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Speaker 1: A happy Labor Day weekend. It's working Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 1: morning like we do every Saturday. We got a double

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Speaker 1: dose for you on this Second Date podcast. Yeah, two

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Speaker 1: classics back to back that we hope you enjoy, you know,

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Speaker 1: put on while you're driving or stuck in traffic, doing

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Speaker 1: some housework, just.

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Speaker 2: In bed not moving. That's a game I like to play.

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Speaker 1: Is that how you like your three weekend times?

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Speaker 3: It's like, how can I move?

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Speaker 4: I hate?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: What do you see in the comments of like sis? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Benji Wolf said I hate this show. I will never

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Speaker 1: listen again until tomorrow. That's the attitude we like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, standard, that's right.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get this hated double classics Second Date

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Speaker 2: We're so jaded that when we hear one of our

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Speaker 2: listeners say they had an extremely intense moment on a date,

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Speaker 2: we immediately think, oh god, it's got to be bad. Yeah. Absolutely,

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Speaker 2: somebody fought a waiter, it started a fire, aliens abducted them.

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Speaker 2: But no, the woman will the phone assured us it

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Speaker 2: wasn't intense bad. It was intense good, so good that

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Speaker 2: it actually left her feeling like she may have met

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Speaker 2: her forever person.

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Speaker 1: Who on this show.

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Speaker 2: That is intense. You're gonna hear all about the moment

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Speaker 2: in your second date update coming up, next second date update.

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Speaker 2: What's worse than getting ghosted? Should we have a term

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Speaker 2: for that?

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Speaker 1: Get him deceased?

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Speaker 2: Good, cryptid, cryptid, black holed.

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Speaker 1: I bet these are all terms already that we probably

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Speaker 1: shouldn't google.

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Speaker 2: Maybe whatever you call it. That's what our listener, Nicole says,

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Speaker 2: happened to her because not only did her date block her,

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Speaker 2: he's removed his entire dating profile from the apps. So

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Speaker 2: Nicole got black holed bad.

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Speaker 1: I think she just got blocked.

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Speaker 2: Actually, it really doesn't sound right now that I say

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Speaker 2: it out loud, but Nicole, either way, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, oh, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I mean you are very perky for someone who is devastated.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Why on earth would you want to get

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Speaker 1: a hold of someone that's blocked you?

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Speaker 5: If I did anything wrong, I want to know about it.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, So let's start at the beginning. Tell us about

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Speaker 2: this guy that you met.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so I met Elijah on a dating app, and

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Speaker 5: Elijah on his dating profile it was very clear it

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Speaker 5: literally said here to find my wife with intentionality and.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, so he's not here to just have fun

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Speaker 2: and see what happens.

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Speaker 5: He's like, right, he might be married.

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Speaker 1: I thought Alexis was going to break out in hives

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Speaker 1: you just reading that description of something else.

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of women would be turned

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Speaker 2: off by something that strong. But that was appealing to you, Nicole.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm looking.

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Speaker 5: For something serious. I want to build a future with someone.

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Speaker 5: So I found it really refreshing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean.

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Speaker 3: People are so vague.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of pressure going into a first date

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Speaker 2: You know, so you went to Vegas to get hitched

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Speaker 5: I mean I would be really pissed if we got

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Speaker 2: It would Yeah, what did you guys do?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 5: So we got together and we did something a little

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Speaker 5: Dogs parts and we just chat and we chatted and

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Speaker 2: Did you bring your dog?

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Speaker 1: She doesn't have one.

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Speaker 2: You don't have a dog, That's what I was going

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Speaker 3: I have never done that. Can you just show up

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Speaker 1: Bark just a normal park.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never even thought to do that.

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Speaker 1: I don't do the bar where people bring their dog.

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Speaker 2: Like you're banned from most public space.

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Speaker 3: But that's not because of the dogs. Okay, the women.

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Speaker 1: Still, this is really cute because it does sound like

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Speaker 1: a date that a couple who's been married for twenty

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Speaker 2: Of people watching your dog watching, how was it?

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Speaker 6: It was really fun?

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Speaker 5: It was great, Like it was so true. And then

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Speaker 5: I hadn't known, and we ended up making out in

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 5: What was also interesting, which I actually really liked, is

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Speaker 5: I just want you to know that I'm looking for

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Speaker 1: WHOA you could not laugh with some subscribe such a

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Speaker 1: tender moment.

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Speaker 2: No, you get so comfortable you have such a hard.

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Speaker 2: I just laughing at something else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, two hands.

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Speaker 2: No, that that was very sweet. I thought that was

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Speaker 2: very a nice moment to stop and make out both.

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Speaker 3: Hands, grab both cheeks, bring maybe your wife part?

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Speaker 7: Yes, I mean it was nice.

