240
Speaker 2: we're gonna be in turks turned up. So y'all make

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01:43:53,280 --> 01:43:55,479
Speaker 2: sure y'all drop some content, I mean some comments on

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01:43:55,479 --> 01:43:56,080
Speaker 2: what comment?

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Speaker 5: Let me say scale I'll be feeling bad and sometimes

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01:44:00,560 --> 01:44:02,519
Speaker 5: I don't really be knowing what to say because sometimes

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01:44:02,560 --> 01:44:04,080
Speaker 5: I just feel like feeling like the.

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Speaker 1: Writings be on the wall.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, like I said, that goes into what

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01:44:07,560 --> 01:44:09,840
Speaker 2: we were talking about earlier. It's all hell, yes, it's

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Speaker 2: a no.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So like sometimes I just don't really know what to say,

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01:44:13,240 --> 01:44:15,000
Speaker 5: and I be feeling like you did a good job

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01:44:15,080 --> 01:44:19,160
Speaker 5: of slumming it up because the writings be on the wall.

2276
01:44:19,280 --> 01:44:22,160
Speaker 5: Like sometimes y'all just gotta let people go and there's

2277
01:44:22,160 --> 01:44:28,320
Speaker 5: another and you, and if you be patient and diligent,

2278
01:44:28,439 --> 01:44:31,280
Speaker 5: you're gonna find something better. But y'all be asking us

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01:44:31,360 --> 01:44:35,479
Speaker 5: question sometimes and I'll be like, girls, he's showing you

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01:44:36,920 --> 01:44:39,960
Speaker 5: or she she yeah, she showing you.

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01:44:40,200 --> 01:44:44,560
Speaker 2: So y'all make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe,

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01:44:44,840 --> 01:44:46,680
Speaker 2: follow all that good stuff. And let me say this

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01:44:46,760 --> 01:44:50,879
Speaker 2: before we close out. Y'all, there is one Twitter account

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01:44:50,920 --> 01:44:52,320
Speaker 2: that is connected to poor Minds.

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01:44:52,360 --> 01:44:52,920
Speaker 1: It's p O.

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Speaker 2: You are underscore in my nds. Y'all are tagging the

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01:44:57,760 --> 01:45:01,000
Speaker 2: wrong poor Minds page. If you see at poor minds

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01:45:01,040 --> 01:45:03,160
Speaker 2: with no underscore, that is at fake page, do not

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01:45:03,280 --> 01:45:07,280
Speaker 2: follow that page. Okay, they blocked me Andrea and the

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01:45:07,360 --> 01:45:10,960
Speaker 2: poor Minds page on both so we only have one Instagram,

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01:45:11,920 --> 01:45:14,360
Speaker 2: one Twitter, one TikTok.

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01:45:14,680 --> 01:45:15,479
Speaker 1: It is p O.

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Speaker 5: You are underscore in my nds, all right, and we

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01:45:18,800 --> 01:45:22,439
Speaker 5: gotta hell a fake Facebook page. The Facebook pages it's

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01:45:22,800 --> 01:45:25,880
Speaker 5: our face. The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually

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01:45:25,960 --> 01:45:27,560
Speaker 5: have the least amount of followers.

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01:45:27,560 --> 01:45:28,840
Speaker 1: So if you're on Facebook, one.

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01:45:28,800 --> 01:45:31,639
Speaker 2: That's hours got the least amount of fible, but one

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Speaker 2: that's not us got like two hundred and fifty thou like,

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01:45:35,240 --> 01:45:37,120
Speaker 2: if you actually look at the content because the caption

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01:45:37,439 --> 01:45:40,080
Speaker 2: is like, whoever it is, don't speak English, because their

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Speaker 2: catches are like, bumba claude?

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Speaker 1: Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 5: Check answer below block block bully folly Like that's literally

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01:45:53,439 --> 01:45:54,160
Speaker 5: what the captions?

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01:45:54,360 --> 01:45:56,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, you want what that DG is? Bumba claude,

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01:45:57,000 --> 01:46:00,400
Speaker 1: Bamba claude video. All right, we'll see y'all the week

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01:46:00,680 --> 01:46:21,080
Speaker 1: my birthday day? What the hell is going on? Cry?

