WEBVTT - Minisode: Getting Fit with Ben Bruno

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, guys, here are my dates for the High and

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<v Speaker 1>Mighty Tour. In August you can find me in Red Bank,

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<v Speaker 1>New Jersey, Montclair, New Jersey, and Calgary that's Canada. And

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<v Speaker 1>September I will be in Santa Barbara, San Diego, New

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<v Speaker 1>York City, Philly and New Haven, Connecticut. October is Atlanta, Baltimore, Saginaw, Michigan, Pittsburgh, Toronto, Boise,

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<v Speaker 1>Idaho and Spokan. And then in November I'll be in

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<v Speaker 1>San Francisco. I'm coming to Salt Lake City, Austin, Houston,

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<v Speaker 1>Dallas Babies, I'll be there. And then in December I

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<v Speaker 1>am closing out my tour in Denver and Vancouver. So

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<v Speaker 1>get your tickets at Chelseahandler dot com for the High

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<v Speaker 1>and Mighty Tour. Come on up, come on, yes, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>this is it, this is what we're talking about. Oh, Dug,

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<v Speaker 1>can you believe how magical you? I wish our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>could see how beautiful you are? But he just well,

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<v Speaker 1>but he blends in with the sofa. You can't really

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<v Speaker 1>see him, right, He's just a void. You could never

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<v Speaker 1>see this beautiful brown eyes that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have layo white blanket over a beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello Ben Bruno. Hi Ben, We're here to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>Ben's new workout app. How many? What number is this

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<v Speaker 1>of your workout apps? You've done a few before, So

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<v Speaker 1>I have you need a microphone? Dumb ass? Oh, this

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<v Speaker 1>is my personal trainer everyone, Ben Bruno, Ben Bruno Training.

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<v Speaker 1>You can follow him on my Instagram at Ben Bruno Training.

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<v Speaker 3>Ben Bruno Training.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, if I do this train dot com.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>If we have to show you how to use a microphone, world,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my world.

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<v Speaker 2>Does that hang out with you guys when you're working out?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Dog Doug comes with me to the gym. He

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<v Speaker 1>comes with me wherever I go. He knows because he

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<v Speaker 1>sees my bell packing all my medication, so he knows

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<v Speaker 1>him on my way out, That's how he knows. When

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<v Speaker 1>he sees a lot of prescription bottles, he's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's leaving right.

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<v Speaker 3>In the story of when Chun walked down, that will

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<v Speaker 3>share two miles.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a good story.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you remember Chunk?

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<v Speaker 2>I never met Chunk. Chunk was before my time.

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<v Speaker 1>Chunk is the dog that made me a mother.

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<v Speaker 3>When I met Chelsea, she was the mother to Chunk.

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<v Speaker 3>I've trained Chelsea through many different dogs, employees, whatever, and

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<v Speaker 3>also dogs. And the first dog was Chunk. Was that

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<v Speaker 3>your first dog? Period? Famous because it was on your

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<v Speaker 3>show right when I met you. Your show was not

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<v Speaker 3>was done, Chelsea lately was done, but Chunk. So long

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<v Speaker 3>story short. We went to this gym that was an

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<v Speaker 3>underground parking garage and Chelsea and I got to talking

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<v Speaker 3>and Chunk just meandered away at some point. So Chelsea's assistant,

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<v Speaker 3>this is actually a true story. The gym was between

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<v Speaker 3>if anybody knows Beverly Hills, it was in an alley

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<v Speaker 3>between Roxbury and Linden, right off Wilshire, so smack dab

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<v Speaker 3>in Beverly Hills if you don't know Beverly Hills. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know how long goes by, but it must have been.

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<v Speaker 3>Chunk wasn't fast, so it had to be a while.

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<v Speaker 3>His Chunk kind of walks slow. And so we get

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<v Speaker 3>a call from Karen, her assistant, saying, one of your

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<v Speaker 3>fans found Chunk two miles down the road on Wilsher.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not making this up. I'm not putting anything on this.

