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Speaker 1: Housing Tricks. Welcome to you? Had another that? Okay, welcome

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Speaker 1: to you another episode guys of Horrible Decisions. I am

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Speaker 1: one half of this podcast right here that you're tuned into.

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Speaker 1: to hi. I'm weazy. We have a guest here who's like,

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Speaker 1: have you ever done a podcast before? We just had

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Speaker 1: to do this eight times. We did not do it

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Speaker 1: eight times. We just did it a fu. How would

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Speaker 1: you open up? Do you have a podcast, Lola? I

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Speaker 1: had a podcast. It's since pretty much indefinitely done, but

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Speaker 1: I'm starting a new one that's about fantasy football, so

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Speaker 1: absolutely nothing to do it. Can you try to give

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Speaker 1: us a new and just just like try to improve

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Speaker 1: it right now? I actually just like starting in conversations

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Speaker 1: other pie, And I don't know if I really like it,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I I do like the intro type

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Speaker 1: getting a snippet of I like it that way. But

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Speaker 1: when you control your boards and and you and it's

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Speaker 1: you and Eddie, so that makes sense. But when when

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Speaker 1: so casual though, Like I was recently telling somebody in

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Speaker 1: conversation of um trying to learn to interview, trying to

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Speaker 1: But why does it keep happening to me? And I've

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Speaker 1: really been trying to learn why the cutting off is

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Speaker 1: they will and they will forever still be upset that

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Speaker 1: there's some cutting off going on. Anyway, though, I do

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Speaker 1: want to introduce our guests for this week's episode. By

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Speaker 1: the way, I couldn't tell because you have curls? Are

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Speaker 1: you quite? I employed? Okay, So you're only one of

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Speaker 1: the handful that we've had here on this podcast. You know,

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Speaker 1: that's like, you really have to be a good one. Seriously,

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Speaker 1: there's there's pressure. But now, can you imagine if we

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Speaker 1: you imagine if that happened with somebody white we had on? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you can't be problem You can't never do it when

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Speaker 1: Shut up. Anyways, guys, we are joined today by Lola Jean,

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Speaker 1: the Squirting Queen um and I actually found her through Tianna,

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Speaker 1: so you guys know, if you ever had any questions,

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Speaker 1: wanted myths debunked, wanted to learn maybe how to piss.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna no, I'm doing that right now. You saw

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Speaker 1: the motherfucker outline. I didn't even look at it. Just

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Speaker 1: right now because bhich, I've really focused on this outline here. Damn. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: you finished what you're done? You know what? My whole

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Speaker 1: bat just got to be turned to you. On YouTube

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Speaker 1: you'll see that we have been having a whole conversation telepathically.

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Speaker 1: any who? Uh you are the scorting queen And I

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Speaker 1: was Daniel that Tia helped me plan it. She measured

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Speaker 1: So it's not the what what volume, velocity whatever. I

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Speaker 1: no toys, no partners. Who stimulation was that men? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: and they're like, hey did my water break? And she's like,

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Speaker 1: smell it. If it smells like pup, if it smells

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Speaker 1: even eliminated their mask mandate. But I wanted to talk

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to push. I've been getting dick. Oh okay, alright,

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Speaker 1: So the dirty talk I see this also as number two.

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Speaker 1: maybe we met on a dating time and like we

425
00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 1: had sex and we're like, you're cool, let's hang out

426
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:39,840
Speaker 1: and just be friends, and like we haven't had sex

427
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 1: since or even if we had, so it's one of

428
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 1: those things I'm like, do you want to know if

429
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:45,919
Speaker 1: it's someone I sucked when we meet them? Because it's

430
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,120
Speaker 1: also going to be like a lot of most people do.

431
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 1: Most people need to know if they're in the presence

432
00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,160
Speaker 1: of someone who's love very interesting, which I only think

433
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,479
Speaker 1: I've liked to know because I find women to be

434
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 1: like kind of I don't know about actually people ain't

435
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 1: ship I'll take that back, but like I do want

436
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 1: to know because I just want to know if there

437
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 1: will ever be if I should gage that person, Like

438
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 1: I trust my partner more than I would an outside person.

439
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 1: But um, he's got like two home girls that he's

440
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: fucked and like, I don't know if they're still fucking

441
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 1: or wood again, but they've been around and I was alright.

442
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 1: But see, I feel like my boyfriend just knows that

443
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 1: I am like a hoe at heart, and so I

444
00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 1: feel the need to over explain myself when I'm really

445
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: just going out and this is a friend. This isn't

446
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 1: I'm not sucking them. I haven't done it, like while

447
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,719
Speaker 1: we've been together, I've been flewed out but by a homeboy,

448
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 1: and I feel like I've had to over explain how

449
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 1: I promised though me and him have never had sex.

450
00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:42,639
Speaker 1: I've never sucked with dick. I don't know what his

451
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 1: dick looks like. And I think he'd just be like, yeah,

452
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,280
Speaker 1: sure and soever maybe not. You don't know, I mean,

453
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 1: if you're an open person, I don't think that. I

454
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: think we assume men think we're that we're liars or

455
00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 1: that hose are gone. I don't know how like how

456
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,719
Speaker 1: big of a ho that. Okay, so this is a

457
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,359
Speaker 1: disgusting story, but during the pandemic, I'm kind of a

458
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: gross person. I'm not very clean, gotten a little bit better,

459
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 1: but real quick. Your legs yeah, well yeah, like I

460
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 1: shaved them and then wash them, but them when you

461
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:23,360
Speaker 1: shave them, Yeah, that is the white thing you don't

462
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 1: wash on Twitter and I basically said white people don't

463
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 1: wash their legs. Do you do? You cook chicken out

464
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: of the package? No, you wash it? Good for you? Okay,

465
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: you got I don't. I think I'm pretty gross though

466
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 1: in general. And like so I would store things under

467
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 1: my bed and just like kind of leave them there,

468
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: and like honestly like I closed but like things in boxes.

469
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: So I have all my kinkship and it's not bad,

470
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: but the point is I don't know what's underneath it

471
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 1: there as well. So we moved my bed around and

472
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,719
Speaker 1: we're cleaning underneath of it, and my partner is like

473
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,719
Speaker 1: under the bed, I can only see his feet coming out,

474
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: like he's working on a car. And at one point

475
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,199
Speaker 1: I just see him come out and he was like,

476
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,400
Speaker 1: oh gross, and I'm like thinking you found a cockroach

477
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: or something. He comes out with the US and I

478
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: don't know. Firstly, I don't even know if there was

479
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 1: jasinine or not. And I also don't know how long

480
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: it's been there. Well, okay, can I be honest? So

481
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 1: be honest? Uh where I lived in the Lower East Side,

482
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: and I find you I still lived there, but everybody,

483
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: some of you know, I moved to Brooklyn for a

484
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 1: few months during the pandemic. When I moved to Brooklyn

485
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: was when I moved my bed. The bed has called

486
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: slats or slats um you know, they got slats so

487
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:43,439
Speaker 1: they got holes in And when I had the moving

488
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 1: men come in and they moved my bed, it wasn't

489
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: a used condom. There was like four or five rappers.

490
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 1: But that's what has been under my bed. I realized

491
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: it's because when I was working hospital, Dick right like

492
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: we were like my bed was pushed in the corner.

493
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: I think maybe he just threw out on know what happened?

494
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 1: Because they fling their condoms everywhere the wait, wait, wait,

495
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 1: can we can we get a poll? I don't know

496
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,479
Speaker 1: how YouTube should feel good about having condomy, but can

497
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: we do a poe as to why men just that?

498
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 1: Men literally first off, when they take the condom out,

499
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 1: then the rapper gets and then also when they pull

500
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: it off their dick. A lot of times if they're

501
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: not one of those that think you're gonna steal their coming.

502
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 1: Then they have to go flush it down the toilet.

503
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 1: There's other guys that literally, I just say I used

504
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: like I used to. I only one person now, but

505
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: I used to really really rich guys and maybe it

506
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 1: was just a really rich guy things to do, but

507
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 1: they literally used to take their condoms off and literally

508
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: while it was full, go and bring it to the

509
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: bathroom and flush it. Did not want they're just just

510
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,199
Speaker 1: laying around. But I don't understand why men literally just

511
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: be flinging condoms around the room. Stepped on the woman

512
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: I get out of the bed, I'm like, what the fuck?

