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Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude that
Speaker 2: she really liked. His name is Nico. We'll call him
Speaker 2: in a few minutes and see if he'll tell us
Speaker 2: why he's ghosting or maybe get on another date. But first, Jenna,
Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Nico.
Speaker 3: Well, it's been about five days since our date officially.
Speaker 4: So what was your last interaction with him?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 3: Well, we well, first I met him at this party
Speaker 3: at a friends party, and I saw him across the
Speaker 3: room and it was.
Speaker 4: Just like.
Speaker 5: Who sparked Like it was he was like.
Speaker 3: The hotted guy I'd seen in a minute and like
Speaker 3: and I guess he kind of felt the same way
Speaker 3: about me, because we spent pretty much the entire party
Speaker 3: talking and.
Speaker 5: Like to the point where everyone's like, okay, everyone has
Speaker 5: to go home.
Speaker 3: And so we decided to go on a date since
Speaker 3: we were having such a good time, and he took
Speaker 3: me to this restaurant which is his favorite, and it
Speaker 3: was a Greek.
Speaker 5: Restaurant, and he.
Speaker 2: The same night as the party or a different different night.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. We made plans to go on a
Speaker 3: date and so yeah, so he found this restaurant, but
Speaker 3: apparently he already knows the restaurant because he knows the owner.
Speaker 3: And so we got like the VIP treatment and he
Speaker 3: kept calling me, he kept joking calling me his wifey,
Speaker 3: which like I'm not taking too seriously, but it was
Speaker 3: just like, okay, well he's like he gets that, like
Speaker 3: this is a pretty cool connection.
Speaker 5: That we have.
Speaker 3: And so like he was telling about his childhood and
Speaker 3: like how connected he feels with his culture and like
Speaker 3: how he never really knew his dad and his.
Speaker 5: Dad's type Creek.
Speaker 3: So uh so as a way of like trying to
Speaker 3: get to know him better, he really dove into the
Speaker 3: Greek culture and like, I don't know it just I
Speaker 3: just really loved how vulnerable he was being on this
Speaker 3: first date. And you know, like I said, he was
Speaker 3: getting the VIP VIP treatment, so you know that the
Speaker 3: uzza was flowing, like we were dancing and yeah, and
Speaker 3: so afterwards I went back to his place and we
Speaker 3: hooked up. And so yeah, then two days since I
Speaker 3: texted him last, and like five days total since that date.
Speaker 4: What did you say in the text?
Speaker 5: I don't know, because this bove you know, it was
Speaker 5: just such a good date.
Speaker 3: And it was just like I texted him and saying
Speaker 3: like how how good of a time I had, and
Speaker 3: how I kept replaying it over and over and he
Speaker 3: responded with, you know, a heard eye emoji. And then
Speaker 3: I didn't hear anything for like two days. So I
Speaker 3: texted him again asking him when we were going to
Speaker 3: go out, and I haven't heard anything.
Speaker 5: So now I'm just like, what happened?
Speaker 2: Yeah, even since she was a hearty eye emoji and
Speaker 2: then nothing and it was calling you white right, But
Speaker 2: it was just.
Speaker 3: Like, I mean, I wasn't I mean, I'm not reading
Speaker 3: into it too much, but it was just like, yeah,
Speaker 3: this is going great.
Speaker 2: Is there anything you can think of that could possibly
Speaker 2: be a reason that he wanted would want to got to?
Speaker 6: Well?
Speaker 5: Since I've been over analyzing this over and over.
Speaker 3: At one point he did ask me what my three
Speaker 3: favorite things in my purse were, and so I said,
Speaker 3: lip gloss, gum, and uh anti bacterial gel. He said
Speaker 3: that you bet he thinks that he finds it really
Speaker 3: unattractive when women shoe gum and so I was like, okay, Roger,
Speaker 3: now did okay? Okay, I can If that's if that's
Speaker 3: like your one red flag, I can deal with that.
Speaker 5: So so I didn't choot.
Speaker 3: Gum at all when I was with him, But I
Speaker 3: don't know. Maybe he was just maybe he just hated
Speaker 3: the fact that I had it at all.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's If that's the reason he's
Speaker 2: not calling you back, that would be ridiculous, ridiculous, and
Speaker 2: that would be a flag on your.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well that's I'm calling you, guys. I don't understand
Speaker 5: what happened.
Speaker 2: Well, we'll figure it out. We'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 2: and then call him and see IFO tellus why he
Speaker 2: is ghosting you and maybe get you another day. Okay, thanks,
Speaker 2: all right, place, don't come back, get your Fursday follow up,
Speaker 2: next rights of your first day follow up? If you're
Speaker 2: just joining us at Jenna is on the phone and
Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a dude named Nico. So we're
Speaker 2: about to call him and see if you'll tell us
Speaker 2: why he's a ghostinger. But before we do that, Jenna,
Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation?
Speaker 3: I met Nico at a party and we really hit
Speaker 3: it off. So we decided to go out on a date.
Speaker 3: And it was to this awesome Greek restaurant.
Speaker 5: Why he knew the owners, and we had.
Speaker 3: A great time and we've been even joking calling me whyfy,
Speaker 3: and we ended up hooking up.
Speaker 5: And now I haven't heard from him, and I don't
Speaker 5: know if it's because I have. I said I loved gum,
Speaker 5: but I decided not to chew it when I was
Speaker 5: around him, so don't. I just don't know what happened.
