WEBVTT - He Needs To Pace Himself With Everything - 9.4.26

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Steve. Subject, he needs to pace himself with everything. Everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Dear Steven Shirley, I'm 30 and my fiance is 28

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<v Speaker 1>years old. We've been together two years and he proposed

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<v Speaker 1>three months ago. I've held out on intimacy with him

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<v Speaker 1>until I got a commitment and he did not have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with that. The night I got the ring,

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<v Speaker 1>I gave in and we had sex that night. It

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<v Speaker 1>was not what I.

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<v Speaker 2>Expected at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd seen him naked a million times, and I knew

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<v Speaker 1>what he was working with, but I had no idea

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<v Speaker 1>if he knew what to do with it. Our first

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<v Speaker 1>time was such a disappointment, and I was left unfulfilled.

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<v Speaker 1>We laughed about him being excited because it was our

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<v Speaker 1>first time. He's quick in everything he does, though. Since

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<v Speaker 1>we met, I have teased him about eating and drinking

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<v Speaker 1>too fast. We cannot share appetizers because he eats one

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<v Speaker 1>after the other and I barely get any. If we're

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<v Speaker 1>having wine... I may get one glass because he drinks

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<v Speaker 1>it like water. I always have to encourage him to

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<v Speaker 1>pace himself. I shouldn't have to be surprised when this

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<v Speaker 1>same thing happened in the bedroom. I was brutally honest

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<v Speaker 1>with him about the sex because I'm about to marry

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<v Speaker 1>this man. I started having sex daily. in hopes that

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<v Speaker 1>he can get used to me and learn to pace himself.

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<v Speaker 1>His doctor prescribed him something for mild anxiety. Now, during sex,

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<v Speaker 1>he will mumble the entire time, or he will stop

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<v Speaker 1>abruptly and ask me questions about how he's doing or

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<v Speaker 1>how my day went.

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<v Speaker 2>It is a total letdown every time.

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<v Speaker 1>His doctor says it's a temporary problem and he will

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<v Speaker 1>be fine once he's used to me. I am afraid

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<v Speaker 1>this may not be fixable because it has been three months.

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<v Speaker 1>If he can't figure out how to pace himself sexually,

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<v Speaker 1>should I pace myself on getting married to him?

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<v Speaker 3>Hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I say, yes, most definitely you should, because sex

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<v Speaker 1>is an integral part of marriage and intimacy. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>a deal breaker in some instances. Uh, So if you

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<v Speaker 1>have a chance to get it right or to fix

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<v Speaker 1>it in your case, by all means, do that. Pace

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<v Speaker 1>yourself when it comes to the marriage. You don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to cheat or end up in divorce because of it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can't express the importance of that enough.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's important.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like it's not so much about pacing, though.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting that as it is about skill with him,

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<v Speaker 1>skill you can teach skills. You just have to be patient.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to practice like you've been doing for the

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<v Speaker 1>last three months.

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<v Speaker 2>And remember not.

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<v Speaker 1>To crush his ego. You said you were brutally honest

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<v Speaker 1>with him. You know, maybe, you know, come in a

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<v Speaker 1>little softer, not so harsh and so brutal as you

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<v Speaker 1>called it. I'm assuming you really and truly love this man. Otherwise,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't be marrying him. I think you want a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and you want it to work, right? Well, here's

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<v Speaker 1>where the work comes in. You know, you got to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this stuff outside of the bedroom. You really

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<v Speaker 1>got to get to know each other and what you like.

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<v Speaker 1>I say don't give up on him if you love

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<v Speaker 1>him and if this is what you really want. He

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<v Speaker 1>can learn to pace himself, learn to eat slower and

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<v Speaker 1>do everything slower.

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<v Speaker 2>He can learn these tricks. You know, this is fixable,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's got to want to do better, too. And

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<v Speaker 2>it sounds like he does. He sounds like he wants

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<v Speaker 2>to please you. Steve?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm going to take a different approach here. This

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<v Speaker 3>seems doomed.

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<v Speaker 5>I can fix the top half of your letter. And

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm going to suggest on the bottom half of

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<v Speaker 5>the letter, you ain't going to like.

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<v Speaker 3>So here we go. Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>He needs to pace himself with everything.

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<v Speaker 3>You 30, he 28. Been together two years. He proposed

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<v Speaker 3>three months ago.