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Speaker 5: I was like, oh my god, maybe this is my

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Speaker 3: That moment was special.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Maybe you guys are perfect for each other.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Everybody's in different spaces of dating. If

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Speaker 2: she is ready for this, if this is what you want, Nicoll,

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Speaker 2: then we got your back on it.

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Speaker 1: How messed up did you do that? You say that

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Speaker 2: What happened after that? Did something left?

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Speaker 5: He gave me this romantic kiss again, and he was like, look,

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Speaker 5: I'm looking for my forever and I hope it's you.

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Speaker 2: I hope.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I thought that the whole time it was you, And

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Speaker 3: Maybe you're much like I really hope you you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It sounds like he's now a host

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't find out when we come back from

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Speaker 2: the break and spend the giant wheel Giant.

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Speaker 3: I really hope it too.

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Speaker 6: It does sound like that.

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Speaker 7: Not again?

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Speaker 2: So okay, how long ago.

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Speaker 7: Was that date?

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Speaker 5: This was about a week and a half ago, And like,

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Speaker 5: I went home after my yoga craft and I said specifically,

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Speaker 5: but I don't want to message him. Let me go

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Speaker 5: look on his profile. And I went on the app

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Speaker 5: and I was like, what the hell, like, why are

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Speaker 5: we no longer match? Where are all our messages? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Gone, is it in your mind that

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Speaker 2: maybe somebody else has stepped in? And like he found

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Speaker 2: I mean because people are dating on like lots of

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Speaker 1: Sounds like me if someone proposed to him, he'd say yes, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I said I love you to a lot of people

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Speaker 2: that I didn't it too, So well that's just me,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure, yeah, I think And.

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Speaker 1: Jeff laughed at himself through the whole thing, very uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: with big emotions.

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Speaker 2: Let's figure out where Elijah's head is at why he

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Speaker 2: took down his dating profile, And.

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Speaker 1: It totally makes sense why you would want answers here.

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Speaker 5: I looked up Instagram and I would block there, like

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Speaker 5: I literally can't see anything that's not good.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, all right, it's a bad side.

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Speaker 2: I hope we don't block you at the end of

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Speaker 2: this either. We'll find out when we come back. Get

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Speaker 2: some answers and your second date update. Right after this

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Speaker 2: second date update, Vegas has set the odds at nine

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Speaker 2: to one that this call ends in a marriage proposal.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I'm really bad with thoughts.

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Speaker 2: I'm honest.

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Speaker 1: Good, No, you ever know?

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Speaker 3: Should be well?

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Speaker 2: I don't really know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's probably.

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Speaker 1: You know what, Jeff, I'm not gonna bet anymore.

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Speaker 2: The fact that even Vegas is in on this should

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Speaker 2: be kind of shocking, because Nicole has asked us to

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Speaker 2: call a guy named Elijah, who repeatedly told her that

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Speaker 2: he is not dating casually.

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Speaker 1: He says it a lot. He says it on his

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Speaker 2: Very intentionally searching for his wife, and even stopped mid

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Speaker 2: makeout to grab her face and remind her this French

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Speaker 2: thing isn't for fun. It is a wife hunt. I'm

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Speaker 2: setting atone with this tomb so afterwards. The weird part.

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Speaker 1: Is that I.

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Speaker 2: Afterwards he blocked in Nicole and deleted his entire dating profile.

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Speaker 1: Divorce and for Nicole. It's like, I'm guessing Nicole, maybe

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Speaker 1: I'm wrong. This is like the most romantic thing that's

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Speaker 1: probably ever happened on a first day, right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I felt like a real connection. I thought to myself,

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, like this guy knows what he wants,

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Speaker 5: and like I was so hopeful, and then all of

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Speaker 5: a sudden, it's like, how can I not take this personally? Like,

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Speaker 5: not only did he delete the profile block me on

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Speaker 10: Yeah, well, this is one of those dudes that actions

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Speaker 10: speak louder than words. They'll tell you everything you want

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Speaker 10: to hear, and then they won't follow through and do it.

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Speaker 1: I still feel like that, I hope it's you. Line

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Speaker 1: is just not sitting right with me. Yeah, Like it

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Speaker 1: feels almost like there's a job opening and he's trying

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Speaker 1: to still a position, Like he's not connecting with you,

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Speaker 1: he's just trying to make this next step. I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm reading too much of it into.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he found one of those Russian bride websites and

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Speaker 2: he realized how easy it is to do that. So

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Speaker 2: I hope that's not the answer, but she loves me

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Speaker 2: her to say, let's call see if he picks up,

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Speaker 2: and hopefully he has some explanation. Here, I'm downing his

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Speaker 2: number right now. Let's do it.

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Speaker 7: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey is this Elijah. Yeah, this is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we

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Speaker 2: are a hoot and a half.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you never say that again.

