Speaker 1: Second day. It's kind of sweet to think about. But
Speaker 1: your mom is with you through some of the biggest
Speaker 1: moments of your life, you know, Yeah, like when you
Speaker 1: took your very first steps, when you scored your first
Speaker 1: goal in soccer. In my case, when I scored with
Speaker 1: Paula Ratchatowski in tenth grade. Yaha, boy got to second
Speaker 1: base and mom was right there holding my hand away.
Speaker 2: Now, this is how.
Speaker 1: I know you're wondering which hand And don't be gross. Okay,
Speaker 1: it was the other hand.
Speaker 3: I don't know that that.
Speaker 2: Makes it better. That makes it worse than my head.
Speaker 1: God, It's a memory that I'll never forget, and.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna forget it either.
Speaker 1: Now't IM glad to be able to share it with
Speaker 1: all of you. But one of our listeners, Lucas, says
Speaker 1: he may have met the one and his mom was
Speaker 1: there to see it. Lucas, he gets a third.
Speaker 4: About that.
Speaker 2: You can hang up right now.
Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear somebody else is close with their mom,
Speaker 1: But tell us.
Speaker 2: I know it was my dad.
Speaker 3: Actually, you guys, get onto who this one is. I
Speaker 3: want to know what it sounds important.
Speaker 1: Tell us about the woman that you met.
Speaker 5: What's her name Tracy knockout, knockout.
Speaker 1: Okay, where did you meet Tracy?
Speaker 4: We met at a winery. It was my mom's birthday
Speaker 4: and she loves wine and she loves when I take
Speaker 4: her out for her birthday.
Speaker 1: That's a good mom. Yeah, so that's what you mean
Speaker 1: by your mom was there for?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, she was totally there for.
Speaker 6: And Tracy's like your age, not your mom's like friend
Speaker 6: that came along for the birthday celebration.
Speaker 7: Right.
Speaker 4: She was the hostess. Okay, she was so friendly. I
Speaker 4: took it. Maybe was this flirteen, Maybe was this sort
Speaker 4: of feeling it out, you know. And halfway through the
Speaker 4: meal she comes over and she asked how everything was going,
Speaker 4: and I said, if you're wondering, we're not dating. This
Speaker 4: is my mom.
Speaker 3: That's pretty funny joke.
Speaker 4: I don't think it landed because it was like her
Speaker 4: face turned red. It was awkward. My mom looked at
Speaker 4: me and almost spit out her whine.
Speaker 3: Oh no, even mom didn't think you were funny. That's
Speaker 3: never a good sign.
Speaker 2: She just kissed her passionately and been like, don't worry, that's.
Speaker 7: My mom, right.
Speaker 1: I mean, in your defense, man, it's hard to come
Speaker 1: off looking suave and smooth while your mom is sitting
Speaker 1: right next to you.
Speaker 2: No one is smooth in front of their mommy.
Speaker 6: It's also hard to know, like when staff likes you
Speaker 6: or if they're just trying to get a good tip.
Speaker 4: You know, I think you're right, And I mean she
Speaker 4: laughed afterwards, and then I think I just realized she
Speaker 4: was just being a professional hostess, but like I was
Speaker 4: totally trying to impress her. I was talking about wines
Speaker 4: with her, and that's where it sort of I found
Speaker 4: that opening. I think that was a connection.
Speaker 2: Brow It's just effort. You're trying, even if you're not funny,
Speaker 2: You're you're trying.
Speaker 3: To make her, You're playful, you're.
Speaker 2: Giving out positive vibes. I think that's the most important
Speaker 2: to people.
Speaker 3: It's a good look like that you're taking your mom
Speaker 3: out for her birthday, you know, like that's a good lin.
Speaker 1: So how were you you able to establish a connection
Speaker 1: with Tracy?
Speaker 4: Okay, so later on in the dinner, we're winding up
Speaker 4: and I go over to Tracy and I asked her,
Speaker 4: could you put the candles on the birthday cake that
Speaker 4: I brought? And she said, you are so sweet, and
Speaker 4: that's when I knew that was my opening and yes,
Speaker 4: so I said, love to hang out. She agreed, She
Speaker 4: gave me her number, and then her boss all of
Speaker 4: a sudden needed her to go away, and I said, bye,
Speaker 4: and we will communicate later.
Speaker 3: Hit you up.
Speaker 1: You will communicate, We will establish correspondence.
Speaker 3: My people will call your people, send a messenger does.
Speaker 4: Sorry my science background, so no worries.
Speaker 1: Man, We're just joking around with you. So you were
Speaker 1: able to get her number.