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<v Speaker 5>I've held out on intimacy until I got a commitment.

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<v Speaker 5>He ain't have a problem with that. The night I

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<v Speaker 5>got the ring, I gave in, and we had sex

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<v Speaker 5>that night.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, Lord. Oh, two years of anticipation. Mm-hmm. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't quite what she expected.

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<v Speaker 5>She'd seen him naked a million times, and she knew

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<v Speaker 5>what he was working with, but had no idea if

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<v Speaker 5>he knew what to do with it. First time was

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<v Speaker 5>a huge disappointment. She said, I was left unfulfilled. We

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<v Speaker 5>laughed about him being excited because it was our first time.

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<v Speaker 5>He's quick in everything he does, though.

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<v Speaker 3>So now let me fix this part of the matter.

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<v Speaker 5>Since we met, I've teased him about eating and drinking

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<v Speaker 5>too fast. We can't share appetizers because he eats one

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<v Speaker 5>after the other and I barely get any.

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<v Speaker 3>Y'all going to have to start getting too appetizing.

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<v Speaker 2>Fix it, Chief. Fix it.

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<v Speaker 3>This part, I can help you with.

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<v Speaker 4>Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.

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<v Speaker 5>Y'all gots to start getting too appetized. If we're having wine,

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<v Speaker 5>I may get one glass before he drink because he

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<v Speaker 5>drinks it like water.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we go again. Two bottles of wine.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, you can sit over there and finish here as

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<v Speaker 5>fast as he want, and you can keep sipping yours

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<v Speaker 5>like the lady you are.

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<v Speaker 3>I've always tried to encourage him to pace himself.

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<v Speaker 5>And so you shouldn't have been surprised when the same

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<v Speaker 5>thing happened in the bedroom. And I was brutally honest

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<v Speaker 5>with him about the sex because I'm about to marry

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<v Speaker 5>this man.

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<v Speaker 3>So what did you say to him? Hey, hey, hey.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it?

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<v Speaker 2>She crushed him.

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<v Speaker 3>Excuse me. Excuse me. Uncle Ben. Minute right. That's it?

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<v Speaker 2>Not Uncle Ben.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Jack in the Box. That's it? Oh, this is

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<v Speaker 3>what we finna do. Quick drop. That's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Hang on.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Speedy Gonzalez. What you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Hang on.

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<v Speaker 3>Part two. All your references. Cartoon. Roadrunner. What are we

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<v Speaker 3>doing now?

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<v Speaker 1>Part two of Steve's response is coming up at 23

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<v Speaker 1>minutes after. Today's Strawberry Letter subject is he needs to

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<v Speaker 1>pace himself with everything.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll get back into it right after this. It's going

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<v Speaker 1>All right, come on, Steve. Let's recap today's Strawberry Letter.

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<v Speaker 1>The subject, he needs to pace himself with everything.

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<v Speaker 5>She's got a proposal from this 28-year-old guy. She's 30

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<v Speaker 5>that she's held out her intimacy until she got a commitment.

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<v Speaker 5>He didn't have no problem. He bought her a ring

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<v Speaker 5>after two years. Seeing this man naked a hundred times,

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<v Speaker 5>they finally had sex. She was disappointed because his pace

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<v Speaker 5>was incredible. He's just too fast, but it's just the

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<v Speaker 5>way he lives his life. He eats too fast. He

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<v Speaker 5>drinks too fast. They order hors d'oeuvres. She don't hardly

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<v Speaker 5>get any because he eat one after another. I done

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<v Speaker 5>suggested y'all need to start getting two hors d'oeuvres. Next,

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<v Speaker 5>they order a bottle of wine. She only get one glass.

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<v Speaker 5>Y'all got to start ordering two bottles of wine, give

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<v Speaker 5>him his own bottle. So you're going to be, in

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<v Speaker 5>a little while, when the metabolism change, you're going to

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<v Speaker 5>be married to a fat alcoholic, look like to me,

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<v Speaker 5>because he's eating everything in front of me and he's

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<v Speaker 5>drinking everything and he ain't leaving, you know. He's 28

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<v Speaker 5>years metabolism high right now, but as soon as it

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<v Speaker 5>slows down, once again, you're going to be married to

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<v Speaker 5>a fat alcoholic. All right. And you've encouraged him to

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<v Speaker 5>pace himself, so you shouldn't have been surprised.