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Speaker 2: We are.

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Speaker 1: It's like just when we get popular.

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Speaker 2: This is what's boosting the ratings. Elija, you still there.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, we're doing better until jeff started talking.

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Speaker 1: But we're here.

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Speaker 2: We're calling with a purpose. It's a segment that we're

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Speaker 2: with a person they went on a date with that

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Speaker 2: they had a really nice time with. Darn it all.

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Speaker 1: Right, dude, I am so interested in hearing.

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Speaker 2: Story because we heard that you went out with a

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, yeah, I mean it sounds like a really

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: I mean it was cool.

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Speaker 2: It was cool, Okay, positive, it is positive.

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Speaker 1: I just didn't you don't seem like a casual guy.

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Speaker 1: From what she explained, was.

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Speaker 3: Intense than I assumed.

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Speaker 2: She definitely intense is a good word because she said

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Speaker 1: I don't know. He said, you.

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Speaker 10: Guys, love is a wife dating.

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Speaker 2: So we heard about that you're looking for a wife.

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Speaker 7: I mean, not anymore, no way, I found.

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Speaker 2: Wait, does that means there's another person?

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Speaker 7: Well, here's the thing.

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Speaker 9: After the date, I went to a clairvoyant, and uh

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Speaker 9: I got new is that my wife isn't even in

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 3: Okay? You want to hang.

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Speaker 6: Hold on?

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Speaker 1: I just dropped my pick because I just can't.

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Speaker 3: Okay, hold on.

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Speaker 2: The psychic said, your wife is not in this realm? Right,

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Speaker 2: it makes a lot of sense to me. I get

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Speaker 9: Honestly, I believe that I've married other people in my

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Speaker 2: Okay, So this same person, your soulmate that's been with

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Speaker 1: That's who you're looking for.

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Speaker 2: She's not here.

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Speaker 9: Nah, Why how.

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Speaker 10: Do you know, brother, Like, how do you know that

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Speaker 3: I know?

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Speaker 7: But yeah, you're.

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Speaker 3: Looking for is she say it's me? Hi, honey, like.

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Speaker 1: I'm from the seventeen that kind of the part of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 9: My clare voyant said that I found my soulmate in

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Speaker 9: every single dimension, but not this one.

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Speaker 2: She doesn't exist in this one. No, that she's not

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Speaker 1: Okay, it doesn't matter where she has I think this

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, because we have a real life woman who

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you're freed up in this realm, you know,

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Speaker 2: Nicole we're talking about Nicole. Obviously, Nicole felt that connection

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Speaker 7: Okay, what do you mean that's a good thing?

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Speaker 1: You told her again and again, I'm looking for my wife.

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Speaker 1: I hope it's you.

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Speaker 7: Is this a sign?

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Speaker 1: Is a sign?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes it is.

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Speaker 2: Look, Nicole felt like you guys had a deep, deep connection,

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Speaker 2: and now you actually have a phone connection to her too,

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Speaker 2: because she's on the other line waiting to talk to you.

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Speaker 7: What I.

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Speaker 2: That's Nicole.

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Speaker 9: I know she's on the phone, but my wife's dead.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, past life.

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Speaker 2: I thought she wasn't in this realm, right, correct?

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Speaker 7: She never made it here?

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, wait what Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Exactly Nicole? So why did you We never even got

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Speaker 1: to why you blocked Nicole?

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Speaker 2: This is why because she's not his wife. Nobody's going

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Speaker 2: to be his wife though, Are we understanding that right?

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Speaker 2: If you're not looking for your wife since she's not

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Speaker 2: at all.

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Speaker 9: I guess somethings are better off unexplained.

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Speaker 7: I don't have all the answer.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you're right, this is definitely unexplainable.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think the explanation makes sense. He was searching

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Speaker 2: for his wife the whole time, but not just anybody,

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Speaker 2: a specific woman from another dimension. And you're not.

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Speaker 5: Think this clairvoyant is really messing with you, Like I

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Speaker 5: feel like she is trying to kind of be the

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Speaker 5: unquote truth is. And wow, I might not be your

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Speaker 5: celestial being from a different realm, but I think you're

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Speaker 5: going to miss out on some really great girls in

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Speaker 5: this realm if you don't give us a real shot.

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Speaker 1: That was good, That was so well spoken.

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Speaker 2: What do you think about that, Elijah?

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Speaker 9: All I heard was that she was talking about my clairvoyant.

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Speaker 1: Who is this man?

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Speaker 5: Your clearvoyant? Can meet me outside?

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Speaker 2: Wow, let's put the wife and the clairvoyant stuff aside.

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Speaker 2: What can we What about just having fun with Nicole,

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Speaker 2: going out on another date and enjoying this life.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you've got a woman that has heard all

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Speaker 5: I mean, I guess I do something wrong specifically for

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Speaker 5: you to block me.