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01:46:21,880 --> 01:46:27,559
Speaker 1: Oh you gotta care? This is what I'll be talking about.

2311
01:46:27,560 --> 01:46:30,000
Speaker 1: What I be saying. I'm getting old, I'm getting emotional.

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01:46:30,160 --> 01:46:34,320
Speaker 1: Please wait, Oh my god, it's the card.

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01:46:34,240 --> 01:46:39,760
Speaker 5: To always about to make a cropper real my my

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01:46:39,920 --> 01:46:41,519
Speaker 5: eyes are literally tearing up.

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01:46:41,920 --> 01:46:43,920
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Thank y'all.

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01:46:44,000 --> 01:46:49,120
Speaker 5: Let me read the card, okay, wishing you a beautiful

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01:46:49,200 --> 01:46:56,719
Speaker 5: day followed by an amazing year. Happy birthday, select said,

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01:46:56,800 --> 01:46:59,120
Speaker 5: thank you for paying my bills. I wouldn't have faded

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01:46:59,200 --> 01:47:01,559
Speaker 5: if it wasn't for you, you, bes friend, I could

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01:47:01,600 --> 01:47:06,599
Speaker 5: ever ask for love you forever written, love, feast and song,

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01:47:06,840 --> 01:47:07,760
Speaker 5: nothing but love for you.

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Speaker 1: Drea Craig. We love you, thank for being you.

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01:47:11,600 --> 01:47:16,560
Speaker 5: Thad love you like Shay Shay Happy glow day to

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01:47:16,680 --> 01:47:19,280
Speaker 5: my earth, signed sister, love you so much. I pray

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01:47:19,360 --> 01:47:21,920
Speaker 5: you enjoyed this next lap around the sun and many

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01:47:22,000 --> 01:47:27,800
Speaker 5: more time of called AKA so many up, wishing you,

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01:47:28,320 --> 01:47:33,400
Speaker 5: wishing you more. Blessing Tavy, Happy birthday. The batties love

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01:47:33,520 --> 01:47:34,360
Speaker 5: you of it.

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Speaker 1: Glasgow. Oh happy boy that I'm about the sweetiest. I

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01:47:45,160 --> 01:47:51,240
Speaker 1: literally I'm gonna take up. Okay, anything else you want

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01:47:51,280 --> 01:47:53,240
Speaker 1: to say? It's your birthday episode. What message you have

2332
01:47:53,320 --> 01:47:56,680
Speaker 1: for our listeners? It's so beautiful? What do you want

2333
01:47:56,680 --> 01:47:56,880
Speaker 1: to say?

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01:47:57,120 --> 01:48:01,280
Speaker 5: Listener? Oh my god, I'm so surprised. I'm not gonna lie. Okay,

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01:48:01,640 --> 01:48:05,559
Speaker 5: Thank y'all so much. I appreciate y'all. I appreciate all

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01:48:05,640 --> 01:48:08,479
Speaker 5: of y'all that are here. We love y'all so much.

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01:48:08,520 --> 01:48:10,519
Speaker 5: We would not be able to do this show without

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01:48:10,760 --> 01:48:13,560
Speaker 5: every single person in this room, Like y'all are what

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01:48:13,800 --> 01:48:16,679
Speaker 5: makes poor minds amazing, Like yes, me and Lyck see

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01:48:16,720 --> 01:48:18,880
Speaker 5: here on the college. But y'all are really with add

2341
01:48:19,080 --> 01:48:21,719
Speaker 5: the extra oomph to everything.

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Speaker 1: So we love y'all.

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01:48:23,479 --> 01:48:25,760
Speaker 5: We appreciate y'all so much. I would not be in

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01:48:25,840 --> 01:48:28,000
Speaker 5: a position that I'm in if it was not for y'all,

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01:48:28,280 --> 01:48:29,960
Speaker 5: And I can't wait to make some more money so

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01:48:30,240 --> 01:48:33,599
Speaker 5: we can give y'all some more money. And thank y'all

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01:48:34,600 --> 01:48:36,080
Speaker 5: to the people that watch.

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01:48:35,960 --> 01:48:37,519
Speaker 1: Us every week period.

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Speaker 5: And I can't wait to taste this cake cause I

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01:48:39,680 --> 01:48:42,760
Speaker 5: love nothing but Kate and I'm free ad.

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Speaker 1: We'll let this slum for y'all. And I love a

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01:48:47,200 --> 01:48:50,640
Speaker 1: bent cookie. Sou cookie is gone. Wait to eat me

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01:48:50,720 --> 01:48:53,599
Speaker 1: a cookie, have a piece of cake. And I'm thirty

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Speaker 1: three perier. She has resin who We'll see y'all next week,

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01:49:01,240 --> 01:49:11,880
Speaker 1: by y'all. Oh, hond on around up a plose? Oh

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01:49:12,040 --> 01:49:24,360
Speaker 1: standing ovation Oh yeah yeah, yeah yeah, m hmm yeah.

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Speaker 11: You look so dumb right now, right now, standing outside

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01:49:33,320 --> 01:49:34,360
Speaker 11: my house.

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01:49:36,960 --> 01:49:43,120
Speaker 1: Trying to apologize. You're so ugly, wear you crab. Please

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01:49:44,120 --> 01:49:45,639
Speaker 1: just cut it out.

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Speaker 11: Don't tell me you're sorry cause you night. Maybe when

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01:49:54,360 --> 01:50:01,280
Speaker 11: I know you're only sorry, I call you put quite

2363
01:50:01,320 --> 01:50:06,760
Speaker 11: a show, you know, really had me going. Now it's

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01:50:07,000 --> 01:50:11,360
Speaker 11: time to go. It's finally closing.

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01:50:12,040 --> 01:50:20,720
Speaker 1: That was quite a show, very entertaining, Bud. It's over now,

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01:50:21,600 --> 01:50:30,880
Speaker 1: mod is over? You going take about? Oh, grab your

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01:50:31,080 --> 01:50:33,920
Speaker 1: clothes and get go, get going.

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01:50:34,160 --> 01:50:38,120
Speaker 5: You better hurry up before the speakers come on.

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Speaker 1: Come on talking about girl. I love you, you're the one.

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Speaker 1: This just looks like a rewrilease what else is on?

2371
01:50:51,640 --> 01:50:51,800
Speaker 6: Nah?

2372
01:50:52,680 --> 01:50:56,080
Speaker 11: And don't tell me sorry cushion n.

2373
01:50:58,120 --> 01:51:00,040
Speaker 1: Baby when I know your own.

2374
01:51:00,400 --> 01:51:05,640
Speaker 4: Sorry you got car, but you boodle r.

2375
01:51:06,160 --> 01:51:12,160
Speaker 1: Show really had me going. Now it's time to go.

2376
01:51:13,560 --> 01:51:20,200
Speaker 1: Gurney's family closing. That was quite a show. Very in

2377
01:51:20,479 --> 01:51:31,599
Speaker 1: the same Buddy Son, go on and say about.

2378
01:51:34,160 --> 01:51:47,960
Speaker 12: And for the bass, lie go to me Leavy, I'm

2379
01:51:48,080 --> 01:51:53,800
Speaker 12: a do it's a lie. I try traveling.

2380
01:51:53,640 --> 01:52:00,400
Speaker 11: Less, hear y speech, hold a round, Hello.

2381
01:52:04,800 --> 01:52:12,519
Speaker 1: Sally S. But you bo on hot show. You're really

2382
01:52:12,880 --> 01:52:14,000
Speaker 1: hacking me girl.

2383
01:52:15,240 --> 01:52:20,240
Speaker 5: Now I was signing god a Curtis body clothes and

2384
01:52:20,960 --> 01:52:22,599
Speaker 5: that was quite a show.

2385
01:52:23,600 --> 01:52:30,920
Speaker 1: A very in the chain name, Oh why that wan say?

2386
01:52:34,880 --> 01:52:36,880
Speaker 5: This always reminds me of the episode of the Game.

2387
01:52:37,200 --> 01:52:37,599
Speaker 1: Please