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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude that

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Speaker 2: she really liked. His name is Nico. We'll call him

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Speaker 2: in a few minutes and see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting or maybe get on another date. But first, Jenna,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Nico.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's been about five days since our date officially.

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Speaker 4: So what was your last interaction with him?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Well, we well, first I met him at this party

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Speaker 3: at a friends party, and I saw him across the

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Speaker 3: room and it was.

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Speaker 4: Just like.

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Speaker 5: Who sparked Like it was he was like.

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Speaker 3: The hotted guy I'd seen in a minute and like

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Speaker 3: and I guess he kind of felt the same way

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Speaker 3: about me, because we spent pretty much the entire party

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Speaker 3: talking and.

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Speaker 5: Like to the point where everyone's like, okay, everyone has

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Speaker 5: to go home.

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Speaker 3: And so we decided to go on a date since

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Speaker 3: we were having such a good time, and he took

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Speaker 3: me to this restaurant which is his favorite, and it

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Speaker 3: was a Greek.

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Speaker 5: Restaurant, and he.

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Speaker 2: The same night as the party or a different different night.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was. We made plans to go on a

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Speaker 3: date and so yeah, so he found this restaurant, but

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Speaker 3: apparently he already knows the restaurant because he knows the owner.

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Speaker 3: And so we got like the VIP treatment and he

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Speaker 3: kept calling me, he kept joking calling me his wifey,

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Speaker 3: which like I'm not taking too seriously, but it was

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Speaker 3: just like, okay, well he's like he gets that, like

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Speaker 3: this is a pretty cool connection.

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Speaker 5: That we have.

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Speaker 3: And so like he was telling about his childhood and

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Speaker 3: like how connected he feels with his culture and like

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Speaker 3: how he never really knew his dad and his.

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Speaker 5: Dad's type Creek.

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Speaker 3: So uh so as a way of like trying to

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Speaker 3: get to know him better, he really dove into the

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Speaker 3: Greek culture and like, I don't know it just I

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Speaker 3: just really loved how vulnerable he was being on this

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Speaker 3: first date. And you know, like I said, he was

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Speaker 3: getting the VIP VIP treatment, so you know that the

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Speaker 3: uzza was flowing, like we were dancing and yeah, and

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Speaker 3: so afterwards I went back to his place and we

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Speaker 3: hooked up. And so yeah, then two days since I

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Speaker 3: texted him last, and like five days total since that date.

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Speaker 4: What did you say in the text?

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Speaker 5: I don't know, because this bove you know, it was

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Speaker 5: just such a good date.

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Speaker 3: And it was just like I texted him and saying

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Speaker 3: like how how good of a time I had, and

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Speaker 3: how I kept replaying it over and over and he

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Speaker 3: responded with, you know, a heard eye emoji. And then

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Speaker 3: I didn't hear anything for like two days. So I

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Speaker 3: texted him again asking him when we were going to

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Speaker 3: go out, and I haven't heard anything.

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Speaker 5: So now I'm just like, what happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, even since she was a hearty eye emoji and

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Speaker 2: then nothing and it was calling you white right, But

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Speaker 2: it was just.

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Speaker 3: Like, I mean, I wasn't I mean, I'm not reading

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Speaker 3: into it too much, but it was just like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: this is going great.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything you can think of that could possibly

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Speaker 2: be a reason that he wanted would want to got to?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 5: Since I've been over analyzing this over and over.

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Speaker 3: At one point he did ask me what my three

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Speaker 3: favorite things in my purse were, and so I said,

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Speaker 3: lip gloss, gum, and uh anti bacterial gel. He said

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Speaker 3: that you bet he thinks that he finds it really

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Speaker 3: unattractive when women shoe gum and so I was like, okay, Roger,

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Speaker 3: now did okay? Okay, I can If that's if that's

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Speaker 3: like your one red flag, I can deal with that.

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Speaker 5: So so I didn't choot.

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Speaker 3: Gum at all when I was with him, But I

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Speaker 3: don't know. Maybe he was just maybe he just hated

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Speaker 3: the fact that I had it at all.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's If that's the reason he's

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Speaker 2: not calling you back, that would be ridiculous, ridiculous, and

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Speaker 2: that would be a flag on your.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well that's I'm calling you, guys. I don't understand

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Speaker 5: what happened.

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Speaker 2: Well, we'll figure it out. We'll play a song, come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see IFO tellus why he

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Speaker 2: is ghosting you and maybe get you another day. Okay, thanks,

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Speaker 2: all right, place, don't come back, get your Fursday follow up,

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Speaker 2: next rights of your first day follow up? If you're

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Speaker 2: just joining us at Jenna is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a dude named Nico. So we're

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Speaker 2: about to call him and see if you'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's a ghostinger. But before we do that, Jenna,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation?

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Speaker 3: I met Nico at a party and we really hit

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Speaker 3: it off. So we decided to go out on a date.

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Speaker 3: And it was to this awesome Greek restaurant.

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Speaker 5: Why he knew the owners, and we had.

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Speaker 3: A great time and we've been even joking calling me whyfy,

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Speaker 3: and we ended up hooking up.

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Speaker 5: And now I haven't heard from him, and I don't

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Speaker 5: know if it's because I have. I said I loved gum,

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Speaker 5: but I decided not to chew it when I was

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Speaker 5: around him, so don't. I just don't know what happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well see if that is it, we're gonna call

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Speaker 2: him right now. You ready?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: All right? Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, is this Nico? Yes, Nico was some man.

