1 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: I am late to the mech Gala conversation because I 2 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 1: don't think I've recorded since the met Gala, and we 3 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: just have to have the conversation. And it's an evergreen 4 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: conversation because it doesn't matter whether it just happened. People 5 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: were probably still talking about it. So what is the 6 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: met Gala now? Like? What is good style and what 7 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 1: is not? I actually want to know. I mean, I've 8 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 1: said this before that Anna Wintre said someone should be 9 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: comfortable in their own style and not look like it's 10 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: sort of a costume that they're putting on. You know, 11 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm paraphrasing, but it sounded like she thought that someone 12 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: should really be comfortable in their own style and what 13 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 1: they're wearing, and so like, what does that even mean? 14 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: At this point, Jared Letto was wearing a giant catsuit 15 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: like he looked like he was in the Main Day parade. 16 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: I've met him. He's so nice. But I don't understand 17 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: what is good and bad fashion anymore. I don't. I 18 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: don't understand it. Just it was. It was very confusing 19 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 1: to me, and I will say that people were asking 20 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: me was I invited? The answer is an emphatic no. 21 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: Never been invited. I don't think I ever would be invited, 22 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: Although I do think I'm a lot like Anna Wintour. 23 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean she would invite someone much like herself. 24 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: But I've read about her and while there are many 25 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: negative things that people say about her and you may 26 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: say negative things about me, the woman is working before 27 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 1: and after everyone else, and h is unflappable. She is well, 28 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm bothered, but she's unflappable. She is tough as nails, 29 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: and the work and the product and the perfection comes first. 30 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 1: And I relate to that, I really do. And it's busy, 31 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: it's all about the Benjamin's baby. It's just funny that 32 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,920 Speaker 1: many of the people they've talked about have, you know, 33 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: for years wanted to go, like kind of beg to go, 34 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: asked to pay to go. The Kardashians apparently for years 35 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: wanted to go and they weren't invited, and they get invited. 36 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: It would be embarrassing for me, like to ask so 37 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 1: many times someone to say no and then they finally 38 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: invite me like it puts Anna Wintour in such control, 39 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: which is amazing. And she is the HBI C And 40 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: I wonder if she's just like Oz behind the curtain, 41 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: just watching everyone jump through these fucking rings, Like she's 42 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: like the circus master and she's watching everyone jump through 43 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: hoops for her, laughing at like the antics that like 44 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 1: someone will dress up as like a cat in the 45 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: Macy's Day parade or you know, one upping each other 46 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: and she's just sitting back dressing very simply to be honest, 47 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: And the way that Tom Ford always said he liked 48 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 1: it as a night of elegance. He doesn't like this 49 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: sort of pomp and circumstance. But they have to sell 50 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: magazines and make money, and it's become a different thing. 51 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: And I also think about social media stars. So years 52 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 1: ago reality stars were frowned upon and it was real 53 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: actors and real actors, and I know who the actors were, 54 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: and I'm thinking this one actress it annoyed her that 55 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: reality stars were making more money than many actors and 56 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 1: famous like for what. It bothered them. So now it's 57 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:36,839 Speaker 1: bothering not only actors but also reality stars that influencers 58 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: are so famous like for what. It's the same type 59 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: of thing. They're not taken as seriously, but in many 60 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 1: ways their audiences are much more massive. In every way. 61 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: Their audiences are much more massive. So this year they 62 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: weren't invited because many of the actors were annoyed by it. 63 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: But he who makes the goal, she who makes the goal, 64 00:03:56,520 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 1: makes the rules. So TikTok influencers and instagram a g 65 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: Answers will be back on the met gala carpet, no question. 66 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: You can't argue with the Benjamins. And it was funny 67 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: too that, like you could tell that this year and 68 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: I didn't invite Chloe and Courtney, and they're like the 69 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: two Cinderella sisters that like have to like now sit 70 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: in the dusty attic where Kimderella used to sit. It's 71 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: just I would absolutely go. I'm not hating on it 72 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: because I actually think it's amazing, Like what she's built 73 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: and what she's done is really fascinating. And the only 74 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 1: thing that I would find interesting about it, I wouldn't. 75 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: I don't need to go. I don't need to sit 76 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: at a table, although I would like, you know, network whatever, 77 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: I would want to know if I could land the look, 78 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 1: like take a year, I wouldn't want to know. I 79 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: would one hundred million percent fucking not only land the look, 80 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: but nail the look, like to the fucking ground like 81 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: I would nail the look, because when I got to 82 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: do something, I nail it would I would nail it. 83 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: It would be daunting and nerve wracking and exhausting, but 84 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 1: I would fucking do it. I would land it. I 85 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: just want to say that I love the Megan Trainer 86 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: Chris Jenner collaboration. I think it's genius. You know it's 87 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: I am your mama, you listen to me. I love 88 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 1: Chris Jenner being in the videos. I love this collaboration. 