Speaker 4: So yeah, we texted for like a couple of days,
Speaker 4: and we set a date for actual meet up, and
Speaker 4: like at the last minute the day before she said, oh,
Speaker 4: you know, I'm sorry, I have to cancel. And then
Speaker 4: a couple of days later nothing And have no idea
Speaker 4: why I'm getting ghosted, but I am. And I'd love
Speaker 4: for you guys to maybe help and figure this out.
Speaker 6: I just talking about this because he was talking about
Speaker 6: how he always gets canceled on I think the last
Speaker 6: three days, and it just seems like it's part of
Speaker 6: like dating.
Speaker 2: Right, I think it is part of the culture. Maybe
Speaker 2: like taking us sucks. I mean for me, I'm sure
Speaker 2: it is my fault, but for you, I'm sure it's
Speaker 2: just dating.
Speaker 1: In general, brow, Is there anything that you could think
Speaker 1: of from the date that you would think might be
Speaker 1: a red flag to her?
Speaker 4: I don't think so, because she wouldn't have given her number,
Speaker 4: and I couldn't imagine there's anything I did or it said,
Speaker 4: or came across as being rude ring like that. No,
Speaker 4: And like I said, she's a knockout beautiful. So maybe
Speaker 4: she has a bunch of guys in her dating Q
Speaker 4: And you know, why would she why would she spend
Speaker 4: time with me?
Speaker 2: I don't know somebody, she definitely does have a bunch
Speaker 2: of dudes.
Speaker 6: Brown works, because that doesn't mean that you don't deserve
Speaker 6: a shot.
Speaker 3: And you sound awesome.
Speaker 1: You could be the best of the bunch of dudes.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song, we'll come back, and we're going
Speaker 1: to establish correspondence with Tracy. We will communicate with her
Speaker 1: and figure out why she's not calling you back, why
Speaker 1: she canceled on you at the last second. It's not cool.
Speaker 1: We'll do it right after this when we do your
Speaker 1: second date update. Hold on then.
Speaker 6: Date. You're in the middle of a second ate update update,
Speaker 6: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 6: right after you here Part two.
Speaker 1: They say one of the keys to impressing a woman
Speaker 1: is to do something excellent in her presence, And I
Speaker 1: feel like just listening to Lucas's story today, you know,
Speaker 1: he may not sound like the most suave guy in
Speaker 1: the world, but the fact that he walked up to
Speaker 1: the hostess that day and said, hey, baby girl, I
Speaker 1: brought some special candles for my mama's birthday. I don't
Speaker 1: can you grab these from me? Oh? Put them on
Speaker 1: top of her moist birthday cake he has.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I mean if it was maybe somebody else's cake.
Speaker 1: Don't listen to her, Lucas, that was a pro move.
Speaker 2: No, you don't use mom and moist in the same
Speaker 2: Yeah you do.
Speaker 1: You're no amateur, Lucas. You are a suave man.
Speaker 4: I am, Yes, I am.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. That's the confidence I'm talking about. Anyway,
Speaker 1: him and Tracy never really ended up having a date date,
Speaker 1: but he did get her phone number and they did
Speaker 1: set up a time when they're supposed to meet. She
Speaker 1: canceled though, right before it was supposed to happen. So
Speaker 1: we're gonna try and help him figure out why. You're ready, Lucas,
Speaker 1: you're gonna turn the charm up to eleven for.
Speaker 4: Us, charm up to eleven. But I can't say that.
Speaker 4: I'm not nervous.
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, I mean you're super likable. You seem awesome.
Speaker 3: I think we can do this.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Man, We're gonna call Tracy here.
Speaker 4: I'm ready, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: All right, Here we go.
Speaker 8: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, is this Tracy? Yes, Hey Tracy. My name is
Speaker 1: jeff from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: How you doing.
Speaker 7: I'm okay.
Speaker 4: You're from a radio show.
Speaker 1: A morning radio show.
Speaker 3: Hey, Tracy.
Speaker 1: Hi, Hey, And we do a segment on our show
Speaker 1: called a second Date Update. That's where we help our
Speaker 1: listeners reconnect with people after they've gone out on a date. Now,
Speaker 1: you didn't go out with this guy on an official
Speaker 1: date yet, but you were supposed to. His name's Lucas.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 7: Oh here reach do you?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: He was excited about you.
Speaker 8: Yeah, Oh my god. This is really embarrassing.
Speaker 1: Embarrassed for you, for him.
Speaker 7: I don't think I should talk about her.
Speaker 3: Are you in a relationship and he didn't know or something? No?