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Speaker 2: You weren't my wife.

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Speaker 9: I don't know how many times I told you that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, maybe I was.

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Speaker 5: Maybe the clairvoyant is wrong. I mean, I'm just saying

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Speaker 5: I don't like being rejected, and I also have to

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Speaker 5: had a great time.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, well, I know that my wife didn't talk that

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Speaker 1: Clear my goshee is purposely avoiding him now, dude, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the wife wasn't born into this century.

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Speaker 5: Maybe my point in this lifetime to tell you to

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I know Nicole still is fighting for this,

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Speaker 2: So Elijah, I think she's just fighting. I get that

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Speaker 2: you have doubts about Nicole. What if you and Nicole

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Speaker 2: went to your clairvoyant together and we would pay for

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Speaker 2: the uber ride?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, can we have a fight, Nicole?

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Speaker 2: Give it a chance?

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Speaker 1: Would Nicole even do that?

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I'm just confused and curious as to what the

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to know it's going to

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Speaker 1: lead you down at dark Trail.

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Speaker 2: I want this to happen. So that's a yes from Nicole. Elijah.

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Speaker 2: It's up to you.

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Speaker 9: My clairevoyant is in chief, so if she pays, then

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Speaker 9: I'm cool with it.

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Speaker 2: All right, Nicole, I'm sure you're down for that.

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Speaker 5: I mean, hey, it's on the radio. We can even

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Speaker 5: come back and tell you guys, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know about want to know?

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Speaker 2: Do we want to know?

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Speaker 7: That?

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Speaker 2: That's going to be a no?

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Speaker 1: From all.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like it's a yes, Eliza and Nicole. You

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Speaker 1: I can't wait till we do a second date update

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Speaker 1: from the next realm.

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Speaker 3: It's going to be expensive phone bill.

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Speaker 8: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Is that literally the only second date update where we

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Speaker 2: actually got a yes but then said we don't need

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is not remember Ever, I am still baffled

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Speaker 1: by that entire conversation. I don't know what was real,

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Speaker 1: who believed what if they were being sincere?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, I'm sorry, girls asked for a commitment.

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Speaker 10: This guy's committed over what hundreds of years?

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Speaker 6: Valid?

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Speaker 1: Point valid? But maybe you were his wife. It'll pass life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm waiting for you, honey.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I do think maybe the missing piece in all

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Speaker 10: You know, he sounded like that's his vibe, like he

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Speaker 2: He was trying to reach the other dimension true different

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Speaker 2: means find his wife. Yeah, trying to find his wife

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Speaker 2: that way, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't see.

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Speaker 2: That.

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Speaker 1: I think Alexis was on to something where he actually

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Speaker 1: to come back like that. That's not worth coming back. Again.

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Speaker 2: You know, I call it four hundredth marriage. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 2: enough for me. The text in seven eight, five nine two.

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Speaker 2: And make sure you follow us wherever you get your podcast,

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Speaker 2: if it's on Spotify, Apple, wherever at Brook and.

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Speaker 8: Jeffrey brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Feels like every single date ever always includes the same

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Speaker 3: Did you grow up?

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Speaker 2: What are your hobbies?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: How many pieces of canalope can you fit in your mouth?

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Speaker 2: At the same time, that's actually a great quy. My

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Speaker 1: Is it slice?

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Speaker 8: Like?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't even know what to know. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to know.

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Speaker 2: I'll show you later. We challenge each.

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Speaker 1: Other's mellow balls, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: But while those might seem like pretty tame, normal conversation starters,

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Speaker 2: while her answer was one hundred percent true, he's one

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Speaker 1: That a brag.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's a brag. If you're having

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Speaker 3: It's like the office problem with it alone.

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Speaker 2: But she says after thirty five dates over the last

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Speaker 1: Her bar's very high.

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Speaker 2: Well, and now he's not calling her back right now.

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Speaker 2: The repuls becomes the repulsey, and she's on the phone

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Speaker 2: right now. Fran I love you, You disgust me. Welcome

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Speaker 6: Hey, how are you guys?

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Speaker 3: Friend?

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Speaker 1: God, I feel like your proof that when people say

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Speaker 1: you just got to put yourself out there, that it

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Speaker 1: doesn't actually always work.

458
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you put yourself out there last for years and

459
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Speaker 2: years and years. Tell us about the guy that you

460
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Speaker 2: recently met.

461
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Speaker 6: Okay, So I met this guy through the way we

462
00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:47,520
Speaker 6: always hate meeting people online dating.

463
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Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.