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<v Speaker 3>When the same thing happened in the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 5>I was brutally honest with him about the sex because

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<v Speaker 5>I'm about to marry this man. So you called him

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<v Speaker 5>a bunch of names. Speedy Gonzalez, Road Runner, stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 5>How fast we going to do this? And then what

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<v Speaker 5>you did was you started having sex with him daily.

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<v Speaker 5>in hopes that he can get used to you and

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<v Speaker 5>learn to pace himself. Then his doctor prescribed him something

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<v Speaker 5>for mild anxiety.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, here we go. This is what the letter's about.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, during sex, he will mumble the entire time and

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<v Speaker 5>or he will stop abruptly and ask me questions about

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<v Speaker 5>how he's doing or how my day went.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>He said it's a total letdown. Well, let me tell

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<v Speaker 3>you what that is. Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>When a young boy can't control himself, the best thing

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<v Speaker 5>he do is try to stop.

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<v Speaker 3>Change the subject. Get his mind on something else. Then

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<v Speaker 3>go back.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, he's going to count the downtime as time served.

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<v Speaker 5>Let me give you an example. So let's say y'all

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<v Speaker 5>been at it for a strong two minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Two minutes?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Strong two minutes. All he got is three.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow. So he done started mumbling.

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<v Speaker 5>The mumbling is he's actually making himself talk about other things. Man,

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<v Speaker 5>I got to fix my car today. I wonder how

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<v Speaker 5>much gas price he needs. Sure is nice. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>it's Tuesday. It's all you can eat down at Waffle House.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the stuff he's doing to try to occupy himself.

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<v Speaker 5>Then he'll stop and ask you how he doing. Now,

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<v Speaker 5>he's going to talk to you for five minutes, but

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<v Speaker 5>he wants to count that five minutes with the two minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>And then he's going to start back up.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, time served.

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<v Speaker 5>Now we have seven minutes. Because he's young and he's stupid. Now,

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<v Speaker 5>the doctors say it's a temporary problem and he'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Be fine once he's used to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm afraid this may not be fixable because it's been

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<v Speaker 5>three months. If he can't figure out how to pace

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<v Speaker 5>himself sexually, should I pace myself on getting married to him?

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<v Speaker 5>I think you should. Or else you're going to have

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<v Speaker 5>to get used to the wham, bam, thank you, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Because that's all it's been to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, you ready? Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>You ready for the answer?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>The part you ain't gonna like.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the comedian in me. Ready for what I

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<v Speaker 5>think is wrong here.

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<v Speaker 2>All right.

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<v Speaker 3>Brace yourself. I think her need to pick the pace

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<v Speaker 3>of herself.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>You taking too long. We ain't got all day. He

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<v Speaker 3>got to go to work. You taking too long.

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<v Speaker 5>You need to pick your pace up.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we doing the three minutes. Let's go. Let's

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<v Speaker 3>do it. Got no time for you all this long.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you fit to be in here all day.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to pick your pace up. Oh, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe that's the problem. See, sometimes you have to speak,

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<v Speaker 5>speak up for weak men. Sometimes you have to give

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<v Speaker 5>the inadequate man a voice.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's what you're doing right now.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm speaking for the inadequate men out here. I'm speaking

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<v Speaker 5>for the men who don't have a voice. All this

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<v Speaker 5>you too far. You know, all this here. You too fast. Hell,

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<v Speaker 5>you taking too long.

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<v Speaker 2>You too slow.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I'm too fast. You're too slow. You can't please me.

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<v Speaker 3>You ain't all that.

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<v Speaker 2>So they're just arguing now.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, just all this is you too small. Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>how about you? How about that? See now I'm speaking

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<v Speaker 5>for the man. So all you men out there mechanism

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<v Speaker 5>can't please a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Ask yourself, fellas. Is that your job? Really?

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<v Speaker 2>You're still speaking for them?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm speaking for the broken man. The man that don't

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<v Speaker 5>have a voice.

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<v Speaker 2>You're their hero.

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<v Speaker 3>She says you too small. Tell her she too big.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all. You got to fight back, brother.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, now it's a fight in the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 3>She talking about you can't last. Catch up.

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