Speaker 7: No, no, I just oh god, I don't want to
Speaker 7: say I just like I don't want to embarrass him.
Speaker 3: Yea, he told us about the terrible jokes he made.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he said he laughed though I did, okay. And
Speaker 1: not only that, he said that you gave him your
Speaker 1: phone number, and you guys actually set up a time
Speaker 1: to meet, but you canceled at the last second.
Speaker 4: Well, it's just it's.
Speaker 7: Been a lot since we met that day.
Speaker 2: It's been a lot, a lot.
Speaker 7: Like he seems like a really sweet and since you're
Speaker 7: a nice guy, I'm sure he is.
Speaker 3: It's just why are you convince yourself?
Speaker 1: Did he come off like too much of a player?
Speaker 1: Because I kind of I kind of got that vibe.
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, sometimes.
Speaker 7: It's funny. You mentioned his mom, So in the days afterwards,
Speaker 7: like I started to get some text messages from her.
Speaker 1: What from Lucas's mom?
Speaker 7: Yes, huh, I really don't. I don't know how she
Speaker 7: could have gotten my number. Maybe they lived together.
Speaker 2: Why would he give it to her?
Speaker 3: What you about?
Speaker 1: What was she saying to you?
Speaker 7: She like texted me if she could call me, and
Speaker 7: I felt awkward, so I answered up answering and ended
Speaker 7: up talking what what about? She said, Look, if I'm
Speaker 7: going to be frank, your boobs are too big.
Speaker 3: Comment, Wait, his body shame you that?
Speaker 2: Hell my gosh.
Speaker 7: Yes, and Chris is like she has to be kidding,
Speaker 7: and she's like, well, I'm serious, and and she says, well,
Speaker 7: Lucas doesn't have much experience with that, and he's used
Speaker 7: to dating much smaller chested women.
Speaker 2: Like herself, Like he can't handle her.
Speaker 3: She did not bring herself. She did not say that.
Speaker 8: Yes, she did know.
Speaker 7: She's just like, your boobs are going to overwhelm him.
Speaker 3: You should have seen him when he was a baby.
Speaker 3: He didn't know, Like we had a hard time latching.
Speaker 2: And I'm imagining like sneaking out of the room and
Speaker 2: calling his mom like mom, I'm really overwhelmed. Right now?
Speaker 2: What do I do here?
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think there's any way that Lucas
Speaker 1: could have possibly known that this was going to happen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope.
Speaker 3: I mean that's the one benefit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but well maybe he didn't know, because we should
Speaker 1: probably ask him. And that's why I need to tell you, Tracy,
Speaker 1: Lucas is on the other line right now.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 3: He needed to hear this. He really needed to hear this.
Speaker 5: Lucas there, Yeah, I heard everything, and my mother's in
Speaker 5: the room and I'm I'm.
Speaker 4: About to wait.
Speaker 3: Why is she need the room?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 4: It doesn't matter why she's in the at the room
Speaker 4: and I want to go talk to her right now.
Speaker 4: This is so embarrassing.
Speaker 1: Hold on, Lucas, did you know that your mom was
Speaker 1: texting Tracy?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: I had no idea.
Speaker 1: Sorry.
Speaker 6: I mean, is the boom is the boogas surprise for you,
Speaker 6: Lucas or is this a discussion you've had with your
Speaker 6: mom before?
Speaker 4: Complete surprise? And it probably comes from that magazine she
Speaker 4: found when I was seventy.
Speaker 2: No, you did not.
Speaker 3: Need to say that.
Speaker 7: Really, that does not help you.
Speaker 2: Whatever, guy, what a magazine even was? That's hilarious.
Speaker 1: I mean, Lucas, I really think you need to talk
Speaker 1: to Tracy here because she sounds pretty freaked out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and apologize.
Speaker 4: I am gonna apologize. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Okay, can you focus on Tracy for a second, rip
Speaker 1: yourself away from your mom for two minutes.
Speaker 4: Sorry, everybody, I'm nervous. Tracy. I want you to listen
Speaker 4: to me. You made me laugh and you're the most
Speaker 4: beautiful woman I've ever met in my life. And when
Speaker 4: I walked in and I saw you gazed at me
Speaker 4: and you like two even.
Speaker 3: I think he's trying. Guys, he is your sweet Lucas.
Speaker 7: I feel like you're trying to. Maybe it's just a
Speaker 7: different experience. Maybe we're in just in areas of our lives.
Speaker 7: I'm like, you know, you're you're really close with your
Speaker 7: mom and more waste than one.
Speaker 4: I don't think that's funny, but sure.