464
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Speaker 6: His name is Tommy. Okay, Okay, she was so handsome,

465
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Speaker 6: and you know, you see a ton of people online

466
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Speaker 6: that are attractive and you kind of don't think anything

467
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Speaker 6: of it. But I look through photos, and he had

468
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Speaker 6: this one photo of him with two cats that were

469
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Speaker 6: his cat. It was really sweet because guys always posting

470
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Speaker 6: photos with like dogs or like when they're fishing and

471
00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,439
Speaker 6: all this other stuff, and it was really sweet to

472
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Speaker 6: see something that wasn't that.

473
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Speaker 2: He posted a totally different animal. This guy's a keeper,

474
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Speaker 2: I don't know.

475
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:21,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, cat guy, it just screams. He's sensitive, he's in tune.

476
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:25,080
Speaker 1: He's not like there's no toxic masculinity stuff happening there.

477
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Speaker 2: Like if it was a tiger cat, that would be

478
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 2: a red yeah yeah, housecat, that's flax.

479
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Speaker 6: So you know, we had some really cute banter back

480
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Speaker 6: and forth, and finally he kind of dropped the tint like, oh,

481
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Speaker 6: you know, I make he's really amazing homemade enchiladas. I know,

482
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Speaker 6: I know. And he was just like, you know, how

483
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,679
Speaker 6: would you feel if I made dinner for you and

484
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Speaker 6: he came over and.

485
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Speaker 1: Did it feel too good to be true? Already? He's hot,

486
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 1: he's got cats, he cooks for you.

487
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Speaker 6: Honestly kind of, but you know, you also have that

488
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 6: thing where you're like, well maybe twenty seven or eighty

489
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 6: times a charm whatever where we're at now? So you're like,

490
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 6: we'll see.

491
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Speaker 1: I like your eternal optimism on you know, like to

492
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 1: go out on that many dates and keep trying.

493
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Speaker 6: You kind of have to be because I think if

494
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Speaker 6: you get too jaded, and that's not attractive to people either.

495
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's probably where I'm at.

496
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 2: I'm guessing you rs vp'd yes to the enchilada date.

497
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Speaker 6: I did, so, you know, I went over there, really

498
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 6: cute place, clean, another plus, so he makes these enchiladas

499
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Speaker 6: and I'm watching him cook. There's something so sexy about

500
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Speaker 6: watching a man cook. And when he knows his way

501
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Speaker 6: around the kitchen.

502
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Speaker 1: I really like it when they throw a towel like

503
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 1: over the side of their shoulder. That's like a thing

504
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 1: for me.

505
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Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, and the big chef.

506
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Speaker 5: Hats no, but I will take an apron now.

507
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 1: Is good? It's not good?

508
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll get rid of you don't need.

509
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 3: A hair net, fike mustache.

510
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:00,879
Speaker 2: Chef style. Yeah, okay.

511
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,720
Speaker 1: What was the vibe? Like the conversation?

512
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 6: So it was good, Like our banter online was pretty

513
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,920
Speaker 6: much the same in person, which is always nice. You know,

514
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 6: it wasn't awkward and we're chatting back and forth, and

515
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 6: of course inevitably It always comes to the same question,

516
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:16,680
Speaker 6: which is, you know, what do you do for a living?

517
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 6: And the thing is I work in insurance. That is

518
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 6: not a sexy thing to talk about. It's boring.

519
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,400
Speaker 2: What are you talking about insurance? It's hot. I can

520
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 2: show you a twenty page document you have to sign on.

521
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 1: The bottom, all in nine fonts. So you told them insurance.

522
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

523
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 6: Well, if I'm feeling it out and the vibe is good,

524
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 6: I'll usually be pretty honest and be like, my day

525
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 6: job is insurance, but I'm also an author and I'm

526
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,040
Speaker 6: working on a book right now.

527
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: Oh right, And that's true, right, it is true.

528
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 6: Yes, But the problem is they always say, well, what

529
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 6: are you working on now? And I am really honest

530
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 6: about it, and this is true. I'm working on a

531
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 6: collection of all of the worst states that I've been on.

532
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 10: Oh okay, Yeah, it's a slightly relatable. I have a

533
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:11,640
Speaker 10: lot of comedian friends, and it's hard to date because

534
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 10: girls immediately go, oh, I don't want to end up

535
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 10: in one of your jokes on stage.

536
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, to be like, I don't want to end up

537
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 3: in one of your books, yeah.

538
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: And then don't mess it up.

539
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 3: Well, that's a lot of pressure, brock, It's easy to

540
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:22,159
Speaker 3: mess up.

541
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 2: Is that the vibe of what happened with Tommy.