Speaker 2: Okay, well see if that is it, we're gonna call
Speaker 2: him right now. You ready?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: All right? Here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hey, is this Nico? Yes, Nico was some man.
Speaker 6: How are you?
Speaker 2: My name is Juwbell from a radio show. It's called
Speaker 2: The Jebel Show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Nico, whole show's here. My name is Nina, Hi,
Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 5: I am good? What is it? What is it about?
Speaker 2: Well? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5: I believe I have. Yeah.
Speaker 2: We do a segment on our show that's called the
Speaker 2: first Aid follow Up. That's where if you go out
Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then you end up
Speaker 2: ghosting them. They can email us to get you on
Speaker 2: the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we
Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody that you went
Speaker 2: out with recently. Okay, her name is Jenna right, and
Speaker 2: Jenna wants to know why you ghosted her.
Speaker 3: I just.
Speaker 6: I just think it didn't didn't work out. I don't
Speaker 6: think it's a good long term matchup with Jenna.
Speaker 4: Why do you say that?
Speaker 6: I mean, it's kind of like I'm maybe embarrassing. I
Speaker 6: don't want to be rude or anything.
Speaker 5: But I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's just kind of smelly for me say that melly smelly?
Speaker 6: She you know, it's just her bad breath. Man Like,
Speaker 6: she had bad breath. I could, you know. I could
Speaker 6: deal with it for a night, but future wifey material
Speaker 6: can't be smelly, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Excuse I think?
Speaker 5: Are you kidding me? You and me eating garlic dip
Speaker 5: all night. I'm not a wizard. I can't not make
Speaker 5: my breath all bet after eating a bunch of.
Speaker 2: Garlic and you go, that's Jenna. She's on the phone
Speaker 2: and listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: I got that I had garlic breath. Are you nuts.
Speaker 1: I just didn't.
Speaker 5: You told me didn't like gum chewing. I wouldn't. I
Speaker 5: wouldn't have silliness.
Speaker 6: If you, oh yo yo, come down. That was that
Speaker 6: was garlic missed, was mixed with like a trash can,
Speaker 6: like I would have been.
Speaker 5: No way, no guy.
Speaker 1: No one has ever told me, I think before this
Speaker 1: is the US, no way, like whatever this is, this is,
Speaker 1: this is, this is I can't no ways.
Speaker 6: Yes, it's not like a funeral home in there going on, like.
Speaker 1: It's not able to sell anything over that.
Speaker 5: Mountain of coloney. Douce yourself in beforehand.
Speaker 6: You've worked on you didn't it nice? Really charm freshing
Speaker 6: up that breath and get you some Colgate?
Speaker 4: Well, if you.
Speaker 3: Weren't such a weirdo, it didn't allow you gum then
Speaker 3: I thought it.
Speaker 6: Law, I don't think you should be you. I mean,
Speaker 6: if you need to chew gum because your breath is
Speaker 6: that bad, you've got bigger issues. You know, you got
Speaker 6: to see a professional.
Speaker 2: You you hooked up with her too, Like, if it
Speaker 2: was so bad, how did you get through that?
Speaker 6: I mean, like I said, one night, it was you
Speaker 6: know I dealt with it. You know, I closed the deal.
Speaker 6: But yeah, I don't think it's the thing. I'm sorry,
Speaker 6: just being real.
Speaker 4: Jenna, you're dodging bullets.
Speaker 5: Man, this can't really be the reason. What else? What
Speaker 5: else happened? Why else? It can't because it can't be
Speaker 5: my broad It can't. That isn't what it is? What else?
Speaker 5: What else happened? What else? Aren't you not telling me?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 6: Girls, you're brad like a like a locker room in there,
Speaker 6: like I don't know, like like I don't know what,
Speaker 6: like a gym stock, like you had a gym stock
Speaker 6: in your mouth.
Speaker 5: I don't know, I'm hit shuck.
Speaker 7: But like, if it was chronic, would't you have noticed
Speaker 7: that the first night you were talking to her? So
Speaker 7: if she had garlic mixed with whatever else she ate
Speaker 7: that night, like that could be a side effect of that,
Speaker 7: which would mean that next time that wouldn't be an issue.
Speaker 6: No, it was an issue. It was always an issue.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 6: I need somebody who can eat garlic and not and
Speaker 6: not smell like a foot, even if it was garlic.
Speaker 4: Always carlican doesn't smell like a scar.
Speaker 5: Like I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't even know how you were able to taste
Speaker 3: the gar like every time I opened my mouth, I
Speaker 3: would just get washd or whatever bad cologne that your
Speaker 3: grandpa has.
Speaker 5: Expired from his shelf.
Speaker 1: Those things expire, buddy, You're not supposed to be wearing
Speaker 1: cologne for fifty years.
Speaker 3: You should be getting a new model by now. What
Speaker 3: phone is worth, it doesn't matter. I'm not in your
Speaker 3: shit on going out with your broke anyway.
Speaker 6: Broke?
Speaker 5: How am I broke?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 5: Maybe you had to take me to your friend's restaurant
Speaker 5: so that they could hook us up. If you can't
Speaker 5: pay for a normal meal on your own.
Speaker 2: I still have to ask the question, Nico, would you
Speaker 2: like to go out with Jenna again on another date?
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6: Uh No, I'd rather date someone who doesn't smell like
Speaker 6: there's a toilet in her mouth.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, was this harsh?
Speaker 5: That's fine with me. I'd rather go on a date
Speaker 5: with someone I didn't have to fake it with Jubile's
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