89 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: I love everything about it. I think Chris Jenner's having 90 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,359 Speaker 1: a glow up. I saw her coming out of some 91 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: place the other day and some white, gorgeous outfit that 92 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 1: was flowing, and I think she's having a glow up. 93 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 1: I really do. I think she's having her own fucking 94 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 1: moment and I like it. I have more people that 95 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: are on the not asshole list. Amy Schumer is not 96 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: an asshole. She is a supreme un asshole. Deborah Messing. 97 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,119 Speaker 1: I don't know if I ever mentioned that to you guys. 98 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: Completely not an asshole. She is just not an asshole. 99 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 1: And I'm sometimes it's so funny when I file through 100 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:21,359 Speaker 1: then asshole cabinet. When I filed through the non asshole cabinet, 101 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: some assholes come like right to my forefront. I don't 102 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: know if I've said Eric stone Street because he's my friend. 103 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 1: I hope I've told you he's the opposite of an asshole, 104 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: Like he's so the opposite of an asshole that I 105 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: recently it was my daughter's birthday and now think about 106 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: how many people come up to him. How many kids 107 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: are obsessed with Eric stone Street from Modern Family cam 108 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: for Modern Family, like Endless, like it's Disney, it's kids. 109 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: It's another level of an audience. How many people bother 110 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: him and want to get a picture with him. He's 111 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,559 Speaker 1: really famous and like that show is just so iconic. 112 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: Four kids. I'm at the diner with my daughter for 113 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 1: the day after her birthday and they start talking about 114 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: cocaine bar and then I said I'm friends with Eric 115 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: stone Street and they're like, wait, can't Oh my god. 116 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: I texted him, I said, can we FaceTime cause my 117 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 1: daughter's here with her friends. Like one second later, Eric 118 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: stone Street is on FaceTime for a bunch of fucking 119 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: thirteen year old girls that are freaking out because like 120 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: I just call Eric and have him on speed dial 121 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: when Brim was I'm whispering because I don't want you 122 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: to tell her when Brim was little and she didn't 123 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 1: believe in Santa Claus or she said something of someone 124 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: in school ruined it. The Jewish kids ruined it for her. 125 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: On Eric stone Street like called her and he has 126 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: this most amazing Santa Claus voice. He'll come on the 127 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: show and I will do his Santa Claus voice and 128 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: it's like he's like who, Like, it's like, literally, Santa Claus. 129 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: He is the best. And then the kids are talking 130 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: to him and he's like, what show will you watch it? 131 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: Because I said I just watched. He was like which episode? 132 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: Like he's not just like hey, I'm famous, talk to me. 133 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: He's like which episode? And then he said, wait, put 134 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: Brin back on and let me say happy birthday. Like 135 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: he's I love Eric Stone Street. So I just want 136 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: you to know that he is the opposite of an asshole. 137 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: Emily Hampshire, who's been on here, is completely the opposite 138 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: of it. But you know that because I wouldn't have 139 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: her on here. Oh God, the assholes keep flying into 140 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 1: my mind. One day, I'll tell you who the assholes are. 141 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: So I told you guys that I lost Brin's baby blanket. 142 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: It was a traumatic thirty six hours in Florida that 143 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: I can't even put into wards. It was it drained me, 144 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 1: it was it was sad. It was her baby blanket 145 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: from when she was born. It was just traumatic. It 146 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: was me dum digging through dumpster like laundry dumpsters, seeing 147 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: like how gross hotel rooms really are. And when people 148 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: say they don't want to do airbnbs because it's people, 149 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: you're living in someone's home with the fuck in a hotel, 150 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: you're living in a million people's homes. But anyway, I 151 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 1: had her baby blank We lost her baby blanket. The 152 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: hotel had accidentally put it in one of those goddamn bins. 153 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: It ended up going to a laundry center. It was 154 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: a nightmare. It was traumatic. Crying, it was trauma. I 155 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: saw my daughter like nurturing herself, like rocking herself in 156 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: the bed, crying. I saw her crying in the shower, 157 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: like she tried to pull it together, tried to keep 158 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: it together. I was a mess an We thought it 159 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: was definitely gone. So what you have to do right now, 160 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 1: right now, whatever stuffed animal it is. Whatever blanket it is, 161 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: you gotta do it. I don't care. Take the fucking 162 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 1: time and do it. Whatever airlomit is, whatever shirt, your grandpa, whatever. 163 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: If it's gonna leave your goddamn house, get air techs, 164 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 1: put them in a I have a lowjack on my 165 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 1: daughter's baby blanket. Now, I will forever know where that 166 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: fucking thing is. And if you can cut a square 167 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: of it out, put another replacement square in and put 168 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,439 Speaker 1: that somewhere else. It's just it's too important, it's too traumatic, 169 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: it's too easy to do. Just do it.