Speaker 3: I mean, Tracy, you can hear he feels terrible. He
Speaker 3: had nothing to do with it.
Speaker 1: And we don't even know if that's true. That's just
Speaker 1: what his mom said. Lucas, what do you think could
Speaker 1: you handle a bigger parent?
Speaker 2: You got this, bro.
Speaker 1: Yeah, your mom doesn't believe in you, but.
Speaker 2: You can handle that, Luca.
Speaker 1: Tell her, Lucas, tell Tracy that you could handle her.
Speaker 4: Tracy, and can tell you this with one hundred percent
Speaker 4: certainty that your boobs will never overwhelm me.
Speaker 1: I'll look right in the eye, man, I could just
Speaker 1: see that in the wedding vows.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was really beautiful.
Speaker 1: It was, And I think this is a good time
Speaker 1: to ask Tracy. We would love to send you and
Speaker 1: Lucas out on another date. Mom will not be there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: A real one on one date and we will pay
Speaker 1: for it.
Speaker 2: Just don't bring a lot of cleavage.
Speaker 7: What do you say, Tracy, I mean I thought talking
Speaker 7: to his mom was the weirdest thing, really been strange.
Speaker 7: We have no I don't know, I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 7: we can keep texting for a little bit, see where
Speaker 7: it goes.
Speaker 4: Something.
Speaker 3: The door is still tracked open.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Lucas, Tracy, I would love to receive a text
Speaker 5: from you, and then I will send a text back,
Speaker 5: and then we can start all over.
Speaker 2: And and if.
Speaker 4: You want to send me a picture, that's totally fine.
Speaker 7: All right, that's not.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Maybe a good idea terrible timing.
Speaker 4: Maybe we can share a bottle of pinots.
Speaker 7: Wir charmer brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: All right, we've all been waiting for this. Tracy and
Speaker 1: Lucas are back once again to give all of us
Speaker 1: an update.
Speaker 3: Is his mom on the phone too, I don't know, Lucas.
Speaker 1: Is your mom there?
Speaker 4: Well, she's in the bathroom right now.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's hope that she stays there for this because
Speaker 1: we don't have a lot of time, but obviously we
Speaker 1: have a lot of questions we want to ask you too.
Speaker 1: But let's start with the simple one. Are you too
Speaker 1: currently together? Are you not together? Like, what's the relationship status?
Speaker 8: Yes, well we are back together?
Speaker 3: Wait? Back together?
Speaker 2: What does that means?
Speaker 8: I have to be real. I I was kind of
Speaker 8: hesitant to go out with Lucas again, and there was
Speaker 8: about a month before we even arranged you anything. I mean,
Speaker 8: there's just some exchanges, We had some texts and there
Speaker 8: were some nice things that he said. So I decide
Speaker 8: to go out with Lucas again.
Speaker 3: Lucas, how are you doing? It was a rave review
Speaker 3: right there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm doing really great, and I just want to
Speaker 4: you know, I have some news for everybody and the
Speaker 4: listeners and everything. And last week I actually asked her
Speaker 4: to be my girlfriend, like exclusively?
Speaker 1: Has she answered?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 4: Yes, I did.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, you guys are official.
Speaker 3: How does your mom feel about that?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 4: She loved it. She even paid for my backlax your backlax.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not sure if we wanted to know about that,
Speaker 1: But the question that we did want to know the
Speaker 1: answer to Tracy was Lucas's mom.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: Was he not up for the challenge of handling a
Speaker 1: woman of your caliber?
Speaker 8: You know? I'm happy to say that his mom was
Speaker 8: one hundred wrongs.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was totally nervous. I mean, here's what I did.
Speaker 4: I looked up tutorials on YouTube about like techniques and like, oh.
Speaker 8: My gosh, I don't need to know that.
Speaker 3: Okay, I know what you're nervous for, but now I
Speaker 3: do again.
Speaker 1: The tutorials paid off.
Speaker 4: Though, Oh my gosh. Yeah, I mean, actually, I'm going
Speaker 4: to start making a blog to help like other nervous guys.
Speaker 7: Okay, please don't do that.
Speaker 1: Get some diagrams. Well, good, keep us updated and let
Speaker 1: you know when your blog goes live so that Jose
Speaker 1: and I can check it out. I know we could
Speaker 1: use some pointers.
Speaker 2: Still, congratulations on your back, my friend.
Speaker 4: That was a joke. I was just kidding, joke.
Speaker 3: I didn't get it either. He's serious as well.
Speaker 1: Who's that all right?
Speaker 8: Broken Jeffrey in the morning,