513
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 1: Like on the floor, you said, wait, we do have

514
00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 1: a guy in the room. Why do y'all just throw

515
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 1: condomns around? Okay, people, but you never do? And then

516
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 1: what if we've used two or three and now I

517
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: can't find it when I open a condom, though I

518
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 1: do fling the wrapper now that I think about it.

519
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 1: The rapper is different one like when you don't have sex,

520
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: when the when the condoms on your penis and you

521
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 1: take it off, like go to the trash can? Why

522
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:23,439
Speaker 1: would you not? Yeah? So you just so men are

523
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:29,479
Speaker 1: just lazy. It's what you're saying hands. Now we are

524
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: here making consent sexy. We're gonna make it sexy for anything.

525
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: Does anyone have a trash can in their bedroom for

526
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: like that reason? Wait whatever, wait wait now that I

527
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 1: think about it, in my new room does not have

528
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: a trash can yet. So I have a makeup like vanity,

529
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 1: and like that's why I needed see, I don't want

530
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: my room anymore. I didn't. I don't have a vanity anymore.

531
00:26:56,080 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: But so yeah, yes, Eddin, be respect cool so that

532
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: we're not finding fucking five rappers under the bed or

533
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 1: a fucking ye I'm a fun time. And I feel

534
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 1: like when they when they lifted up that mattress and

535
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 1: I saw it under this lab, did they look at

536
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 1: you as soon as they did you? Like dode? I

537
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,119
Speaker 1: said it, and they don't. They made me feel so

538
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 1: much better, Like so first off, I went with a

539
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: black old moving company and it was already cool, all right.

540
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,880
Speaker 1: So they lift up the mattress and saw the condoms

541
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 1: and I was like, and he was like, hey man,

542
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: you said you had a sex podcast. It is cool,

543
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: like do you think sis? And then the dudes said, honestly,

544
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 1: he said, to make you feel better, he said, we

545
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 1: find food. He's like, I found tampons under here. He

546
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: was like, like really stuff and he was like this

547
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 1: ain't ship. So okay, okay, well that's goods and condom

548
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 1: for hair tising condom rappers. That sounds like he really

549
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: you have time, You've are really got time. I want

550
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 1: to get into our Black Sexcellence UM for this week

551
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: Black s Excellence for those of you don't know, we

552
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 1: kind of like to pay homage to those who came

553
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: before us but may still be presently uh doing the

554
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,200
Speaker 1: work that needs to be done as in terms of

555
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: sexual liberation UM and the movement just for all of

556
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: us sex workers and all uh So, this one is

557
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: Delicia Saw and Raphaela Fiallo. I would love also for

558
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 1: you guys to come on the pot if you can.

559
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: They are the co founders of Afro Sexology, which is

560
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 1: a movement with the mission to promote Black self empowerment

561
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:27,439
Speaker 1: through sex positivity and sexual liberation. Their work is aimed

562
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: at the Black community across gender, sexual orientation, age size,

563
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: and religious lines. Through conference presentations, they also address the

564
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: sexual health and freedom UM of professional communities. UM. And

565
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 1: you should follow them because they're black, they're dope. Uh.

566
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: They also have a pillow Talk blog and you can

567
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: follow them on their social media accounts. I've been following

568
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: Afro Sexology for quite some time, so I would love

569
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,239
Speaker 1: for you guys to come on and again shout out

570
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: to everyone really doing the work like we appreciate you,

571
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: because I feel like we do want to work too.

572
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: But y'all heard a couple of weeks ago Black s

573
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: Excellence was a UM and so we hope that you

574
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: guys enjoyed that Questions episode when we did it. I

575
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 1: want to get into the horrid derve. And this article

576
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 1: came from Vice dot com and I'm hoping that you

577
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: have some sort of expertise in this because there are

578
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: a ton of tips, um. But basically I found an

579
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: article on Vice that is the Beginner's guide to nipple

580
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 1: orgasms are hard wired. You'll know my nipples aren't sensitive

581
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: at all. I wish they were mine either. Maybe we

582
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: get your tips done because I feel mine, Maybe because

583
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 1: they like I mean, this is a weird thing, because

584
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: why you think it's so they're big? You think a

585
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: big big boobs too, I don't. I don't know if

586
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: it's like spread out more or something like that the nerves,

587
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 1: like I can't barely feel anything. I was talking a

588
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 1: fron of mine who just got her boobs done. She

589
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: was like, I can't feel them at all, and I

590
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: was like, yo, I am so sensitive like the wind,

591
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: bro My nipples are constantly hard. People tell me all

592
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: the time I need to So I wanted to share

593
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 1: from your nipples bins to me. Yea, wait, Kenny, I

594
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: have to touch my own sometimes, and you know what's

595
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: crazy to come without it, But like, I don't come

596
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: from touching them, but I need to touch even when

597
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,719
Speaker 1: I masturbate. It's so crazy because whatever was like my

598
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: ankle and then whatever reason too, we associate. I think

599
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: nipples to be a feminine part of a body. So

600
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: I've actually had quite a few partners males who like

601
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 1: wall like either while they're on top or while you're writing,

602
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: to like simulate their nipples. And a lot of girls

603
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: I know actually have a problem. Yeah, Like, do you

604
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: guys remember the guy, the old the older gentleman I

605
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: fucking Hampton's So yes, I do. He was a friend

606
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: of Anthony's. Anthony came on and did an episode about

607
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: being a player, like years back, and he was really funny.

608
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 1: So I was going through a breakup. I was like,

609
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: oh my god, fuck somebody. So I go to the

610
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: Hamptons with this guy for the July weekend. And he

611
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: had a van in his name, which is how you

612
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: know he was rich or like something my brand used

613
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: to call douche show. I go to the Hamptons of him.

614
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: We have a great time. We actually didn't have sex there.

615
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: We had sex when we came back home and after

616
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: a night at the fucking box and we're fucking when

617
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,760
Speaker 1: he tells me before we start sucking that he likes

618
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: his nipples touched, but so much so twere um. Literally

619
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: I tried to turn around to get fucked and he

620
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: was like, actually, like my nipples aren't stimulated that way,

621
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: and I was like what. So then I'm like annoyed,

622
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: and I thought he was very attractive. So we start

623
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: sucking again. I'm about to come. I'm touching my clips

624
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 1: to come, and he like literally takes my hand off

625
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: my own clips to put it back on his nipples.

626
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: So I tell our mutual friend this story and he listens.

627
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: He gets quiet and he goes, that's sick nipple fuck.

628
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: I remember I did. I didn't want to give some

629
00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: tips to those of you who are interested, or maybe

630
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: you're someone who does become aroused or can orgasm from

631
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: nipple plug I just I don't receive them. It's so

632
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: crazy like, and I don't mind playing with nipples. I

633
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: actually love licking male nipples. I love like. I don't

634
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 1: mind making a part of me making nipples hard like,

635
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: so a part of me doesn't really get to see

636
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 1: soft dicks often because you know, the niggas just be hard,

637
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? See, I like flacced nipples

638
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: so that then I can make them rise. I don't

639
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: know why I really have a thing with what them

640
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 1: ro like bread, okay, like what the es um? So

641
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: here are some tips for our Hord Dirt segment regarding

642
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: nipple orgasms. Of course, you could try various techniques like

643
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: lightly squeezing them um and then you can move around

644
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: in circular motion the areola um. You can also try gadgets.

645
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: Of course we've talked did we talk about nipple clamps

646
00:32:56,280 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: with um Troy? But there are nipple clamps out is

647
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 1: something I don't like. Clamps you don't like I think

648
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm too sensitive, yes, And I've never like I'm not

649
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: gonna line I think I said on this show, I

650
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,959
Speaker 1: thought that men licking my tits at one point was

651
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: for them. I didn't know it was ever supposed to

652
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: be for me because I'm like you, sometimes it's for them.