542
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, it really kind of derailed. And you know, we

543
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 6: finished dinner. Dinner was great still. But this is the

544
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 6: thing I usually will do too. It's like, I don't

545
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:34,639
Speaker 6: want to put too much pressure on somebody, especially if

546
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 6: you're like invited to their home or whatever. So I

547
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 6: made plans already to go and meet up with my

548
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 6: friends after we had dinner in a bar and so

549
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,479
Speaker 6: and I told him that I said, you're more than

550
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 6: welcome to come, hoping that he would.

551
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,439
Speaker 1: But you're more than welcome to come isn't always a

552
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: full invite. It feels like a pity invite.

553
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 10: I feel like, you know, I would like to be

554
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 10: invited like that, you know, Like for me, it's like

555
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 10: it is, I don't feel pressured where it's like.

556
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 3: Shooting out if I say no, I'm rejecting her.

557
00:24:58,720 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: It's interesting.

558
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 10: It's kind of like, oh, you know what, I don't

559
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:02,879
Speaker 10: think this time, maybe next time.

560
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 1: What did he say?

561
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 8: Oh?

562
00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:09,360
Speaker 6: He said now, yeah, And it was really weird and

563
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 6: like we had this really awkward hug goodbye. And I

564
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 6: really liked him a lot, and I really just want

565
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 6: some clarity, because I feel like this is the thing

566
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 6: that you can't be mad at somebody for working on

567
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 6: something well before you ever met well and.

568
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 1: He doesn't have anything to do with him.

569
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 2: I mean, what was his reaction, because you seem to

570
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 2: think that this was the main part of the night

571
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 2: where things started to go downhill, Like, tell us more

572
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 2: about how Tommy reacted when you told him about the book.

573
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 6: I got a vibe from him that he just started

574
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 6: to like internalize and be like, oh, well, is that

575
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 6: why she's on a date with me? Is she really

576
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 6: interested in me? Or is this research?

577
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 7: You know?

578
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: Well, you should tell him your past, the research stage

579
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 1: that was months ago. You're well into the second edit

580
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: of this thing.

581
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 10: When he rejected you, you should have just pulled out

582
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 10: a notebook and been like.

583
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 7: Well.

584
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 2: As for chapter four, well we'll see once and for

585
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 2: all if he does end up in your book. In

586
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 2: the book, I don't want to be in that book.

587
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,400
Speaker 2: Why do you want to be It's the worst experiences,

588
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:12,959
Speaker 2: you know what.

589
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 3: I'm probably already in her book.

590
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

591
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:20,959
Speaker 2: Actually, we'll come back and we're gonna call Tommy and

592
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 2: see if we can get you another date with him.

593
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 2: When we do your second ate update, Next second date update.

594
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 2: Top three worst things you could say to a guy

595
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 2: on a first date. I'm not who I said I was. Yeah,

596
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 2: your dad was better. Oh I'm a New York Jets fan.

597
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 3: Oh booike. You just love mediocrity.

598
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:52,199
Speaker 1: It doesn't exist, Like they don't really exist.

599
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 2: They're too embarrassed to admit it. But also not a

600
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 2: great idea to tell a guy. I'm currently writing a

601
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 2: book about the worst dudes I've ever gone out.

602
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 3: It's pretty dang bad.

603
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 8: Bro.

604
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: Is it bad though? I mean, it's your first date

605
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: with her, you think so?

606
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 2: Its off of the guys. In securities are many. And

607
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 2: that's exactly what Franz said when she was out with

608
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 2: Tommy the other night, while he was making her in chiladas.

609
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 2: That moment kind of derailed their entire night.

610
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,959
Speaker 1: But he was a guy that had cats in the

611
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: photo of his dating profile. He shouldn't have had insecurities.

612
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: What you know, she understands what I'm saying, right, Did

613
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 1: that make sense to you, fran I.

614
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 6: Mean, yeah, I thought he was more in touch with that.

615
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: Perfect It's just like the vibe of cat dudes give

616
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: it off, like I'm stable. I know who I am.

617
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 3: Huh, checklist before you buy a cat?

618
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: Say that's the vibe, that's the vibe.

619
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:51,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I'll accept that.

620
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 2: Okay, nothing toxic about what Brooke just I don't think

621
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 2: shouldn't have insecurities. All right, Let's see if he agrees

622
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:01,879
Speaker 2: with that sentiment when we call him right now. You

623
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 2: ready to do this, Fran, Let's do it, hoping the

624
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: cats answer, Let's give it a try. Hello, Hey is

625
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 2: this Tommy?

626
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 7: Uh? Yeah?

627
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 2: You an insecure boy? Tommy? What why would you say that?

628
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 2: I won't see what you thought?

629
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 8: No?

630
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,959
Speaker 3: I thought he wasn't Tommy. Sorry, Sorry, we were having

631
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 3: a discussion before we called you.

632
00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's spilled over into this phone call. We're a

633
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

634
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 4: Yoh, why are you calling me?