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<v Speaker 3>Chunk just walked out of the garage and walked two

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<v Speaker 3>miles down Wilshire and was so famous that some random

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<v Speaker 3>person just spotted Chunk, and so Chelsea just I was

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<v Speaker 3>thinking like, oh my god, we got to go get him.

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<v Speaker 3>Chelsea goes, well, I don't want to get him. That's embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 3>You go get him, and just hung up and Karen

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<v Speaker 3>had to go pick up Chunk. I have no clue

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<v Speaker 3>how Chunk lived through that.

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<v Speaker 1>God, what about Chunk was so funny because Chunk was famous.

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<v Speaker 1>So people would stop at stop lights when we were

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<v Speaker 1>on our way to to the studio and they would

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<v Speaker 1>recognize him, and people because his head would be out

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<v Speaker 1>the right and oh, my god, is that Chunk? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that Chunk because he had his bandana and it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of recognizable. And then I'd always be like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>come quickly take a picture if you want, get out

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<v Speaker 1>of the car at the red light. And then one

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<v Speaker 1>day after doing this, like every morning, it would happen

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<v Speaker 1>pretty frequently, right, and then one day Chunk literally a

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<v Speaker 1>woman was coming over to take a picture and Chunk

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<v Speaker 1>just put his paw on the control window controller to

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<v Speaker 1>put the window up. He had was like, fuck this ship,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sick of this.

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<v Speaker 3>And with my family, what was the dog chronology?

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<v Speaker 1>It was Chunk Chunk, and then Tammy, Sammy Gary at

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<v Speaker 1>some point, but Gary.

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<v Speaker 3>Was returned to Sunder.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that was before then I had Hodor, who Molley,

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<v Speaker 1>my cousin.

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<v Speaker 3>Took because and then there was Burton Bernice.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Burton Bernice, and then Doug and then ray

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<v Speaker 1>j short lived. And we're going to get another one

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<v Speaker 1>though there's one in my orca.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, you're bringing it from my I think.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the plans of right now there and we'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember when Bernice tumbled down, that was Tammy. It was Tammy.

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<v Speaker 1>Tammy would follow me. Bernice would never fucking follow me.

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<v Speaker 1>She would hide from me.

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<v Speaker 3>Another funny story that I don't know if translates to words,

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<v Speaker 3>because I think you had to be there. But Chelsea

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<v Speaker 3>used to live on this giant hill. I'm not not exaggerating.

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<v Speaker 3>It was huge and also it down really steep. So

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<v Speaker 3>when Tammy was new and when Chelsea gets dogs, they

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<v Speaker 3>don't look the best. When she first gets him, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know how to say that. She had a good heart,

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<v Speaker 3>but she had very little hair. She had all these

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<v Speaker 3>patches of hair and just looked like a hot mess.

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<v Speaker 3>And so Chelsea and I were gonna go walk to

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<v Speaker 3>play tennis at the bottom of her street, and we

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<v Speaker 3>look up and Tammy had tried to run to meet us,

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<v Speaker 3>but went on the steep part of the hill. So

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not putting anything on this down this giant hill

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<v Speaker 3>and everything, and then just kind of like shook it

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<v Speaker 3>off and walked away.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like this step.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I have no clue how Tammy lived. To tell

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<v Speaker 3>about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I have one caller for us today and I

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<v Speaker 2>have a couple other little questions, but we could just

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<v Speaker 2>keep to one call.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, first we want to talk about his fitness program.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what he's here to promote. We want this for women.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. By the way, this means a lot. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>because I quick backstory on my app, but I started

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<v Speaker 3>it three years ago and then this past week it

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<v Speaker 3>was a third party app service because I'm a tech

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<v Speaker 3>moron and the program I'm proud of it. We have

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<v Speaker 3>twenty five thousand people that do the app. It's a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of people. Wow, which is you know, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>really cool because I, you know, since I've known you,

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<v Speaker 3>I've essentially just seen the same ten clients in person

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<v Speaker 3>every time. So it's been a great way to do

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<v Speaker 3>you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about the other people you trained? Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to mention their names? Or do you not? Would you

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<v Speaker 1>rather not?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's going to just make you sound like

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<v Speaker 3>a douche. Yeah you can, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Justin Timberlake, Jesse Beale, Ben Affleck, Matt Damon, You've trained

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<v Speaker 1>lots of basketball players.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so the interesting thing about that is that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I like about the app is. You know, when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>moved to LA, I didn't have a celebrity training background.