653
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: Like the way I feel about it is I tell

654
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: people like, hey, i don't have sensation on my nipples,

655
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: but I'm open to being surprised. One time, someone like

656
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 1: deep throat in my tit and that felt good. Wait,

657
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: your whole tip. They just got as much in their

658
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: mouth as they could, so my nipple was hitting a

659
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: different part and it just felt I think, honestly it's

660
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 1: because wait, what size is your breast? Double D? Who

661
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: is deep throating a double D titty like just as

662
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,040
Speaker 1: much as they can not the whole thing? He just

663
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: ate for effort. Yeah, I sucked the dick so deep

664
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 1: as the hospital dick. One thing he goes, you tried

665
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 1: to die last night? Yeah, well I had it. He

666
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 1: can't deep throw this this fucking throat anymore because I

667
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: speak for a living and he funked up my vocal cords.

668
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: Don't you find that the problem when you tell people that,

669
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,719
Speaker 1: like if your nipples aren't sent to the they just think,

670
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,959
Speaker 1: oh harder and that I don't like. And what's crazy

671
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: is the only time I have sensitive nipples is literally

672
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: the week before my period and then they then they

673
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: hurt so bad. I've literally had to be like, can

674
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 1: you just not even touch my breast at all? They hurt?

675
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: Like That's how I know flow about to come and

676
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 1: be not not bitch, I'm here is because my tits

677
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: hurt or downloaded app mandy, no bitch, I just know

678
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: my body the tits hurt. But a period trucker app

679
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 1: so bad. I don't know why do you have a

680
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: period trucker app bad to you? So I don't really

681
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:38,320
Speaker 1: get my said, But would you? Is it that important

682
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: to you me? Neither? Don't Uh. I have an idea

683
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:49,399
Speaker 1: and I don't need to know neither. But I'm pro choice, bitch.

684
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 1: Just five hundred dollars slipt that thing right now? Anyways?

685
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 1: What what bro Because if I don't care about pregnancy,

686
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:00,919
Speaker 1: what am I tracking the ovulation for? That's the point.

687
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: Do you barely have time to do a lot of things?

688
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: Do you have time for an abortion and recovery? Apparently

689
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 1: it's only like two days now something They got better

690
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 1: what do you mean now, I've had Friday had abortions

691
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 1: and the ship they was like that to work, like

692
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: two days later. I'm not gonna forgot it on Friday,

693
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: was back at work on Monday. How was yours mine?

694
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,399
Speaker 1: I feel? You think I remember my abortion from six team?

695
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: I do? I don't, And my mom tricked me. I

696
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 1: was like that I lost my appetite. That bitch was like,

697
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: here you go. Gave me a motherfucking placebo pill, and bitch,

698
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 1: I was eating Arby's same day. She said, see here

699
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: you go. And then she was like, bitch, that was

700
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: a sugar pill. You ate that? Wrong with you? Hope?

701
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 1: And but I was right back. But I was even

702
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: on the volleyball team same time, right, yeah, But I

703
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 1: don't remember like feeling any pain, like I got it

704
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 1: right before school started. But I know that first week

705
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: I had to try out for the volleyball team, and

706
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,439
Speaker 1: my abortion didn't stop me from making the team. Good

707
00:35:54,440 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 1: for you you and your unborn baby, babe, the team?

708
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: Why this way this way? Alright? Someone at that time?

709
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 1: Do you remember the the kids thing I posted and

710
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: people are upset? That's literally how I feel. That's a

711
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:17,520
Speaker 1: great video. I posted on horrible decisions. It's got like

712
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: eight hundred shares only because people can't just comment. Basically

713
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 1: said me supporting my friend at the abortion clinic and

714
00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: there's a girl with a speaker who's like dancer with

715
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 1: a speaker and there's a song to them. I'm not

716
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 1: gonna lie. Uh, it's it's it's hard for me now,

717
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: like and I mean I make light of it and

718
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 1: joke of it, and it's it's really bad, as I

719
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 1: guess a woman to do it because of course, like

720
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 1: reproduction is is such a major part of apparently our

721
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: existence to a lot of people in this world, that's

722
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: how they view us, that's how they value us. And

723
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: it's been a little harder for me, honestly to start

724
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: to have these jokes about me not wanting Kenny. It

725
00:36:54,719 --> 00:37:06,800
Speaker 1: hasn't you just I mean, it is just my landy do. Honestly,

726
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: it's great, you know what. That's the thing too, Like

727
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 1: I had the argument with with my friends because my

728
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: mom is only just like, you can't not like someone's child,

729
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why they're human, They're gonna grow up

730
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 1: to be shitty adults. I don't have to wait till

731
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: they're eighteen to not like. Don't people people's kids that

732
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: I just might not like because I don't like how

733
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 1: they act this ship and I'm like this, that's the

734
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: type of person I like. So I don't care if

735
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: it's an adolescent. Well you don't have to like every person.

736
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: Are you looking at me like baby baby bandy or

737
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 1: like an asshole? A child? There's an age where you

738
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 1: can start becoming an asshole. Wait, what's the age? What's

739
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: the age once you can talk? Yeah, that's what I mean.

740
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 1: You know, No, actually, are they related to you, the babies. No,

741
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: it's like if your niece is your nephews then but

742
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: like otherwise you know how I knew, like I was

743
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: very biased with babies. So I was at a party

744
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: where that was baby shower. Sorry party, remember what it was?

745
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: But I was getting lit, so I forgot. I brought

746
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: a gift. I don't give a funk and it was Latino,

747
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: So like, you gotta go because they're gonna feed you.

748
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: But anyway, there's a bunch of kids there, and there's

749
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: only one kid that really got me going, because you know,

750
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: when you see a cute kid, sometimes it's just one

751
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: kid that activates you. I was kind of like and

752
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: then my friends making it. She was like, oh, you

753
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: know she listening too. She had a little podcast on

754
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 1: what like, she was talking about sex. You don't want

755
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: to be around our kids. But there was one that

756
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: was really cute, and I kept saying to the baby.

757
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,359
Speaker 1: I didn't even notice. I was like, you know you,

758
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: you know you cute, don't you know you cute? You

759
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: can cute? This one in here you creepy. Really, it's

760
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: like dogs, I love I had when a dog is

761
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,359
Speaker 1: get that little ugly ship away from you. I mean

762
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: I have a cat, yes, but cats could be ugly too. Yeah.

763
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: And this is really bad actually because that was out here.

764
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 1: How people get treated differently by their looks and we

765
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 1: should not be aligning ourselves with way. It's not like

766
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 1: it's like I'm not letting you in an establishment. I'm

767
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: just not like the clubs. People don't get aloud and

768
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: say I'm sorry if you ugly. It's the name's not

769
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: ugly dogs. It's different like, for example, Troy was here

770
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago and she brought her dog. If

771
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 1: that dog was ugly, you think he would have been

772
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: a dog and it keeping up hunting. If that dog

773
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:22,760
Speaker 1: was ugly, Mandy. You know, I have been like, I'm sorry,

774
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: this is this is CB two. But the dog was cute,

775
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 1: and I was like, I was getting real white. You

776
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 1: were you have the dog in here too? Was that

777
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,439
Speaker 1: a small dog? It was? I wouldn't think I was crazy.

778
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: I like big dogs. Small dogs they'd be having a

779
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: little snotted ship all over their face and they just

780
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 1: be dribbling. I'll be like, yeah, get or they pee

781
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: when they get excited. You control that dog like I

782
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: hold you, my friend Medina. They got a little ugly dog,

783
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:54,840
Speaker 1: I'd be like, Medina, I cannot her dog is not cute,

784
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: so then I'll go old shape. I don't like babies

785
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 1: things so little. The dog just be pissing when it

786
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: comes up like she's she'd be like, all right. She'd

787
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: be like, Mandy, don't get her too excited, because then

788
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: she'll start pissing everywhere. Who likes an animal like that?

789
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: They just start pissing all over you. She's all in

790
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:11,439
Speaker 1: love with the dog. I'm trying to find a picture

791
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: of Medina's dog. I remember to being cube, but now

792
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: that I can't find a pick, maybe it is ugly. Well,

793
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: you got a cute animal. You posted a lot. That's

794
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: why I be posting my cat body all the time

795
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: because I am let me see, I'm now in April.

796
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 1: I cannot find Medina. Do you have an animal? But

797
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 1: I'm fostering cats right now, so I have one baby,

798
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 1: all string cats until when this is someone, I'm not

799
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 1: gonna lie. That's why I haven't gotten a second cat

800
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: deal ever, because the foster agency they pay for everything

801
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: they like, all the vet bills, the food, all that,

802
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: and then I just get a new cat every couple

803
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: of months. But this one I did and I was

804
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 1: very close to adopting him, but I decided that, like

805
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: I went into this to foster, my partner is also allergic,

806
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: and he's agreed that, like I can foster as long

807
00:40:58,320 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: as there's a period of time and between the cats

808
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 1: and a clean more. The first story she has, I'm

809
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: sorry it is of it pretty for the week and

810
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:09,400
Speaker 1: got a new toy. Come in, Mamma, Sha is not cute.

811
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: You're too cute too, Yeah, you're too cute. You know

812
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: what this is? Like? This is like when a person

813
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: has a baby and they just think their baby is

814
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: the cutest and then it's just like your baby is

815
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: not cute. But a person ain't gonna say they baby ugly.

816
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: U let's they realize bitch like me. But you go

817
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 1: off to someone and tell somebody babies ugly, I'd just

818
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: be like, I just don't say anything, okay, yeah, like

819
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,959
Speaker 1: and you know your baby would I'd be like, damn,

820
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:42,839
Speaker 1: I don't even like kids, but you got a cute baby,

821
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: that's my compliment. Or if it's like a funny looking

822
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: like a funny looking dog or baby or cat like

823
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: those they're fun because they're just expected. Imagine expressive. We

824
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 1: got characters and expressive. I'm thinking of these gremlin looking

825
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: cats are called Devin Rex's and they look like little gremlins.

826
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 1: They're so cute, even ugly. Let me see. I don't

827
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 1: know if I want nothing, we'll see because I'm even

828
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,240
Speaker 1: shallow with my nigger. You can't do like an ugly

829
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: animal because then when it does something bad, you're really

830
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: gonna beat his ass, you know what I'm saying, And like,

831
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be that a person. When you

832
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 1: got you're not sitting here excusing animal abuse as long

833
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: as it's like you gotta get a little on the

834
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 1: butt when they shipped somewhere. But if you're cute, I'll

835
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: be like, now you know, I just snap at him. Wait,

836
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: this is doctor. No they're not. They're hairless. They're like

837
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: a sheep kind of a field. But what you mean

838
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: this isn't ugly, it's just fun. It's funny. No, I

839
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: do like their eyes. These are the sphinx and type

840
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 1: of ugly cat. No, we're not doing that is not

841
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: not you know what we're gonna get the talking about.

842
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:54,839
Speaker 1: I was about to say, we're going to get back

843
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,839
Speaker 1: into talking about second man, I love a little you know,

844
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,919
Speaker 1: combat to do that motherfucker's ship on facts say, y'all

845
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 1: can go listen to all the random ship over there.

846
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: On Tuesday, we're gonna get talking about last week. We're

847
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:14,399
Speaker 1: gonna talk about sex. So the horrible decision, of course,

848
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: is squirting a load. I wanted to start off by

849
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:22,879
Speaker 1: actually discussing myths about squirting. I have three um one

850
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: I'm going to remove because we talked about pe early on,

851
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna ask that. But I wanted to

852
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: ask you because this was actually mentioned on the Poor

853
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: Minds podcast Shout out to dry Inleex and they said

854
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: that they found and I'm not sure what research they did,

855
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 1: but squirting is a genetic trait. Not everyone has the

856
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: capability to squirt. Would you say that this is true false? Wool?

857
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 1: Have you heard about this, because they was on there

858
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: saying you if you squirt in your grandmama squirt, your

859
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 1: mama squirt, and it's a genetic trait, maybe there's plausibility

860
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: to that. Squirts, How did that conversation come back? I

861
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: asked her because I was like, I need to know,

862
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,720
Speaker 1: because what happened was I had a friend she squirted.

863
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,520
Speaker 1: Her sister squirts, Mom squirts. I have another friend she squirts,

864
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,439
Speaker 1: Mom squirts. I was like, all right, mom, I got

865
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: a note for sign with the last two weeks of

866
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: mother daughter mother daughter squirt. That's sounds like only I

867
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: don't think that right aould never do that. She probably

868
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 1: hates that I'm talking about this right now. But she

869
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: start doing it until like her late thirties. It's cool. Hey, hey,

870
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: if you listen to you, Yeah, this summer of last year,

871
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,440
Speaker 1: I didn't squirt until I was like twenty six. I

872
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: know a lot of people who don't start squirting until,

873
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,839
Speaker 1: especially like after they have a kid, because not because

874
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,160
Speaker 1: it's because they have to relearn their vagina because it

875
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: just changed. They get they form a new relationship with it.

876
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,240
Speaker 1: So I don't think there's a genetic disposition, but there's

877
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:51,759
Speaker 1: definitely something to that, because that's weird genetic. Yeah, no,

878
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: it's not. It's not. No, I'm gonna tell you it's not,

879
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: and I'm going to tell you how I know it's not.

880
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: One was big, and one was not My ex boyfriend.

881
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,360
Speaker 1: His brother's gay and my ex boyfriend's dick was fucking

882
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: huge and in this Venezuelan dude, and mind you they

883
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: have like I think it's number three of like top

884
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: tics big dicks in the world for countries. Don't ask

885
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 1: what's number one? And two it was the congo and

886
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: something else, but three was Venezuela, but the Congo was

887
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: number one. Congo. So anyway, I'm with his brother's husband

888
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: and his brothers husband's a hot fucking mess and hello.

889
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: So I was like, yo, keeping on it. It's his dick,

890
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: and he was like, girl, I didn't want to ask you.

891
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 1: He was like it was huge. I was like, really,

892
00:45:34,800 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: he's like the biggest dick I've ever seen. And at

893
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 1: the time it was the biggest dick I've ever seen,

894
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: And I was like, so it's true. He was like,

895
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 1: brothers have big dicks, and now I just feel like

896
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 1: for the future, it's something to know. Well, I would say,

897
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 1: it's nothing to know the shorter one the taller one, Well,

898
00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: they was both tall. One was six seven, one was

899
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 1: six four, and the one that was six seven had

900
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 1: a dick as dick the other one. When who did

901
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: you first actually took one of their virginity? Maybe it

902
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 1: just wasn't big because it also didn't last long because

903
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 1: first the biggest, a small dick. The big dick, the

904
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 1: small dick. I so that's the disappointed to see the difference. No, no,

905
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: I actually didn't. This is just some really whole ship

906
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 1: and this is not about me. We're going back started

907
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: the start, like I didn't want to tell the story.

908
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: I love to have a three soome with siblings. Would

909
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: I would have liked to have both of them, of course,

910
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: after I found out one wasn't very hanging that fantasy

911
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: your final Mandy, this is what we're doing. I mean,

912
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: this is what we're doing. That's what what's your The

913
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: same fucking porn start that talked about the score. Who

914
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 1: was it? Oh, what was her name? Lips? Luscious lips. No, luscious,

915
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: it wasn't luscious lips lips. It was lips. Look up.

916
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 1: But basically one of our people would like he had

917
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 1: a homemail where somebody was like, oh, here's a little dick.

918
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: What do I do? She was like, lushers lips right,

919
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 1: She was like, this is perfect. This is a great

920
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: opportunity for you to fuck you. You gotta look at

921
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 1: the size and shape be like, where would this fit

922
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: well in the buddhole? The next question I wanted to

923
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: ask you. Um, we talked about again about it not

924
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 1: being p but a lot of people fear even trying

925
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,320
Speaker 1: to squirt because they feel like it will ruin their sheets.

926
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 1: Uh is that is that true that it will ruin

927
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: your sheets? Or what? Masturbation is really fucking annoying right

928
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 1: now for exactly that reason. Now, Like, there are things

929
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 1: that you can do where you can put, I say,

930
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 1: funk a towel because I'm going to destroy a towel.

931
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: They're just like and they're so small. That's that laid down. No,

932
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: I don't, but you can buy my squirting series and

933
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: you'll be able to see me squirt there for the

934
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 1: low price of nine nine dollars sporting series. What is it?

935
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,439
Speaker 1: It's an educational series. So I'm a I'm a sex

936
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: educator and it's a five part series. Tianna's in it.

937
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 1: Tianna's all of that. That was an all on and

938
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: it's called hold On. I have it here? Uh is that?

939
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: Baby said? It's called a bit, but it was. It

940
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: was in my online to ask about. It was the

941
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,720
Speaker 1: quick and Dirty, Quick and Dirty, we went on pegging,

942
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: squirting and then I'm filming the next one that's going

943
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: to be on wrestling and erotic sick. So is it

944
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: like like video clips were basically we're watching you talk

945
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: through it like like like a course type thing. What

946
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 1: is it? It's like, yeah, So there's like five parts

947
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 1: to it. So there's a part where we address miss

948
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: and what I call questions. I'm tired of answering. Uh.

949
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: We talked about anatomy public floor. I've paid an animator

950
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:41,600
Speaker 1: to make an animated like cat masturbating to replicate myself.

951
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:43,359
Speaker 1: I was like, are you wearing a song? And boys,

952
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: I see it? Oh cute, Yeah, I think that's a

953
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 1: that's just part of the whatever the robes. No, no no, no,

954
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,879
Speaker 1: I see it now, so damn in you're on the floor.

955
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: It's because it's easier to clean up. Yeah. Actually, so

956
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: in my future like dream home, I want to have

957
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 1: like an outdoor space that has like a cement floor

958
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: with like a covering over the top so that way

959
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: I can just power wash it when I feel like

960
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: washing it. But yeah, puppy pads. There's like squirter blankets

961
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 1: that you can throw in the washer and dryer. But

962
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 1: the Amazon like squirting blankets. There's one by Liberator. It's

963
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: it's the sex blankets or sex sheet. There's a couple

964
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:20,839
Speaker 1: of other ones. I'm working on a product now that's

965
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 1: going to be a disposable one that looks nicer um.

966
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: But the fabric that is the best for like squirting,

967
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,279
Speaker 1: like for you to like I don't know what I'm saying.

968
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what the Liberator one is made out of,

969
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 1: but I say it feels like a shitty velore. It's

970
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,240
Speaker 1: like the baby blanket And there's a hundred and twenty

971
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 1: dollars uh soft microfiber and the other side is silky

972
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: set read review. The subside is not for squirting on

973
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 1: that that's just the other side of it. Okay, but

974
00:49:49,440 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 1: like that changed my life. I found that on Like

975
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: fat Life. After I was just like squirting buckets. I

976
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,839
Speaker 1: was like, there has to be a better solution. Please

977
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 1: read the two out of five at the top. It's soft,

978
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: it's comfortable, but it's kind of like a vel or

979
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: wrapped tart, which is if all you're catching is a

980
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,760
Speaker 1: little bit of wet or spilled loop and whatnot, definitely

981
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: not squirting. You're good to go. Great product, so much

982
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: easier to wash than the whole sheets set. But if

983
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,760
Speaker 1: you're dealing with for a prolific squirter, not so great

984
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:20,440
Speaker 1: look protected sheets, yes, but you're still stuck with the

985
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,839
Speaker 1: mess portion of it because there's almost zero absorption. Given

986
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 1: the hype these things were given, accepted that you fucking

987
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: with a squirter. That's what he should have said. I

988
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: was looking for a solution with a squarter. Okay, So yeah,

989
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 1: it's exactly yeah, especially if you don't have that. Like

990
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: I'm soaking through mattress pads, like it gets it gets bad,

991
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 1: and like I always just worry about it because I

992
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 1: don't feel like dealing with it later. I feel bad

993
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 1: for the person that I'm with and so what about

994
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 1: it ruins sheets? Is it doesn't? It just makes them

995
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: very wet and then like there is like a smell

996
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: that's left behind it, but like it's very wet. But

997
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: then you so these are for people that just don't

998
00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 1: want to wash their sheets after having sex because I

999
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: know that that's something that I'm experiencing now. Yeah, like

1000
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:05,919
Speaker 1: and that's where I'm just like, I know I gotta

1001
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: wash and dry now, but like I hate how much

1002
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:12,440
Speaker 1: I'm I'm washing sheets. I just fun with puppy pads

1003
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: mostly now to they has this like gel in it

1004
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 1: that soaks it up, and like I might need to

1005
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: change out the puppy pad a couple of times with

1006
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 1: the new one. But she's she's cute. So you see,

1007
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 1: you don't get mad at the mess. What do you

1008
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 1: mean I'm not gett I still get mad at the mess.

1009
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:32,320
Speaker 1: Like my man is gorgeous, and I'd be like, damn, nigga,

1010
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:34,879
Speaker 1: I just put you nu these sheets was clean because

1011
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 1: I let him know, Like, but it's your squirt, it

1012
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 1: don't matter, like he shipped the back. Yeah, but I

1013
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 1: still don't want to like, but it's not only my squirt,

1014
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: Like he likes to come on me. So then there's

1015
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: come on the sheets, there's there's drool, there's there's a

1016
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 1: lot of Just where would you like him to come

1017
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: for the cleanest situation? I really do not know. And

1018
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 1: he comes like three to five times every time we

1019
00:51:56,440 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 1: fus a cream pie? But so do you? Do you?

1020
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: But even if you just lay there sometimes my favorite

1021
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,319
Speaker 1: moves is having them to a cream pie and then

1022
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: having them eat it out afterwards. But I'm a dumb

1023
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: so I love Have you had a partner? No, I

1024
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 1: haven't had. I'm down for that. I'm so down for that.

1025
00:52:15,239 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 1: But something I feel like I date guys that are

1026
00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: just like way too. I told you I still want

1027
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 1: a guy to like nut on me and lick it

1028
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 1: up and then he kissed me after. Yes, that's like

1029
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:29,680
Speaker 1: the type of ship that wait, that's not snowballing swapping. Um. So,

1030
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you cleaning up with the mess

1031
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: they made come clean? I wanted to ask you a

1032
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:39,839
Speaker 1: fun job. What is the worst experience you have with scirting? Oh?

1033
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: The worst? Like either did did a man ever get

1034
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 1: mad at you for you know, doing it? And he

1035
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: wasn't ready and didn't know what the funk happened? Did

1036
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 1: he think you pissed on him? Like? What was the worst?

1037
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: Which I think that happens, like yeah, like or people

1038
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,400
Speaker 1: will be like can you not do it anymore? Or

1039
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 1: they're like, oh now I have to clean this up,

1040
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 1: or they just leave when they come back with cleaning

1041
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: products and I'm still naked with like come on, how

1042
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 1: did you feel a little bad right now? Because I

1043
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 1: dated someone that was talking about how he was with

1044
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: someone who scored in he was like, oh my god,

1045
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 1: it was so great, but like yeo, like it was

1046
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 1: just a lot of work for me, and I was like,

1047
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: oh my god, poor you. Yeah right, I feel bad now?

1048
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 1: Was that the worst? Though? Someone coming with cleaning products?

1049
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,560
Speaker 1: Like did it make you feel that? One? Wasn't very fun?

1050
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,120
Speaker 1: But I kind of laughed it off, and I think

1051
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: a certain point I was like, hey, can I get

1052
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 1: like a towel for the He was a model, so

1053
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: I was just like, hit that, I'm not gonna lie

1054
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 1: when I used the models. Literally That's where that's all

1055
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: it became. Was just like okay, well you're fine. I

1056
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: don't want if you throw to my tin. I've never

1057
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 1: had really great sexual experiences with the model that was

1058
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:50,800
Speaker 1: the only good one I think you tied out to.

1059
00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 1: You met him on tender, I met I met him

1060
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:57,800
Speaker 1: on Tennesse the Australian. No, he was also very quiet.

1061
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:01,239
Speaker 1: I had one guy that I meant that the first

1062
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 1: guy picked. Um, he was a model I met on

1063
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: Tender and I remember he kept saying he wanted to

1064
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: fit my tips in his mouth. He never did it,

1065
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 1: but it just hit me maybe it's a model thing.

1066
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: They're just like I don't know. I wasn't really into

1067
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 1: fucking models. No shade to the models, but like, I

1068
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: just found them to be exactly what you think they

1069
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: would be. Feel like they just don't work as hard.

1070
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: Not only do they not work as hard, they'd be dumb.

1071
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: So I really like that. What I meant, I like

1072
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: to have conversations after sex and with them. I didn't

1073
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: want them to say a word of my photographers and

1074
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:34,879
Speaker 1: like journalist writers. That's that's all. I'm such a talker though, Yeah,

1075
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: I like I like to just randomly talk. I didn

1076
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,319
Speaker 1: want to get into homemail before we get up out

1077
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: of chill. Uh if you guys have not sent us

1078
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 1: a homemail or if you have a question, Um, go

1079
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: ahead and send it now to us at Horrible Decisions

1080
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. Um, I'm hoping you can give

1081
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: some insight on this. Uh. The subject matter is help

1082
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:59,479
Speaker 1: me out MMF. Hello, ladies, love your show. Started listening

1083
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: to your podcas as back in October and I'm finally

1084
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,240
Speaker 1: caught up. But that's a lot of listening in five months.

1085
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 1: Hopefully I can keep this short. Me and my beautiful

1086
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: lady have been together over six years, getting married in

1087
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 1: March this year. Congratulations both twenty two years of age.

1088
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 1: Damn Nate, they young as folk bro Okay, anyway, more

1089
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,879
Speaker 1: power to you. So around the time I started listening

1090
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,040
Speaker 1: to the podcast, my girl asked me for an mm

1091
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,799
Speaker 1: F threesome. At the time, I wasn't up for it,

1092
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:30,480
Speaker 1: but after thinking about it and having talks with her,

1093
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: I came to agree. Honestly, I think it would be

1094
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: a really fun experience. Here's the dilemma. It's been about

1095
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,279
Speaker 1: six months since she's asked me. She'll tell me that

1096
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:41,320
Speaker 1: she found a guy and I'll say, cool, when do

1097
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 1: you want to set it up? And most of the

1098
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: time she says, I don't know. I think it comes

1099
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,440
Speaker 1: from her being insecure because she is on the plus

1100
00:55:47,440 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: size side. I think she's fucking amazing, but at times

1101
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 1: she makes comments about her weight and stuff. I tell her,

1102
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,320
Speaker 1: if you want to change, you have to work on it. Anyways,

1103
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 1: my question is how can I get her to actually

1104
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 1: commit to the threesome because now I low key want

1105
00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 1: to because I think it would be fun just to

1106
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 1: see her interact with another man sexually. I'm going to

1107
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: be the quote unquote leader in the session. I'm a

1108
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 1: straight mail, so the guy is not there for me,

1109
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 1: just for her feel free. Okay, Um, I know, wheezy

1110
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:16,799
Speaker 1: as Um for instagrams, I'll share the instagram just because

1111
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to put both of theirs out now. Um.

1112
00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 1: And so yeah, and then also, would you guys suggest

1113
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 1: raw or condom for this m experience? So I don't,

1114
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 1: I guess I want to. I want to take into

1115
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: two parts. Um. I think that you feel as though

1116
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: maybe she's not bringing up this threesome anymore because you

1117
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: feel like she's insecure about her weight. Um. And I

1118
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: think that, I don't know, maybe that needs to have

1119
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 1: a conversation definitely before bringing anyone else into the bedroom,

1120
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:52,359
Speaker 1: because maybe it's not the reason. He literally said, I

1121
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:55,000
Speaker 1: think it comes from her being insecure because she's plus size.

1122
00:56:55,920 --> 00:57:01,720
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that plus I is in a day, Yeah,

1123
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: I was quarantine eight. I don't quarantine fifteen, quarantine weight,

1124
00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: just quarantinely. Oh I've heard the numbers associated quarantine fifteen.

1125
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 1: That sounds like, yeah, thats quarantine eight. Maybe that's but no, Like, um,

1126
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:18,880
Speaker 1: if you do feel like someone and anybody listening who

1127
00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 1: feels like your partners insecure about their weight and you

1128
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: love their way and you're being genuine about it, then

1129
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 1: show them. People shy away from telling people how much

1130
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 1: they love their bodies because they think they're being sensitive

1131
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 1: about their bodies, and I for one and one of them.

1132
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: When my ex girlfriend had gained weight, I was scared

1133
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:36,560
Speaker 1: to tell her how sexy she was with the way

1134
00:57:36,560 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: because I thought I was like, uh, making her feel

1135
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,479
Speaker 1: worse about it in a weird way. But that's so dumb.

1136
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: I don't know why I did that. I was just like,

1137
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 1: oh my god, we can't talk about it at all.

1138
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 1: But like I was like, damn, she got thicker, like

1139
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: this ship as sexy as book. But I couldn't say

1140
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 1: anything because I just felt like bringing it up would

1141
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 1: trigger her. I think that's totally wrong. Um, and I

1142
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: only know now because she's pregnant. We're not together. But

1143
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 1: I was telling her how good she loves to like girl,

1144
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 1: thank you, But like people do need to know that

1145
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: and hear that. So absolutely, if it's on your on

1146
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 1: your mind, then say it. If you find her attractive,

1147
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 1: and if it's honest, don't lie, because I'm running into

1148
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: conventional ideas of like, oh, she's plus five, she must

1149
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 1: be insex, she must be insecure. And that's what I

1150
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 1: don't like about him saying it, because I would also say, uh,

1151
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: the insecurity may really lie. And and which most women

1152
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:27,920
Speaker 1: do think that aren't as sexually liberated, is that you,

1153
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: as a partner, as a man, is going to judge

1154
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 1: her once this threesome does happen because there's another man

1155
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:36,280
Speaker 1: in the room. So the fact that you're saying you

1156
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: low key now want to have it, if this is

1157
00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: something you really do want to have with your partner,

1158
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 1: I think that this is now a time to let

1159
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: her know how much you love the idea of pleasing

1160
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: her with another man, and how you won't judge her

1161
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 1: and liberate her to know that you're not really gonna

1162
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: think differently of her after after you do this, I

1163
00:58:56,880 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: would say that that's probably where so um the security

1164
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: lies more so than her weight. Like I was, you know,

1165
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,919
Speaker 1: my weight has gone up and down my entire life.

1166
00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 1: I don't think that my weight would have ever stopped

1167
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 1: me from having an MMF three soothing like I was.

1168
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: I actually did have mm ME. I was gonna take

1169
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: them dicks whether you had these roles or not. She

1170
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 1: brought it up, so clearly wasn't stopping. Yeah, I don't

1171
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 1: think that's what it is. I don't get her weight

1172
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:24,320
Speaker 1: at all. It's weight, but I do think like body

1173
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 1: image can definitely like trigger someone for a threesome. And

1174
00:59:27,480 --> 00:59:30,880
Speaker 1: I know that because like when I was, you know,

1175
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 1: when I was in a threatle, like I would remember

1176
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:34,600
Speaker 1: like I was working out like crazy during that week,

1177
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 1: but you were also in the bed with another woman.

1178
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 1: So I feel like innately we do kind of sometimes

1179
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 1: compare ourselves to another matter that was my way. It's

1180
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 1: like when I'm like sucking another woman, it's just like

1181
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: we're so different and it's so hot, and like we're

1182
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: like even just like a woman calm. I think you're

1183
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 1: even checking me out more though, yeah so so, but

1184
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 1: to me, I mean, I got a pussy. The nigga's

1185
00:59:57,000 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 1: only won a haul anyway, so you got the mouth.

1186
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 1: The competitive it's about like dick stuff, NA, but it's

1187
01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 1: not gonna be about like, yeah, I don't think I'm

1188
01:00:06,200 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: insecure though my weight has never like really determined like

1189
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:11,960
Speaker 1: how many dicks I wanted to take. I'll tell you that.

1190
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: Here's what I think happened with this couple, because commonly

1191
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: what happens like this person brought up to her partner

1192
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: and was just like, hey, I want to have MMF.

1193
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:22,000
Speaker 1: That's brave. That's first off, because she doesn't know how

1194
01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 1: he's gonna take it, and he honestly ended up taking

1195
01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:26,880
Speaker 1: it very well. He said that he wasn't interested at first,

1196
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 1: so she probably is like, okay, I'm not going to

1197
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: bring that up again, and that's why she again, look

1198
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:37,400
Speaker 1: does man fiction story like, well, what really happened was?

1199
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: I would also say, as well, this is someone that

1200
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: you plan on marrying. Uh, I don't even know why

1201
01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 1: the question was there. One the other man should wear

1202
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,800
Speaker 1: a condom because you definitely don't want him to get

1203
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: a little preaches up in that pussy. And then you

1204
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: out here Mary to a woman carrying a baby of

1205
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 1: another man. Yeah, I think that just STDs is a

1206
01:00:57,640 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: great to uh so, yeah, I would definitely preaches. And

1207
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 1: then you already married, so then you can't really do it,

1208
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna have to have and he's not

1209
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: gonna want to go with you because it might not

1210
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: be his. Damn, that's really what you just you just did.