635
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 2: Good question. We're doing this segment called a second Date Update,

636
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: and one of our listeners asked us to reach out

637
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 2: to you because you two hung out the other night,

638
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 2: remember Fran.

639
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he cooked enchiladas for her, we heard, which

640
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: is a pretty awesome move.

641
00:28:58,880 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 7: How do you know all this.

642
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:04,479
Speaker 2: Is straight from Fran's mouth, well, Friand's mouth to my

643
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 2: ears to my mouth.

644
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 1: Why are you making everything Frand told us is what

645
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: he's trying to say. Yeah, because she's she likes you.

646
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 2: She likes you, and she wants to see you again

647
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 2: and is confused why it hasn't happened yet.

648
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 7: Well, I mean, just being honest, it was. It was

649
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 7: a little weird. Oh weird.

650
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well here's the deal, man, Like we get

651
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,719
Speaker 2: emails all the time from people asking us to do

652
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 2: these for them. And Fran admitted that she's dated a

653
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 2: lot of people and you stood out among all the guys.

654
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: You were different and she really liked you. And she

655
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 2: also wishes that she didn't bring up the book that

656
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 2: she was writing.

657
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 7: Well, okay, so that's the thing.

658
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 4: I mean, it was going fine, you know, it was

659
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 4: she seems nice enough, you know, it's a five date,

660
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 4: and then she brings up this book and it's just like,

661
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 4: I mean, it's so weird, Like, am I just content

662
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 4: for you to put into your book?

663
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: But she wouldn't tell you about the book if she

664
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: thought you were going to be in it, like just

665
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: sharing what's going on in your life, her life, and

666
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 1: she had already written about all the other bad dates

667
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: she was really thought she was on a good date

668
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: with you.

669
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, But here's the thing. So then I'm like, Okay,

670
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 4: this is kind of weird, but maybe it's fine, you know, maybe.

671
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 7: This doesn't include me. But then I was like, hey, so,

672
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 7: what are some of the bad dates that you went on?

673
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: Yeah?

674
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 2: Goodness, A good question.

675
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: Then you know what not to do well, And I'm

676
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: sure she has like some big stories that she made

677
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: bigger just to make the book entertaining.

678
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Speaker 2: Too, right, Oh, yeah, did she tell you or did

679
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: she keep it a secret? You have to buy the book.

680
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: She only read the first twenty sentences. You have to purchase.

681
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, she told me a few and hundred that she

682
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 4: didn't embellish, Okay, but one of them she was like,

683
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 4: oh man, it was so terrible. I like went at

684
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 4: this date with this guy and he just wanted to

685
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 4: play board games all night.

686
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 1: Okay, Like we.

687
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,760
Speaker 4: Went back to his plays and he had Monopoly and

688
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 4: he had Scrabble and it was just like an endless

689
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 4: like that's all he wanted to.

690
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 3: Do the last three days.

691
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Speaker 1: That was her horror stories.

692
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Speaker 2: So what's the problem with that.

693
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Speaker 4: Well, the thing is is that I kind of had

694
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 4: a whole night planned and after dinner, like, what's in

695
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 4: my living room? A couple of board games?

696
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 2: Oh?

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00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: I see, so it just derailed your Okay, I can.

698
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 4: And then I had to make excuses to like sneak

699
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 4: over to the living room and like hide the game

700
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Speaker 4: I had.

701
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Speaker 3: I guess we're not going to play Connect for tonight.

702
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Speaker 1: I bet that that's not what she meant. I bet

703
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: it's not that she didn't want to play board games.

704
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,959
Speaker 1: It's just that maybe this guy had literally hours of

705
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: it playing or it was like really competitive in a

706
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: dumb way.

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Speaker 9: You know.

708
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean maybe.

709
00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 4: But then she was also like, I've been on like

710
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 4: so many days we're like guys have tried to cook

711
00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 4: for me and just like totally burnt the food. Oh

712
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 4: and I'm like in the middle of cooking, well she

713
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 4: says this. So then I'm like, oh my god, if

714
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 4: I don't get these Inchulata's perfect, I'm gonna get ripped about.

715
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 4: And I'm like it was just very stressful.

716
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Speaker 1: I mean, I could see how her stories you could

717
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 1: interpret them to be about you. I don't think that

718
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: it wasn't her intention.

719
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: Though, Yeah, and you don't have to just believe us

720
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 2: telling you that you can hear it straight from Fran's mouth.

721
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: Why do I keep.

722
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: Saying it like that?

723
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: Because she's on the other line right now wants to

724
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 2: talk to you.

725
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 7: Man.

726
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's Frand in her mouth. Yeah, go ahead,

727
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 2: Friand's mouth say stuff.

728
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 6: Hey, Sonny. I'm first of all, I'm sorry.

729
00:32:58,240 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: That's a good start.