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<v Speaker 3>I trained hockey players in Massachusetts, and then I moved

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<v Speaker 3>here and got connected to you and some other people,

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<v Speaker 3>and celebrity is an interesting thing to me as someone

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<v Speaker 3>who comes from New Hampshire and like doesn't really it's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of funny to me, like you name dropping that

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<v Speaker 3>makes me seem like a starfucker, and really I just

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<v Speaker 3>like watch ESPN all day. But there's a perceived expertise

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<v Speaker 3>that comes from training celebrities, so like, thanks for that.

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<v Speaker 3>But the training is I feel like training is I

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<v Speaker 3>always say it's one of life's equalizers. But the training

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<v Speaker 3>that you do is the exact same training that I

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<v Speaker 3>did with moms back in Massachusetts. Is the same training

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<v Speaker 3>that's on the app, because it's like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>think people think I hate the term celebrity trainer because one,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's just a douchey term, but two,

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<v Speaker 3>I think they there's this connotation like we're doing these

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<v Speaker 3>wild workouts, right and at every point in the eleven

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<v Speaker 3>years we've trained.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is the longest relationship I've ever had with any man.

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<v Speaker 3>Brothers, but think about it, we work out with dumbbells

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<v Speaker 3>and a bench and very you know, basic workouts and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>And the training actors thing is funny to me because again,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm sure there's a lot of fields like this.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure your hair people benefit, your makeup people benefit.

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<v Speaker 3>There just is a perceived expertise with celebrity. But when

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<v Speaker 3>I think of actors, you know, as somebody who came

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<v Speaker 3>from an athletic training background, I look at trainers that

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<v Speaker 3>train the athletes and be like, well, they really know

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<v Speaker 3>what they're doing, and actors, I'm like, those are like

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<v Speaker 3>the theater kids that aren't really that athletic. So the

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<v Speaker 3>training isn't always what it's hyped up to be, as

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<v Speaker 3>you know, but is it hyped to be though? No,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that you know, a lot of people probably

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<v Speaker 3>know of me, which is great because I train you

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<v Speaker 3>and people like you, famous people. But at the same time,

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<v Speaker 3>I think you would agree with me. This isn't a knock.

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<v Speaker 3>Our workouts are very.

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<v Speaker 1>Average, you know, but I'm very strong.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're really strong, but now I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Lifting like thirty five. I'm just squatting with like thirty

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<v Speaker 1>five pound dumbbells and stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>We do thirty five and awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm tinier and stronger than I've ever been at

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<v Speaker 1>fifty one years old. First of all, So any ladies

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<v Speaker 1>that are watching this or listening to this, like just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this whole myth about weightlifting and this idea,

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of fallacy that it makes you bigger is

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<v Speaker 1>not true. It makes you smaller.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think what what I'm trying to do with

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<v Speaker 3>this app is just basically bring the training that I

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<v Speaker 3>do with you and my other clients to everyone that

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<v Speaker 3>has to say you know, because for the people listening,

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<v Speaker 3>Chelsea works out with dumbbells and a bench at hurt

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<v Speaker 3>you know, and slightly more at my house, but not crazy,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, with good programming and just slow and

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<v Speaker 3>steady progression. It goes along with how long is the course?

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<v Speaker 3>Each program six weeks, but there's seven total programs. And

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<v Speaker 3>then what I basically did is what I created that

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<v Speaker 3>just came out a week ago. That's is when I

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<v Speaker 3>first started my app. It was a test to myself

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<v Speaker 3>to see if I could do it as a tech moron,

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<v Speaker 3>but also just see who was interested. And I learned

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<v Speaker 3>that I overshot my audience a little in the sense

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<v Speaker 3>I thought they were going to be more gym people

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<v Speaker 3>like me. But there's a lot of beginners, and so

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<v Speaker 3>that is not there's no judgment to that. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that everyone follows the same process. And when I was

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<v Speaker 3>scrolling my phone last week with your videos, I realized

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<v Speaker 3>we didn't do any videos for like the first three

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<v Speaker 3>years we trained, and I just shared like pictures of

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<v Speaker 3>you to just say, oh I trained, celebrity whatever. But

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<v Speaker 3>your workouts were nothing to even they weren't even post

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<v Speaker 3>worthy because you use no because you're new to it.