1211
01:01:10,280 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 1: Another advice, So, especially for threesomes. I teach classes on

1212
01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 1: threesomes because I've had so many we get threesome questions. Actually,

1213
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: but I mean, and this is for kink er anything

1214
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 1: but focus on especially with these two people, talking of

1215
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 1: how you want to feel, and then you'll be able

1216
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: to tell, like what kind of threesome you want. So

1217
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 1: if she wants to feel like a door, then it's like, yeah,

1218
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 1: both of your attention on her. If I feel used,

1219
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: maybe I will tower her. Oh I've never thought of

1220
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:37,320
Speaker 1: that is the feeling she want. Three some advice I've

1221
01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 1: ever heard of that really is. And we gave a

1222
01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: whole bunch of bullshit through some advice and never gave

1223
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,919
Speaker 1: this one because I never thought about that. People. Yeah,

1224
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: I want you to like when we get in there, right,

1225
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:51,280
Speaker 1: like make me feel like a fucking horror, but the

1226
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 1: second and finished like you know what I mean, like

1227
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: hold me because I'm not a horror. You're not looking,

1228
01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:00,440
Speaker 1: no I am, but like you know of saying just

1229
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: like treat me nicely, like I need a lot of

1230
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: aftercare after a really nasty ship, Like I don't nasty ship.

1231
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 1: I think that that is one of the advice we

1232
01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 1: have given. Like I think we all we all think

1233
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:14,080
Speaker 1: of when we ask about threesomes, what this looks like?

1234
01:02:14,320 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: And and in terms of feeling, yes, why do you

1235
01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: want it? And we all determine what it looks like?

1236
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:20,880
Speaker 1: But not only that, what does it look like after?

1237
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 1: And we talked about that too, like does this person say?

1238
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: Does this person cuddle as well? Like is there any

1239
01:02:26,960 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 1: sort of attention that we plan to give them after?

1240
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: Is it? Like and I think that we don't make

1241
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 1: of a couple. And then a third yeah, as the

1242
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:35,720
Speaker 1: person who's like literally always the third And I'm trying

1243
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 1: to get a unicorn in now and I have no

1244
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 1: fucking clue, but I have a partner now where I

1245
01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 1: think and and he's like he's convinced, I just want

1246
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 1: a unicorn because He's like, just say you want pussy,

1247
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:46,240
Speaker 1: like that's what you want one for, and I'm like, no,

1248
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 1: but you're a partner that we communicate so well. If

1249
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: it's any time for me to try non traditional type

1250
01:02:52,160 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 1: of relationship, you know, pass, I would want that to

1251
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 1: be with you. To see a favorite number of people

1252
01:02:57,240 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 1: to have sex with. What? But I did have a

1253
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:05,959
Speaker 1: really good time with eight, five, five, because no one's

1254
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 1: ever left out. Wait really because it's six, just because

1255
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 1: I don't know, there's just like combinations that could be

1256
01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 1: like two and three all five and like it's just

1257
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Speaker 1: like a good night. I did eight one time and

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Speaker 1: it was really good. It was it was a s

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Speaker 1: W There was me, me and my partner and then

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Speaker 1: three other couples, and I thought that that was cool too.

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Speaker 1: I would say I would like even numbers. But now

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Speaker 1: that you say it, there was two girls on him,

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Speaker 1: so there was always a guy left out. I would

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Speaker 1: say there was definitely always a guy because I'd just

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Speaker 1: be like master meeting the total cut queen, like I

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Speaker 1: love a good cook. And honestly, there was a girl

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Speaker 1: I had sex with with old Bear. I remember, well,

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01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: I was gonna say last year, but it wasn't We

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01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: were sucking everybody in last lap during two and and seriously,

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Speaker 1: that's like where all the three stings happened. And this

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01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 1: girl was like really confused. She felt like I wasn't

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Speaker 1: happy that she was there because I kept pushing away.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, no, I don't think understand, Like yeah,

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01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:02,920
Speaker 1: I like making out cool, but like I just really

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01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 1: need to master me. But I felt bad because she

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01:04:06,640 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 1: was like stopping having sex and I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: go do this. Do you want me to be a

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Speaker 1: cheerleader bitch because you're the oh my god, I love

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01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,280
Speaker 1: Do you give direction or do you like them to?

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01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 1: Don't even if you can talk to me and talk

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Speaker 1: to me, I don't even. I come so fast and

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01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 1: threesomes it's sick, Like it's so bad. I think I

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Speaker 1: was in someone hates that you say that how easy

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01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 1: you come? I come so much And no, I don't think.

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Speaker 1: Let me explain. I say that because sometimes I'm completely

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01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 1: wiped out. So it is very exhausting when you come

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Speaker 1: quick and you're like, oh, I took a lot out

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01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 1: of you. Because I don't know which on I'm gonna have.

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01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 1: I wand you're always going to be jealous of someone

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01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 1: else's sexually, you know what I mean. But quick. But

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Speaker 1: some people don't spare quick, so you know. But if

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Speaker 1: I didn't come quick, then I could last longer. But

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01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:51,920
Speaker 1: sometimes I come and I'm like, oh my god, I

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01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: can't and I feels so bad, like I'm gonna give

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01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:57,160
Speaker 1: her but I literally can't even lift my that'd be

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Speaker 1: me I on my face. I'll be all right, that's it,

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01:05:00,880 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: I'm done. I'm tapped out. I'll be tapping out. I'll

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01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: be tap but then I'll just like watch that's what

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Speaker 1: That's what I prefer to watch is after I've already

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01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:10,280
Speaker 1: been like fucked out. Uh. And I also just prefer

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01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 1: to watch I like watching unsuck Dick. That's my favor

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01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 1: yet to do that. Do you have a lot of

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01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:19,880
Speaker 1: by threesomes? Like, uh, that's that is my preference, But

1304
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,440
Speaker 1: like I'm really into one of my favorite submiss is

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01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 1: a cuckold, and like I'm really into also creating these

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01:05:25,360 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 1: like moments with him where it's like a by threesome

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01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:32,920
Speaker 1: but then there's a power dynam sky or it's like

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01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 1: or he's the co consensual. So if you guys want

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01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:38,840
Speaker 1: to actually like look that up what she's talking about.

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01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 1: I watch it, so I do watch that as well.

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Speaker 1: By threesomes are like so fire because you'll be like,

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Speaker 1: come and eat it out of him, like eat it

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Speaker 1: out alright. Anyway, if you guys enjoyed our podcast, go

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions, check us out on our other podcast every Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: we talked about piston Ship last weekend. And then you

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Speaker 1: guys can always check out on Monday's right after you

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Speaker 1: listen to Horrible Decisions My Periods. This podcast that is

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Speaker 1: presented by my company, Official Box Owner. If you guys

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Speaker 1: are watching on YouTube, you see two of my products

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Speaker 1: the end of the year. Three fantastic things. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Thank you. So I'm really working on bridges right now.

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01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 1: I'm really working on bridging the gap between feminine hygiene

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01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 1: and the bedroom because I think both go hand in

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Speaker 1: hand and we don't really let's bridge board. Now, come

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Speaker 1: and use all of those products. At what the media

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Speaker 1: studios have learned. I don't know. If you want them

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Speaker 1: to use the bork acid, they just have to put

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Speaker 1: it in their mouth right, No, I was looking at

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Speaker 1: the gun. By the way, Please please please please read

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01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 1: the instructions because bork acid all the of their vegan

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Speaker 1: capsules should not be taken orally they should be suppository.

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Speaker 1: Move them up a little bit. Sometimes they get sticky

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Speaker 1: when they go in because I used to I use

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01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:09,760
Speaker 1: a broadcast. It's a pository and I use tea tree

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01:08:10,200 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 1: and those slide in with the boecast that I've noticed

1358
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 1: I might have to spit on it. Sometimes I'd be like,

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01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 1: let's yeah and then um. Also on Tuesday's guys, you

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01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:20,840
Speaker 1: can go on over and listen to me at see

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Speaker 1: the thing is um with my bomb, asked co host

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Speaker 1: My Dog Bridget Kelly. She was also a guest here

1363
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:31,800
Speaker 1: on Horrible Decisions talking about how she is a cheater,

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01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:36,120
Speaker 1: So y'all can go back into that archive and listen

1365
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 1: to her talk about being a cheater. Um. But also

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Speaker 1: we're gonna leave you guys with a five minute bonus

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Speaker 1: clip before we also go out one moment, and I

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Speaker 1: want to give a shout out to one of our listeners.

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Speaker 1: Her name is because she she wrote me, uh well,

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Speaker 1: actually her friend wrote me. Shout out to Brandon but

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Speaker 1: shout out to Brianna Myers. Brianna Meyers recently broke up

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Speaker 1: with her nigga, and I just want to give a

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Speaker 1: round of a clock, round of applause breaking up with choke. Uh,

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01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 1: so shout out to Briana Mars. But when we're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: breaking up with him, Yeah, just break break up with

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Speaker 1: any negative eight treating you write all one of y'all

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Speaker 1: break up with them niggas. Anyways, watch us on YouTube, uh,

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Speaker 1: follow us on all of our social media platforms, and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna leave you guys off with a five minute

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Speaker 1: bonus clip of our bonus content and we hope that

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Speaker 1: you enjoy. And it's been yet another episode up Horrible Decisions.

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01:09:24,360 --> 01:09:27,719
Speaker 1: Old Bay finally redeemed himself with that shitty ass Friends

1383
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:31,640
Speaker 1: Are Angels card. That's hilarious. How do he redeem it?

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01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 1: What was the card? So I wasn't really hinting at it,

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01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 1: he says, I was hinting at it. I felt like

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01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:39,639
Speaker 1: I wasn't, But I've been wanting to buy a product bag.

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01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:41,640
Speaker 1: I just was kind of confused which one. But he

1388
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: got me this St. Laurent bag and in the card

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01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:47,479
Speaker 1: he put even though I'm super proud of you, Bay

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01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 1: Lauren will look better. I love you, and I was hilarious.

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01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 1: Now I'm not an angel anymore. No, I had a

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01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:58,960
Speaker 1: really cool birthday. Man. I had a really cool video

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01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:02,839
Speaker 1: that Andrew and Charlotte jumped in for like birthday message,

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01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 1: and I gosh, it was so adorable. I thought that

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01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:07,599
Speaker 1: was super cute. Yeah, it was really cute. I felt

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Speaker 1: really bad because I didn't plan on doing anything for

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Speaker 1: Alex's birthday, but after I saw the video, I booked

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01:10:11,760 --> 01:10:14,920
Speaker 1: a flight to go see him, and then I came

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Speaker 1: home and had to work. It's just a lot, but

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Speaker 1: it was a cool birthday because I mean, and you

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01:10:18,640 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 1: had your thirtieth. But I know it's probably the same feeling,

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01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:23,560
Speaker 1: like just being around people you care about it is

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01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:25,759
Speaker 1: really nice. Well, I mean that was the most important

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Speaker 1: thing for me. And of course, I mean my thirtieth birthday.

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01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:34,080
Speaker 1: Uh the actual day, I was flying back from Mexico

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01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:38,040
Speaker 1: to to New York because I had to record the

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Speaker 1: following day. And then of course I celebrated my thirtieth birthday,

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Speaker 1: uh in a hurricane with the people I loved. So right,

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Speaker 1: it's like wherever you're at, I mean, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I looked back on it now and my thirtieth birthday,

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01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:58,640
Speaker 1: like week literally uh, I sold out my first my

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Speaker 1: very first e commerce of scription box you and I

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01:11:02,520 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: uh the like a week before announced stars signing to

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Speaker 1: Black Effect. The week of I signed with Joe Butden's

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Speaker 1: network for the other pod, and I literally three months later,

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01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:18,040
Speaker 1: I I moved. And And so the way I entered

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Speaker 1: my thirties was far beyond any way in which I

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01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:24,040
Speaker 1: would because I also came back to someone that I

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01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:27,160
Speaker 1: that I truly love and that supports me. And I

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01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 1: don't think at any point in time, even starting this podcast,

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Speaker 1: that I think I would enter my thirties financially secure

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Speaker 1: and in love with a partner and doing what I

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01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:41,680
Speaker 1: truly love to do. And I know that right now

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01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:44,240
Speaker 1: you have so much going on with your studio, with

1425
01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:47,560
Speaker 1: the TV show, with this podcast, and to be just

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Speaker 1: thirty and realizing as well that everyone around us is

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01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 1: a decade older than us. We're so far and being

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Speaker 1: able to enjoy the fruits of our labor at such

1429
01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:59,599
Speaker 1: a younger age than everyone else around us, and it's

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Speaker 1: been in credible. I'm not gonna lie, I answered my thirties,

1431
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 1: like just super blessed, and I couldn't imagine being where

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Speaker 1: I am today. I definitely didn't imagine me having a nigga.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you all that man, Like, it's that thirty

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01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:14,280
Speaker 1: that's interesting. And I forgot about your selling out the

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01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:16,599
Speaker 1: box the week here birthday, Yeah, like I was doing

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club on the same day of wrapping my

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Speaker 1: first TV show, like and then my birthday literally was

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Speaker 1: the same day, by the way, that's why my Ma

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01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:26,559
Speaker 1: told you and I gonna hold you. But you came

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01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:28,200
Speaker 1: in with your makeup being I was like, all right,

1441
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:32,639
Speaker 1: this bitch is trying to upstage me or breakfast club.

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01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 1: But I also knew. But I also knew you had

1443
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:37,639
Speaker 1: already said because you were trying to find out when

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01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 1: we were going to leave. I knew that it was

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01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 1: your last day of shooting, and again knowing that the

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01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 1: next day it was your birthday. And these are the

1447
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:48,720
Speaker 1: milestones that we've reached both in the week of our

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01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:53,800
Speaker 1: thirtieth I think are it's also telling and almost foreseeing

1449
01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 1: of what both of our futures life. The dopest thing

1450
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 1: and about that whole thing is just seeing what's happening

1451
01:13:02,560 --> 01:13:04,800
Speaker 1: like just on the thirtieth to know we had this smile,

1452
01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:07,680
Speaker 1: so don't But it's funny with the makeup because we

1453
01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 1: recorded the breakfast of it when we had a chart earlier,

1454
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:11,680
Speaker 1: but we had to come in at eight for COVID Sen.

1455
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:14,760
Speaker 1: She came and did my makeup at six fifteen, right,

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01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:16,920
Speaker 1: Can I be honest with you. That's the only reason

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01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 1: why I keep Keko. Shout out to Keiko Keiko. We

1458
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:22,320
Speaker 1: met during our Salty shoot. She's the only person that

1459
01:13:22,439 --> 01:13:24,479
Speaker 1: when I need her, will show up and come to me.

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01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 1: These other artists be bitch if I come to you,

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Speaker 1: and it's additional three dollars like these makeup artist. Let

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01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 1: me tell you something, when you fun with a makeup artist.

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Speaker 1: And this is one reason that to me, it hit me.

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01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:41,640
Speaker 1: She getting paid. I'm not gonna say how much, but

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01:13:42,320 --> 01:13:44,200
Speaker 1: five times would I pay her. She's about to have

1466
01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 1: TV credits. She was on payroll, travel expenses, covered meals

1467
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:52,000
Speaker 1: like she did my makeup for and I paid a

1468
01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 1: decent rate. I would say average for New York or whatever.

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01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 1: But like you will look out, bro, because we're both

1470
01:13:58,240 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 1: about to be bigger than we are. And she did

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01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:03,640
Speaker 1: fucking twelve rounds of makeup on set and has all

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01:14:03,680 --> 01:14:05,360
Speaker 1: this ship. Now now she can charge more and has

1473
01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 1: a portfolio. And that's what I mean. I told you Letitias,

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01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 1: So I sold pretty much the team that was for

1475
01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:15,559
Speaker 1: our Salty Shoe. I've loved. I loved how they made

1476
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 1: my hair and makeup look. I said, Oh, I like y'all.

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01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 1: I used them for as much as I could in

1478
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 1: that first year, and bitch was throwing them pennies what

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01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:25,160
Speaker 1: I could afford them.