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Juwbell from a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 2: The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Nico, whole show's here. My name is Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 5: I am good? What is it? What is it about?

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Speaker 2: Well? Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 5: I believe I have. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on our show that's called the

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Speaker 2: first Aid follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them. They can email us to get you on

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Speaker 2: the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody that you went

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Speaker 2: out with recently. Okay, her name is Jenna right, and

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Speaker 2: Jenna wants to know why you ghosted her.

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Speaker 3: I just.

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Speaker 6: I just think it didn't didn't work out. I don't

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Speaker 6: think it's a good long term matchup with Jenna.

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Speaker 4: Why do you say that?

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's kind of like I'm maybe embarrassing. I

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Speaker 6: don't want to be rude or anything.

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Speaker 5: But I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's just kind of smelly for me say that melly smelly?

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Speaker 6: She you know, it's just her bad breath. Man Like,

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Speaker 6: she had bad breath. I could, you know. I could

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Speaker 6: deal with it for a night, but future wifey material

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Speaker 6: can't be smelly, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Excuse I think?

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Speaker 5: Are you kidding me? You and me eating garlic dip

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Speaker 5: all night. I'm not a wizard. I can't not make

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Speaker 5: my breath all bet after eating a bunch of.

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Speaker 2: Garlic and you go, that's Jenna. She's on the phone

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Speaker 2: and listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: I got that I had garlic breath. Are you nuts.

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Speaker 1: I just didn't.

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Speaker 5: You told me didn't like gum chewing. I wouldn't. I

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Speaker 5: wouldn't have silliness.

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Speaker 6: If you, oh yo yo, come down. That was that

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Speaker 6: was garlic missed, was mixed with like a trash can,

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Speaker 6: like I would have been.

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Speaker 5: No way, no guy.

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Speaker 1: No one has ever told me, I think before this

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Speaker 1: is the US, no way, like whatever this is, this is,

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Speaker 1: this is, this is I can't no ways.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's not like a funeral home in there going on, like.

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Speaker 1: It's not able to sell anything over that.

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Speaker 5: Mountain of coloney. Douce yourself in beforehand.

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Speaker 6: You've worked on you didn't it nice? Really charm freshing

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Speaker 6: up that breath and get you some Colgate?

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Speaker 4: Well, if you.

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Speaker 3: Weren't such a weirdo, it didn't allow you gum then

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Speaker 3: I thought it.

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Speaker 6: Law, I don't think you should be you. I mean,

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Speaker 6: if you need to chew gum because your breath is

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Speaker 6: that bad, you've got bigger issues. You know, you got

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Speaker 6: to see a professional.

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Speaker 2: You you hooked up with her too, Like, if it

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Speaker 2: was so bad, how did you get through that?

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Speaker 6: I mean, like I said, one night, it was you

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Speaker 6: know I dealt with it. You know, I closed the deal.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, I don't think it's the thing. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 6: just being real.

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Speaker 4: Jenna, you're dodging bullets.

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Speaker 5: Man, this can't really be the reason. What else? What

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Speaker 5: else happened? Why else? It can't because it can't be

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Speaker 5: my broad It can't. That isn't what it is? What else?

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Speaker 5: What else happened? What else? Aren't you not telling me?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 6: Girls, you're brad like a like a locker room in there,

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Speaker 6: like I don't know, like like I don't know what,

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Speaker 6: like a gym stock, like you had a gym stock

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Speaker 6: in your mouth.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, I'm hit shuck.

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Speaker 7: But like, if it was chronic, would't you have noticed

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Speaker 7: that the first night you were talking to her? So

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Speaker 7: if she had garlic mixed with whatever else she ate

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Speaker 7: that night, like that could be a side effect of that,

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Speaker 7: which would mean that next time that wouldn't be an issue.

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Speaker 6: No, it was an issue. It was always an issue.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 6: I need somebody who can eat garlic and not and

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Speaker 6: not smell like a foot, even if it was garlic.

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Speaker 4: Always carlican doesn't smell like a scar.

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Speaker 5: Like I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know how you were able to taste

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Speaker 3: the gar like every time I opened my mouth, I

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Speaker 3: would just get washd or whatever bad cologne that your

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Speaker 3: grandpa has.

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Speaker 5: Expired from his shelf.

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Speaker 1: Those things expire, buddy, You're not supposed to be wearing

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Speaker 1: cologne for fifty years.

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Speaker 3: You should be getting a new model by now. What

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Speaker 3: phone is worth, it doesn't matter. I'm not in your

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Speaker 3: shit on going out with your broke anyway.

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Speaker 6: Broke?

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Speaker 5: How am I broke?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Maybe you had to take me to your friend's restaurant

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Speaker 5: so that they could hook us up. If you can't

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Speaker 5: pay for a normal meal on your own.

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Speaker 2: I still have to ask the question, Nico, would you

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Speaker 2: like to go out with Jenna again on another date?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: Uh No, I'd rather date someone who doesn't smell like

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Speaker 6: there's a toilet in her mouth.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, was this harsh?

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Speaker 5: That's fine with me. I'd rather go on a date

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Speaker 5: with someone I didn't have to fake it with Jubile's

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Speaker 5: first day follow up