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<v Speaker 3>And but my point is, I think that the online

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<v Speaker 3>fitness social media world shafts beginners a little bit because

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<v Speaker 3>because people really like think of you know, people post

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<v Speaker 3>the hard stuff, the novelties stuff, the cool looking move

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<v Speaker 3>in order to get clicks. But everyone that is doing

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<v Speaker 3>those moves started with the basics. But we never share

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<v Speaker 3>that because it doesn't look cool. And I never share

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<v Speaker 3>that with my clients because I'm not trying to throw

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<v Speaker 3>them under the bus and say, here's Chelsea lunging with

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<v Speaker 3>five pound dumbells. But you did, and now you're lunging

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<v Speaker 3>with thirty pound dumbbells, and I'll show that because that's badass.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, the thing about it is like if

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<v Speaker 3>somebody listening to this without a training background tried to

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<v Speaker 3>do what you do now after training with me for

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<v Speaker 3>eleven years, they'd hurt themselves. And so it's not just

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the further along programs are what you're currently doing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we have programs if you've never done it,

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<v Speaker 3>it's to kind of build up because I think, think

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<v Speaker 3>about how when I met you, I came to your

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<v Speaker 3>house and you had dumbbells up to eight pounds and

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<v Speaker 3>we worked out on a deck and that was it.

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<v Speaker 3>And so we've come a long way since then. But

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<v Speaker 3>I think that when enough time goes by to forget

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<v Speaker 3>that stage.

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<v Speaker 1>But so the program instructs people how to, like what

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<v Speaker 1>level to start with right, Yes, for beginners or people

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<v Speaker 1>who are just getting into.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, it totally walks people through. I set out to

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<v Speaker 3>make it as close to training the person as you

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<v Speaker 3>can get. So each each exercise from like every warm

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<v Speaker 3>up move. You would actually hate it because you think

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<v Speaker 3>I talk too much, But I give a one and

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<v Speaker 3>a half minute right now tutorial for every single move. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>well I do it safely, how much weight to do,

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<v Speaker 3>how to start whatever, and so you can. Everyone has

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<v Speaker 3>to walk before they run. And I think that most

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<v Speaker 3>women that aren't lifelong gym heads come into it with

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<v Speaker 3>fear either about bulking up or getting hurt, and so

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<v Speaker 3>I think that I really just shoot to meet people

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<v Speaker 3>where they're at and start slow and then building.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but also just to know that like that is

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<v Speaker 1>not first of all, as we get older, we need

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<v Speaker 1>to be stronger. Period. It's for your bone density. It's

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<v Speaker 1>so good for your bone density. It's so good for

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<v Speaker 1>your like melean muscle mass. Yeah, your hormones. Everything, Like

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't get a workout in for a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days, I start to get like ordinary, which is

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<v Speaker 1>not a thing I would ever thought. I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and even when I'm not with him, which

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<v Speaker 1>is most of the time because now I'm traveling a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>But like I have the same situation.

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<v Speaker 3>You've actually tried the app? I know you won't, but

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<v Speaker 3>like I, I'll try it.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell people how they can download the app?

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<v Speaker 3>How do they do through the link on my Instagram? Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>and they have this It's cool. I tried to make

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<v Speaker 3>it very user friendly. I have seven programs and you

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<v Speaker 3>can select which one you want in the series, and

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<v Speaker 3>the more programs you buy, it adds like crazy discounts

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<v Speaker 3>on top of it gets progressively cheaper and it's you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's it's a very cost effective, simple program.

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<v Speaker 1>We love it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you do we have fitness questions?

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<v Speaker 3>I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we have some couple of squetch of callers. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to put your headphones on?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? So, Carla says, Hi, Chelsea and crew from down Under.

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<v Speaker 2>I need some help and have nothing in the toolbox

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<v Speaker 2>for my current situation. I'm a forty four year old

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<v Speaker 2>professional CPA living independently with multiple gleurosis. It's been about

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<v Speaker 2>eleven years living with the diagnosis, and I've always found

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<v Speaker 2>refuge in movement and exercise. My MS diagnosis was the

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<v Speaker 2>best motivation to explore activities that challenge and support my body.

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<v Speaker 2>I work out around four days a week, walking outdoors, pilates,

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<v Speaker 2>and swimming. I see a physio who has been life

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<v Speaker 2>changing with craniosacral therapy, but a sudden onset of fatigue

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<v Speaker 2>is making it impossible to continue my normal workout schedule.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very deliberate and sensible with my workouts, but would

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<v Speaker 2>like some tips on how to manage fatigue and working

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<v Speaker 2>out and how I could start simple workouts at home.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd love to get safely into weights and have no

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<v Speaker 2>idea where to start. Oh perfect, Yeah, I have some

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<v Speaker 2>basic dumbells and a bar bell at home and unsure

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<v Speaker 2>if I should start at two kilograms, ten kilograms or

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<v Speaker 2>twenty kilograms. Do you have any tips on where to start?

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<v Speaker 2>My goal is functional strength?

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<v Speaker 1>Carla, Hi, Carla love this Hello, Hi Carla ing Hi, Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>This is my personal trainer. So this has been Bruno

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<v Speaker 1>and he just launched an app that you could exercise

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<v Speaker 1>app and not just launched you launched his newest exercise app.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is a perfect app for you. You can

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<v Speaker 1>download it. He has you know.

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<v Speaker 3>A program that I would recommend for you is called

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<v Speaker 3>intro To Strength Training. It's a beginner program. But listening

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<v Speaker 3>to what Catherine just said, I think it's really important

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<v Speaker 3>to remember with exercise that the devil's in the dose,

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<v Speaker 3>and so when you're really struggling with fatigue. Really, I

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<v Speaker 3>think that exercise gives you energy as long as you

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<v Speaker 3>don't overdo it, but if you overdo it, it'll suck

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<v Speaker 3>your energy. So I really recommend people I always say

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<v Speaker 3>seven out of ten hard in each set and seven

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<v Speaker 3>out of ten hard in each workout. So what that

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<v Speaker 3>means is you do your set where you could do

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<v Speaker 3>a few more reps, but you stop short because I

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<v Speaker 3>think going to true failure is where injury happens and

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<v Speaker 3>that'll zap your energy. And then stopping the workout before

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<v Speaker 3>you feel crushed will go a long way and you

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<v Speaker 3>just make long term, sustainable progress. So I would say

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<v Speaker 3>consistent workouts two times a week, but not crushing yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that too many people look at a workout

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<v Speaker 3>program as all or nothing. I'm either just going to

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<v Speaker 3>go all in or it's not worthing. I do that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think.

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<v Speaker 4>That, yeah, I've been doing that in the paw.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I hadn't to me very well. Yeah. Part

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<v Speaker 3>of why I was so grateful that Chelsea had me

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<v Speaker 3>on here is I think a lot of the mainstream

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<v Speaker 3>info to women about strength training. I love it because

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<v Speaker 3>I love that strength training is becoming more popular, but

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<v Speaker 3>I think a lot of the advice comes from men

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<v Speaker 3>and women like me who have worked out hard their

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<v Speaker 3>whole life and just like it. But they're trying to

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<v Speaker 3>make those recommendations ubiquitous to everyone that just is brand

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<v Speaker 3>new to training, and so it doesn't have to be

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<v Speaker 3>that intense. A lot of the stuff that I see

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<v Speaker 3>is telling women with no background that you have to

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<v Speaker 3>go to failure, that you have to do prints and

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<v Speaker 3>super heavy weights, and I don't think you need to

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<v Speaker 3>do any of that. I think it wouldn't make sense

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<v Speaker 3>for a woman just starting out to train like they're

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<v Speaker 3>training for the NFL Combine. So it's sort of a gentle, simple,

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<v Speaker 3>sustainable program will go a long way. And also, remember

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<v Speaker 3>the new buzzword that I actually like is called progressive overload.

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<v Speaker 3>People teach women to progressively increase the weights, but I

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<v Speaker 3>think the message that gets lost and can actually be

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<v Speaker 3>defeating for women is that for example, Chelsea is lifting

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<v Speaker 3>thirty five pound dumbbells now, and we started with five

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<v Speaker 3>or ten pound dumbbells, so that's only like five or

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<v Speaker 3>six weight increases in eleven years. So I think that

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes when you really break it down like that, if

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<v Speaker 3>we were able to increase the way, you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>see a lot of simple recommendations on mainstream women's podcast

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<v Speaker 3>telling women to try to bump the weights up five

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<v Speaker 3>pounds every time, and that sounds good and that works initially.

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<v Speaker 3>But if that were the case Chelsea and I have

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<v Speaker 3>conservatively done two thousand workouts, she'd be lifting ten thousand

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<v Speaker 3>pounds on every single exercise.

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<v Speaker 1>But I also think that something that you're saying is

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<v Speaker 1>really important, like with your level of energy and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>Like sometimes you can go in the gym and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just do a twenty minute workout and that gives

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<v Speaker 1>me the energy that I need. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>commit to doing forty five minutes or an hour every

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<v Speaker 1>single time. And if you do download event's programs, each

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<v Speaker 1>class is.

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<v Speaker 3>What it's like, thirty forty minutes, thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Forty minutes, but you know, you don't have to finish

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. If you're not feeling it, you just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of want to do a little bit of something

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<v Speaker 1>when you feel, you know, exactly right.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's also important to note too that when

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<v Speaker 3>people say social media is a highlight reel, so is fitness.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm guilty of that in the sense that I'll

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<v Speaker 3>show the day that Chelsea lifts thirty five pounds because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to make her look good. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>make myself look good and whatever. But we're not doing

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<v Speaker 3>that every time, if that makes sense. Some days we

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<v Speaker 3>might only lift twenty pound dumbills and live to fight

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<v Speaker 3>another day when she's tired or feeling sore, you know whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh one hundred percent. Yeah, I've really been overdoing it

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<v Speaker 4>in the past probably three months, and that sort of led.

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<v Speaker 3>To a bit of burnout.

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<v Speaker 4>So totally at the moment, I'm just you know, some

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<v Speaker 4>days it's only just a walk around the block. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I think getting into a program and knowing that even

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<v Speaker 4>if I just do like the twenty minutes thirty minutes,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe one day it might be ten minutes. Like I think, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I like to keep that habit of doing that daily

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<v Speaker 4>or you know, at least four or five times a

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<v Speaker 4>week some sort of movement and exercise because I found

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<v Speaker 4>in those times where I let it all go, well,

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<v Speaker 4>then you sort of don't want to pick it up again.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's yeah, having another tool to give me a

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<v Speaker 4>bit of motivation do something a little bit differently. Don's

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<v Speaker 4>really great?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, great, great, Thank you so much for calling in.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks Carlos, so amazing, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>By all right, do we want to do another question?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's do another question.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well I have getting my confidence back as

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<v Speaker 2>an athlete, or my brother in law works.

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<v Speaker 1>Out too much? To your brother in law works out

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<v Speaker 1>too much?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so Amy says Dear Chelsea. My younger sister has

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<v Speaker 2>been married for two years and has been with him

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<v Speaker 2>for six years, and six months ago they had a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>It should be noted that it was him who initiated

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<v Speaker 2>and pushed to have a baby, not her. My sister

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<v Speaker 2>has absolutely loved being a mother, and she's objectively a

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<v Speaker 2>fantastic parent. Her husband, on the other hand, has been

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<v Speaker 2>absent ever since the baby was born. He's at the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>She gave birth on a Thursday, he came home on

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<v Speaker 2>a Saturday, and then Monday morning he began twice a

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<v Speaker 2>day workout routine. He works out for an hour before work,

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<v Speaker 2>then works all day, and then three times a week

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<v Speaker 2>meets up with his friends to go rock climbing for

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<v Speaker 2>several hours. On the weekends, he often goes climbing or

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<v Speaker 2>to the gym, or has evening plans with friends. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 2>my sister is home with the baby. Of all of this,

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<v Speaker 2>my sister has spent most of these past six months

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<v Speaker 2>alone with the baby. He seems truly addicted to fitness.

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<v Speaker 2>He's always been interested in it, but ever since the

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<v Speaker 2>baby was born, it's gone to another level. My sister

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<v Speaker 2>has talked to him many times, but he always tells

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<v Speaker 2>her that he loves being at home, but he also

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<v Speaker 2>loves being social and sees it as his social time

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<v Speaker 2>with his friends. When she forces him to stay home,

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<v Speaker 2>he's miserable and constantly checking his phone. I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 2>what to do as the sister in law. I love

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<v Speaker 2>my sister and it's obvious to me she isn't very happy.

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't see it as a problem because when he

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<v Speaker 2>is home, he's very present. That being said, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know how to help. I have to stop myself from

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<v Speaker 2>saying things like, wow, he sucks. The truth is he

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<v Speaker 2>is great when he's home. He's just never home. Any

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<v Speaker 2>help would be appreciated. Sometimes an outside perspective is what's needed.

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<v Speaker 1>Amy, I have a brother in law who over exercises. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he gets home, he works out, then he goes on

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<v Speaker 1>a bike ride, then he goes da da da da.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, yeah, I don't ever, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. But depnds a new dad and a trainer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, as a dude, I kind of get it.

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<v Speaker 3>I would imagine that both the guys you're talking about

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<v Speaker 3>exercise more for mental reasons than physical reasons. I find

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<v Speaker 3>working out to be a good mental outlet for me,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm in new dat. I mean, I think this

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<v Speaker 3>guy kind of needs to realize if you're gonna have kids,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to give up some shit in the beginning.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like very you know, that's just what it is.

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<v Speaker 3>My life got pretty small the last four months. And

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<v Speaker 3>I understand where he's coming from in the sense that

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes I miss my old life, but I think that

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<v Speaker 3>it is what it is. But in terms of working out,

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<v Speaker 3>working out twice a day is just silly. From a

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<v Speaker 3>workout perspective, So I think that's probably more of a

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<v Speaker 3>mental outlet, and I think with in terms of working out,

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<v Speaker 3>I will tell you when I get busy, I have

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<v Speaker 3>a gym in my garage, but I just work out

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<v Speaker 3>for twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just call him out to his face. As

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<v Speaker 1>a sister in law, you have every right to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>As a sister in law.

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<v Speaker 3>This doesn't feel like a workout question to me. If

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I just put on like my new

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<v Speaker 3>dad hat and I'm like, dude, you just got to

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<v Speaker 3>like be home.

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<v Speaker 1>It covers two bases. Yeah, the expertise in two areas now.

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<v Speaker 3>But I will say as a guy, I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>men when they deal with stress. For me, a big

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<v Speaker 3>part of working out is that the common emotion I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like as life comes at me is anger, more

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<v Speaker 3>so than sadness or stuff. And so for me, working

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<v Speaker 3>out has always been an outlet. I when I'm pissed off,

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<v Speaker 3>I just lift really heavy, and it's like a lot

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<v Speaker 3>more socially acceptable than cussing out your partner, cussing out

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<v Speaker 3>your neighbor, you know whatever. Actually, I'll tell you, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>Chelsea and I are pretty close in a lot of ways.

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<v Speaker 3>I view her kind of like a sister. I think

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<v Speaker 3>you would probably agree in that way. In three or

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<v Speaker 3>four days, I.

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<v Speaker 1>View you as a sister.

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<v Speaker 3>Also, Hey girl, no, but I she said she sent

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<v Speaker 3>me this text, and I was just she caught me

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<v Speaker 3>in the wrong mood, and I just responded like a dick,

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<v Speaker 3>and then I just had to, like, a couple hours later,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, sorry, but I think that I

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<v Speaker 3>understand where this guy is coming from, because.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's hard for guys with the dead, kids for

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<v Speaker 1>the dead. It's really really hard. This has been the

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<v Speaker 1>hardest four months of Ben's life.

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<v Speaker 3>It comes with amazing things, and it's also really hard.

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<v Speaker 3>And at the same time, I think everyone tells me

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<v Speaker 3>that these are the times I'll miss, and so I

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<v Speaker 3>think this dude that's rock climbing with the homies is

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<v Speaker 3>going to regret that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, one, Like, I get that it's a social outlet,

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<v Speaker 2>but like, guess what, you had a baby, like you

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<v Speaker 2>don't get to hang out with the Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You should definitely say something. I would say something as

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<v Speaker 1>a sister in law, I would say something.

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<v Speaker 2>And keep saying something until he like comes correct. What

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<v Speaker 2>would you say is like what's acceptable for a new dad,

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<v Speaker 2>like should he just be doing is before work?

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<v Speaker 3>Ones like I don't know. I mean, I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to ever comment on people's relationships. We have a situation

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<v Speaker 3>my wife and I both work from home, so it's

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<v Speaker 3>the other extreme of just we're just both a home

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<v Speaker 3>all day every day. I do think it's important to

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<v Speaker 3>take space in you time, but definitely not every day

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<v Speaker 3>and definitely not for four hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and definitely not with a newborn like Siler like,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to like acclimate and give up things. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to sacrifice. You've made a sacrifice, You've had a child,

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<v Speaker 1>now you have to This is why many people don't

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<v Speaker 1>have children, because they can't they don't have room for

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of sacrifice. But once you have them, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to make the sacrifice and you have to give

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<v Speaker 1>up some of the things you love, not forever, but

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<v Speaker 1>for the you know, that incremental important period of time

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that your baby is okay and that

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<v Speaker 1>you're bonding totally.

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<v Speaker 3>And one thing that I've learned what I was talking

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<v Speaker 3>before about the devils in the dose, I think when

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<v Speaker 3>you talk about taking me time, the same things apply.

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<v Speaker 3>So I know for my wife, Nicole and I are

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<v Speaker 3>recharging right now. Might be like just thirty minutes solo,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, and that seems acceptable. I think four hours

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<v Speaker 3>every day is. It's not you know, you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>probably run into some significant real life relationship problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, let's get Ben back To's baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Ben?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Ben? Do you want to give your workout program another

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<v Speaker 1>shout out for our minisode?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's called Bruno Strong. It's so strong. It's all

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<v Speaker 3>through the link on my Instagram Instagram, and I have

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<v Speaker 3>a website, Ben Bruno dot com, and I'm very thankful

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<v Speaker 3>for you giving me this opportunity because I find that

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<v Speaker 3>everyone that signs up for the program has really liked it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a weird thing delving into the online stuff because

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm a true tech moron and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>but as I've learned that if I just publish the

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<v Speaker 3>workouts that I do with my clients and stuff, it

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<v Speaker 3>has really resonated with people. And I appreciate you giving

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<v Speaker 3>me your platform because a lot of the stuff that

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<v Speaker 3>I do, I speak to other trainers and it's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like an echo chamber where we obviously all think

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<v Speaker 3>the same and I think that exercise for people who

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<v Speaker 3>haven't done it before, haven't done it consistently, it's truly

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<v Speaker 3>life changing. I think, yeah, you know, I know that

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<v Speaker 3>sounds like hyperbole. I think you would say it's changed

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<v Speaker 3>your life totally, you know, making it part of your routine,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I hope to just bring that to more people.

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<v Speaker 1>Awesome, thanks for coming in, Ben Bruno, thanks for being here,

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<v Speaker 1>and thanks for showing me for being such a ticket.

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<v Speaker 1>You showed me how to edit a video this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you're working kind I know, he showed me. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, I need to get rid of this

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<v Speaker 1>last part.

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<v Speaker 3>I spent the last three years just swearing at my

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<v Speaker 3>computer and my phone. But slowly but surely I'm getting better.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, everybody download the app, start weightlifting, get

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<v Speaker 1>your shit together. Summer is here. People.

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