730
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 6: Every thing that you said is true, and you would ask,

731
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 6: and I just thought it would be like they were

732
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 6: kind of funny and silly, and I just thought it

733
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 6: would be fine to kind of talk about it. But

734
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 6: I can see how that would send somebody kind of

735
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 6: into their head.

736
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 2: Tommy, are you hearing her his head?

737
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 7: Yeah? I don't know.

738
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 4: It was just like a little I mean, I don't

739
00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 4: know how you want me to feel about that, you know,

740
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,200
Speaker 4: It's just like I feel like it's like, all right, sweet,

741
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 4: put a ton of pressure on me, like on this

742
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 4: first date when.

743
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 7: I don't know you.

744
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 4: You know, well, it's a person.

745
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 6: I had no idea about the board games, and I'm

746
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 6: sorry if you felt like you would a hide step.

747
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 6: And to be clear, the board game guy tried to

748
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 6: explain settlers of Catan to me for an hour and

749
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 6: I just couldn't handle it.

750
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 2: Okay, but it's not that you hate any board games

751
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:46,040
Speaker 2: as a date night. It was just with that particular.

752
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: Guy, right, careful, Yeah, with somebody that you're.

753
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 2: Down to scrabble with, Tommy. Maybe the games.

754
00:33:52,560 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: Somebody else what you want? Mouse Trap? No, they don't care, Jose.

755
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 7: I've actually never played Hungry Hungry Hip Both.

756
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,320
Speaker 1: No, it is the worst game. It is so dumb.

757
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:12,359
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

758
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 9: It is.

759
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,959
Speaker 6: Honestly, is somebody who talked about not liking board games.

760
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 6: I really like that game?

761
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 2: All right, fine, I really, Tommy, I'm going to take

762
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 2: Fran's side here. I really don't think you need to

763
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 2: feel like insecure about her worst people I've Ever dated book,

764
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 2: Just don't read.

765
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: Maybe her second book can be about how her dating

766
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 1: life turned into a relationship, and that could be starring you.

767
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to read that.

768
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm writing the worst Coworkers I've Ever had book,

769
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 2: and no one in this room isn't it. So you

770
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 2: don't need to feel insecure about that at all.

771
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: I don't because keep talking just by comparison, But.

772
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 2: I really think you should get Fran another shot here, Tommy,

773
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 2: and if you willing to go out with her, we'll

774
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 2: pay for that date.

775
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 7: Look, I was having a good time.

776
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 4: If I can just maybe just get a promise that

777
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:16,240
Speaker 4: she's not going to write about me, that would be amazing.

778
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 1: To be a really juicy chapter that she'd have to

779
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: leave out.

780
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 6: I'll tell you what, Tommy, I will do you one better.

781
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 6: I will write about this, except I will take full

782
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:25,959
Speaker 6: responsibility and be the bad date.

783
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 2: I mean, you're using us as content to be in

784
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 2: your book.

785
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 1: I think I have to call my agent first, and

786
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: I'm sure that there's a cut that we're supposed to get.

787
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, too late, I've already had the chapter outline.

788
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: Okay, well I'm starting a new book. Worst listeners I've

789
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 2: ever told. But congratulations you guys. We're going to send.

790
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: Keep us updated, Okay, and let us know how when

791
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: the book's published as well.

792
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 2: Who wins Hungry Hungry Hippos too?

793
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 8: It's gonna be good brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

794
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 2: Textboard is blowing up right now. Not surprised. Ninety seven

795
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 2: percent of people agree Brooke is a bad person for

796
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 2: not liking Hungry Hungry Hippers.

797
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: It's not a very good game. Like, there's no strategy

798
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,359
Speaker 1: at all. You just say on that say that's all

799
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 1: you do.

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00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 2: You know, Brooke, we tend to not like things when

801
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 2: we see ourselves reflected in them. What's going on.

802
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie every time I eat my lunch

803
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 1: every day, I'm very hungry after.

804
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:37,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, the peopils were eating kale and craw healthy.

805
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:39,720
Speaker 3: It's the best game ever.

806
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,760
Speaker 1: All right, you got me, You've got.

807
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 3: Me there you eat little white balls.

808
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's hung right. I'm glad we were able to

809
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 2: get them a second date. They've only sounded like they

810
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 2: had good chemistry.

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Speaker 1: I'm curious to hear too, and if her if and

812
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: when her book actually gets published, Yeah, you know, I

813
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: hope she stays updated.

814
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 3: We should read it.

815
00:36:58,440 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, we should.

816
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 3: I mean, I'll do an audi your book.

817
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Speaker 2: Remember you can always email the show. We'll call that

818
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 2: person who isn't calling you back. Check out all of

819
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 2: our Second Day podcasts up online where we get your

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Speaker 2: podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey